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Wazoo,
IMO this is either a scam or it's the real deal.
. SNIP.
I think the woman behind the DIA profile you posted, is possibly married to a foreigner and waiting to be brought overseas. While waiting she wants to have fun but she is lying, her husband knows nothing of her plans.This woman knows that this profile will be very titillating to most readers and I would guess by now she has been deluged by locals looking for fun or by foreign guys who live here (especially now that the profile is listed here LOL).
As a local resident I would stay absolutely well clear of this one. (Note that she joined in July, 2011 and presumably hubby is back from his trip in Feb, 2012 anyway)
There are way too many variables in there that are just not worth the risk (for me anyway). I cannot fill up the page with them all, other than to say that I met a woman online in Cebu 2 years ago (with a similar scenario except that she thought her hubby didn't know about her side-line searching) but he DID.
TG I suspected a problem well before I gave away too much information about myself.
An interesting set of selection criteria.
However, I am deliberately looking for tall women because that is my preference, so in my specification for Matches in Cherry Blossoms, I set minimum height at 5'6".
I have had finds as tall as 5'8".
Of the women that I have followed through, and met, and / or bedded, not one has been a ladyboy.
And there have been a few, enough to be statistically significant.
Interesting,
G.
There are several warning signs of LBs some or all of which may be relevant.
1 Height over 5ft 4in and 80% chance its a LB.
2 Wants more children: No or Uncertain. 60% chance a LB.
3 Looks slim but over 60kg: 70% chance a LB.
4 Model type photo: 50% chance a LB.
5 Comes on very quickly: 60% chance a LB.
On the other hand.
1 Kids 1 or more. Less than 1% chance a LB.
2 Under 5ft 1 in less than 3% chance a LB.
3 Under 45kg less than 5% chance an LB
Maybe she is a woman who is applying the same reasoning to her situation as many guys do to theirs.
That is, her spouse is not there to meet her sexual needs, so she is looking for someone to fill the void.
What's wrong with that?
Husband may be out of town, or impotent, or incapacitated in some way, or a drunk, etc.
What's good for the gander is just as good for the goose.
Good for her.
G.
Ok, here's a DIA profile with what seems like a dream opportunity. [See full text below]. The direct link is.
http://www.dateinasia.com/joeven.html.
My spidey sense says this is a scam of some sort. Some of you members with ready access to Phil may want to follow the lead and see what happens...
Cunning Stunt
04-06-12, 07:46
What's good for the gander is just as good for the goose.Shouldn't that be the other way round?
I have indulged myself with unsatisfied married women several times here in The Philippines. However, you can be priming yourself for a potential set-up as adultery is a crime here in The Philippines. With so many available single women around, it is not really worth the risk.
Chocha Monger
04-06-12, 08:29
I would have liked to spend more time with her but she said she needed to leave to meet a relative. I gave taxi fare +.
She NEVER responded to any text, phone call, or on online msg after that. Nothing! Wow, I would have spent the rest of my holiday with her, so quite a shock.
So, some of you will come to the conclusion that I paid too little, or I'm a lousy lay. But my guess is that her ex was not really an ex at all. She's still with the guy, but angry at him so went out and fkd the first swinging dick she found. Any I was the lucky recepient. Just another afternoon in paradise. XX, cool your Joan Jetts. What did you expect with you being hung like hamster? She just wasn't impressed and the fact that you passed your raging crotch crickets to her probably didn't win you any points either. Try not to be such a skinflint next time.
Thanks for the tips CM. It's always nice to hear from you. Do you have a life. Philippines or elswhere?
QUOTE=Chocha Monger; 1265894]X, cool your Joan Jetts. What did you expect with you being hung like hamster? She just wasn't impressed and the fact that you passed your raging crotch crickets to her probably didn't win you any points either. Try not to be such a skinflint next time.[/QUOTE]
WestCoast1
04-06-12, 14:32
Try not to be such a skinflint next time.There is no good way to deal with this. Give her some peso? Don't give her some peso? Most gals are tickled pink to get some money. Others are downright offended. I've had several unhappy experiences while attempting to offer up some help. One gal, age 19, while I was walking her down the hallway (Tuxedo Suites) to head to the street in the morning, found the 10 rolled up p100 notes I slipped in her purse. Again, most gals are happy with that. She said,"What is this?" And with that she flung them up in the air. As we watched them floating to the floor, she said: "don't know what you thinking of me. I'm NOT puta!" Be careful out there.
Asian Rain
04-06-12, 14:37
Ok, here's a DIA profile with what seems like a dream opportunity. [See full text below]. The direct link is.
http://www.dateinasia.com/joeven.html.
My spidey sense says this is a scam of some sort. Some of you members with ready access to Phil may want to follow the lead and see what happens.She contacted me a few months ago. She asked me to do her on webcam for her boyfriend. Since she is in Cebu and I wasn't there, the exercise was academic. Who knows if it was a real deal or not.
Last month I got a contact from this girl.
http://www.dateinasia.com/prettymheiy.html
She offered me to come to the Dusit Thani and fuck her in front of her boyfriend, with the expectation that pics would be involved. It would have been a hop and a skip for me to go there, but since I didn't have Cunning Stunt's mask, I declined. Now here is the kicker: she is supposed to come back tomorrow (Saturday). If any of you studs are into that kind of thing, you may want to hit her up. Enjoy Manila, AsianRain
Cunning Stunt
04-06-12, 16:30
She offered me to come to the Dusit Thani and fuck her in front of her boyfriend, with the expectation that pics would be involved.I've had this sort of offer before but it has usually involved me taking photos/video of the action which will be sent to an absent foreign bf, stateside. I have always declined as there appears to be so potential for a setup and with so much sweet, available and unattached pussy out there, why take the risk? But it does have its appeal solely from a kinky and voyeuristic aspect...lol.
She contacted me a few months ago. She asked me to do her on webcam for her boyfriend. Since she is in Cebu and I wasn't there, the exercise was academic. Who knows if it was a real deal or not.
Last month I got a contact from this girl.
http://www.dateinasia.com/prettymheiy.html
She offered me to come to the Dusit Thani and fuck her in front of her boyfriend, with the expectation that pics would be involved. It would have been a hop and a skip for me to go there, but since I didn't have Cunning Stunt's mask, I declined. Now here is the kicker: she is supposed to come back tomorrow (Saturday). If any of you studs are into that kind of thing, you may want to hit her up. Enjoy Manila, AsianRainSometimes these could be distributed to porn sites. Better be carefull unless you do not mind to be known as porn actor.
It could also be broadcast as a live cam show. Long time ago this young pretty girl I met told me I can make quick money legally having sex with her. She was talking about making porn movies.
Looking back maybe it was not a bad idea. I would have got to fuck lots of beautifull women and get paid for it too. Definitely much better than paying.
Chocha Monger
04-07-12, 00:41
There is no good way to deal with this. Give her some peso? Don't give her some peso? Most gals are tickled pink to get some money. Others are downright offended. I've had several unhappy experiences while attempting to offer up some help. One gal, age 19, while I was walking her down the hallway (Tuxedo Suites) to head to the street in the morning, found the 10 rolled up p100 notes I slipped in her purse. Again, most gals are happy with that. She said,"What is this?" And with that she flung them up in the air. As we watched them floating to the floor, she said: "don't know what you thinking of me. I'm NOT puta!" Be careful out there.Westcoast,
Next time try 10 crisp p1, 000 notes and see if she makes it rain again. Gash for cash can be dicey when dealing with the occasional closet tramp but it's all in the presentation and quantity of the gift. It wasn't just that X was a charmless skinflint, some girls will even tolerate it. What really made her see that he wasn't worth a reply text or offline was his colony of crotch critters and the inadequacy of his little pweenis to give her gully hole a good bashing. She obviously deleted FedEx-Man from her contact after his fast delivery left her longing for a man with a sizeable beef hammer and real stamina.
Anyone explored a free site called 'xdating'? Seems to be popular in the US for horny women. I see about 60 entries for Philippines, most in the Manila region. Would appreciate a report if anyone has successfully used this site.
Anyone explored a free site called 'xdating'? Seems to be popular in the US for horny women. I see about 60 entries for Philippines, most in the Manila region. Would appreciate a report if anyone has successfully used this site.Do yourself a favor and perform a google search on Xdating. It seems as if the premium membership is not FREE as they advertise. You have to pay to have your selections receive your emails according to some of the reports on the searches. However, I have not used the site as a paying member and don't' know if paying members are successful.
The doctor says the critters are the rare and feared Chocha mushi.
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SNIP
It wasn't just that X was a charmless skinflint, some girls will even tolerate it. What really made her see that he wasn't worth a reply text or offline was his colony of crotch critters and the inadequacy of his little pweenis to give her gully hole a good bashing. .
After bellyaching about this for the past 10 years, I think I have finally cracked the code for getting pinays to meet me on time, or should I say, not be late.
Very simple really, and certainly not rocket science.
Just ask them to tell you what time they can definitely be at a scheduled meeting point.
Using a recent sample of 3 over the past 8 days, I used this strategy. Instead of saying "we will meet at X mall Y coffee shop at 11 am", I ask them to tell me what time they will be there.
In each case, they nominated a time which was reasonable to me and in each case they arrived between 30 and 60 minutes BEFORE the appointed time. After the 2nd one arrived early I assumed the 3rd one would too and sure enough. She rocked up 15 minutes early.
Something of a breakthrough I reckon even if they still don't have much idea of "punctuality" as I understand it.
I've been working on a pretty 22 year old who works about 2 hours from Manila. She agreed to come see me in Manila for a day of sightseeing and evening of partying. She said she could take a couple of days off work, so sounds like she's ready to overnight with me. She wants to do dancing where there's live music. She asked if it would be ok if I "meet" some of her friends in Manila. I've read enough of the boards to know that "meet" means that they will expect the rich foreigner to fund a night on the town. She's got a lot of hot friends on facebook, and I can tell by the photos that they have a really good time when they are out. Now, I don't mind investing a little cash to fund a party full of hot chicks that would get my date in the mood. However, I don't want to foot the bill for a bunch of guys, and I don't want to get bled dry. I told her that I am coming to Phils to see her and not her friends so I'd like to limit the party to a couple of hours. She agreed. I haven't been to Phils yet and have no idea what a night out on the town costs. How much should I be prepared to shell out to fund a couple of hours of partying for, say, a 5-6 people? Any way to limit the damage without coming across as kuripot?
Chocha Monger
04-09-12, 04:31
How much should I be prepared to shell out to fund a couple of hours of partying for, say, a 5-6 people? Any way to limit the damage without coming across as kuripot?Unless you're prepared to pay out the wazoo avoid this situation entirely. As a foreigner, and a stranger, they're highly likely to take advantage of the situation. It's best to get what you want in advance before you take a chance. Some websluts specialize in getting free entertainment from poriners and leaving them to bludgeon the beefsteak.
Keen Eye Joe
04-09-12, 05:48
[QUOTE= How much should I be prepared to shell out to fund a couple of hours of partying for, say, a 5-6 people? Any way to limit the damage without coming across as kuripot?[/QUOTE]Hey Wazoo,
You're going to find that partying in the Phils is highly reasonably priced. Where will you be staying in Manila? If you're in Malate or Ermita, I recommend taking the gang to a large music and dance club called the Cowboy Grille. There are branches each in Ermita and Malate, but I prefer the one in Ermita because it was just a short walk from my hotel. Don't waste your money going to the Hard Rock Cafe or any other upscale place.
Mention the Cowboy Grille to your lady friend and she should be quite happy to go there.
I met an internet gal in MNL two years ago and offered to take she and her 4 friends there. Just stay away from buying mixed drinks and individual beers. I recommend selecting from one of their many beer and munchie combinations, where they bring out a large mini keg of San Miguel beer and a couple of good sized snack plates. If memory serves me correctly, it cost me around $25. Great music, good beer, and a lot of fun was had by all. I normally hate dancing but I had a lot of fun shaking my booty surrounded by my female posse of 25 year old hardbodies.
Partying is even cheaper out in the province. I recently spent time in Dagupan, Pangasinan and took a lady and 4 of her friends to a club called the Music Warehouse. 10 San Miguel lights, a pizza, and a fried chicken and fish chunk combo plate cost me a whopping 750 pesos.
Pinaypounder
04-09-12, 06:11
Wazoo.
2 things they love most, Karaoke and your money. Go to a cheap Karaoke, buy a bottle, vodka, some sprites and a few snacks. Sing laugh and grope. Never fails!
PP
WestCoast1
04-09-12, 06:59
Now, I don't mind investing a little cash to fund a party full of hot chicks that would get my date in the mood.I'm with CM here. Avoid this if at all possible. You are making a common newb mistake: hoping something will go right. Ask around, things rarely go as planned with pinay. If you have not discussed what the expectation is in advance (either to how many friends, what sex the friends are, or what the expected outcome is for you afterwards) , then you are farting into the wind and hoping to catch it. There is always an element of fantasy that occurs when you meet someone new for a first date. That element is very strong when newbs meet pinay. The Filipino has a much different mindset than you do. They don't mind at all partying on a kano's dime all night, then dropping him back at his hotel: ALONE.
However, I don't want to foot the bill for a bunch of guys, and I don't want to get bled dry. I told her that I am coming to Phils to see her and not her friends so I'd like to limit the party to a couple of hours. She agreed. I haven't been to Phils yet and have no idea what a night out on the town costs. How much should I be prepared to shell out to fund a couple of hours of partying for, say, a 5-6 people?Costs can be inexpensive for you and 3 girls, depending on what place (s) you go. On the other hand, if you don't specify, she might show up with 5 other girls, and hit the more expensive places (girls in inexpensive malate will want to taxi [make that two taxis actually] with that many people to an expensive disco in taguig). You could be looking at dropping a low of 800-1000 piso on 3 girls, and a high of 5-10-15K pesos ($300) for you and 6 girls. Its just impossible to say. They will be your tourguides, as you have not been there. You can suggest places, but the first time they say,"No, thats terrible place we don't go there," then you are stuck going where they tell the taxi driver to go. It doesn't make sense to pop for a large amount like that, not knowing in advance the outcome, when you can get a girl there overnight for $50.
Any way to limit the damage without coming across as kuripot?For locals, they are mostly kuripot. But for you, its harder. Tell her ahead of time there is a limit, such as:
1. P1500-2000 (any monetary limit)
2. No more than 2 of her girlfriends (good god, that should be plenty?) , and.
3. 3 hours (some time limit)
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All that having been said, Waz I got to say (gently) that you appear to by wooing Your dating site chatmates. This leads to SUCH mixed results with pinay. Expecting sex from any pinay who is a chatmate on a first date, whom you've not discussed nawty expectations with, often leads to frustration. When you woo, you "get-what-you-get" on any first date. My suggestion is that you stop with the "gf" stuff and tell her that after you party for a while with her friends, the two of you will be going back to your hotel for the night. Her response will tell you if you were about to get ripped off.
Other gents?
Stroker Ace88
04-09-12, 07:18
I've been working on a pretty 22 year old who works about 2 hours from Manila. She agreed to come see me in Manila for a day of sightseeing and evening of partying. She said she could take a couple of days off work, so sounds like she's ready to overnight with me. She wants to do dancing where there's live music. She asked if it would be ok if I "meet" some of her friends in Manila. I've read enough of the boards to know that "meet" means that they will expect the rich foreigner to fund a night on the town. She's got a lot of hot friends on facebook, and I can tell by the photos that they have a really good time when they are out. Now, I don't mind investing a little cash to fund a party full of hot chicks that would get my date in the mood. However, I don't want to foot the bill for a bunch of guys, and I don't want to get bled dry. I told her that I am coming to Phils to see her and not her friends so I'd like to limit the party to a couple of hours. She agreed. I haven't been to Phils yet and have no idea what a night out on the town costs. How much should I be prepared to shell out to fund a couple of hours of partying for, say, a 5-6 people? Any way to limit the damage without coming across as kuripot?Wazoo,
I think a common mistake guys make before heading to the Philippines for the first time is chatting and making friends with women who are located all over the Philippines. You need to be brutally selective and laser focused to only include women who CURRENTLY reside in the cities and places you will visit. If you will not travel to her city then what's the point of getting to know her?
You always need to double-check the info on her dating profile. Assume it's always wrong and her friend or cousin wrote it for her (which is common) and ask where she is located RIGHT NOW. If her profile says Metro Manila ask her where she is now, you might get some place in the province or vice-versa.
From your description of the woman in question several red flags are waving. First she lives 2hrs from Manila and will come to meet you there. That's common but the red flag is she told you she will take a couple of days off work. If she has a steady job she just can't announce she wants a few days off unless she works with family. The boss tells her what DAY she has off not the other way around. My guess, she has no job and lives in Manila and is telling you a story to try to make her situation seem better. Like she is doing you a favor meeting you and planting the seed in your head that now you somehow owe her.
Second red flag is she wants you to "meet some of her friends". She has you pegged already Waz and she wants to get all the free crap she can for her and her friends. Chances are good one of her guy "friends" will actually be her BF. I would meet her alone or with no more than one of her close friends. Pay for a drink at starbucks or a small meal at McDo and after getting to know her tell the woman you will go back to your room and ask her if she is ready to go with you. If she refuses then you just saved yourself time and money on a woman that was never going to go to your room.
If she goes back to your room and everything works out and you like her, on the second day take her shopping and buy her some shoes or jeans. Limit the spending to under a few thousand pesos and do not let her get carried away. Take her out for awhile to meet her friends and pay for a few drinks. Make an excuse like business email to send and get her away from her friends and back to the room for another night of fun before sending her home the next day with a few pesos in her pocket.
Pip Jaeger
04-09-12, 07:41
I'm with CM here.
1. P1500-2000 (any monetary limit)
2. No more than 2 of her girlfriends (good god, that should be plenty?) , and.
3. 3 hours (some time limit)
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All that having been said, Waz I got to say (gently) that you appear to by wooing Your dating site chatmates. This leads to SUCH mixed results with pinay. Expecting sex from any pinay who is a chatmate on a first date, whom you've not discussed nawty expectations with, often leads to frustration. When you woo, you "get-what-you-get" on any first date. My suggestion is that you stop with the "gf" stuff and tell her that after you party for a while with her friends, the two of you will be going back to your hotel for the night. Her response will tell you if you were about to get ripped off.
Other gents?I've had 5 girls that I've been chatting with suggest the same thing – meet up with girl friends and party. Three of the five I've been chatting with for a few weeks (yes, I made the newbie mistake of posting a DIA profile too early) and all five know exactly what I am looking for. I did make it clear that I would only meet up with their gf's (no guys) and I limited it two or, at the most, three gf's.
After the party suggestion came up, I told all of them I would only agree to that if we meet up first for a few hours, have some fun in the hotel and then meet up their friends later. Four of the five readily agreed and I've gotten no response from the fifth. I also asked if any of their gf's would like to join us after we party and spend the night. I've gotten one definite 'yes', two 'I'll asks' and one – 'No, only me sex you '.
I like WC's idea about setting limits, when the time draws near I will definitely do that.
BTW, I look forward to posting my first field report and I will of course try to accompany them with pics.
GoodEnough
04-09-12, 10:17
Personally, I'd drop the whole thing. The odds are strong that the whole experience will not live up to expectations. Why bother with a lady who is two hours away when there's a virtual inundation of willing ladies right in Manila. This is your first trip and it's your first night in a new place; given these factors, my advice would be to go for the sure thing rather than face the potential of losing what could be a few hundred dollars. I agree with CM and Stoker, there's no need to "woo" anyone unless you're thinking she's potential marriage material. If all you want to do is get laid there are lots of other options guaranteed to result in success.
My advice, depending on where you're staying, your budget, and your tolerance for sleaze is to head to Burgos, EDSA Entertainment Complex or MBC, find one (or perhaps two) that you like, and head back for a nice first night experience. Once you're sexually sated, and thinking once again with your larger head, then you can consider phoning the girl and tell her either she meets you alone or forget the whole thing. Whatever you do, do not allow her to manipulate the situation and to seize control of your wallet. You don't know her. You have no idea of what party venues she's likely to select. You don't know who her friends are and you don't know the city. All of these ingredients, when mixed properly, could add up to disaster.
GE
Wazoo has opened quite a can of worms. I can't disagree with anything that anyone has posted so far. But I also think that if he likes her, he should consider meeting her. But not on the first day, as GE wisely suggests.
Some questions.
Two hours? Is that by bus, jeepney or taxi? (two hours is nothing by mnl standards)
Hot friends on FB. Well, where do they live? (I had a hotty from Bulacan...but all her pics were in front of Havana Cafe...umm....)
FB pictures of her and hot friends. Are there pics of bikinis and resorts? (...guess who took the pictures and paid for the resorts....)
Dancing, what places does she recommend? (see GE's comment -- if she knows the place, she's in control which is not a good thing)
How is her English? What is her job? (someone else already made some good comments about work, but that being said, I did have a gal work things out with colleagues and show me a good time....she was a receptionist at a relatively small hotel)
Wazoo, these are rhetorical questions, no need to answer them if they make you feel uncomfortable. These are some of the things I look at.
If her initials are A N, you need to pm me! No, if her initials ar A N, you need to fogettaboutit. Ha, ha.
Asian Rain
04-09-12, 12:27
RK, Useful solution on the time management problem. Putting the time commitment on the girl's typically irresponsible shoulders is somewhat counterintuitive, but it definitely sounds worth trying. I have tried a different approach which has had good results: I simply tell the girl to meet me an hour earlier than the time I want to meet. As we normally set up to meet in a popular shopping center, if she arrives a bit "early", I just ask her to do a few minutes of window shopping. If she arrives "late" - meaning she is "on time" for me - then everything is cool. Either way, if there is any time wasted, then it is her time which is wasted, not mine. That's the important thing any way it works. Enjoy those Manila Filipinas, AsianRain.
@Wazoo: Quick advice: Don't do what you are thinking of doing. For any first-timer, keep it simple.
After bellyaching about this for the past 10 years, I think I have finally cracked the code for getting pinays to meet me on time, or should I say, not be late.
Very simple really, and certainly not rocket science.
Just ask them To tell you what time they Can Definitely Be at a scheduled meeting point.
Using a recent sample of 3 over the past 8 days, I used this strategy. Instead of saying "we will meet at X mall Y coffee shop at 11 am", I ask them to tell me what time they will be there.
In each case, they nominated a time which was reasonable to me and in each case they arrived between 30 and 60 minutes BEFORE the appointed time. After the 2nd one arrived early I assumed the 3rd one would too and sure enough. She rocked up 15 minutes early.
Something of a breakthrough I reckon even if they still don't have much idea of "punctuality" as I understand it.
Member #4491
04-09-12, 16:28
wazoo here is my two cents; if this is the kind of girl you need to invest money in to get her "in the mood", her friends will be cock blockers. if they are not, you will not need to invest anything to f*ck her either.
in general; do not try to impress her. she should impress you. this is the key to limiting your spending. you will sure "get her in a mood" by spending money of her friends, but not for what you think. and where will the friends go? these girls always has friends where they live. new residence, new friends. the concept of "friends" is not like in the west. it is flaky and casual.
if she deserves your time and money, you decide when, how and where. pull your head out of your western ass and get adjusted to this new way of thinking, and you will be fine (written with a smiley). i suggest speed dating where you line up a few girls with 1 hour apart. in between you can look for mall girls. have local ones come in after the one that travels, so you can cut them off with an excuse if the traveler is a keeper that you want to hang out with immediately.
if she is lying about her job or not could be argued to be irrelevant. you want to f*ck her and not marry her, so who cares about the story.
wazoo, what you do now is a part of the build up for a trip and this can be good entertainment. the plans you make will however rarely have much relevance once you are there. in fact they will most likely just feel like a hindrance to new and better plans you will make. be flexible and make sure you have ways to exit any plan. if the girl brings friends, you tell her "sure but are you not afraid i will fall for one of your cute friends instead?". and if you like one of them, you take her instead. no free meals ever and this chat mate of you need to realize that if she brings friends, they are game. may the best woman get to stick her hand in your purse. let her know, in a friendly manner, that male friends or friends outside a defined age bracket will void any plans you made with immediate effect. just say "i told you not to bring boys / aunties / ladyboys / etc" and walk away.
have fun and do report back.
b.
