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Wow, they look soft, don't they? Her arms look a bit flabby, I doubt that she is really 84lb. And works in the sewer? I wonder what that is about.
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Mr Enternational
09-26-11, 08:50
No, it is very simple. Girls who beg are looking for an easy way out. Guys who give are encouraging this behavior. Black and white.
Keep in mind most Filipinas comes from huge families. If she needs money for something crucial (tuition, medical, burial, exam fees, etc) how come she can't ask her parents, siblings or her several dozen uncles, aunts or cousins? The answer is, her "need" is bullshit (new phone, partying, clothes, etc). And her family won't give money for it.FF you think along the same lines as I do. I just showed up on the scene 5 minutes ago and now all of a sudden I am your savior? What did you do last time you had a problem before you knew me? What will you do next time you have a problem if I am not there? You have all of these friends and family, yet you ask of a total / virtual stranger? That reeks of scam. But why not ask? Some sucker will eventually say yes. And what is the worst that can happen? They may say no. Big deal. A closed mouth doesn't get fed.
As Barba said, someone who asks for money will last about 3 seconds with me. Last week I met a girl here in Thailand from Tagged. She is an accountant. We hung out together all day Sunday. I had no intentions of fucking, but right before I was about to take her home we miraculously started fucking. Two days later she texted me this message and when I ignored it she sent it in messenger." (9/23/2011 9:40:35 PM) : Hi how are you my love, are you busy? I need you help me can I borrow 6500 bath? Do you have end of this month I will give back to you promise, I'm wait you reply thanks have a good day kiss" All of a sudden she needs to send her mother $200 and I'm the only person she can get it from? Seems to me she could have at least asked her boss for an advance or something because she would have better luck finding Tupac than getting money from me (without equally-valued collateral).
Jack Burton
09-26-11, 15:31
I can guarantee anyone that Richard S. Fuld, Jr. Created more on-line scammers than the combined ISG population will, in all eternity. One could say that Fuld is Indian Chief Scam number one (or perhaps I have him confused with Chief Henry Paulson?).Perhaps I don't know Richard S. Fuld, Jr. From Elmer Fudd (fear, uncertainty, doubt and despair) but I do know we get scammed / spammed at least as often as our Asia sisters. And Henry Paulson? Did he not run for President on the People Opposing Tyranny (P. O. T.) Party? Maybe that Patrick L. Paulson; I get them confused.
In the short run, it's all entertainment. In the long run, each of us is dead (but not all. Some of us have children). Keynes was an idiot, but he did teach me how to trade currencies for fun and profit. Don't fight the Swiss Central Bank or the interest rate trend.
Is Fields Ave. Back to business as usual?
TurdyCurdyOne
09-26-11, 20:39
No, it is very simple. Girls who beg are looking for an easy way out. Guys who give are encouraging this behavior. Black and white.
Keep in mind most Filipinas comes from huge families. If she needs money for something crucial (tuition, medical, burial, exam fees, etc) how come she can't ask her parents, siblings or her several dozen uncles, aunts or cousins? The answer is, her "need" is bullshit (new phone, partying, clothes, etc). And her family won't give money for it.
Also, most guys give $ expecting her to be an exclusive girlfriend. If you give with the understanding that she's also asking other guys, fine. Also, if you give, she's very likely using your $ to party with other guys. Some pinoy is fucking her with condoms that you paid for. Again, if you're OK with it, it's your call.
Bottom line is, a guy shouldn't just give without getting something in return, whether its sex or some exclusive arrangement that leads to marriage. If you give and not take, you deserve to be had. Why not give to recognized charities instead that would ensure your $ truly goes to something life saving?No offense, but you sound like a heartless B*stard.
I guess I did not make myself clear in my post that you quoted, sorry for that.
I have never given money when they asked. I gave as bday present out of the goodness of my heart and BECAUSE they ran errands and did things for me there, never for nothing.
These women pay to talk to me in chat cafes. They educate me about the Phil and they find things out for me there. That plus their companionship is worth it to me to show a little generosity on their bdays.
People who know me know I am no soft touch, far from it. But I recognize these women on DIA are in a SH*T country with Cr*p opportunities. I would probably do the same thing in their situation, try to find a way out by marriage or similar. I might even ask for money.
That being said, I have noticed that many PRETEND to be very poor when they actually have far more resources then they admit to.
But you are right about one thing, many Filipinas are looking for an easy way out with no effort on their part. They expect to be swept off their feet by a foreigner on a white horse and they offer little in return. Thats probably 90% of them want something for nothing. I drop those quickly and without looking back.
Really, many of you guys need to wake up imnsho.
Member #4491
09-26-11, 23:42
Elmer Fudd. LOL! . Guess we all would be better of if that was the case.
I got the hang of how to trade my currency for fun but, I wish someone would teach also me to trade currency for profit. No matter how much I trade, I end up with less.
B.
FreebieFan
09-27-11, 01:45
As Barba said, someone who asks for money will last about 3 seconds with me. Last week I met a girl here in Thailand from Tagged. She is an accountant. We hung out together all day Sunday. I had no intentions of fucking, but right before I was about to take her home we miraculously started fucking. Two days later she texted me this message and when I ignored it she sent it in messenger." (9/23/2011 9:40:35 PM) : Hi how are you my love, are you busy? I need you help me can I borrow 6500 bath? Do you have end of this month I will give back to you promise, I'm wait you reply thanks have a good day kiss" All of a sudden she needs to send her mother $200 and I'm the only person she can get it from? collateral).As one distinguished member once stated here," if they don't get the money they need from you they will get from someone else, so don't feel bad in saying no.". After last weeks excesses in Manila, the first one I had send me some messages about how she has "problems: and would I call her so she could explain.
The last one was having a housing problem and could I loan her P6000 so that she could get her own place to live.
In both cases the ladies at least had the good grace and style to only ask after we had had sex and after they were safely home and back in the comfort of textworld. The best I had before was when a one time freebie asked if I would buy her a new motorbike. I said no, and we continued to meet many times thereafter.
FurryFriend
09-27-11, 03:22
I have never given money when they asked. I gave as bday present out of the goodness of my heart and BECAUSE they ran errands and did things for me there, never for nothing.We're talking about completely different things then.
We're not talking about girls who've been a friend in a traditional sense and you buy her a Christmas or birthday gift. We're talking about girls we've just met (whether online or in-person) and they start pitching for money.
Chocha Monger
09-27-11, 04:37
No, it is very simple. Girls who beg are looking for an easy way out. Guys who give are encouraging this behavior. Black and white.
Keep in mind most Filipinas comes from huge families. If she needs money for something crucial (tuition, medical, burial, exam fees, etc) how come she can't ask her parents, siblings or her several dozen uncles, aunts or cousins? The answer is, her "need" is bullshit (new phone, partying, clothes, etc). And her family won't give money for it.
Also, most guys give $ expecting her to be an exclusive girlfriend. If you give with the understanding that she's also asking other guys, fine. Also, if you give, she's very likely using your $ to party with other guys. Some pinoy is fucking her with condoms that you paid for. Again, if you're OK with it, it's your call.
Bottom line is, a guy shouldn't just give without getting something in return, whether its sex or some exclusive arrangement that leads to marriage. If you give and not take, you deserve to be had. Why not give to recognized charities instead that would ensure your $ truly goes to something life saving?So true! But I'm afraid that many guys are used to being doormats for women in the West and they find it hard to relate to women without opening their wallets before getting any favors from her. Anyone sending money to a woman who they've only met in cyberspace is a sucker. While it's true that these morons can do what they please with their money, their actions fuck things up for others using online sites. The news that free money is being given out online soon brings a bunch of other leeches to the dating site. This results in other users having to waste time sorting out the bullshit girls looking for easy money from the girls who genuinely want to meet. Sites like DIA realize this and warn that they not only ban girls asking for money but they will also ban the idiots who send them money then complain about being scammed.
Many guys cry about the Philippines being a poor country and in their minds this makes it right for the girls to beg for money. These are the same guys who get pissed when a trike or taxi driver pulls some bullshit on them for a few more pesos. So, why is it cool for the girls to beg for money without doing shit for a guy but it's not cool for a driver who is actually doing a little work to try his luck for some more pesos in return for his services? It seems that having a pussy entitles the girls to this right. It's typical weak dick Western male thinking.
FreebieFan
09-27-11, 07:03
. It's typical weak dick Western male thinking.Sir alex Ferguson said in his BBC interview yesterday " I'm a confrontational person. I always think my view is correct. I don't like people answering me back ". I wonder if you are related.
Jack Burton
09-27-11, 10:05
I got the hang of how to trade my currency for fun but, I wish someone would teach also me to trade currency for profit. No matter how much I trade, I end up with less.
B.The short method is to find the most recent Goldman Sux advice to its *retail* clients and then trade the other way. Medium way is to wait for the government intervention to end, and then jump on the other side. Challenging (and most profitable way) is to write up some equations that indicate a trend, and follow trend as long as it hasn't gone stale, as determined by other equations. Do not try to invest based purely on purchasing power parity or debt / deficit levels. That way leads to one's own deficit or debt. If you watch it long enough, you will find patterns.
My method was to understand interest rates, which is tough when US, for example, plays an "Operation Twist". I will say, as of 27 Sep 2011. Do not expect gold / silver to hit a new high soon, as margin percentages have been raised to the extent that many marginal players are being played. But we don't all have the balls to sell deep in the money calls on AGQ last week, nor to cover them midday Monday. Oil inventories are also a thing I watch. They have been high for years in US. Don't know about other places, but timing on that is harder than for interest rates / currencies, meaning lost money trying that.
FreebieFan
09-27-11, 10:13
You just ruined my breakfast (pancakes).
http://www.dateinasia.com/simple+Rose14.html
FUn and GAME always! At anytym and any place, GET IT! Shows what you've got and I will show MINE!
I do appreciate enthusiasm and showmanship.Http://www.dateinasia.com/liona_cute.html. Altho a plastic bag might be a good accessory on meeting said girl.
FreebieFan
09-27-11, 10:17
Originally Posted by Great Muta in the Manila thread
Kind of off-topic, but does anyone know any good free dating sites in the phillipines? All of the ones I can find either require money to send messages or want cell phone numbers. I would prefer to just sign up and be able to talk to someone for free.
Not sure exactly why he posted this question in the MANILA thread?
Try dateolicious.com.
Seems to be a new one. I cannot vouch for it but it is free, and not just Asia. Not as user-friendly as DIA but might assist someone burned out with DIA.
Another is Find Love Asia (
www.findloveasia.comMamboo has delivered one or two recent successes also. Even tho its membership is reasonably limited in numbers.
FreebieFan
09-27-11, 10:49
We laugh sometimes here about the spellings and crazy statements that some of the babaes make, but here's a xioajie in China who sent me a message. On reviewing her profile it says:
My name is YaoFengYu. I have a stable job, my career is a dress designer. I want to find a can and I for life, because I want to get find belongs to own that love, and the man I love. I think and I love the people together to work hard, to create a better tomorrow. I like to travel and I also like shopping. I have no BiYueXiuHua appearance, but I very sexy. I am the top hall, descend kitchen of women.
My Perfect Match:I hope my love good, filial piety, steady heavy, thoughtful understand, heavy affection; Like me to love life, to have a romantic feelings, let me be depended upon, and I hope sincere person can intercourse with me.
I of course added that I would be happy to intercourse with her!
Many guys cry about the Philippines being a poor country and in their minds this makes it right for the girls to beg for money. These are the same guys who get pissed when a trike or taxi driver pulls some bullshit on them for a few more pesos. So, why is it cool for the girls to beg for money without doing shit for a guy but it's not cool for a driver who is actually doing a little work to try his luck for some more pesos in return for his services? It seems that having a pussy entitles the girls to this right. It's typical weak dick Western male thinking.Again, Chocha nails it.
Wow, they look soft, don't they? Her arms look a bit flabby, I doubt that she is really 84lb. And works in the sewer? I wonder what that is about.
XShe means sewer as in a person that sews.
Just arrived in the Philippines for the first time, but am a regular visitor of Asia for both work and holiday. I did some preparation by reading this forum and signed up with some of the dating sites. After some chat sessions I decided to give it a try with a girl who just lives outside Manila. She came with the bus, and we met in one of the malls. I'm no Brad Pitt but kind of felt like one with her. 19 yo, perfect body, pretty face, and after some small lunch to my hotel room and great sex. She left about an hour later and only wanted some money for the bus fare. Can I consider this as some beginner luck or is this really paradise?
FreebieFan
09-28-11, 07:16
http://www.dateinasia.com/shalom_80.html!
WestCoast1
09-28-11, 12:04
19 yo, perfect body, pretty face, and after some small lunch to my hotel room and great sex. She left about an hour later and only wanted some money for the bus fare. Can I consider this as some beginner luck or is this really paradise?It really is paradise. Punctuated with brief, stark moments of hell thrown in at times (scammers, pickpockets, ladyboys, corrupt cops, etc.).
It really is paradise. Punctuated with brief, stark moments of hell thrown in at times (scammers, pickpockets, ladyboys, corrupt cops, etc.).Sounds like a lot of fun to me.
So far I only met one ladyboy and a lot of asshole taxi drivers. The ladyboy was really fun, great sense of humor. Later on, can I come with you? Ehh. No thanks. Some of the taxi drivers are really asking to be treated like shit.
My plan is to visit some of the smaller cities south. If anyone has some suggestions, let me know. For now I have Davao, Cagayan de Oro and Cebu on my list. Hopefully the weather is there better too.
Hi Freebie, I'm meeting her at my hotel in Jakarta next March. We've been emailing. Has anyone else been with her? I'll let you know how it goes next year. Not a ravenous beauty but love those boobs!Next March? 2012?
Good grief mate. That will take some stamina to keep her hot AND safe for you by that time.
I have 2 friends who have been having chats with her too. Good luck and I hope you can keep your place in the queue.
FreebieFan
09-29-11, 02:25
Hi Freebie, I'm meeting her at my hotel in Jakarta next March. We've been emailing. Has anyone else been with her? I'll let you know how it goes next year. Not a ravenous beauty but love those boobs!As with Red; s comments I think we've all been chatting with her. I nearly had a Jakarta trip but sadly it fell through, otherwise would have been meeting her in a weeks time. She did tell me she talks to lots of guys. Can't imagine why. LOL. Enjoy Jakarta! I always do!
Charlie Horse
09-29-11, 12:38
http://www.dateinasia.com/shalom_80.html
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Hi Freebie, I'm meeting her at my hotel in Jakarta next March. We've been emailing. Has anyone else been with her? I'll let you know how it goes next year. Not a ravenous beauty but love those boobs!
Next March? 2012?
Good grief mate. That will take some stamina to keep her hot AND safe for you by that time.
I have 2 friends who have been having chats with her too. Good luck and I hope you can keep your place in the queue.
As with Red; s comments I think we've all been chatting with her. I nearly had a Jakarta trip but sadly it fell through, otherwise would have been meeting her in a weeks time. She did tell me she talks to lots of guys. Can't imagine why. LOL. Enjoy Jakarta! I always do!She's also on Tagged. Yolanda S Apparently she works in a shoe store on Bloc M. Very willing to bring samples to my room. The pics on tagged are better.
She's also on Tagged. Yolanda S Apparently she works in a shoe store on Bloc M. Very willing to bring samples to my room. The pics on tagged are better.Nice pics on Tagged.
She is obviously a very popular lass.
If D Cups meets her he will have died and gone to paradise already
FreebieFan
09-30-11, 02:17
Been searching around on a few new websites. Found a few with nice ladies, and currently chatting with a young lady who is 29, has a kid, nice figure nice face etc and she tells me she hasnt had sex for 6 years. Damn. 6 days and I'm already looking at girls with lust in my eyes (more so than normal LOL)
FreebieFan
09-30-11, 04:52
Ok every now and again we get into the subject of tipping which clearly has different connotations for different folks. And whilst we all expect to be hit on by the odd taxi driver I had never heard of an internet tip, till now.
One young gal on DIA claimed to have lots of college friends.
Said Hi to her and asked if she had one with big boobs, as one of my gf's wanted to experience kissing a girls boobs as a birthday gift from me. (beats asking for a new dress!)
Said girl said yes she could arrange, and gave contact number etc. We exchanged price information etc. Next message " and Sir where is my tip for doing this ". Got to love the attempt.
. Found a few with nice ladies, and currently chatting with a young lady who is 29, has a kid, nice figure nice face etc and she tells me she hasnt had sex for 6 years. .I bet if you asked her how old the kid was she would probably have said anything from 1yo to 4yo.
6 years sounds like an improbably long time Freebie, but I am sure you will assess it appropriately eventually.
ChiefThinker
09-30-11, 18:04
Said girl said yes she could arrange, and gave contact number etc. We exchanged price information etc. Next message " and Sir where is my tip for doing this ". Got to love the attempt.Do you mind sharing the pricing info she gave you?
I'm chatting with a LB that also has "real" girlfriends her pricing was 3000 for ST and 5000 for LT.
I bet if you asked her how old the kid was she would probably have said anything from 1yo to 4yo.
6 years sounds like an improbably long time Freebie, but I am sure you will assess it appropriately eventually.That would be nice one. Please update us with the answer.
After a couple of chat-sessions, I met a nice young lady yesterday who told me that she could only visit me if I would send her some money for the bus fare in advance because she didn't have it and there was no one to borrow from. I told her I would give it to her at our meeting. She immediately agreed with that so she was lying to me. But for some reason she was not thinking ahead like that. Or she had the impression that I was even more stupid than I really am.
Sex was good, talking was going nowhere.
Welcome to Paradise, Bloomberg.Thank you! Although I start to see some cracks in the perfect picture already, I am still enjoying it very much here! Let's hope we survive the typhon of tomorrow.
Cheers!
TurdyCurdyOne
10-01-11, 20:37
We're talking about completely different things then.
We're not talking about girls who've been a friend in a traditional sense and you buy her a Christmas or birthday gift. We're talking about girls we've just met (whether online or in-person) and they start pitching for money.You're right, but.
Sometimes I send a girl money just because I like her and want to help her.
If that interferes with Chonga, et al's *****mongering activies, thats T. S.
Alot of these guys are just bitter, angry and cheap charlies. I am cheap but I am not heartless.
My rule is usually if she has done something for me I will send her an amount comensurate with what she has done. I have several ladies I have chatted with for several years. I consider them friends. A friend is alot more valuable than just a piece of a, imnsho
After meeting 2 girls who were only interested in a long-term relationship I decided to become more direct during chatting. One of the girls I am chatting with wants to meet for a drink and sex but she only wants sex if she can be on top. I asked her why and she responded that "missionary sex makes my ass flat". Never heard that one before but ok, I asked her what about doggystyle, she did not know that so she said she will ask. I wanted to know who she will ask this too but she did not respond to that.
Does anyone know this "belief" or is this girl just playing with me?
Furthermore, I find the dating sites very helpful together with all the info here on the forum. It is a hit-and-miss kind of thing but I enjoy it very much. So far I have divided all my experiences in the following categories:
1. Girls that are looking for a long-term relationship, getting sex on short notice proofs to be really tough.
2. Girls that really want to meet a foreigner, getting sex is quite easy, only pay for some food, bus fare, a little present like chocolates.
3. Semi-professionals, girls with other jobs or students, sex is easy but they are clear about money, asking prices vary 1000-3000 pesos.
4. Professionals.
Until now I decided to avoid (semi) professionals and only focus on the first two groups, although you can never be sure of course.
DriveAllNight
10-02-11, 22:48
For the record, I've been having missionary sex for years with exactly zero ass damage.
After meeting 2 girls who were only interested in a long-term relationship I decided to become more direct during chatting. One of the girls I am chatting with wants to meet for a drink and sex but she only wants sex if she can be on top. I asked her why and she responded that "missionary sex makes my ass flat". Never heard that one before but ok, I asked her what about doggystyle, she did not know that so she said she will ask. I wanted to know who she will ask this too but she did not respond to that.
Does anyone know this "belief" or is this girl just playing with me?
Furthermore, I find the dating sites very helpful together with all the info here on the forum. It is a hit-and-miss kind of thing but I enjoy it very much. So far I have divided all my experiences in the following categories:
1. Girls that are looking for a long-term relationship, getting sex on short notice proofs to be really tough.
2. Girls that really want to meet a foreigner, getting sex is quite easy, only pay for some food, bus fare, a little present like chocolates.
3. Semi-professionals, girls with other jobs or students, sex is easy but they are clear about money, asking prices vary 1000-3000 pesos.
4. Professionals.
Until now I decided to avoid (semi) professionals and only focus on the first two groups, although you can never be sure of course.
Tally Wacker
10-02-11, 23:03
After meeting 2 girls who were only interested in a long-term relationship I decided to become more direct during chatting. One of the girls I am chatting with wants to meet for a drink and sex but she only wants sex if she can be on top. I asked her why and she responded that "missionary sex makes my ass flat". Never heard that one before but ok, I asked her what about doggystyle, she did not know that so she said she will ask. I wanted to know who she will ask this too but she did not respond to that.She probably heard it from an Aunt of hers that has a flat ass and who also spent alot of time on her back fucking.
I wonder if she will report back to you that she has a relative who barks like a dog from too much doggie style?
Filipinos are very supperstitious and they fuck alot too!
WestCoast1
10-02-11, 23:16
I asked her what about doggystyle, she did not know that so she said she will ask. I wanted to know who she will ask this too but she did not respond to that.Her boyfriend.
For the record, I've been having missionary sex for years with exactly zero ass damage.Hahaha killing me here. High-five?
For the record: I've been rogering pinay ass for years.
FreebieFan
10-03-11, 02:17
I bet if you asked her how old the kid was she would probably have said anything from 1yo to 4yo.
6 years sounds like an improbably long time Freebie, but I am sure you will assess it appropriately eventually.Hi RK. Kid is about 8, she insisted on showing me her pic. Anyway her phone number is somewhere on the list of 23 phone numbers I already have for my next trip. Some will bubble up to the top closer to trip, some will bubble down. So little time and so much to do. LOL
I wonder if she will report back to you that she has a relative who barks like a dog from too much doggie style?Despite being very funny Tally, I am sure that there will be some girls who will believe that could happen. I actually had a girl tell me she was scared of "doggy-style" because "what if your dick gets stuck in my pussy like it does for dogs".
Extraordinarily superstitious people and with inadequate clarification of events through poor education they end up believing very weird things.
DriveAllNight
10-03-11, 06:24
I actually had a girl tell me she was scared of "doggy-style" because "what if your dick gets stuck in my pussy like it does for dogs".Tell her you'll have a neighbor douse the both of you with the garden hose. Worked for me when my German Shepherd got stuck inside a beagle.
FreebieFan
10-03-11, 08:05
Do you mind sharing the pricing info she gave you?
