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I just started yesterday on the site and spent a few hours. Pissed off a few good looking girls that were very innocent but finally getting some progress. One girl says that she works for an agency and she is a travel guide. Their rates are cheap 2000 peso/day. She said that if they don't like the person they don't sleep with them and they have to order another girl that will. I sent her a picture and she said either her or a friend would be available when I got there. she sent me her picture and will send the other girls tomorrow. HAS ANYONE RUN ACROSS THIS. IS IT FOR REAL>
HAS ANYONE RUN ACROSS THIS. IS IT FOR REAL>
IMHO, you do not need this. Hook up with a member from this site if you have not been here before. You can also make it on your own. It is very easy. When do you arrive? Any girl you meet here can be your tour guide.
Robb
One girl says that she works for an agency and she is a travel guide. Their rates are cheap 2000 peso/day. HAS ANYONE RUN ACROSS THIS. IS IT FOR REAL>
There have been several women on CL lately soliciting for tour guide service. What is the girls name and age? Anyway Robbaf is right in that a tour guide is the last thing you need. Any woman you meet will gladly double as a guide! If you're buying, she's flying!
Freq flyer, what I meant is that since she now knows that her pictures are not believable, she might go somewhere on the net and get more believable pictures.
Robbaf, not "any girl" can be your tour guide. My Manila girl had trouble communicating with Bohol boatman. In Davao I asked a lady about a good place to eat -- she suggested Jollibee. Another Davao girl suggested we meet at 2:30 for a trip to Paradise Beach -- aparently unaware that day use is until 5pm and then the boats stop and you must pay an overnight charge. If a girl is somewhat educated and knows the area, she can help a lot with communication, saving money, avoiding scams....but not always.
Nevertheless, the lady offering tour guide services to Canada for 2000 is just using a euphemism. The tour she's offerring is the area under her jeans.
X Man
Here I am again with an advice to my ISG friends; Cebuanas.com has a 7 days free membership now (only for new members I think, but I am not sure; try to contact Farrah of the staff there)
I applied for it and in two days got over 50 messages, although I am "old" (67, but what is old anyway.).
Try before you buy. Good.
When you are a member you can chat and invite girls to one of the free Messengers. Nothing in the way.
Hi friends of ISG. I have another interesting dating site. Everybody knows Cebuanas, but they offer a 7-days free membership (I think only for new members, but you can contact the staff, Mrs Farrah).
I applied for it and I got over 50 messages in 2 days, although I am "old" and ugly. (67 yrs. Before-war quality). You can chat there too and I prefer to go to one of the free Messenger services.
Enjoy
Hi friends of ISG. I have another interesting dating site. Everybody knows Cebuanas, but they offer a 7-days free membership
Hello HW,
Thanks for the heads up but that promo already expired. Please give us an update on your progress with your newfound chatmates!
I've joined up at Cebuanas and have 150 smiles and 71 messages in a month. I've chatted with a heap, most of the time they want to chat through YM, which I think is better. A lot of good looking women here, and the scamers as well.
Heres my story concerning a girl I've started chatting through Cebuanas. I wouldn't mind what you guys think out there.
I've started chatting with one who is a real cutie. 29, from cebu and shes a teacher who earns about $400/ month. After chatting with her about 3 times she tells me she loves me, to which i said after hardly knowing me. I told her I couldnt love someone who I've just met and especally over the internet as such. She then says I'm her "close friend".
Anyway she wants marriage, preferably by the end of the year.
I told her I might go visit her in '07. To this she asks me where will I stay in Cebu, so I mention a few hotels. (I've never been to the PI'S).
Then she asks if she can stay with me, as she lives with her family. That way, she says, we can get to know each other better, and she can show me around, etc, etc. She says its up to me, either she can stay or she will stay with her family. I say OK, u can stay if u want, and then I start to hint at sex. She tells me that she can share a bed with me, but no sex as she is a virgin who is saving herself for her future husband. Only kissing and hugging allowed.
Now my alarm bells are starting to go off, and I'm thinking that she wants out of the PI's, and I may be the golden goose. To her credit, I've known her for a month 6 weeks, and thus far no asking of money. Although she is now pestering me for photos to send to her via snail mail.
Just wondering what advice you guys have got out there for me, or anyone with a similar story to share.
PM me or in channel would be good:)
Dan
Poupard2000
08-02-07, 21:10
I was in Philippines two weeks ago...
Most of the girls contacted on FlipinaHeart were just interested by money pumped out of my pocket by SMS and missed calls.
At the beginning I called back.... But quickly I have understood that their numbers are overtaxed... Expansive communications at a special price... no real interest to meet me.
BE CAUTIOUS WITH THIS SCAM
I've joined up at Cebuanas and have 150 smiles and 71 messages in a month. I've chatted with a heap, most of the time they want to chat through YM, which I think is better. A lot of good looking women here, and the scamers as well.
Heres my story concerning a girl I've started chatting through Cebuanas. I wouldn't mind what you guys think out there.
I've started chatting with one who is a real cutie. 29, from cebu and shes a teacher who earns about $400/ month. After chatting with her about 3 times she tells me she loves me, to which i said after hardly knowing me. I told her I couldnt love someone who I've just met and especally over the internet as such. She then says I'm her "close friend".
Anyway she wants marriage, preferably by the end of the year.
I told her I might go visit her in '07. To this she asks me where will I stay in Cebu, so I mention a few hotels. (I've never been to the PI'S).
Then she asks if she can stay with me, as she lives with her family. That way, she says, we can get to know each other better, and she can show me around, etc, etc. She says its up to me, either she can stay or she will stay with her family. I say OK, u can stay if u want, and then I start to hint at sex. She tells me that she can share a bed with me, but no sex as she is a virgin who is saving herself for her future husband. Only kissing and hugging allowed.
Now my alarm bells are starting to go off, and I'm thinking that she wants out of the PI's, and I may be the golden goose. To her credit, I've known her for a month 6 weeks, and thus far no asking of money. Although she is now pestering me for photos to send to her via snail mail.
Just wondering what advice you guys have got out there for me, or anyone with a similar story to share.
PM me or in channel would be good:)
DanIn my experience she is being honest with you. I know plenty of decent girls just like this.
This is EXACTLY how decent girls talk/behave when they are trying to find a decent guy to form a marriage with. Many girls save their virginity for 'the one' because it's a big deal in their culture ( and besides in a country so poor it is often all they have of value).
What you have on your hands is a decent girl trying to find a good husband.
If you don't want marriage, tell her & don't waste her time (If you just want sex there are PLENTY of prostitutes to satisfy you there).
Cheers,
Amavida
I have found that cam models are a good source of meeting girls. I have met about 10 so far. Most are genuine and want marriage but again be cautious of the scammers. I even got one cherry girl from there but still feel bad about it. I guess I am getting soft in my old age of 40!
I wonder if the sms scam is the reason 2 of the girls on my YM contact list have "I'm on SMS" next to there chat names? Whenever I try to I.M. them the message is "so and so will receive your message on her mobile device".
Frequent Flier
08-03-07, 13:43
In my experience she is being honest with you. I know plenty of decent girls just like this.
This is EXACTLY how decent girls talk/behave when they are trying to find a decent guy to form a marriage with. Many girls save their virginity for 'the one' because it's a big deal in their culture ( and besides in a country so poor it is often all they have of value).
What you have on your hands is a decent girl trying to find a good husband.
If you don't want marriage, tell her & don't waste her time (If you just want sex there are PLENTY of prostitutes to satisfy you there).
Cheers,
Amavida
Of course one of the unique things about the Philippines and the pretty girls you can meet there is they can lose their virginity many times. I guess it is something in the water that bestows virginity upon the girls multiple times.
Or knowing the clergy there and their giving ways, I'm sure for the appropriate donation to the church they will bless water that when bathed in restores the virginity of truly virtuous girls. Meaning all girls in the Philippines
FF
If she has a job and she never once asks for money, then it's more likely than not that she is for real and not a scammer although the virginity part is sometimes debatable. But yes I agree if she is looking for a husband and you're not looking for a wife, you should do the honorable thing, that is, tell her and move on to the next one. Many more choices out there.
Notice I do not say 100% for sure not a scammer, there may exist scammers who have a lot of patience to bag the big fish.
I once dated and deflowered a 30 yr old (not a Filipina). Despite my best efforts she was always pathetic when it came to sex. Any woman who is 29+ and is still a virgin may not have much of a sex drive. Just my two cents.
Did you tell her you wanted a virgin? Sometimes they'll tell you what you want to hear. I always make it clear that I have no interest in virgins -- and I don't.
Anyway, if you decide to pursue things, I recommend you arrive a few days earlier than the date you tell her you will arrive. Then you can play a bit. She sounds like the type who will latch on to you and make it difficult to explore other ladies.
BTW, what city is she in?
X Man
I've joined up at Cebuanas and have 150 smiles and 71 messages in a month. I've chatted with a heap, most of the time they want to chat through YM, which I think is better. A lot of good looking women here, and the scamers as well.
Heres my story concerning a girl I've started chatting through Cebuanas. I wouldn't mind what you guys think out there.
I've started chatting with one who is a real cutie. 29, from cebu and shes a teacher who earns about $400/ month. After chatting with her about 3 times she tells me she loves me, to which i said after hardly knowing me. I told her I couldnt love someone who I've just met and especally over the internet as such. She then says I'm her "close friend".
Anyway she wants marriage, preferably by the end of the year.
I told her I might go visit her in '07. To this she asks me where will I stay in Cebu, so I mention a few hotels. (I've never been to the PI'S).
Then she asks if she can stay with me, as she lives with her family. That way, she says, we can get to know each other better, and she can show me around, etc, etc. She says its up to me, either she can stay or she will stay with her family. I say OK, u can stay if u want, and then I start to hint at sex. She tells me that she can share a bed with me, but no sex as she is a virgin who is saving herself for her future husband. Only kissing and hugging allowed.
Now my alarm bells are starting to go off, and I'm thinking that she wants out of the PI's, and I may be the golden goose. To her credit, I've known her for a month 6 weeks, and thus far no asking of money. Although she is now pestering me for photos to send to her via snail mail.
Just wondering what advice you guys have got out there for me, or anyone with a similar story to share.
PM me or in channel would be good:)
Dan
*** I cannot confirm anything I say below...I'm just making assumptions.
OMG, this is what happens when a scammer gets trained. She gets good. Very good.
Someone who has never been to the Philippines might not notice that this "housemaid", rides a very sporty motorbike and also has friends with pretty good photography skills / camera to take a picture as she whizzes down the highway.
(I'm not enrolled at CB at this moment, but those of you who are, please send a message and ask what "orphanage" or what city, or an address, or whatever. Then share notes here and see if we can find some anomolies.)
PLZ READ MY PROFILE........
hi i am kelly dablo i am single and alone
in my life forever because i don`t have
anymore parents because they commuted
suicide...because of they can`t accept our
business before are down...and when they
was die i was 9 years old and i was stay
at orphanage....and when i was 15 i was
disided to stay own my own......and you
know what i was hoping that i can search or
find my right guy for me..and he can accept
who ever i am....you know its very hard to
find a serious on site`s because mostly are
wants playing games and that is i hate
must..you know i am really serious
woman....and looking a serious man that he
can accept me....i know no one can trust
easy in the web sites because mostly
chatter, i mean mostly Filipino are they
chat just to earn money.....maybe there
thinking American or western man lots of
money.....will i am not that kind of person,
all i just want is true love...thats all i
need.....anyways i am half Filipino and
half Turkish.......but i was grew up here
in Phil...... and i am so think full that i am not belong to the other ladies or girl that sale there soul just to earn money. . .will i am prude to be house maid because i know its a legal job. . .
This would be funny if I didn't know better. Good looking 29 yr old, standing 5' 6", writes this in her CherryBl profile:
**im maria looking for someone here ..looking for serious relationship....... and men who believe age doesnt matter ........... thanks
I don't know what the average marriage age is in the Philippines, but these girls hit 24 and they start worrying about being old maids.
I'm going to make a huge over-generalization based on limited experience, but the online ladies under 22 tend to play little games, require more time, arrive late, etc. The older ones a ready for a quick shag. They know they've passed the "sell by" date and are eager for you to sample the goods. Or maybe they just haven't been laid in a while....
If anyone takes the time to look at the profile:
1) Both pictures are from a web cam, but hard to determine if she's in a net cafe or home or somewhere else. Big stuffed dolls in the background are a good indicator of an ADULT web cam girl.
2) Beautiful, glossy, thick black hair...and those bushy eyebrows haven't been trimmed. This is a good sign that she's just a regular gal looking for "love". Or even that her job in "education" means she has conservative limits on her appearance. Of course she's going to have a lot of bushy hair down at the Y too. Send her a razor for a Christmas present.
3) My guess is this lady is legit and I wish I had the time to go to Z city to meet her. Actually, I don't even have paid access to CB, so I'm out of luck either way.
She's from Zamboanga. Mahku, did you meet this one???
C'mon guys, give us some reviews of your chat friends, or strategies, or whatever.
X Man
She's in AC and has a "wonderful boyfriend". Okay, which one of you guys took this girl off the market and how much are you sending her?
(this is a joke, I don't know anything about this woman)
X Man
She's from Zamboanga. Mahku, did you meet this one???
C'mon guys, give us some reviews of your chat friends, or strategies, or whatever. X Man
Believe it or not, I am working in Zamboanga right now. She one of 2000 (That I have met and want to get out of here) here. This is an untapped city.
I have yet to meet a working girl (GRO...girl rent overnite). Most of them are really looking for anyone to take them out of the Z. Almost 99% have never been to Manila and will go in a heartbeat. Round trip to Manila runs 6000P (PAL) two days in advance.
I just posted my ad on Date In Asia and I got so many hits age 18-50 from here. I am 40, white, gwapo (according to them), have money and look like a good meal ticket. Most girls tell me that too many guys abroad want to C2C and for them to get naked, but never come to see them. If you are here, you are in!
It helps to be working in the Philippines for one year.
Robb
Dan, been there, done that. I would expect that if you do share a bed with her, it will be the first time that she has been in close contact with a male. I would guess that within 15 minutes, her clothes will be off, and she will be ready to dispose of her virginity. Whether you tell her that you will not marry, or else. She will not be able to stop herself. Often filipinas are so protected by their family that they never get a chance to experiment. And of course there is basically no contraception, so pregnancyy is a major threat.
If you do not follow through, she will probably still thank you for the rest of her life, and she will truly love you for the rest of her life. But she will not press you to marry. he is now satisfied.
I have been there, done that, no regrets either way.
Your choice.
Gangles has a good point, although I'm not so sure about the 15 min. I'd say cut things short that first evening to show her how honorable you are (stop laughing) and then see what kind of rewards come in the morning.
As for the family influence, Gangles also has a good point. Some of these online girls want you to meet their family, or bring along one or more family members. Some guys say this is a big mistake, but I've never regretted it. Once the family sees what a nice and honorable guy you are (stop laughing), the girl gets more of a free rein. In some cases they encourage the lady to go for it. Yea, thanks for the help!!!
I met one online gal's papa on a Cebu mountain. Really basic stuff, cooking over a fire out behind the hut. She asked her father if she could accompany me for the remainder of my trip. He said yes. She told me this after the fact, whlie we were still there. It kind of blew me away, "you asked your father WHAT?" I guess it was just a formality since she was the breadwinner of the family. She was a Mactan factory worker. She and I spent a few wonderful days at Alona beach.
X Man
Dan, been there, done that. I would expect that if you do share a bed with her, it will be the first time that she has been in close contact with a male. I would guess that within 15 minutes, her clothes will be off, and she will be ready to dispose of her virginity. Whether you tell her that you will not marry, or else. She will not be able to stop herself. Often filipinas are so protected by their family that they never get a chance to experiment. And of course there is basically no contraception, so pregnancyy is a major threat.
If you do not follow through, she will probably still thank you for the rest of her life, and she will truly love you for the rest of her life. But she will not press you to marry. he is now satisfied.
I have been there, done that, no regrets either way.
Your choice.
As for the family influence, Gangles also has a good point. Some of these online girls want you to meet their family, or bring along one or more family members. Some guys say this is a big mistake, but I've never regretted it. Once the family sees what a nice and honorable guy you are (stop laughing), the girl gets more of a free rein. In some cases they encourage the lady to go for it. Yea, thanks for the help!!!
Yes this has been my experience as well. Treating me like a long lost son and having the run of the house, being the guest of honor at dinner and then getting drunk with everybody afterwards! You cannot beat Philippine hospitality!
I really appreciate the help you guys are giving me. The girl I know lives in CEBU. I reckon shes the main breadwinner of the household. Her family has a small business, but its not much. She actually said to me that if I wanted her to stay with me, I would have to ask her mum first. I doubt her mum would say no.
Anyway shes said that she'd meet me at the airport, then asked me if I would hold her hand once we met, and then because I'd be tired from the flight, that she'd massage me! She also mentioned that if we were to meet, that it it JUST TO MEET HER, AND NOBODY ELSE. She made that really clear. i wouldn't care. She's cute, and if you saw her hanging off my arm, you'd wonder why. Anyway, I wouldn't care:)
A couple of other things: she says that if I reckon shes pretty I should buy her flowers, (from Australia). She also loves the cam chat. She can't get enough of it.
Thats about all I can think off. Any other questions I'll let u experts know:)
Thanks again, I appreciate it!
DAN
DantheMan, at this point, I doubt you're going to take our advice. I'm certainly no Casanova but I'll tell you my gut feeling and you do what you want with it.
If a girl offers to stay with me, but says she's a virgin, I'd feel there is a contradiction. And my gut tells me she's not a virgin. Virginity isn't important to me, but if she's trying to deceive me that is a definite deal killer.
(I had a similar situation. Spent the night with a girl I met online, a "virgin". We had all kinds of play, but no insertion. Next day when I told a lady friend (a former sex professional) the story, she just rolled her eyes. I said, "what?". She replies, "do you really think she's a virgin". Duh, it hit me like a brick. This girl was shy and sweet and I had believed her all the way. Well, next day, I had a date with the "virgin", ignored her very minimal resistance and gave her a good fking. No indication of pain, nor a drop of blood. If my friend had not brought me to my senses I might have thought, "well, that went well considering you're a virgin." Instead, I asked, "why did you tell me you were a virgin?" Her reply was short - "sorry". )
Back to DantheMan's situation...As for "you can only meet her" and the "flowers", you haven't even met her and she's telling you what to do. Of course she's offered to "massage" you, but again, my gut reacts badly to women who are too controlling.
If I were in your shoes, I'd not make any promises (it's easy for her to keep records of everything you type), and plan your trip so that she gets an interview, but nothing more. And if she asks for "help" a week before your trip, I wouldn't send a dime. Arrive a few days earlier, play, then meet her. Call her from your hotel one day before your "scheduled" arrival and tell her the airline suddenly had an available seat, so you were able to come a day earlier than expected. (I've used that white lie SOOO many times.)
One more thing Dan, I wouldn't think anything odd if you had three cute young women "hanging on your arm". You could have three different ones each day of your trip. Your lady knows THIS and that's why she wants to meet you at the airport -- to make sure no else steals you away. I had one lady (who fked me vigourously, but had a curfew) tell me that the streets of Davao were dangerous and that I should not go out at night. I ignored her, but to be honest, she almost snagged me. I was "in love" for about two weeks -- and then she started asking for "help". First it was the "electric bill", and when that didn't work, "money for food".
Am I being too negative here? Dan, I hope things work out exactly the way you want them to work out. I just chatted with a 27 yr old Filipina who met a guy online (cherry blossom), he visited her in Mindanao, proposed, and now she's living happily in the US. Sounds like a happy ending (except for the fact that she's chatting online with me...ha, ha).
X Man
I really appreciate the help you guys are giving me. The girl I know lives in CEBU. I reckon shes the main breadwinner of the household. Her family has a small business, but its not much. She actually said to me that if I wanted her to stay with me, I would have to ask her mum first. I doubt her mum would say no.
Anyway shes said that she'd meet me at the airport, then asked me if I would hold her hand once we met, and then because I'd be tired from the flight, that she'd massage me! She also mentioned that if we were to meet, that it it JUST TO MEET HER, AND NOBODY ELSE. She made that really clear. i wouldn't care. She's cute, and if you saw her hanging off my arm, you'd wonder why. Anyway, I wouldn't care:)
A couple of other things: she says that if I reckon shes pretty I should buy her flowers, (from Australia). She also loves the cam chat. She can't get enough of it.
Thats about all I can think off. Any other questions I'll let u experts know:)
Thanks again, I appreciate it!
DAN
I seek the counsel of the experienced mongers here. I am considering hitching up with a 21yo trophy pinay and bringing her to the US on a K1.
This girl is fine by any standard. She would look very attractive to wealthy pinoys (tall and slender with BIG TITS). I know she has dated 1 or 2 pinoys, but was burned by them and seems determined to leave with the next available western guy. I think she gets the idea that marrying a pinoy is a dead end.
I met her once, and her mom was serving her up on a platter. Its obvious they are counting on future income for the family from the daughter. OTOH, although she is needy, she never directly asked for support. Indirectly, yeah, many times. ("I'm going to pawn my cell phone, I'm canvassing my neighbors for my graduation expenses", things like that).
I've chatted w/her about 2 years. No one else has snagged her (unless she's married to a pinoy now and I don't know it LOL). I believe she is so attractive older western guys are intimidated by her. She is sweet, and know how to push my buttons. Always seems sincere, asked me about my family ancestry, little things like that. If she's on a playbook, its a good one.
So here are my fallback plans:
- The Prenup. I jokingly told my divorce lawyer I needed the "Massey Prenup" for my next marriage. He told me they can write one (this is in the Midwest) that gives the wife NOTHING if she leaves. Its hard to believe, but I will be checking it out. I will buy a new home before I am married. My business is incorporated, and I will hold all shares.
- Continuing support. I don't mind sending a little home to her family. I know most do anyway. Start small and allow for regular increases if I am pleased with her performance as my wife. I will be the one to decide how much, and she will know that, and her mom will also. (we'll see how long that lasts LOL).
- Keep her well. I do ok, above average and getting better off. If she is happy why leave? But I would not like the feeling that she could be sleeping around. Thats the biggest thing to give me pause.
- Don't have kids. At least not for the 1st 2 years. If she wants to bolt after she has her green card, I won't worry about child support. She says she does want kids, so its a sign of sincerity (or she's on the playbook).
- I've got time for a mistake. I'm in my early 50's. If this one does not work out, I can go back for the more homely but dependable type. No I am not going to move to the PI. I still have a life in the world here.
- The VISA support thing. The continuing support rule is disturbing. I have not researched it, but the idea seems vague and unenforceable. OTOH, this is Federal govt and they can do as they like with my money. I am considering a counter in my pre-nup. Something like:
If my wife leaves she has to maintain employment, or return to the PI, and I will pay for the ticket.
If the government makes me pay support, she will reimburse me the costs. (I prob will have a hard time getting that enforced)
Well, what do you think. Let me have it.
EDITOR'S NOTE: I certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
I have three pieces of advice from three different people. I will paraphrase liberally...
1) Spamhog (esteemed ISG member, married to a Filipna)/ A woman of 21 is still naive, still figuring things out, still experimenting. A woman of 28+ generally knows what she wants and where she's going.
2) my Grandma who married a foreign guy: At first it is exciting because everything is different, but after a few years those differences start causing problems.
3) my ex-wife, who married a foreign guy: You live in my country for one year and see how difficult it is to live in a foreign country ....only then will I move to your country.
One more thing Jambo, if you can afford TWO ex-wives, could you please buy me a beer somewhere down this long interesting road we are traveling?
X Man
Bilbo Baggins
08-09-07, 12:12
I enjoy your comments X Man and here is my experience.
I joined CB out of curiosity from reading some reports here I got a lot of hits and amazing how many think I'm 'handsome man' good for the ego. However its not a good place to go for a reality check. I've had some hot looking and gorgeous girls chat me up some are very interested in marrying me during the first chat. A good photo showing blue eyes and a nice smile will work wonders. On my profile I state I'm not interested in getting married any time soon and I still get the starry eyed virgin want a family boppers. I'm looking for girls I can date and have some prospects already. I'm pretty certain you can find plenty of dating material I am just honest with them about my intentions no need to lie.
I seem to attract a lot of, what would you call them, needy beautiful girls, one lady I chat to is always hungry has no money for food she is easy on the eye and I have seen her on cam looks great in a bikini she is always dropping hints for a cellphone and if I bought her a computer we could chat every day. She looks film star quality with a film star price tag too rich for me. CB says when you go to reply to messages that you should not give a Yahoo ID until you have chatted with them for a month. I believe that is right as the ones who want to jump straight to yahoo usually are seekers of support one way or another. You have to have a tough hide some of the stories are heart breaking and could be true just remember they survived before you and will after you.
Some are really nice people and others are like mongers looking for the hit. Some are too honest and some are too dishonest. One young lady wanted me to send money for a private show we will do everything on cam? Not my style I watched as she surreptitiously slipped a small pair of panties out of her pocket along with the bra top to show me what she will wear on cam. She did this a few times so I could see she was also tempting other guys. If you keep a record of your chat easy to do on CB you can send a copy to your email and also yahoo has the ability to keep your chat. Doing this you can pick up on the stories they tell and how the facts can change.
One lady 27, I had been chatting to was helping her two younger sisters, 18, 19 doing research for their school work. Another time I asked how her sisters were and we got talking about them and found out they were 10 year old twins this time. So beware they can chat to so many guys they forget who you are I've been hit a second time from some and have played the innocent to see where the conversation leads. By the way some ladies who you become friends with show you the chats they have with jerks there are some idiots out there. Be careful I might be laughing about you with her.
Bilbo Baggins
08-09-07, 12:44
I would treat CB as amusement I wouldn't take it too seriously just don't be a jerk and send money to strangers or screw up regular girls some I've chatted with I am the first westerner they have talked to online. I try to be as pleasant as I can. You can check their starting date on their profiles. As the guys who are there say you can meet regular ladies in person on the ground thats what I plan to do.
Heres one I sometimes wonder if some of these ladies are really men or baklas out for fun. You have to get them on cam to be sure.
I'm Maris, 21, and looking for a man between 18 and 70 years old.
"I'm outgoing person, fun-loving and always horny. I want to full fill all sexual fantasy of a guy. I'm open-minded, optimistic and always I get all I want. Looking for a man who can accept who I am. I want a man who can always make me feel special. Life in general have too much to offer for us. They say we should live life to the full, the question is how about doing the right and wrong? What would you prefer doing the once the said good but your not happy with it? Or being happy when almost every one oppose you. I love doing want I feel can make make happy, even though they will support me or not. They said being nasty sometimes can cause me badly. But how can I ignore it when I love doing it? Being with strangers can do you good for me. Meeting many people and knowing asking bout there point of interested more. "
You can find your true love there maybe.
You can take the girl out of the Phils, but you can't take the Phils out of the girl.
(1), She will go through cultural shock; at 21, she is most likely still malleable so this could lead her in the wrong direction. In other words, become Americanized and take on the worst characteristics of American women. Not to mention the age gap will be a negative factor in the US, much more so than in the Phils.
(2), She will get lonely without other Phils nearby. Be prepared for the phone bills. You can research alternatives like Skype, Vonage, etc. While there are concentrations of Phils in the major cities in the US, they're not nearly as large or as identifiable as the Chinese or Koreans in LA, for instance; instead, they are more spread out.
(3), Due to quality of American food and the prevalence of high fructose corn syrup, she will very likely gain too much weight. More than she would in the Phils. Avoiding that crap is damn hard, have to read every label.
(4), It's possible she may have heard of the gold mine to be had if she can stick around long enough for the green card, then divorce you. A prenup is key here.
(5), How did your past relationships fail? If you didn't deal with those issues or otherwise learn from them, you are doomed to repeat them. In other words, how is your inner game? Your pinay can only do so much to cover up your relationship deficiencies. Better than American women, true, but even pinays can only take so much in the long-term. They are known to leave their husbands in the Phils, who says they won't do that to you if they're not treated right?
Everything I've researched on the subject leans toward "don't do it". Yes there are successful relationships, but many founder after a few to several years in the US for various factors as I've given above. If one has to marry a filipina, one should stay in the Phils and keep her there. She'll be much happier in her own culture. If her family becomes a pain, one can always move to another area.
Just read Finrods advice re Jambo.
I would say Finrod is close to spot on. He has covered a lot of bases and I agree with what he says in the main.