I've been working on a pretty 22 year old who works about 2 hours from Manila. She agreed to come see me in Manila for a day of sightseeing and evening of partying. She said she could take a couple of days off work, so sounds like she's ready to overnight with me. She wants to do dancing where there's live music. She asked if it would be ok if I "meet" some of her friends in Manila. I've read enough of the boards to know that "meet" means that they will expect the rich foreigner to fund a night on the town. She's got a lot of hot friends on facebook, and I can tell by the photos that they have a really good time when they are out. Now, I don't mind investing a little cash to fund a party full of hot chicks that would get my date in the mood. However, I don't want to foot the bill for a bunch of guys, and I don't want to get bled dry. I told her that I am coming to Phils to see her and not her friends so I'd like to limit the party to a couple of hours. She agreed. I haven't been to Phils yet and have no idea what a night out on the town costs. How much should I be prepared to shell out to fund a couple of hours of partying for, say, a 5-6 people? Any way to limit the damage without coming across as kuripot?This has Cowboy Grill writen all over it. Couple of hours hm you could easy say goodbye to enough dough to barfine on burgos without the hastle. U seem to be reading the forum here yet you are not getting it. ITS EASY to find nice girls there. You may need few girls only to get you rolling but after that it is very very easy. I would not bother with this one, if she is already saying things like that be prepared for lot of curve balls from this one.
ChiefThinker
04-09-12, 21:44
Hi!
I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.
I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.
"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"
In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:
"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)
I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.
BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.
Thanks in advance for any info you can share.
I would strongly object to her bringing her hot friends and partying. It looks like she has been discussing this with her friends. One thing to remember is never let any girl know you are visiting first time. Always pretend you have been to Manila many times and have met lots of girls. This makes girls think you are not a easy target. Besides you have not met the girl and does not even know if you like her and if she is good in sex. Once you and her hit it off if you want to spend some money you can invite her friends to party. This does not mean you get into their pants as well. Partying at your expense is ok but generally sexual overtures will be rebuffed even if the girl is game. She would not want to make enemies with the girl over a short time visiting foreigner.
I have had relatives of the girl stop by to meet me. Girl says. But this is after we are staying together for a few days. Before I could object she says too late, she has already said yes. Ok, knock on the door and walks in her cousin, husband a cute little girl. There nothing general to hold a conversation. So I discretely tell the girl they can leave. She says we need to take them for lunch. I just gave the girl some money and let the girl and them go for lunch. They wanted to come next day also. I told the girl clearly NO.
In another instance the girl says her parents want to meet me. I say no. She said in that case she needs to leave and be with them. Gladly I let the girl leave. Next days texting like crazy and asking to come back. Moved to another hotel.
In another in Cebu, the girl wants to go shopping at Ayala. I agreed to buy her some clothes. Lo and behold her whole family is there group of about 10 people with kids. Co.incidence? Do not think so. After saying Hi, I wanted to say good bye. Girl says they are hungry and wants to eat. All wants to eat at the buffett place costing I believe 290 pesos a person. I said I am not hungry and walked off. Girl was pissed and started crying all the way back. I told her my time is only for her and will help her only. Anyway back in the room she calmed down.
After all these my solution is get the girl from far away provinces even if I have to fly her in. No hassles of friends and relatives in most cases.
i appreciate all the good advice here about how to handle the request of this new filipina friend who wants to invite some friends when we go out to party. i should add a little context here. i have been a frequent traveler to east asia for the last 20 years. i know that it would be simplest to just go to a bar and pick out a different girl every night i'm in manila. i've done more than my share of that in china, japan, and korea and frankly am bored with that whole scene. having sex with a total stranger just doesn't excite me much anymore. i spent some evenings in china last year with high end working girls who were as beautiful as magazine models. i am hoping for something more personal in phils since language is not an issue and the girls tend to be warm-hearted and romantic. i want to establish a relationship with someone through chat and then enjoy a few days with her while i'm there. if get along well, i'd really rather just stick with one rather than shoo her away in order to meet another the next night. i've got 3 or 4 likely candidates i'm talking to now. the one in question actually is my backup choice at the moment. she is a massage therapist at a legit spa near ac. she usually video chats from work and i see the shop and all her friends in uniform. they often join in to laugh and talk with me if customers are around. we've hit it off very well. she's never asked or even hinted for money. there's no evidence on facebook of a filipino boyfriend or western hookups, just lots of shots of she and her friends out together. i know that money is really tight for her, but she is willing to miss a couple of days of work, probably with the expectation that i will give her more than she could make at the spa. she originally is from the manila area, and so i guess wanted to see some friends while she's in town. this girl and her friends are just tons of fun, so i wouldn't mind funding a karaoke or dancing evening if i can limit the time and peso investment to something reasonable. it would be fun for me too. i have no desire to bed any of her friends. following the advice here, as time for my trip gets closer i'll be more explicit about my expectations for sex and also make sure that i can limit the numbers of friends and the time we'll spend with them. i've already told her that my main focus is to spend time with her, not her friends, and she seemed to like that. i'll also follow the suggestion here about the club and how to handle the drinks and snacks. if this particular girl gets too demanding or balks about staying with me in the hotel, i have a few others in the works who are very clear about how we'll spend out time together. i can switch to one of them quite easily.
i now have been duly warned about the need to be clear about my expectations and set firm limits. and also that i should expect the unexpected. thanks. i can work out exit strategies in advance and won't get suckered into anything. forewarned is forearmed.
Holyfemme says her name is Carla. We exchanged messages in DIA for weeks and she gave me her phone number but never answered it when I was there. Flake.
Hi!
I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.
I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.
"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"
In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:
"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)
I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.
BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.
Thanks in advance for any info you can share.
i appreciate all the good advice here about how to handle the request of this new filipina friend who wants to invite some friends when we go out to party. i should add a little context here. i have been a frequent traveler to east asia for the last 20 years. i know that it would be simplest to just go to a bar and pick out a different girl every night i'm in manila. i've done more than my share of that in china, japan, and korea and frankly am bored with that whole scene. having sex with a total stranger just doesn't excite me much anymore. i spent some evenings in china last year with high end working girls who were as beautiful as magazine models. i am hoping for something more personal in phils since language is not an issue and the girls tend to be warm-hearted and romantic. i want to establish a relationship with someone through chat and then enjoy a few days with her while i'm there. if get along well, i'd really rather just stick with one rather than shoo her away in order to meet another the next night. i've got 3 or 4 likely candidates i'm talking to now. the one in question actually is my backup choice at the moment. she is a massage therapist at a legit spa near ac. she usually video chats from work and i see the shop and all her friends in uniform. they often join in to laugh and talk with me if customers are around. we've hit it off very well. she's never asked or even hinted for money. there's no evidence on facebook of a filipino boyfriend or western hookups, just lots of shots of she and her friends out together. i know that money is really tight for her, but she is willing to miss a couple of days of work, probably with the expectation that i will give her more than she could make at the spa. she originally is from the manila area, and so i guess wanted to see some friends while she's in town. this girl and her friends are just tons of fun, so i wouldn't mind funding a karaoke or dancing evening if i can limit the time and peso investment to something reasonable. it would be fun for me too. i have no desire to bed any of her friends. following the advice here, as time for my trip gets closer i'll be more explicit about my expectations for sex and also make sure that i can limit the numbers of friends and the time we'll spend with them. i've already told her that my main focus is to spend time with her, not her friends, and she seemed to like that. i'll also follow the suggestion here about the club and how to handle the drinks and snacks. if this particular girl gets too demanding or balks about staying with me in the hotel, i have a few others in the works who are very clear about how we'll spend out time together. i can switch to one of them quite easily.
i now have been duly warned about the need to be clear about my expectations and set firm limits. and also that i should expect the unexpected. thanks. i can work out exit strategies in advance and won't get suckered into anything. forewarned is forearmed.sounds like a plan. i would suggest you tell her that first you want to spend a day or two with her alone before the party after all thats why you are there. she would not object to that. also if you can at least get an idea from her what that evening will include it could be a good advantage as at least you know in advance what to expect. for instance if they want to go to few discos (say around makati) then you may be in for 500 peso entrance fee per person which very quickly could get expensive. resto bars as you initially suggested are ok but again try and watch what they order as its quite common for them to order ridicules amounts of food. also if you end up in a place like that my tip to you is try and get a table far from the stage as they tend to be way to loud and you can forget about conversation. karaoke bars are also funny. it depends on where you go to and how much of a sucker the manager figures you are. imo its best for you to step in and tell him what you want and look like you know the deal as oppose to letting the girls do the negotiating for you.
anyway my question to you is this what you want? what i mean is, is this how you picture your gf experience? do you want to go to places like that or perhaps maybe you prefer something else but you are going with this just to make her happy? i read that you don't mind doing it but do you want to do it? there are plenty of ways to enjoy a gf experience and plenty of alternative ways to have fun, cinemas, sight seeing, day trip out of manila. work out what you want to do rather then keeping her happy, trust me it won't change a thing for her. don't get me wrong i am not saying don't take the girls out and i have done it many times but my intentions have always been more sinister then yours hence it was what i wanted each time i did it. you will find that filipinas don't think like we do. if you have a budget as to what your willing to spend and if this night out means less tip for her then its probably better to not bother with it. what you will spend that night is more then she makes in 2 weeks if not more. also now that we have more detail from your last post there is another potential red flag. most girls due to the reputation of ac especially in her line of work are not always open and honest with their friends back in their hometowns as to what they do mostly being afraid of gossip. i very much doubt it her friends will know she is a massage therapist in pampanga lol as they will all assume she provides happy ends even if that may not (uniforms mean fuck all, i hope you understand why may not is in capitals) be the case. what this means is she may want to parade her poreigner to her friends and god knows what sort of story she has told them so once again expect the unexpected. i wouldn't be surprised if the 2 or 3 friends you may have allowed to come up turn to 10 or so, so perhaps you may need to reiterate this quite heavily and maybe its a good idea to meet up somewhere else before deciding where you will go. i once made the mistake of meeting my girl and her two friends in cowboy grill but then another lot of "colleagues" tuned out and joined table. needless to say when she asked if she can order extra cos they are all hungry i was put into a tight spot. i got out of it by saying i thought we are there just for drinks and i have work so i need to go, i paid the bill up to that stage and got out of dodge. there was no way i was going to pick up a bill for another dozen friends half of them male.
you mentioned that you have plenty of experience with bar girls elsewhere in asia which is good but very different to phils. language, closer culture to the west, more desperate girls plus the general go with the flow popcorn mentality that filipinas have makes this a fairly unique place. some of my most memorable short time (few days, up to a week) gf experiences have been with burgos st bar girls. i would go to some of the more fun bars like rogues, talk to few girls, buy a ladies drink or two find the one i want then explain i want her for the night with the possibility of maybe few days if we hit it off. i would tell her what that includes, ie, what on my mind for that particular girlfriend experience and see what she says. this over the years has included sex in public, holidaying to some nice places in phils, bringing her as my gf/sex slave to some remote places in phils where action is very limited or impossible to find, bondage and so on. i would pay the barfine once or twice until she trusts me and then work out a deal with her to skip the barfine. some girls get fined for not turning up to work but we are talking few hundred peso which you simply reimburse. last girl i did this with turned out to be ex disco promoter for few of the top clubs in manila and i had great time with her for a week. just the savings on night entertainment worked out far more then what my costs were to keep her, feed her and even take her shopping. no entrance fee anywhere, no cues and most of the time free drinks and vip treatment in some of the hottest manila clubs. we even ended up seeing a concert in arneta colosseum for free (a band i wanted to see and i was going to pay the tickets for both of us which worked out around $130 for both at the time). another that i am still in touch with and i will see in june is no longer a bar girl she is back in uni and can't wait to introduce me to her new uni friends. she was like pit bull, in clubs she would go hunt for another girl for threesome and almost always come back with another bombshell that was happy to come back to the hotel with us. cost for the second girl - picking up her drink tab, breakfast and taxi money next morning (i would give her 1000 peso anyway but that was never discussed and my bar girl would not offer anyone money when she was picking girls up). i know this is not what you wanted but keep this in mind as a back up. don't overcomplicated your first trip as others have advised before. you will find that sometimes girls on dia are very different in real life so if you find that you have sacrificed on beauty too much then this becomes an option, no offense but i doubt that you can talk politics, economics, art or anything you are into with the massage girl from ac.
good luck and i hope you get most of your gf experience.
McDon, thanks. I sent you a PM.
Stroker Ace88
04-10-12, 18:53
Hi!
I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.
I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.
"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"
In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:
"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)
I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.
BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.
Thanks in advance for any info you can share.Hmm I find it amusing when guys are willing to trade info on a few DIA contacts as if somehow they have found water in the middle of the desert. It's about equal to holding a few sardines in the middle of a large fish market. There are HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of filipinas online and even more in the Philippines that are willing to make friends with a foreigner and possibly go back to the hotel.
It's pointless to try and trade info on a few specific women because it's always YMMV. Some guys are younger vs. Older, better looking vs. Fugly or have a better chat personality and might click well with one woman while the next guy strikes out. Also different women prefer different types of guys, some want older guys and some younger guys. Again YMMV.
Only time trading a profile that seems warranted is when a woman possesses a certain skill set that some might desire such as, S&M sub or dom, preggy or post-preggy and gives milk, a certain body part or type that is exceptional, offers or provides threesomes or some other sexual services such as greek.
Not a dig in any way on ChiefThinker, just my thoughts on recent events.
Cool Traveler
04-10-12, 20:25
Wazoo, agree with the other posters here. Cowboy grille is a good place. Stay away from makati, and don't go anywhere near the Greenbelt area. These girls will always pick the most expensive item from the menu. Don't be surprised if you do get screwed. That would spoil the fun right? Ask how many are going? And make sure they are all girls! Depending on the place, alcohol costs are different. I am actually there end of this month.
The other thing, best advice is avoid this situation all together. I think based on that you wrote, and just like the other gentlemens advice, and if you really want to go through with this, Cowboy Grille.
CT
ChiefThinker
04-10-12, 21:19
Holyfemme says her name is Carla. We exchanged messages in DIA for weeks and she gave me her phone number but never answered it when I was there. Flake.You are "somewhat" correct, she can be a flake at times but worth the effort IMHO. Did you try texting her? She always responded to my texts in fairly short order. She does claim very limited availability due to school and work and says she cannot answer her phone during class or when working.
Of course, YMMV but her photos are real and she comes close to your size preference in the chest department.
ChiefThinker
04-10-12, 21:41
Hmm I find it amusing when guys are willing to trade info on a few DIA contacts as if somehow they have found water in the middle of the desert. It's about equal to holding a few sardines in the middle of a large fish market. There are HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of filipinas online and even more in the Philippines that are willing to make friends with a foreigner and possibly go back to the hotel.
It's pointless to try and trade info on a few specific women because it's always YMMV. Some guys are younger vs. Older, better looking vs. Fugly or have a better chat personality and might click well with one woman while the next guy strikes out. Also different women prefer different types of guys, some want older guys and some younger guys. Again YMMV.
Only time trading a profile that seems warranted is when a woman possesses a certain skill set that some might desire such as, S&M sub or dom, preggy or post-preggy and gives milk, a certain body part or type that is exceptional, offers or provides threesomes or some other sexual services such as greek.
Not a dig in any way on ChiefThinker, just my thoughts on recent events.No offense taken and you are absolutely correct in the YMMV. Etc.
The reason I posted the way I did was simply to show I was not trying to just "mooch" info without offering anything in return. Since I have no field reports I did not want someone to look up my few post and judge me as only asking for info without providing any. I was just hoping someone had actually met one of the girls I listed and if not I'm still willing to offer my info to anyone via PM on the ones I have personally met.
In any case, I can't wait till I arrive on Friday night. If anyone is in the P. Burgos area and wants to grab a cold one just let me know.
PS Gangles, I tried to PM you but your box is full.
Hi!
I'm a long time lurker and have been to MNL numerous times. I have used DIA & FH with fairly good results. While I do not kiss & tell in the open forum (mostly because I'm a lousy writer) I am interested in getting some info on a few DIA profiles.
I'm arriving in MNL this coming Friday and would be most grateful for any personal info on any the following DIA screen names in no particular order.
"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot" (looks like a sure thing but worry about her "real"looks) , and "Ff29"
In return, I can provide personal intel on a few very nice gals including:
"Holyfemme" (Makati),"Geraldine" (Manila but has sister in Makati),"Loveablehaz" (Cebu)
I know it's very short notice and I'm not a "field report" contributor, however, I am more than happy to provide 411 via PM.
BTW, if anyone will be in Makati this weekend and wants to tip a few, I'd be more than happy to buy you a drink or two or three.
Thanks in advance for any info you can share.No need to trade anything about DIA contacts. It is a free and open forum and if you put your criteria you will get what you are looking for.
As for coming to room, opening legs, how much money is asked or given, good in sex etc who knows? Just because one person had a good time with the girl has nothing to do with another person being happy.
It all depends on personalities, chemistry, likes and dislikes to have a good time.
Just spend some time searching and anybody can hook up. Prettier ones and those living with parents take a little longer. Just today I was chatting with a good looking girl and she said she cannot stay with me overnight because of her job and staying with parents and have to explain. However she is game for meeting. Maybe she is open for afternoon delight. We will see.
Sometimes these girls play games making them look like 2 day old virgins. Reality maybe different. It is always better to tell them directlky that you are looking for a good time. Soon after that their innocense vanishes and some are ready while others say they are not like that. Hit enough girls and you will be rewarded.
Why would we not trade info about DIA or other contacts? That is the exact reason why I asked ISG mgmt to create this thread and it has been an extremely popular thread. (sorry if that sounds like self promotion, but "chat" is the second thread I hit after the photo thread)
Several people here at ISG have given me contact info or in some cases personally introduced me to ladies. Thank you gentlemen. X (aka Klutz)
No need to trade anything about DIA contacts. .
Fast Buck Artist
04-11-12, 15:00
"Hersheyly","BeleiveInMe","Jenlei","Tinkerbel","Sweetjasmin21" (seems like a scammer),"Honeymoon" (seems too willing to meet),"Sweet and Hot"Half of your list are ladyboys the other half are very suss. Filter mate, filter!
Asian Rain
04-11-12, 15:51
This one messaged me yesterday. Pretty self-explanatory ad. Wish they could all be so clear.
http://www.dateinasia.com/simpleignorant.html
Her look doesn't do it for me. Nor does her age / weight look accurate on her profile. But I know from the Thai threads there are mature chasers out there. AsianRain
Asian Rain
04-11-12, 16:37
I had this sweet young spinner (http://www.dateinasia.com/babydailyn09.html). Definitely a newbie on the game. Kinda shy and reserved. Slim and petite with A-cup tits with perfect pencil eraser nips. Nice hard ass. Plump juicy clit and loved to have it licked. She wasn't very active and needed to be led. Lick this. Suck that. Get on top now. Highlight of the session was when she went into cowgirl and impaled her tight little fuck box squarely on my rod. The "oh sheeet oh sheet oh sheets" started as she rocked back and forth faster and faster until she had a nice orgasm. Definitely knew how to get paid twice. Flipped her over for mish and pounded to completion.
It was really a blow and go session without any chemistry. Would not repeat. Just a nice quickie toy for spinner lovers. YMMV. Asked her if she was using DIA frequently to find customers. She said I was her third. Clearly on a mission to find more foreigners to monetize her twat. Enjoy DIA, AsianRain
Tally Wacker
04-12-12, 16:11
Which one of these two dating sites would you guys suggest to use to find a potential filipina mate. Thanks for any feedback.
TW
Half of your list are ladyboys the other half are very suss. Filter mate, filter!Honeymoon is a cam girl. She is pretty and will give out free pics, though.
NicFrenchy
04-13-12, 06:28
If you want to find some great gals for "Fun", then TAGGED worked very well for me. And its FREE
Stroker Ace88
04-13-12, 08:22
Which one of these two dating sites would you guys suggest to use to find a potential filipina mate. Thanks for any feedback.
TWA mate, a date and a wife are all very different things. Which one are you looking for?
WestCoast1
04-13-12, 14:53
Which one of these two dating sites would you guys suggest to use to find a potential filipina mate. Thanks for any feedback.
TWNone of them. The internet dating sites are filled with girls looking for a hubby. However, most pinay online are (or turn into) beggars, scammers and cam girls. Look for girls away from the internet. Live there first.
Which one of these two dating sites would you guys suggest to use to find a potential filipina mate. Thanks for any feedback.
TWTurn up here, and only support a girl who lives with you
Tally Wacker
04-13-12, 16:42
A mate, a date and a wife are all very different things. Which one are you looking for?Well I know how to find pussy, thats easier than finding a good restaurant. LOL.
I'm ultimately looking for a potential wife.
I'm well aware there are scammers and bitches on all the dating sites. And there are even good girls on dia. You just need to weed them out and of course go to Phil and spend as much time as possible with them. I do not have the ability to live in Phil. I will bring them to the USA to live.
I am also well aware of the pitfalls of bringing a girl to the USA but I'm willing to take those chances.
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.
I scanned over profiles in Cherryblossoms but have not signed up yet. It looks like a higher quality of girls than dia on there. Does anyone have expierience with Cherryblossoms or Filipinocupid?
Thanks for any feedback.
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.Yeah see that's just the type that will skip out on a man as soon as she has that green card.
http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1512-Living-in-the-Philippines&p=1132213#post1132213
Tally Wacker
04-14-12, 07:07
Yeah see that's just the type that will skip out on a man as soon as she has that green card.
http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1512-Living-in-the-Philippines&p=1132213#post1132213Ok Mr Jambo which quality should I leave out the naughty part or the college degree?
Well I know how to find pussy, thats easier than finding a good restaurant. LOL.
I'm ultimately looking for a potential wife.
I'm well aware there are scammers and bitches on all the dating sites. And there are even good girls on dia. You just need to weed them out and of course go to Phil and spend as much time as possible with them. I do not have the ability to live in Phil. I will bring them to the USA to live.
I am also well aware of the pitfalls of bringing a girl to the USA but I'm willing to take those chances.
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.
I scanned over profiles in Cherryblossoms but have not signed up yet. It looks like a higher quality of girls than dia on there. Does anyone have expierience with Cherryblossoms or Filipinocupid?
Thanks for any feedback.I have not had any luck with Cherryblossoms. I have had luck with Filipinas on Filipinocupid, Asian Dating, and Filipino Kisses. I have had a little luck with DIA, but not with any Filipinas. Of all the sites I have been on, I think Filipinocupid is the best. I would rate Filipino Kisses second, DIA 3rd, and Asian dating as 4th. YMMV.
Wicked Roger
04-14-12, 17:17
I had this sweet young spinner (
http://www.dateinasia.com/babydailyn09.html
). Definitely a newbie on the game.She is not as new as you think AR as she was doing the 'game' a year ago and saw a good friend of mine and member. But she is a slow learner maybe or likes to 'act' innocent, but she is cute I agree
Well I know how to find pussy, thats easier than finding a good restaurant. LOL.
I'm ultimately looking for a potential wife.
I scanned over profiles in Cherryblossoms but have not signed up yet. It looks like a higher quality of girls than dia on there. Does anyone have expierience with Cherryblossoms or Filipinocupid?
Thanks for any feedback.Hey, Tally, maybe we'll have a double wedding when I find my beau. Still want to bang as many busty lovelies as I can beforethen, tho.
As for Cherry Blossums. I met a nice girl from Ho Chi Minh there but all of my other experiences from CB, especially PI, were scammers. Buyer beware. The only advantage of CB over DIA is mutiple pictures IMO. I canceled my membership there.
Well I know how to find pussy, thats easier than finding a good restaurant. LOL.
I'm ultimately looking for a potential wife.
I'm well aware there are scammers and bitches on all the dating sites. And there are even good girls on dia. You just need to weed them out and of course go to Phil and spend as much time as possible with them. I do not have the ability to live in Phil. I will bring them to the USA to live.
I am also well aware of the pitfalls of bringing a girl to the USA but I'm willing to take those chances.
