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PolyOrchid
02-21-10, 22:48
I respectfully suggest that you guys are missing the point about the reason for Tiger's apology and expression of remorse. It's all about endorsements.Lorenzo, I respectfully suggest that your analysis is certainly at least half true. I agree a large component of his apology speaks to his desire to ride the endorsement gravy train as far as he can.

However, I believe he possesses, perhaps, a deeper slice of humanity, and truly does feel remorse and seeks reconciliation with his wife, his family, and his fans.

Neither your nor I will ever know for sure. We can only speculate.

Fitz1971
02-22-10, 05:53
Hi!

How do I completely stop masturbating? I have to daily masturbate if I want my day to be a normal one. If I miss masturbation one day then I will be in trouble, like my car will get knocked, or something real bad.

Guys, I'm serious this has really happened to me.

Could it be some kind of psychological problem.

Please I need help.

Think of it this way. Think of yourself (your body) as a car. We all know cars are made of parts, just like the human body is made of parts. We all know that automotive parts only have a certain life and you can only get so many miles on a car or its parts. Do you want to be wasting the miles you have in your dick on your hand? I think not. I prefer to extend the life of mine and I hope to have 18-20 year old chick's bouncing on my cock when I'm well into my later years of life. I mean, I hope that I can still get it up and perform in my later years.

I also think I experience better performance, longer sessions, bigger loads, by not wasting time and miles on masterbation.

Just my honest opinion.

Fitz

Gentleman Travel
02-22-10, 15:36
I respectfully suggest that you guys are missing the point about the reason for Tiger's apology and expression of remorse. It's all about endorsements...

As it stands, I think Tiger has already done irreparable damage to himself in this area and that his income will never again be what it was before. As far as endorsements for products catering to families or--especially--to women, forget it. After a while he will probably go back to endorsing products like sporting equipment, shaving stuff, and the like, but I repeat, he will never have the income he had before. So I don't think his apology was wimpy at all; I think it was a matter of economic necessity. I think if a few hundred million dollars rode on my making a public statement of remorse, I would grvel too. Wouldn't you?
I agree that sponsorships are a major element in his current strategy, but I think he has it wrong. The toothpaste is out of the tube and nothing he says is going to get it back in. He can't go back to being Mr. Clean. He needs to rebrand himself. Lots of stars make lots of money on endorsements based on their skills and dominance in a field of activity, not on being saints. He has to accept that he is out of the sainthood business and recalibrate accordingly. But this does not have to be a bad thing. Britney Spears worked the virgin angle for years, then when that was no longer credible switched over to the sex-pot/bad girl persona. Not that she is a role model of anything, except an object lesson that you cannot stay a virgin for ever.

He has rebranded himself as a cheater, a pervert and a wussy, fleeing from his wife's anger and offering her millions to not kick him out of his house. I'm not buying that cologne!
Instead he should rebrand himself as a real man, unafraid to be who he is, yet accepting the consequences of his actions. I'll buy that kind of car or watch!

Woods is like a guy who has taken a bad fall, he should have (and still should) get right back on the horse and prove that he is still the best golfer in the world (if he is) and the biggest draw.
That will make sponsors sit up and take notice.

Angus Magee
02-28-10, 12:05
Bill Maher's take on sexual addiction & Tiger Woods. Yes it is decidedly left wing but he still gets off some pretty good zingers.

Sex addiction starts at 1:38

http://www.videosift.com/video/Real-Time-With-Bill-Maher-Feb-27-2010-NEW-RULES

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Sammon
02-28-10, 13:19
I agree that sponsorships are a major element in his current strategy, but I think he has it wrong. The toothpaste is out of the tube and nothing he says is going to get it back in. He can't go back to being Mr. Clean. He needs to rebrand himself. Lots of stars make lots of money on endorsements based on their skills and dominance in a field of activity, not on being saints. He has to accept that he is out of the sainthood business and recalibrate accordingly. But this does not have to be a bad thing. Britney Spears worked the virgin angle for years, then when that was no longer credible switched over to the sex-pot/bad girl persona. Not that she is a role model of anything, except an object lesson that you cannot stay a virgin for ever.

He has rebranded himself as a cheater, a pervert and a wussy, fleeing from his wife's anger and offering her millions to not kick him out of his house. I'm not buying that cologne!
Instead he should rebrand himself as a real man, unafraid to be who he is, yet accepting the consequences of his actions. I'll buy that kind of car or watch!

Woods is like a guy who has taken a bad fall, he should have (and still should) get right back on the horse and prove that he is still the best golfer in the world (if he is) and the biggest draw.
That will make sponsors sit up and take notice.
I do not understand Tiger Woods. Is he apoligising because he is a real man? If so Hugh Hefner should have been buried with apologies.
what is Tiger afraid of? He has enough money even if he splits half his fortune with his wife. Afraid of loosing kids? Not with the American system.
He has a god given gift of golf he can use to make lots of money.
You think sex with his wife will be any better with his wife constantly feeling he has cheated?
IMHO he should have admitted his transgressions, divorce his wife, fight for custody of children or atleast decent sharing time and move on and fuck more girls. Once he is single nobody will bother who he is with.
Sex has proven to be good for your body, mental status, general well being for your manhood and self confidence whether sex happens inside marriage or outside.
So far he came across as a whimp listening to media, sponsors, wife, lawyers etc.
Commmon Tiger be a man!

Lexb
02-28-10, 13:29
But I can't understand why celebrities and, for that matter, anyone, still bothers to apologize for doing anything egregious that they did of their own free will(and loved every minute of it and would do it again "in a heart beat", if they thought that could "get away with it"!) and, had they not been involuntarily "caught", would have continued "ad infinitum"!

Don't they realize that no one believes them or the pathetic excuses they make to "save their own asses", even with their "exhalted" celebrity status, and attempt to "pawn off" the blame of their actions to personal failings and/or external uncontrollable("the devil made me do it!) factors is truly a pathetic joke(on them!).

They would have been much "better served" and shown more character just to let the "chips fall where may" and to keep their mouths shut!

If personal familial, financial and/or social ruin is the outcome, so be it as "they made own their bed(sic) in life, now let them lay in it! " as they have no one and nothing to blame except themselves!

Here's another "take" on the Tiger Woods "saga" who's author(unknown) is a little more charitable than I am:

"This whole idea of someone's weakness being an "addiction" or a disease is at best, disingenuous.