I'm chatting with a LB that also has "real" girlfriends her pricing was 3000 for ST and 5000 for LT.Try Artie 17 on DIA
She probably heard it from an Aunt of hers that has a flat ass and who also spent alot of time on her back fucking.
I wonder if she will report back to you that she has a relative who barks like a dog from too much doggie style?
Filipinos are very supperstitious and they fuck alot too!I will meet this lady this afternoon, will be an interesting experience I think. So far, I have the impression that she is serious about this and really beliefs this. By the way, last week I had a girl who told me during a small snack in a mall that she beliefs you should wait with sex until you are married cause that is what the church tells you to do. She told me she goes to church every week a couple of times and that girls who have sex before marriage are bad and sluts. After that she went with me to my room and I f*cked the sh*t out of her. Seems to me they have some strange kind of double standards here.
FreebieFan
10-03-11, 08:12
You have to love it when the girl of your choice (or were you the target of her choice) gets all hot and excited about a meet. They meet you, sex is ok they tell you it was fantastic, act all offended if you offer a few shillings, then later come up with an emergency as a means to try to secure some recompense.
A good well tried and tested trick. Any member who would like to have a chit chat with the following will no doubt enjoy watching said girl go thru her machinations. Thighs an inch or two thicker than you would want but very pretty face and amazing real eyelashes. Ncie young kid who was well taught about how to try to get money.
On dia called k-lah, on YM Godessa flores.
LOL on the dog comments.
Once I had a girl tell me that having the air con on in the room was bad for her uterus.
Never mind screwing a foreigner for $$$.
Still not as funny as the dog comments.
Member #4643
10-03-11, 14:15
After meeting 2 girls who were only interested in a long-term relationship I decided to become more direct during chatting. One of the girls I am chatting with wants to meet for a drink and sex but she only wants sex if she can be on top. I asked her why and she responded that "missionary sex makes my ass flat". Never heard that one before but ok, I asked her what about doggystyle, she did not know that so she said she will ask. I wanted to know who she will ask this too but she did not respond to that.
Does anyone know this "belief" or is this girl just playing with me?
Furthermore, I find the dating sites very helpful together with all the info here on the forum. It is a hit-and-miss kind of thing but I enjoy it very much. So far I have divided all my experiences in the following categories:
1. Girls that are looking for a long-term relationship, getting sex on short notice proofs to be really tough.
2. Girls that really want to meet a foreigner, getting sex is quite easy, only pay for some food, bus fare, a little present like chocolates.
3. Semi-professionals, girls with other jobs or students, sex is easy but they are clear about money, asking prices vary 1000-3000 pesos.
4. Professionals.
Until now I decided to avoid (semi) professionals and only focus on the first two groups, although you can never be sure of course.I think group 2 really does not exist. I had a DIA girl a few years ago who came on a bus to meet me for 5 hours. She spent three days with me, and fucked me within 5 minutes of her arrival in Makati City. She was very clear after the first day that she expected some nice gifts at the local shopping mall (I bought her a nice cell phone, amongst other things) , she wanted nice meals, etc and in the end wanted a long term relationship. She was definitely not a pro or semi pro, as she had a very good job as a scuba dive master. I might have stuck with her, but we had no chemistry whatsoever (this did not seem to bother her; she would watch TV, quickly fuck me, and then go back to TV. Or she would fuck me and then ask to go shopping. I found her completely uninteresting).
As for group 1, I think it can be subdivided: those that fuck you within the first few minutes, and those that fuck you on the second date.
I would love to hear the strategies some of the guys use for choosing their DIA girls.
i would love to hear the strategies some of the guys use for choosing their dia girls.[/quote]got onto dia after reading about it here prior to my last business trip to manila. was swamped with offers including the 5 hour by bus variety. felt bad about those as what if they didn't work out? anyway settled on the local offerings.
first night in makati sat at havana with 25 working girls as backup. and worked my phone with the 3 numbers i kept.
first girl (27 year old beauty therapist) said she was on her way, then rung back 5 mins before she was due to arrive. had not left home, but wanted to see me later in the week. whatever, (but was not surprised having read about the getting to the prom issues here). so tried number 2.
number 2 was a beautiful girl called tequila. go check her out on dia. had a very confusing couple of calls. she wanted me to come to her. wanted money (of course) in the end she said she was busy that night.
meantime number one was texting again with a change of heart. after sometime she turned up. wow! within 30 mins we were back at the new world going for it. the next day no question of money. after breakfast she left. within the hour texted and asked to meet again that night. and so we did for the next 4. dinner, drinks and back to the new world.
on the last day i offered some money to help her which she declined, but in the end took 5, 000 p for her to spend on her daughter she'd given up to a relative after falling pregnant very young. a truly lovely girl. we are meeting again when next in manila this november.
the good news i am in kl next week and have already worked the dia spin. and have 3 phone numbers!
I think group 2 really does not exist.I beg to differ. I have had quite a few girls that fall into this catagory.
So far I have divided all my experiences in the following categories:
1. Girls that are looking for a long-term relationship, getting sex on short notice proofs to be really tough.
2. Girls that really want to meet a foreigner, getting sex is quite easy, only pay for some food, bus fare, a little present like chocolates.
3. Semi-professionals, girls with other jobs or students, sex is easy but they are clear about money, asking prices vary 1000-3000 pesos.
4. Professionals.Of all the sites you played with, as a whole, what percentage of the girls fall into which categories? Also, does the girls age have anything to do with which category she fits in?
I agree with Python, group 2 exists for sure. Had many samples. This is the group that just wants to have fun. Not directly in the sexual sense. But for a girl from a poor family, spending time in a nice mall, eating at a restaurant and getting some small
Presents on top of that, is really a "nice day out". The sex can be just the price she knows she has to pay for that or which she
Also enjoys too. That will mostly not depend on her but on you (are looks).
Many girls do not fall in one category. Many of them fall in more than one, especially 1 and 2. And how many pro's you think would stay in the business if they could find a nice bf who could take financially care of them on the level they earn with their job? So 1 and 4 and 1 and 3 also mix.
As usual, little is life is black or white.
Mr Enternational
10-03-11, 21:39
Got onto DIA after reading about it here prior to my last business trip to Manila. First night in Makati sat at Havana with 25 working girls as backup. And worked my phone with the 3 numbers I kept.What about #3? Did you not get a chance to pursue her due to #1?
Of all the sites you played with, as a whole, what percentage of the girls fall into which categories? Also, does the girls age have anything to do with which category she fits in?Hello, Amjeck,
I made the following summary of my activities so far, if someone has comments or ideas, feel free!
For finding girls I have used the following sites: DIA, Filipinocupid, Filipinokisses, Tagged, Facebook. Almost all the girls have YM so I try to chat with them via Messenger. If the girl brings up the subject of money during the first or second chat session, I stop with her. This way I try to end up only with girls who are not doing this primarily for the money. My estimation is that I lose about 70-80% of the girls during this step. It happens quite often that a girl asked within minutes if you can help her with tuition money, a repair of the house, the hospital bill for some sick relative, load for their phone. The best one so far was a girl who said an elephant had damaged some of the crops of her father. I think she had used the Thai manual instead of the Filipina version of making some money online but ok.
With the girls that remain on my list, I try to arrange a meeting in a mall for a chat and something small to eat. So far, I have met eight different girls and took three of them back to my room later on. Three of the other five showed up with friends or family members, the other two I just didn't like. I guess the girls who are not coming alone are not meeting to have sex straight away but want something long-term. If someone has some good ideas how to handle this kind of situations, feel free to post it!
I am still meeting two of the three girls I have had sex with so far. One of them is surprisingly fast transforming from a willing and horny teenager into something that is nagging, jealous, addicted to texting other people and watching Filipino soap series. Looks like it is time to move on.
BB
Of all the sites you played with, as a whole, what percentage of the girls fall into which categories? Also, does the girls age have anything to do with which category she fits in?As an old hand on DIA, I don't think it is easy to categorise girls into 3 or 4 groups, because what you read on their profiles rarely correlates with how they behave or how they feel about guys.
You really cannot tell until AFTER YOU MEET them.
I have had numerous examples of girls who you might think were religious maniacs or who seemed to be genuinely looking for a long-term relationship and who had the routine "no scammers; no liars" phrases in their profiles who turned out to be quite the opposite when I met them and they were quite different after they had established that I was OK and not the bad foreigner that they have heard about.
One woman that I met in a coffee shop who was a professional with a good job told me after 5 minutes of talking that she had 2 hours off from work and we could go back to my hotel and if it worked out she would return later that evening. Prior to meeting her I was not at all confident that she would stay for 30 minutes over the coffee. Her profile gave no indication of her intention.
I can give other examples where the profile did NOT represent the behavior.
The sexy photos with the woman showing a lot of cleavage etc does NOT mean she is good to go. In fact, rather perversely, this often means the opposite.
In general, even the hard- nosed hookers (Category 3 & 4 from above) will still put syrupy messages in their profiles on DIA because they still hope that they just might meet their Mr Nice Guy who will fall for them and sweep them away from their difficult lives.
You need to actually meet many of these women before you make a judgement. Do not promise ANYTHING on chat or messages until you meet them. Always allow yourself an escape hole in case she turns out to be a dud in the first meeting so that you can gracefully exit and get on to the next name on your list. I think more have turned out to be gems when I met them than have been duds so I always try to meet them before I make an assessment.
I am going to visit I the Philippines in February, I tried last weekend to contact some members of Dia and Tagged.
Honestly I have not had much success, perhaps due to my destination is far away and I was honest with them I have not promised them a meeting place for a serious relationship, but asking them to have fun.
The responses were mostly negative, and I only received interest from gay men and transvestites.
Perhaps the residents are luckier because they are coveted by the girls who live in the country.
Perhaps I am being a tourist in Manila that he will soon be better to go directly to the MBC without losing much time in chat rooms.
What do you advise me?
Is it worth spending time in meetings with uncertain results?
I am not a frequent user of DIA, I mostly use Cherry Blossoms.
Of the women that I meet, almost all fall into the Category 2 variety.
We agree to meet.
We meet.
Within a short time we go to my hotel, and within minutes of entering the room, I am entering her private parts.
Money is rarely raised, and I offer some money for presents for the kids or something, plus something to offset the cost of bus fares.
Easy,
G
Member #4351
10-04-11, 23:54
I am going to visit I the Philippines in February, I tried last weekend to contact some members of Dia and Tagged. Honestly I have not had much successWait until January.
SergeantRay
10-05-11, 01:48
"I guess the girls who are not coming alone are not meeting to have sex straight away but want something long-term. If someone has some good ideas how to handle this kind of situations, feel free to post it!"
Bloomberg,
The problem of a girl bringing a whole lot of friends / family along is a common one. If you buy Jollibee for her and two friends, eventually leading to sex, then okay, but how do you know you're not being taken advantage of by a girl who has no interest in you?
One friend of mine says,"If you come alone, I will buy you a meal, but if you bring friends, I'll only buy drinks."
Another friend of mine had a girl show up with a dozen family members. He excused himself to the restroom, climbed out the window, and took off!
You can try to insist on meeting the girl alone, in public. Most girls should be able to handle that. If you stick this as a policy, you may "lose" some girls, but who knows how many of them are freeloaders / moochers?
Another possibility would be to limit it to the girl and one friend. Try Starbucks, Bo's, or something like Zagu, where you can get a drink for something like 50 pesos.
If that one friend is her mother, it is often not the deal-killer you think it would be. Typically, the girl likes the macho, unemployed, shabu-using young Filipino guy, while her mother is encouraging her to meet a mature, wealthy foreigner. The last meeting I had with a mom went well. We went to Jollibee's, mom got lunch (I insisted) , mom went back to work, and my girl and I went on our date.
If you can approach a lone girl in person in Colon or at the mall, you can avoid the whole issue of the Partridge Family bus rolling up at the Jollibee's where you agreed to meet.
FreebieFan
10-05-11, 06:41
"I guess the girls who are not coming alone are not meeting to have sex straight away but want something long-term. If someone has some good ideas how to handle this kind of situations, feel free to post it!"
Bloomberg,
The problem of a girl bringing a whole lot of friends / family along is a common one. If you buy Jollibee for her and two friends, eventually leading to sex, then okay, but how do you know you're not being taken advantage of by a girl who has no interest in you?
One friend of mine says,"If you come alone, I will buy you a meal, but if you bring friends, I'll only buy drinks."
Another friend of mine had a girl show up with a dozen family members. He excused himself to the restroom, climbed out the window, and took off!
You can try to insist on meeting the girl alone, in public. Most girls should be able to handle that. If you stick this as a policy, you may "lose" some girls, but who knows how many of them are freeloaders / moochers?
Another possibility would be to limit it to the girl and one friend. Try Starbucks, Bo's, or something like Zagu, where you can get a drink for something like 50 pesos.
If that one friend is her mother, it is often not the deal-killer you think it would be. Typically, the girl likes the macho, unemployed, shabu-using young Filipino guy, while her mother is encouraging her to meet a mature, wealthy foreigner. The last meeting I had with a mom went well. We went to Jollibee's, mom got lunch (I insisted) , mom went back to work, and my girl and I went on our date.
If you can approach a lone girl in person in Colon or at the mall, you can avoid the whole issue of the Partridge Family bus rolling up at the Jollibee's where you agreed to meet.Just went through a whole lot of drama about the " friend" thing with a Filipina here in Taipei.
23 lovely and would have been a good bedmate. If I could have got her there.
We agree to meet, then 2 hours before I'm going to depart to her city she says " well I'm bringing my friend its ok for you.
No honey its not ok, I'm 50 plus years old and I don't need to entertain your friend much less for her food and drink. Said lady gives me the " its not safe for a Filipina to meet a foreigner line " I of course suggest that we are in Taipei maybe we are both the foreigner. That got the " huh?" reply as expected.
Anyways she insists that friend comes and that maybe on second date she would meet me alone.
She then says if I go alone what would my plans have been.
I reply we could have lunched, drank then probably repaired to a short time hotel as I have done with many many other Filipinas in her city.
She replied with the classic " but I'm not that kind of girl ". I replied " neither we the others " then hit delete.
Once in Manila for the sheer fun of seeing what would happen I agreed to meet one girl who had told she would bring her cousin. Which was true plus the cousins mates, her mum, sister, uncle father and a whole gang.
Well I let them all go to some restaurant and we were all sitting there waiting for one more family member (were 12 of them in total) when I made my phone ring, had an imaginary conversation whereby I had a water leak in my condo and had to leave immediately. Advised them I'd be back. (forgot to mention that I'd be back in another lifetime. LOL.) they looked so sad to see lunch walking out the door. Hahahah
"I guess the girls who are not coming alone are not meeting to have sex straight away but want something long-term. If someone has some good ideas how to handle this kind of situations, feel free to post it!"
Bloomberg,
The problem of a girl bringing a whole lot of friends / family along is a common one. If you buy Jollibee for her and two friends, eventually leading to sex, then okay, but how do you know you're not being taken advantage of by a girl who has no interest in you?
One friend of mine says,"If you come alone, I will buy you a meal, but if you bring friends, I'll only buy drinks."
Another friend of mine had a girl show up with a dozen family members. He excused himself to the restroom, climbed out the window, and took off!
You can try to insist on meeting the girl alone, in public. Most girls should be able to handle that. If you stick this as a policy, you may "lose" some girls, but who knows how many of them are freeloaders / moochers?
Another possibility would be to limit it to the girl and one friend. Try Starbucks, Bo's, or something like Zagu, where you can get a drink for something like 50 pesos.
If that one friend is her mother, it is often not the deal-killer you think it would be. Typically, the girl likes the macho, unemployed, shabu-using young Filipino guy, while her mother is encouraging her to meet a mature, wealthy foreigner. The last meeting I had with a mom went well. We went to Jollibee's, mom got lunch (I insisted) , mom went back to work, and my girl and I went on our date.
If you can approach a lone girl in person in Colon or at the mall, you can avoid the whole issue of the Partridge Family bus rolling up at the Jollibee's where you agreed to meet.Hello, SergeantRay,
Thanks for the tips! I don't mind buying a drink or a snack for someone extra but my experience so far is that it is making the conversation kind of strange. However, my best experience so far is with a girl I met last Sunday who brought two classmates. The girl appeared to be quite shy etc. So I expected nothing out of this. After some texting however, we met yesterday again. This time 1 on 1 and it was quite easy to get her to my room. Best sex I have had in years!
Member #4643
10-05-11, 15:15
As an old hand on DIA, I don't think it is easy to categorise girls into 3 or 4 groups, because what you read on their profiles rarely correlates with how they behave or how they feel about guys.
You really cannot tell until AFTER YOU MEET them.I have only been to Makati City once, I had a few DIA girls. I also enjoyed the massage parlors (OK massages, great blow jobs) and the P4P scene when I wasn't with my DIA girl (although I did take a few hours off from her everyday for "meetings" to sample the massage parlors in the vicinity of the Shangri La Hotel).
Although I have an opinion of DIA, I am not speaking from a wealth of experience and I readily admit I must be wrong about category 2 girls. As I said, one of my girls was almost a cat 2, until the second day when she expected me to take her on a shopping spree for a new cell phone and a few other items.
If I understand Red Kilt above, one can never be certain about a DIA girl based on her profile. But I wonder, is it equally a waste of time to send messages back and forth and ask her if she is interested in spending the night with you, etc? Surely, if she says she is dying to spend the night with you, sex is inevitable (of course, this could be the sign that she is a pro).
So here is my question, RK: do you just invite the girls that strike you as pretty / sexy / good lays and assume that you will have to evaluate them in the field and leave it at that, or do you have any filters you use to try and avoid the duds?
And finally, what do you do about the girls that want to bring along Mom or their best friend or whmoever? For a guy like me, who may get 4 days in Manila this winter, I would like to maximize the GFEs from DIA (keeping in mind that great P4P is always around the corner, so I am not likely to be unhappy in the end).
DriveAllNight
10-05-11, 20:14
Wait until January.Right. For many girls online,"attention span" may as well be the name of a bridge.
Cunning Stunt
10-05-11, 20:55
Right. For many girls online,"attention span" may as well be the name of a bridge.Yup, right there mate. Until proved otherwise, it is best to assume that they have the ' attention span' of an alzeimic goldfish! Unless money is the matter under discussion, of course.
SergeantRay
10-06-11, 01:15
"Just went through a whole lot of drama about the " friend" thing with a Filipina here in Taipei.
23 lovely and would have been a good bedmate. If I could have got her there.
We agree to meet, then 2 hours before I'm going to depart to her city she says " well I'm bringing my friend its ok for you.
No honey its not ok, I'm 50 plus years old and I don't need to entertain your friend much less for her food and drink. Said lady gives me the " its not safe for a Filipina to meet a foreigner line " I of course suggest that we are in Taipei maybe we are both the foreigner. That got the " huh?" reply as expected.
Anyways she insists that friend comes and that maybe on second date she would meet me alone."
Freebie Fan and Bloomberg,
The above sounds like a judgment call. You have to read body language or just get a sense of what is motivating the girl. Still, there are bound to be times when you get it wrong."Sure things" often collapse while seeming lost causes come through unexpectedly.
I think the solution is:
1) Try to be smart. Be aware that girls will scam you for drinks and meals, and try to head them off at the pass. Set clear rules: just you, just you and one friend or family member, etc. The more that you have a policy or guidelines, the less likely you are to be taken.
For instance, my Dutch friend tells me "Don't ever buy a phone load for a girl you've never met. It never works." I took his advice and use it as a rule. If a girl is really interested in you, she can borrow a friend's phone. The more you operate by a policy, the less likely you are to give into lust.
2) Try to limit your expenses. Be aware of how much you're prepared to lose. Your policy should be that you are tight / cheap as hell with strangers, but generous in the extreme with lovers. Some guys waltz in blindly, thinking that throwing money around will pay off.they don't realize they are inviting themselves to be taken advantage of.
3) Follow your gut. I know this seems to conflict with number one, but if you start with your guidelines, you've got a set of rules to help protect you. I had one girl who I sensed was pushing too hard for dinner with friends, so I dropped her. Once I bought a load for a girl on a first date. I had my doubts, but I sensed she was into me, and it paid off.
GregLondon
10-06-11, 01:28
I have only been to Makati City once, I had a few DIA girls. I also enjoyed the massage parlors (OK massages, great blow jobs) and the P4P scene when I wasn't with my DIA girl (although I did take a few hours off from her everyday for "meetings" to sample the massage parlors in the vicinity of the Shangri La Hotel).
Although I have an opinion of DIA, I am not speaking from a wealth of experience and I readily admit I must be wrong about category 2 girls. As I said, one of my girls was almost a cat 2, until the second day when she expected me to take her on a shopping spree for a new cell phone and a few other items.
If I understand Red Kilt above, one can never be certain about a DIA girl based on her profile. But I wonder, is it equally a waste of time to send messages back and forth and ask her if she is interested in spending the night with you, etc? Surely, if she says she is dying to spend the night with you, sex is inevitable (of course, this could be the sign that she is a pro).
So here is my question, RK: do you just invite the girls that strike you as pretty / sexy / good lays and assume that you will have to evaluate them in the field and leave it at that, or do you have any filters you use to try and avoid the duds?
And finally, what do you do about the girls that want to bring along Mom or their best friend or whmoever? For a guy like me, who may get 4 days in Manila this winter, I would like to maximize the GFEs from DIA (keeping in mind that great P4P is always around the corner, so I am not likely to be unhappy in the end).If you have just 4 days then its best to sound them out first. Just tell them that your plan is to meet them and you are expecting sex. The girls that agree to this will generally be semi pro but unless you are aiming at the older end of the market that's always going to be true unless you are one of those guys who wants to trick the girls into having sex on an unwritten assumption that you are looking for something long term or willing to buy her stuff. You may miss out on some peaches but you haven't got the time that someone based in Phils has to shift through the duds. So better tell them exactly what you have in mind and if they are not up for it don't bother with them move on to another.
Re partner coming along too. Sometimes this works OK if an aunty is just bringing the girl to you to mae sure you are not a monster or looking to score a jollybees. Sometimes you get lucky and a threesome with a sexy freind can be on the cards. If she wants to bring along a Lady Boy friend or cousin my policy is generally to say no as typiclly the LB just wants to intermediate as a pimp unless he can persuade you to give him a try too.
1) Try to be smart. Be aware that girls will scam you for drinks and meals, and try to head them off at the pass. Set clear rules: just you, just you and one friend or family member, etc. The more that you have a policy or guidelines, the less likely you are to be taken.
For instance, my Dutch friend tells me "Don't ever buy a phone load for a girl you've never met. It never works." I took his advice and use it as a rule. If a girl is really interested in you, she can borrow a friend's phone. The more you operate by a policy, the less likely you are to give into lust.