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.
I scanned over profiles in Cherryblossoms but have not signed up yet. It looks like a higher quality of girls than dia on there. Does anyone have expierience with Cherryblossoms or Filipinocupid?
Thanks for any feedback.If you are looking for a wife try to post in Phi papers matrimonial. Look for educated like having a degree in accounting, computer, nursing or doctor.
I am sure if on the marriage promise there will be several girls. Do not marry a poor province girl irrespective of how pretty. A poor girl with a poor family will always break up your marriage unless you live in Phi.
Like any dating site, your taking a risk. But I would suggest FC if your looking for a wife for a number of reasons. One there is a huge pool to choose from. Second you can customize your search. I would certainly suggest that one put's the women's level of education at the forefront of your search. One of the easiest ways to gauge her education is to customize your search to women who speak FLUENT english. Every women that I have had contact with that used Fluent english or Very Good english had some college or a college education. These women tend to be easy to communicate with and have realistic goals. This is important because once you marry a Filipina you marry her family as well so you might won't a women that's a nurse or some type of professional that can get a job other than a maid or cashier. Let her handle the monthly allowance to her family and be able to contribute to the one your making with her, financially speaking. Attraction is important but don't let that blind you from scammer warning signs, search for 25 and up, avoid anyone with health issues (major) , bad english, extremely poor and undereducated and a province girl. Stay with women from the major cities unless you want to spend quite a bit of time educating your new wife on eating, hygiene and social etiquette.
Fast Buck Artist
04-15-12, 05:33
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.This kind of woman will not tolerate your mongering addiction very well. I also like smart educated, tall, pretty etc. And found it's very difficult to hide your hooker addiction from an intelligent partner, sooner or later they find out.
I am still unmarried, perhaps the woman who can live with my lifestyle doesn't exist.
Tally Wacker
04-15-12, 06:15
This kind of woman will not tolerate your mongering addiction very well. I also like smart educated, tall, pretty etc. And found it's very difficult to hide your hooker addiction from an intelligent partner, sooner or later they find out.
I am still unmarried, perhaps the woman who can live with my lifestyle doesn't exist.Yea thats right on key FBA. After my divorce a number of years ago I have become a bit of a player in between some relationships. My latest is the sexy house cleaner that still comes weekly. That situation is not going to last forever and I'm surprised it has lasted this long. I am not into hookers at all really but I have had some fun with non working girls here in USA and in the Philippines.
I don't plan to chase girls for fun once I'm married again as I know an inteligent partner will find out as you say. Yes it will be hard to only fuck one pussy and I'm not sure I can be totaly faithful but I'm going to give it my best shot.
All of your guys feedback and information is helpful.
Thanks, TW
This kind of woman will not tolerate your mongering addiction very well. I also like smart educated, tall, pretty etc. And found it's very difficult to hide your hooker addiction from an intelligent partner, sooner or later they find out.
I am still unmarried, perhaps the woman who can live with my lifestyle doesn't exist.I found 5 girls and made them all GF and they live with me, they go to bars with me, they let me bring girls home, I never have problems with their families, . I think living here for 5 years helped. I must admit it not easy to find, and short skinny are even harder to find.
Oh I should point out i do not try and find girls on dating sites, and yes you may have seen 2 of my gf on DIA that because i have 5 gf so they can meet men if they want
I am bemused why guys who have already embraced a "mongering lifestyle" are contemplating getting married whilst, I presume, they will still wish to continue their dalliances on the side.
I am including D Cups and Tally W here, both of whom seem to be searching for a woman to marry.
If the intention is to find the sweet, wholesome, tall, well-educated, intelligent woman to marry but then to still continue playing behind her back without her knowing, then I have to ask why you plan to marry? If either or both of TW or DC plans to "settle down" with this "ideal woman" and give up their current lifestyle, then that's another story.
If the woman accepts you fooling around, then why get married? Just live with her (I assume you will see it as OK for her to go out alone too?)
If she is NOT accepting of you fooling around and you make fake promises to her, then that seems like two-timing and dishonest activity to me and a deliberate plan of deception.
There are 1000s of married mongers who would relish having the freedom that unmarried guys have, and yet here we have a few of these single guys looking to marry but, it seems, not to settle down.
As I said earlier, I am bemused by it.
RK, please don't discourage them. I've had some wild an inexpensive adventures with women who weren't quite happy with the dalliances of their main man.
I am bemused why guys who have already embraced a "mongering lifestyle" are contemplating getting married whilst, I presume, they will still wish to continue their dalliances on the side.
T.
Hi RK,
Are you married? Well, I have never been and perhaps never will but if I do 1) she might make an honest man out of me and 2) we might have a baby or two. Mongering is great but there is something to be said for companionship and domesticity. Then again perhaps it will be an "open" marriage if / when it happens. All my married friends say don't do it because it is never what you think it will be. Maybe they are right. Maybe I will just live with her but I want to buy property in Valencia and build a custom-designed dreamhouse there so maybe it will be a marriage of convenience. I figure I have another ten years of fooling around before I settle down and retire.
Regards
I am bemused why guys who have already embraced a "mongering lifestyle" are contemplating getting married whilst, I presume, they will still wish to continue their dalliances on the side.
I am including D Cups and Tally W here, both of whom seem to be searching for a woman to marry.
If the intention is to find the sweet, wholesome, tall, well-educated, intelligent woman to marry but then to still continue playing behind her back without her knowing, then I have to ask why you plan to marry? If either or both of TW or DC plans to "settle down" with this "ideal woman" and give up their current lifestyle, then that's another story.
If the woman accepts you fooling around, then why get married? Just live with her (I assume you will see it as OK for her to go out alone too?)
If she is NOT accepting of you fooling around and you make fake promises to her, then that seems like two-timing and dishonest activity to me and a deliberate plan of deception.
There are 1000s of married mongers who would relish having the freedom that unmarried guys have, and yet here we have a few of these single guys looking to marry but, it seems, not to settle down.
As I said earlier, I am bemused by it.
WestCoast1
04-15-12, 15:55
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.These ladies exist. But I'm not sure they exist for you (or me). They are rare. She will either have a regular job, or she's middle-class or above and from a family that provides what she needs. She will not be looking for kano, and she is not looking to relocate away from her family. She will have younger / gwapo / wealthy pinoy suitors. The only reason a pinay chooses the wealthier kano is for financial support for herself and her family. The girl you mention is already in demand from the local wealth.
TW, look at the odds of finding:
Regular job: 30% (maybe). Add in:
College degree: down to 8 percent. Add in:
Not a large family to support: down to 1 percent. Add in:
Speaks good english: down to 0.2 percent. Add in:
Tall: down to 0.02 percent. Add in:
Nawty / Nice: well, you get the picture.
The dating site is not where to find this girl.
Gents?
Hi WC, factor in big boobs and it is probably. 002.
In view of this, I am not opposed to buying her some nice big bolt-ons. There are good plastic surgeons in Cebu. Man, would I like to see the before and after pictures in his office hahahahahahaha.
These ladies exist. But I'm not sure they exist for you (or me). They are rare. She will either have a regular job, or she's middle-class or above and from a family that provides what she needs. She will not be looking for kano, and she is not looking to relocate away from her family. She will have younger / gwapo / wealthy pinoy suitors. The only reason a pinay chooses the wealthier kano is for financial support for herself and her family. The girl you mention is already in demand from the local wealth.
TW, look at the odds of finding:
Regular job: 30% (maybe). Add in:
College degree: down to 8 percent. Add in:
Not a large family to support: down to 1 percent. Add in:
Speaks good english: down to 0. 2 percent. Add in:
Tall: down to 0. 02 percent. Add in:
Nawty / Nice: well, you get the picture.
The dating site is not where to find this girl.
Gents?
These ladies exist. But I'm not sure they exist for you (or me). They are rare. She will either have a regular job, or she's middle-class or above and from a family that provides what she needs. She will not be looking for kano, and she is not looking to relocate away from her family. She will have younger / gwapo / wealthy pinoy suitors. The only reason a pinay chooses the wealthier kano is for financial support for herself and her family. The girl you mention is already in demand from the local wealth.
TW, look at the odds of finding:
Regular job: 30% (maybe). Add in:
College degree: down to 8 percent. Add in:
Not a large family to support: down to 1 percent. Add in:
Speaks good english: down to 0. 2 percent. Add in:
Tall: down to 0. 02 percent. Add in:
Nawty / Nice: well, you get the picture.
The dating site is not where to find this girl.
Gents?Seriously there are quite a few girls who wish to go to western countries specifically USA. Even the rich girls.
Question is are they willing to marry and go with anybody over 50 years of age?
1. Regular job- Jobs in Phi are on contract basis only. Why? Because there are too many unemployed and practically many are real lazy.
If they are given permanent jobs they will be more lazy.
If you are going to marry a girl and take her to your countery, you do not care if she has a job. If you live in Phi after getting married she will not even bother looking for a job and expect you to support her-Rich cano.
2. College degree- Good percentage have college degrees. Does not really mean they know the subject.
But if you are marrying and taking her to your country she definitely have to have some employable college degree.
Otherwise only jobs they will get is low paying fast food joints or restaurents and such.
If you are going to live in Phi- follow no. 1.
3. Everybody in Phi has a large family. Usually around 7-12 children.
I was lucky to get a gf from Baybay whose family only two girls. My current gf from ormoc also only two girls. Current gf works very hard holding two jobs. Since small family needs are small, so no real demands.
Poor or middle class, the fact that daughter married to a real or percieved rich kano means all hands are out for donation.
Family bonds are very strong and consequently it hard for the girl to ignore the requests.
If she works she can do whatever she wants with her money. However I know Phi people living here in USA who are calculative in sending money to their family.
4. Nowadays most speak fairly good english even from the remote provinces. I have dated quite a few. Only girls who has limited knowledge are the ones who never went to school.
5. Generally Phi girls are short. Very few are tall in the range of 5, 4 to 5, 7.
6. Every girl is different. Only after you meet the girl will know if she is right for you. Even then nothing is guaranteed. Statistics say 50% divorce rate. So be what may down the road.
Fast Buck Artist
04-15-12, 17:18
These ladies exist. But I'm not sure they exist for you (or me). They are rare.
Gents?On a free dating site, they are about 1 in 1000. In civilian life however there plenty of these ladies if you are willing to look for them.
I had a regular gf who was everything TW is describing. College educated, well paid job, young, tall, very intelligent, outgoing, naughty and nice.
I considered marrying, but ultimately realised my mongering addiction will not lead to a happy marriage. She wasnt the sharing type.
Hiding a womanising habit from an intelligent wife is first of all dishonest and second, very stressful. So many things to hide. You need a second phone, another apartment, you have to constantly be wary of scheduling clashes, be wary of rogue tagged photos ending up on facebook, be wary of friends of friends of your mistresses who might know your wife, constantly careful not to leave evidence around, and girls have an amazing ability to drop their stuff everywhere. Hairpins in your car, earrings on your sofa, girly shampoo satchels in your bathroom, bras in your closet, and HAIR, the everpresent long black hair everywhere, they shed kilograms of the stuff and never go bald! Its on your clothes, its on your car seat, its on your armchair, its in your bathroom, I mean, who has time to do all the cleanup and scheduling and shuffling, I got a full time job to do.
Its not worth it!
Chocha Monger
04-15-12, 17:57
These ladies exist. But I'm not sure they exist for you (or me). They are rare. She will either have a regular job, or she's middle-class or above and from a family that provides what she needs. She will not be looking for kano, and she is not looking to relocate away from her family. She will have younger / gwapo / wealthy pinoy suitors. The only reason a pinay chooses the wealthier kano is for financial support for herself and her family. The girl you mention is already in demand from the local wealth.
TW, look at the odds of finding:
Regular job: 30% (maybe). Add in:
College degree: down to 8 percent. Add in:
Not a large family to support: down to 1 percent. Add in:
Speaks good english: down to 0. 2 percent. Add in:
Tall: down to 0. 02 percent. Add in:
Nawty / Nice: well, you get the picture.
The dating site is not where to find this girl.
Gents?Anyone thinking of importing a pinay wife should ask himself if he can find and marry a pretty younger woman with all the desired qualities in his homeland. If he cannot then he would be unable to keep an imported version of the same woman around once her paperwork is finalized. Her perception of the relationship will change once she arrives in America where lonely middle aged men are a dime a dozen and big age differences are not the norm.
Absolutely brilliant summary FBA,
You nailed it beautifully.
Great summary. I am totally supporting your post.
Hiding a womanising habit from an intelligent wife is first of all dishonest and second, very stressful. So many things to hide. You need a second phone, another apartment, you have to constantly be wary of scheduling clashes, be wary of rogue tagged photos ending up on facebook, be wary of friends of friends of your mistresses who might know your wife, constantly careful not to leave evidence around, and girls have an amazing ability to drop their stuff everywhere. Hairpins in your car, earrings on your sofa, girly shampoo satchels in your bathroom, bras in your closet, and HAIR, the everpresent long black hair everywhere, they shed kilograms of the stuff and never go bald! Its on your clothes, its on your car seat, its on your armchair, its in your bathroom, I mean, who has time to do all the cleanup and scheduling and shuffling, I got a full time job to do.
Its not worth it!
TW, these women are available. I think that most of the posters here are missing the whole middle class in their comments, and are not thinking clearly.
I had one such woman as gf for 2 years.
Parents owned a good rice farm, so self sufficient.
She was college educated, smart, intelligent, well spoken.
Tall, about 5'6", maybe 5'7", very slim, hard body.
Good job in middle management in an IT wholesale business. She was the warehouse manager.
Not sexually experienced when we met, but she was keen to learn.
Did not cost me a cent in maintenance, she paid her way, and the family needed nothing from me.
Lovely people to stay with.
So they are there.
I am currently courting a similar woman, family owns a large rice and vegetable farm, she is farm manager. 5'7", not as skinny as I prefer, but OK.
So these women are available.
But both are / were near to 30 yo, and no family would let their son marry a woman as old as that. So these women basically have only foreigners available to them for permanent / long term relationship.
G.
Well I know how to find pussy, thats easier than finding a good restaurant. LOL.
I'm ultimately looking for a potential wife.
I'm well aware there are scammers and bitches on all the dating sites. And there are even good girls on dia. You just need to weed them out and of course go to Phil and spend as much time as possible with them. I do not have the ability to live in Phil. I will bring them to the USA to live.
I am also well aware of the pitfalls of bringing a girl to the USA but I'm willing to take those chances.
I'm looking for girls that have regular jobs, college degree a plus, not a large poor family to support, speaks english fairly well, very pretty, tall would be nice and has a good combination of naughty and nice.
I scanned over profiles in Cherryblossoms but have not signed up yet. It looks like a higher quality of girls than dia on there. Does anyone have expierience with Cherryblossoms or Filipinocupid?
Thanks for any feedback.
fba, all animal species have their way of marking their territory.
dogs mark their boundary with [CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109), which others can smell.
a woman marks her territory by dropping hair.
for those guys using st or lt p4p, this is not so much of a problem, because the female does not see his space as being part of her territory, so she does not drop hair.
but if you have a woman into your space who sees you as a potential mate, then she will begin to mark your space as her territory. she will drop hair all over your place, not intentionally, but subconsciously. so if you are running a couple of gf, overlapping day-by-day, or within hours, then you have a problem.
every woman's hair is different. colour, thickness, curl, cross section, length. a woman can recognise her hair, or that of another woman, from some distance away. and you have a hard time explaining how the foreign hair got to be there.
when i am switching women, i get on my hands and knees, glasses on, with a big pin. and i go over the floor in detail, bath, bed, sheets, pillows. and i get a remarkable amount of hair dropped in a short periiod of time.
i dispose of it outside the window, or flush down the toilet. get rid of it so that it cannot be found.
always a hassle.
g.
on a free dating site, they are about 1 in 1000. in civilian life however there plenty of these ladies if you are willing to look for them.
i had a regular gf who was everything tw is describing. college educated, well paid job, young, tall, very intelligent, outgoing, naughty and nice.
i considered marrying, but ultimately realised my mongering addiction will not lead to a happy marriage. she wasnt the sharing type.
hiding a womanising habit from an intelligent wife is first of all dishonest and second, very stressful. so many things to hide. you need a second phone, another apartment, you have to constantly be wary of scheduling clashes, be wary of rogue tagged photos ending up on facebook, be wary of friends of friends of your mistresses who might know your wife, constantly careful not to leave evidence around, and girls have an amazing ability to drop their stuff everywhere. hairpins in your car, earrings on your sofa, girly shampoo satchels in your bathroom, bras in your closet, and hair, the everpresent long black hair everywhere, they shed kilograms of the stuff and never go bald! its on your clothes, its on your car seat, its on your armchair, its in your bathroom, i mean, who has time to do all the cleanup and scheduling and shuffling, i got a full time job to do.
its not worth it!
I would say that the Philippines is probably any man's best bet for finding a wife. The problem is when your criteria is unrealistic. The chances of ANY man finding a woman that meets all his expectations is low. Now men will be men and looks are important to us, it's just the way it is. But what happens when you wife has that first kid and the body changes and trust me it will change, weight stretch marks you name it. So finding a smart attractive women is very possible in the Phils. Now on to an open relationship, all the things we love about the pinay women is counter intuitive to this practice. So one have to ask themselves why is one getting married? If its strictly for companionship and sex I think most reasonable men would advise against it. Marriage as an entity has been established since the dawn of civilization for the family. So bringing these practices to a general conservative culture (Filipino) and to a marriage is begging for disaster. You risk losing your wife's respect and at a minimum your wife to another man. If you do persist in this pursuit you would do much better with a western woman accustom to those practices. Again I would advise against it and would say that your not ready for marriage.
I feel your pain. They also leave toothbrushes, cosmetics, underwear, etc. I think this is what we call "nesting". You got to hide that until their next visit. The worst time I got busted was a thing you would never dream of forgetting to hide. A friggin photo. Duh. X.
FBA, All animal species have their way of marking their territory.
A woman marks her territory by dropping hair.
SNIP.
I dispose of it outside the window, or flush down the toilet. Get rid of it so that it cannot be found.
Always a hassle.
G.
http://www.thetruthseeker.co.uk/?p=46931
I spend a lot of time in Asia but I'm just getting my feet wet in Phils. I'm slowly getting the idea that this is a strange world where no rules I know apply. This ain't China, or Japan, or Korea.
Story #1: I got to know a pretty girl on DIA. We talked a few times on cam with all her friends around, anxious to flirt and joke with the gringo. She pursues me actively, sending messages or video chats a couple of times a day. She promises to spend a couple of days and nights with me when I arrive. A few days pass and I don't hear from her. I discover that she unfriended me from FB and on her page there are prominent photos of a guy that obviously is her bf. I send her a note saying looks like you found a new bf, I understand, etc. She writes me a tearful message about how guilty she feels. Bf is away and she never told me about him. Np, I say, enjoy your life. A few hours later I receive another panicked message. No, you don't understand, just don't post on FB where bf can see. She will contact me through I'm and still wants to see me. Please, please, you are special to me! So. Despite absent bf, she takes out an ad in DIA, starts relationship with new guy, promises to see him, gets found out, and STILL wants to see him behind the BF's back. And I'm supposed to be ok with this. I don't quite get the motivation. Loneliness, thrills, money? Anyway, makes me feel sorry for the bf. And I wonder how many other guys are in her hopper besides me.
Story #2: Strike up nice relationship with another pretty lady on DIA. Lives with extended family in an apartment. Really funny, smart lady. She writes me an email today that some robbers broke in and stole computer, camera, purse, money, all the food in the fridge, her makeup, etc. She is especially concerned that they thieves stole the camera. On this camera are sexy photos of her cousin and she's worried that they will show up on the internet I get the idea that these are nude shots. So, one cousin keeps sexy photos of another cousin on her camera? And the cousin's mother knows all about it. I just don't have anywhere in my head to put that.
I'm sure these stories are just old hat to you veterans. You probably have a thousand more.
I spend a lot of time in Asia but I'm just getting my feet wet in Phils. I'm slowly getting the idea that this is a strange world where no rules I know apply. This ain't China, or Japan, or Korea.
Story #1: I got to know a pretty girl on DIA. We talked a few times on cam with all her friends around, anxious to flirt and joke with the gringo. She pursues me actively, sending messages or video chats a couple of times a day. She promises to spend a couple of days and nights with me when I arrive. A few days pass and I don't hear from her. I discover that she unfriended me from FB and on her page there are prominent photos of a guy that obviously is her bf. I send her a note saying looks like you found a new bf, I understand, etc. She writes me a tearful message about how guilty she feels. Bf is away and she never told me about him. Np, I say, enjoy your life. A few hours later I receive another panicked message. No, you don't understand, just don't post on FB where bf can see. She will contact me through I'm and still wants to see me. Please, please, you are special to me! So. Despite absent bf, she takes out an ad in DIA, starts relationship with new guy, promises to see him, gets found out, and STILL wants to see him behind the BF's back. And I'm supposed to be ok with this. I don't quite get the motivation. Loneliness, thrills, money? Anyway, makes me feel sorry for the bf. And I wonder how many other guys are in her hopper besides me.
Story #2: Strike up nice relationship with another pretty lady on DIA. Lives with extended family in an apartment. Really funny, smart lady. She writes me an email today that some robbers broke in and stole computer, camera, purse, money, all the food in the fridge, her makeup, etc. She is especially concerned that they thieves stole the camera. On this camera are sexy photos of her cousin and she's worried that they will show up on the internet I get the idea that these are nude shots. So, one cousin keeps sexy photos of another cousin on her camera? And the cousin's mother knows all about it. I just don't have anywhere in my head to put that.
I'm sure these stories are just old hat to you veterans. You probably have a thousand more.EVERY women that you meet on DIA and the rest of these dating sites from the Philippines want something from you or us. All of them there is no exception, any women fat, skinny or ugly can get a man. So you have attractive 19 and above Pinay's, why would they be single? What they want is either someone to support them in exchange for their sex or time or their looking for a better deal, their not going to completely drop their pinoy boyfriends for a few dollars and promises. Even if you marry one it's quite possible that she'll be having sex with other men until you make good on your deal, which in most cases is to get her to your country of origin and to help support her family. The question I asked is should you care? I certainly don't. The problem is male naivete and lack of preparation. Understand your situation when your dealing with desperate people and prepare for the worst (lies, cheating, scams). If you ever had a pinay gf or wife you know they lie like a rug, doesn't mean their bad people but their going to do or say anything to save face. She probably likes you just fine, take her up on her offer and have a good time. I had a pinay tell me she didn't have a boyfriend and hadn't had sex in 3 years, I never for once believed her but I allowed her to keep up her masquerade and once she figured out she wasn't the only lady I came to see, her jealousy showed and she told me she had a boyfriend 25 years her senior that's a lawyer that's been taking care of her. We had some drinks laughed about our dual deception and had another great sex session that evening.
WestCoast1
04-17-12, 06:50
This ain't China, or Japan, or Korea.You said a mouthful. Welcome to pilipines!
Story #1: SNIP Despite absent bf, she takes out an ad in DIA, starts relationship with new guy, promises to see him, gets found out, and STILL wants to see him behind the BF's back. And I'm supposed to be ok with this. I don't quite get the motivation. Loneliness, thrills, money? Anyway, makes me feel sorry for the bf. And I wonder how many other guys are in her hopper besides me.Not par for the course, but not unusual. Pinay are quietly opportunistic. Numerous gents on this board will tell you about their continued exploits with pinay who keep coming to our beds, even though she has a local pinoy bf, or a kano bf. I've heard every excuse you can think of from filipina as to why she's just swallowed my jizz, when she should be taking care of her bf / hubby. See you again in 4 months when I'm back in Manila, hun.
Story #2: Strike up nice relationship with another pretty lady on DIA. Lives with extended family in an apartment. Really funny, smart lady. She writes me an email today that some robbers broke in and stole computer, camera, purse, money, all the food in the fridge, her makeup, etc.Hahaha soon expect requests for $ to replace the stolen items.
She is especially concerned that they thieves stole the camera. On this camera are sexy photos of her cousin and she's worried that they will show up on the internet I get the idea that these are nude shots. So, one cousin keeps sexy photos of another cousin on her camera? And the cousin's mother knows all about it. I just don't have anywhere in my head to put that.One DIA girl comes over for a fun afternoon session of mattress-thrashing. On the way out the front door of the hotel she mentions she has a cousin, who is willing to do the dirty. After the daring duo departs, they ask for some of the nawty pics on their email. You have no idea how they will crop them and use them on the computer or internet. Welcome to pilipines!
Fast Buck Artist
04-17-12, 11:45
I don't quite get the motivation. Loneliness, thrills, money?Mostly money. The dude overseas is sending her cash so she doesn't want to upset that gravy train.
On the other hand, if she can get some treats and goodies from you as well, hey, double whammy!
It seems that the women on DIA must be following a "style guide" in their responses to me.
Suddenly all of my contacts have started calling me "dear". It is a common term here but it was less frequent until just this past week or so.
ALL of them are using it. Whether 19 year old or 45 year old. Are others here aware of it too? Dear dear.
Thanks for the responses. I just laugh about situation #1. I spent a long time with her in chat just now. Her bf wants to fly her and her sister to Europe to meet his family. She's already met the mother and sisters on skype. So he sounds pretty serious. Poor bastard. But she sees no reason why she shouldn't see me."You always so nice to me." It's like the thought never occurred to her why she can't compartmentalize these relationships. Truly, I'm fine with the situation if she is. It just means that we can keep things uncomplicated and I won't be the sucker in the shoes of her bf. It's just strange to me to find the girl so open and unapologetic about it.
And I agree with situation #2. She's telling me the panicked story as prep to ask for some money to help. Even in my few weeks on DIA I can already see that one coming. I"m sure she was hoping that I would respond,"Oh, that's awful! What can I do to help?" Since that response wasn't forthcoming, I"m guessing I should get a more explicit hint in 1-2 days, LOL.
I can't blame these girls. They are in dire straights and all are maximizing their one marketable asset.
"all are maximizing their one marketable asset"?
That's quite a stereotype!
I've never been very good at monogamy, so I don't see anything extraordinarily odd about your story. Especially since the bf is not with her.
If I were in your shoes, I'd be trying to find out more about this "sister" who is also being summoned to Europe. Ha, ha, you may feel sorry for the bf, but he may be poking both sisters. .
Thanks for the responses. I just laugh about situation #1. I spent a long time with her in chat just now. Her bf wants to fly her and her sister to Europe to meet his family. She's already met the mother and sisters on skype. So he sounds pretty serious. Poor bastard. But she sees no reason why she shouldn't see me."You always so nice to me." It's like the thought never occurred to her why she can't compartmentalize these relationships. Truly, I'm fine with the situation if she is. It just means that we can keep things uncomplicated and I won't be the sucker in the shoes of her bf. It's just strange to me to find the girl so open and unapologetic about it.
And I agree with situation #2. She's telling me the panicked story as prep to ask for some money to help. Even in my few weeks on DIA I can already see that one coming. I"m sure she was hoping that I would respond,"Oh, that's awful! What can I do to help?" Since that response wasn't forthcoming, I"m guessing I should get a more explicit hint in 1-2 days, LOL.
I can't blame these girls. They are in dire straights and all are maximizing their one marketable asset.
It seems that the women on DIA must be following a "style guide" in their responses to me.
Suddenly all of my contacts have started calling me "dear". It is a common term here but it was less frequent until just this past week or so.
ALL of them are using it. Whether 19 year old or 45 year old. Are others here aware of it too? Dear dear.You need to understand that these girls learn conversational english by chatting only. Within themselves they talk only their language. So they are not sure what to say.
They have heard in movies like " Sir "," Dear " " Love you ".
Once I called a girl honey and she did not what it was.
Girls feel a need to say something personal to show their interest. As a westerner you have to learn to ignore their english words and sometimes manners.
Just fuck them. Most of them do not make a lively conversation subjects.
So their standard reply will be " up to you " whether it is What do you want to do to how much money you want or what position makes you happy to what food you want to eat.
Suddenly all of my contacts have started calling me "dear"Yes if I get the "dear" or "honey" I tell them I would prefer they address me as 'Sir' or "Mr Jambo". When they do I tell them they are a 'good girl' and I appreciate having their respect. If they find that's weird I figure they are not going to be submissive enough for me. They know that 'Sir' is appropriate for a man much older and wealthier anyway."Dear" comes off to me as manipulative. It might be to my advantage to give them a little feeling that they can 'endear' me to them that way, but I won't allow it. Eventually they will beg me to take them hehe.
Yes if I get the "dear" or "honey" I tell them I would prefer they address me as 'Sir' or "Mr Jambo". When they do I tell them they are a 'good girl' and I appreciate having their respect. If they find that's weird I figure they are not going to be submissive enough for me. They know that 'Sir' is appropriate for a man much older and wealthier anyway.Ah, so that explains the "sirs" I'm getting!
Stroker Ace88
04-18-12, 03:47
Ah, so that explains the "sirs" I'm getting!Wazoo,
With all due respect alot of the things that you read online coming from filipinas will only start to make sense after you visit the Philippines. Each time you visit the Philippines you will gain more insight and things will become clearer. Right now things seem straight-forward when you exchange messages and chat online because you are thinking like a foreigner and you lack experience. Give it some time and all the pieces will come together.
The reason some women call you 'sir' is the society is built on a value system that teaches everyone to respect elders. When they call you 'sir' they are showing you respect and most will continue to do so until you instruct them to call you something else.
This sign of respect is not exclusive to women and I can only imagine the look on your face when you walk into a McDonalds for the first time in the Philippines. A smartly dressed guard with a stainless steel shotgun strapped to his shoulder greets you with 'good afternoon sir' and opens the door with a smile as you walk in.
Enjoy the Philippines.
Tally Wacker
04-18-12, 04:52
I received this unsolicited message to my inbox. Seems like an ambitious young lady.
Prexiemae. 28, Philippines 45 mins. 53 secs ago
Hi.
When you go to Philippines? Or maybe you did already?
My Skype is dollahbitxh1994 if you like to chat, but I am not always online. Try to catch me wen you can. Yahoo I not use so much but you can try at scorpiongurl69@yahoo.com.looking Forward to chat.
You like tour guide. I like to make friends first. Not to make romance where none is to be had.
My name Mae
WestCoast1
04-18-12, 07:06
The reason some women call you 'sir' is the society is built on a value system that teaches everyone to respect elders. When they call you 'sir' they are showing you respect and most will continue to do so until you instruct them to call you something else.
This sign of respect is not exclusive to women and I can only imagine the look on your face when you walk into a McDonalds for the first time in the Philippines. A smartly dressed guard with a stainless steel shotgun strapped to his shoulder greets you with 'good afternoon sir' and opens the door with a smile as you walk in.And po."Sorry po." And "salamat po." Po is similar to 'sir', and almost everyone younger than you will say it to you, even the waitress at the restaurant.
Stroker Ace88
04-18-12, 08:06
And po."Sorry po." And "salamat po." Po is similar to 'sir', and almost everyone younger than you will say it to you, even the waitress at the restaurant.Westcoast,
Yah the ever present "po". It's used alot more in Manila and Luzon than in the Visayas (Tagalog vs Bisaya) but it still makes the rounds. I dunno why but whenever I hear "salamat po" I always think back to the old 'Wowowee' shows I used to watch back in the day.
Willie Revillame would hand out thousands of pesos, or a foton 15 seat van (dunno why a poor family would need one and I'm sure they sold it for a tenth of the value after the show) , or some swag bags full of his personal line of watches, cd's or cologne to some audience members who were willing to stand up and tell there hard-luck stories. Often crying buckets of tears to endure the people watching at home when Willie gave them some freebies. They would often scream "salamat po" (thank-you in English) to show Willie thanks. Seems that Willie is still doing the same thing over at TV5 (Philippine station not the one from France) but I haven't seen his show since he changed the title from 'Willing Willie".
Sorry for the OT reply.
Makeupaname
04-18-12, 08:54
Sorry for another OT report.
New Years Eve 2011, I had a 1st date with a filipina in Macau. We walked to the ocean side to watch fireworks. Sat on a small bench, then another filipina in an evening gown came and sat next to us, obviously an actress / model / dancer but I don't recognize her. Then the date of the girl in the gown came over, it was Willie Revillame. Just the 4 of us watched the fireworks on that small bench. His entourage stayed back. My date couldn't speak a word the whole night.
You need to understand that. .
As a westerner you have to learn to. .Thanks for the mini-lecture Samm.
I think you missed the fact that my post was filled with a lacing of "irony" and my question was a tad rhetorical.
I am still bemused why are they all calling me dear NOW when they rarely, if ever, called me dear in the previous 15 years that I have lived here continuously?
Cunning Stunt
04-18-12, 12:42
Don't mind the sirring or poing, but I've never found myself happy with the term of respect 'kuya'. This really means older brother but is often used respectfully when addressing an older person. Thing is that it is pronounced just like 'queer', and when I first heard it, I was of a mind to punch the callers lights out.
It takes a little getting used to hearing someone say to you 'Pass the rice po, queer'!
GoodEnough
04-18-12, 12:51
Thanks for the mini-lecture Samm.
I think you missed the fact that my post was filled with a lacing of "irony" and my question was a tad rhetorical.
I am still bemused why are they all calling me dear NOW when they rarely, if ever, called me dear in the previous 15 years that I have lived here continuously?Easy, RK, it's because you've become a gwapo hunk. You devil.
Member #1088
04-18-12, 12:58
I feel your pain. They also leave toothbrushes, cosmetics, underwear, etc. I think this is what we call "nesting". You got to hide that until their next visit. The worst time I got busted was a thing you would never dream of forgetting to hide. A friggin photo. Duh. X.LOL in Thailand this lunatic left her bra under my bed on purpose she told a few days after. She never explained why she did it. LOL.
Founded just on the Nick of time before the next girl
Umm, I never found "kuya" to sound remotely like "queer'. Were you feeling guilty?
Or maybe your ear is tuned to cockney? (no pun intended, of course)
I have a feeling, sadly, that for the rest of my life, I will forever thing of queer cs whenever I hear a Filipino say "kuya". .
Don't mind the sirring or poing, but I've never found myself happy with the term of respect 'kuya'. This really means older brother but is often used respectfully when addressing an older person. Thing is that it is pronounced just like 'queer', and when I first heard it, I was of a mind to punch the callers lights out.
It takes a little getting used to hearing someone say to you 'Pass the rice po, queer'!
Don't mind the sirring or poing, but I've never found myself happy with the term of respect 'kuya'. This really means older brother but is often used respectfully when addressing an older person. Thing is that it is pronounced just like 'queer', and when I first heard it, I was of a mind to punch the callers lights out.
It takes a little getting used to hearing someone say to you 'Pass the rice po, queer'!I guess you don't meet many ates. I feel weird when they say po to me LOL
Hi Sammon and All,
Yes, I use the word sweetie a lot and some of the Pinays or at least Cebuanas are not familiar with that term of endearment either.
As for the lack of Filipina conversation ability, fellow horndogs, please see the upside to this. In America, the women drone on about every petty little thing that could possibly be said. Non-stop motor mouths. Painfully so. No wonder we go deaf or pretend to.
I prefer the demure and simplicity and subservience of the Filipina. Refreshing. If I want stimulating conversation I'll talk to colleagues in academia or some of the smarties here on ISG.
You need to understand that these girls learn conversational english by chatting only. Within themselves they talk only their language. So they are not sure what to say.
They have heard in movies like " Sir "," Dear " " Love you ".
Once I called a girl honey and she did not what it was.
Girls feel a need to say something personal to show their interest. As a westerner you have to learn to ignore their english words and sometimes manners.
Just fuck them. Most of them do not make a lively conversation subjects.
So their standard reply will be " up to you " whether it is What do you want to do to how much money you want or what position makes you happy to what food you want to eat.
i have just been reading this thread back a couple of days about the duplicity of pinays, and i am thinking. what is this all about?
if all references to pinays were replaced with references to western women. american, english, australian. the posts would ring equally true.
i don't know about the other western punters on this forum, but i have had married aussie women wanting to share my bed, engaged women wanting opportunistc sex, single women with multiple bf.
while in usa college for almost 2 years, the churning of men and women in the graduate dorms was akin to living in a blender on full speed.
while working in the us (dc) for 2 years, the blender was equally as busy. women just screwing around as madly as possible. married and single.
what is the difference? none. it is part of the female side of the mating ritual.
i personally think that australian and american women are more two-faced than pinay.
does anyone else have a similar opinion?
g
Stroker Ace88
04-18-12, 17:38
Don't mind the sirring or poing, but I've never found myself happy with the term of respect 'kuya'. This really means older brother but is often used respectfully when addressing an older person. Thing is that it is pronounced just like 'queer', and when I first heard it, I was of a mind to punch the callers lights out.
It takes a little getting used to hearing someone say to you 'Pass the rice po, queer'!I have never heard anyone in the Philippines pronounce 'kuya' in a way that it sounds like 'queer', as always YMMV.
Member #4491
04-18-12, 22:01
Yes if I get the "dear" or "honey" I tell them I would prefer they address me as 'Sir' or "Mr Jambo". When they do I tell them they are a 'good girl' and I appreciate having their respect.Finally we found someone that respects us for the sirs we are. Blink.
To bad these girls are both starving and only slightly more mentally mature than a nine year old child. Sort of dents the power kick.
I am ironic. Fully understand that domination is a sexual spice. Maybe a mental disorder that even might be a bit pathetic in some views, but for some reason it is a turn on to dominate (for some men, me included). I do not make the girls sir me but the pattern is the same when we play games or I run them over hard for hours. Domination is the game. One girl once started to moan "fuck me master" when I was doing her deep and hard doggy and it took me 20 sec to cum. And little MaryJane that was so tight that she would get tears in her eyes when I fucked her doggy. She was a lying **** that liked to pretend to be innocent and stare at me with her big eyes, so for some reason it felt extra good to fuck her hard and dominate this little lying tight ****. And she claimed to like it.
Kuya or whatever is just expression. Just a sound associated with something. No point in labeling expressions or even irrationalities as errors that our brain should trigger on. I know people who triggers on all the various experienced error states they run into in the Philippines constantly, and it is not doing them any good. I know it is a natural back side of evolution to disrespect and even despise stupidity (lack of development) , but when we transfer into an environment that is extremely "stupid" or wrong according to our own opinion, I believe it is a power drain to not suppress these impulses. These "error flags" are not serving us as evolutionary tweakers if they are dominating our preintelectual semi automatic responses totally. Then it will just be consuming. If this is the case, it is better to step back and not have opinions about it IMHO. If not we will end up as these winding and bitching expats that mostly has complaints for their new home that embraced their sad persona. The opinion free observation is IMHO one of the most efficient paths for development. Maybe a bit off topic, but we just have to accept that these girls we talk with are barely out of childhood, and did we not all have a lot of short lived ideas about what was in or out, back then? D Cups is right. There is some absolute upsides to the lack of intellectual development. I rather have the lips around my cock than constantly moving (something I just had here in Kiev by the way).
B.
i have just been reading this thread back a couple of days about the duplicity of pinays, and i am thinking. what is this all about?
if all references to pinays were replaced with references to western women. american, english, australian. the posts would ring equally true.
i don't know about the other western punters on this forum, but i have had married aussie women wanting to share my bed, engaged women wanting opportunistc sex, single women with multiple bf.
while in usa college for almost 2 years, the churning of men and women in the graduate dorms was akin to living in a blender on full speed.
while working in the us (dc) for 2 years, the blender was equally as busy. women just screwing around as madly as possible. married and single.
what is the difference? none. it is part of the female side of the mating ritual.
i personally think that australian and american women are more two-faced than pinay.
does anyone else have a similar opinion?
gyour 100% correct. i talked about male naivete on a previous post and what you have is inexperienced men who have this fantasy of what an asian woman should be. it's fantasy land. many parents don't want to accept that their teenagers are not the innocent angels we want them to be, their drug experimenting and sex craved people we were when we were teenagers. and this docile, westerner worshiping, flawless asian doll doesn't exist if it ever had. most people date within their own ethnic and cultural strata, not that their not attracted to others but their is a communal comfort there. western men do well, very well indeed in the philippines because of our wealth and generosity and if it wasn't for that our luck would run the opposite way with these young women. the philippines is highly influenced by western culture and out all the asian nations their the most accepting of non-filipinos for love and marriage but their not saints.
Cunning Stunt
04-19-12, 02:28
I have never heard anyone in the Philippines pronounce 'kuya' in a way that it sounds like 'queer', as always YMMV.Must be my finely tuned homophobic ear, then. It is maybe just the way my brother-in-law pronounces it, the sneaky little bastard!
I have just been reading this thread back a couple of days about the duplicity of pinays, and I am thinking. What is this all about?
If all references to pinays were replaced with references to western women. American, English, Australian. The posts would ring equally true.
GSince I may have started this thread, let me explain my point. I've spent a long time in Japan and some time in China. Of course people screw around the world over, but in these places anything unpleasant or potentially embarrassing is cloaked, concealed, denied, smoothed over. I'm just not used to the complete lack of artifice. Kind of refreshing, actually.
Muzungufotsy
04-20-12, 08:18
Oh I should point out i do not try and find girls on dating sites, and yes you may have seen 2 of my gf on DIA that because i have 5 gf so they can meet men if they wantSo who s liar now ah?
I saw this post on DIA today.
I don't understand what is in her head to make her want to go to so much trouble to write in such a silly format.
Her name is chutchay
(1) fUn 2 Be wId.
(2) gOiNg oUt WiD MaH FrIeNdS iS MaH hOBbY.
(3). MaTaRaY "daw" CgUrO MiNsAn dEpEnDe nMn sA muD EH.
(4). MaSuNgIt.
(5). I lOvE ChAtIn wId mAh fRiEnDs.
(6)."LoYaL"
(7). LoVe TaKiN PiCs. WiD MaH FrIenDs aNd.
(8). I LoVe dOgS.
(9). I HaTe "PlAsTiC &, *****,
PeOpLe"
(10). TExTiN Is mAh PaSt tImE.
(11). AmA fRiEnDlY If your FrIeNdLy ToO.
(12). PReTeNdInG To bE NiCe hHhUuUhhH I HaTe that.
(13) I CaN Be vErY SwEeT AnD nIcE In tYmS BuT don't mEsS Up wId mE your going to sEe hU I ReAlLy them,
(14) :. I'm D TyPe oF PeRsOn hU aLwAyS PrEtEnD that I'm oKiE bUt dEeP InSiDe I'm ToTaLlY HuRt. Because I BeLiV that PrObLeMs sHuD fAcE don't EvEH eVeH TuRn your BaK On iT because AiNt going to hApPeN,
(15). KIp sMyLiN EVeNtHoUgH U HaVe lOtS Of pRoBlEmS,
(16). MAh FaVoRiTe FeMaLe SiNgER OfCoUrSE Ninaaaaaaaa.
(17). I lAv Lee miN HO
Yes, refreshing. But then you get the messages, I paraphrase here."I'm not a (liberated / slutty) like those Japanese (american/?) women. Blah, blah, blah. Family, . Conservative, blah blah blah.
And of course I don't respone with," are you kidding, I just spent ten days fkn as much filipina psy as I like\"
Yes, some of the gals are hard core prossies, but others shared just a few lines of Internet text before they were on my bed. And that doesn't even count the ones who who wanted me to take them to a beach on some other island. Which implies an overnight. Bless their hearts.
Thanks for the interesting angle Wazoo. X.
Since I may have started this thread, let me explain my point. I've spent a long time in Japan and some time in China. Of course people screw around the world over, but in these places anything unpleasant or potentially embarrassing is cloaked, concealed, denied, smoothed over. I'm just not used to the complete lack of artifice. Kind of refreshing, actually.
That is probably the most annoying "English" you can find on the net. And there's no point in telling the girl her profile description sucks. She probably copied and pasted it. LOL.
Stroker Ace88
04-21-12, 05:21
I saw this post on DIA today.
I don't understand what is in her head to make her want to go to so much trouble to write in such a silly format.
Her name is chutchay
(1) fUn 2 Be wId.
(2) gOiNg oUt WiD MaH FrIeNdS iS MaH hOBbY. [SNIP]RK,
That particular style of writing was a fad with pinays a few years ago. Chances are good the woman in question has not updated her profile since she wrote it. IMO it does not seem to be copied and pasted from someone else but it does contain alot of the usual generic phrases that pinays are so fond of. In the end only she really knows.
When I see crap like that posted on a profile I just click 'next' and on to the next one. If the profile gives me any indication the woman will be difficult to deal with, NEXT. So many pinays online it's not worth it to seek out difficult situations.
Can you imagine chatting or texting with her if she used that style of writing? Very frustrating experience that would be. LOL.
Tally Wacker
04-21-12, 06:55
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WestCoast1
04-21-12, 14:58
I saw this post on DIA today.
Her name is chutchay
(1) fUn 2 Be wId.
(2) gOiNg oUt WiD MaH FrIeNdS iS MaH hOBbY.
(3). MaTaRaY "daw" CgUrO MiNsAn dEpEnDe nMn sA muD EH.
(4). MaSuNgIt.They style has a name, jejemon: the specific mixing of upper / lower case lettering. It is not unique to pinay, although you would think it is by looking at dating site profiles. The style is typical of young girls the world over. They doodle and write like this on paper, and they usually stop in the early teen years (I LoVe bIllY nD bIllY lOveS mE). Filipina typically don't mature emotionally until well into their 20's (look at the drama) , and this jejemon is just one of the holdovers of the pinay syndrome that I like to call: I AM IN MY 20'S AND I AM STILL 14.
I don't understand what is in her head to make her want to go to so much trouble to write in such a silly format.This is culture. Read 100 DIA profiles today and you may well come across several of these. She's not consciously thinking of what she's doing here, its simply quite common. Next time you have a college girl in your room who happens to have her backpack with her (I know, it doesn't happen that often, but it does happen) , sneak a peak at her notebook or writing materials from her classes. On the inside cover you'll notice bunches of sweet missives and drawings, including jejemon. You will be stuck with the same sentiment as RK.
GoodEnough
04-22-12, 04:05
A good friend with whom I work here calls this "the land of perpetual adolescence." He could as easisly (and accurately) dubbed it the country of arrested development. It's all true. I'm not sure that the average Filipino or Filipino grows out of this in his or her twenties. I think there may be a lifelong absence of emotional maturity, coupled with a feeling that there's no such thing as disapssionate observation. Here, everything is personal.
GE
WestCoast1
04-22-12, 05:14
From a bakla's profile in DIA:
I DaRe To Be DiFfErEnT. I'm OnE Of A KiNd. AnOtHeR mE. YoU WiLL NeVeR FiNd
Fast Buck Artist
04-22-12, 15:07
Can you imagine chatting or texting with her if she used that style of writing? Very frustrating experience that would be. LOL.Yep, jejemon message = instant ban. Have met enough 13 year olds trapped in a 24 year old body already, thats more than enough!
I've had some interesting conversations with Sweet and Hot on DIA. I got to say I'm intrigued. She's sent me a follow up photo and I'm getting a vibe that she's real when we chat. I'm checking if anyone else has had an encounter with her. I get the idea that she's up for anything and has met some of you members before. Maybe it's best to PM with details if you have any.
http://www.dateinasia.com/Sweet+and+Hot. Html
Tally Wacker
04-24-12, 23:37
I've had some interesting conversations with Sweet and Hot on DIA. I got to say I'm intrigued. She's sent me a follow up photo and I'm getting a vibe that she's real when we chat. I'm checking if anyone else has had an encounter with her. I get the idea that she's up for anything and has met some of you members before. Maybe it's best to PM with details if you have any.
http://www.dateinasia.com/Sweet
+and+Hot. HtmlWhat gives you the feeling she's a playgirl? LOL.
Her Profile:
Sweet and Hot
Lets Enjoy! Life is too Short.
Open Minded, Ambitious, Optimistic, Self reliant, Loving. I am discreet and there is nothing to worry. If you need to distress I offer massage (interested lets chat in ym)
A buddy for adventure = outing, traveling, intelligent, dining as I love to dine in and out. Open minded. And I like to meet bi sexual women, open minded too.
