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WhatsUrName
05-24-13, 18:40
Guys,

I just got back from a few days in the Phils. I have a few contacts on my Philippines Cell phone that I would like to stay in touch with through my iphone if possible. I know that some of my Asian lady friends here in the US use Kakaotalk to message\phone their friends back in their country of origin for free. However, Kakaotalk requires both parties to have the app installed on their phones.

What I would like to do is go install an app on my iphone, punch in her cell number, and send and receive texts for free, or for a very small fee on my side (free for her). She doesn't have to install anything and it will work with low end cell phone models.

Are there any apps that someone can recommend? I prefer an Iphone app, but I could live with it if it was a PC app.

Thanks in advance.

Mbsl65
05-24-13, 18:43
Nothing to my knowledge except Viber, or something like that. Simple Mobile has a a free texting but her response to you will be with a fee, I think p15 / message.


Guys,

I just got back from a few days in the Phils. I have a few contacts on my Philippines Cell phone that I would like to stay in touch with through my iphone if possible. I know that some of my Asian lady friends here in the US use Kakaotalk to message\phone their friends back in their country of origin for free. However, Kakaotalk requires both parties to have the app installed on their phones.

What I would like to do is go install an app on my iphone, punch in her cell number, and send and receive texts for free, or for a very small fee on my side (free for her). She doesn't have to install anything and it will work with low end cell phone models.

Are there any apps that someone can recommend? I prefer an Iphone app, but I could live with it if it was a PC app.

Thanks in advance.

Member #4351
05-24-13, 20:29
Are there any apps that someone can recommend?

WhatsApp

Paulr1950
05-24-13, 21:28
Are there any apps that someone can recommend?

WhatsAppYou can down load chikka on your computer, and get your phils # on roaming, this can be set up if you back home but you gota have a 101 pso cr, then call the carrier, of your# and get them to activate roaming, then you can text from your com, for free and she can reply to your roaming # just the same as you are in the phils, or you use your # that you have in your country, so its just the same for the girls to text you < but if use chikka from your computer its free for so many text, or use your mobile and you just pay the text to her.

WhatsUrName
05-24-13, 21:33
guys,

i just got back from a few days in the phils. i have a few contacts on my philippines cell phone that i would like to stay in touch with through my iphone if possible. i know that some of my asian lady friends here in the us use kakaotalk to message\phone their friends back in their country of origin for free. however, kakaotalk requires both parties to have the app installed on their phones.

what i would like to do is go install an app on my iphone, punch in her cell number, and send and receive texts for free, or for a very small fee on my side (free for her). she doesn't have to install anything and it will work with low end cell phone models.

are there any apps that someone can recommend? i prefer an iphone app, but i could live with it if it was a pc app.

thanks in advance.the issue with the major iphone app providers for free messaging such as kakaotalk, whatsapp, et al is that, to my understanding, both parties must have a higher end cell phone and the messaging app installed on both sides. if your filipina lady friend has a cheapie phone, then you may be out of luck with these messaging products. am i wrong on this?

here is an app i found after a little digging. its txtdrop. com. it is a web based app. i haven't tested it yet, but it looks promising. you go to the website, enter your destination phone number, your email address (to send the replies to) , and the message. that's it!

next i will take a look at peekamo. com.

will give it a shot and get back with the group.

Wjmpsr
05-24-13, 23:23
They now have an app for android, iPad or iPhone. Your gf can download and install the app. She uses the us number you will give her. There after you call the number, it will ring on her phone and you can talk all you want for free.

Pip Jaeger
05-25-13, 03:21
What I would like to do is go install an app on my iphone, punch in her cell number, and send and receive texts for free, or for a very small fee on my side (free for her). She doesn't have to install anything and it will work with low end cell phone models.

Are there any apps that someone can recommend? I prefer an Iphone app, but I could live with it if it was a PC app.

Thanks in advance.The problem with any phone in the Phils is that for her to respond she will have to have either a load on her phone (for both regular texting or for data) or she needs to go somewhere where there's free Wi-Fi (such as a mall) in order to use apps like Skype, FB, YM, WeChat, etc.

In the USA, Sprint offers an unlimited international texting plan for a flat rate of 10USD per month. Allows the USA user to send / receive unlimited international texts to over 100 countries as long as you are within the continental US. They do have agreements with Smart, Talk and' Text (part of Smart) , Globe, Sun and one or two other carriers in the Phils. But, as I said above, in order for your girl to respond she must have a load on her phone; normal PI text rates would apply for her. One glitch I found was one of my girls was using her mom's phone, a really cheap Nokia and you could not turn off the cellular data; unless she was using her TnT sim card or a Smart 24hour text only UNLI plan she would burn through a load very quickly (they kept taking 7 to 10php every 30 minutes). So she had to be very careful when she loaded her phone; no voice plan or the load would disappear in a few hours. I rectified that by getting her a better phone when I visited and she was very very grateful (insert big grin).

If your using Verizon, AT&T or another USA carrier you'd have to check with them, but make sure you ask about texting internationally to / from the USA and not an international plan for like when you are traveling outside of the USA or wish to call internationally (Sprints' calling rates are astronomical; something 2. 50USD per minute).

One of my girls mainly uses YM, which now allows users to text to any CP in the world for free; but she lives close to a place that has free Wi-Fi and she has it where she works too. A fringe benefit is that the messages are stored in their server and so you can access them either via your CP or PC. One drawback with YM that I've noticed is that sometimes the messages don't come through to my phone; this usually only happens when my phone is roaming or of course when it's turned off, but I do get the messages whenever I log onto YM.

As a side note, I'd be very careful about giving any girl your primary USA cell phone number. It's one more way to be found and also these girls also often let others use their phone, so you never know who will have access to it and consequently to your number. Personally, the number my girls have is to one of my "burn" phones for which I paid cash for (an unlocked iPhone 4S) , it has a USA number and I use one of those a pre-paid cash type sim cards that you can buy at any mall kiosk or Wally's store. I value my freedom and IMHO it's always prudent to be cautious.

Wicked Roger
05-25-13, 04:17
Are there any apps that someone can recommend?

WhatsAppWhatsApp is a good and many use that but you need to be in a wifi area to use. Viber is also used a lot by pinays. I use WA and Blackberry Messenger (BBM) (but I may download Viber also) but regardless of the app the girl's phone needs a load somehow. But that is fairly easy to do wherever you are in the world

Nvslim
05-25-13, 12:27
Are there any apps that someone can recommend? I prefer an Iphone app, but I could live with it if it was a PC app.

Thanks in advance.Use Google and look for a program called Chikka Messenger. Works on the PC and work for the PI.

Slim

FunnyGoLucky
05-25-13, 20:09
If you have a smart roaming phone no or globe. All friends sending too you smartno only pay local sms payment not international charge.

Soo have one phone for the unfolding sms and when anothet phone for you regular phone. Or usr phone with dual sim.

X Man
05-27-13, 12:54
I send an online prospect some info such as what I did on the weekend. Just a few sentences. I then ask how their day or weekend was.

A reply is often "I'm fine, how about you?"

Okay, I already told her about my weekend or day so I might splash that back in a polite way. Sometimes they get it and sometime they don't.

So, if a gal still displays what looks like a lack of interest or social skills, is that a good sign or bad sign or neutral?

My own research is of a limited sample, so would love to hear what others are thinking. I've had a mixed bag.

Slippery
05-27-13, 13:20
I'd interpret a response like that to mean she's a province girl, uneducated girl or "stay at home" girl that can't read, write or interpret English with any degree of proficiency. I have no problem with that at times. There are some real beauties out there.

Red Kilt
05-27-13, 14:03
A reply is often "I'm fine, how about you?". SNIP. .

So, if a gal still displays what looks like a lack of interest or social skills, is that a good sign or bad sign or neutral?Many possible reasons X and Slippery's explanation is one of them.

Another is that the new cheap local smartfones that most of them now have (like Cherrymobile and HTC) allow them to simply cut and forward and / or re-send replies like the "I'm fine, how about you?" to anybody on their list with one click. A gal showed me this on her phone. She has a few stored messages that she just calls up on her phone and forwards it on with one click.

So if what I say is correct, in your case, she is just responding in the way that she replies to all guys who greet her on her CP, and you are getting the stock standard reply.

Or it might be as Slippery says and she just cannot respond to your query because she doesn't comprehend what you said nor how she is supposed to reply.

Another thing you should never do is include 2 or more questions in the same message. The reply will address either the first question or the last one, but rarely both of them.

BTW, I hate receiving the "Hi RK how are you?" day in and day out and usually ignore them. I especially ignore the "don't forget your breakfast / lunch / dinner" messages.

FreebieFan
05-27-13, 15:57
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1427265.

Another thing you should never do is include 2 or more questions in the same message. The reply will address either the first question or the last one, but rarely both of them.

BTW, I hate receiving the "Hi RK how are you?" day in and day out and usually ignore them. I especially ignore the "don't forget your breakfast / lunch / dinner" messages.[/QUOTE]You can take the girl out the Philippines etc. 11pm here and I just got the " don't forget to eat your breakfast " text from Ms Pinay 22.

I replied that I have a medical problem and my doctor said I had to give up breakfast lunch and dinner for the next 3 months.

Her reply.

"don't forget your lunch then."

LOL.

Sammon
05-27-13, 16:13
You can take the girl out the Philippines etc. 11pm here and I just got the " don't forget to eat your breakfast " text from Ms Pinay 22.

I replied that I have a medical problem and my doctor said I had to give up breakfast lunch and dinner for the next 3 months.

Her reply.

"don't forget your lunch then."

LOL.Phi girls like to eat small meals many times a day for some reason. Their texts about eating is to show that she cares. Nothing more. Besides she is not going to text world politics to you.

Many a times conversation wise there is nothing to talk about.

Amanut
05-27-13, 16:40
Their texts about eating is to show that she cares. Nothing more.I agree and it works well in reverse. On one of my trips I picked up my SIM card at the airport and sent a first text to a DIA contact in Manila. We had never met other than online. It was early evening and without identifying myself I simply asked "have you eaten your dinner yet"? She replied saying "no, thanks for asking who's this". I identified myself and she said later she thought that was the most caring question anyone could ask. We met, we ate, and were back in my room shortly after that.

She is a well educated intelligent 40 plus year old with a good job. If a question this simple works with someone like her, I imagine it will work well on others.

D Cups
05-27-13, 16:44
HA! I have to laugh at this string of comments, too. In addition to getting reminders to eat I have been "God blessed" by more pinays than I can count. It's nice in a way but can be overdone. However, I'd rather be blessed than damned! The whole thing points to their delightful simplicity. A welcome relief from dating American women whose expectations are unrealistically high and narrow.


You can take the girl out the Philippines etc. 11pm here and I just got the " don't forget to eat your breakfast " text from Ms Pinay 22.

I replied that I have a medical problem and my doctor said I had to give up breakfast lunch and dinner for the next 3 months.

Her reply.

"don't forget your lunch then."

LOL.

Member #4387
05-27-13, 22:52
BTW, I hate receiving the "Hi RK how are you?" day in and day out and usually ignore them. I especially ignore the "don't forget your breakfast / lunch / dinner" messages.OMG this touched a big nerve. I have been "irritated" for quite some time due to this nonsense hazzle of never ending questions about: "how are you today" and food reminders. I took the liberty to test a girl if she was able to ask another question (a girl I rate middleish so not so important if she splits) and this is what I got back:

"How would you live your life if you had a week to live? How would you live your life if you had 5 years left to live? How would you live your life if you were going to live forever?"

I have to say I was somewhat impressed by her answer so I have now moved her up the "ladder" so I think actually I will meet her next week at some point. This girl seems to have the ability to think outside the pinay how are you and food box. My instant answer to all her question would ofcourse be mongering (in a perfect world).


You can take the girl out the Philippines etc. 11pm here and I just got the " don't forget to eat your breakfast " text from Ms Pinay 22. I replied that I have a medical problem and my doctor said I had to give up breakfast lunch and dinner for the next 3 months. Her reply. "don't forget your lunch then." LOL.Haha hilarious

FreebieFan
05-28-13, 01:35
Phi girls like to eat small meals many times a day for some reason. Their texts about eating is to show that she cares. Nothing more. Besides she is not going to text world politics to you.

Many a times conversation wise there is nothing to talk about.Thanks Sammon. 30 years in and around Philippines and I think I've figured out some of this. Happy day

X Man
05-31-13, 11:12
I think this is the philosophy of many of the gals, but this one has put it into words. Not a beauty, but doable. If you are on PL, pm me and I'll give you the name.

I MAY NOT BECOME A BIT UNFAITHFUL AT TIMES BUT ONE THING I CAN BE SURE OF, I'm LOYAL enough to keep just ONE person in my heart. YOU WANT PLAY? ILL PLAY YOU WANT SERIOUS? ME TOO I WANT YOU WANT TO BE MY FRIENDS? OK I WILL BE FRIENDLY YOU WANT TO BE MY HUSBAND? RELOCATE HERE IN MY COUNTRY BECAUSE I can't RELOCATE TO YOUR COUNTRY. I'm A POOR GIRL YOU WANT HAVE SOME FUN? I CAN GIVE IT TO YOU IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ME MORE MEET ME.

Member #4387
06-01-13, 13:58
I think this is the philosophy of many of the gals, but this one has put it into words. Not a beauty, but doable. If you are on PL, pm me and I'll give you the name.

I MAY NOT BECOME A BIT UNFAITHFUL AT TIMES BUT ONE THING I CAN BE SURE OF, I'm LOYAL enough to keep just ONE person in my heart. YOU WANT PLAY? ILL PLAY YOU WANT SERIOUS? ME TOO I WANT YOU WANT TO BE MY FRIENDS? OK I WILL BE FRIENDLY YOU WANT TO BE MY HUSBAND? RELOCATE HERE IN MY COUNTRY BECAUSE I can't RELOCATE TO YOUR COUNTRY. I'm A POOR GIRL YOU WANT HAVE SOME FUN? I CAN GIVE IT TO YOU IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ME MORE MEET ME.Even english beeing my second language only I have to say we all upgrade pinays as beeing relatively good english speakers (writers). This one is an exception though. OMG but hilarious.

X Man
06-01-13, 15:22
Filipinos with a college education are generally very good at English.

Most gals on the online sites who are suggesting or hinting at "fun" are more likely to be those who didn't even finish hs. They are better at body language.


Even english beeing my second language only I have to say we all upgrade pinays as beeing relatively good english speakers (writers). This one is an exception though. OMG but hilarious.

X Man
06-01-13, 15:37
Real sweet gal:

IF U don't LIKE ME WELL I don't LIKE U EITHER! WHO DO U THINK U ARE? Your JUST A DUMB IDIOT!

GoodEnough
06-02-13, 00:15
Sometimes I feel that I have spent maybe half of my professional life here translating the written English of Filipinos (all of them with degrees) into standard English. Contrary tocthecperceptions shared herein, it's been my experience that even educated Filipinos cannot write coherent English, nor, by the way, can those who taught them.

Red Kilt
06-02-13, 04:24
Having recently been asked to assess 2 Masters degrees from Australia, the quality of expression therein makes me suggest that we don't need to restrict our critique to that of Filipino written English. I am sure the same is now true of the quality of expression in most ISG members' countries of origin.

I also suggest that some of the regular posters on this board periodically post statements that border on semi-literate, with a host of typos, miss-spellings and poor expression.

As one of my former professor-mentors said to me just last year when I showed him some funny paragraphs written in Filipino english :

"I still bet that their attempt at written English was way better than any of your attempts at written Tagalog".

His cutting comment made me re-assess my critical stance.

My point? I think we need to cut some slack to people who try hard to express themselves in English, especially when we don't make any corresponding attempt to express ourselves in Tagalog in case someone might laugh at us.

WestCoast1
06-02-13, 04:47
Having recently been asked to assess 2 Masters degrees from Australia, the quality of expression therein makes me suggest that we don't need to restrict our critique to that of Filipino written English. I am sure the same is now true of the quality of expression in most ISG members' countries of origin.

I also suggest that some of the regular posters on this board periodically post statements that border on semi-literate, with a host of typos, miss-spellings and poor expression.

As one of my former professor-mentors said to me just last year when I showed him some funny paragraphs written in Filipino english :

"I still bet that their attempt at written English was way better than any of your attempts at written Tagalog".

His cutting comment made me re-assess my critical stance.

My point? I think we need to cut some slack to people who try hard to express themselves in English, especially when we don't make any corresponding attempt to express ourselves in Tagalog in case someone might laugh at us.An appropriate question becomes: How well do filipinos write tag / bisaya? Its tempting to say that because it is their language, any way they speak it or write it it corretc. However, that's not true. A corresponding analogy: spanish, written / spoken by latinos in the US, is often terrible. As generations of latinos pass, the written / spoken spanish continues to deteriorate / change. It is becoming a spanglish, much like taglish. Worse, later-generation speakers write it terribly, while earlier generation speakers might not be able to write a paragraph (in much the same way, my hillbilly grandfather signed his name with an "X").

So, while an educated pinoy struggles with written english, does he write well in tagalog? Does he know what conjugation is? Does he mix up the corresponding 'he' and 'she', 'him' and 'her', as he does in english? When he speaks in tagalog, does he mix up the 'b' and 'v' sounds as he does in english ("My phone its bivrating.")?

Soapy Smith
06-02-13, 07:43
Having recently been asked to assess 2 Masters degrees from Australia, the quality of expression therein makes me suggest that we don't need to restrict our critique to that of Filipino written English. I am sure the same is now true of the quality of expression in most ISG members' countries of origin.

My point? I think we need to cut some slack to people who try hard to express themselves in English, especially when we don't make any corresponding attempt to express ourselves in Tagalog in case someone might laugh at us.I agree with RK's sentiment. I frequently contend with the writing of Americans with two layers of degree after their names, and I am amazed, but no longer surprised, at their spelling, grammar, punctuation, and word usage errors, let alone poor paragraph construction and inability to lace together a coherent essay.

Where Filipinos' confusion between be and v is concerned, I think there is a logical explanation. Prior to Spanish colonization, Tagalogs used an Indic alphabet with three vowels and 15 consonants. The Spanish imposed the Latin alphabet, and both they and Americans introduced substantial vocabularies of foreign words, many of which persist. But modern Filipino has dropped a number of consonants (c, f, j, q, v, x, and z) which were found confusing because, within the colonial languages, they either had multiple pronunciations or pronunciations similar to other letters. Obviously where many of the Spanish words persist, they are respelled in Filipino in ways that are phonetically consistent with the local language. For some words originating in other languages, like avenue and boulevard, however, some of the old spellings persist. But the modern Filipino alphabet no longer has a phoneme for the letter v as pronounced in English. Hence we get abenue and boulebard from them. Given the history of foreign alphabets and vocabularies imposed on the several native languages in the islands, it doesn't seem surprising that many have created their own unique Taglish and other language blends. It's little different than the way Americans (and probably Brits as well) import French and German words and butcher them with English pronunciations.

And I am guilty, as RK acknowledges, of having been too dependent on Filipinos' English skills to bother to learn enough Filipino to be able to speak sentences in their language. And yes, those who know me well feel quite comfortable laughing at me when I mispronounce their words.

GoodEnough
06-02-13, 11:21
I agree, for the most part, with RK and Skip. However, in an ever globalizing world in which "international" English is the medium of communication, the ability to secure employment in growing areas of the economy-think call centers, back office operations and Internet dependent employment sectors-often depends on English language skills. The lack of sufficient skills is a persistent problem here and may be an investment-limiting factor. I don't argue with the notion that the ability to write English coherently has deteriorated in the States and perhaps elsewhere, but that's a different phenomenon and has little to do with the impact of the dearth of skills here.

I'm not disparaging the attempts of Filipinos to write in the language, and freely acknowledge that almost any of their attempts to write or even speak English would be far superior to similar forays into Tagalog or Visayan on my part. The difference however is that my employment horizons are not limited by my lack of such skills.

GE

D Cups
06-02-13, 15:06
My point? I think we need to cut some slack to people who try hard to express themselves in English, especially when we don't make any corresponding attempt to express ourselves in Tagalog in case someone might laugh at us.Good point, Red. I do know a little Tagalog and sometimes this impresses my GFs there. More importantly, how many other Eastern countries, particularly monger destinations, speak English more and better than in the PI? None that I have visited. Hell, in California (where I live) , there is more Spanish than English.

X Man
06-02-13, 16:08
I love you GE, but I have to say that your employment horizons are limited by old age. As are mine.


I agree, for the most part, with RK and Skip. However, in an ever globalizing world in which "international" English is the medium of communication, the ability to secure employment in growing areas of the economy-think call centers, back office operations and Internet dependent employment sectors-often depends on English language skills. The lack of sufficient skills is a persistent problem here and may be an investment-limiting factor. I don't argue with the notion that the ability to write English coherently has deteriorated in the States and perhaps elsewhere, but that's a different phenomenon and has little to do with the impact of the dearth of skills here.

I'm not disparaging the attempts of Filipinos to write in the language, and freely acknowledge that almost any of their attempts to write or even speak English would be far superior to similar forays into Tagalog or Visayan on my part. The difference however is that my employment horizons are not limited by my lack of such skills.

GE

Member #4491
06-02-13, 20:46
GE, I just can not stand the thought of hearing your voice when I call about my broken D-link router."Did you try to restart the router you stupid f*ck!"

Or you pushing me to register with my credit card on this "amazing and totally free dating site".

But maybe you consider the call center career due to the social benefits related to working with 800 teenage females in a room with no windows? Hell, come to think of it I will sell off my shit and join you.

Hibukhibok
06-11-13, 04:23
Having recently been asked to assess 2 Masters degrees from Australia, the quality of expression therein makes me suggest that we don't need to restrict our critique to that of Filipino written English.I see. Are you by any chance the charitable fellow that the Cebu Province penal administration has put in charge of trying to find some useful and redeeming things to do for a couple of their Aussie inmates? Until their cases are adjudicated that is.

Educated Filipinos appear to me to have a reasonably good command of English (except for some who still have problems with masculine / feminine and he / she which they cannot seem to overcome) at least equal and sometimes above the level of many of the scholars who somehow manage to graduate from our superior high schools (New York State) , duh.

And of course there are a few words which they use with a different meaning for example tomboy (lesbian) , come again (simply repeat what you just said and not what you think, also used in Singapore) , thrifty (miserly I. E. Kuripot like me).

Ebauche
06-11-13, 06:26
And of course there are a few words which they use with a different meaning for example tomboy (lesbian) , come again (simply repeat what you just said and not what you think, also used in Singapore) , thrifty (miserly I. E. Kuripot like me)."Come again" is a colloquialism in use in various parts of the USA.

Pinaypounder
06-11-13, 06:34
She is a school teacher and I could have her job but her name is Grace she tried to scam me 2 times, sad for a school teacher but the jungle runs deep. First time we had sex it was I love you I love you I love you I love you.

Nice lithe body.

Dumb as a post! Here a hint when they happen to have pics like this and masturbate on line like a porn star, hmmm possibly not their first time!

PP

FreebieFan
06-11-13, 08:52
She is a school teacher and I could have her job but her name is Grace she tried to scam me 2 times, sad for a school teacher but the jungle runs deep. First time we had sex it was I love you I love you I love you I love you.

E!

PPNext time, tell them that you know that school teachers arent allowed to be pregnant. Yes there are some very antiquated laws in Philippines whereby single teachers in government schools are not allowed to be pregnant. Fired if they are. Good moralistic type law, no doubt inspired by some good old priest with a young boy fetish.

Wandere
06-11-13, 17:55
After chatting reasonably the babe enquired if I could loan her $ 20 K.

I dropped out of chat, is it normal or she thought I did not go to School.

D Cups
06-11-13, 20:05
Next time, tell them that you know that school teachers arent allowed to be pregnant.Nor are university students. At least the ones I've met.

Slippery
06-12-13, 07:14
After chatting reasonably the babe enquired if I could loan her $ 20 K.

I dropped out of chat, is it normal or she thought I did not go to School.Very recently I had a "normal girl" ask me for 50, 000. The then called me kuripot and I haven't heard from her since.