2) Try to limit your expenses. Be aware of how much you're prepared to lose. Your policy should be that you are tight / cheap as hell with strangers, but generous in the extreme with lovers. Some guys waltz in blindly, thinking that throwing money around will pay off. They don't realize they are inviting themselves to be taken advantage of.
3) Follow your gut. I know this seems to conflict with number one, but if you start with your guidelines, you've got a set of rules to help protect you. I had one girl who I sensed was pushing too hard for dinner with friends, so I dropped her. Once I bought a load for a girl on a first date. I had my doubts, but I sensed she was into me, and it paid off.I had to get used to the idea that some girls don't mind spending a long time in a bus just to get a free meal but that is the reality here. It happens, so you need to take into account that this could be the main reason why a girl (with or without friends) wants to meet you.
The rules I use (without really giving it much thought) are:
1) Never give money to someone you never met, actually if a girl asks for money via chat I just stop with her.
2) Be in charge, I determine time and place of meeting, I think this is also helpful when it comes to your safety.
3) Have some back-up plan in case it doesn't work out, for now I do this by inviting a girl over who I met before and resulted in a good experience. After being in Manila for about 2 weeks now, I have a list of 4 girls I can call. If I move to another place I need to start all over with this but for me that is actually part of the fun.
Spending some money on a girl is not a problem to me, even if it doesn't result in good sex, but I limit this to some drink or a small snack now. I stopped with small gifts beforehand, in my opinion it doesn't really help.
BB
. SNIP. .
If I understand Red Kilt above, one can never be certain about a DIA girl based on her profile. But I wonder, is it equally a waste of time to send messages back and forth and ask her if she is interested in spending the night with you, etc? . .
So here is my question, RK: do you just invite the girls that strike you as pretty / sexy / good lays and assume that you will have to evaluate them in the field and leave it at that, or do you have any filters you use to try and avoid the duds?
And finally, what do you do about the girls that want to bring along Mom or their best friend or whmoever? For a guy like me, who may get 4 days in Manila this winter, I would like to maximize the GFEs from DIA (keeping in mind that great P4P is always around the corner, so I am not likely to be unhappy in the end).My comments are based on the premise that I live here and so I can take my time to check out and even cultivate some "friendships".
I can afford the time to meet, check out, evaluate, and either meet again or "discard".
The major problem for you Forest is that you have 4 days only, so you need to be very frank, upfront and direct, with no pussy-footing around.
FF, myself and others have posted on here several times about how if you cannot afford to waste time doing the culling and vetting then you must have a profile that is clear what you want and expect.
Let your profile do the culling and sorting but you need to be a little bit careful (and subtle) that the profile is not crude or offensive to the goody-goody two shoes brigade who will report you to the board and that may get your profile deleted.
A line I frequently use to good effect is that:
"I am a gentleman; I am a naughty gentleman but I am always a gentleman". They seems to like this one.
Do not be put off that girls will not respond to a direct profile that makes it clear you want fun only with no strings attached. Quite the contrary.
You will be surprised by the number and the apparent "quality" of the contacts you will make.
The irony is that filipinas really LIKE guys who are direct, frank and seem to have a no bullshit approach, even if it appears that you are just interested in sex only.
Strange but true.
Irony Monger
10-06-11, 07:20
I know someone once posted about a website that allows one to send free text messages (SMS) to the Philippines, but for the life of me I can't find it. I guess I need to do my searches before kissing the Bicardi bottle. A little help please... :o
FreebieFan
10-06-11, 07:59
Let your profile do the culling and sorting but you need to be a little bit careful (and subtle) that the profile is not crude or offensive to the goody-goody two shoes brigade who will report you to the board and that may get your profile deleted.Not only that, the Ambassador of Fatness might use you as one of his statistics. LOL
I know someone once posted about a website that allows one to send free text messages (SMS) to the Philippines, but for the life of me I can't find it. I guess I need to do my searches before kissing the Bicardi bottle. A little help please. :oI asked the original question and www.chikka.com Was the solution. Thanks Marconista. You have to register and get a password but it works good. Limited to 120 characters per message.
Slim
Last I heard, the CS is doing Nobel laureate level research on Goldfish reproduction.
Yup, right there mate. Until proved otherwise, it is best to assume that they have the ' attention span' of an alzeimic goldfish! Unless money is the matter under discussion, of course.
Fast Buck Artist
10-07-11, 02:26
I have been browsing chicken8 porn site recently which seems to focus on asian material, and was surprised to recognise a number of faces I met over time in person. Here is Jenny, a girl I met about 18 months ago in makati, she was a nice date, not the most exciting conversationalist but she compensated for it with nice bedroom skills. Didnt give me any crap and havent asked for a dime except I paid the bills when we go out. I lost contact with her about a year ago, supposedly she was going to Singapore to work as a "waitress". Today I discover her on a porn video, she's the busty one, no idea who the other 2 are:
http://www.chicken8.com/video/14918/3-pinay-with-1-guy.html
Note to self: I've been here way too long.. when u recognise one familiar face per 3 porn videos, it's a sign of a mongering addiction gone too far!
Fast Buck Artist
10-07-11, 03:40
If that one friend is her mother, it is often not the deal-killer you think it would be. Typically, the girl likes the macho, unemployed, shabu-using young Filipino guy, while her mother is encouraging her to meet a mature, wealthy foreigner. The last meeting I had with a mom went well. We went to Jollibee's, mom got lunch (I insisted) , mom went back to work, and my girl and I went on our date.I agree, having mom as chaperone can surprisingly lead to good outcomes. Just be nice to the mom, and after half an hour you can suggest that she should leave the two of you to go to videoke or whatever. She'll usually agree and you are alone with your date.
The worst chaperone in my experience is a female collegemate of the girl of the same age. Also the most common! The girl will want to look decent in front of her friend and will refuse to go to hotel afterwards. Otherwise the friend will gossip about it next day in school. (hear this, Analyn went out with this old tourist last night, sent me home and stayed at night in his hotel, what a ****!)
My usual reply to "Can I bring my friend?" is "OK, but they pay their own bills" which usually instantly ends the whole thing. Yes, I am aware that some chaperoned dates work out well, and some even lead to 3somes, but these are exceptions, the rule is that chaperoned dates are a royal waste of time. Time is money, I am willing to let go of some unpromising leads to save time.
Stroker Ace88
10-07-11, 05:14
Another possibility would be to limit it to the girl and one friend. Try Starbucks, Bo's, or something like Zagu, where you can get a drink for something like 50 pesos.Zagu is horrible and avoid at all cost IMHO. Powdered milk mixed with day old mall water (if you are lucky) and ice shavings, with a dash of unknown flavoring and the occasional fake marshmellow.
Stick with Jollibee and McDo where you can buy a drink for around 25p and a whole meal for 100p. For the more upscale meetings Starbucks and Bo's are a better option, just double-check which Bo's or Starbucks you will meet as some malls have several of each.
This took place over about 2 months. I was at work and busy when she first showed up on ym. So yeah I was a bit rude.
Her (2011/05/30 14:50:41) : hey want to go private cam with me, LOL.
Me (2011/05/30 14:50:55) : hey want to not bother me?
Then two weeks or so ago I get this.
Her (2011/09/20 14:59:25) : Hi can you help me to removed my video?
Me (2011/09/20 15:00:51) : what?
Her (2011/09/20 15:01:18) : my gf post it*
Me (2011/09/20 15:01:23) : where?
Her (2011/09/20 15:01:41) : I had fight my gf and she post my vie online is just happen I download the vid on her loptop.
Her (2011/09/20 15:01:54) : search me on google and look my name xxxx yyyy.
Her (2011/09/20 15:05:24) : is just I ask you to help me to removed it from there.
Her (2011/09/20 15:05:29) : I ask some friends also.
Her (2011/09/20 15:05:40) : as of many complain possible got removed from there.
Me (2011/09/20 15:05:45) : what do I get in return?
Her (2011/09/20 15:06:07) : if you help is good for me if you ask something I cannot gve.
Me (2011/09/20 15:06:25) : Sorry don't understand.
Her (2011/09/20 15:06:50) : nothing to give you in return.
Me (2011/09/20 15:07:07) : so why would I help you?
Her (2011/09/20 15:07:19) : nevermind, thanks then.
Her (2011/09/20 15:08:41) : I ask you to help me to report that video on the website maybe email them or have the removal there.
And today:
Her (2011/10/07 16:43:56) : Hi my video is already deleted.
Me (2011/10/07 16:44:14) : don't know.
Her (2011/10/07 16:44:21) : I know.
Her (2011/10/07 16:44:24) : I check it.
Me (2011/10/07 16:44:33) : on how many sites?
Her (2011/10/07 16:44:46) : all site.
Her (2011/10/07 16:46:36) : who you think deletd it tho?
Me * (2011/10/07 16:46:50) : I don't know and to be honest don't care.
Her (2011/10/07 16:50:37) : Ok I wish you good luck.
Me (2011/10/07 16:50:50) : you too.
Me (2011/10/07 16:50:57) : don't make any more porn videos.
Me (2011/10/07 16:50:59) : LOL.
Her (2011/10/07 16:51:14) : Nope no more that is the last one.
Her (2011/10/07 16:56:31) : just wish me goodluck.
Me (2011/10/07 16:56:39) : what for?
Her (2011/10/07 16:56:54) : Maybe he is the one that I looking for*
Me (2011/10/07 16:57:03) : No idea.
Me (2011/10/07 16:57:17) : You pm me so I'm just responding.
Me (2011/10/07 16:57:21) : accordingly.
Her (2011/10/07 16:57:30) :?
Me (2011/10/07 16:57:49) : I don't care if you get a good one or not*nothing to do with me*couldn't give a shit*understand?
Her (2011/10/07 16:59:31) : Uh well I just ask you to wiash me lick*
Her (2011/10/07 16:59:38) : luck.
Me (2011/10/07 16:59:44) : why would I do that_.
Her (2011/10/07 16:59:52) : why not.
Me (2011/10/07 16:59:52) : we arent friends*why would I.
Her (2011/10/07 17:00:05) : I guess you have some problem.
Me (2011/10/07 17:00:17) : No I just don't know you.
Her (2011/10/07 17:00:58) : Ok bye I don't need this.
Her (2011/10/07 17:00:59) : hahaha.
Her (2011/10/07 17:01:07) : is crazy going to deleted you now.
Me (2011/10/07 17:01:15) : I don't know you.
Me (2011/10/07 17:01:19) : who cares.
Me (2011/10/07 17:01:27) : do it.
Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.
So I am supposed to jump through hoops and help this girl who pestered me once and I removed from contacts to get a video she made with some guy if her sucking his dick (I saw part of it) and help her remove it from some sites. And also after she said it's removed wish her luck in something else.
And she didn't seem to grasp that I, as a stranger, did not care to start with. I continue to be amazed with Filippinas and their ways. LOL
Fast Buck Artist
10-07-11, 11:38
So I am supposed to jump through hoops and help this girl who pestered me once and I removed from contacts to get a video she made with some guy if her sucking his dick (I saw part of it) and help her remove it from some sites. And also after she said it's removed wish her luck in something else.I have a separate YM account that I only use for monkey business. Actually separate everything. A name, YM, email, facebook, phone number etc. For your mongering persona. Keep that crap separate from your work / friends. I would also be extremely annoyed getting pestered with bullshit during work hours.
Member #4351
10-07-11, 12:18
I don't know Hatguy, I'm sure 90% of the forum members who have used DIA or one of the other dating sites have had those kind of conversations. However we don't need to try and make ourselves look superior by making fun of the girls. Even though they may speak English (more or less), their culture is extremely different from our Western one and their socio-economic situation is so dismal that IMHO who are we to judge them. A lot of guys on ISG seem to enjoy belittling the Filipinas for one reason or another. If a person has so little self esteem that he needs to go after some uneducated Pinay girl to make himself feel important, then I think that morally the girl comes out on top.
I don't know Hatguy, I'm sure 90% of the forum members who have used DIA or one of the other dating sites have had those kind of conversations. However we don't need to try and make ourselves look superior by making fun of the girls. Even though they may speak English (more or less), their culture is extremely different from our Western one and their socio-economic situation is so dismal that IMHO who are we to judge them. A lot of guys on ISG seem to enjoy belittling the Filipinas for one reason or another. If a person has so little self esteem that he needs to go after some uneducated Pinay girl to make himself feel important, then I think that morally the girl comes out on top.Completely agree with this one, just enjoy the experience!
I am sure that the girls are as amazed by our behaviour as we sometimes are about theirs.
Screaming Beaver
10-07-11, 16:22
I have been browsing chicken8 porn site recently which seems to focus on asian material, and was surprised to recognise a number of faces I met over time in person. Here is Jenny, a girl I met about 18 months ago in makati, she was a nice date, not the most exciting conversationalist but she compensated for it with nice bedroom skills. Didn't give me any crap and haven't asked for a dime except I paid the bills when we go out. I lost contact with her about a year ago, supposedly she was going to Singapore to work as a "waitress". Today I discover her on a porn video, she's the busty one, no idea who the other 2 are:
http://www.chicken8.com/video/14918/3-pinay-with-1-guy.html
Note to self: I've been here way too long. When you recognise one familiar face per 3 porn videos, it's a sign of a mongering addiction gone too far!I thought this little piglet looked familiar so I went through some old pics from a couple years ago and voila. I was balls deep in all 3 holes within 20 minutes of her arrival. Service was okay with the only thing setting her apart from the rest of the little swines were those big titties. I did not call her back again because her face looked like a clenched fist.
Completely agree with this one, just enjoy the experience!
I am sure that the girls are as amazed by our behaviour as we sometimes are about theirs.It wasnt what I was thinking at all but I suppose you could read it that way. She really didn't talk to me at all except for stuff about the video. My ym just happened to be on at the time. I should have ignored it I guess.
Member #4351
10-08-11, 01:14
Nothing personal. Just that guys always post these conversations and sometimes I feel a little sorry for the girls.
This might be the biggest and best lie I have ever hearf from a filipina. Webcams are now illegel in Cebu / Talisay city. Rationale: Too many teens are going to internet cafes and showing themselves.
Can't believe that one.
Great Muta
10-08-11, 04:27
I went out with one phil girl once who brought her sister along. Totally against going out with any girl who brings anyone with them. I think it's a bs situation and I would never agree to it ever again. Funny enough, her sister just happened to leave without paying. Total accident right? Guess who paid for it. Wasn't me. This wasn't even in the Phil, so I really didn't expect it.
I also think anyone who would give a girl money for anything other than sex is out of their minds. I'm not really desperate so I can't see it from that point of view, but you have to be stupid to do it.
That webcams lie is classic.
Roadrunners
10-08-11, 04:46
From I'm : "I know someone once posted about a website that allows one to send free text messages (SMS) to the Philippines, but for the life of me I can't find it."
I'm, I'm fairly sure they use a program called "Chikka-Chikka" for that, although I believe you can arrange it through Yahoo Messenger as well.
As Yahoo is free and Chikka-Chikka might not be, my money is on Yahoo.
Stroker Ace88
10-08-11, 05:34
This might be the biggest and best lie I have ever hearf from a filipina. Webcams are now illegel in Cebu / Talisay city. Rationale: Too many teens are going to internet cafes and showing themselves.
Can't believe that one.Yes and No, it's partially true.
Webcams are not illegal in Cebu City and can be found in every internet cafe in the Philippines. From what I understand the ban is only on the use of private rooms or private booths equipped with webcams inside internet cafes. It seems likely the uncovering of cyber porn dens in Cordova has put the local officials on the hotseat to enforce the exisiting law.
Something was lost in translation from the woman you chatted with, but she is technically correct and not a liar. You have to take a step back and understand that for the most part English is the third language she learned and cut her some slack.
Nothing personal. Just that guys always post these conversations and sometimes I feel a little sorry for the girls.Yeah I get where you are coming from. But for me its a totally new experience with Philippinas and I'm trying to get some feedback from guys that have had years of experience with them. We really have hardly any here in Japan and I didn't know any growing up.
Anyway, I hope its cool to post questions and observations here. Hatguy
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Anyway, I hope its cool to post questions and observations here. HatguyIt's cool to post questions and observations here mate and especially details of attempted scams but. .
I agree that it is not cool to make fun of the girls when it is clear that they don't really have much of a grasp of English.
Simple test. Ask yourself whether you would enjoy people laughing at you if you tried to write 4 or 5 lines in Tagalog.
I think some people need a bit more empathy here.
It's cool to post questions and observations here mate and especially details of attempted scams but. .
I agree that it is not cool to make fun of the girls when it is clear that they don't really have much of a grasp of English.
Simple test. Ask yourself whether you would enjoy people laughing at you if you tried to write 4 or 5 lines in Tagalog.
I think some people need a bit more empathy here.Understood. And I do take it on board that English is third language or not even that. Here in Japan one girl from Phi wouldn't even speak basic english and only spoke japanese with me. For me it's really weird because we are both not japanese. Anyway look guys I'm just trying to get a grasp of things with these girls. They are so amazing for me at times and I want to understand better. Hatguy
Last 6 mths I have been talking to a DIA cutie on ym. I have avoided her in my previous 4-5 trips here and played the txt game with her only because I thought she would suck in bed. We finally met on Saturday. After being late hour and a half this extremely cute creature entered my dungeon. Boy was I mad at her for wasting my time, so I let her have it. She hit back and had a point I only gave her an hour to get here and she is Antipolo plus she had to get dressed and since it's our first date she wanted to leave a good impression. All was forgiven in a second when she chose my lap to seat in rather than the sofa and had her lips on mine within few second to make up for wasting my time.
I don't remember my dick hurting from so much fucking ever. We fucked for about 10 hours straight before taking a nap to continue fucking. I finally left the Dusit around 6pm to check into another hotel where we continued fucking leaving only for quick lunch at greenbelt. I offered to go and watch a movie more so to get a rest from fucking but she didn't want a bar of it. This morning my LOL, I should say afternoon she left around 3pm and I just collapsed in bed for few hours. I think I drank over 20 litters of water over the last 2 days.
Before she left I tied to give her money (we are talking 1000p here) she refused. She paid her own way to get to me. Payed her own way to go home. Total damage less then 1000p for 1 lunch and ice cream.
I have few others to go thorough but I will have her back Tuesday / Wednesday. I want to do something nice for her but its hard because she is refusing gifts or money. I am thinking to take her with me on a day trip somewhere but the weather is shit here. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Irony Monger
10-10-11, 00:01
Logged onto DIA yesterday and saw this message waiting from a girl who had stumbled across my profile (never saw her before) :
GIRL: Hello. Can you help me? I need money. I got here in dateinasia to ask money and meet friends. If you don't want to help me. Its fine. Godbless. Thank you very much
Her profiles reads that she wants to meet for friendship, and says only this: Hello, I NEED MONEY PLEASE.
She has probably blasted hundreds of guys with this spam. Sad thing is that some guys probably will send her money and encourage a whole new generation to seek money for nothing. Can't blame them really, they are only doing what works, but guys, please do not send money to people who you have not at least met in person.
Irony Monger
10-10-11, 00:08
I have few others to go thorough but I will have her back Tuesday / Wednesday. I want to do something nice for her but its hard because she is refusing gifts or money. I am thinking to take her with me on a day trip somewhere but the weather is shit here. Does anyone have any suggestions?Tagaytay is nice, and you can get there in a couple hours driving from Manila:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tagaytay
You would probably need to hire a driver for the day, but you can visit the People's Park in the Sky (an unfinished Marcos Mansion) and have dinner overlooking Taal Lake at sunset. Would be better in good weather, but still enjoyable in light rain.
William Saw
10-10-11, 03:14
Have been chatting with a woman early 40 but not to pretty but who.
Cares not looking for a wife but a good woman who like to do blowjob.
Promise to stay with me for the 3 nights and suck me until my dick drop dead.
What I am asking is this just a con or it could be possible peso up to me.
More importantly. What's her profile name?
Last 6 mths I have been talking to a DIA cutie on ym. I have avoided her in my previous 4-5 trips here and played the txt game with her only because I thought she would suck in bed. We finally met on Saturday. After being late hour and a half this extremely cute creature entered my dungeon. Boy was I mad at her for wasting my time, so I let her have it. She hit back and had a point I only gave her an hour to get here and she is Antipolo plus she had to get dressed and since it's our first date she wanted to leave a good impression. All was forgiven in a second when she chose my lap to seat in rather than the sofa and had her lips on mine within few second to make up for wasting my time.
I don't remember my dick hurting from so much fucking ever. We fucked for about 10 hours straight before taking a nap to continue fucking. I finally left the Dusit around 6pm to check into another hotel where we continued fucking leaving only for quick lunch at greenbelt. I offered to go and watch a movie more so to get a rest from fucking but she didn't want a bar of it. This morning my LOL, I should say afternoon she left around 3pm and I just collapsed in bed for few hours. I think I drank over 20 litters of water over the last 2 days.
Before she left I tied to give her money (we are talking 1000p here) she refused. She paid her own way to get to me. Payed her own way to go home. Total damage less then 1000p for 1 lunch and ice cream.
I have few others to go thorough but I will have her back Tuesday / Wednesday. I want to do something nice for her but its hard because she is refusing gifts or money. I am thinking to take her with me on a day trip somewhere but the weather is shit here. Does anyone have any suggestions?
40? U can do better. If you do decide to go through with it ask her to bring her younger doughter, neigbour, neice or someone to help her out. Don't be shy you will be pleased with her answer. I don't think its a con, but they will ask for peso on the end or will expect you give. Point is you will spend peso regardless you might as well get a hottie.
Have been chatting with a woman early 40 but not to pretty but who.
Cares not looking for a wife but a good woman who like to do blowjob.
Promise to stay with me for the 3 nights and suck me until my dick drop dead.
What I am asking is this just a con or it could be possible peso up to me.
Fatboy 1980
10-10-11, 09:28
I got chatting with a DIA girl, and I run her name through FB. She has almost 20 accounts. Why do you think that is?
Member #4643
10-10-11, 17:40
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?
Mr Enternational
10-10-11, 18:56
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?Where did you read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with westerners? Maybe if there is a big age disparity (that spells hooker-trick) this could be true, but otherwise not. What many of them will have a problem with is going to your room because they don't want people to think they are hookers. Although I have met women on websites, living in Thailand it is much easier to cold approach women than wasting hours on a website and in instant messenger. But I can assure you that it is not as easy as DIA in PI. IMHO Thai women have much more book smarts as well as street smarts.