I've had some interesting conversations with Sweet and Hot on DIA. I got to say I'm intrigued. .Intrigued? About what Wazoo? Nothing hidden here in this post.
As TW says, with a touch of irony, even sarcasm, this one will do anything.
She is also a professional. At some stage she will want you to pay.
Intrigued? About what Wazoo? Nothing hidden here in this post.
As TW says, with a touch of irony, even sarcasm, this one will do anything.
She is also a professional. At some stage she will want you to pay.She is different than I expected based on the profile. I also was expecting a regular pay for play girl who would just tell me to call her when I get to town. However, her English is polished and natural. She seems quite thoughtful and intelligent and she presents herself as having an office job with an international company. This seems believable based on several long conversations. Some were during business hours and some were evenings. The photo she sent me matches her claim-an attractive, well-dressed office type lady in her 30s. She is making a real effort to get to know me and has already invested a lot of time in our conversations. Pros usually want to get right to the point. I would say rather that she is a very adventurous lady and with a wide appetite for sexual experiences. She doesn't want long-term commitment but seems to want something more than a one nighter. I get the idea that she'd like a bf who would be open to adventure that sometimes would include others. She hasn't mentioned money yet, though of course that may be understood. So yes, I'm intrigued.
However, I also know that things are never what they seem to be in DIA. You need to be a skeptic and doubt everything. Heck, she might not even be a woman. We have not yet done a video chat. I just thought that one of you mongers might have encountered her already and know the story.
This tread gets funnier and funnier every month.
Guys always treat online dating site for what they are, entertainment. At the rates locals have to pay to get online they have to make it a entertainment biz to make money
She is different than I expected based on the profile.
However, I also know that things are never what they seem to be in DIA. You need to be a skeptic and doubt everything. Heck, she might not even be a woman. We have not yet done a video chat. I just thought that one of you mongers might have encountered her already and know the story.Sounds like a typical lady boy, he will be what ever you ask him to be.
Stroker Ace88
04-25-12, 06:39
I've had some interesting conversations with Sweet and Hot on DIA. I got to say I'm intrigued. She's sent me a follow up photo and I'm getting a vibe that she's real when we chat. I'm checking if anyone else has had an encounter with her. I get the idea that she's up for anything and has met some of you members before. Maybe it's best to PM with details if you have any.
http://www.dateinasia.com/Sweet
+and+Hot. Html
She is different than I expected based on the profile. I also was expecting a regular pay for play girl who would just tell me to call her when I get to town. However, her English is polished and natural. She seems quite thoughtful and intelligent and she presents herself as having an office job with an international company. This seems believable based on several long conversations. Some were during business hours and some were evenings. The photo she sent me matches her claim-an attractive, well-dressed office type lady in her 30s. She is making a real effort to get to know me and has already invested a lot of time in our conversations. Pros usually want to get right to the point. I would say rather that she is a very adventurous lady and with a wide appetite for sexual experiences. She doesn't want long-term commitment but seems to want something more than a one nighter. I get the idea that she'd like a bf who would be open to adventure that sometimes would include others. She hasn't mentioned money yet, though of course that may be understood. So yes, I'm intrigued.
However, I also know that things are never what they seem to be in DIA. You need to be a skeptic and doubt everything. Heck, she might not even be a woman. We have not yet done a video chat. I just thought that one of you mongers might have encountered her already and know the story.Waz,
Several senior members have just provided advice that she is a p4p pro (I also agree) , and still you choose to allow yourself to believe otherwise? Her main goal in life is to land the motherload of gold. A western husband who will take care of her and her family and her local BF. She can see in you that ray of marriage hope and as such she plays the game. Acting all nice and sweet, but yet the evidence is crystal clear. The words in her profile are all about P4P.
I think you are in serious denial. You are a guy without any experience dealing with filipinas, asking for advice from guys who live and spend large amounts of time there. For the most part we have seen it all, heard it all. Alot of us can tell by the pics posted, the language on the profile, the type of words used, and the initial 5 minutes on YM chat what the woman is all about. Granted some play a longer more patient game than others, but when a boeing bomb hits you in the head, don't call it a meteorite a la Joe Dirt. Come' on man! You ask for advice but then you proceed in the exact opposite direction of the advice provided.
Once you have visited and spent time in the Philippines things will become clearer, but from where I stand right now you seem like a SA just yanking our chain. Digging up profiles every week. Throwing some new meat for us to chew on. Just when is your trip again?
Waz you need a reality check. Either you are yanking our chain and I am calling you on it, or you are one of those train wreck guys we all hear about. They visit the Philippines, fall in love with the first woman they meet and the woman sucks his money dry in record time. Mesmerized by that fine young ass. They pop up on the dragon ladies website daily. I am trying to help you avoid the latter situation.
I know many members have provided additional advice via PM, but that advice doesn't seem to be absorbed by you. Good luck with that train ride.
Tally Wacker
04-27-12, 06:41
19 and 20 year old sisters available for fun. Has anyone expierienced them yet? Shoot me a PM if you have.
Thanks
Member #4643
05-03-12, 08:36
19 and 20 year old sisters available for fun. Has anyone expierienced them yet? Shoot me a PM if you have.
ThanksI would love to test drive these ladies. Where can I meet them? DIA? Another dating site?
GregLondon
05-03-12, 12:54
Waz,
Several senior members have just provided advice that she is a p4p pro (I also agree) , and still you choose to allow yourself to believe otherwise? Her main goal in life is to land the motherload of gold. A western husband who will take care of her and her family and her local BF. She can see in you that ray of marriage hope and as such she plays the game. Acting all nice and sweet, but yet the evidence is crystal clear. The words in her profile are all about P4P.
I think you are in serious denial. You are a guy without any experience dealing with filipinas, asking for advice from guys who live and spend large amounts of time there. For the most part we have seen it all, heard it all. Alot of us can tell by the pics posted, the language on the profile, the type of words used, and the initial 5 minutes on YM chat what the woman is all about. Granted some play a longer more patient game than others, but when a boeing bomb hits you in the head, don't call it a meteorite a la Joe Dirt. Come' on man! You ask for advice but then you proceed in the exact opposite direction of the advice provided.
Once you have visited and spent time in the Philippines things will become clearer, but from where I stand right now you seem like a SA just yanking our chain. Digging up profiles every week. Throwing some new meat for us to chew on. Just when is your trip again?
Waz you need a reality check. Either you are yanking our chain and I am calling you on it, or you are one of those train wreck guys we all hear about. They visit the Philippines, fall in love with the first woman they meet and the woman sucks his money dry in record time. Mesmerized by that fine young ass. They pop up on the dragon ladies website daily. I am trying to help you avoid the latter situation.
I know many members have provided additional advice via PM, but that advice doesn't seem to be absorbed by you. Good luck with that train ride.Actually this lady told me she is already married (but separated) with a British guy and has 2 kids. She does seem to have some pretty wild ideas and as ever SA is right that it is prudent to think that there is no free lunch and that she has either short term or long term financial needs in mind, though sometimes this is not the case where a woman is being generously supported by a western guy alredy.
Tally Wacker
05-03-12, 18:26
A 21yr old filipina I chat with. She is a regular girl with a job. This happened 2-days ago.
Our Chat:
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: I really enjoying being single for now, I am bad girl little bit hehehe.
Me: yea its ok honey.
Me: I'm not jealous.
Me: just be yourself.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: I will tell you something but don't get dissapointed
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: hehehe.
Me: tell me.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: I just had sex last night really, I went to a bar with sally then I meeted this guy who staring at me and then yun.
Me: thats sexy.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: but it is just for fun.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: LOL.
Me: its ok.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: he is american I think? But we did used condom as I feel not safe.
Me: pinoy?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: no I didn't like pinoy really.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yes.
Me: its cool you tell me.
Me: its exy.
Me: sexy.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: nothing he is bigger then me thats why we make love I'm on top.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: but didn't work and he did the Job.
Me: tell me.
Me: I like.
Me: I'm totaly open honey.
Me: white guy?
Me: he fuck you good?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: He is demanding LOL.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: he wants me to do this and that, but then it last for 30 mins only, hehehe.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: not that good but hard
Me: ah you want fuck longer?
Me: wow I like hehe.
Me: yea just fuck hard not sensual ha.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yes, when I gave him blow job he did cum, then he cum again while we are having sex.
Me: you taste his cum?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yes little bit.
Me: too sexy.
Me: I like that you are frank.
Me:
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: I like white guys, cute, cute nose, white and white cock.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: hehehe.
Me: LOL.
Me: your cool.
Me: like I said your beyond your years honey.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yes I know,
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: hehe.
Me: honey why you tell me?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: nothing I just want to have some topic, and I just want to tell you that I am not that really nice girl sometimes,
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: Are you interested with me?
Me: its cool.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: thats why I told you.
Me: your nice.
Me: just young and its ok to have fun.
Me: I like.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yes I know but I now my limitations. Nver did that when I'm on relationship before.
Me: no prob.
Me: hey.
Filipin 21, 5' 6, Manila: hey?
Me: where you meet the guy?
Me: starbucks?
Filipina21, 5' 6, Manila: guy who?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: that one last night?
Me: the guy who fuck your brains out LOL.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: hehehe.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: rockwell.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: makati.
Me: whats rockwell?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: club.
Me: ok.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: its a place in makato.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: makati.
Me: hey
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: when you will go here?
Me: your super cool and sexy.
Me: thank you for being open.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: it is the first time ever I did one night stand I swear.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: but it is cool.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: heheh.
Me: yea its ok.
Me: fun to just be free sometimes.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yes, hehe, I am thinking about my ex bf last night if who's the good shag.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: hahah.
Me: LOL.
Me: funny.
Me: you learn austrailian sexy words.
Me: shag.
Me: can I ask?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: yep hehe he is london but lives in australia, hehe shag yes.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: what?
Me: did the guy give you anyhing?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: no.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: he didn't give me anything.
Me: did you stay all night? And fuck many times?
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: I didn ask for anything.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: no.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: I leave after 1 hour.
Me: I see.
Filipina 21, 5' 6, Manila: he is asking me if I want money, I told him I have lots my mom gives and I'm not bar girl.
Me: I see
A 21yr old filipina I chat with. She is a regular girl with a job. This happened 2-days ago.Interesting chat TW.
I reckon most guys will recognise many parallels with their own chat experiences.
I notice that she used the line that she is a little bit naughty.
One line I always use to get a reaction is that I tell her I am a gentleman.
Then I tell her that sometimes I am naughty but I am still a gentleman.
Almost always she will say something like "It's OK because I am naughty sometimes too".
That gives the green flag to warm the discussion up.
If she ignores my reference to being naughty or starts asking "what do you mean by naughty?" then it is a good opportunity to vet her reaction.
I find it works well to avoid wasting time with a girl who is not really interested in a fun meeting.
Thought some punters may find this a bit bemusing.
Ad attached to one of my Matches in CB.
"I'm simple and god fearing person I'm a Sunday school taecher teaching kids I want someone who is a god fearing person and a christian person If your interested with me come to my world and lets have fun for one night only or more."
G
Just wanted to warn you guys that kitkat2012 probably is a gay guy or a ladyboy posing as a 23 year old nurse."She" sent me 5 or 6 pics that matched her DIA profile pic. Next she started right into the naughty conversation with a story about losing her virginity to her Canadian uncle. Then she sent me naked photos of erect uncle with a sex pic that obviously didn't match her DIA pic. She wanted to see my privates on cam but made an excuse that her cam didn't work. So be warned.
Thought some punters may find this a bit bemusing.
Ad attached to one of my Matches in CB.
"I'm simple and god fearing person I'm a Sunday school taecher teaching kids I want someone who is a god fearing person and a christian person If your interested with me come to my world and lets have fun for one night only or more."
GDid anyone else get whiplash reading that last sentence? I've never seen such an odd mixture of piety and promiscuity anywhere else but Phils. So many of these profiles begin with the statement that the poster is looking for a "God fearing" man. If I read that on a dating site in the states I'd turn and run the other way. Not so in Phils.
Wazoo.
She contacted me but I did not reply.
What name did she give you for a first name? Or he?
Mention of "God fearing" has always been a show stopper for me. Are you sure about that in the Phils?
Interesting chat TW.
One line I always use to get a reaction is that I tell her I am a gentleman.
Then I tell her that sometimes I am naughty but I am still a gentleman.
Almost always she will say something like "It's OK because I am naughty sometimes too".
That gives the green flag to warm the discussion up.I use a similar approach to Red Kilt's. I say I am 100% good guy and only 30% naughty. Often it is a hehehehe response which you can build upon.
KongKing
Just a word of warning for two (most probable) scams that I run into:
1. Regular girls (can be from your contact list) are offered payment to direct you to a site where you 'only need to fill in your credit card details for certification purposes'. Usually it starts with some story of her having posted pics on that site or her using that site for chatting.
2. Girls (like in 1 from totally different regions) seem suddenly to have taken up aviation as a hobby. They asked me to order them model planes. Of course payment with credit card.
I strongly suspect these sites are purposely built for getting your credit card details for fraud purposes.
The girls most of the time have no idea I think that is the purpose but are horny for the commission they get paid to bring a customer. Be warned (no of course I never filled in any details on any of these sites).
I've been developing several ladies on DIA for the last month, which includes long video chats on YM. Last night I was chatting with one but forgot to make myself invisible. So another one logs in and sees me "view my webcam" tag and of course wants to see me. A few minutes later another. And then another. So I'm trying to juggle four different conversations at once with the video frames lined up on my monitor like the Brady Bunch intro. One is a single mom who wants empathy because she misses her kid. Another is drunk and crazy and trying to get me to laugh. Another one wants a serious conversation about "us." The fourth is seducing me by removing clothing and doing sexy poses. I'm trying to match up the appropriate facial expressions but of course am doing a miserable job at it. So then I went stone faced, which didn't help either. Word to the wise: use those stealth settings!
Just a word of warning for two (most probable) scams that I run into:Thanks for this warning. I haven't seen either of these scams yet, but now I'll be on the lookout. I've just gotten the usual sob stories about and life crises with the pleas to wire cash.
Mr Enternational
05-10-12, 07:14
I've been developing several ladies on DIA for the last month, which includes long video chats on YM. Last night I was chatting with one but forgot to make myself invisible. So another one logs in and sees me "view my webcam" tag and of course wants to see me. A few minutes later another. And then another. So I'm trying to juggle four different conversations at once with the video frames lined up on my monitor like the Brady Bunch intro. One is a single mom who wants empathy because she misses her kid. Another is drunk and crazy and trying to get me to laugh. Another one wants a serious conversation about "us." The fourth is seducing me by removing clothing and doing sexy poses. I'm trying to match up the appropriate facial expressions but of course am doing a miserable job at it. So then I went stone faced, which didn't help either. Word to the wise: use those stealth settings!LOL. Rookie!
Ran into another girl doing the same. Copied the conversation before deleting and blocking her: (this is a script, all the girls copy and paste from it to make this conversation with you)
Her user I'd is MarifeJapitan on DIA.
Bronck20.
Hi there &65532;
Y MarifeJapitan 20 DC DIA 1, 5.
I saw it here, http://4d2.me/viewpicture3361
Bronck20.
?
Y MarifeJapitan 20 DC DIA 1, 5.
One sec brb! Wait for me okay!
Bronck20.
Ok.
Y MarifeJapitan 20 DC DIA 1, 5.
Okay I'm back, are you busy right now?
Bronck20.
Y MarifeJapitan 20 DC DIA 1, 5.
I just bought a new webcam, I haven't used it yet but I want to hehe. Actually I'm setting it up right now.
Bronck20.
Y MarifeJapitan 20 DC DIA 1, 5 SCAMMER.
I got a surprise for you, &65532; want to see it? Before I jump in the shower? Got something nice to show you.
Bronck20.
Y MarifeJapitan 20 DC DIA 1, 5 SCAMMER.
K here's the invite to my cam http://bit.ly/invitecamfree Once you are there just click the Accept Invite button,
Maryrose is a bit heavier than most of her pictures indicate. Those bikini pics sure look nice but they are a few years old. X
Wicked Roger
05-10-12, 19:44
Just a word of warning for two (most probable) scams that I run into:
2. Girls (like in 1 from totally different regions) seem suddenly to have taken up aviation as a hobby. They asked me to order them model planes. Of course payment with credit card.
I strongly suspect these sites are purposely built for getting your credit card details for fraud purposes.
The girls most of the time have no idea I think that is the purpose but are horny for the commission they get paid to bring a customer. Be warned (no of course I never filled in any details on any of these sites).FS.
If you send me your credit card details I promise I won't scam you. Just spend it wisely on my favourite charity (where are the smileys when you need them!)
Seriously, interesting you FR this as this is new (re model planes not the otehr one) and hopefully no one here is dumb enough to give them what they want. But trust WR as I am a safe pair of hands LOL.
PS Cebu hottie has note that beaches where you are based allow toplees sun bathing. Now she is dying to visit your patch (with me in tow of course). Is it advisable LOL?
FS.
PS Cebu hottie has note that beaches where you are based allow toplees sun bathing. Now she is dying to visit your patch (with me in tow of course). Is it advisable LOL?Advisable that you are in tow? No WR, you better stay home and I will take care of her. Or was that not what you meant? .
On the more crowded beaches yes, but be advised that it is tolerated not really accepted and for sure not liked (by many locals).
Sorry, I just realized the Tagged search function isn't working well. If anyone wants to share info on Tagged gals, pm me. Tagged recently changed their layout and it's causing quite a few problems. X.
Maryrose is a bit heavier than most of her pictures indicate. Those bikini pics sure look nice but they are a few years old. X
FreebieFan
05-11-12, 03:05
Wazoo.
She contacted me but I did not reply.
What name did she give you for a first name? Or he?
Mention of "God fearing" has always been a show stopper for me. Are you sure about that in the Phils?Its not too different to the "I'm only seeking a serious man for marriage. If you are a player stay far away from me."
On my last trip, I met the one who had written those words on her page. We met at 10am. At 10. 10 were in Metro supermarket buying provisions for my place. At 10. 20 were in my place. At 10. 40 we are bouncing on the bed. At 10. 50 I'm in the middle of a stunnigly good 69, with my tongue deep in her and two digits up her ass. At 11. 00am we are showering as I'm thinking about my next appointment.
Never once was a follow up date mentioned, never once was "player" mentioned.
Don't believe all you read. In my many many years of visiting Phils I only ever had one (in a hundred, in two hundred?) knock me back.
Don't believe all you read. . .Attention JP Slicky and Wazoo.
I can strongly support FFs comment and add that it has been regularly discussed at length in numerous posts in this particular thread on this forum.
Never take much notice of what is said on profiles. Most times they are just mindlessly copied from other profiles because they think they sound good, and often a friend or relative will write the profile for someone and post it on their behalf.
Even specified age ranges don't mean much to them.
Many times I have written to a woman who says "aged 35 to 45" and said something like "What a pity I am too old for you" or "What a pity I am out of your age range" only to get an immediate "It's OK we can still be friends etc etc".
None of them know what "God-fearing" means anyway. I have asked numerous women who use it and they cannot explain.
The most recent classic for me was a woman I met on Saturday night and during the interview she made it clear that she had to leave by 5am so she could go to Church next Sunday morning at 6. 30 am.
Most of the women that I meet at Mall of Asia all either meet me after coming from the large Redemptorist church in Baclaran or after we have done the deed they catch a cab from the SOGO direct to the same church.
Religious beliefs and actual behavior do not correlate in the Philippines.
Sincere thanks to all for your valuable insight.
I will keep mind of it.
I have been hitting DIA pretty hard these days and took some advice froma member here and changed my DIA profile to read essencially Looking for Dinner and dancing date no LTR blah blah blah. I think I must have at least 10 already to want to meet me. Now I will have to come up with an excel spreadsheet to keep them all straight. I understand a lot of them will not come though but shit I only have 9 days there and another 3 weeks till I leave Cebu. This will be interesting. If all fails, I guess there is J-Ave to back it up.
None of them know what "God-fearing" means anyway. I have asked numerous women who use it and they cannot explain.Yes, in my early days on DIA I was puzzled by the repeated "I'm God faring" expression. Silly me I would ask why they "fear God"."I can understand why you love, worship, adore, God, so why fear Him?"."Huh?","what?" was the general response, and like Red Kilt said, there was no explanation. Don't go there. Ignore it!
KongKing
In stead of telling these poor girls all the time "I have a hard one today". Here is something to really help them with understanding their own religion (and profiles) :
Many Jews and Christians believe the fear of God to be devotion itself, rather than a sense of being frightened of God. It can also mean fear of God's judgment. [2] The fear of God is described in Proverbs 8:13 as "the hatred of evil." Throughout the Bible it is said to bring many rewards. Conversely, not fearing God is said to result in Divine retribution.
Source: Wikipedia
Female Usage as a descriptor; 'I am a good girl. '
When used to describe a potential male mate;"God Fearing Man" means, 'Less likely to Cheat, because he at least recognizes that there is an angry and jealous God who will hopefully punish the Two- timing Bastard'.
I haven't met this girl yet or even chatted, so I can vouch for her. But I sure do like this straightforward profile:
"I am a straightforward, sensible and honest girl. I won't send you thousands of crazy texts, if I say I will meet you I will turn up more or less on time. I am not looking to scam or cheat you or tell you silly stories about sick grandmothers. If I agree to spend time with you as your GF I hope and expect you will treat me as well and fairly as I treat you. That's all I ask."
Wish they all were like this!
Female Usage as a descriptor; 'I am a good girl. '
When used to describe a potential male mate;"God Fearing Man" means, 'Less likely to Cheat, because he at least recognizes that there is an angry and jealous God who will hopefully punish the Two- timing Bastard'.
I haven't met this girl yet or even chatted, so I can vouch for her. But I sure do like this straightforward profile:
"I am a straightforward, sensible and honest girl. I won't send you thousands of crazy texts, if I say I will meet you I will turn up more or less on time. I am not looking to scam or cheat you or tell you silly stories about sick grandmothers. If I agree to spend time with you as your GF I hope and expect you will treat me as well and fairly as I treat you. That's all I ask."
Wish they all were like this!Wazoo I would predict that this profile was written by an English-speaking foreigner for her.
I read the same profile sometime ago and that was my immediate impression. Foreigners are the only people who think sending thousands of texts is crazy.
Wazoo I would predict that this profile was written by an English-speaking foreigner for her.
I read the same profile sometime ago and that was my immediate impression. Foreigners are the only people who think sending thousands of texts is crazy.I am a straightforward, sensible and honest girl.
http://www.dateinasia.com/Liezelicious.html
Wazoo I would predict that this profile was written by an English-speaking foreigner for her.
I read the same profile sometime ago and that was my immediate impression. Foreigners are the only people who think sending thousands of texts is crazy.I met her in person in February, actually her ex-boyfriend English has helped her to create a certain popularity in the web.
Wazoo I would predict that this profile was written by an English-speaking foreigner for her.
I read the same profile sometime ago and that was my immediate impression. Foreigners are the only people who think sending thousands of texts is crazy.Yeah, after I think about it, you probably are right. The English is too natural to be written by a Filipina.
Yes, definetly written by a foreigner 100. Just helping her get more interest from guys. My educated guest its an Englishman who is a regular contributor to this forum.
RK, I think that you are right.
And I am pretty sure that I know who wrote it.
Good for him to give her a hand.
Gangles
I am a straightforward, sensible and honest girl.
http://www.dateinasia.com/Liezelicious.html
Tally Wacker
05-12-12, 18:32
RK, I think that you are right.
And I am pretty sure that I know who wrote it.
Good for him to give her a hand.
GanglesYep your right G. I recognize the writing style as well. She must be well trained in playing with other girls.
First, I am a newbie to the Philippines, so caveat emptor. I've developed some practical wisdom by mongering 20 years in China and Japan, but I've found that dealing with the Philippines and Filipinas is just totally different. I've learned a lot from the experienced members here but I've also made my share of rookie mistakes. I want to pass along my experience as a guide for newbies. My advice covers only the process of getting started and protecting yourself online. I hope the senior members will correct what I say or offer advise about the later phases of the process.