Even if you do all the right things , a Filipina can take off , if she sees the grass is greener elsewhere.
My sister often talked for years about the sweet non pro type of filipina married to someone she knew. Filipina had two kids with the nice guy. Then one day she left him for another. I think my sister was more upset than anyone else. Why ? My sister was innocent of this trait. Yes , it can happen with western women too , but do not forget one of the main motivating factors for filipinas is a secure financial future.
I have seen some amazing examples of how much Filipinas will do to achieve that. Including , marrying the wrong guy , to get away from the endemic hopelessness and poverty of the Philippines.
Definitely agree with Finrod. If you can keep them in Philippines much better chance of success.
I have never married a filipina but I have had over 30yrs of observing friends and others marry them. High attrition rate , in my mind. Cultural barrier at work , amongst other things.
Disclaimer : I have not read one single post re this subject other than Finrods post , ha ha. But I could not resist on commenting on Finrods post , cause I thought as I read it "this guy knows what he is talking about".
Join the library , do not buy the book.
I have just now read Jambo's original query on this subject. I'm doing things backwards. For correct sequence read my first and other post on this subject before you read this one.
Seems like Jambo knows what he is doing. But what is in writing and what actually happens can be two very different things.
He says : "I've got time for a mistake. I'm in my early 50's. If this one does not work out, I can go back for the more homely but dependable type. No I am not going to move to the PI. I still have a life in the world here".
Jambo. Check this out. I believe its a case of three strikes and your out. That is , can only marry over time , three foreign wives and bring back home , over time. Not all at once , ha ha. I do not know how they can enforce that rule though , but have heard guys saying impossible to go beyond three from typically phil/thailand.
Maybe the authorities back home stall until you give up , dont know. I have a friend who has been trying for far too long to bring his second potential filipina wife back to his homeland. He does not want to marry in Philippines , potential problems if you do it that way. His legal team have had no success in getting her a visa. He is about to give up.
Others will know if three strikes and your out is fact or fiction. Personally have no verification of it.
So bear that one in mind too.
Village Maidens , accustomed to back breaking water carrying etc , and not devious city girls are the best bet , from what I can see. The best looking chick and incredibly wonderful friends wife of 20yrs now , with cute kids , and an undeserving , yes undeserving husband , was a water carrier before my friend , yes friend , married her. One in a million. No , I am not lusting after her , great face but too slim for me. So maybe the water trail is worth checking out.
These village girls have not accrued bad habits , too busy carrying water. You can train to your requirements , just what he did , including copping a lot of shit , which included butterflying would you believe. She knows he butterflies but puts up with it. He's undeserving for reasons other than that , does not provide properly for his family for starters. She goes to work , he takes kids to school , thats all he is up for. Why does she take it ? She doesnt know anything else , straight from the village , and trained to cop it. She is about 38yrs now , he started living with her when she was around 18yrs old. Reckon she might up and leave him one day. She still looks good (lusting) and can easily find an old lonely westerner who'd jump at the chance of an expert house maid , cook , sex fiend and companion with unlimited patience , all rolled into one. Only prob , she's got baggage , kids. Started having kids about ten years ago , three of them , still young.
So I am not lusting lol , not in the market for a wife , but know a good one when I see one.
That relationship has held together for around 20yrs now. It's what I would call an exception , for a cross culture marriage.
GoodEnough
08-10-07, 10:38
The problem with village girls is that they're...well...village girls, mostly with no education, little intellectual curiosity and of extremely limited expectations. Some may find that appealing. Personally, I would find it deadly. If what you're after is someone who will be eternally grateful for taking her from a life of toil; someone you can "mold," into your Pygmalion-like creature, then by all means go for it. It seems to me though that sooner or later you've got to get out of bed and sooner or later you're going to want to find someone with whom you can have a quasi-intelligent conversation. That pretty much leaves out most village girls.
Everything comes down to how comfortable you are with your money situation.
All women (men too) change over time. What could be a sweet innocent girl today may be a psycho tomorrow.
American government do not as a rule track,chase,arrest and deport people if they overstay9 unless they are some way connected to terrorism or illegal activities) even if you complain(Look at the number of illegal aliens we have). So it is unlikely even if you stop supporting your GF/Wife she will be out of the picture and out of the country on the next available plane.
She may say she does not want kids now but she will get smart and learn the only way to stay here is to have an american born child.
Have you considered keeping her in PHI and making frequent trips and supporting her. This is a cheap alternative. Many are doing this because it is a no risk adventure.Once she gets here all her do's and dont's in PHIL go out of the window and she will become a local that means none is taboo. Law is on her side.
Even ironclad pre nup is no good. It only means if the girl is wealthier than you , you keep your money you had before you met her ( not the date of your marriage). Techically she could be contributing her part for the money you made after meeting her. Judges do not take kindly to a rich man trying to keep his wife poor.
There are village girls and village girls.
Naturally my friends wife (see post below) , with time , became no ordinary village girl.
Nowadays holds a regular job in London City. Commuting to work on the Underground, "mind the step, mind the step", looking like a million dollars. Confidence, acquired sophistication, and no dummy that one, ha ha.
It's not that my friend is a great coach/teacher. This woman is simply someone who is willing to make the effort to secure a future for herself and her kids. She's not hanging off a foreigner. If anything her husband is hanging off her.
I also have another friend from the same country. His wife is the one who is buying the family house in the UK, whilst he stays home and collects a disability pension (arthritis). All my friends are bums, ha ha. Not really, the friend next door is in the multi million dollar class.
I would never marry, but if I was that way inclined, I'd head for the villages, find pretty ones, check them out. With the right opportunity, coaching and environment, I say they can make the transition from the third to the first world.
But all this requires effort. And most of us take the convenient road and get hooked with someone more accessible.
To each his own. But I still reckon, wife hunters should investigate the raw talent lurking in the villages.
If nothing else, you'll have a lot of fun.
One of the top 'companion' girls of my life came from a squatter village, remote from towns. Cost me P800 to taxi from the wharf, along rough roads to her family's shack by the creek. She certainly had looks, and she certainly had sophistication, even though she lived in a little tin shack, alongside a polluted creek, in the jungle. But this same girl didn't want to carry water, ha ha. She wanted to lay on her back, legs apart, and she was good at it too. That's why she went to the city where I was staying in, looking for someone like me , a potential Sugar Daddy. Met her through a filipina I knew at the time. A trophy companion if ever there was one. Have to put her in the top 3/5 of my life. Will never forget her.
After I terminated the relationship (getting too serious for my liking) her mother, instead of berating me for dumping her daughter, wrote me a lovely letter, thanking me for "looking after" her daughter. Code language for not getting her pregnant I suppose.
I felt such a cad, treating such nice people that way. That is , screwing her daughter then moving on. No doubt my exit spoiled their dream of escaping poverty through cashed up 'Joe', me. I was impressed with the wording and thought Mumma had put behind the letter. Such manners and sophistication from a Mum who most probably never went to school.
Anyway, lots of the girls we foreigners meet at bars, on the Internet, wherever, migrated from the villages at some time in their life.
I rest my case. I am not getting married now or in the future. It's what rocks your boat that counts. I like the relative 'honesty' and earthiness of the unspoiled village girls, but I admit, they have to have a brain to make it work. Filipino 's in general have brains, they just don't have the same opportunities we do. But too many of them lack common sense, that's my beef with them. My friends wife certainly has common sense, brains and used them, once she got the opportunity (England). An exception no doubt. A 'gem'. They are out there , all you have to do is put the effort in to find them.
Of course during my upcoming trip I am not seeking village girls, common sense or brains for that matter. I am seeking sex from those devious but loveable city dwellers. So convenient. Just walk around, smile and voila, "another one bites the dust", ha ha.
Sammon's post--quoted in part here--is smart. Just a couple of points. (1) If she stays illegally--no longer living married with you--it's true that Homeland Security will not actively track her down, unless you report to them that you are no longer living together married. But how will she fare without a SocSec number? And (2) Divorce and pre-nups are a state-by-state matter.
American government do not as a rule track,chase,arrest and deport people if they overstay9 unless they are some way connected to terrorism or illegal activities) even if you complain(Look at the number of illegal aliens we have). So it is unlikely even if you stop supporting your GF/Wife she will be out of the picture and out of the country on the next available plane.
She may say she does not want kids now but she will get smart and learn the only way to stay here is to have an american born child.
Have you considered keeping her in PHI and making frequent trips and supporting her. This is a cheap alternative. Many are doing this because it is a no risk adventure.Once she gets here all her do's and dont's in PHIL go out of the window and she will become a local that means none is taboo. Law is on her side.
Even ironclad pre nup is no good. It only means if the girl is wealthier than you , you keep your money you had before you met her (not the date of your marriage). Techically she could be contributing her part for the money you made after meeting her. Judges do not take kindly to a rich man trying to keep his wife poor.
I can confirm that divorce and pre-nups are a state-by-state affair. Some states actually have a good concept of separate property on their books and will honor reasonably written pre-nups. Where I live, it is possible to protect one's separate property assets without a pre-nup. I should know, I did it without hiding anything from my ex. In fairness, it was a short term marriage. For a long-term marriage, one would be better served to get that stuff into a pre-nup. But like Joking, I'm not going there again...
Thanks for all the insight and advise guys! Sorry if I turned this thread into a love and marriage column (gag--I know) I used to get a lot of good info from the Asawa forum, but its been off line.
About this girl. She's from the barangay, but not entirely country. She was a "Miss Something Or Other" a couple of times. In some of her pics she's dressed like a secretary in Makati. (I don't know where she got the money for costumes and clothes. Her dad is an equipment operator). She managed to finish a tech school so she knows a little about computers. She is no pushover, I've tested her and she lets me know nicely when I've gone too far.
Wonderful thing about pinays, they seem able to jump into any situation and tolerate it--for the sake of sending money home. They work in places Saudi and Diego Garcia! I get the feeling if a pinay left her man and come home to momma, it would be like "WTF are you don't here? (and who is going to support us now?)".
I don't want to get too personal about my 1st marriage. Just it was for her initially like, "Im 26 and I gotta get married". Later it was, "I left a career for this?" I don't ever want to feel like an accessory again.
Think of the economics. I could spend, say $6,000 to get a girl here on a K1, if you include an immigration attorney and airfares etc. 6k gets me only about four trips to the PI for mongering. On the other hand, bringing the girl here gets me at least 3 pokes a week for the next 2-3 years, with an option for more. And I get the domestic helper, cook, secretary at a nominal rate. And with a 21yo girl, I could expect 10 years of decent sex before I start getting the "I'm too tired".
Here's a couple of other stratagems I will employ should I marry a pinay:
- I have a small business, it's incorporated--not Sole Proprietor. So I will hire her on and pay her a salary, and she will be happy as a time as my secretary, receptionist, packer. (And I may be happy poking my secretary over the desk!). Eventually she may want to work outside, and she will have a little resume then to help.
- Pay her a little allowance for being my wife. She can save it. I will still send something back to her family. But when eventually the Water Buffalo needs surgery, she can decide how much of her own savings she wants to send.
Thanks again. I'll pm some of you guys when I am in CDO and Davao next month.
Thanks Jambo for saying thanks to contributors. Its a sore point of mine. Guys write in, folks go to trouble to answer in detail then silence from person who placed query in first place. I thought for a while you might be one of them, but not so , ha ha.
Reason for posting this. Your project would make interesting reading. Please keep us up to date on developments , setbacks etc.
You are no bunny , and you are going about it with your eyes open. Your also a very brave man , ha ha. I like some of your logic and some of your strategies , but I still would not do it lol.
Progress report from time to time please. Thanks.
Another interesting addition to "the saga". Keep up the interesting posts.
As for the quote below, I always heard that women reach their sexual prime at around 30 (ten years after guys). I think the "tired" comes when they get tired of you...
X Man
I could expect 10 years of decent sex before I start getting the "I'm too tired".
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Tungsten Chef
08-12-07, 05:38
There are village girls and village girls.
Naturally my friends wife (see post below) , with time , became no ordinary village girl.
Nowadays holds a regular job in London City. Commuting to work on the Underground, "mind the step, mind the step", looking like a million dollars. Confidence, acquired sophistication, and no dummy that one, ha ha.
It's not that my friend is a great coach/teacher. This woman is simply someone who is willing to make the effort to secure a future for herself and her kids. She's not hanging off a foreigner. If anything her husband is hanging off her.
I also have another friend from the same country. His wife is the one who is buying the family house in the UK, whilst he stays home and collects a disability pension (arthritis). All my friends are bums, ha ha. Not really, the friend next door is in the multi million dollar class.
I would never marry, but if I was that way inclined, I'd head for the villages, find pretty ones, check them out. With the right opportunity, coaching and environment, I say they can make the transition from the third to the first world.
But all this requires effort. And most of us take the convenient road and get hooked with someone more accessible.
To each his own. But I still reckon, wife hunters should investigate the raw talent lurking in the villages.
If nothing else, you'll have a lot of fun.
One of the top 'companion' girls of my life came from a squatter village, remote from towns. Cost me P800 to taxi from the wharf, along rough roads to her family's shack by the creek. She certainly had looks, and she certainly had sophistication, even though she lived in a little tin shack, alongside a polluted creek, in the jungle. But this same girl didn't want to carry water, ha ha. She wanted to lay on her back, legs apart, and she was good at it too. That's why she went to the city where I was staying in, looking for someone like me , a potential Sugar Daddy. Met her through a filipina I knew at the time. A trophy companion if ever there was one. Have to put her in the top 3/5 of my life. Will never forget her.
After I terminated the relationship (getting too serious for my liking) her mother, instead of berating me for dumping her daughter, wrote me a lovely letter, thanking me for "looking after" her daughter. Code language for not getting her pregnant I suppose.
I felt such a cad, treating such nice people that way. That is , screwing her daughter then moving on. No doubt my exit spoiled their dream of escaping poverty through cashed up 'Joe', me. I was impressed with the wording and thought Mumma had put behind the letter. Such manners and sophistication from a Mum who most probably never went to school.
Anyway, lots of the girls we foreigners meet at bars, on the Internet, wherever, migrated from the villages at some time in their life.
I rest my case. I am not getting married now or in the future. It's what rocks your boat that counts. I like the relative 'honesty' and earthiness of the unspoiled village girls, but I admit, they have to have a brain to make it work. Filipino 's in general have brains, they just don't have the same opportunities we do. But too many of them lack common sense, that's my beef with them. My friends wife certainly has common sense, brains and used them, once she got the opportunity (England). An exception no doubt. A 'gem'. They are out there , all you have to do is put the effort in to find them.
Of course during my upcoming trip I am not seeking village girls, common sense or brains for that matter. I am seeking sex from those devious but loveable city dwellers. So convenient. Just walk around, smile and voila, "another one bites the dust", ha ha.Hell this might be far off topic, but whatever. I work for a company that has hired only Philapinos for about the last 7 years. The numbers: 8 whites and about 55 Phils. My boss is a fat sack of useless shit (he's white) who just hires brothers, cousins, sisters, friends, and 1's who have just got off the boat. Ok, maybe it's true many young Canadians don't want to work, but I find some of these people useless and dumb. You can see it when another new one starts work, the attitude thing right away. Unless you're the boss, they don't want to listen to you, even if you have years of experience. They cry and whine if they don't get their own way. One of them keyed the night shift bosses truck cause I guess he/she held a grudge with him. Pis all over the toilet seat, clip their hairs in the sink, don't flush the toilet. The males are the worst. They really try to "flex" and intimidate the few whites. We always say "the philapinos create work for the whites". Just either being stupid or they really don't give a shit. Thanks for showing respect having the opportunity to better yourself. 250 thousand immigrants a year to Canada. I'm moving to Phils. They or most of them don't act like these useless fucks here. You can think whatever you want, I can get along with anyone, but people who don't care or play thier fukken roll, they can pis off.
I've read the message four times and each time I thought I wouldn't reply since I had nothing nice to say. Unfortunately, this sad commentary still resides at the top of the "chat rooms" thread. What a shame.
Chef "I can get along with anyone", you are a [Deleted by Admin] and I would most happily [Deleted by Admin] .
If you don't like the Phil people there, you surely will grow to dislike them elsewhere.
Maybe you were just having a bad day. If so, tell us about it.
X Man
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Cherry blossoms...
I've been satisfied with this site, but one thing that bothers me is that suddenly some women posts something like, "Oh, I found my man."...."no longer available". They even post the guys picture. Sorry, but that seems extremely unnatural to me. And even if it is Filipina showing off, did she ask her new "man" if it was okay to post his picture online at a site like Cherry blossom? I certainly wouldn't allow it.
Is this CB trying to promote their site?
I would thinks so...but who knows...
X Man
So I've become a "project", haha.
This girl I like is certainly high maintenance. If I can get her broken properly She will be very entertaining and a good ride. But she needs a man with a certain will and confidence--but not overbearing. I think she can appreciate a firm hand, and some slack in the lead line.
I haven't even dipped the wick yet so there's a lot that can be wrong.
I suppose I'll have to be the gentleman and not post her pic here.
You know 50 is now the new 30. I keep telling myself that every day when I work out.
She also loves having her picture taken, so if she dumps me I'll be sure I have enough material to start my own porn site. And I'll have a model release bwahahah!
Tungsten Chef
08-16-07, 23:08
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08-16-07, 23:51
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Gentlemen,
The purpose of this Forum is to provide for the exchange of information between Men on the subject of finding Women for Sex.
Let's get back to the subject.
Thank You,
Jackson
Hmmm,
broken properly
good ride
certain will
firm hand
slack in the lead line
dip the wick
dumps me
Jambo, you sound like an intelligent guy, but you know all those idoms are going to go right over her head (another idiom).
X Man
So I've become a "project", haha.
This girl I like is certainly high maintenance. If I can get her broken properly She will be very entertaining and a good ride. But she needs a man with a certain will and confidence--but not overbearing. I think she can appreciate a firm hand, and some slack in the lead line.
I haven't even dipped the wick yet so there's a lot that can be wrong.
I suppose I'll have to be the gentleman and not post her pic here.
You know 50 is now the new 30. I keep telling myself that every day when I work out.
She also loves having her picture taken, so if she dumps me I'll be sure I have enough material to start my own porn site. And I'll have a model release bwahahah!
Capitalized On
08-20-07, 02:46
Cherry blossoms...
....
Is this CB trying to promote their site?
I would thinks so...but who knows...
X ManI cant say how I know this but Cherry Blossoms is totally legit, and the amount of pussy you can find there (and then meet and fuck for free) is un-be-leivable.
Take it for what its worth.
There was a question on the Manila thread as to why a woman on a "pay for" chat site would ask you to move to Yahoo Messenger. I've copied my answer here.
1st reply was: quicker loading and more reliable...(I add to this in point 3)
Maybe...
1) Ym is more permanent than the pay for sites. Usually the messenger ID is also a yahoo email address.
2) she has other friends on the pay for site, ym allows her to be invisible.
3) cam is more stable on the ym site.
4) She's already chatting on the ym site and moving you there is easier than bouncing back to a different web site with a different format.
5) the pay for site has strict rules....is quick to ban ladies who break the rules. This is expecially true with Cherry blossom.
6) etc...
*** And most Filipinos use Yahoo....it's probably more comfortable for them.....
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mofo Monger
Okay, I have to ask: I was on one of those Filipina lonely hearts website. You know the ones.
Anyways, I would get Instant Messenger all the time, but it seems like most wanted me to Yahoo Messenger them. Why?
Do they get a fee or something.
Anyone care to explain?
There was a question on the Manila thread as to why a woman on a "pay for" chat site would ask you to move to Yahoo Messenger. I've copied my answer here.
1st reply was: quicker loading and more reliable...(I add to this in point 3)
Maybe.
1) Ym is more permanent than the pay for sites. Usually the messenger ID is also a yahoo email address.
2) she has other friends on the pay for site, ym allows her to be invisible.
3) cam is more stable on the ym site.
4) She's already chatting on the ym site and moving you there is easier than bouncing back to a different web site with a different format.
5) the pay for site has strict rules....is quick to ban ladies who break the rules. This is expecially true with Cherry blossom.
6) etc...
*** And most Filipinos use Yahoo....it's probably more comfortable for them.....
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mofo Monger
Okay, I have to ask: I was on one of those Filipina lonely hearts website. You know the ones.
Anyways, I would get Instant Messenger all the time, but it seems like most wanted me to Yahoo Messenger them. Why?
Do they get a fee or something.
Anyone care to explain?It has been my experience using the dating site that you will get inundated with pop-ups from other girls when you are chatting with one particular girl. I could not figure out a way to stop that from happening. So I would usually ask the girl to sign out of that site and go to Yahoo - sort of like asking a girl to go to a quiet corner of a bar to have a chat! Also I found if I had Yahoo IM up and one of these dating windows opened up it totally jammed my computer and I would have to shut the whole thing down and reboot. Perhaps it was an older version of windows or something
Just my .2c. I usually post on the USA version of this board but am traveling in a few weeks to Manila and Cebu.
Cheers,
Shogun
Thanks Shogun, I completely forgot about that. You don't tell us what site you use, but this is certainly the case with Cherry blossom. It's very annoying. I've even had some women who would just open the chat window again as soon as I hit the "busy" button. In Yahoo you can stay invisible, but not at CB.
Have fun in the Philippines. Let us know your scorecard with the online gals.
X Man
QUOTE=Shogun04]It has been my experience using the dating site that you will get inundated with pop-ups from other girls when you are chatting with one particular girl. I could not figure out a way to stop that from happening. So I would usually ask the girl to sign out of that site and go to Yahoo - sort of like asking a girl to go to a quiet corner of a bar to have a chat! Also I found if I had Yahoo IM up and one of these dating windows opened up it totally jammed my computer and I would have to shut the whole thing down and reboot. Perhaps it was an older version of windows or something
Just my .2c. I usually post on the USA version of this board but am traveling in a few weeks to Manila and Cebu.
Cheers,
Shogun[/QUOTE]
Wicked Roger
08-28-07, 14:39
I cant say how I know this but Cherry Blossoms is totally legit, and the amount of pussy you can find there (and then meet and fuck for free) is un-be-leivable.
Take it for what its worth.
Agree with you
Am here briefly but deceided this time to try CBs (so started emails 2 weeks ago) and not go to the bars and very fruitful - as well as another avenue I explored last time which I why I stay in a different hotel now than normal as the ladies cannot be seen with guests.
Will post re CB meetings and 'free fucks' later
i am new to this site but have been mongering all over asia for two decades and only recently (last 4 months) got onto the dating and cam sites to seek out the "non pro" ladies and see if it would be fruitful.
well, i have to agree with capitalized on, i've had some serious success in this arena. and there is one benefit to chatting with cam girls that i haven't seen anyone mention here yet (and please forgive me if i overlooked it while reading these threads) and that is you get to check out all their assets before meeting them.
but for this you need to have a bit of game and a smidge of a strategy: have two accounts at a cam site. that way when you see a really cute girl that you'the like to meet in person, just talk to her and get to where you can start chatting to her on ym. throw a wide net over the cuties and take your time, they get plenty of verbal abuse and will respond nicely to someone with manners. your looks and age will be of much less importance to them if you are polite and show real feelings. then. "try before you buy". no one wants to meet up with some girl in person and find out she's not at all what you expected from her photos. so. i go in to the cam site under a second account and take them into their private room for some cybersex. yes, it will cost a little, but. it saves way more in time and frustration. who here wouldn't like to get a nice peek under those panties and also an idea if she's a dead fish, beginner or freak in the bedroom? you can tell a lot of that from how they act when you have them do cybersex for you.
and since you never ask them to get naked under your "polite" persona you keep your "nice guy" image intact for when you meet in person.
my success rate is comparable to others i've seen here in that it's about 50% but that 50% has in it some of the best female companionship i've had in my life. i've yet to be disappointed, and several times been pleasantly surprised when seeing them in person. and i know the total cost is less than when i was out every night in p4p situations.
as for the cb girls, i think that anyone that wants to find a gem there better look at it like any sales guy does with cold calls: make 50 cold inquiries to find 10 real possibilities that result in one or two really good connections. i sent out almost 100 initial emails to girls there the first month and was down to about 5 (i am very picky on the looks issues) by the second email or chat but found that out of those five all were decent possibilities and i have as yet only met up with two but those two have proved to be everything i could have imagined. if a guy is truly looking for a wife, cb is a good place to find one or even just hone your skills first. as in any situation involving women, basic manners and a little patience go a long way. but never waste time on one who seems "off" in any way. there are just too many new ones coming online every day that you can start with fresh.
i cant say how i know this but cherry blossoms is totally legit, and the amount of pussy you can find there (and then meet and fuck for free) is un-be-leivable.
take it for what its worth.editor's note: i certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the reports of distinction thread. please click here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
i am new to this site but have been mongering all over asia for two decades and only recently (last 4 months) got onto the dating and cam sites to seek out the "non pro" ladies and see if it would be fruitful.
well, i have to agree with capitalized on, i've had some serious success in this arena. and there is one benefit to chatting with cam girls that i haven't seen anyone mention here yet (and please forgive me if i overlooked it while reading these threads) and that is you get to check out all their assets before meeting them.
but for this you need to have a bit of game and a smidge of a strategy: have two accounts at a cam site. that way when you see a really cute girl that you'the like to meet in person, just talk to her and get to where you can start chatting to her on ym. throw a wide net over the cuties and take your time, they get plenty of verbal abuse and will respond nicely to someone with manners. your looks and age will be of much less importance to them if you are polite and show real feelings. then. "try before you buy". no one wants to meet up with some girl in person and find out she's not at all what you expected from her photos. so. i go in to the cam site under a second account and take them into their private room for some cybersex. yes, it will cost a little, but. it saves way more in time and frustration. who here wouldn't like to get a nice peek under those panties and also an idea if she's a dead fish, beginner or freak in the bedroom? you can tell a lot of that from how they act when you have them do cybersex for you.
and since you never ask them to get naked under your "polite" persona you keep your "nice guy" image intact for when you meet in person.
my success rate is comparable to others i've seen here in that it's about 50% but that 50% has in it some of the best female companionship i've had in my life. i've yet to be disappointed, and several times been pleasantly surprised when seeing them in person. and i know the total cost is less than when i was out every night in p4p situations.
as for the cb girls, i think that anyone that wants to find a gem there better look at it like any sales guy does with cold calls: make 50 cold inquiries to find 10 real possibilities that result in one or two really good connections. i sent out almost 100 initial emails to girls there the first month and was down to about 5 (i am very picky on the looks issues) by the second email or chat but found that out of those five all were decent possibilities and i have as yet only met up with two but those two have proved to be everything i could have imagined. if a guy is truly looking for a wife, cb is a good place to find one or even just hone your skills first. as in any situation involving women, basic manners and a little patience go a long way. but never waste time on one who seems "off" in any way. there are just too many new ones coming online every day that you can start with fresh.
i cant say how i know this but cherry blossoms is totally legit, and the amount of pussy you can find there (and then meet and fuck for free) is un-be-leivable.
take it for what its worth.editor's note: i certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the reports of distinction thread. please click here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
Hobby Knob
09-09-07, 06:59
i would add though... on some of those sites these girls can see your i.p. address. i have actually been to one of these studios and they do know when someone is "sneaking around" if you are to do this you want to mask your i.p. with a program.
i actually did a low tech way by using a free juno dial upm account. that gives you a different i.p. address when you log in.
i am new to this site but have been mongering all over asia for two decades and only recently (last 4 months) got onto the dating and cam sites to seek out the "non pro" ladies and see if it would be fruitful.
well, i have to agree with capitalized on, i've had some serious success in this arena. and there is one benefit to chatting with cam girls that i haven't seen anyone mention here yet (and please forgive me if i overlooked it while reading these threads) and that is you get to check out all their assets before meeting them.
but for this you need to have a bit of game and a smidge of a strategy: have two accounts at a cam site. that way when you see a really cute girl that you'the like to meet in person, just talk to her and get to where you can start chatting to her on ym. throw a wide net over the cuties and take your time, they get plenty of verbal abuse and will respond nicely to someone with manners. your looks and age will be of much less importance to them if you are polite and show real feelings. then. "try before you buy". no one wants to meet up with some girl in person and find out she's not at all what you expected from her photos. so. i go in to the cam site under a second account and take them into their private room for some cybersex. yes, it will cost a little, but. it saves way more in time and frustration. who here wouldn't like to get a nice peek under those panties and also an idea if she's a dead fish, beginner or freak in the bedroom? you can tell a lot of that from how they act when you have them do cybersex for you.
and since you never ask them to get naked under your "polite" persona you keep your "nice guy" image intact for when you meet in person.
my success rate is comparable to others i've seen here in that it's about 50% but that 50% has in it some of the best female companionship i've had in my life. i've yet to be disappointed, and several times been pleasantly surprised when seeing them in person. and i know the total cost is less than when i was out every night in p4p situations.
as for the cb girls, i think that anyone that wants to find a gem there better look at it like any sales guy does with cold calls: make 50 cold inquiries to find 10 real possibilities that result in one or two really good connections. i sent out almost 100 initial emails to girls there the first month and was down to about 5 (i am very picky on the looks issues) by the second email or chat but found that out of those five all were decent possibilities and i have as yet only met up with two but those two have proved to be everything i could have imagined. if a guy is truly looking for a wife, cb is a good place to find one or even just hone your skills first. as in any situation involving women, basic manners and a little patience go a long way. but never waste time on one who seems "off" in any way. there are just too many new ones coming online every day that you can start with fresh.
editor's note: i certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the reports of distinction thread. please click here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
Hi to all,
on my last trip ( last month) I met 4 chatgurls I use to know from those paid chatsite.