Member #4643
10-10-11, 19:41
Where did you read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with westerners? Maybe if there is a big age disparity (that spells hooker-trick) this could be true, but otherwise not. What many of them will have a problem with is going to your room because they don't want people to think they are hookers. Although I have met women on websites, living in Thailand it is much easier to cold approach women than wasting hours on a website and in instant messenger. But I can assure you that it is not as easy as DIA in PI. IMHO Thai women have much more book smarts as well as street smarts.Thanks. THat is a clear answer. I would guess my information came from this site, but I did not list all of the modifiers I should have. I am in my mid fifties, I like my women in their early 20s, so I suspect that dating a Thai woman in her early 20s might be difficult, especially if sex was an important reason for the hookup. As for meeting women in stores, restaurants, etc, I think this works everywhere in the world better than web sites (or at least anywhere where I monger). But, with the web, arrangements can be made ahead of time thus maximizing the use of one's time.
I would love to arrange something with a Thai woman for the week I will be there in June, but I wonder if I will just be wasting my time.
By the way, I tried to do a search for DIA in Thailand, but the new search engine is impossible for me to master! Its one thing to RTFF, but to do this right, I would probably have to devote several solid hours!
Hairy Wonder
10-10-11, 19:49
Hey D Cups!
I found this profile while trolling DIA today. I think she is one you would really like, just from the look of her. ;)
http://www.dateinasia.com/radaza+amor.html
Enjoy!
HW
Wolvenvacht
10-10-11, 22:45
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?I had my DIA date come all the way from Udon Thani to Bangkok to meet me for a weekend; And then she suggested to go to the weekend market in BKK; So it is definitely not true that they do not like to be seen with farang: Of course, you have to behave in public, so no no hugging or kissing or even holding hands on the street: But other than that, no problem:
Member #4351
10-10-11, 23:55
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA? If so, how does it compare with the Philippines??One radical difference is the age range that the girls are looking for. Check it out. In the Philippines a majority have no problem meeting older guys. Not true for LOS girls. Seems only the LBs have no problem meeting a 50 year old.
I got chatting with a DIA girl, and I run her name through FB. She has almost 20 accounts. Why do you think that is?One for each sister.
FreebieFan
10-11-11, 01:58
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?I have met about 6 DIA ladies in BKK from DIA. All turned out to be extra nice freebies. Age ranged from 22 (I took her on a business trip to Singapore with me) to 40. Didn't seem to be difficult and no one had an issue being out in public with me. I think its how you play it. In Thailand if you come across as a superstud they label you as a butterfly straightaway and will have nothing to do with you. Try the nice approach. Works fine for me every time I have a BKK trip.
Has anyone tried to hook up with girls in BKK using DIA?
If so, how does it compare with the Philippines?
I have read that normal Thai women do not like to be seen in public with Westerners, but I have a hard time wondering what all those Thai women are doing on DIA if they don't want to be seen with us. Are all of the Thai women on DIA (or at least the young ones) prostitutes or women looking to get men to send cash?I used DIA on my first trip to Pattaya and I was successful. I meet about 3 different girls. I was able to "Pop" 2 of them and the other one just visited. 1 actually work in a Soapy and the other was a go go girl and worked in internet Cafe. They did not want anything from me and even tried to refuse taxi fare which I paid.
I was told by my friends in Thailand that I was not going to be able to score on any Thai girls as I do in the Philippines. It is much harder and selection is less but I have never had problems in any country.
Fatboy 1980
10-11-11, 03:34
I used DIA to hook up with a non-pro in BKK last year. She was working as a graphic designer (so she said). Anyway, I think she just wanted a good night out, so I paid for her drinks (not expensive in BKK) and I took her back to my hotel and rogered her silly. Afterwards, I gave her taxi fare because I didn't want her to stay.
One radical difference is the age range that the girls are looking for. Check it out. In the Philippines a majority have no problem meeting older guys. Not true for LOS girls. Seems only the LBs have no problem meeting a 50 year old.Yah, young thai girls have no interest in older foreigners unless money is involved. 25yo+ girls are easier to bang for free in LOS.
GregLondon
10-11-11, 16:05
Maybe someone can help me out. I thought DIA was a real site but from some of the postings I've seen it's basically sounding like a independant hookers site. Are all the girls on there going to negotiate a rate or are some going to act like a girlfriend? I didn't have girls in MBC talk about money so I'm surprised to hear it is so common on DIA. I met a guy who is getting married to a girl of DIA on the plane so it can't be all of them, but is it a huge majority? Anyone?I think the overwhelming majority of girls on DIA are looking for some sort of Long term relationship, ideally marriage but if not some sort of long term support. Of those probably most would accept some form of shorter term relationship if they believe they are going to get something out of it. Eg The hope that something might happen and the relationship does become long term, that they might earn some extra pocketmoney or get some gifts, that they may get a good time, be taken somewhere nice etc or where the gap between your attractiveness and her attractiveness is not too large the pleassure of being with you. Very few are on the site to be treated as a free hooker.
The difficulty comes because a the site's censors and be Filipino culture generally makes it pretty difficult for girls to be straightforward and up front about what they are looking for.
Relatively few, other than the more experienced and jaded girls will explicitly ask for money, however apart from the relatively few women who are well off through family or other support, or those intent on playing the long game (not taking money to convince you that they are a good girl who is good marriage material) , most will appreciate some sort of modest financial reward tactfully characterised, as something to get you home, for your kid, etc etc.
This topic does come up frequently and several guys usually pipe up to say that they never pay a cent. All I can say is that it's not my experience. It's possible that they are talking about "sub prime" women, or they are devilishly good looking / skilfull / amsuing or simply they insensitive to what the girl expects.
I think the overwhelming majority of girls on DIA are looking for some sort of Long term relationship, ideally marriage but if not some sort of long term support. Of those probably most would accept some form of shorter term relationship if they believe they are going to get something out of it. Eg The hope that something might happen and the relationship does become long term, that they might earn some extra pocketmoney or get some gifts, that they may get a good time, be taken somewhere nice etc or where the gap between your attractiveness and her attractiveness is not too large the pleassure of being with you. Very few are on the site to be treated as a free hooker.
The difficulty comes because a the site's censors and be Filipino culture generally makes it pretty difficult for girls to be straightforward and up front about what they are looking for.
Relatively few, other than the more experienced and jaded girls will explicitly ask for money, however apart from the relatively few women who are well off through family or other support, or those intent on playing the long game (not taking money to convince you that they are a good girl who is good marriage material) , most will appreciate some sort of modest financial reward tactfully characterised, as something to get you home, for your kid, etc etc.
This topic does come up frequently and several guys usually pipe up to say that they never pay a cent. All I can say is that it's not my experience. It's possible that they are talking about "sub prime" women, or they are devilishly good looking / skilfull / amsuing or simply they insensitive to what the girl expects.After meeting over 20 girls now from various dating sites including Tagged and Facebook, I also found that most of them are looking for a long-term relationship. A foreigner is considered to be rich but some girls also mentioned that they consider foreigners to be more faithful to them. According to these girls, for a Filipino man it is socially acceptable to cheat, I don't know if this is really true but that is their story. Once you make it clear to a girl that you are not interested in something for the long-term, most of them are also willing to have something short-term with you as long as something is in it for them. This can be a nice meal, some tuition money, some pocket money, a small present, some attention, a pair of shoes, a new T-shirt, load for the mobile phone, etc. I even met one girl so far who just wanted to have sex with a foreigner because a friend of her had done the same and she wanted to have some nice story to tell as well.
It is important however not to forget that having sex with a girl like this and paying something for it one way or another does not mean the girl is a prostitute. One girl created a scene in my room because I wanted to use a condom and she didn't like that because condoms are only used with prostitutes? She was not a prostitute so why should we use one, when I insisted she started shouting why I was thinking that she was a prostitute. Guess why the population here is booming.
One other thing that strikes me is that the younger girls 18-20 are easier to get and more fun to be with compared to older girls. 25 is the max for me by the way. Maybe the older ones just have had more bad experiences, any thoughts on this?
One other thing that strikes me is that the younger girls 18-20 are easier to get and more fun to be with compared to older girls. 25 is the max for me by the way. Maybe the older ones just have had more bad experiences, any thoughts on this?Don't set rules for yourself Bloomer.
Use these ages as a general guide but that's all. As the girls all say,"age is just a number".
I have had some sensational times with 40 yos and some dreadful times with 18 to 25 yos, and vice versa.
No rules. Pot luck.
FreebieFan
10-12-11, 06:32
. According to these girls, for a Filipino man it is socially acceptable to cheat, I don't know if this is really true but that is their story. ?Not just the men. Was having a fun chat yesterday with a girl who will be a future conquest (well she did say she will dance for me in her bra and panties so I'm fairly 101% sure I'm she will be a new conquest LOL) anyways she was telling me about her past boyfriend.
She said,"we dated for 6 months and I stayed honest to him all the time, I never played at, all even thought I wanted to ". It made me smile.
The DIAwomen that I have met up with have all been regular women, none looking for, or even expecting money.
All have been well experienced, a couple with kids.
All in the 25 to 33 year range.
I paid for taxis, and whatever it is that we do. Eat, drink etc.
I think that all of them just wanted someone to treat them with respect and make sure that they had a good sexual experience.
G
WestCoast1
10-12-11, 18:05
According to these girls, for a Filipino man it is socially acceptable to cheat, I don't know if this is really true but that is their story. Once you make it clear to a girl that you are not interested in something for the long-term, most of them are also willing to have something short-term with you as long as something is in it for them.FreebieFan: "Not just the men. Was having a fun chat yesterday with a girl who will be a future conquest (well she did say she will dance for me in her bra and panties so I'm fairly 101% sure I'm she will be a new conquest LOL) anyways she was telling me about her past boyfriend."
FF is so correct. Young pinoy run around on their gf, causing plenty of pregnancies and broken hearts. At the same time, many pinay, knowing / fearing this, will do the same thing. They do it quietly (therefore, maybe not socially acceptable, or as the pinay say: Secret!). Have had oodles of pinay in my bed who had a solid bf or husband. Much lower incidence of this outside phils. Always amazed by this. Have heard lots of excuses why she's there with me, when she could be at home with her bf / family / husband:
* You good f*cker to me. My bf not so good the sax.
* I need some help ($).
* My dream to f*ck foreigner. You have a blue eyes. Never I meet other foreigner. This dream to me. Never been hotel before.
* My hasband no like to facking me no more.
Had a wonderful encounter with a 20-year old girl. Met her online on one of the dating sites already two months ago. Finally after chatting about nothing for a while we met after she told me that she trusts me and only wants to meet because she wants to have hard sex. Well who am I to deny that to her.
She told me that there is some foreign boyfriend who visits once in a while. But he is only sweet to her and she claims that his way does not satisfy her. For the long-term she wants to stay with him because he has promised to marry her.
After our second meeting she asked me if I would take her if her boyfriend broke up with her. I asked her why she didn't break up with him. She told me because if she would end up alone or poor she would never forgive herself for letting a "rich" western guy go. One thing I learned from this is to watch out not to become someone safety cushion.
WestCoast1
10-13-11, 17:02
Had a wonderful encounter with a 20-year old girl. Met her online on one of the dating sites already two months ago. Finally after chatting about nothing for a while we met after she told me that she trusts me and only wants to meet because she wants to have hard sex. Well who am I to deny that to her.
She told me that there is some foreign boyfriend who visits once in a while. But he is only sweet to her and she claims that his way does not satisfy her. For the long-term she wants to stay with him because he has promised to marry her.
After our second meeting she asked me if I would take her if her boyfriend broke up with her. I asked her why she didn't break up with him. She told me because if she would end up alone or poor she would never forgive herself for letting a "rich" western guy go. One thing I learned from this is to watch out not to become someone safety cushion.I use the term 'opportunistic' when describing pinay. Many pinay have described the above situation to me: having one main bf ($, or love) , but also "fall-back" boyfriend, or as we call it here: "Plan B". One girl, whom I'd met and banged, actually told me this in YM chat, saying I was originally her go-to guy, and she had another guy in Ohio who was nice to her, but she liked me better. After time, I didn't show intent to marry her (true) , and the Ohio guy had mentioned he wanted to get married some day. So she was informing me of Ohio guy in that chat, and of her desire to marry him, and would I agree right then to marry her? Your first thought is she is bluffing, there is no Ohio-guy. But there really was the other guy. When I said no thanks to the marriage thing, she informed me that she still liked me better than Ohio-guy, and would be glad to be my gf whenever I visited Cebu, but only until Ohio-guy married her. Many girls there are like the one you described.
Op·por·tun·is·tic.
&8194; &8194; [op-er-too-nis-tik. Tyoo-] Show IPA.
Adjective.
1.
Adhering to a policy of opportunism; practicing opportunism.
Had two Dia new chatmates lined up. First thing is get the sex edge taken off by regular fuckbunny in Manila. She knows my exploits and is ok with it.
Initially planned to fly the Butuan girl to Manila and stay with her for a week. When trying to decide a Ormoc chatmate wanted to meet me too. So I thought better to go to cebu.
Booked a ticket for butuan girl to come to cebu and spend 5 nights with me. I told her if things are not working out she can go back early. I timed it right and flew into cebu and she was waiting at theairport. Her flight came in around the same time. She was all friendly and lovey dovey during the trip to the hotel. I will post a report on the nice hotel I stayed in the Cebu thread.
In the room she immediately started complaing about being tired and hungry. Ordered some food and after that let her take a nap. Soon got cuddly with her and sex was just ok. She told me she does not like sex much. Anyway I got two more pops at night. In the morning she complained of stomach ache and refused all sex. She started talking about how poor her family is and she is the eldest in her family and it is her responsibility to support her family etc. I told her to find a job. Anyway next four days with her was not good. She got the mens and complained the whole time. She refused to go anywhere out even though it was her first trip to anywhere. I think she was looking for a sponsor only. After this I immediately contacted Ormoc girl to come and meet me the day the first one left.
This ormoc girl is really pretty with nice young body 21 years old. She made me very happy. She is super horny and very affectionate and a keeper. In fact I extended my stay here in cebu. While chatting I thought the Butuan girl will make me more happy but turned out it is vice versa.
So it is hard to say who clicks and who does not.
FreebieFan
10-14-11, 05:27
Ok this is for all Manila based guys.
Had a chat today with a 20 year girl from Taguig. I started chatting with her only yesterday, and today she chirps up, with a " Hi Hello,". Then she says she's sad. So I lamely ask why. Its her kids 4th birthday, father of course is no where to be seen, and will I buy her kid a gift.
I basically told her to get lost with her sorry begging.
BUT for a guy who wants to be a hero, it could be the day to buy said girls kid some plastic crap and get a lay in exchange. You can find her in YM on ljbente4. Must be worth a try for someone.
Interesting post, but what does opportunism mean?
I use the term 'opportunistic' when describing pinay. Many pinay have described the above situation to me: having one main bf ($, or love) , but also "fall-back" boyfriend, or as we call it here: "Plan B". One girl, whom I'd met and banged, actually told me this in YM chat, saying I was originally her go-to guy, and she had another guy in Ohio who was nice to her, but she liked me better. After time, I didn't show intent to marry her (true) , and the Ohio guy had mentioned he wanted to get married some day. So she was informing me of Ohio guy in that chat, and of her desire to marry him, and would I agree right then to marry her? Your first thought is she is bluffing, there is no Ohio-guy. But there really was the other guy. When I said no thanks to the marriage thing, she informed me that she still liked me better than Ohio-guy, and would be glad to be my gf whenever I visited Cebu, but only until Ohio-guy married her. Many girls there are like the one you described.
Op·por·tun·is·tic.
&8194; &8194; [op-er-too-nis-tik. Tyoo-] Show IPA.
Adjective.
1.
Adhering to a policy of opportunism; practicing opportunism.
. .
Booked a ticket for butuan girl to come to cebu and spend 5 nights with me. I told her if things are not working out she can go back early. I timed it right and flew into cebu and she was waiting at theairport. Her flight came in around the same time. She was all friendly and lovey dovey during the trip to the hotel. I will post a report on the nice hotel I stayed in the Cebu thread.
In the room she immediately started complaing about being tired and hungry. Ordered some food and after that let her take a nap. Soon got cuddly with her and sex was just ok. She told me she does not like sex much. Anyway I got two more pops at night. In the morning she complained of stomach ache and refused all sex. She started talking about how poor her family is and she is the eldest in her family and it is her responsibility to support her family etc. I told her to find a job. Anyway next four days with her was not good. She got the mens and complained the whole time. She refused to go anywhere out even though it was her first trip to anywhere. I think she was looking for a sponsor only. After this I immediately contacted Ormoc girl to come and meet me the day the first one left. .Sammon your post is a vindication for my opinion and that of many others who caution against flying unknown girls in from outside places to spend time with you.
In effect you "wasted" 4 days with her when you expected a great time.
At least the Ormoc girl saved you.
I know some guys have struck it rich but for me it is just not worth the risk.
To fly a girl into Cebu is like bringing sand to the beach but if it works out then hindsight is king.
A good reminder though to those who are contemplating such an activity.
FreebieFan
10-14-11, 10:25
Ok so we know as guys were always checking girls out, always scoping the scenery, always looking at T&A and mentally undressing girls.
As I mentioned here a few weeks back I'm working on a girl fro my next Manila trip who has stated 100 times she hasnt seen or been with a guy for 6 years since she gave birth.
Yesterday met online a lady who says she's ready and available but in her case says it only 5 years. Lives in Cavite runs her own business, has free time but the only guys she chatted with are jerks. But she's ready to give it up in a moment for the right guy.
Today I'm chatting with an ex lover. She and I met in 2002/2003. Cute, small and before making love she would undress me and massage me, even gave my feet a foot spa once. Really the kind of lady who treats her man like a King. Well our last sesaion was in mid 2003. So today I sak her if she had dates for the weekend. She says she hasnt had dates in a long time. I ask how long. She says last man she kissed was me. In mid 2003. Thats 8 years ago! Damn if I go 8 days I'm already climbing the walls and watching porn!
The DIAwomen that I have met up with have all been regular women, none looking for, or even expecting money.
All have been well experienced, a couple with kids.
All in the 25 to 33 year range.
I paid for taxis, and whatever it is that we do. Eat, drink etc.
I think that all of them just wanted someone to treat them with respect and make sure that they had a good sexual experience.
GYour report is right on the money. Let me add my 2 cents.
I have lived in Cebu over 5 years and have dated on DIA more times than you can shake a stick at. Most of the woman I have encountered are looking for somebody they can have a little fun with, talk to and can have sex with without the whole Barangy finding out she is boning somebody.
Most of the times when I offer even a small amount they get offended as they feel you are playing them cheap. They say I have fare. As I am a avid Jeep rider most of the girls are too.
They tell me they can appreciate some good conversation and if we would just listen and talk you will hear the stress about them working 12 hours a day since 16 to only send their money back home to support their family. They can't talk to their family about it and they can't talked to friends because it is a Taboo because of the " Culture here". So when they get a chance to have a decent nights sleep in a decent place with no noise, get a decent meal and just feel appreciated then they do not want your money just your time.
Now there are a few wolf in Sheep's clothing who will play good innocent and virgin and try to sleep with you and then try everything in the world to extort money from you but I have not encountered that.
There is one girl that is a member because she was recommended by a member of this forum for her REAL Estate that actually stole money from me 2x. I set her up the 2nd time to be sure. This is another issue because I am tempted to write the whole story here on DIA as a Monger's code of ethic's we should not be sharing stories we here on ISG and sharing them with others and when others are warned in private they should not refer the person anymore if it's proven she is a thief. Funny because I gave her money or let her do odd jobs to make money without sleeping with her.
Tally Wacker
10-14-11, 23:33
Your report is right on the money. Let me add my 2 cents.
I have lived in Cebu over 5 years and have dated on DIA more times than you can shake a stick at. Most of the woman I have encountered are looking for somebody they can have a little fun with, talk to and can have sex with without the whole Barangy finding out she is boning somebody.
Most of the times when I offer even a small amount they get offended as they feel you are playing them cheap. They say I have fare. As I am a avid Jeep rider most of the girls are too.
They tell me they can appreciate some good conversation and if we would just listen and talk you will hear the stress about them working 12 hours a day since 16 to only send their money back home to support their family. They can't talk to their family about it and they can't talked to friends because it is a Taboo because of the " Culture here". So when they get a chance to have a decent nights sleep in a decent place with no noise, get a decent meal and just feel appreciated then they do not want your money just your time.
Now there are a few wolf in Sheep's clothing who will play good innocent and virgin and try to sleep with you and then try everything in the world to extort money from you but I have not encountered that.
There is one girl that is a member because she was recommended by a member of this forum for her REAL Estate that actually stole money from me 2x. I set her up the 2nd time to be sure. This is another issue because I am tempted to write the whole story here on DIA as a Monger's code of ethic's we should not be sharing stories we here on ISG and sharing them with others and when others are warned in private they should not refer the person anymore if it's proven she is a thief. Funny because I gave her money or let her do odd jobs to make money without sleeping with her.Great report. Tell more Andre007.
TurdyCurdyOne
10-15-11, 04:38
[QUOTE=Westcoast1; 1206044]I use the term 'opportunistic' when describing pinay. Many pinay have described the above situation to me: having one main bf ($, or love) , but also "fall-back" boyfriend, or as we call it here: "Plan B". One girl, whom I'd met and banged, actually told me this in YM chat, saying I was originally her go-to guy, and she had another guy in Ohio who was nice to her, but she liked me better. After time, I didn't show intent to marry her (true) , and the Ohio guy had mentioned he wanted to get married some day. So she was informing me of Ohio guy in that chat, and of her desire to marry him, and would I agree right then to marry her? Your first thought is she is bluffing, there is no Ohio-guy. But there really was the other guy. When I said no thanks to the marriage thing, she informed me that she still liked me better than Ohio-guy, and would be glad to be my gf whenever I visited Cebu, but only until Ohio-guy married her. Many girls there are like the one you described.
Most of the pinays on DIA are hard to carry an intelligent conversation with. The ones who can are often westernized types. I ran into one who as proficient in English, her American husband had died and she returned to Manila, probably because she could not continue to afford the high prices in her US city.
She has American citizenship but is living outside Manila. We started talking and I realized that she is Americanized and kind cheap. She has money but wants to keep it. She offers me a place to stay in her new house, but no air cond, although she has one in her room. But she wants me to pay utils and food.
Well I would have done that anyways but her asking tells me she is cheap, because I would have only been there a week ro two at most.
Then after promising me this and talking about and making me think she is thinking of me as a possible partner, she suddenly tells me that she had retired doctor US friend who is coming in Jan to meet her and they will return to US to visit her grandkids together. You think should could have mentioned this guy before I wasted alot of time chatting with her?
This shows how living in the USA ruins any pinay. They will become just like American C*ts. Stupid of me to even talk to her once I found out she had lived for several years in the USA.
. So today I sak her if she had dates for the weekend. She says she hasnt had dates in a long time. I ask how long. She says last man she kissed was me. .That's remarkable FF.
Just yesterday I was chatting to one of my friends from Cebu that I met in February this year who was asking if I can come down soon and see her again.
When I enquired about her love life she gave me EXACTLY the same story that you got. Verbatim."Last guy I kissed was you". Exact words.
Now it is only since February but this woman is hot and very gregarious and likes sex a lot. There is NO WAY she could possibly be truthful, and I thought how silly of her to expect me to believe it.
My reply to her?"Same for me honey. I have been too busy. You are the last woman I have been with too".
Her response?"Talaga. That's great baby. So we will be really horny for each other when we next meet".
What a laugh. What games we play? How we humor one another with BS?
Hairy Wonder
10-15-11, 06:17
WOW, HW, thanks a lot! I sent her a message and hope to get a reply! As luck would have, I'll be in Makata early next month and hope to meet her! Thank you, very, very much. If you're in town, let me know. The San Mig is on me!Wish I could be there to enjoy that San Mig with you D Cups. Unfortunately, I have not been able to get back to Phils since 2009. I live vicariously through the stories that you and other mongers post on here, hoping that I will be able to go there again sometime soon. I hoped to go last year, but an unexpected move put me in debt so bad I could barely keep my head above weather. And this year was not much better. I'm trying to get a job back in Asia again, so I can get around to all the fun spots more often, and with less expense. I'm determined to make it back there again as soon as possible.
I hope you hook up with the DIA cutie I sent you. Please make sure to post about your experience with her.
Enjoy!
HW
Hi,
I found this forum as very live and with lot of helpful persons, that's why posting here,
I met few dia dh at Hong kong who is willing to do BBBJ and DATY, , I like to know the risk involved in doing bbj and DATY, what are the possible disestablishment that can be caught!
FS will be covered, the dia girls seems to be semi pro, doing it on their off days during day time only, hope to get yr expert opinion on this.
TMT
DriveAllNight
10-15-11, 22:45
[QUOTE=Westcoast1; 1206044]This shows how living in the USA ruins any pinay. They will become just like American C*ts. Stupid of me to even talk to her once I found out she had lived for several years in the USA.Yup. Go to Phils and visit your girls. Never, ever import.
GregLondon
10-15-11, 23:54
I regard myself as pretty conservative compared to many on this board but would regard oral sex with a semi pro Phil as very low risk. Assuming you check for obvious symptoms. If you are using a condom with FS herpes and genital worts are probably the main risks for any uncovered parts.
Hi,
I found this forum as very live and with lot of helpful persons, that's why posting here,
I met few dia dh at Hong kong who is willing to do BBBJ and DATY, , I like to know the risk involved in doing bbj and DATY, what are the possible disestablishment that can be caught!
FS will be covered, the dia girls seems to be semi pro, doing it on their off days during day time only, hope to get yr expert opinion on this.
TMT
SergeantRay
10-16-11, 00:30
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone; 1206502]Yup. Go to Phils and visit your girls. Never, ever import.Agreed. I take the advice of my Australian friend who don't me, "Don't ever take a Filipina home. Keep 'em in the Philippines where they belong."
I have seen it happen too many times here locally. An older guy marries a much younger, very hot Filipina and brings her to the US. The dumb a*es who can't be bothered to get up off the couch and go to the Philippines, which they dismiss as a stupid idea, now have a young Filipina brought to their doorstep.
Here in my part of the US there is a clique of young, hot Filipinas who have left their older husbands and cruise the bars together.
Bringing a Filipina to your home country is like paying her to screw another man. Just hope you don't lose your house in the process.
Hi,
I found this forum as very live and with lot of helpful persons, that's why posting here,
I met few dia dh at Hong kong who is willing to do BBBJ and DATY, , I like to know the risk involved in doing bbj and DATY, what are the possible disestablishment that can be caught!
FS will be covered, the dia girls seems to be semi pro, doing it on their off days during day time only, hope to get yr expert opinion on this.
TMTTMT do you realise that there is a Hong Kong board too.
Maybe you should have a look there. Lots of information about maids on days off; hookers who visit for 2 weeks, and which daytime bars to visit.
Thanks, but have a look at my postings and read it before answering it!
TMT do you realise that there is a Hong Kong board too.
Maybe you should have a look there. Lots of information about maids on days off; hookers who visit for 2 weeks, and which daytime bars to visit.
Thanks, but have a look at my postings and read it before answering it!Hmmmm well I can only repeat my question.
Why are you asking about the risks of sex in HK on the Philippines board? And whatever do you mean by ". What are the possible disestablishment that can be caught"
I guess English is not your first language so I will not argue with you, but I suppose you mean "possible diseases" that can be caught.
Much better to ask HK mongers these questions. Don't assume Philippines board readers know much about HK. Some will but most will not.
Yes, I have American friends who say the same. Women from poor countries like PI who marry middle-class American men quickly spoil upon arrival and lose their original charm, simplicity and flavor. American women taint them into becoming biotches who take everything you worked hard for your whole life so you have nothing left. If I marry a Filipina we will never live in the USA Guaranteed.
[QUOTE=Driveallnight; 1206781]Agreed. I take the advice of my Australian friend who don't me,"Don't ever take a Filipina home. Keep 'them in the Philippines where they belong."
I have seen it happen too many times here locally. An older guy marries a much younger, very hot Filipina and brings her to the US. The dumb a*es who can't be bothered to get up off the couch and go to the Philippines, which they dismiss as a stupid idea, now have a young Filipina brought to their doorstep.
Here in my part of the US there is a clique of young, hot Filipinas who have left their older husbands and cruise the bars together.
Bringing a Filipina to your home country is like paying her to screw another man. Just hope you don't lose your house in the process.
Blackangst
10-16-11, 21:34
[QUOTE=Driveallnight; 1206781]Agreed. I take the advice of my Australian friend who don't me,"Don't ever take a Filipina home. Keep 'them in the Philippines where they belong."
I have seen it happen too many times here locally. An older guy marries a much younger, very hot Filipina and brings her to the US. The dumb a*es who can't be bothered to get up off the couch and go to the Philippines, which they dismiss as a stupid idea, now have a young Filipina brought to their doorstep.
Here in my part of the US there is a clique of young, hot Filipinas who have left their older husbands and cruise the bars together.
Bringing a Filipina to your home country is like paying her to screw another man. Just hope you don't lose your house in the process.And how do all these local guys get around the requirement of having to meet their prospective brides in person? Or do they get here on something other than a k1 visa?
TurdyCurdyOne
10-17-11, 00:48
[QUOTE=Driveallnight; 1206781]Agreed. I take the advice of my Australian friend who don't me,"Don't ever take a Filipina home. Keep 'them in the Philippines where they belong."
I have seen it happen too many times here locally. An older guy marries a much younger, very hot Filipina and brings her to the US. The dumb a*es who can't be bothered to get up off the couch and go to the Philippines, which they dismiss as a stupid idea, now have a young Filipina brought to their doorstep.
Here in my part of the US there is a clique of young, hot Filipinas who have left their older husbands and cruise the bars together.
Bringing a Filipina to your home country is like paying her to screw another man. Just hope you don't lose your house in the process.We have an Air Force base here with alot of bars surrounding it. One night I went to one of the honkey tonk joints and who do I find but a cackle of (is that the proper term?) of Flips out on their American husbands, or ex-husbands. When I said to one, you're ruining my good impression of Filipinas she pipes back: "You need to find one that just got here off the boat". Hahahahhahaha, least she has gained some candor over her phoney friends on DIA. They even joke about this among themselves. Besides being a walking ATM, American is seen as a ticket to the USA and maybe even get his house in the process. Buncha F*kin scammers and opportunists. Also they often then bring their families over here once they have gained a foothold, kinda like cockr*es moving in, . There are some good ones though.
[QUOTE=SergeantRay; 1206802]And how do all these local guys get around the requirement of having to meet their prospective brides in person? Or do they get here on something other than a k1 visa?That was the missing link in the story.
Blackangst
10-17-11, 21:07
[QUOTE=Blackangst; 1207096]That was the missing link in the story.Pretty important missing link, no?
[QUOTE=Slippery; 1207283]Pretty important missing link, no?Very important
Over the past week in prep for my arrival into Cebu I have been amazed at the masses of females available on the dating websites. I have been using Tagged.
I have a shortlist now of three ladies. One of which has been comfortable being naked on webcam with me, she isn't such a concern and I'll prefer to keep her for the overnighters. It is now a case of working the list for daytime fun as soon as I arrive.
When dating in Oz, I search for women in the 40. 50 years categories. I only have success with P4P younger ladies! When I started searching in Philippines I lowered this to 30-40, that was nice, then I went 20-30, that was nicer and then 20-25. Nice talent and age no problems.
Then I thought I may as well go to 18-21 and see what happens. Again still no age barriers. Interestingly, it was in this group where I met my first scammer ie wanting bus money before the meeting, when I refused they didn't chat any more.
I did read in this forum about checking the contacts through Facebook as well. Pretty interesting reading. Gives a much better feel for the lady.
The reason for this post is just a reminder. When I have headed into the 18-21 year age bracket I did find that a number of them were under 18 but they described themselves as 'turning 20 soon' etc.
While I don't expect others would be as gullible as me, please do be careful and please do not engage with anyone under 18. In fact, encourage them off the site as it can only lead to trouble for all.
Interestingly, and as a reminder, Aust laws still provider for prosecution back home even for activities carried out overseas.
Happy punting.
Aussie Jo.
My two cents worth.
FreebieFan
10-18-11, 06:43
Over the past week in prep for my arrival into Cebu I have been amazed at the masses of females available on the dating websites. I have been using Tagged.
I have a shortlist now of three ladies. One of which has been comfortable being naked on webcam with me, she isn't such a concern and I'll prefer to keep her for the overnighters. It is now a case of working the list for daytime fun as soon as I arrive.
The reason for this post is just a reminder. When I have headed into the 18-21 year age bracket I did find that a number of them were under 18 but they described themselves as 'turning 20 soon' etc.In preparation for my 7th trip this year I have also been doing the hunt. I have a large stable of repeat possibles and like to mix up great repeaters with new ones for the sake of variety. I also like a little age variety.
So will have two on day one, one 18 and one 26. Both are new. The 18 year old is quite mature for her years. She asked me today " will we meet or will we fuck ", I replied probably both. She replied "thats fine I jsut wanted to prepare myself.". Nice chat.
The 26 year old is working in a high end restaurant in Fort Bonifacio.
Next day will be a new one from Antipolo. She's 27. Then in evening will be a 22 year old super hot repeat girl. She has promised to arrive wearing no panties as long as I bring her a dildo as birthday gift (well that beats the old Nokia request anyway).
Next day will be a super lovely repeat. 24 from Makati. She's the best kisser I ever met. Then will be one from my "new spares " list and finaly before my flgiht will be a 33 year old teacher, hoorny as heck. She knows she's last on my "list" but still says she wants to see me.
Should be a normal sort of weekend for Freebie in Manila.
Yes, I have American friends who say the same. Women from poor countries like PI who marry middle-class American men quickly spoil upon arrival and lose their original charm, simplicity and flavor. American women taint them into becoming biotches who take everything you worked hard for your whole life so you have nothing left. If I marry a Filipina we will never live in the USA Guaranteed.
[QUOTE=SergeantRay; 1206802]Your comment reminds me of the movie "Blind Date" with Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger. In that movie, there's a rich Japanese man with his very obedient and subservient Japanese wife. Kim Basinger pulls the Japanese wife aside and explains to her California's community property law as it relates to divorce. When the Japanese wife realizes that she'll get 1/2 her husband's assets in a divorce, she turns into a raging b**ch.
FurryFriend
10-18-11, 09:47
Yes, I have American friends who say the same. Women from poor countries like PI who marry middle-class American men quickly spoil upon arrival and lose their original charm, simplicity and flavor. American women taint them into becoming biotches who take everything you worked hard for your whole life so you have nothing left. If I marry a Filipina we will never live in the USA Guaranteed.If you're that distrustful and cynical, why get married in the first place?
FreebieFan
10-18-11, 10:15
In preparation for my 7th trip this year I have also been doing the hunt. I have a large stable of repeat possibles and like to mix up great repeaters with new ones for the sake of variety. I also like a little age variety.
So will have two on day one, one 18 and one 26. Both are new. The 18 year old is quite mature for her years. She asked me today " will we meet or will we fuck ", I replied probably both. She replied "thats fine I jsut wanted to prepare myself.". Nice chat.
The 26 year old is working in a high end restaurant in Fort Bonifacio.
Next day will be a new one from Antipolo. She's 27. Then in evening will be a 22 year old super hot repeat girl. She has promised to arrive wearing no panties as long as I bring her a dildo as birthday gift (well that beats the old Nokia request anyway).
Next day will be a super lovely repeat. 24 from Makati. She's the best kisser I ever met. Then will be one from my "new spares " list and finaly before my flgiht will be a 33 year old teacher, hoorny as heck. She knows she's last on my "list" but still says she wants to see me.
Should be a normal sort of weekend for Freebie in Manila.I'm sure I shouldn't be quoting my own reports but been chatting with a lady who works as housekeeper in EastRembo (old Makati ). She doesn't get days off, but on sundays she does get a few hours off. Problem she says is she has no where for her 6 year old daughter to stay unless she comes with us. Ms Maid stated that we could meet in a hotel, we could play in bathroom and her kid could stay in the bedroom watching tv. Freebie loves to get himself into strange situations. I don't think I will go for this as its weird. But everything is possible in the Philippines.
Good question, FF. See Yurji's response.
Still, if you keep her in her environment they will not get tainted / Americanized. But then you have to deal with a bunch of moocher relatives. It is a tough decision. Are you married, FF? If so, what do get out of it?
If you're that distrustful and cynical, why get married in the first place?
I just had a pretty long conversation on YM with a self confessed bar girl from a Manila club (she admitted to being a bar girl later). We exchanged numbers then said bye because we both had work. Just a few minutes ago she actually called me on my Japan mobile phone. I didn't know who it was to start with. Then I get the you-don't-remember-me thing. Must say I was quite surprised that she would call me but I guess you learn something new every day.
Quite happy she did as Ill try to see her sometime if I can make it to Phi.
Member #4351
10-19-11, 09:15
Ill try to see her sometime if I can make it to Phi.Why are you on these threads, the dating sites and YMing Filipinas, if you don't even have plans to go to the Philippines?
Freebie should go for it. Just find a hotel with a nice bathroom. Sex is better spiced up when out of your comfort zone. LOL you may even work out you actually like it.
I'm sure I shouldn't be quoting my own reports but been chatting with a lady who works as housekeeper in EastRembo (old Makati ). She doesn't get days off, but on sundays she does get a few hours off. Problem she says is she has no where for her 6 year old daughter to stay unless she comes with us. Ms Maid stated that we could meet in a hotel, we could play in bathroom and her kid could stay in the bedroom watching tv. Freebie loves to get himself into strange situations. I don't think I will go for this as its weird. But everything is possible in the Philippines.
Friends with benefits and My neighbours wife (tagalog) are movies that were showing last week (the may still be showing) in fils cinema. The first title is self explanatory while the second is about the taboo of having an affair in fils. I saw both movies with DIA dates. I also discussed the movies with few other girls I saw during the trip. Both movies are extremely popular and for the first time I am hearing the terms friends with benefits in phils. I now have 2 LOL. No money just great sex. One even came up with the idea that this is better than being kabit (lover / adulterer) as this does not require loving the partner LOL. I love the popcorn coca cola culture of this country just point the in the right direction make it sound as if its normal natural and exciting and off you go. Easy easy easy kill for anyone struggling to come up with activities for a date there you go.
WestCoast1
10-19-11, 14:51
I'm sure I shouldn't be quoting my own reports but been chatting with a lady who works as housekeeper in EastRembo (old Makati ). She doesn't get days off, but on sundays she does get a few hours off. Problem she says is she has no where for her 6 year old daughter to stay unless she comes with us. Ms Maid stated that we could meet in a hotel, we could play in bathroom and her kid could stay in the bedroom watching tv. Freebie loves to get himself into strange situations. I don't think I will go for this as its weird. But everything is possible in the Philippines.A few years ago a 19 year-old cebuana hottie showed up for the meet-and-bang in Robinson's fuente with an infant in her arms. 3-4 months old. Tall and thin, she did not mention being a mother in chat, and didn't look like she had birthed recently, tummy was pancake-flat. Such a beauty, but when she said that she was fine bringing the baby back to the hotel for the afternoon's fun (she had nobody to watch him) , I got gooey inside, and declined the deal."Just he sleeping in the floor. He fine." Probably it would have gone fine, but I just couldn't do it. Then.
Why are you on these threads, the dating sites and YMing Filipinas, if you don't even have plans to go to the Philippines?Look mate I love philippina girls and plan to visit soon. Thats why. All due respect. No other intentions.
Member #4351
10-19-11, 15:00
General consensus is that its a waste of time and counterproductive to start the dating site chatting frenzy more than a month before a planned trip. But its your spare time, spend it as you wish. You will find that if you encounter a worthwhile girl, she will not be satisfied with an endless chat relationship and promised trips that never materialize. This trip I started the process a day before arriving in Cebu.
So I arrange to meet a DIA gal today at 12 noon.
She seemed quite smart and worldly-wise, was looking forward to meeting a new foreigner, and the time and place was established by her. The place to meet was quite close to her home.
Here is the sequence of events as per text:
11. 30 am: ME: I am on the way now. See you at 12.
11. 35: HER: Me too. See you soon.
12. 05pm: ME: Where are you now?
12. 06 : HER: Sorry honey. So traffic. Maybe another 15 mins.
12. 25: ME: Calls her."Where are you?". HER: "So sorry, so much traffic.
12. 40: ME: I have waited for 40 mins and you are not here. I am going now. I cannot wait any longer.
I leave.
12. 45: HER: I am not far away now. Please wait 10 mins OK?
12. 46: ME: Nope. I am going back to my office now.
1. 15: HER: I am almost there. I am looking forward to meeting you.
1. 50: HER: I am here now but I cannot see you. Were you serious when you said you were leaving?
1. 51: ME: Do you really expect me to stay around waiting for 1 hour and 50 mins for you? I am back in my office now.
1. 55: HER: Why are you foriners so important for time (her words)
There was no further exchange. Those of you planning a trip to meet a filipina here who have never done so before. Be warned.
The above is a true account of what happened today.
Screaming Beaver
10-19-11, 16:57
There was no further exchange. Those of you planning a trip to meet a filipina here who have never done so before. Be warned.
The above is a true account of what happened today.This is why I often double book. The first one crossing the finish line gets the sausage.
DriveAllNight
10-19-11, 19:26
The first one crossing the finish line gets the sausage.Nice. Talk about "passing the baton."
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1208057]So I arrange to meet a DIA gal today at 12 noon.
She seemed quite smart and worldly-wise, was looking forward to meeting a new foreigner, and the time and place was established by her. The place to meet was quite close to her home.
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Then it started wrong already: you let her choose the time and place. Which puts her in control. Besides you hitting the drums, saying that you do not wait longer than 30 minutes before hand and coming late 15 minutes yourself drastically cuts your waiting time.
Strange but true, if you start to come over as demanding, they behave better. Which leaves still the fact that for many of them time means very little since they have nothing to do all day.
GregLondon
10-19-11, 19:56
General consensus is that its a waste of time and counterproductive to start the dating site chatting frenzy more than a month before a planned trip. But its your spare time, spend it as you wish. You will find that if you encounter a worthwhile girl, she will not be satisfied with an endless chat relationship and promised trips that never materialize. This trip I started the process a day before arriving in Cebu.I think just about anyone who has ever been to the Phils pretty much understands this. The reality is that many guys based outside the Phils derive a considerable kick from chatting up pretty girls over the internet even if they know in their hearts that they are very unlikely to make an appearance in reality. My view is that as long as the guy is reasonably honest about the situation it's fine. Of course some guys are far from honest about the situation. A particularly nasty trick is to actually arrange a date and get the girl to tart herself up and take a couple of jeep rides to meet him in some mall. When the guy is not even in the country.
DriveAllNight
10-19-11, 22:40
I agree completely. It's extremely important to frame your interactions correctly when dealing with Filipinas.
So, establish the correct frame: You are the Kano, with many, many women in Phils eager to spend time with you. Any girl's shoes are easily filled; she's well aware of that. But are you aware? That's what she wants to know. So much of what females say and do are unconscious "shit-tests" tossed out to gauge what a man will let them get away with. (This applies to all women: bargirls, dia, and also "normal" ones.)
Don't be an asshole or be cruel, but do be the boss. She wants you to. Really.
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1208057]So I arrange to meet a DIA gal today at 12 noon.
She seemed quite smart and worldly-wise, was looking forward to meeting a new foreigner, and the time and place was established by her. The place to meet was quite close to her home.
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Then it started wrong already: you let her choose the time and place. Which puts her in control. Besides you hitting the drums, saying that you do not wait longer than 30 minutes before hand and coming late 15 minutes yourself drastically cuts your waiting time.
Strange but true, if you start to come over as demanding, they behave better. Which leaves still the fact that for many of them time means very little since they have nothing to do all day.
TurdyCurdyOne
10-19-11, 23:12
Good question, FF. See Yurji's response.
Still, if you keep her in her environment they will not get tainted / Americanized. But then you have to deal with a bunch of moocher relatives. It is a tough decision. Are you married, FF? If so, what do get out of it?Yes, it's a catch 22. Also you have to deal with outrageous visa fees and the hassle of renewal and all the other bad things about that terrible Country: bad air, scams, crime, traffic, laws stacked against you, and knowing that is unlikely you will ever be accepted on the same level as a Filipino. Some guys have imported women and try to keep them isolated in some rural area, but that's a strategy that is bound to fail and cause problems.
Maybe taking them to another third world country is one option. Most of the ones on DIA can do little or nothing to improve the standing of a foreigner unless you marry them, but even that's not much help. In most cases for the ones on DIA if your money runs out you're dead meat as far as they are concerned. The Country is ok for short term sex tourism but for living it leaves alot to be desired.
Radical Guy
10-20-11, 01:44
This is why I often double book. The first one crossing the finish line gets the sausage.What do you do if they both show up at the same time? Hmmm. Maybe a cat fight!
Then it started wrong already: you let her choose the time and place. Which puts her in control. Besides you hitting the drums, saying that you do not wait longer than 30 minutes before hand and coming late 15 minutes yourself drastically cuts your waiting time.Well I hear your comments Fslag and Drive all Night but as someone who has lived and worked here permanently for 14 years I know very well the different ways to deal with the myriad of women with whom I have interacted, and the formulae that you prescribed ("choose where to meet";"staying in control";"being the boss";"be demanding" etc) may or may not be appropriate, and are not necessarily always going to "work". All human beings behave and respond differently. For example, in my work situation I have several filipinas who are way superior to me in rank so using these sweeping chauvinistic approaches are not sure-fire prescriptions for success.
The point of my post was not to seek advice on what to do differently. It was just another saga in the "always late" chronicles that are frequently reported here (as evidenced by the heading I used).
I simply wanted to show to inexperienced mongers that a girl will turn up 1 hour and 50 minutes after the appointed time and wonder what all the fuss is about.
FreebieFan
10-20-11, 02:25
So I arrange to meet a DIA gal today at 12 noon.
She seemed quite smart and worldly-wise, was looking forward to meeting a new foreigner, and the time and place was established by her. The place to meet was quite close to her home.
Here is the sequence of events as per text:
11. 30 am: ME: I am on the way now. See you at 12.
11. 35: HER: Me too. See you soon.
12. 05pm: ME: Where are you now?
12. 06 : HER: Sorry honey. So traffic. Maybe another 15 mins.
12. 25: ME: Calls her."Where are you?". HER: "So sorry, so much traffic.
12. 40: ME: I have waited for 40 mins and you are not here. I am going now. I cannot wait any longer.
I leave.
12. 45: HER: I am not far away now. Please wait 10 mins OK?
12. 46: ME: Nope. I am going back to my office now.
1. 15: HER: I am almost there. I am looking forward to meeting you.
1. 50: HER: I am here now but I cannot see you. Were you serious when you said you were leaving?
1. 51: ME: Do you really expect me to stay around waiting for 1 hour and 50 mins for you? I am back in my office now.
1. 55: HER: Why are you foriners so important for time (her words)
There was no further exchange. Those of you planning a trip to meet a filipina here who have never done so before. Be warned.
The above is a true account of what happened today.If its any consolation, I had a similar expereince yesterday with a Filipina in Taipei.
Me. Text me when you are on mrt (then I would know she was 15 minutes away)
Her Ok I text you.
She texts me," mrt ok "/
I leave work go to mrt station.
20 minutes later " where are you "
Her " I'm walking to bus stop to take bus to mrt "
Me. AAAAAAAAAAAGGGGHHHHH
We met up later yesterday for a bonk, which was one of the most boring bonks I've had in years.
No matter theres thousands more to sample.
I still can not understand guys who cone here for less than 1 month try and meet dia girls. Then complain. Read the forums pina and Pino are on a different time scale. They count days not minutes you can not change that.
Also there are so many girls who work and turn up just spend your time and money on thoses. They are also more experiance and often have a hygiene check.
For every 1 good hook up on a dating site I would guess there is 100 rejections.
I think this tread should have a terms of service (TOS) every time some one posts start with the words above.
DriveAllNight
10-20-11, 02:57
Well I hear your comments Fslag and Drive all Night but as someone who has lived and worked here permanently for 14 years I know very well the different ways to deal with the myriad of women with whom I have interacted, and the formulae that you prescribed ("choose where to meet";"staying in control";"being the boss";"be demanding" etc) may or may not be appropriate, and are not necessarily always going to "work". All human beings behave and respond differently. For example, in my work situation I have several filipinas who are way superior to me in rank so using these sweeping chauvinistic approaches are not sure-fire prescriptions for success.
The point of my post was not to seek advice on what to do differently. It was just another saga in the "always late" chronicles that are frequently reported here (as evidenced by the heading I used).
I simply wanted to show to inexperienced mongers that a girl will turn up 1 hour and 50 minutes after the appointed time and wonder what all the fuss is about.Heh, I should've been more clear RK. I know you're well-versed in the ways of Filipinas. My post was meant for those perhaps less experienced than yourself.
I love the popcorn coca cola culture of this country just point the in the right direction make it sound as if its normal natural and exciting and off you go. Easy easy easy kill for anyone struggling to come up with activities for a date there you go.Back in the Mid-80s, on one of my many trips to AC, I asked a Parameter Road bar girl I was sweet on where she would like to go after an afternoon delight and she said movie. It was an all Tagalog PI movie at an old movie house on MacArthur, and I did not understand a damn word. She would lean over and whisper what was happening. Quite sweet and was handsomely rewarded later that night.
Slim
FreebieFan
10-21-11, 01:47
Back in the Mid-80s, on one of my many trips to AC, I asked a Parameter Road bar girl I was sweet on where she would like to go after an afternoon delight and she said movie. It was an all Tagalog PI movie at an old movie house on MacArthur, and I did not understand a damn word. She would lean over and whisper what was happening. Quite sweet and was handsomely rewarded later that night.
SlimAnd talking of movies. Long long before Greenbelt and the area where Havana is was a large supermarket. And before that there was a particualr movie house that was basically open 20 hours a day. But the best part was htat if you bought a ticket you were entitled to stay there as long as you liked. None of this one ticket one show deal. I think the price back then was something crazy like P20, as I well remember spending 4 hours there with a sweet young lady. This was back in mid 80's before I discovered Sogos LOL.
FreebieFan
10-21-11, 05:27
Ocassionally I read Dragonladies. Org which lists various scams etc. And I recall once reading about a guy who was seding out pics of girls and wanted a bodybuilding dvd plus some US branded clothes in exchange for the girls contacts. Truly strange but I think the same guy sent me email today.
I'm when I get an email from what appeared to be a ladys email address saying they had seen my profile in DIA and here were photos of a gal (big old ugly) available for marriage. Being true to my type and not having anything better I replied "why not send me her naked pics LOL"
Reply came back " I don't have naked pics of her but of her younger friend". The person sends me some naked pics of a girl that looked a bit better along with the attached.
"Jesse here from dateinasia. I can help you find a young and pretty filipina lady for marriage. I am attaching photos of Alma and Marilou. Alma is 27 years old. 5'2" and Marilou is 23 years old. 4'9" both are single, never been married and no kids yet. Marilou is the smaller and younger one. Both are ready to marry anytime now. They can relocate. They both work as nanny, takes care of children, cook them food, wash clothes etc. I can help you marrying one of them if you help order just 1 big air france concorde model plane toy. You can order online and send it here directly. Can I send you the link of the model plane on the website? I hope you can consider. Please email back if you are interested contact Jesse Phone (63) 9152612459 PHILIPPINES.
So there you go. A concorde air france model as payment?
The internet has some truly strange people on it. !
ThickTrick
10-21-11, 18:52
In planning for an upcoming trip to Philippines Dec. 10 through 18 I have been wasting tons of time chatting up ladies on DIA. Would like to know a few things from you more experienced folks.
1. Is it likely these girls will have sex on the first date? Any advice on how to ensure this will happen (things to do, say, give, places to go.)?
2. Is there a way or code word in their profile to tell which girls are looking for P4P or at least open to it?
3. Is there a way or code word in their profile to tell which girls are not open to P4P?
4. Why do some girls show the two fingers or peace sign in their pictures? Are they code for something?
Please do not tell me to read the forum as I have already done that and did not find this information.
Thanks in advance for your help and I would love to meet up with some of you during my upcoming trip.
ThickTrick
10-21-11, 19:00
In my previous post I asked for advice on DIA. Are there other websites I should be checking out besides DIA? Hoping to focus mostly on hooking-up with non-pros if that is doable. Fallback plan is P4P. LOL.
Thanks!
I've taken to telling girls that if they are really late I will start collecting phone numbers from other girls at the mall. And if they show up, I will show them the numbers I got.
They may get the message. Or not. But the message must be sent: you have other options. Many other options.
FurryFriend
10-21-11, 22:33
Still, if you keep her in her environment they will not get tainted / Americanized. But then you have to deal with a bunch of moocher relatives. It is a tough decision.First of all, I don't think anybody should be naive to think that a girl will behave the same before and after marriage. The guy doesn't act the same too. Just like, an employee rarely behaves the same at the job interview as he does after he's been on the job for five years.
Second, let's be very honest here. Many guys who marries native Filipinas are older white men (in his 50s and 60s) who hooked up with a 20something gal. She "changes" not because she changed, but because these kinds of unions are unnatural to begin with. Over time, her needs and his needs will diverge simply by virtue of the age difference. I have a feeling that if these guys married someone closer in age, he would find she wouldn't have "changed" so much.
Screaming Beaver
10-21-11, 23:11
I have a feeling that if these guys married someone closer in age, he would find she wouldn't have "changed" so much.Yeah, but then the old geezer is left with an old flip hag for a wife. Who wants that?
SergeantRay
10-22-11, 01:01
First of all, I don't think anybody should be naive to think that a girl will behave the same before and after marriage. The guy doesn't act the same too. Just like, an employee rarely behaves the same at the job interview as he does after he's been on the job for five years.
Second, let's be very honest here. Many guys who marries native Filipinas are older white men (in his 50s and 60s) who hooked up with a 20something gal. She "changes" not because she changed, but because these kinds of unions are unnatural to begin with. Over time, her needs and his needs will diverge simply by virtue of the age difference. I have a feeling that if these guys married someone closer in age, he would find she wouldn't have "changed" so much.Agreed. ALL women change after marriage, which is why it is a bad idea. I used to take aerobic classes from middle-aged women who were in killer shape. These women are rare exceptions.
I've personally seen guys in their 50's and 60's marrying hot Filipinas in their 20's and bringing them back to the US. You're kidding yourself if you can't see where that is headed. If you're an older guy hoping for some sort of long-term relationship, you had better take it up several notches. Get in shape. Get off the couch and onto the dance floor or hiking trail. Learn Filipino, or Philippine customs, get involved with her family.
All of the Filipinas I mentioned (who left geezer husbands once they moved to the US) are remarried to, or shacking up with, younger men closer to their age. These women are not single and dateless for very long.
Mr Enternational
10-22-11, 04:23
I can help you marrying one of them if you help order just 1 big air france concorde model plane toy. You can order online and send it here directly. Can I send you the link of the model plane on the website? I hope you can consider. Please email back if you are interested contact Jesse Phone (63) 9152612459 PHILIPPINES.
So there you go. A concorde air france model as payment?
The internet has some truly strange people on it. !Even stranger I actually have one of those that I bought at Airbus while in school in Toulouse, France. I can sell it to you if you are really interested in making one of those girls your bride!
FurryFriend
10-22-11, 05:03
I've personally seen guys in their 50's and 60's marrying hot Filipinas in their 20's and bringing them back to the US. You're kidding yourself if you can't see where that is headed. If you're an older guy hoping for some sort of long-term relationship, you had better take it up several notches. Get in shape. Get off the couch and onto the dance floor or hiking trail.
It's not about how he looks physically. There are just insurmountable differences between people that different in age. No matter how he tries, a 50 year old man can never become genuinely interested in the Twilight movies or the latest winner of American Idol. He just cannot communicate on her level.
The trick for a 50 year old man is to marry a women at least 35 years old. I'm 31 years old. When I was in Cebu, I dated a fabulous and sweet 20 year old. Yet, there is NO WAY I can fathom marrying her. Maturity level was just too different. And we're only 11 years apart.
Yeah, but then the old geezer is left with an old flip hag for a wife. Who wants that?
That's the morale of the story. If a guy is an old geezer, nature intends him to marry an old geezer. You can't cheat natural forces.
Besides, if a man wants a young women to tend to his needs, he should hire a nurse. Marriage is about having a stable life and bearing children. The women may be an imperfect wife but at least he something meaningful in his life: FAMILY.
On the other hand, you have old guys interested only in swinging for the rest of his life. Those are the expats I see in Angeles City -- walking corpses who simply lounge around, playing pool, drinking, flirting with girls, bitching about the Koreans and literally waiting to die in a foreign land. I'd rather have an imperfect wife and a family living in the US than to live like those expats.
Jon von Neumann
10-22-11, 14:26
That's the morale of the story. If a guy is an old geezer, nature intends him to marry an old geezer. You can't cheat natural forces.
Besides, if a man wants a young women to tend to his needs, he should hire a nurse. Marriage is about having a stable life and bearing children. The women may be an imperfect wife but at least he something meaningful in his life: FAMILY.Hundred Thousands years of oral history and thousands of years of well documented histrory of well to do old male geezers marrying young brides swept away in one immediate swoop. Less than one hundred years of women's lib and we think things have always been the way it is in the west. At the same time many here lament the biatchiness of westernized women. Quite baffling mate! Have you given some serious thought that our village dwelling forebears may just have gotten it right before reaching your sweeping conclusions?
Just saying.
31 huh. You sound like a dumb punk calling us older guys geezers. Let's compare notes when your 50 and I'm 70 and see who's happiest. Never say never. I happen to like idol and lots of things "young" people like but then again I'm a musician and a professor so I'll always be young at heart. Stay in the USA and marry your ideal American woman and raise your ideal family. Good luck with that. I'll do the same in the P. I. When I'm 60 something with a 20 something. A busty beautiful RN. Cheers.When I read FFs post earlier I wondered how a guy 31 is able to put himself in the shoes of a guy 50+. There's a whole lotta learning to be done in 20 some years and its obvious that FF has a whole lotta learning to do.
The trick for a 50 year old man is to marry a women at least 35 years old. I'm 31 years old. When I was in Cebu, I dated a fabulous and sweet 20 year old. Yet, there is NO WAY I can fathom marrying her. Maturity level was just too different. And we're only 11 years apart.Your 31 and you can not relate to a 20 yo. I am 45 and think relating a 20yo pina is fine. I even have a few 20 yo pina working for me in my biz I do not see a lack of maturity.
I think you have problems with women not their age. I talk to these 20yo girls about any topic we go see movies together, watch tv talk about the news. They are mature at 20 and some even have a high IQ (they tell me stuff that I have to think about before I reply). We even have deep and meaningful talks that why I love the pina catholic upbringing, we do social stuff all the time. Did you ever meet a girls parents? Go to church with her? Talk to her friends? I mean they are still part of the human race. Sure they are not as experience as me at 45 that makes some of our deep and meaningful talks.
Radical Guy
10-22-11, 20:39
it's not about how he looks physically. there are just insurmountable differences between people that different in age. no matter how he tries, a 50 year old man can never become genuinely interested in the twilight movies or the latest winner of american idol. he just cannot communicate on her level.
the trick for a 50 year old man is to marry a women at least 35 years old. i'm 31 years old. when i was in cebu, i dated a fabulous and sweet 20 year old. yet, there is no way i can fathom marrying her. maturity level was just too different. and we're only 11 years apart.i am 53 and my wife is 26. we have been married for 7 years, and we have a great marriage. i mean, no marriage is always 100% perfect, but we never really think of the age difference anymore. my wife is a college graduate, a us citizen, and has a good job. yes, she send some money to her family (about $200 per month) , but that comes from her income.
my wife is very attractive, still 95 lbs. and blessed with a very high libido (probably higher than mine) , and gets hit on frequently by guys closer to her age and much better looking than me. but she has never been unfaithful, and would never think of breaking her vows. maybe it has something to do with her religious upbringing, and being from a small village in the provinces.
if my wife were inclined to ditch me for a younger guy, i'm sure she would have done so long ago, since she has no legal or financial reason to feel tied to me. indeed, the only time we have occasional arguments is when i get busy in my work, and fail to give her the attention she needs. yes, she can sometimes be demanding, but not about money or material things-it's always about me spending time with her. but our arguments are very infrequent and short lived, and i must say that after 7 years, she still practically "[CodeWord124] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord124)" me when we are home together.
by the way, even though i am 53, i am very open minded and like to enjoy new and different things. we have both enjoyed watching twilight movies and american idol, usually while cuddling together in bed. .
is my situation typical? i have no idea, but many of my wife's filipina friends are also married to men much older than them, and they also seem very happy. yes, there are some older guys who are foolish enough to marry bargirls or trashy type girls, but when you look in a trash can, trash is what you'll get.
rg
FurryFriend
10-22-11, 21:12
you sound like a dumb punk calling us older guys geezers.you are really retarded. my usage of the phrase "old geezers" was merely a quote of a post i was responding to. since you didn't object to an earlier usage of that phrase, one can only conclude that you're offended not at the phrase but at my opinion.
they are mature at 20 and some even have a high iqyou might be the first person in history to consider 20 year olds to be generally mature. in the usa and many countries, 20 year olds are forbidden to buy liquor or gamble.
do you know that the philippines government prohibits women **** 23 to work as an overseas foreign worker? that can only mean, the philippines government believe those under 23 aren't mature enough to handle the responsibilities of working overseas.
In Australia you drink and vote at 18. Here you are no longer a minor at 18 and have leagal rights it not about the law it about knowing people. Something you seem to lack. I spend quality time with pina and I use to know young 18 yo girls in aust and the pina are more mature due to thier harder life. Please define what you think maturity is what you posted was a age gap thing which you can get over. Maturity to me is about behavior and this forum has great examples of poor behavior.
Chocha Monger
10-23-11, 07:04
That's the morale of the story. If a guy is an old geezer, nature intends him to marry an old geezer. You can't cheat natural forces.
Besides, if a man wants a young women to tend to his needs, he should hire a nurse. Marriage is about having a stable life and bearing children. The women may be an imperfect wife but at least he something meaningful in his life: FAMILY.
On the other hand, you have old guys interested only in swinging for the rest of his life. Those are the expats I see in Angeles City. Walking corpses who simply lounge around, playing pool, drinking, flirting with girls, bitching about the Koreans and literally waiting to die in a foreign land. I'd rather have an imperfect wife and a family living in the US than to live like those expats.Furryfriend makes a strong argument that nature intended old poles to stick to old holes. Most men did not make it out of their 40's until relatively recently in mankind's history. Disease, backbreaking work, malnutrition and violence made sure of that. The phenomenon of 60 to 70 yr old geezers traveling to distant lands for the sole purpose of fucking the local teens on the cheap is not even a century old. In fact, prior to 1998 most geezers could only look at young pussy and wish they could dial back the clock a few decades. Then in 1998, Viagra made its debut and geezers were capable of getting drug induced boners. Predictably, silver divorces began to rise as the natural state of affairs was disrupted between elderly couples. The ability of foreign geezers to root the youth in the developing world is due largely to severe economic disparity, Viagra, penile implants, pacemakers, advanced cardiovascular surgery and other medical advances. It is hardly surprising that such unequal marriages fall apart in the developed world.
i am 53 and my wife is 26. we have been married for 7 years, and we have a great marriage. i mean, no marriage is always 100% perfect, but we never really think of the age difference anymore. my wife is a college graduate, a us citizen, and has a good job. yes, she send some money to her family (about $200 per month) , but that comes from her income.
my wife is very attractive, still 95 lbs. and blessed with a very high libido (probably higher than mine) , and gets hit on frequently by guys closer to her age and much better looking than me. but she has never been unfaithful, and would never think of breaking her vows. maybe it has something to do with her religious upbringing, and being from a small village in the provinces.
if my wife were inclined to ditch me for a younger guy, i'm sure she would have done so long ago, since she has no legal or financial reason to feel tied to me. indeed, the only time we have occasional arguments is when i get busy in my work, and fail to give her the attention she needs. yes, she can sometimes be demanding, but not about money or material things-it's always about me spending time with her. but our arguments are very infrequent and short lived, and i must say that after 7 years, she still practically "[CodeWord124] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord124)" me when we are home together.
by the way, even though i am 53, i am very open minded and like to enjoy new and different things. we have both enjoyed watching twilight movies and american idol, usually while cuddling together in bed. .
is my situation typical? i have no idea, but many of my wife's filipina friends are also married to men much older than them, and they also seem very happy. yes, there are some older guys who are foolish enough to marry bargirls or trashy type girls, but when you look in a trash can, trash is what you'll get.
rgthat's quite sad. not your marriage, but the fact you watch american idol!
FurryFriend
10-23-11, 09:05
The ability of foreign geezers to root the youth in the developing world is due largely to severe economic disparity,Exactly. It's this economic need, and nothing else, that would motivate a 20 year old Filipina to even talk to some 60 year old man from Kentucky on a webcam to begin with. People here need to stop joking themselves into thinking there's more than economics. Economic need makes the unnatural happen.
Let's take this 20 year old and bring her to America. Do you think she'll be flirting up a 60 year old man at the dog food aisle at Walmart? This proves that, in a natural setting where both genders have choices, she'll choose someone closer in age...someone she can better communicate with. Like it or not, similarity in age produces compatibility. And compatibility produces greater likelihood for a successful marriage.
You can tell there's gross incompatibility when guys talk about keeping a wife in a third-world shithole so that she wouldn't "change".
Exactly. It's this economic need, and nothing else, that would motivate a 20 year old Filipina to even talk to some 60 year old man from Kentucky on a webcam to begin with. People here need to stop joking themselves into thinking there's more than economics. Economic need makes the unnatural happen.
Let's take this 20 year old and bring her to America. Do you think she'll be flirting up a 60 year old man at the dog food aisle at Walmart? This proves that, in a natural setting where both genders have choices, she'll choose someone closer in age. Someone she can better communicate with. Like it or not, similarity in age produces compatibility. And compatibility produces greater likelihood for a successful marriage.
You can tell there's gross incompatibility when guys talk about keeping a wife in a third-world shithole so that she wouldn't "change".This is a very accurate and well-written post Furry F.
I think you made a number of excellent points here that hit the nail squarely on the head.
What you said doesn't preclude the possibility that the 20 year old and the 60 year old Kentucky guy might get it together and be happy too as Radical Guy so eloquently pointed out in an earlier post.
But, as you said, the odds are well-stacked against it.
Age difference does not matter, it about attitude. Treat a girl like a piece of meat and she will up and leave. My last gf was 25 years one of my current pina gf is now 5 years and she is more than 20 years my jr. Both know I have a open relationship with them. So many of my mates have no gf as they lie to their gf and over the years the girl leaves.
If you think a girl just stays for the money, then you are mistaken. Try living with a girl, yes money is important but not if you use it to make her stay it will not work, bar girls I have met can marry for money but they still need to like the guy. I know many that are still married. I also know girls who are ex bar and their bf is older.
This is my first hand experience. I hear stories on this board but I think it is skewed with guys who have no idea how to relate to girls this is why they will keep paying for sex, I pay the girls now to leave as at 45 I know what I want, and I am here as 5 girls cost me less but I earn less living here. In aust I could still have 2 or more gf but I left aust for other reasons.
The older guys who retire here are not delusional they know what I know "better to pay the girls to leave"
Member #4491
10-23-11, 20:30
hello, my friend rk, if she is well stacked like the odds, count me in.this one is well stacked.
http://www.ladyboykisses.com/showfotos.php?l=en&id=34743&foto_id=168229&history=15&randm=2&randw=3
yes yes, i know. i got an email and my hand moved automatically and clicked on these bazookas without reflecting on the context. fuck knows if i would reflect on the context if i had these in front of me in reality as well.
"say would you let me cry.
on your shoulder, i've heard that you'll try anything twice"
d cups, the one girl i sent you contact details to, squirted her milk all over me last visit a couple of weeks ago. i even shot a nice and juicy video of it. big tits filled with milk, but take my advice and have her use the bottle for the whole day before she comes. does not take much before a ripe melon goes soft and saggy.
i know this is somewhat the wrong thread, but still want to apologize for not accommodating the invitations to cebu that some of you sent me. i took this 18 year old girls cherry some months ago, and she was not ready for some anal [CodeWord901] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901) fun so i hope i can be excused? next time i will come to cebu and join the fun.
barba
Member #4491
10-23-11, 20:38
hello, my friend rk, if she is well stacked like the odds, count me in.this one is well stacked.
http://www.ladyboykisses.com/showfotos.php?l=en&id=34743&foto_id=168229&history=15&randm=2&randw=3
yes yes, i know. i got an email and my hand moved automatically and clicked on these bazookas without reflecting on the context. fuck knows if i would reflect on the context if i had these in front of me in reality as well.
"say would you let me cry.
on your shoulder, i've heard that you'll try anything twice"
d cups, the one girl i sent you contact details to, squirted her milk all over me last visit a couple of weeks ago. i even shot a nice and juicy video of it. big tits filled with milk, but take my advice and have her use the bottle for the whole day before she comes. does not take much before a ripe melon goes soft and saggy.
i know this is somewhat the wrong thread, but still want to apologize for not accommodating the invitations to cebu that some of you sent me. i took this 18 year old girls cherry some months ago, and she was not ready for some anal [CodeWord901] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901) fun so i hope i can be excused? next time i will come to cebu and join the fun.
barba
Hairy Wonder
10-23-11, 23:30
While reading and replying to messages on DIA, I came across the profile of sexyP_vanessa. I could not keep myself from laughing when I read her self description.
"I'm nice woman ef you god man you can asking me?
I am nice woman and carenig too! I am virgin never ben kess so ef man how loves me he is lucky!"
So I wonder what a man would have to do to be lucky with her! :D
TurdyCurdyOne
10-24-11, 01:07
i am 53 and my wife is 26. we have been married for 7 years, and we have a great marriage. i mean, no marriage is always 100% perfect, but we never really think of the age difference anymore. my wife is a college graduate, a us citizen, and has a good job. yes, she send some money to her family (about $200 per month) , but that comes from her income.
my wife is very attractive, still 95 lbs. and blessed with a very high libido (probably higher than mine) , and gets hit on frequently by guys closer to her age and much better looking than me. but she has never been unfaithful, and would never think of breaking her vows. maybe it has something to do with her religious upbringing, and being from a small village in the provinces.
if my wife were inclined to ditch me for a younger guy, i'm sure she would have done so long ago, since she has no legal or financial reason to feel tied to me. indeed, the only time we have occasional arguments is when i get busy in my work, and fail to give her the attention she needs. yes, she can sometimes be demanding, but not about money or material things-it's always about me spending time with her. but our arguments are very infrequent and short lived, and i must say that after 7 years, she still practically "[CodeWord124] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord124)" me when we are home together.
by the way, even though i am 53, i am very open minded and like to enjoy new and different things. we have both enjoyed watching twilight movies and american idol, usually while cuddling together in bed. .
is my situation typical? i have no idea, but many of my wife's filipina friends are also married to men much older than them, and they also seem very happy. yes, there are some older guys who are foolish enough to marry bargirls or trashy type girls, but when you look in a trash can, trash is what you'll get.
rgdepends on what condition you're in. 53 is not that old. despite that your situation if it is as you describe it, is unusual; in western cultures it is rare unless the male is wealthy and generous and doesn't care if his wife screws around on the side. in the phil it is less rare, but many filipinas have younger be / f on the side as has been alluded to numerous times in this forum. what is rarer is the almost unbelievable thing that she pays for her families support from her own money, that's rare in the pi. the fact that you like watching american idol and twilight shows you're weird in your own right, hehehe. now where did i put my bs spray?
FurryFriend
10-24-11, 03:28
age difference does not matter, it about attitude. treat a girl like a piece of meat and she will up and leave.
if you think a girl just stays for the money, then you are mistaken.
this is my first hand experience. i hear stories on this board but i think it is skewed with guys who have no idea how to relate to girls this is why they will keep paying for sexwhen i was in college in california ten years ago, i would frequently encounter and meet the types of young filipinas that we all lust after.
let me ask you a question. what are the odds that you, a 45 year old man, can get a filipina campus cutie like that to be your girlfriend in america? what are the odds she'll go for you and not one of her male peers?
if you're honest, you would admit your odds are pretty dismal. because in my college years, i have never seen any of them go hand-in-hand with a man old enough to be her father, no matter how good his "attitude" (as you put it).
the reason it's easier to meet girls like that in the philippines is simple: one's socioeconomic status. that is the only difference. if you can provide another explaination, you are far more creative (or delusional) than me.
the very fact that we go to the philippines to chase tail proves my argument. according to the us census, there are 4. 3 million filipinos in the united states. if it's not about money, it should be similarily easy to get filipinas in the usa there's certainly plenty of them. no dumbass would need to travel to some shit-filled country if he can get similar results at home.
i'm a 31 year old chinese-american. i'm the type who can get 20something girls without the money factor. but when i'm in the philippines, i know my age or ethnicity has little to do with the attention i get from the ladies. it's only because i'm american. i am the guy who can provide a lifestyle she can only dream of.
this is why i don't walk around with a huge ego there. without being american, i'm as useless as the next pinoy. that makes me humble, no matter how much a girl there passionately fawns over me.
you're right. money isn't everything. if she wants to be your girlfriend or wife, certainly attitude matters, as well as your looks and age. but without money in the first place, none of those traits will matter. it's money that allows her to overlook your negatives qualities (like your old age or protruding beer belly). i think most of my critics here understand this intuitively. but they're in denial because what i've said is damaging to their egos.
This is why I don't walk around with a huge ego there. Without being American, I'm as useless as the next Pinoy. That makes me humble, no matter how much a girl there passionately fawns over me.
You're right. Money isn't everything. If she wants to be your girlfriend or wife, certainly attitude matters, as well as your looks and age. But without money in the first place, none of those traits will matter. It's money that allows her to overlook your negatives qualities (like your old age or protruding beer belly). I think most of my critics here understand this intuitively. But they're in denial because what I've said is damaging to their egos.First stop comparing living in USA to living here (I have dated in Aust). If you marry the right girl for you she will go to USA and stick with you as I have seen with other guys, marry the wrong girl and age will not matter she still will leave you once she has the visa.
I am fat and always have skinny so looks and age will match with what my girls wants, Pina have no problem telling me if a guy is too old.
I stress that I am not looking for a wife or just 1 gf so I will pay my girls I have now. But I know guys here with younger GF and they not pay
Hairy Wonder
10-24-11, 05:48
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion about why Filipinas like older men. I personally believe there are some that like the older guys, regardless of their money or physical shape. But really, who cares? Getting married carries a lot of risk, regardless the ages or nationalities of the bride and groom. After being dumb enough to marry and divorce twice, I don't plan to try it again. I believe that all women, at some point in time turn into crazy be*tches. So I would not recommend marriage to anyone. If you want a girl friend, fine. Have your fun with her until she starts getting crazy. Then dump her and move on to the next. If any of us was truly on here searching for where they can find a wife, I doubt we would be on a "sex guide" site.
Accept the fact that not everyone will agree on this subject, and get back to the subject of this thread.
HW
Marconista
10-24-11, 10:02
The V-sign used to stand for VICTORY, but now on sites like DiA and others it means "remember to bring your VIAGRA when you cum to visit me"
4. Why do some girls show the two fingers or peace sign in their pictures? Are they code for something?
In planning for an upcoming trip to Philippines Dec. 10 through 18 I have been wasting tons of time chatting up ladies on DIA. Would like to know a few things from you more experienced folks.
1. Is it likely these girls will have sex on the first date? Any advice on how to ensure this will happen (things to do, say, give, places to go.)?
2. Is there a way or code word in their profile to tell which girls are looking for P4P or at least open to it?
3. Is there a way or code word in their profile to tell which girls are not open to P4P?
4. Why do some girls show the two fingers or peace sign in their pictures? Are they code for something?
Please do not tell me to read the forum as I have already done that and did not find this information.Thick:
Having said that you have read this very thread carefully (Chat Rooms and Pen Pals) , you should have picked up the oft-stated advice that rarely do profiles on DIA correlate with what a girl wants or is looking for. I say rarely because hidden away in the dross are profiles that are diamonds (but they stand out like dog's balls).
For example (and this is a random listing)
- They get friends to write a profile for them.
- Friends or relatives write a profile and put it up for them without being asked.
- They copy another girl's profile that sounds good but they don't understand what it means.
- They just use their friends' profiles (2 or more girls using one profile; Yes it happens)
- They write a dream fantasy for who they want but in reality they will take anyone, as long as he is a foreigner and is breathing.
- They do not tell the truth. Just last weekend I chatted with 2 girls. One who posted she was 26 with no kids who admitted on chat that she was actually 31 with one child; another who posted no kids who admitted to having 3.
Etc.
So, when you asked whether there is a hidden code in the profiles then you are assuming they have carefully crafted their profiles. The answer is no.
Open-minded might mean what we logically hope it means but it also can mean willing to accept anything about her that might emerge once you meet her in person.
My advice: Make your profile very explicit about not only what you are seeking but what you are NOT seeking too. For example,"seeking a companion for fun times. Not looking for a wife at this time."
Don't be too explicit (such as "I want to meet hot women for sex") or the easily-offended women who read your profile will report you and you will be booted off.
Engage in chat if you are interested, and then try to get her YM address so you can chat in greater detail (and hopefully with a cam) which it seems you have already done. At this stage when the chat goes to plan then you can tell her straight out what you expect to happen on the first date. There is no formula for this. No book of instructions for you to follow.
But whatever happens, give yourself an escape route for when you meet for the first time in case she is not what you expected when you meet face to face. Cameras sometimes lie.
Hope this helps.
In planning for an upcoming trip to Philippines Dec. 10 through 18 I have been wasting tons of time chatting up ladies on DIA. Would like to know a few things from you more experienced folks.
1. Is it likely these girls will have sex on the first date? Any advice on how to ensure this will happen (things to do, say, give, places to go.)?
2. Is there a way or code word in their profile to tell which girls are looking for P4P or at least open to it?
3. Is there a way or code word in their profile to tell which girls are not open to P4P?
4. Why do some girls show the two fingers or peace sign in their pictures? Are they code for something?
Please do not tell me to read the forum as I have already done that and did not find this information.
Thanks in advance for your help and I would love to meet up with some of you during my upcoming trip.1. This depends how you started the conversation with her. Most of the time direct approach works. If she agrees get her to come to your room rather than meet at a public place.
Just meeting for lunch does not guarantee anything. Most of the time they show up with cousin, auntie, friend. In order to save their reputation they will not go with you.
I have always asked upfront if sex is involved. I stop chatting with people who say " what kind of a girl you think I am ". Be upfront and say you are looking for intimacy. Most girls are horny and will do it.
Ofcourse money is always expected as a gift unless the girl is planning to trap you long term. Just clear your conscience by giving money openly or discretely. All girls appreciate money even if they say it is.
Not required.
2 and 3. There is no code word. By chatting you will know. Many girls say upfront they need money for this and that. You say only after meeting you are willing to give money. These girls will definitely give sex.
4. For some reason Asian girls flash a " V " sign be it be in Phi, China, Thailand, vietnam etc.
For mongering purposes this may mean- I got this guy's balls to happy I found my meal ticket or anywhere in between.
Member #4491
10-24-11, 16:57
Much obliged, Barba. I don't do ladyboys, tho. No chicks with dicks.It was a joke.
I would even go so far as to saying that fakes of any kind does not do it for me. Had a couple of silicone tits and sure it was OK since the rest was quite good, but compared to a real and natural pair of E cups it is nothing. Big tits are all to rare in Asia, at least if you want the rest to be smallish.
B.
FreebieFan
10-26-11, 07:00
Much obliged, Barba. I don't do ladyboys, tho. No chicks with dicks.Just saw Hangover 2. Very funny scene in it about a lb moment.
TurdyCurdyOne
10-26-11, 07:50
when i was in college in california ten years ago, i would frequently encounter and meet the types of young filipinas that we all lust after.
let me ask you a question. what are the odds that you, a 45 year old man, can get a filipina campus cutie like that to be your girlfriend in america? what are the odds she'll go for you and not one of her male peers?
if you're honest, you would admit your odds are pretty dismal. because in my college years, i have never seen any of them go hand-in-hand with a man old enough to be her father, no matter how good his "attitude" (as you put it).
the reason it's easier to meet girls like that in the philippines is simple: one's socioeconomic status. that is the only difference. if you can provide another explaination, you are far more creative (or delusional) than me.
the very fact that we go to the philippines to chase tail proves my argument. according to the us census, there are 4. 3 million filipinos in the united states. if it's not about money, it should be similarily easy to get filipinas in the usa there's certainly plenty of them. no dumbass would need to travel to some shit-filled country if he can get similar results at home.
i'm a 31 year old chinese-american. i'm the type who can get 20something girls without the money factor. but when i'm in the philippines, i know my age or ethnicity has little to do with the attention i get from the ladies. it's only because i'm american. i am the guy who can provide a lifestyle she can only dream of.
this is why i don't walk around with a huge ego there. without being american, i'm as useless as the next pinoy. that makes me humble, no matter how much a girl there passionately fawns over me.
you're right. money isn't everything. if she wants to be your girlfriend or wife, certainly attitude matters, as well as your looks and age. but without money in the first place, none of those traits will matter. it's money that allows her to overlook your negatives qualities (like your old age or protruding beer belly). i think most of my critics here understand this intuitively. but they're in denial because what i've said is damaging to their egos.of course you are right. and it would behoove any foreigner to remember this because otherwise you start thinking they are interested in you for your exceptional good looks or personality, which leads to you overestimating your worth to them.
if you can find one that truely loves you, great, but i would not count on it from sites like dia. if you're young and handsome and charming, you probably can, but for those of us that are not all of those things do not make the mistake of investing your emotional baggage in one filipina because sooner or later you will realize that you're not much more than a walking atm to them.
try asking some of your filipina chatmates to give you something of value in return for your spending 300, 000 to visit them and their cr * phole country. then watch how their eager interest in you quickly wanes when they understand they might be required to give back something to you.
but it's not just about money, it's about the possibility of getting to the us or similar country. women are not treated very well in the phil compared to the usa. most of them want to escape the bad conditions of the phil and marriage to a foreigner is a quick painless way out.
TurdyCurdyOne
10-26-11, 07:55
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion about why Filipinas like older men. I personally believe there are some that like the older guys, regardless of their money or physical shape. But really, who cares? Getting married carries a lot of risk, regardless the ages or nationalities of the bride and groom. After being dumb enough to marry and divorce twice, I don't plan to try it again. I believe that all women, at some point in time turn into crazy be*tches. So I would not recommend marriage to anyone. If you want a girl friend, fine. Have your fun with her until she starts getting crazy. Then dump her and move on to the next. If any of us was truly on here searching for where they can find a wife, I doubt we would be on a "sex guide" site.
Accept the fact that not everyone will agree on this subject, and get back to the subject of this thread.
HWOnce you have truely been in love you will realize that for most men there is one woman out there that you can live with forever and love her even more than when you first met. It's rare but it does happen.
Once you have truely been in love you will realize that for most men there is one woman out there that you can live with forever and love her even more than when you first met. It's rare but it does happen.Found mine nearly 25 years ago. :)
Slim
Once you have truely been in love you will realize that for most men there is one woman out there that you can live with forever and love her even more than when you first met. It's rare but it does happen.Took me 25 years to get rid of mine. LOL
Cunning Stunt
10-26-11, 10:53
Found mine nearly 25 years ago. .
SlimGood for you! Not many guys ever find their soulmates.
Now the cynical bastard in me wonders why you need to frequent a forum for those looking for paid sex partners?
Member #4491
10-26-11, 14:12
Now the cynical bastard in me wonders why you need to frequent a forum for those looking for paid sex partners?CS, you are confusing sex with love / life partner / life friend. Monogamy was invented by the need and desire to control people. I think it is an outdated concept in many respects.
Barba
Cunning Stunt
10-26-11, 19:43
CS, you are confusing sex with love / life partner / life friend. Monogamy was invented by the need and desire to control people. I think it is an outdated concept in many respects.
BarbaI know! I've played monogamy. It's a bored game where you don't get any 'get out of jail free' cards. At least I didn't.
Hairy Wonder
10-27-11, 04:10
I know! I've played monogamy. It's a bored game where you don't get any 'get out of jail free' cards. At least I didn't.I tried playing that same game twice. And my experience was pretty much the same a CS. I decided that the old adage "third time is a charm" is not worth the risk. I'd rather grow old and die being f*cked by multiple young spinners than to be imprisoned with one old hag again.
I also question why anyone would claim to be happily married, or even seeking marriage, and frequently post on a sex search site. For some reason, the two concepts don't mix well. IMHO.
HW
FurryFriend
10-27-11, 05:04
And it would behoove any foreigner to remember this because otherwise you start thinking they are interested in you for your exceptional good looks or personality, which leads to you overestimating your worth to them.
The following sentiment on this forum always amuses me...
If a white guy gets Pinays, it's because of his superior attitude. But if a Korean gets Pinays, it's because he's "throwing money around".
Philippines is a country where Quasimodo with an American citizenship can date, have sex and marry Filipinas quite easily. It's not exactly an accomplishment. People here need to deflate their egos and stop thinking of themselves as special. If anything, if you have to meet women in the Philippines, you're probably less desirable than your average Joe in your native country.
If you marry the right girl for you she will go to USA and stick with you as I have seen with other guys, marry the wrong girl and age will not matter she still will leave you once she has the visa.
I was never talking about marriage. I'm talking meeting, dating and getting a girlfriend in the Philippines.
Of course, a women isn't going to divorce and leave you once she lands in America (or whatever Western country). I'm only saying that your socioeconomic status was a crucial factor in her marrying you in the first place. Granted, all women (even those in Western countries) want guys to be financially stable. But this need is on steriods in the Philippines.
By the way, the "wrong" girl is almost always related to the difference in age between the two parties.
Mr Enternational
10-27-11, 05:29
By the way, the "wrong" girl is almost always related to the difference in age between the two parties.I know of one failed case where age was not a factor. A buddy of mine married a Pinay about the same age as him and had a kid some years back. His daughter is 7 now I think. He said the woman was so damn lazy and so damn sorry that he could no longer put up with it and is in the process of a divorce now. He said all she had to do was go work a couple of hours at McDonald's while the kid was in school so she could have money to send back to PI and she would not even do that. He has yet to learn his lesson though because he is back to fishing in the same hole.
If you marry the right girl for you she will go to USA and stick with you as I have seen with other guys, marry the wrong girl and age will not matter she still will leave you once she has the visa.Yeah but either way it is a hell of a risk to take.
By the way, the "wrong" girl is almost always related to the difference in age between the two parties.In my mind, I always thought the 'wrong' girl would be a 'bar' girl. :rolleyes:
Jon von Neumann
10-27-11, 09:46
The following sentiment on this forum always amuses me.
By the way, the "wrong" girl is almost always related to the difference in age between the two parties.FurryFriend,
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For a 30something year old you seem to know it all. I think you are not looking hard enough at your environment. You are clueless.
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It is quite obvious you know less than you think you know about the Philippines. Your western biased cultural rants on age and marriage in the Philippines are getting quite old.
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For the majority of the world, including the Philippines, women marry men of means as a way to provide for their family. For many agrarian societies of the past, men married when they were able to support a family. This meant men marrying (often) much younger women (who were often in their mid teens) when they (ie, the men) were considerably older (ages thirty or older). Also, many societies had poligamy which meant that an extra-ordinarily abled man might have married his first wife when he was in his mid twenties and married his second or third wife whom are typically 15, 16 or at most 17 years old when he was in his thirtees or forties. This western notion of marrying similar age group is new and not universal. Even modern China seem to have the quaint notion of marriage, as the disparity between wages and cost of living is forcing many modern Chinese men to delay marriage, starting a family and buying homes. Modern Chinese men are marrying and starting a family much later than most modern western men.
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Let this shit of yours go. It is not helping you or anyone else on this board to keep bantering on age disparities of western men and their Filipina wives or girlfriends. There is nothing inherently natural about men marrying women of the same age as themselves. I would say that the history of mankind has not proven this theory of yours. To the contrary, in many societies, older men marry younger women. And this seems to be true in the Philippines.
/br.
I thought about ignoring your rants. But, I couldn't. I hate BS and you seem to have a lot of it. You are 30 for crying out loud. You've seen nothing yet. Observe. Learn. Then comment. Things are not always what they seem to be at first blush.
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Your notion about ideal marriage ages is just another western notion that gets bandied about without challenge. Much like the folks at Fox News (in USA) and News of the World (UK) bandy about materials that are propaganda as if they are facts. It's just BS. Give it a rest. Observe the culture in the Philippines, instead of trying to get it to fit your pre-concieved notions of what it ought to be.
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Young Pinays date and some marry considerably older western men. So what? Unnatural? Says who? Define unatural. Do baboons marry or date (ehr f*ck) this way? How about monkeys, chickens, dogs, cats, mices, etc? Where the hell is this sh*t coming from?
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Good for you! Not many guys ever find their soulmates.
Now the cynical bastard in me wonders why you need to frequent a forum for those looking for paid sex partners?I really enjoyed my time in the PI when I was a younger single guy. Since I was US military, I could fly in and out of Clark Field for a mere $10. 00 from Okinawa. I spent several one week trips and a few long weekends in AC. The people were friendly, the girls pretty and accommodating and the beer was cold.
I guess I am reliving my youth through the adventures of younger men as I am now a crippled old married man.
Your time will come.
Slim
FreebieFan
10-27-11, 10:59
[QUOTE=FurryFriend; 1210801Philippines is a country where Quasimodo with an American citizenship can date, have sex and marry Filipinas quite easily. It's not exactly an accomplishment. People here need to deflate their egos and stop thinking of themselves as special. If anything, if you have to meet women in the Philippines, you're probably less desirable than your average Joe in your native country.[/QUOTE]Not having lived in my own country for the past 30 years I wouldn't know what the average Joe looked like there. But I can tel you that this mid 50s guy picks some great girls and they seem to all want to come back for seconds and thirds etcetc. And as they are all dates and generally free guess its not to do with the money. Maybe the older guys have got a little more game, a lot more style and whole heap more class. Hubble bubble toil and trouble. This pot will be stirred at the double.
I recommend a book called The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. Old, but good stuff. I think you can find a copy online.
But in the defense of marriage, there has been a post catastrophe marriage increase in Japan. About 30. 40% of people in their 30s are still single, but some have come to the conclusion that life might be shorter than expected and therefore more people are tying the knot. But I talked to one housewife who is considering the reverse operation since her hubby ran out of the house during the earthquake. Leaving her there. X.
CS, you are confusing sex with love / life partner / life friend. Monogamy was invented by the need and desire to control people. I think it is an outdated concept in many respects.
Barba
Cunning Stunt
10-27-11, 13:30
i guess i am reliving my youth through the adventures of younger men as i am now a crippled old married man.
your time will come.
slimsorry slim, guess that i'm insensitive as well as cynical.
maybe that is why i have such a large collection of personal pics/vids. when i'm old and drooling into my malted milk, i can review them and remember that i used to have a use, apart from peeing, for the wrinkled old dangly bits between my legs:).
the cs is actually getting funnier as he ages. he's like some kind of mushroom that gets better and better as the fungi multiply.
sorry slim, guess that i'm insensitive as well as cynical.
maybe that is why i have such a large collection of personal pics / vids. when i'm old and drooling into my malted milk, i can review them and remember that i used to have a use, apart from peeing, for the wrinkled old dangly bits between my legs.
Mr Enternational
10-27-11, 20:43
I recommend a book called The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. Old, but good stuff. I think you can find a copy online.Somebody put a free pdf copy of it on the AW thread a few months ago. I have only gotten as far as page 10.
I came across a link to this, from one of the Stickman website "reader submission" articles.
A very sharp, informative essay from years ago. Even more trenchant, in that it's written by a woman, Esther Vilar, an Argentinian by birth, who saw society in a very different light from the "politically correct".
Jackson, I hope you will be so kind as to leave this link intact.
The Manipulated Man (http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf)
FurryFriend
10-28-11, 03:20
Let this shit of yours go. It is not helping you or anyone else on this board to keep bantering on age disparities of western men and their Filipina wives or girlfriends. There is nothing inherently natural about men marrying women of the same age as themselves.
Whoa, calm down. You sound like a Filipina in tampo. Being hysterical does not render your argument more compelling.
If you'd actually bother to read my posts, you'd see that you and I are mostly in agreement.
The thesis of my previous posts was that economic need is a crucial factor in explaining sexual behavior of girls in the Philippines. This thesis fits comfortably with your discussion of agrarian societies and how girls mostly choose men for survival.
I advanced my thesis to contradict the often-cited fallacy here that girls in the Philippines somehow have a fetish for old white men.
Is there a Western bias in my posts? Of course! This is a Western forum visited overwhelmingly by Westerners. You complaining about Western bias here is like complaining about Filipino bias in a Filipino TV program. Besides, I'm guilty of Western bias just as you're guilty of Philippine bias. We're twin brothers basking in the same sin.
However, here's why my Western bias is more relevant than yours when discussing marriage. When a man marries and brings over a Filipina to the United States (or whatever Western country) , the marriage becomes subjected to Western cultural norms and pressures. And yes, in Western countries, marriages are more likely to fail if the difference in age between the partners is measured in decades instead of years.
Finally, something "unnatural" does not make it wrong or less worthy. I've never stated that marriages with huge age differences were wrong or evil. "Unnatural" is simply a phrase used to describe something outside a norm. Just as, it's "unnatural" to be born with an extra nipple. That does not make the person less worthy of life.
Hairy Wonder
10-28-11, 04:18
FurryFriend,
I think the simple translation of BlackListed2010's post would be "We're tire of reading your shit!" Regardless of what you, in your 30's, think of older men with younger filipinas, nobody cares. You trying to convince everyone on this board that young filipinas are not truly interested in older men will not change anything. You made your point. Now drop the subject and let all of us old men get back to our fantasies.
HW
TurdyCurdyOne
10-28-11, 04:26
Whoa, calm down. You sound like a Filipina in tampo. Being hysterical does not render your argument more compelling.
If you'd actually bother to read my posts, you'd see that you and I are mostly in agreement. <snip for brevity You are right, Blacklisted is wrong.
I studied this issue of age at marriage several years ago. Age difference is the primary factor in selection of a mate, here in the US and elsewhere. Try being 50 here in the US and dating a 20 year old. The ONLY way you will be able to do it is if your wealthy or famous which works to counteract the age difference among CERTAIN women, mostly goldiggers, opportunists & prostitutes.
Further, the worse the economic situation in the country, the lesser the opportunities for women, the more they will accept a wider age span for their partner. Of course they are always free to cheat with a younger Filipino and they frequently do.
Also, anyone who thinks that a Filipina who marries you is not very prone to divorce you once she gets to the States is sadly mistaken and will only learn after being burned. This happens more frequently when the age difference is greater.
Blacklisted really sounds like he gets all his ideas out of history texts, not from the real world.
FreebieFan
10-28-11, 05:10
FurryFriend,
, . Now drop the subject and let all of us old men get back to our fantasies.
HW"Hear Hear ". From all the ROM's! (Rocking Old Men!)
Willie Wonker
10-28-11, 09:56
The thesis of my previous posts . economic need is a crucial factor . agrarian societies . often-cited fallacy . .I seem to have stumbled onto a community college sociology 101 course. Can someone please redirect me to the board where we discuss how to find and fuck young filipinas?
Jon von Neumann
10-28-11, 10:22
I seem to have stumbled onto a community college sociology 101 course. Can someone please redirect me to the board where we discuss how to find and fuck young filipinas?Willie,
You are in the right forum. Utah, Nevada, and Arizona mormons and Pennsylvania, Ohio and Indiana Amish don't exhibit the age difference that FF thinks he sees only in the Phil. As they say, you can take a horse to the stream, but you can never make. Moving on.
I think I am addicted to the Phils now after only two trips there. Sure things are eff'd up there with the poverty and people looking for the easy way out instead of working for it. The women are passionate, full of intrigue and full borne "Malibog". The drama of some of the said women notwithstanding, I enjoy every bit of the Phils. Being back in the US is a drag. I can't wait for my next trip to the Phils or Thailand.
Someone mentioned that there is a famous bar in Manila where all the famous porn stars and other movie stars frequent. I never heard of such a place when I was in the Phils. Anyone here know of this place they speak of (I think they say it is in Malate)?
BL2K
Mr Enternational
10-28-11, 12:40
I studied this issue of age at marriage several years ago. Age difference is the primary factor in selection of a mate, here in the US and elsewhere. Try being 50 here in the US and dating a 20 year old. The ONLY way you will be able to do it is if your wealthy or famous which works to counteract the age difference among CERTAIN women, mostly goldiggers, opportunists & prostitutes. Further, the worse the economic situation in the country, the lesser the opportunities for women, the more they will accept a wider age span for their partner.Turdy you are full of shit. I'm absolutely positive that women only like Hugh Hefner for his good looks, wit, and charm. I'm sure his money and fame has nothing to do with it. Many times those same women want to go out with me because although I am dead broke, I am much closer to them in age.
Why? It might start out a bit slowly. Or maybe it's all common sense to anyone who has gone thru a divorce and also spends a lot of time at ISG.
Somebody put a free pdf copy of it on the AW thread a few months ago. I have only gotten as far as page 10.
I seem to have stumbled onto a community college sociology 101 course. Can someone please redirect me to the board where we discuss how to find and fuck young filipinas?What a unique and priceless resource we have here on the ISG Philippines Forums! Willie, you will find that frequently,
Fascinating diversions capture the interest of our more erudite members. Lots of 'find and fuck' information, but so much more!
So you can gain many insights worthy of college courses well above the 101 level. We are indeed fortunate that the sons of
Socrates continue to illuminate and that, for many here,"The unexamined life is not worth living."
TurdyCurdyOne
10-28-11, 20:19
Turdy you are full of shit. I'm absolutely positive that women only like Hugh Hefner for his good looks, wit, and charm. I'm sure his money and fame has nothing to do with it. Many times those same women want to go out with me because although I am dead broke, I am much closer to them in age.Thanks for the good laugh. I heard it was his 9 inch tongue.
FurryFriend
10-28-11, 23:10
Also, anyone who thinks that a Filipina who marries you is not very prone to divorce you once she gets to the States is sadly mistaken and will only learn after being burned. This happens more frequently when the age difference is greater.I see the Philippines as a ghetto adult Disneyland. The country sucks and things aren't what they appear to be. Just enjoy it, don't expect anything to be real and get your ass back home. Don't cling to the fantasy with some idiotic beliefs.
Funny that I'm attacked for my age. But my critics are the ones naive enough to believe the fantasy. There is no doubt that I'm wiser.
My trips to the Philippines also makes me value what I have back in the United States. Not only am I grateful for not living in a third-world squalor, but I know the people around me in America aren't trying to scheme something from me. I can have a drink with a buddy at a bar and not have to wonder about his ulterior motives. And this makes me view my relationships back at home in a different light and with a lot more appreciation.
I see the Philippines as a ghetto adult Disneyland. The country sucks and things aren't what they appear to be. Just enjoy it, don't expect anything to be real and get your ass back home. Don't cling to the fantasy with some idiotic beliefs.
Funny that I'm attacked for my age. But my critics are the ones naive enough to believe the fantasy. There is no doubt that I'm wiser.
My trips to the Philippines also makes me value what I have back in the United States. Not only am I grateful for not living in a third-world squalor, but I know the people around me in America aren't trying to scheme something from me. I can have a drink with a buddy at a bar and not have to wonder about his ulterior motives. And this makes me view my relationships back at home in a different light and with a lot more appreciation.With a attitude like that why come here. You are a typical guy with no idea and a weak ego. You bad mouth a place but you spend hours and thousands of dollars to fly just to say the USA is better for you.
Well pal I will save you your time and money! Do not come here, we do not need your arrogant clueless fat ass here.
Also 280 post and i can not find any photos posted.. I call fake...
Here's one for you guys that think younger always gets the girl, I have a friend who used to visit Thailand 3-4 times a year. I talked him into visiting the P. I. For a couple years and he finally did. His 2nd trip there he met a 19 year old who just started working at the club (her 1st day). He took her for a short time and ended up staying with her the whole time. Before he left for home he gave her enough money to live well for 4 months and then returned and brought her home. They now have a 10 year old boy. He was 65 and on SS when they met, like I said she was 19. They live here in Texas and they are the happiest couple I know. She did not marry for money. It kinda makes me happy because when I visit them every few months she always gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and tells me thank you for talking him into visiting the P. I.
I have plans to go there next year, I know I'll taste the younger lasses but I would rather find a lady around mid to late 30's- late 40's. There should be an abundance of them since everyone seems to choose the younger. LOL. Happy Mongering My Brothers.
Ako Namang,
Johnny
FurryFriend
10-29-11, 06:18
with a attitude like that why come here. You are a typical guy with no idea and a weak ego. You bad mouth a place but you spend hours and thousands of dollars to fly just to say the USA is better for you.
Hey, don't get emotional just because I OWNED the discussion here!
America is a better place to live. Philipines is an interesting place to visit. <--- These sentiments are probably echoed by 99% of American visitors to the Philippines (and probably 80% of domestic Filipinos).
This girl sent me a message on a dating site and I was wondering if anyone her knows her? D'Cups? Hahahaha. :D In one picture she is in the Radisson Blu.
Robb
WestCoast1
10-30-11, 02:53
They now have a 10 year old boy. He was 65 and on SS when they met, like I said she was 19. They live here in Texas and they are the happiest couple I know. She did not marry for money.Johnny, nice!
Mr Enternational
10-30-11, 04:00
Here's one for you guys that think younger always gets the girl, I have a friend who used to visit Thailand 3-4 times a year. I talked him into visiting the P. I. For a couple years and he finally did. His 2nd trip there he met a 19 year old who just started working at the club (her 1st day). He took her for a short time and ended up staying with her the whole time. Before he left for home he gave her enough money to live well for 4 months and then returned and brought her home. They now have a 10 year old boy. He was 65 and on SS when they met, like I said she was 19. They live here in Texas and they are the happiest couple I know. She did not marry for money. It kinda makes me happy because when I visit them every few months she always gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and tells me thank you for talking him into visiting the P. I.And now for his next trick tell him to do it with a girl who has a regular job and has never worked at a club. Even if he was on Social Security that was $1200 more per month than she had any hopes of making. A guy driving down the street in a 1972 Ford Pinto sure looks good to the person who is walking.
FurryFriend
10-30-11, 05:35
He took her for a short time and ended up staying with her the whole time. Before he left for home he gave her enough money to live well for 4 months and then returned and brought her home. They now have a 10 year old boy. He was 65 and on SS when they met, like I said she was 19. They live here in Texas and they are the happiest couple I know. She did not marry for money.
Don't you see the glaring irony of your post? You stated that she didn't marry for money. Yet, on her first day on the job, she meets a man who eventually gives her four months salary (she accepted it!) and a visa to the United States.
Don't get me wrong. It's great to hear that their marriage worked out. But aren't you dangerously implying that these happy endings are even remotely typical? What's the morale of your story, that gogo bars are ideal places for lonely senior citizens to find a teenage wife?
Just because something has happened doesn't mean it is likely to happen.
I have no pina gf over 30 I would be quite happy if every girl left me before she turns 30. I have 1 gf I would like to keep past 30 but would not care if she left tmrw.
Some girls stay with men for money some for love. I want to have Pino girls who stay for money I get what I want when I want and I know how much it will cost me. In these days of costly lawyers I stick to rent a Pino any day.
Chocha Monger
10-30-11, 09:07
Don't you see the glaring irony of your post? You stated that she didn't marry for money. Yet, on her first day on the job, she meets a man who eventually gives her four months salary (she accepted it!) and a visa to the United States.
Don't get me wrong. It's great to hear that their marriage worked out. But aren't you dangerously implying that these happy endings are even remotely typical? What's the morale of your story, that gogo bars are ideal places for lonely senior citizens to find a teenage wife?
Just because something has happened doesn't mean it is likely to happen.Furry, you're looking at the situation logically. There is nothing remarkable about a 65 yr old buying and importing some provincial bar pussy into the US. Of course, she did it for the money. She was fucking for pesos when he found her. Nothing has changed except now she only has to fuck one long term elderly customer.
But logic is not at play when old men want to fuck teenage girls and take them home to show off as fuck dolls. They know that the odds are that she'll run off after learning her way around in the West. Yet, they'll play with the odds against them just like people who buy lottery tickets knowing that they stand a better chance of catching AIDS than hitting the jackpot. Each one swears that he will be the one to buy the winning ticket.
Wow! Those are some watermelons for sure. Much too big for my tastes.
Take a look at dia Gendale for something a little smaller, but looking rather inviting. X.
This girl sent me a message on a dating site and I was wondering if anyone her knows her? D'Cups? Hahahaha. In one picture she is in the Radisson Blu.
Robb
Cunning Stunt
10-30-11, 13:35
What's the morale of your story, that gogo bars are ideal places for lonely senior citizens to find a teenage wife?
Just because something has happened doesn't mean it is likely to happen.In other word, it's the exception that proves the rule.
Guess who this sweety was chatting to while I was trying to interest her in some prime bratwurst? Conversation sort of went ' Yes honey, I'm at home thinking of you and lonely. Floods are keeping me at home (this is in Thailand). All my things are ruined. Can you send me some money to buy some new clothes. Oh, thank you darling, I love you long time'. The last bit on a rising note as I'm busy playing hide the sausage somewhere warm, dark and moist.
Poor old fool, sat at home dreaming of his sweetheart. I felt like piping up ' the only flood that your baby has seen recently is the flood of hot baby gravy that I pumped down her throat a short while ago'. But I don't as it's none of my business and I would hate to spoil his illusion. And this scenario has being played out for me before and for many others I am sure.
***Still having problem uploading photos. This new upload software is shit when upping from a tab. Have to imagine a naked thai babe on her phone while I assault her with a deadly weapon:D***
Only few weeks ago in Makati. The poor guy works on an oil rigg in siberia, sends 40 000 peso a month, calls using satelite phone which costs him god knows what. She was telling him how much she misses him while I was lubbing her ass with ky. She actually hanged up on him as I inserted only to answer him half an hour latter saying lines were bad.
In other word, it's the exception that proves the rule.
Guess who this sweety was chatting to while I was trying to interest her in some prime bratwurst? Conversation sort of went ' Yes honey, I'm at home thinking of you and lonely. Floods are keeping me at home (this is in Thailand). All my things are ruined. Can you send me some money to buy some new clothes. Oh, thank you darling, I love you long time'. The last bit on a rising note as I'm busy playing hide the sausage somewhere warm, dark and moist.
Poor old fool, sat at home dreaming of his sweetheart. I felt like piping up ' the only flood that your baby has seen recently is the flood of hot baby gravy that I pumped down her throat a short while ago'. But I don't as it's none of my business and I would hate to spoil his illusion. And this scenario has being played out for me before and for many others I am sure.
*Still having problem uploading photos. This new upload software is shit when upping from a tab. Have to imagine a naked thai babe on her phone while I assault her with a deadly weapon*
Only few weeks ago in Makati. The poor guy works on an oil rigg in siberia, sends 40 000 peso a month, calls using satelite phone which costs him god knows what. She was telling him how much she misses him while I was lubbing her ass with ky. She actually hanged up on him as I inserted only to answer him half an hour latter saying lines were bad.Hold on, waitamin, let me get this straight. Half an hour?
Here's one for you guys that think younger always gets the girl, I have a friend who used to visit Thailand 3-4 times a year. I talked him into visiting the P. I. For a couple years and he finally did. His 2nd trip there he met a 19 year old who just started working at the club (her 1st day). He took her for a short time and ended up staying with her the whole time. Before he left for home he gave her enough money to live well for 4 months and then returned and brought her home. They now have a 10 year old boy. He was 65 and on SS when they met, like I said she was 19. They live here in Texas and they are the happiest couple I know. She did not marry for money. It kinda makes me happy because when I visit them every few months she always gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and tells me thank you for talking him into visiting the P. I.
I have plans to go there next year, I know I'll taste the younger lasses but I would rather find a lady around mid to late 30's- late 40's. There should be an abundance of them since everyone seems to choose the younger. LOL. Happy Mongering My Brothers.
Ako Namang,
JohnnyThere are many older guys who married young girls and are happy. We think what does a 65 year old man has to offer 19 something girl through marriage?
For one thing it is security in life. All girls irrespective of which country they live in are looking for stability in their life more so from poor countries.
Whether the girl will stray or use the guy depends on her values in life.
This reminds me of a girl quite a few years ago I met here in US in a dance / bar club. She likes to drink and dance while her husband is a homebody. We saw each other few times but she will let me do everything except put.
My dick in her pussy. That she said is forbidden in her belief since she is married.
Many a girls are quite happy to stick to her values irrespective of the age of the husband. If they have a kid more so.
Philippines is one of the many places where poor girls overlook the age issue. If the girl is rich or has a well paying job we would not be talking about her here.
Wutsooiiber on DIA.
It would only be more blatant if she had her mouth open.
Hummer Bird
10-30-11, 21:30
This girl sent me a message on a dating site and I was wondering if anyone her knows her? D'Cups? Hahahaha. In one picture she is in the Radisson Blu.
RobbWOW the tit shot in the green shirt is unreal! Who give a fuck if she is a BBW
Charlie Horse
10-30-11, 22:54
Wutsooiiber on DIA.
It would only be more blatant if she had her mouth open.Ha, thats a profile all right
I tried to chat with some girls on Dia, but their profiles were fake.
I always ask their FB in their photos look young, but old photos and if you ask to chat with web cam, the most of them says he does not have it.
It 'better for a tourist to spend time chatting in Dia or go to MBC, Havana cafe and choose live?
I tried to chat with some girls on Dia, but their profiles were fake.
I always ask their FB in their photos look young, but old photos and if you ask to chat with web cam, the most of them says he does not have it.
It 'better for a tourist to spend time chatting in Dia or go to MBC, Havana cafe and choose live?U need to work out if DIA is for you. Read about it how people do it and work it out. If you are there for short time then MBC is probably the way to go.
Member #4491
11-01-11, 17:23
Could be interesting for a tit lover like myself.
http://www.dateinasia.com/guada+marie. Html
Could be interesting for a tit lover like myself.
http://www.dateinasia.com/guada
+marie. HtmlI could be wrong, but it looks like Mandaue foam (all bra, no tits) to me.
Robb
Member #4491
11-02-11, 11:11
Yea you could be right, Robbaf. And she is a bit plump.
But this Manila girl deserves some attention!
http://www.dateinasia.com/paranoidprincess.html
"-last but never the least is SEX all day long. (each morning, noon, afternoon and midnight) I so love to be fucked"
Check out this profile on DIA.
Paranoidprincess
It is full of detail but read through until you get to the bottom of her list of what she loves.
I am sure someone can satisfy her.
Jon von Neumann
11-02-11, 17:43
Yea you could be right, Robbaf. And she is a bit plump.
But this Manila girl deserves some attention!
http://www.dateinasia.com/paranoidprincess.html
"-last but never the least is SEX all day long. (each morning, noon, afternoon and midnight) I so love to be fucked"The profile reads like she is a psycho. Think "Fatal Attraction." She might fu*k you, but you will never get rid of her because she chose you. Also, her English is better than 80-90% of the Filipinas on DIA. No pictures. Could be the profile was written by a troll to see who bites? Could be a man?
Just saying, be careful out there.
Member #4491
11-02-11, 18:17
RK, great minds think alike.
B
Member #4491
11-02-11, 18:24
She did have a picture when I posted her URL.
Psycho like so many other on DI and ISG. Yes of course the profile is fake in some ways.
What pinay list horse back riding, boat riding, repelling and gun shooting as primary sources of amusement (next to fucking)?
If anyone meets her, please report back. I am never in Manila, so she is not for me to probe.
B
Charlie Horse
11-02-11, 23:32
Hey D Cups,
Check out Isla Heart on DIA, right up your alley.
http://www.dateinasia.com/ISLA+HEART. Html
Member #4351
11-03-11, 00:24
Check out Isla Heart on DIA, right up your alley.Although you might not be up her's:
"'no retarded people pls
I want to meet a Male
With age from 25 to 40
And I want to meet for Friendship or Romance.
ELEGANT GUY. HANDSOME, CHIC AND ROMANTIC. SEXY BUT CLASSY. SOMEONE WHO I CAN BE PROUD OF"
RK, great minds think alike.
BYou're right B.
I guess we both posted about paranoidprincess around 20 minutes apart. I never saw your post until now LOL.
Member #4491
11-03-11, 22:34
Plump with decent tits in Angeles.
http://www.tagged.com/profile.html?uid=5450903698
She is waiting for you D Cups.
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