1. Assume that every reader of your profile is a guy in Nigeria who wants to steal your identity and rob you blind. Assume he is so good at it that you won't figure it out until you've had several chat sessions. If you protect against the worst case scenario, you be good against more likely risks like low-end scammers or vengeful ex-girlfriends.
2. Create a fictitious but plausible backstory for yourself. Over the years I have developed a whole pseudo-biography for myself: name, career, city I live in, children's names, email account, facebook page, etc. Chose a career you know something about and a city you know well so it will be natural and consistent. Never under any circumstances give away a real name, work place, etc. When you meet the girl, be careful to hide receipts, credit cards, IDs, etc.
3. Create your Profile for DIA or other sites. Use only info from your pseudo-biography. Experienced mongers in the forum advise to state exactly what you are looking for: serious relationship vs. Play, age preferences, locations, time horizon, etc. I've found this to be good advise. It saves a lot of time screening out those who are bad matches. Be direct but polite and not crude. Don't believe everything you read in the profiles of the ladies. I've found that a lot of women say that want to meet only a serious guy who will marry them and adopt their children, but can get very excited about a short-term relationship with a guy who will show them a good time and treat them well. For my profile pic, I found a photo on the web that resembles me. Only after I have reasonable trust for a lady does she get a real photo or access to my FB.
4. Create a Yahoo Messenger Account. Use your mongering-only email address. Give your YM account out only after you have established basic trust. I've gotten spammed from 'ladies' who turned out to be scammers or web cam girls. You can block them but it's a pain. As soon as you are comfortable, use video chat in YM to verify the identity of the lady. Almost everyone has access to a cam these days, even if it means taking a bus to an internet café. If the 'lady' won't appear on cam, 'she' is hiding something.
5. Option: Create a mongering-specific Facebook page. Under no circumstances let a lady have access to your regular life FB account. FB is useful to get a feel for a girl—her photos, friends, who many male friends she has, etc. It's amazing how many Filipinas use no privacy settings at all. Often you can find them just by searching with email address or even DIA name. If you use FB, make good use of the privacy filters to hide your friend list and as much post history as you can. Do this especially if you are working 'special' relationships with multiple girls. If you post photos on Facebook, be sure to use new ones with no internet history so they can't be found on photo search engines like Tineye. Also remember to turn off the face recognition engine in FB so that you keep your mongering FB separate from your regular life FB.
6. Money. DIA warns you not to send money to the girls. Senior members on this board warn not to do it. The majority of my DIA contacts have never asked for a dime, but there are those few who will after you get to know them. You'll hear all sorts of sob stories why your help is urgently needed, and some of these reasons may even be true. But sending money is like feeding a stray cat. If you ever start, there will be no end to requests. Trust me on this. I had a promising relationship sour after I sent a small sum to help with a family emergency. Everything after that became quid pro quo. An added liability is that wiring money will require you to divulge your real name to the recipient. Consider yourself warned.
7. Time Frame. I made the mistake of setting up my DIA account several months before my trip. That's just too long. The pros and semi-pros don't want to waste time on you. Lonely ladies will get dependent on you. With even the 'keepers, ' you'll run out of things to talk about eventually. Extended relationships also gives more and more time for them to think of reasons for you to send them money. Months of chatting and correspondence also create an expectation of seriousness, no matter what you tell them. If you just want to meet pros or semi pros, there's no point starting more than 2 weeks in advance. If you are trying to establish a real relationship, a month or 6 weeks seems about right.
It is not necessary to protect yourself as much mentioned in the previous report.
After all you are not giving your credit card info or address of your home or personal cell phone number.
Phi girls very rarely become stalkers in the real sense. They know there is very little they can do to trace you as a foreigner.
They are practical in the sense that the fun was good while it lasted. Yes, they got gifts and money in exchange for sex and companionship.
In fact most know it is a hard hill climb to get a foreigner interested enough to marry and go to his country.
In YM you can delete her contact and everytime she tries to contact you, you can click spam and will be disconnected from her forever.
Only problem is the facebook. It is a open forum where they can post bad things about you. Better not approove her account as facebook friends.
Most girls looking for a foreigner young or old or very old are hoping for a better life out of their poverty stricken livelyhood.
I tend to to sympathetic to their situation and for small gifts and money have made excellent bed partners. They try to be clingy sometimes but if handled the right way.
They understand you are a butterfly and will let you have your fun.
As I stated in an earlier post, I have been hitting DIA pretty hard in the Cebu area. So far I have had some initial success. But there are a few interesting women (Cases) I chatted with.
Woman #1.
She clearly stated she was a God fearer. She contacted me first. Finally I ask her if she wants to mee, She told me I had to go to church with her before any dinner invitation. Ahhh. No thanks, I am not going to church on my vacation. Her test I suppose. She was pretty but I deemed her too much effort.
Woman 2.
Gave that line of God fearer line again. I told her I sleep in on Sundays. She said that was fine with that. And she goes on to lightly apologies for not being a virgin. YMed with her using video, and at first I thought a farmer was playing tricks on me because what I saw was a water buffalo, did not resemble her photo.
Woman 3.
Wanted me to pay her a months salary to take her out on a date and no sex. Well, no thanks but thanks for stopping by. She was not a two bagger, but she was not material you pay to go out on a date. Has a kid and no doubt has mama's gut too.
Woman 4.
We got into the conversation and she mentioned she wishes I could come meet her there. I told her that I would be there in two weeks and do ya want to have dinner? Then Bing! She signed off. Hmmm? Guess we got cut off?
Woman 5.
I call this one a Clingon (From Star Trek) She gives me theses indications of God fearer again. However I told her I don't go to church on Sunday. She basically says that's fine. But she already is writing how she loves me and misses me and says 'God Bless'. I asked for a photo, but she did not have one. Her DIA one is a bit foggy to. I going to put the breaks on this one.
Women 18 to 22.
I have found this at home doing nothing type the dumbest of the dumb.
#1 Asked me for a loan of 1200 then 1000 and settled on 500 because she has no food in the house but she is able to be at a net café for three hours.
#2 Thought all American are white only.
#3 Just has nothing interesting to say, but I stay with this one just to see where it goes.
But there have been others that so far are a Go. So like the dude says in the cable show on National Geographic 'American Pickers' its 'Game ON'.
Member #4351
05-13-12, 03:09
Wazoo, you should get together with Furryfriend: http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1004-Cebu&p=1237747&viewfull=1#post1237747 . Just reading your post made me tired. I realize you are retired and working the dating sites is your new hobby, but its really not such a big deal. IMHO you should just save your energy for when you actually arrive in the Philippines. Instead of spending so much time online with these girls, I suggest you order and read this book: http://www.amazon.com/Philippines-Culture-Shock-Alfredo-Roces/dp/1558686274/ref=sr_1_19?ie=UTF8&qid=1336875329&sr=8-19 . It will help you understand where the girls are coming from and why they act the way they do.
Wazoo.
I have to agree with Sammon and David.
Way too much analysis of what is a very straightforward activity.
You make browsing DIA sound like a draft outline for the next John le Carre novel. I suggest that the whole fake pseudo-biography thing will backfire on you too. It is just not necessary.
The simple rules are:
- don't give her your real name;
- tell her you don't use FaceBook period;
- meet her first time in person in a neutral venue (like a mall coffee shop) so you can walk away if she turns out to be less than you expected;
- be direct about what you are seeking. If she doesn't like it, just move on.
The bottom line is that the more you establish elaborate scams to protect yourself against her the less you can be indignant about the scams she might pull on you in return.
Wazoo, you should get together with Furryfriend: http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1004-Cebu&p=1237747&viewfull=1#post1237747 . Just reading your post made me tired. I realize you are retired and working the dating sites is your new hobby, but its really not such a big deal.No, this isn't my situation at all. I have a highly demanding but also sensitive career that requires me to keep a very light web footprint with this part of my life. I'm not worried so much about the what some random Filipina might do as those with more sophisticated methods and agendas. It's common practice now for employers to do some pretty rigorous searching into your web history when hiring or promoting for some types of jobs and pay grades. No one should have any illusion of anonymity or privacy when it comes to the web. Anyone in an executive or professional career, in a technical field, doing work related to the government, or at the start of a career needs to be extra careful. You may consider it paranoia or overkill, but I call it prudence. I'm just passing along some things that I think any hobbyist should at least think about. If you don't feel that you personally don't need it, fine. I envy you guys who can be a more carefree with your lives. Hopefully some day I will be also.
No, this isn't my situation at all. I have a highly demanding but also sensitive career that requires me to keep a very light web footprint with this part of my life. I'm not worried so much about the what some random Filipina might do as those with more sophisticated methods and agendas. It's common practice now for employers to do some pretty rigorous searching into your web history when hiring or promoting for some types of jobs and pay grades. No one should have any illusion of anonymity or privacy when it comes to the web. Anyone in an executive or professional career, in a technical field, doing work related to the government, or at the start of a career needs to be extra careful. You may consider it paranoia or overkill, but I call it prudence. I'm just passing along some things that I think any hobbyist should at least think about. If you don't feel that you personally don't need it, fine. I envy you guys who can be a more carefree with your lives. Hopefully some day I will be also.I think you missed the point of my post Wazoo and the point David was making.
I certainly am not carefree and cavalier. I also have a "highly demanding and sensitive career" and I am also "in an executive, professional career, in a technical field, doing work related to the government".
I agree wholeheartedly that you need to be prudent and extremely careful, but setting up elaborate false FB accounts etc and the pseudo bio is a sure fire to get sprung in some way.
I also (personally) would never use someone else's photo on my profile who looks like me. I just think that the lengths that you suggest to hide your real identity is a potential recipe for a backfire when you get sprung.
I stress that you simply do not need to fabricate a whole new identity about yourself. I tell any woman the truth about my personal status and what I am looking for, but I never tell her anything about myself (name, job etc) that can lead to being identified. I have a very successful DIA account with NO photo, and after 2 plus years I am successfully flying under the radar in both my personal and professional life.
Cunning Stunt
05-13-12, 11:06
I also (personally) would never use someone else's photo on my profile who looks like me. I just think that the lengths that you suggest to hide your real identity is a potential recipe for a backfire when you get sprung.Hahaha. Funny that you mention that. I have had a photo of a world renowned heartthrob rock star (to whom I bear a very slight resemblance) as my pen picture image on both my DIA and Facebook pages for quite some time. Funnily enough, in all that time, I have only twice been challenged by girls who recognised his photo. One girl made my day, on meeting me, by asking why I looked so much better in the flesh than my pen picture. LOL.
Wazoo. So this was you that I saw sneaking around the mall the other day. Its amazing the lengths that you professional gents will go to to protect identities when out for a little illicit shagging (insert smiley. Can someone give Jackson a nudge and ask him to turn them back on).
I think you missed the point of my post Wazoo and the point David was making.Sure I get your point. It's not that I'm sitting around in chat with a DIA girl spinning elaborate yarns about myself. I just have a back story ready when they start asking questions. And they do ask questions. Let me share part of the reason for my level of care here. A few years back I saw a lady in Japan every few months when I was there. I thought that I was crystal clear about my intentions but you never know what goes on in someone's head. She became a real stalker. I never told her my full name but she must have spied it on a credit card or receipt. She knew what city I lived in and my line of work. With a little quick googling she knew my home address, name of my SO and kids, place of work, etc. I started getting emails on my work account. She said that she was going to fly over and show up at my doorstep. You get the idea-a real potential first-class, life-wrecking nightmare. Will most ladies you see go to these lengths? No. But if you've been through this once you just learn to be careful.
When the Chat / pen pal thread was created, I imagined people sharing notes about the gals we meet online. I'm pretty damn sure the gals share notes on us. And there has been some good sharing to a degree. But we also need to be careful.
What I found is that most guys don't want to share info on the real winners. And worse, SOME of the lurkers and Net addicts will cause trouble if you give contact info about gals.
So, the gentleman who posted the dia info, and those who followed up with personal info about ex bf who helped her write it and, BTW, he uses this forum. Do you see any problem here? I just went to her profile and she hasn't been online since May 1. How do you think she's going to react when she opens up her account and has two hundred viewers, and a hundred messages, and some are telling her that guys are gossiping about her and her ex on a sex forum. Ouch, I'm guessing that account get's closed and the helpful ISGer gets an earful. Or worse.
I hope I'm wrong about this, but I suggest that folks consider using the pm function when you want to share the "good" info. On the other hand, if you get a real bad apple, that's the one you might want to put in the spotlight. X
Member #4351
05-13-12, 15:34
I suggest that folks consider using the pm function when you want to share the "good" info.X Man, I completely agree with you. There is some real scum of the earth lurkers and forum members who diligently read these threads. Many of us have been severely burnt by introducing the wrong guys to girls we know. I now follow W. R. 's example of only introducing forum members who I have met or who have some legitimacy on ISG. This relates to the Philippines. In Peru I am somewhat more flexible since I live here and can better control things.
Stroker Ace88
05-13-12, 18:58
Wazoo, you should get together with Furryfriend.[SNIP]
I think you missed the point of my post Wazoo and the point David was making.[SNIP]
I have to agree with Sammon and David. Way too much analysis of what is a very straightforward activity.[SNIP]I think Waz, Furryfriend, TC1 and HM should all meet. Tsk Tsk. More than one member has offered the same guidance to Waz but as of yet the advice does not seem to have been absorbed. SA? Only time will tell.
Avioneto123
05-21-12, 09:06
Hi there,
Has anyone checked this site. I know is mostly for men to find a soul mate, or something else. I was fascinated by their way of selling their girls. Nice videos of cebu, davao resorts, and girls. Any feedback. I can see it as a fertile ground for monggering or getting married to someone that looks like a ho.
Cheers
Tally Wacker
05-22-12, 03:13
Another foriegn troll guy trying to pose as a poor filipina to start a flame?
Hi there,
Has anyone checked this site. I know is mostly for men to find a soul mate, or something else. I was fascinated by their way of selling their girls. Nice videos of cebu, davao resorts, and girls. Any feedback. I can see it as a fertile ground for monggering or getting married to someone that looks like a ho.
Cheers
Hi there,
Has anyone checked this site. I know is mostly for men to find a soul mate, or something else. I was fascinated by their way of selling their girls. Nice videos of cebu, davao resorts, and girls. Any feedback. I can see it as a fertile ground for monggering or getting married to someone that looks like a ho.
CheersYep, very impressive marketing with lots of great looking babes. I contacted them about only attending their tour function while I was in Davao. Blown away by price quoted. $700 just to attend two functions! Also note that for most profiles it states "No Email address available." CRAP! Every girl I've ever met in PI has an email address. This site and its twin, A Foreign Affair, are cunningly designed to wet your appetite and empty your wallet. If anyone, ever, has experienced a positive result with these people, I'd like to hear about it. However, the Babe Pics are superb!
Hi there,
Has anyone checked this site. I know is mostly for men to find a soul mate, or something else. I was fascinated by their way of selling their girls. Nice videos of cebu, davao resorts, and girls. Any feedback. I can see it as a fertile ground for monggering or getting married to someone that looks like a ho.
CheersWe have been through this before.
Someone posted some vids showing the same guy with 3 different women on 3 different links giving a testimonial about how he found true love in the Philippines.
They are scams. And the women and guys are paid actors
Avioneto123
05-22-12, 10:04
Another foriegn troll guy trying to pose as a poor filipina to start a flame?Can you spell "foreing". Thank you for the other people who gave me some feedback. I also though that it was too good to be true. It is a scam. I Even I found a picture of my old girlfriend in it, and she is bad news.
Chatting with a woman on line.
We were talking about what we will do when we meet; positions etc.
I said I am interested in trying everything.
She replied " Me too, except not ass hold"
It made me laugh. She was either spelling using phonetics and thought "hole" was "hold" or she had a wrong key stroke.
I prefer the first one hehe
Soapy Smith
05-22-12, 17:03
She replied " Me too, except not ass hold"So where does she expect you to put your hands while you're doing her doggie?
Soapy Smith
05-22-12, 17:06
So where does she expect you to put your hands while you're doing her doggie?I hope she doesn't actually have a doggie. Sorry, didn't mean to imply anything really kinky. Bad choice of words; substitute doggiestyle for doggie.
So where does she expect you to put your hands while you're doing her doggie?All this ass and dog talk, wow you guys are kinky, no wonder Jackson banned lady boy talk
Pip Jaeger
05-23-12, 04:23
So where does she expect you to put your hands while you're doing her doggie?Who needs an "Ass Hold"; if she's got long hair take the "reins" and steer her where you want, LOL.
No, this isn't my situation at all. I have a highly demanding but also sensitive career that requires me to keep a very light web footprint with this part of my life. I'm not worried so much about the what some random Filipina might do as those with more sophisticated methods and agendas. It's common practice now for employers to do some pretty rigorous searching into your web history when hiring or promoting for some types of jobs and pay grades. No one should have any illusion of anonymity or privacy when it comes to the web. Anyone in an executive or professional career, in a technical field, doing work related to the government, or at the start of a career needs to be extra careful. You may consider it paranoia or overkill, but I call it prudence. I'm just passing along some things that I think any hobbyist should at least think about. If you don't feel that you personally don't need it, fine. I envy you guys who can be a more carefree with your lives. Hopefully some day I will be also.You are correct. I just went through that situation and believe me if you ever logged onto a site or wrote anything on the net using your computer it is subject to discovery in court. Make no mistakes about it. And that goes for your entire history. If you even for a moment think that for example yahoo does not have a copy of everything you ever sent or received you are wrong.
Soapy Smith
05-23-12, 21:04
Who needs an "Ass Hold"; if she's got long hair take the "reins" and steer her where you want, LOL.And now I'm LOL too.
Tally Wacker
05-29-12, 04:44
Ok so I was feeling horny today and tossed a few direct naughty messages to a random filipina and was intrigued at her responses. I like a more simple girl myself but she did sound very unique.
Our Chat.
Me to her.
Hi you look very cute and sexy! I'm nice but also naughty is that ok? .
Her to me:
"Come" to your own conclusions.
Naughty is such an old fashioned word for " interested in sex ".
The real point is are you looking for a video cam girl (sorry wrong port) or will visit.
Not a long distance chatter.
I guess I just lost youat.
M.
Me to her:
Naa your wrong don't need cam girl hmm.
Nice writing though.
Her to me:
Yup I write well. Was actually TAUGHT didn't just pick it up like so many other people.
Me to her:
Ah nice about your writing. I was not TAUGHT how to be naughty I just picked it up. LOL.
Her to me:
Sensayuma : 10/10.
Ability to cross the Pacific?
Hmm if I got a penny for every dude promising to visit Phils I would get very rich and stop looking in cupid!
Her to me:
This Blue Eyes?
Let's go to Luckenbach, Texas.
With Waylon and Willie and the boys.
This successful life we're livin' got us feudin'
Like the Hatfield and McCoys.
Between Hank Williams' pain songs and.
Newberry's train songs and Blue Eyes Cryin' in the Rain.
Out in Luckenbach, Texas ain't nobody feelin' no pain.
My ex was from Chicago and explained the song to me. Investment Banker.
Plenty of money but no time for anything fun.
Me to her:
Yea yea and if I got half a penny for every filipina who said I'm her only guy I would be richer than you. My ex filipina who I was supporting and filled papers to marry got pregnant from her secret pinoy bf. Now she is pregnant the 2nd time with his baby and he ran off and she says she loves me now. LOL.
If I stereotyped all filipinas the same way that would be terrible and I would sound like you.
I will be in Phil next month but your right you won't see me.
You write good but thats just writing.
Muah. .
Her to me:
Happy to see you if in town. Am off for 2 weeks sometime June to visit my sis in Singapore.
What brings you to Phils? Do you just love the pain of being fooled by my sisterhood?
YM : blahnlahblah@yahoo.com
Cell : +631234567.
Thanks for not saying Honey and Baby. You get 2 bonus points for that! Move to top of line (don't go to jail). '
Muah back!
Me to her:
Ohh I was never fooled but it was painful.
Sometimes I say honey or baby but I never stereotype
I think "Muah" is the old fashioned word you were thinking about meaning " I want to f uck your brains out". LOL.
MUAH! !
Tally Wacker
05-29-12, 05:17
Stephane Rotenberg was filming a segment in the Philippines for Season 6 of the French reality series Pékin Express when he lost control of the motorcycle / sidecar combination he was riding and got t-boned by a SUV. Rotenberg and his passenger both suffered injuries, but he was able to shoot scenes the following day.
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=d99_1338262099
FreebieFan
05-29-12, 06:49
First, I am a newbie to the Philippines, so caveat emptor. I've developed some practical wisdom by mongering 20 years in China and Japan, but I've found that dealing with the Philippines and Filipinas is just totally different. I've learned a lot from the experienced members here but I've also made my share of rookie mistakes. I want to pass along my experience as a guide for newbies. My advice covers only the process of getting started and protecting yourself online. I hope the senior members will correct what I say or offer advise about the later phases of the process.Its hard to be new, and all self protective, without knowing whether you are being extreme or applying the correct amount of self protection. Having said that, being a 27 year veteran of visits both short and long to the Phils, having "enjoyed" the delights of the said ladies, with many sourced from DIA, LA, PL, MB etcetc, you are being way way way too self protective.
Yes you should never give up too much info especially at the start, and yes you should talk to 10 on the basis that you might get to meet with 5 and get 3 into bed, but theres way too much paranoia in your post. Yes keep a spare non real email add, and have another YM handy, and stay far away from FB at all costs except to review girls pics, but the rest. Not needed.
These girls are not super sleuths out to entrap you. Trust your instincts. In most cases they are simple sweet ladies who lack much of a life and you are there to be their adventure. If it works, great, if it doesn't move on. Knowledge gained from 27 years of visiting, and from regularly visiting and scoring with 5-6 in 3 days. But then what do I know.
Its hard to be new, and all self protective, without knowing whether you are being extreme or applying the correct amount of self protection.My personal situation requires me to build a strong firewall between this part of my life and the rest. A few others who read the forum are in the same boat. Many of you aren't. The rest can just skip over my post and go on to something else.
Stephane Rotenberg was filming a segment in the Philippines for Season 6 of the French reality series Pékin Express when he lost control of the motorcycle / sidecar combination he was riding and got t-boned by a SUV. Rotenberg and his passenger both suffered injuries, but he was able to shoot scenes the following day.
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=d99_1338262099Thats what happens when you drive into the incoming traffic.
Thats what happens when you drive into the incoming traffic.And going too fast while talking to a camera man ahead of you. Maybe he could have tried to be texting too.
FreebieFan
05-30-12, 01:57
My personal situation requires me to build a strong firewall between this part of my life and the rest. A few others who read the forum are in the same boat. Many of you aren't. The rest can just skip over my post and go on to something else.And I know many of the others here who have stated that opinion. As a businessman known around Asia, as a married man, and having a high profile in my own industry which is full of gossip, I also have the need to have the same firewall. Thats why I stated my comments.
There are older wiser hands here, who have trod the path on which you are about to embark, nd have done it safely and successfully for many years by taking a few wise precautions but not getting too self protective. As the French say " to each his own".
Stroker Ace88
05-30-12, 04:52
Thats what happens when you drive into the incoming traffic.Hmm, in the Philippines there is no such thing as "incoming" traffic AKA 'oncoming' traffic. The painted center line dividing two separate directions of traffic is a suggestion and is viewed by locals as a horrible waste of paint. LOL. That's why the trend is to build more concrete median barriers of various height and effectiveness to try and curb the pinoy traffic firedrill.
Speaking of crazy driving today on GMA 24Oras they showed a guy some traffic enforcers stopped outside Manila who was riding a motorbike with a dozen or so live goats strapped to the side of the bike. (bike without sidecar) He saw nothing wrong with any of it as he claimed he tied them down secure. LMAO! The goats could barely breathe and there heads almost touched the ground as he sped along. No word if the goats ate the ticket or if he payed them off with a young kid or two. (goats not children folks) *big grin smiley*
Excuse the OT reply.
Girl writes:
Hehe. Cebu is so hot ryt now. Hehe. Life is so tragic my grandpa died my bro got open fracture and my friend was shot dead. So not so ok.
How does one respond to this?
1. Hey babe, bad luck comes in threes! It can only get better.
2. Did this happen in one day, or was it over the course of your 22 years?
3. He he.
4. Well, maybe you should go for an exorcism.
5. I've got more bad news for you babe, that is a run-on sentence.
Girl writes:
Hehe. Cebu is so hot ryt now. Hehe. Life is so tragic my grandpa died my bro got open fracture and my friend was shot dead. So not so ok.
How does one respond to this?
1. Hey babe, bad luck comes in threes! It can only get better.
2. Did this happen in one day, or was it over the course of your 22 years?
3. He he.
4. Well, maybe you should go for an exorcism.
5. I've got more bad news for you babe, that is a run-on sentence.It been raining for a few days now, must be a different Cebu, as for the family ask her if she has some skinny and cute sisters who do anal sex, sounds like the family may need some money LOL
SilentSteve99
05-30-12, 18:28
Wanted to know if anyone here has ever had any problems with anything / anyone they have done or been with in Philipines coming back in an unwelcome way to your life here in the US? As for me I have one life I live here at home in USA and occasionally (Mostly in China) have some fun for a few weeks then back to real life here in USA. I am thinking about trying the Philipines but wonder if there are scams or anything that you guys have seen in the past that can reach out and grab you by the booboo back here in the USA? I would think if you use a cam online with some of these ladies and are foolish enough to give them your name or pay them with western union or moneygram or something they could track you down here and make life tough but does anything like that happen if you are there in person in the Phill? Thanks for any comments / advice on this.
Don't give any girls your facebook account or just say "you don't have one". They will post their undying love for you and all their friends will start "friending you".
Have fun
Wanted to know if anyone here has ever had any problems with anything / anyone they have done or been with in Philipines coming back in an unwelcome way to your life here in the US? As for me I have one life I live here at home in USA and occasionally (Mostly in China) have some fun for a few weeks then back to real life here in USA. I am thinking about trying the Philipines but wonder if there are scams or anything that you guys have seen in the past that can reach out and grab you by the booboo back here in the USA? I would think if you use a cam online with some of these ladies and are foolish enough to give them your name or pay them with western union or moneygram or something they could track you down here and make life tough but does anything like that happen if you are there in person in the Phill? Thanks for any comments / advice on this.
WestCoast1
05-31-12, 00:41
I would think if you use a cam online with some of these ladies and are foolish enough to give them your name or pay them with western union or moneygram or something they could track you down here and make life tough but does anything like that happen if you are there in person in the Phill? Thanks for any comments / advice on this.Just an opinion (worth what you pay for it). With anyone overseas (or anyone you are not close friends with) , you'd have to be silly to turn your cam on for anything other than normal chat. Period. Its one thing to turn it on with a DIA contact you are considering meeting (you're going to insist she show you her face on cam prior to meeting, its fair for her to expect the same). But don't turn it on for cam-sex girls. Don't have cam sex with some asian or S american girl you've never met and been friendly with in real life (no matter how long you've known her). Don't turn your cam on for any reason, unless you reasonably expect to meet with this person (soon).
Never turn your cam on for a cam-sex girl. You are just asking for trouble. Never send money to cam-sex girls via WU, xoom dot com, MoneyGram, etc. You are giving away your private information. Don't use your real name with cam sex girls. Don't use your regular YM I'd with cam-sex girls, make a separate I'd if you must to that kind of thing. Always amazed at guys who use their name in their I'd ("bigjames123") , then told the cam-sex girl in chat his name is Jim. Whaddayathinkin? Having online cam-sex is your business, but do it in a way where you are not giving the individual girl your personal information. If the girl is selling cam sex from meeting guys in a dating site, report her to the site. If you're a cam-sex guy, there are plenty of sites that specialize in just that sort of thing: your personal info is collected by the site, not the girl. You play with fire when offering money over the YM or Skype. I can think of no good reason to turn your cam on with cam-sex girls; as she already has hers on for you. Your beating off your fat ass so she can watch does not turn her 22-yr-old nawty self on, it just gets you off faster thinking it is turning her on when she says,"oooohhh faster hun."
Anyone know a girl called Rihanna1 from Angeles City? I just want to make sure she isn't a scammer etc.
Anyone know a girl called Rihanna1 from Angeles City? I just want to make sure she isn't a scammer etc.That's not very smart Hatguy.
Now you will have every ISG member, including the sleazebags and bottom dwellers, crawling all over her DIA profile.
I bet Rihanna1 will have a closed profile within 2 days.
Maybe not but I'm not walking into some sort of scam if she is involved in that. Much rather know in advance etc.
FreebieFan
05-31-12, 04:18
Don't give any girls your facebook account or just say "you don't have one". They will post their undying love for you and all their friends will start "friending you".
Have funOr have a couple FB accounts (more you have the more you can spread your new found female friends, and avoid the " babe, who do you have 145 Filipina friends and they are all under 25? Type questions). But without PICS. Use the account so you can see the girls pics without getting invovled in the endless inanity of FB chats, and likes etc., etc
Don't give any girls your facebook account or just say "you don't have one". They will post their undying love for you and all their friends will start "friending you".
Have funMmmmmmmmmmm.
Depends how you use Facebook and how familiar you are with the various settings.
I have 3 fb accounts. One which is for personal friends and families, and 2 for phils. With my 2 phils fb accounts I have found them very useful as an additional source of young ladies to meet for fun.
Member #4351
05-31-12, 15:53
Maybe not but I'm not walking into some sort of scam if she is involved in that.How depressing.
Anyone know a girl called Rihanna1 from Angeles City? I just want to make sure she isn't a scammer etc.Follow simple rules.
1. Never send any money even if she is on her deathbed.
2. Do not plan any extended stay with her. Once you meet her and hit it off you can plan.
3. Never promise any money or gifts. You can take some gifts and if you like her give.
4. Remember they are mostly in it for money. A simple discussion about money she expects will be in order.
5. Do not fall in love before meeting.
DO NOT DISCLOSE HER INFO ON OPEN FORUM UNLESS YOU PLAN TO MARRY HER.
wanted to know if anyone here has ever had any problems with anything / anyone they have done or been with in philipines coming back in an unwelcome way to your life here in the us? as for me i have one life i live here at home in usa and occasionally (mostly in china) have some fun for a few weeks then back to real life here in usa. i am thinking about trying the philipines but wonder if there are scams or anything that you guys have seen in the past that can reach out and grab you by the booboo back here in the usa? i would think if you use a cam online with some of these ladies and are foolish enough to give them your name or pay them with western union or moneygram or something they could track you down here and make life tough but does anything like that happen if you are there in person in the phill? thanks for any comments / advice on this.you have nothing to worry unless you have fun with **** girls or make her pregnant.
if you are caught in a scam with **** girls you will have problem in phi itself. it is not nice.
if you make a girl pregnant girls can take action but unlikely. they do not have the money to hire a lawyer etc to trace you. if you make girl pregnant a support the child with regular money is a good option except if she
wants to end the pregnancy.
AAA Hunter
06-01-12, 00:54
Wanted to know if anyone here has ever had any problems with anything / anyone they have done or been with in Philipines coming back in an unwelcome way to your life here in the US? As for me I have one life I live here at home in USA and occasionally (Mostly in China) have some fun for a few weeks then back to real life here in USA. I am thinking about trying the Philipines but wonder if there are scams or anything that you guys have seen in the past that can reach out and grab you by the booboo back here in the USA? I would think if you use a cam online with some of these ladies and are foolish enough to give them your name or pay them with western union or moneygram or something they could track you down here and make life tough but does anything like that happen if you are there in person in the Phill? Thanks for any comments / advice on this.I never give out my cell phone number, except with this one gf that I had in the Philippines. I thought we had a good understanding of our relationship. I gave her my cell phone number. Over time, she wanted more in our relationship. She would text me on my cell phone every hour and text me constantly. I had to change my cell phone numbers and cut off our relationship. Also, without going into elaborate details, I never sign up for any of the social websites with my real name. Regarding pictures, I never post a picture of myself. Every girl in the Philippines has a cell phone. They spare no expenses in buying the latest and greatest cell phone. They love to take pictures of themselves, their friends, and family with their cell phones. They use cheesy apps to PS their pictures. I never allow them to take a picture of me or them and me. However, I had this live-in gf. She took picture of me and her while I was asleep. She posted and tag the pictures on FB, along with words of how much she was in love, blah, blah, blah. I leave to your imaginatopm on the problems that caused me.
DIA devilshit 19 Send her a friendly greeting and see what happens. Hope you have better luck than I did. Ha, ha.
DIA devilshit 19 Send her a friendly greeting and see what happens. Hope you have better luck than I did. Ha, ha.She has blocked it
Stroker Ace88
06-02-12, 01:11
Follow simple rules.
1. Never send any money even if she is on her deathbed.
2. Do not plan any extended stay with her. Once you meet her and hit it off you can plan.
3. Never promise any money or gifts. You can take some gifts and if you like her give.
4. Remember they are mostly in it for money. A simple discussion about money she expects will be in order.
5. Do not fall in love before meeting.
DO NOT DISCLOSE HER INFO ON OPEN FORUM UNLESS YOU PLAN TO MARRY HER.Sammon,
Some good info posted but I have to disagree with your last line.
NEVER post, introduce or share info about any filipina with ANYONE (monger, ISG member or expat foreigner) if you are serious about her. That goes double if you plan to marry her. If you are thinking of marriage with a filipina keep her well away from all other foreigners. If you post info on ISG about her you are just asking for trouble and inviting lurker losers to track her down and destroy your relationship.
Every six months or so some ISG member posts on the board, sends me a PM or I hear about it on the bamboo-vine about how there fiance or serious GF has been exposed to other foreigners who started banging her and-or pimping her out to other guys.
I'm trying to come up with a bottom line figure for one term at a public university, including tuition and fees. I've been able to find figures for private colleges but nothing for public schools. I know these vary according to the program. I'm trying to get a figure for lower end programs like teaching or caregiving at a regional public college. (Interestingly, I've heard that programs like HRM and Tourism actually cost more.) One young lady I met on DIA said her term at the teacher's college costs about 10K pesos. Does that sound reasonable? Thanks.
BTW, I don't want to touch off a whole series of posts warning me about sending "tuition" money to girls on the dating sites. That's not what I have in mind. I mentioned the DIA girl just because she mentioned a figure and that's the only solid bit of info i have.
I'm trying to come up with a bottom line figure for one term at a public university, including tuition and fees. I've been able to find figures for private colleges but nothing for public schools. I know these vary according to the program. I'm trying to get a figure for lower end programs like teaching or caregiving at a regional public college. (Interestingly, I've heard that programs like HRM and Tourism actually cost more.) One young lady I met on DIA said her term at the teacher's college costs about 10K pesos. Does that sound reasonable? Thanks.
BTW, I don't want to touch off a whole series of posts warning me about sending "tuition" money to girls on the dating sites. That's not what I have in mind. I mentioned the DIA girl just because she mentioned a figure and that's the only solid bit of info I have.My girls cost 15k to 30k but they are going to the best uni in Cebu. So 10k works out to 500 per unit, ask her how many units (20 To 22 is normal ) and the names of the classes, you will have stuff like maths 1 English 1 ect
AAA Hunter
06-02-12, 23:31
I'm trying to come up with a bottom line figure for one term at a public university, including tuition and fees. I've been able to find figures for private colleges but nothing for public schools. I know these vary according to the program. I'm trying to get a figure for lower end programs like teaching or caregiving at a regional public college. (Interestingly, I've heard that programs like HRM and Tourism actually cost more.) One young lady I met on DIA said her term at the teacher's college costs about 10K pesos. Does that sound reasonable? Thanks.
BTW, I don't want to touch off a whole series of posts warning me about sending "tuition" money to girls on the dating sites. That's not what I have in mind. I mentioned the DIA girl just because she mentioned a figure and that's the only solid bit of info I have.I have sponsored several gfs through colleges and university and I have done research in the past because bcos one girl would want some thing as high as 50K per semester in 4 year trisemester program and another girl would ask something as low as 10K for the entire program. What I have found was that private and state owned colleges in the Philippines have to follow tuition fees guidelines per the Center for Higher Education. Public schools can't charge more than the inflationary rates. Private school can set tuition when approved by their stakeholders (mainly school, teachers, parents). In the Philippines, the schools are divided by regions. Rates in the National Capital regions are significantly higher than those in the privinces. There is a lot more private schools than public school. For example in the NCR, there are 3 state universities and 1 state college, but there are more than
Than couple of hundreds of private nonsectarian schools and 3 dozens of sectarian schools.
Also, ay attention to what your girl is saying to you. Rates for universities are significantly higher than those in colleges. Within the colleges, there are a lot of differentiators, like state, local and technical colleges. There are also differences between degree, diplomat and certificate program.
Just to give you an idea on the wide range of tuition in public / private and degree vs certificate programs. I sponsored a model gf through a BS in Accountancy program at the De La Salle University (top private university in NCR) , and it was the most expensive program that I have ever sponsored anyone through. It was a 4 year program and costs more than my kid's tuition through a state univerity in the US. She paid between 35K through 50K per each trisemester, depends on the class load (2000+ pesos per unit) , and I had to help paid for fees which could be another 10 to 20K per each trisemester. There was a fee for everything. Library fee, science fee, fee for forms, and even fee if my girl was going to carry on extra work load.
I also helped another girl with a BS degree in the Cebu State College of Science and Technology (now alled Cebu Technology University). Her tuition was only about 1000+ pesos per semester, plus insignificant fees-a bargain compared to De La Salle. Certificate program is pretty cheap and relatively worthless in the real world. A 6 month certificate in nursing assistant at Family Care Training Center in Isabela for a friend cost me only 6000 pesos.
On tuition payment, I don't ever send money directly to a girl. Most private and publich schools have banks handling the payments, and I think it's because those schoold don't trust their employees with money. I usually have the banks handle the payment. For example, I usually send money to Union Bank for my girl's tuition at De La Salle. The school and my girl don't know who paid for it bcos the bank sends a slip confirming the date, time, amount and the student account for the payment. My girl's school account only shows the payment's been received.
GoodEnough
06-03-12, 02:07
My girls cost 15k to 30k but they are going to the best uni in Cebu. So 10k works out to 500 per unit, ask her how many units (20 To 22 is normal ) and the names of the classes, you will have stuff like maths 1 English 1 ectCosts also vary by region and by university even within the public system. Mindanao State University for example, charges less than Php200 per unit, while Western Mindanao State University (Zamboanga) charges slightly more. As the OP pointed out, costs also vary by course of study, with the equipment-heavy disciplines like Engineering costing more than Education, which is usually the least expensive.
GE
FurryFriend
06-03-12, 09:10
They do not have the money to hire a lawyer etc to trace you.Unless she has your real name or email address and can find you on Facebook.
She doesn't need to hire a lawyer or detective. Blackmail will do just fine. She can demand money or she will friend your friends on Facebook and then tell them that about your little "adventures" in the Philippines.
She can even make and upload a Youtube video about you which is going to be there forever.
Finally, she can file some complaint with the authorities. You might not know she did this until your next trip to the Philippines when some immigration officer at the airport says "sir, can you please come with me.".
So the bottom line is, never release your real name or the email address you use for Facebook. Photos are also a no-no.
Been chatting to many filipinas on FC recently trying to make a few contacts before my PI trip in a few weeks.
There was one extremely bright teenager who really talked the talk and played the game so well.
There she was so poor, father dead, no money, no job, can't pay tuition fees.
So anyway she tells me she has facebook. Sure enough there she is. Laying on the bed of the pan pacific hotel.
There she is laying on the beach at Boracay.
There she is at a resort on the beach on Bohol.
There she is at an amusement park in Australia.
There she is asking me to pay tuition fees for her.
One thing that I am starting to notice about filipinas is that they lie. Pretty much about everything.
I personally know a couple of white girls that would take any tuition money anyone wants to give away.
Member #4351
06-03-12, 15:01
AAA Hunter, you mentioned the accountancy program at La Salle as being the best in the country. Would you have any idea which University in Cebu is best for accountancy, (as far as actual education and job opportunies after graduation are concerned)?
I usually have the banks handle the payment. For example, I usually send money to Union Bank for my girl's tuition at De La Salle. The school and my girl don't know who paid for it bcos the bank sends a slip confirming the date, time, amount and the student account for the payment. My girl's school account only shows the payment's been received.Ehmhmmm and she does not know you are behind those payments?
AAA Hunter
06-03-12, 16:26
Ehmhmmm and she does not know you are behind those payments?Of course they knew I was behind the payments. No, they don't know my real identity / name. I have used MetroBank, Union Bank, and BDO. I just give the money to the banks and told him to appy to my girls' school account.
AAA Hunter
06-03-12, 17:06
AAA Hunter, you mentioned the accountancy program at La Salle as being the best in the country. Would you have any idea which University in Cebu is best for accountancy, (as far as actual education and job opportunies after graduation are concerned)?There is a lot of schools in Cebu and overall the Philippines. I always tell my girls if they want to go to school, they need to get a degree that will help them get a job. For accountancy, there are a lot of business colleges, e-business schools, and tech schools that offers diplomat or certificant in accountancy. I think most of them are worthless because if a girl wants to have a career as an accountant, she needs to pass the Philippines Board of Accounting Licensing Examination.
I think De La Salle is one of the best school because DLS grads have 97-100% passing rate on board exam consistently year after year.
I think both San Carlos (USC) and University of Cebu are a couple of good schools for accountacy school in Cebu. San Carlos grads have good passing rate (92% in 2010, 70% in 2011) for accounting license board examination. That means good job opportunities in the Philippines and abroad because the Philippines use accounting standards that are similar to the FASB US accounting standards. It will make job transition easier for you and her, if you ever fall in love with her and want to bring her to the US. San Carlos is private and that means big money (40-50K per semester) and your girl has to have good academic background (exam score, grades and possibly references). Be prepare to shell out 30-40K per semester for University of Cebu.
Just my experiences, hope this helps.
Good to know. I have a cebuana girlfriend criminology major going to University of Cebu and help her sometimes with tuition.
There is a lot of schools in Cebu and overall the Philippines. I always tell my girls if they want to go to school, they need to get a degree that will help them get a job. For accountancy, there are a lot of business colleges, e-business schools, and tech schools that offers diplomat or certificant in accountancy. I think most of them are worthless because if a girl wants to have a career as an accountant, she needs to pass the Philippines Board of Accounting Licensing Examination.
I think De La Salle is one of the best school because DLS grads have 97-100% passing rate on board exam consistently year after year.
I think both San Carlos (USC) and University of Cebu are a couple of good schools for accountacy school in Cebu. San Carlos grads have good passing rate (92% in 2010, 70% in 2011) for accounting license board examination. That means good job opportunities in the Philippines and abroad because the Philippines use accounting standards that are similar to the FASB US accounting standards. It will make job transition easier for you and her, if you ever fall in love with her and want to bring her to the US. San Carlos is private and that means big money (40-50K per semester) and your girl has to have good academic background (exam score, grades and possibly references). Be prepare to shell out 30-40K per semester for University of Cebu.
Just my experiences, hope this helps.
Wicked Roger
06-04-12, 19:32
I think both San Carlos (USC) and University of Cebu are a couple of good schools for accountacy school in Cebu. San Carlos grads have good passing rate (92% in 2010, 70% in 2011) for accounting license board examination. That means good job opportunities in the Philippines and abroad because the Philippines use accounting standards that are similar to the FASB US accounting standards. It will make job transition easier for you and her, if you ever fall in love with her and want to bring her to the US. San Carlos is private and that means big money (40-50K per semester) and your girl has to have good academic background (exam score, grades and possibly references). Be prepare to shell out 30-40K per semester for University of Cebu.
Just my experiences, hope this helps.I agree with the above and I think (was told by someone in education) that USC is accredited and is considered by many as an excellent institute. UC also has a good reputation and has a tie in with an Australian university for some courses / subjects. Not cheap when you can get some for less then 20K per semester)
And USC uniforms are very tasty when yopu look at UC (or otehrs for that matter). That may also be an important point to factor in......well it is for some LOL
David. Check your emails
FreebieFan
06-05-12, 02:04
As is customary, been filling my working hours chatting with sweet young ladies, filling my dance card for a possible forthcoming coming coming coming Manila trip. One young lady caught my age with looks, and shape. During the course of a few chats with her, I asked her, her height. She asked if I liked small ladies. I replied that I had been with some 4ft 11, 4ft 10, types and that I had had gfs before with 20 inch waists and who had been 38kgs. Thats already quite small.
Said lady replied that she was 4ft 9 and was only 34 kgs. But she said " I've gained weight recently, I used to be 30kgs!". No way can I imagine being with one so small. But maybe will do her for the novelty factor!
Price of tuition or the reputation of the school doesn't always translate into either a "good" degree or a guarantee of a job.
The bottom line is whether the graduate can pass the board exams for education, accounting, law, medicine etc. and so become eligible for employment.
There are thousands of "graduates" floating around with no jobs in their chosen profession because they cannot pass the board exam, and that includes USC as well as DLS and Ateneo in Manila, Davao and Zamboanga.
Interestingly enough, some of the obscure public low-cost universities and colleges occasionally produce a top-notcher or two in the board exam statistics as happened this year with Law.
Some students do well despite the school background that they might have experienced.
Tell her you'd love to meet her, but only if she diets back to 30.
As is customary, been filling my working hours chatting with sweet young ladies, filling my dance card for a possible forthcoming coming coming coming Manila trip. One young lady caught my age with looks, and shape. During the course of a few chats with her, I asked her, her height. She asked if I liked small ladies. I replied that I had been with some 4ft 11, 4ft 10, types and that I had had gfs before with 20 inch waists and who had been 38kgs. Thats already quite small.
Said lady replied that she was 4ft 9 and was only 34 kgs. But she said " I've gained weight recently, I used to be 30kgs!". No way can I imagine being with one so small. But maybe will do her for the novelty factor!
AAA Hunter
06-05-12, 18:46
as is customary, been filling my working hours chatting with sweet young ladies, filling my dance card for a possible forthcoming coming coming coming manila trip. one young lady caught my age with looks, and shape. during the course of a few chats with her, i asked her, her height. she asked if i liked small ladies. i replied that i had been with some 4ft 11, 4ft 10, types and that i had had gfs before with 20 inch waists and who had been 38kgs. thats already quite small.
said lady replied that she was 4ft 9 and was only 34 kgs. but she said " i've gained weight recently, i used to be 30kgs!". no way can i imagine being with one so small. but maybe will do her for the novelty factor!right, she was ****d when she used to be 30 kgs. 30 kgs is 66 lbs, weight of typical young teenager. lots of young girls are signing up for dia. figure out her age before you sample or you might become the sample.
Member #4491
06-06-12, 01:02
Talk about mixed messages. This girl is married was kind of telling me off when I messaged her.
Watch it guys because her nipples will poke you in your eyes.
http://www.tagged.com/photo_view.html?photoId=186630418&uid=5463093068#state=24_0
Barba.
FreebieFan
06-06-12, 01:44
Chatting with a possible future date today. Asked her what her best feature was. She gave the appropriate shy answer first by saying " I think my smile is quite nice ". Then followed that up by saying " I also think my tits looks great ". Thanks Honey. Your on my list!
FreebieFan
06-06-12, 10:06
right, she was ****d when she used to be 30 kgs. 30 kgs is 66 lbs, weight of typical young teenager. lots of young girls are signing up for dia. figure out her age before you sample or you might become the sample.shakes head in wonderment and amazement. am assuming that given the minimal amount of posts here, you must be reasonably new to isg. thanks for the preventative advice triple a but i've been in and around phils for 30 years now. i truly think i know a 26 year old when i see one.
but thanks for trying.
AAA Hunter
06-06-12, 19:41
Shakes head in wonderment and amazement. Am assuming that given the minimal amount of posts here, you must be reasonably new to ISG. Thanks for the preventative advice Triple A but I've been in and around Phils for 30 years now. I truly think I know a 26 year old when I see one.
But Thanks for trying.You are very welcome. Your superficial observation amazes me as well. Years of hobbying doesn't equate to intelligence.
