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Goferring
10-25-19, 08:54
Guys,

How do Skype usernames work?

Some girls have given their username as Lynn Sanchez others as live: fhfjfjfu3 dhd.

What's the difference? Do I need any more info to search / chat them?

Life was so much easier with phone numbers. 😁.

Thanks G.

Albert9989
10-25-19, 09:25
Guys,

How do Skype usernames work?

Some girls have given their username as Lynn Sanchez others as live: fhfjfjfu3 dhd.

What's the difference? Do I need any more info to search / chat them?

Life was so much easier with phone numbers. 😁.

Thanks G.Skype user name are a bit strange, you are right, there is the name which you can edit and change if you want, and the profile ID which you can't change and unique ID.

Just clic on the name and you will see an edit function to put the name of your choice.

Goferring
10-25-19, 09:30
Skype user name are a bit strange, you are right, there is the name which you can edit and change if you want, and the profile ID which you can't change and unique ID.

Just clic on the name and you will see an edit function to put the name of your choice.Thanks but I should have been clearer that I've been given several girl's usernames in two different formats: a recognizable name or live: xxxxxx. Are both searchable to enable me to contact the girls or do I need more info?

Thanks. G.

PedroMorales
10-25-19, 09:46
Guys, How do Skype usernames work?
Some girls have given their username as Lynn Sanchez others as live: fhfjfjfu3 dhd.

What's the difference? Do I need any more info to search / chat them?Thanks G.You type her into Skype search. Five Lynns come up, two of whom are in Pampanga where your babe is. You Hi both of them and problem solved. You do have to look at locations and make educated guesses as Lynn in Manilas, whose son is a welterweight boxing champ, might not take too kindly to being offered 1000 PHP for st.

Albert9989
10-25-19, 12:35
Thanks but I should have been clearer that I've been given several girl's usernames in two different formats: a recognizable name or live: xxxxxx. Are both searchable to enable me to contact the girls or do I need more info?

Thanks. G.Oh ok, yes, both are searchable, but sometimes its difficult to find the right one, sometimes I give my ID and its the girl who try to reach me.

Goferring
10-25-19, 22:41
You type her into Skype search. Five Lynns come up, two of whom are in Pampanga where your babe is. You Hi both of them and problem solved. You do have to look at locations and make educated guesses as Lynn in Manilas, whose son is a welterweight boxing champ, might not take too kindly to being offered 1000 PHP for st.Thanks for that PM. For the record, I get the same problems with FB Messenger if I'm trying to get more upto date photos etc. Millions of Lynn Sanchez's in cebu etc.

That's why girls without a unique identifier contact number / name drop down my list of priorities. It can be a drama just to contact them.

Thanks again. G.

Mr Enternational
10-28-19, 08:00
Y'all horny mfs need to cut this shit out!

"Alpharetta police said the man, who was not identified, started chatting with a woman he believed lived in the Philippines on the dating app called “Viber.”"

https://www.ajc.com/news/crime--law/alpharetta-man-scammed-out-nearly-sextortion-case-police-say/1GUqYsUjpUX56vvRoFyV6J/

Goferring
10-28-19, 09:19
Y'all horny mfs need to cut this shit out!

"Alpharetta police said the man, who was not identified, started chatting with a woman he believed lived in the Philippines on the dating app called Viber."

https://www.ajc.com/news/crime--law/alpharetta-man-scammed-out-nearly-sextortion-case-police-say/1GUqYsUjpUX56vvRoFyV6J/Some guys seem to love it but I've never been able to see anything positive coming from photos of me in an Asian red light district surrounded by tits out hookers, floating around the internet, totally out of my control.

Same for sending random dick picks with headshot selfies to random chicks. What could possibly go wrong?

Enjoy. G.

PedroMorales
10-28-19, 10:55
Y'all horny mfs need to cut this shit out! "Alpharetta police said the man, who was not identified, started chatting with a woman he believed lived in the Philippines on the dating app called Viber."

https://www.ajc.com/news/crime--law/alpharetta-man-scammed-out-nearly-sextortion-case-police-say/1GUqYsUjpUX56vvRoFyV6J/There have been cases of young guys committing suicide over this. That said, the amount of guys who send dick pics seems to be very high. Anyone asks me for stuff like that, I run. Still, Hicksville, where even the sheep are ugly, must be full of guys with wads to waste.

Goferring
10-29-19, 03:58
There have been cases of young guys committing suicide over this. That said, the amount of guys who send dick pics seems to be very high. Anyone asks me for stuff like that, I run. Still, Hicksville, where even the sheep are ugly, must be full of guys with wads to waste.I don't know an online girl who hasn't received numerous unsolicited dick picks or camsex requests. Perhaps that's why they are so impressed when fine, upstanding gentlemen like you and I arrive in town, cash in hand and ask them to bring the real thing to our hotel no e-porn required. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

Goferring
10-29-19, 05:24
A chick I know down in Abu Sayyaf territory said there was an earthquake today in Mindanao.I've noticed that a lot of the Mindanao girls online are smoking hot. This is especially true of the areas that are far too dangerous for a horny white monger to visit. The cynical side of me thinks that the girls use this location to be sure that John will not turn up on her door step unannounced and she can continue the Western Union, ooops I mean Long Distance, love affair uninterrupted. 😁.

They are gorgeous though. If only 10% are real its almost worth running the gauntlet.

Enjoy. G.

Engine Driver
10-29-19, 21:06
Interesting article on why mongers send pictures of their junk to their victims as an opening move.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/women-who-stray/201602/why-men-send-pics-their-junk%3famp

PilotPaul
10-30-19, 08:15
Interesting article on why mongers send pictures of their junk to their victims as an opening move.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/women-who-stray/201602/why-men-send-pics-their-junk%3fampLet's say, hypothetically, in the name of research you were to setup a dating site fake female profile. You will be disgusted at the types of opening messages that come flying through.

PP.

Engine Driver
10-31-19, 22:50
Now that my Philippines holiday is over, I should really be focussing on my work, making money, learning Spanish and getting my six-pack nice and toned so that I can fuck nice Latinas in the future. But since I had some time left on my PL subscription, I continued to play around with it (as you do) and connected quite randomly with a nice lady in a regional city. Normally, this is out of my geographic zone – I really only zoom in on Pampanga, Zambales and Manila for the easy to get hookers. This is my proven mongering trail. Why did I have a look at this regional area? And why did I seek a non-hooker? No fucking idea. One of life's great mysteries.

Anyhow, this chick is 37 years of age and is a senior executive with a large industrial conglomerate. She is well educated and speaks and writes near perfect English. She is not a hooker and does not have the hooker look. She is a single mom with a teenage daughter and has never been married. She would be upper middle class, but having a child out of wedlock has meant that no Pinoy of equal social status would seriously consider her as a prospect. She is a complete spinner without an ounce of fat. She is nice looking, but just in a normal Pinay way. I would not be embarrassed to show her around the streets of Sydney.

I did not ask, but I imagine her salary would be around 150-200,000 pesos a month. If I did fuck her, I would not be slipping her 1,500 pesos for trike money, nor ordering her a Chicken Joy value meal. Hahaha.

So far, her story stacks up, but as with all Pinays, there will be lots of skeletons in the closet. I haven't disclosed my current domestic situation, only that I'm "single" (hehehe, not quite). I've also shaved 10 years off my age. They're not big lies by Pinay standards, just being a little economical with the truth.

I've been chatting to her everyday by WhatsApp and voice call now for over a month and I think she is falling for me. I would be lying if I said I didn't have some feelings for her. Our convo covers everything. When it comes to talking about sex, it is just witty repartee and nothing explicit. I have not asked for nude pics like the rest of you horny mongers.

Now to my quandary. I am seeking the advice of mongers, sexpats, sexpests and serial on-line dating tragics to offer me some kind advice:

1. I have an opportunity to visit the Philippines again for "diving, snorkelling and business" later this year. Should I visit this lady in her regional city, fuck her a few times and then make an excuse that the match is unsuitable and leave? What could possibly go wrong? Hahaha.

2. Pull the plug on this right now and just bang cheap, nasty hookers in AC and Makati? And then only dream what it would be like to bang an educated, non-hooker.

Any advice or information would be gratefully received. And please don't go looking for her on PL so that you can take my place. Hahahaha. She said she's found the man for her and has closed her account. Hahaha.

Mr Enternational
10-31-19, 23:04
1. I have an opportunity to visit the Philippines again for "diving, snorkelling and business" later this year. Should I visit this lady in her regional city, fuck her a few times and then make an excuse that the match is unsuitable and leave? What could possibly go wrong? Hahaha.

2. Pull the plug on this right now and just bang cheap, nasty hookers in AC and Makati? And then only dream what it would be like to bang an educated, non-hooker.I don't get it. If your goal from the start is to already move along, then why mess with her at all? Maybe that is why I am still friends with a large number of non-pros that I have had sex with, because I don't use people in that manner. Plenty of hookers around if all you want to do is move along. Pussy is pussy. It does not matter where the owner is from or what the owner studied or how much money the owner has.

P. S. Fuck boring ass regional cities. I would have the person come visit me in a bigger city where there is more shit to do. But I guess if you only plan on fucking n fleeing and not much else, then maybe it doesn't matter.

Wicked Roger
10-31-19, 23:44
Anyhow, this chick is 37 years of age and is a senior executive with a large industrial conglomerate. She is well educated and speaks and writes near perfect English. She is not a hooker and does not have the hooker look. She is a single mom with a teenage daughter and has never been married.

Our convo covers everything. When it comes to talking about sex, it is just witty repartee and nothing explicit. I have not asked for nude pics like the rest of you horny mongers.


1. I have an opportunity to visit the Philippines again for "diving, snorkelling and business" later this year. Should I visit this lady in her regional city, fuck her a few times and then make an excuse that the match is unsuitable and leave? What could possibly go wrong? Hahaha.

2. Pull the plug on this right now and just bang cheap, nasty hookers in AC and Makati? And then only dream what it would be like to bang an educated, non-hooker..I usually look for MILFs ED but to see if the daughter is cute and then do a threesome or meet the daughter with moms approval LOL Has worked with one mother flying to Manila to meet me to 'look me over and see if suitable' (aka shag me) then allow me see her daughter. She had 3 daughters and 2 I enjoyed plus mom was in the mix also.

But this takes time.

As Mr E said bring her to a city don't go visit. If you visit you will stick out, she will be proud but if you then plan to dump her the chismis in her town will be bad (pinays just love to destroy others especially over foreigners) and she will feel humiliated.

So bring her to a large city as there you have more fun, she can enjoy and is less issue back in home town.

I did this with the lady and daughters and so much easier. I am still in contact with them now and she is still sexy slim and horny.

Also, when you do get (ask) for the nude photos please share LOL purely for research purposes of course (and I can share the odd MILF I have had in my time. All slim with amazing figures).

Engine Driver
11-01-19, 00:04
I don't get it. If your goal from the start is to already move along, then why mess with her at all? Maybe that is why I am still friends with a large number of non-pros that I have had sex with, because I don't use people in that manner. Plenty of hookers around if all you want to do is move along. Pussy is pussy. It does not matter where the owner is from or what the owner studied or how much money the owner has.

P. S. Fuck boring ass regional cities. I would have the person come visit me in a bigger city where there is more shit to do. But I guess if you only plan on fucking n fleeing and not much else, then maybe it doesn't matter.Curiosity man, curiosity. Same reason why you fuck that college dean. It's also more exciting fucking someone whose brain is bigger than the size of a peanut. Intelligence is the worlds second greatest aphrodisiac.

Sammon
11-01-19, 00:41
Anyhow, this chick is 37 years of age and is a senior executive with a large industrial conglomerate. She is well educated and speaks and writes near perfect English. She is not a hooker and does not have the hooker look. She is a single mom with a teenage daughter and has never been married. She would be upper middle class, but having a child out of wedlock has meant that no Pinoy of equal social status would seriously consider her as a prospect. She is a complete spinner without an ounce of fat. She is nice looking, but just in a normal Pinay way. I would not be embarrassed to show her around the streets of Sydney.

I did not ask, but I imagine her salary would be around 150-200,000 pesos a month. If I did fuck her, I would not be slipping her 1,500 pesos for trike money, nor ordering her a Chicken Joy value meal. Hahaha.

.Likewise but not quite I have been chatting with a very pretty 33 year old ' Virgin ' supposedly. She wants to save herself for marriage in spite of my offer of a nice fun filled vacation. So far no breakthrough. But will keep trying to break her will.

LuvAsianTang
11-01-19, 01:34
I got a PM asking about any police contact while mongering and thought that it would be an interesting discussion. The question was had I experienced any police contact while mongering or otherwise in the Philippines? Was there corruption?

Outside of routine contact with police and similar officials, I. E. Customs etc, I have not had any contact with any law enforcement agency in about 18 months total time in the Philippines. Closest was I would routinely drive past a PNP check point neat Butuan City when I was there a few years ago. I simply showed my foreign driver license and bill of sale (the registration was pending). After about 3 passes thorough the check point they just started waving me through, never any hint that they wanted donations to their Christmas fund or anything like that. (I also rode my bicycle past the check point most mornings and was never stopped, just a smile and a wave through.).

This is partly due to my mongering style, I hunt exclusively on the dating apps and am not a bar goer or even a late night out type.

Anyone have any contact with police? Positive or negative?I don't hang out in the mongering areas so it most likely is different there, but in my experience the police are pretty friendly. I walk a lot so I cross a lot of police controlled intersections. Usually I greet them with a " Hello, handsome and a smile " they get a kick out of my greeting and usually stop trappic so I can cross. Now most of them see me coming and stop trappic even before I greet them. I never have any problems with them what soever.

Dg8787
11-01-19, 02:34
Likewise but not quite I have been chatting with a very pretty 33 year old ' Virgin ' supposedly. She wants to save herself for marriage in spite of my offer of a nice fun filled vacation. So far no breakthrough. But will keep trying to break her will.I don't understand why someone would "have to" seduce someone who wants to remain a virgin for her special man. Why would you keep trying? To break her will? You made your offer and she declined.

Dg8787
11-01-19, 02:41
Now that my Philippines holiday is over, I should really be focussing on my work, making money, learning Spanish and getting my six-pack nice and toned so that I can fuck nice Latinas in the future. But since I had some time left on my PL subscription, I continued to play around with it (as you do) and connected quite randomly with a nice lady in a regional city. Normally, this is out of my geographic zone I really only zoom in on Pampanga, Zambales and Manila for the easy to get hookers. This is my proven mongering trail. Why did I have a look at this regional area? And why did I seek a non-hooker? No fucking idea. One of life's great mysteries.

Anyhow, this chick is 37 years of age and is a senior executive with a large industrial conglomerate. She is well educated and speaks and writes near perfect English. She is not a hooker and does not have the hooker look. She is a single mom with a teenage daughter and has never been married. She would be upper middle class, but having a child out of wedlock has meant that no Pinoy of equal social status would seriously consider her as a prospect. She is a complete spinner without an ounce of fat. She is nice looking, but just in a normal Pinay way. I would not be embarrassed to show her around the streets of Sydney.