"My definition of a "disease" is something a child has at St Jude's hospital. It is something they had no control of, and struck them because of nothing they did. When a drug abuser chooses to take drugs they do it of their own free will. When a "sex addict" chooses to cheat on their spouse, they do it of their own free will. When either one chooses to do it a second and third time, they choose it themselves. It is not random, and it is not something they cannot avoid, if they want to bad enough. Children with diseases don't have that choice.

So don't try to justify Tiger's problems as something he just could not help doing. He is a grown man with more money than most people will ever see in their lifetime. If you are an "addict" then get help, but don't try to salvage your reputation by making us feel sorry for you."

Johnny Maldiva
04-05-10, 09:03
But I can't understand why celebrities and, for that matter, anyone, still bothers to apologize for doing anything egregious that they did of their own free will(and loved every minute of it and would do it again "in a heart beat", if they thought that could "get away with it"!) and, had they not been involuntarily "caught", would have continued "ad infinitum"!

Don't they realize that no one believes them or the pathetic excuses they make to "save their own asses", even with their "exhalted" celebrity status, and attempt to "pawn off" the blame of their actions to personal failings and/or external uncontrollable("the devil made me do it!) factors is truly a pathetic joke(on them!).

They would have been much "better served" and shown more character just to let the "chips fall where may" and to keep their mouths shut!In the end, Tiger won. 5 months on and it's all but forgotten. He said what the public wanted to hear and they forgave him. It's what alot of us would have done if we had multi-million dollar contracts to save. But having a think about it, I'm sure he could have gotten away by doing as you said and saying he enjoyed it, etc. The "bad boy" of golf would be a good marketing ploy.

Alwayshard45
11-21-10, 08:29
In the end, Tiger won. 5 months on and it's all but forgotten. He said what the public wanted to hear and they forgave him. It's what alot of us would have done if we had multi-million dollar contracts to save. But having a think about it, I'm sure he could have gotten away by doing as you said and saying he enjoyed it, etc. The "bad boy" of golf would be a good marketing ploy.

He did win, its now a thing of the past. But I disagree that the "bad boy" image would have destroyed his income. He lost lots of his sponsors during the early stages of this public affair. However, once he said he would take time to reconcile with his wife, and was sorry for what he did, companies began to back him again. TAG Hagur watches initially stated that they were dropping him from all future advertisements, but then a few months later (after his apology), the company changed their website to support Tiger.

I think if he went the "bad boy" route, he will still be in the "dog house". All women want an apology when men do something wrong, that's what the public wanted too.

Praj4
12-19-10, 17:00
He did win, its now a thing of the past. But I disagree that the "bad boy" image would have destroyed his income. He lost lots of his sponsors during the early stages of this public affair. However, once he said he would take time to reconcile with his wife, and was sorry for what he did, companies began to back him again. TAG Hagur watches initially stated that they were dropping him from all future advertisements, but then a few months later (after his apology) , the company changed their website to support Tiger.

I think if he went the "bad boy" route, he will still be in the "dog house". All women want an apology when men do something wrong, that's what the public wanted too. It's quiet intriguing to me why public want to hear celelbrities' apology as if it's from his / her heart!

How they [public] would have reacted had he said that I did no wrong, I have taken care of my wife and kid physically, mentally, financially! About the escorts I picked up wherever I went, I paid them well for their time!

There is no unfairness or exploitation anywhere!

Reader's comments solocited.

Praj4
12-19-10, 17:12
Think of it this way. Think of yourself (your body) as a car. We all know cars are made of parts, just like the human body is made of parts. We all know that automotive parts only have a certain life and you can only get so many miles on a car or its parts. Do you want to be wasting the miles you have in your dick on your hand? I think not. I prefer to extend the life of mine and I hope to have 18-20 year old chick's bouncing on my cock when I'm well into my later years of life. I mean, I hope that I can still get it up and perform in my later years.

I also think I experience better performance, longer sessions, bigger loads, by not wasting time and miles on masterbation.

Just my honest opinion.

FitzU must be suffering from ADHD, meaning there is deficiency of dopamine in your prefrontal cortex. Try any one of the following and check whether it helps you to overcome deficiency and hence habbit-

1] take tablet Ritalin.

2]Do regular aerobic exercise like running

3] Try pranayama / breathing control.

4]Get married and have planned regular sex

5] U can masterbate as there is nothing wrong with it except unless you develop guilt about it

Praj4
12-19-10, 17:23
alas, my skills with attracting and bedding women are poor due to inexperience.

so what can a man like me do? just keep on masturbating? i'd rather have real pussy than the imagined type. i am very frustrated.

btw i would never [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123) or molest a woman so don't worry about me in that regard. but i have an appetite that is ever present, even can be a few minutes after releasing my load.

i often just think i am normal. [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123)- avoid doing anything like that as being wasteful, against basic freewill of woman who constitute 50% of population and you can languish in jail!

u must develop patience by improving dopamine as i explained at another blog so that you can attract woman and also your staying power

sex enhances dopamine in your brain.pfc and hence you like it and that makes you impatient about it.

Bobsthrobbinknob
12-19-10, 17:28
Think of it this way. Think of yourself (your body) as a car. We all know cars are made of parts, just like the human body is made of parts. We all know that automotive parts only have a certain life and you can only get so many miles on a car or its parts. Do you want to be wasting the miles you have in your dick on your hand? I think not. I prefer to extend the life of mine and I hope to have 18-20 year old chick's bouncing on my cock when I'm well into my later years of life. I mean, I hope that I can still get it up and perform in my later years.

I also think I experience better performance, longer sessions, bigger loads, by not wasting time and miles on masterbation.

Just my honest opinion.

FitzWell. I for one will be honest here.

As a teenager, I masterbated as many times a day as I possibly could. Many times, I rubbed my dick raw to the point of bleeding but could not stop. The orgasm was just a greater prize. I didn't do it for lack of sex with other girls, I had PLENTY of attention, was a nice looking sought after guy. I just had a HUGE SEX DRIVE.

I am now 48 years old. On an ordinary day I will masterbate once in the morning and once before sleep, like a schedule. Depending on the day, if I have "alone" time, I will MB more. Sometimes, I see an inspiring ass in a nice pair of jeans and relieve myself in the bathroom stall. I have MB'd as many times as 8 in a day.

My masterbation sessions do not seem to affect my actual companion sex, in fact, I believe enhance them.

I have worried many times that this is a PROBLEM but have been reassured that IF it does not inhibit my ability to work (provide for myself) and other social activities, that there is no reason to worry. I function normally with respect to the rest of my life, and no one around me would have any idea I MB so much. The most recent occasion I told myself "self, you have a problem" is when I had such a throbbing that I just HAD to get a nut. Unfortunately, I was unable to maintain an erection. I was still able to have an ejaculation with a soft dick. Something I've done a few times. Once with a woman. I went soft but she kept grinding on my soft dick outside her pussy and I came. But it happens.

For me, without the orgasms during the day, I simply become disfunctional. Quite the opposite of the definition of addition.

Member #4171
12-21-10, 15:01
to see if you qualify as a 'sex addict'. (and yes, there is also a link to becoming a 'certified sex addiction therapist'. not sure if the additional qualification of being a 'sex addict' actually helps!). (it did give mr.w00ds an excuse for his 'behavior')

http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm

Bobsthrobbinknob
12-21-10, 15:15
to see if you qualify as a 'sex addict'. (and yes, there is also a link to becoming a 'certified sex addiction therapist'. not sure if the additional qualification of being a 'sex addict' actually helps!).

http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm

whether i am addicted or not, i like my addiction and there are volumes of information on how orgasms benefit men's health. psychiatrists can draw their imaginary lines of propriety all they want, but for me. i'm going to relieve my throbbing knob.

Member #4171
12-21-10, 16:22
Good for you, Dude!


Whether I am addicted or not, I like my addiction and there are volumes of information on how orgasms benefit men's health. Psychiatrists can draw their imaginary lines of propriety all they want, but for me. I'm going to relieve my throbbing knob.

Errol Flynn
02-17-11, 06:20
to see if you qualify as a 'sex addict'. (and yes, there is also a link to becoming a 'certified sex addiction therapist'. not sure if the additional qualification of being a 'sex addict' actually helps!). (it did give mr. w00ds an excuse for his 'behavior')

http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfmso i took the test, and low and behold, according to them i'm a sex addict (and need their help). funny thing is, compared to a lot of you sick bastards i think i'm pretty normal. just kidding. but the tells in this test are that they use the same questions that the anti alcohol tests use to prove you're an alcoholic: "has alcohol ever effected your performance the next day?" duh, if you've ever bent one on you've had a hangover. if you're near perfect you only did it once, but most of us have to learn that lesson a few times, i don't think everyone who's ever had a hangover is an alcoholic."has sex ever interfered with your career?", well, unless you're an amoeba i'll bet it has. you wouldn't be a sexual being if it didn't. the question should be has sex ruined your career, but even then you might just have had bad luck. so, after taking this test i still don't know whether my proclivities and the time and resources i devote to the pursuit of sex (both solo and with others) are normal or cause for great alarm. what i do know is another do-gooder ngo is trying to make money off of me. no thanks.

IndoAussie
07-12-11, 14:39
Think of it this way. Think of yourself (your body) as a car. We all know cars are made of parts, just like the human body is made of parts. We all know that automotive parts only have a certain life and you can only get so many miles on a car or its parts. Do you want to be wasting the miles you have in your dick on your hand? I think not. I prefer to extend the life of mine and I hope to have 18-20 year old chick's bouncing on my cock when I'm well into my later years of life. I mean, I hope that I can still get it up and perform in my later years.

FitzOr on the other hand (pun intended) , think of sex like a game. The more you practice, the better the performance.

If your balls don't know what they are supposed to do how would they produce the optimum sperm?

It is not a matter of what you think, we are trying to establish some scientific bases here.

SuperRaven
07-25-11, 06:28
Just completed the sex test, I would say that most of the users of this website are addicts according to the web site. I say you can make a test to prove anything. I would go further to say that a great majority of men would fall into the sex addict category. Haaaa online sex addicts test.

Henri Dufresne
04-06-12, 22:34
Guys,

I see that rates of web hosts are getting crazy. It means are ready to pay a lot of money to web hosts. However, This is a small service for the paid price.

If we consider average rate per minute is $2. 50 (and it is a nice average). It means one hour video chat with an host will cost $150. Two hours $300. You pay so much money and the girl will almost do nothing for you.

On the other hand, a sex worker in the RLD of Amsterdam or in London will cost 200 euros ($261) and you ll have a great service. So. Save your money to travel. Plan mongering trip but don't waste your money on webcam girls.

Here is a good website to help you stop webcam girls:

http://stopcamgirls.com/

JoeBaker75
04-16-12, 17:56
I would go further to say that a great majority of men would fall into the sex addict category.

SuperRaven
04-17-12, 08:32
Yes totally agree, I would bet everyone who posts on here is on that side of ledger. To be honest I am happy being addicted, never want to quit. EVER.


I would go further to say that a great majority of men would fall into the sex addict category.

DarwinP
06-20-12, 23:47
I always see my self lying in a bed with some escorts.

I lurk into escorting website like www.adultsearch.com Erosguide city vibe. And etc.

Just to see some pictures of provider posting their ads. And I usually meet some kind and sweet

Providers, hahah I often masturbate by looking at their sexy photos and when time comes.

I'm going to call them.

The Hammer1169
07-17-12, 23:43
As far as I'm concerned, this term 'sex addict' is thrown around far too much, and really like many of these disorders started in Hollweird. The bottom line is sex feels good and people want to feel good. The true disorder is when someone can't feel good or is frigid.

From the time men hit preadolescence we are wired to procreate and pursue sex. The real shame is when people or entities make one feel ashamed for having urges out of our control.

Most men that do have an issue sexually are not sex addicts, but rather are sexually deviants. This crosses over from pursuing women for sexual gratification and relationships to enjoying harming a woman, or sexually perverse behavior. I think pornography viewing is perfectly natural as well. Men are visually stimulated and naked women in the act of sex is pleasurable to us. Now clearly, if a man is glued to his computer all day, masturbating repeatedly to the point he turns away from former hobbies or human relationships and to the extent there is an interference in daily routine and life, there is an issue. At this point however we are dealing with obsessive behavior rather than sexual addiction.

I think one of the greatest causes of social tension in our society is the indoctrination as young children in the belief that sex is dirty and that normal sexual feelings and desires should be suppressed. This leads to massive frustration, broken marriages, and feelings of guilt and shame for something that is entirely normal. The Christian church is behind most of this.

Women really suffer from this, and it often translates into sexual dysfunction or frigidity. My wife is a former stripper from Mexicali. We talked allot about her clients. Most were married to women who cut them off sexually or drastically reduced sex, and whom were prudes in the bedroom. The majority pursued oral sex in particular because wives won't perform it. She said most dumped on her about how frustrated they were, how they just wanted their wives to be sexy and have a little nasty sex on occasion, and overwhelmingly they said they would not frequent sex clubs if their wives were more receptive, attempted to be sexy on occasion, and would open up sexually.

The good thing for me is my wife knows this! So, when I want nasty I get it. Last night was blissful!

SuperRaven
10-12-12, 10:25
I am always surprised why women (in general) want to have only one partner. I love having different girls, it's the little things that make it interesting, they way this girl moans or this girl flinches when you go in the first time or this girl does this and that.

Are most men interested in sex with many partners or this part of sex addict behaviour?

I really have no idea why I can't just never stick to just one.

Hedonian
10-12-12, 19:21
I am always surprised why women (in general) want to have only one partner. I love having different girls, it's the little things that make it interesting, they way this girl moans or this girl flinches when you go in the first time or this girl does this and that.

Are most men interested in sex with many partners or this part of sex addict behaviour?

I really have no idea why I can't just never stick to just one.I think we are programmed to go after many women. For us quantity is more important then quality because we recuperate fast, less then a day and we ca go for another round. Women have minimum of 9 months recuperation period and that is why for them quality is more important then quantity. That is why they are attracted to handsome (healthy) , rich (good provider) , powerful or famous (leader) kind of guys. That is why they cannot understand why Arnold Shwarzeneger screwed his house maid (poor Hispanic) when he is with such beautiful and prominent Kennedy wife of his. They simply cannot understand how sweet that is. Their brain is just different then ours.

I get incredibly bored very fast. It is enough for me to screw exceptional FKK girls few times to get me not to pick them again but some new ones. Imagine just how is with wife when she is nowhere near age, skills and imagination of FKK girls.

I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.

SuperRaven
10-14-12, 05:43
Hi,

Yes I would agree on your points, I only add that I have heard of girls who do think like men, but I bet same as you that they are few and far between.


I think we are programmed to go after many women. For us quantity is more important then quality because we recuperate fast, less then a day and we ca go for another round. Women have minimum of 9 months recuperation period and that is why for them quality is more important then quantity. That is why they are attracted to handsome (healthy) , rich (good provider) , powerful or famous (leader) kind of guys. That is why they cannot understand why Arnold Shwarzeneger screwed his house maid (poor Hispanic) when he is with such beautiful and prominent Kennedy wife of his. They simply cannot understand how sweet that is. Their brain is just different then ours.

I get incredibly bored very fast. It is enough for me to screw exceptional FKK girls few times to get me not to pick them again but some new ones. Imagine just how is with wife when she is nowhere near age, skills and imagination of FKK girls.

I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.

Pronto91
10-15-12, 06:01
I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.I had never thought of this angle. Well stated!

BookAt11
11-07-12, 12:10
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MrWonderful
12-08-12, 06:56
I would like to know more about porn addiction. Its effect and cures. Has anyone undergone treatment for it?

SuperRaven
12-09-12, 07:08
It's really all full of shit, someone does not like you doing something, then OMG its bad and thus an addiction. Studying to much or socialising are all addictions. Like lying, if someone finds out you are lying then its bad if they don't then everything is fine.


I would like to know more about porn addiction. Its effect and cures. Has anyone undergone treatment for it?

NicFrenchy
12-24-12, 08:57
It's really all full of shit, someone does not like you doing something, then OMG its bad and thus an addiction. Studying to much or socialising are all addictions. Like lying, if someone finds out you are lying then its bad if they don't then everything is fine.Well said. Guys should start to believe that as long as you're not offending anyone, then whatever you're doing is ok.

NicFrenchy
12-24-12, 09:04
I think we are programmed to go after many women. For us quantity is more important then quality because we recuperate fast, less then a day and we ca go for another round. Women have minimum of 9 months recuperation period and that is why for them quality is more important then quantity.Agreed, it's fantastic to be able to screw many women and then just simply forget about them. I tell you, if I had to remember all the girls I screwed in 2012, that would be close to impossible as there were so many (ok, living in Bangkok really helps).

I can't know what women really think (as I am not one) but I can tell you that as a man, I would not be able to live with only 1 woman. Different faces, boobs, pussies, ah, I love variety.

FreebieFan
12-24-12, 10:48
Agreed, it's fantastic to be able to screw many women and then just simply forget about them. I tell you, if I had to remember all the girls I screwed in 2012, that would be close to impossible as there were so many (ok, living in Bangkok really helps).

I can't know what women really think (as I am not one) but I can tell you that as a man, I would not be able to live with only 1 woman. Different faces, boobs, pussies, ah, I love variety.I tried for many years to deny the interest I had in dating and bedding many many women. Put up the false " happily married man " front. Recently thats all changed and I'm loving it now as Ronald Mcdo might say. I couldn't live again as that guy. Maybe one day in the future perhaps, but right now my dance card is marked for 5 dates a week. Manila trip will see me have 7 bonks in 6 days etc. Its all good and its the way I was programmed to be.

NicFrenchy
12-25-12, 08:32
Women in general want monogamy, but they want to be desired by more than one partner.Agreed, Men need to be Loved, women need to be Wanted.

NicFrenchy
12-25-12, 08:33
I tried for many years to deny the interest I had in dating and bedding many many women. Put up the false " happily married man " front. Recently thats all changed and I'm loving it now as Ronald Mcdo might say. I couldn't live again as that guy.Better late than never.

I live and work in Thailand so I also have my Dance card Full quite often.

Kuma Pamper
01-25-13, 22:59
Hedonian!. This is so true. And a very good way to explain it!


I think we are programmed to go after many women. For us quantity is more important then quality because we recuperate fast, less then a day and we ca go for another round. Women have minimum of 9 months recuperation period and that is why for them quality is more important then quantity. That is why they are attracted to handsome (healthy) , rich (good provider) , powerful or famous (leader) kind of guys. That is why they cannot understand why Arnold Shwarzeneger screwed his house maid (poor Hispanic) when he is with such beautiful and prominent Kennedy wife of his. They simply cannot understand how sweet that is. Their brain is just different then ours.

I get incredibly bored very fast. It is enough for me to screw exceptional FKK girls few times to get me not to pick them again but some new ones. Imagine just how is with wife when she is nowhere near age, skills and imagination of FKK girls.

I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.

Kuma Pamper
01-25-13, 23:06
I read a theory that one of the reason that most young men (under 45 years) do not have a good private economy is because they use too much of there time thinking about sex or hunting after sex. When they get older they change focus and their economical situation improves. Any thoughts?

Chocha Monger
02-14-13, 03:52
I read a theory that one of the reason that most young men (under 45 years) do not have a good private economy is because they use too much of there time thinking about sex or hunting after sex. When they get older they change focus and their economical situation improves. Any thoughts?I don't think there is much doubt about that. Young men waste a lot of time, energy, and resources in the process of finding sex. Nature drives men to seek sex from the moment they enter puberty. A lot of the teenage years are spent trying to attract females, often to the detriment of academic performance. It doesn't stop in college where young guys spend money on clothes, cars and apartments that they can't afford. Some of the money comes from parents and part time jobs but most of it comes from student loans that these young studs will spend decades paying off with interest. The pattern continues after college compounded with marriage, kids, divorce, alimony and child support. All of these can be considered costs associated with sex. However, older guys are not exactly immune from having a bad economy due to hunting sex. Lots of elderly guys blow their retirement accounts chasing young poon in all the usual monger destinations. Others marry girls 40 or 50 yrs their junior and take them back to their home country only to have their bank accounts cleaned out and find themselves out of house and home after she pops out a kid or two then sues for divorce. Mongering comes with hotel bills, airfare, bar fines, service fees, etc. It's not exactly a cheap hobby for those seeking clean high quality sex workers. Now the post below made me double over with laughter but going broke just to bust a nut isn't uncommon for Westerners at all.


Hmm. I think Czech companion is too pricey for me, maybe if I can afford it someday. I get what you mean with k5 relax, I feel like I got lucky that way the first time I went to showpark last year, but this time around, not so much. It's like with karolina at sweet paradise. I couldn't find anything like her ever again no matter how many times I tried. I suppose 2 or 3 days if I can book the right girl in advance. Thing of it is I'm completely broke man. Completely, utterly broke. I basically shot my whole wad, in every sense of the word on this trip. But man, it was worth it. I think by the time I can afford to go back to prague, the existing best-privat line up would be completely different, I doubt I'll be able to go back at least until 2 to 3 years from now. Damn this bad economy, losing my job is bad enough, but I can hardly make ends meet now. I think that shows just how extreme I am when it comes to poon. That I'd rather go broke than not fuck wh. Man, I fucking love wh. I wish I could afford the fkk experience man, but right now I can't even afford to go to montreal and it's right next door. Unless I can find a job soon, I think I'm basically retiring from the hobby. It's funny how life works out man, I've finally found some meaning in my life, I've finally found a vacation spot on this planet that I absolutely love, I finally found something that keeps me going and it's Czech prostitutes, but then fate has it's own plans I suppose.

In the end, between choosing to visit Bangkok or going back to prague again, I'm so glad I went with prague again. It makes me sad though, odds are if I ever get to go back, most of the chicks would have retired, but who was it that said "I get older, but the chicks stay the same age, heh heh". Man, fuck this economy dude. When I had a good job I was making it rain in stupid strip clubs in NY and Vegas, never knowing that I shoulda saved up all that cash for primo prague poon. Hindsight is always 20/20 ain't it? I just didn't know back then. Hell, I was so clueless I didn't even think enough to seriously consider Bangkok. I could write a whole damn thesis on the korean incall scene in New York (I ain't talking about the semi legit AMP middle aged crap either, I'm talking about the quality dames) , even some of the escorts here, but I was so wrapped up in my work I never thought to get on a freakin' plane and fly to someplace that was truly worth it. It's like when I had cash, I only knew enough to taste the samples, and now that I have access to the whole damn candy store, I've ran out of cash. Life is cruel my friends. Life is cruel indeed. Enjoy the mongering fellow hobbyists, if I ever get my financial shit together again, I'll report here, until then, see you around fellas. Happy mongering and fuck safe.

TonyIndian
02-24-13, 17:06
I have been a prolific *****mongerer since the age of 13 and have bedded 1000+ women but now I am thinking of taking a break. The whole exercise of mongering seems to be so vacuous & vapid. It's like going thru the motions. I feel empty & pointless after banging a working girl. No new value or enjoyment is really derived. I might take a break and try some intellectual engagement / dating some women. There has got to be more to life than humping women and getting high. At least I really hope there is. I might even become asexual and abstain for a while. Civilian or professional, pussy is just pussy ultimately. I have a high level of skepticism as to whether the dating thing can ever work for people like us who've been to the other side and experienced great pleasure and variety. /rant

Chocha Monger
02-25-13, 01:03
I have been a prolific *****mongerer since the age of 13 and have bedded 1000+ women but now I am thinking of taking a break. The whole exercise of mongering seems to be so vacuous & vapid. It's like going thru the motions. I feel empty & pointless after banging a working girl. No new value or enjoyment is really derived. I might take a break and try some intellectual engagement / dating some women. There has got to be more to life than humping women and getting high. At least I really hope there is. I might even become asexual and abstain for a while. Civilian or professional, pussy is just pussy ultimately. I have a high level of skepticism as to whether the dating thing can ever work for people like us who've been to the other side and experienced great pleasure and variety. /rantYou are supposed to feel vacuous and empty after busting your nuts! There is no higher plane of enlightenment or extra-dimensional experience obtained through the biological function of expelling your semen. The sensation of being physically and spiritually spent after ejaculating your currency, and losing your precious bodily fluids, is completely normal in the mongering profession.

One Eyed Man
02-25-13, 16:01
Latin proverb: After sexual intercourse every animal is sad, except the cock (rooster) and the woman.


You are supposed to feel vacuous and empty after busting your nuts! There is no higher plane of enlightenment or extra-dimensional experience obtained through the biological function of expelling your semen. The sensation of being physically and spiritually spent after ejaculating your currency, and losing your precious bodily fluids, is completely normal in the mongering profession.

Max Meyer
04-02-13, 09:46
There is no such thing as addiction when it comes to this matter. As a matter of fact it is good for the health. It was proven that during intercourse your stamina will increase and your physical health will strengthen. So doing intercourse at any pace will definitely good for your health, good for your cardio / heart funcion too.

Double Shooter
04-02-13, 18:30
Latin proverb: After sexual intercourse every animal is sad, except the cock (rooster) and the woman.Hehehe that's why the French call it "la petite mort"

Ilasan
09-21-13, 14:12
Symptoms of Sexual Addiction.


By Michael Herkov, PH. D.

While there is no official diagnosis for sex addiction, clinicians and researchers have attempted to define the disorder using criteria based on chemical dependency literature. They include:

Frequently engaging in more sex and with more partners than intended.

Being preoccupied with or persistently craving sex; wanting to cut down and unsuccessfully attempting to limit sexual activity.

Thinking of sex to the detriment of other activities or continually engaging in excessive sexual practices despite a desire to stop.

Spending considerable time in activities related to sex, such as cruising for partners or spending hours online visiting pornographic Web sites.

Neglecting obligations such as work, school or family in pursuit of sex.

Continually engaging in the sexual behavior despite negative consequences, such as broken relationships or potential health risks.

Escalating scope or frequency of sexual activity to achieve the desired effect, such as more frequent visits to prostitutes or more sex partners.

Feeling irritable when unable to engage in the desired behavior.

Jiggydus
09-21-13, 23:31
Symptoms of Sexual Addiction.No such thing as sexual addiction. What next? Will there be something called "breathing addiction?" Symptoms include always trying to inhale deeply, breathing through mouth even though sufficient to just breath through nostrils.

Hairy Wonder
11-10-13, 19:31
According to this article, sexual intercourse is not only fun and good exercise, it also improves your immune system.

http://dailyhealthpost.com/beyond-heart-health-and-burning-calories-4-new-reasons-to-have-sex/#axzz2kGh17YNi.

So I think governments around the world should promote sex, rather than trying to prevent it.

More sex= healthier people!

Adelino
02-08-14, 07:55
So would checking this ISG forum every five minutes considered sexual addiction?

No seriously. What's the threshold between normal use and abuse in your view?

PianoPlayer
02-09-14, 18:12
There is quite a lot of neuroscience published in the last five years confirming that internet porn is an addiction, that causes erectile dysfunction in young males and other symptoms misdiagnosed as social anxiety, ADHD or other disorders. This talk summarizes the research: http://yourbrainonporn.com/garys-tedx-talk-great-porn-experiment. The main web site (yourbrainonporn. Com) has a variety of other interesting material you can read. Especially interesting are the stories of men who have given up all internet porn and masturbation and report significant improvement in their sex lives and overall motivation and well-being. Food for thought.

Member #4244
02-09-14, 18:35
I have been a prolific *****mongerer since the age of 13 and have bedded 1000+ women but now I am thinking of taking a break. The whole exercise of mongering seems to be so vacuous & vapid. It's like going thru the motions. I feel empty & pointless after banging a working girl. No new value or enjoyment is really derived. I might take a break and try some intellectual engagement / dating some women. There has got to be more to life than humping women and getting high. At least I really hope there is. I might even become asexual and abstain for a while. Civilian or professional, pussy is just pussy ultimately. I have a high level of skepticism as to whether the dating thing can ever work for people like us who've been to the other side and experienced great pleasure and variety. /rantHey man, I totally understand where you are coming from. Maybe it's a different level but I've had very similar feelings. For me they are satiated when I have some pros or non pro fuck buddies who are my friends. There is no pressure of an actual relationship but there is mutual emotion, caring, chemistry, etc. If I don't have that, I go nuts. If it is just a string of faceless pussies, it gets boring so fast. You also mentioned getting high, well whatever drug it is it's always an escape from the world and it all feels just a little more foreign when you get back, right? Same thing with pros vs dating. You start going out with a woman and you're thinking, fuck, I a spending this time on money that I could be spending cutting straight to the fucking chase.

That said, it's not hopeless. Try dating, look for people who are not cold calls, girls you meet organically. Make a pact with yourself not to *push hard* to sleep with them. You've been sleeping with girls as soon as you met them, how's that going? Try engaging intellectually first. If that doesn't work, here is another suggestion, try having two sets of female friends. One that is a set to fuck and suck, and one that is strictly based on shared interests, common personality traits, etc. I find this serves me very, very well. Many of my best friends are women and unlike when I was younger, I never had any intention of sleeping with them.

Lastly, if you're thinking "there's more to life," well, there is. With anything-prosties, dope, being heavily infatuated with a woman, masochism, sadism, etc-you get caught up in these rushes that become compulsions. Honestly of them I think being in the early stages of being in love is probably the strongest and most detaching, though I've never been a heroin addict LOL. These things disconnect you from life's simple pleasures and the satisfaction of working hard in order to see something through.

So, if you do take a break from sex, drugs or both, make sure your time is filled with some productive that you enjoy. If you just sit around depriving yourself, you will be miserable and probably better off once you (quickly) slide back into your old habits. Cheers and good luck.

Member #4244
02-09-14, 18:37
You are supposed to feel vacuous and empty after busting your nuts! There is no higher plane of enlightenment or extra-dimensional experience obtained through the biological function of expelling your semen. The sensation of being physically and spiritually spent after ejaculating your currency, and losing your precious bodily fluids, is completely normal in the mongering profession.I don't think he meant physically or even intellectually, I think he meant emotionally.

Adelino
02-11-14, 23:45
There is quite a lot of neuroscience published in the last five years confirming that internet porn is an addiction, that causes erectile dysfunction in young males and other symptoms misdiagnosed as social anxiety, ADHD or other disorders. This talk summarizes the research:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/garys-tedx-talk-great-porn-experiment

The main web site (yourbrainonporn. Com) has a variety of other interesting material you can read. Especially interesting are the stories of men who have given up all internet porn and masturbation and report significant improvement in their sex lives and overall motivation and well-being. Food for thought.I didn't mean porn in my question about ISG, in fact, if one's interested in porn, there are a lot of other places where one can find free porn.

Mr OReilly
02-20-14, 04:00
well i think i am a sex addict. i think about sez 24/7 and spend a ton of money on hookers. i moved to a different city to have easier access to paid sex. i keep paying for sex even though i want to stop, i can't stop.

not sure what to do, i am only 26 but i just want to fuck hot women. paid sex is so easy and the women so hot and slutty, that's my thing. not sure if i can ever be normal ie a girlfriend, not sure after all this paid sex if i could just drop it.

to me its scary that sex rules over my life. maybe i need to see a therapist.

Member #4351
02-20-14, 15:09
to me its scary that sex rules over my life. maybe i need to see a therapist.you need to take a trip to cebu.

Ezinho
02-20-14, 17:39
well i think i am a sex addict. i think about sez 24/7 and spend a ton of money on hookers. i moved to a different city to have easier access to paid sex. i keep paying for sex even though i want to stop, i can't stop.

not sure what to do, i am only 26 but i just want to fuck hot women. paid sex is so easy and the women so hot and slutty, that's my thing. not sure if i can ever be normal ie a girlfriend, not sure after all this paid sex if i could just drop it.

to me its scary that sex rules over my life. maybe i need to see a therapist.compared to a lot of other vices, i don't find p4p to be that bad. as long as it's not disrupting your professional life and finances, i don't see a problem with it.

in my case, if i didn't bang hookers, i would live a life that even a mormon missionary would find boring. i don't do drugs, rarely drink, don't gamble anymore, so p4p is really the only "exciting" thing in my life, the only thing that gets my juices flowing, so to speak.

if paying for pussy is the worst thing you do, be thankful. i had friends in my 20s destroy their lives with drugs and alcohol. now that i'm in my 30s, the rest of my friends are getting screwed by their ex-wives, or stuck in dead end, miserable jobs. be thankful you have none of these problems.

Asian Rain
02-20-14, 18:09
to me its scary that sex rules over my life. maybe i need to see a therapist.tell me about it. i have a pussy pack-a-day habit myself. don't worry, just wait it out. likely by the time you hit 60, you will be over it. enjoy life and celebrate your habits, asianrain

Bareback Jack
02-20-14, 18:28
Likely by the time you hit 60, you will be over itMe thinks no. Age doesn't cure addictions. I'm 52 now and it has gotten worse and at least one of my friends is in his mid sixties and no signs of slowing down. Why the fuss anyway? Pussy is for fun, as much and as often as you like. Just add more other pleasures to your life as well and I'm sure that feeling of emptiness goes by.

BigJohn1196
02-20-14, 19:06
Me thinks no. Age doesn't cure addictions. I'm 52 now and it has gotten worse and at least one of my friends is in his mid sixties and no signs of slowing down. Why the fuss anyway? Pussy is for fun, as much and as often as you like. Just add more other pleasures to your life as well and I'm sure that feeling of emptiness goes by.I am in my seventies and the sex drive is as high as it ever was. Perhaps one does not cum as often but the pleasures of sex rank really high. Women have menopause and in a different way men do. It just is a more gradual decline. One can decrease the rate of aging with a good sex life to maintain those rampant hormones.

Wolvenvacht
02-20-14, 20:24
There is quite a lot of neuroscience published in the last five years confirming that internet porn is an addiction, that causes erectile dysfunction in young males and other symptoms misdiagnosed as social anxiety, ADHD or other disorders. This talk summarizes the research:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/garys-tedx-talk-great-porn-experiment

The main web site (yourbrainonporn. Com) has a variety of other interesting material you can read. Especially interesting are the stories of men who have given up all internet porn and masturbation and report significant improvement in their sex lives and overall motivation and well-being. Food for thought.Hah, thinly disguised anti-masturbation site. Big on hearsay and light on science.

Wolvenvacht
02-20-14, 20:29
So would checking this ISG forum every five minutes considered sexual addiction?

No seriously. What's the threshold between normal use and abuse in your view?There is no good definition of "addiction", only of "addiction" that is harmful, I. E. It becomes "abuse": as long as your social, professional, family, cultural, . Life is not significantly impaired by your "addiction", I wouldn't worry.

Mr OReilly
02-20-14, 22:32
Hah, thinly disguised anti-masturbation site. Big on hearsay and light on science.I would agree with it to a degree. Watching porn all the time and wanking all day, on top of moving into more extreme porn to get turned on, is definitely not a good thing. Normal use of porn is okay, but there are some people, like I was, who watch it all the time and masturbate like 3 times a day, that ain't normal

PianoPlayer
02-20-14, 22:43
Hah, thinly disguised anti-masturbation site. Big on hearsay and light on science.Actually what I took from this was that I would enjoy PFP with real chicas more if I lay off the porn. The tolerance and dopamine effects of the infinite supply of on-line porn sound perfectly plausible. I did not mean to suggest that ISG was the equivalent of porn, and was not replying to any prior posts.

Mr OReilly
02-21-14, 12:05
Actually what I took from this was that I would enjoy PFP with real chicas more if I lay off the porn. The tolerance and dopamine effects of the infinite supply of on-line porn sound perfectly plausible. I did not mean to suggest that ISG was the equivalent of porn, and was not replying to any prior posts.I fully agree with you and the logic behind that website. I have noticed results from abstaining from porn; its not all bs.

Wolvenvacht
02-22-14, 09:41
I fully agree with you and the logic behind that website. I have noticed results from abstaining from porn; its not all bs.That website appeals to naive logic: it is the same as saying that you will appreciate one slice of dry bread more than always eating good food if you first starve yourself.

Mr OReilly
02-22-14, 13:49
That website appeals to naive logic: it is the same as saying that you will appreciate one slice of dry bread more than always eating good food if you first starve yourself.I understand your point of view as well. The issue is when porn is watched too much and your tastes morph. For example when normal porn doesn't get you off and you have to go to more extreme levels to get off.

I am not saying never pull your goalie, I am just saying that I agree with the site to the degree that porn can be harmful to real life sex because it will morph your views on sex.

Sailor Jim
02-22-14, 19:12
There is no good definition of "addiction", only of "addiction" that is harmful, I. E. It becomes "abuse": as long as your social, professional, family, cultural, . Life is not significantly impaired by your "addiction", I wouldn't worry.There a line between addiction and human necessity. Such as food, water, sleep, [CodeWord112] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112), human interaction, feeling of well being. Most of those like eating can be abused and may be classified as an addiction.

But really?

I don't see normal functioning good people who have a high sex drive or thin people who constantly pig out as having problems. Just a high sex drive and high metabolism. No harm no foul.

My current GF eats like a cow all day long. She is rail thin. Eating disorder / addiction or high metabolism?

But if you are eating to obesity and poor health or damaging important aspects of your life (family, wallet, work) through excess, even of good habits such as sleep then you might need to seek help.

How many have ruined their lives due to a high sex drive? Probably not many.

The tail does not wag the dog and in regards to porn, porn is just an aid to someone having a high sex drive and not the proportional amt of frequency of sex to satiate that drive. Blaming porn is like blaming lube.

And why is it a bad thing to have a body that craves orgasm 4-5 times a day? My body craves 6 hours of sleep a night. My girl needs a solid 9. Should she seek help?

Worse things:

Uncontrollable shopping and debt, smoking, drinking, drugs, violent tendencies, gambling, crime, and really bad karaoke performances.

MongoTango
02-22-14, 19:44
There a line between addiction and human necessity. Such as food, water, sleep, [CodeWord112] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112), human interaction, feeling of well being. Most of those like eating can be abused and may be classified as an addiction.

Worse things:

Uncontrollable shopping and debt, smoking, drinking, drugs, violent tendencies, gambling, crime, and really bad karaoke performances.I agree totally with Sailor Jim.

A balance towards a little more needs than some others I would not consider an addiction. Addictions impact more than individuals in many most negative ways.

I do believe that consistently repeated bad karaoke performances can be considered addictions. ROLMFAO!

Thanks for that Jim!

Otari
04-19-14, 08:58
Do you know some good porn games? I could be for example something similar to.

http://pusooy.net/main.php?site=pusooy

Cybertron
05-03-14, 17:27
Hello,

What happens to a sex addict who's supply is cut off suddenly. That's the phase I am going through right now. What medication I can take to help me get over it?

CT

Wolvenvacht
05-03-14, 19:27
Hello,

What happens to a sex addict who's supply is cut off suddenly. That's the phase I am going through right now. What medication I can take to help me get over it?

CTSex addiction is not a physical addiction: your body does not get withdrawal symptoms. Jerk off if your balls are hurting or even better get a hot young thing in your bed and let her milk you of your excess sexual energy.

Donovan7
05-31-14, 20:12
Do you know some good porn games? I could be for example something similar to.

http://pusooy.net/main.php?site=pusooyTry this if you like rpg sex detective game.

http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/494636

Brauninc
06-06-14, 02:33
I looked into chemical castration. I did some research and if you don't have the willpower to stop, its something you can look at. I just can't pull the trigger and go through with it at the moment.

Mascarado
08-31-14, 01:53
There a line between addiction and human necessity. Such as food, water, sleep, [CodeWord112] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112), human interaction, feeling of well being. Most of those like eating can be abused and may be classified as an addiction.

But really?

I don't see normal functioning good people who have a high sex drive or thin people who constantly pig out as having problems. Just a high sex drive and high metabolism. No harm no foul.

My current GF eats like a cow all day long. She is rail thin. Eating disorder / addiction or high metabolism?

But if you are eating to obesity and poor health or damaging important aspects of your life (family, wallet, work) through excess, even of good habits such as sleep then you might need to seek help.

How many have ruined their lives due to a high sex drive? Probably not many.Could have not said it better myself. I thought I was a sex addict, but really it's just that, thankfully, we have longer life spans, more leisure time, abundance, and hotter women than say, 50-100-1000's of years ago.

In fact, sexual frustration leads to a lot of those worse things mentioned.

Speed2487
09-28-15, 19:48
I have seen that many addiction can be overcome if you can keep yourself busy with some work which interests you so that it occupy most of your brain activity. Try jerking off and slowly reduce the number of times you jerk off until you feel control over it. All the best man! I hope you overcome it soon.


Hello,

What happens to a sex addict who's supply is cut off suddenly. That's the phase I am going through right now. What medication I can take to help me get over it?

CT

Gamer76
05-15-20, 05:23
I have seen that many addiction can be overcome if you can keep yourself busy with some work which interests you so that it occupy most of your brain activity. Try jerking off and slowly reduce the number of times you jerk off until you feel control over it. All the best man! I hope you overcome it soon.Also stop watching porn too or semi porn.

UweHertzog459
02-08-21, 18:52
Sex addiction (the compulsive sexual behavior described here) should not be confused with disorders such as pedophilia or bestiality.

For some people, sex addiction can be very dangerous and lead to great difficulties in relationships. Like drug or alcohol dependence, it has the potential to negatively affect a person's physical and mental health, personal relationships, quality of life, and safety.

TonyMontanaaO7
02-09-21, 14:51
It has been kind of scary for me. It started in January 2009 with a prostitute and just kind of went from there. I didn't start keeping track until things have really gotten out of hand the last few years.

Sexual addiction sucks your energy. Sex (or even masturbation) is hard on the heart, hard on the body. It can also suck your money dry, depending on what you are doing. It makes you feel tired all the time. It hurts your self discipline and takes a toll on esteem. You are also more impulsive and find it harder to control other urges.

What I've learned is engaging in a sex act with another person is similar to doing drugs like marijuana or alcohol on a spiritual level. When a person drinks alcohol or smokes pot it kind of opens the door to negative forces.

LazyAss69
02-22-21, 23:41
Hey,

I stopped doing drugs and drinking, can't I be a little bit addicted?

Artisttyp
02-23-21, 04:00
I have been doing this since I was a teenager. I don't consider my mongering as an addiction. It is the way I procure my sexual needs that otherwise would not be met in the civilian world. (smile)

Jny88
08-25-21, 02:53
I have been doing this since I was a teenager. I don't consider my mongering as an addiction. It is the way I procure my sexual needs that otherwise would not be met in the civilian world. (smile)Hahah I'm al probably a sex addict but I guess there are worse things I could be spending my time and money on.

PedroMorales
10-29-21, 23:43
https://www.exberliner.com/features/zeitgeist/assisted-loving/

This is a good thread topic and some good posts. Considering the age profile of SEAsian expats, the above link should be of interest to them and others in old folks' homes or with terminal ailments. Having sex with such folk is a dirty job but someone has to do it. It is even in the Old Testament, an aging King David getting his rocks off with hookers a fifth of his age. Mind you, elsewhere, God tells Hosea to marry a hooker. This would suit some of the cuckolds here.

I guess we will have to soldier on, and pay the hookers, our own one armed bandits.

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01-05-22, 07:40
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Alengeo90
02-16-22, 22:24
I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?

BJtemp
07-10-22, 17:01
I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?Have a woman with you 24 x7?

ShawMumbai
08-08-22, 20:19
I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?Block porn sites on your wifi router, apps to block on phone. Take up some hobby that involves community meets, learn music, etc.

Just add something to your schedule that makes you less alone.

OldSchool318
08-25-22, 23:34
Many say it causes issues, however working girls love it and even normal girls too. Many have their own private photos and vids right on their phone. Try sharing porn with open minded girls you meet, send them your favorite vids and don't send dick pics! At least until they ask.

Have had a great summer of trading vids and pics with local girls in my area and have made all of them my fuck*****s. I was friendly and patient but once I was able to establish they like the adult vids I have helped them with their x rated urges.

CrowExplorer
07-30-23, 00:56
I have been doing this since I was a teenager. I don't consider my mongering as an addiction. It is the way I procure my sexual needs that otherwise would not be met in the civilian world. (smile)I agree. Saying you have a "sex addiction" is like saying you have a "food addiction". We all have these natural urges, some guys pig out (albeit sex, food, etc.) to the point where it affects health, money, and relationships negatively. Then instead of admitting personal responsibility, they claim to have an "addiction".

Jdweeb
09-07-23, 04:49
I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?I used to skip work just to watch porn, better lately. But usually a daily thing.