FreebieFan
06-07-12, 02:15
You are very welcome. Your superficial observation amazes me as well. Years of hobbying doesn't equate to intelligence.If you want a pissing contest, lets do it via PM, and lets leave this board uncluttered for its intended useage. Years of mongering and years on this board has taught me a lot about the mentality of some of the posters.
fuck. here we fucking go again. [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140). my dick is bigger than yours. i know know this pos country soooo much.naa it simple clueless guys always go on about **** girls, maybe that is their where their head is at, guys who visit here know what a small asian lady looks like, kids here are 4 foot nothing 20 kg so any girl that size will look like a kid, any guy who has been here for years prefers older girls as we know maturity is better,
Came across this profile in DIA. Profile pic is quite pretty but all I hear in my head is the warning "Danger Will Robinson!" Anyone want to step into this maelstrom?
"I'm from a broken family. My dad leave my mom when I was a baby. And now my Mom already have another family. I had 3 half siblings. Well it's been quiet rough to get attention to those people but still life goes on. And now I have already son, well at first it's so hard when I knew that I'm pregnant but I just told to myself this baby is a gift from God and whatever happens I will raised this child. Maybe your asking why is it happen it's just an accident that I've fallen inlove to a wrong man, knowing his different but the truth his not. But there's a good one that he did when he decided to support my son financially and acknowledge him as his son, but still it hurts me a lot when he did not marry me. My baby is only 5 months but a fight between me and his father was there. I try to be silent so that he will stop talking but still his action is not good. He always saying that his a father also and his trying to scared me that he will get my son in a legal way. Yes I'm scared but I told to myself if it's happen I swear to god that I do everything just for my son. I don't to think that one day my son is not on my side and I don't have rights in him anymore cause all I know I'm the who have a lot's of right here in comes of that child but his father is arrogant saying that I don't have anything so I can't raised my child on my own, Maybe I'm not rich like him but all I know is I can do everything just for my son. Yeah I'm still studying now but I can work just to have a financial support to my child.
Haist I don't know why is it happening to me. I just loved but all the things is not right at this moment.
I'm so scared of everything that will happen any moment but still I'm here trying to have friends here. I like to have new friends, meet new people.
THANKS for reading my profile. Maybe your thinking that it's just a drama, hope it is but actually it's not!
I need help in my study but if you will say that I will do cam show, Sorry but I can't do that, yes I'm asking help but it doesn't mean that I'm going to sell my body. Thanks"
Came across this profile in DIA. Profile pic is quite pretty but all I hear in my head is the warning "Danger Will Robinson!" Anyone want to step into this maelstrom?She sounds like a girl who will always make the wrong choices, so yes do the right thing and run away.
We will read later when her perfect match post here how he has been scammed by some girl on line as he did not read the profile but just saw her photo.
Came across this profile in DIA. Profile pic is quite pretty but all I hear in my head is the warning "Danger Will Robinson!" Anyone want to step into this maelstrom?
"I'm from a broken family. My dad leave my mom when I was a baby. And now my Mom already have another family. I had 3 half siblings. Well it's been quiet rough to get attention to those people but still life goes on. And now I have already son, well at first it's so hard when I knew that I'm pregnant but I just told to myself this baby is a gift from God and whatever happens I will raised this child. Maybe your asking why is it happen it's just an accident that I've fallen inlove to a wrong man, knowing his different but the truth his not. But there's a good one that he did when he decided to support my son financially and acknowledge him as his son, but still it hurts me a lot when he did not marry me. My baby is only 5 months but a fight between me and his father was there. I try to be silent so that he will stop talking but still his action is not good. He always saying that his a father also and his trying to scared me that he will get my son in a legal way. Yes I'm scared but I told to myself if it's happen I swear to god that I do everything just for my son. I don't to think that one day my son is not on my side and I don't have rights in him anymore cause all I know I'm the who have a lot's of right here in comes of that child but his father is arrogant saying that I don't have anything so I can't raised my child on my own, Maybe I'm not rich like him but all I know is I can do everything just for my son. Yeah I'm still studying now but I can work just to have a financial support to my child.
Haist I don't know why is it happening to me. I just loved but all the things is not right at this moment.
I'm so scared of everything that will happen any moment but still I'm here trying to have friends here. I like to have new friends, meet new people.
THANKS for reading my profile. Maybe your thinking that it's just a drama, hope it is but actually it's not!
I need help in my study but if you will say that I will do cam show, Sorry but I can't do that, yes I'm asking help but it doesn't mean that I'm going to sell my body. Thanks"She has been banned from DIA 3 times under 3 different profiles in the last month.
Most likely that is the reason why some like them tiny and small. Not a rule but an indicator, sometime just inside the mind, not even fully conscious.
Tally Wacker
06-07-12, 07:58
There are a number of bogus profiles on filipina cupid with sexy photos just attempting to get your YM Name so they can try to suck you into some scam at a later time. One YM I added has a preprogrammed response attempting to lure me into a pay sex site. Every time I would bzzz them it would send a new message back to me. I had a feeling it was a scammer thats why I named it as you see.
Chat below:
Christineugt408 Scammer? : hey there xoxo.
Me: Hello,
Me: you remember me?
Me:?
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? : heeey how are you doing?
Me: good you remember me?
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? : umm have we chatted before? Cause your on my buddy list.
Me: hmmm.
Me: are you on filipina cupid?
Me:?
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? : oh LOL I'm sorry I'm kinda forgtful at times. Anyways, what are you up to?
Me: FUCK YOU SCAMMER LOL.
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? : sooo are you busy? Want to have some fun with me? LOL.
Me: FUCK OFF.
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? : LOL. Mmmm yess! I'm turning my cam on if you want to cam for a bit I mean if you want to?
Me: SUCK MY COCK.
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? : okie babe, I'm gunna send you a cam invite, go here.
http://mycamcall.com/VROWYTQN
And we can go 1 on 1. Click the "Accept Invite" tab on the left. Yup. The green 1!
Me: FUCK YOU.
BUZZ!
Christineugt408 Scammer? Is typing.
Christineugt408 Scammer? : I registered here to have secure cam sessions. Just accept my invite babe, k?
I got a msg that Cherry blossoms is giving a 10$ discount if you LIKE them on FB. I'm not sure how long the memership has to be.
She has been banned from DIA 3 times under 3 different profiles in the last month.Good to know! Great example of why we exchange this sort of info on this thread.
Related to the discussion about the tiny size of Filipina women. I've lived off and on in Japan for 25 years. You'll see a lot of sub 5'0" women aged 40 and below, but it's very unusual now for the younger generation. The typical sized Japanese girl in her 20s is 5'2"-5'4", but it's not at all uncommon to find taller ones with curvier figures. I wonder if the same thing will happen eventually in the Phils as diet gets better. I like petite women, but it's take a real adjustment to get used to the idea of being with someone under 5'0". I get a lot of contacts from ladies in the 4'10-4'11" range. I've been mentally working myself into that. Today I get an inquiry from a pretty 22 year old (she says) who is 4'7" and 75 lbs. Sorry, that's just way beyond my comfort level. That's the size of my daughter when she was 12.
Member #4491
06-07-12, 20:58
TW, you can just as well have talked to some software. Chat robots people call them. They are quite common on sites like VK, and also some spammers on Yahoo use them. The replies always follow the same pattern, no matter what you respond. Maybe time to develop some counter software that can weed out the real girls and perhaps even do the initial standard phrases.
B.
AAA Hunter
06-07-12, 21:57
If you want a pissing contest, lets do it via PM, and lets leave this board uncluttered for its intended useage. Years of mongering and years on this board has taught me a lot about the mentality of some of the posters.Nah, I think more of us are here to share experiences and and have fun. Not here to prove manhood. Leave this board uncluttered and stop this thread. I have been on this board many years, just not under A3H. Your posts and replies do reflect your mentality and maturity-I agree. Stop pouting and just try to have some fun, okay? It's not a pissing contest and more postings don't mean they are always right. Stop pouting.
AAA Hunter
06-07-12, 22:25
Good to know! Great example of why we exchange this sort of info on this thread.
Related to the discussion about the tiny size of Filipina women. I've lived off and on in Japan for 25 years. You'll see a lot of sub 5'0" women aged 40 and below, but it's very unusual now for the younger generation. The typical sized Japanese girl in her 20s is 5'2"-5'4", but it's not at all uncommon to find taller ones with curvier figures. I wonder if the same thing will happen eventually in the Phils as diet gets better. I like petite women, but it's take a real adjustment to get used to the idea of being with someone under 5'0". I get a lot of contacts from ladies in the 4'10-4'11" range. I've been mentally working myself into that. Today I get an inquiry from a pretty 22 year old (she says) who is 4'7" and 75 lbs. Sorry, that's just way beyond my comfort level. That's the size of my daughter when she was 12.Female.
Age Mean Weight (Kg) Mean Height (cm)
11-12 33. 79 140. 85.
13-19 43. 90 150. 21
Why do you say FreebieFan was pouting? I didn't see that at all.
His post had a little tiny barb at the end, but it should have been easy enought to ignore. Now you say you want to normalize, but you throw out a few insults in the process. So what was your profile name before AAA Hunter? X.
Nah, I think more of us are here to share experiences and and have fun. Not here to prove manhood. Leave this board uncluttered and stop this thread. I have been on this board many years, just not under A3H. Your posts and replies do reflect your mentality and maturity-I agree. Stop pouting and just try to have some fun, okay? It's not a pissing contest and more postings don't mean they are always right. Stop pouting.
I tried to get something going with a gal (friend of a friend) on FB, but she told me up front that she has a bf. Okay, but as long as I was *friend* and could see her bikini pics, I was happy.
But recently she has been doing the fiance visa thing and reporting it, and even giving an hour to hour countown. And she got the visa. Her friends congratulated her on the visa, wished her good luck on her trip, etc, blah, blah. But something was clearlly missing from all the discussion and numerous posts.
There was basically nothing about the guy. You know, the one who sponsered her with the intent to marry her. It seemed so cold. I hope I'm misinterpreting the whole thing and they live happily ever after.
Ok, this quiz got confusing because the software loaded the photos in reverse order of their file names. In one sense, Red Kilt is correct that all of the PROFILES represented here are from Ladyboys / shemales / transgendered / whatever. However, the PHOTO titled. 05 (appearing 4th in the sequence) is, as far as I can tell, a stolen photo of a real woman. If you come across this member, stay away."Her" profile is over the top but I got curious and decided to play it out. When we got to chat, I discovered a transvestite-not a ladyboy-just a masculine guy with makeup slapped on his face. The hilarious part is that he kept denying he was male. But the corrrect answer to the quiz is 05. Jpg.
I was completely fooled by the photo titled 02 (#7 in the sequence). In fact, I exchanged several messages with "her" before "she" kindly pointed out that her profile did include a reference to being a ladyboy and I just missed it. I got the idea for the quiz from this experience. Sometimes these photos are just too perfect. As several of you mentioned, it may take a voice phone call in some cases to discover the truth. I just hope I never get so far as taking one back to my hotel room. I don't want to have a "Lola" or "Crying Game" moment.
Again, warning about Oyang on DIA, the member of the pic titled 05.
[Attached below for you reference. ] I've reported this profile for misrepresentation. He's a tranny.
http://www.dateinasia.com/oyang.html
there was basically nothing about the guy. you know, the one who sponsered her with the intent to marry her. it seemed so cold. i hope i'm misinterpreting the whole thing and they live happily ever after.i have been chatting for a couple of months with a pretty 22 year old who works as a legitimate massage therapist near ac. most of her clients are foreign guys. she's finally agreed to marry one on the basis of knowing him during his short vacation and then video chats for a couple of months after that. he's a young very nice looking guy and apparently has a stable job. but for some reason she just doesn't have feelings for him. she tells me all the time that she doesn't feel sure about this at all but thinks it's the best offer she's likely to get. i met another 27 year old last week. she has been dating a european military guy. she doesn't feel compatible with him and i guess is on dia to improve her hand. like most filipinas, she is close to her friends and family and doesn't want to leave them. however, all of her friends are marrying foreigners and moving away. bottom line, these marriage decisions are a way for a filipina to better her life. you do hope that there is love as well, but i think that's way down the list of priorities. that's not to say that these marriages won't work. commitment and dedication probably keep a marriage together more than romantic feelings.
Hi Wazoo and All, sadly the ones with the nicest boobs on display are usually chicks with dicks. At least they are usually upfront about it (pun intended)!
I think there should be a separate site for ladyboys (not DIA) so we don't waste our time looking at them. I guess some guys like ladyboys but not me!
Do you ever notice that many of the most beautiful women on DIA aren't women at all? Ever find yourself fooled? Attached below are 8 profile pics from DIA. 7 of them describe themselves as ladyboys or shemales in their profiles. One is an authentic woman. Care to guess? I'll post the answer in a few days.
Stroker Ace88
06-09-12, 17:39
[SNIP]Again, warning about Oyang on DIA, the member of the pic titled 05.
[Attached below for you reference. ] I've reported this profile for misrepresentation. He's a tranny. [SNIP]DIA will not remove a profile for "misrepresentation" as you put it no matter how many times you report. DIA will only remove and ban profiles (including the IP address) if the member asks for money, scamming, abusive behavior or using another persons profile pic.
or using another persons profile pic.Yes, this is what I meant by misrepresentation. The poster was not the hot 20 year old asian model in the photo, but a middle aged guy with makeup splashed on his face. That's how I reported it.
Chocha Monger
06-09-12, 20:05
Yes, this is what I meant by misrepresentation. The poster was not the hot 20 year old asian model in the photo, but a middle aged guy with makeup splashed on his face. That's how I reported it.Wazoo,
Anyone who reads that profile and decides to meet up deserves a Hangover II moment. Really, have you ever met a Filipina who writes and talks like this?
sweet and ready for a man to enter, I'm a sweet puki-kay.
Simple and willing to meet with a man, share with him my treasure and flower, call me and ride my bee-lat. A girl who loves big, hot hard and strong visitor.
A simple man who wants to conquer my flower, he must be strong hard and big
Wazoo,
Anyone who reads that profile and decides to meet up deserves a Hangover II moment. Really, have you ever met a Filipina who writes and talks like this?Of course I knew this was fishy. I said that in my original post."She" just happened to contact me at a moment when I had a few minutes free and I decided to see where it went for a laugh.
i have been chatting for a couple of months with a pretty 22 year old who works as a legitimate massage therapist near ac. most of her clients are foreign guys. she's finally agreed to marry one on the basis of knowing him during his short vacation and then video chats for a couple of months after that. he's a young very nice looking guy and apparently has a stable job. but for some reason she just doesn't have feelings for him. she tells me all the time that she doesn't feel sure about this at all but thinks it's the best offer she's likely to get. i met another 27 year old last week. she has been dating a european military guy. she doesn't feel compatible with him and i guess is on dia to improve her hand. like most filipinas, she is close to her friends and family and doesn't want to leave them. however, all of her friends are marrying foreigners and moving away. bottom line, these marriage decisions are a way for a filipina to better her life. you do hope that there is love as well, but i think that's way down the list of priorities. that's not to say that these marriages won't work. commitment and dedication probably keep a marriage together more than romantic feelings.there are lots of ac girls who really want to meet a foreigner and wishes he will marry her and take her to his country.
it is also true about other normal girls in dia. most meet many but gets disillussioned later. many guys promise but not deliver.
case in point.
1. 18 year old girl from zamboanga who gave her virginity to me knowing i will not marry her. she did hope and kept on saying how she is in love with me and want to marry me. she also said it does not matteer if i will not take her to usa. she wanted a kid. she did go to dubai and worked for a time and now she is married to a uk guy who is 68 years old. girl is 22 now. she was online recently and said the guy she married looks like me. asked if she was happy, she said no. she said guy is too old and drinks all the time. asked if she wants to go back, she said she wants the marriage to work because not only he treats her very well and he sends 20, 000 pesos every month to her family.
do not know how long she will stay with him. maybe she is waiting till she gets a british passport.
2. my recent dia girl 19 year old who stayed with me 6 days in manila. a european older guy wants to marry her. she does not like him but she said she has no choice. she does not have any real education and no job.
in spite of not liking the guy she wants to marry him and go to europe. she said she wants to help herself and her family.
3. another 22 year old dia girl is supposedly in love with a korean guy. he visits twice a year and sends her money every month. although he says he wants to take her to korea she does not believe.
asked if she really wants go there she said not really but this is the only option she has.
she told me a california guy she was seeing promised her the world but lost contact.
4. a ac girl who is a virgin not working in the bar. she was working as a babysitter for a mamasan working in the bar. she wanted to give her cherry to any foreigner who wants to marry her and take her to his country.
she did meet a astralian guy who promised, took her cherry but vanished. however he sent her money every month for a while and visited her few times.
she got disillussioned and now has a phi bf and a child from him.
this girl is just my yahoo chat friend only.
there are many stories like this. sometimes girls lie and tell a story so that you feel sorry for her. above are the real stories i know.
world over many many girls are married with guys who they do not for one reason or another. as for phi girls they are forced to accept meagre real proposals they get.
There are many stories like this. Sometimes girls lie and tell a story so that you feel sorry for her. Above are the real stories I know. [
World over many many girls are married with guys who they do not for one reason or another. As for Phi girls they are forced to accept meagre real proposals they get.Probably between the choice of marrying a local guy, have kids, not much money and the marriage ending badly or unsatisfactory, they do the same with a foreigner who can assure, as long as it lasts, a better living condition, some more money. They have to take into account the move to a foreign and maybe unpleasant (for their habits) coountry, but they do not have much of a clue on this ad underestimate those factors. Or they are not much bothered, putting it into the budget.
I don't know if this should go here but I have a question about a girl. She is off craigslist and says she goes to PCU. Apparently she is 24. Anyone know her? Spent time with her? PM me if you think you know her. First name she uses starts with "M".
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1. 18 year old girl from zamboanga who gave her virginity to me knowing I will not marry her. She did hope and kept on saying how she is in love with me and want to marry me. She also said it does not matteer if I will not take her to USA. She wanted a kid. She did go to Dubai and worked for a time and now she is married to a UK guy who is 68 years old. Girl is 22 now. She was online recently and said the guy she married looks like me. Asked if she was happy, she said no. She said guy is too old and drinks all the time. Asked if she wants to go back, she said she wants the marriage to work because not only he treats her very well and he sends 20, 000 pesos every month to her family.
Do not know how long she will stay with him. Maybe she is waiting till she gets a British Passport. <SNIP This will become a classic example of what I am sure usually happens when an older guy takes a much younger woman to his country.
He was initially attractive to her because he was a foreigner in the Philippines who was interested in HER, but suddenly, in his country, she sees 1000s of younger foreigners walking around, closer to her age and, no doubt, taking notice of her because of her color and looks.
As his libido decreases (he is already 68) hers will stay elevated for another 20 years, and she will never be able to resist the attractions of other guys.
There will be members here who can quote examples of guys with much younger wives who did make a success of the move to their own country, but the odds are very very firmly stacked against it working.
If you want to marry a younger woman, stay here in the Philippines with her. Then it can definitely work as her life is much better than before and she doesn't have the distractions she will have in a foreign country.
Soapy Smith
06-10-12, 09:17
If you want to marry a younger woman, stay here in the Philippines with her. Then it can definitely work as her life is much better than before and she doesn't have the distractions she will have in a foreign country.And some suggest that Filipinos-that is, family members and other onlookers-are less judgmental about age differences between husband and wife. Perhaps Filipinos are more likely to see marriage for convenience or financial stability as acceptable, as opposed to Westerners, especially women, who buy the myth of romantic marriage to Prince Charming.
About a year ago on the long flight from Detroit to Nagoya I ended up beside a chatty Filipina-American, probably in her late 60s or so. She wanted to tell me about her lazy husband (also Filipino) and other mundane aspects of her life in Michigan, and I feigned polite interest for a half hour or so. Then she told me about a 20-something Filipina who had moved near her after marrying a much older American man. She bragged about convincing the young woman, over a period of some months of conversation, that the man was too old for her and probably had married her only for her body. She was proud of herself for convincing the young woman to leave the man. I considered confronting her about her ageist stereotyping and for failing to check out the possibility that the two of them might actually have been fond of each other before she startled meddling. But I concluded it wasn't worth the discomfort of an unpleasant 13 hour flight, so after they fed us the usual Delta Airlines swill, I promptly put on my eyeshades and went to sleep.
So in addition to Western settings offering a selection of men closer in age to a young Filipina bride, other women in the Western setting are likely to work on the Filipina bride to convince her of the older husband's inappropriate intentions. This older Filipina-American had become well socialized into Western women's values, and her thinking was probably not much different from other Western women. I think this is a gauntlet the young Filipina bride is less likely to encounter if she settles down in the Philippines with an older Western man.
GregLondon
06-10-12, 09:52
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So in addition to Western settings offering a selection of men closer in age to a young Filipina bride, other women in the Western setting are likely to work on the Filipina bride to convince her of the older husband's inappropriate intentions. This older Filipina-American had become well socialized into Western women's values, and her thinking was probably not much different from other Western women. I think this is a gauntlet the young Filipina bride is less likely to encounter if she settles down in the Philippines with an older Western man.I think this is a very valid point. It goes beyond individuals specifically trying to cause trouble, the young Filipina who comes to the West marrying a much older guy must live in an environment where the whole of society looks down upon her (either in reality or in her imagination). Everytime she goes to the supermarket with her guy, every person she meets will (at least she will come to think) be thinking." oh there's a poor mail order bride trapped with a dirty old man." It's a tough thing to live with.
In the Phils this will not generally be the case unless you are both moving in elevated social circles and even there there will be far more understanding of the situation at least if the girl is from a poor background. If you marry a girl from a wealthy background, she too may be looked down upon but probably to a lesser degree than in the West. There is a rule of thumb to calculate the age difference which is deemed "socially acceptable" in the West. 50% of the Males age + 7. Ie If a 60 Year old guy is with a 37+ year woman or a 40 year old guy with a 27+ year old woman that's ok but age differences beyond that tend to "raise eyebrows".
RK is right, as usual. You'd have to be stupid to bring your foreign bride to live the USA In a very short time American women and media will taint them into leaving their husband and take all his money with them. The stares and comments you get from disapproving American women are intolerable. There are rare exceptions but not worth the risk. Keep her there in the PI or wherever you found her and you will both be much happier.
American women are the bane of American existence. They are never happy no matter what you do for them. If I didn't have to work with them I would never even talk to them. We should have kept the dowry system and let them know their priority #1 is to keep their man happy not vice versa. Filipinas seem to understand that.
This will become a classic example of what I am sure usually happens when an older guy takes a much younger woman to his country.
He was initially attractive to her because he was a foreigner in the Philippines who was interested in HER, but suddenly, in his country, she sees 1000s of younger foreigners walking around, closer to her age and, no doubt, taking notice of her because of her color and looks.
As his libido decreases (he is already 68) hers will stay elevated for another 20 years, and she will never be able to resist the attractions of other guys.
There will be members here who can quote examples of guys with much younger wives who did make a success of the move to their own country, but the odds are very very firmly stacked against it working.
If you want to marry a younger woman, stay here in the Philippines with her. Then it can definitely work as her life is much better than before and she doesn't have the distractions she will have in a foreign country.
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As a way to add a little levity to the board, I'll share a DIA profile I came across a few days ago:
"No GUYs please I'm looking for girlfriends only hehehe. Very nice person cute and lonely because my boyfriend is away working in Afghanistan. Since I have a boyfriend and we are getting marry very soon. I'm only looking for naughty girls to have some fun with while I'm waiting for my Man to return."
So, I'm wondering what it's like to be a guy reading on DIA that my fiancee is out trolling for female sexual partners while she waits for me.
1. Hey, sex is sex! I don't want you seeing anyone!
2. That's ok honey, sex with other women doesn't count.
3. Uhoh. She SAYS women only, but I'll bet she's open to a threesome.
3. Damn! Married life with this hottie is going to be great! Threesomes every weekend!
4. I'll never be able to satisfy this lady. The minute my libido slows down I'll have to start checking her cell phone and emails.
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