I did not ask, but I imagine her salary would be around 150-200,000 pesos a month. If I did fuck her, I would not be slipping her 1,500 pesos for trike money, nor ordering her a Chicken Joy value meal. Hahaha.

So far, her story stacks up, but as with all Pinays, there will be lots of skeletons in the closet. I haven't disclosed my current domestic situation, only that I'm "single" (hehehe, not quite). I've also shaved 10 years off my age. They're not big lies by Pinay standards, just being a little economical with the truth.

I've been chatting to her everyday by WhatsApp and voice call now for over a month and I think she is falling for me. I would be lying if I said I didn't have some feelings for her. Our convo covers everything. When it comes to talking about sex, it is just witty repartee and nothing explicit. I have not asked for nude pics like the rest of you horny mongers.

Now to my quandary. I am seeking the advice of mongers, sexpats, sexpests and serial on-line dating tragics to offer me some kind advice:

1. I have an opportunity to visit the Philippines again for "diving, snorkelling and business" later this year. Should I visit this lady in her regional city, fuck her a few times and then make an excuse that the match is unsuitable and leave? What could possibly go wrong? Hahaha.

2. Pull the plug on this right now and just bang cheap, nasty hookers in AC and Makati? And then only dream what it would be like to bang an educated, non-hooker.

Any advice or information would be gratefully received. And please don't go looking for her on PL so that you can take my place. Hahahaha. She said she's found the man for her and has closed her account. Hahaha.#2. Pull the plug. She is too classy for you. She has clearly stated what she wanted and found her man. You are not it.

Don't fuck up her life.

Goferring
11-01-19, 03:29
Now to my quandary. I am seeking the advice of mongers, sexpats, sexpests and serial on-line dating tragics to offer me some kind advice:

1. I have an opportunity to visit the Philippines again for "diving, snorkelling and business" later this year. Should I visit this lady in her regional city, fuck her a few times and then make an excuse that the match is unsuitable and leave? What could possibly go wrong? Hahaha.

2. Pull the plug on this right now and just bang cheap, nasty hookers in AC and Makati? And then only dream what it would be like to bang an educated, non-hooker.

Any advice or information would be gratefully received.I'm surprised to see such a newbie question come form you. 😁.

This is Asia so the answer, of course, is all of the above. Remain her side dick, fly in as your schedule allows, explaining that that's all you can do due to work / visa / family commitments, and she can continue to get on with life. You can still fly out via AC or Burgos for '"business meetings" with others. Continue to treat her decently and she will be fine with it until someone does pop up with a permanent proposition.

I'd agree that meeting in civilization will be better for her and you. "Do you feel like a week away in Alona / Surigao / Manila?

Enjoy. G.

Engine Driver
11-01-19, 03:40
I'm surprised to see such a newbie question come form you. 😁.

This is Asia so the answer, of course, is all of the above. Remain her side dick, fly in as your schedule allows, explaining that that's all you can do due to work / visa / family commitments, and she can continue to get on with life. You can still fly out via AC or Burgos for '"business meetings" with others. Continue to treat her decently and she will be fine with it until someone does pop up with a permanent proposition.

I'd agree that meeting in civilization will be better for her and you. "Do you feel like a week away in Alona / Surigao / Manila?


Enjoy. G.Thanks for the advice. I find chasing hookers is really easy. On line dating with non-hookers is new territory for me. Real people with real emotions.

Sxxxx
11-01-19, 04:01
Thanks for the advice. I find chasing hookers is really easy. On line dating with non-hookers is new territory for me. Real people with real emotions. There is no way I would marry a Filipina as I just could never trust one.Be careful my friend, she could only be trolling for a decent sized schlong, and break your heart in the end.

Mr Enternational
11-01-19, 04:29
I find chasing hookers is really easy. On line dating with non-hookers is new territory for me. Real people with real emotions. There is no way I would marry a Filipina as I just could never trust one.You are comparing apples to alligators. Your experience is with chasing hookers, yet you can not trust non-hookers (who you have no experience with) because of the things you know about hookers? Read the posts of everyone that lives in PI that say you can not judge the entire population when all you have been in contact with is hookers.


Remain her side dick, fly in as your schedule allows, Continue to treat her decently and she will be fine with it until someone does pop up with a permanent proposition.That is pretty much how my relationships work. And even when they get a permanent person I remain friends. Then when that relationship is over I am still there.

Goferring
11-01-19, 05:05
On line dating with non-hookers is new territory for me. Real people with real emotions.


She wants to save herself for marriage in spite of my offer of a nice fun filled vacation. So far no breakthrough. But will keep trying to break her will.People think in crazy when I say this. When I lived in an Asian country with sex just as available as in the Philippines, we would often keep a couple of girls for platonic dates, for some sane conversation and good company. These girls were often 20 something year old virgins and when first meeting would say so and that they are happy to go out but would not end the night in bed. As sex was so readily available elsewhere this was of no concern and we were happy to have the good company and conversation for the night. Of course it didn't hurt that they were also stunningly beautiful. 😁.

Moral of the story? If sex is so available that it bores you enough to chase virgins or good girls why spoil the thing that makes them attractive? Seems like shooting yourself in the foot to me.

Enjoy. G.

PilotPaul
11-01-19, 05:05
Any advice or information would be gratefully received. And please don't go looking for her on PL so that you can take my place. Hahahaha. She said she's found the man for her and has closed her account. Hahaha.We should stick to the pool in which we like to play. Unless you are serious to getting her into a relationship you are just playing a fantasy game within your own mind.

Kabul Guy
11-01-19, 05:51
People think in crazy when I say this. When I lived in an Asian country with sex just as available as in the Philippines, we would often keep a couple of girls for platonic dates, for some sane conversation and good company......I had a good platonic relationship with a girl here. She was a grad student, very smart and good company, we could talk about issues and ideas, not the drivel that passes for conservation with most girls here.

We were emotionally close but not physical, then we got physical, turned out she was not at all good in bed and would not take any suggestions, she thought that she was great in bed for basically just lying there.

Ruined a perfectly good dinner dinner date. However if we had been compatible in the sack, then it would have been the perfect blend of for a GF both in and out of bed.

If I had to do it again, I'd take the chance of losing a good platonic relationship for a chance at a great all around relationship.

Goferring
11-01-19, 11:25
While we are discussing new things, what are peoples' experiences with mobilizing internet girls to meet them away from their home town?

What are the traps for beginners and things to watch out for:

Don't send her money upfront to pay for transport tickets; have a PlanB in case of no show; video call to check looks and clarify intentions. Anything else I've missed?

What's a reasonable travel time to ask? What's a minimum stay to make it worth their while?

To avoid hypotheticals, there are a shit tonne of stunners in Pagadian and most profess that they are happy to meet. However, the general concensus is that this is not a good choice of places for a horny white monger to go wandering around the streets. The closest 'safe' area I can find is Iligan, a 3+ hour bus ride away. Is it reasonable to offer to refund a bus fare plus play money to meet someone there for a few days?

My minimal experience with bussed girls has involved about 1/2 a day of transport so a few hours seems to be acceptable to the girls. In both cases they knew they were only coming for one night.

Comments?

Cheers. G.

PilotPaul
11-01-19, 13:33
I had a good platonic relationship with a girl here. She was a grad student, very smart and good company, we could talk about issues and ideas, not the drivel that passes for conservation with most girls here..He smart girls spend their years studying and developing their mind. Instead of learning to give awesome BBBJ.

GoodEnough
11-01-19, 13:49
While we are discussing new things, what are peoples' experiences with mobilizing internet girls to meet them away from their home town?

What are the traps for beginners and things to watch out for:

Don't send her money upfront to pay for transport tickets; have a PlanB in case of no show; video call to check looks and clarify intentions. Anything else I've missed?

What's a reasonable travel time to ask? What's a minimum stay to make it worth their while?

To avoid hypotheticals, there are a shit tonne of stunners in Pagadian and most profess that they are happy to meet. However, the general concensus is that this is not a good choice of places for a horny white monger to go wandering around the streets. The closest 'safe' area I can find is Iligan, a 3+ hour bus ride away. Is it reasonable to offer to refund a bus fare plus play money to meet someone there for a few days?

My minimal experience with bussed girls has involved about 1/2 a day of transport so a few hours seems to be acceptable to the girls. In both cases they knew they were only coming for one night.

Comments?

Cheers. G.Iligan is not your kind of place. Trust me on this one.

GE.

D Cups
11-01-19, 14:58
While we are discussing new things, what are peoples' experiences with mobilizing internet girls to meet them away from their home town?

What are the traps for beginners and things to watch out for:

Don't send her money upfront to pay for transport tickets; have a PlanB in case of no show; video call to check looks and clarify intentions. Anything else I've missed?

What's a reasonable travel time to ask? What's a minimum stay to make it worth their while?

To avoid hypotheticals, there are a shit tonne of stunners in Pagadian and most profess that they are happy to meet. However, the general concensus is that this is not a good choice of places for a horny white monger to go wandering around the streets. The closest 'safe' area I can find is Iligan, a 3+ hour bus ride away. Is it reasonable to offer to refund a bus fare plus play money to meet someone there for a few days?

My minimal experience with bussed girls has involved about 1/2 a day of transport so a few hours seems to be acceptable to the girls. In both cases they knew they were only coming for one night.

Comments?

Cheers. G.I have been repeatedly warned by RK and other respectable ISGers not to venture into Western Mindinao. Still, they have some beauties if you can get them to come to you. Careful tho, many scammers.

ForkTruck
11-01-19, 23:01
He smart girls spend their years studying and developing their mind. Instead of learning to give awesome BBBJ.Another example of wasted youth.

Kabul Guy
11-02-19, 06:14
While we are discussing new things, what are peoples' experiences with mobilizing internet girls to meet them away from their home town?
......I generally have had good luck with that method. It seams if they are coming a distance then they will make the effort. I have only had one long distance no show, as opposed to about a 10% local no show rate. The no show was one who paid her own ticket, but had to cancel due to some issue, she did message me as soon as she could that she was not going to be able to come.

Many girls cannot even afford to up front the one way bus fare to come to see you, however with the bus it is impossible to prepay tickets, like with an airline or a ferry transport.

If I want to see the girl, I'll send enough for bus fare plus a little for lunch and jeepney money, if flying is the option then I buy a one way ticket to me with the promise that we will book her the return ticket whenever she wants to go home. The sending fees are a significant portion of the amount that they get but it is a small amount to risk if she looks worthy.

Does anyone know of easier ways to send small amounts locally? I use world remit and even to send 500 or 100 p it costs me about 300 p plus a very bad exchange rate.

GoodEnough
11-02-19, 06:53
I generally have had good luck with that method. It seams if they are coming a distance then they will make the effort. I have only had one long distance no show, as opposed to about a 10% local no show rate. The no show was one who paid her own ticket, but had to cancel due to some issue, she did message me as soon as she could that she was not going to be able to come.

Many girls cannot even afford to up front the one way bus fare to come to see you, however with the bus it is impossible to prepay tickets, like with an airline or a ferry transport.

If I want to see the girl, I'll send enough for bus fare plus a little for lunch and jeepney money, if flying is the option then I buy a one way ticket to me with the promise that we will book her the return ticket whenever she wants to go home. The sending fees are a significant portion of the amount that they get but it is a small amount to risk if she looks worthy.

Does anyone know of easier ways to send small amounts locally? I use world remit and even to send 500 or 100 p it costs me about 300 p plus a very bad exchange rate.I've used L'Huillier both in Davao and CDO with no problem and sent amounts as small as Php500. It's worked fine, though I've not done it often; just enough to pay for a bus ticket and some food on the way.

GE.

Kabul Guy
11-02-19, 08:38
I've used L'Huillier both in Davao and CDO with no problem and sent amounts as small as Php500. It's worked fine, though I've not done it often; just enough to pay for a bus ticket and some food on the way.

GE.What are the fees like?

Engine Driver
11-02-19, 11:34
I've noticed that a lot of the Mindanao girls online are smoking hot. This is especially true of the areas that are far too dangerous for a horny white monger to visit. The cynical side of me thinks that the girls use this location to be sure that John will not turn up on her door step unannounced and she can continue the Western Union, ooops I mean Long Distance, love affair uninterrupted. 😁.

They are gorgeous though. If only 10% are real its almost worth running the gauntlet.

Enjoy. G.Good observation G Man. There are some sizzling hot chicks on PL in Lanao Del Norte, South Cotabato and Sultan Kudarat. If you wore Arabian clothes, grew a beard with no mustache, carried the Koran and had a circumcision done, Id think you would be pretty safe going there to bang those hotties.

GoodEnough
11-02-19, 12:53
Good observation G Man. There are some sizzling hot chicks on PL in Lanao Del Norte, South Cotabato and Sultan Kudarat. If you wore Arabian clothes, grew a beard with no mustache, carried the Koran and had a circumcision done, Id think you would be pretty safe going there to bang those hotties.I've spent a fair amount of time in S. Cotabato and Sultan Kudarat. The towns themselves are not particularly dangerous, but they are enormously boring. And, for the most part, people dress quite normally and are indistinguishable from other Filipinos. It would not be a great idea however to go hang around Lanao del Norte, where I've also been. Most of S. Cotabato and Sultan Kudarat are within a 2. 5 hours drive from Davao. So anyone interested in meeting someone from these areas might want to consider spending a few nights here, and inviting the girls to hop on a (cheap) bus and come to see you.

GE.

Engine Driver
11-02-19, 22:42
Life was a lot easier and simpler before the stupid internet was invented. You just had to go to bar, point, pay and fuck. All this online crap is just stressing me out.

Thanks to everyone for the great advice given regarding my dating dilemma. I will keep the board informed regarding my progress with the 37 year old executive. To make matters worse, I've gotten myself further into strife as there's now two other chicks that think I'm now their boyfriend. A 30 year pretty sweetie from Taguig and a 24 year old, seriously hot girl from Rizal. Both don’t have children. They both melted when I said we should go to the movies, hold hands and eat popcorn. There is absolutely no doubt they will all drop their panties within 3 seconds of entering the room. I might not even need to go to AC at this rate.

You’ve all been in this situation, but it’s very hard having three conversations at once on WhatsApp with three different girls. I got the names confused once and sent the wrong message to a girl. I had to seriously back peddle and explain to Trish that Liezel was actually my 60 year old neighbour who is bringing my bins back in when I’m travelling interstate. Haha haha

As you know, I'm no Don Draper clone. Girls just want attention, the illusion of romance, and sweet, complementary words. They also appreciate humour and wit. I never ask for nude pics nor talk about sex. They get the impression that I'm a respectful gentleman. One of the more successful opening lines I've used is "OMG, where have you been all my life?”. That always gets a 5 laughing emoji response, and I'm in the door.

Fun, fun, fun? More like stress, stress, stress!

Pilot Pete
11-02-19, 22:49
What is PL?

NewImage
11-02-19, 23:00
What is PL?YVMD but I find dating sites problematic on lots of levels. So much changes in a day in Philippines.

ForkTruck
11-02-19, 23:20
What are the fees like?I sent 200 php last week and the fee was 2 pesos. Might be different at different shops but never very much.

Mr Enternational
11-02-19, 23:48
Life was a lot easier and simpler before the stupid internet was invented. You just had to go to bar, point, pay and fuck. All this online crap is just stressing me out.

Thanks to everyone for the great advice given regarding my dating dilemma. I will keep the board informed regarding my progress with the 37 year old executive. To make matters worse, I've gotten myself further into strife as there's now two other chicks

Girls just want attention, the illusion of romance, and sweet, complementary words.You sound like you just started using a "new" invention that was invented 200 years ago. Many guys have been saying forever how easy it is to just pop online and meet chicks, while others have insisted sticking to the archaic lady drinks and barfines method. (I have been doing it myself in various countires since 1998, and was doing it with a party line in my own country a few years before that. So pretty sure I have met in person over a couple thousand.)

Now you are coming late to the party with a big WOW, while for everyone else it is just business as usual by now. LOL. Please tell me you are not going to write a report for each chick you talk to online because this would go on forever, or at least until you cancel your account.

I KNOW it did not take you until now to find out what women want!

P. S. Reminds me of my mom when new stuff comes out. When I was a kid I could not pay my mom to get cable TV or call waiting. She always says, I don't want that mess on my phone; I don't want that mess in my house. Then literally 20 years later she will finally catch up to the party and wonder how she ever got along without it. Her favorite is the caller ID now. She will not answer that phone unless she knows the number on the screen. I try to explain to her what if someone has been in an accident and another person is calling for them or what if I am calling from jail. Just pick up the damn phone lady!

Dg8787
11-02-19, 23:58
I sent 200 php last week and the fee was 2 pesos. Might be different at different shops but never very much.2 pesos might be too much for some people here! They complain about 1 peso. Usually the charge is about 1% for small amounts and less for more amounts.

Some might be confused about the fees to send money online, which might have a minimum charge of $3. 95 or more.

Dg8787
11-03-19, 00:01
Another example of wasted youth.I wasted my youth chasing money and pussy. Got more money than pussy then. Now I get more pussy than money!

Engine Driver
11-03-19, 02:14
You sound like you just started using a "new" invention that was invented 200 years ago. Many guys have been saying forever how easy it is to just pop online and meet chicks, while others have insisted sticking to the archaic lady drinks and barfines method. (I have been doing it myself in various countires since 1998, and was doing it with a party line in my own country a few years before that. So pretty sure I have met in person over a couple thousand.)

Now you are coming late to the party with a big WOW, while for everyone else it is just business as usual by now. LOL. Please tell me you are not going to write a report for each chick you talk to online because this would go on forever, or at least until you cancel your account.

I KNOW it did not take you until now to find out what women want!

Mr. E, the posts here are not for your consumption. With 9,700 posts, what could you possibly learn? You're the Jesus Fucking Christ of mongering. Hahaha. I will ask my mate DJT to award you the Presidential Medal of Freedom for continuously picking up chicks on line for over 20 years.

Girls all tell me that most of the mongers online are complete fuckwits, stupid pricks, perverts and general morons. If an old school point and shoot man like me who looks like Quasimodo can achieve success, then anyone can. Yeah, I've only just discovered it, so what? There would not be demand for the 1 million dating books published each year if everyone was an expert such as you.


P. S. Reminds me of my mom when new stuff comes out. When I was a kid I could not pay my mom to get cable TV or call waiting. She always says, I don't want that mess on my phone; I don't want that mess in my house. Then literally 20 years later she will finally catch up to the party and wonder how she ever got along without it. Her favorite is the caller ID now. She will not answer that phone unless she knows the number on the screen. I try to explain to her what if someone has been in an accident and another person is calling for them or what if I am calling from jail. Just pick up the damn phone lady!Now do you really think anyone gives a shit about whether your mom can use a phone or not? How is that related to mongering? More action and less crap please. In fact, if the Dutch owners of this site took out half the unrelated drivel you wrote, they probably wouldn't need such a big server. Hahaha. BTW, you're still about 3,000 posts behind Syzygies, so you'd better work harder. Hahahaha

Mr Enternational
11-03-19, 02:40
Now do you really think anyone gives a shit about whether your mom can use a phone or not? How is that related to mongering?LOL. It is related to your post about starting to use technology 20 years after everybody else and being wow'd by it.

I am still laughing about you meeting the chick in AC online and insisting to go pay her barfine. Everyone else that has been using the technology already knew the whole reason to meet chicks online is NOT to pay a barfine. But you can't tell mfs nothing. As usual, experience was the best teacher when you saw the chick wasn't exactly what you thought you were signing up for.


Mr. E, the posts here are not for your consumption. With 9,700 posts, what could you possibly learn?Everyday I learn something from posters on ISG and likewise I am not stingy to impart what I have learned to other mongers whether it is on this site or when I have met them in person in various monger locations.

Engine Driver
11-03-19, 03:11
LOL. It is related to your post about starting to use technology 20 years after everybody else and being wow'd by it.

I am still laughing about you meeting the chick in AC online and insisting to go pay her barfine. Everyone else that has been using the technology already knew the whole reason to meet chicks online is NOT to pay a barfine. But you can't tell mfs nothing. As usual, experience was the best teacher when you saw the chick wasn't exactly what you thought you were signing up for.

Everyday I learn something from posters on ISG and likewise I am not stingy to impart what I have learned to other mongers whether it is on this site or when I have met them in person in various monger locations.Okay I will give you that one. Hahaha. Let's go back to being best buddies again. Hahaha.

Mr Enternational
11-03-19, 05:35
Okay I will give you that one. Hahaha. Let's go back to being best buddies again. Hahaha.Shhhh. We never stopped. You know I am always going to talk shit ED. I can't help it.

Goferring
11-03-19, 09:42
I've spent a fair amount of time in S. Cotabato and Sultan Kudarat. The towns themselves are not particularly dangerous, but they are enormously boring. And, for the most part, people dress quite normally and are indistinguishable from other Filipinos. It would not be a great idea however to go hang around Lanao del Norte, where I've also been. Most of S. Cotabato and Sultan Kudarat are within a 2. 5 hours drive from Davao. So anyone interested in meeting someone from these areas might want to consider spending a few nights here, and inviting the girls to hop on a (cheap) bus and come to see you.

GE.


Iligan is not your kind of place. Trust me on this one.

GE.So the next obvious question is where would be a suitable meeting place? While I'd agree that Davao is good for someone on the eastern side it is a long way from Western Mindanao which has the frustrating combination of gorgeous girls and jihadist executioners.

If Iligan is no good would CDO be the next point of call for someone west of an imaginary line form Ozimis to Pagadian?

Enjoy. G.

Goferring
11-03-19, 09:50
Shhhh. We never stopped. You know I am always going to talk shit ED. I can't help it.E,

A condensed list of your WhatsApp screen shots could be the new 'Hardship Posting'. 😁.

https://www.amazon.com.au/HARDSHIP-POSTING-Tales-Expat-Misadventure-ebook/dp/B00BEN65WE

Enjoy. G.

PilotPaul
11-03-19, 09:50
What is PL?pinalove.com

Engine Driver
11-03-19, 10:37
So the next obvious question is where would be a suitable meeting place? While I'd agree that Davao is good for someone on the eastern side it is a long way from Western Mindanao which has the frustrating combination of gorgeous girls and jihadist executioners.

If Iligan is no good would CDO be the next point of call for someone west of an imaginary line form Ozimis to Pagadian?

Enjoy. G.While wandering around CDO in your Arabian clobber, Islamic topi and backpack, just don't yell out Allahu Akbar too loudly in the market square. Chaos will ensue.

Goferring
11-03-19, 10:45
While wandering around CDO in your Arabian clobber, Islamic topi and backpack, just don't yell out Allahu Akbar too loudly in the market square. Chaos will ensue.There are girls to be fucked and fucked they shall be! 😁

G.

WestCoast1
11-03-19, 12:03
So the next obvious question is where would be a suitable meeting place? While I'd agree that Davao is good for someone on the eastern side it is a long way from Western Mindanao which has the frustrating combination of gorgeous girls and jihadist executioners.

If Iligan is no good would CDO be the next point of call for someone west of an imaginary line form Ozimis to Pagadian?

Enjoy. G.Draw the line from CDO to Davao, and don't go west of that. Good Lord there are so many eff-able ladies in that region; let go the rest.

Goferring
11-03-19, 12:20
Draw the line from CDO to Davao, and don't go west of that. Good Lord there are so many eff-able ladies in that region; let go the rest.Just to clarify, I'm looking for a convenient snd safe town to import girls into from the wrong side of the line of doom. I'm not looking to go explore Zamboanga city.

I'd agree that there are so many in the safe areas but that's part of the problem: when I arrive in Davao with old numbers as a 'bird in the hand' I know I'll be lazy and just stay with them.

I've now also got numbers from the wrong side of the island who appear very keen to meet, are very easy on the eye and seem to be far less bitter and twisted than your average girl from a high monger traffic town. I'd be crazy not to at least investigate possibilities.

Sounds like CDO is worth a try.

Cheers. G.

D Cups
11-03-19, 14:09
Just to clarify, I'm looking for a convenient snd safe town to import girls into from the wrong side of the line of doom. I'm not looking to go explore Zamboanga city.

I'd agree that there are so many in the safe areas but that's part of the problem: when I arrive in Davao with old numbers as a 'bird in the hand' I know I'll be lazy and just stay with them.

I've now also got numbers from the wrong side of the island who appear very keen to meet, are very easy on the eye and seem to be far less bitter and twisted than your average girl from a high monger traffic town. I'd be crazy not to at least investigate possibilities.

Sounds like CDO is worth a try.

Cheers. G.Thanks in advance for a full recon report, G. Boldly go where no white man has gone before!

GoodEnough
11-03-19, 14:21
Draw the line from CDO to Davao, and don't go west of that. Good Lord there are so many eff-able ladies in that region; let go the rest.This is excellent advice for anyone visiting here. And fortunately, aside from some gorgeous natural beauty there's nothing much to see west of the imaginary line. Zamboanga is a fairly nothing place as is Illigan, and if you're into cities and "stuff" to do during the daylight hours, these are not great alternatives. I'm not sure how one would bring a candidate from Zamboanga to CDO; it would be a hell of a bus ride and Iligan would be further still.

GE.

Kabul Guy
11-03-19, 23:11
Just to clarify, I'm looking for a convenient snd safe town to import girls into from the wrong side of the line of doom. I'm not looking to go explore Zamboanga city.

....Butuan City could be a candidate.

Not much there, it is a basic industrial city no attractions but two not bad low cost safe hotels to import the westerners, a shorter bus ride than taking them into Davao.

Engine Driver
11-04-19, 01:33
There are girls to be fucked and fucked they shall be! 😁

G.Amazon has good deals on Arab gear, including nice genie slippers. Make sure your insurance policies are current before you go.

Are they nice Muslim or Catholic girls? In Indonesia, we called them Chrislem, because they were flexible when it came to religion.

WestCoast1
11-04-19, 01:53
Just to clarify, I'm looking for a convenient snd safe town to import girls into from the wrong side of the line of doom. I'm not looking to go explore Zamboanga city.KG's mention of Butuan is good. City of 100 k, farming / fishing / industrial. Two malls, a newer upscale small Robinson's and a much older Gaisano, both on the highway. One bar of note with good live band called Woodstock (on the highway). Several hotels to note: Almont (the one on the highway, not the one downtown / Urios area) has a nice pool, is getting older, pricey); Dotties (on the Hwy, no wifi in rooms, just in the common areas of lobby, outdoor breakfast area, older hotel with some recent room upgrades in some rooms only, nice pool); and Balanghai Hotel, off the beaten path north of the Gaisano, a convention center, nice pool (when there is a convention, the conventioneers hog the wifi bandwidth). Butuan is a nice central location for that area east of that imaginary line that I mentioned, you can bus in girls from Surigao (3 hours), Bayugan (45 minutes), Gingoog (90 minutes), CDO (6 hours). Most Butuanas won't want to meet you and be seen entering your hotel in Butuan -- "eberbody know eberbody". However, I have persuaded a few to do such.

Don't expect to do much here other than visit a museum for an hour. The joy is the ladies themselves. Do visit the museum at Balanghai Hotel, and also the museum across the street, and walk the Father Urios college area (cathedral downtown).

Also don't expect to hang around a mall passing out your phone number or finding fresh new meat while there. The idea when flying into Mindanao for a few days to meet fresh meat is: You don't go to the city where the girl is, you go to a centrally located city with contacts willing to bus in. I have bussed girls to me in Mindanao as long as 9+ hours.

IgoforAsian
11-04-19, 04:56
Just to clarify, I'm looking for a convenient snd safe town to import girls into from the wrong side of the line of doom. I'm not looking to go explore Zamboanga city.

I'd agree that there are so many in the safe areas but that's part of the problem: when I arrive in Davao with old numbers as a 'bird in the hand' I know I'll be lazy and just stay with them.

I've now also got numbers from the wrong side of the island who appear very keen to meet, are very easy on the eye and seem to be far less bitter and twisted than your average girl from a high monger traffic town. I'd be crazy not to at least investigate possibilities.

Sounds like CDO is worth a try.

Cheers. G.I would agree there are many hotties in Mindanao. While CdeO and Davao are safe, there are perhaps even more cuties from other areas of Mindanao that are probably best avoided. I have had good success simply staying in Mactan or Cebu and flying them in. Sure I am taking a risk of a no-show, but so far, I have had good luck. I only make the offer to fly them in if we have established good chemistry on-line and they are certifiably hot. No investment is without risk, and for me, it has been a pretty good investment. Also, for the girl, a short plane ride will be more exciting than a long bus ride. Also, she will be excited and disinhibited to be in a big city where she will not be recognized. Cebu is perhaps better than Manila for this purpose because not only is it closer to Mindanao, but the woman will feel more comfortable with the language (Visayan as opposed to Tagalog).

Goferring
11-04-19, 05:08
Also don't expect to hang around a mall passing out your phone number or finding fresh new meat while there. The idea when flying into Mindanao for a few days to meet fresh meat is: You don't go to the city where the girl is, you go to a centrally located city with contacts willing to bus in. I have bussed girls to me in Mindanao as long as 9+ hours.You make a good point about bringing girls to you rather than going to the girls, even in the 'safe' areas due to shyness and gossiping friends. As I'm doing a city hop, I might investigate importing the reluctant girls from the city I just left rather than insisting they come to hotel lobbies in their home town.

As I said I've limited experience with freighting girls but in the few times I did they didn't bat an eyelid at several hours of travel even just for one night. I'm guessing it's either my rugged good looks and magnetic charm 🤔 or living in the provinces they are used to taking bus and ferry trips of many hours.

Thanks for everyone's comments.

Cheers. G.

Engine Driver
11-04-19, 11:09
I'm guessing it's either my rugged good looks and magnetic charm 🤔 or living in the provinces they are used to taking bus and ferry trips of many hours.

Cheers. G.Gofer, she knows she is going to get a nice juicy tip of 3,000 pesos + transpo for her efforts, which is more than her impoverished family will see all month. That will buy enough rice and basic vegetables for the extended family for a while. It might even be enough for her little nephew's birthday party bash if they don't go overboard with the cake. For that, she will put up with the fat mongers' bad breath, body odour, sweat, farting, snoring and to being pounded three times that night. Totally gross. Poor girl.

What always amuses me is when girls say they have never been with a foreigner, but their photo has been taken in a mongers' hotel room. They do not have expensive curtains, pelmets and bedside tables with lamps in their wooden huts! Another girl I'm chatting with has nice photos of herself in various swimsuits taken at different beach resorts around the country. When quizzed, she said they were holidays with family and friends. I know that the entire family does not have two notes to rub together and they rely on her meagre salary as an office lady at some chemical company for food.

Engine Driver
11-04-19, 12:03
All you mongers don't need to risk your lives down south in Western Mindanao searching for Muslim pussy. There's a full burqa wearing hooker on PL in Pampanga. Her name is SuraidaBusran. Looks very pretty. Is that every mongers dream? To be ridden by a burqa clad hottie? The first monger to bang her and bring me her Muslim panties gets the fuck fee reimbursed.

Mr Enternational
11-04-19, 12:58
All you mongers don't need to risk your lives down south in Western Mindanao searching for Muslim pussy. There's a full burqa wearing hooker on PL in Pampanga. Her name is SuraidaBusran. Looks very pretty. Is that every mongers dream? To be ridden by a burqa clad hottie? The first monger to bang her and bring me her Muslim panties gets the fuck fee reimbursed.One of the things I love about Pattaya is that the chicks dress, do make-up, hair, and learn the language to cater to the ethnicity of particular punters that they are going after. To me they are chameleons. I can see a page of pictures of the same Thai chick that has changed hair style and make-up and can not tell it is the same chick. I had no idea what habibi meant until some Thai chick saw me on a dating site, assumed I was Arab, and started calling me habibi. I had to look it up to see what it meant.

So if you want a burqa chick just come over here and go to one of the Arab spots or Soi Yensabai where the Arabs stay and get one of those Thai chicks that cater to Arabs. And they all fuck in the ass because that is what Arab guys like. Whenever I meet a chick (such as the one in my bed right now) and find out she has dealt with Arab guys, the first thing I say is so you like to fuck in the ass huh?

Wicked Roger
11-04-19, 16:33
And they all fuck in the ass because that is what Arab guys like. Whenever I meet a chick (such as the one in my bed right now) and find out she has dealt with Arab guys, the first thing I say is so you like to fuck in the ass huh?And many return home with some very nasty stuff at the end of their todger Mr E. I used to live in that world knew many a Arab who needed some serious medicines after a trip to Asia (mainly Philippines and Thailand). One doctor told me "they have serious claws and need double does medicines at times".

One of the Arabs I refer to was my boss at the time and his wife asked me all sorts of very difficult to reply to questions about her husband's time in Asia (as I was with him on business).

Jack Burton
11-04-19, 17:36
So the next obvious question is where would be a suitable meeting place? While I'd agree that Davao is good for someone on the eastern side it is a long way from Western Mindanao which has the frustrating combination of gorgeous girls and jihadist executioners.

If Iligan is no good would CDO be the next point of call for someone west of an imaginary line form Ozimis to Pagadian?

Enjoy. G.Iligan, aside from having crappy hotel choice, is fine. DIA shows a fine selection, and better to be had in person. Both street food and restaurant delicious. For sights, the waterfalls are one day tour, maybe once in a lifetime or so. Beyond that, make your own fun. Avoid the many Moslem ladies, even though they are among the most beautiful, being a head taller than the Catholics. You may end up same height as said Catholic ladies if you insist on tasting the Muslim wares.

Jack Burton
11-04-19, 18:04
I've noticed that a lot of the Mindanao girls online are smoking hot. This is especially true of the areas that are far too dangerous for a horny white monger to visit. The cynical side of me thinks that the girls use this location to be sure that John will not turn up on her door step unannounced and she can continue the Western Union, ooops I mean Long Distance, love affair uninterrupted. 😁.

They are gorgeous though. If only 10% are real its almost worth running the gauntlet.

Enjoy. G.I noticed that the most stunning ladies at a certain website (not DIA but similar) had a listed address of Zamboanga. About 5-6 8+ model-quality ladies. Being the suspicious sort, I found the most professionally shot pic, and did a web search for a matching photo. Turns out she is a professional international model who does not reside in or from anywhere in Mindanao. Also turns out that she doesn't yet have lady parts where it counts most. Almost certainly there for Long Distance Western Union funding. Although I did consider it a possible Islamic fundraising effort, or even a mongering jokester with a particularly Joker sense of humor.

Goferring
11-04-19, 22:04
What always amuses me is when girls say they have never been with a foreigner, but their photo has been taken in a mongers' hotel room. They do not have expensive curtains, pelmets and bedside tables with lamps in their wooden huts! Another girl I'm chatting with has nice photos of herself in various swimsuits taken at different beach resorts around the country. When quizzed, she said they were holidays with family and friends. I know that the entire family does not have two notes to rub together and they rely on her meagre salary as an office lady at some chemical company for food.Your such a cynic. 😁.

Don't all bed spacers come with king size beds, white sheets and doonas, marble bathrooms and have 10th story views?

G.

Sxxxx
11-04-19, 23:47
Thanks Engine Driver for keeping the forum alive.

What concerns me is, lots if not most, of Senior members, rarely if ever mention the negatives of the Phils.

We have to know the negatives to enjoy the positives. And to survive! Many foreigner inmates of Phil prisons are testimony to that.

Going to prison for pussy? No thanks.

One negative to keep in mind, if your generous or half decent with the Phils girls, they will often interpret that as stupidity and try for 'more' , even though you have been more than half reasonable. Take the case of the guy who donated four thousand bucks to a chick holding a nude photo of him.

Controlled decency and generosity, is the way to go. With a smile on your dial, stay in control, and your relationship will be nourishing.

By the way, there was a brief mention in the newspaper the other day of mouth cancer, which they called "sex cancer". Apparently the girls are getting cancer of the mouth / throat as a result of over indulging in cream pies! Don't know, this article will clarify itself as time goes by.

Nice outfit you have selected there for Gofer, ED. Now how about adding a bottle of nice wine, to seduce 'victim' ?

GoodEnough
11-05-19, 02:53
Thanks Engine Driver for keeping the forum alive.

What concerns me is, lots if not most, of Senior members, rarely if ever mention the negatives of the Phils.

We have to know the negatives to enjoy the positives. And to survive! Many foreigner inmates of Phil prisons are testimony to that.

Going to prison for pussy? No thanks.

One negative to keep in mind, if your generous or half decent with the Phils girls, they will often interpret that as stupidity and try for 'more' , even though you have been more than half reasonable. Take the case of the guy who donated four thousand bucks to a chick holding a nude photo of him.

Controlled decency and generosity, is the way to go. With a smile on your dial, stay in control, and your relationship will be nourishing.

By the way, there was a brief mention in the newspaper the other day of mouth cancer, which they called "sex cancer". Apparently the girls are getting cancer of the mouth / throat as a result of over indulging in cream pies! Don't know, this article will clarify itself as time goes by.

Nice outfit you have selected there for Gofer, ED. Now how about adding a bottle of nice wine, to seduce 'victim' ?I think that most senior members, at least those of us who live here, long ago decided to accept the "negatives" and have decided, at least implicitly that the positives outweigh them. Over the years I've also found that warning newbies about potential consequences of their actions is a waste of breath and time. The inevitable response is some variation of: "I hear what you're saying, but this is different. " which, by the way, is never the case. Another variation is often: "I hear what you're saying but my girl is different. " which is rarely the case. So those of us who live here and have seen the same cycle repeated endlessly no longer comment on it for the simple reason that no one listens.

Just as an aside, I occasionally observe some Western foreigners in our restaurant, which largely attracts middle class / semi-rich Filipinos, behaving loutishly. Invariably they have their temporary girlfriends in tow. The Filipinos typically eating at our place look at them like they're animals in a zoo. I cite the latter only to suggest that some Westerners, whose focus is exclusively on picking up bar girls / street girls, seem clueless that there's a much larger culture in which what is considered appropriate behavior in a bar or on the street, is looked at with disapprobation.

Just my two cents in what is an endless discussion.

GE.

Wicked Roger
11-05-19, 06:52
Over the years I've also found that warning newbies about potential consequences of their actions is a waste of breath and time. The inevitable response is some variation of: "I hear what you're saying, but this is different. " which, by the way, is never the case. Another variation is often: "I hear what you're saying but my girl is different. " which is rarely the case.I have the same as you and also in the Middle East where the phrase "my Mo is different not like the other Mos" refers to the girls Arabic boyfriend who has winded and dined her, got her pants off etc and she is smitten only to find he is doing the same to her friends and sometimes brings his friends around to share her without knowledge.

Friend of mine has been shagging a wild pinay (all holes BDSM everything) which he loves and warned about where his brain was given she had a bad history. He ignored. Sure enough she gets his phones find other girls, goes crazy / tampo, and finds the girls on FB and send nasty messages. One such lady sent me the screen shot. I shared with him and now he is reassessing the relationship.

Love is blind at times sadly and men thin with our little head at times also.

Goferring
11-05-19, 08:08
All you mongers don't need to risk your lives down south in Western Mindanao searching for Muslim pussy. There's a full burqa wearing hooker on PL in Pampanga. Her name is SuraidaBusran. Looks very pretty. Is that every mongers dream? To be ridden by a burqa clad hottie? The first monger to bang her and bring me her Muslim panties gets the fuck fee reimbursed.No need to go to AC for the one muslim pussy in town. There are 100 million in Indonesia. Literally. Many burqa and jilbab there hide a bikini model underneath. Its THE place to tick off a faith based fetish.

I've never purposely hunted halal pussy in the Philippines but the few I have had have all been pink on the insides, the same as anyone else.

Enjoy. G.

Engine Driver
11-05-19, 08:57
Just as an aside, I occasionally observe some Western foreigners in our restaurant, which largely attracts middle class / semi-rich Filipinos, behaving loutishly. Invariably they have their temporary girlfriends in tow. The Filipinos typically eating at our place look at them like they're animals in a zoo. I cite the latter only to suggest that some Westerners, whose focus is exclusively on picking up bar girls / street girls, seem clueless that there's a much larger culture in which what is considered appropriate behavior in a bar or on the street, is looked at with disapprobation.
GE.GE, I'm rather surprised that you would be treating certain sections of your paying customer base with such disdain. After all, in the hospitality business, the customer is always king. Hahahaha. I actually have a lot of respect for the fat, uncouth Aussie monger who behaves like a lout. He has worked hard and honestly all his working life, saving for a trip of a lifetime. Being a lifelong closet Francophile, he is now finally travelling on the Mindanao gastronomy tour with his street hooker, enjoying the finest French cuisine and wine that Asia has to offer. The street hooker is happy as long as there is a big serve of rice with her escargots and cuisses de grenouilles.

The slimy, nouveau riche, middle class Filipino on the other hand, whom you covet as a customer, is merely a social climber. A phoney. He wants to be seen dining in the finest French restaurant in the land, simply to impress his neybooors. He wouldn't know the difference between a Chateau Lafite Rothschild and the regurgitated wine remnants inside a spittoon at a wine tasting event. As for his wealth, well, it's all ill gotten. Nothing like outright embezzlement at his place of work to get ahead. Sxxxx wrote in a few weeks ago whereby a cabbie told him the only virgins in the Philippines are the ones being born today. Well, the only honest Filipino is the one being born today.

PedroMorales
11-05-19, 11:11
ED, That is a funny post that got me laughing out loud. The nouveau riche are awful anywhere, as are loud tourists and, let's be honest, the so-called working class. The Middle Ages were best, when people knew their place. That said, I like going into cheap Chinese restaurants in Mindanao and seeing families out celebrating their modest achievements or flip flop clad lassies dining from my dime on Durian, as if they were sophisticates in the long lost Montmartres of our youth.


GE, I'm rather surprised that you would be treating certain sections of your paying customer base with such disdain. After all, in the hospitality business, the customer is always king. Hahahaha. I actually have a lot of respect for the fat, uncouth Aussie monger who behaves like a lout. He has worked hard and honestly all his working life, saving for a trip of a lifetime. Being a lifelong closet Francophile, he is now finally travelling on the Mindanao gastronomy tour with his street hooker, enjoying the finest French cuisine and wine that Asia has to offer. The street hooker is happy as long as there is a big serve of rice with her escargots and cuisses de grenouilles.

The slimy, nouveau riche, middle class Filipino on the other hand, whom you covet as a customer, is merely a social climber. A phoney. He wants to be seen dining in the finest French restaurant in the land, simply to impress his neybooors. He wouldn't know the difference between a Chateau Lafite Rothschild and the regurgitated wine remnants inside a spittoon at a wine tasting event. As for his wealth, well, it's all ill gotten. Nothing like outright embezzlement at his place of work to get ahead. Sxxxx wrote in a few weeks ago whereby a cabbie told him the only virgins in the Philippines are the ones being born today. Well, the only honest Filipino is the one being born today.

Kabul Guy
11-05-19, 12:25
....

I've never purposely hunted halal pussy in the Philippines but the few I have had have all been pink on the insides, the same as anyone else.

Enjoy. G.Just like the ones in Indonesia and the one I scored at home.

PilotPaul
11-05-19, 23:19
I think that most senior members, at least those of us who live here, long ago decided to accept the "negatives" and have decided, at least implicitly that the positives outweigh them. Over the years I've also found that warning newbies about potential consequences of their actions is a waste of breath and time. The inevitable response is some variation of: "I hear what you're saying, but this is different. " which, by the way, is never the case. Another variation is often: "I hear what you're saying but my girl is different. " which is rarely the case. So those of us who live here and have seen the same cycle repeated endlessly no longer comment on it for the simple reason that no one listens..Maybe what we as westerners take some time to realize is that many Filipina are the same, a product of limited education, limited hobbies, limited TV, limited intellect and limited money. Whereas in Australia there could be a very large range of personalities, the limited options in Ph mean that the Filipina do fall into a predictable performance.

Latest drama from an ex-GF is she's being stalked by the GF of some guy. What she didn't say is GF of some guy she was fucking last weekend. She did it while with me, she'll continue to do it. Not bitter, just predicted.

Mr Enternational
11-06-19, 06:14
By the way, there was a brief mention in the newspaper the other day of mouth cancer, which they called "sex cancer". Apparently the girls are getting cancer of the mouth / throat as a result of over indulging in cream pies! Don't know, this article will clarify itself as time goes by.
I take it this is your first time hearing of this incident?

https://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/2013/06/09/michael-douglas-blames-throat-cancer-oral-sex-what-are-risks/Akb38cr5CCvj2HUKXJ5SCP/story.html

PilotPaul
11-07-19, 06:27
I take it this is your first time hearing of this incident?

https://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/2013/06/09/michael-douglas-blames-throat-cancer-oral-sex-what-are-risks/Akb38cr5CCvj2HUKXJ5SCP/story.htmlI think that is what Michael Douglas may have.

Engine Driver
11-08-19, 02:35
I'm pleased to report that I have dumped the corporate executive I had been dating online. It was a lucky escape that has ended well. Hahahaha. Overall, it was an interesting social experiment and it just confirmed my views about Pinays.

I booked my trip and asked this lady to meet me in Manila (the Indecent Proposal), since I did not want to go to her regional city. This was for all the reasons outlined by other mongers on previous posts. I gave her a couple of dates over two weekends to choose from. The first date was not suitable because of some birthday (what is it with Filipinos and fucking birthdays?) The second date was suitable. She was so excited and accepted on the spot. She immediately looked up flight schedules (screen shots were sent to me) and we agreed. I left it to her to book the flights and she confirmed yes.

She has gone home to break the news to her family and friends that evening about her remarkable good fortune and then something has gone wrong. Pick one of the options below:

1. Friends or sister have gotten jealous that she is going to Manila for a dirty weekend at the Shangers and that she has a real chance now for enjoying untold riches in White Man Land. They can't believe her luck in snagging a westerner so quickly to escape their shit hole city. Accordingly, they have scuttled the plans just to keep her in her place.

2. She was actually scared of the tsismis and potential sullying of her reputation by accepting the Indecent Proposal. Her friends and sister may have further reinforced this. It would have been difficult to keep this secret for long in her shithole regional city. If this was the case, why was she on PL? Unless you actually meet a foreigner, how can you go abroad?

3. She was scared I would finally discover the orchestrated litany of lies (sorry Justice Mahon) she had been telling me. Many aspects of her story just didn't quite add up including her age, education, relationship history and experience.

Having dealt with enough Pinays, I always knew that this was a long shot and that nothing is ever guaranteed in the Philippines until the chick is actually in your room AND has dropped her panties. (She could still be a LB up to the point before dropping her panties).

So what happened next?

She came up with all sorts of excuses as to why she couldn't book the ticket. First there was a new firewall at work which prevented her from accessing Cebu Pacific. You can book with your phone, silly woman!. Next day she tried to book and pay, but the one time password was sent to another cancelled phone number (sigh! I was not going to play this stupid game any longer, so I told her it was off and pulled the plug. Gone!

I got my weekend back in Manila, so three hookers will now substitute for this one non-hooker. Hard times! Hahahaha. Talk about serendipity.

DG said she was too classy for me. I don't think so. Hahahaha. I assumed because she was educated, she would somehow be worldly and sophisticated. Educated or not, hooker or non-hooker, these Pinays are all the same. There's no escaping their stupidity, shallowness and lack of common sense and awareness. We are not wrong in stereotyping them.

Kabul Guy
11-08-19, 03:01
I went on a dive excursion the other day. There were about a dozen divers on the boat including about 4 lovely Japanese ladies who were on their last certifying dive, late teens if even legal age at all. They were wearing about the skimpiest bikini's I have ever seen here and wee all very nice on the eyes. They never gave any indication that they wanted to talk or interact with anyone outside of their group or the dive instructors assigned to them.

There was one Fat Fuck on the boat. He was the type that came diving with many thousand dollars of gear, all brand new and he didn't have a clue how to use it, I mean really a side mount two tank rig for a simple reef drift dive? Nitrox for a less than 20 m dive? WTF?

He was obviously just a show off, talked big and couldn't manage his buoyancy, we passed the students and they were doing better than he was.

On the boat, he stood too close to the students, about 2 m away. Stared at them so much they obviously were uncomfortable but they did not say anything. Everyone else could see that he had a hard on, but he couldn't see it because of his big belly. I caught the eye of one of the Aussie instructors looked at the FF and he went and had a talk with him, the FF sat on the other side of the boat but kept staring at the girls, the instructors stood in a group in the middle of the boat to block his view.

I'll admit I was enjoying checking out the girls, but I used my peripheral vision from behind shades so that they were not made uncomfortable by me. This asshole thought that be staring and showing off his erection that they would just want to jump in bed with him?

Seriously, enjoy the scenery but act like a mature adult, not a hormone crazed 15 year old lacking in any social skills.

I will not say what country he was from, but they think that they are the number one country in the world and the reality is that they are only number one in being just south of my country.

Dg8787
11-08-19, 03:08
I'm pleased to report that I have dumped the corporate executive I had been dating online. It was a lucky escape that has ended well. Hahahaha. Overall, it was an interesting social experiment and it just confirmed my views about Pinays.

I booked my trip and asked this lady to meet me in Manila (the Indecent Proposal), since I did not want to go to her regional city. This was for all the reasons outlined by other mongers on previous posts. I gave her a couple of dates over two weekends to choose from. The first date was not suitable because of some birthday (what is it with Filipinos and fucking birthdays?) The second date was suitable. She was so excited and accepted on the spot. She immediately looked up flight schedules (screen shots were sent to me) and we agreed. I left it to her to book the flights and she confirmed yes.

She has gone home to break the news to her family and friends that evening about her remarkable good fortune and then something has gone wrong. Pick one of the options below:

1. Friends or sister have gotten jealous that she is going to Manila for a dirty weekend at the Shangers and that she has a real chance now for enjoying untold riches in White Man Land. They can't believe her luck in snagging a westerner so quickly to escape their shit hole city. Accordingly, they have scuttled the plans just to keep her in her place.

2. She was actually scared of the tsismis and potential sullying of her reputation by accepting the Indecent Proposal. Her friends and sister may have further reinforced this. It would have been difficult to keep this secret for long in her shithole regional city. If this was the case, why was she on PL? Unless you actually meet a foreigner, how can you go abroad?

3. She was scared I would finally discover the orchestrated litany of lies (sorry Justice Mahon) she had been telling me. Many aspects of her story just didn't quite add up including her age, education, relationship history and experience.

Having dealt with enough Pinays, I always knew that this was a long shot and that nothing is ever guaranteed in the Philippines until the chick is actually in your room AND has dropped her panties. (She could still be a LB up to the point before dropping her panties).

So what happened next?

She came up with all sorts of excuses as to why she couldn't book the ticket. First there was a new firewall at work which prevented her from accessing Cebu Pacific. You can book with your phone, silly woman!. Next day she tried to book and pay, but the one time password was sent to another cancelled phone number (sigh! I was not going to play this stupid game any longer, so I told her it was off and pulled the plug. Gone!

I got my weekend back in Manila, so three hookers will now substitute for this one non-hooker. Hard times! Hahahaha. Talk about serendipity.

DG said she was too classy for me. I don't think so. Hahahaha. I assumed because she was educated, she would somehow be worldly and sophisticated. Educated or not, hooker or non-hooker, these Pinays are all the same. There's no escaping their stupidity, shallowness and lack of common sense and awareness. We are not wrong in stereotyping them.Not only classy but the key word, Intelligent!

Through her intelligence and / or the collective intelligence of her family she made a very wise decision.

I would wish you luck but it would require much much more than that for you extreme negativity of the pinky world. On the other hand continued success on your self for filling prophecy.

Engine Driver
11-08-19, 03:27
Not only classy but the key word, Intelligent!

Through her intelligence and / or the collective intelligence of her family she made a very wise decision.

I would wish you luck but it would require much much more than that for you extreme negativity of the pinky world. On the other hand continued success on your self for filling prophecy.DG, I'm very sorry that report did not give you a hard on. Hahaha. It was an interesting and useful field experiment.

Why dont you contribute something useful for a change instead of just waiting there to cut down people that submit reports. Its your extreme negativity thats killing the forum.

I would say something else, but you and your mates would run off to the Moderator bawling your eyes out. Hahahaha

Bushes
11-08-19, 06:31
I went on a dive excursion the other day. There were about a dozen divers on the boat including about 4 lovely Japanese ladies who were on their last certifying dimy country.Saw picture of arrested Taiwanese girl in a string bikini whereby a thread had more material.


I'm pleased to report that I have dumped the corporate executive I had been dating online. It was a lucky escape that has ended well. Hahahaha. Overall, it was an interesting social experiment and it just confirmed my views about Pinays.

inays are all the same. There's no escaping their stupidity, shallowness and lack of common sense and awareness. We are not wrong in stereotyping them.Wild guess. She wanted you to pay.

I think email works for some and some only hold till midnight.

Engine Driver
11-08-19, 07:13
What a fun and amusing place the Philippines is. I've finally been able to contact the sole Muslim hooker in Pampanga. Turns out she lives in Guagua, about 35 kms from Fields Avenue. I sure as hell ain't going to Guagua to root this bird. Hahaha. Her brothers and uncles will come after me with a machete. So do I just invite her up to my hotel in AC in her full Muslim gear? Hahaha. What a crazy place!

BrainDrain
11-09-19, 00:49
3. She was scared I would finally discover the orchestrated litany of lies (sorry Justice Mahon) she had been telling me. Many aspects of her story just didn't quite add up including her age, education, relationship history and experience.I was sure it was going to be No 3. And I love the way these things can work out so well. Really you were playing it right and calling her bluff. Note to anyone that would have thought it would have occurred had you sent travel money.

And how easy is it to substitute in Philippines.

Seems to be a win-win.

Engine Driver
11-10-19, 10:09
I was sure it was going to be No 3. And I love the way these things can work out so well. Really you were playing it right and calling her bluff. Note to anyone that would have thought it would have occurred had you sent travel money.

And how easy is it to substitute in Philippines.

Seems to be a win-win.If you can't laugh at yourself, you're a miserable fuck I say. Hahahaha. It was a great insight for me as I had previously been a point and shoot man, limiting myself to the bars only. I can see the benefits of online action in Manila and Cebu, but I'm not convinced of its need in AC.

Jooml2
11-10-19, 10:42
Hello fellow mongers,

New to this forum but had prevision mongering experience in Europe & Colombia.

I am planning a 2-3 weeks trip to the Philippines Feb-March (Manila area, Cebu - (maybe Palawan).

Would be focusing on quality Non-pro or Semi-pro girls (no attachments. I like sleeping alone).

Tried my luck using DAI and Filipino cupid and had a huge success, however.

Most of the ladies contacted me were (and I quote) "God fearing", "looking for a long term only" "looking 4 the 1" etc'.

I'm sure in time I'll know how to read the signs who is available for a few hours of fun for a handful of pesos and who is looking 4 the full package, but some advise how to play the online game here would sure bring me up to speed quicker.

Thanks.

Goferring
11-10-19, 11:22
I can see the benefits of online action in Manila and Cebu, but I'm not convinced of its need in AC.I agree that there is no NEED but many of us still prefer online over bar fines, even in AC.

It's been a loooong time since a bar fine has rocked my world and been truly memorable. However, I've had many online girls become great nights for many different reasons.

I still go to the bars but it's more likely to have a few drinks, catch up with some guys or just have a perve. It's not as if there is great conversation with the girls. Even the days of bar hopping, a few too many drinks with a couple of barfined fun girls in tow is a rarity now.

Now I can count the number of bar fines per trip on a few fingers. Existing contacts (mostly met initially online) or new online hookups make up the remainder of the nights.

Enjoy. G.

D Cups
11-10-19, 15:55
I agree that there is no NEED but many of us still prefer online over bar fines, even in AC.

It's been a loooong time since a bar fine has rocked my world and been truly memorable. However, I've had many online girls become great nights for many different reasons.

I still go to the bars but it's more likely to have a few drinks, catch up with some guys or just have a perve. It's not as if there is great conversation with the girls. Even the days of bar hopping, a few too many drinks with a couple of barfined fun girls in tow is a rarity now.

Now I can count the number of bar fines per trip on a few fingers. Existing contacts (mostly met initially online) or new online hookups make up the remainder of the nights.

Enjoy. G.My sentiments exactly. DG, G Man, KG, BD et al you have to remember that ED is a disciple of the late great Choca Monger. The kool aid has taken effect in him.

Engine Driver
11-10-19, 20:58
Saw picture of arrested Taiwanese girl in a string bikini whereby a thread had more material.

Yes, it was a pretty fucking awesome bikini, that's for sure. Even a Burgos girl would have been too shy to wear that. Mongers should type in "Taiwanese Girl Boracay" if they want to see that bikini. Apparently she said it was an expression of art. Hahahaha. And the police captain said they are a very conservative community.

PedroMorales
11-10-19, 23:36
I was just going through my old contacts. It is amazing the amount of them need money for all kinds of things. Could this work in reverse if I started asking them to send me money for hookers and to toast their health and those of our fallen comrades on this fateful day with Champagne Pol Roger 2008 Cuvée Sir Winston Churchill, which I can get at $249 a bottle?

Has anybody here ever gotten anything material besides a dose from the hookers? I got a box of chocolates from an American trolly dolly who doubles as a bonk machine.

GDreams
11-11-19, 01:26
Hello fellow mongers,

New to this forum but had prevision mongering experience in Europe & Colombia.

I am planning a 2-3 weeks trip to the Philippines Feb-March (Manila area, Cebu - (maybe Palawan).

Would be focusing on quality Non-pro or Semi-pro girls (no attachments. I like sleeping alone).

Tried my luck using DAI and Filipino cupid and had a huge success, however.

Most of the ladies contacted me were (and I quote) "God fearing", "looking for a long term only" "looking 4 the 1" etc'.

I'm sure in time I'll know how to read the signs who is available for a few hours of fun for a handful of pesos and who is looking 4 the full package, but some advise how to play the online game here would sure bring me up to speed quicker.

Thanks.Just reply that you are looking for a casual meeting. Most will say that's OK. If not move on. Be aware that in Manila nowhere is close. 10 km could be an hour or more in a taxi or many hours by public transport.

Goferring
11-11-19, 01:45
I was just going through my old contacts. It is amazing the amount of them need money for all kinds of things. Could this work in reverse if I started asking them to send me money for hookers and to toast their health and those of our fallen comrades on this fateful day with Champagne Pol Roger 2008 Cuvée Sir Winston Churchill, which I can get at $249 a bottle?

Has anybody here ever gotten anything material besides a dose from the hookers? I got a box of chocolates from an American trolly dolly who doubles as a bonk machine.I've got buy one get one free a few times.

Does that count? G.

Goferring
11-11-19, 01:55
I'm sure in time I'll know how to read the signs who is available for a few hours of fun for a handful of pesos and who is looking 4 the full package, but some advise how to play the online game here would sure bring me up to speed quicker.

Thanks.Keep in mind that I'm as dumb as dogshit so I like to keep things very simple. If I say that its nice that she is looking for Mr Right but would she like to stay the night in my hotel room and she says anything in reply, then even I can tell it's a positive sign.

Of course, you can save time by asking if she's ok with 3 k for bareback anal. Silence means she wasn't what you were looking for anyway. Again, any reply means pretend I'm a good girl and I'll do anything.

Enjoy. G.

Engine Driver
11-11-19, 02:10
My sentiments exactly. DG, G Man, KG, BD et al you have to remember that ED is a disciple of the late great Choca Monger. The kool aid has taken effect in him.Preamble.

Engine drivers are generally very passive people. They focus on their job making sure the locomotive runs to schedule, the fireman shovels coal at the right rate, the fire is at the correct temperature and the boilers have sufficient water to produce superheated steam. Sometimes they encounter difficult platform guards at various stations who cause problems for the smooth running of the train. It might be because these guards are functionality illiterate fat fucks (FIFF) and just can't read instructions and timetables.

Story.

There are some mongers on this board that have somehow acquired Chateau Lafite Rothschild tastes, but unfortunately, their measly salaries only allow for Red Horse Lager. What to do? To counter this social disadvantage, their usual MO appears to be obtaining contacts for top shelf hookers, banging them, and then shorting them on the fuck fee. Hahaha. Rather a sneaky little trick don't you think? Hahahaha.

If a monger was to try this trick, say in Dumaguete, the Ilonggo pimps would be very irate. I mean, in a country where machismo and chivalry are so highly valued, what sort of pimp would not protect the honour of his hookers? They would slice off the monger's prick and feed it to their pet dogs. Thus the monger's retirement days in Pussy Heaven would be cut rather short, wouldn't you say?

On the other hand, if the monger was to try this extremely dangerous tactic in Medellin, the fiery, hot blooded Colombian pimps would not be as kind as their Pinoy counterparts. Hahahaha. They would not hesitate to slit the poor gringo's throat and then throw the fat, limp body into the piranha infested rivers as a lesson to other mongers. Many a silly, fat, banjo playing American fool has simply disappeared without trace in those parts for trying such a trick. Hahaha.

In the interests of safety, my recommendation would be for those with limited means to focus on the 200-peso street meat. One can easily access from this form of refreshment from the slums around Tondo.

Fucking above one's station, especially in shit hole countries, never ends well.

Goferring
11-11-19, 02:55
If a monger was to try this trick, say in Dumaguete, the Ilonggo pimps would be very irate. I mean, in a country where machismo and chivalry are so highly valued, what sort of pimp would not protect the honour of his hookers? They would slice off the monger's prick and feed it to their pet dogs. Thus the monger's retirement days in Pussy Heaven would be cut rather short, wouldn't you say?
Or, guy roots girl. Guys doesn't pay girl but kicks her out.

Guy thinks he's king shit so tells everyone that listens and has a great joke. Word gets around town and girl is deeply embarrassed.

Guy forgets that the girl's school friend is cleaning his room and her neighbor has an uncle is a cop.

Guy mysteriously gets busted with drugs in his room and is sentenced to a few years of not so luxurious detention. Now who is laughing??

It's not a coincidence that lots if burnt out expats get busted with 0. 000001 g of blow in their room days after an altercation in Cebu, Phuket or Bali.

Enjoy. G.

Member #1088
11-12-19, 02:57
I just got back to DIA.

It is definitive better than PL.

I had to close my browser, I was getting lots of likes and msg.

LOL,

Wow, just wow.

Radical Guy
11-12-19, 23:27
There have been cases of young guys committing suicide over this. That said, the amount of guys who send dick pics seems to be very high. Anyone asks me for stuff like that, I run. Still, Hicksville, where even the sheep are ugly, must be full of guys with wads to waste.If anyone ever asks me for a "dick pic," I just send them a picture of Richard Nixon. LOL.

Dg8787
11-13-19, 03:59
A month ago before arriving in Angeles 2 different non bar girls started to FB messenger me. I saw both of them separately of course. One was 19 yo with a willingness to learn and to please! The other one was 28 yo hard body who loved to multi O.

Upon reviewing their FB pages I realized both had sisters that worked in the bars and I had barfined previously! Both confirmed this with me individually and make me swear to keep this a secret from sis.

Now I add these 2 to an extensive list of sisters and cousins that I have had.

Engine Driver
11-13-19, 10:37
If anyone ever asks me for a "dick pic," I just send them a picture of Richard Nixon. LOL.Yes, those intellectual giants on PL would really know who he was. Hahaha. They would think he was a handsome man and rather a youthful looking monger. Well certainly compared to the geriatric great granddads on this forum. Hahahaha.

Engine Driver
11-13-19, 10:42
I just got back to DIA.

I had to close my browser, I was getting lots of likes and msg.

LOL,

Wow, just wow.Relax, that's normal. Fresh meat always gets a lot of hits in the first few days. It doesn't mean those hookers like you, it just means they want your money now. Hahaha.

Kabul Guy
11-20-19, 09:36
What do you guys think? Does your nationality really matter in getting the ladies? I am not talking about the point and shoot bar girls, all that matters is now many pesos. I am talking about the non-pro's either looking for a good time, a little help on the rent this week or something longer term.

I know that ethnicity can be a huge deal for some of the ladies here. I know a Vietnamese American guy, early 50's, who left Viet Nam as a boat people when he was about 10 years old. The ladies would not believe that he was American many refused to see him and almost no one believed that he was American until he showed hos passport or a US ID card.

Does your nationality matter that much to them? I am assuming that the vast majority of us here are from a western developed country, Canada, USA, Europe, Australia an New Zealand for the most part.

From my discussions with the ladies, I think that being Aussie or American can be a bit of a negative. Simply because these appear to be the majority of the mongers and all girls have had or at least know of someone who had a bad experience with someone from there. Canucks, Kiwi and European are fewer and many girls have no first or close second hand experience with these nationalities.

The ladies tell me that being Canadian is interesting, and therefore a positive, but here you never know, are they being truthful or telling you what they think you want to hear? I know we generally have a good reputation and there are not that many of us here so it could be that simple. (Lots of Filipino's in Canada, in my home city the most common language after English is believe it or not Tagalog.).

What has been your experiences in this?

Goferring
11-20-19, 10:20
What has been your experiences in this?Remove the negative bias for Indians, Arabs and EurAsians and the holy grail of the opportunity for US Resident Visa and we are told what we want to hear. Even Indians and Arabs have no issues if they know where to hunt.

I too have seen Asian American / Australian / Canadians unable to get laid with a fist of fifties. Girls just don't believe any of their pleading about their nationality.

Remember that we all take second place to wealthy Pinoys but they generally wouldn't touch any of the girls Western mongers brag about.

Enjoy. G.

Mr Enternational
11-20-19, 13:34
Does your nationality really matter in getting the ladies? No. Because I tell chicks I am from all over the place (USA, Brazil, South Africa, India, UAE, Thailand, Egypt - when in fact I am just a Black dude from the ghetto) and it has not made a difference yet. One thing you seem to be forgetting is that a foreigner is a foreigner to them. These hoes don't know Cameroon from Canada.

Even here in the USA, to the average American you are either White, Black, Chinese, or Mexican. All that other shit nobody has a clue about.

Believing it made a difference would just be your own ethnocentrism along with some lies those hoes told you. Just tell them you are from somewhere else and report back with the difference you experience.

BrainDrain
11-20-19, 22:51
What has been your experiences in this?Money is money and everyone pays in peso anyway but.

One difference can be found if the filipina has previously had an extremely good or extremely bad relationship with one of your fellow compatriots.

Had one girl in AC that stayed with me for a few days. Her Aussie ex-BF was from Cairns. She seemed to genuinely care for him. She looked after me very well also. Last I heard she had gotten back with him.

My ex-GF of a year has a new non-Aussie BF. She swears she will not ever touch another aussie sausage. Guess she wasn't happy with me.

As a Brainddrain update I haven't spent much time on the forum this year. Been busy retraining my work skills.

Cheers.

Engine Driver
11-21-19, 23:30
I've been chatting with a very pretty 28-year old girl from Rizal (just outside Manila), for the past month. So we agreed to meet at my hotel in Makati next week and she had planned a full day of activities for us. Seafood lunch, couples spa session and then a romance movie. I have no problem with any of that freeloading on my account because that's the stuff I like to do with pretty girls anyway. Hahaha. She also asked for some cosmetics from my country. Certainly, happy to oblige. Anything for a pretty girl.

So come crunch time, I approached the most important subject. Here's how she reprimanded me (below). Hahahaha. I did not expect her to be so conservative and devout. If I'm going to drop serious coin on seafood, Hi so hotel massages and movie tickets, then I expect to fuck. Please tell me if this is an unreasonable expectation in the Philippines hahaha. Too bad there's only another 20 chicks to take her place. Bye bye Miss Rizal.

The best advice on this thread is from G-man. He advocates that mongers only turn on their dating apps when they arrive at NAIA and then send them photos of the hotel room, door number and keys. The conversion rate is just too low if you line up girls beforehand. Here's what go can and will go wrong if you plan too far ahead:

1. Oh I forgot. I thought it was next week. (Hookers don't have secretaries to manage their diaries like all you fat, rich, executive mongers).

2. Menstruation duty. Might be true, but might also be a made up excuse to cover a number of things.

3. Better offer from another monger. This is very, very common. One chick I was going to meet is jetting off to BKK (she sent me a copy of ther ticket) to fuck another monger (as if there's no hookers in Thailand).

4. Oh, I'm working that day.

5. Can't be bothered getting out of bed. This occurs when she has already seen a couple of mongers that week and doesn't need the money.

6. Hangover from previous night.

7. Sick kids / mom / tita or can't find a baby sitter.

8. Changed phone number. Very common.

9. No load. Very common.

10. Or does turn up, but is three fuckin' hours late.

The girls have no appreciation that we travel a long way to see them. I find that repeat girls have a 100% reliability factor because there's already trust.

WestCoast1
11-22-19, 01:30
9. No load. Very common.

10. Or does turn up, but is three fuckin' hours late.11. Don't forget Low-batt.


I find that repeat girls have a 100% reliability factor because there's already trust.One of the reasons I take fewer and fewer new girls. Its possible for me to spend 3-4 weeks in the city and see one or two regulars. Mine are well-trained into *my* 'foreigner' ways (system), and cater to my needs. The trust is there usually for both sides, so everyone knows the routine before wheels-down. Imagine you arrive in town and lady #1 spends Sunday evening thru Tuesday morning with you. Lady #2 spends Wednesday evening thru Saturday morning with you. Each girl knows of the other. You have Wednesday and Saturday nights to yourself. Your condo is spotless because they clean it that way (read: My Way) daily. Your fav foods and drinks are stocked as you like because she runs off to do your shopping for you. Your laundry is taken care of by the girl. Lady #1 is returning on Sunday late afternoon.

Its not 100% reliable, but its pretty good. I can take fresh meet not only Wednesday and Saturday (the girls know), but I can also tell the girls to see if they can bring a friend / cousin for a 3-some (they do). This is not the 1-week monger schedule of multiple girls daily, but there is something to be said for it.

Goferring
11-22-19, 02:59
11. Don't forget Low-batt.
#12. Being flirty was a fun game online but now this white guy is actually here. What do I do now? (Very common in provinces).

Goferring
11-22-19, 03:04
One of the reasons I take fewer and fewer new girls. Its possible for me to spend 3-4 weeks in the city and see one or two regulars.Westie, go for girls with a job. Have fun by night and when they disappear during the day grab an infill, do your own stuff, go shopping for flux capacitors. Whatever, just no need to entertain or be pestered by them. Rinse and repeat that night when she returns after work.

Cheers. G.

Goferring
11-22-19, 03:14
. I did not expect her to be so conservative and devout. If I'm going to drop serious coin on seafood, Hi so hotel massages and movie tickets, then I expect to fuck. Please tell me if this is an unreasonable expectation in the Philippines hahaha.What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan. Reading between the lines that she wants to get out of hometown I suggest we go there for a couple of days. She's happy but wants a twin share room. Sorry but we are sleeping together and yes, I'm going to fuck you. Oh, the shock and surprise. Bye.

Enjoy. G.

Sammon
11-22-19, 04:41
What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan. Reading between the lines that she wants to get out of hometown I suggest we go there for a couple of days. She's happy but wants a twin share room. Sorry but we are sleeping together and yes, I'm going to fuck you. Oh, the shock and surprise. Bye.

Enjoy. G.This is why you need back up plan. I usually have at least 5 girls lined up. At least 3 favorite ones with cam talk, money discussed, overnight stay discussed and agreed.

It is me after meeting do not like some and fuck once and ask them to leave. They have a surprise look. Mainly because smelly pussy or ugly body, sex poor and any number reasons. Why waste time with a girl I am least bit interested in fucking again.

Generally if you discuss on cam and talk about sex girls will say yes or no. Those who say no, no reason to continue. So far only one girl who just found out she is pregnant was hesitant. I felt sorry for her and we just hugged each other and slept. She did say she will make it up to me after she has the baby. But I knew where it is going with demands for money. I just ignored her afterwards.

You need to watch out for girls asking money for this and that and promising yo be with you. They will never come. So do not send money. I always say borrow and I will reimburse you. Some girls have done that. Those I keep.

Girls are always available but may not be the beauty we want.

Goferring
11-22-19, 05:26
This is why you need back up plan. I usually have at least 5 girls lined up. Sam,

You are welcome to your MO and I'm glad it works for you. For me, more time, contingency plans and back up girls just allows more time and opportunities for the girls to develop sick grandmas, unexpected rent bills and medical emergencies.

I've continued to chat with some of the girls from my posts about making online work with unpaid subscriptions. They are rapidly confirming that my original MO was the best one for me: "I'm near Ayala, would you like to meet for a coffee after class?" Its a yes or no answer, not months of discussion then a no show. If she's fugly, I'm down a Jollie Bee. Who cares?

Even the many numbers I have gathered, I've told them that it's nice to meet them but I'm only going to chat again when I'm in country. All, especially the Most Popular lookers appreciate this rather than "I'm coming next year".

Enjoy. G.

PilotPaul
11-22-19, 05:58
go shopping for flux capacitors
Cheers. G.Is this a crazy new sexual innuendo that needs to get added to the ISG Glossary? Or do you actually mean flux capacitor that helps the girls to arrive on-time even when they leave home 30 minutes after the agreed meeting time?

There seems to be two clear realistic punter approaches:

Newbie / planner approach: Make contact, qualify a shortlist and execute upon arrival.

Winging it with confidence: Make and collect contacts, execute with exit options.

They are probably mutually exclusive approaches. What works for one may not work for the other style of punter.

PP.

Engine Driver
11-22-19, 06:07
What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan. Reading between the lines that she wants to get out of hometown I suggest we go there for a couple of days. She's happy but wants a twin share room. Sorry but we are sleeping together and yes, I'm going to fuck you. Oh, the shock and surprise. Bye.

Enjoy. G.Another monger PMd me and said I should self report to the 'Stupid Mongers in the Philippines' thread. Don't worry. When I arrive in Flipsville tomorrow, I shall be regularly reporting on my own stupidity. Hahahaha.

Im still laughing my head off. Strict catholic girl wants to gorge on seafood, get a 5,000 peso spa treatment, watch a movie in Greenbelt, accept my gifts and wants to skip town without dropping her panties. Hahaha. So that you all dont think Im a complete idiot, Ive ghosted that chick with no explanation. Hahahaha

PilotPaul
11-22-19, 10:08
What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan.Well when I get that line I hthnk it goes something like:

Great idea, I have Netflix on my laptop. We can watch in the room. And the only place to sit is on the bed. And it goes to plan after that.

I liked Surigao girls and would go there again.

PP.

Mr Enternational
11-22-19, 12:08
.Im still laughing my head off. Strict catholic girl wants to gorge on seafood, get a 5,000 peso spa treatment, watch a movie in Greenbelt, accept my gifts and wants to skip town without dropping her panties. Hahaha. So that you all dont think Im a complete idiot, Ive ghosted that chick with no explanation. HahahahaNo need to ghost. Just fuck first and do all that other shit she wanted to do later.

Goferring
11-22-19, 13:40
No need to ghost. Just fuck first and do all that other shit she wanted to do later.+1. ED said she was coming to meet in the hotel room. Surely the rest of the day would be contingent on the first couple of hours being productive?

How many times has a pina projected a good girl image only to become the filthiest hoe behind closed doors?

Having said that the expectation of lots of gifts with no quid pro quo is not at all unusual.

I know I'm not wasting 4 days on the Surigao girl unless she has demonstrated that she is worth it. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

Engine Driver
11-23-19, 00:45
No need to ghost. Just fuck first and do all that other shit she wanted to do later.It's the bad attitude that irritated me. The girls on PL need to understand there's give and take. I had a feeling that this girl was also going to ask me for some money for medical issues. There was nothing to be gained when it's a buyers market out there.

Goferring
11-24-19, 00:49
It's the bad attitude that irritated me. .....There was nothing to be gained when it's a buyers market out there.Enough said. That's a deal breaker right there.

I don't care what caused it but if she developed an attitude, she's gone. Entitlement gives me the shytes big time.

You did the right thing. G.

Mr Enternational
11-24-19, 02:45
It's the bad attitude that irritated me. The girls on PL need to understand there's give and take. I had a feeling that this girl was also going to ask me for some money for medical issues. There was nothing to be gained when it's a buyers market out there.Those are the ones that I like to break in. Send them pictures of me ballin and show them how they missed out.

Sammon
11-24-19, 03:14
I never ever discuss going out to eat, going to movies, going sightseeing trips, beach destinations with the girl I am meeting first time. For all these activities there should be chemistry between us. There should be good sexual and loving compatibility. Nowadays I openly ask if they want to stay with me which includes sex. My meet girls are from exclusively DIA.

I do not accept maybe, let us see etc answers. Yes or no. I do not chase if they say maybe. I tell them if they change their mind to contact me. Some have come back. Some come back with demands. Of the girls who said yes want to know about compensation. I tell them my offer. If they are mercenary I leave them. Lately some girls have gotten the idea that foreigners are really hard up and will give any amount. Demand 10000 to 15000 per night. I say going rate is 2500.

Do I worry about not getting anybody. Yes, sometimes. Sometimes all laid out plans go awry. So what if you spend a night alone. I do have back ups but they need time to meet me and some need advance notification.

Irrespective of how beautiful the girl is or how desperately you want her never make plans or offer anything. You are showing weakness and they will exploit any weakness.

Mr Enternational
11-24-19, 03:21
I never ever discuss going out to eat, going to movies, going sightseeing trips, beach destinations with the girl I am meeting first time. For all these activities there should be chemistry between us. There should be good sexual and loving compatibility. I don't even discuss it after that.

Kabul Guy
11-24-19, 05:55
I don't even discuss it after that.To each their own, but I like to have a relationship with the girl other than her being a collection of orifices I can stick my dick into.

Goferring
11-24-19, 09:58
To each their own, but I like to have a relationship with the girl other than her being a collection of orifices I can stick my dick into.Agreed. But remember these are not mutually exclusive. If anything, I find a girl that is reasonably happy to be there gives me a much more satisfying performance than someone who has a checklist of acts to gain $X.

Enjoy. G.

Kabul Guy
11-24-19, 23:08
Agreed. But remember these are not mutually exclusive. If anything, I find a girl that is reasonably happy to be there gives me a much more satisfying performance than someone who has a checklist of acts to gain $X.

Enjoy. G.Not exclusive but very difficult to find one that is compatible with me, good looking, good in bed, open minded, intelligent, educated and good English skills, not a gold digger etc.

I am a morning person, I actually like being up at 5 AM or earlier, and then am often sleeping by 8 or 9 PM or so. Morning people are pretty rare and in the Philippines I think that they are even more scarce. It is really limiting my pool of possible candidates for an ongoing relationship.

Goferring
11-25-19, 05:40
Not exclusive but very difficult to find one that is compatible with me, good looking, good in bed, open minded, intelligent, educated and good English skills, not a gold digger etc.

I am a morning person, I actually like being up at 5 AM or earlier, and then am often sleeping by 8 or 9 PM or so. Morning people are pretty rare and in the Philippines I think that they are even more scarce. It is really limiting my pool of possible candidates for an ongoing relationship.As a resident, you have a headstart over the rest of us so I wouldn't think it would be that hard to find a near unicorn. Now keeping these attributes is another matter. 😮 If I got 6 months out of a GF before she lost the plot, I was doing exceedingly well.

ID agree that finding early starters is hard any where in asia.

Enjoy. G.

Wicked Roger
11-25-19, 07:04
Not exclusive but very difficult to find one that is compatible with me, good looking, good in bed, open minded, intelligent, educated and good English skills, not a gold digger etc.

I am a morning person, I actually like being up at 5 AM or earlier, and then am often sleeping by 8 or 9 PM or so. Morning people are pretty rare and in the Philippines I think that they are even more scarce. It is really limiting my pool of possible candidates for an ongoing relationship.I am a morning person KG (5/530 am most days) but don't think I qualify (or would want to) for the other things you need LOL.

The only time a pinay is truly a morning person is if you say 'the plane to (name any overseas destination) leaves at 6 am and we need be at airport by 4 am'. Then they are up and ready as means a Facebook moment to make their friends jealous LOL.

But a pinay in the UAE or elsewhere is up early and works hard.

Kabul Guy
11-25-19, 10:06
....

ID agree that finding early starters is hard any where in asia.

Enjoy. G.On the bright side of that, it does help with having to go to the bank, to the LTO and paying bills etc. There are no locals in front of me in the line.

However I would rather have a girl wake up beside me daily ready for a sunrise fuck and suck before she makes my coffee and breakfast, than not have to wait in line about once a month.

Goferring
11-26-19, 13:02
Am I the only one who is getting lots of girls who are reluctant to give out their WA number etc but insist on receiving mine first?

I do get added but they want to receive my number not give out theirs in the first instance. Obviously after the first message, I have their details anyway.

Enjoy. G.

Engine Driver
11-26-19, 15:20
Am I the only one who is getting lots of girls who are reluctant to give out their WA number etc but insist on receiving mine first?

I do get added but they want to receive my number not give out theirs in the first instance. Obviously after the first message, I have their details anyway.

Enjoy. G.I have no problem in getting their WhatsApp or Viber, but it's a two or three step process with these Pinays. First I ask if they have WhatsApp. Instead of then giving me the number straight away (like a logical person would), they simply reply yes or no. I then have to ask if I can have the number. If I ask them straight up for WhatsApp, they will ask why? If they don't have WhatsApp, then I have to ask them a series of questions to work out which app they have. They don't seem to be able to think more than one move ahead.

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11-26-19, 16:35
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Mr Enternational
11-26-19, 16:48
Am I the only one who is getting lots of girls who are reluctant to give out their WA number etc but insist on receiving mine first?

I do get added but they want to receive my number not give out theirs in the first instance. Obviously after the first message, I have their details anyway.I think it is just a dumb island nation thing. Plus they want to feel in control. I like to compare PI with Dominican Republic. They are both island nations and run neck and neck on the intelligence quotient. Chicks there like to argue that if they don't say hello first then I will not say hello. What difference does it make who speaks to who first, as long as we are speaking? You have nothing beterr to do than argue about who speaks to who first?

I have also met chicks on the sites that get upset if I ask them questions. Well aren't you on this site to meet someone? How the fuck will you get to know each other if they can't ask you questions? Or they always ask why with each question I ask. What's your favorite color? Why? That drives me crazy.

One chick there that I would often talk to only came to see me one time in person. Whenever I was there she would always say how she didn't have time because of work. Then she would also say she did not trust me. A couple of years went by and I wrote to her last week. She had a Dominican boyfriend that knocked her up and disappeared. (And where are these guys able to disappear to all the time on these small islands?)

But wait a minute. Weren't you telling me that you didn't have time because of work? So how did you have time for him? Guess you really don't have time now taking care of a new baby by yourself and all. They constantly bet on the wrong horse. Dumb island shit.

PilotPaul
11-26-19, 22:17
Am I the only one who is getting lots of girls who are reluctant to give out their WA number etc but insist on receiving mine first?

I do get added but they want to receive my number not give out theirs in the first instance. Obviously after the first message, I have their details anyway.

Enjoy. G.It's like when using Viver they also want you to be the want to call. "OK call me". The calls are free, it doesn't matter who calls.

Maybe it is considered a politeness like they always calling s Sir or Boss.

Even one girl I know now for 5 years will accidentally call me Sir instead of my first name. And we have done a lot of things together.

For ED comments about getting their number. In a country with few possessions, I guess they at least have something you want.

PP.

Engine Driver
11-28-19, 02:02
This nice looking chick on Tinder is happy to meet, but wants to bring her Tita along. That means it will be a two date process before she will drop her panties. Unless of course her Tita wants to join for a three some. I know what WR would do. What would you do? Hahahaha.

Dg8787
11-28-19, 04:33
This nice looking chick on Tinder is happy to meet, but wants to bring her Tita along. That means it will be a two date process before she will drop her panties. Unless of course her Tita wants to join for a three some. I know what WR would do. What would you do? Hahahaha.I don't know why it would be dreaded. I have had some good experiences with Titas. Sometimes the Tita and niece are only a few years apart. Sometimes the Tita is younger than the niece!

I never got a threesome with them. One always rotated to the cr while the other one was busy with me.

Most girls will not travel to a unknown area alone. Pretty typical the girl brings along a trusted Tita.

I would go for it.

Mr Enternational
11-28-19, 06:27
This nice looking chick on Tinder is happy to meet, but wants to bring her Tita along. That means it will be a two date process before she will drop her panties. Unless of course her Tita wants to join for a three some. I know what WR would do. What would you do? Hahahaha.Tell her no. She can send the aunt alone to check you out if she wants. Then next time she can come alone.

Wicked Roger
11-28-19, 07:28
This nice looking chick on Tinder is happy to meet, but wants to bring her Tita along. That means it will be a two date process before she will drop her panties. Unless of course her Tita wants to join for a three some. I know what WR would do. What would you do? Hahahaha.LOL ED.

Depends if tita is sexy but some 'tita' can be really best friend and not a fugly but the opportunity should not passed up.

I always watch and see if they order lots of food and box it up for the rest of the family. Is way of paying an 'entry fee' into the niece LOL before tita say you are a nice man and go shag him.

But I have enjoyed a few titas (and mothers also who came with their daughter).

Engine Driver
11-28-19, 07:30
Tell her no. She can send the aunt alone to check you out if she wants. Then next time she can come alone.Thanks for the advice DG and E. She has now agreed to come on her own as long as it's at the mall. We are having coffee tomorrow at Greenbelt 3. Let's see if I can then show her the view from my hotel room. Hahaha.

Goferring
11-28-19, 09:57
I have no problem in getting their WhatsApp or Viber, but it's a two or three step process with these Pinays. First I ask if they have WhatsApp. Instead of then giving me the number straight away (like a logical person would), they simply reply yes or no. I then have to ask if I can have the number.Yes!! It's even worse for negative answers:

Are you in Cebu (as per your profile)? Nope. Where are you? At home. Where do you live? With my parents, my brother and his wife. What province do you live in? Cebu. Faaaark! Ok, what city? Etc etc.

Albert9989
11-29-19, 00:31
This nice looking chick on Tinder is happy to meet, but wants to bring her Tita along. That means it will be a two date process before she will drop her panties. Unless of course her Tita wants to join for a three some. I know what WR would do. What would you do? Hahahaha.Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo, but I could wait for her in Cebu and she says her father wouldn't agree for her to take bus. So she ask me to come in Toledo, even hotel. And then she could stay with me.

I am not really interested in meeting with father.

What would be your advice?

Could I just hire a car with driver to go to Toledo and then if ok drive back to Cebu with her?

Can I avoid to meet with family. ?

I had stopped contact with her after this exchange, but your post ED, reminds me her, and she is quite pretty. So. I am wondering.

BrainDrain
11-29-19, 00:54
Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo,
I had stopped contact with her after this exchange, but your post ED, reminds me her, and she is quite pretty. So. I am wondering.Have you exhausted all of the pussy in Cebu and Mactan?

IMO opinion you are wasting your time unless you have other options in Toledo or you want to see the place.

Any girl offering for you to stay with her family is not expecting a regular bedroom pounding every hour or so.

The goal is for us to maximise our time in bed not the girls convenience and family issues. Family and fun are mutually exclusive.

Any serious girl would easily coerce a friend or cousin into a joint trip to Cebu under the pretence of the cousin needing a travel buddy for a job interview. Father's are easily handled by the girl, not us.

Engine Driver
11-29-19, 01:54
Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo, but I could wait for her in Cebu and she says her father wouldn't agree for her to take bus. So she ask me to come in Toledo, even hotel. And then she could stay with me.

I am not really interested in meeting with father.

What would be your advice?

Could I just hire a car with driver to go to Toledo and then if ok drive back to Cebu with her?

Can I avoid to meet with family. ?

I had stopped contact with her after this exchange, but your post ED, reminds me her, and she is quite pretty. So. I am wondering.If I had a 19 year old daughter, would I want her to fuck a horny, foreign monger? Hahahaha.

Ask if she will be sleeping in the same bed as you in her house or will you be on the floor next to her father? Hahaha. If you go to her house, they will expect a lot from you, particularly if they are offering their daughters pussy to you. Nothing is ever free. You pay now or you pay later.

Personally, I would move on. There are thousands of girls out there. Tinder is very good when you are in location.

Mr Enternational
11-29-19, 02:03
Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo, but I could wait for her in Cebu and she says her father wouldn't agree for her to take bus. So she ask me to come in Toledo, even hotel. And then she could stay with me.

I am not really interested in meeting with father.

What would be your advice?

Could I just hire a car with driver to go to Toledo and then if ok drive back to Cebu with her?And when you drag your ass all the way to Toledo and she goes dark, what then? Keep your ass on the shore and fish from there. Don't go jumping into the water chasing fish around. You made an effort to go all the way to PI. The least they could do is to meet you somewhere civilized. If not, then there are thousands of others that will.

Albert9989
11-29-19, 02:12
Haha, thanks to all, no need for further answers, and not surprised by your answers also.

Seems crystal clear.

Goferring
11-29-19, 05:55
Any girl offering for you to stay with her family is not expecting a regular bedroom pounding every hour or so.

The goal is for us to maximise our time in bed not the girls convenience and family issues. Family and fun are mutually exclusive.Not always. I've only been rayped twice and one of those was when I took a girl back to the province and stayed at the family house. We were allocated the one true bed room in the house and upon arrival everyone conveniently disappeared to allow us to relax after the long journey. To say I had no option at all in what happened next is a total understatement. She was VERY determined to say thanks for coming to see the family and there was no slowdown for the rest of the stay.

Yes, I was funding dinner and outings for everyone but costs were cents per head and still far less than one night on Burgos.

I'd agree it's not a good idea for someone a monger has never met before but for a known and skilled special friend it can be a wild few days.

Enjoy. G.

Wicked Roger
11-29-19, 06:17
Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo, but I could wait for her in Cebu and she says her father wouldn't agree for her to take bus. So she ask me to come in Toledo, even hotel. And then she could stay with me.

I am not really interested in meeting with father.

What would be your advice?

Could I just hire a car with driver to go to Toledo and then if ok drive back to Cebu with her?

Can I avoid to meet with family. ?

I had stopped contact with her after this exchange, but your post ED, reminds me her, and she is quite pretty. So. I am wondering.Albert.

Toledo is an OK place met a few girls there and slightly further afield. V hire is OK but more comfort is a taxi as V hire is cramped for an hour (I drive my car or taxi).

Meeting family is likely the only way to get inside her panties LOL with her father's approval.

Same as Goffering I have seen the girl's parents or one of them and once met and approved (well who not approve of a an overweight horny old monger like me LOL) all was fine and the family disappear or you end up in a hotel in Toledo.

Some parents happy to let you whatever your dirty naughty mind wants to with there princess as long as you meet them. Maybe bring something nice for the parents such as a good box chocolate or some tequila for Dad? Always helps (just ask her what her Dad likes).

Ultimately is 'up to you' (to use that horrible pinay phrase. But just try and see as is a day out if nothing else.

Steve Nash
11-29-19, 14:43
Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo, but I could wait for her in Cebu and she says her father wouldn't agree for her to take bus. So she ask me to come in Toledo, even hotel. And then she could stay with me.

I am not really interested in meeting with father.

What would be your advice?

Could I just hire a car with driver to go to Toledo and then if ok drive back to Cebu with her?

Can I avoid to meet with family. ?

I had stopped contact with her after this exchange, but your post ED, reminds me her, and she is quite pretty. So. I am wondering.If I was you I will go there for 2 nights.

I went there once to meet a beautiful Pinay, you could stay at the resort I stayed I think is call The Ranch resort, it has a nice pool and a ranch with alot of animals, nice place to get to know your girl, and since she said she can stay in your hotel even better, worse case if the dad wants to meet you you can invite him at the resort pay for half a day entrance to the pool, and after that he will leave and leave you alone with her. Of course, I will try to avoid meeting the dad, but as a worse case scenario is not bad putting up with the dad for half a day and then screwing-up his beautiful daughter for two straight nights or even longer if you want.

One thing I notice is that Toledo has beautiful women, I had slept with 3 of them and 2 of them were really hot they both look like Korean but with blonde hair. So is worth it going there for a couple of nights, plus is not far from Cebu City either, like 1 hour only, if you go by van with air cond is only like around 150 php one way.

There are nice beaches there, and there is a cool place in the beach where you can bring your girl, is call Bugsay, it has live band and is pack with young filipinas on weekends, when I was with my girl, I went to the washroom, which is outside the live band place, yeah you got to pay to get in, but is very cheap. And while I was walking to the toilet, I met this girl, she was with her friends, we exchange numbers, I couldn't do much because my girl was waiting for me. But when I got back to Canada we chat abit and agree to meet on my next trip. When my next trip came, she came to Cebu City to meet me. She stayed with her cousins at first and then later with me, hard to get rid off her afterwards but it wasn't bad. See most Toledo girls have either a family or friend in Cebu City, so is fine for them to go there sometimes.

Other place you can go in Toledo to meet girls or to bring your girl is a place call: Payag, it has live band also but it kind of looks like a concert with a stage and tables to sit in groups, is an open place also, but yes you also have to pay, but is also cheap. Nice place to meet girls who are tipsy.

Or you can do like the third girl from Toledo that I met, she also has strict parents, so she lied to her dad that she needs to go to Cebu City with her best friend to buy some school supplies since her college classes was going to start in a month. Of course at the end she never buy school supplies, instead, she spent 2 nights getting to know my supply.

Albert9989
11-29-19, 23:54
Interesting, very interesting.

Thanks to ED, its because of his post that I reminded this cutie and his proposal to meet with dad. So I asked.

And now, I can see two very different options. ISG forum is really a great forum, Thanks to all for your answers.

The last options are really interesting, even if I am really not used to this kind of process. But really I would like to give a trial.

And all last details given by Steve could be a good basis to arrange that.

I will keep you aware of my choice when iw ill be there.

Thanks again to all.

Kabul Guy
11-30-19, 11:47
Interesting question, I have quite similar situation with this one. She is a 19 yo in Toledo, but I could wait for her in Cebu and she says her father wouldn't agree for her to take bus. So she ask me to come in Toledo, even hotel. And then she could stay with me.

I am not really interested in meeting with father.

What would be your advice?
....I have met families 3 times. Take a gift of a bottle for dad, flowers or chocolates for monm and if any sisters or brothers around some chocolate or inexpensive gifts would be the norm. I have taken tee shirts, ball caps and other trinkets.

Every time I have met it was basically a formality, they saw I was real and had the class or cultural awareness to bring small gifts. (Something from home can also work wonders.).

After the formalities are observed, they will let you fuck the daughter all you want. In one case she was an 18 year old virgin and they were OK with us living together and playing house for a couple of months.

I am in Cebu now and will be meeting Mom #4, soon. Daughter is in her 30's but cannot meet me for anty fun until Mom or Dad provide their approvals. I anticipate immediate approval and to bring daughter back to my Airbnb after meeting.

Engine Driver
11-30-19, 12:34
I have met families 3 times. Take a gift of a bottle for dad, flowers or chocolates for monm and if any sisters or brothers around some chocolate or inexpensive gifts would be the norm. I have taken tee shirts, ball caps and other trinkets.

Every time I have met it was basically a formality, they saw I was real and had the class or cultural awareness to bring small gifts. (Something from home can also work wonders.).

After the formalities are observed, they will let you fuck the daughter all you want. In one case she was an 18 year old virgin and they were OK with us living together and playing house for a couple of months.

I am in Cebu now and will be meeting Mom #4, soon. Daughter is in her 30's but cannot meet me for anty fun until Mom or Dad provide their approvals. I anticipate immediate approval and to bring daughter back to my Airbnb after meeting.What's the motivation behind the families giving up their daughters pussy to a horny, old monger?

1. The possibility of untold riches?

2. A one way ticket out of Shitsville?

3. Prestige?

This must be the only Asian culture where promiscuity is actively encouraged. I've got to get out of this country. It's totally doing my head in.

Engine Driver
12-01-19, 09:15
Thanks for the advice DG and E. She has now agreed to come on her own as long as it's at the mall. We are having coffee tomorrow at Greenbelt 3. Let's see if I can then show her the view from my hotel room. Hahaha.This is a rather long post so please indulge me. It has no explicit sexual content, so please swipe left now if that doesn't interest you. Just on the bus to AC, so have two hours to kill haha.

Underwhelmed.

So I went out to meet this 32 year girl at Seattle's Best Coffee Shop at Greenbelt. She was on time at 4. 00 pm. Must have been a world first for a Pinay. Gold medal material. She had traveled out from QC for three hours. I actually walked past her a couple of times as I couldn't recognize her. She recognized me (pretty hard to miss me hahaha). She looked nothing like her pictures. She was a frumpy mess, wearing cheap clothes and cheap librarian glasses. She did not look anything like her Tinder photos and to add further to my disappointment, she had some sort of skin condition below her eyes which were photoshopped out on her profile pics. She was completely out of place and out of her depth at Greenbelt. It was very embarrassing for me actually as I'm a suave Idris Elba type. Even Forest Gump or Fat Albert would have been embarrassed to be seen with her. I was very unimpressed that she had made no effort for a date, but then maybe they were the best clothes she had. Even an AC hooker would have made more of an effort. I said Hello, "M" and she was just too shy to say anything. Miss Congeniality she was not.

Nervous Wreck.

Poor girl was a nervous wreck. So soft spoken I could hardly hear a single word. Furthermore she couldn't understand much of what I was saying as us uneducated, gruff train drivers speak very rough, guttural English. We certainly don't have the Etonian clip which she was probably accustomed to hearing in QC hahaha. So we kept repeating what we were saying. Even ordering a coffee for her was a major fucking ordeal. She just said "up to you". FFS silly woman, a coffee is not up to me, it's up to you! She finally said coffee with milk after much coaxing. I ordered a cafe latte for her and an Americano for me because they can't fuck that up too much.

Dating History.

We asked each other about our dating history and I told her I was looking to marry a nice Filipina lady to share the rest of my life in Rich White Man Land (RWML). Hahaha. I told her I was previously married to a white woman and I did not want to make the same mistake again. She had been on various dating apps for years. She had had a two year online relationship with an Israeli guy who lived in Tel Aviv. It appears the Israeli just ran out of patience with her as she offered nothing in return for his enormous generosity. She's just a taker. They had even booked a civil marriage ceremony in Tel Aviv before he came to his senses and bailed out just in time. He was apparently averse to flying, so had not visited her in Flipsville. But I believe it. He had spent thousands of dollars on her and her kids on school expenses, presents and bills. He also paid for her to take solo holidays to Thailand and Hong Kong just to get the necessary passport chops in their totally valueless Pilipinas passports. I guess Pinays need to prove their bona fides and show they won't abscond.

After 12 months of pestering, she finally allowed him to masturbate in front of her on cam, but she would not even expose a single nipple. She's a prude of the highest order. She said the sexiest she could do for him was to wear a spaghetti strap top. No wonder the poor bugger quit.

She had also dated a Australian and an African American for several months each. Those horny fuckers also bailed after they realized she wasn't going to strip off on cam. Hahaha.

Intransigence.

I told her that she shouldn't be so intransigent in her ways and needed to be more flexible when dealing with foreigners. She refused to accept what I was saying and that she would never compromise her Christian values. Looks like she will be on the shelf for a very, very long time. I can just imagine how boring sex would be with her. Lights out, clothes on, no foreplay, missionary only. And she'the have a headache on all the days that she didn't have her period. She has no clue that she has zilch to offer a westerner. I have now dealt with a few Pinays who are convinced that a westerner is just moments away from taking them away from the shitholes into RWML.

Sadness and Misery.

She said she had not eaten since 11.00 am so I asked if she would like some dinner. Do you think she could decide? We walked a few yards over to Havanna Cafe. By this time I didn't even bother to ask what she wanted to eat as I would not get an answer. I just ordered a pizza as I know Filipinas love pizza and pasta. She said she doesn't drink. Yeah I had already figured that out. Haha. (For you out there wanting to know, no it was too early for the hookers to arrive at Havanna Cafe.).

I suggested to her that maybe she should not use Tinder as it's full of horny mongers on location looking for casual sex. I also told her that most of the girls on Tinder were hookers. She just dismissed me as if I didn't know what I was talking about. Naive and stubborn to the end. I said to her that dating apps cause nothing but sadness and misery and most men on them are married and just seeking free cam sex. She did not want to hear of it. Like WR mentioned, they all think that a rich Prince Charming is only one swipe away. I asked her what her success rate was after three years? She just gave me a blank stare. She was too stupid to realise it was zero. Idiot.

She then described how her best friend had been so successful in ensnaring an Australian man. They have now been married for three years. Funny thing is that the best friend and her Flip kids have never set foot in Australia. Not even on a tourist visa. I asked her wasn't that a bit odd? Married, but the man has never taken her to Australia. She replied, no, he's a good man and visits every year. I told her that he's already married in Australia, and her best friend is the secret wife. She was too naive to read the play. It looks like he visits her just to bang her for a few weeks before going back to his Aussie wife. The Australian authorities are not stupid and aren't going to hand out spousal visas for scam marriages.

Sawdust.

This lady has a degree in computer science and previously worked for a medium sized construction company as a purchaser. She now runs a sari sari store. I've met some stupid, naive Pinays before, but this one was the dumbest and most ignorant by far. At least the hookers I deal with are pragmatic and street smart. I've often said Pinays are bird brained. But to say this lady was bird brained would be an insult to God's feathered creatures. This lady has sawdust in her head. Some sexpats on this board claim that Filipino graduates are the smartest on earth, even surpassing Harvard and Yale graduates in intelligence. Well I don't know which University this lady purchased her degree from, but in my country, she would be at junior high school Year 8 standard. Education or no education, I can't believe how limited their vocabulary is. I could not use any words more than three letters long as she couldn't understand what I was saying.

Experiment Results.

Having conducted a number of field experiments now, I can safely say that:

1. I would never ever marry a Filipina.

2. Dating apps cause nothing but sadness and misery for everyone. Point and shoot is definitely more fun.

3. Pinays are more stupid and ignorant than I thought.

4. The sexpats on this board need to return to their home countries for a while to get back in touch with reality.

Engine Driver
12-01-19, 12:06
I forgot to add that towards the end of our meeting, her eyes started to tear up and I gave her a napkin to wipe. When I asked why she was upset, she said firstly, Christmas carols made her sad and then the fact that I was going to disappear forever after the meeting made her even sadder.

I told her it was better to be upfront now than to drag it on for too much longer. Needless to say, I did not get her into the hotel room for horizontal refreshment.

That's two hours of my life I won't get back.

And I can safely delete all my dating apps knowing that I will not be missing a thing. I strongly urge all mongers not to waste time on those apps. It can be flattering and addictive, but it only leads to misery. Once you are in the Philippines, all sorts of opportunities will arise to fuck chicks. These apps just get in the way and hold you back.

ForkTruck
12-02-19, 04:08
I read a recent report stating a girl had a pimp to pay out of her donation. I am seeing a lot of 18 and 19 yo no education chicks on PL with very well staged and photo shopped pictures. Posed well beyond the norm for girls much older. Now its got me thinking how widespread is the pimp network? Are the pimps recruiting girls to join their stable and doing their marketing? For a cut of the action of course. Any thoughts?

Mr Enternational
12-02-19, 04:13
I read a recent report stating a girl had a pimp to pay out of her donation. I am seeing a lot of 18 and 19 yo no education chicks on PL with very well staged and photo shopped pictures. Posed well beyond the norm for girls much older. Now its got me thinking how widespread is the pimp network? Are the pimps recruiting girls to join their stable and doing their marketing? For a cut of the action of course. Any thoughts?Nobody says anything when the bars are doing the pimping. Nobody says anything when the girls' families are doing the pimping. Pimping is a natural part of the hoaring game.

Engine Driver
12-02-19, 04:20
I read a recent report stating a girl had a pimp to pay out of her donation. I am seeing a lot of 18 and 19 yo no education chicks on PL with very well staged and photo shopped pictures. Posed well beyond the norm for girls much older. Now its got me thinking how widespread is the pimp network? Are the pimps recruiting girls to join their stable and doing their marketing? For a cut of the action of course. Any thoughts?Prostitutes and pimps go together like chicken adobo and '57 Chateau Lafite Rothschild. Perfect pairings. Just ask the wine list guys down south.

I agree that the hooker network on PL and Tinder is coordinated by pimps in some areas. Not one of the hookers I've found on PL looks like her photos. You are thinking you're ordering a sophisticated supermodel and then a country bumpkin with bad acne and crooked teeth arrives. I keep saying this, but in AC, you're far better off just going to the bars.

Mr Enternational
12-02-19, 04:35
Education or no education, I can't believe how limited their vocabulary is. I could not use any words more than three letters long as she couldn't understand what I was saying.This is why I am always confused when guys say they rather go to PI than Thailand because the girls speak English. Somehow I seem to always meet Thais that speak English way better than Filipinas.


3. Pinays are more stupid and ignorant than I thought.Took you a while to figure that out. When I was at that resort and the girl was serious about telling me they did not have grilled cheese, only grilled ham and cheese, it fucked my mind up.


4. The sexpats on this board need to return to their home countries for a while to get back in touch with reality.LOL. A buddy of mine that was living in AC died last week. