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Fast Buck Artist
07-25-11, 07:50
I was reading today a report about google+ that discussed how people put their online social contacts into categories. And then I looked at my Yahoo list of contacts. Quite a funny read!
- !New_arrivals_not_camverified.
- Pinays_met
- Pinays_prospects
- suss_trannies
- suss_scammers
- suss_cherries
- pro_hookers
- crying_about_x
- childish_timewasters
- who_the_f_is_this
- real_friends_oz
- coworkers
- real_friends_asia
Sounds familiar? :)
Has anybody ever heard of somebody not taking the nursing exam and working in a public hospital? I have no problem sending 8, 000 but this sounds fishy.Its 100% complete BS, sorry to say. If you don't sit for, and pass, your board exams you are not an RN. Its that simple. DO NOT give money for this bogus nonsense. She may be being scammed or she may be scamming you directly, you can never tell.
AV
FreebieFan
07-25-11, 12:36
I know a woman that graduated from nursing school in May of 2011. She didn't have the money to take the review course so she didn't sit for the boards. All of that is documented. She says several of her friends are in the same situation but got jobs at a public hospital in Cebu without a license. She is asking me for 8,000 php to get her paperwork in order to be legally employed. Apparently this reqires NBI certification, physical exam, postal I'd, etc. Has anybody ever heard of somebody not taking the nursing exam and working in a public hospital? I have no problem sending 8, 000 but this sounds fishy.You may want to do some research into the Nursing exam scam that occurred in Phils 2-3 years back. I can't recall all the details but basically the exam questions were leaked online so everyone knew the questions and of course the answers.
The scam was discovered when there was an amazing 100% pass rate.
The ramifications were that Filipina nurses who had been offered jobs in Ireland, UK, Middle East etc had to wait until they could resit the exam, to get their contracts re. Processed etc.
My point here being that the quality of nursing qualifications isn't worth that much. Enough to get an overseas job but it really doesn't mean she's a "qualified" nurse, although without a doubt she will have a nurses caring skills.
GregLondon
07-26-11, 02:14
I know a woman that graduated from nursing school in May of 2011. She didn't have the money to take the review course so she didn't sit for the boards. All of that is documented. She says several of her friends are in the same situation but got jobs at a public hospital in Cebu without a license. She is asking me for 8,000 php to get her paperwork in order to be legally employed. Apparently this reqires NBI certification, physical exam, postal I'd, etc. Has anybody ever heard of somebody not taking the nursing exam and working in a public hospital? I have no problem sending 8, 000 but this sounds fishy..
One of my Phil friends is also a student who graduated from uni in Cebu in May 2011. She then spent a 6 weeks doing the Review Course and took the Board exams in June. She is now waiting for the results. She tells me that the pass rate is about 30% and that no hospitals will employ them until they have found out whether they have passed or not in around a month's time. Without taking the Board exams these girls cannot legally get a job in a hospital as a registered nurse. Of course they can get other jobs and maybe voluntary jobs and would need various bit s of paperwork for that, however 8000P would sound too high for he necessary paperwork for a regular job (2000P sounds more like it.). I think she is just trying it on to get you to send what would be regarded as a nice sum of money.
I can give you the email of my friend if you would like to ask her directly. She's a very honest and straightforward girl and non scammer.
I also looked into the costs involved in getting what I will call a "work permit." 8, 000 was indeed about 3 times as high as I had added up. When I brought this up she said that a friend did it for 5, 000 with a fixer and I just could not get any satisfactory answers, particularly in the context of working in a hospital as an unlicensed nurse and earning 15, 000 a month. She was told that she will get nothing until such time as I receive satisfactory documentation of all costs plus verifiable employment letter. I also blocked her for an undetermined period of time, first as a lesson and secondly, to avoid frequent and persistent inquiries from her in this regard.
GregLondon
07-26-11, 10:25
I also looked into the costs involved in getting what I will call a "work permit." 8, 000 was indeed about 3 times as high as I had added up. When I brought this up she said that a friend did it for 5, 000 with a fixer and I just could not get any satisfactory answers, particularly in the context of working in a hospital as an unlicensed nurse and earning 15, 000 a month. She was told that she will get nothing until such time as I receive satisfactory documentation of all costs plus verifiable employment letter. I also blocked her for an undetermined period of time, first as a lesson and secondly, to avoid frequent and persistent inquiries from her in this regard.A newly qualified nurse with Board Exam passes can expect a fierce struggle to get a job paying 8000P a month and may well have to work for free for a while just to clock up some experience. 15000P a month is dream land for a newly qualified Phils nurse let alone one without the Exam Board passes, unless of course she is planning on offering some extra services LOL
Mongerer69
07-26-11, 11:39
Something clearly not right here. Virgin giving out her number and flashing the susu. Members in Dipolog might like to report.
http://www.dateinasia.com/jardinmariafe.htmlLooks like Ladyboy possibilities to me!
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She tells me that the pass rate is about 30% and that no hospitals will employ them until they have found out whether they have passed or not in around a month's time. Without taking the Board exams these girls cannot legally get a job in a hospital as a registered nurse. .It's not the pass mark that is 30.
It is that only 30% of examinees pass the Licensure Examination.
Same for teachers. Last year 60, 000 took the test. 49, 000 failed (or, being positive. 11, 000 passed). That's 49, 000 so-called "qualified graduate teachers" who have studied for 4 years to get a degree and cannot teach because they cannot pass the License Test.
There are many many low quality training institutions in the Phils. Many institutions have not had a passer for 5 years and yet they are STILL allowed to accept students and take their money.
If anyone is sending WU or other money to students, find out how many graduates pass the License Exams each year from their institution. The pass rates are equally bad for Law, Engineering, Nursing, Teaching. Your caring gesture might not guarantee a job at the end of it.
FreebieFan
07-27-11, 02:06
It's not the pass mark that is 30.
It is that only 30% of examinees pass the Licensure Examination.
Same for teachers. Last year 60, 000 took the test. 49, 000 failed (or, being positive. 11, 000 passed). That's 49, 000 so-called "qualified graduate teachers" who have studied for 4 years to get a degree and cannot teach because they cannot pass the License Test.
There are many many low quality training institutions in the Phils. Many institutions have not had a passer for 5 years and yet they are STILL allowed to accept students and take their money.
If anyone is sending WU or other money to students, find out how many graduates pass the License Exams each year from their institution. The pass rates are equally bad for Law, Engineering, Nursing, Teaching. Your caring gesture might not guarantee a job at the end of it.Maybe I had a good sleep, or maybe it was yesterdays very sweet sex, anyways Freebie in a good mood. '
And have to add that I love the way this board goes off at all sorts of funny and interesting tangents.
Here we are talking about nurses pass rates.
Previously we have discuissions on best places to exchange money, the amount you can get out of an ATM, how to rid a toilet of "smell", where to get the best donuts, how much to tip or not to tip, and a long long time back, the best second cars to own in Phils.
The various boards here of the Philippines are way more interesting than many other countries boards I. E KL where the best that can be managed is " I met a hot girl last night in sex shop, paid her, rated her an 8. Followed by a barrage of " give me her number mate" etc. Ad infinitum.
I love to read all this non sex stuff (primarily because I got my fill yesterday and probably won't start thinking about puss till lunchtime today. LOL)
This lovely lady recently moved from Angeles City back to her province, Leyte. She could use a friend. She is very beautiful, sexy and intelligent. If you want her email message me.I am coming to AC soon for my first trip, I presently live in PP Cambodia this girl looks quite nice what else do you know about her?
Fast Buck Artist
07-27-11, 07:54
I know a woman that graduated from nursing school in May of 2011. She didn't have the money to take the review course so she didn't sit for the boards. All of that is documented. She says several of her friends are in the same situation but got jobs at a public hospital in Cebu without a license. She is asking me for 8,000 php to get her paperwork in order to be legally employed. Apparently this reqires NBI certification, physical exam, postal I'd, etc. Has anybody ever heard of somebody not taking the nursing exam and working in a public hospital? I have no problem sending 8, 000 but this sounds fishy.There is a huge oversupply of nurses here and hospitals have absolutely no reason to employ illegit nurses when the fully legit ones work for a bowl of rice.
Costs of getting a nursing license:
License exam. Initial registration fee 600p annual registration fee 450p
Oath taking. 350p.
Membership of Philippine nurses association. 400p.
So about 2000 pesos all added up
Maybe I had a good sleep, or maybe it was yesterdays very sweet sex, anyways Freebie in a good mood. '
And have to add that I love the way this board goes off at all sorts of funny and interesting tangents.
Here we are talking about nurses pass rates.
Previously we have discuissions on best places to exchange money, the amount you can get out of an ATM, how to rid a toilet of "smell", where to get the best donuts, how much to tip or not to tip, and a long long time back, the best second cars to own in Phils.
The various boards here of the Philippines are way more interesting than many other countries boards I. E KL where the best that can be managed is " I met a hot girl last night in sex shop, paid her, rated her an 8. Followed by a barrage of " give me her number mate" etc. Ad infinitum.
I love to read all this non sex stuff (primarily because I got my fill yesterday and probably won't start thinking about puss till lunchtime today. LOL) I think it because we get pussy so easy that we post other stuff. Or maybe we just want free wifi, donuts and know why she needs 2000 this time around. LOL
Yikes. Had a girl at Planet X (formerly Hot Rod) recognize me from DIA. SHe was none too pleasing to the eye. Just goes to show how dubious that one picture at DIA can be.
I love to read all this non sex stuff (primarily because I got my fill yesterday and probably won't start thinking about puss till lunchtime today. LOL)My heart fucking bleeds for you. :(
You know your dick does not have a use by date. ;)
Love your reports but you sure do make it hard on us guys near your age. After reading one of your Manila reports, I some how feel inadequate.
Slim
Marconista
07-27-11, 13:13
.without a doubt she will have a nurses caring skills.Which of course is very relevant for many of us, di ba?
FreebieFan
07-28-11, 02:16
My heart fucking bleeds for you. .
You know your dick does not have a use by date. .
Love your reports but you sure do make it hard on us guys near your age. After reading one of your Manila reports, I some how feel inadequate.
SlimHahahaha. Its the heart having a " use before" date that I'm worried about. Got to get my fill before it decides to pack up on me. Next Manila trip all booked and should be another "cracker" of a four day stay, with Ms 19, Ms 23 and Ms 18 all prebooked with their allocated time slots. Now filling in the spare moments with other possible bookings.
Stay Slim!
Member #4643
07-30-11, 21:54
Hahahaha. Its the heart having a " use before" date that I'm worried about. Got to get my fill before it decides to pack up on me. Next Manila trip all booked and should be another "cracker" of a four day stay, with Ms 19, Ms 23 and Ms 18 all prebooked with their allocated time slots. Now filling in the spare moments with other possible bookings.
Stay Slim!FreebieFan: I am certain that I am not alone in wondering how you manage to schedule Ms 19, Ms23 and Ms 18 into an allocated time slot.
My experience in Manila- very limited indeed, suggested to me that the women are not good at arriving on time or leaving when you are finished with them. In my travels, mostly in Latin America, I tend to book the internet contacts (Tagged, Hi5, Badoo) far apart from one another, and to fill in the dull moments with P4P.
What is the secret of your clock management!
Thanks
WestCoast1
07-30-11, 22:59
FreebieFan: I am certain that I am not alone in wondering how you manage to schedule Ms 19, Ms23 and Ms 18 into an allocated time slot.
My experience in Manila- very limited indeed, suggested to me that the women are not good at arriving on time or leaving when you are finished with them. In my travels, mostly in Latin America, I tend to book the internet contacts (Tagged, Hi5, Badoo) far apart from one another, and to fill in the dull moments with P4P.
What is the secret of your clock management!
ThanksYes, I find that confirming a pinay to be at a certain place at 1pm for a meet usually means she will be there sometime between 2:30 and 6pm. I find it hard to schedule girls at 1pm and 6pm for this reason.
Gal who never replied to my text, blaming SUN, eventually admitted she didn't have a load. I thought it was a phone complication. Was it? THis is what I sent her.
You use your money for Internet, but then don't have load to contact the guy if he actually arrives in the Philippines. You should think about that.
I would have loved to meet you and would have been happy to help you out with a load. But I'm in xxx now. Keep in touch if you think you will have a load next time.
FreebieFan: I am certain that I am not alone in wondering how you manage to schedule Ms 19, Ms23 and Ms 18 into an allocated time slot. My experience in Manila- very limited indeed, suggested to me that the women are not good at arriving on time or leaving when you are finished with them.Hmm. Was there six years, in all my experience I rarely could ever get hem lined up like sucks in a row. The majority of girls are running late, confuse simple txt message instructions & tend to want to move with you rather than scram when you needed them to. I find these stories of serial copulations in short time spans on rigid schedules a bit incredible. In my experience the only way to achieve this was to be not fussy at all about looks and make it clear money would change hands if you know what I mean ahem.
AV
WestCoast1
07-31-11, 22:04
Hmm. Was there six years, in all my experience I rarely could ever get hem lined up like sucks in a row. The majority of girls are running late, confuse simple txt message instructions & tend to want to move with you rather than scram when you needed them to. I find these stories of serial copulations in short time spans on rigid schedules a bit incredible. In my experience the only way to achieve this was to be not fussy at all about looks and make it clear money would change hands if you know what I mean ahem.
AVConcur. From a trip in Cebu city last year. I had chatted with a girl from DIA (#1) who was interested in a photo-only shoot in my room for some pesos. Also she said she could bring a friend (#2) , and she gave me the friend's YM. In chatting with the friend, the friend gave me the her phone number, and the number of her cousin (#3) who was interested in photos only. Thru YM and phone txts before I arrived, I chatted each of these three girls, and also of a 4th DIA contact. After a few fun-filled days of naughty activity in Cebu, I decided to take a day off from any prurient activity the next day. In chat / txt I lined up the 4 girls in 3 sessions for photos only: the first two girls at noon, girl #3 at 3pm, and girl #4 at 6pm. All meeting in Robinson's fuente. I made clear in chat & txt they were not to be late. IF YOU ARE ONE MINUTE LATE EVEN, DON'T COME. I WON'T MEET IF YOU ARE LATE. Which they all replied in the affirmative. Talk about a comedy of errors.
At 12:15 no word from girls #1 & 2, so I txt and did not hear back, and I left for my nearby hotel. On my way back I txt girl #3, the cousin of #2, to come early if she wanted."OK I meet you in Robinsons 10 mins. I live close." Sure enough. 15 minutes later, there she was, just before 1pm. Off we went to the hotel. At 2pm, #1 txts "We are here now." I don't respond as I am in the middle of shooting #3, who asks for more pesos in the middle of it. Yes, if you can do more than pics, which she agreed to, and we get down to biz. My phone keeps buzzing but I'm not looking at it, #1&2 are in Robinson's still and firing txts at me. #3's phone is also ringing away, but she's not looking at it either (#2 is her cousin, txting away to #3). After we are thru, #3 looks at her phone and me at mine."My cousin mad to you. She wait in mall for you. She there 2pm. Now she leave for her trabajo." Not to be outdone, #3 says she has another friend who can do the same, would I like her to stop by? I say yes, if the girl is attractive and can be there by 4pm (about one hour) , and NO LATER. IF SHE'S LATE EVEN ONE MINUTE, I WON'T MEET WITH HER. Thru txts, the friend, #5, agrees to be in the lobby by 4pm. #3 waits with me and #5 does not show on time, its now 4:30pm."Very traffic." I tell #3 to tell #5 to stand down, that I have a girl coming at 6pm (#4) , there will not be enough time. #3 begs me to wait, but I take her to the street and let her go. #4 is late, I'm in Robinsons waiting at 6pm. She txts at 6:15 and says she's with "very traffic". I have nothing else to do, so I wait. #1 starts txting asking if she can come directly to the hotel. NO THANKS. #4 shows at 6:30, late, and we walk to the hotel. She also wants to do more than pics for extra, so off to the races (exhausting me). The phone rings, its the front desk."Sir, you have a guest here." Sh*t, its #5, in the lobby, she came anyway. 3 hours late. I tell him to have her go home or wait in the lobby for me. I didn't completely finish with #4, but we wrapped things up in a bit. While she's showering, my txt from #1: "my friend went her work. I can bring my sister. She's 16". Ah, no thanks. In walking #4 out to the street, the doorman points to a girl in the lobby: "Your guest sir. She wait for you." #5. I was tired and told her to go home. She wanted taxi money. She was right there and easy for the taking, but I wasn't feeling it at that point. I see little reason to help the girl who is late. I asked where she lived and she said near to here."No. Go home. Never be late again. You seem nice but I tell your friend no late girl. Goodnight. Should be easy walk for you." She asked for taxi money again. I asked why she was late at 4pm and arrived at 7pm."My work. I don't off work till 6." So, it was not possible for you to be here 4pm?"No sir." A blatant lie by #3. I went to shower and to Mango for a drink before retiring for the night.
So, out of 5 girls, I ended up with 2 (could have been more) for the day in my camera. What started out as an easy kill for 4 girls to session (almost 5 later) turned into 2, because of the time standard difference. Time is not always money, but it certainly trades for frustration. I don't always use the BE ON TIME OR I WON'T MEET WITH YOU, but when I do, I rarely meet with late girls when this kind of language is acknowledged. The frustration is just as often for the girl who is late. She's accustomed to be either late by an hour or two, or having other people do the same to her. They can be furious for me not waiting for them in the mall when she's 2 hours late: "How dare you!", etc.
This is very clear: pilipino time standards are different than mine. Or, there is a communication barrier: the words DON'T BE ONE MINUTE LATE EVEN. I WILL NOT MEET WITH YOU aren't part of the english spoken in filipines (works just a bit better in manila than visayas). I want to know your secrets FF for the scheduling.
.So, out of 5 girls, I ended up with 2 (could have been more) for the day in my camera. What started out as an easy kill for 4 girls to session (almost 5 later) turned into 2, because of the time standard difference. Time is not always money, but it certainly trades for frustration. I don't always use the BE ON TIME OR I WON'T MEET WITH YOU, but when I do, I rarely meet with late girls when this kind of language is acknowledged. The frustration is just as often for the girl who is late. She's accustomed to be either late by an hour or two, or having other people do the same to her. They can be furious for me not waiting for them in the mall when she's 2 hours late: "How dare you!", etc.Hilarious description of daily life in the PI Westy.
Thats how it is to a TEE.
In all this mad maelstrom of scheduling multiple girls sometimes the planets line up and you have one of those days you can never forget when you need every milligram of that Viagra / Cialis, but rarely. As you correctly point out they actually get pissy when you cut them loose for not sticking to agreed times. Giving them very explicit instructions like "DON'T BE ONE MINUTE LATE EVEN. I WILL NOT MEET WITH YOU" is actualy interpreted as 'arrogant' by the girls and leads to a less than GFE which I prize over shotgun sex with multiple strangers. To each his own.
Actually the best way I found to achieve every mans fantasy of multiple girls in one day was to go to AC, bar fine a string of really nice girls that you had a rapport with, give them gifts so that they remembered you, and then texting them the next day. Example :
To Girl #1 : I'm leaving town today can you come over at 8am, I want to say goodbye and give you something.
after the deed..
Girl #1 : What time you leaving?
Me : leaving in 1 hour honey, I need to get going, see ya!
To Girl #2 : I'm leaving town today can you come over at 8am +90 minutes, I want to say goodbye and give you something.
after the deed..
Girl #2 : What time you leaving?
Me : leaving in 1 hour honey, I need to get going, see ya!
To Girl #3 : I'm leaving town today can you come over at 8am +180 minutes, I want to say goodbye and give you something.
after the deed..
Girl #3 : What time you leaving?
Me : leaving in 1 hour honey, I need to get going, see ya!
To Girl #4 : I'm leaving town today can you come over at 8am +270 minutes, I want to say goodbye and give you something.
after the deed..
Girl #4 : What time you leaving?
Me : leaving in 1 hour honey, I need to get going, see ya!
Etc, etc
Yeah I lied my head off but In this way I got to fuck a whole string of lovely girls from breakfast time to afternoon tea time then get on a plane and fall into the seat like a marathon runner hehehe.
AC bar girls are used to guys leaving in a hurry for planes & they accept it if you say no honey, you cant come to the airport this time, i have business to attend to before i go, money changing etc.
Ah memories.
AV
WestCoast1
08-01-11, 01:34
Hilarious description of daily life in the PI Westy.
Thats how it is to a TEE.
In all this mad maelstrom of scheduling multiple girls sometimes the planets line up and you have one of those days you can never forget when you need every milligram of that Viagra / Cialis, but rarely. As you correctly point out they actually get pissy when you cut them loose for not sticking to agreed times. Giving them very explicit instructions like "DON'T BE ONE MINUTE LATE EVEN. I WILL NOT MEET WITH YOU" is actualy interpreted as 'arrogant' by the girls and leads to a less than GFE which I prize over shotgun sex with multiple strangers. To each his own.In this case, I wasn't trying for shotgun sex, just shotgun photoshoots. I even have old gf's in manila / cebu I like to have lunch or dinner with (no sex). But good god getting them there at the appointed time requires: HONEY IF YOU ARE ONE MINUTE LATE EVEN, I WILL LEAVE AND FIND ANOTHER DATE AND NOT LOOK BACK. And BTW, once I do that to a girl, leave her stranded, she's never late again (should she decide to meet me again)."Why you foriner so pungshwal always? Just relax ok?" Hahaha. In pinay code, what that really means, is,"Just sit there for two hours chilling drinking san migs while I shower and take slowest jeepney in manila. OK? That way you will appear to be dateless and desperate, and when I get there, everyone will know you're on my leash." Shortly I will post another account of a recent chatmate meeting disaster.