Red Kilt
06-12-13, 09:00
Have you noticed how so many women in either text or chat say "Can I ask you a question?" or "Can I ask you something?" or "Is it OK if I ask you a question?"

It is very common in my daily interactions.

I respond in all sorts of ways ranging from treating it as rhetorical and ignoring it through to the extreme response of "Just ask. Don't ask if you can ask".

I don't know where they have learned it from. I have tried the flippant "No you can't" which is always misunderstood. I have also said "Yes as long as it is not asking for money".

Many times the question is really innocuous like "how old are you?" or "what is your work?".

Another strange foible of the filipina.

Asian Rain
06-12-13, 09:26
Have you noticed how so many women in either text or chat say "Can I ask you a question?" or "Can I ask you something?" or "Is it OK if I ask you a question?" It is very common in my daily interactions.Very common in Asia and used as a prelude to a asking something of a personal or private nature. In Philippines, I also find this often used as an intro to asking a favor, especially of a financial nature.

Making the most of local culture, I have adopted this for my own purposes. I use this "Can I ask you something?" preface before I request something such as "Do you have a friend to bring me?" or even for more intrusive requests such as "Do you mind if we try anal?".

If it works for the girls, it can work for us too. Hehe. Enjoy the Philippines, AsianRain

FreebieFan
06-12-13, 10:33
Have you noticed how so many women in either text or chat say "Can I ask you a question?" or "Can I ask you something?" or "Is it OK if I ask you a question?"

It is very common in my daily interactions.

I respond in all sorts of ways ranging from treating it as rhetorical and ignoring it through to the extreme response of "Just ask. Don't ask if you can ask".

Many times the question is really innocuous like "how old are you?" or "what is your work?".

Another strange foible of the filipina.Had it during lasts weeks Manila trip. Girl I had been with for 18 hours non stop shagathon. Throw her out and 20 minutes get the text " Can I ask you something" text.

I'm thinking its going to be.

" Why did you ask if I can do anal "

" Why did you video me giving you a 10 minute blow job"

" how many girls have been with prior to me"

" Why did you give me money"

The normal type of questions a monger would expect.

Instead it was " my auntie is cooking and would you join us for lunch ". Couldn't have been more innocuous.

X Man
06-12-13, 12:33
Good observation RK. I've lived in Asia so long that these anomolies sometimes don't register. Like you, I sometimes ignore the Q. And as other posters have suggested, it sometimes leads to a personal question and sometimes does not.

I can assure you that it is not exclusive to Filipinas. I've heard it from Japanese too.

I'm guessing there is some roughly equivalent and, mostly likely, respectful expression in their language and they are just trying to translate. Maybe something like,"BTW?"


Have you noticed how so many women in either text or chat say "Can I ask you a question?" or "Can I ask you something?" or "Is it OK if I ask you a question?"

It is very common in my daily interactions.

I respond in all sorts of ways ranging from treating it as rhetorical and ignoring it through to the extreme response of "Just ask. Don't ask if you can ask".

I don't know where they have learned it from. I have tried the flippant "No you can't" which is always misunderstood. I have also said "Yes as long as it is not asking for money".

Many times the question is really innocuous like "how old are you?" or "what is your work?".

Another strange foible of the filipina.

Pip Jaeger
06-12-13, 13:31
Instead it was " my auntie is cooking and would you join us for lunch ". Couldn't have been more innocuous.Heard it many times myself, both online and in person. It seems to me the question that follows is mostly about "barrowing some pesos" or of a serious nature. FF, IMHO in her mind it was a very serious question, I doubt that she often asks foreigners to her home (or that of a family members) to share a meal; I think it shows that she trusts you and more than likely wants a more serious relationship. Either that or she simply wanted you to feel sorry for her (after you'd seen her undoubtedly squalid living conditions) and was hoping to get more pesos from you.

BTW (LOL) , did you take her up on her offer?

Sammon
06-12-13, 16:16
After chatting reasonably the babe enquired if I could loan her $ 20 K.

I dropped out of chat, is it normal or she thought I did not go to School.No, she wants to see if your brain or dick talking. There are many girls who troll in DIA looking for free money if some guy is gullible enough to send. One 18 year old girl in Cebu told me she had three people send her money without meeting. One guy sent 5000 pesos. She showed me western union receipt. The guy never met her and had no plans to visit. Granted she is very pretty and I paid her my usual 1000 pesos per day. She stayed with me three days. Sex was not good with her because she liked only missionary and her BJ sucked. I think she was not interested in sex or me. But I got my usual min 3 shots a day.

Member #4491
06-13-13, 02:00
Nor are university students. At least the ones I've met.Barba just got a new business idea. A university that ONLY allows knocked up students. With me as principal.

FreebieFan
06-13-13, 02:55
. FF, IMHO in her mind it was a very serious question, I doubt that she often asks foreigners to her home (or that of a family members) to share a meal; I think it shows that she trusts you and more than likely wants a more serious relationship. Either that or she simply wanted you to feel sorry for her (after you'd seen her undoubtedly squalid living conditions) and was hoping to get more pesos from you.

BTW (LOL) , did you take her up on her offer?Actually in her case it was that her auntie, with whom she stays, wanted to see who had enjoyed her niece the night before.

I most certainly didn't take her up on the offer as I was already waiting for the next girl when I got the text. My excuse was that I was on my way to a BBQ in Alabang.

The girl actually never asked for any pesos.

D Cups
06-13-13, 07:34
Yes, mandatory visits to the headmaster.


Barba just got a new business idea. A university that ONLY allows knocked up students. With me as principal.

Red Kilt
06-13-13, 09:09
Watch out for eulynashley87 on pinalove.

Sexy photos and a sweet smile but don't be fooled by her gracious nature and polite texts.

She wants money, money money.

She is irresponsible and is careless with the truth.

Get involved at your peril.

FreebieFan
06-13-13, 09:35
Watch out for eulynashley87 on pinalove.

Sexy photos and a sweet smile but don't be fooled by her gracious nature and polite texts.

She wants money, money money.

She is irresponsible and is careless with the truth.

Get involved at your peril.Heading there right now to engage her in stupid waste of time chat and will lead her on. And on. And on.

KongKing
06-13-13, 11:19
The Makati thread at the moment carries some funny and embarrassing moments made by not only newbies but also by more experienced mongers. Perhaps these yarns are more appropriate under this thread.

A few years ago I posted a list of my own newbie mistakes. Mr Enternational gave me a 101 lesson how to correct my mistakes. Sadly I still occasionally stuff up and make the same or similar mistakes. I guess it may be a reflection of too many chat-mates and my growing senility.

So mainly for the benefit of newbies here are / were my top 10 most embarrassing chat-mate moments I posted before. No doubt you will learn how best to cover your own mongering tracks.

No 10."Don't you remember, last time you gave me some lovely ear-rings pasalubong; it was not Cadbury's chocolate."

No 9."How many times do I have to tell you, my name is Annalyn, not Annabelle."

No 8."I thought you said you arrived yesterday. How come your ticket over there says you arrived 4 days ago?"

No 7."No, we have never been to this restaurant before. I don't like Japanese food."

No 6."Any reason why there is this damp spot here on my side of the bed?"

No 5."You don't remember! We slept together two years ago! My profile name then was Jasmine."

No 4."Why are there long strands of black hair on the floor of your shower?"

No 3."In your mobile phone why am I listed as CEB Dia 21 Marilou2 virg?"

No 2."There is a (sanitary) pad in your waste-basket. So you have the mens at the moment?"

No 1. (In the bedroom)"Oh didn't I tell you before, I'm bakla (a ladyboy)"

KongKing

Wicked Roger
06-13-13, 11:34
Barba just got a new business idea. A university that ONLY allows knocked up students. With me as principal.And I know a few other members who would be visiting professors. Check the PM and emails

Member #4387
06-13-13, 14:49
Well during my last Makati stay I encountered 2 times girls pretending they were allready at the scene / outside by the entrance waiting for me when infact they waited in a taxi from a distance to see who showed up / screening me. They both did have a plausible explenation as in they have had many male scammers as well so if that was the case here they would just drive off.

Any one else encounter this tactics from the girls?

What we read about the most is girls scamming us / not looking as in photo.

One girl told me she had 4 unsuccessful meetings so far and our meeting (me and her) was the first were she could recognize the guy as beeing somewhat simulare to webcam end pics. Are we that bad guys?

FreebieFan
06-13-13, 15:13
Well during my last Makati stay I encountered 2 times girls pretending they were allready at the scene / outside by the entrance waiting for me when infact they waited in a taxi from a distance to see who showed up / screening me. They both did have a plausible explenation as in they have had many male scammers as well so if that was the case here they would just drive off.

Any one else encounter this tactics from the girls?

What we read about the most is girls scamming us / not looking as in photo.

One girl told me she had 4 unsuccessful meetings so far and our meeting (me and her) was the first were she could recognize the guy as beeing somewhat simulare to webcam end pics. Are we that bad guys?I've learnt to often stand close to where I'm supposed to meet my girl du jour, but not quite at the right place. Gives me some breathing space in case its a different girl, or in case her pics were fake.

Few weeks ago in Bejing a mate called me and told me he was double booked. Asked if I wanted to go on his date pretending to be him. Met the girl and she gave me a double take and suggested that I wasnt quite the same as my "photos". I said I had been unwell when the pics taken but now I was fine. Evening went fine, ended up in my place. All was going well till I went to the head. CAme back and she asked why I had texts from my "friend" if I was supposed to be my friend. She said "what you text yourself?". Game was up. She then smiled and said she said she knew I wasnt him but as I was more "handsum" she went along with it anyways. The deed got done with smiles from all concerned. So yeah I guess we are like that.

Hibukhibok
06-13-13, 16:42
"Come again" is a colloquialism in use in various parts of the USA.OK, but never heard it in the US where I live. In the Phils it can be truly hilarious and disconcerting, asking for a repeat performance minutes or so after you did your best.

Member #4387
06-13-13, 17:51
I've learnt to often stand close to where I'm supposed to meet my girl du jour, but not quite at the right place. Gives me some breathing space in case its a different girl, or in case her pics were fake.

Few weeks ago in Bejing a mate called me and told me he was double booked. Asked if I wanted to go on his date pretending to be him. Met the girl and she gave me a double take and suggested that I wasnt quite the same as my "photos". I said I had been unwell when the pics taken but now I was fine. Evening went fine, ended up in my place. All was going well till I went to the head. CAme back and she asked why I had texts from my "friend" if I was supposed to be my friend. She said "what you text yourself?". Game was up. She then smiled and said she said she knew I wasnt him but as I was more "handsum" she went along with it anyways. The deed got done with smiles from all concerned. So yeah I guess we are like that.Oh yes earlier I used that tactic of yours. I did allways have an escaperoute planned (as in I see them before they see me sort of thing). The latest year or so I have been very careful and done a real good job in prescreening ladies (webcams, new photos and not the one they use in their datingsiteprofile). All to my convenience ofcourse so I just get the security where I stay to bring them up to my room or in worst case I have to go get them in the lobby. These two occations mentioned (exceptions) was relatively new to me, in fact they observed me from a distance while I came out from the entrance looking for them. Since this were two girls practising the same tactic I thought maby they came up with some counterstrike as in to many guys "scamming" in the profiles as well. After they "screened" me everything was ok ofcourse. Just an observation and no big deal realy as long as fucking will take place. And to be frank if a girl does not look like her pic or she send a replacement just make sure she does not look worse (in both cases). But as far as I have experienced 2 girls have started to atleast take up on "our" tactics.

X Man
06-17-13, 17:26
Once in a while you come across a profile of a gal and you instantly dislike her. This one on dia looked like the wonerful Emily I met in Cebu. Emily had her jeans off before she made it one meter into the room, bless her naughty heart. THis gal can keep here haughty jeans on for all I care.

Ssxx

Pute Nut
06-18-13, 01:09
No 5."You don't remember! We slept together two years ago! My profile name then was Jasmine."Did this with a BG, much to her amusement. After I had popped my first load, she asked if she could call "a friend".

My phone rang.

Take home lesson: make your barfines turn off their friggin' phones!

SergeantRay
06-18-13, 08:46
Have you noticed how so many women in either text or chat say "Can I ask you a question?" or "Can I ask you something?" or "Is it OK if I ask you a question?"

It is very common in my daily interactions.In Bisaya, one asks permission to ask a question."Puwede mangutana?" May I ask you a question?

X Man
06-19-13, 12:46
THanks Sarg, I kind of expected something like that. Face to face, do they wait for an answer to the question? Maybe there is some body language employed in that situation. On the cell phone or the Internet, they usually stay silent if there isn't an affirmative answer. On the other hand, if a gal of interest doesn't ask questions, I suggest that they do so. It's usually not a question about me, but my past liasons.

Unrelated to this topic, can anyone translate,"coffer impressive man"? Sometimes when I think a bit, or sleep on it, I can figure it out. THis one I cannot. I complimented the gal and this is how she returned the compliment. I'm so pessimistic that I suspect some kind of back-handed insult.

Newcomers: one of my favorite Filipina mannerisms is the reply to the question,"what are you talking about?". The answer,". You're so handsome". Oh, wait. I don't hear that so often now. Maybe I'm thinking of the good-ol-days.


In Bisaya, one asks permission to ask a question."Puwede mangutana?" May I ask you a question?

Col Law
06-19-13, 13:00
Can anyone translate,"coffer impressive man"?

Is it French for hair (coiffure - the arrangement of the hair)and she is just trying to impress by her use of French>

Mbsl65
06-20-13, 17:10
No to guys who think perfume is substitute for good hygiene.

No to drug addicts-your love is just another delusion.

No to egomaniacs who think they should "collect" girls.

No to red-necks who feel all Filipinas will fall head-over-heel for their white skin.

No to idiots seeking tourist guide-travel with your mom if Cebu is too big for you.

No to disease carriers.

No to guys with travel itinerary on their profiles. The hell I care.

No to non-sense.

No to non English speakers.

No to muscled guy with pea brain.

No to smokers.

No to cam fuck or phone sex. Lame.

No to orgies.

No to guys who offer money for sex.

No to guys who ask for Compliments. It is earned, not begged.

No to guys who wear contact lenses, way too close to look like barbie.

No to guys who think having a muscled body means standing 5'4.

No to shrimp who think highly of themselves. Hey I can always look best.

No to bald. LOL.

No to couples who state they're madly in love but is ogling in this website. Pathetic.

No to guys with pictures showing their iPhone.

No to students. Go home and help your parents.

No to thin guys with delusions of having 6pack abs. I say, malnourished abs.

No to unworthy picky guys. Know your rights! LOL.

No to guys who intentionally grow facial hair to the point of looking like a hairball.

No to "midgets" who are hornier than rabbits.

No posers / fakers / Losers.

No to old horny guys.

No to guys who wear eyeglasses and think of themselves as a genius.

No kids!

No to guys with hairgel. And lethal hairstyles. With weird hair colors.

No to desperation. Numbers on profile.

No to personality disorders.

No to self indulgent, self-praising posts.

No to stupidity.

No to immaturity.

No to fuglies who try to flirt. Not cool. Gross.

No to pretense. No to bad acting.

Don't send me "sent to all messages"/advertisements.

Don't randomly give me your ym, skypes etc.

Don't send me the same messages that you sent to other girls here.

SO DO YOU STILL want to SEND ME A MESSAGE? LOL

Pute Nut
06-20-13, 17:24
No to guys

SnipIt's been around a awhile. But there's clearly a lot of hostile profiles there nowadays. Niche market? Rejection junkie? These girls get a lot of hate messenges (of course, but not from me, I might add) but do they also get interests from pussywhipped guys who actually like to fulfill a rider?

Yes, DIA is suffering from the law of diminishing returns, but Phils is at the same time suffering from rising unemployment, and it will not get any better when the **** hits the fan.

Gajith
06-20-13, 17:50
No to guys who think perfume is substitute for good hygiene.

No to drug addicts-your love is just another delusion.

No to egomaniacs who think they should "collect" girls.

No to red-necks who feel all Filipinas will fall head-over-heel for their white skin.

No to idiots seeking tourist guide-travel with your mom if Cebu is too big for you.

No to disease carriers.

No to guys with travel itinerary on their profiles. The hell I care.

No to non-sense.

No to non English speakers.

No to muscled guy with pea brain.

No to smokers.

No to cam fuck or phone sex. Lame.

No to orgies.

No to guys who offer money for sex.

No to guys who ask for Compliments. It is earned, not begged.

No to guys who wear contact lenses, way too close to look like barbie.

No to guys who think having a muscled body means standing 5'4.

No to shrimp who think highly of themselves. Hey I can always look best.

No to bald. LOL.

No to couples who state they're madly in love but is ogling in this website. Pathetic.

No to guys with pictures showing their iPhone.

No to students. Go home and help your parents.

No to thin guys with delusions of having 6pack abs. I say, malnourished abs.

No to unworthy picky guys. Know your rights! LOL.

No to guys who intentionally grow facial hair to the point of looking like a hairball.

No to "midgets" who are hornier than rabbits.

No posers / fakers / Losers.

No to old horny guys.

No to guys who wear eyeglasses and think of themselves as a genius.

No kids!

No to guys with hairgel. And lethal hairstyles. With weird hair colors.

No to desperation. Numbers on profile.

No to personality disorders.

No to self indulgent, self-praising posts.

No to stupidity.

No to immaturity.

No to fuglies who try to flirt. Not cool. Gross.

No to pretense. No to bad acting.

Don't send me "sent to all messages"/advertisements.

Don't randomly give me your ym, skypes etc.

Don't send me the same messages that you sent to other girls here.

SO DO YOU STILL want to SEND ME A MESSAGE? LOLIn this scenario, they should have to get their degree and stand on their legs instead of stopped their studies and spreading their legs in the bad :P

X Man
06-21-13, 11:16
I think you're right.

Hey, I'm bald. She was takin' the [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) out of me! They love to tease, don't they? X.


Can anyone translate,"coffer impressive man"?

Is it French for hair (coiffure. The arrangement of the hair) and she is just trying to impress by her use of French

Pute Nut
06-21-13, 14:01
After ten months (and perhaps a few dates with the gentlemen of DIA) :

"I want to meet a guy that is not only looking for sex, not a guy that when he meet the girl he will hurriedly kiss the girl and will tell he want to make love. Thats bullshit."

Gajith
06-21-13, 14:58
Cristinemaefabre. 23, Philippines 7 hrs. 23 mins ago.

Lets try baby.

Xxxxxxx. 29, Singapore 7 hrs. 24 mins ago.

Hmm. I am straight and I don't know how to play with ladyboy :P.

Cristinemaefabre. 23, Philippines 7 hrs. 28 mins ago.

Hi I'm ladyboy I am going there in sg soon in 30 would you like to meet up?

X Man
06-24-13, 13:15
I kind of like this strange trend in the chat forum where gals somehow expose how SOME guys operate.

In some places here and there you can see what other guys post. FB is one. PL also. I was kind of tickled once when I made a very neutral comment on a gals FB page, and Wanker 1 immediately replied with,"WHO IS HE?". I was tempted to reply, but I'm sure the gal covered her tracks as best she could. Jealousy? Kind of stupid actually. I had a guy in an Angeles dancing bar who wanted to fight me because I smiled at the girl he had barfined. Wow! Fortunately those neanderthol types rarely post here. They haven't learned their abx's yet.

Here's one I like. A very good looking gal, with a degree, clearly suggests that she wants to hear from guys under 40.

Pic shows an elderly man who writes,"I think older m, ans are better lovers honney I know I, m better then young man" His profile show's he's not a native English speaker. Nevertheless, does this impress an educated Filipina? I think not.


After ten months (and perhaps a few dates with the gentlemen of DIA) :

"I want to meet a guy that is not only looking for sex, not a guy that when he meet the girl he will hurriedly kiss the girl and will tell he want to make love. Thats bullshit."

Hutsori
06-26-13, 12:59
Found this on a DIA profile. Usually the girls are complaining about the guys' p4p solicitations. Hadn't seen this before, though it doesn't surprise me.


How should I say this?

All I can say is I'm a decent person and for the ladies out there who keeps bugging me up to join their dirty stuff and whatever business I AM NOT INTERESTED.

I don't need that Big amount of money in just one snap, I can have that and I will work hard to have that in a clean and decent way

Red Kilt
06-26-13, 14:22
Note that on the website pinalove. Com both Jhenakim and Jamanty have posted photographs on the site that are NOT themselves.

They have quite different dimensions (height and weight) to those displayed on the profiles, and if you chat using cams it will be obvious that they are using someone else's photographs.

Awiah is a professional call-girl / escort. You will quickly discover this fact if you contact her although her profile is also cleverly worded not only to leave no doubt but also to get past the website's scrutineers. I believe she also uses Craig's List.

BTW - I do NOT use Red Kilt as my handle on pinalove.

Amanut
06-26-13, 18:02
Lately I have been inundated with contacts from FilipinoCupid who are looking to get me to a cam site. Inevitably either during chat or on YM the cam girls say they are living in Ghana. Generally the profile says they are new members.

The cam girls have been particularly a pain in the ass so I have been reporting them to the site mods. I have to say I am very impressed with the FC moderators as they get back to me very quickly saying that the profiles have been removed.

Such is life LOL

X Man
06-27-13, 08:44
"All I can say is I'm a decent person and for the ladies out there who keeps bugging me up to join their dirty stuff and whatever business I AM NOT INTERESTED"

Yes, this is interesting. Some kind of recruiters? I also find gals writing in their profiles,"scammers not allowed". I'm curious who is pulling a scam on the girls and what kind of scam it might be. I guess I should ask. Duh.

On the site PinayLove you can also see what some guys write. There are some real morons out there. I used to be amazed at how easy it was to get an online gal to agree to meet and to share contact info within a few messsages. After reading some of these messages on PL I realize I must appear to be a rather sensible and intelligent gentleman. And who knows. Maybe I am! X

Pute Nut
06-27-13, 15:29
I'm curious who is pulling a scam on the girls and what kind of scam it might be. I guess I should ask. Duh.All kinds of crap, including advance fee scams. No kidding, some girls use their hard earned W. U. Wanker-pay for this LOL.

You'd be amazed how many third world guys ply the interwebs these days.

Sammon
06-27-13, 17:12
Yes, this is interesting. Some kind of recruiters? I also find gals writing in their profiles,"scammers not allowed". I'm curious who is pulling a scam on the girls and what kind of scam it might be. I guess I should ask. Duh.In Phi "scammers" may mean something or nothing at all. It is not business scamming. It is directed towards people who promise marriage, undying love etc only to run away after the girl opens her legs. For them it is scamming.

Bob Bowie
06-27-13, 19:06
Lately I have been inundated with contacts from FilipinoCupid who are looking to get me to a cam site. Inevitably either during chat or on YM the cam girls say they are living in Ghana. Generally the profile says they are new members.

The cam girls have been particularly a pain in the ass so I have been reporting them to the site mods. I have to say I am very impressed with the FC moderators as they get back to me very quickly saying that the profiles have been removed.

Such is life LOLI believe CB has a display on the girls profile that displays what country she is actually logged in. It has been helpful to see that a girl is an OFW in Sadia, while she has Cebu or Manila listed on her profile. It saves you time and frustration.

Pute Nut
06-28-13, 00:29
In Phi "scammers" may mean something or nothing at all. It is not business scamming. It is directed towards people who promise marriage, undying love etc only to run away after the girl opens her legs. For them it is scamming.Sammon,

They usually refer to the fuck and forget guys as "just for fun". As long as the punters give up their blue notes it's hardly a scam, just a questionable business practise, tops. Buying cam shows and paying with fake WU might be a scam. As for the business side, as I wrote advance fee scammers do work the DIA girls nowadays. Scams include "free laptop" scam. But as you said, like many otherthings in Phils it's pretty fluid.

Hutsori
06-28-13, 01:48
I also find gals writing in their profiles,"scammers not allowed". I'm curious who is pulling a scam on the girls and what kind of scam it might be. I guess I should ask. Duh.Ask. They make for entertaining/amusing/saddening/revealing conversations.

1) The I've-double-booked-so-won't-meet-you-and-not-tell-you scam.

2) The I'm-looking-for-LTR-leading-to-marriage scam.