One I invite with her fren for dinner and drinks, she left early , prmosed me to com eback but just ask if i can help her. I didnt txt her any more...
Then i met anoher hottie with her sister, we went out and next day before she went back to batangas her workin place she visit me alone :D and showd me how much she liked me. I heard now she quit work and getin married to one of the members there :D. regards to the guy, she is a hot gurl :D
next day I met Ashley, also cam model, she stayed over night with me and her friend (no bum2) ...just cuddling and kissing...she promised to come back to me alone. I gave her my old cp, she was very happy. Gona met her again nexttime for more action.
Number four was the best, she is now my gf or lets say i met her again nexttime IM around. SHe also went to y hotel with her friend and I thought fxxk no bum2 again, but what a suprise, we started french kissing in the night and while her friend sleep with noise she undress herself... we went to the bathroom and had a session under the shower..thanks to pacific breeze they have great big showers :)
She stayed with me all the time and next day her friend leaves and she literally fxxd me to death (allmost) I took her to sm clark and bough her some panty, shorts and shirts..lotion etc..there was never any money involved, However I gave her 2k when I left and offerd her to work for me :D
Now that was really the first time I met a true honest and loving gurl on the net who gave evrything to me and was horny as hell. I think you shouldnt give up looking, one day its be ur lucky day.
Im gone post some pics from them in fotosection
Happy hunting
Blink
Thanks for the report Blink. Which chat site do you use?
You mentioned Pacific Breeze, so can I assume you met all four in Angeles City? Were any of the sex workers?
One chat girl I did was a waitress at Orchid - so pretty sure she was a regular girl. I did her at the first meeting - coincidentally at Pac Breeze. She later sent one of those messages that says, "OMG, I can't believe I did that."
I felt a bit bad cause I never met her again. Just too much going on in AC.
X Man
Hi to all,
on my last trip ( last month) I met 4 chatgurls I use to know from those paid chatsite.
One I invite with her fren for dinner and drinks, she left early , prmosed me to com eback but just ask if i can help her. I didnt txt her any more...
Then i met anoher hottie with her sister, we went out and next day before she went back to batangas her workin place she visit me alone :D and showd me how much she liked me. I heard now she quit work and getin married to one of the members there :D. regards to the guy, she is a hot gurl :D
next day I met Ashley, also cam model, she stayed over night with me and her friend (no bum2) ...just cuddling and kissing...she promised to come back to me alone. I gave her my old cp, she was very happy. Gona met her again nexttime for more action.
Number four was the best, she is now my gf or lets say i met her again nexttime IM around. SHe also went to y hotel with her friend and I thought fxxk no bum2 again, but what a suprise, we started french kissing in the night and while her friend sleep with noise she undress herself... we went to the bathroom and had a session under the shower..thanks to pacific breeze they have great big showers :)
She stayed with me all the time and next day her friend leaves and she literally fxxd me to death (allmost) I took her to sm clark and bough her some panty, shorts and shirts..lotion etc..there was never any money involved, However I gave her 2k when I left and offerd her to work for me :D
Now that was really the first time I met a true honest and loving gurl on the net who gave evrything to me and was horny as hell. I think you shouldnt give up looking, one day its be ur lucky day.
Im gone post some pics from them in fotosection
Happy hunting
Blink
From Cherry blossom:
im just simple ordinary girl who wishes to meet freinds from different cultures, i dont want to jump into a relationship immmediately it always good to know the person well before jumping into a relationship.....
Emmalyn, from Bislig, now in Davao is super fine. I had a date with her, but nothing happened thanks to her dykish friend. Anyway, here is our latest chat:
Show Recent Messages (F3)
You currently appear offline to Emmalyn camazura.
SNIP
Emmalyn camazura: im fine
Emmalyn camazura: in davao
Emmalyn camazura: why??
x: I'll be in davao in December.
x: Are you in school or working?
Emmalyn camazura: school
Emmalyn camazura: ok
x: Oh, that's good.
Emmalyn camazura: yeah
x: What are you studying?
Emmalyn camazura: commerce
Emmalyn camazura: why??
Emmalyn camazura: how about my X?
x: Work is busy. I also studied business in uni.
Emmalyn camazura: ok
Emmalyn camazura: can i ask favor to you??
x: sure.
Emmalyn camazura: i think this is my first time i ask favor to you
Emmalyn camazura: right??
x: I suppose.
x: What is your phone number?
Emmalyn camazura: can i ask favor to you.....i need to pay for my tuttion fee try to help me just a little
x: Hmmm, give me the name of the school. I'll send it directly to the school.
Emmalyn camazura: how??
Emmalyn camazura: it can be??
x: Anyway, send me the info later. I have to go to work now.
x: Take care,
Emmalyn camazura: X pls
Thanks for the report Blink. Which chat site do you use?
You mentioned Pacific Breeze, so can I assume you met all four in Angeles City? Were any of the sex workers?
One chat girl I did was a waitress at Orchid - so pretty sure she was a regular girl. I did her at the first meeting - coincidentally at Pac Breeze. She later sent one of those messages that says, "OMG, I can't believe I did that."
I felt a bit bad cause I never met her again. Just too much going on in AC.
X Man
hi,
they from acm (asiancammodels).....they all in sex LOL..but I guess not workin bar before...
Yes , all from ac..the BS place and Im suprised at least one didnt bs me when meeting first time...
happy punting
Blink
BS is kind of a cultural thing. No reason to resist it unless it's obviously doing you some harm. I've been trying to tell guys here not to let on when the scam ladies do their "snake charm", but I'm pretty sure I'm getting ignored.
I've used the pay for chat sites (not sex sites) to meet women all the way from AC to Manila to Cebu / Dumaguete / and various locations in Mindanao. Most cased I've met some interesting ladies. Gotten tours of the city and sometimes far beyond. I've had pretty good luck getting intimate too, but who know, maybe I should get a life.
X Man
hi,
they from acm (asiancammodels).....they all in sex LOL..but I guess not workin bar before...
Yes , all from ac..the BS place and Im suprised at least one didnt bs me when meeting first time...
happy punting
Blink
Cherry blossoms...
I've been satisfied with this site, but one thing that bothers me is that suddenly some women posts something like, "Oh, I found my man."...."no longer available". They even post the guys picture.
Is this CB trying to promote their site?
I would thinks so...but who knows...
X Man
Some time ago I wanted to get rid of scammers on my profile and chaged my status to >engaged< with the add on that I found my gal
A day later I got a request from CB on my mail to tell the story how I found that girl on CB ..and how it goes on. They wanted to put it on their sucess page...
Marketing
When I first asked for the "chat room/ pen pals" thread I envisaged guys sharing particular info about online ladies that show promise. As it turns out it makes more sense to share contact info thru pm rather than on the board.
Neverthless, I notice several people here are using Cherry blossom, so let's see if I can get some of you guys to share notes. (BTW, I don't think you need to be a paying member in order to view the profiles of the ladies)
Reference number c00661755. In the search function you only need to type in the last six digits: 661755
661755
Raz 20 in Cebu, petite, lucious lips which belong you know where. Right away talking about her financial problems. I asked for her contact info, so let's see what happenns
C00861234
Ritzel 18 in davao. I usually don't contact them this young, but the photo made me suspect she's a cam girl. I sent her a message. She didn't respond to anything I had written, but asked me to email her and gave her address. In the email address are the numbers 28. Is that her real age?
Wicked Roger
10-11-07, 08:53
When I first asked for the "chat room/ pen pals" thread I envisaged guys sharing particular info about online ladies that show promise. As it turns out it makes more sense to share contact info thru pm rather than on the board.
Neverthless, I notice several people here are using Cherry blossom, so let's see if I can get some of you guys to share notes. (BTW, I don't think you need to be a paying member in order to view the profiles of the ladies)
Reference number c00661755. In the search function you only need to type in the last six digits: 661755
661755
Raz 20 in Cebu, petite, lucious lips which belong you know where. Right away talking about her financial problems. I asked for her contact info, so let's see what happenns
C00861234
Ritzel 18 in davao. I usually don't contact them this young, but the photo made me suspect she's a cam girl. I sent her a message. She didn't respond to anything I had written, but asked me to email her and gave her address. In the email address are the numbers 28. Is that her real age?
Xman
I use CB also at times, many will chat about cash straight away, some will show their bodies happily, others with encouragement. Some are cam girls - met a couple when last in Manila and shagged them, no hassles great fun and a nice dinner was all that is required.
Some are under 18 depsite the profile (I also found this out when in Manila :()
And some are ladyboys so be very careful....:(:(
Ritzel? Maybe the 28 is her birthday date as some give false info on CB (what a surprise) but yes I agree she looks older.
Raz - yes nice lips but she is after cash immediately (she could have waited for the second time!). Many CB girls the same don't blame them maybe they see us an ATM machine (well to some)
Will PM a few you can look at and see what you think
But for mongers out there who look on CB watch out for Katrina based Manila as she is definitely a lady boy (C00825592)
Also Mierven maybe (C00860433) dont be fooled by the picture as I have seen her on cam , no make up v butch (and not for me)
well, little miss ritzel has emailed me and confirmed that she's not 18. she says that she is one year less than that. she's cute, i'll give her that, but as wr notes, she looks older. my guess is that she's petite and uses a [CodeWord901] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901) persona as her web cam "personality".
i have a travel agent friend in mla who is flat-chested, very cute if you don't mind skin and bones, 39kilos and could probably become [CodeWord901] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901) . she's 27.
x
xman
i use cb also at times, many will chat about cash straight away, some will show their bodies happily, others with encouragement. some are cam girls - met a couple when last in manila and shagged them, no hassles great fun and a nice dinner was all that is required.
some are under 18 depsite the profile (i also found this out when in manila :()
and some are ladyboys so be very careful....:(:(
ritzel? maybe the 28 is her birthday date as some give false info on cb (what a surprise) but yes i agree she looks older.
raz - yes nice lips but she is after cash immediately (she could have waited for the second time!). many cb girls the same don't blame them maybe they see us an atm machine (well to some)
will pm a few you can look at and see what you think
but for mongers out there who look on cb watch out for katrina based manila as she is definitely a lady boy (c00825592)
also mierven maybe (c00860433) dont be fooled by the picture as i have seen her on cam , no make up v butch (and not for me)
Bilbo Baggins
10-12-07, 07:06
This one I chatted with ended up being someone much older and offering sex shows when we switched to Yahoo.
C00820822
This one must be a split personality I haven't chatted with her but she has 2 id's with the exact same photo in the 2nd of 3 pics in each id.
C00340828 birthdate 7/26/1984 23 years
C00531909 birthdate 7/26/1983 24 years
Same name and information in each
Some of these ladies on CB look familar after a while I think they use the same photos for different id's when I can be bothered I might research it just keep a list of photos with ids and compare them.
I've met a few who have admitted being under 18, I remember a sweet innocent thing who panicked when I mentioned I was coming to her town and could meet her, suddenly she is saying she has to ask her parents and that she is only young and had to go. Kids playing with the computers?
Wicked Roger
10-15-07, 10:09
This one I chatted with ended up being someone much older and offering sex shows when we switched to Yahoo.
C00820822
This one must be a split personality I haven't chatted with her but she has 2 id's with the exact same photo in the 2nd of 3 pics in each id.
C00340828 birthdate 7/26/1984 23 years
C00531909 birthdate 7/26/1983 24 years
Same name and information in each
Some of these ladies on CB look familar after a while I think they use the same photos for different id's when I can be bothered I might research it just keep a list of photos with ids and compare them.
I've met a few who have admitted being under 18, I remember a sweet innocent thing who panicked when I mentioned I was coming to her town and could meet her, suddenly she is saying she has to ask her parents and that she is only young and had to go. Kids playing with the computers?
BB
The first did same to me. Many CB girls will if you are happy to help them with school feee, medicines for grandama.......
Some, very few,, will do it for free as kinky and liberated (and maybe an eye to the long term but I doubt). These are the ones I like as when I get to Manila they are keen to meet and for a nice dinner etc you normally get a great time.
But as I said before, I cam with them first as some are ladyboys...
Thanks BB,
Ms. 820822 certainly looks cute and legit in her profile. Thanks for the info. Did you ask her for a face to face meeting? There was one webcam girl in Manila that I met online. I suggested a meeting. She didn't refuse, but made it clear there would be no easy sex. I appreciated her honesty, and never did meet her (but not for that reason).
As for the other lady you mention, most of the info on the two profiles is the same, so it doesn't seem that she's trying to deceive. It's free to have a profile, but guys have to pay to make any contacts.
One thing about CB, when I was paying, I put my contact info (I didn't use the "at" symbol, misspelled yafoo) in my profile. It's against the rules, but nothing was said. When my pay period expired, my profile continued to have my fudged contact info for several months. Then, one day I updated a few things. Boom, they immediately turned off my profile.
So, I guess that's a way to trick the system, but it really isn't worth the effort. Women continued to ask me to chat at CB (non paying male members can't chat, but that doesn't stop women from asking you to chat). Only one woman was bright enough to figure out that yafoo meant yahoo, and she was not my type.
Oh, and a lot of women don't realize that guys are paying for the service.
X
This one I chatted with ended up being someone much older and offering sex shows when we switched to Yahoo.
C00820822
This one must be a split personality I haven't chatted with her but she has 2 id's with the exact same photo in the 2nd of 3 pics in each id.
C00340828 birthdate 7/26/1984 23 years
C00531909 birthdate 7/26/1983 24 years
Same name and information in each
Some of these ladies on CB look familar after a while I think they use the same photos for different id's when I can be bothered I might research it just keep a list of photos with ids and compare them.
I've met a few who have admitted being under 18, I remember a sweet innocent thing who panicked when I mentioned I was coming to her town and could meet her, suddenly she is saying she has to ask her parents and that she is only young and had to go. Kids playing with the computers?
C00636640
Look at the third picture in this profile. What do those stuffed dolls tell you. Well, it tells me webcam girl. I met this girl in AC. Right away she wanted me to buy her something at the mall. She was cuter than the pictures indicate, but I detected a hard edge. At some point I confirmed that she had worked as a webcam girl.
Eventually we got back to my room. We kissed and I felt her up a bit. She suggested she needed money for her little brother's birthday party the next week. How much? 4000. I offerred 1000. She said, "I'm not a bar girl." Now, I took offense at that since I rather like the bar girls. I walked her down to the lobby and said goodbye.
X
681016 Stunning. For many months she's said she's not available, but she changed the photos just last week. The old photos were also very nice.
C00118018 She might be in Subic. She agreed to meet, but backed out at the last minute. That bikini photo is at least two years old.
X
Bilbo Baggins
10-15-07, 16:46
X Man, that girl in the blue dress was a winner for me too.
Thanks BB,
Ms. 820822 certainly looks cute and legit in her profile. Thanks for the info. Did you ask her for a face to face meeting? No X Man I didn't get to chat with the girl in the pictures she ended up being another older woman in a different province from the one stated who when we went to Yahoo offered a sex show for payment it was very professional and she was honest about being someone different from the beginning in the CB chat. It felt like a honey lure to get guys in to her yahoo cam business.
I have chatted to a few "older" ladies who were different from the stated ID they were honest about it. One said she was setting up the account for her young niece and decided to chat with me herself, 53 was a bit too old for my liking.
Oh, and a lot of women don't realize that guys are paying for the service.
XYes I was chatting with a girl who told me her American "chat friend" disappeared suddenly and I suggested his subscription probably ran out she was surprised at the costs I quoted her.
A lot of pretty girls in CB come from Zamboanga but I have had a few weird ones I have chatted with from there one was pretty but really psychotic I noticed admin in CB has deleted her.
530448 This one was prettier in the photos she sent me via email than her profile pics and I saw her on cam and she was the same person. She would be high maintenance imo, suggested she could chat with me daily if she had her own computer and cam and another time wanted a camera so she could take sexy photos for me.
She lives in Zamboanga City and offered to fly to any place I was going to stay so long as I paid the return fare of her and her girlfriend. We stopped chatting after I got tired of her complaining about starving and having no food to eat she really got angry when I didn't believe her. Very manipulative with the sob story of being a starving student I guess its a more plausible story than sick relatives or carabou.
I have decided to only chat with ladies from places I intend to visit but to be honest for all the sincere ladies I have met the "others" put me right off chat dating sites. If you put in your profile you are just looking for ladies to date, like I have, while in the Philippines you will find the ones you want plus all the others who don't read your profile and are looking for a husband.
One girl tonight told me she was looking for a man to teach her how to have good sex and get married to if possible. I guess some will take whatever foreigener they can get.
Wicked Roger
10-16-07, 14:03
Guys
Watch out for this one, she will offer and promise a lot ....but...she is a ladyboy
C00851601
She works with Katrina (see earlier FR) as when I went to cam with Katrina she was there also and introduced herself and told me her name etc, and then I twigged very early, asked the questions and they did not deny.
Thats why I cam first and ask direct questions and some may be offfended but then move to the next one
Wicked Roger
10-16-07, 14:10
A lot of pretty girls in CB come from Zamboanga but I have had a few weird ones I have chatted with from there one was pretty but really psychotic I noticed admin in CB has deleted her.
530448 This one was prettier in the photos she sent me via email than her profile pics and I saw her on cam and she was the same person. She would be high maintenance imo, suggested she could chat with me daily if she had her own computer and cam and another time wanted a camera so she could take sexy photos for me.
She lives in Zamboanga City and offered to fly to any place I was going to stay so long as I paid the return fare of her and her girlfriend. We stopped chatting after I got tired of her complaining about starving and having no food to eat she really got angry when I didn't believe her. Very manipulative with the sob story of being a starving student I guess its a more plausible story than sick relatives or carabou.
One girl tonight told me she was looking for a man to teach her how to have good sex and get married to if possible. I guess some will take whatever foreigener they can get.
BB
Many have sob stories and in chat with CB girls I can just about spot the lead in to the sob story (I can now not at first). I ask them how they are doing with the CB search and they tend to ask same
I reply that 99% of girls aask for money within 10 minutes of chat so I stop chat because how can I send cash if I cannot meet them first....
That tends to put them on notice. Works a treat as you can move to the next one and eventually you a few gems and (if your flavour) some cherries as well.
Basically you are right we are seen as an ATM machine to some, pormises etc but beware. If you ever do a ticket I would PTA so she cannot cash it etc. Done that before (not CB etc) and works a treat as if she does not take it I get cash back no loss to pocket :)
Wicked Roger
10-16-07, 14:39
A few more bits of information on some more CB girls to watch out for and research findings :)
C00819592 Jean
Was due to meet in Manila but she backed out at very last minute. Works Makati and and third picture is bar.....when she was asking too many questions I asked which bar she worked in, she lost interest.
C00797763 Essan
Cute body but always sad as she has a permanent sob story. Would go naked though on cam and had problems ranaging from school fees to mother medicine to PC needsd fixing.
C00860433 Mierven
As I said earlier, my guess is ladyboy as I asked for cam and what I saw was not nice!! And since then she/he has not bothered me....
C00852869 Peachy
Older (30) and not really my age group. but looked OK on teh picttures so against my better judgement.... Has problems with PC and cam (cant seem to be able to fix the 2 togther and needs to plug it into the PC)....nice to chat says she 30 year old cherry willing to give to right expat - well not me !
C00837473 Jeomirli
Met her OK,works bar in Makati. Open and honest about what she wants (sex, in return for favours). If your type go for it, not mine
C00530898 Kerin
Nice CB pictures but on cam the 3 kids she has had (plus fourth she aborted) show on her face and body. Nice person all the same but not for me and I suspect for very few ISG mongers who want a good straight forward shag
C00853472 Jangrace
Will give you her cherry if you help her through college, honest and direct which I like but I can pay far less and get a cute 19 year old in Makati (or my freebie 20 year waitress).
C00832398 Chersie
IMHO a crazy a couple of chats and she was wild (not sexually I mean :()
C00813062 Charin
Nice picture, chatted etc but she became very mercenary very quickly nd then forgot who I was so consigned her to the bin as can get cute 18 year old in AC, EDSA or Makati.
C00832886 Glenda Joy
Cute have chatted, very angry lady for one so young hard to control the chat and I dropped her despite her being nice and never asking for cash
C00792619 Angel
Cute nice but again we are an ATM machine and she is not subtle at all about it offered sex on YM cam etc but by this time I was bored with the same lines
At least with an ACM girl you know where you stand - they can be hard etc but at least you know and can decide quickly. As X Man did
C00796295
Profile says Pagadian, but she's currently in Manila. All photos seem to be taken in a hotel bathroom.
If I planned to be in Manila in the next few months I WOULD NOT be sharing this. Good luck gents.
*** some negativity follows - click away if you must...
To the guy who asked me if CB is worth a subscription...how can I answer that without knowing anything about you or what you're looking for. If you were my dufus, racist brother who is living a life of celibacy, I'd say no. If you don't want to get on an airplane and you don't like brown/black people, there is nothing I can recommend for you...although a self inflicted life ending injury wouldn't be such a bad thing.
I'm getting just a bit bored with the PM's I get. Should I go to the Philippines / Is it safe? / Can you introduce me to a girl? / Can a brother do well there? / Should I join Cb?
But, I will answer the question. NO, don't join CB. Join one of the other sites and then share the info with us. There is already plenty of info about CB here. In fact, since it is the most popular site, one of the lesser known sites might provide more potential trysts/ romances, and fewer of the scheming that sometimes happens at cb.
X Man
Guy named King Kong recently put up some good posts in the Davao thread. In one of them he shares a rather interesting story of a chat friend he met.
In the Dragonslayer thread, DS sometimes mentions that he used FilipinaHeart. That thread looks dead, but if you click through you'll find it is active and recently there have been some good posts.
X Man
But, I will answer the question. NO, don't join CB. Join one of the other sites and then share the info with us. There is already plenty of info about CB here. In fact, since it is the most popular site, one of the lesser known sites might provide more potential trysts/ romances, and fewer of the scheming that sometimes happens at cb.
Ok guys here is a new site that is free to e-mail the girls! about 50 filipinos on here ! i will be meeting one in manila next month, have here number and she knows and understands what i want. no metion of money except she is a studant all asked for was the usual presents ie chocolates, lotion, perfume. total cost of these things here in australia will be $10.00 for me. hey we have nock off perfumes here too lol.
smutvibes.com
here is the link
http://www.smutvibes.com/?page=home
Date in asia is free and site I use often and have had success.
Longhorn2000
10-23-07, 22:41
Alright, I know I'm going to get flamed to death, but here goes nothing. Anyway, I'm headed to Phils for my first trip in Jan. '08 (been to LOS many times). Is it worth trying to hook up with girls you meet on FH? Or do you have to go through the mating ritual before you have a chance to bed them? Obviously, I'm headed there to get laid, and I don't want to waste my time on FH girls if that's not going to happen. All constructive advice would be greatly appreciated.
Peace
Wicked Roger
10-24-07, 12:20
Alright, I know I'm going to get flamed to death, but here goes nothing. Anyway, I'm headed to Phils for my first trip in Jan. '08 (been to LOS many times). Is it worth trying to hook up with girls you meet on FH? Or do you have to go through the mating ritual before you have a chance to bed them? Obviously, I'm headed there to get laid, and I don't want to waste my time on FH girls if that's not going to happen. All constructive advice would be greatly appreciated.
Peace
LH
Very much hit and miss. The smutvide link is explicit so easy I would think. FH and CB very hit and miss. See earlier FRs in Manila and Makati as well.
If you have time to invest and cam with them and try all the tricks yes, you will get laid but make sure the rules are known in advance. Then you may be successful
I have a mix of CB girls, previous ladies from previous visits and bar fine new ones. I like variety :)
But if want a definite shag go bar fine someone...
Excuse me, but why on earth does anyone need to go to all the trouble of making contact on the Internet (unless you are looking for a bride, and even then you're in trouble!) to get laid in the Phils????
Forget it, and for that matter forget about barfines. Head for LA Cafe, Amazonia (3d choice) or G-Point (first choice) and walk out in 5 minutes with a willing partner.
Hmm, you've been to LOS many times, yet you have only 4 total posts? Against my better judgement, I'll respond...especially since I've gotten similar questions to my pm.
I'm 40ish, slimmer than the average American (not saying much, I know), bald and bearded, but somehow still accused of being "guapo". I've had 40% success rate within the first 24 hours. The sample is not huge, but big enough. And a few of the targets were quickly dropped without any serious attempt for varous reasons.
Wicked Roger advice is good, but if your regular girl disappoints and goes home at 10pm, there's still time for p4p. My strategy is different than WR, I don't try to get any guarantees beforehand. I do some online testing, some light sexual jokes, to guage the reaction. WHen I meet them I just try to have fun and if there is any chemistry I'll start touch testing. Some people say try to avoid allowing chaperones, but I find that counter-productive. Read King Kong's recent post in the Davao thread. He describes both what can go wrong and right - and in his case all in one evening.
And, like KK, I don't make any promises and create any false hopes. It's really not necessary.
What cities are you planning to go to and how long will you stay?
X Man
Alright, I know I'm going to get flamed to death, but here goes nothing. Anyway, I'm headed to Phils for my first trip in Jan. '08 (been to LOS many times). Is it worth trying to hook up with girls you meet on FH? Or do you have to go through the mating ritual before you have a chance to bed them? Obviously, I'm headed there to get laid, and I don't want to waste my time on FH girls if that's not going to happen. All constructive advice would be greatly appreciated.
Peace
There are a lot of reasons, but considering your post I have to wonder why "on earth" you're even reading anything on this thread.
1) Your strategy requires staying in Manila - big, crowded, somewhat dangerous, dirty, hot, overpriced, polluted, etc...
2) I like to try different things, and since I've been to Mnl, AC, Cebu multiple times, I want to explore new areas. Having friends already arranged in those new areas is nice.
3) a bride isn't out of the question for me...although highly unlikely.
4) as I said in a previous post, it isn't always a "lot of trouble". Not only have I gotten lucky, sometimes within the first six hours, but also been taken to remote mountain villages, gone hiking to a 100 foot waterfall, and otherwise been able to explore places more quickly and more cheaply because I had a tour guide/ girlfriend accompany me.
Nevertheless, my fees for chat service could pay for quite a few bar fines. If you're going to Philippines for the first time, you'd probably be better off hitting the main spots and doing p4p.
Excuse me, but why on earth does anyone need to go to all the trouble of making contact on the Internet (unless you are looking for a bride, and even then you're in trouble!) to get laid in the Phils????
Forget it, and for that matter forget about barfines. Head for LA Cafe, Amazonia (3d choice) or G-Point (first choice) and walk out in 5 minutes with a willing partner.
Excuse me, but why on earth does anyone need to go to all the trouble of making contact on the Internet (unless you are looking for a bride, and even then you're in trouble!) to get laid in the Phils????
Forget it, and for that matter forget about barfines. Head for LA Cafe, Amazonia (3d choice) or G-Point (first choice) and walk out in 5 minutes with a willing partner.After living here for the last seven months, the reason I chat on-line and meet girls in the mall, is because I like the chase. I still go to the bar and BF sometimes, but there is nothing like chatting with a girl for a month, have her show up at your hotel and within one hour she is rocking your world, not because I paid her, because she wants too.
I met this girl on Date in Asia and she told me what she wanted and she did exactly what she said. True GFE and true to her word, she wants a relationship, but said that she understood that I wanted a friend. She still emails me and texts me, but no drama and wants to come back to my room NOW.
Longhorn2000
10-25-07, 01:42
Thanks for the advice guys. Xman, I used to go under the handle Macauman, but somehow I was unable to use it again when I registered. That's why I have such few posts. I'm also 40ish Xman, and in fairly decent shape. Perhaps balding, but not bald. In any event, I'll webcam whenever I'm asked, and so far, none of the FH sweeties have recoiled in horror or ceased contact with me after they've laid eyes on my ugly mug.
Anyway, I only have 15 days, so I'm planning on splitting my time between Manila and Angeles (or possibly Cebu). Or maybe I'll stay in Manila the whole time. Any other suggestions? I'm rebounding hard from a Filipina who tore my heart out of my chest with her bare hands here in the States after 9 months of absolute sexual bliss. I suddenly became a piece of shit after I declined her request to "loan" her $10, 000. She's a dead ringer for Eva Longoria (I'm not joking), and I'm hoping to find a replacement, at least for a couple of weeks, so I can get her out of my system once and for all. Hence, a trip to the Phils instead of LOS.
Thanks again!
I met this girl on Date in Asia and she told me what she wanted and she did exactly what she said. True GFE and true to her word, she wants a relationship, but said that she understood that I wanted a friend. She still emails me and texts me, but no drama and wants to come back to my room NOW.Hi Robbaf,
Does it mean you have more pictures of this beautifull girl?
OptimusPrime
10-25-07, 04:01
Lots of guys that go on chat sites like CB and FH only go on their to either find cherry girls or girls to fuck. Many of the girls on some of the sites are legitimately looking for boyfriends or husbands but how can they take the guys seriously when the guys ask them to take their clothes off within the first 5 minutes of chatting with them.
Many of the guys (many guys in this thread) look at this sites as a game. They won't admit it but they promise these girls the world, including potential marriage, etc. The girls will fuck the guys because they are desperate and hope that the guys promises just might pan out when the guy is just there to find them, fuck them and flee. Not saying there is anything wrong with that as long as the girl knows its nothing serious. Somehow I doubt the real intention of the guy ever gets out and the guy just makes pie in the skie promises and likely is just a working class guy living in a trailer park.
The other scamming guys are the Cherry Hunters. This not something as rare as you might think. A lot of guys just cruise the sites looking for girls to promise marriage to in exchange for early cherry release. They are just sadists or insecure and realize there is no way in hell they could get a young virgin in the real world. After the guy busts the cherry, he disappears. No different than a local except the girl doesnt have any false hopes with the local guy. Have heard plenty of stories for years and have been to the Phils 17 times and in 23 different cities from 9 different regions. Many of the girls are just giving me bullshit but when you start to hear some of the same stories over and over again, there has to be some truth to it.
Just exposing the other side of the coin.
EDITOR'S NOTE: I certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
Yes, I remember that handle. Welcome back.
Don't spend all your time in Manila. AC is a good idea. That's a good trip if it's your first. X
Thanks for the advice guys. Xman, I used to go under the handle Macauman, but somehow I was unable to use it again when I registered. That's why I have such few posts. I'm also 40ish Xman, and in fairly decent shape. Perhaps balding, but not bald. In any event, I'll webcam whenever I'm asked, and so far, none of the FH sweeties have recoiled in horror or ceased contact with me after they've laid eyes on my ugly mug.
Anyway, I only have 15 days, so I'm planning on splitting my time between Manila and Angeles (or possibly Cebu). Or maybe I'll stay in Manila the whole time. Any other suggestions? I'm rebounding hard from a Filipina who tore my heart out of my chest with her bare hands here in the States after 9 months of absolute sexual bliss. I suddenly became a piece of shit after I declined her request to "loan" her $10, 000. She's a dead ringer for Eva Longoria (I'm not joking), and I'm hoping to find a replacement, at least for a couple of weeks, so I can get her out of my system once and for all. Hence, a trip to the Phils instead of LOS.
Thanks again!
Nyradio Flyer
10-25-07, 13:41
Lots of guys that go on chat sites like CB and FH only go on their to either find cherry girls or girls to fuck. Many of the girls on some of the sites are legitimately looking for boyfriends or husbands but how can they take the guys seriously when the guys ask them to take their clothes off within the first 5 minutes of chatting with them.
Many of the guys (many guys in this thread) look at this sites as a game. They won't admit it but they promise these girls the world, including potential marriage, etc. The girls will fuck the guys because they are desperate and hope that the guys promises just might pan out when the guy is just there to find them, fuck them and flee. Not saying there is anything wrong with that as long as the girl knows its nothing serious. Somehow I doubt the real intention of the guy ever gets out and the guy just makes pie in the skie promises and likely is just a working class guy living in a trailer park.
The other scamming guys are the Cherry Hunters. This not something as rare as you might think. A lot of guys just cruise the sites looking for girls to promise marriage to in exchange for early cherry release. They are just sadists or insecure and realize there is no way in hell they could get a young virgin in the real world. After the guy busts the cherry, he disappears. No different than a local except the girl doesnt have any false hopes with the local guy. Have heard plenty of stories for years and have been to the Phils 17 times and in 23 different cities from 9 different regions. Many of the girls are just giving me bullshit but when you start to hear some of the same stories over and over again, there has to be some truth to it.
Just exposing the other side of the coin.I am really glad to read this posting. I have been on CB for many years and never really met anyone that would make me want to settle down. Until now. I was so jaded due to the fact that I have dated a few Filipinas in the past. One who was brought here by her husband and dumped on her own. She took out her anger on me and made my life a living hell. I swore off the Pinays. Until I found that most American women were as bad if not worse. My ex-fiance tore my heart out and nearly cost me everything. So, it's not really where you look, but WHAT you are looking for. Let me preface by saying that if you have to go half way across the world just to get some or mess with some young woman's head, you have issues. I can't afford the karma, and I don't think anyone can. That being said, I gave CB another chance and was fortunate to find the nicest, sweetest, kindest most caring woman I have ever met in my life. Not to mention she is a knockout. We have chatted on line for several months, almost 4 times a week. She has given up talking to anyone else (I trust the fact that she pulled her profile down from CB that this is true). She told me about some guy she got to know who promised her the world and then when he got there, he had 6 women waiting on him, 2 that he already got pregnant. What a *******! I could imagine her trepidations with me. And personally, I was very leery of trusting her and taking her at face value. Luckily, she has family here in the states. I have come to know her cousin who married an American and now I talk to her and her husband. My girl is educated, smart, hard working and is not looking for a handout. She has never once asked me for a penny. Now that I feel totally comfortable, I am heading to the PI to meet her and decide if she is the one I want to spend my life with. I am not going over there to mess with her head, or to have sex. I will treat her as I would like to be treated. After hearing her story, I can understand why many of the women feel the way they do and take advantage of men. It's payback. Of course there are many owmen on CB who are out for one thing, MONEY. Steer clear of them unless you work out a mutual arangement. But if you are going to PI to monger, then stick with the pros. I think its not fair to mess with the head's of nice girls and destroy their self esteem and hurt them that way. Wish me luck.
Dude, I hope things turn out the way you want them. But, a few things I find odd here...
1) You think the world of this woman, but you haven't met her yet.
2) You think the world of this woman, but you don't plan to have sex with her. Huh?
3) You've heard her sob story and believe every word of it. You haven't done much reading at ISG, have you? (Let me take a wild guess....since she was treated so badly before, you've promised to visit the Philippines and see ONLY here. Am I right?)
Good luck,
X man
I am really glad to read this posting. I have been on CB for many years and never really met anyone that would make me want to settle down. Until now. I was so jaded due to the fact that I have dated a few Filipinas in the past. One who was brought here by her husband and dumped on her own. She took out her anger on me and made my life a living hell. I swore off the Pinays. Until I found that most American women were as bad if not worse. My ex-fiance tore my heart out and nearly cost me everything. So, it's not really where you look, but WHAT you are looking for. Let me preface by saying that if you have to go half way across the world just to get some or mess with some young woman's head, you have issues. I can't afford the karma, and I don't think anyone can. That being said, I gave CB another chance and was fortunate to find the nicest, sweetest, kindest most caring woman I have ever met in my life. Not to mention she is a knockout. We have chatted on line for several months, almost 4 times a week. She has given up talking to anyone else (I trust the fact that she pulled her profile down from CB that this is true). She told me about some guy she got to know who promised her the world and then when he got there, he had 6 women waiting on him, 2 that he already got pregnant. What a *******! I could imagine her trepidations with me. And personally, I was very leery of trusting her and taking her at face value. Luckily, she has family here in the states. I have come to know her cousin who married an American and now I talk to her and her husband. My girl is educated, smart, hard working and is not looking for a handout. She has never once asked me for a penny. Now that I feel totally comfortable, I am heading to the PI to meet her and decide if she is the one I want to spend my life with. I am not going over there to mess with her head, or to have sex. I will treat her as I would like to be treated. After hearing her story, I can understand why many of the women feel the way they do and take advantage of men. It's payback. Of course there are many owmen on CB who are out for one thing, MONEY. Steer clear of them unless you work out a mutual arangement. But if you are going to PI to monger, then stick with the pros. I think its not fair to mess with the head's of nice girls and destroy their self esteem and hurt them that way. Wish me luck.
GoodEnough
10-26-07, 12:03
Nyradio, I sincerely do wish you luck, but I understand X's cynicism. He's been here often enough to observe a lot of what I've observed by living here: there's often a vast difference between virtual reality and reality. The number of guys who have come here believing that "this one is different," who ignore every bit of advice from the expats living here who have seen it all before and then who get taken for everything they have is legion. This may not be the case here, and I hope for your sake that it is not, but given the context of the country, it just pays to be extremely cautious.
The only way I know of to even the odds is to stay for a long time; to live with the woman and really get to know her character day to day. Most guys of course do not have this kind of time, and so they rush to judgment--proposing, arranging visas, etc.--within a matter of a few weeks. For some it works. For most, it does not and to their chagrin and financial regret they find that the person they idealized is not in fact the person in whom they have invested. I am not trying the disparage your point of view, just trying to stress that in the case of the Philippines, slow is always better than fast.
There's a saying in French that goes: "Un homme averti en vaux deux," which more or less means that a man who has been warned is worth two men who have not been.
GE
That being said, I gave CB another chance and was fortunate to find the nicest, sweetest, kindest most caring woman I have ever met in my life. Not to mention she is a knockout. We have chatted on line for several months, almost 4 times a week. She has given up talking to anyone else (I trust the fact that she pulled her profile down from CB that this is true). She told me about some guy she got to know who promised her the world and then when he got there, he had 6 women waiting on him, 2 that he already got pregnant. What a *******! I could imagine her trepidations with me. And personally, I was very leery of trusting her and taking her at face value. Luckily, she has family here in the states. I have come to know her cousin who married an American and now I talk to her and her husband. My girl is educated, smart, hard working and is not looking for a handout. She has never once asked me for a penny. Now that I feel totally comfortable, I am heading to the PI to meet her and decide if she is the one I want to spend my life with. I am not going over there to mess with her head, or to have sex. I will treat her as I would like to be treated. There are a few gems out there. I was stationed on Okinawa in the mid-80 and made about 8 trips to Clark AB. I mongered the h*ll out of Angeles City. After returning to the states in 1986, I missed the Filipinas and consulted an introduction service. A friend had submitted her picture and bio. Long story short, we celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary this past July. She is smart, intelligent, loving and tolerates me. It was the smartest thing I ever did in my life. I love my wife madly and she still turns me on sexually. I can't keep my hands of her slim trim body. We have made a comfortable life together and I look forward to growing old with her.
Slim
Longhorn2000
10-26-07, 13:18
Good advice GoodEnough,
Against my better judgment, I wedded a woman from China who I never felt I got to spend enough time with beforehand, even though I made several 2 week trips over there while awaiting visa approval. A painful divorce was the inevitable result.
Even if you do get to spend substantial time with a Filipina getting to know her, you still have to keep your guard up. I met one here in the States last year, and embarked upon a torrid love affair that lasted nearly a year. She lived with me, we vacationed together, spent virtually every day together, etc. , etc. Then, one day out of the blue, she asked that I loan her $10, 000. When I asked why she needed it, I was given several inconsistent stories. When I said "no", she abruptly moved out and I never heard a word from her again. Last I heard, she's living with a guy 37 years older than her. I guess he came up with the cash.
Bilbo Baggins
10-26-07, 15:17
X Man I am intrigued I thought beards were a turn off for filipinas have things changed in these enlightened times?
Nyradio, there is an ancient Greek legend about filipinas except in those days they had a different name "Sirens" I've already been shipwrecked falling for 2 great Filipino ladies, oh well as soon as I fix the argonaut I'm heading back again because once you taste that fruit no other pleases, this time "sigh" I promise I'm going to avoid the exclusive commitment to just one, maybe.
835338 Here is a nice young lady on CB looking for a person to help her unfortunately I have let my paid membership lapse I can only look.
Hi to all,
I read your posts about Cb and signed into their site.
Im a bit bored here in my country so I decide to give it a try cause Im flying back to PI in a couple of weeks.
Viewing now the first page of PI woman and it makes me laugh...Either those gurls are dam ugly :D , or they camgurls or ladyboys....
Its weekend here so I dont mind to try this out.
While Im writing this I got 5 messages to chat with me, I decinded them all cause of the above reason.
I m gona post my experiance here......dam now an ugly ladyboy like to chat me LOL
Happy hunting
Blink
My First sample of Filipina pussy came from yahoo chat. We chatted it up for 3 months until I made my first trip to Manila. When I arrived I did not realize how popular I (or any westerner) would be in this place. Thank you Rose where ever you are for helping me discover that place.
Hi to all,
I read your posts about Cb and signed into their site.
Im a bit bored here in my country so I decide to give it a try cause Im flying back to PI in a couple of weeks.
Viewing now the first page of PI woman and it makes me laugh...Either those gurls are dam ugly :D , or they camgurls or ladyboys....
Its weekend here so I dont mind to try this out.
While Im writing this I got 5 messages to chat with me, I decinded them all cause of the above reason.
I m gona post my experiance here......dam now an ugly ladyboy like to chat me LOL
Happy hunting
Blink
Hi Blink! I will be interested to read your experiences.
Please post when you can.
Im one of those who patronises 'dating' websites. Because I prefer Asian women those are the ones I go to. I also like this because I find having sex with a woman I know & like is usually (but not always) sexier than a quick root with a prostitute whom i'll probably ever see again.
In order to weed out the girls just looking to get a wedding ring asap I go out of my way NOT to write misleading things in my profile or say anything to them that can be misinterpreted.
In other words I say Im looking for fun, friendship a little romance.
I do NOT insinuate or promise marriage. Im always honest that Im not gonna be available to them as much as they may like.
Still I get INUNDATED with emails & chat requests.
So I take my pick of them & followup. Sometimes Im disappointed often Im very pleasantly surprised.
You do NOT have to pretend to be a squeaky clean 'nice guy' looking for marriage.
*You do NOT have to bullshit girls to get a root*
Heres a couple of my present girls:
Ms C. 18, Human resources student in Manila. Met her in Manila after a few emails, looked much better than her pics (which were quite ok). Discussion of future plans - she does NOT want to think about marriage for 3 years until she has completed her studies. Happy to be a GF and indeed gave me her cherry enthusiastically. Personality? Total GFE. A real pleasure to be with in or out of bed. Maintenance? take her shopping/movies/restruants/disco etc when there, otherwise very little.
Ms V 18, Nursing Student in Manila.
Met her in Manila after a few emails, looked MUCH better than her pics (which were very ordinary). Discussion of future plans - she does NOT want to think about marriage for 3 years until she has completed her studies. Happy to be a GF and indeed also gave me her cherry enthusiastically.
Personality? An enigma, rarely txt's or emails, even when with her she is inscrutable. First time we bonked I was so surprised because she gave NOTHING away. Sa there saying little watching TV, i leaned over to place a peck on her cheek & WHAM! she was all over me. Nice memory..
Maintenance? take her shopping/movies/restruants/disco etc when there, otherwise very little.
Ms E 28, Nanny in Singapore.
Met her in Singapore after a few emails, looked MUCH better than her pics (which were very ordinary). Discussion of future plans - says she does NOT want to rush into marriage after previous pinoy husband dumped her. Happy to be a GF. Definitely was'nt cherry but according to her had not had a root for EIGHT years after hubby pissed off. She certainly acts like she has ad a long dry spell he he he. I suspect she is lying about not wanting marriage. My conscience is clear I told no lies.
Personality? Very GFE. A very pleasant way to stop over on my way to & from the Phils or Malaysia...
Maintenance? take her shopping/movies/restruants/disco etc when there, otherwise nothing at all.
Ms C 26, Nursing Student in Zamboanga. (Of all places)
First time we chatted she mentioned she liked to go bar hopping *Bingo!*
prettier than her internet pics. Discussion of future plans? Just wants to be friends, hints at wanting more but accepts my position on the subject (friends only). Personality? Acts like a nice girl but loves to let her hair down & get bad! Maintenance? Food & drink, a little shopping.
So you see there -are- horny beautiful girls on the sites who -dont- require you to bullshit & lie to them.
Happy mongering
Amavida
A lot of great posts on this subject. I especially liked Slim's comments.
As for Longhorn's story, I have a feeling she was going to dump him and that's why she asked for the money. If he gave the money to her, he would have lost her and the money. If he doesn't give the money, she has a reason to dump him. I'm just guessing of course -- maybe LH will elaborate.
Thanks Bilbo for the access number. I'll take a look when I get home from work.
X Man
Good advice GoodEnough,
Against my better judgment, I wedded a woman from China who I never felt I got to spend enough time with beforehand, even though I made several 2 week trips over there while awaiting visa approval. A painful divorce was the inevitable result.
Even if you do get to spend substantial time with a Filipina getting to know her, you still have to keep your guard up. I met one here in the States last year, and embarked upon a torrid love affair that lasted nearly a year. She lived with me, we vacationed together, spent virtually every day together, etc. , etc. Then, one day out of the blue, she asked that I loan her $10, 000. When I asked why she needed it, I was given several inconsistent stories. When I said "no", she abruptly moved out and I never heard a word from her again. Last I heard, she's living with a guy 37 years older than her. I guess he came up with the cash.
after living here for the last seven months, the reason i chat on-line and meet girls in the mall, is because i like the chase. i still go to the bar and bf sometimes, but there is nothing like chatting with a girl for a month, have her show up at your hotel and within one hour she is rocking your world, not because i paid her, because she wants too.
i met this girl on date in asia and she told me what she wanted and she did exactly what she said. true gfe and true to her word, she wants a relationship, but said that she understood that i wanted a friend. she still emails me and texts me, but no drama and wants to come back to my room now.
last time i was there was 2004 i thought i was going to get raped. my girl almost got into a fight with a chick in jollibees because she was flirting with me and she was not the only one.
Longhorn2000
10-27-07, 23:38
Xman,
As usual, you are spot on. I have no doubt that she was going to dump me anyway. The sex had dwindled at that point from the 3 times a day we were doing in the beginning to once a week if I was lucky. No doubt I would have lost the $10, 000 and her simultaneously, with no return on such a massive investment. When I asked her why she was leaving me, she told me that she expects her boyfriend to give her everything she wants, which must include requests for $10, 000. Two weeks later, she requested that I buy her a $1200 Louis Vuitton purse. That request was also denied.
It still hurts like hell, but the bottom line is I got fantastic sex multiple times a day for a fairly decent period of time, with a minimal cash outlay, so I can't complain too much. She simply changed the rules of the game, and I elected not to play by them.
Frequent Flier
10-28-07, 17:05
Hi to all,
I read your posts about Cb and signed into their site.
Im a bit bored here in my country so I decide to give it a try cause Im flying back to PI in a couple of weeks.
Viewing now the first page of PI woman and it makes me laugh...Either those gurls are dam ugly :D , or they camgurls or ladyboys....
Its weekend here so I dont mind to try this out.
While Im writing this I got 5 messages to chat with me, I decinded them all cause of the above reason.
I m gona post my experiance here......dam now an ugly ladyboy like to chat me LOL
Happy hunting
Blink
I used to get so many invites to chat and messages on CB that it was difficult to even browse, much less try to chat with a girl on CB, so as a test I put in my profile the following. "For all those who post fake pictures in the hopes of communicating and getting money, you can move on, I have traveled all over Asia and I know all the tricks. So do not waste your time or mine."
It cut down the number of invites and messages by at least 80%. Before I put that text on my profile I would send an invite to a pretty picture on CB and would always get a response, now i get a response from only about 10% of the hot pictures. of course this is not a scientific test, but I do not think we need a scientific test when dealing with the Philippine scam artist.
my 2 peso worth.
FF
Xman,
As usual, you are spot on. I have no doubt that she was going to dump me anyway. The sex had dwindled at that point from the 3 times a day we were doing in the beginning to once a week if I was lucky. No doubt I would have lost the $10, 000 and her simultaneously, with no return on such a massive investment. When I asked her why she was leaving me, she told me that she expects her boyfriend to give her everything she wants, which must include requests for $10, 000. Two weeks later, she requested that I buy her a $1200 Louis Vuitton purse. That request was also denied.
It still hurts like hell, but the bottom line is I got fantastic sex multiple times a day for a fairly decent period of time, with a minimal cash outlay, so I can't complain too much. She simply changed the rules of the game, and I elected not to play by them.
I don’t know what it is about Filipinas, money and extravagant gifts. I was dating a Filipina back in 04 from Quezon City who was [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) poor but when ever I gave her money she would go and waste it on things like jewelry and other immaterial things. Now currently dating a Filipina in Tokyo who shows this same behavior though she has a decent job it’s not uncommon for her to go buy $300 shades or a $1400 necklace. Why?
I have a Filipina friend in Dubai who is married back in the PI but has requested items from me such as jewelry and a house and lot. When ever I respond with “Whom I think your husband should be buying that” she gets angry. Last but not least I have a buddy making good money who picked up a Filipina from Manila who was living in California the last 6 years. She does nothing but he buys her everything and she brags about it. Shes a former Shabu addict ( brags about that too) I just don’t get this obsessions with asking for large dough or expensive items when you really can’t afford them or pay back borrowed money.
OptimusPrime
10-28-07, 23:20
Dude,
You are a cherry hunter, plain and simple. Don't rationalize your actions and say you never promised anything and they just fell in love with you over the net. Filpinas don't just enthusiastically give up their cherry on a whim. If they do, then they are not really cherry. If they did, then I presume they are just dogs (as most CB girls are) and feel they just needed to get it over with. You also have to understand the duplicity of Filipino communication. She may say one thing to prevent losing face but she will give you plenty of other cues that she means something else.
Get over yourself.
GoodEnough
10-29-07, 04:38
This is a characteristic of Filipinas that I've never understood, and after having lived here for 5 years or so I still do not understand it. The concept of deferred gratification simply does not exist for most Filipinas or Filipinos for that matter. I think it may be related to the culture of poverty that imbues the whole country with a kind of fatalism, of the sort that encourages short-term thinking. The national credo almost seems to be: "I have no idea what tomorrow will bring, but it probably won't be anything good and who knows if I'll have money then? Therefore I need to satisfy myself immediately." I've said more than once that a Filipinos idea of a long term plan is deciding at breakfast what he might like to have for lunch. It sounds a bit cruel, but it's more often than not true.
This may also be somewhat of a function of socio-economic status and educational status as well. My middle class, educated Filipino friends do not seem to adhere to this norm.
GE
Frequent Flier
10-29-07, 08:14
This is a characteristic of Filipinas that I've never understood, and after having lived here for 5 years or so I still do not understand it. The concept of deferred gratification simply does not exist for most Filipinas or Filipinos for that matter. I think it may be related to the culture of poverty that imbues the whole country with a kind of fatalism, of the sort that encourages short-term thinking. The national credo almost seems to be: "I have no idea what tomorrow will bring, but it probably won't be anything good and who knows if I'll have money then? Therefore I need to satisfy myself immediately." I've said more than once that a Filipinos idea of a long term plan is deciding at breakfast what he might like to have for lunch. It sounds a bit cruel, but it's more often than not true.
This may also be somewhat of a function of socio-economic status and educational status as well. My middle class, educated Filipino friends do not seem to adhere to this norm.
GE
Could be it is another American influence on the Philippines here. This is very similar to the instant gratification situation in the USA. Difference in the USA is that the government props up too many families here and the availability of credit here is staggering.
Not many people in the USA save even a dime, we are just a wealthier nation.
I love the health care debate here in the USA. They go on and on about families not being able to afford health care when the truth is they choose not to buy health care and instead buy lottery tickets, eat out every night of the week, buy a car that is way over their ability to afford and then let the children go without insurance. I saw a relative do this. I could not believe it.
FF
Wicked Roger
10-29-07, 08:23
This is a characteristic of Filipinas that I've never understood, and after having lived here for 5 years or so I still do not understand it. The concept of deferred gratification simply does not exist for most Filipinas or Filipinos for that matter. I think it may be related to the culture of poverty that imbues the whole country with a kind of fatalism, of the sort that encourages short-term thinking. The national credo almost seems to be: "I have no idea what tomorrow will bring, but it probably won't be anything good and who knows if I'll have money then? Therefore I need to satisfy myself immediately." I've said more than once that a Filipinos idea of a long term plan is deciding at breakfast what he might like to have for lunch. It sounds a bit cruel, but it's more often than not true.
This may also be somewhat of a function of socio-economic status and educational status as well. My middle class, educated Filipino friends do not seem to adhere to this norm.
GE
GE
I tend to agree with you. The reason many will take instant presents and spend immediately is they have something to pawn later in life when you are not there and they need cash for the family. And/or they like the baubles etc so they can show off to friends.
Have seen this here in the UAE many times. I actually advise them to go to the local exchange houses and set up pesos account in Philippines so they have something for later when they return (even tell them which places to go and which banks) but few listen and act on that advice.
But generally the poorer educated/lower socio economic class etc the more likely they acquire baubles immediately etc.
Dude,
You are a cherry hunter, plain and simple. Don't rationalize your actions and say you never promised anything and they just fell in love with you over the net. Filpinas don't just enthusiastically give up their cherry on a whim. If they do, then they are not really cherry. If they did, then I presume they are just dogs (as most CB girls are) and feel they just needed to get it over with. You also have to understand the duplicity of Filipino communication. She may say one thing to prevent losing face but she will give you plenty of other cues that she means something else.
Get over yourself.
I disagree.
Firstly i do not go looking for cherry girls, it just so happens that younger women are more likely to be cherry still. Younger women are more likely to want a bf only and not a husband which suits me just fine as i have no intention of settling down yet. I go out of my way to avoid the husband hunters & find the women who just want a bf. As an example, Ms C the HR student stated on her profile "I would like a nice boy friend" and when questioned about her views on marriage stated clearly & unequivocally "I dont want to get think about marriage until im finished my studies". Jeez how clear does she have to be dude?
Secondly, having sex with a cherry is bloody tedious and no real fun until they have learned the ropes of adult love making/sex. Not my idea of fun but i mention the cherry status only in passing to indicate that not all women on the dating sites are blushing 'good girls' saving it for their future husband.
if anything my relationships with gf's are more akin to a sugardaddy situation where the girls enjoys hanging out with a (relatively) wealthy bf & the bf enjoys their company.
My gf status waxes & wanes depending on chance & how busy I am. there are times when i have no gf & other times like now when i end up with several nice women to share my time with.
I do not accept the position that ALL pinoy women are victims just innocently looking for marriage. Dude, I can tell you first hand that there ARE plenty of girls who want a more casual relationship.
One final thought, gf reltaionships don't remain static, often the younger women outgrow the relationship & want to move on as is normal part of growing & maturing. The formerly cherry girls once liberated from their virgin status desire to participate & explore adult sexuality with other partners.
Im not gonna take offense at your post, you have the right to your opinions, thanks for giving a right of reply.
Happy mongering
Amavida
First of all, what does amavida mean? You too OP?
OP, read your post and your thoughts pretty much meshed with mine. Walking away from a virgin is pretty easy to do. But then you say most CB girls are below par....
That's kind of insulting to those of us who use CB ( I recently subscribed for a second round) and is a red herring as well. Most women in any society or subsection of society are under par -- at least at some level. You're being insulting and disingenuous at the same time.
I'll agree with OP on the basic premise that shagging a virgin is bloody stupid (pun intended). Amavida has a very good comeback.
Neverhtheless Amavida, why you doing virgins? Do you think you're doing them a favor? You seem like a pretty articulate guy, but I understand if you don't want to answer. Or better yet, give the short answer here and the long answer to my pm.
Somehow I think that teenagers getting it on is the best way for teenagers to lose their virginity and learn about sexuality
If my teen-son was done by a generous middle-aged woman I would worry about his new perspective.
I disagree.
Firstly i do not go looking for cherry girls, it just so happens that younger women are more likely to be cherry still. Younger women are more likely to want a bf only and not a husband which suits me just fine as i have no intention of settling down yet. I go out of my way to avoid the husband hunters & find the women who just want a bf. As an example, Ms C the HR student stated on her profile "I would like a nice boy friend" and when questioned about her views on marriage stated clearly & unequivocally "I dont want to get think about marriage until im finished my studies". Jeez how clear does she have to be dude?
Secondly, having sex with a cherry is bloody tedious and no real fun until they have learned the ropes of adult love making/sex. Not my idea of fun but i mention the cherry status only in passing to indicate that not all women on the dating sites are blushing 'good girls' saving it for their future husband.
if anything my relationships with gf's are more akin to a sugardaddy situation where the girls enjoys hanging out with a (relatively) wealthy bf & the bf enjoys their company.
My gf status waxes & wanes depending on chance & how busy I am. there are times when i have no gf & other times like now when i end up with several nice women to share my time with.
I do not accept the position that ALL pinoy women are victims just innocently looking for marriage. Dude, I can tell you first hand that there ARE plenty of girls who want a more casual relationship.
One final thought, gf reltaionships don't remain static, often the younger women outgrow the relationship & want to move on as is normal part of growing & maturing. The formerly cherry girls once liberated from their virgin status desire to participate & explore adult sexuality with other partners.
Im not gonna take offense at your post, you have the right to your opinions, thanks for giving a right of reply.
Happy mongering
Amavida
Oh, been waiting for this moment.
CB girl tells me that her profile is "unavailble" because she has dedicated herself to me.
C00549356
I may have told her that I plan to visit the Philippines in December, but I have not made any promises, nor have I asked her to make herself exclusive to me. In fact, I do not have the any intent to visit her in that part of Mindanao.
So, if anyone here has CB subscription, please send her a quick message. I'm sure she'll be polite and respond. Nevertheless, I'd love to see how "unavailable" she is. (common sense, but please be polite....no one knows her situation)
X Man
X Man
First of all, what does amavida mean? You too OP?
OP, read your post and your thoughts pretty much meshed with mine. Walking away from a virgin is pretty easy to do. But then you say most CB girls are below par....
That's kind of insulting to those of us who use CB ( I recently subscribed for a second round) and is a red herring as well. Most women in any society or subsection of society are under par -- at least at some level. You're being insulting and disingenuous at the same time.
I'll agree with OP on the basic premise that shagging a virgin is bloody stupid (pun intended). Amavida has a very good comeback.
Neverhtheless Amavida, why you doing virgins? Do you think you're doing them a favor? You seem like a pretty articulate guy, but I understand if you don't want to answer. Or better yet, give the short answer here and the long answer to my pm.
Somehow I think that teenagers getting it on is the best way for teenagers to lose their virginity and learn about sexuality
If my teen-son was done by a generous middle-aged woman I would worry about his new perspective.
First of all you're ASSUMING I set out to shag virgins...
HELLO! does anyone on a dating site ask 'uh by the way are you a virgin?'. No of course not!
Most of my previous sexual partners have not been & I do not seek them.
Sometimes when in you're in bed with a girl it becomes apparent or they bring up the subject, then what am supposed to do? Tell them to get lost & kick them out?
In fact there have been rare occurrences in the past when it became apparent that a partner was 'inexperienced' & I did ease out of the relationship before getting to the stage of being in bed. Other times a girl is coming on to you passionately in bed & you're both hot for each other & then 'oh oh' she's a virgin goes through your mind but she pushes on willingly anyway.
It just so happens that two of several women I met recently turned out to be cherry & both were enthusiastic about changing that status with NO coercion from me.
Its nice that a partner feels safe to share that level of intimacy with you but as I said its really not fun for a normal man... very long tedious session. In fact the whole session is about HER, usually a virgin gives no thought to the mans pleasure because, lets face it she does'nt know how & is preoccupied with what's happening to HER. I enjoy mutual pleasure, which is another reason I find hooker sex less satisfying. Nothing great about having fake sex with a hooker.
I understand there are some guys that have a predilection for this 'cherry hunting' but I don't get what they see in it. I think guys that seek out the experinence of 'taking a girls cherry' have issues. Look at the prices paid by Korean tourists in PI for this dubious pleasure... I wonder how they get any gratification out of rushing through an hour of painful intercourse with an inexperienced girl....
its coincidental that I have had sex with a couple of (very nice) cherry girls recently. For the last time I dont seek them out. I do enjoy dating filippina women & confine myself to GF type relationships, no usband hunters for me thanks!
Happy mongering
Amavida
GoodEnough
10-29-07, 13:28
Could be it is another American influence on the Philippines here. This is very similar to the instant gratification situation in the USA. Difference in the USA is that the government props up too many families here and the availability of credit here is staggering.
Not many people in the USA save even a dime, we are just a wealthier nation.
I love the health care debate here in the USA. They go on and on about families not being able to afford health care when the truth is they choose not to buy health care and instead buy lottery tickets, eat out every night of the week, buy a car that is way over their ability to afford and then let the children go without insurance. I saw a relative do this. I could not believe it.
FF
FF, I don't want to get into some tedious liberal/conservative debate on the merits of universal health care in that I doubt you and I would ever agree, and it's way off topic to this forum at any rate. I would point out however, that the US is the only developed country in the world without universal health care which ought to provide some indication of the strength of America's social compact in relation to other countries. Certainly you would not advocate, I assume, denying health care to the children of poor families? Children who bear no responsibility at all for the (alleged) profligacy of their parents?
I apologize for getting so far off topic here.
GE
Earlier...Amavida writes....
"it just so happens that younger women are more likely to be cherry "
So, can I assume you target "younger women"? You sound like an intelligent guy, so I assumed you don't need to tell us that younger women are more likely to be virgin. I assume the message is that you're corresponding with younger women because you like younger women. We all know that, to a certain degree, they could be more "likely to be cherry", so I assume you're not trying to belittle our intelligence.
I'm using your words above, but to be honest I don't ASSUME (your capital letters) anything about the situation. And I certainly don't ask " 'uh by the way are you a virgin?"
But I do find out one way or the other. For example, "Where's your boyfriend tonight?" Usual respons is somewhere along the lines of "he's gone". If it's too vauge, I ask in a joking way, "OH, still innocent?"
And to be fair, I have found myself, much to my own surprise, much too intimate with a woman who was (or claimed to be) a virgin. In those cases, she ended up an experienced woman by the end of the episode -- most often by admitting she was exagerrating in the first place.
X man
[QUOTE=Amavida]First of all you're ASSUMING I set out to shag virgins...
HELLO! does anyone on a dating site ask 'uh by the way are you a virgin?'. No of course not!
Earlier...Amavida writes....
"it just so happens that younger women are more likely to be cherry "
So, can I assume you target "younger women"? You sound like an intelligent guy, so I assumed you don't need to tell us that younger women are more likely to be virgin. I assume the message is that you're corresponding with younger women because you like younger women. We all know that, to a certain degree, they could be more "likely to be cherry", so I assume you're not trying to belittle our intelligence.
I'm using your words above, but to be honest I don't ASSUME (your capital letters) anything about the situation. And I certainly don't ask " 'uh by the way are you a virgin?"
But I do find out one way or the other. For example, "Where's your boyfriend tonight?" Usual respons is somewhere along the lines of "he's gone". If it's too vauge, I ask in a joking way, "OH, still innocent?"
And to be fair, I have found myself, much to my own surprise, much too intimate with a woman who was (or claimed to be) a virgin. In those cases, she ended up an experienced woman by the end of the episode -- most often by admitting she was exagerrating in the first place.
X man
[QUOTE=Amavida]First of all you're ASSUMING I set out to shag virgins...
HELLO! does anyone on a dating site ask 'uh by the way are you a virgin?'. No of course not!
I think you are being argumentative for the sake of it.
I date younger women because they are less likely to be husband hunting & more likely to be looking for a casual relationship.
I have good success because I'm young, good looking & honest about wanting a casual relationship.
Think what you like.
Im going to ignore this thread, its been done to death by you.
Happy mongering
Amavida
OptimusPrime
10-29-07, 15:56
Amavida:
You consider yourself a good looking guy by whose standarad? A deseperate Filipina? Cmon, you even said yourself you are a middle aged bald guy with a beard. Sure, Filpinas dream all day about scoring a guy like that. Not saying it's easy to shage Filipinas meeting them over the net, it's easy. Some of them are camgirls that will not tell you about it and some are hooking on the side. Some are normal girls and some are experienced girls claiming to be cherry.
On the other side of the coin, these girls say they are looking for a bf so I assume you are giving them some sort of promises that it might happen. For a Filipina, "I am looking for a bf" translates to "I am looking for some fun and a guy who will sponsor me and send money Western Union". I am assuming that you are sending these girls cash before you get there to grease the wheels a bit. I still find it amazing that guys send money to girls they never met in person. Lastly, any girl willing to give up there cherry to a guy that promises them zero is probably a girl so unattractive that even local guys won't fuck them after drinking 10 Red Horse's. If that is the case, then you are likely 100% telling us the truth. She is giving up her cherry because its likely nobody else wants it and she isn't getting any younger.
OptimusPrime
10-29-07, 18:22
I mixed up Amavida with another guy but I still doubt the guy is good looking as stated or he wouldnt be going all the way to Phils to bang girls.
Somehow I think that teenagers getting it on is the best way for teenagers to lose their virginity and learn about sexuality.I agree 100% with you X Man. Now, IMHO...I have talked to no less then 100 Filipinas in the last seven months on this subject. I would say that 60% of them had at least one baby and some had two. When I asked, "Who is the father?" each one replied, "My first true Filipino love". When I asked if they knew of safe sex (condoms) when they got pregnant they replied, "No!”. Most told me that if a girl is from the province and she is cherry, it is considered a sin to mention sex. One girl said that her mom told her that now she had her period that she should stay away from men. She said that she kept asking her mom why, but her mom wouldn't tell her. Most of the girls told me that they didn't know that they would get pregnant from having sex. If you have spent any time in the Philippines, then you know how many girls get pregnant and the guy runs away and they end up in the bar to support their baby.
I am leaving the Philippines in a week :mad: after living/working here for 7 months. Good news is, I think that I have a new job here starting in Feb 08:cool:
When I return home, I will have time to post many photos and reports from my time here.
Stay safe,
Robb
Luvulooongtime
10-30-07, 00:59
Gentlemen,
Luvulooongtime here. According to my relatives not many girls are virgins anymore. LOL. Even in the province. I scored with a few "nice" girls 22 years and younger and they were not inexperienced; ). So I think this cherry girl debate bit academic. My understanding is that premarital sex is common now. I did go with a virgin to Baguio once, will never do it again, she was nice but frigid, or at least to me; ) My cousins set me up with her because they knew she was "marriageable". Personally, there is no thrill to deflower a young maiden unless she is hot, and she is hot for me. Luvulooongtime
PS. I enjoy reading the moralist arguments of whorists like us. The irony is so?
Amavida:
You consider yourself a good looking guy by whose standarad? A deseperate Filipina? Cmon, you even said yourself you are a middle aged bald guy with a beard. Sure, Filpinas dream all day about scoring a guy like that. Not saying it's easy to shage Filipinas meeting them over the net, it's easy. Some of them are camgirls that will not tell you about it and some are hooking on the side. Some are normal girls and some are experienced girls claiming to be cherry.
On the other side of the coin, these girls say they are looking for a bf so I assume you are giving them some sort of promises that it might happen. For a Filipina, "I am looking for a bf" translates to "I am looking for some fun and a guy who will sponsor me and send money Western Union". I am assuming that you are sending these girls cash before you get there to grease the wheels a bit. I still find it amazing that guys send money to girls they never met in person. Lastly, any girl willing to give up there cherry to a guy that promises them zero is probably a girl so unattractive that even local guys won't fuck them after drinking 10 Red Horse's. If that is the case, then you are likely 100% telling us the truth. She is giving up her cherry because its likely nobody else wants it and she isn't getting any younger.
Against my better judgement Im responding one last time...
You and Xman are making A LOT of assumptions about me & then criticising me based on those assumptions.
Believe it or not the women I date are not naive vulnerable poor girls from the province. ( a subject you both seem to be very knowledgeable about.. ahem) The women I date are sophisticated (by PI standards), educated, financially stable & attractive who live in the big city. They are the ones who have choices.
Do I detect a whiff of jealousy here?
It disgusts me to walk around the phils & see fat ugly old foreigners dragging around tiny young province women. I know these young women are out of options. They are prostituting themselves out of sense of overwhelming sense of debt to their families (utang na loob). I dont usually say anything because in thirty years time I'll be a fat old guy too (maybe).
Enough already!
Happy mongering
Amavida
OptimusPrime
10-30-07, 05:13
I am not one of those old fat guys, I am relatively young at 34 and I like mongering for the sheer fun of it but I see lots of delusional guys who think they are better looking than reality. If you were truly a good looking guy, you wouldn't be flying half way around the world for poontang, you would be getting it for free in your own backyard. Plenty of Pinay no matter where you are in the world. Charm is a relative term in the PI as the girls are sweet but dumb as rocks. Zero challenge to find regular girls Try doing that in Thailand or Jakarta where the girls are hotter and smarter.
Has someone been taking potshots at me when I wasn't here?
In my much earlier post, the one labeled as argumentive, I clearly showed why Amavida's words led me to some assumptions. He never clearly showed me what assumption was false. And I challenge anyone to find a point where I "criticized" this guy. I was just trying to enjoy a good debate.
And then after he provides his weak arguements, he ends up with "we must be jealous". Well, that kind of statement just reinforces some of my "assumptions" which is he targets virgins and then is proud of his, ummm, achievements. And since the ladies detect this, in fact already expect it from the Pinoys, they tell him what he wants to hear. I suspect all that virgin blood that AV spilled was just a monthly period.
And now we hear that he hates "fat old ugly foreigners" who date young Filipina. Since I'm the only one who clarifed things about my appearance, I'll assume that was pointed toward me. I regularly date women 15 years younger than me here in the first world country I live in, so who is making the wrong assumptions?
Anyway, can we get back to conversation about chat girls?
X Man
Against my better judgement Im responding one last time...
You and Xman are making A LOT of assumptions about me & then criticising me based on those assumptions.
Believe it or not the women I date are not naive vulnerable poor girls from the province. ( a subject you both seem to be very knowledgeable about.. ahem) The women I date are sophisticated (by PI standards), educated, financially stable & attractive who live in the big city. They are the ones who have choices.
Do I detect a whiff of jealousy here?
It disgusts me to walk around the phils & see fat ugly old foreigners dragging around tiny young province women. I know these young women are out of options. They are prostituting themselves out of sense of overwhelming sense of debt to their families (utang na loob). I dont usually say anything because in thirty years time I'll be a fat old guy too (maybe).
Enough already!
Happy mongering
Amavida
I am not one of those old fat guys, I am relatively young at 34 and I like mongering for the sheer fun of it but I see lots of delusional guys who think they are better looking than reality. If you were truly a good looking guy, you wouldn't be flying half way around the world for poontang, you would be getting it for free in your own backyard. Plenty of Pinay no matter where you are in the world. Charm is a relative term in the PI as the girls are sweet but dumb as rocks. Zero challenge to find regular girls Try doing that in Thailand or Jakarta where the girls are hotter and smarter.
Once again you're making assumptions about someone you never met & then criticising me based on your assumptions...
Oh behave will you!
Why so grouchy?
BTW I have fucked women in every country of Asia & also in my home country. Since I have a business in PI Im there a lot & so thats where I have most gf's....
Happy mongering
Amavida
Gentlemen,
Luvulooongtime here. According to my relatives not many girls are virgins anymore. LOL. Even in the province. I scored with a few "nice" girls 22 years and younger and they were not inexperienced; ). So I think this cherry girl debate bit academic. My understanding is that premarital sex is common now. I did go with a virgin to Baguio once, will never do it again, she was nice but frigid, or at least to me; ) My cousins set me up with her because they knew she was "marriageable". Personally, there is no thrill to deflower a young maiden unless she is hot, and she is hot for me. Luvulooongtime
PS. I enjoy reading the moralist arguments of whorists like us. The irony is so?
he he he :) the irony is not lost on me either LL!
Happy mongering
Amavida
I went back and read a few posts just in case I had COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN something. Below is what I wrote and then what Amavida wrote. So this is the scenario, he brags about doing virgins and I ask him why he does virgins (while pointing out that I avoid them). He then goes into a little snit fit. Every time I try to debate him on his own quotes and points, he gets a little more illogical with his arguements. And now he's up to underhanded insults.
And LUV, what are you on about when you write: "PS. I enjoy reading the moralist arguments of whorists like us. The irony is so?" The only thing I read here that is even close to some moral "arguement" is the part below which I preceded by asterisks. Is that what you are referring to?
I'm impressed!
X wrote: Neverhtheless Amavida, why you doing virgins? Do you think you're doing them a favor? You seem like a pretty articulate guy, but I understand if you don't want to answer. Or better yet, give the short answer here and the long answer to my pm.
***Somehow I think that teenagers getting it on is the best way for teenagers to lose their virginity and learn about sexuality
If my teen-son was done by a generous middle-aged woman I would worry about his new perspective.
Amavida wrote: First of all you're ASSUMING I set out to shag virgins...
HELLO! does anyone on a dating site ask 'uh by the way are you a virgin?'. No of course not!
Has anyone tried?
CB girl tells me that her profile is "unavailble" because she has dedicated herself to me.
C00549356
I may have told her that I plan to visit the Philippines in December, but I have not made any promises, nor have I asked her to make herself exclusive to me. In fact, I do not have the any intent to visit her in that part of Mindanao.
So, if anyone here has CB subscription, please send her a quick message. I'm sure she'll be polite and respond. Nevertheless, I'd love to see how "unavailable" she is. (common sense, but please be polite....no one knows her situation)
X Man
Wicked Roger
10-30-07, 16:34
Has anyone tried?
CB girl tells me that her profile is "unavailble" because she has dedicated herself to me.
C00549356
I may have told her that I plan to visit the Philippines in December, but I have not made any promises, nor have I asked her to make herself exclusive to me. In fact, I do not have the any intent to visit her in that part of Mindanao.
So, if anyone here has CB subscription, please send her a quick message. I'm sure she'll be polite and respond. Nevertheless, I'd love to see how "unavailable" she is. (common sense, but please be polite....no one knows her situation)
X Man
Hi X Man
Done this and I was nice and polite. Maybe she has found another guy...shock and horror :D
As for the ongoing chat re virgins et al....who cares, each to their pussy type. I like a mix but find the cherries bit too demanding on time and effort at times but still nice and tight :)
My cherries are all CB girls naturally or those I find working in the hotels I stay at or malls.
As for the FR regarding the girls not knowing abiut condoms, getting pregnant, I think that is fair comment IMHO, have had similar chats with ladies and am amazed sometimes. Many also have kids...
Will let you know if C00549356 replies X Man
Luvulooongtime
10-30-07, 16:54
Relax X, I was NOT taking a shot at you or any one else! I just think the tenor of this whole cat fight is ironic and funny! Egads! Foreign men taking the cherries and advantage of poor innocent pinays! I am shocked! No honorable whorist should do such a thing. LOL. Its all a joke X.
P.S. Just to avoid an attack, I would not personally find a virgin and make promises I knew I could not keep just to be the first one in; ). Its bad form for a gentleman. Besides why go for virgins when you can get regular hotties with minimal effort. P.S. P.S. In order for you gentlemen to properly judge my opinions here is how I describe myself: I have been called handsome and ugly. LOL. I am six-foot tall, athletic build and in terrific shape (I practice evolutionary fitness) and look ten years younger than my actual 48 years. I still have most of my hair. I am a ligjht skinned meztiso. I am a trial lawyer. My face is pocked marked and I have a big nose and I am blind in one eye. Some women in U. S. Think I am hot, some not. Immodestly I would say I am quick witted and can be charming. But when I get off the plane in Aquino airport in Manila I turn into Brad Pitt and Keanu Reeves. LOL. And remember, gentlemen, be she a virgin/good girl, *****, hottie, bakla, shemale, whaterver, like my late uncle the mayor and noted womanizer told me years ago. "They just want your money". LOL. Tally Ho, Gentlemen
Luvulooongtime
Thanks WR,
As for the cherry debate, I meant for it to be an intellectual debate on the merits and demerits of deflowering. :-) It's sad that someone had to take it personally and turn it into a tit for tat exchange.
For the record I have two cherries on my belt in Asia, but neither of them were Filipina.
As for Filipina cherry, I've walked away from several. There was one in Cebu who was 22, and when I told the story to an ex-bar-girl friend, she rolled her eyes and implied "how could you fall for the oldest trick in the book.". I thought about what she said, called the so-called cherry girl, got her into my room and sure enough, she fessed up. Screwed her all night and then spent the next two days with her at Panglao.
Not all is what it seems....
X
Hi X Man
As for the ongoing chat re virgins et al....who cares, each to their pussy type. I like a mix but find the cherries bit too demanding on time and effort at times but still nice and tight :)
My cherries are all CB girls naturally or those I find working in the hotels I stay at or malls.
Will let you know if C00549356 replies X Man
Chats in neglige
CB 858273
I went back and read a few posts just in case I had COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN something. Below is what I wrote and then what Amavida wrote. So this is the scenario, he brags about doing virgins and I ask him why he does virgins (while pointing out that I avoid them). He then goes into a little snit fit. Every time I try to debate him on his own quotes and points, he gets a little more illogical with his arguements. And now he's up to underhanded insults.
And LUV, what are you on about when you write: "PS. I enjoy reading the moralist arguments of whorists like us. The irony is so?" The only thing I read here that is even close to some moral "arguement" is the part below which I preceded by asterisks. Is that what you are referring to?
I'm impressed!
X wrote: Neverhtheless Amavida, why you doing virgins? Do you think you're doing them a favor? You seem like a pretty articulate guy, but I understand if you don't want to answer. Or better yet, give the short answer here and the long answer to my pm.
***Somehow I think that teenagers getting it on is the best way for teenagers to lose their virginity and learn about sexuality
If my teen-son was done by a generous middle-aged woman I would worry about his new perspective.
Amavida wrote: First of all you're ASSUMING I set out to shag virgins...
HELLO! does anyone on a dating site ask 'uh by the way are you a virgin?'. No of course not!
Wow... so much anger...
For the record, I visit the Phils to supervise my business activities there every 6 - 8 weeks. Before arriving I arrange to date some girls I have met online via dating web sites. Often we have consensual sex (gasp). Sometimes the girls turn out to be cherry (gasp). I take each case on its merits, sometimes I have consensual sex with a cherry girl (gsap) sometimes not. Depends on if the vibe is right. Certainly dont go looking for cherry girls, but wont knock it back if she really wants it.
Couple of points :
* This is Asia, dont make the mistake of viewing what goes on here the same as your own culture.
* When a Filippina woman decides to lose her cherry status she goes about it with a purpose. I nor any one else has to 'con' their way into their pants. If they decide to do you they will.
* Premarital sex is common in the Phils these days despite the blushing good girl persona that their society still demands.
* Knowledge of contraception is still appallingly low in the Phils. Girls fuck first & ask questions later.
The fact that I did 2 cherry girls on my last visit was not really intended to be a boast, its unusual for me to get laid by a cherry girl & remarkable to be done by 2 in one visit.
We are all brothers in arms here, Im having a good run at the moment, be happy for me ok? :)
Happy mongering
Amavida
And as for your first, third and fourth points, why are you explaining things that are so completely obvious to everyone here? Why do you post in such a condescending way? I've lived most of my adult life in Asia, so I don't need you to offer "culture" lessons.
As for your second point, it sounds exactly like something I just read at Dragonslayer's forum. I don't doubt that it's true. If you'd responded to my first post in a level-headed and forthcoming way, we might have had a meaningful exchange without all the bickering.
And lastly, I would like to get back to the topic of this thread. Here is CB 643386. She looks much better than the picture indicates. This lady stops traffic with plunging necklines and high heals that make her look taller than she already is. She claims to be a virgin, and maybe she is.
Wow... so much anger...
For the record, I visit the Phils to supervise my business activities there every 6 - 8 weeks. Before arriving I arrange to date some girls I have met online via dating web sites. Often we have consensual sex (gasp). Sometimes the girls turn out to be cherry (gasp). I take each case on its merits, sometimes I have consensual sex with a cherry girl (gsap) sometimes not. Depends on if the vibe is right. Certainly dont go looking for cherry girls, but wont knock it back if she really wants it.
Couple of points :
* This is Asia, dont make the mistake of viewing what goes on here the same as your own culture.
* When a Filippina woman decides to lose her cherry status she goes about it with a purpose. I nor any one else has to 'con' their way into their pants. If they decide to do you they will.
* Premarital sex is common in the Phils these days despite the blushing good girl persona that their society still demands.
* Knowledge of contraception is still appallingly low in the Phils. Girls fuck first & ask questions later.
The fact that I did 2 cherry girls on my last visit was not really intended to be a boast, its unusual for me to get laid by a cherry girl & remarkable to be done by 2 in one visit.
We are all brothers in arms here, Im having a good run at the moment, be happy for me ok? :)
Happy mongering
Amavida
And as for your first, third and fourth points, why are you explaining things that are so completely obvious to everyone here? Why do you post in such a condescending way? I've lived most of my adult life in Asia, so I don't need you to offer "culture" lessons.
As for your second point, it sounds exactly like something I just read at Dragonslayer's forum. I don't doubt that it's true. If you'd responded to my first post in a level-headed and forthcoming way, we might have had a meaningful exchange without all the bickering.
And lastly, I would like to get back to the topic of this thread. Here is CB 643386. She looks much better than the picture indicates. This lady stops traffic with plunging necklines and high heals that make her look taller than she already is. She claims to be a virgin, and maybe she is.
Xman - peace brother ok?
Bilbo Baggins
10-31-07, 05:46
Here is CB 643386. She looks much better than the picture indicates. This lady stops traffic with plunging necklines and high heals that make her look taller than she already is. She claims to be a virgin, and maybe she is.I checked out her profile and this worries me she might be high maintenance? "I need some1 who can takecare of me..Who will spoil me.." Now, if she was offering the other way around....
BB I don't rememer if that was on her profile before I met her. It may have been, she was fairly low on my list of women to see. I didn't have any problems, but l didn't spend much time with her. Nevertheless....
She was telling me she had to lose a few kilos before an upcoming beauty contest. Later she gets a phone call (on her expensive looking phone). It was some guy wanting to buy her a gown for the contest...probably the same guy who bought the phone. In the same conversation (I was trying not to eavesdrop, but we were in my room at the time) she says, "See you next month...." I figured that guy would get the cherry, but when I emailed her months later, I jokingly asked if she was still cherry. She said yes....but who knows.
At about 5'8, and showing lots of cleavage, she was a head turner. I generally like them very slim and/or petite, but I was ready to change my ways...
I took her out to eat in the Malate area and there was nearly a car accident. On the other hand, I didn't have to dodge traffic since most vehicles were slowing down as they approached us. I am not exagerrating! If you've partied around Remedios Circle / Malate church on a weekend you know what I mean by dodging traffic.
In the end we parted ways with only a few kisses and squeezes. She said, "Even if I wasn't cherry you can't have me because I'm on my period." She lifted her fairly short skirt to show me that she had a pad on under her panties. I like classy women! I paid for dinner, drinks and transportation (including hers from Pasay).
After she left, I picked up my 1,500 peso used phone, trasped on over to LA cafe and found someone else.
X
I checked out her profile and this worries me she might be high maintenance? "I need some1 who can takecare of me..Who will spoil me.." Now, if she was offering the other way around....
As for cherry girls:
I avoid cherry girls, many of them extremely shy and will bring their parents as chaperones. It's just too much trouble, plus I would feel guilty about taking a girl's cherry and not seeing her again.
Wicked Roger
10-31-07, 23:24
Posted this in Manila by mistake - tired well had a long day guys and shagging was not involved :(
Try this one
C00854483 Michelle, quick tells you she is a ACM cam girl, and at least is up front about things.
Had one reply telling me that the CB girls were ladyboys/TVs etc - but X Man, Amavida and others (incl me) can vouch that is not the case
Oh, it get's more interesting BB! I found a copy of her original profile: "Hi im tyra, 21yrs of age...loking a godfearing man, know how to respect the woman, caring loving, affectionate, the guy can accept my short coming as a person..."
But then I found another profile of her (C00658077). On this one I don't have the original text. The pictures are different and the age is two years younger. So, when I met her she was supposedly 19. After we got to my room she told me she was a virgin (and I began my exit strategy). But before she left it was revealed (literally) that she was on her period.
Hmmm, I wonder if she had some elaborate "pay for my virginity" scam going on. She must have been sorely disappointed if that was the case.
CB will delete her if I point out this discrepency. I won't do that. Although the evening was sexless, I enjoyed her company.
I don't know if her phone number still works, but pm me if you want the number.
X
I checked out her profile and this worries me she might be high maintenance? "I need some1 who can takecare of me..Who will spoil me.." Now, if she was offering the other way around....
Bilbo Baggins
11-01-07, 06:38
X Man, I checked out both profiles and the message is identical but Bday is 2 years apart she has updated both profiles on the same day and last activity for both is 10/31/07 and she states "Im tired of play, im sincere here." you have to wonder about that.
I always suspect any lady that states no playing, players, games etc as one who is a player herself. The innocent ones don't mention it. I got a bit excited reading about the lifting the dress story to show you her situation. I am a leg man and nice legs on a pair of panties....... ahh wishful thinking. I read once about a monger in a room with a virgin friend who dropped her panties so he could see it was true. I wish I could have seen that I don't think I have ever seen a virgin pussy before.
Thanks for the offer I am trying to avoid Manila this next trip I have too many inlaws there and my relationship with my ex is not the best.
Frequent Flier
11-01-07, 08:56
Check this one out guys...C00818784
I sent her one message and by the time I checked my messages she had sent me two replies, see below. One containing her phone number as you can see I've x'ed it out as the rules here do not allow and it would not be right to post anyway. I told her that I plan to be in the Philippines by November 20th, see how she skillfully is also going to be there. Pretty sure she is already there in one of the bars or working web cam....or maybe not as she certainly lacks some tact here. Moves way to fast for a girl who should know how to pull cash out of a man. Left the misspellings in place.
text below:
2nd message: hi again xxxxx hope that we can meet soon im work hard here hope to hear your voice in november 20 im going to manila for work there in luandry home its big salary than here its 3, 000pesos my monthly there... compare here ist only 3 hundred a week its so hard so muchhhhhhhhhh mauhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh be safe there ok
1st message: hi xxxxx sorry is only i can read your message coz its only i can back in cafe you know ive been in hospital for my ulcer... but im ok now
im going to go back my work in laundry in every 3 houses so that can survive then can eat in 3 times in 1 day hows your life now.. can you call to me this no plzzzzz...+63xxxxxxxxxx.... i really like you too so muchhhhhhhh you rae so hondsome man... be sfae there ok im still really single too i live my parents home. i have 2 sister and 1 brother my father leaves us
Has anyone tried?
CB girl tells me that her profile is "unavailble" because she has dedicated herself to me.
C00549356
I may have told her that I plan to visit the Philippines in December, but I have not made any promises, nor have I asked her to make herself exclusive to me. In fact, I do not have the any intent to visit her in that part of Mindanao.
So, if anyone here has CB subscription, please send her a quick message. I'm sure she'll be polite and respond. Nevertheless, I'd love to see how "unavailable" she is. (common sense, but please be polite....no one knows her situation)
X Man
Hi X,
As a service to the community I sent a 'smile' to her.
Nothing more than that. (not an email)
She seems to have changed her name from 'Merly' to 'Flower'.
Her profile was updated 10/31/2007.
I have obscured her personal data in the email for privacy reasons.
*Sigh* sorry man, see her response to me verbatim below.
As you can see the girls lie their asses off to guys.
Kinda takes the shine off the dating site romances does'nt it?
Happy mongering
Amavida
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Response...
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On 10/31/2007 10:12 - HST(12 hours ago) Flower Wrote:
helllooooooooo
thanks for the email u sent to me..it makes me so happyyyyyyy! yeah i would like to know you more and hope to met you if u really come..
you might wonder why my profile says im not longer available? yes i put that was too long ago and i didnt get to change it...you want me to change it? hehe...welll i am single and very much looking for such a lovable man who would accept me of who i am and what i am...
we can chat if u like so we can know more each other until we met...
my real name is daisylyn ******, i live in **** BRGY.SAN JUAN SURIGAO CITY PHIL 8400..
contact number : 639*********
about my work? yes i just fnished my college degree this month.i took up business administration major in banking and finance...
thats why now im ready to have my own family..
im serious woman who wants faithful and responsible husband too....are you that one?
yes im also would like to know you..this is all i can say up to now.. i am looking for your response..
take care
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Enquiry...
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On 10/29/2007 02:30 - HST(2 days ago) You Wrote:
Hi Merly,
Wow! I would love to get to know you more. I’m really interested in what you’ve written on your profile and can’t wait to hear from you!
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BB, my apologies as I didn't have my camera out at any time during the episode, which is rather unsuaul for me. It was probably battery recharching time. I do remember regretting not having some pics of Tyra.
I'll disagree with you slightly...I suspect some of the new ladies at cb just copy what their friends / relatives have written. If you immediately ignore anyone who says "no players" you'll cancel out most of the ladies at CB.
X
I always suspect any lady that states no playing, players, games etc as one who is a player herself. The innocent ones don't mention it. I got a bit excited reading about the lifting the dress story to show you her situation. I am a leg man and nice legs on a pair of panties....... .
Laundry girl, fish seller, natural disaster, broken family...yes, classics. Thanks for the post FF.
One lady (stunning) asked me for a small loan so that she could buy fish to sell at the market. Of course she was up selling fish early in the morning and sold out, which is why she spent most of the day in an Internet Cafe. Hilarious.
Does anyone remember the terrible mudslide that buried an entire village in Leyte? If you lost your home, all your possesions and source of income, because your entire neighborhood was covered by ten feet of typhoon inspired mud, killing hundreds of people, and you were now in some disaster shelter, what would you do? Of course! You'd go to the Internet cafe, pay the fee, and chat with prospective suitors. Sickening.
FF suggests a lack of tact/sophistication with the lady he has introduced. It might be worth chasing this one. I suspect SOMEONE is pushing her into this and she may be just going with the flow. Make it your flow, not the greedy friend/ relative's flow. We all get manipulated in different ways, and she may like your way better. Just don't marry her!
And to repeat something I've said before, but pretty sure it's getting ignored, don't SLAM a girl who looks like a scammer. You'll just be teaching them how to perfect their game. Stay friends, play along and see how things pan out. If she's new to scamming, she may very well be desperate...and, as sad as it is, that's a good thing for you. And if you're reading here, you'll know enough to avoid the scam, but create benefits for both you and her.
Check this one out guys...C00818784
I sent her one message and by the time I checked my messages she had sent me two replies, see below. One containing her phone number as you can see I've x'ed it out as the rules here do not allow and it would not be right to post anyway. I told her that I plan to be in the Philippines by November 20th, see how she skillfully is also going to be there. Pretty sure she is already there in one of the bars or working web cam....or maybe not as she certainly lacks some tact here. Moves way to fast for a girl who should know how to pull cash out of a man. Left the misspellings in place.
text below:
2nd message: hi again xxxxx hope that we can meet soon im work hard here hope to hear your voice in november 20 im going to manila for work there in luandry home its big salary than here its 3, 000pesos my monthly there... compare here ist only 3 hundred a week its so hard so muchhhhhhhhhh mauhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh be safe there ok
1st message: hi xxxxx sorry is only i can read your message coz its only i can back in cafe you know ive been in hospital for my ulcer... but im ok now
im going to go back my work in laundry in every 3 houses so that can survive then can eat in 3 times in 1 day hows your life now.. can you call to me this no plzzzzz...+63xxxxxxxxxx.... i really like you too so muchhhhhhhh you rae so hondsome man... be sfae there ok im still really single too i live my parents home. i have 2 sister and 1 brother my father leaves us
Wicked Roger
11-01-07, 11:23
Hi X,
As a service to the community I sent a 'smile' to her.
Nothing more than that. (not an email)
She seems to have changed her name from 'Merly' to 'Flower'.
Her profile was updated 10/31/2007.
I have obscured her personal data in the email for privacy reasons.
===
Amavida
She did same to me same reply etc so I now have her YM address and will chat with her and check her stories and see if they match your. I did not get the text )but like you have her mobile) as I did not SMS her.
Well, it is something to do while in the office...
Wow, she gave you more info from your "smile" than I got from a proper message. I wonder what I'm doing wrong? Oh, let me guess, your profile says that you have your own business and/or you regularly come to the Philippines.
That was a rhetorical question... no need to answer it.
Thanks for the interesting posts everyone. This is exactly what I had in mind when I asked Jackson to creat the Chat Room thread. I figured the ladies in the net cafes are sharing notes, why shouldn't we?
But so far we have only CB stuff. Can we hear from you guys at Filipina Heart and other sites?
X Man
Hi X,
As a service to the community I sent a 'smile' to her.
Nothing more than that. (not an email)
She seems to have changed her name from 'Merly' to 'Flower'.
Her profile was updated 10/31/2007.
I have obscured her personal data in the email for privacy reasons.
*Sigh* sorry man, see her response to me verbatim below.
As you can see the girls lie their asses off to guys.
Kinda takes the shine off the dating site romances does'nt it?
Happy mongering
Amavida
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Response...
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On 10/31/2007 10:12 - HST(12 hours ago) Flower Wrote:
helllooooooooo
thanks for the email u sent to me..it makes me so happyyyyyyy! yeah i would like to know you more and hope to met you if u really come..
you might wonder why my profile says im not longer available? yes i put that was too long ago and i didnt get to change it...you want me to change it? hehe...welll i am single and very much looking for such a lovable man who would accept me of who i am and what i am...
we can chat if u like so we can know more each other until we met...
my real name is daisylyn ******, i live in **** BRGY.SAN JUAN SURIGAO CITY PHIL 8400..
contact number : 639*********
about my work? yes i just fnished my college degree this month.i took up business administration major in banking and finance...
thats why now im ready to have my own family..
im serious woman who wants faithful and responsible husband too....are you that one?
yes im also would like to know you..this is all i can say up to now.. i am looking for your response..
take care
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Enquiry...
===============================================
On 10/29/2007 02:30 - HST(2 days ago) You Wrote:
Hi Merly,
Wow! I would love to get to know you more. I’m really interested in what you’ve written on your profile and can’t wait to hear from you!
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Luvulooongtime
11-01-07, 16:24
Gentlmen,
I land in Manila on November 28. I have been communicating with half a dozen FH ladies. I will report back my experiences with them during my 23 day *****tour when I get back to California. I am calling it mission luvulooongtime. I have alledged nursing students and "models" lined up. Tally Ho.
Luvuloongtime
Frequent Flier
11-02-07, 06:18
Posted this in Manila by mistake - tired well had a long day guys and shagging was not involved :(
Try this one
C00854483 Michelle, quick tells you she is a ACM cam girl, and at least is up front about things.
Had one reply telling me that the CB girls were ladyboys/TVs etc - but X Man, Amavida and others (incl me) can vouch that is not the case
Hey WR and others interested,
Your girl C00854483 is also C00852175 on CB, but goes by Mary Jane. very cute and also told me right away that she is on ACM.
She also told me that she would do yahoo cam for me for $30.00. Not sure for how long or what it included as i declined the offer. Wanted me to WU or Xoom her money.
On the C00854483 profile there is definitely a different girl in pic 3, not sure about pic 1, but pic 2 is the same girl as in all three pics in C00852175.
Thanks for the interesting posts everyone. This is exactly what I had in mind when I asked Jackson to creat the Chat Room thread. I figured the ladies in the net cafes are sharing notes, why shouldn't we?
But so far we have only CB stuff. Can we hear from you guys at Filipina Heart and other sites?
X Man
X-Man is right about this being a very valuable section for us. Congrats for the idea.
Hi all,
After reading you all talking about CB I decided to have a look at their web site but one thing I could not find was their prices and what you pay for.
Another site I look at from time to time but yet to sign up with is asiankisses. De, at least you can find out what you are paying for on their site.
Lastly do you make up a profile and see if you get any bites or do you sent out some messages and see if you get any replies.
I am not looking to sign up anytime soon but it is something that I may look at at a later date, I have one girl in Manila waiting for me to visit her. I met her through a friend not a dating site. Thinking of having some fun with her before looking else where.
Oh! I tried to search " price of CB" but that didn't get me anywhere.
Wicked Roger
11-02-07, 14:50
Hey WR and others interested,
Your girl C00854483 is also C00852175 on CB, but goes by Mary Jane. very cute and also told me right away that she is on ACM.
She also told me that she would do yahoo cam for me for $30.00. Not sure for how long or what it included as i declined the offer. Wanted me to WU or Xoom her money.
On the C00854483 profile there is definitely a different girl in pic 3, not sure about pic 1, but pic 2 is the same girl as in all three pics in C00852175.
FF
You are right and she asked me for $30 as I offered up $20 :) - am a cheap charlie when I cam get away with it!
I also had a cam session with her as I like to see them and then check against the profile, she was not as pretty as the pictures (maybe lack of make up?), she said she was a cherry as well so when I asked about toys and fingers for the private cam she wanted me to help her with, she was somewhat lost for words etc. Especially when I said I wanted to see them deep inside her...well you have to ask :)
After sometime of 'researching' CB you can spot the ones who will ask for cash quite quickly
Several stuffed dolls and a bed in the background come to mind.
I did have one very weird one with a gal in a dark room, and a guy mulling around in the background...possibly not realizing his fat sleazy ass was on the cam.
FF
After sometime of 'researching' CB you can spot the ones who will ask for cash quite quickly
Would X or somebody please take this one off my hands?
I have my hands totally full with GF's in Manila.
C00549356, Originally mentioned by Xman.
Receiving txt's & email's daily from her.
This chick is begging for it!
Please! Somebody go down there & drill here!!
"Im looking forward in meeting you soon when you
come over here....and i am willing to know you more as
you like.."
I'd say that as clear as any asian girl is gonna be...
Happy mongering or as LL would say Tally Ho gentleman!
Amavida
Hello,
Sorry, but I have one question:
Any expieriences with this dating site: www.cebuanas.com
Thank you,
anle
Bilbo Baggins
11-03-07, 12:32
I'd say that as clear as any asian girl is gonna be...
Amavida
I think some can be clearer. This is a really beautiful lady I am keeping for myself although I am older than her preferred age range I think I'll get a face lift just for her. lol
...am conservative with a slight touch of being liberated!!!!! hope u can read between the lines!!!! im conservative in the public but when it comes inside the room and just me and my lover..well..well... im such a *****! lol. u can do whatever u like as long as it doesnt insult, embarrass me. same goes for me. i will always consider my love ones feelings and even sacrifice to concede to his wishes if i must!!! give and take i guess.
Lastly do you make up a profile and see if you get any bites or do you sent out some messages and see if you get any replies.Bob, I think you could say anything in your profile and you would get bites. I am thinking of saying "I am a triple axe murder escaped from jail looking for a temporary hideout in the Philippines" just to see what replies I get. lol Now I am not a paying member anymore I have put up "I'm not interested just looking" in my profile and I get the chat windows opening all the time and emails saying they are interested in what I said on my profile, go figure?
I just go on and do a search on my preferences and chat windows pop up all the time. You can choose to decline or chat and you can preview their profile before replying or you can see who is online and initiated chat or message etc. You really need your wits about you these women can mess with your mind and wallet something awful.
It costs 24.95 a month and gets cheaper the more time you purchase 12 months works out at $9.99 a month. I think you have to be a member to see the prices.
BB,
Thanks for the info, is seems a bit odd that you have to become a member before they tell you that you have to pay to use their web site. CB's does say it is free to join.
One thing that has stopped me from becoming a member of any dating site is working your way through the bullshit to find a gem, I'm just going on what I have read here.
But then again, reading what has been written here that's half the fun of these sites.
Thanks again.
Ha, ha, had same experience with BB. I clearly wrote that I'm not a memeber and could not accept chat. I still got lots of chat windows opening. On the other hand, I once had my email in the add (against the rules), but just changed the spelling of yahoo - but only one lady picked up on it. Also, a lot of the ladies don't realize that guys have to pay for the service.
As for Bob Downs inquiry, I do things a lot like BB, but I'll add a few things. But first, Bob, are you seriously looking for a wife or just hoping to have a few dates while on holiday?
I only subscribe just before my trip. Even if only one month subscription, you can get many contacts. At CB you can send up to 100 messages a day - and I actually reached my limit twice. I typed up a nice simple message and pasted them into the message window. I personalized the ones that I thought needed personalizing.
I try to get their phone numbers and emails as soon as possible. An old style mail address isn't a bad idea either. Sending and old fashioned letter or postcard will really get her attention. Do this only with ones you think are special.
X Man
Bob, I think you could say anything in your profile and you would get bites. I am thinking of saying "I am a triple axe murder escaped from jail looking for a temporary hideout in the Philippines" just to see what replies I get. lol .
X Man, As I wrote in my first report I was just interesting in maybe joining a dating site at a later date. I was looking for some info as to the best way to use these sites. As for paying a girl to take her clothes off in a web cam, no thank you I can just go to a local bar at home and watch a girl take her clothes off for the cost of buying myself a beer or two.
I am going to Thailand next week to meet a couple of girls, and hoping I will be back in the Philippines maybe next May. I already have some tour guides lined up for my May trip, just thinking forward to the trip after that.
As for marriage, no plans to ever get married. Girlfriend? Maybe one day but not any time soon. I guess I have to decide if I want a Thai girl or a Filipina girlfriend I guess.
After receiving a lot of emails, smiles in CB I decide to try for one month just for fun and see what will happen.
Many dogs there, some ladyboys, but I also find some gud looking ones.
I hope I can find some semi proffessionals, so my dates might get more exciting :D.
I will only contact gurls in Manila area, cause enough gurls in AC and by this time I wont travel to cebu mindanao or other places in the Phils.
As of now I got 5 models/gurls from this site which I will keep in my email for contacts and I report my experience here when I meet them up.
I be living in PI soon and while workin in Manila you need some gurls for past time, you cant allways go to the bars, this is getting also expensive sometimes, but as I remember when I lived there last time som eyears ago. gurls came after "work" to my place :D...I was staying in Burgos :D
One of my fren who alo live in Burgos was a no no no guest for the bars, since he only go there to update his cellphone numbers , ahahahha....he got banned 1/ 2 year.
If they like you, you wont pay nothing, or just meals etc like GFE and the gud thing is, if u tired of them u just say bye bye and move on to the next gurl, but be polite, filipinas can be extremly jellous :D
How I miss the place, six weeks to go then Im back..
Happy hunting!!
Blink
Bilbo Baggins
11-04-07, 11:02
CB is free to join but all you can do is look no communicating and when that honey bounces up on the screen who wants to chat with you its tempting to buy time. What I'm doing now is searching for suitable ladies in their data base and adding them to my friends you can add 100 ladies so far I'm up to 53. When I'm ready to go there I'll get in touch with some of them and see what happens.
I was going to warn you about this lady but CB got in first someone must have dobbed her in her CB name was Rhiane.
Sorry, the ID Code
or Chat Name you
searched for:
C00838531
has been
Deactivated for
Scamming or Spamming.
Currently there is no
additional information
for this client.I have chatted with her a few times and she would have to be the most boring lady I could chat with does not give any information away most of her answers to questions are, yes, no, ok, why. All that I found out from her is she lives with her aunt and she wishes to finish her studies and would like to visit Boracay etc but would have a chaperon. I spoke to her again today on yahoo and saw her on cam and asked why she looked so serious not one smile she was all business and looking at several different spots on the monitor. When I chat I can tell if a lady is into me or using me for something else or so I kid myself lol
BB: you look very serious
emigaer onifur: yeah problematic
BB: worried?
emigaer onifur: yeah
BB: whats your problem that you cant smile?
emigaer onifur: My mom
emigaer onifur: is asking me to send money for her medicine
BB: where is she?
emigaer onifur: in the province
BB: ok
emigaer onifur: ok
Then there is 5 minutes of silence between us and she signs out no good bye or anything.
She seems to work on getting the guy to ask and feel sorry for her unlike a lot of other ladies who poor out a sad story. I see her online a lot and today she was online for hours so there goes the medicine money down the internet gurgler. The ones into you will give you the time the scammers move on if you don't bite after a while.
True to X Man's dictum I don't let on that I know they are scamming I am still nice and boring to them and hope they give up or I just avoid them online. We don't want them learning to be better scammers by finding out what doesn't work!
Wicked Roger
11-04-07, 18:39
I was going to warn you about this lady but CB got in first someone must have dobbed her in her CB name was Rhiane.
True to X Man's dictum I don't let on that I know they are scamming I am still nice and boring to them and hope they give up or I just avoid them online. We don't want them learning to be better scammers by finding out what doesn't work!
All I do when asked how is your search going (which I do get asked as I ask same question to them first) I say :not very well as most of the ladies ask me for cash/money and that means I stop chatting".
This does tend to rule quite a few very quickly.....:)
Oh, it get's more interesting BB! I found a copy of her original profile: "Hi im tyra, 21yrs of age...loking a godfearing man, know how to respect the woman, caring loving, affectionate, the guy can accept my short coming as a person..."
But then I found another profile of her (C00658077). On this one I don't have the original text. The pictures are different and the age is two years younger. So, when I met her she was supposedly 19. After we got to my room she told me she was a virgin (and I began my exit strategy). But before she left it was revealed (literally) that she was on her period.
XI found her on CB. She's cute. Would you recommend her for a GFE?
The racket is run by her 'Uncle Manny'. He is the one you are talking with online. He is the one who is desperate to line up a meeting with you and Via and He goes along 'innocently' as chaperone. You will find that he does all the talking & is desperate to get you to sink money into some apartment building. She just sits there and looks shy.
The same story is given to every guy.
They are after your MONEY.
In my time in the Phils I have learned that these kind of operations where a guy is using a female relatives persona online are more common than commonly known.
AVOID.
This is a racket.
Hope you all benefit from this info.
Happy mongering.
Amavida.
the racket is run by her 'uncle manny'. he is the one you are talking with online. he is the one who is desperate to line up a meeting with you and via and he goes along 'innocently' as chaperone. you will find that he does all the talking & is desperate to get you to sink money into some apartment building. she just sits there and looks shy.
the same story is given to every guy.
they are after your money.
in my time in the phils i have learned that these kind of operations where a guy is using a female relatives persona online are more common than commonly known.
avoid.
this is a racket.
hope you all benefit from this info.
happy mongering.
amavida.
she looks young (****).
now, did you ask "uncle money" to chat you naked? :d lol....
selling real estate on cb, this site becomes more and more interesting to me hahahaha...
seriously, to sell you a share realestate would be probably the really most harmless thing which i would think now.
i rather picture she in ur room and after a while some big guys knock on ur door, claiming their are her brothers or boyfriends and threatening you to get the cops cause you with a minor... :d
happy hunting and heads up :d
blink
Amavida, this is a great post. This could keep one of us out of some serious trouble financially or maybe even physically. If we let Uncle Manny show up unawares and we laugh at his nonsense who knows what his next move might be? Valuable information.
Also. Xman. Great advice on not letting the scammers know what they're doing wrong. I used to laugh at them and ask them how stupid did they think we were? After reading your post I stopped clueing them into the fact that something they were doing wasn't working.
This needs to be repeated every once in a while so new readers are also on board with this.
Good work, lads!
Bopalula
she looks young (****).
now, did you ask "uncle money" to chat you naked? :d lol....
selling real estate on cb, this site becomes more and more interesting to me hahahaha...
seriously, to sell you a share realestate would be probably the really most harmless thing which i would think now.
i rather picture she in ur room and after a while some big guys knock on ur door, claiming their are her brothers or boyfriends and threatening you to get the cops cause you with a minor... :d
happy hunting and heads up :d
blink
in this case (thank fully) it was'nt like that.
btw the building purchase invloves marrying the niece because of course foreigners cant own much there. uncle manny was shocked at how much i knew about these laws & ways around them so his motivation to marry me off to via wilted fast hehehehe :)
she is the passive partner. does not always go along with script.
snuck in to my hotel & popped her cherry on me & then went to ground because she is terrified the uncle (& parents will find out).
happy mongering
amavida
WR, I have mixed feelings about your strategy. Most of the scammers are probably doing only that and therefore aren't worth your time. Unfortunately, those types are increasing. I had a very involved "virtual" relationship with a very intelligent, middle class lady from GSC who told me some of her friends had quit their jobs in order to work the chat/scam business.
Nevertheless, a woman who is desperate or of low moral character suits me just fine. In fact I asked CB to creat a kind of pergatory for those who break the rules. Those are exactly the women I'd like to meet on my next trip!
There was one CB lady from Davao that I had contacted. I was in Cebu and found her in the chat section. We chatted and I asked for her phone number...then called her. She struck me as a complete idiot on a few different levels...the biggest being that she didn't know who was calling her..even though I called her immediately after receiving her phone number.
In Davao we met and had food at the Gasiano mall food court, although her cousin / "chaperone" recommended some expensive seafood place. (note: I later learned that the chaperone had previously met a Western guy and he had treated her well, and she was likely encouraging my new friend to find some good treatment as well)
Chaperone..., then walking down some dodgy slum pathways, thru some maze of muddy paths and glaring stares, to meet the extended family, including the uncle who had been a "boxer" and the toothless granny. Then back to meet the chubby sweaty aunt who worked as a technician at an ISP provider (free Internet!).
Wow, what a day. I told the lass I was wanted to go pick up my laundry and would she like to come with me. She came...and not to much later we both came in my Casa Leticial hotel room. About six hours from meeting to bedroom fun. Total GFE thereafter, although she always had to come with the chaperone and be home by 10pm. Good girl...or so I thought. Oh, the chaperone would say her "hello" and then she liklely went back to the ISP place to work the chat lines while I had my way with the petite cutey.
I was smitten, but as soon as I got back home whe started trying to scam me. God bless the little sluut. The moral of the story (if anyone is still reading) is that scammers want something from you, and you want something from them....and chaperones / meeting the family can sometimes be a good thing.
I still remember the last night in Davao...she seemed so unsettled. I thought it was because she was sad to see me go. I realized later, she just wanted to go and was wanting her handout.
X Man
All I do when asked how is your search going (which I do get asked as I ask same question to them first) I say :not very well as most of the ladies ask me for cash/money and that means I stop chatting".
This does tend to rule quite a few very quickly.....:)
Wicked Roger
11-05-07, 14:18
WR, I have mixed feelings about your strategy. Most of the scammers are probably doing only that and therefore aren't worth your time. Unfortunately, those types are increasing.
The moral of the story (if anyone is still reading) is that scammers want something from you, and you want something from them....and chaperones / meeting the family can sometimes be a good thing.
I still remember the last night in Davao...she seemed so unsettled. I thought it was because she was sad to see me go. I realized later, she just wanted to go and was wanting her handout.
X Man
XM
True it does not always work and I do waste some time but its fun and passes the day when the office is quiet
I agree about the chaperones etc as they can be sexy and better than the CB girl. Meeting the family is fine as long as you have the patience, time and of cousre, you get the 'reward' at the end :)
Cherry blossom C00794114
It didn't take long for this little beauty to snag a guy.
C00852714 Looks like a cam girl to me.
On a different note....
Received an email from my former EDSA bed partner now in a Western country. Her man insists on a "joint" account and she doesn't like it. Also, she helps pay for the house, but her name isn't on it.
Poor thing. I wonder when she'll take her next vacation to PI.
X
Date in Asia is free and you can send messages etc. Had some cracking results but beware the ladyboys.
Bilbo Baggins
11-12-07, 04:00
Im simple lady, loving person, honest, caring, friendly and most of all " God Fearing". I love to cook but I dont know how to cook but if thiers "someone" willing to teach me how to cook, I will love it. I`m fun of reading magazines, watching foriegn movies and entertaining people especially the foriegn one................ I always scratch my head when I read these profiles, a good cook is a very important quality in a woman. My ex was a good cook and now that I cook for myself I miss her cooking almost as much as the sex. Now unless I am misreading this and its code for something else I am going to give her a miss.
I always scratch my head when I read these profiles, a good cook is a very important quality in a woman. My ex was a good cook and now that I cook for myself I miss her cooking almost as much as the sex. Now unless I am misreading this and its code for something else I am going to give her a miss.I guess it comes down to what her definition of "cooking" is.
Slim
Ttriumph48
11-12-07, 10:27
I Spent Time In Angles City About Five Weeks Ago. Since Angeles Is A Mecca For All Philippinas Who Enjoy The Hospitality Form Of Endevers. I Thought The Girls From Leyte Seemed Especially Good Looking Or My Whisky Goggles Were In Full Functioning Mode. Any Way, Has Anyone Visited Leyte? If So, A Little Information. Thanks. "ttriumph48"
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Hi Ttriumph48,
I sincerely appreciate your contributions to the forum, but...
Would you please refrain from capitalizing the first letter of EVERY word in your reports!
It's difficult to read, it's time consuming to fix, and it takes you more work to write like that.
On behalf of myself and your fellow Forum Members: Thank You!
Jackson
Neon Noodle
11-14-07, 22:48
I want to know where is the best place in the world to find a wife who is young and virginal, willing to become impregnated and brought back to Canada to settle?Theres plenty of filipinas working in Canada, always check your own backyard first.
Mongering1
11-15-07, 06:40
I Spent Time In Angles City About Five Weeks Ago. Since Angeles Is A Mecca For All Philippinas Who Enjoy The Hospitality Form Of Endevers. I Thought The Girls From Leyte Seemed Especially Good Looking Or My Whisky Goggles Were In Full Functioning Mode. Any Way, Has Anyone Visited Leyte? If So, A Little Information. Thanks. "ttriumph48"
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Hi Ttriumph48,
I sincerely appreciate your contributions to the forum, but...
Would you please refrain from capitalizing the first letter of EVERY word in your reports!
It's difficult to read, it's time consuming to fix, and it takes you more work to write like that.
On behalf of myself and your fellow Forum Members: Thank You!
Jackson
I've been to Leyte, most the good looking girls between 18-22 were in AC or Manila working.
Bud
Tungsten Chef
11-15-07, 14:20
Theres plenty of filipinas working in Canada, always check your own backyard first.You could get 1 if they're in your same age category. Can't see it being like finding 1 in Phils. I mean, do you think you could get the 22 year old hottie down the street if your 50? Doubt it.
Let me guess...you couldn't find any young women so you started hitting on the middle aged ones... They told you to fk off, you broke down in tears and said, "I just want a piece...".
These older women felt sorry for you, apologized, and explained, "my daughter is in AC".
Thank you for your scholarly research into the demographic patterns of young Leyte women.
X
This thread is "chat rooms and pen pals". Could we please try to stay focused
I've been to Leyte, most the good looking girls between 18-22 were in AC or Manila working.
Bud
Oh, not my type at all...
C00731966
Never been to Angeles( have been to PI, Manila, Subai etc..) planned this trip to go to Angeles to monger and just go back to work. Here is the dilemma. I have now met an educated beautiful Filipina from Cebu online who is expecting me to visit her. I got three days. Also have a possible business venture in Cebu? Any suggestions?
Never been to Angeles( have been to PI, Manila, Subai etc..) planned this trip to go to Angeles to monger and just go back to work. Here is the dilemma. I have now met an educated beautiful Filipina from Cebu online who is expecting me to visit her. I got three days. Also have a possible business venture in Cebu? Any suggestions?There is a direct flight from Cebu to Clark (airport in AC) takes about 1 hour. Therefore, you can go to Cebu, take care of business and then go to AC.
Good luck.
Bilbo Baggins
11-15-07, 22:03
Oh, not my type at all...
C00731966
I chatted with her a while ago seemed like a nice girl studying nursing, I thought she was a ladyboy I did ask her if she was a male she insisted she was 100% female and didn't take offense, Zamboanga City is a bit far for my liking.
Yes, looks a bit male to me. Maybe I was wrong.
But if you thought it was a ladyboy, why are you chatting with it? You have me worried BB! Oh, just for research purposes???
X
I chatted with her a while ago seemed like a nice girl studying nursing, I thought she was a ladyboy I did ask her if she was a male she insisted she was 100% female and didn't take offense, Zamboanga City is a bit far for my liking.
Mongering1
11-16-07, 13:44
Anyone ever try ACC, asiancybercams? It's a site like ABC. Has a lot of bells and whistles but not many girls online and very few dudes logging in, maybe a good thing? Is there a listing someplace of the different chat sites catering to us Asian lovers? I mean real links to unique sites, not 20 different named sites that all lead to ABC or the like like you get if you google search for them.
I haven't posted much in this section before and would just like to chime in my opinions in general in regards to the posts I've read. It has been pointed out but I want to clarify it, sites like ACC, ABC, ect are NOT dating sites. The girls working there range from province girls to hard core pro bar girls and both usually have some moneyko and or a pinoy bf already.
CB and the like are the same as far as the range of girls. The main thing I want to stress is, an inoccent province girl will most likely not be able to even be on the internet in the first place sincce she will have about a 3rd grade education and very little English skills and will have to travel to even get to an internet cafe. So, if the girl is online at all, even just YM, she is already tainted as far as her knowlege on how to scam a porigner. Sure you might find a gem that is for real, but 99% of any Filipina online is looking for a fiance' visa and or a moneyko.
I did post someplace on some site about how if the girl is online she is chatting millions of dudes potentially. So, 3 billion dudes in the world vs thousands of Filipinas, do the math, not good odds. I've been tasked to actually locate a girl to see if she is being good, of the few dozen or so times I've done this for an online buddy ALL of the girls where willing to go with me. Didn't make a difference her status with the dude, chatmate, gf, fiance', or wife.
Bud
Mongering1
11-16-07, 14:09
OK, I will share a little story about my last ex gf. Met her on 2mathcu. She was one of the helps there. She was 22 years old, exotic, pefect ass, college degree, and still a virgin (I used to have a pic of the proof). Thought I hit the jackpot since at the time I was looking for a wife to bring back to USA.
Long story short, she fucked me over more than any girl in my life, including my first exwife! She was/is a habitual liar and simply could not be trusted. Not sure if she fucked around but she did fuck up around a million peso business I tried to start, flower shop (her pamily are florists and she has more than a few working in the high end shops like Shangri La)/internet cafe/cantina.
The outcome of this, I ended up with my girl I have now for almost 3 years. She has a bit of college, ex bar girl, and is a stunner by all accounts. Took her out of La Pasha after my break up with 2matchu girl and we been together since. I took her for her looks only. I asked a waitress friend to find me the best looking girl that is not cherry, not on mens, and will go with me. My motive was to show off a hottie on an upcoming trip to Puerto Galera. Call it love or just me being scared of not finding better, I ended quitting my job, selling my house in Las Vegas and everything in it!
About my current gf: Well she is as perfect as I could ever imagine. Any time, place, sexual act, I want 24/7 and she enjoys another girl occasionally joining us. And she has no problem as far as my almost daily Perimeter barhops. Yeah, I'm just bragging now!
Bud
Dont'cha just love all the fakes & scammers on Cherry Blossoms?
Take a look at these two profiles.
C00834007 & C00878576
Almost identical profiles but slightly different details as far as date of birth etc goes. Notice the second picture in each profile? Same girl...
I doubt this is a real person, based on my hard won experiences of CB I'd say its yet another scammer, probably male running these 'personas'.
you may ask how did I find these? Certainly not by looking. I just noticed over time the same faces popping up on people who have viewed my profile
Happy mongering
Amavida
Thanks for the story. Can you post the pic of the 2matchu devil?
I joined that site when it was still free. I don't recommend expecting much from that site LT since it's centered in AC and many of the ladies are transient...both p4p, and other workers. Many of the hotties I had lined up weren't there when I arrived. I eventually met three.
One was petite and hot ex dancer who said she'd been hurt before and declined to do the dirty deed. My mistake though, I had left out my girl contact info and no doubt she took a look and realized I was a player. The story is more complicated than that, but fortunately her red bikini pictures have graced the pages of ISG.
The 2nd one was just a regular girl, very nice, brought her friend and we swam in the America Hotel pool. I felt terrible about it, but as the sun set I sent them off...knowing I'd have my choice of hundreds of AC girls just a short walk down the street.
The 3rd was quite a surprise. I hadn't gone to Ac for a long time, but prior to my last visit I went back to those old 2matchu records. I emailed the addresses I had, and only one came back. She was from Pampanga and she turned out to be an Orchid Inn employee. She was a nice gal, just a bit overweight, but was good for an afternoon fk before she had to go to work. The next day she texted me indicating she was ashamed of what she had done. I gave a lighthearted response, but added what I thought was at least a little romance...but she never texted me again.
I'm always honest and I treat the women well, but in the end... I think I'm the guy they write about in the profile: "I was deceived and now want a trusty man who is SERIOUS..."
As for Mongering business, I always remember what our old friend CebuLocal used to say. Filipinos are too emotional for business...he married a Canadian/Chinese. I wish we could hear from him again.
X
OK, I will share a little story about my last ex gf. Met her on 2mathcu. She was one of the helps there. She was 22 years old, exotic, pefect ass, college degree, and still a virgin (I used to have a pic of the proof). Thought I hit the jackpot since at the time I was looking for a wife to bring back to USA.
Long story short, she fucked me over more than any girl in my life, including my first exwife! She was/is a habitual liar and simply could not be trusted. Not sure if she fucked around but she did fuck up around a million peso business I tried to start, flower shop (her pamily are florists and she has more than a few working in the high end shops like Shangri La)/internet cafe/cantina.
The outcome of this, I ended up with my girl I have now for almost 3 years. She has a bit of college, ex bar girl, and is a stunner by all accounts. Took her out of La Pasha after my break up with 2matchu girl and we been together since. I took her for her looks only. I asked a waitress friend to find me the best looking girl that is not cherry, not on mens, and will go with me. My motive was to show off a hottie on an upcoming trip to Puerto Galera. Call it love or just me being scared of not finding better, I ended quitting my job, selling my house in Las Vegas and everything in it!
About my current gf: Well she is as perfect as I could ever imagine. Any time, place, sexual act, I want 24/7 and she enjoys another girl occasionally joining us. And she has no problem as far as my almost daily Perimeter barhops. Yeah, I'm just bragging now!
Bud
There is a direct flight from Cebu to Clark (airport in AC) takes about 1 hour. Therefore, you can go to Cebu, take care of business and then go to AC.
Good luck.
Thanks will do.
HornyGeorge
11-17-07, 00:29
The CEB-CRK flight is only run 3 or 4 days a week so check with www.cebupacificair.com to make sure it goes on the day you want. Also, it is a morning flight from Cebu.
Anyone ever try ACC, asiancybercams? It's a site like ABC. Has a lot of bells and whistles but not many girls online and very few dudes logging in, maybe a good thing? Is there a listing someplace of the different chat sites catering to us Asian lovers? I mean real links to unique sites, not 20 different named sites that all lead to ABC or the like like you get if you google search for them.
Interesting website. Sure does have alot of bells and whistles like you said. The Pinays I was chatting with even said that you could get a 2 way webcam signal if you have one. The ones I chatted with didn't pressure me to go private even once. One can't take these chat sites too seriously. I use them strictly for entertainment and if I get a few contacts out of it then great.
I'd be worried if a guy doesn't smile on his wedding day.
C00832662
I've attached a pic of someone who looks really hot (760145). But if you go to the profile, you'll see she's changed pictures. Not nearly as nice as the picture I found earlier Sept. 07.
But the strange thing is that the "last updated" hasn't changed. I can only assume that adding pictures doesn't count as a change. Strange.
X
Mates...come on...be honest..its not the girls only who are scammers. WE ARE as well....
Or does anyone tell all his secrets from the past immediatley to the girl? Is not our thrive to bed the gal as easy as possible with the less expenses? How many boys there are in serious marriage and are telling all...??
I assume its the same percentage of bola bola from us as from the girls.
Big difference> we are the one s who can decide. We are the one s who have either the money or the passport they are aiming for.
I am on and off there. Put up a profile for a month and then off again. With the ones in closer selection I tell them I deleted my account because I found her...and expect her to do the same. The few who do it are the more serious ones.
Next week I will meet 3 of them from Davao and Bislig. The gal from Bislig will travel there on her own account. The only one who did not ask for the bus fare in advance and didnt ask to bring her full clan along.
The 2 girls from Davao are working. One in the morning. She will be free only the afternoon, but shall be back home at night. The other one is working daytime, but free at night.
Ohh yeah..all 3 insist they are virgins. I am pretty shure it is the same myth as with the cherries in Angeles.
I think the shuffling round will be some sort of fun. Lets see how things going........In case nothing happens with them, then theres still the P4P scene in Davao.
The CEB-CRK flight is only run 3 or 4 days a week so check with www.cebupacificair.com to make sure it goes on the day you want. Also, it is a morning flight from Cebu.
I saw that I am just going 2 get up early and travel to Manila and catch a flight from there. The things we do for pussy.
Kill (pussy) at will
TrickyRick
11-17-07, 19:57
Yeah internet dates been there done that. If you there over a month maybe its worth your time. Hey I chatted to so many I get lost who I chatted with. Ok you meet some take a taxi there cost you then buy them food drinks etc cost you and they may bring a friend or mother you pay there food drinks cost u. Go to mall etc cost u. Then what they are not gro to take them to your hotel to screw you have to invest some time and no guarantee. In the end its less headache, less cost to go get a bar girl your guarateed a screw no worry or running around don't say I didn't tell you.
Ok you meet some take a taxi there cost you then buy them food drinks etc cost you and they may bring a friend or mother you pay there food drinks cost u. Go to mall etc cost u. .
True...that dates are no free shag. At the end u pay eventually more. But its the adventure of hunting..........
Better yet Tricky, stay home and masturbate. Less headache and less cost!
Yeah internet dates been there done that. If you there over a month maybe its worth your time. Hey I chatted to so many I get lost who I chatted with. Ok you meet some take a taxi there cost you then buy them food drinks etc cost you and they may bring a friend or mother you pay there food drinks cost u. Go to mall etc cost u. Then what they are not gro to take them to your hotel to screw you have to invest some time and no guarantee. In the end its less headache, less cost to go get a bar girl your guarateed a screw no worry or running around don't say I didn't tell you.
Bilbo Baggins
11-18-07, 04:10
Cherry blsm 864835That is just the damnedest thing you'd think he would have posted better pictures of her!
You have me worried BB! Oh, just for research purposes???LOL, glad you care, yep, its all research.
Mates...come on...be honest..its not the girls only who are scammers. WE ARE as well.... I'm not I am honest there is no point in my opinion in lying to them I'd rather sort out the incompatible ones and cut to what I want. If they want marriage and family etc I tell them no way I'm sterile its not going to happen. I do find some will adapt to whatever I say and change their stories which reveals their true agenda while others move on looking for impregnation with a ring attached. I have also found with some it doesn't seem to matter what you say they get a different understanding from what you intend. Oh well thats just like married life and I don't need that.
That one who got married in China only joined CB in August 31 and married by November thats too fast for my liking. I also see her husband is a better dresser than me.
The one who changed her photo I don't understand how it didn't record an update but I could see why she toned herself down that earlier photo of hers probably attracted the wrong type of guy, someone from here pestering her? lol
After all the talk here about CB, I decided to join. I left my computer on and CB open for the last 12 hours and I have over 150 requests to chat...I love the Philippines. I still prefer DIA over CB, due to DIA is free to email.
Robb
Wicked Roger
11-18-07, 13:31
The one who changed her photo I don't understand how it didn't record an update but I could see why she toned herself down that earlier photo of hers probably attracted the wrong type of guy, someone from here pestering her? lol
Yes probably me and X Man and Amavida.......:)
By coincidence, I confirmed that the date doesn't change.
Two cute girls in a pic, so I asked which one was her (I assumed sisters). She replied, but the picture was gone. There was no update date. I assume 1. she got tired of hearing the same question and/or didn't like the competition from her sis OR 2) she updated but the pics weren't approved yet, therefore no update date. I'll check again later.
X
The one who changed her photo I don't understand how it didn't record an update but I could see why she toned herself down that earlier photo of hers probably attracted the wrong type of guy, someone from here pestering her? lol
HornyGeorge
11-19-07, 02:39
DIA has about 10 times as many girls online at a time. 300 is about the most on CB but DIA gets over 3,000. LOTS of TVs though (CB weeds them out I think), so beware. Also, only 1 picture to 3 on CB. It shows last log on in hours and minutes, as opposed to CB only showing the date of last log in.
RobAF: DIA is only free for first 6 months, or so I am told. AS you said, easy to get too many girls writing you and you must learn to only reply to the top 1% or you'll waste too much time.
This is rather good. This is almost believable. This is a good example of how good they can get. DO NOT give these women any indication that you KNOW their scam. Don't teach them...
its bad happends to my business.coz last friday at 10:20 pm there is a husband of myfriend who came and he make a step that i dont like,
that guy is my bf before and he wanted to kissed my so what i did i push him out on my body, its came that my brother came and give a job to him, its a big troubles made at home, when we lift coz where goin to the police to make a blotter he came back and distroyed all things that we have, when my mother and father came on saturday afternoon and they so those things happends to our hows they decided to file cased to the court, for the physical injuries and property damaged that he made and also lot of case that we planed to file on him..we talk already with a lawyer here...
its been a bad things that happend to my store and also my house but its ok i knowthat god will help me to recover thosed problems that i have,
thank you so much and god bless you.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DIA has about 10 times as many girls online at a time. 300 is about the most on CB but DIA gets over 3,000. .
Wats the web adress of DIA,,,please
Wats the web adress of DIA,,,please
If you asked google for 'date in asia' she would tell you but since we're here to help each other i'll tell you to put .com on the end of it... dateinasia.com
There is a massive number of women on this web site.
The vast majority cannot hold a even a simple conversation.
If you try to email them, their responses dry up after 1 or 2 emails.
This is not through lack of interest in you. They simply have nothing to talk about. They are just there to get a ring/pregancy/obligation to family milking.
Most of them cant wait to get you on yahoo web cam where their response to everything you say is 'ic' 'oh' & the ever popular 'ok'.
If you look hard you can find some great girls but oh my god you're gonna be busy sorting through the chaff...
Happy mongering
Amavida
Wicked Roger
11-21-07, 10:47
If you asked google for 'date in asia' she would tell you but since we're here to help each other i'll tell you to put .com on the end of it... dateinasia.com
There is a massive number of women on this web site.
The vast majority cannot hold a even a simple conversation.
If you try to email them, their responses dry up after 1 or 2 emails.
This is not through lack of interest in you. They simply have nothing to talk about. They are just there to get a ring/pregancy/obligation to family milking.
Most of them cant wait to get you on yahoo web cam where their response to everything you say is 'ic' 'oh' & the ever popular 'ok'.
If you look hard you can find some great girls but oh my god you're gonna be busy sorting through the chaff...
Happy mongering
Amavida
Amavida
I tend to agree with you on DIA, and nothing pisses me off off more than the whole chat being "ic" and "oo" etc.
CB is still OK for me and still thriving. Had nice naked web cam (she not me :)) this morning - nice way to start the day in the office, no cash provided, no 'gifts', just becasue she loves me...well I am a lovable person. Had 3 like that this week and all promise me happy things when I am next back in Manila :) Maybe busy so may need help :D
Re the PM we had Amavidsa - not biting so far excuses but no realtime chat.
Wicked Roger
11-21-07, 11:07
C0082493
Look at this one on CB. New member, hardship story, love heels and sexy dresses, different name from her profile.... not sure if picture 3 is the same as the others, IMHO it is not but then am old :)
C00892420
Now this makes it very clear so best be on your good behaviour when you chat with her. Also am always suspicious of the type of photo on her profile, not sure why just am
Khun Larry
11-21-07, 17:50
Never been to Angeles( have been to PI, Manila, Subai etc..) planned this trip to go to Angeles to monger and just go back to work. Here is the dilemma. I have now met an educated beautiful Filipina from Cebu online who is expecting me to visit her. I got three days. Also have a possible business venture in Cebu? Any suggestions?
Maybe I could put that fire out in Cebu for you.
Khun Larry
11-21-07, 19:08
Next week I will meet 3 of them from Davao and Bislig. The gal from Bislig will travel there on her own account. The only one who did not ask for the bus fare in advance and didnt ask to bring her full clan along.
The 2 girls from Davao are working. One in the morning. She will be free only the afternoon, but shall be back home at night. The other one is working daytime, but free at night.
Ohh yeah..all 3 insist they are virgins. I am pretty shure it is the same myth as with the cherries in Angeles.
I think the shuffling round will be some sort of fun. Lets see how things going........In case nothing happens with them, then theres still the P4P scene in Davao.
Sounds like a dam good plan
Khun Larry
11-21-07, 20:42
I'd be worried if a guy doesn't smile on his wedding day.
C00832662
I've attached a pic of someone who looks really hot (760145). But if you go to the profile, you'll see she's changed pictures. Not nearly as nice as the picture I found earlier Sept. 07.
But the strange thing is that the "last updated" hasn't changed. I can only assume that adding pictures doesn't count as a change. Strange.
X
That is a 100% SHEMALE
If you asked google for 'date in asia' she would tell you but since we're here to help each other i'll tell you to put .com on the end of it... dateinasia.com
There is a massive number of women on this web site.
The vast majority cannot hold a even a simple conversation.
If you try to email them, their responses dry up after 1 or 2 emails.
This is not through lack of interest in you. They simply have nothing to talk about. They are just there to get a ring/pregancy/obligation to family milking.
Most of them cant wait to get you on yahoo web cam where their response to everything you say is 'ic' 'oh' & the ever popular 'ok'.
If you look hard you can find some great girls but oh my god you're gonna be busy sorting through the chaff...
Happy mongering,
AmavidaActually just had a yahoo "conversation" with one. Sounded exactly as described by Amavida, although I had a "really? " once (note the double? ) quite a frustrating experience to have the impression of talking to a baseball bat!
Still not found the great ones, but will let you know if I do.
C0082493
Look at this one on CB. New member, hardship story, love heels and sexy dresses, different name from her profile.... not sure if picture 3 is the same as the others, IMHO it is not but then am old :)WOW, she must of read this, her profile is gone:D
MrFantastik
11-22-07, 02:14
After hours of internet surfing looking for a nice hotel fot the new year. I saw a website with pinoy chat on webcam. Like a flash I saw a face. The smile of my life. After hours of (free) videochat finally I took her email address. And after 2 days when she received my photos by email she sent me the phone numbers. (I also have a pinoy smartbuddy3) Some sms etc etc. She agreed to see me when I'll in the Philippines. She look really great. But trust me R E A L L Y. I'm a good pretty boy, not bradpittstyle but really cute. How can I do this thing in the best way when I'll be in the Philippines'? Probably she also works as cam models. But. C'est la vie.
Sorry 4 my bad/poor english.
You need to be more specific about what information you want and what your goal is.
I'll start by saying you probably don't want to send airfare for her to meet you, unless you take the proper precautions.
I once suggested I might pay for transportation cost for a real cutey to meet me in Borocay. I was thinking ferry (she had no work obligations), she was thinking airplane. For the next two weeks she constantly pestered me about me sending her airfare -- "you promised!". At the same time she neglected to ask me how I was, or what I was doing. Needless to say I never met the dimwit.
X
After hours of internet surfing looking for a nice hotel fot the new year. I saw a website with pinoy chat on webcam. Like a flash I saw a face. The smile of my life. After hours of (free) videochat finally I took her email address. And after 2 days when she received my photos by email she sent me the phone numbers. (I also have a pinoy smartbuddy3) Some sms etc etc. She agreed to see me when I'll in the Philippines. She look really great. But trust me R E A L L Y. I'm a good pretty boy, not bradpittstyle but really cute. How can I do this thing in the best way when I'll be in the Philippines'? Probably she also works as cam models. But. C'est la vie.
Sorry 4 my bad/poor english.
MrFantastik
11-22-07, 16:45
Thanks XMAN here some informations:
I will be in P. For 2months travelling all over the country and in the middle of my trip I will be in the same CITY of the girl for 5 or 6 days.
She never ask favour/money/ticket/etc. And she gaves the email and mobile numbers afer the chat and after my pictures.
So, I don't like to pay for a girl. But sometimes I can do. Now this isn't (I hope)
So my question was:
If the girl is really interested in me, can a simple dinner/eating out/ little trip to an island be the PERFECT WAY?
Thanks.
And like always. Sorry for poor the written english.
C00845550
Take a look at the second pic and you'll notice there is guy's leg in the pic. If you ask her, I'm sure she'll tell you it's her brother.
My guess is that she spends a lot of time in front of the computer doing WHO KNOWS WHAT, and her eyes have become bad...she didn't notice that her husban.., I mean her brother's leg is in the picture.
Amavida, what happened to the girlfriend you stole from me? Does she still love you?
I have two now that are such complete annoying dimwits, I might favor future human culling.
One sends ten lines of happy faces in my offline ym. The other was really cute, but I got the same four/five messages everyday. After a few days, I realized she was mass mailing. I asked her how many guys she was sending that mail too. Haven't heard from her since, which is what I expected.
I can't really criticize her for mass mailings since i do it to.
X
X
Lucky Guy 1
11-22-07, 23:36
Hallo monger friend
I am new here in the sceen, so pls let me know how to find out, which C-number belongs to which girl?
Thanks for your support, friend
Tungsten Chef
11-23-07, 00:30
After hours of internet surfing looking for a nice hotel fot the new year. I saw a website with pinoy chat on webcam. Like a flash I saw a face. The smile of my life. After hours of (free) videochat finally I took her email address. And after 2 days when she received my photos by email she sent me the phone numbers. (I also have a pinoy smartbuddy3) Some sms etc etc. She agreed to see me when I'll in the Philippines. She look really great. But trust me R E A L L Y. I'm a good pretty boy, not bradpittstyle but really cute. How can I do this thing in the best way when I'll be in the Philippines'? Probably she also works as cam models. But. C'est la vie.
Sorry 4 my bad/poor english.Me too. I was the best looking foreigner in Bayugan/Butuan City.
C00845550
Take a look at the second pic and you'll notice there is guy's leg in the pic. If you ask her, I'm sure she'll tell you it's her brother.
My guess is that she spends a lot of time in front of the computer doing WHO KNOWS WHAT, and her eyes have become bad...she didn't notice that her husban.., I mean her brother's leg is in the picture.
Amavida, what happened to the girlfriend you stole from me? Does she still love you?
I have two now that are such complete annoying dimwits, I might favor future human culling.
One sends ten lines of happy faces in my offline ym. The other was really cute, but I got the same four/five messages everyday. After a few days, I realized she was mass mailing. I asked her how many guys she was sending that mail too. Haven't heard from her since, which is what I expected.
I can't really criticize her for mass mailings since i do it to.
X
G'day X! Hows things?
er, which gf is that exactly? I lost track... :) hehehe
On the subject of culling, I have dropped my profile off the web sites & culled all but 2 gf's at present.
I just got back from Phils last week. I did have a real hot chick lined up to spend 2 days with in Cebu called Kristine whom I found on DIA. Nursing student, gave me a sob story about being cheated on by pinoy bf some time ago and apparently wanting to wash away the bad memory with some white hot action between the bed sheets with me. Lots of really hot cyber sex talk about what she was going to do with me when I got there etc. Able to hold a semi intelligent conversation. Was saying all the right things to the point where I booked a flight & hotel room to go down there & shag her senseless.
I dropped the plans (and her) at the last minute because my spidy sense was always screaming at me 'too good to be true dude'. Maybe i missed out on something great but ultimately you have to trust your instincts.
Anyone want to prove me wrong go to DIA & look for 'kristine_amy' from zamboanga (actually she's in Cebu City).
At present i've got plenty of action from my 18 yr old HRM student in Manila, who has gone from virgin to wonderful GFE fuck of my life in a matter of 2 visits.
She shagged me so much I had to resort to a little 'help' for the first time in my life. Can you believe this, Im walking down Burgos with her & one of many street sellers stops us & offers me V or C. After the preceding night Its already in my mind that Im gonna need something to keep up with her in bed this night if we have a repeat of the previous night. So on the spur of the moment & knowing the street value of C I ask 'Cialis, how much?' The dickhead says 1000p, I just flatly say 'no, 300' he instantly says 'ok 2 box for 600' I grab the boxes shove the notes in his hand & we walk on. Total time of transaction 20sec's tops. Im kinda embarrassed by this & GF is asking what's that? I pretend not to hear & change the subject while frantically stuffing the boxes in my back pocket. So in the name of field research I swallow half of one of these 20mg Cialis tabs that night and i gotta tell you, even if they are generics manufactured in India or pakistan, the shit works. Not sure if needed but I tried a second dose the next night (full 20mg), only slight headache and able to fully satisfy this girls new found unbridled appetite for sex.
And gf #2 in Singapore who provides very pleasant stopovers there.. :)
probably will drop her in the near future coz she is faking her interest in me. You can tell when they just want a ticket out of the place.
Happy mongering
Amavida
Longhorn2000
11-25-07, 01:16
Planning my first trip to PI early next year (I've mongered before in Thailand, China, and HK). In any event, I decided to give FH a try and now I'm regretting my decision. I've met some real cuties, and they've all passed the Scammer test, but damn these girls are possessive. Every single one of them (4 so far) expects me to spend my entire trip with them and them only, and they constantly ask if I'm going to see any other women when I'm there. Obviously, monogamy is not part of my agenda in the PI, and I'm not looking for a wife to bring home to the States. On the other hand, I've gotten semi-attached to these girls, and I don't want to hurt any of them, but I don't want to spend my entire trip with just one girl either. How have you guys handled this before? I want to meet each of these girls, but not if the cost of admission is 3 weeks of monogamy. Should I just be honest and say that I'm going to meet others? Should I beg off now? Should I come up with an excuse as to why I have to leave?
X-man. I'm sure you've dealt with this many times before. How do you handle it?
Any advice appreciated.
I posted a profile on CB and FK that went as follows - which one of you girls needs help finishing your education? Or maybe you just want a holiday at some Philipino resort and lay about on the beach?I did not supply a photo in either case!
I get a load of replys including smiles&mails from girls who up to then had been looking for Mr Right!I actually got more responses than when I was impersonating Mr Good Guy!
Just to say it was a very illuminating experience!I even had one girl tell me that she was a bar girl and she just wanted a holiday on the beach and a break from the trade!She even offerd to furnish proof that she was a clean healthy girl with nothing transmissable!How I laughed!
Well, I don't have the problem so much because I tell them I'm just looking for friends and wouldn't consider any commitment to someone I've never met face to face. Of course after meeting them face to face, then I get the 30 text messages a day problem....
I also tell them I'm going to visit my American friend in Manila, Cebu or in Davao. If you hang out at ISG long enough you'll have guy friends all over the Philippines. For me it has to be a true story because I'm a terrible liar.
There was also a guy on the Davao thread who had an interesting angle. He told women he met that he was either enroute, or just finished, climbing Mt. Apo - which was true. In other words, have some legitimate excuse for being elsewhere in the Philippines.
Another strategy. Tell them you'll arrive later than you really plan to arrive. Then meet girl A - tell her you were able to get an earlier flight - "surprise baby!". Girl B doesn't expect you so you have some time to play.
As for the girls asking questions online about who you'll see, I often ignore it or change the subject. That should answer the question for them. If I get cornered, I say yes, I want to meet Filipino people, or jokingly, yes, hundreds of girls...but you're my favorite...
Okay, I hope that gives you some ideas. Now please review FH for us. So far, most of the posts have been by people who use CB. Naturally, I don't expect you to share your fav. four with us, but surely you can find one girl you can introduce us to.
X Man
Planning my first trip to PI early next year (I've mongered before in Thailand, China, and HK). In any event, I decided to give FH a try and now I'm regretting my decision. I've met some real cuties, and they've all passed the Scammer test, but damn these girls are possessive. Every single one of them (4 so far) expects me to spend my entire trip with them and them only, and they constantly ask if I'm going to see any other women when I'm there. Obviously, monogamy is not part of my agenda in the PI, and I'm not looking for a wife to bring home to the States. On the other hand, I've gotten semi-attached to these girls, and I don't want to hurt any of them, but I don't want to spend my entire trip with just one girl either. How have you guys handled this before? I want to meet each of these girls, but not if the cost of admission is 3 weeks of monogamy. Should I just be honest and say that I'm going to meet others? Should I beg off now? Should I come up with an excuse as to why I have to leave?
X-man. I'm sure you've dealt with this many times before. How do you handle it?
Any advice appreciated.
Interesting. Can you give us some profile info so that we can check out the one you describe? CB is easy to search using the profile number, but I don't know how FH works. (FK?)
Has anyone ever chatted or met this CB girl? She's pretty cool and I might try to meet her. Lives in a boarding house, so that's promising.
C00618547
X man
I posted a profile on CB and FK that went as follows - which one of you girls needs help finishing your education? Or maybe you just want a holiday at some Philipino resort and lay about on the beach?I did not supply a photo in either case!
I get a load of replys including smiles&mails from girls who up to then had been looking for Mr Right!I actually got more responses than when I was impersonating Mr Good Guy!
Just to say it was a very illuminating experience!I even had one girl tell me that she was a bar girl and she just wanted a holiday on the beach and a break from the trade!She even offerd to furnish proof that she was a clean healthy girl with nothing transmissable!How I laughed!
Wicked Roger
11-25-07, 12:30
Xman/Amavida
Maybe one for us to avoid... C00895992.
At least she/he is very honest but surpirsed CB let it through and more surprised it came up on my 'New Matches' inbox!! Best check my settings as this will give me a bad reputation :)
XMan re the lady you ask about, no dont know this one but she is cute so good luck. Tell her you have some friends......:D
This one is really wild. First one massive run-on sentence. and then short staccato sentences. Oh, and the staccato sentences are in upper case. Either this chick has multiple personalities or there were two different writers.
iam looking for that man that is serious to love and ready to give anything want i want but i really love thAT is willing to me and i just wan to get know each others iam simple but honest to all i just meet simple guy and loyal to me and he is honest to and i dont want games i want serious.......i hope that there is someone who will care for me for being what im..... and i want man that is supportive man in my life.... NO - I AM NOT PERFECT - BUT THROUGH THIS LIFE I HAVE MADE A COMMITMENT TO MYSELF TO GROW, LEARN AND MATURE FROM THE SITUATIONS I HAVE ENDURED AND THE MISTAKES I HAVE MADE! I CAME TO THIS SITE IN SEARCH OF MY LIFE PARTNERAND SOUL MATE! SOMEONE WHO WILL WORK TOGETHER WITH ME TO BUILD A STRONG, HARMONIOUS, MUTUAL BOND FOR LIFE ! AS FOR ME, I VALUE NOTHING MORE THAN HONESTY ! IT IS THE FOUNDATION OF EVERY SOLID RELATIONSHIP AND ENCOURAGES TRUST AND RESPECT ! I DESPISE LIARS !LOVE IS NOT WONDERING HOW LONG IT WILL LAST BUT HOW STRONG 2 HEARTS CAN MAKE IT GROW! LOVE IS NOT FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON, BUT BEING PERFECT FOR THE RIGHT PERSON! LOVE`S BOUNDRIES KNOWS NOT AGE, RACE OR DISTANCE ! THE GREAT MARRIAGE ISN`T WHEN THE PERFECT COUPLE JOIN TOGETHER.... IT`S WHEN THE IMPERFECT COUPLE LEARN TO ENJOY THEIR DIFFERANCES!
Yea, Roger, can I call you a friend? Where do you live? Don't say AC because that IS NOT a good alibi.
Xman/Amavida
Maybe one for us to avoid... C00895992.
At least she/he is very honest but surpirsed CB let it through and more surprised it came up on my 'New Matches' inbox!! Best check my settings as this will give me a bad reputation :)
XMan re the lady you ask about, no dont know this one but she is cute so good luck. Tell her you have some friends......:D
Xman/Amavida
Maybe one for us to avoid... C00895992.
Agreed.
Sometimes I wish the dating web site owners would setup a separate section for trannies & those who seek them.
On DIA I was getting about 1 in 20 enquiries from these freaks of nature.
It started to get annoying after a while.
Happy mongering
Amavida
Planning my first trip to PI early next year (I've mongered before in Thailand, China, and HK)Remember they are looking for someone who will travel to the Philippines and if you have a trip scheduled, they hope that you will be the one. They are also honest, if you haven't been in the Philippines before, the internet girls know that it will only take a short time until you realize that women out number the men 10 to 1. So, if they don't get you all to themselves, they know that they could lose you very fast.
Living in the Philippines for the last seven months, I found that if you treat the women with respect, they will not stay angry if you don't answer their texts for 24 hours and they know that you are with another girl. I had more then a few ladies tell me that were upset, but it didn't last more then 1 day and then they were back to texting me 10 times a day.
I am now back home and I know that living there really changed me (it was my third time in the Philippines in the last 18 months) and I love the country and I will return.
Stay safe
Robb
Interesting. Can you give us some profile info so that we can check out the one you describe? CB is easy to search using the profile number, but I don't know how FH works. (FK?)
Has anyone ever chatted or met this CB girl? She's pretty cool and I might try to meet her. Lives in a boarding house, so that's promising.
C00618547
X manFK is short for Filipino Kisses - I see many girls there who have profiles on CB but usually just the names are different!The bar girl I am keeping to myself guys - till I double check her!I have her booked for a week at 12,000 pesos which we negotiate already!I did not tell her I would be in Phillipinnes at least 2 weeks before I arrange to go to Sipalay with her!I will post the numbers and photos of some girls who showed promise to my invitation!Negotiations are on going with several girls and I will let you know if such is economical in comparison to going to bars/clubs for a pick up!
Or maybe I list their e-mails for you and see if you recognise any - what is the rule here about that?
Interesting. Can you give us some profile info so that we can check out the one you describe? CB is easy to search using the profile number, but I don't know how FH works. (FK?)
Has anyone ever chatted or met this CB girl? She's pretty cool and I might try to meet her. Lives in a boarding house, so that's promising.
C00618547
X manI forgot to say that at Filipino Kisses when you buy a membeship you get access to the girls e-mail addressess and sometimes phone numbers and home addresses - that beats the info you get at CB any day?If I remember it works much the same way as Thai Kisses but much better as there is I think a better choice of girls there at FK than TK!!?Also you have Asian Kisses but it is to spread out with girls from all over the place FK tends to be mostly Filipinas which is what we want to focus on when it is Filipinas we want!
Planning my first trip to PI early next year (I've mongered before in Thailand, China, and HK). In any event, I decided to give FH a try and now I'm regretting my decision. I've met some real cuties, and they've all passed the Scammer test, but damn these girls are possessive. Every single one of them (4 so far) expects me to spend my entire trip with them and them only, and they constantly ask if I'm going to see any other women when I'm there. Obviously, monogamy is not part of my agenda in the PI, and I'm not looking for a wife to bring home to the States. On the other hand, I've gotten semi-attached to these girls, and I don't want to hurt any of them, but I don't want to spend my entire trip with just one girl either. How have you guys handled this before? I want to meet each of these girls, but not if the cost of admission is 3 weeks of monogamy. Should I just be honest and say that I'm going to meet others? Should I beg off now? Should I come up with an excuse as to why I have to leave?
X-man. I'm sure you've dealt with this many times before. How do you handle it?
Any advice appreciated.Not sure if this will help u at all, I am not a member of any dating sites but I am chatting to a girl in Manila. I have always been honest with this girl, maybe because I not really care if we meet or not.
We chat most days and I enjoy chatting to her, she is looking for a long term relationship with me but I have told her I am not interested in having a relationship with her( well nothing more than sex).
She would also like to spend all my time in PI with her, I have told her that is not going to happen. She knows I have been to Angeles and I plan to go back there, if only for a couple of days.
Her only rule is that I don't go chasing other girls while I am with her, that's ok with me. I have told her before that I not want to hurt her, but she say do not worry it is her problem not mine.
This may not be the same for every girl out there maybe I just got lucky.
Good Luck.
Kavorka341
11-26-07, 20:12
Planning my first trip to PI early next year (I've mongered before in Thailand, China, and HK). Any advice appreciated.I'm definately not in the experienced category in PI, as I'm only here on my second trip at the moment. But I did take the same approach as you so have some ideas.
I also spent quite abit of time on FH before my first trip, and had my list of girls to see, and similarly they all wanted to meet me straight away and get in first.
I'm lucky that I am here working, so I simply use the 'going out with colleagues' excuse when I need a night off from one of them. But don't worry too much about it, they are masters of looking innocent and hiding what they are up to, so it's a given to say that they now what you will be doing.
I made a point of telling them both at the end of the first trip that I had infact been seeing someone else aswell, and while they didn't appear to like it at the time, it has made no difference at all this time and they have both come back for more.
Just tell them when you are free. 'I can see you Wednesday and Thursday, but I have other plans on Friday' etc...
Also, I made the mistake of getting on FH too early before I arrived. I've found the best option is to wait until only a few days before to tell them when you will be here. Now that I am here I just jump online and make plans for the next couple of days.
Don't worry if you think you will miss the good ones you have found so far, there will always be more to choose from.
I forgot to say that at Filipino Kisses when you buy a membeship you get access to the girls e-mail addressess and sometimes phone numbers and home addresses - that beats the info you get at CB any day?If I remember it works much the same way as Thai Kisses but much better as there is I think a better choice of girls there at FK than TK!!?Also you have Asian Kisses but it is to spread out with girls from all over the place FK tends to be mostly Filipinas which is what we want to focus on when it is Filipinas we want!
In Filipino Kisses you can buy a membership for one month ($35). While you're a member you can get the contact info of more than 300 girls. Even after your membership expires you can still have an account and access the information for all of the girls you saved. Not a bad deal.
CB 811204
I think I got one message from her and then nothing for 45 days. Looking at her proflie, she had been active, but was just ignoring me. During that time I wrote serveral message -- mostly generic things that I cut and paste to save time and increase my potential contacts.
After about 50 days the message disappear from the mailbox, so I sent her one last mail telling her I "would be in the Philippines".
Well, well, 21 hours later, I get this message.. It works every time.
***hello..how are you????well, its nice if we meet in person, well i am so sorry i was sick and hope we can chat each other, i missed you and pls takcare of yourself and hope we can chat soon..godbless you and i am happy knowing u will coming here so that we can meet.."
For those of you who don't already have regulars setup. How long before your trip do you wait until you start making contacts on penpal sites and chatrooms? I'm taking my cherry trip to Phil in about 6 months and was wondering if chatting with these girls this early would be a waste of time. Thanks for any input.
If you're looking for something serious, it might be wise to start early and get to know the lady. If you're just looking for dates, I'd say three months before would be the max...and include the time in country as part of your subscription. I've had two very successful dates after contacting women from an internet cafe after I was already in the Philippines.
My biggest problem is keeping track of all of them. The worst part is when they move you over to YM and then don't identify themselves when they chat...and of course they have some handle like simple_filipina...
I'd like to hear what others do, but I sort YM into cities. As for my online service I've resorted to using a print screen software to capture the profile, print it and then add notes directly to the paper.
I keep thinking of making an EXCEL file because you could then sort by name, city or even birthday. Somehow I never get around to it.
X Man
For those of you who don't already have regulars setup. How long before your trip do you wait until you start making contacts on penpal sites and chatrooms? I'm taking my cherry trip to Phil in about 6 months and was wondering if chatting with these girls this early would be a waste of time. Thanks for any input.
CB C00449247
After exchanging a few messages with this hottie, she admits she's in the US with her husband and gives me the phone number of her 32 yr old aunt who has two kids.
X
Nightrider1
11-28-07, 02:10
If you're looking for something serious, it might be wise to start early and get to know the lady. If you're just looking for dates, I'd say three months before would be the max...and include the time in country as part of your subscription. I've had two very successful dates after contacting women from an internet cafe after I was already in the Philippines.
My biggest problem is keeping track of all of them. The worst part is when they move you over to YM and then don't identify themselves when they chat...and of course they have some handle like simple_filipina...
I'd like to hear what others do, but I sort YM into cities. As for my online service I've resorted to using a print screen software to capture the profile, print it and then add notes directly to the paper.
I keep thinking of making an EXCEL file because you could then sort by name, city or even birthday. Somehow I never get around to it.
X Man
I think that about 1 month is long enough to chat with a potential candidate for meeting in person. Most of these girls live such simple lives that after about 5 or 6 chats you will know all about them and their families and there will be nothing left to talk about. At least for me I start getting bored and want to find a new girl to chat with. I also advise enabling the history function on yahoo because if you chat with as many girls as I do you start forgetting the particulars of each one and one will come online and say " do you remember me " and i zip over to the chat history and I can say oh yes your the 20 yr old from Cebu who works at Ayala.. Believe me that impresses them.. Even though 3 min earlier I could not remember anything about them. I also agree with X-Man that you should keep your subscription while you are in the Phil. very nice to be chatting up a new girl on filipina heart or cherry blossoms and find out your in the same city as she is and your both free for the night to meet and get to know each other better..SWEET.. I also create yahoo groups so I can segragate my chatmates into the cities they live in but wish yahoo would allow subgroups so that you could also maybe do single moms or ages or just more information than just cities in the groups.
For those of you who don't already have regulars setup. How long before your trip do you wait until you start making contacts on penpal sites and chatrooms? I'm taking my cherry trip to Phil in about 6 months and was wondering if chatting with these girls this early would be a waste of time. Thanks for any input.
Yes, in general 6 months is way too long. If you are looking for a casual gf or aquaintance. The prettier the girl, the sooner you have to be there after making contact. The desperate will chat for 6 months.
I agree with Xman, most of the girls come from very humble backgrounds have little to say. Your best success will come with chicks who just want to give their cp # & meet u asap!!
Keeping track of them?
I use a Mac, its easy to 'print' their profile page to a pdf file which I store in a folder with as much identifying info as possible together with mail transcripts.
It quickly becomes unmanageable no matter what you do because many ( most of the DIA girls ) use a different profile name on each of several dating sites, a completely different email address and often a different yahoo id...
Hence once again better to just make contact get cp # & meet fairly soon because in the mean time you will be constantly adding new interests with all there bloody subterfuge nonsense & you lose track of the earlier ones.
The kid in a candy shop syndrome is what I call it. Better to limit your self in time & place to what is available _now_. The more you look the more you find but most you will never get around to meeting.
Some of the lazy bitches contact you with no pic & when you ask for one refer you to a different dating site. That turns me off them real fast. Im not here to chase after them. Usually they turn ou to be be very average anyway.
They spend endless hours of their lives in internet cafes trying to hook & dream BF or husband. Telling them you are gonna be there in 2 or 3 weeks gets them _real_ motivated! Droning on with emails & chat for 6 months means while you're doing that she's probably got some dude servicing her already.
They do vary a little from this pattern but its mostly true.
Some other advice.
1) Dont fuck P4P girls with out a condom - ever. You expose yourself to a myriad of horrible STD's or or even death.
2) If you bareback clean girls, you will create a pregnancy for a girl who likely has no means to support (another illegitimate) child so be prepared to act like a man & pay for the abortion expenses if she agrees to it, or to pay for the child's welfare for the next 18 years.
Factor in abortion expenses into your trip costs : 1000 for abortion pills if you catch the pregnacy early. If you leave it for more than a month, a further 20,000 in medical costs to remove the incomplete abortion from her (otherwise she will have severe gynae problems at best or die from sepsis if your not lucky).
Happy mongering
Amavida
Thanks for the feedback guys.
Since I'm just looking for casual acquaintances and not a wife I will gladly hold off on site subscriptions for a while. I've been on a few of the webcam sites since I've heard of guys having some degree of success there and have even gotten some ym id's. I have to say it seems like most of the webcam girls just use their ym chat accounts to send out blast emails to guys asking them to visit them.
Also, I have no plans on getting anyone pregnant. I plan on using condoms for p4p as well as regulars. I really don't need any extra baggage.
Pop quiz, there is something wrong with this pic of Nina from DIA.
Can u tell?
:) hehehehehehe
Winners of the contest will receive Nina's Yahoo ID!
Happy mongering
Amavida
Bilbo Baggins
11-28-07, 09:33
Pop quiz, there is something wrong with this pic of Nina from DIA.
Can u tell?
:) hehehehehehe
Winners of the contest will receive Nina's Yahoo ID!
Happy mongering
Amavida
um....you are in it? Please don't tell me the pretty one is a guy???
X Man we seem to have the same taste in women.
I like that idea of sorting them on yahoo by cities as I am only going to meet ladies in the cities I'm visiting. I'm going early next year and I joined CB about 4 months ago for 2 months that was too early as I'm down to only one regular chat friend that I'm going to hook up with for a couple of weeks. The rest I got bored with or felt were unsuitable while others thought I was unsuitable for them.
You can save their photos from CB and it keeps their ID number on the photo FH doesn't do that. With FH you can save the profile page as html but not the chats unless they are in Yahoo while CB gives you the choice to save cb chats which I do because most of them give you their yahoo id in the first chat. My intention was to match all the information so I could keep tabs on who was who but it got overwhelming with so many saved chats. I was chatting with several ladies each day. Unlike Yahoo there is no way to identify them without opening the saved chat. I just couldn't keep up with the paper work and cross referencing. I prefer CB over FH for slightly better ease of use and having more than one photo, both have trouble with the chats crashing from time to time. I think the mix is the same in all of them.
I like the idea of searching on the ground for instant dates this long distance stuff has too much bullshit attached. The only advantage of joining these sites early is the sussing out experience you get. So long as you remain cynical you can sort them out eventually , I think, lol
I joined this site as a non paying member it seems you can find p4p ladies here and they seem to wear less in their photos all I can do is read profiles. http://www.sexiestfilipinas.com/
Iainmore, I'm thinking of going to Sipalay what do you think of it? I am going to visit a few diving places to take up scuba diving.
It's funny how you guys mentioned that keeping up with all of the details with your contacts is almost impossible. It seems that this is a two way road. I've been chatting with a few gals that I met in Yahoo chatrooms and one that I dropped about 3 weeks ago sent me an instant message out of the blue telling me that she was finally in Australia to see me. That was kind of funny since I live on the west coast of the US.
BB, your first five words cracked me up.
AV hasnt replied, but what interested me most was the background of the pic. Mirror? Not sure. Certainly seems to be a girl in t-back in the background of the pic.
So, what is weird about this pic] C00888672
Dan
Frequent Flier
11-29-07, 07:28
CB C00449247
After exchanging a few messages with this hottie, she admits she's in the US with her husband and gives me the phone number of her 32 yr old aunt who has two kids.
X
Too funny Xman. I also had a chat with this girl and she quickly told me she was already in the USA and married. Very nice girl.
This girl also tried to hook me up with her Aunt with two Angels, as she called them. In other words two daughters. I told her I was only interested in my own family not a ready made family. She tried to get me to give her aunt a try, but I declined. So then she told me about her 27 year old cousin. I asked if she was on CB and she said yes, but when I when and looked at her profile she had no picture. That should have been a big flag, but I kept on. Finally after two days we caught each other on Yahoo and she looked like she was 35, not 27 and looked like she had pushed out more than a few angels. So I politely told her I did not think we were right for each other.
She was not at all attractive. I think the cb girl married in the USA is desperate to have a familiar person in the USA with her or she really just wants to help her friends..who knows.
check this one out
C00895992
I could not believe this. But at least the truth is being told. Unless you like sword fighting this one is not for you, which I'm sure is the case here 100%. I'm sure CB will be removing this profile soon.
FF
Pop quiz, there is something wrong with this pic of Nina from DIA.
Can you tell?
:) hehehehehehe
Winners of the contest will receive Nina's Yahoo ID!
Happy mongering
AmavidaAdams apple?
um....you are in it? Please don't tell me the pretty one is a guy???
Hehehehehee :)
Yep one of them is not of the female persuasion.
But which one is it??
C'mon! BB You can do it!
Amavida
Under Yahoo Messenger you can use the Contact Details function to save information about a girl. Just select a girl from your contact list. Then click on Contacts in the top menu bar. In the pull down menu click on Contact Details. In the box that pops up you can enter all kinds of useful details: phone numbers, home town, birthdays, etc. The most useful part for me is the Notes (under Notes tab). Here you can just enter anything to help you remember a girl like her CB number, where you met, etc. This stuff always saves the day when a girl pops up and says "Hi" without a cam and expects you to remember who she is.
HornyGeorge
12-01-07, 00:52
BB: Sipalay, Western Negros, is a great place for diving but bring your own GF out there as there is NO ACTION AT ALL. Major hassle to get there also as nearest airport is a solid 3 hour taxi ride away (either Bacolod or Dumaguette).
Don't you feel sorry for the poor thing. Just one tragedy after the other.
C00889325
Frequent Flier
12-02-07, 00:16
Don't you feel sorry for the poor thing. Just one tragedy after the other.
C00889325
couldn't bring that one up X-man, must be deleted already or some problem on my end, but check out this beauty.
C00900397
she is from manila, thailand.... and then check out this one.
C00900316
even the scammers make mistakes. Need to be careful with the copy and paste. It does not always work, or maybe they purposely left some of the text out. Who knows what lurks in the mind of a cunning Flipino
FF
couldn't bring that one up X-man, must be deleted already or some problem on my end, but check out this beauty.C00900397she is from manila, thailand. even the scammers make mistakes.FF
It was also gone when I checked it out.
FF, she may not know where she is and she looks too good to be true. I sent her a message and lets see what she says.
Robb
Frequent Flier
12-02-07, 00:36
It was also gone when I checked it out.
FF, she may not know where she is and she looks too good to be true. I sent her a message and lets see what she says.
Robb
I edited the message to add another one with the same Manila, Thailand location, except this time they actually mention it in the profile. Too funny
I also sometimes send a message to see what I get back, but becasue I say in my profile that I know all the scams and have been to the Philippines many times I never get a response. I should change it, but to lazy.
Before I put that in my profile I always received a response and I receiveed about 10 times as many initial contacts from CB girls on the scam obviously.
FF
Frequent Flier
12-02-07, 01:31
This one is a complete scammer.
C00871992
For me anytime they are from Zamboanga City it is a 99 percent chance they are a fake and on the scam.
I thought I had saved the two conversations I had with her, but can't find them. In the first conversation she asked for me to get her a web cam within about 10 IM's back and forth. The way she approached it was she asked if I mind if she had a web cam and I responded "no... i did not mind if she had a web cam" so she responded thank you sir, how do I get the web cam...to which I responded that I never said I would buy her a web cam only that I did not mind if she had one. That it was fine with me for her to have a web cam, but I would not send her money for one. I asked her to go to a web cam Internet cafe so that I could see her and if it was her I would send her money, which I really would not have done, but I knew it would not happen. She tells me that she is in a poor province area way outside the city and they have no web cam Internet cafe. So I ask her if they are so far away from the city that there is no web cam cafe, where would they purchase the web cam from? And if they could purchase the web cam then obviously they would have web cam Internet cafe there.
She quit chatting right then
A few days later I see her on line again so I send a IM to see what happens, I like screwing with these scammers when I have time, which is not often. she or it or whatever it is must have forgotten our last exchange of IM's as she stars chatting and this time within about 3 exchanges of IM's she ask if she can ask a favor, but she is shy to ask, I know you have all seen this weak approach. So of course I tell her she can ask a favor. Well this time she is not doing well because the typhoon is there and they have no food, so she needs money for food. I banter back and forth for awhile and then log out as I had other things to do.
Her yhoo IM is alfaro_kathleen
I know X-man that you frown on this and I agree we should not let them know we know the scam, but sometimes I cannot help myself.
I promise not to do it again for at least two months.
FF
Bilbo Baggins
12-02-07, 09:27
The profiles are disappearing too fast maybe someone from CB is reading this forum?
I hate it when the fake women look better than the real women. I need more practice in spotting them Amavida.
C00900593
hi to evreyone i just member cus my father get stroke cus i dont have money thank you have a nice day and god bless.She's 37 and I'm not sure what she is looking for but someone must have told her something or maybe its Christmas time.
803398
hi im looking a one guy to love me to care with me to love me for how i am for what i am and to love my all relatives and my famely and to accept me because im a poor waman i will found that a guy i will love him forever untill i breathI wouldn't hold my breath for this one. Is it me or has the quality dropped.
FF I have the same feeling about Zamboanga too many pretty duds.
Thanks hornygeorge, can I bring more than one GF? Is it a good place to lay around the beach? Is it easy to walk to town from the resorts?
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