Actually the best way I found to achieve every mans fantasy of multiple girls in one day was to go to AC, bar fine a string of really nice girls that you had a rapport with, give them gifts so that they remembered you, and then texting them the next day. Example :
To Girl #4 : I'm leaving town today can you come over at 8am +270 minutes, I want to say goodbye and give you something.
After the deed.
Girl #4 : What time you leaving?
Me : leaving in 1 hour honey, I need to get going, see ya!
Etc, etc.
Yeah I lied my head off but In this way I got to fuck a whole string of lovely girls from breakfast time to afternoon tea time then get on a plane and fall into the seat like a marathon runner hehehe.
AC bar girls are used to guys leaving in a hurry for planes & they accept it if you say no honey, you can't come to the airport this time, I have business to attend to before I go, money changing etc.
Ah memories.
AVHaaaaa! Excellent. Amavida for president.
FreebieFan
08-01-11, 01:50
Hmm. Was there six years, in all my experience I rarely could ever get hem lined up like sucks in a row. The majority of girls are running late, confuse simple txt message instructions & tend to want to move with you rather than scram when you needed them to. I find these stories of serial copulations in short time spans on rigid schedules a bit incredible. In my experience the only way to achieve this was to be not fussy at all about looks and make it clear money would change hands if you know what I mean ahem.
AVWhen I lived there I took them at my leisure and rarely more than one a day. However as I don't live there anymore I have to do more to get more so to speak. The most recent trip did see a 4 in a row sequence that admittedly did start at 10am and only finsihed at midnight. The bigger amount of time was spent in getting from place to place and finding parking. The girls were always where they said they would be and ontime. Maybe its all about the selection, rather than basing it on looks alone.
Anyways I don't think I'm up for 4 in a day any more. Way too tiring for this mid 50s fellow. Two is way nicer number. Well maybe three. LOL
WestCoast1
08-01-11, 02:33
One of my (many) mistakes. I met a DIA girl. 19, pretty. In first chat, from my naughty boy profile, she agreed to meet / bang / pics. But she agreed too quickly. When I told her what I was looking for, she said (first chat) : "Listen yes I can meet you for that. But lets not talk the details here. When we meet I will do all those things you said you like in your hotel. OK?" Over the next few weeks we had about a dozen normal conversations (that was the mistake). She's not been to college but she's bright, sharp. Quick to smile on cam. She was dying to meet when I came. She ended every conversation with her phone number."You call or txt me when you land. I want to meet right away." So I land in Cebu, get to my hotel, and get the wifi tethered to my laptop and POOF she comes online in YM. I tell her I'm there, and she wants to meet. I suggest Robinson's and she says yes. I ask if she can be there in one hour: yes. Just as I'm about to sign off with her, I mention that I brought my toys with me:
Her: what toys?
Me: the adult toys. The one's I mentioned before.
Her: what adult toys?
Me: you know, the nawty kind.
Her: show me one now on cam?
Me: sure. Here's one.
Her: oh my god. No. No. What do you think I am?
Me: a lover. Like you agreed to before.
Her: never did I say I'm doing that kind of thing. You want sex?
Me: yes. Its why we are meeting. Remember?
Her: no I don't remember. What you talking about?
Me: now its my turn. OMG. You agreed in our first chat to come on my hotel after we meet in mall.
Her: no. I never said that.
Me: well, I have the chat transcript here on my computer. You want me to paste it for you now so you can see it?
Her: no. Even if I say it I don't mean it. Just I want to meet you.
Me: sorry. I never meet girls for dating. You respond to my playboy profile which says I'm only here for sex. Then you say you want to meet for it.
Her: sorry I'm not like that. GOODBYE!
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That was that. But an hour later she comes back online, asking if she can send her sister, recently dumped by her husband. She says the sister is wild, wants to meet, and will do anything. Sure. Thats about 1pm."She take bath and meet you 2pm Jolibee by your hotel." I wait till 2:30 to walk one block to Jolibee. 2:40 the txting starts:
Chatmate: my sis arrive?
Me: no. I'm sitting jollie.
Sis: I'm here now. To shy. You come outside.
I go outside, and nobody is on the street."I'm wearing black white stripe shirt." Nobody around like that. I go back to the hotel after a bit. Sis: "she there? She's wearing white shirt with blue buterflys." I go walking up / down the street. I show the txts to the security guy at the door. He walks out and looks about. Nothing. Walk back to Jolibee, nothing. Few more txts, she says she's at the church across the streets on the steps, but nobody is standing on the steps. Security guard says there is similar neighborhood 3 blocks away with jollie and church and hotels, so he sends a hotel girl over that way looking for either shirt. Nothing. The hotel girl uses my phone to txt the sis and my chatmate. Both the security guy and the hotel girl are baffled by the replies."No such girl around here sir. We think she's maybe in wrong part of the city. We tell her the street and cross street. Tell her take taxi. She say she can see us here on the street looking around." Three adults looking for one pinay (two different clothing descriptions) , to no avail. 4pm and I give up.
Back in my room, the sis txts have stopped, but the chatmate txts are now sounding worried: "where my sis? She not txting back!" I invite the chatmate to come to the hotel and talk to the security guard. She declines. 5pm the sis txts: "Are you coming outside to meet me?" By this time I'm in Ayala mall. I reply no, go home, it didn't work. The chatmate is still plastering my phone with txts: "Worried my sis!" To which I reply that I got bored and went to the mall. 6pm, I'm leaving the mall in a taxi, the chatmate: "OK my sis near to your hotel now. She say she walk by security guard. You go now meet her." Ya got to be kidding toots. 6:30 I roll up in the taxi, looking for the girl still. Nobody matching the description. Security says they have been looking for her, but nothing. I'm convinced she never existed, till I get to my room and I get this from sis: "saw you walk in. Blue shirt shorts blond guy. Come out. I'm right here looking the security guy." OMG. I txt the chatmate her sis might be outside. The chatmate txts back: "So very sorry for this. Just found out she was not there before. She just leave our cousin house 1 hour ago." So I go outside and ask security to walk up the street with me. He does. As we walk out the door,"Pssst." A really skinny, pretty pinay is there. Blue shirt (not white) with orange butterfly on the back, no stripes. Does not match what either girl told us before."Sorry I just get here. Long jeepney one hour almost." I asked if she had been in the neighborhood all afternoon txting me from jolibee and the church."No. I was at my cousin." The security guy looked like he was going to slap her. I told her fairly gently to go home for wasting my time. Shortly after I sent her away and get a shower, the chatmate comes online, chewing on me: "You keep her tonight! She wild! She do anything! You give her a money! Any! WHY YOU SEND HER AWAY?" On and on like that.
Got myself a Vikings girl later. The next day the chatmate left a bunch of offlines: "Very sorry she lie. Can she come back?" An entire afternoon wasted. Yagottabekiddingtoots.
Anyways I don't think I'm up for 4 in a day any more. Way too tiring for this mid 50s fellow. Two is way nicer number. Well maybe three. LOLLOL. Yeah, know what you mean FF. Actually once I had fulfilled the fantasy the drive to do these shenanigans again and again certainly eased off. But sometimes greed raises it's naughty little head he he he. I worry about guys that are compulsive about it.
AV
I feel your pain. Wasted one afternoon in Olongapo city, when I should have been on the beach. Gal never showed up even though she was supposedly only twenty minutes away. After killing time for two yours, taking some pictures, observing a parade, I get a text saying,"just finished shower, on my way".
Or the one who was wearing a black dress. She meant black clothing.
SNIP.
The next day the chatmate left a bunch of offlines: "Very sorry she lie. Can she come back?" An entire afternoon wasted. Yagottabekiddingtoots.
Fast Buck Artist
08-01-11, 04:08
Over the next few weeks we had about a dozen normal conversations (that was the mistake).2 WEEKS? Man, you are lucky she even remembers who you are after 2 weeks. A typical DIA 19 year old has the attention span of about 2 MINUTES. Example:
Sillygirl: [13:10] Hullow Whats your name?
Me: [13:15] I am Fast Buck Artist, how are you doing today dear?
Sillygirl [13:20] I am just hear in house, it rains.
Me: [13:25] Is the typhoon passing through your province?
2 hrs later
Sillygirl: [15:30] Hullow may I know your name?
Me: aaaaargh, please somebody insert a brain into this doll and turn it on!!
The next day the chatmate left a bunch of offlines: "Very sorry she lie. Can she come back?" An entire afternoon wasted. Yagottabekiddingtoots.Typical DIA bullshit timewasters. Most of the under 23 girls there are like that, curious students with way too much time on their hands and attitude of a 13 year old. I wouldn't be surprised if the "sister" was orchestrating the whole thing and your original date had no intention at all showing up. Happened to me a year ago in (coincidence?) Cebu where I went to the mall to meet this really hot young online girl of 18years, and when I got there she came with older 22yo sister, who was bigger, uglier, and a lot chattier. Within 5 minutes I figured out the cute little sis had no intention whatsoever of meeting me, and the older uglier sibling was just using her as a bait to draw me out to a date. Aaargh
FreebieFan
08-01-11, 05:00
time, its now 4:30pm."Very traffic.".I love this phrase. Not a verb in sight, but still we understand its meaning, and so does every Filipino.
FurryFriend
08-01-11, 07:29
where I went to the mall to meet this really hot young online girl of 18years, and when I got there she came with older 22yo sister, who was bigger, uglier, and a lot chattier. Within 5 minutes I figured out the cute little sis had no intention whatsoever of meeting me, and the older uglier sibling was just using her as a bait to draw me out to a date. AaarghDid you continue with the date?
If it was me, I'd politely tell her that the date is over and I'd refuse to reimburse any bus fare.
This is why I ignore the hot 18 year olds. In fact, if her pic is too hot, I'd pass.
Fast Buck Artist
08-01-11, 08:07
Did you continue with the date?
If it was me, I'd politely tell her that the date is over and I'd refuse to reimburse any bus fare.
This is why I ignore the hot 18 year olds. In fact, if her pic is too hot, I'd pass.I talked to them for 15 minutes and left. This is not the first time I meet a "team" of a pretty emptyheaded doll with a chatty piglet friend who is using the doll as a bait.
These days I go for 25+yo girls with a job. Some mental maturity is a better asset than a pretty face. As they say. Beauty Fades Dumb is Forever.
For the same reason I prefer girls who live with roommates or alone, not at family home with parents.
Mr Enternational
08-01-11, 10:49
One of mine in Manila took some unsolicited porno shots and sent them to me the other day.
Me: who make for you?
Her: I did. Had hard time taking those. Used my fone.
Me: LOL. Cool.
Her: hmnnn.
Her: so your not coming for some of that|?
Me: LOL. Some of what?
Her: that ass.
Her:?
Her: LOL.
Me: LOL.
Me: hell yeah
The famous American philosopher Ron White once said "You can't fix stupid."
Slim
Why fix it if you can fuck it.
But serious guys unless you live here stick to the bars. Dia is ok if you here for weeks and like waiting for pina.
Texting: the good, the bad and the ugly. I can do without it 98% of the time. I have a gf in Dumaguete who emails me constantly to say nothing. Then she wants me to Yahoo I'm. I say I don't know how. Too much wasted time and BS. She is nice girl, nice body but doesn't work or go to school. Too much time on her hands. I told her to get a job then go to school. The Pinays are excellent lovers but kinda lazy. Got to find one (a non pro) that likes to work so she's not idle all day thinking of ways to spend all my money (with her family).
The famous American philosopher Ron White once said "You can't fix stupid."
SlimYeah. You can't fix stupid.
Sure wish someone would invent something to keep the sun out of my eyes.
155320
D-Cups; here is a suggestion. Instead of quoting in full a lengthy report such as Westcoast1 just follow the examples set by X Man and Fast Buck Artist below and SNIP to the most relevant part. It doesn't take a moment to do that and it saves filling a Forum board with regurgitated material. Thanks.
KongKing
Well, we can criticize the gals for being a bit slow, but some of the guys are pretty dimwitted too. On Tagged I looked at a guys's profile. 55, in good shape. His msg profile says something like,"if you don't answer my questions I'll delete your ass". Later he writes,"Why do girls add me and then never reply to me?" I look at his friend list and he has about 200 women, most aged 18-24. Quite a few in bikinis. Duh, you think the new friends might notice that?
Anyway, I'm enjoying contacting the gals on his list. He's done a good job of filtering out some real sweeties. And who knows, they might answer my questions.
X
The famous American philosopher Ron White once said "You can't fix stupid."
SlimI never thought of him as a philosopher, but in a sense I guess your correct! Truer words were never spoken however!
"that's funny right there, I don't care who you are!"
WestCoast1
08-02-11, 00:37
Why fix it if you can fuck it.
But serious guys unless you live here stick to the bars. Dia is ok if you here for weeks and like waiting for pina.Often I do bars. But I was wanting to get away from pros this time. I spent quite a bit of time doing the wait. C'est la vie.
Nearly every girl I p4p has a dia profile. I let them use my computers after we sex I see they use fb dia and tagged some stay all day so I get to see what they do. Often if they are good I ask for thier fb. I have had girls texing dia guys saying they are at the mall when they are at my house in no rush to move on some girls will stop replying text while they are in my house (I tell them they can). Dia is just a escort site to most pina. It is a biz to them. The guys who boast they get free casual sex are making it so these girls stop working as they find other ways to make money they ask ne to find a bf for them as they want full time. There are girls working dia who will marry as it better for them to have a full time rather than casual.
Also Pino guys help the wife / gf setup dia I know guys who do. The girls tell you what you want as they just need cash.
I like dia but it takes alot of tine to get pussy. I only use it to find 30 kg. I use fb more as I get better results for my time.
FreebieFan
08-02-11, 01:56
Well, we can criticize the gals for being a bit slow, but some of the guys are pretty dimwitted too. On Tagged I looked at a guys's profile. 55, in good shape. His msg profile says something like,"if you don't answer my questions I'll delete your ass". Later he writes,"Why do girls add me and then never reply to me?" I look at his friend list and he has about 200 women, most aged 18-24. Quite a few in bikinis. Duh, you think the new friends might notice that?
Anyway, I'm enjoying contacting the gals on his list. He's done a good job of filtering out some real sweeties. And who knows, they might answer my questions.
XI think the term is called " friend shopping". At least thats how one lady described it to me when I asked how she had got my name and number."Oh I saw your pic and profile on my friends tagged so went friend shopping " she said.
FreebieFan
08-03-11, 11:14
Saw a holier than thou type profile on DIA recently "Seriousone184" and asked her about an AISD comment on her profile. She replied "And as far as I know AIDS here is from the foreigners. That spread into the filipina **** women"
So there you have it. Men are to blame and only foreign men. Filipino men are clean and clear of this disease entirely and its you bad nasty horny foreigners who have caused it. LOL
Unless I have you confused with someone else, aren't you the one with the "we fk first date" DIA profile? How does that get you away from the pros?
I use DIA because I love the GFE and I have found some very loving women, with a very generic profile. Some are now married in the west, one is a nurse in Europe, one has a FB profile showing she's getting a lot of attention from a guy much younger than I am. At least one was a scamming little slt, but even she played GFE good enough to get a western husband.
Basically, I agree that you might be disappointed if you only have a few days, but then the bars will still be there if your DIA date doesn't give you the good lovin' you were hoping for. Yea, doing the "wait". It is frustrating, but sometimes so rewarding. X.
Often I do bars. But I was wanting to get away from pros this time. I spent quite a bit of time doing the wait. C'est la vie.
Soapy Smith
08-04-11, 22:17
Men are to blame and only foreign men. Filipino men are clean and clear of this disease entirely and its you bad nasty horny foreigners who have caused it. LOLI've posted before about a great book entitled *The Wisdom of Wh---s: Bureaucrats, Brothels and the Business of AIDS* It's written by an earthy British health demographer named Elizabeth Pisani. She got her hands dirty meeting and talking to straight, gay, and bisexual sex workers, mostly in Indonesia and China, but in other parts of Southeast Asia and Africa in addition. One of the dynamics she uncovers is that many female sex workers are in on-again, off-again relationships with men who are themselves bisexual sex workers. She believes that HIV is often passed to the women by these men, in part because their sex is almost always uncovered. This is a dynamic she discovered in Indonesia, but should we expect that it's not similar in the Phils?
Chocha Monger
08-04-11, 22:53
Saw a holier than thou type profile on DIA recently "Seriousone184" and asked her about an AISD comment on her profile. She replied "And as far as I know AIDS here is from the foreigners. That spread into the filipina * women"
So there you have it. Men are to blame and only foreign men. Filipino men are clean and clear of this disease entirely and its you bad nasty horny foreigners who have caused it. LOLGerman national dies of 'HIV-Aids' in Oro: Pajo
THE City Council expressed alarm Thursday over the death of a German national reportedly from the human immunodeficiency virus-acquired immune deficiency syndrome (HIV-Aids).
The German's body has not been claimed at Bollozos Funeral Parlor in Barangay Bulua, Cagayan de Oro City, for more than a month now.
Councilor Dante Pajo, chairperson of the City Council committee on health and author of the Cagayan de Oro Aids Council, said the German national arrived in Cagayan de Oro in November 2009 and was hospitalized at the Polymedic General Hospital a few days after he arrived and later died.
He said the foreigner was suspected to have HIV / AIDS.
'The German national made a grand entrance in the city. He used to have a wife in Thailand and a lot of lovers in Malaysia. When he arrived here, reports said he was fond of playing around with teenage girls, aged 13 years old and up. He also loved to go to the 'red light district', ' Pajo said.
Pajo said though they have yet to confirm the real cause of the foreigner's death, the report is still 'very alarming. '
'It is better to take precautionary measures for our peace of mind. This virus is passed from one person to another through blood-to-blood and sexual contact. In addition, infected pregnant women can pass Aids to their baby during pregnancy or delivery, as well as through breastfeeding. People with HIV have what is called HIV infection. Most of these people will develop AIDS as a result of their HIV infection, ' Pajo said.
He said if it is confirmed that the German national died of HIV-Aids, the City Health Office along with the Aids Council will closely monitor those who were in contact with the foreigner to prevent the spread of the disease.
With this, Pajo called on those who had previous sexual contacts with the German national to visit the City Health Office for thorough check-up and counseling. (Nicole J. Managbang)
http://www.sunstar.com.ph/cagayan-de-oro/german-national-dies-hiv-aids-oro-pajo
Saw a holier than thou type profile on DIA recently "Seriousone184" and asked her about an AISD comment on her profile. She replied "And as far as I know AIDS here is from the foreigners. That spread into the filipina * women"
So there you have it. Men are to blame and only foreign men. Filipino men are clean and clear of this disease entirely and its you bad nasty horny foreigners who have caused it. LOLAnd Filipino men are sterile and do not run at the first sign of a pregnancy.
FreebieFan
08-05-11, 03:33
And Filipino men are sterile and do not run at the first sign of a pregnancy.You heard that too? LOL.
WestCoast1
08-05-11, 06:23
Unless I have you confused with someone else, aren't you the one with the "we fk first date" DIA profile? How does that get you away from the pros?I have more than one profile, but yes the pro's often hit that one. They are quick to just give me their number and tell me what time of day is best for them and txt when I'm in town. They are not into chat. Also quite a variety of girls hit that profile, including many girls that never read it in the first place. For those that did, there is still quite a variety of girls, from pro's to regular girls looking to hook up for whatever reason.
Fast Buck Artist
08-05-11, 08:03
Saw a holier than thou type profile on DIA recently "Seriousone184" and asked her about an AISD comment on her profile. She replied "And as far as I know AIDS here is from the foreigners. That spread into the filipina * women"
So there you have it. Men are to blame and only foreign men.Technically yes, a foreigner brought the disease into the country. AIDS originated in Africa yes? Someone brought it in. Not that it matters really.
FreebieFan
08-05-11, 09:34
Technically yes, a foreigner brought the disease into the country. AIDS originated in Africa yes? Someone brought it in. Not that it matters really.It truly doesn't matter, but just extremely sad that a reasonably well educated lady has been taught that foreigners are to blame therefor stay away from them as they carry diseases.
Same thinking occurs in Thailand and Indonesia.
Sadly the thinking can't see further than that. Never mind that Filipino seafarers, or OFW's in general might and can be carriers (5% denied visas in 2010 due to prevalence of HIV when doing pre work testing ). Never mind that Filipino men go on business trips to all the same places that we go to. Its the bigoted racist and generally uneducated thinking thats sad. Equally sad of course is the lack of resources that therefor goes on HIV prevention and education (condom Sir, whats that?). However that in itself maybe because the government also believes its a foreigners disease.
FreebieFan
08-05-11, 10:01
Message from Keep Distance
(DIA)"I DON'T NEED YOUR MONEY INSTEAD OF NEEDING YOUR LOVE AND RESPECT. I AM A SIMPLE "FILIPINA" THAT IS NOT AMBITIOUS, I DON'T NEED MONEY FOR ANYTHING ELSE. WHAT I AM AFTER FOR IS A KIND OF GUY THAT I CAN TRUST TO.
I'm YOUNG YET INDEPENDENT. I KNOW HOW TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF THE WORD LOVE. BUT WHAT'S SAD IS THAT I HATE A GUY THAT IS AFTER FOR ONE'S BODY, CONDITIONED TO MEET BUT THEN DURING THE DAY OF MEETING, THEY WILL INVITE THE GIRL TO STAY WITH THEM IN THE HOTEL. IF YOU ARE ONE OF THEM PLEASE QUIT SENDING MESSAGE"Now who has been inviting this sweet girl to a hotel room. LOL
Do you guys think this is a sophisticated double entendre?