3) The I'm-here-on-holiday-but-tell-you-I-live-here scam.

4) The no-wife-no-kids-I'm-completely-unattached scam.

5) The hansum-man-fake-picture scam.

6) The it's-only-you-baby scam.

7) The I-will-sponsor-your-family's-caribao's-university-education scam.

8a) The hi-I'm-John-er-I-mean-Sam scam.
8b) The everything-I-tell-you-about-myself-is-untrue scam.

9a) The hi-I'm-Prince-Charming-yes-a-gentleman-now-please-take-off-your-shirt-and-show-me-your-titties-on-cam scam.
9b) The whilst-we're-at-it-take-off-your-panties-and-spread-cuz-I-need-to-ensure-you're-not-a-ladyboy-on-cam scam

10a) The whoops-I-fell-off-the-planet scam.
10b) The we're-getting-married-soon-I-need-to-go-back-to-my-homeland-to-gather-my-family-to-bring-them-here-for-the-ceremony-whoops-I-fell-off-the-planet scam.

X Man
06-28-13, 13:31
I think your list covers about everything. I suppose I was thinking rather narrowly. More like the Nigerian money scam. I did ask one and she said "liars and cheaters". Asian Rain often refers to a gal's " moneymaker", so looking at it from that perspective, I can see why they would say "scammer".

And thanks to the others who also commented. X.


Ask. They make for entertaining / amusing / saddening / revealing conversations.

1) The I've-double-booked-so-won't-meet-you-and-not-tell-you scam.

SNIP

Mbsl65
07-03-13, 08:55
M Joie. I am simple and friendly. I am a visionary type of person.

That's it for now.

I want to meet a Male.

With age from 25 to 60.

And I want to meet for Dating, Friendship, Serious Relationship and Networking.

Some one professional. To be specific "NOT MANIAC"

Honest and sincere.

Professional and having good and stable work.

I'm also not giving my personal number to someone I do not know and also my Facebook account. I, not hiding for anything. I just want to know you first.

And please if you are after for just sex or any cyber pornographic actions, just don't bother to waste your time with me. I won't entertain that. I never step down to that level. And I'm not going to have sex with anyone not until I got married.

For those who already married or complicated or even had children. Please don't mind to waste your time. I am not planning to be a future mistress or a future step-mom. I don't want a complicated situation.

I think my profile is clears all already.

Sammon
07-03-13, 16:13
M Joie. I am simple and friendly. I am a visionary type of person.

That's it for now.

I want to meet a Male.

With age from 25 to 60.

And I want to meet for Dating, Friendship, Serious Relationship and Networking.

Some one professional. To be specific "NOT MANIAC"

Honest and sincere.

Professional and having good and stable work.

I'm also not giving my personal number to someone I do not know and also my Facebook account. I, not hiding for anything. I just want to know you first.

And please if you are after for just sex or any cyber pornographic actions, just don't bother to waste your time with me. I won't entertain that. I never step down to that level. And I'm not going to have sex with anyone not until I got married.

For those who already married or complicated or even had children. Please don't mind to waste your time. I am not planning to be a future mistress or a future step-mom. I don't want a complicated situation.

I think my profile is clears all already.IMHO what the girls put on their profile and what they do is two sides of a coin. I do not pay much attention to what they write. I send a message and if they reply game is on.

Some put age preference but does not mean anything. Some put no sex but once again if they come to your hotel sex is guaranteed. We are not talking about "virgins " here. All have been around the block many times. Even the real virgins are ready to give it up if they like you. So the tip to mongers is do not be swayed by what they write in their profile. Just play your game and good luck!

Couple of virgins initially played hardball but afterwards relented saying they really wanted sex without any promises to marry. Ofcourse I always give money irrespective of if they request or not. Even the girls who objected I put money in their purse. Very few counted to see what they got.

FreebieFan
07-04-13, 01:47
IMHO what the girls put on their profile and what they do is two sides of a coin. I do not pay much attention to what they write. I send a message and if they reply game is on.

Couple of virgins initially played hardball but afterwards relented saying they really wanted sex without any promises to marry. Ofcourse I always give money irrespective of if they request or not. Even the girls who objected I put money in their purse. Very few counted to see what they got.Yeah I often have a wry smile to myself as I'm unwrapping the package, thinking that this one said " only serious guys". Or when I'm having my 3rd round with the one who said " please, no players, I want to be married this year " etc.

Yep, what they say is most definately what you get.

Wicked Roger
07-04-13, 05:16
Or when I'm having my 3rd round with the one who said " please, no players, I want to be married this year " etc.In my experience FF she will be married or is engaged to be married just her western boyfriend / honeyko has no idea she needs it 24/7 but then you and I don't care as she is wanting to be unwrapped and enjoyed.

One I see calls her man at a certain time each night tells him she loves him etc while I get a lovely BBBJ. He sends her an allowance each month and she enjoys that and a few other guys also to top up her pocket money and tuition fees.

SparkChaser
07-04-13, 21:41
Yes, I know that I am not a paid member yet and fully will be within less than a month. I have been reading on this column backwards and am now around page 250. However, I was wanting to pose a few questions for this group prior.

I am not a "monger" as such, though you are inspiring people to read and very educational. What I am is a twice victim of romance fraud. My life is long story. I worked with too many people that had been through bad divorces in my early 20's; and received 1 piece of very good advice from a "grey beard" when I was 21."Son, the best advice my father told me was when you are horny; wrap a ten dollar bill around your dick, pull one off, then use it to go get something to eat with that ten dollar bill. When you can take it anymore just hire a hooker and take care of business. In the long run you will be happier and well fed." That old grey beard is likely very correct.

Anyway, a few questions. Let us assume that a "good" American is looking for say a five year lease on a 18-22 year old Filipina "car" versus "buying" one to keep. That particular "car" would take care or its "owner"; and the "owner" would take car of the car. After the 5 to 6 year "lease" was up the "car" would be returned to the "market" which is now in this country since it is now a citizen. This makes it a more valuable "car" and able to freely choose its new "owner"; bring its previous Pinoy BF, or whatever. The "owner" doesn't care since the "car" did its duty to the owner. The "car" doesn't care since its "owner" did its job on keeping its fuel, garage, etc. Basic contract fulfilled on both parts and amicably done. Both sides happy. Both sides remain friends.

After that "car"/"owner" relationship was complete the "owner" goes to the new / slightly used "car dealer" in the phil's and gets a new 5-6 year lease. That particular "owner" gets to have a new / slightly used "car" every 5-6 years. The "car" has a better garage, better fuel, etc. And gets to stay in the country where its owner is from as a citizen and find a new "owner". At 23-28 years old that "car" is just about perfect for its next "owner".

How many times can an "owner" import a 18-22 year old "car" under this thought? Or is it just every 5-6 years years until they plant the "owner"; just once; or just a few times. Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions, etc. Would be appreciated. Also looking for a very good contract / family lawyer to draft this type of lease to protect the "owner";"owner's assets"; and "car".

Of course this "owner" will enjoy test driving these cars, until he has decided while one takes care of his needs best before mutual lease signing.

Anything wrong with this idea?

Cbea20
07-05-13, 02:39
Yes, there is a problem. Your embassy staff will catch on when you approach them with your second go-around. They have seen everything.


. Let us assume that a "good" American is looking for say a five year lease on a 18-22 year old Filipina "car" versus "buying" one to keep. That particular "car" would take care or its "owner"; and the "owner" would take car of the car. After the 5 to 6 year "lease" was up the "car" would be returned to the "market" which is now in this country since it is now a citizen. This makes it a more valuable "car" and able to freely choose its new "owner"; bring its previous Pinoy BF, or whatever. The "owner" doesn't care since the "car" did its duty to the owner. The "car" doesn't care since its "owner" did its job on keeping its fuel, garage, etc. Basic contract fulfilled on both parts and amicably done. Both sides happy. Both sides remain friends.

After that "car"/"owner" relationship was complete the "owner" goes to the new / slightly used "car dealer" in the phil's and gets a new 5-6 year lease. That particular "owner" gets to have a new / slightly used "car" every 5-6 years. The "car" has a better garage, better fuel, etc. And gets to stay in the country where its owner is from as a citizen and find a new "owner". At 23-28 years old that "car" is just about perfect for its next "owner".

How many times can an "owner" import a 18-22 year old "car" under this thought? Or is it just every 5-6 years years until they plant the "owner"; just once; or just a few times. Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions, etc. Would be appreciated. Also looking for a very good contract / family lawyer to draft this type of lease to protect the "owner";"owner's assets"; and "car".

Of course this "owner" will enjoy test driving these cars, until he has decided while one takes care of his needs best before mutual lease signing.

Anything wrong with this idea?

Hutsori
07-05-13, 06:44
My self-summary:
Tough cookie. Nothing can faze me not even death. I'm serious.

What I'm doing with my life:
Planning to be the most wanted criminal on the face of the earth. That's my goal.

I'm really good at:
Chopping bodies into pieces, gunshots, choking.

The first things people usually notice about me:
My bloodshot eyes.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food:
Anything that has to do with blood.

The six things I could never do without:
Knives, guns, blades, axes, rifles.

I spend a lot of time thinking about:
Butchering guys.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit:
I'm a murderer.

I'm looking for:

Guys who like girls.
Ages 30–39.
Near me.
Who are single.
For new friends, long-distance penpals.

You should message me if:
You like killing people too.



....................

Tally Wacker
07-05-13, 07:36
. My self-summary:

Tough cookie. Nothing can faze me not even death. I'm serious.

You should message me if:

You like killing people too.Interesting one Hutsori. I wonder if she wrote it or? I like a good challenge so I was curious if you tried to contact her.

Mbsl65
07-05-13, 07:52
I could not help to put my $0. 02. If you treat the girl like a car, you must follow following pointers.

If you go to a used car lot,

Try to select from the first row.

Kick the tires promptly and take it for a test drive.

Be sure there will be enough fuel in the tank.

If there is emission test required, take it to a designated place.

Be careful with the finance director, read the contract.

Don't buy any unnecessary items like undercoating etc.

Try sniffing the exhaust piper for a foul odor.

If you go to a new car dealer, ignore some of the advices.

Also don't skip your medicine. .


Yes, I know that I am not a paid member yet and fully will be within less than a month. I have been reading on this column backwards and am now around page 250. However, I was wanting to pose a few questions for this group prior.

I am not a "monger" as such, though you are inspiring people to read and very educational. What I am is a twice victim of romance fraud. My life is long story. I worked with too many people that had been through bad divorces in my early 20's; and received 1 piece of very good advice from a "grey beard" when I was 21."Son, the best advice my father told me was when you are horny; wrap a ten dollar bill around your dick, pull one off, then use it to go get something to eat with that ten dollar bill. When you can take it anymore just hire a hooker and take care of business. In the long run you will be happier and well fed." That old grey beard is likely very correct.

Anyway, a few questions. Let us assume that a "good" American is looking for say a five year lease on a 18-22 year old Filipina "car" versus "buying" one to keep. That particular "car" would take care or its "owner"; and the "owner" would take car of the car. After the 5 to 6 year "lease" was up the "car" would be returned to the "market" which is now in this country since it is now a citizen. This makes it a more valuable "car" and able to freely choose its new "owner"; bring its previous Pinoy BF, or whatever. The "owner" doesn't care since the "car" did its duty to the owner. The "car" doesn't care since its "owner" did its job on keeping its fuel, garage, etc. Basic contract fulfilled on both parts and amicably done. Both sides happy. Both sides remain friends.

After that "car"/"owner" relationship was complete the "owner" goes to the new / slightly used "car dealer" in the phil's and gets a new 5-6 year lease. That particular "owner" gets to have a new / slightly used "car" every 5-6 years. The "car" has a better garage, better fuel, etc. And gets to stay in the country where its owner is from as a citizen and find a new "owner". At 23-28 years old that "car" is just about perfect for its next "owner".

How many times can an "owner" import a 18-22 year old "car" under this thought? Or is it just every 5-6 years years until they plant the "owner"; just once; or just a few times. Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions, etc. Would be appreciated. Also looking for a very good contract / family lawyer to draft this type of lease to protect the "owner";"owner's assets"; and "car".

Of course this "owner" will enjoy test driving these cars, until he has decided while one takes care of his needs best before mutual lease signing.

Anything wrong with this idea?

BionicMan
07-05-13, 08:25
I could not help to put my $0. 02. If you treat the girl like a car, you must follow following pointers.If you go to a used car lot, Also don't skip your medicine. ."would you buy a pre-owned car from that salesman?", so check the salesman too.

Hutsori
07-05-13, 12:36
Interesting one Hutsori. I wonder if she wrote it or? I like a good challenge so I was curious if you tried to contact her.So do I. It peaked my curiosity; yes, we've passed a few short messages today, and yes, she wrote that profile. I've yet to determine if she's legitimately bonkers or just having a laugh.

Red Kilt
07-05-13, 13:46
So do I. It peaked my curiosity; yes, we've passed a few short messages today, and yes, she wrote that profile. I've yet to determine if she's legitimately bonkers or just having a laugh.It certainly piqued my curiosity too H

Gangles
07-05-13, 15:43
It looks like you have forgotten the lessons that you learned from your friends about divorce.

If you keep your car in your country for more than a year or so, it will adopt the driving characteristics of other cars in your country.

And if it is now a citizen of your country, when you try to return it to the market, it will take you to the cleaners for breach of contract.

This will be such an expensive exercise that you will not be able to go back to the Philippines to select a new car. You will be paying for car maintenance for about 18 years. By which time you will be totally past it.

You will be totally buggered, just like your friends.

Forget it,

G


Yes, I know that I am not a paid member yet and fully will be within less than a month. I have been reading on this column backwards and am now around page 250. However, I was wanting to pose a few questions for this group prior.

I am not a "monger" as such, though you are inspiring people to read and very educational. What I am is a twice victim of romance fraud. My life is long story. I worked with too many people that had been through bad divorces in my early 20's; and received 1 piece of very good advice from a "grey beard" when I was 21."Son, the best advice my father told me was when you are horny; wrap a ten dollar bill around your dick, pull one off, then use it to go get something to eat with that ten dollar bill. When you can take it anymore just hire a hooker and take care of business. In the long run you will be happier and well fed." That old grey beard is likely very correct...

GoodEnough
07-05-13, 16:20
It certainly piqued my curiosity too HSlavish grammarian.

JPF
07-05-13, 20:45
a "good" American is looking for say a five year lease on a 18-22 year old Filipina "car" versus "buying" one to keepI am no lawyer but I don't think this will work. Marriage laws vary by state (you did say you were an American) but your two choices are marry / divorce in 5 years or live together as domestic partners. If you marry then you can have a prenup agreement but that only says how you will divide assets if you divorce. I don't think you can legally have a prenup that stipulates you will divorce in a certain amount of time. Marriage is "supposed" to be for life.

If you live together as domestic partners you do not have the legal benefits of marriage and any "contract" to maintain your relationship for a limited amount of time could probably be abrogated because it could be seen as servitude, sexual exploitation, or some other illegal or undesirable situation. Then the domestic partners law of the state you are in would apply and you might lose half your assets.

Member #4643
07-05-13, 21:57
Yes, I know that I am not a paid member yet and fully will be within less than a month. I have been reading on this column backwards and am now around page 250. However, I was wanting to pose a few questions for this group prior.......

Anyway, a few questions. Let us assume that a "good" American is looking for say a five year lease on a 18-22 year old Filipina "car" versus "buying" one to keep. That particular "car" would take care or its "owner"; and the "owner" would take car of the car. After the 5 to 6 year "lease" was up the "car" would be returned to the "market" which is now in this country since it is now a citizen. This makes it a more valuable "car" and able to freely choose its new "owner"; bring its previous Pinoy BF, or whatever. The "owner" doesn't care since the "car" did its duty to the owner. The "car" doesn't care since its "owner" did its job on keeping its fuel, garage, etc. Basic contract fulfilled on both parts and amicably done. Both sides happy. Both sides remain friends.....

How many times can an "owner" import a 18-22 year old "car" under this thought?.....

Anything wrong with this idea?The basic problem is that you are not really talking about cars, but about women. Where on earth would you be able to find a woman who would agree to marry you, and give you GFE.like marriage for 5 years, and agree, in advance, to break up at that point? The typical DIA, pinalove etc girl is hoping to become married and raise a family. Some smaller percentage plan to get married and then abandon the wifey facade after the required two years in the USA (the time it takes for a newlywed to get a permanent green card independently of the spouse). Even an abandoned spouse might have to pay alimony.

I think it might be more feasible to take a new girl home from the Philippines every 6 months (the duration of a fiancee visa). You would have to return her and take a little interval before you find the next girl. I know a woman whose father (50's) did this for several years with young Brazilian women, so I guess the American embassy is OK with this. Your girls would have to be the type who are OK with not getting married. At the very least, they are not married to you with property and alimony rights. Be careful you do not choose a residence in a state where you can become common law spouses in less than 6 months.

Bringing a fiancee to the USE for six months of sex might be a bit expensive, but if you choose carefully, and get laid a lot, probably cheaper per fuck than becoming a regular at an escort service. But then again, maybe not.

Mbsl65
07-06-13, 00:48
"BEWARE"

To all men here at dateinasia:

Beware this woman offering for love. She is collecting lovers from almost all dating site at the same time. Meeting her lovers in the airport when coming to Philippines She is now carrying sexually transmitted disease. While she is making you believe that she is the only one in her life she is asking for money.

She is changing her profile from time to time. But her full and Real Name is Dalisay Dayto Apuyan or Dalisay B. Dayto from Naic Cavite City, Philippines. For you to be aware her picture is on this profile.

Mbsl65
07-06-13, 00:50
He really got us going.


"would you buy a pre-owned car from that salesman?", so check the salesman too.

Slippery
07-06-13, 01:09
Uncle Sam caught onto guys doing exactly what your girlfriend's father was doing and the guidelines are now changed. I'm on my first sips of coffee this morning and don't yet have the energey to invest in a search but the general rule is now one fiance visa per petitioner every two years. Her dad would be petitioner under these circumstances.

Red Kilt
07-06-13, 04:29
Slavish grammarian.Oh well. Something to pass the time.

I am sure Hutsori is not fussed. Annoyed maybe but only because he used the correct word but spelled it phonetically.

There are quite a few of these sorts of words used on this board.

Another one frequently used is "wrapped" when the word is "rapt".

Now back to the real topic.

Soapy Smith
07-06-13, 07:54
oh well. something to pass the time.

i am sure hutsori is not fussed. annoyed maybe but only because he used the correct word but spelled it phonetically.

there are quite a few of these sorts of words used on this board.

another one frequently used is "wrapped" when the word is "rapt".

now back to the real topic.or perhaps h wished us to know that his curiosity had peaked at an all time high. i was sufficiently curious that i even peeked back at his original post to see what had "led" (as opposed to "lead," which is often incorrectly used for "led") to this rapt attention on word usage. hopefully i have not piqued your ire by delaying the return to the real topic, which is obviously d' laying of nubile pinays.

Hutsori
07-06-13, 12:28
Or perhaps H wished us to know that his curiosity had peaked at an all time high.Yeah, yeah... that's it. ;)

SparkChaser
07-07-13, 12:31
I have a friend that I met online a while back. I had her create a profile on DIA. Hopefully some people here can find her some employment as a "Wing-Girl". Independant Human resource manager for FreeLance girls or tourguide. I believe that she would be very happy to help get you girls for GFE, run cameras, etc.

Profile here.

http://www.dateinasia.com/Zashie

Just do not get her into trouble, and I am sure she should be able to perform introduction services for you and make life much easier and faster.

I would be appreciative if you could get her some work.

JPF
07-07-13, 22:02
I have a friend that I met online a while back. I had her create a profile on DIA.

http://www.dateinasia.com/ZashieThe first help you can provide would be to make her location more clear. The profile says state / region: Muzon. Do you mean Luzon?

The city is Malia / SJDM. Do you mean Maria as in Santa Maria which is next to San Jose del Monte (SJDM) both of which are north of Quezon City?

SparkChaser
07-08-13, 08:37
Any and all assistance with this girl is appreciated. She is a good talker. Lousy typest. She has assured me that she will be working hard to try to make this a success. I believe she has real potential in her future. Just needs a hand up.

Sam 14
07-08-13, 19:06
I got a cute humorous text from a 22 year old FC girl. From her profile and texts she seemed like the very formal type.

The night we met, I was shocked when it was her idea to still meet at 11:00, and she invited me in. She's the care taker at a large 2 storey boarding house with around 4 or 5 young girls, somewhere in downtown Davao. Some would say she's got a bit of a homely look and her body isn't that hot, but for some reason I liked her. She was dark chocolate brown and had a personality.

So we're sitting on the couch and I just immediately start in with the sweet mouthing bit. Paws all over her. I start telling her that I would be willing to kiss her neck and lick her all over. All that kind of stuff. So I think I got a kiss on one of the legs before I basically got thrown out.

The next day, I spent a bunch of texts preparing her for what was about to come next. She seemed cool with it and almost a bit excited.

So I show up at 11 again and lay into it. The little girls are up stairs giggling. I managed to get the light shut off and the volume down on the damn TV. I'm crawling all over her, sweet talking like crazy. Going after the neck, the back, the front, the legs. She was wearing these baggy loose shorts with panties. So I got my head down in her lap. I'd lick her inner thighs, them blow hot air through her panties onto that pussy. She was pretty much diggin it, but nervous as all hell. She was obviously way deep in uncharted waters. I kept trying to compel her to just go remove the panties and bra and leave the rest on, that way I could get to "sweet parts" and it would be our little secret.

I couldn't manage that, but we got playing this game where I would say "uno, dos, tres". And she would pull the panties over for a second, and I would get a lick in. Got my toung in an inch or two a couple times, I think. It was pretty sweet BTW.

So enough was enough and I split.

The next day I sent her the usual pre-game briefing plan. What surprised me was the reply:

"As of now sir, I don't know what to say. Hehe.) I was still in shocked about what happened last niGHt. Haha"

"And still wondering, why we do that. Haha, and its so suck!"

"About, the chocolate brownies sir. Actually, I didn't eat those yet. Hehe, I was thnking, maybe theres some gayuma inside. Hahaha :P"

"And the Girls always ask me,"ate, why did U-turn off the liGhts even thoug you still have a visitor."

"I'm not in the mood to face you tonight sir. First, I wanted to be alone then."

Well, obviously, you know what my reply was. I told her that if she would have followed my suggestion and removed the panties, she would have really been in shock. And she wouldn't have to face me. All she would want to see is the back of my head.

No reply yet. Maybe I should check the trauma centers. Jaja

BrainDrain
07-08-13, 22:30
"BEWARE"

To all men here at dateinasia:

Beware this woman offering for love. She is collecting lovers from almost all dating site at the same time. Meeting her lovers in the airport when coming to Philippines She is now carrying sexually transmitted disease. While she is making you believe that she is the only one in her life she is asking for money.

She is changing her profile from time to time.Narrows it down to a couple of million pinay.

Khekada
07-09-13, 15:40
Dear Friends.

In couple of months I am visiting Phil for the first time. To get contacts from interested chicks, I paid 3 months membership at Cherry Blossoms dating site. Suddenly from today morning my account is deactivated by CB staff. The reason given was violation of usage terms. I asked for more details, and CB staff never pointed out about exactly what I violated. I carefully checked user terms and do not found any thing in my profile against it. I raised the issue with CB staff, but they are not ready to provide any details about the said violation. So all friends beware of the policy of this site.

1) There are no warnings for anything not acceptable to CB staff.

2) Account may be deactivated without giving any chance to correct.

3) Any credit in the account for remaining period is not promptly returned back. I have raised this point about the remaining credit. Till this time there is no assuarance or actual refund in my CC account.

Regards,

Khekada

Gangles
07-09-13, 17:30
JPF,

Open up Google Earth, type in the location that she gave in her profile, and you will go straight there. It is a locality on the far northern outskirts of greater Manila.

G


The first help you can provide would be to make her location more clear. The profile says state / region: Muzon. Do you mean Luzon?

The city is Malia / SJDM. Do you mean Maria as in Santa Maria which is next to San Jose del Monte (SJDM) both of which are north of Quezon City?

JPF
07-09-13, 21:04
3) Any credit in the account for remaining period is not promptly returned back. I have raised this point about the remaining credit. Till this time there is no assuarance or actual refund in my CC account.Khekada, you can dispute the charge with your credit card company especially if your membership was very short (I. E. You received little to no service). I have found the credit card companies to be very customer friendly when promised services are not delivered. Then CB will have to convince the credit card company that you did violate the terms of service.

Mbsl65
07-09-13, 23:49
I contacted her and she is looking for a BF for herself rather than being a wing-girl.


I have a friend that I met online a while back. I had her create a profile on DIA. Hopefully some people here can find her some employment as a "Wing-Girl". Independant Human resource manager for FreeLance girls or tourguide. I believe that she would be very happy to help get you girls for GFE, run cameras, etc.

Profile here.

http://www.dateinasia.com/Zashie

Just do not get her into trouble, and I am sure she should be able to perform introduction services for you and make life much easier and faster.

I would be appreciative if you could get her some work.

Amanut
07-09-13, 23:51
In preparation for my next trip I have been chatting with a few ladies on FC. I was making headway with a lady in her thirties who's marriage had been annulled. This is my preferred age range as I find them to be open minded plus realistic in their expectations. We agreed on a meeting in a neutral city about half way between where we would each be. This MO has been successful for me in the past. After a few days away together the ladies have always looked forward to meeting again on my next trip. The second meetings have been better than the first with the ladies even more open minded during the second visit. Items like CIM with S have been accepted to try and enjoyed by them.

Throughout today's discussion it was agreed this would be a no strings attached meeting. We would spend a couple days together and each go our own way. To finish off our chat session I asked her to give me her understanding of what would take place when we meet. Here is her response.

"I think its good we have to meet in personal and show you my house and store first then will go to church but then we will have many things topic to talk about what is life will be and on to the historical places and learning a lot about for us each other going anywhwere and will introduce you to my relatives and kids and other friends here that you are a friend here this site. Many more things to do will see."

Whew I'm glad I asked for clarification. Make sure they give you a recap. LOL

Mbsl65
07-10-13, 00:04
Most of the website operators are under pressure for anti-[CodeWord908] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord908), ant-pro groups and USA Government agencies. Most likely they were monitoring your activity based on the keywords can be implemented into the BBS board software. Refresh your mind and you may find the answer you may be looking for. This board has been hosted on Germany and US Gov. May have very little control on it. Good luck.


Dear Friends.

In couple of months I am visiting Phil for the first time. To get contacts from interested chicks, I paid 3 months membership at Cherry Blossoms dating site. Suddenly from today morning my account is deactivated by CB staff. The reason given was violation of usage terms. I asked for more details, and CB staff never pointed out about exactly what I violated. I carefully checked user terms and do not found any thing in my profile against it. I raised the issue with CB staff, but they are not ready to provide any details about the said violation. So all friends beware of the policy of this site.

1) There are no warnings for anything not acceptable to CB staff.

2) Account may be deactivated without giving any chance to correct.

3) Any credit in the account for remaining period is not promptly returned back. I have raised this point about the remaining credit. Till this time there is no assuarance or actual refund in my CC account.

Regards,

Khekada

Member #4387
07-10-13, 00:27
"I think its good we have to meet in personal and show you my house and store first then will go to church but then we will have many things topic to talk about what is life will be and on to the historical places and learning a lot about for us each other going anywhwere and will introduce you to my relatives and kids and other friends here that you are a friend here this site. Many more things to do will see."

Whew I'm glad I asked for clarification. Make sure they give you a recap. LOLIt is a long time since I laughed this loud. I was sneakreading this your comment in the same room as my GF and I think I sprayed Pepsi on her as well a couple of meters away. Even got it in my nose. I was struck by lightning when you got to the church. OMG thank you for that one.

SparkChaser
07-10-13, 01:45
I contacted her and she is looking for a BF for herself rather than being a wing-girl.Hi there,

Is that good information. Was it bf or bfe. When I was talking with her she was stating that she was wanting to do "wing-girl" work.

Be certain to find out and let me know. I am very interested in that info. Must be good info though.

FreebieFan
07-10-13, 01:48
"I think its good we have to meet in personal and show you my house and store first then will go to church but then we will have many things topic to talk about what is life will be and on to the historical places and learning a lot about for us each other going anywhwere and will introduce you to my relatives and kids and other friends here that you are a friend here this site. Many more things to do will see."Just meet her, smile and walk her to your hotel. She may or may not say anything. Usually they meekly follow.

Khekada
07-10-13, 03:30
Thnks Bro Mbsl65,

I am quite sure there is nothing against CB policy in my profile, but if they are scanning chats too, there are many things they may find against. I always thought chat is one to one and out of review limits. Even there policy statement do not include the chats. Secondly it is very subjective to decide about the chat lines, if they really care to read between the lines.

Regards,

KHEKADA


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Mbsl65
07-10-13, 03:46
I have one for you to laugh at too. In Vilnus, Lithuania (one of my best mongering proving grounds) , I hooked up with a girl who is a radio personality in Lithuanian Public Broadcasting Service, took me to a church, dinner and other BS. But I managed to nail her the same night after bunch of BS. She is not in my FFF program. (Find them, Fxxx them, Forget them).


It is a long time since I laughed this loud. I was sneakreading this your comment in the same room as my GF and I think I sprayed Pepsi on her as well a couple of meteraway. Even got it in my nose. I was struck by lightning when you got to the church. OMG thank you for that one.

Amanut
07-10-13, 07:40
It is a long time since I laughed this loud. I was sneakreading this your comment in the same room as my GF and I think I sprayed Pepsi on her as well a couple of meters away. Even got it in my nose. I was struck by lightning when you got to the church. OMG thank you for that one.

Glad you enjoyed. Perhaps if we are there at the same time we can share some lutefisk. By share I mean I give to you LOL. Do you guys really like it? We Canadian Norwegians eat that stuff up like there's no tomorrow at Christmas. Well most, but not me. My lips would heal over before lutefisk could pass them.

For those of you who do not know what I am talking about, lutefisk is cod cured in lye. It is a 2x4 stick of dried fish. Preparation requires that it be soaked and drained repeatedly over several days. My parents told me it is a Norwegian delicacy.

It is then boiled. It stinks. Smells rotten. Smells paint the walls bad. My parents used to say it tastes good if you put lots of melted butter and salt on it. Think about being served cod jelly with butter and salt. lol I always wondered why anyone would put in the effort to develop a taste for some thing that smells so bad. LOL

No wonder your so prolific. :)

Fredje1961
07-10-13, 08:12
I have one for you to laugh at too. In Vilnus, Lithuania (one of my best mongering proving grounds) , I hooked up with a girl who is a radio personality in Lithuanian Public Broadcasting Service, took me to a church, dinner and other BS. But I managed to nail her the same night after bunch of BS. She is not in my FFF program. (Find them, Fxxx them, Forget them).Had a similar situation a few years ago in Vietnam with a very hot looking co-worker. Takes me out one evening, have dinner together, sit close to each other in a bar and almost start cuddling & kissing, and then she decides we need to go out for a walk (hand in hand during a rainy night in Saigon, sooooo romantic) and she takes me to Saigon Cathedral.

Anyway, co-workers are a no-no as far as I'm concerned (but I did feel weird when back in my hotel).

Ebauche
07-10-13, 08:18
I always wondered why anyone would put in the effort to develop a taste for some thing that smells so bad. LOLObviously, you've never seen fans go after prized durian.

FreebieFan
07-10-13, 08:42
I have one for you to laugh at too. In Vilnus, Lithuania (one of my best mongering proving grounds) , I hooked up with a girl who is a radio personality in Lithuanian Public Broadcasting Service, took me to a church, dinner and other BS. But I managed to nail her the same night after bunch of BS. She is not in my FFF program. (Find them, Fxxx them, Forget them).I have a classic text, one of those I couldn't delete some some girl who I can't even remember name of or face but it says something like " freebie I really likes you, can we go to church together with my mum, then we can go fucks a lot after".

Member #4387
07-10-13, 10:03
Glad you enjoyed. Perhaps if we are there at the same time we can share some lutefisk. By share I mean I give to you LOL. Do you guys really like it? We Canadian Norwegians eat that stuff up like there's no tomorrow at Christmas. Well most, but not me. My lips would heal over before lutefisk could pass them.

LOL.

No wonder your so prolific. .When I was a little kid my parents try to force some of this destroyed fish into me, but I vomited (a little bulimic trick I learned from a friend to avvoid nasty food back home) so I never had to try it it again. It is the smell I mostly can't handle. So no such thing inside my house.

I would be more happy, if we happened to be at the same place once, to share some salmon. I usualy love fish almost as much as I love girls (as long as they don't smell like lutefisk)

Member #4387
07-10-13, 10:30
Since we are in a church (istic) mood here I have one happened to me a few years ago in Beijing. I had been seeing this nice longlegged sexy girl a few times and as most chineese she was not religious as we know it. They have a more philosophic way and confess themself to confuism or some other ism of same sort (mostly). This girl fancied I was a christian (I am as I am born in a christian country and evne a member of our state church but I am very passive member).

I went back home and got more and more mails from this girl (great in bed activity by the way and one of the few chineese I met with shaved pussy) stating she start reading the bible and even looked up a christian church in Beijing she had start to visit frequently. My concern was ofcourse how this would influence our sexual relationship as people just "seeing the light" can take the biblitic words a bit to serious. I returned to Beijing some months after, showed up in Cyts building were she worked and we headed home to her place. Her apartment was by now crowded by christian symbols and in the livingroom she even got herself a big statue of Jesus himself. We started off in the sofa and well into the session with my member well working her wet pussy she suddenly retracts herself and runs into the bathroom. She returns and take a big towel and covered the head of the big Jesus statue. Why you do this I ask?"I do not want Jesus to see my sinful act" was her reply. And session back on track.

Mbsl65
07-16-13, 06:12
As a programmer, I can tell you that you can write scripts to search for the certain keywords and identify the author. So, you can backtrack it from there. I can assure you that in Seattle area, I know several ISP owners who are my geek friends. They get served with different BS every other day.


Thnks Bro Mbsl65,

I am quite sure there is nothing against CB policy in my profile, but if they are scanning chats too, there are many things they may find against. I always thought chat is one to one and out of review limits. Even there policy statement do not include the chats. Secondly it is very subjective to decide about the chat lines, if they really care to read between the lines.

Regards,

KHEKADA

Mbsl65
07-16-13, 06:16
Update on the girl you recommended as a wing girl. She claims that she was your ex gf for 10 months and you dumped her based on some issues. She claims that she is not a wing girl or anything else. Can you post us the truth from your end? Because her claims are much different than your suggestions. As you know, including myself, lots of people read the posts and we may get into a problem. FYI, I would not mislead you or anyone else. Please do a clarification.


Any and all assistance with this girl is appreciated. She is a good talker. Lousy typest. She has assured me that she will be working hard to try to make this a success. I believe she has real potential in her future. Just needs a hand up.

Khekada
07-18-13, 03:34
Dear All

Here is an update. Blossoms paid me back my membership fees in full, but refused to restore my account or give any valid cause for deactivation.

Regards,

Khekada


Thnks Bro Mbsl65,

I am quite sure there is nothing against CB policy in my profile, but if they are scanning chats too, there are many things they may find against. I always thought chat is one to one and out of review limits. Even there policy statement do not include the chats. Secondly it is very subjective to decide about the chat lines, if they really care to read between the lines.

Regards,

KHEKADA

X Man
07-24-13, 13:46
An online gal. Not bad looking. But not my cup of tea. This was my response.

Thank you for the msg. I will go to Phiippines next month, but not Mindanao. I don't want to waste your time.

Advice 1: try to use more than "hi" to meet people.

Advice 2: If your profile says you don't have children, maybe you shouldn't stand in front of a wall with all baby pictures.

Sammon
07-30-13, 14:10
Loren: when I was young I dream someday I want a foriegners husband.

Me: all the phi women want foreign husbands. But it is not easy.

Me: although some have married and come here.

Me: but they are usually nurses or computer specialists.

Me: highly educated.

Loren: no I don't like. Cause the boy here is checkboy. I don't trust.

Me: are you a virgin?

Loren: I till you honest I'm not a virgin, thats why I never trust the boy here. I have bad memory.

Loren: you know why?

Me: not really.

Loren: you want to hear about my story?

Me: yes.

Loren: when I was in high school I have a bf, then I'm very trust to my boyfriend before. But I mistake cause he get my virginity, that time he told me I eat in the house of hes friend but hes lie to me, I don't know my boyfriend have bad plan for me. Then I told to my bf I go back to the school then he force me, he hold my hand and foot I told to my bf no don't do that but my bf I can't hear me he continue I cry that time, cause I promise to my self I give my virginity to my husband someday cause virginity is the best gift to my husband. But my bf he broke my dream. Hes a bad man that why 10 years ago and now I don't have boyfriend.

Loren: sorry very long story.

Me: how old were you then.

Loren: I'm 15 years old. What you say my story?

Me: that is life.

Loren: yes. But its a bad memory in my life.

Me: you should not be hung up on what happened 10 years ago.

Loren: I hope your understand about my past,

Me: sex is just part of life.

Loren: if you want I continue to chat you in the internet cafe? Cause the owner of the internet is here. Yes I know but nice give to my someone special cause sex is the best if have a true love.

Me: I am sorry. I am interested in sex and company when I come to Philippines.

Loren: ah okay.

Me: obviously you are looking for something different.

Loren: you want to continue in the internet?

Loren: why you say that? If you are good for me why not.

Me: SO YOU WANT TO MEET ME?

Loren: yes.

Me: can you take time off to be with me?

Loren: yes.

Me: what is your phone number?

Loren: 091xxxxxxxxxxx.

Me: ok, I will let you know my plans.

Loren: what your plan?

Me: I should be in Phi soon. Usually I go to Manila and Cebu.

Me: If you can come to Cebu I will send you a ticket.

Loren: I got to now, sorry. You go in davao.

Loren: see you later?

Me: We will talk next time. Take care, bye.

Loren: okay.

This is generally how the conversation goes with DIA girls. Initially they come across as " virgins". When asked it is evident they had one sexual encounter (who knows?).

They come across as looking for only serious relationship and marriage. Later they relent and ready for sex and fun.

X Man
08-02-13, 12:31
according to her, she was raped as a teenager. and your response was,"that's life". is that a bit cold?

okay, i know some gals have some tall tales, and i'll give sammon the benefit of the doubt. he may have seen this as some gals attempt to win sympathy in order to ask for something, or create some illusion. again, to gain favor.

neverhtheless, the way the story is presented seems pretty cold-hearted. hope you have time to clarify s. x.


loren: when i was young i dream someday i want a foriegners husband.

me: all the phi women want foreign husbands. but it is not easy.

me: although some have married and come here.

me: but they are usually nurses or computer specialists.

me: highly educated.

loren: no i don't like. cause the boy here is checkboy. i don't trust.

me: are you a virgin?

loren: i till you honest i'm not a virgin, thats why i never trust the boy here. i have bad memory.

loren: you know why?

me: not really.

loren: you want to hear about my story?

me: yes.

loren: when i was in high school i have a bf, then i'm very trust to my boyfriend before. but i mistake cause he get my virginity, that time he told me i eat in the house of hes friend but hes lie to me, i don't know my boyfriend have bad plan for me. then i told to my bf i go back to the school then he force me, he hold my hand and foot i told to my bf no don't do that but my bf i can't hear me he continue i cry that time, cause i promise to my self i give my virginity to my husband someday cause virginity is the best gift to my husband. but my bf he broke my dream. hes a bad man that why 10 years ago and now i don't have boyfriend.

loren: sorry very long story.

me: how old were you then.

loren: i'm 15 years old. what you say my story?

me: that is life.

loren: yes. but its a bad memory in my life.

me: you should not be hung up on what happened 10 years ago.

loren: i hope your understand about my past,

me: sex is just part of life.

loren: if you want i continue to chat you in the internet cafe? cause the owner of the internet is here. yes i know but nice give to my someone special cause sex is the best if have a true love.

me: i am sorry. i am interested in sex and company when i come to philippines.

loren: ah okay.

me: obviously you are looking for something different.

loren: you want to continue in the internet?

loren: why you say that? if you are good for me why not.

me: so you want to meet me?

loren: yes.

me: can you take time off to be with me?

loren: yes.

me: what is your phone number?

loren: 091xxxxxxxxxxx.

me: ok, i will let you know my plans.

loren: what your plan?

me: i should be in phi soon. usually i go to manila and cebu.

me: if you can come to cebu i will send you a ticket.

loren: i got to now, sorry. you go in davao.

loren: see you later?

me: we will talk next time. take care, bye.

loren: okay.

this is generally how the conversation goes with dia girls. initially they come across as " virgins". when asked it is evident they had one sexual encounter (who knows?).

they come across as looking for only serious relationship and marriage. later they relent and ready for sex and fun.

Sammon
08-02-13, 17:08
according to her, she was raped as a teenager. and your response was,"that's life". is that a bit cold?

okay, i know some gals have some tall tales, and i'll give sammon the benefit of the doubt. he may have seen this as some gals attempt to win sympathy in order to ask for something, or create some illusion. again, to gain favor.

neverhtheless, the way the story is presented seems pretty cold-hearted. hope you have time to clarify s. x.i never believe anything these girls say. who knows whether she is raped? they will say anything to get sympathy. she also said since she had the only encounter 10 years ago she has not had sex. it is very hard to believe.

i have no time to listen to stories past. i always make it clear what i am looking for. if they are willing, so be it.

Pinaypounder
08-02-13, 17:37
Hi all just a warning for his little beauty.

Claims to be a Flight attendant and offers to fly to see you in minutes for a discounted ticket of course, keep your wits sharp boys. Definetley a nice package!

PP.

(1) Aico 29 Female Makati, Manila, Philippines FilipinoCupid. Com. Htm

Col Law
08-11-13, 13:38
Here is my conundrum, I am making my arrangements to meet old and new girls for my upcoming trip, whilst doing some research on one of my contacts I find she has been advertising her need for a discreet gentlemen. Now do I tell her I know about her other services she provides and risk a rate hike or act dumb and just leave the usual rate for the job done. It is a tough life

Sammon
08-11-13, 13:43
Here is my conundrum, I am making my arrangements to meet old and new girls for my upcoming trip, whilst doing some research on one of my contacts I find she has been advertising her need for a discreet gentlemen. Now do I tell her I know about her other services she provides so it cuts down on the be / s and risk a rate hike or act dumb and just leave the usual rate for the job done. It is a tough lifeMy advice is do not control her life unless you plan to marry her or keep her on monthly support. Just enjoy your time with her and leave.

These girls do whatever they want to survive a tough life.

Some girls have shown me pictures of who they met and fucked once I get friendly with them. It is of no consequence to me what they do.

Orangevale Rob
08-15-13, 04:58
In preparation for my next trip I have been chatting with a few ladies on FC.Sorry, I'm a little rusty. What's FC?

Hutsori
08-15-13, 05:39
Sorry, I'm a little rusty. What's FC?Filipinocupid, a dating site.

IM Punter
09-01-13, 17:02
Following advice in the Manila thread as a means to find some 18-22 year old Filipinas to spend of my well earned time with, I am setting up a profile on DIA FC and whatever good sites I can find.

I notice that DIA needs a photo before you can send messages. Hmm, thats a problem. I have a gf here in the US and I don't want her to come across my picture on a dating web site.

I was wondering what other members do in similar circumstances. Any suggestions?

Pagal Chacha
09-01-13, 21:24
Following advice in the Manila thread as a means to find some 18-22 year old Filipinas to spend of my well earned time with, I am setting up a profile on DIA FC and whatever good sites I can find.

I notice that DIA needs a photo before you can send messages. Hmm, thats a problem. I have a gf here in the US and I don't want her to come across my picture on a dating web site.

I was wondering what other members do in similar circumstances. Any suggestions?Unless your GF joins DIA she is not going to find out, I have a wife andI am on DIA since 3 years it is tedious work to chase on DIA but rewards can be wonderful, it is a nice feeling that a woman 1/3rd of your age falls in love with you and wants to spend some money on you. (not that I let her spend it)

Red Kilt
09-02-13, 10:06
Unless your GF joins DIA she is not going to find out, I have a wife and I am on DIA since 3 years. It is tedious work to chase on DIA but rewards can be wonderful.You are tempting fate Pagal C.

It's not a matter of your wife or any GF being on DIA but more a risk that one of her friends or a friend of a friend will see it and report you.

Pinays in particular (but most women anywhere in the world) love to discover a man playing around and then reporting it far and wide.

I suggest you should be waiting for the day when the (wife or GF) confronts you with a "Why are you on (insert dating site)?"

Sammon
09-02-13, 13:20
You are tempting fate Pagal C.

It's not a matter of your wife or any GF being on DIA but more a risk that one of her friends or a friend of a friend will see it and report you.

Pinays in particular (but most women anywhere in the world) love to discover a man playing around and then reporting it far and wide.

I suggest you should be waiting for the day when the (wife or GF) confronts you with a "Why are you on (insert dating site)?"DIA girls you meet love to do a systematic search for you in facebook. I have had one girl somehow got on to my facebook page and posted her family picture there to show me. This was caught on by my other DIA conquests and they were asking who is this girl? I had to tell this girl to stop putting anything on FB. I tell all the girls that FB is a open forum.

I believe once they know your real full name it maybe easy to locate you in FB. They do it partially to gloat their hooked men to show their friends and family on FB.

It is extremely hard to hide your real name if the girl is staying with you in the hotel for a few days.

DIA is not known widely by western girls. DIA is almost 99% philippino girls as you can see.

Pagal Chacha
09-02-13, 15:12
I am aware of the points you mentioned, but for me part of the thrill is the risk, I have been married for three decades and sexually my marraige is dead so subconciously I am taking risk, besides I go through phases when I am addicated to DIA and find it as better option than p4p

Sam 14
09-04-13, 16:56
The way I nearly got busted is by setting up a separate FB page under a different name and a different email account. The 2 names, though different were close enough to be matched. It will "suggest" other names to people along with the picture. In the beginning I thought you had to be accepted as a "friend" to have access to someone's page. Now you don't, so they have direct access to you or any of your friends and family. So a chick in the Philippines asked me who this other guy (me) was, and who the chick (my girlfriend) was. Now the Pinay chick knows all about my personal life and if she wanted to, she could have blown up my life with my girlfriend.

I never let anyone know my real name here, not even my property manager knows, only the Bureau of Immigration and the airline.


DIA girls you meet love to do a systematic search for you in facebook. I have had one girl somehow got on to my facebook page and posted her family picture there to show me. This was caught on by my other DIA conquests and they were asking who is this girl? I had to tell this girl to stop putting anything on FB. I tell all the girls that FB is a open forum.

I believe once they know your real full name it maybe easy to locate you in FB. They do it partially to gloat their hooked men to show their friends and family on FB.

It is extremely hard to hide your real name if the girl is staying with you in the hotel for a few days.

DIA is not known widely by western girls. DIA is almost 99% Filipino girls as you can see.

JPF
09-04-13, 20:32
In the beginning I thought you had to be accepted as a "friend" to have access to someone's page. Now you don't, so they have direct access to you or any of your friends and family.Facebook privacy is very complicated and they make it very hard to find the right menu to make changes. Also they constantly change the rules so you are probably correct that at one time you had more privacy but at some point they changed things so what was private became public until you find the right page to make it go back to the behavior you desire. Google the privacy you want and you will likely find a guide that will explain how to get to the setting you want to change.

Hutsori
09-05-13, 03:29
DIA is not known widely by western girls.May be true. But google image search and other sites offering the same are good and continue to improve. Don't be surprised to one day find a vexed partner who dragged and dropped your photo into the search field and one of the results was your photo in DIA. The match result is even more likely if you use the same photo in both FB and DIA (or other dating site).

Given how keen a Pinay is with photo-documenting every aspect of her life don't be surprised to find photos of you in her FB page. You reckon she's attentive to the privacy settings?

Pip Jaeger
09-05-13, 09:23
Given how keen a Pinay is with photo-documenting every aspect of her life don't be surprised to find photos of you in her FB page.And some will meet you just to take a few pics so can post photos of themselves with their new "foreign bf". I even had one make up a new FB page using my last name (fake one) with her first name, she thinks we're married! And all that was only after a few hours of shagging.

FreebieFan
09-05-13, 09:52
May be true. But google image search and other sites offering the same are good and continue to improve. Don't be surprised to one day find a vexed partner who dragged and dropped your photo into the search field and one of the results was your photo in DIA. The match result is even more likely if you use the same photo in both FB and DIA (or other dating site).Not forgetting that DIA also partners with some other dating sites as in they all share an affiliated owner. Thats how I found my phot was on a Kenyan Dating site. Never put on there and have never been there. But someone did a little intrepid searching and there I was waiting for Kenyan beauties. The internet is darn scary place at times.

Pip Jaeger
09-05-13, 11:58
I notice that DIA needs a photo before you can send messages. Hmm, thats a problem. I have a gf here in the US and I don't want her to come across my picture on a dating web site.

I was wondering what other members do in similar circumstances. Any suggestions?Although a good quality pic helps, any will do. Throw on a ball cap and a pair of sunglasses, snap a few low quality pics (try indoor and low light) with your cell phone, select a decent one (or a few if your allowed to post multiple pics) and post. Photo recognition software has a harder time finding matches if you are wearing sun glasses, hats and if you have facial hair. Then delete the photos (or archive them in a password protected folder for future use) and you're good to go. You can go one step further and use a program like Photoshop to soften the photo (don't over do it) and remove any scars, dimples, laugh lines, etc.

If your US gf ever comes across the photo on a dating website (unlikely) , then you can always deny and say someone must have snapped a pic of you and is using it. And if you Photoshop it a little bit, then you will also some plausible deniability;"Gee hun, you're right (cause they always are, LOL) , he does look like me, but see, I have a (insert distinguishing mark) and he doesn't", LOL.

Sam 14
09-05-13, 15:01
Thanks for the security tips, especially for Face Book. I think it's really important stuff not because I believe most of us are scammers and liars, but because it's more of a don't ask don't tell thing. No one wants to loose face. My gf in my country probably knew what I was up to, but it would have wrecked her having it smeared in her face. Like for example if some pissed off chick would have written shit on her wall for her whole family to see.

Hutsori
09-06-13, 12:10
And some will meet you just to take a few pics so can post photos of themselves with their new "foreign bf". I even had one make up a new FB page using my last name (fake one) with her first name, she thinks we're married! And all that was only after a few hours of shagging.Gadfuckinzooks!

The let's-take-a-couples-photo situation is a dilemma. I can explain well the reason why they can find nothing about me when the google me. I've yet to find a convincing enough reason to her why I don't want to take photos together.

If anyone has a winning answer I'd appreciate it.

X Man
09-06-13, 15:44
I guess you could be honest and tell her about how Interpol is looking for you. I guess that the GAnoREA data base privacy line wouldn't be good.

If it's your camera, there is the delete button. Duh,"Put away your phone away and use my camera. We can get a better quality picture."


Gadfuckinzooks!

The let's-take-a-couples-photo situation is a dilemma. I can explain well the reason why they can find nothing about me when the google me. I've yet to find a convincing enough reason to her why I don't want to take photos together.

If anyone has a winning answer I'd appreciate it.

Pip Jaeger
09-06-13, 16:27
"Put away your phone away and use my camera. We can get a better quality picture."I've used that line a few times and told them I'd email the pics later. You'd think the next response would be: "ok hun, here's my email". But, most of them never offered it; short attention span, LOL.

Another tactic I've used if they grab their cell phone for a pic. I put my hand up over my face and say: "I'm shy!". That usually gets them giggling and again the short attention span kicks in so we can move onto more enjoyable things.

IM Punter
09-06-13, 16:30
I signed up with FC using my hobbying gmail and a prepaid visa. Got a Platinum membership. Wrote a profile looking for a girl 18. 25 to show me around Manila and casual dating etc. The profile was approved. I start searching and even favourited a few possibilities. Next time I logged in there was a message saying my profile has been removed and cannot be reactivated An email to FC but didn't get a reply. The fee for the premium membership appeared on my burner Visa card.

WTF

Hutsori
09-07-13, 09:01
If it's your camera, there is the delete button. Duh,"Put away your phone away and use my camera. We can get a better quality picture."Other than what's in my mobile I don't have a camera. Can't be bothered to carry one.


I've used that line a few times and told them I'd email the pics later. You'd think the next response would be: "ok hun, here's my email". But, most of them never offered it; short attention span, LOL.

Another tactic I've used if they grab their cell phone for a pic. I put my hand up over my face and say: "I'm shy!". That usually gets them giggling and again the short attention span kicks in so we can move onto more enjoyable things.It may bring giggles but I suspect the I'm-shy gambit raises red flags in her mind. They may have short attention spans, which I think comes from a need to be non-confrontational, but I've found they have incredible memories.

Hutsori
09-07-13, 09:50
I signed up with FC using my hobbying gmail and a prepaid visa. Got a Platinum membership. Wrote a profile looking for a girl 18. 25 to show me around Manila and casual dating etc. The profile was approved. I start searching and even favourited a few possibilities. Next time I logged in there was a message saying my profile has been removed and cannot be reactivated An email to FC but didn't get a reply. The fee for the premium membership appeared on my burner Visa card.

WTFThat's rough. Once FC edited my profile and removed almost everything. I knew something was awry when there was a huge spike upwards in messages and interests received. I put it all back it and the FC editor was more judicious, just removing the words "pussy","clit" and "cum".

Pip Jaeger
09-07-13, 12:08
It may bring giggles but I suspect the I'm-shy gambit raises red flags in her mind. They may have short attention spans, which I think comes from a need to be non-confrontational, but I've found they have incredible memories.You're right, I should've quantified my statement to say that tactic would be best used with a one time meet as opposed to a regular / steady "gf". And yeah, they do have long memories. Funny how they always seem to "remind" you of the things you've said / done that's pissed them off; I think it's genetic, LOL.

X Man
09-08-13, 14:36
Genetic as in female? LOL.


You're right, I should've quantified my statement to say that tactic would be best used with a one time meet as opposed to a regular / steady "gf". And yeah, they do have long memories. Funny how they always seem to "remind" you of the things you've said / done that's pissed them off; I think it's genetic, LOL.

WestCoast1
09-08-13, 17:28
I signed up with FC using my hobbying gmail and a prepaid visa. Got a Platinum membership. Wrote a profile looking for a girl 18. 25 to show me around Manila and casual dating etc. The profile was approved. I start searching and even favourited a few possibilities. Next time I logged in there was a message saying my profile has been removed and cannot be reactivated An email to FC but didn't get a reply. The fee for the premium membership appeared on my burner Visa card.

WTFI've used DIA and CB (paid) on / off for a number of years. Years ago I had the standard vague profile. I said the standard vague things in online chat, ala what X-Man described in the Manila thread. Then one time in AC, my wingman suggested that I try the direct method. We were sitting having ice tea in Margarita, and I remember him saying "I don't have time to treat them nicely to see if a bargirl is interested in me. I treat them nice when we leave the bar, but I don't want to chit-chat some bargirl." Later in Body Shop we were sitting on the wall having a drink, and he insisted we move down to the chairs directly in front of the dancers. He said to me to watch what he did. He crooked his finger to a girl and she leaned over to us, and he told her he was looking for a girl who could both f*ck and take a good spanking. I was rather surprised by his up-front-ed-ness, and before I could bat an eye the girl said: "Yes I will be the one who will do that for you." Ring up one barfine. Not only that, he insisted he never tipped, and I saw his repeaters (the method was not driving anyone away in AC). It would take a while, but not only did I start adopting this 'in your face list my needs' things to bargirls, but extended it a bit (10 seconds: "Can you swallow, ass f*ck, do pictures, leave your phone off in the room, and stay till 10am? Or find me a gal that does?").

Later I extended this to my dating site profiles. Finally I went to an extreme: "I like traveling asia and meeting ladies (only). I like an afternoon of fun in my hotel room, or a night of drinks, appetizers, and live band, followed by an evening of fun in my hotel room. I'm not interested in meeting your family or spending more than one or two nights with you. I'm not interested in marriage or any kind of relationship. If you don't want to have fun in my hotel room, don't contact me."

That's pretty blunt. As my profiles iterated towards this kind of thing, I kept waiting for one of the dating sites to delete it, or contact me in some way about the crudeness. Still waiting for that to happen. This method obviously eliminates a lot of vagueness, but its not for everyone. I can't believe the profile itself gets past CB's initial screening process (if they have one at all).

I'll PM you about that burner CC.

Nice Guy 99
09-08-13, 23:08
I've had great DIA results in a number of different countries, to include the Phils, but recently got tossed for a reason that surprised me. I'm quite specific about 18-23, my advanced age, good time and stay with me, all that's never been a problem. But sometimes I get nagged by "girls" who are 50+. First response is a polite no thank you, second is a read my profile and third is that I'm not interested in grandmothers. That often pisses them off. I'll never know for sure but I think one or more may have complained about the "grandmother" thing. Annoying because of new account rules; so be polite to the grannies no matter how persistent they are or simply ignore their frequent messages.

D Cups
09-09-13, 04:06
I've had great DIA results in a number of different countries, to include the Phils, but recently got tossed for a reason that surprised me. I'm quite specific about 18-23, my advanced age, good time and stay with me, all that's never been a problem. But sometimes I get nagged by "girls" who are 50+. First response is a polite no thank you, second is a read my profile and third is that I'm not interested in grandmothers. That often pisses them off. I'll never know for sure but I think one or more may have complained about the "grandmother" thing. Annoying because of new account rules; so be polite to the grannies no matter how persistent they are or simply ignore their frequent messages.It's better just to ignore the ones you don't want.

D Cups
09-09-13, 04:08
It's better just to ignore the ones you don't want.Or ask if they have a sexy granddaughter.

Hutsori
09-09-13, 06:10
Or ask if they have a sexy granddaughter.You, sir, are the real deal. Well played.

Red Kilt
09-09-13, 07:43
Later I extended this to my dating site profiles. Finally I went to an extreme: "I like traveling asia and meeting ladies (only). I like an afternoon of fun in my hotel room, or a night of drinks, appetizers, and live band, followed by an evening of fun in my hotel room. I'm not interested in meeting your family or spending more than one or two nights with you. I'm not interested in marriage or any kind of relationship. If you don't want to have fun in my hotel room, don't contact me."

That's pretty blunt. As my profiles iterated towards this kind of thing, I kept waiting for one of the dating sites to delete it, or contact me in some way about the crudeness. Still waiting for that to happen. This method obviously eliminates a lot of vagueness, but its not for everyone. I can't believe the profile itself gets past CB's initial screening process (if they have one at all).That's great WC that you have not been deleted.

I would guess that it passes through the automatic screening process OK and the site owners have not seen it.

I had one much tamer than yours on DIA (2 years ago now) that was deleted simply because a woman obviously complained to the administrator and he / she must have read it.

I received a rather polite "personal" message telling me that I had offended a member, and that I had 3 days to rewrite it and repost otherwise my IP number would be banned.

You are doing very well with the balancing act.

IM Punter
09-09-13, 12:27
I've used DIA and CB (paid) on / off for a number of years. Years ago I had the standard vague profile. I said the standard vague things in online chat, ala what X-Man described in the Manila thread. Then one time in AC, my wingman suggested that I try the direct method.Thanks WC1,

I'll try a more direct approach. Thanks for the PM also.

X Man
09-10-13, 18:08
I tried that once, but she kept hedging- waste of time. Even when I'm friendly with the online gays, they haven't come up with a REAL girl. As someone wisely said earlier, ignore that which you do not seek (my paraphrase). And when it comes to the one-pic DIA, it is highly recommended to get a cam or FB view.

Once I was passing thru a market and noticed something cute and young. From behind me a chubby female fish monger asked,"You like my daughter?". Awkward.


You, sir, are the real deal. Well played.

Red Kilt
09-11-13, 06:36
One of my Manila friends who is a professional woman who I have known for around 8 or 10 years just told me how she joined a dating site 2 weeks ago.

She said that she posted 2 pics showing her well-dressed and in her work environment, and a profile that was very short seeking decent friends for a long-term relationship.

First message she received was from a South Asian "gentleman" telling her that he was visiting Manila in mid-October and asking if she would stay with him in his hotel in Makati for 3 days and have regular sex with him.

He would give her $600 USD if she agreed.

She was dumbfounded and seriously offended and sought my views on just what would prompt anyone to make such an insulting request, and in his FIRST contact with her too. She was actually in tears when she told me.

I could only reassure her that not all foreigners use such a direct approach and that she did the right thing in just blocking him.

There is discussion in this thread about making profiles reasonably clear and direct about what you are seeking, but for a guy to go straight for the jugular like this in his first message to a potential contact is not very cool. I suppose some guys will say that it cuts out a lot of time-wasting but personally I think it shows an extreme lack of any class.

Hutsori
09-11-13, 10:08
... a profile that was very short seeking decent friends for a long-term relationship.

There is discussion in this thread about making profiles reasonably clear and direct about what you are seeking, but for a guy to go straight for the jugular like this in his first message to a potential contact is not very cool. I suppose some guys will say that it cuts out a lot of time-wasting but personally I think it shows an extreme lack of any class.Red, you make an excellent point here. There is the girl's profile, and then there is the guy's; it's a distinction that's certainly not too fine for anyone to miss, the lines are clear, but some guys are brazen oafs.

I, and I'll assume some of those here who use frank profiles, don't initiate contact with a girl other than visiting her profile. Almost every girl's profile I've read is like your friend's, and I just wouldn't feel comfortable propositioning her out of the blue. I don't even send a basic "Hi" message. Why? I read her profile, I know what she's looking for, it doesn't match what I'm looking for, and I haven't been told the contrary. (There are some instances when a profile is so well done I send the girl a message telling her I appreciated a good read. I say nothing about meeting. I don't invite her to read my profile.) If and when she visits my profile AND either messages me or sends an interest message then I send either a direct response or a probe. I thank her for contacting me. If I'm absolutely positive she read my profile then I'm direct about inviting her to come to my condo. If I'm uncertain whether she's read my profile I ask her this directly. I ask whether she understands what I'm looking for. Seventy per cent of the time her response is that indeed she read it and is interested in meeting on my terms. Of the other 30 per cent the girl admits she hadn't read it and isn't looking for such a meeting or she doesn't even bother to reply.

I'm able to weed out those with a low-success likelihood whilst being civil.

I think a simple guideline is this: If you visit a girl's profile and send her a message you have to work within the confines of her profile. Over time you can see whether the boundaries are flexible.

Red, to your friend I certainly sympathise. Sadly, I reckon she's in for much more like that over time. Some girls respond by informing the sender that his message was rude, and then she receives a full on nuclear attack. Good of her to just block and move on. Even better to report the sender's message as inappropriate - it's good for all of us when a guy like that is purged. I'd also encourage her to join a website where the men have to pay to send messages, such as FC. If a guy's account is in jeopardy he's more inclined to behave himself.

WestCoast1
09-11-13, 14:50
SNIP.

He would give her $600 USD if she agreed.

She was dumbfounded and seriously offended and sought my views on just what would prompt anyone to make such an insulting request, and in his FIRST contact with her too. She was actually in tears when she told me.Let me take a crack:

1. Half the guys out there on dating sites (or, any large percentage) are looking for crude things."Show me your t*ts." Or,"lets have sex when I get there." There are few ways to control that.

2. Your friend is pinay. Obviously not all pinay are alike, but you will have to admit, many gents here routinely talk about using DIA and such as a place to chat pinay (nonpro) for sex. We even have a separate thread here on a sex board for dating site girls (this one!). A large number of pinay with dating profiles are selling cam shows. This will sound crude, but its worth saying: your friend is pinay. Such a large number of them are involved in the cam show, meeting foreigners for sex, scamming, and begging money (so much more so than girls from other countries, that antiscamming websites such as dragonladies have oodles of such stories and are 99. 9% pinay. Not thai, indo, or viet. This gives the pinay a distinct rep). The pinay sisterhood is somewhat to blame for "Show me your t*ts" attitude. Your friend has done nothing wrong, but her sisters have invited this crappy response upon each other. Your professional friend will have to get used to the 'ignore' button.


There is discussion in this thread about making profiles reasonably clear and direct about what you are seeking, but for a guy to go straight for the jugular like this in his first message to a potential contact is not very cool. I suppose some guys will say that it cuts out a lot of time-wasting but personally I think it shows an extreme lack of any class.I'm one of the few that admits to putting up a direct profile (a few weeks at a time). To be clear, I don't contact the ladies. I don't even contact those that 'view' my profile with a 'thanks for viewing'. Any woman who contacts me is looking for sex, or didn't read the profile. I'd recommend others who post such a profile do the same (so many fish to choose from).

Red Kilt
09-11-13, 15:28
. SNIP. Your friend has done nothing wrong, but her sisters have invited this crappy response upon each other. Your professional friend will have to get used to the 'ignore' button.I don't disagree with anything you said WC and I wasn't really expecting any responses to my post.

I was merely pointing out that there are some "brazen oafs" (to use Hutsori's term) around who cannot discern a working girl / girl seeking sex / hot to trot profile from a regular one.

I was NOT referring to direct posts that guys might make. Entirely different.

I was merely suggesting that there are ways to be "direct and up front" in contacting women on dating sites. My example was one of the ways NOT to do it (IMHO)

Hutsori
09-11-13, 17:39
I was merely pointing out that there are some "brazen oafs" (to use Hutsori's term) around who cannot discern a working girl / girl seeking sex / hot to trot profile from a regular one.When I first joined the dating sites I received messages from women keen to come over for sex, yet whose profiles explicitly stated they were "not for play","stay away perverts", etc. In my conversations with them I remarked that there was disconnect in what their profiles stated they were looking for, LTR, and what I was looking for, sex. In their replies I was told to not worry about that and that they knew what was in store when they came over. Sometimes discerning what a girl wants is tough.

WestCoast1
09-12-13, 02:18
Sometimes discerning what a girl wants is tough.One of history's great understatements!

Hutsori
09-12-13, 03:49
One of history's great understatements!Never let it be said I don't have unique insights. :P

Red Kilt
09-12-13, 05:35
Sometimes discerning what a girl wants is tough.I realised the folly of my statement when I wrote it too LOL.

Yes Huts I too have had the "don't worry about my profile" comment. In fact, I posted about several examples sometime last year on this very thread about some funny experiences.

The classic one is the girl who suggested we might meet for things that were as far removed from her profile as you could possibly get. When I quizzed her about this she said that it was her friend's profile and she was just looking after the site for her while she was "away".

It was the friends photo too.

Although I was initially alarmed that I might be now chatting to an under-age or ladyboy, I was soon reassured when I saw her on cam and we subsequently met up.

So. It is difficult to discern what a woman is seeking at first glance, but I still maintain that my earlier contention that to send off a blind message as a first contact asking an unknown woman if she will stay with you for 3 days for sex for $600 is being a tad insensitive and offensive. I think at least one initial "ice-breaker" to meet and greet is a better way to go.

Hutsori
09-12-13, 08:40
I realised the folly of my statement when I wrote it too LOL.

So. It is difficult to discern what a woman is seeking at first glance, but I still maintain that my earlier contention that to send off a blind message as a first contact asking an unknown woman if she will stay with you for 3 days for sex for $600 is being a tad insensitive and offensive. I think at least one initial "ice-breaker" to meet and greet is a better way to go.I took your statement as tongue in cheek.

Your contention is spot on, and WC's corollary holds true. It can be rough, even brutal, for the Pinays on the dating sites. Sadly this and the other pitches, e.g. the I-want-to-sponsor-you-at-xx-thousand-pesos-a-month messages, many of the young-and-fine girls receive daily poison the market.

Pip Jaeger
09-12-13, 16:28
When I first joined the dating sites I received messages from women keen to come over for sex, yet whose profiles explicitly stated they were "not for play","stay away perverts", etc. In my conversations with them I remarked that there was disconnect in what their profiles stated they were looking for, LTR, and what I was looking for, sex. In their replies I was told to not worry about that and that they knew what was in store when they came over. Sometimes discerning what a girl wants is tough.In many cases, even with well educated professional ladies, they use public computers at net cafe's. The last thing they want is someone looking over their shoulder at their profile when it reads something like: "I'm a very naughty girl who likes to have sex with foreigners"; and some are aware that friends and family may see their profiles as well so they attempt to keep up a façade of respectability.

You never know what your going to get into just from the few lines they've written (or copied) in a profile. I feel I have I have nothing to loose by contacting any of them and everything to gain if we meet up. If I was living there and already had a harem built up, then perhaps I would take a more indirect approach, but only coming to visit for a few weeks at a time, I feel a certain amount of frankness is needed in order to weed out the naysayers and especially the ones who require a few dates to loosen up.

My own profile is short and eludes to meeting for adult fun only. I've been contacted by numerous girls who want to meet for sex and their profiles are completely benign and innocent appearing. If contacted then I am quite honest and frank about what I seek, but in a polite and respectful way. When hunting, I tend to key in on certain words and phrases, then tailor my approach accordingly, but I won't hesitate to contact a lady who's profile is innocent looking if I like the way she looks. However direct I may be, I keep the initial message simple, respectful and very polite. Respect seems to be the key. I'm often surprised at some of the answers I get; everything from a simple "Yeah, sure let's meet" to a "Yes, as long as you treat me with respect then you can f*ck me all night", LOL. Even a few: "No, I not sex you, but I have friends who will". Even the one's who do reply with a "No thanks", I always message back thanking them for taking the time to answer me, I say I'm sorry if I have offended them and wish them luck with their search. I've had more than one reconsider or refer a friend because I "showed respect".

Hutsori
09-12-13, 16:52
Respect seems to be the key. I'm often surprised at some of the answers I get; everything from a simple "Yeah, sure let's meet" to a "Yes, as long as you treat me with respect then you can f*ck me all night", LOL. Even a few: "No, I not sex you, but I have friends who will". Even the one's who do reply with a "No thanks", I always message back thanking them for taking the time to answer me, I say I'm sorry if I have offended them and wish them luck with their search. I've had more than one reconsider or refer a friend because I "showed respect".Completely agree with you. Even those who have sent me irate messages bitching me out, and I never even contacted them, I wish them well with their search.


I feel I have I have nothing to loose by contacting anyone of them and everything to gain if we meet up. If I was living there and already a harem built up, then perhaps I would take a more indirect approach, but only coming to visit for a few weeks at a time I feel a certain amount of frankness is needed in order to weed out the naysayers and especially the ones who require a few dates to loosen up.Having been here for several stays of 1-2 weeks previously I certainly understand the time constraint. It was only on this go that I joined a dating site, largely because of what I read here at ISG - thanks, lads. :) It's been a resounding success; well beyond my wildest dreams, and I dream big.

Pip, let me ask you this: you read the "nice girl" profile, one where she is looking for an LTR and includes "no play" or "not for fun only" in it, what is your approach? Something like this: "Hi, I'm Pip. I really enjoyed reading your profile. I especially liked reading ________. It seems to me we're kindred spirits / share similar interests / whatever. I'd like to get to know you better, and I'll be in town from _______ to _________. I want you to know I'm looking for adult fun at my hotel, and if you're interested in having a great time together I want to continue this conversation with you. Looking forward to your response." Or is it something somewhat or entirely different?

Sam 14
09-12-13, 17:38
I've met some of those nice girls you are talking about and a couple of them turned out to be nice and horny. My line was, I'm hesitant to commit to a relationship because I don't know how long I will be staying here. But I sure would love to start kissing you. Sometimes they got something they need to let loose and if they get a little gift in the end everyone is elated. Can't hurt to try. And then of course if it don't work, like Pip says, say I'm sorry if I have offended you and wish you luck with your search.

X Man
09-12-13, 18:11
Some great posts about the inscrutability of the online profiles. And let's not forget about those mood swings that all women have. LOL.

I take the indirect approach, but emphasize that my holiday is short, age difference, etc, while at the same time flirting or asking question that might give me some info, as well as give them some info about my intent: Have you dated a foreigner before? Can you swim, and then the followup, What color is your bikini?