"STUDYING COURSE OF HOTEL AND RESTAURANT SERVICES I LOVE DANCING, SPORTS AND COCKING"
Technically yes, a foreigner brought the disease into the country. AIDS originated in Africa yes? Someone brought it in. Not that it matters really.Not so fast, Fast Buck Artist! The main vector is (or perhaps was) returning OFW's. But of course the pinoys will embrace any chance to blame "ugly porreigners" for anything bad going on in their otherwise so very fine country. In this vein Angeles has been described by various pinoy leaders as a "HIV-spreading cesspool". Which probably has some truth to it. Apologies if I'm ruining anyones appetite for "fresh DIA cherrys", ha ha. Further discussion on the subject maybe better taken to the Safe Sex thread?
Thanks for the laugh Rocksoff.
I'm fond of the petite gals. But I thought I would share this one. Older, heavy, but has some qualities that someone here will surely find interesting.
Dia; jazzy32246.
And she's looking for "serious lover friends", which probably means."up to you". X
Just for intrest sake, I started looking for numbers for national infection rates for HIV / AIDS.
I then divided these by populations in millions to get "infections per million", which should give a better idea of cesspool status. The numbers are interesting:
Australia 497.
USA 2129.
Philippines 93.
There is a breakdown for the USA into black, white and chicano, but I will not post that since it might be taken as being racist.
So the Philippines is the safer safe place for those driven by fear of AIDS, good old USA is the most dangerous.
G
Chocha Monger
08-07-11, 06:50
Not so fast, Fast Buck Artist! The main vector is (or perhaps was) returning OFW's. But of course the pinoys will embrace any chance to blame "ugly porreigners" for anything bad going on in their otherwise so very fine country. In this vein Angeles has been described by various pinoy leaders as a "HIV-spreading cesspool". Which probably has some truth to it. Apologies if I'm ruining anyones appetite for "fresh DIA cherrys", ha ha. Further discussion on the subject maybe better taken to the Safe Sex thread?Actually, you're safer barebacking in Angeles City. The major concentrations of AIDS in the Philippines are found in Metro Manila, Metro Cebu and Metro Davao. These are the areas where mongers find their sweet "fresh DIA cherries."
Wait a minute! Are you telling me that the major concentrations of AID infections are in the three most populous cities in the Philippines? What a coincidence! The largest incidences of almost any infection happens to be in. Wait for this. The most populous areas. Chocha monger is really on to something here. We should study this further. As for the connection with DIA, who knows.
CM, were you referring to some statistical date indicating a wider per captia infection rate? X.
Actually, you're safer barebacking in Angeles City. The major concentrations of AIDS in the Philippines are found in Metro Manila, Metro Cebu and Metro Davao. These are the areas where mongers find their sweet "fresh DIA cherries."
Fast Buck Artist
08-07-11, 17:00
Just for intrest sake, I started looking for numbers for national infection rates for HIV / AIDS.
Australia 497.
USA 2129.
Philippines 93.
GIts no secret that highest HIV infection rates are among africans, most countries with high population of africans have an elevated HIV rate.
Yes, Philippines still has a very low HIV rate. Lets keep it that way fellas!
The major concentrations of AIDS in the Philippines are found in Metro Manila, Metro Cebu and Metro Davao.And most of these cases are homosexual men and drug users.
Among heterosexual women, I would suspect AC is first (don't have a study to prove it though!)
Hairy Wonder
08-07-11, 21:51
No matter where you go in the world, you run the risk of contracting HIV, especially if you bareback multiple partners. You never know how many other guys they have been with bareback, and how clean they might have been.
Now back to the theme of this forum thread:
In keeping with what X Man posted earlier, I found the following profile. On DIA mz. Shy writes "I know how to cock but a pilipino food, I have'nt work right now. But was trying to get one soon".
Maybe she can find several since she knows how to cock! :D
Enjoy and be safe!
HW
No, not me. It was Rocksoff who started the DIA humor thread. In Japan I asked a woman what they would do if she suddenly became ridiculously wealthy.
"I would buy a big house and have two cocks".
No matter where you go in the world, you run the risk of contracting HIV, especially if you bareback multiple partners. You never know how many other guys they have been with bareback, and how clean they might have been.
Now back to the theme of this forum thread:
In keeping with what X Man posted earlier, I found the following profile. On DIA mz. Shy writes "I know how to cock but a pilipino food, I have'nt work right now. But was trying to get one soon".
Maybe she can find several since she knows how to cock! .
Enjoy and be safe!
HW
MadisonGuy
08-08-11, 22:38
Maybe someone can help me out. I thought DIA was a real site but from some of the postings I've seen it's basically sounding like a independant hookers site. Are all the girls on there going to negotiate a rate or are some going to act like a girlfriend? I didn't have girls in MBC talk about money so I'm surprised to hear it is so common on DIA. I met a guy who is getting married to a girl of DIA on the plane so it can't be all of them, but is it a huge majority? Anyone?
Chocha Monger
08-09-11, 00:19
Maybe someone can help me out. I thought DIA was a real site but from some of the postings I've seen it's basically sounding like a independant hookers site. Are all the girls on there going to negotiate a rate or are some going to act like a girlfriend? I didn't have girls in MBC talk about money so I'm surprised to hear it is so common on DIA. I met a guy who is getting married to a girl of DIA on the plane so it can't be all of them, but is it a huge majority? Anyone?Just because the guy is marrying her doesn't mean she was not a DIA hooker. Guys marry hookers in the Philippines all the time, online and off. Most of the girls will pretend to be your girlfriend and almost all of them will try to get money out of you but they almost never admit that they're selling pussy.
I've never met any DIA girls that asked for money. Dated a half a dozen of them. Some repeatedly.
Maybe someone can help me out. I thought DIA was a real site but from some of the postings I've seen it's basically sounding like a independant hookers site. Are all the girls on there going to negotiate a rate or are some going to act like a girlfriend? I didn't have girls in MBC talk about money so I'm surprised to hear it is so common on DIA. I met a guy who is getting married to a girl of DIA on the plane so it can't be all of them, but is it a huge majority? Anyone?
Member #4351
08-09-11, 03:16
I've never met any DIA girls that asked for money. Dated a half a dozen of them. Some repeatedly.That's because you play the guitar and sing to them.
Hairy Wonder
08-09-11, 04:36
I don't believe that you can read through any dating site without finding some hookers, or flat out scam artists on them. There are some decent girls in there also, who are simply looking for someone to sweep them off their feet and marry them. Most want to marry a foreigner, because they believe that is the only way they can escape the life of poverty they are currently in. I think some have legitimate needs for money that they don't have available, and will occasionally ask the men that they chat with to help them. However, I make it a policy to never send money to anyone I have not met in person. And if I do send money, it is a very small amount. You just have to use your own judgement and try to avoid being scammed.
HW
I've never met any DIA girls that asked for money. Dated a half a dozen of them. Some repeatedly.Same here. Even dated a virgin, who waited until her wedding night for sex. I am still friends with her.
Thanks, David, yes, I do! Chicks all over the world fall for the romantic stuff (especially Filipinas are very musical)!
I might add while we're on the subject of online dating that my experience at Cherry Blossums dot com has been mixed at best. While I did meet two cuties there (one in Manila and the other in Ho Chi Minh City) I've met many more (briefly) that were gold-diggers and some I didn't meet because I learned their photos were part of a scam. Especially avoid the beautiful the Russian / East European girls there. So, be careful, my friends. And stay thirsty. (.) (.)
That's because you play the guitar and sing to them.
I've never met any DIA girls that asked for money. Dated a half a dozen of them. Some repeatedly.Really? I have met quite a few but none refused money. I never say I will pay money upfront. But I have always put some money in their purse on leaving.
Nobody has made a scene saying " what do you think I am a puta etc ".
Atleast 60% of the girls have asked me to send money for this and that on chatting first time. Some have run away when I said I never send money without meeting personally.
I've rarely had "ask for money on first chat" happen, and even then it was posed indirectly."I have a problem" Either you and I have a very different definition of "chatting' or your profile is attracting a certain type of gal.
As for money, I do offer taxi money. Enough to get her home and enough to get her back, and a bit more than that. That's what I say. I have had girls object.
Really? I have met quite a few but none refused money. I never say I will pay money upfront. But I have always put some money in their purse on leaving.
Nobody has made a scene saying " what do you think I am a puta etc ".
Atleast 60% of the girls have asked me to send money for this and that on chatting first time. Some have run away when I said I never send money without meeting personally.
MadisonGuy
08-09-11, 20:02
Damn I'm starting to think I need to see a shrink, I keep checking out damn lady boys on DIA. I see one I like open up information and sure enough another lady boy. I've never seen ladyboys that are that attractive, and I've asked to see every girls I'd that I've took back. I'm still a little worried. There's probably like 1 in 10 on DIA, and I've definetely slept with more than 10 girls in Philippines. That math makes me want to go cry in the shower. Ha ha. I think I need to get big tittied asians out of my head. I feel like I'm on a quest for the holy grail.
Member #4351
08-09-11, 20:49
I wouldn't worry about it Madisonguy, if you had been with a Filipina LB you would have known it. The evidence would have been in your face.
I've rarely had "ask for money on first chat" happen, and even then it was posed indirectly."I have a problem" Either you and I have a very different definition of "chatting' or your profile is attracting a certain type of gal.
As for money, I do offer taxi money. Enough to get her home and enough to get her back, and a bit more than that. That's what I say. I have had girls object.Most girls ask for money,
1. Can you help me to buy cam for my computer? I thought if she had her own computer, she could easily afford a cam.
2. I am not online much because I am a poor girl. Can you send some money so that I can chat with you every day?
3. My tutition fees are due tomorrow. I do not have enough. Can you help me?
4. Usual excuses like my mother / father / grandmother is in the hospital.
5. I do work in the fields. I do not like it. Can you support me?
6. I am looking forward to meeting you but I do not have nice clothes. Can you send me money so that I can look sexy for you?
It is true almost 60% have asked for money either in the begining or later.
Having said that I have met pretty young girls who have made excellent company, sex and travelling GFE from DIA. Overall it is less expensive and better service than P4P girls.
I will go so far as to say Sammon is a liar. I will admit that if a profile suggests that you are a sugar daddy, you will get sugar daddy replies. Sammon seems to have an agenda, but there we go. Maybe he can give us more details about how he deals with DIA and other gals in the Filippines.
Most girls ask for money,
1. Can you help me to buy cam for my computer? I thought if she had her own computer, she could easily afford a cam.
2. I am not online much because I am a poor girl. Can you send some money so that I can chat with you every day?
3. My tutition fees are due tomorrow. I do not have enough. Can you help me?
4. Usual excuses like my mother / father / grandmother is in the hospital.
5. I do work in the fields. I do not like it. Can you support me?
6. I am looking forward to meeting you but I do not have nice clothes. Can you send me money so that I can look sexy for you?
It is true almost 60% have asked for money either in the begining or later.
Having said that I have met pretty young girls who have made excellent company, sex and travelling GFE from DIA. Overall it is less expensive and better service than P4P girls.
I will go so far as to say Sammon is a liar. I will admit that if a profile suggests that you are a sugar daddy, you will get sugar daddy replies. Sammon seems to have an agenda, but there we go. Maybe he can give us more details about how he deals with DIA and other gals in the Filippines.Actually X, I have had every one of those requests (problems) other than the one about working in the fields. I've also encountered the need for a wheelchair for grandma, the need for money to get work papers, and flood issues where there was clearly no flooding. As recently as yesterday I blocked a girl who was continually ass nagging me for money for a cam. Perhaps a new thread should be started on filipinas and their "problems". Such a thread ran several years ago on one of the DR boards. Could've been here. I don't remember.
Yes, I've heard a few tall tales myself. And I apologize to Sammon. I think he was overgeneralizing, but that is my judgement call and I should not have responded rudely.
I once tested a gal after one of the destructive typhoons.
X How are you?
GAL I'm fine.
Various meaningless chit chat.
X I see there was a typhoon in Philippines, were you affected?
(I could almost see the light bulb turn on in her cute little head)
GAL Yes, our house was destroyed. I don't know what to do.
Actually X, I have had every one of those requests (problems) other than the one about working in the fields. I've also encountered the need for a wheelchair for grandma, the need for money to get work papers, and flood issues where there was clearly no flooding. As recently as yesterday I blocked a girl who was continually ass nagging me for money for a cam. Perhaps a new thread should be started on filipinas and their "problems". Such a thread ran several years ago on one of the DR boards. Could've been here. I don't remember.
I will go so far as to say Sammon is a liar. I will admit that if a profile suggests that you are a sugar daddy, you will get sugar daddy replies. Sammon seems to have an agenda, but there we go. Maybe he can give us more details about how he deals with DIA and other gals in the Filippines.The agenda of all mongers searching DIA is to meet non-pro girls for romance and sometimes more. Some girls like you on cam and some run away. The ones who show interest and want to meet, I chat more.
Yes, I have sent money to them for buying tickets to meet me in Manila. So far only one girl failed to show up. Once you meet it depends on the chemistry to like each other. Ofcourse I have never failed to.
Give them enough money. I do not want to just give them just a few pesos. I do not want free sex knowing these girls really need the money.
But the bulk of the money is given only after meeting.
Yes, really. Of course I always give them some money before they go (and or go to dinner) but they've never requested.
Really? I have met quite a few but none refused money. I never say I will pay money upfront. But I have always put some money in their purse on leaving.
Nobody has made a scene saying " what do you think I am a puta etc ".
Atleast 60% of the girls have asked me to send money for this and that on chatting first time. Some have run away when I said I never send money without meeting personally.
"never requested". Well, I diagree with that too! Surely you've met some Golddiggers D cups. My sore point with Sammon was when he said "most girls ask for money". That just isn't my experience. Most do not. Maybe S meant most WANT money, or was just overgeneralizing about some of the chat tricksters, or something else. Again, I apologize to S for being a twit.
I always compensate somehow as well. Taxi money, or "buy a gift for you child", or whatever. One gal, very honest, says,"I took a jeepney and I will go home by jeepney."
My reply,"But it took so long for you to come here (they are almost always late) , next time just take a taxi. Use this money." The next day I had an unexpected no show, sent a text, and taxi money gal was on time, and with me for the next 15 hours or so. Money well spent. She got more taxi money.
I'm not exactly sure what D cups means by "go to dinner", but if you know a gal has a good income, is mid class, or otherwise has money, you are best off just paying for expenses. Such as "going to dinner". They will let you do this, bless their hearts. I had one gal. 30s, professionally employed, leave me in her bed to go to work and instructed the maid to cook me breakfast, and the driver to take me to the airport. The maid was really cute, but shy. I wish that would happen more often. X.
Yes, really. Of course I always give them some money before they go (and or go to dinner) but they've never requested.
Hi there I'm newbie from Manila.
I'm only 21yro and kind and sweet lady.
Every person is unique. All people are different have bad and good.
Thank you & take care.
Have a wonderfulday. From Sweetgirl manila.
The agenda of all mongers searching DIA is to meet non-pro girls for romance and sometimes more. Some girls like you on cam and some run away. The ones who show interest and want to meet, I chat more.
Yes, I have sent money to them for buying tickets to meet me in Manila. So far only one girl failed to show up. Once you meet it depends on the chemistry to like each other. Ofcourse I have never failed to.
Give them enough money. I do not want to just give them just a few pesos. I do not want free sex knowing these girls really need the money.
But the bulk of the money is given only after meeting.
However not most girls ask for money. I never give money in advance, but only after we finish our date or meeting.
If too many girls are asking for money, then maybe you are showing yourself as a wealthy person more than a person who wants love. Are you giving girls that vibe? When I actually meet the girls then they often don't mention money until the end.
Most girls ask for money,
1. Can you help me to buy cam for my computer? I thought if she had her own computer, she could easily afford a cam.
2. I am not online much because I am a poor girl. Can you send some money so that I can chat with you every day?
3. My tutition fees are due tomorrow. I do not have enough. Can you help me?
4. Usual excuses like my mother / father / grandmother is in the hospital.
5. I do work in the fields. I do not like it. Can you support me?
6. I am looking forward to meeting you but I do not have nice clothes. Can you send me money so that I can look sexy for you?
It is true almost 60% have asked for money either in the begining or later.
Having said that I have met pretty young girls who have made excellent company, sex and travelling GFE from DIA. Overall it is less expensive and better service than P4P girls.
It took me 30 minutes to get pussy if I wanted on DIA.
Nearly every girl I p4p has a dia profile. I let them use my computers after we sex I see they use fb dia and tagged some stay all day so I get to see what they do. Often if they are good I ask for thier fb. I have had girls texing dia guys saying they are at the mall when they are at my house in no rush to move on some girls will stop replying text while they are in my house (I tell them they can). Dia is just a escort site to most pina. It is a biz to them. The guys who boast they get free casual sex are making it so these girls stop working as they find other ways to make money they ask ne to find a bf for them as they want full time. There are girls working dia who will marry as it better for them to have a full time rather than casual.
Also Pino guys help the wife / gf setup dia I know guys who do. The girls tell you what you want as they just need cash.
I like dia but it takes alot of tine to get pussy. I only use it to find 30 kg. I use fb more as I get better results for my time.
TurdyCurdyOne
08-13-11, 04:12
If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.
I do not have time to search this now.
Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.
Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have
Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.
1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.
Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.
Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,
Etc. Etc.
2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.
They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want
To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.
They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.
In that respect.
3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.
To know about or that put them in a bad light.
4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.
Your eyes.
5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.
They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.
From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond
Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder
If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from
Stupidvisors.
6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.
7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.
As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.
There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.
After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.
I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.
Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.
Turdycurdyone,
I can relate to all except maybe #5. Some of them are sincere but they may be the exception. I'm running another battery of "tests" in Nov and March so I'll publish my findings then.
Dating websites are repositories for liars regardless of their source. Even eharmony and match dot com. To me, it's all bullshit until you physically meet them and get to know them.
There are different categories of men looking.
1. Looking for serious relationship and intending to marry and take her to your country.
2. Looking for serious relationship, marriage and intending to settle in Phi.
3. Looking for long time monogamous relationship for people who go to Phi and stay extended length of time.
4. Looking for company to travel and enjoy for frequent visitors to Phi.
5. Looking to meet up with as many women as you can and try to get into their pants either by promise money, relationship.
6. Explicitely looking for fuck buddies only.
Chatting girls have met all these categories of men.
MadisonGuy
08-13-11, 15:17
I disagree with some, I mean every girl is different so it's hard to generalize but things like jealousy are pretty normal with all females. I have some girls tell me too much info in my opinion, I'll ask what clubs they go to and when I hear Icon and Havana I'm like damn that'd be like me telling a girl I go to strip clubs all the time. I notice that some of the girls in DIA seems to be on for the fast meet and great which is odd so those girls I delete, or girls that ask no questions, with no effort it's a waste of time to me. I still have yet to have a girl ask me for money though, not even in a round about way. I thought some were going to if they mention someone dying or something I would roll my eyes and be like ok here it comes, but nothing ever followed it. The only thing that irritates me a little is when they have perfect smiles in their photo and then they have braces on cam, huge turn off for me. I was pretty hesitant to waste time with something like DIA, but I'm glad I tried it, they all have cam so it's good to know what they actually look like and it's a more solid plan to have a girl ready to meet you then trying luck at the mall or something. The most solid ones I meet though are not on DIA, they came from other sites. I think with DIA they get so overwhelmed with emails that they can't spend that much time talking to any 1 guy, I could be wrong but that's just a guess.
If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.
I do not have time to search this now.
Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.
Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have
Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.
1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.
Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.
Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,
Etc. Etc.
2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.
They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want
To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.
They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.
In that respect.
3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.
To know about or that put them in a bad light.
4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.
Your eyes.
5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.
They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.
From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond
Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder
If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from
Stupidvisors.
6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.
7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.
As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.
There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.
After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.
I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.
Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.
Jon von Neumann
08-13-11, 19:16
Here is one from DIA:
Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving.
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.
Jon von Neumann
08-13-11, 19:18
Here is one from DIA:
"Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.
Jon von Neumann
08-13-11, 19:25
Here is one from DIA:
"Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.
Here is one from DIA:
"Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.And all three times I failed to see what was so funny.
This kind of post by TC1 comes up every now and then.
I read it through, and what springs to mind is that if the filipinas had a similar forum to this, they would say exactly the same about the men that they chat with.
So TC1:
Do you always speak the absolute truth when chatting?
Do you always answer exactly the question that they ask?
Do you have stories designed to cover up things you don't want them tTo know about or that put you in a bad light?
Do you never talk bullshit to a chat mate?
Do you never tell them that you love them when you don't?
Remember that their native language is tagalog or visayan or cebuana. So you should be chatting with them in their language. Then see how much they laugh at your stumbling, bumbling incompetence. Many of them will speak 3 languages.
I sometimes listen to the bullshit that guys spin to the girls in the bars, and I try to imagine how many lies are told to them every day. It must be thousands.
When I talk with some girls on the chat sites, they universally tell me of the vast proportion of guys who are liars, cheats, just want them to show their tits, totally insincere etc.
As Jesus Christ said "Let he who is without guilt cast the first stone"
If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.
I do not have time to search this now.
Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.
Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have
Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.
1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.
Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.
Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,
Etc. Etc.
2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.
They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want
To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.
They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.
In that respect.
3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.
To know about or that put them in a bad light.
4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.
Your eyes.
5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.
They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.
From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond
Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder
If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from
Stupidvisors.
6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.
7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.
As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.
There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.
After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.
I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.
Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.
Native speakers always say C'mon which is derived from come on. I'm thinking of that Elvis Presely song as I write this. I don't see why you think less of her just because of a minor spelling mistake. The rest of the passage seems very well written.
Here is one from DIA:
"Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.
GregLondon
08-14-11, 01:27
If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.
After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.
I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.
Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically). IN my experience you have a much better chance of meeting such a woman in China but you would probably have to accept a smaller age gap than is possible in the Phils.
GregLondon
08-14-11, 01:36
Here is one from DIA:
"Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.She has probably received an education costing a total of $2, 000-10, 000, whereas yours probably cost $100, 000-500, 000? So maybe we can cut this girl some slack?
FurryFriend
08-14-11, 10:10
I don't think it's right either to make fun of a girl's lack of grammar. They're in a [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140)-poor country and it's unfortunate most of them have low educational attainment.
Besides, why not learn Tagalog and try your hand at writing your DIA profile entirely in Tagalog and see how retarded you sound to them.
Chocha Monger
08-14-11, 11:14
If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically). IN my experience you have a much better chance of meeting such a woman in China but you would probably have to accept a smaller age gap than is possible in the Phils.Very true! It would be a challenge finding such a woman anywhere but it is fair to say that the Philippines is the last place he should be looking. I recently met a European gentleman who was married to a Filipina and residing there for many years. His conclusion was that while the Philippines makes for a wonderful playground it is a terrible place to look for a life mate. Anyone visiting or living in the Philippines would know that honesty is a rare character trait among the natives, and it becomes increasingly rare when dealing with foreigners. The women are very loyal, just not to you. Their loyalty lies with their family. You are an outsider and always will be, marriage and kids does not change your status. They are quite capable at sex and creating reasons for you to open your wallet but not much else. If they're dependable they're not looking for foreigners online. The whole point of getting a foreigner is having someone they can depend on with an unlimited and steady cash flow to fund shopping for status symbols, support her extensive family, and take care of all those little emergencies that seem to occur with maddening regularity. You cannot depend on them to be any place on time or to stick to any course of action agreed upon. It seems like their minds are constantly changing. When your money is involved the indecisiveness seems to increase. Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny. To a Westerner this can be very unsettling and will probably not make for a very happy relationship unless you can ignore it and continue with your own activities.
GregLondon
08-14-11, 14:48
Very true! It would be a challenge finding such a woman anywhere but it is fair to say that the Philippines is the last place he should be looking. I recently met a European gentleman who was married to a Filipina and residing there for many years. His conclusion was that while the Philippines makes for a wonderful playground it is a terrible place to look for a life mate. Anyone visiting or living in the Philippines would know that honesty is a rare character trait among the natives, and it becomes increasingly rare when dealing with foreigners. The women are very loyal, just not to you. Their loyalty lies with their family. You are an outsider and always will be, marriage and kids does not change your status. They are quite capable at sex and creating reasons for you to open your wallet but not much else. If they're dependable they're not looking for foreigners online. The whole point of getting a foreigner is having someone they can depend on with an unlimited and steady cash flow to fund shopping for status symbols, support her extensive family, and take care of all those little emergencies that seem to occur with maddening regularity. You cannot depend on them to be any place on time or to stick to any course of action agreed upon. It seems like their minds are constantly changing. When your money is involved the indecisiveness seems to increase. Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny. To a Westerner this can be very unsettling and will probably not make for a very happy relationship unless you can ignore it and continue with your own activities.There are certainly many guys who have married Filipinas who are fairly much as CM describes. In fairness I also know some who have had their life transformed and massively enriched by a Filipina wife, but you do need to either be lucky or really go in with your eyes open. Regarding honesty I agree that the whole of Philippines culture is steeped in lieing and dishonesty so probably the best you can do is find a girl who lies just 10% of the time rather than the more typical percentage 20-70. I have mixed views on the loyalty to the family question. We come from societies where many kids have zero respect or sense of indebtedness to their parents. One of my Filipina friends actually has almost no immediate family. Her mum died in delivering my friend who was the first and only born, her Dad then took to drink and she was raised by her grandparents who have now died. One potential Western suitor asked her whether she would send any money back to her family if he were to marry her and bring her to the UK. She answered that though her father had not cared for her whilst she was growing up he was still her father and she would like to send him enough, probably a couple of hundred dollars a month, from any job that she got in the West (she is a trained nurse) for him to survive moderately comfortably in the province. Her potential boyfriend told her this was tantamount to her being a prostitute and immediately deleted her from his contacts. At the other extreme there are of course plenty of young girls who are to an extent "taking one for the team" in marrying a much older and unattractive guy, primarily with the idea of underwriting the financial security of the wider family. Again if this is a question of sponsoring a younger sibling through college, that is one thing and it's very much how families work in the Phils. If it's a question of financing uncle's drugs / drink habit that's another matter.
WestCoast1
08-14-11, 17:32
Anyone visiting or living in the Philippines would know that honesty is a rare character trait among the natives, and it becomes increasingly rare when dealing with foreigners. The women are very loyal, just not to you. Their loyalty lies with their family. You are an outsider and always will be, marriage and kids does not change your status.Interesting conversation several years ago with a long-running lover in phils. It was one of my first real introductions as to how sneaky pilipinos can be. There is no pretext with this girl, we just like having sex and traveling. She's older, a grandmother now (well, she's 37 at the time). We went to her province and visited her family. While at the family home, sitting outside in the shade drinking juice, next door a european gent walked outside with a pinay, shortly followed by several of her family. A mild argument was ensuing between the gent and the girl. He clearly did NOT want her cousin (a young man standing with the family) to come back to the hotel with the two of them. She was wanting the cousin to come to the hotel in the tryke."Even he sleep the floor." The gent thru up his hands and walked up the street, the girl following. They disappeared and the family and cousin went into the home.
Talking with my girl and her sister (half her family is sitting there but speaks little or no english) , it came out that the cousin was really the pinay's boyfriend. I thought euro-gent was her bf."No thats her cano. He's forin boyfriend. He don't know." They said that since euro-gent would not allow the boy to go with them, the family would soon txt the girl to come home, and,"hehe her bf will sex that girl and the family send her back to that foriner's hotel." (that's the sister speaking). My girl said that the girl is being reminded of her loyalties: "her family her boyfriend her cano," apparently in that order.
FreebieFan
08-15-11, 01:37
Here is one from DIA:
Common and get me.
Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving.
Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.Good to see that almost uniformaly members don't find anything humourous or funny with commenting on a girls grammar. Compare the educational standards then you would understand. I spent a day a few months back in University of Philipiines, Diliman, QC. Huge area but also full of squatters, trikes, old ramshackle buildings. This is one of most popular universities. So you can only imagine the standard in some of the colleges etc. Have a heart BL and check that your own grammar is 100% perfect all the time.
Mr Enternational
08-15-11, 05:56
When I talk with some girls on the chat sites, they universally tell me of the vast proportion of guys who are liars, cheats, just want them to show their tits, totally insincere etc.I hear that same thing sometimes with the girl I chat with. Then I show up and get to play with their tits for real!
Mr Enternational
08-15-11, 06:12
If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying."
Very true! It would be a challenge finding such a woman anywhere but it is fair to say that the Philippines is the last place he should be looking. I recently met a European gentleman who was married to a Filipina and residing there for many years. His conclusion was that while the Philippines makes for a wonderful playground it is a terrible place to look for a life mate.You guys have said a mouthful. I was recently hanging out in Pattaya with a monger from the board who lives in San Diego. I used to be stationed there 20 years ago and would always go to a club called the Trophy Lounge where one could always find willing Pinays. I have been back to San Diego many times since but never get the chance to visit the club. I made it there one night last year when I was on my way to Tijuana, but it was 1a.m. and the guy outside would not let me in because they were getting ready to close so I continued on.
Well the other monger explained to me that things are not the same as before. He said before Pinatubo blew military guys were always bringing in a fresh supply of Filipinas to the west coast, but when the military high-tailed it out there went the supply. So as before when you could always count on the loose women in the club, it would in fact be that generation's offspring whose turn it would be to take over the reins of looseness. However, their kids grew up in the USA and are more educated and are not out there like their mothers used to be. He further explained that if I went to the club I would still be able to get some Filipinas, but it would be the same ones I saw 20 years ago who are now 20 years older because there has not been a fresh supply of native Pinays for the last 20 years.
If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically).Wrong, Wrong, Wrong.
Maybe its a different time but I have been married to a sweet, really cute and loving Filipina for 25 years. I met her through a dating organization before there was an Internet. We wrote back and forth for months and then met in Manila. All I can say is I married up. She was raised in a middle class family, educated in Engineering, and a whole lot smarter than I am. She manages the household finances and does a damn good job of taking care of me. When I was injured and in hospital she visited and helped the nurses tend to me. She is very tolerant of my foibles and my physical limitation of disability. I have never strayed for fear of screwing up a good thing.
All I can say is, if you pick wisely, you too can find your "dream girl." I see Filipina nurses and med techs all over town, so maybe you don't even need to go all the way to the P. I. To find a good woman.
Slim
Anyone visiting or living in the Philippines would know that honesty is a rare character trait among the natives, and it becomes increasingly rare when dealing with foreigners. The women are very loyal, just not to you. Their loyalty lies with their family. You are an outsider and always will be, marriage and kids does not change your status. They are quite capable at sex and creating reasons for you to open your wallet but not much else. If they're dependable they're not looking for foreigners online. The whole point of getting a foreigner is having someone they can depend on with an unlimited and steady cash flow to fund shopping for status symbols, support her extensive family, and take care of all those little emergencies that seem to occur with maddening regularity. You cannot depend on them to be any place on time or to stick to any course of action agreed upon. It seems like their minds are constantly changing. When your money is involved the indecisiveness seems to increase. Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny. To a Westerner this can be very unsettling and will probably not make for a very happy relationship unless you can ignore it and continue with your own activities.WOW Chocha Monger, I've read many of your posts for the past year and I have to say, that I have a new sense of respect for you sir. Everything you have said above describes the Philippines female race perfectly. You have proven in your statement of your knowledge and understanding of Filipinas.
Thanks for you insight. Hope you keep up the good work so that we will someday understand as much as you.
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One of your many faithful readers,
Roycankor
Cunning Stunt
08-16-11, 23:10
WOW Chocha Monger, I've read many of your posts for the past year and I have to say, that I have a new sense of respect for you sir. Everything you have said above describes the Philippines female race perfectly. You have proven in your statement of your knowledge and understanding of Filipinas.
Thanks for you insight. Hope you keep up the good work so that we will someday understand as much as you.
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One of your many faithful readers,
RoycankorWot are you an aspiring cynical, embittered old bastard? It is fun (in a wrist slashing sort of way) to read a few of CM'S posts but the less intellectually challenged quickly see that his expressed viewpoint is rather one dimensional but couched in such an articulate and streetwise witty fashion that you begin to half believe him. Who knows with ISG, he maybe lives with his 300 pound mommy in a backswood trailer in some godforsaken midwest shithole and the nearest he has been to a Filipina is listening to Lea Salonga wail on Miss Saigon!
Chocha Monger
08-17-11, 01:39
Wot are you an aspiring cynical, embittered old bastard? It is fun (in a wrist slashing sort of way) to read a few of CM'S posts but the less intellectually challenged quickly see that his expressed viewpoint is rather one dimensional but couched in such an articulate and streetwise witty fashion that you begin to half believe him. Who knows with ISG, he maybe lives with his 300 pound mommy in a backswood trailer in some godforsaken midwest shithole and the nearest he has been to a Filipina is listening to Lea Salonga wail on Miss Saigon!Come now Cunning Stunt, were I not to know better I would say I detect a hint of jealousy. Hahaha! I can assure you that I am well learned in the physiology and habits of Filipina kunt. In fact, my last field study of this fascinating creature was as recent as a week ago. From the moment I attained my years of discretion I went into Socratic mode and entered disputations on the nature and behavior of kunt in different times and different climes. I often examine the sly nature of kunt in my writings which are most instructive and delightful without in anyway being pedantic. While some prefer to concentrate their efforts on documenting the aesthetics of Filipina, and other, kunt in its natural environment I have chosen to specialize in the ecology of kunt. Why not? It surrounds us and impacts our lives on a daily basis. Most men spend a significant part of their lives pursuing it and musing on its qualities except for poofters. I have written extensively on the species know as the American kunt, however, after reading and hearing enthusiastic ravings about Filipina kunt I thought it merited closer study. I couldn't help but wonder if by chance I had missed out on the panacea for the ills associated with the American kuntry only to discover that the Filipina variety brings its own brand of peculiarities. So, perhaps, if you feel half persuaded by my arguments maybe it is because deep inside you know I speak the truth but you are conflicted by the desperate need of your penis to indulge in the pleasures of Filipina kunt. My sojourns in corn country have been solely for business and never of enough duration to be considered a resident. I don't live with dear old mom. It's a shame because I could save myself quite a bit of money better spent on field studies instead of lodging and what not. Also, surprisingly mom is not 300 lbs. Somehow she dodged the fate of many women in the Western hemisphere. Anyhow, please don't bash the loyal readership. I am sure they are competent enough compare individual experiences with the material published on ISG and arrive at their own conclusions.
Just to throw my 2 cents worth pina are very loyal to their family, I have met pina in cebu and sydney and all display the same characteristics. That is why there is 10% working overseas sending money back home.
I do not see it as a problem it just how they are. Any one who denies it I living the lie not the dream
Cunning Stunt
08-17-11, 06:55
Come now Cunning Stunt.Hahaha....just trying to provoke a little discussion above and beyond the usual repetitive, banal pussyhunting prose that is mainly found here. And was amused by the tones of slavish hero worship that your world weary ramblings seems to attract. It must be in direct counterpoint and contrast, that this land of the bubbly gummy, culturally sterile and mindless seem too attract a certain kind of reflective and philosophising monger...LOL. In which case, you are our resident doom and gloom nihilist.
I'll bet that under that cynical teflon crust beats the cotton wool heart of a teddy bear....or maybe not:D.
I respectfully disagree with CM and GL. Man, you are guys are tainted beyond belief. Thanks, Nvslim for the counterpoint and testimonial that Pinays make better wives than just about any other race on Earth. Sure, you got to pay for the family but you got to pay for other bullshit no matter who you marry. I personally know several Westerners who married Pinays who are infinitely happier than anyone else.
As for the banter between CM and CS, keep the hate mail coming. Quite entertaining to see you two guys slam each other.
WOW Chocha Monger, I've read many of your posts for the past year and I have to say, that I have a new sense of respect for you sir. Everything you have said above describes the Philippines female race perfectly. You have proven in your statement of your knowledge and understanding of Filipinas.
Thanks for you insight. Hope you keep up the good work so that we will someday understand as much as you.
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One of your many faithful readers,
Roycankor
Member #4351
08-17-11, 16:33
Thanks, Nvslim for the counterpoint and testimonial that Pinays make better wives than just about any other race on Earth.So when are you going to stop your world wide quest for big boobs (posted on myriad country threads), and tie the knot?
Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny.I've noticed this with the girls. What is the reason for it? It is very bizarre.
Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny. To a Westerner this can be very unsettling and will probably not make for a very happy relationship unless you can ignore it and continue with your own activities.I will bow down to the experts here, but I'm pretty sure this big sulk is well documented and there is even a word for it in Tagalog . "Tampo"
Google Tampo and Filipina big sulk and you can read a lot more.
It seems to be cause by you breaking some minor and unwritten "rule" and sounds childish, which is exactly the level the culture operates on IMHO.
The "cure" for Tampo is an equally childish response. Apologise profusely for hurting her (even though it is a mystery) Buy her a fluffy toy or flowers. Cute / sweet is important Forget Jewels. Waste of $.
Soon your bunny will be back. Perhaps instantly. You may even learn what you crime was. If you do discover what is your crime do NOT debate the issue or try to use logic. Simply agree look sad and give her another toy.
Based on limited experience and some reading this is my interpretation. Any expert advice out there?
Its all cultural. Tampo does not influence me a bit. She can go on tampo. I can go elsewhere. So who is she fooling?
FreebieFan
08-18-11, 01:26
I will bow down to the experts here, but I'm pretty sure this big sulk is well documented and there is even a word for it in Tagalog."Tampo"
Google Tampo and Filipina big sulk and you can read a lot more.
It seems to be cause by you breaking some minor and unwritten "rule" and sounds childish, which is exactly the level the culture operates on IMHO.
The "cure" for Tampo is an equally childish response. Apologise profusely for hurting her (even though it is a mystery) Buy her a fluffy toy or flowers. Cute / sweet is important Forget Jewels. Waste of $.
Soon your bunny will be back. Perhaps instantly. You may even learn what you crime was. If you do discover what is your crime do NOT debate the issue or try to use logic. Simply agree look sad and give her another toy.
Any expert advice out there?Theres another more common word, that of "suplada" (suplado if its the male version) which can mean anything from "long face, bad mood, sulk " etc.
Philippines is filled with people who show emotions, good and bad, happy and sad versus the Chinese korean and japanese versions which tend to hide emotions. Treat Filipinas having a sulk as you would any other woman's mood.
Either ignore it, pander to it, whatever way works depending on your level of desperation to get in her panties.
FreebieFan
08-18-11, 02:25
I respectfully disagree with CM and GL. Man, you are guys are tainted beyond belief. Thanks, Nvslim for the counterpoint and testimonial that Pinays make better wives than just about any other race on Earth. Sure, you got to pay for the family but you got to pay for other bullshit no matter who you marry. I personally know several Westerners who married Pinays who are infinitely happier than anyone else.
As for the banter between CM and CS, keep the hate mail coming. Quite entertaining to see you two guys slam each other.Couple of years back we had a similar discussion about wives and all that goes with that.
I'm in eternal thanks that I got seriously lucky as far as finding a super wife and the family basically has requested nothing. And almsot 25 years later things are rolling along nicely.
I think as long as theres a clear separation between the mongering world of short time liasons and the other world where there are long term normal relations things are fine.
When mongers try and find wife material in the short term pools, sure their opinions are tainted by the fact that the girls lie to them as much as we lie to the girls.
That old song title " looking for love in all the wrong places " comes to mind.
Mr Enternational
08-18-11, 05:22
Based on limited experience and some reading this is my interpretation. Any expert advice out there?Yep. My expert advice is the say "bi*ch please" then go find another one.
Very true! It would be a challenge finding such a woman anywhere but it is fair to say that the Philippines is the last place he should be looking. I recently met a European gentleman who was married to a Filipina and residing there for many years. His conclusion was that while the Philippines makes for a wonderful playground it is a terrible place to look for a life mate. Anyone visiting or living in the Philippines would know that honesty is a rare character trait among the natives, and it becomes increasingly rare when dealing with foreigners. The women are very loyal, just not to you. Their loyalty lies with their family. You are an outsider and always will be, marriage and kids does not change your status. They are quite capable at sex and creating reasons for you to open your wallet but not much else. If they're dependable they're not looking for foreigners online. The whole point of getting a foreigner is having someone they can depend on with an unlimited and steady cash flow to fund shopping for status symbols, support her extensive family, and take care of all those little emergencies that seem to occur with maddening regularity. You cannot depend on them to be any place on time or to stick to any course of action agreed upon. It seems like their minds are constantly changing. When your money is involved the indecisiveness seems to increase. Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny. To a Westerner this can be very unsettling and will probably not make for a very happy relationship unless you can ignore it and continue with your own activities.Well, I might have been lucky. But I know several equally honest Filipina's as the one I'm married to, since 11 years.
She lives here with me in Europe, finished university in Manila which was converted to an equally value here in Belgium and has a stable job in a medical lab. We both share our all expenses, from the mortgage of our house to the groceries, anything. She often treat me with surprises too. She let me go on holiday to Asia and beyond. 3 times a year BY MYSELF and even help me financially sometimes when I wish to make a world trip anywhere.
I don't know if you have ever been outside the mongering streets or MBC of Manila, but I doubt you ever have. You seems only to be able to sum up the negative side of Filipinas without respect.
Well, I have been traveling the world over for pleasure (not just mongering) and still do, and met the most loving ladies, which I believe you have'nt been outside Angeles or Pattaya. Be polite and respectfull. Hang that Bermuda short and singlet shirt on the hook, shave yourself and put on some eau de toilete. Go to a decent place and who knows you might bump into a 'little brown sexy bunny' as what you call them which is not after your hard earned $$$. With all due respect but I never paid for sex and will never do because I know beforehand that these kind of lady is'nt worth the time. The best sex is free!
FurryFriend
08-18-11, 07:45
The reason many of you feel Filipinas are cheaters and scammers is, they're the ones desperate enough to date or marry foreigners. Your average honest and decent Filipina would much prefer a nice, God-fearing Pinoy with a nice job from a traditional family. These Pinays are certainly not in the bars or trolling dating websites. I hope you aren't naive to think that a cute 21 year old Filipina would really prefer to date / marry some fat 60 year old ex-military expat.
I'm originally from Hong Kong where 200, 000 Filipinas are hired as domestic caregivers. If Filipinas are such scammers, do you think so many Hong Kong employers would entrust them to care for their children and elderly?
Like any society, you have the good, bad and ugly. The girls who would interact with us mongers come from the bottom of the Philippine barrel. And naturally, our impression of an ethnic group comes from our limited interactions with a few of them. If you want to meet a nice Pinay, you surely won't find them in the bars or websites. You'll need to invest time to be in their country.
Good post FF, but you can find nice gals on the websites. And maybe in the bars too. They don't stay in the bars long though, they get snatched up pretty quickly. I realize you were generalizing.
Hong Kong? FF, is that where you developed your taste for Filipina? The first time I went to HK (1981) , my buddy and I picked up a couple Filipina nannies and had a great time. X.
The reason many of you feel Filipinas are cheaters and scammers is, they're the ones desperate enough to date or marry foreigners. Your average honest and decent Filipina would much prefer a nice, God-fearing Pinoy with a nice job from a traditional family. These Pinays are certainly not in the bars or trolling dating websites. I hope you aren't naive to think that a cute 21 year old Filipina would really prefer to date / marry some fat 60 year old ex-military expat.
I'm originally from Hong Kong where 200, 000 Filipinas are hired as domestic caregivers. If Filipinas are such scammers, do you think so many Hong Kong employers would entrust them to care for their children and elderly?
Like any society, you have the good, bad and ugly. The girls who would interact with us mongers come from the bottom of the Philippine barrel. And naturally, our impression of an ethnic group comes from our limited interactions with a few of them. If you want to meet a nice Pinay, you surely won't find them in the bars or websites. You'll need to invest time to be in their country.
WestCoast1
08-18-11, 14:08
The reason many of you feel Filipinas are cheaters and scammers is, they're the ones desperate enough to date or marry foreigners. Your average honest and decent Filipina would much prefer a nice, God-fearing Pinoy with a nice job from a traditional family. These Pinays are certainly not in the bars or trolling dating websites. I hope you aren't naive to think that a cute 21 year old Filipina would really prefer to date / marry some fat 60 year old ex-military expat.
I'm originally from Hong Kong where 200, 000 Filipinas are hired as domestic caregivers. If Filipinas are such scammers, do you think so many Hong Kong employers would entrust them to care for their children and elderly?
Like any society, you have the good, bad and ugly. The girls who would interact with us mongers come from the bottom of the Philippine barrel. And naturally, our impression of an ethnic group comes from our limited interactions with a few of them. If you want to meet a nice Pinay, you surely won't find them in the bars or websites. You'll need to invest time to be in their country.The problem is, filipinas are no more poor than surrounding asian countries, yet such a large percentage of them do the wild things so easily, that it makes them look bad. My dating site contacts (pinay) often: offer cam shows, agree to travel with me or sleep with me, or ask money in the first 2 or 3 chats. I meet local girls in filipines (non dating site contacts) who do pretty much same. I run into much less of that anywhere else. The girls who interact with mongers come from the bottom of the barrel in any country, but there seems to be a much larger percentage of pinay bad-girls than any other place. Thoughts?
Member #4351
08-18-11, 16:48
Are you the guy that frequents Peru a lot? .I live there. Big natural boobs scarce, so don't bother asking.
Tally Wacker
08-19-11, 05:08
Originally Posted by D Cups
Are you the guy that frequents Peru a lot? .
I live there. Big natural boobs scarce, so don't bother asking.Ok thats just funny!
Chocha Monger
08-19-11, 05:33
Well, I might have been lucky. But I know several equally honest Filipina's as the one I'm married to, since 11 years.
She lives here with me in Europe, finished university in Manila which was converted to an equally value here in Belgium and has a stable job in a medical lab. We both share our all expenses, from the mortgage of our house to the groceries, anything. She often treat me with surprises too. She let me go on holiday to Asia and beyond. 3 times a year BY MYSELF and even help me financially sometimes when I wish to make a world trip anywhere.
I don't know if you have ever been outside the mongering streets or MBC of Manila, but I doubt you ever have. You seems only to be able to sum up the negative side of Filipinas without respect.
Well, I have been traveling the world over for pleasure (not just mongering) and still do, and met the most loving ladies, which I believe you have'nt been outside Angeles or Pattaya. Be polite and respectfull. Hang that Bermuda short and singlet shirt on the hook, shave yourself and put on some eau de toilete. Go to a decent place and who knows you might bump into a 'little brown sexy bunny' as what you call them which is not after your hard earned $$$. With all due respect but I never paid for sex and will never do because I know beforehand that these kind of lady is'nt worth the time. The best sex is free!Either you're very very lucky or you're the guy from the Dos Equis commercials. I imagine the girls pay you to fuck them too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVwG1t-NVAA
Wow this thread now sums this site up.
Take what you like from my post.
FreebieFan
08-19-11, 09:54
Wow this thread now sums this site up.
Take what you like from my post.Some of us, Frenzy, have been around ISG for a lot longer than your posts suggest you have.
Its fine to go off topic for a bit. We always get back to the subject at hand.
Or to put it another way "theres more to life than sex".
Of course I'm saying that last phrase because I met "Lezil" a Filipina OFW at lunchtime here in Taipei, took her to a shorttime (it was our second date after all) and we did the deed. I'm relaxed and mellow. You should try it. Its a nice feeling.
Chocha Monger
08-19-11, 14:33
So when are you going to stop your world wide quest for big boobs (posted on myriad country threads), and tie the knot?David, the endless quest for busty chicks sounds a lot like Nibu on the loose again.
I live there. Big natural boobs scarce, so don't bother asking.I saw many of your friends chicas has nice size boobs. Maybe this guy is looking for real big ones.
Mr Enternational
08-20-11, 04:56
I took this one at Mardi Gras in New Orleans damn near 10 years ago. I think she was Pinay though. LOL
Chocha Monger
08-20-11, 06:01
Filipinas love getting their tarts injected with custard filling almost as much as they love money. Anyone who thinks that their sweet little Pinay wife is back home busy working while they're off mongering the globe is a real sucker. They're extremely cunning and know exactly what their husbands are up to in the Philippines, Thailand and other sex tourism destinations. However, they are more than happy to let the old codgers take off feeling all smug and patting themselves on the back. As soon as Mr. Viagra Dick's flight goes airborne they will have some young hard stud barebacking the hell out of their little brown muffins. I know the codgers are saying to themselves right now, 'Oh no! Mine is different and I'm much too smart to get cuckolded. ' Sure you are. Just keep believing it. After all a long and happy marriage is impossible without a good dose of self-deception and denial on the part of those involved.
Chocha Monger
08-20-11, 07:17
Well, actually he would bang Micki Free from Shalamar as long as there was a pair bolted on. :D
Chocha Monger
08-20-11, 07:50
I will bow down to the experts here, but I'm pretty sure this big sulk is well documented and there is even a word for it in Tagalog."Tampo"
Google Tampo and Filipina big sulk and you can read a lot more.
It seems to be cause by you breaking some minor and unwritten "rule" and sounds childish, which is exactly the level the culture operates on IMHO.
The "cure" for Tampo is an equally childish response. Apologise profusely for hurting her (even though it is a mystery) Buy her a fluffy toy or flowers. Cute / sweet is important Forget Jewels. Waste of $.
Soon your bunny will be back. Perhaps instantly. You may even learn what you crime was. If you do discover what is your crime do NOT debate the issue or try to use logic. Simply agree look sad and give her another toy.
Based on limited experience and some reading this is my interpretation. Any expert advice out there?Tampo may be triggered by refusal to buy her the latest iPhone, designer handbag or funding the latest bail out package for relatives.
GoodEnough
08-20-11, 12:05
Tampo can be triggered by almost anything. It's occurrences are unpredictable and so is the duration. I've not had to cope with it often, and certainly not for several years, but an effective means of dealing with it I've found, is to simply ignore it. Don't get angry, don't walk out or scream; simply don't react at all. This provides tangible evidence to the lady that the tactic doesn't work, and what doesn't work usually gets discarded pretty quickly.
GE
WestCoast1
08-20-11, 15:04
To "D", and his pursuit of form:
Headlights, bazooms, big'uns, over-the-shoulder boulders, sweater puppies, headlights, bongos, melons, cupcakes, casabas, the twin peaks, golden arches, warheads, jawbreakers, hushpuppies, parabolas, hubcaps, nosecones, hooters, pointer sisters, nectarines, snuggle pups, nippeloons, milk jugs, dueling banjos, bikini stuffers, fog lights, cantaloups, hand warmers, ICBM's, orbs, teats, sugar plums, and zeppelins. I'm sure I missed some.
Go 'D'!
156490
Hummer Bird
08-21-11, 01:59
Sorry about the multiple shots, guys, but you can never have enough B (.) (.) BS! By the way, there is no silicone in these, guysFucking Grand as hell! Please show these puppies! Where did you find her!
Aggghhhhegggg I am grabbing my shit now!
TurdyCurdyOne
08-21-11, 06:41
If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically). IN my experience you have a much better chance of meeting such a woman in China but you would probably have to accept a smaller age gap than is possible in the Phils.It's very interesting to me that almost all the replies essentially agreed with my observations. I think I would have a much more hostile response had I posted my op in the "living in the Philippines" forum.
I think my observations may be more specific to the class of women you find on DIA. I imagine that higher class ladies who do not participate in such sites might be different, but I don't really know since I meet so few and talk to even less educated and professional women on DIA. As I have said in other posts these educated, higher class types typically, in my experience tend to be much more like western women. My take on this is you cannot have your cake and eat it also. If you want eager women who pretend to be submissive then you have to take the typical fare on DIA. If you can tolerate the feminist types, independent and not very generous emotionally, then you go for the career types found
Mostly elsewhere.
What I surmise is driving Filipina friendliness towards foreigners is the difference in incomes and their need to get out of that backwards country which is especially bad for women I think. It must also be hard on men. In all the photos I have received where Filipino men appear most all appear to be on the edge of homicidal attack, very hostile and angry looks on their faces. Also, the womens' frequent complaints about how Filipino guys are all drunks, unfaiithful and irresponsible. The backwards, impoverished nature of the Country leads to these kinds of stresses I am guessing, yet they manage to value their families in contrast to American culture.
I admit I am confused by alot of this and not really certain of my interpretations.
As far as finding ladies in China, I have heard from several sources that Chinese women are better for mates, but they are not nearly as eager to accomodate foreigners in chat.
In fact it's not easy getting them to chat regularily. I had one I was chatting with but made the mistake of pressing her on the circumstances of her last break up to which she finally admitted her ex-be / f gave her the clap, which kind of put a damper on her enthusiasm after that, haha. Did not matter to me, those things happen.
YOu cannot beat the giving nature of the Filipina ladies on DIA, most of them. They are charmers, no doubt about that. What's rare to find is a charmer who is also capable of more than cooking, cleaning and spreading her legs. Again maybe trying to find incompatible characteristics in the same person. I had a woman once who I am sad I gave up who was both capable, feminine and giving, and so I know it is POSSIBLE. I have yet to meet her equivalent since, and that was 10 years ago.
TurdyCurdyOne
08-21-11, 07:03
The problem is, filipinas are no more poor than surrounding asian countries, yet such a large percentage of them do the wild things so easily, that it makes them look bad. My dating site contacts (pinay) often: offer cam shows, agree to travel with me or sleep with me, or ask money in the first 2 or 3 chats. I meet local girls in filipines (non dating site contacts) who do pretty much same. I run into much less of that anywhere else. The girls who interact with mongers come from the bottom of the barrel in any country, but there seems to be a much larger percentage of pinay bad-girls than any other place. Thoughts?Frequently they tell me the don't want a Filipino guy because Filipino guys are all drunks, irresponsible, gamblers, druggies, etc. This correlates with the large number of them who are knocked up and left or who have guys lying to them who actually have other families. Again I am speaking primarily of the ones I have met on DIA. Also to the other poster I disagree that Filipinas from higher class sources prefer Filipino guys. Even the professional ones I have met want to met a foreigner. This is the universal female drive to accept money and power in exchange for sex and pretended loyalty. You're right they are bad girls, they like to f* many of them but not all. They just want to do it with someone who can support them in the style to which they are unaccustomed and maybe even get the H*l out of dodge. And you're right, many Thais are just as poor but no nearly as accomodating to foreigners.
TurdyCurdyOne
08-21-11, 07:12
Wrong, Wrong, Wrong.
Maybe its a different time but I have been married to a sweet, really cute and loving Filipina for 25 years. I met her through a dating organization before there was an Internet. We wrote back and forth for months and then met in Manila. All I can say is I married up. She was raised in a middle class family, educated in Engineering, and a whole lot smarter than I am. She manages the household finances and does a damn good job of taking care of me. When I was injured and in hospital she visited and helped the nurses tend to me. She is very tolerant of my foibles and my physical limitation of disability. I have never strayed for fear of screwing up a good thing.
All I can say is, if you pick wisely, you too can find your "dream girl." I see Filipina nurses and med techs all over town, so maybe you don't even need to go all the way to the P. I. To find a good woman.
SlimYou lucked out and contrary to the op, you did not find her on DIA.
TurdyCurdyOne
08-21-11, 07:21
Tampo can be triggered by almost anything. It's occurrences are unpredictable and so is the duration. I've not had to cope with it often, and certainly not for several years, but an effective means of dealing with it I've found, is to simply ignore it. Don't get angry, don't walk out or scream; simply don't react at all. This provides tangible evidence to the lady that the tactic doesn't work, and what doesn't work usually gets discarded pretty quickly.
GEShe would have attacks of angry jealousy when I told her I was chatting with two at the same time and start cussing me out and telling me what a low life I was. This followed my ignoring her "tampo".
Yet she is getting money from two different americans, who she swears are just friends and sponsoring her kids (yeah right!) and have no intention of visiting her.
Plus caught her in several lies as well. Too bad she was sexy and smart, but not going to get involved with such a woman.
FurryFriend
08-21-11, 09:17
I disagree that Filipinas from higher class sources prefer Filipino guys. Even the professional ones I have met want to met a foreigner.
And you're right, many Thais are just as poor but no nearly as accomodating to foreigners.Are you sure they're only telling you this because you're a foreigner and they want to develop rapport with you? Because I don't see many professional types on DIA or FilipinoCupid where they can access foreign men.
It's like at the Angeles City bars where girls tell white guys "I hate Korean men" but, five minutes later, will be hanging out with a throng of Korean men telling them "I hate white guys".
While women do generally seek guys with money, they also have a drive to mate with someone with similar cultural and religious backgrounds. You agreed with this yourself when you remarked about how most Thai woman are "just as poor" and yet, are still somewhat anti-foreigner.
She would have attacks of angry jealousy when I told her I was chatting with two at the same time and start cussing me out and telling me what a low life I was. This followed my ignoring her "tampo".
Yet she is getting money from two different americans, who she swears are just friends and sponsoring her kids (yeah right!) and have no intention of visiting her.
Plus caught her in several lies as well. Too bad she was sexy and smart, but not going to get involved with such a woman.One of my DIA girls had the same problem. We had stayed together few times in Manila. She would fly there from Zambo. Quite a sweet girl and we hit it off. However one time she was getting these calls and she would.
Go into the bathroom to talk. I ignored it initially because I give space to them because I am not married to them. Only when the calls were frequent she told me this guy is calling her all the time and when the next call came.
Handed the phone to me although I did not want to talk to the guy. This guy was pleading and begging saying the girl is his GF and he wants to marry her etc. Actually I felt really bad for the guy and told him to call her after a few days because she is staying with me. I guess he did not take it kindly and continued calling all hours. Maybe he was supporting this girl and deep in love.
Next day another of my DIA friends called me because we were planned to stay together after this girl. The call came when my girl was in the bathroom talking to the guy. I told the girl to text me because I was busy.
I guess the girl in the bathroom heard me. When she came she was in a fighting rage. I calmly told her it is ok for to talk to anybody ok for me to talk to anybody too. She caught hold of my phone and called the other girl and.
Had a fight on the phone. When the other girl refused to talk this girl would text her saying to leave me alone etc. This lasted better part of an hour. After that she sat on the balcony crying her heart out. Even when I tried to pacify her she would not budge. So I ignored her. For about three hours she stayed crying and then came back packed her things and tried to leave. I held her back and insisted her to stay. But for her beauty and excellent body and good sex I would have had her leave.
Ultimately things turned out fine. Anyway sometimes these girls feel they can do whatever they want but not you.
Mr Enternational
08-21-11, 23:00
I guess the girl in the bathroom heard me. When she came she was in a fighting rage. I calmly told her it is ok for to talk to anybody ok for me to talk to anybody too. She caught hold of my phone and called the other girl and. Had a fight on the phone. When the other girl refused to talk this girl would text her saying to leave me alone etc. This lasted better part of an hour.It's hard to believe that you let a little Pinay take your phone from you and use it repeatedly and you were not able to get it back for over an hour.
For about three hours she stayed crying and then came back packed her things and tried to leave. I held her back and insisted her to stay. But for her beauty and excellent body and good sex I would have had her leave.Take the TV but leave the pussy! I applaud you. I can never stay with the same girl for more than one day. Pro or non-pro. My fantasy is to stay with the same woman for 2 days. I keep trying and failing as many times. I'm always worried about the other women that I am missing out on. I'm insatiable in that I can't get enough of different women and it has nothing to do with sex. I guess that is more so why I monger the times that I do; for the numbers. I have never had a problem with sex from non-pros in my country or anywhere else. I don't look at the west as a sex prison the way many other guys on the board do.
FurryFriend
08-22-11, 04:56
Anyway sometimes these girls feel they can do whatever they want but not you.This is probably how our LBFM friends sees it.
If she "cheats", it's OK because she needs money for survival. If you cheat, it's only because you're horny.
Not that I agree, but I feel that's how they rationalize things.
WestCoast1
08-22-11, 07:02
Men who don't have a problem pulling women in the west are not trolling developing countries looking for cheap sex.Beg to differ. I prefer to try things outside the box. Filipines is just one playground.
Nobody asked you about your ability to pull non-pros in the west neither was anyone discussing that. On more than one occasion I have seen you state this. Maybe you need to keep telling yourself this to boost your own confidence but I doubt this is true.
Men who don't have a problem pulling women in the west are not trolling developing countries looking for cheap sex.
As for the behavior of Filipinas. Who we as individuals interact with will shape our perceptions of the world we live in.
Most of the comments here have been negative so we can assume most men here have had negative experiences thus creating a situation where neophytes can expect a negative experience or consider themselves very lucky if they experience the positive.Hey I have no problem getting a gf 1 and 2 in the west. Just I can have 4 gf in Philippines. And they can all live together. But as you put it maybe I see different side. But I enjoy what I see and have. The west the girls are not as good for me as the ones I know in the pi. In pi I get hotter and younger girls
You have got to be kidding me.
I guess this is old fashioned, but I would say that this sounds remotely like. PUSSY WHIPPED.
I met a guy in Davao who was staying at my hotel and complained about his steady gal who got drunk with HER family at HIS house. Welcome back, and things got nasty and he had to book a room in a hotel. Everything he explained told me to that he should extracadite himself, but of course he didn't. He was poolside with her making up the next day.
This guy was a professional in business and quite sucdessful at what he did, but quite naive about what he was doing in Davao.
In pi I get hotter and younger girlsThis may be the key point for many, at least for me it is. I'm almost 40 now and virtually no hope of hooking up with 18-19 year olds at home (certainly not the attractive ones). So I "survive" on late 20's and 30's when at home and enjoy myself with 18 to early 20's overseas.
Do you have anything useful to post? You sound like a high school kid keeping count. Surely you can do better. X.
This may be the key point for many, at least for me it is. I'm almost 40 now and virtually no hope of hooking up with 18-19 year olds at home (certainly not the attractive ones). So I "survive" on late 20's and 30's when at home and enjoy myself with 18 to early 20's overseas.
Hairy Wonder
08-23-11, 01:55
This DIA account has me wondering if a horny American girl figured out why all of us go to the Philippines.
http://www.dateinasia.com/sexykristine.html
Do you have anything useful to post? You sound like a high school kid keeping count. Surely you can do better. X.Sorry man, I didn't think I was boasting since I was pointing out how I no longer had any hopes of hooking up with young hotties at home. I was just trying to expand on the point the other guy was making. Anyway, I will keep quiet from now on unless I have something to add from my next trip in Oct.
Chocha Monger
08-23-11, 07:49
i'the have to admit that america's heartland is filled with beautiful young blonde chicks with big firm milky tits with fresh pink nipples so mongers going elsewhere obviously can't play in that league. for whatever the reason mongers can only look at those women in penthouse and rub one out. the handsome rich and powerful men in america don't need to go hunting for ass in the third world where desperation and scarcity of options lowers the bar for pussy access. those types of guys are riding the best pussy america has to offer. yes, the truth hurts but third world mongering is for the old, the lame, the poor and socially inept. even the toothless must eat their meat and mongering in the grimy poverty stricken parts of the globe fills that need. nothing wrong with that as long as mongers don't start thinking they're brad pitt banging angelina jolie. obviously, no one who can pull quality ass in a safe clean wealthy western nation would risk injury, disease, robbery, death, incarceration, anal [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123) and their very own episode of 'locked up abroad' just to bust a nut.
Chocha Monger
08-23-11, 08:08
you have got to be kidding me.
i guess this is old fashioned, but i would say that this sounds remotely like. pussy whipped.
i met a guy in davao who was staying at my hotel and complained about his steady gal who got drunk with her family at his house. welcome back, and things got nasty and he had to book a room in a hotel. everything he explained told me to that he should extracadite himself, but of course he didn't. he was poolside with her making up the next day.
this guy was a professional in business and quite sucdessful at what he did, but quite naive about what he was doing in davao.pussy whipped, maybe or maybe not. perhaps, sammon wisely chose not to strong arm that little filipina and take the phone from her. after he showed his muscle she might have decided to show hers with a little [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123) / abuse allegation. a knock on the room door, hands against the wall, no explanation straight to detention. possible anal violation and being forced to pay the girl and officials his pension. even then the best he could hope for is deportation with a ruined reputation and no hope of redemption. you can be certain the media will not publish a retraction. it's always a good idea to remember that the white man is not boss in the philippines. the lbfms can and will do what they want. you can learn to love it or leave.
Cunning Stunt
08-23-11, 09:56
Yes, the truth hurts but Third World mongering is for the old, the lame, the poor and socially inept.So which are you?
Tally Wacker
08-23-11, 18:31
This DIA account has me wondering if a horny American girl figured out why all of us go to the Philippines.
http://www.dateinasia.com/sexykristine.htmlLooks like a another fake profile from Ghana attempting to scam some sucker.
Even the toothless must eat their meat and mongering in the grimy poverty stricken parts of the globe fills that need.It sounds like you have a lot of knowledge about all these places. But I'm not surprised.
I'll keep my mouth shut on the zingers from CS and As. Glad I pretty much keep my mouth shut on my activities. Will be leaving for Manila in about 2 weeks and will be giving my usual abbreviated observations.
i'the have to admit that america's heartland is filled with beautiful young blonde chicks with big firm milky tits with fresh pink nipples so mongers going elsewhere obviously can't play in that league. for whatever the reason mongers can only look at those women in penthouse and rub one out. the handsome rich and powerful men in america don't need to go hunting for ass in the third world where desperation and scarcity of options lowers the bar for pussy access. those types of guys are riding the best pussy america has to offer. yes, the truth hurts but third world mongering is for the old, the lame, the poor and socially inept. even the toothless must eat their meat and mongering in the grimy poverty stricken parts of the globe fills that need. nothing wrong with that as long as mongers don't start thinking they're brad pitt banging angelina jolie. obviously, no one who can pull quality ass in a safe clean wealthy western nation would risk injury, disease, robbery, death, incarceration, anal [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123) and their very own episode of 'locked up abroad' just to bust a nut.i always appreciate seeing a post by bigger,"know it all's" than me. you really summed up the whole situation regarding mongering. you should be the president of something, maybe,"the know it all club of america". thank you for the very well written nosense and now (that we mongers know our place in the world) you can go back to the,"united states" forum. and please, pretty please w / a cherry on top. stay there! you will have all the beautiful young blonde chicks to yourself.
Looks like a another fake profile from Ghana attempting to scam some sucker.Yup here a link.
http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=38719
Member #4351
08-24-11, 20:51
I think Chocha Monger wrote that post "tongue in cheek" and we "old, lame, poor, socially inept", and I´ll add; fat, bald and unattractive (alluding to myself) forum members shouldn't feel insulted.
Fast Buck Artist
08-25-11, 03:46
Men who don't have a problem pulling women in the west are not trolling developing countries looking for cheap sex.Western ladies tend to be Fat, not just some stomach flab, I mean Obese.
Those few who are not obese have intense male competition for their interest and they know it.
I have talked to many Asian and Latin girls, tell me upon arrival in united states they get swarmed by hungry single males in clubs, pushing each other for a chance to offer the girl a drink or a dance. These girls are totally average in their home country. In the west they become an instant beauty queen thanks to the slim figure.
For those of us who like their dish fat-free, trying to get a mate in the west is a frustrating experience.
Mr Enternational
08-25-11, 03:55
I have talked to many Asian and Latin girls, tell me upon arrival in united states they get swarmed by hungry single males in clubs, pushing each other for a chance to offer the girl a drink or a dance. These girls are totally average in their home country. In the west they become an instant beauty queen thanks to the slim figure.You really think it is because of a slim figure? So you assume that every man in USA clubs want a woman with a slim figure? There are tens of millions of women in the USA with slim figures. What about the Asian and Latina women who are not slim that go to the USA? I will say that when Asian and Latinas come to the USA their attitude changes and they are no longer the same as they were in their native country.
Fast Buck Artist
08-25-11, 04:10
There are tens of millions of women in the USA with slim figures.Yep, and hundreds of millions with obese flab.
70% of adults in the states are overweight or obese. 7 out of 10! Thats not my opinion, its a CDC study estimate. They had to raise the bar of accounting just to make the numbers look acceptable lol
I have a friend who is an attractive young man and genuinely likes fat girls. I envy him, north america is truly a great place for him to pull the ladies. He's a good clubbing mate as we have no "conflicts of interest" - I am one of those guys who likes the ladies slim.
FreebieFan
08-25-11, 04:45
Yep, and hundreds of millions with obese flab.
70% of adults in the states are overweight or obese. 7 out of 10! Thats not my opinion, its a CDC study estimate. They had to raise the bar of accounting just to make the numbers look acceptable LOL.
I have a friend who is an attractive young man and genuinely likes fat girls. I envy him, north america is truly a great place for him to pull the ladies. He's a good clubbing mate as we have no "conflicts of interest". I am one of those guys who likes the ladies slim.On my last trip to US I was jet lagged and headed to a 24 hour supermarket at 2am. Was so funny to see late night shoppers filling the carts with every type of sugary crap that could be imagined, chip packets the size of garbage bags, soda bottles as big as water tanks etc.
The funniest tho was when a whale, who was in her mobility cart as she unable to walk due to he being at least 200kgs, started picking up Diet Coke, telling the counter clerk that it didn't have as many calories as regulat Coke.
US is the world champion land of fatties, but parts of Europe particularly the UK catching up very fast.
Fast Buck Artist
08-25-11, 10:05
on my last trip to us i was jet lagged and headed to a 24 hour supermarket at 2am. was so funny to see late night shoppers filling the carts with every type of sugary crap that could be imagined, chip packets the size of garbage bags, soda bottles as big as water tanks etc.
a doctor friend in california reports receiving a female patient who came in complaining of abdominal discomfort and upon examination he discovers a tv remote control lodged between the folds of stomach fat, well oiled in sweat and grease. other common items "lost and found" can be coins, pieces of food, keys and mobile phones (with krispy kreme delivery on speeddial).
an american discount supermarket is the place where one is most likely to encounter one of the seven wonders of the world, the colossus of lardus.
it's sad for me to see girls who i knew in asia, go to the west in search of fortune, and 1 year after arrival baloon to literally double their original weight. they adapt the local eating habits very quickly..
Oh yes l forgot to mention that l want skinny girls one of the big reason I live in cebu is I get a new one or 2 ever month. And there are many pina skinny. Here is a example.
My ex gf in aust where all about 50kg. 60kg 5'6" here I get 5"2" 40 kg
Cunning Stunt
08-25-11, 19:23
Here is a example.Very nice too. You don't encounter that body shape very often in the west. Plenty like this:eek:! Which would you prefer?
Plenty like this:eek:! Which would you prefer?Oh shit! I almost lost my lunch. Please CS, no more of those. LOL
I'm getting ready to sleep now so I don't even want to look. I told a fat assed big mouthed American woman today arguing with the check out clerk at the drug store that she needed to lose 50 pounds. She said she was going to call the cops. For now I am still a free man. Fat dumb *
FreebieFan
08-26-11, 02:11
I'm getting ready to sleep now so I don't even want to look. I told a fat assed big mouthed American woman today arguing with the check out clerk at the drug store that she needed to lose 50 pounds. She said she was going to call the cops. For now I am still a free man. Fat dumb *Half way up the stairs of Filling Station in P Burgos theres a photo picture of a 200 kg woman. Last time I was there with my 42kg Cebu girl I took a pic of her next to it. Talk about juxtaposition.
Very nice too. You don't encounter that body shape very often in the west. Plenty like this:eek:! Which would you prefer?I've just lost my appetite for food.
70% of adults in the states are overweight or obese.Check out this article about countries where girls are force-fed to become as fat as possible but are still not as fat as American women:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/18141550
"Mint was 4 when her family began to force her to drink 14 gallons of camel’s milk a day. When she vomited, she was beaten. If she refused to drink, her fingers were bent back until they touched her hand. Her stomach hurt so much she prayed all the animals in the world would die so that there would be no more milk.
By the time Mint was 10, she could no longer run. Unconcerned, her proud mother delighted in measuring the loops of fat hanging under her daughter’s arms."
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"That’s [percentage in Mauritania] lower than the 40 percent of American women who the WHO says are obese"
Soapy Smith
08-26-11, 04:03
Very nice too. You don't encounter that body shape very often in the west. Plenty like this:eek:! Which would you prefer?CS, given that you seem to have a collection of these photos, I'm a little concerned that you're the photographer, and I really don't want to think about it. Fortunately I have a few nice naked pictures of my squeeze, and now I'm feeling a need to look at them before I go to sleep.
FreebieFan
08-26-11, 04:20
CS, given that you seem to have a collection of these photos, I'm a little concerned that you're the photographer, and I really don't want to think about it. Fortunately I have a few nice naked pictures of my squeeze, and now I'm feeling a need to look at them before I go to sleep.Fortunately my "provincemate" CS also has some excellent pictures of the more normal and less weight challenged hot young babes that he posts from time to time.
Which reminds that I got an email recently from a Filipina I banged in HK. She was asking for the photos I took of her in HK. Was about to tell her how difficult it was to go through various SD cards and hard drives just to find her pics, when I realised she might percieve that I had thousands of pics of naked ladies. She would have been right too. I politely told her I would send them to her when my pc had been repaired.
Chocha Monger
08-26-11, 04:30
Have you guys heard about crush videos? I heard some 300+ lbs mongers have been using 80 to 90 lbs Filipinas to make crush videos for the underground porn market catering to Asiaphiles. Non-governmental organizations will soon be pressuring the Philippine authorities to stamp out this fetish as it is definitely a violation of the UNIFEM charter. You can see these heavyweights on the prowl for unsuspecting spinners in Angeles City, Manila Bay Café, Cebu City and other flesh peddling venues. These guys should be picking on women in their own weight division. Some poor pinay suffer bruised ribs and groin sprains as a result becoming unwitting subjects in crush videos. Some girls have been catching on to the practice and knocking back mongers from the heavyweight division even though these mongers become very angry at the rebuff.
Screaming Beaver
08-26-11, 05:09
Have you guys heard about crush videos? I heard some 300+ lbs mongers have been using 80 to 90 lbs Filipinas to make crush videos for the underground porn market catering to Asiaphiles. Non-governmental organizations will soon be pressuring the Philippine authorities to stamp out this fetish as it is definitely a violation of the UNIFEM charter. You can see these heavyweights on the prowl for unsuspecting spinners in Angeles City, Manila Bay Café, Cebu City and other flesh peddling venues. These guys should be picking on women in their own weight division. Some poor pinay suffer bruised ribs and groin sprains as a result becoming unwitting subjects in crush videos. Some girls have been catching on to the practice and knocking back mongers from the heavyweight division even though these mongers become very angry at the rebuff.I've not heard of this webpage but I do see these fat bastard waddling down the street in their soiled tee shirts, shorts and flip flops. They usually have a hanky in their hand to facilitate the removal of sweat from their face. In their other hand is usually a very petite Filipina being dragged down the street with a very uncomfortable look on her face. I agree these pigs should be tracked down and sent back with 'do not return' stamp on their passport.
Cunning Stunt
08-26-11, 09:32
CS, given that you seem to have a collection of these photos, I'm a little concerned that you're the photographer, and I really don't want to think about it. Fortunately I have a few nice naked pictures of my squeeze, and now I'm feeling a need to look at them before I go to sleep.Haha. I delight in women of multivarious shapes and hues but do not include those largely composed of grey mottled adipose amongst my 'kinks'. But many do and it is easy to find links to sites full of disgusting photos which will have any self respecting monger upchucking his lunch.
CM, are you bullshitting us again? Never heard of this crush sex perversion except I recall seeing a hilarious porn vid where a skinny little guy was used as a human tampon by a big fat moma. So I ran it past urban dictionary and came up with:
Crush fuck.
Intense gravity-driven fucking prompted by cloning too many custies.
So I put this the crush fuck on this mudkin at an ohio party and then my dick fell off.
???
how difficult it was to go through various SD cards and hard drives just to find her picsFF you open the pictures folder in Windows Explorer. Then right-click in the folder and sort by date. Surely you can figure out what day you were bonking her.
Alternately, get yourself one of those small dry-erase boards. Write the girls name and date on it, and have her hold it by her face when you take the first pic of her. (joking only)
Tally Wacker
08-27-11, 05:03
Ya, and not just the eating habits, FBA, but ALL the bad habits they pick up from American women including: bitching, complaining, treating husbands like crap, etc. But there is another thread for this called American Women. It is a good place to bash AWs and remind us to keep our foreign sweeties where they are and not taint them in the US.Here's some photos of young american women on a dating site that are in my area to select from. Yuck! Can you believe that some of these women are selective on who they respond to? I miss the Philippines!
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TurdyCurdyOne
08-27-11, 23:26
How many Filpina-Foreigner meetings online have resulted in happy marriages. I would bet the percentage is very small, probably less than 5.
When you get old and tired you will be interested in more than how many you can bang in a week, so get ready to face this if you intend to remain in the RP or look for a partner there. Maybe the best idea is to party hardy and die young and quick.
TurdyCurdyOne
08-27-11, 23:56
i'the have to admit that america's heartland is filled with beautiful young blonde chicks with big firm milky tits with fresh pink nipples so mongers going elsewhere obviously can't play in that league. for whatever the reason mongers can only look at those women in penthouse and rub one out. the handsome rich and powerful men in america don't need to go hunting for ass in the third world where desperation and scarcity of options lowers the bar for pussy access. those types of guys are riding the best pussy america has to offer. yes, the truth hurts but third world mongering is for the old, the lame, the poor and socially inept. even the toothless must eat their meat and mongering in the grimy poverty stricken parts of the globe fills that need. nothing wrong with that as long as mongers don't start thinking they're brad pitt banging angelina jolie. obviously, no one who can pull quality ass in a safe clean wealthy western nation would risk injury, disease, robbery, death, incarceration, anal [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123) and their very own episode of 'locked up abroad' just to bust a nut.you mean like the rich american guys who wind up paying huge amounts in any of the following scenarios: a) it was [CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123) not consensual-he loses all his money to trial lawers and maybe goes to jail; be) divorced and she and her lawyers fu* him over royally see) loses custody of any kids the) she reports his activities to his wife with disastrous consequences e) she calls 911 on him and he gets put in the can for no reason f) she gets preggie to entrap him; then she f*ks him over with child support or he goes to jail g) she takes trips or otherwise screws men behind his back h) she turns into a fat pig i) she drives him to drink or suicide, heart attack, etc. with her bad westernized personality j) he has to beg her for sex or buy her sh*t all the time-typical western modus operandi.
Hi TW #5 is doable depending on her boobs. Ya the rest of them are BOW WOW. Check out the uglies and stories of them on the AW thread. Unbelievably fat and ugly women with ridicululous dating requirements. I'd have to be [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) drunk to stick my schwantzooka into most AWs mouths even just to shut them up. Rude but true.
Here's some photos of young american women on a dating site that are in my area to select from. Yuck! Can you believe that some of these women are selective on who they respond to? I miss the Philippines!
156978
156977
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156979
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WestCoast1
08-28-11, 00:12
Here's some photos of young american women on a dating site that are in my area to select from. Yuck! Can you believe that some of these women are selective on who they respond to? I miss the Philippines!I like the last one. My first 'crush-f*ck'. Hey, wait a minute.
Tally Wacker
08-28-11, 04:41
I like the last one. My first 'crush-f*ck'. Hey, wait a minute.Yea pretty slim pickings here in USA. I did pick the uglier ones to to post but those selections came from the first two pages in a search of 18 to 35 year olds arround my area. There are some nice lookers but they are far and few betwen the fat uglies. Its alot of work to find the younger nice looking asians here. You need to find them before they have been poluted by the american dream.
I have talked to many Asian and Latin girls, tell me upon arrival in united states they get swarmed by hungry single males in clubs, pushing each other for a chance to offer the girl a drink or a dance. These girls are totally average in their home country. In the west they become an instant beauty queen thanks to the slim figure.I'm in China now and there's a young American guy that just got transferred over here. In the states, he almost never had a girl friend as he is a bit over weight and kinda shy. Over here though it's a whole different ball game. He's pulling girls left and right just for being white. And because he had been starved back home, he ain't saying no to anything. I'm happy for him.
And as to the quote above, makes me wonder if I ever want to bring my wife back to the states where no doubt she will be hit on by guys half my age.
i have talked to many asian and latin girls, tell me upon arrival in united states they get swarmed by hungry single males in clubs, pushing each other for a chance to offer the girl a drink or a dance. these girls are totally average in their home country. in the west they become an instant beauty queen thanks .if people are married and get their wives into usa or western countries they will not be going to clubs and bars. ofcourse in the western world it is natural to hit on women which is not taken as a insult.
all girls whether from provinces or cities will change once they get into a western country. suddenly they find plenty of opportunities jobwise, lifestylewise and ofcourse to meet other men. it depends on the girl if she.
strays from the marriage.
yes, the age difference is not looked favourably in western countries. most of the time they think the guy is deviated or a slave driver getting married to a desperate girl from a poor country. most often these girls learn from their peers how to better their life once they get the immigrant status.
i know of one thai girl who went to scotland and did not like it there. the guy who married her was a farmer and she had to help in the farm. to make matters worse she was the target of cruel jokes from other farmers. there was no emotional support for her. not counting her young age and beauty compared to older guy. she thought life will be much better for her and her family support if she went to a western country. she did not last even two months there. do not know what lies this guy told her before marriage about his wealth and living.
WestCoast1
08-28-11, 16:12
Yea pretty slim pickings here in USA. I did pick the uglier ones to to post but those selections came from the first two pages in a search of 18 to 35 year olds arround my area. There are some nice lookers but they are far and few betwen the fat uglies. Its alot of work to find the younger nice looking asians here. You need to find them before they have been poluted by the american dream.A few years ago some of my family came from up north in Washington to visit with me. They had been bugging me to settle down and marry."Find a girl at church." And,"You can go online and find dates you know." OK, fine. So just to show them (ie, the fat girls below) , I sat down with my mom and two sisters, went on Yahoo personals, entered my zip code and age range I was looking for (20-45) , and 20 profiles popped up. Every one of them had pics similar to the ones posted below. Awful to look at in every way. Even my sisters were saying,"Yuck!" And,"Hit next 20." So I clicked next 20, and 20 more profiles popped up, and each of those were awful and overweight. OK, they wanted to try match dot com, so I went there, and got the same results. Later I dropped them at a local mall for some shopping (its rural here). When I picked them up, they apologized for all the years of pressing me to find a girl here."Jesus the people here are just plain fat. Never seen anything like it. I'll stop bugging you."
There is some good news, unknown to my family. Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. I am relatively trim and attractive. While the few attractive girls here get hit on constantly, they too find it difficult to hook up with single attractive guys (they tell me so). I hear this from the ladies here: "If I could just find a guy with a steady job. You wouldn't think that would be so hard!" And,"They should re-name this place BEER-BELLY county." Attractive men here find it easier to date (I guess that's everywhere) , and I have been fortunate to find attractive gf's and booty-call partners. I didn't settle down because there are no pretty girls here to date; I just don't want to. Not quite done burning thru the Baskin-Robbins beaver yet (all 31 multinational flavors).
Australia is place to go for younger asian brides / gf it just works. You see it all the time and just go lucky guy.
I keep thinking one trip back I take one of my pina gf. Just to show off. I let you know how it goes.
FurryFriend
08-28-11, 17:43
I have talked to many Asian and Latin girls, tell me upon arrival in united states they get swarmed by hungry single males in clubs, pushing each other for a chance to offer the girl a drink or a dance. These girls are totally average in their home country. In the west they become an instant beauty queen thanks to the slim figure.You're wayyyyy exaggering here.
I'm Asian-American. Naturally, a vast majority people I associate with are similar to me.
I assure you that your average Asian women in the US isn't "swarmed" by guys. If anything, us Asian folks date less, have sex less, marry less, etc.
If you bring back a hot Filipina, yes, she'd be swarmed by Western men. That's because she's hot, not because she's Asian. Besides, she's also swarmed by Filipino men when she walks into a local videoke bar in Manila. The only difference is, the quality of guys will be higher in a Western country.
The notion of beauty in Western countries is still on white girls. Open a girlie magazine or a women's magazine and you'll see virtually all models are white. Same with girls you see in Hollywood or beauty pagents. Take an attractive white women and an attractive Asian women and send them into bars and I'll bet anything the white women will get hit on more.
I'm in China now and there's a young American guy that just got transferred over here. In the states, he almost never had a girl friend as he is a bit over weight and kinda shy. Over here though it's a whole different ball game. He's pulling girls left and right just for being white. And because he had been starved back home, he ain't saying no to anything. I'm happy for him.I think your friend is a bit exaggerating in his exploits.
I'm in Hong Kong twice a year and take forays into China frequently.
99. 99% of girls in China cannot speak English enough to communicate meaningfully to a Westerner. Not to mention, a vast majority of Chinese women will not be caught dead with a white guy. This is China, not the Philippines. There is no obsession on Western culture in China. If anything, the Chinese views Western culture with a bit of disdain.
Just ask yourself, how many white guys have brought home a Chinese bride from China? I do not know a single one. China isn't exactly a global hotspot for mail order brides and international dating despite it's massive population of women.
Besides, have you heard of the One Child Policy in China? This causes a gender imbalance where there are signifigant more men than women in China. As such, virtually all Chinese women can be assured of finding a Chinese husband and don't need to seek pastures elsewhere.
I'm sure your overweight friend will do better dating in China than in the USA simply due to sheer numbers (there is overpopulation and poverty in China). But to say that your typical white guy will become Tom Cruise in China, you're setting up people for some major disappointment.
FreebieFan
08-29-11, 03:36
FF you open the pictures folder in Windows Explorer. Then right-click in the folder and sort by date. Surely you can figure out what day you were bonking her.
Alternately, get yourself one of those small dry-erase boards. Write the girls name and date on it, and have her hold it by her face when you take the first pic of her. (joking only) Good call. But on my work computer I don't store anything.
On my SD cards I segregate them according to chronology or sometimes keep one card per girl, but as it was in the middle of a Manila / Tokyo / Shanghai / Singapore / HK marathon two weeks theres a lot of pics.
But yes I am familiar with how to segregate and sort by date / size of file / etc. LOL I think in this case theres an memory error as I found pics of some girl I bonked the next night.
FreebieFan
08-29-11, 04:57
Last week, was having a drink with a senior ISG member (whilst waiting for that nights honeypie to arrive) and we were chatting about facebook. He described how a girl he was interested in had given him her fb account with password. I found it strange that someone would do that.
Well, life IS strange as this morning, a current / ex / on the current roster friend of mine (never know how to categorise them LOL) sent me her fb acount with password. I couldn't view as I was required to identify some pics that were tagged to gain entrance but its interesting what info some of these ladies willingly give out. Am not entirely sure they know what they are doing by giving out passwords.
FreebieFan
08-29-11, 09:19
Was perusing through Tagged as I ocassionally do when bored at work and seeking new conquests, and came across one likely subject.
Her profile was on private so I duly requested entrance.
Upon being granted such favour, I reviewed her photos. And there, in all its internet splendour, was 875 photos, each one of her. There were no bikini pic, no naked pics, hardly any flesh shown. Instead there were 875 photos of her face in various poses. When I suggested to said girl that 875 pics of herself might constitute vanity, never mind being borderline narcisistic, she thought, thought some more and with a great deal of erudition replied " What?".
Last week, was having a drink with a senior ISG member (whilst waiting for that nights honeypie to arrive) and we were chatting about facebook. He described how a girl he was interested in had given him her fb account with password. I found it strange that someone would do that.
Well, life IS strange as this morning, a current / ex / on the current roster friend of mine (never know how to categorise them LOL) sent me her fb acount with password. I couldn't view as I was required to identify some pics that were tagged to gain entrance but its interesting what info some of these ladies willingly give out. Am not entirely sure they know what they are doing by giving out passwords.Yes it is common as most pina have a number of fb accounts. I would advise guys to do the same.
FreebieFan
08-30-11, 02:09
In Tagged recently.
Freebie to Mae A." Hi Mae, love to see you in Market Market soon.
Mae A " what?"
Freebie. I'm in Manila and would like if we could meet, you look cute"
Mae A " o? What you mean "
Freebie" Um which part didn't you understand. I'd like to meet you "
Mae A " what "
Freebie " go back to school honey.
FreebieFan
08-30-11, 03:33
Ok so I gave up on Mae A and moved onto Ma Naiza in Tagged. Looks semi ok.
Had some nice pics in fb. We started chatting in ym, (YM name sossyhot_zupiztar in case anyone wants to play her along) and I commented on her pics.
She advised she had some other pics but that I had to "help her". She told she had naked pics but to see them I had to send her 40, 000 pesos as her exam just happened to be tomorrow.
I advised her that
A) I'm not and haven't been a newbie since 1980.
B) If I want to see naked pics of Filipinas I will find hundreds without spending a centavo.
C) Every girl says its her exam tomorrow. She should be more original.
The) The only other reply I could give was "Cira ula mo" and "ano ka hilo".
She said " Sorry Sir, I'm just trying.
Econo Tech
08-30-11, 07:21
Last week, was having a drink with a senior ISG member (whilst waiting for that nights honeypie to arrive) and we were chatting about facebook. He described how a girl he was interested in had given him her fb account with password. I found it strange that someone would do that.I know one girl, who has facebook accounts as (or facebuk). Dannica, Sarah, Kelene, Rosie, Marjorie, Gonzi, Sienna. Ah, yes, they are the same person.
Orangevale Rob
08-31-11, 01:49
I read a lot on here about how you can easily pick up girls for sex. Maybe it is because I am currently serving a long term sentence in Sex Prison, but I am having a hard time coming up with a good way to go about discussing this with the girls.
Being a conservative country, I kind of doubt going up to a girl and saying "come back to my hotel and let me screw you and I'll give you 1500 pesos" is going to work very often, even if they might be open to the idea. So how would you go about it? Is there a delicate way to ask this, or do I have to take the girls out for dinner first? Anyone got a play-by-play rundown of how this is done?
WestCoast1
08-31-11, 02:48
I read a lot on here about how you can easily pick up girls for sex. Maybe it is because I am currently serving a long term sentence in Sex Prison, but I am having a hard time coming up with a good way to go about discussing this with the girls.
Being a conservative country, I kind of doubt going up to a girl and saying "come back to my hotel and let me screw you and I'll give you 1500 pesos" is going to work very often, even if they might be open to the idea. So how would you go about it? Is there a delicate way to ask this, or do I have to take the girls out for dinner first? Anyone got a play-by-play rundown of how this is done?Are you talking of those you are chatting with in YM prior to your trip to phils? I just let them know that I'm coming soon, and they are the ones who make the move and ask to meet. That does not guarantee that they actually will meet once you are there. You can approach it multiple ways, here are a few:
1. If you mention you're coming next week and she doesn't jump on the chance of meeting up with you, drop her from your chat list.
2. If she does want to meet up, set a date / time. Meet, see how it goes. Some gents are fine with having just a cup of coffee today, hoping to score with her tomorrow. Don't bother setting another date just yet, just tell her you are going to your hotel, and see if she follows. If she does not, attempt to set another date (if you are interested) right then. Tomorrow night, some clubbing perhaps. Take it from there.
3. She wants to meet up. Tell her up front you are only interested in that if she's interested in returning to your hotel at the end of your coffee / drink. If she says 'not-so-fast-fella', drop her, or revert to #2 above. Usually along the way, either in ym chat or having coffee, she will mention her need for help."Yes of course, I'd be glad to help."
On my last trip, I went way out of my way to get dating site girls to meet-and-bang, but had wildly mixed results (first time for that). Gives bargirls an air of freshness.
SNIP.
She should be more original.
She said " Sorry Sir, I'm just trying.Well that was original! Don't they usually insult you or call you names when you pull the curtain away their dirty little secrets?
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Fast Buck Artist
09-01-11, 02:03
Being a conservative country, I kind of doubt going up to a girl and saying "come back to my hotel and let me screw you and I'll give you 1500 pesos" is going to work very often, even if they might be open to the idea. So how would you go about it? Is there a delicate way to ask this, or do I have to take the girls out for dinner first? Anyone got a play-by-play rundown of how this is done?Don't mention money at all, girls don't like being treated as a prostitute, even if she is a prostitute! Take her out for a nice meal, videoke and dancing or movie, then invite her back to your hotel. If she asks at any point "Can you help me with my problem?" thats a hint to offer her some cash. Many will not ask anything at all, in that case before saying goodbye slip her some some money and say "here, buy a nice dress and shoes tomorrow"
In hooker pickup joints like Havana you can just directly negotiate. "come to my hotel for 4 hours I give you 1500?". But I wouldn't advise that approach in other places.
FreebieFan
09-01-11, 02:19
Had a chat this am with a sweet Taguig girl that I haven't yet (but will) bonk. We were talking about eating breakfast together.
I ask her what she wants for breakfast and Sweet girl says she wants " egg and hot dog and mayo ". Got to love it when the girls also play the double entendre game.
don't mention money at all, girls don't like being treated as a prostitute, even if she is a prostitute! Take her out for a nice meal, videoke and dancing or movie, then invite her back to your hotel. If she asks at any point "Can you help me with my problem?" thats a hint to offer her some cash. Many will not ask anything at all, in that case before saying goodbye slip her some some money and say "here, buy a nice dress and shoes tomorrow"
In hooker pickup joints like Havana you can just directly negotiate."come to my hotel for 4 hours I give you 1500?". But I wouldn't advise that approach in other places.I agree with all that but I would tell the girl upfront you are not looking for a GF. Some will sex you for free thinking you are wanting a GF and then you have taken advantage of her.
I always use the word playboy in cebu as they know what that means. It actually works better as they offer friends knowing I got cash to spend. I get to see alot more girls and pick the better ones.
FreebieFan
09-02-11, 01:45
Got a message in DIA yesterday from a girl I once bonked. She says " Hi how have you been, I missed you " Nothing strange about that, except that my last message to her, and presumably the time of the bonk was 3. 3 years ago!
FreebieFan
09-02-11, 04:38
Our first thought quite often, on seeing a girl is " I wonder what she looks like without her t shirt ".
Fortunately in the Philippines there is less modesty there than other countries.
So take a look at Reyma Cullano. She sweetly poses in her bra for her DIA pic then even provides her digits too.
Yes I know our second thought is " what does she look like out of her pants" but DIA sadly doesn't go that far.
Member #4351
09-02-11, 16:12
She's cute. I personally have encountered a higher percentage of scammers and LBs from Zambuanga than from other regions. I don't know if others have noticed this.
FurryFriend
09-02-11, 20:05
I'd like to ask experienced DIA mongers a question.
I've done the Angeles City bar scene a few times and looking for something new the next time I'm in the Philippines. I started dabbling with online dating sites. Nothing serious, just poking around and kicking the tires.
I've also been reading consumer reviews about DIA. Some guys will claim that almost 100% of women there are scamming (I define scamming as a girl asking money before meeting in-person). Others will say they almost never get asked for money.
These are drastically different experiences on the same website and the same dating pool. What factor would account for such a difference in our DIA experiences?
I exchanged a few messages with one DIA girl, probably the fifth girl on DIA I've conversed with. After the 10th or 12th message, she asked for tuition money. I don't mean to be paranoid, but it leads me to believe the scamming stories more.
I'd like to ask experienced DIA mongers a question.
I've done the Angeles City bar scene a few times and looking for something new the next time I'm in the Philippines. I started dabbling with online dating sites. Nothing serious, just poking around and kicking the tires.
I've also been reading consumer reviews about DIA. Some guys will claim that almost 100% of women there are scamming (I define scamming as a girl asking money before meeting in-person). Others will say they almost never get asked for money.
These are drastically different experiences on the same website and the same dating pool. What factor would account for such a difference in our DIA experiences?
I exchanged a few messages with one DIA girl, probably the fifth girl on DIA I've conversed with. After the 10th or 12th message, she asked for tuition money. I don't mean to be paranoid, but it leads me to believe the scamming stories more.They're not all scammers. Then again, you won't find many angels there either. A girl who you meet and have a romp with who then asks you for "help" is not a scammer.
My policy re girls asking me for money on DIA: I tell them I do not give money to anyone I haven't met. And then I move on to the next profile.
You'll want to have plan A, B, C, D, . Because the girls live on Filipino time and sometimes flake out.
Get past that, you can have fun doing this. Just don't take it too seriously.
Guys will have different experiences depending on their personalities. It also depends on what they're looking for. For instances, if I was looking for an LTR, I wouldn't try to find her on DIA. I think a good attitude and some flexibility will go far. At the same time, don't be a pushover.
I'd like to ask experienced DIA mongers a question.
I've done the Angeles City bar scene a few times and looking for something new the next time I'm in the Philippines. I started dabbling with online dating sites. Nothing serious, just poking around and kicking the tires.
I've also been reading consumer reviews about DIA. Some guys will claim that almost 100% of women there are scamming (I define scamming as a girl asking money before meeting in-person). Others will say they almost never get asked for money.
These are drastically different experiences on the same website and the same dating pool. What factor would account for such a difference in our DIA experiences?
I exchanged a few messages with one DIA girl, probably the fifth girl on DIA I've conversed with. After the 10th or 12th message, she asked for tuition money. I don't mean to be paranoid, but it leads me to believe the scamming stories more.Some girls ask for money to be sent something or the other. Do not send money for any reason. They are playing on your heartstrings. They have lived without you so far and continue to live without you.
Once you meet and have a relationship you need to think differently. They are not like your girlfriends in the west where normally no money is given except gifts.
Some will not ask but will not refuse your offer of money. They know you are a hit and run artist and except in a few cases no long term stability in relationship. So clear your conscience by giving money equivalent what you would have spent on bargirls. Do not look for free sex. Buying some gifts are in order too.
Once you develop a relationship it is your choice to support her or have a long term relationship. But always she will be there for you if you treat her right.
Just because few girls asked you for money do not call all as scammers. Ofcourse nobody refuses free money. Since you did not send any money before meeting it is no loss to you.
All these girls in a survival mode because of poverty and lack of future opportunities. Otherwise they would not be there.
You need to show respect irrespective what they do unless they rob you.
Charlie Horse
09-02-11, 23:37
Damn those guys who keep on telling how good they are.
I'm stupid and crazy, I smoke, I get drunk and puke, I watch porn, I go naked, I dance like a stripteaser, I fuck, I scream when I'm mad, I laugh most of the times, I cried when I'm hurt, I don't hate, I curse when I'm upset, I mess up almost everytime, I'm shy and determined at the same time, I prefer to be called funny than hot, I daydream a lot, I have had nightmares, I'm afraid to watch horror films, I have reasons almost to everything that happens to me, I don't care if people don't understand why I am me, I'll kill if the need arises.
She's in Cebu, so someone give her a ride.
FurryFriend
09-03-11, 03:57
Some girls ask for money to be sent something or the other. Do not send money for any reason.I think you guys misunderstood my question. No way I'll ever send money to someone I haven't met. I already know that.
My question was, why do some DIAers find mostly moneygrubbers while other DIAers find mostly genuine girls when it's the same dating pool?
Fast Buck Artist
09-04-11, 06:20
I exchanged a few messages with one DIA girl, probably the fifth girl on DIA I've conversed with. After the 10th or 12th message, she asked for tuition money. I don't mean to be paranoid, but it leads me to believe the scamming stories more.In my observations only 10% of overall DIA girls are scammers. If you get a high number of them bothering you, it means either you look like a newbie or act like one (no offense!)
A few tips of avoiding the scammers:
- ask to see their webcam. Most scammers are gay guys posing as a woman. Call them on the phone to do a voice check.
- make it clear in your profile you don't send money to people you haven't met.
- if the photo is too good to be true, it usually is (magazine quality, supermodel looks). I did meet one girl who really was an FHM model in her past, but this is a rare exception.
I think you guys misunderstood my question. No way I'll ever send money to someone I haven't met. I already know that.
My question was, why do some DIAers find mostly moneygrubbers while other DIAers find mostly genuine girls when it's the same dating pool?Do not show you like her a lot and how beautifull she looks etc. Just act as if you have many girls and she one among many.
Never act desparate saying you really want to meet her or tell her you like to take on vacations etc.
Once you show you really like her they usually come up with hard luck stories
I got a message from rixcel yesterday (from Davao). Here is part of her profile:
I am proud in my work like PROSTITUTE person. Why do I work PROSTITUTE bcos I need to help my family in my province.
I am looking a bf to accept me for who I am and what I am.
If I see my future husband. I will promise on him that I will stop my work.
Is that an honest description or is she hoping for a Pretty Woman scenario where someone "saves" her?
Fast Buck Artist
09-05-11, 01:33
Is that an honest description or is she hoping for a Pretty Woman scenario where someone "saves" her?Aaah. Isn't it nice to find a honest hooker for a change who admits she's a hooker? So rare!
FreebieFan
09-05-11, 03:27
I'd like to ask experienced DIA mongers a question.
I've done the Angeles City bar scene a few times and looking for something new the next time I'm in the Philippines. I started dabbling with online dating sites. Nothing serious, just poking around and kicking the tires.
I've also been reading consumer reviews about DIA. Some guys will claim that almost 100% of women there are scamming (I define scamming as a girl asking money before meeting in-person). Others will say they almost never get asked for money.
These are drastically different experiences on the same website and the same dating pool. What factor would account for such a difference in our DIA experiences?
I exchanged a few messages with one DIA girl, probably the fifth girl on DIA I've conversed with. After the 10th or 12th message, she asked for tuition money. I don't mean to be paranoid, but it leads me to believe the scamming stories more.Am quite active on DIA and Tagged and the scam hits are probably about 1 in 10.
GregLondon
09-07-11, 23:38
I'd like to ask experienced DIA mongers a question.
I've done the Angeles City bar scene a few times and looking for something new the next time I'm in the Philippines. I started dabbling with online dating sites. Nothing serious, just poking around and kicking the tires.
I've also been reading consumer reviews about DIA. Some guys will claim that almost 100% of women there are scamming (I define scamming as a girl asking money before meeting in-person). Others will say they almost never get asked for money.
These are drastically different experiences on the same website and the same dating pool. What factor would account for such a difference in our DIA experiences?
I exchanged a few messages with one DIA girl, probably the fifth girl on DIA I've conversed with. After the 10th or 12th message, she asked for tuition money. I don't mean to be paranoid, but it leads me to believe the scamming stories more.Partly it depends on the fact that different guys have different definitions of scamming but there are other factors. There are plenty of girls who will ask money for cam fees, tuition help etc. I'm not sure this is fairly seen as scamming. In part its a reaction to the fact that 90% of the guys on DIA are timewasters from a girls point of view, guys feeling lonely / horny in the west with either no intention of coming to the Phils or plans in 6 months time with no realistic possibility of meeting the girl.
I would say that 50% + of the serious scammers are ladyboys. Generally they will be operating at peak US times (ie the middle of the night Phils time) , generally they wil have sexy photos and fairly "open minded" profiles.
If you log on to DIA at 3am Phils time and hit "girls" with sexy photos and upfront profiles it WILL seem like 90% of the Girls on DIA are scammers.
Orangevale Rob
09-08-11, 07:26
My experience with Filipinas is that sometimes, their willingness to try to get money out of you is inversely related to how much she likes you. I had a girl from DIA on the line for a while, and she really liked me and never asked for a cent. I don't deceive women for sex though, so I made it clear to her that I wasn't serious and was only looking for a girlfriend. I could tell she was hurt by it. After that, every conversation was about money in one way or the other.
She just figured that if she wasn't going to land a husband, she might as well go for some quick money. She just lowered her target from Long Term to Short Term. I do the same thing, if I sort of like a girl, but not enough to invest a lot of time with her, I'll just go for broke and tell her I want to fuck her, straight out. If she says yes, great, some quick sex with no investment, if she says no, oh well, I didn't want to waste time on her anyway. I'll take the chance as a last resort.
Member #4491
09-09-11, 01:39
Today I got this question from a girl just wrapping up her B. Sc.
"have you been here since your last visit?"
Charmingly simplistic in a way, isn't it?
Hairy Wonder
09-09-11, 06:11
Am quite active on DIA and Tagged and the scam hits are probably about 1 in 10.I have had my DIA profile for years (had Tagged also, but got kicked off for supposedly being "too explicit"). I just noticed yesterday that I have received over 6000 messages. Of those, I have had money discussions with several girls. But only a few of them were straight requests for "send me money." Most of the discussions have been more along the lines of "I have a big problem. I must pay for xxxxx, and I don't know where I will get the money." When I get those kind of lines, I simply tell the girl that I can't send money because I have my own bills to pay here in the US.
I have only tried to meet with 3 girls from DIA during my first visit to the Philippines. One ended up being a no show, or so I thought. We had arranged to meet at a club near my hotel (just a standard bar with no dancers). When she failed to show for more than an hour after our meet time, I went back to my room and found another girl that agreed to come and meet me. This one turned out to be not what I expected. On our web cam chat, she appeared to be a very nice looking little spinner. When I met her in the bar (with her 2 ladyboy "cousins") she was a short, plump, ugly girl. Turns out she had her cute friend on cam while she was typing responses to me in our chat. Well she was willing to fuck, and I was pissed about the first one not showing and this one not being what I thought she was, so I decided to take her to the room and get my rocks off. Later, I got a message from the first girl asking if I had sex with the one I met. When I asked how she knew about me meeting the other girl, she claimed that she was in a dark part of the bar and watched me as I took short, plump and ugly to my room. I tend to think the whole thing was a setup by the first one to see if I would be "faithful" to her. Needless to say, I never did meet the first girl, and she stopped chatting with me as well. No great loss.
The 3rd girl met me with her baby in her arms. Still, she looked pretty good, and I wanted to have some fun with her. She asked me to stay at a hotel near her home, which I wrongly assumed meant she planned on spending a lot of time in the room with me. She asked if I would like to go to a swim resort with her and her friends (code for "Will you pay for my friends and I to go to the resort with you?") Still hoping to get lucky with the girl, I agreed. We stayed overnight at the resort, and she even shared a bed with me. But she moved away every time I tried to touch her. When I was preparing to leave, she apologized to me for being so shy, and explained that her husband had beat her and she was not comfortable being touched yet. About a week later, after I had left the Philippines, she sent me a message telling me how much she missed me. She promised she would do anything I wanted the next time I visited her. Unfortunately, she married some other monger before I had a chance to see her again. Oh well, many more available where she came from.
It's been a few years since I was in the Philippines. I have continued to chat with DIA girls and plan to meet many of them when I can return there. I have 2 profiles on DIA, the nice profile and the playboy profile. On both, I have my photo and I state that I will not send money. On the playboy profile, I get many more interests from filipinas than my nice profile gets. Some have sent me messages stating their objections to my playboy profile, because I directly state that I am looking for sex partners, and not long term relationships. I always respond to those objections, telling them that I understand them, and we can still be friends. I have even asked some if they would introduce me to some of their friends that would not object. Most have agreed to do that.
Enjoy the hunt!
HW
FreebieFan
09-09-11, 06:32
Have a forthcoming Manila trip and have been working on my calendar, trying to get all my appointments nailed down. The repeats are the easiest as they know I will have some work excuse or urgent post bonk need to leave them while I attend to the next on the list.
However this mornin have been have having pleasant exchanges with Ms 22. She will be a newbie for me. Great pics and is excited that I have bought her a bikini (I buy them all bikinis but she doesn't need to know that LOL). She has agreed to model the bikini, and even to dance in it etc. She knows exactly what's going to happen when she says in her imperfect English "you are old but dangerous in sexy girl like me feel hot". Bring on the hear baby. LOL
No problem having two profiles? I thought this was not allowed at DIA?
I have had my DIA profile for years (had Tagged also, but got kicked off for supposedly being "too explicit"). I just noticed yesterday that I have received over 6000 messages. Of those, I have had money discussions with several girls. But only a few of them were straight requests for "send me money." Most of the discussions have been more along the lines of "I have a big problem. I must pay for xxxxx, and I don't know where I will get the money." When I get those kind of lines, I simply tell the girl that I can't send money because I have my own bills to pay here in the US.
HW
GregLondon
09-10-11, 00:34
Today I got this question from a girl just wrapping up her B. Sc.
"have you been here since your last visit?"
Charmingly simplistic in a way, isn't it?Maybe she has been reading Quantum Mechanics? LOL
GregLondon
09-10-11, 00:36
No problem having two profiles? I thought this was not allowed at DIA?It isn't if they twig you are the same person-
TurdyCurdyOne
09-10-11, 01:29
Been reading these posts all of which seem to try to determine why and the percentage which on DIA ask for money or not. Amusing really.
Imnsho, most all on DIA are scammers. It is a question of whether they are going for the short con or the long con. In fact most WOMEN regardless of nationality are scammers. They know that marriage to a westerner may bring huge rewards including 1) going to USA where they can join all the feminist see*nts there along with all the rights a privileges 2) assignment of any benefits their husband may receive, especially after he is DEAD 3) support for her and her kids,
Her mother, sisters, brothers and cousins 4) use your imagination as they do!
If they are young and you are old they may also take a Filipino be / f in secret so they don't have to sleep with an old fart all the time. This is assuming she is not one of the many already married and being directed on chat by her husband.
If on the other hand they see that you WILL NOT marry them, then they switch to the short con:
Pump him for whatever you can get in as short of time as possible. Kinda the same as F*k.
As many of them in as short of time as possible but with the tables turned.
HOw can you tell if you've found one of the rare ones not operating on this frequency? That is the woman who can provide more than just sex and cooking for you. One that helps pay the bills or helps in other significant ways (and I don't mean introducing you to all her hungry friends). Those will be rare as h*ll on DIA. There are some but the are few and far between.
When a woman helps with the bills or in other significant ways, then you know she loves you and is trying to make a go of it.
Member #4491
09-10-11, 03:18
Maybe she has been reading Quantum Mechanics? LOLLOL. Absolutely.
She has some rich perverted American "friend" that she chats with about her 12 year old sister in exchange for piles of 1000 PHP bills. Bet you that he will be very surprised when he finds out that his pervo-cash funded the discovery that the Schrödinger equation actually describes my Philippines travel itinerary.
Nerd-Barba
Cuba Tourist
09-10-11, 07:27
What is her DIA name?
Here's a warm and fuzzy profile from DIA.
Damn those guys who keep on telling how good they are.
I'm stupid and crazy, I smoke, I get drunk and puke, I watch porn, I go naked, I dance like a stripteaser, I fuck, I scream when I'm mad, I laugh most of the times, I cried when I'm hurt, I don't hate, I curse when I'm upset, I mess up almost everytime, I'm shy and determined at the same time, I prefer to be called funny than hot, I daydream a lot, I have had nightmares, I'm afraid to watch horror films, I have reasons almost to everything that happens to me, I don't care if people don't understand why I am me, I'll kill if the need arises.
She's in Cebu, so someone give her a ride.
Translation anyone?
It isn't if they twig you are the same person-
GregLondon
09-20-11, 18:17
Translation anyone?DIA have a policy of one account per person and if they realise (or someone informs them) that you have two accounts they will delete them both. But if noone tips them off you shoukld be able to get away with two accounts for a while.
I have been video chatting (met on CB) with this gal in Butuan for almost a month about an hour per day. Age 28, average looks, above average intelligence. 3 kids baggage. The plan has been for me to rent a place for 20 days there (in November) and she would stay with me. I really thought she was legitimate. Every girl that has tried to scam me, has done it within the first week.
She never asked for money, but since she was using an internet cafe, I decided to send her $20 to help out. I figured that she spends close to that much per month at the internet cafe talking to me.
Yesterday, she told me that she got bit by a dog. Said she went to the doctor, who suggested that she get 3 shots to prevent the possibility of rabies. Never offered to show me the wound, but eventually I asked to see it. Hard to tell if it was real or just makeup on the camera.
Of course, you can see where this is going. She asked for money for the shots. I told her "no". She said that she understood and did not push, but I am strongly leaning towards dumping her now. There are plenty more girls on CB.
My questions are:
Did I possibly blow it with this girl by helping out with the $20?
Anyone see this particular scam before?
Cunning Stunt
09-20-11, 21:27
I have been video chatting (met on CB) with this gal in Butuan for almost a month about an hour per day. Age 28, average looks, above average intelligence. 3 kids baggage. The plan has been for me to rent a place for 20 days there (in November) and she would stay with me. I really thought she was legitimate. Every girl that has tried to scam me, has done it within the first week.
She never asked for money, but since she was using an internet cafe, I decided to send her $20 to help out. I figured that she spends close to that much per month at the internet cafe talking to me.
Yesterday, she told me that she got bit by a dog. Said she went to the doctor, who suggested that she get 3 shots to prevent the possibility of rabies. Never offered to show me the wound, but eventually I asked to see it. Hard to tell if it was real or just makeup on the camera.
Of course, you can see where this is going. She asked for money for the shots. I told her "no". She said that she understood and did not push, but I am strongly leaning towards dumping her now. There are plenty more girls on CB.
My questions are:
Did I possibly blow it with this girl by helping out with the $20?
Anyone see this particular scam before?Very unlikely, particularly as the amount is so small. Rabies is endemic in the Philippines and a real hazard, particularly with so many aso's running about wild (but not as many as in Thailand as Pinoys just love dog stew with their evening booze sessions!).
Just best make sure that she realizes that to be effective, she will need at least two or three boosters, depending on whether or not she had a prophylaxis shot.
Member #4351
09-20-11, 22:03
Very unlikely, particularly as the amount is so small.Yes, plus the fact that she is a bit older and has three kids. She's not going to risk screwing up a possible relationship for such a small sum. Its easy to get paranoid reading the posts on this forum, but often the girls are in fact honest. I would give her the money, but maybe that´s because I am soft hearted david_33.
I have been video chatting (met on CB) with this gal in Butuan for almost a month about an hour per day. Age 28, average looks, above average intelligence. 3 kids baggage. The plan has been for me to rent a place for 20 days there (in November) and she would stay with me. I really thought she was legitimate. Every girl that has tried to scam me, has done it within the first week.
She never asked for money, but since she was using an internet cafe, I decided to send her $20 to help out. I figured that she spends close to that much per month at the internet cafe talking to me.
Yesterday, she told me that she got bit by a dog. Said she went to the doctor, who suggested that she get 3 shots to prevent the possibility of rabies. Never offered to show me the wound, but eventually I asked to see it. Hard to tell if it was real or just makeup on the camera.
Of course, you can see where this is going. She asked for money for the shots. I told her "no". She said that she understood and did not push, but I am strongly leaning towards dumping her now. There are plenty more girls on CB.
My questions are:
Did I possibly blow it with this girl by helping out with the $20?
Anyone see this particular scam before?I do not know why you are getting involved with a lady with three kids to support? Unless you are the type to support her and her three kids do not get involved. Should not have even sent $20.
I am sure you can find some young girl without baggage to stay with you.
She has gotten along without your help so far. She will continue to get along fine.
If you continue to contact her there will be much more demand for this and that. I would say cease all contacts.
Member #4351
09-20-11, 23:00
I do not know why you are getting involved with a lady with three kids to support?I respectfully disagree with you on this one Sammon. The guy seems to be looking for a LTR and doesn't seem to be a monger. The girl in question will bend over backwards to make sure he's happy given her circumstances. You really think she's going to blow it by trying to squeeze Western Union out of a guy who is planning on traveling to her island and staying with her? Maybe she really got bit by a dog and needed some rabies shots. Or maybe I´m just a hopeless romantic.
My questions are:
Did I possibly blow it with this girl by helping out with the $20?
Anyone see this particular scam before?Welcome to the board!
Although I do not condone sending money without meeting in person first, this story seems plausible. Just a few months back, one of my girlfriends got bitten by a feral cat that she feeds on occasion. The three boaster shots cost something like 2500 php. Sure she probably did not need the shots but better safe then sorry!
SergeantRay
09-21-11, 02:24
I know of a case just last summer where a girl in Cebu died from rabies. So money for rabies shots is not out of the question.
Even if it is a scam, she deserves the twenty bucks for creativity.
Thanks for the feedback guys. David_33 is correct in that I am more of a LTR person than a monger, although I do plan to take advantage of my layover in Manila. I was going to dump her, but from the feedback I have gotten, I am now leaning towards giving her the benefit of the doubt and will assume that she just panicked. BTW, I had already sent the $20 by snail mail to help her out with the internet cafe expenses before this happened. I will not give her any more money until I meet her.
If she is trying to scam me, I will say she is definitely a lot smarter, creative, and patient than the last ones.
FreebieFan
09-21-11, 06:45
Yes, plus the fact that she is a bit older and has three kids. She's not going to risk screwing up a possible relationship for such a small sum. Its easy to get paranoid reading the posts on this forum, but often the girls are in fact honest. I would give her the money, but maybe that´s because I am soft hearted david_33.I often find girls who have had one kid. Then in some case I will know the hips have "flared " there maybe some stomach stetch marks and the boobs may or maynot be affected. I have ocassionalyl gone with a a girl with two kids and the damage has increased. But three kids. I would want to see the product first before entering into a lengthy stay with said lady. (yes I know you werent the original poster.)
I respectfully disagree with you on this one Sammon. The guy seems to be looking for a LTR and doesn't seem to be a monger. The girl in question will bend over backwards to make sure he's happy given her circumstances. You really think she's going to blow it by trying to squeeze Western Union out of a guy who is planning on traveling to her island and staying with her? Maybe she really got bit by a dog and needed some rabies shots. Or maybe I´m just a hopeless romantic.As we experienced visitors to Phi know very well, even if you are looking for LTR there are better options. Not just fall for the first girl with three kids to show interest in you. This guy should weigh his options and decide after going to Phi and meet as many as possible.
I am not against him meeting this lady and falling head over heels for her. Love is blind as they say. Maybe in my younger years I believe that. Now it is more like I am blind and stupid if I am played around before I get into her pussy.
As I was saying he can support her if knowingly done that he is doing social service. Today it is bitten by a dog, tomorrow by a buffallo and the buffallo died etc. We know the routine. A lady with three kids will do anything to milk him. I have never met anybody with more than one kid and that too not living with her. Less baggage means less demand.
All I am saying is once he meets her and she makes him feel happy and satisfied it is ok for him to support her. Since he asked for advice here it is our duty to advice.
The fact that there are also 3 kids involved makes the potential for more requests for help exponentially greater.
Na I think we should start a biz. We could make a fortune scamming guy like this. We can pay the girls a salary of 4k they can have 20 guys sending us money every month. We can do photos and dockets.
Any time a guys visits we can think of some scam and get the police involved so we can clean out his bank accounts.
Oh wait I been living here too long
Chocha Monger
09-21-11, 16:39
Na I think we should start a biz. We could make a fortune scamming guy like this. We can pay the girls a salary of 4k they can have 20 guys sending us money every month. We can do photos and dockets.
Any time a guys visits we can think of some scam and get the police involved so we can clean out his bank accounts.
Oh wait I been living here too longThere are more than a few guys doing that sort of thing already, guys who came to the Philippines and ended up on skid row. They coach the girls and write the sales copy for their profiles on the dating sites where they fish for lonely hearts. When the pension check falls short or the nest egg gets blown on poo-say and grog some expats turn to the second oldest profession. They become cybernetic pimps.
Chocha Monger
09-22-11, 03:30
My questions are:
Did I possibly blow it with this girl by helping out with the $20?
Anyone see this particular scam before?Sending women money before you meet them is never a good idea no matter how small the sum. To you it seems like no big deal. You think, 'It's only 20 dollars. ' She thinks, 'Wow, I just made 840 pesos just by chatting with this guy. ' Soon she is doing multiple chats and pulling 840 pesos and up from dozens of lonely guys. The easy money is like crack cocaine and the requests start. You get mad but can you blame her? Think of it this way, you give your girlfriend a few puffs on a crack pipe. She likes it and wants more. She is addicted to crack. In order to get more to ease the cravings she starts lying and stealing from you. You're angry at her because she is a crack-head. But wasn't you the one that gave her the first taste of that ice?
If no one ever sent Filipinas money without first meeting and boning them there would be no scammers online. When you send money to girls who you've never met in person you're offering incentives for them to become scammers. Filipinos are not loose with their money when dealing with each other. When you start off relationships by dispensing cash don't be annoyed if they start treating you like an ATM. Would you do the same thing at home? Do you give women money to pay for internet access and phone bills simply because they communicate with you?
Now, this girl has 3 mouths to feed. 4 if you include hers. Her priority will always be supporting the kids and herself. If she is spending precious pesos chatting with you most likely she is expecting more than a Viagra induced pounding and some chocolates for her time and money. An hour a day video chatting is a lot of time and money for a girl with that much responsibility to spend on a guy she might never meet. It's quite possible that working the internet is her job. It's not unusual for internet girls to cultivate several sponsors at a time. If you want to play sugar-daddy and save her and the kids then keep at it. Though, it would seem that you're not getting the best return on your investment in light of all the other options available. Perhaps, you're seeking a ready-made family. If not, you may want to reconsider setting the girl and yourself up for a huge disappointment in the future.
Originally Posted by Great Muta in the Manila thread
Kind of off-topic, but does anyone know any good free dating sites in the phillipines? All of the ones I can find either require money to send messages or want cell phone numbers. I would prefer to just sign up and be able to talk to someone for free.
Not sure exactly why he posted this question in the MANILA thread?
Try dateolicious. Com.
Seems to be a new one. I cannot vouch for it but it is free, and not just Asia. Not as user-friendly as DIA but might assist someone burned out with DIA.
Another is Find Love Asia (www.findloveasia.com)
FreebieFan
09-23-11, 10:52
As they used to say." flatter than a pancake "
http://www.dateinasia.com/lookingforman.html
If no one ever sent Filipinas money without first meeting and boning them there would be no scammers online. .Do you give women money to pay for internet access and phone bills simply because they communicate with you?I agree. Sending money without getting anything (sexual) in return is plain stupid. She'll respect you more if you say "No". In fact one of the best things foreigners can learn is how to say "No". This one word will save you tons of cash and prevent many headaches while in SEA.
Jack Burton
09-24-11, 07:31
As they used to say." flatter than a pancake "
http://www.dateinasia.com/lookingforman.htmlYou just ruined my breakfast (pancakes).
http://www.dateinasia.com/simple+Rose14.html
FUn and GAME always! At anytym and any place, GET IT! Shows what you've got and I will show MINE!
I do appreciate enthusiasm and showmanship.
Jack Burton
09-24-11, 07:45
Na I think we should start a biz. We could make a fortune scamming guy like this. We can pay the girls a salary of 4k they can have 20 guys sending us money every month. We can do photos and dockets.
Any time a guys visits we can think of some scam and get the police involved so we can clean out his bank accounts.
Oh wait I been living here too longNice, but I couldn't sleep at night. I'd rather try the cyber method sans the scam. Build a better dateinasia. Com and the mongers will come. Just need to sell ads and offer special memberships cheap. And certainly assist the ladies in writing better copy. Most need the help. Do you think I could I collect payment-in-kind? And would I want to?
Jack Burton
09-24-11, 08:11
I think you guys misunderstood my question. No way I'll ever send money to someone I haven't met. I already know that.
My question was, why do some DIAers find mostly moneygrubbers while other DIAers find mostly genuine girls when it's the same dating pool?If a guy age 55+ is writing a lady age 18-22, she is usually interested in money and he is usually interested in young sex. But I think some guys are attracted to scammers the same way some Al-Anon women can pick out an alcoholic from 50 feet. In both cases, their radar gives them a bad feed.
I knew a guy who wanted to date beautiful women. He made good money, but hadn't considered all his options. I told him "Get plastic surgery." You just have to know your strong and weak points and go from there. Now I would tell him dateinasia. Com. After the surgery, of course.
I get rejected by 19 out of 20 women, sometimes quite expressively. But that 20th woman makes the hunt worthwhile. Or not. There is a reason I read this site, after all.
TurdyCurdyOne
09-25-11, 17:14
Sending women money before you meet them is never a good idea no matter how small the sum. To you it seems like no big deal. You think, 'It's only 20 dollars. ' She thinks, 'Wow, I just made 840 pesos just by chatting with this guy. ' Soon she is doing multiple chats and pulling 840 pesos and up from dozens of lonely guys. The easy money is like crack cocaine and the requests start. You get mad but can you blame her? Think of it this way, you give your girlfriend a few puffs on a crack pipe. She likes it and wants more. She is addicted to crack. In order to get more to ease the cravings she starts lying and stealing from you. You're angry at her because she is a crack-head. But wasn't you the one that gave her the first taste of that ice?
If no one ever sent Filipinas money without first meeting and boning them there would be no scammers online. When you send money to girls who you've never met in person you're offering incentives for them to become scammers. Filipinos are not loose with their money when dealing with each other. When you start off relationships by dispensing cash don't be annoyed if they start treating you like an ATM. Would you do the same thing at home? Do you give women money to pay for internet access and phone bills simply because they communicate with you?
Now, this girl has 3 mouths to feed. 4 if you include hers. Her priority will always be supporting the kids and herself. If she is spending precious pesos chatting with you most likely she is expecting more than a Viagra induced pounding and some chocolates for her time and money. An hour a day video chatting is a lot of time and money for a girl with that much responsibility to spend on a guy she might never meet. It's quite possible that working the internet is her job. It's not unusual for internet girls to cultivate several sponsors at a time. If you want to play sugar-daddy and save her and the kids then keep at it. Though, it would seem that you're not getting the best return on your investment in light of all the other options available. Perhaps, you're seeking a ready-made family. If not, you may want to reconsider setting the girl and yourself up for a huge disappointment in the future.I do not thing the situation is quite so black and white as you paint it.
Sure the women want money, that's true any place in the world; in poorer countries they need it more.
If you give a woman money does not automatically turn her into a scammer, depends on the woman.
I think it's ok to send small amounts as a gift. It's the guys who are stupid and don't know how to say "no" that get abused financially. If it wasn't a pinay milking them it would be someone else. Some people are born to be prey. Are you living in the Philippines; if so for how long. I must say you are even more cynical than I am.
Member #4491
09-25-11, 18:25
As Santa would say. To give is to receive.
I never send money nowadays. Beggars will last 3 sec on my Yahoo-list. I did however send money a few times during the years. A couple of times it turned out to be a well invested token of trust. A couple of times it evolved to some sort or cam tease entertainment and I felt that I got some bang for the buck, sitting in dull Europe. And a couple of times it was a plain rip off. On the level of stealing candy compared to what I spent on other females over the years. But still technically a full scaled rip off.
Shame on me, but a couple of times in the past I took advantage of a girl, having her show her tits and pussy in cam, only to "get a problem with Xoom". Not so elegant or gentleman like, but I blame the beers and previous rip off see*nt (nowadays I am a f*cking saint).
Livejasmin charge 1-2 USD a minute and AsianBabesChat more or less the same. For anyone that wants distraction, entertainment and / or the illusion of a relation, it can be just as well invested money and time, as hundreds of other things people push energy (read money and time) into. CM, I can see your way of reasoning living in the hot zone, but on the other hand we pay several times a day to get a specific emotion. Not only sexual, but several other "states of mind" will be induced by various media we pay for. Books, films, the eructation generally refereed as "news", beers, etc. We spend money distracting ourselves simply, and we take the best one available for our current budget. Most often we will be a part of motivating the provider to continue. And surely providing some sort of cam entertainment, be it social or sexual, is less harmful than crack to the general maximization of happiness? Hell, these on-line providers might even be part of a grand training program where they (we) teach pinays to maintain a dependant mindset, resulting in them on top of one of us, sooner than later. How could we possibly evaluate the real consequences of these 20 USD?
"Scammers" is in fact quite a wide definition. I think it is a way to categorize people who either waste our time or money, or both, and do not produce sufficient return on the investment (but wait. This is the exact description of my "advisor" at the bank).
The simple ones are easily detected and consume very little time. The more elaborate scammers often provide some value, but in the end it turns out to be less than we expected. Still perhaps on a level that will only be considered problematic if we weigh pride and ego into the evaluation. The professional scammers are fortunately very few, and most of us only knows about a friend of a brother of a guy that we heard of, that was scammed of something worth crying about. I can guarantee anyone that Richard S. Fuld, Jr. Created more on-line scammers than the combined ISG population will, in all eternity. One could say that Fuld is Indian Chief Scam number one (or perhaps I have him confused with Chief Henry Paulson?).
Perspective, gentlemen.
All the best from Barba.
Countdown for Davao
Member #4351
09-25-11, 23:38
Livejasmin charge 1-2 USD a minuteNow charging in Euros and comes out to at least $2. 50 a minute. Out of that the girls who work in a "Studio" for a boss get half of what he gets which is 35% of the total. So the girl gets 17. 5% of what you have paid. If you get off on webcam chats, better for both of you to exchange YMs and deal direct.
FurryFriend
09-26-11, 03:06
I do not thing the situation is quite so black and white as you paint it.
Sure the women want money, that's true any place in the world; in poorer countries they need it more.
If you give a woman money does not automatically turn her into a scammer, depends on the woman.
I think it's ok to send small amounts as a.No, it is very simple. Girls who beg are looking for an easy way out. Guys who give are encouraging this behavior. Black and white.
Keep in mind most Filipinas comes from huge families. If she needs money for something crucial (tuition, medical, burial, exam fees, etc) how come she can't ask her parents, siblings or her several dozen uncles, aunts or cousins? The answer is, her "need" is bullshit (new phone, partying, clothes, etc). And her family won't give money for it.
Also, most guys give $ expecting her to be an exclusive girlfriend. If you give with the understanding that she's also asking other guys, fine. Also, if you give, she's very likely using your $ to party with other guys. Some pinoy is fucking her with condoms that you paid for. Again, if you're OK with it, it's your call.
Bottom line is, a guy shouldn't just give without getting something in return, whether its sex or some exclusive arrangement that leads to marriage. If you give and not take, you deserve to be had. Why not give to recognized charities instead that would ensure your $ truly goes to something life saving?
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