If they have kid I ask the age, and is it cute like mommy, and then the age of my son. Some will ask about the motherof my kid, some don't. I'm divorced, so I don't mind the question. I don't much like the WHY question which they often ask.

I've had some great dates, and a few disasters. The two examples below were both gals who seemed to expect some kind of "serious" relationship.

I have been criticized for meeting the parents. (does anyone remember AC?). I met the parents, grandma, some aunts and uncles, and then took her to my room and had my way with her. ONe of the cutest gals I've ever stripped down. Great big eyelashes. I feel sorry for the Western guy who married her because she was a conniving, scamming B I CH. Some of the old timers here might remember that I was teased for the plaid bell bottoms pants. Actually, I was wearing some loose fitting checked shorts, and the action came so quick I never got them off. Pictures were posted years ago.

Then there was the time I was in a sleazy Mango ave go go bar. And the hottest dancer in the bar asked me,"Are you on DIA. I think I know you."

Pip Jaeger
09-15-13, 10:52
Pip, let me ask you this: you read the "nice girl" profile, one where she is looking for an LTR and includes "no play" or "not for fun only" in it, what is your approach? Something like this: "Hi, I'm Pip. I really enjoyed reading your profile. I especially liked reading ________. It seems to me we're kindred spirits / share similar interests / whatever. I'd like to get to know you better, and I'll be in town from _______ to _________. I want you to know I'm looking for adult fun at my hotel, and if you're interested in having a great time together I want to continue this conversation with you. Looking forward to your response." Or is it something somewhat or entirely different?Hut, generally I do use a similar approach to what you've written although I'll start with a compliment about her silky looking hair, pretty eyes, cute smile, etc. Or make a comment about something in the background in one of her pics; something that will make them smile and get a positive "vibe" going. If a girl is emphatic in her profile about "not for fun, no players, only serious" (and if her favorite book is the bible) , then I usually move on; although even with some of them I'll hit the interest button and see what happens.

Don't forget, a lot of these girls copy and paste their profiles; especially the 18-21 year olds and those with a poor education. I've had a few who've written "no players" later tell me that they meant they wanted guys who were really coming to visit and not "online" players. And some who've written "serious" tell me basically the same thing; they wanted guys who were serious about seeing them in person and that they didn't necessarily mean serious when it came to a LTR.

IM Punter
09-19-13, 16:28
Well, I finally got a profile up in DIA. Its like being a kid in a candy store. So many beauties. Even the self professed LB's are good looking (not that I lean in that direction).

I did chat with a few potentials, although I suspect its too early. Other comments on this board seem to suggest its best to establish your line up shortly before your visit. It's hard though (no pun intended) when all the candy is in front of you not to start working on the short list.

My profile is now somewhat innocent looking for friends type of thing no mention of adult entertainment.

I did have one 24yo sweetie respond to me with "be my lover". As I chatted with her, she asked my budget. I asked her what she meant, and its 5K for 24 hours. I guess she is either a scam or a professional working girl.

I chatted with another 19y / o who volunteered to "tour me". No mention of adult entertainment, should I broach that in the chat before we meet.

Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?

Anyway, this is fun all by itself. Hard though (pun intended) knowing its a few weeks before I go.

Hutsori
09-19-13, 18:26
Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?Have come across several who don't mention so in their respective profiles, yet do so in the messages quickly enough. Make the most of the opportunity; thank her for the interest, let her know you're not bent that way, and ask her to introduce her "real girl" friends to you.

You may want to add a sentence to your profile stating you're not looking to meet ladyboys.

Amanut
09-20-13, 00:32
I chatted with another 19y / o who volunteered to "tour me". No mention of adult entertainment, should I broach that in the chat before we meet.My most successful methods have been to ask them what is is their fantasy of the first thing they want to do when they get to your room. I have reported before that a mature lady who I had only met in chat said she wanted to go straight to the shower with me and make love in the shower as she had never done that before. She was true to her word. I had been delayed in my arrival so when I met her at the gate of the resort we likely only exchanged two sentences on the way to the room. She stripped down straight off and we went directly to the shower which broke the ice nicely. It was her fantasy so I suffered through letting her live it out. LOL.

On a side note, when they offer to "tour you" don't expect them to have been to the places they have in mind let alone explain it. They will likely want to go to places they have only heard of so you may want to ask if they have been to these places then do your own tourism reading. Boracay is a big one they have all heard of but most can't afford so they see it as a chance to see someplace new and relax in an air conditioned room with a soft bed.

Once I am totally comfortable and we have agreed to meet and sleep together I ask them to calculate their cycle so we be able to properly plan and both be able to enjoy ourselves. This may seem silly but you would be surprised how many Filipinas have no idea how to calculate their cycle. Hell a forty three year old well educated woman who worked in the heath sector told me she thought she was too old to get pregnant. I asked if she still had her periods. She responded yes.


Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?

This is a tough one. I do state in my profile I am not interested in LBs. I tend to shy away from the very very attractive ladies suspecting they may be LBs. If I do respond I say you are very attractive, I am surprised you aren't married and have children already. If they are coy I then gently pursue whether they want to have children and if not why not. I also lead into the discussion that I have had a vasectomy so can't get them pregnant. If they still are coy I may eventually ask the question straight out.

One of the big hints that I have picked up on is any reference in their profile to no discrimination. My experience has been that it seems LBs often reference discrimination.

Just my thoughts.

Red Kilt
09-20-13, 01:00
SNIP.

On a side note, when they offer to "tour you" don't expect them to have been to the places they have in mind let alone explain it. They will likely want to go to places they have only heard of so you may want to ask if they have been to these places then do your own tourism reading. Boracay is a big one they have all heard of but most can't afford so they see it as a chance to see someplace new and relax in an air conditioned room with a soft bed.

Once I am totally comfortable and we have agreed to meet and sleep together I ask them to calculate their cycle so we be able to properly plan and both be able to enjoy ourselves. This may seem silly but you would be surprised how many Filipinas have no idea how to calculate their cycle. Hell a forty three year old well educated woman who worked in the heath sector told me she thought she was too old to get pregnant. I asked if she still had her periods. She responded yes.

SNIPGreat comment Amanut.

I agree with everything you said.

Re the Boracay comment. Yes; many girls have not been there before but just as an aside 60% of all visitors are actually locals ie filipinos (from Tourism statistics) , so it would not be too difficult to encounter a woman who already knows the ropes.

Re the absence of sex education;

I have been banging on about this here for ages. I hope guys reading your comment take notice of it.

Ask a lot of questions before doing the deed uncovered. If you are vasectomised then no worries (apart from the STD risk) , but it's still an interesting topic to explore. Guys will be amazed at how little most women know about their own bodies.

X Man
09-20-13, 03:26
For the sake of accuracy, what she said is basically true. The chances of getting pregnant nosedives in the late 30s. Some infertility clinics won't even accept women over 40.


a forty three year old well educated woman who worked in the heath sector told me she thought she was too old to get pregnant. I asked if she still had her periods. She responded yes.

Amanut
09-20-13, 04:52
For the sake of accuracy, what she said is basically true. The chances of getting pregnant nosedives in the late 30s. Some infertility clinics won't even accept women over 40.

LOL. For the sake of accuracy my mother had three babies after age 40. My father was a frisky fart LOL.

My point was that this is a woman who works in the health field and still has her periods, but who emphatically stated that she could not get pregnant because she was too old. This is simply not true.

Because I have had a vasectomy I really don't care if they can get pregnant, but part of how I try to organize where I land and when is by making sure that lady I am meeting will not be in the middle of their period when I arrive. In fact the more fertile the better. None of those pesky spotting issues. I landed in CDO unannounced and called the shower lady a couple of weeks after our first meeting. She is also mid forties. She came straight to my hotel room horny as hell. Yup, I didn't call and landed in the middle of her period. I still I did her, but with her on top and made her clean me up before I moved or looked down. I am grossed out by the sight of the aftermath. It feels good, I'm just grossed out. It wasn't all bad though. We went to Camiguin Island the next day and for the next couple of days she learned how to do BBBJ with CIM while I played with her clit. She had never done CIM before and said "tastes good". Some lucky man is going to owe me a trainers fee. lol

Unlike the medical lady, she knew how to calculate down to the minute. In fact in our first meeting she asked me to wear a condom as she was fertile. Yes I did her in the shower with the appropriate shower cap on. She said her concern was that my vasectomy was twenty years old and may give out. In hindsight I think that was her way establishing if she could trust me as on my last two trips she has not brought the subject up again.

Wicked Roger
09-20-13, 09:03
Re the Boracay comment. Yes; many girls have not been there before but just as an aside 60% of all visitors are actually locals ie filipinos (from Tourism statistics) , so it would not be too difficult to encounter a woman who already knows the ropes.

Re the absence of sex education;

I have been banging on about this here for ages.

Guys will be amazed at how little most women know about their own bodies.Have had the Boracay chat many times and when you say there are better places to visit IMHO than an overpriced commercialized place they look in wonderment and ask where etc. As RK said most visitors are locals and I would prefer take the cuties to Palawan, Camiguin etc than Boracay

RK. You have been banging on for years and the girls still want to see you LOL.

As for knowing little about their bodies etc, this is generally true IMHO and I see it as the duty of a concerned visitor (ie me) to the country to ensure greater education of their bodies. RK know I am doing this in a small way whenever possible LOL.

Wiild
09-20-13, 20:03
Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?Many of those profiles states something similar to: "Looking for some-one open-minded, who accepts me for who I am"

I sometimes ask them "do you take it in the ass" if they say say yes without hesitation, they are most certainly ladyboys.

Wicked Roger
09-21-13, 05:27
Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?As has been advised before, you should chat and cam with them prior to making any arrangements. Seeing them and hearing them tends to be a giveaway. If they say they have no cam bite the bullet and don't meet them, you may miss out on a cutie (but there are plenty around) but you (worse case scenario IMHO) invite one back to your room and then find out your date is LB.

IM Punter
09-21-13, 17:00
Been building a short list of girls I want to keep contact with over the next few long weeks, I have some phone numbers, Skype ym and fb. I am amazed at how easily the 18-21 why / o give out their contact info. Anyway ill keep the list alive and clarify my intentions (bed, fun, bed, fun. With some companionship thrown in)

I wish DIA had a way of searching women who you matched their search parameters. Ie I only want to see profiles of girls looking for 18-80 (or 50. 80). Also it would be nice to save your search parameters in DIA

X Man
09-22-13, 15:53
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I'm not goint to argue since I wasn't there, but what was presented earlier, has somehow changed. Earlier it was stated that a 43 yr old female health professional didn't think she could get prgnant. I suggested that her observation was accurate. Amanut has changed the story to read that she "emphatically stated that she could not get pregnant.". Blah, blah.

I roll my eyes and wonder, did Amanut learn his debate skills on the Interenet?


LOL. For the sake of accuracy my mother had three babies after age 40. My father was a frisky fart LOL.

My point was that this is a woman who works in the health field and still has her periods, but who emphatically stated that she could not get pregnant because she was too old. This is simply not true.

Because I have had a vasectomy I really don't care if they can get pregnant, but part of how I try to organize where I land and when is by making sure that lady I am meeting will not be in the middle of their period when I arrive. In fact the more fertile the better. None of those pesky spotting issues. I landed in CDO unannounced and called the shower lady a couple of weeks after our first meeting. She is also mid forties. She came straight to my hotel room horny as hell. Yup, I didn't call and landed in the middle of her period. I still I did her, but with her on top and made her clean me up before I moved or looked down. I am grossed out by the sight of the aftermath. It feels good, I'm just grossed out. It wasn't all bad though. We went to Camiguin Island the next day and for the next couple of days she learned how to do BBBJ with CIM while I played with her clit. She had never done CIM before and said "tastes good". Some lucky man is going to owe me a trainers fee. LOL.

Unlike the medical lady, she knew how to calculate down to the minute. In fact in our first meeting she asked me to wear a condom as she was fertile. Yes I did her in the shower with the appropriate shower cap on. She said her concern was that my vasectomy was twenty years old and may give out. In hindsight I think that was her way establishing if she could trust me as on my last two trips she has not brought the subject up again.

Bob Bowie
09-23-13, 01:41
Been building a short list of girls I want to keep contact with over the next few long weeks, I have some phone numbers, Skype ym and fb. I am amazed at how easily the 18-21 why / o give out their contact info. Anyway ill keep the list alive and clarify my intentions (bed, fun, bed, fun. With some companionship thrown in)

I wish DIA had a way of searching women who you matched their search parameters. Ie I only want to see profiles of girls looking for 18-80 (or 50. 80). Also it would be nice to save your search parameters in DIAAs I prepare for my next trip, I have noticed many of he ladies shifting from yahoo messenger to Skype. I guess it is time for me to bite the bullet and download Skype and learn its functions.

Red Kilt
09-23-13, 02:34
As I prepare for my next trip, I have noticed many of he ladies shifting from yahoo messenger to Skype. I guess it is time for me to bite the bullet and download Skype and learn its functions.That's because Yahoo has bought Skype and plans to close YM and move all the functions to Skype.

The girls would have seen that message and so joined Skype instead of YM.

So far there has been no further notice about this switch happening.

Anyway BB, Skype is easy and user friendly and can function in exactly the same way as YM

Soapy Smith
09-23-13, 04:03
Anyway BB, Skype is easy and user friendly and can function in exactly the same way as YMWhat are other people's experiences in skyping between the Phils and other, more technologically-equipped countries? Mine have not been very good, regardless whether I'm in the states trying to skype with others in the Phils or in the Phils trying to skype back to the states. Attempting to participate in meetings back in the states, I have on some occasions given up and called in by phone and had my stateside partners tune me in via speaker phone. Cameras freeze up, odd static background noises cut into the sound, and sometimes the connection just totally quits. I have surmised that the internet service on the Philippine end is just too unreliable to sustain the fairly wide bandwith required for streaming video. I'm convinced distance is not the problem, because connections to and from Korea, Taiwan, and China seem to work okay. Others' observations?

Red Kilt
09-23-13, 04:36
What are other people's experiences in skyping between the Phils and other, more technologically-equipped countries? Mine have not been very good, regardless whether I'm in the states trying to skype with others in the Phils or in the Phils trying to skype back to the states. Attempting to participate in meetings back in the states, I have on some occasions given up and called in by phone and had my stateside partners tune me in via speaker phone. Cameras freeze up, odd static background noises cut into the sound, and sometimes the connection just totally quits. I have surmised that the internet service on the Philippine end is just too unreliable to sustain the fairly wide bandwith required for streaming video. I'm convinced distance is not the problem, because connections to and from Korea, Taiwan, and China seem to work okay. Others' observations?I regularly Skype with my kids and my brothers in Australia on Skype with live streaming and have few worries.

On occasion, (as you said in your post SK) it does freeze or flicker but mostly (I mean 90% of the time) it is OK.

I have my own modem (and wi-fi unit) in my condo (via PLDT) so that might make a difference.

If you are trying to connect with a person in an internet cafe in the Phils it might be different. Same if you are using any hotel wi-fi system.

I use my system to watch my Australian football games live streaming and the picture is extremely clear and without any glitches.

Hutsori
09-23-13, 04:55
i'm convinced distance is not the problem, because connections to and from korea, taiwan, and china seem to work okay. others' observations?in and of itself distance is rarely the problem for terrestrial transmission. once on the fiber backbone data travels at the speed of light. typically the problem will be due to the last mile (or so) at each end when the data is on copper wire; problems may be due to the gauge, the age, and the care / condition of it. i'm sure you've seen all the bundles of wires dangling from utility poles in metro manila except bgc and makati. if your skype partner lives in an older building that has old copper that's been frequently spliced in the past this will degrade the transmission. if the wire's jacketing has become brittle and allows in moisture this will cause problems. if your partner is in an area (urban or rural) with poor comm infrastructure this will be a cause. and of course network over utilisation, often experienced in the evening, will result in latency.

i should mention that most computer owners fail to properly care for their computers. anti virus software definitions aren't updated. people download malicious code that runs in the background and consumes cpu cycles. the inside of pcs aren't cleaned, resulting in a nice pile of dust and dirt causing over heating.

IM Punter
09-23-13, 05:30
Ok so I have a few irons in the fire over on DIA, a couple of girls clearly specified money was important. One is 19 and her pic is pretty good so I might make her my first pop of the trip. I did run into my first out and out scam from a 25 year old girl I was chatting. Poor girl reports her family is in Bohol and she is stuck in Manila as a nanny and is crying every night to go home. She said her air fare is 5000 p (which I promptly refuted after I looked up Cebu pacific. Anyway the poor dear promised if I sent her the $ for air fare, she would make it up for me in Manila when I arrive. Of course I promptly ran down to western union and sent the money. NOT!

I am wondering what kind of scams other girls might try. For example. If a girl agrees to meet me at the mall and later we agree she comes to my hotel do they do the "angry boyfriend" knocking on the door trick once she's in the hotel (and called bf from her cell while freshening up in the C / R.

IM Punter
09-23-13, 05:37
Another question about DIA girls. I am chatting with a few 18/19 yo girls. I feel a bit perverted but it will pass. I have previously done the walk of shame with girls in their mid 20s, but am I likely to run into problems with really young looking 18. 20 yo's. I definitely will be doing an I'd check for age before meeting in my room. Ill likely be staying at Oxford suites or city garden makati.

Wicked Roger
09-23-13, 16:01
Another question about DIA girls. I am chatting with a few 18/19 yo girls. I feel a bit perverted but it will pass. I have previously done the walk of shame with girls in their mid 20s, but am I likely to run into problems with really young looking 18. 20 yo's. I definitely will be doing an I'd check for age before meeting in my room. Ill likely be staying at Oxford suites or city garden makati.Perverted is a great felling LOL (well it is for me). The walk of shame in the Philippines is never that IMHO, is normal. Just sit in the lobby of any hotel for an hour one evening and watch the passing traffic. Sometimes the same girl will return with a different guest.

As for I'd yes a good idea if unsure. Oxford Suite is in need of TLC IMHO. See earlier reviews. If prices are good think about St Giles of City Garden.

Best idea os to meet them in the lobby and pay their taxi fare. Nice touch and many cuties appreciate that.

IM Punter
09-24-13, 01:57
OK, now I know I am getting closer in spirit to the Philippines. One of my DIA chat mates whom I have been trading messages with, tells me that she needs a new cell phone so I can reach her when I get there. Of course I sent the money NOT. I told her I couldn't do it and I haven't heard from her since.

I look at this process as a giant filter. Start with 100 girls on the list. Drop a few because they turn out to be LB. Drop some more because they don't like "Perberts", drop some because on first glance they looked good but I read the fine print and noticed the 150lb weight, drop some because they invent some story for money in advance. Drop a few more because after chatting for a while, they then ask for money for sick aunts / mothers / kids etc.

At the end of it, I hope to end up with a few diamonds or gold nuggets. Time will tell, and I'll report my findings.

IM Punter
09-24-13, 02:03
Oxford Suite is in need of TLC IMHO.Yikes. I booked it with the non-refundable rate. I'll bring my cockroach swatter.

IM Punter
09-25-13, 20:12
Since I can't do a real field report until I actually get reach Phil soil, I'll have to write up my ongoing experiences with DIA.

A caveat, that I know its kind of early (my visit is at end of Oct) to be setting up a DIA line up, but I am a novice at this and I can't resist searching for beauties ahead of time for my lineup.

I have been messaging (via DIA) with several girls. Two, one 18 and one 19, in particular look fairly promising on the face of it. Both profess to want to spend time with me and travel with me when I get there. They have given me their phone numbers and Yahoo I'm. I suspect they are using a internet cafe or something because they are only on DIA for a short time every 12 to 24 hours. They haven't really asked me any questions. I asked one if she would mind that I was 50 ish, and the reply was that age doesn't matter when I get there. They are both studying in college.

I tried Chikka texting to one, but didn't get a reply. I am told it by Chikka it costs them 1. 5 peso to reply to a chikka mssg, but they might think it costs more because they know I am in the US.

I tried YM ing them both. I got one short reply from the 18yo nothing from the 19yo. They only seem to communicate with me by DIA. Another odd thing is. If I ask two or more questions in the chat box, they usually only answer the first one.

I know anything can happen in the next 4 weeks but I am wondering if the above behavior is pretty normal for serious DIA girls.

As detailed in another post, I have had a few scams offered me. Yesterday I got a message from a girl whose profile said she was 20 and her name was blah blah, however in her message she said she was 24 and her name was foo foo. WTF?

Another general observation is that many don't seem to understand what I have asked or said. I told one girl that I hadn't booked a hotel yet (I lied. I have booked the Oxford unfortunately). She then asked me what the hotel name was. WTF?

My approach so far is to message prospective girls with a "Hi, xxxx. Your picture / eyes / hair / etc. Are / is awesome / beautiful / pretty. I am coming to Manila at the end of October and I am looking for someone to spend some time with me. I am a respectable (can I lie here?) , respectful (the truth) , generous (qualified) man.

I do seem to be getting a fair number of "DIA chattees" with this, but haven't gotten to 2nd base (actually talking on skype / yahoo) or 1st base (on cam) yet.

I'd like to ask the pros on the board how am I doing so far? Should I be maintaining contact with my possibles until the blessed day arrives when I can say I'm there and come on over? Should I cease DIA operations until a week before I arrive?

I am also wondering, whats the best "first contact" scenario with the DIAees. I notice on this board some members even have the girl meet them at the airport or come to the hotel. Is this recommended.

How do I address the fact that if they come to the hotel, they should expect to be naked within 2 seconds of entering the room. And, given my state, another 2 seconds and the first pop is over.

Thanks guys for reading my lenghy blathering (my posts can get windy) , and I know I am asking more questions than actual field reporting, but I'll make sure I document my experiences as they happen.

Member #4387
09-25-13, 23:54
A caveat, that I know its kind of early (my visit is at end of Oct) to be setting up a DIA line up, but I am a novice at this and I can't resist searching for beauties ahead of time for my lineup.

I have been messaging (via DIA) with several girls. Two, one 18 and one 19, in particular look fairly promising on the face of it. They are both studying in college. Chikka it costs them 1. 5 peso to reply to a chikka mssg.

I tried YM ing them both. I got one short reply from the 18yo nothing from the 19yo. They only seem to communicate with me by DIA. Another odd thing is. If I ask two or more questions in the chat box, they usually only answer the first one. I know anything can happen in the next 4 weeks but I am wondering if the above behavior is pretty normal for serious DIA girls. Another general observation is that many don't seem to understand what I have asked or said. I told one girl that I hadn't booked a hotel yet (I lied. I have booked the Oxford unfortunately). She then asked me what the hotel name was. WTF?

I do seem to be getting a fair number of "DIA chattees" with this, but haven't gotten to 2nd base (actually talking on skype / yahoo) or 1st base (on cam) yet.

I'd like to ask the pros on the board how am I doing so far? Should I be maintaining contact with my possibles until the blessed day arrives when I can say I'm there and come on over? Should I cease DIA operations until a week before I arrive?

I am also wondering, whats the best "first contact" scenario with the DIAees. I notice on this board some members even have the girl meet them at the airport or come to the hotel. Is this recommended.

How do I address the fact that if they come to the hotel, they should expect to be naked within 2 seconds of entering the room. And, given my state, another 2 seconds and the first pop is over.

Thanks guys for reading my lenghy blathering (my posts can get windy) , and I know I am asking more questions than actual field reporting, but I'll make sure I document my experiences as they happen.If I am an expert or not I don't know but I am in fairly known territory when we are dealing with datingsitesgirl in general and phil datingsitesgirl in perticular. I have met and fucked hundreds of them (in general) over the years and now close to 100 plus / minus a in phils and maby I can give you some heads up / new ideas. I still read many forums and everyday I pick up some new angels I haven't thought of so it is very educational in a mongerperspective.

You are dealing with 18 and 19 yrs old girls claiming to be college students. Hm well might be true might not be true. It seems you have problem sometimes making them understand what you write and that simply means they probably don't understand english very well. Me too got surprised beeing a nube in Phils and I arrived with the impression that atleast here (oposite to Thai) language barriers where non existent. WRONG. What we can run into in these datingsites sometimes are poor uneducated girls from the province barly finishing elamentary school and they don't know english very well. Dealing with such young girls seems to be a walk through the candystore and me too made initial contacts with a 18 year old stunning looking girl on my first trip into Manila. What a disaster it was. This girls are so shy towards me so she barly don't dear to say hello or look me in the eyes. She did not have any social experience at all except from heavily use of datingsites. Her english was crappy and obviously she was poor like hell (so I felt realy sorry for her). Well she showed up and we fucked but it was pretty much like fucking a corpse. She did not starfishing or anything. She simply did not know how to fuck. I hope your young talent are more socialy / sexually trained. So my advice would be not to deal with such young girls. Ofcourse you can get an idea if you webcam them and get to speak with them.

My approach is very direct and my profiles leaves nothing out to their imagination. When they read my profile they know I want to sex them and nothing more. My profile would sometimes look like this: I want to meet MANILA / MAKATI based women (no LB / Shemales) for adultfun. As I know many girls want read the profile very well I keep it simple. I say when I will be in town and I am not interested in any kind of relationship. And very important I state there will be no sending of money. I fire up my profiles 2 weeks before I arrive and from my experience I have plenty of time to arrange a large fleet of girls ready to meet me. The problem by starting to early (I did so myself in the beginning) is that it is very timeconsuming to nurse the contacts and they need to be nursed. Remember these girls have loads of punters msg them everyday so you have to make them interested in you. On my behalf I early in the communication do webcamsession so I can see them and control if they know any english at all. If looks and languageskills are missing then I cut them off. If she's a stunner with no english ability it is still doable (as I am not going to talk a lot to them anyway).

I guess the reason they don't reply your text is it cost them money. 1.5piso is nothing but for poor people I guess it is something. I find that to be the reason you don't get any answers. Another reason could ofcourse be they have to many punters hitting them and they control their comu better using DIA (free).

I am to blame having girls met me at the airport. My recent trip I was met by a datingsitegirl and a few trips ago I was met by 2 girls (threesomeplay). It is convenient but others may argue that one but to me it has worked out quite nicely. This is girls with own cars.

I think you should get the comu from DIA and on to Skype / YM and / or possible webcam as soon as possible so you don't waste your valuable time on scammers or guys at a internetcafe.

The reason the girls only ask simple questions (and not answering your many questions in the same order as you ask them) I would think is due to either they are stupid as a piece of bread or they have to many contacts to nurse (once again many of these girls chat to hundreds of people). I think the latter is more likely.

But from my point of view knowing what I know now. Skip the youngest girls or atleast do some research if they are in the game / have any experience dealing with foreigners face to face. Do webcamsessions quickly so you don't waste your time. Make it clear what you want. Mostly I make them come to my hotel as I don't like travel in the caothic Manila (you sometimes have to meet them in lobby so you can pay for taxi or atleast promise you cover their travelexpenses). Don't mention money but as a general rule atleast I will compensate them for sex as to feel good about myself and many girls in phils need money.

It is a fun game and I realy enjoy the datingsiteworld. I also mix in freelancers and normal girls as well. I think you so far are doing ok.

IM Punter
09-26-13, 06:20
It is a fun game and I realy enjoy the datingsiteworld. I also mix in freelancers and normal girls as well. I think you so far are doing ok.Thanks Skogis, this makes a lot of sense. I got a little carried away by the game and it is fun. Now I'll lay low on DIA for a bit and start again in a couple or three weeks. I get what you are saying about the web can. Also I'll update my profile to be more specific (eliminate those 50yo spinsters writing me).

CalvinH
09-26-13, 08:07
That's because Yahoo has bought Skype and plans to close YM and move all the functions to Skype.

The girls would have seen that message and so joined Skype instead of YM.

So far there has been no further notice about this switch happening.

Anyway BB, Skype is easy and user friendly and can function in exactly the same way as YMI think you are confusing Yahoo with Microsoft who moved MSN messenger to Skype.

Pip Jaeger
09-30-13, 12:04
This is part of the text from a 21 year old Pilipina's profile on one of the dating sites; cracked me up. In the info part she also said she had no kids.


I am a friendly person, reliable and a hard worker. I enjoy walking in the park, riding my bike, having fun with my friends, going to picnics, skiing and spending my time with my wonderful grandchildren. I was a witness to their first steps, their first teeth, when they started to say their first words.To witness everything she's said she witnessed, then I guess she had her kid when she was about 6 and her kid must have done the same, hahaha.

And skiing? Water skiing perhaps, but I think the original meant snow skiing, LOL. Don't they read what they post before they copy and paste or take over a friend's profile?

Member #4351
09-30-13, 12:58
I'd like to ask the pros on the board how am I doing so far?I have said many times that you guys should try to exercise some restraint. You come off as desperate looking for girls so far ahead of a trip, plus you run out of things to talk about. Many of the guys on here have had girls let them check out the messages they are receiving. They receive hundreds of messages. Most are from lying losers who will never travel to the Philippines. Why should the girls believe you and waste their time? Put up a profile two weeks ahead of your arrival, and let the girls know you will send an SMS from a local sim as soon as you arrive. That's all there is to it. Too much complication and too much drama.

Red Kilt
09-30-13, 13:12
I think you are confusing Yahoo with Microsoft who moved MSN messenger to Skype.Yeah Calvin.

My bad. I realised my mistake but hoped nobody would notice (insert red faced emoticon)

Sammon
09-30-13, 23:55
I have said many times that you guys should try to exercise some restraint. You come off as desperate looking for girls so far ahead of a trip, plus you run out of things to talk about. Many of the guys on here have had girls let them check out the messages they are receiving. They receive hundreds of messages. Most are from lying losers who will never travel to the Philippines. Why should the girls believe you and waste their time? Put up a profile two weeks ahead of your arrival, and let the girls know you will send an SMS from a local sim as soon as you arrive. That's all there is to it. Too much complication and too much drama.I concur. Beter yet log on when you are here and send messges saying you are in town. Ask for their phone numbers or give your phone number. You will be surprised how many wants to meet since they already know you are in town. Another thing is these girls change their phone numbers often and many have dual sims.

Also they may seem interested in you before but have met or fucked somebody else and not interested in you anymore. Hornier girls are easier to meet quickly and fuck.

Meeting, liking and clicking with a girl is open to various factors. But out of many few will be very good.

Likemflat
10-04-13, 00:02
I'm hopefully going to make it to Manila soon, and I was thinking of getting a 1-month membership to Filipino Cupid. There seem to be more girls than on DIA and frankly for the small investment it gives me more options. I also like the multiple photos.

Anyway, I have a simple question-does it work if you try to pay for FC via a prepaid visa or amex gift card? Anyone tried it?

IM Punter
10-04-13, 01:47
i concur. beter yet log on when you are here and send messges saying you are in town. ask for their phone numbers or give your phone number. you will be surprised how many wants to meet since they already know you are in town. another thing is these girls change their phone numbers often and many have dual sims.

also they may seem interested in you before but have met or fucked somebody else and not interested in you anymore. hornier girls are easier to meet quickly and fuck.

meeting, liking and clicking with a girl is open to various factors. but out of many few will be very good.yep what you guys are saying makes good sense to me. i let my newbie enthusiasm carry me away. my profile has been put to bed for now.

one thing scares the hell out of me. one 19y / o (according to her profile on dia) i was chatting with and is seemingly enthused about meeting looked pretty young on her fb page so i asked her if she was 19. she said she was 17 and age doesn't matter. so of course i won't be chatting or seeing her but it seems like i dodged a bullet there, either from a scam or le honey trap or something. i may be a dom but **** is definitely out.

Ebauche
10-04-13, 04:29
I'm hopefully going to make it to Manila soon, and I was thinking of getting a 1-month membership to Filipino Cupid. There seem to be more girls than on DIA and frankly for the small investment it gives me more options. I also like the multiple photos.

Anyway, I have a simple question-does it work if you try to pay for FC via a prepaid visa or amex gift card? Anyone tried it?Used to work, circa 2009-2010, I think even in 2011. As of now in 2013 it doesn't at least with prepaid cards purchased in the USA. Wherever you buy your prepaid card, read the packaging carefully to determine if it can be used internationally. That's the problem.

Even funding a PayPal transaction with a pre-paid card fails.

Sammon
10-05-13, 12:27
It certainly looks like DIA girls have gotten smarter. Good looking girls are putting age range as up to 30 or 35. It used to be age does not matter. Lots of girls want serious relationships. Before they did want serious relationship but up for fun all the same.

Those who want compensation are asking 4000 to 5000 for one night. Of course some come down to reasonable level but this visit I had two girls stuck on 4000. Province girls have also learned the game. When asked if they will

stay with me they start asking how much money will I give them. It used to be money was never discussed before.

Few girls are willing to stay with conditions like sleep only. First time I am hearing this. I asked them if they are virgins and they replied no. Do not know if it is a ploy to get money with no damage. I like to discuss everything

beforehand before meeting her. Some even told me why I want just sex only without relationship.

Overall dating site girls are still available but their standards have gone up. Before they were quite happy to be with a foreigner hoping for good compensation or regular visit boyfriend. Maybe all these reports of foreigners getting

arrested in the news has educated the girls.

I still had fun with few new girls and had to call my older contacts to fill in because of failed meetings with some new girls. Maybe it is harder to find naive, young girls in the future.

Member #4351
10-05-13, 17:15
it is harder to find naive, young girls.Yes, I'm importing from other island to Cebu by air. Luckily the plane tickets are unbelievably cheap. No big deal if things go down the tubes.

Member #4387
10-06-13, 15:27
I am a longtime user of various datingsites and I have to say this online world have so far treated me generously with a lot of decent to brilliant pussy. I use these sites actively fireing them up 2 weeks before my travels. There are ofcourse no exact science what is correct or not regarding this so I guess every bloke find his own way. This timespan have I found to suite my needs the best.

I did with interest browse through Sammons latest report in this thread and I support his view when it comes to the profiles itself and the change in them. Maby it is a new trend out there and girls are starting to be more selective in their pickings. My experience so far is there are no problem getting girls even if they only wants guys between (25 to 30). I am very early in my fourthies by the way. Maby they just try in a way to limit oldies to hit them profiles. Well nuf said.

I will arrive soon back into Makati and I have done my usual datingsiteworkroutine building a nice portefolio of girls willing to meet up. What have been a new twist this time is the word "adultfun". Surprisingly many girls have misunderstood this word and what excact they thought it did mean I don't know but for sure it does not mean going to an amusementpark. I have never experienced trouble regarding this word and girls have caught the mainidea there will be bedactivity. Hm why? I use the same text in my profile as before? I hit on same category of ladies? Maby it is just a bad flow I got into this time. No big drama but when you have to use one extra msg to explain the word adultfun atleast I feel my interest dropping bcs of this hazzle. I have also experienced a few drop outs after explaining the word means having sex so this is waste of time and energy.

Anyone else out there having trouble with the word adultfun?

Sammon
10-06-13, 16:28
Yes, I'm importing from other island to Cebu by air. Luckily the plane tickets are unbelievably cheap. No big deal if things go down the tubes.This time I had chatted with three possible girls outside in provinces.

1. A model looking tall beautiful girl from Davao. Her requirement is she has never been to Boracay and if I take her she will be up for anything. I was hesitant taking any girl on vacation without first finding out if we click together.

I told her she should come to Manila first and then we can make plans to Boracay if we hit it off. She agreed on that. But the problem was I had only two and a half weeks of trip this time and If I did meet her it will take.

At least one week gone. Did not want to risk it as I had many other local girls lined up. So I told her maybe next time. Her profile in DIA is since removed.

2. A supposedly " virgin " from zamboanga wanted to give me her cherry in exchange for supporting her studies. She wanted 6000 pesos for a month for 2 years. She said she will take care of her studies as well as help her family.

She had a good body but the face is not attractive. She had dark complexion which she said is because she sells ice cream daily to school kids on the street.

She told me her family is very much against her selling the cherry but she said this is the only way she can finish her studies. She was willing to come to Cebu for a few days.

Although I had supported few girls before I did not want to be tied to this girl and passed on it.

3. Girl from Ozamiz was very willing to meet me in Cebu. She wanted to stay with me for a week. Never been away from her home. This one looked like she was hoping blissful marriage. Even when I told her I do not want to marry her she told me I will change my mind after I meet her. Looked too clingy and decided not to take the offer.

Yes, there are quite a few province girls willing to meet and stay. Yes, the airfares are cheap. But when I fly in somebody I am stuck with them min four days whetrher the sex is good or not. Local girls can be gotten rid of quick.

If things do not go well.

WestCoast1
10-06-13, 18:12
This time I had chatted with three possible girls outside in provinces.

1. A model looking tall beautiful girl from Davao. Her requirement is she has never been to Boracay and if I take her she will be up for anything. I was hesitant taking any girl on vacation without first finding out if we click together.

I told her she should come to Manila first and then we can make plans to Boracay if we hit it off. She agreed on that. But the problem was I had only two and a half weeks of trip this time and If I did meet her it will take.

At least one week gone. Did not want to risk it as I had many other local girls lined up. So I told her maybe next time. Her profile in DIA is since removed.

SNIP

Yes, there are quite a few province girls willing to meet and stay. Yes, the airfares are cheap. But when I fly in somebody I am stuck with them min four days whetrher the sex is good or not. Local girls can be gotten rid of quick.

If things do not go well.Sammon, like your reports. But your reports

Are starting.

To look.

Like this. Too many hard returns, not enough real paragraphs. Hard to read and understand them. Your last report had 11 tiny paragraphs, where 3-4 would do the job.

Member #4351
10-07-13, 01:10
But when I fly in somebody I am stuck with them min four days whetrher the sex is good or not.Not me. Last time I brought one in early on a Fri. And had her going back on Sat. This time I'm being more generous, she arrives on Sat, and leaves on Monday; two days.

IM Punter
10-09-13, 21:12
Not me. Last time I brought one in early on a Fri. And had her going back on Sat. This time I'm being more generous, she arrives on Sat, and leaves on Monday; two days.If you import a girl how do you ensure she actually meets you at the airport and doesn't get of the plane and hop on someone else's car (and bed) , especially when we can't wait inside the airport to greet them.

X Man
10-10-13, 13:25
Assuming she actually arrives, wouldn't you have her phone number? I've only done this with women I knew and trusted and it's never turned out bad. Not yet.


If you import a girl how do you ensure she actually meets you at the airport and doesn't get of the plane and hop on someone else's car (and bed) , especially when we can't wait inside the airport to greet them.

Member #4351
10-10-13, 13:39
If you import a girl how do you ensure she actually meets you at the airport and doesn't get of the plane and hop on someone else's car (and bed) , especially when we can't wait inside the airport to greet them.I send the hotel car, they get a kick out of being treated like a princess.

Wicked Roger
10-10-13, 14:06
Assuming she actually arrives, wouldn't you have her phone number? I've only done this with women I knew and trusted and it's never turned out bad. Not yet.I agree with X Man, don't do this with someone who you have had an internet 'relationship'. Do with someone you know and can trust.

I fly Cebuanas to Manila at times to party but I trust them, I take some to other Asian countries etc, all can be trusted and that IMP is the key word, something I don't think you get by chatting on the internet.

Sammon
10-10-13, 14:18
If you import a girl how do you ensure she actually meets you at the airport and doesn't get of the plane and hop on someone else's car (and bed) , especially when we can't wait inside the airport to greet them.First of all the girl is from the province and flying for the first time. Secondly she is so scared of left alone in spite of your promise to meet her at the airport. Thirdly she has talked with you and knows you and trusts you enough to stay with you. So it is highly unlikely she will meet somebody on the plane and go with him.

No, you do not send the hotel car to these girls first time. You personally meet them. You do not want hotel driver asking awkward questions to the girl. As everybody knows Phi guys are downright nosy.

Last time in Cebu the hotel reception girl asked me in front of the girl what relationship I have with the girl. It maybe normal for them.

Once I had arranged arrival times close to each other in Cebu but my flight was delayed 30 minutes. The girl was going crazy texting and calling me thinking I left her. In spite of me saying to her that she should just wait for my arrival she got so scared.
Of course I made her forget everything in bed. Since that time I always go a day before and meet them personally at the airport or ferry sometimes next day. Yes I have had girls come from places who can
take a ferry to Cebu. Some girls are really scared of plane. One girl from Zamboanga wanted to take ferry to Manila. I dissuaded her doing that. Her reason was she wanted to see the sights along the way.

Soapy Smith
10-10-13, 16:42
Once I had arranged arrival times close to each other in Cebu but my flight was delayed 30 minutes. The girl was going crazy texting and calling me thinking I left her. In spite of me saying to her that she should just wait for my arrival she got so scared.

Of course I made her forget everything in bed. Since that time I always go a day before and meet them personally at the airport or ferry sometimes next day. Yes I have had girls come from places who can.

Take a ferry to Cebu. Some girls are really scared of plane. One girl from Zamboanga wanted to take ferry to Manila. I dissuaded her doing that. Her reason was she wanted to see the sights along the way.Thanks for this post Samm. Obviously there are some girls who get out of the provinces and become very worldly. But Samm's two experiences here suggest how provincial and unworldly some of these girls are. Lots of Filipinos in their 50s and more have never flown, even those who came in from the provinces to Manila 20 or 30 years ago. Major issue is cost. So a girl like this coming to meet you is perhaps going through more of a culture shock than is a first-time Westerner visiting the Philippines.

Sammon
10-10-13, 16:59
Thanks for this post Samm. Obviously there are some girls who get out of the provinces and become very worldly. But Samm's two experiences here suggest how provincial and unworldly some of these girls are. Lots of Filipinos in their 50s and more have never flown, even those who came in from the provinces to Manila 20 or 30 years ago. Major issue is cost. So a girl like this coming to meet you is perhaps going through more of a culture shock than is a first-time Westerner visiting the Philippines.You will be surprised how closed is the world for many of these girls. Many have never gone more than 20 miles from their home. For some parents are very strict and they are allowed to date only local boys. They have time curfew.

As well.

So it is not easy to convince them to take a flight in order to meet you. They do not like to lie to parents. But somehow they are successful in convincing their parents and can get away.

One girl told her parents that she has been called for a interview for a job in order to be with me. Sex wise these girls are novice at best but are quick learners.

Ebauche
10-11-13, 16:18
Sex wise these girls are novice at best but are quick learners.I nominate this for "Statement of the Year!"

MangoDB
10-12-13, 07:39
Guys,

I have been trying to sign up with DiA and they always closed my account. Not sure if this is common with people here on the board.

I had an account with the past but do not remember the credential and now they think I am creating another account. I tried all new combination of email / phone / place etc but no success yet. Is this common? Just checking if people here has any experience facing difficulty recently.

Sam 14
10-12-13, 17:09
Damnit, did it again. I posted about the time my fake FB account name got linked to my real one, even with different emails, but I didn't learn.

This is so elementary but I want to put out the warning anyway. I wanted to check a message but instead of just going online and login, I installed FB on my Phil cell phone. Well within 90 seconds I got a message from the gay pimp in Dumaguete saying "how you find me". I must have accidentally ok'd a contact search that went out to every number in my phone.

By the time I got to my apartment to try to fix it, I had a dozen or more confirmed friend requests and some comments on pictures. This was on my real account with my real name.

Also, it's been talked about here repeatedly, but again if you choose to use this thing at least make sure you go in all your privacy settings every once in a while and have a look.

SuperMuda
10-13-13, 01:40
Guys,

I have been trying to sign up with DiA and they always closed my account. Not sure if this is common with people here on the board.

I had an account with the past but do not remember the credential and now they think I am creating another account. I tried all new combination of email / phone / place etc but no success yet. Is this common? Just checking if people here has any experience facing difficulty recently.I'm having the same problem, I even tried from different computers.

Hutsori
10-15-13, 14:13
All, I've been a member of FC for a year now and am now renewing a 3-month subscription; on this go I see the membership terms have changed and auto-rebilling is now the default. This is just a heads up for those of you who are currently members or who are considering it. FC does permit one to opt out of auto renewal at any time. Simply select 'Membership' from the Settings menu to change your billing preferences.

Fslag338
10-15-13, 17:40
I'm having the same problem, I even tried from different computers.I had the same. Only thing what works (found out they check on several things: change everything: CP, email, picture, username, pw etc etc.

Fslag338
10-15-13, 17:51
I don't get the point of flying girls in (unless you are in love or looking for a relationship). Most of us will stay in Manila or Cebu, or a few other places all with at least half a million people. So at least 50,000 girls in the "desired age range".

Use a few dating sites, FB and load your phone with enough pesos for a million texts. And I can't imagine why you want to fly anybody in. Meet as many as you want. Stroll the malls. Chat up shop girls. Whatever. You actually see them immediate in real life (without days-weeks of chatting) and so do they see you. Pursue only the best leads."Come meet me tonight for a beer and some music and bring a few friends. But make sure they are hot". Isn't it all about efficiency and effectiveness? .

Member #4387
10-15-13, 18:32
I don't get the point of flying girls in (unless you are in love or looking for a relationship). Most of us will stay in Manila or Cebu, or a few other places all with at least half a million people. So at least 50,000 girls in the "desired age range".I agree it is not realy a point doing so when you are in a country where pussy is available almost everywhere. What I can understand though is the excitement of doing a new wrapping into the datingroutine. In this context it is understandable. My own mainstream dating during my mongerspree in phils would in general be like this; I stay in my apartment popping kamagra gel and tequila while girls come and go. In late evening I would look up a nightclub for some regular brides or a freelancevenue (often they are combined) and next day same all over again.

Now and then I can start feeling bored and want to try sth new. We can call it dating with a new angel then a fly in girl could be just the right thing to do bcs it is something a bit different.

This makes me aroused to actually find myself a fly in date next week when I am back in Makati. Just for the fun of it. Other angels could easily be to bring your date to Macau, Singapore, Beijing etc for a fun weekend, visit her back at her place, if she has a car let her pick you up at the airport and many more ofcourse. Once again just to get some rest from the usual routine (arrive in hotel, fuck, leave and another coming).

Altered Ego
10-27-13, 17:54
Having studied the most recent 50 pages of the forum I am still confused about how to use the dating sites. Would any members care to enlighten me by answering any of my questions below?

(By the way to give you some background: I have been to the Phils several times so I know the place fairly well. I used Filipina Heart a few years back but had no success whatsoever – so far all my girls have been barfines, and I will continue to barfine, but was hoping to mix things up a bit on my next trip by finding some contacts via the dating sites. One 'problem' of only using barfines is that as I result I have become accustomed to only spending time with pretty girls, even though I am not a young good-looking guy, and therefore I am very choosy.)

1. Should I contact girls on the dating sites, or should I expect them to contact me?

2. Because I live in Europe the time difference means that it is not convenient to interact with the girls in advance. Do any other members have this problem and if so, have you found a way around it?

3. I want to make it very clear to any potential contact very quickly that I just want somebody to 'sleep' with (and possibly hang out with). I want her to know that in exchange for this I will pay her for her time (or buy her gifts if she prefers it that way). Have any members got any ideas about what is the best way of making my intentions absolutely clear? For example are there any 'key phrases' I can put in my profile which will let them know what I am looking for, and increase my chances of meeting more contacts of this type?

4. Are there any 'shortcuts' I can follow to minimise the amount of time and effort I need to expend to make some contacts?

Answers to any of the above questions, or indeed any other general advice, would be appreciated.

D Cups
10-27-13, 18:40
[QUOTE=Altered Ego; 1489026]Hello AE, I use DIA a lot and this is what I do for your consideration (varying degrees of success).

1. Should I contact girls on the dating sites, or should I expect them to contact me? Initiate the contact. Most of the time the women that contact me are too old or ugly for me. I like sexy girls with big boobs in their 20s.

2. Because I live in Europe the time difference means that it is not convenient to interact with the girls in advance. Do any other members have this problem and if so, have you found a way around it? No, just deal with it.

3. I want to make it very clear to any potential contact very quickly that I just want somebody to 'sleep' with (and possibly hang out with). I want her to know that in exchange for this I will pay her for her time (or buy her gifts if she prefers it that way). Have any members got any ideas about what is the best way of making my intentions absolutely clear? For example are there any 'key phrases' I can put in my profile which will let them know what I am looking for, and increase my chances of meeting more contacts of this type? If she agrees to meet you at the hotel or go to hotel after meeting someplace else it's a given.

4. Are there any 'shortcuts' I can follow to minimise the amount of time and effort I need to expend to make some contacts? Some dates are more needy than others but they all need to be reminded of time and place. They're notoriously late.

Other opinions may vary. Good luck. I've met some keepers on DIA and had a great time.

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JPF
10-27-13, 19:47
Having studied the most recent 50 pages of the forum I am still confused about how to use the dating sites. Would any members care to enlighten me by answering any of my questions below?

1. Should I contact girls on the dating sites, or should I expect them to contact me?

2. Because I live in Europe the time difference means that it is not convenient to interact with the girls in advance. Do any other members have this problem and if so, have you found a way around it?

3. I want to make it very clear to any potential contact very quickly that I just want somebody to 'sleep' with (and possibly hang out with). I want her to know that in exchange for this I will pay her for her time (or buy her gifts if she prefers it that way). Have any members got any ideas about what is the best way of making my intentions absolutely clear? For example are there any 'key phrases' I can put in my profile which will let them know what I am looking for, and increase my chances of meeting more contacts of this type?

4. Are there any 'shortcuts' I can follow to minimise the amount of time and effort I need to expend to make some contacts?1. Both. If someone who interests you makes contact then that is a plus because you can build on their interest.

2. You don't say where in Europe so I'll use the average which is UTC+1. The PI is +9 so 8 hours ahead. Thus 8am-4pm your time is 4pm-midnight there. You should be able to find a convenient time to interact in that range.

3. If you have read back 50 pages then you will have seen several examples of profiles that people use to signify that they are interested in "adult fun" and not marriage.

4. Unfortunately there are no shortcuts (other than getting lucky) and you can expect to spend a lot of time with no guarantee of success. Making contacts is easy. Getting to actually meet someone who meets your specifications is the challenge. If you want to minimize your time then I would minimize the time you spend on each contact. At any sign of reluctance or a mismatch in your goals then cut them loose and move on.

Hutsori
10-27-13, 22:31
I used Filipina Heart a few years back but had no success whatsoever – so far all my girls have been barfinesI don't know that particular site. By "no success" do you mean no one contacted you? Or no one was receptive to your invitation to join you at your hotel? Or someone met you at public place but refused to go to your hotel later?


3. I want to make it very clear to any potential contact very quickly that I just want somebody to 'sleep' with (and possibly hang out with). I want her to know that in exchange for this I will pay her for her time (or buy her gifts if she prefers it that way). Have any members got any ideas about what is the best way of making my intentions absolutely clear? For example are there any 'key phrases' I can put in my profile which will let them know what I am looking for, and increase my chances of meeting more contacts of this type?In your profile you should mention you're GENEROUS. If you actually like mall wandering and taking a girl shopping for gifts then you ought to state so. Make sure to mention you're looking for adult excitment in your hotel room as well as hanging out in public such a clubs, restaurants, wherever.


4. Are there any 'shortcuts' I can follow to minimise the amount of time and effort I need to expend to make some contacts?Efficiency is found in a variety of ways.

Firstly, your profile should be clear what you are looking for. Your profile will be reviewed by an admin so you can't directly write "I'm looking for a p4p." Your profile is to filter out those who don't match your age and physical requirements as well as those who are genuinely looking for an LTR. No need to waste time with them. You'll want to correspond with those who are in your geographic area, also. Keep in mind the pickier you are the lower chance of success. Many, if not all, guys want stunner who is 18-22, and these girls get dozens of messages everyday.

Copy and paste is your friend; there's no need to be writing new and unique messages in the beginning. Once you have a girl genuinely interested you can devote time to more personal messages; some are willing to meet straight away whilst others need more cultivating. I have written 6 replies that I use all the time.

You will encounter a few types of girls. There are those who read your profile and messaged you with something more than "Hi!". Even better when they acknowledge what you're looking for and are game for it. They are your most likely candidates. The next type are those who may have read your profile and send a "Hi" message or a canned "interest" or "favourite" message by clicking a button on the webpage. They like your look but may believe you're an LTR potential. To this girl you ask: "Have your read my profile and do you understand what I'm looking for?" The last type are those you contact.

Girls who have been members for a while have a sharp BS detector, but still many of them hold on to the illusion that prince charming is the next message away. Many receive ridiculous marry-me messages several times day. They've learnt that the I'm-thinking-of-coming-to-the-Philippines guy isn't. They've learnt that many of the guys who want to see them on cam just want to get out of their clothes. It it to your advantage to state the dates you'll be here. Even better to state that you are frequently in the Philippines so you want to have a friend you can spend time with often. You may want to mention you're kind, polite guy who respects women and won't ever ask them to take of their clothes on cam.

If you initiate contact by sending a message and don't get a reply after a few days send one more friendly message. If nothing is returned move on; don't waste time with dead ends. I'm sure there are those here who will argue that persistence pays off, and it does, but for the sake of efficiency I recommend avoiding this.

In addition to the lies a lot of women receive abusive messages from angry guys. Being polite yet direct will set you apart from these oafs.

Amanut
10-28-13, 00:40
I found that posting a picture of me in the Philippines at a well known location has helped. I posted my picture from the Chocolate Hills. They then know you have been there and it adds credibility to your saying you are coming back. They get lots of messages from guys who are just playing them saying they are planning a trip to the Philippines but who never leave their mother's basement.

I have not paid a membership yet, but I found that Cherry Blossoms does not boot you after twenty minutes or half an hour of inactivity. Simply log in, bugger off and go to bed or work. When you come back, you will find that those who are interested will have tried to message you or sent you an interest. You can then go through them at your leisure, save the profiles that interest you, and discard those that are not what you are looking for.

As I said I have not paid for a membership yet, but just before I travel I will pay for a one month membership and see how it works out with my delayed contact after they have shown interest. Certainly it is saving me from investing a bunch of time up front.

MangoBob68
10-28-13, 00:41
Hello Gentlemen,

I've been reading the current posts and wish to concur with Hutsori and add a few suggestions.

The best suggestion I have read here is wait until 4 weeks or less to start searching for "dates" on the websites. DIA and pinalove are free to make direct contact with the ladies.

If you use the pay sites. One month is enough to build a list. Then use YM or Skype to contact when your membership ends.

Yes, copy and paste a good introduction is good idea and save time. But so they know you are not pasting. Write a phrase like. " are you still in Cebu? And if you not know where they actually live. Ask them where is the nearest airport. OF COURSE USE THEIR NAME OR I'd NAME.

Be very careful not to send a lady a message you copied and paste but forgot to change the name! Hahahahahaha.

In your introduction. Tell them you have been there before and give them an idea when you are coming. This will increase the likely hood they write you back,

If you know just a few basic words of tagalog. They like that "ka musta ka = hello and Salamat po = thank you. I like Salamat po to read my message.

Good luck to all

Member #4387
10-28-13, 10:34
From the last BMs you have gotten strong and good advices to which I mostly agree. I just have some addings to make from my humble experience (I am a heavy user of datingsites since I don't pick up girls through the EWR system and been so for 10+ yrs or so in many countries mostly I SEA).

TWO weeks before my arrival into Phils I fire up my profile (s) and start on the groundwork brushing up my profile and add a few extra new pics. Good idea with pics from phils by the way but I never did that so I don't know the value but I believe it adds extra credibility into your profile. But two weeks is by far enough time to build yourself a nice fleet of willing girls according to my exp that is. Remember to screen the girls by live webcam as soon as possible ro rule out the uglybugly ones right a way as it is a vaste of time.

ADULTFUN I have lately experienced some trouble by using. When I tell some girls it means two adults having sexual pleasure they seem very surprised. I have for this trip lowered the meaning of it and I explain it means we just kiss, cuddle and have a drink. I have also used the word romantic play. I have found out that some pinays are realy sensetive by use of rude words. Words girls from my region almost use in their daily talk is not "allowed" here. For the more hardcore material of girls here it does not seem to matter ofcourse.

PINALOVE is the only datingsite I chose to meet girls from this trip. Maby they are more naive than girls in other sites and that is why I did meet some new "problems" refering to what I mention above. But good selection of women also here.

TIMEDIFFERENCE you can actually let work to your benefit. Normal naive pinays fo to bed at reasonable hours. The girls working bars and partygirls stay online through their iphones and them you see online in wee hours. In other words pinays online when the rest of country sleeps are mostly play for pay girls with a few callcenter girls I might add. Also pinays online during daytime can mean they don't have work and wants to work on you to get something extra (but ofcourse this is by far no exact science).

I have met a few bargirls this way and I don't give a shit what they actually do as long as I don't have to meet them at the bar and through the EWR system.

DRINKS are my way to ease the mood when in room. I just stack my refrigirator with Tanduay Red Mirage and after a couple of bottles kissingprogram starts and we are good to go. Hardcore girls want maby more harcore stuff to drink but then it is a sure thing even without anything. I will add I don't get the girls drunk by force, it is their choice, but I see only a more relaxed session coming up when the girls get some alcohol in their blood.

CHOCOLATES are a must as a gift after session and a good motivation to some girls as they simply love this not from phil chocolate.

PLS READ PROFILE are my first words in my profiles headline this tim(it can also be others eyecatching words people can not misunderstand as "GENEROUS EUROPEAN GUY 40 COMING TO MANILA NOW", "SEXY GIRLS LOOK OUT YOU DONT WANT TO MISS THIS PROFILE", "MAKATIGIRLS ONLY" etc etc)..
BUT whatever you write in your profile some girls barly read it and i tend to also a bit down in my profiel encourage the girls wanting to meet me to write more than "hi" and also i do encourage them them to look at location from where i want the girls to come from. Far to many girls from Davao and Cebu contact me no matter what and far to many still say only "hi, i am sexy gurl"

STRETCHMARKS and camera angels are important to me. If you skip the livewebcam screening make them atleast send you photos from all possible angels there is to rule out chubby and fat. I have a big thing with stretchmarks so i have to see bellyarea before even want to meet girls. Pinays are experts to get them look beautiful in photos. My warning pic from girls in swimsuites with stomach covered(to me warningsign for stretchmarks). Pics of girls in saggy clothes(warningsigns for fat/chubby). Sometimes if they have baby from before i simply ask if they have stretchmarks and so far no one have lied to me..

Amjeck
10-28-13, 14:19
Many, if not all, guys want stunner who is 18-22, and these girls get dozens of messages everyday.This is the hardest and most sought after market. It's even hard to find these in the bars, especially the ones in their late teens!

Sammon
10-28-13, 17:27
Having studied the most recent 50 pages of the forum I am still confused about how to use the dating sites. Would any members care to enlighten me by answering any of my questions below?

(By the way to give you some background: I have been to the Phils several times so I know the place fairly well. I used Filipina Heart a few years back but had no success whatsoever – so far all my girls have been barfines, and I will continue to barfine, but was hoping to mix things up a bit on my next trip by finding some contacts via the dating sites. One 'problem' of only using barfines is that as I result I have become accustomed to only spending time with pretty girls, even though I am not a young good-looking guy, and therefore I am very choosy.)

1. Should I contact girls on the dating sites, or should I expect them to contact me?

2. Because I live in Europe the time difference means that it is not convenient to interact with the girls in advance. Do any other members have this problem and if so, have you found a way around it?

3. I want to make it very clear to any potential contact very quickly that I just want somebody to 'sleep' with (and possibly hang out with). I want her to know that in exchange for this I will pay her for her time (or buy her gifts if she prefers it that way). Have any members got any ideas about what is the best way of making my intentions absolutely clear? For example are there any 'key phrases' I can put in my profile which will let them know what I am looking for, and increase my chances of meeting more contacts of this type?

4. Are there any 'shortcuts' I can follow to minimise the amount of time and effort I need to expend to make some contacts?

Answers to any of the above questions, or indeed any other general advice, would be appreciated.1. Although you get some messages from girls first I would ignore them. They are usually from experienced girls. I would send messages to girls I like exclusively on their pics. No time to waste reading their profiles. I ignore.

Everything they say including their target age group. Simple hi, hello or how are you should be your first message. If you are already in Phi message like " I am in Manila now and looking for company " is good.

I have done this many times and by afternoon had the girl. If the girl does not reply do not send any more message.

2. Phi girls are online most of the time these days. Internet cafe are everywhere and some have their own computers. More and more they use internet phones to send messages. So time difference is not a problem.

3. Once the girl you are interested in messages back start asking to chat either by yahoo messenger or skype. Try to see them in cam although many girls do not want to show their cam. Do not mention sex immediately.

If you do that you will drive some girls away especially if they have never been with a foreigner. They will think you could be a rough guy and afraid of you.

Certain hints like can you stay with me etc is good. These girls are not stupid so they know what it means. Some girls will say they will stay with you but no sex. Ignore them saying there is no fun in that. You will be surprised.

How many say no and change their mind. Unlike in western countries do not try to use alcohol to break the barrier. Once they drink too much they are not fun, maybe puking all over.

4. How to minimize your efforts? One way is if you are already in Phi. Plenty of guys promise the girl but never set foot in Phi. Next best thing is to say you will take care of them without mentioning money. If they come out

And ask how much you will pay negotiate with them to fix the price. Do not chase any girl even if she is gorgeous. Make a list of the girls with their phone in your order of priority. Text all and settle on the most promising one.

Irrespective of what they said before in chats has no value. When you are in town they put new restrictions and new demands.

Hope this helps.

Altered Ego
10-28-13, 19:54
I just wanted to say a big thank-you to all of the members who have provided answers to the questions I posted below.

D Cups, JPF, Hutsori, Amanut, MangoBob68, Skogis and Sammon:- All of your input is much appreciated, and your comments are both informative and insightful.

I will try my best to follow your suggestions.

IM Punter
10-29-13, 05:56
Note: I am not sure if this first report should be in this forum, however, since my trip so far has been all about DIA, here it is.

Finally made it to Manila, a couple of nights ago. Well, the advice you guys gave about DIA was bang on. I started too early and the prospects I thought I had four weeks before, evaporated. Instead, the last week got pretty heated up and I managed to line up line about 10 dia prospects. Unfortunately, this has backfired, because they all knew I was arriving on Friday and now I am contending with messages from the ones I haven't seen yet and like an idiot I promised each of them I would text them on the night of my arrival. My take away from this for next time (hopefully is one) , not to give an exact date of arrival.

I had been in continous touch via skype with one girl at each leg of my long many legged trip so she knew when I touched down. She was at my makati hotel 20 minutes after checkin. 4'8" 90 lbs 21 years old, on my scale a 7 (I know old timers here would rate her lower. But I just arrived from land whale USA, so she was gorgeous.) After the initial hug she settled into my bed and fell asleep.

Unfortunately, I couldn't do the same. First I was on eastern time, second I had a rather large erection, and third I was pretty wound up after the flight. I tried half heartedly to wake her, unsure if it was bad etiquette or not. I was debating charging her half of the room rate for using my bed to flop in. Actually, eventually she did wake up and things started to happen. Overall, I wasn't overly impressed. The DFK wasn't very good and we didn't fit well together in other ways. So guys, am I the only one that has noticed that filipina's aren't quite configured the same way in pussy dept as western girls. I noticed this last time as well, that things don't work well for mish, better for cowgirl or doggy, because pussy is rather lower that I am used to. So anyway, some DFK, dining at the Y and BBBJ started things off, an aborted attempt at mish followed by cowgirl deflated Mr. Johnson. We didn't go for a second round later because we both slept until about 11AM after which we walked down to greenbelt 3 for lunch. And sure enough, when given a choice of restaurants, my new friend chose a Filipino restaurant we where shared sinigang baboy (very good). Turns out she only eats Filipino foods, an observation folks made about many girls here after my last trip.

Initially I was told she works in a mall, howevery during the course of our lunch conversation, I discovered that she works in a restaurant, well, no actually a resto bar. Well no, actually a bar on burgos. So although she wasn't the naive pinay I thought she was, nor the unprofessional I was looking for, I did get an overnighter for far less than if I had bf'd her.

I should mention that although a monetary figure wasn't established before the meeting, it was hinted that she had money problems. I slipped 2000 piso inside a bag with large bar of Cadbury Milk Chocolate, which seemed to be about right because I got texts from her the next two days, so much so that in spite of myself I saw her again, but thats my next story.

Another note: although my early start in DIA wasn't productive, it did give me some experience with the whole game, and game it is.

Hutsori
10-29-13, 08:05
An entertaining FR. Thanks.

A question and two comments. What time did you arrive that caused the girl to promptly fall asleep?


Unfortunately, this has backfired, because they all knew I was arriving on Friday and now I am contending with messages from the ones I haven't seen yet and like an idiot I promised each of them I would text them on the night of my arrival. My take away from this for next time (hopefully is one) , not to give an exact date of arrival.Absolutely. Did you tell the girls you're here for holiday or business? If holiday that's a mistake. Your time is her time because you have nothing else to do. Always tell the girl you're here on business because it's a convenient out. You may have to do a bit a play acting, such as dressing and leaving the hotel for your "business meeting", but once she's off in the jeep you can U-turn back to your hotel. This works very well if you're having two or more meetings a day.


And sure enough, when given a choice of restaurants, my new friend chose a Filipino restaurant we where shared sinigang baboy (very good). Turns out she only eats Filipino foods, an observation folks made about many girls here after my last trip.It was "sure enough" because you allowed it to be so. The concept of face isn't discussed much here, but Filipinos have it, and they're loathe to err. They'll go with the safe, known choice, which is Filipino. I think many Filipinas do best when then are given few, if any, choices over anything, especially over meals. Though Manila, and Makati and BGC in particular, offer a wide array of cuisines most Pinays aren't well acquainted to them. For the most part they aren't fussy eaters and will happily try many dishes provided she has your guiding hand giving recommendations. It allows you much to talk about whilst reading the menus, it builds rapport, and most importantly she'll conclude you're a caring guy, which is to your benefit if you want to see her again.

D Cups
10-29-13, 14:29
Let us know how it goes, AE. I, too, learned some things from others' approaches, esp. Samm and Huts.


I just wanted to say a big thank-you to all of the members who have provided answers to the questions I posted below.

D Cups, JPF, Hutsori, Amanut, MangoBob68, Skogis and Sammon:- All of your input is much appreciated, and your comments are both informative and insightful.

I will try my best to follow your suggestions.

Gajith
10-29-13, 15:01
This page MUST be bookmarked somehow; which has some good advises. As a paid member of FC, I made so many good friends but never talked any words about SEX Lolz. May be I am little unproductive. I don't know. But Many had given me their numbers and willing to meet me.

Gajith
10-29-13, 15:11
Be very careful not to send a lady a message you copied and paste but forgot to change the name! Hahahahahaha.Create a notepad and keep it open when you are replying to girls; if you feel a sentence can be a generic one, copy and paste it in the notepad for future easy usage.

Member #4351
10-30-13, 06:23
I obtained one of my girl's password for her FC account. I was amazed at all the YOUNG studly guys who are Platinums and Golds on the site. I'm afraid the good old days of not much competition are long gone. This must be why there are more and more girls only wanting contacts from 35 year olds and under. A few years ago, they wouldn't have found many who fit that criteria. These young guys (who judging by their photos could easily find girls where they live), seem to be getting fed up with U.S. and European girls' attitudes and ready to spend money to find an alternative.

Wicked Roger
10-30-13, 06:39
I obtained one of my girl's password for her FC account. I was amazed at all the YOUNG studly guys who are Platinums and Golds on the site. I'm afraid the good old days of not much competition are long gone. This must be why there are more and more girls only wanting contacts from 35 year olds and under. A few years ago, they wouldn't have found many who fit that criteria. These young guys (who judging by their photos could easily find girls where they live), seem to be getting fed up with U.S. and European girls' attitudes and ready to spend money to find an alternative.Let's hope we have more economic power than them, David more maturity etc as the 'young bucks' on this forum don't like to pay.

And I hope the young bucks believe that shaved is best LOL.

Cunning Stunt
11-04-13, 02:07
Got myself a sex pest. A quite fuckable Manda 20 year old facebook friend who I originally met on DIA. Last 5 text messages:


blowjob
hi.cum to my mouth pls.
Hi bby. Can u fuck me
I want to suck u and swallow your cum
Hi.Can we met so that I can swallow your cum?Been going on for days now. Sometimes I answer and we have some pretty hot dialogues but my heart isn't into cybersex, although she says that she gets off on it. I suspect that she will not take it any further than texts but she seems to be getting braver recently so who knows? But surely this could only happen in The Philippines? A man in his fifties being sexually harassed by a 20 year old girl. World on its head or what?

P. S Yes, I thought it was a TS / guy too so, early on in our weird friendship, I asked her to video call me on FB, which she did and its the same girl as in her FB pics. Wouldn't get naked for me though as she claimed there were people in the house.

BlygdTuktaren
11-04-13, 06:27
I've been Writing some to a really cute girl in her mid twenties, she claims she is still living with her family at home, is studying, working and go to the Church every Sunday. She seem to be a decent girl, kind.

I am thinking of seeing her with some more serious thoughts in my mind when visiting in April, one thing kind of bother me though, that she also have market this option in you're profile in DIA that you want to meet for "other".

I am thinking that if a girl marked this option it means that she is open minded to meet guys for one-night-stands and that kind of stuff, am I right or wrong?

Of course I don't want to find myself in something more serious with that kind of girl.

Do you think DIA is the wrong place to look if you are thinking of something more serious?

But if so, then where shall you look?

Tally Wacker
11-04-13, 16:58
I've been Writing some to a really cute girl in her mid twenties, she claims she is still living with her family at home, is studying, working and go to the Church every Sunday. She seem to be a decent girl, kind.

I am thinking of seeing her with some more serious thoughts in my mind when visiting in April, one thing kind of bother me though, that she also have market this option in you're profile in DIA that you want to meet for "other".

I am thinking that if a girl marked this option it means that she is open minded to meet guys for one-night-stands and that kind of stuff, am I right or wrong?

Of course I don't want to find myself in something more serious with that kind of girl.

Do you think DIA is the wrong place to look if you are thinking of something more serious?

But if so, then where shall you look?Her marking the "other" option on her profile probably doesn't mean anything but it still doesn't assure she is non open minded. No matter where you initially meet your girl you will need to spend extended time with her and meet her family to determine if it will work out for a serious relationship. Filipina Cupid site might work out better for you than DIA but I have found naughty girls that are open minded on fc as well.

Not sure if you have been to Phil yet or is this your first trip? Either way you should not get locked in to one girl. Make a number of connections and meet them in person and if you click then spend more time with that girl.

Sammon
11-04-13, 18:08
I've been Writing some to a really cute girl in her mid twenties, she claims she is still living with her family at home, is studying, working and go to the Church every Sunday. She seem to be a decent girl, kind.

I am thinking of seeing her with some more serious thoughts in my mind when visiting in April, one thing kind of bother me though, that she also have market this option in you're profile in DIA that you want to meet for "other".

I am thinking that if a girl marked this option it means that she is open minded to meet guys for one-night-stands and that kind of stuff, am I right or wrong?

Of course I don't want to find myself in something more serious with that kind of girl.

Do you think DIA is the wrong place to look if you are thinking of something more serious?

But if so, then where shall you look?Many a men have made mistakes just chatting girls and forming serious or other opinions. Best thing is to hold your horses and of course your hormones till you meet the girl. Going to church does not mean anything.

If you are serious about meeting a Phi girl and marrying her do due diligence and meet as many girls as possible before making up your mind. In this forum many of us me included are looking for only fun and have gotten fun only with many of so called homely church going ladies.

Amanut
11-04-13, 18:10
I don't know if the link will post here, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTxAJgNfa0c. If it does not post go to youtube and search "Filipina Dating Sites; Tips & Warnings". Much of the information he posts there is similar to what has been posted many times here.

He also has other videos he has posted there that provide a lot of interesting information. I haven't looked at his web site, but based on his youtube posts I expect it will also have lots of good information.

http://www.youtube.com/user/enricosuave263?feature=watch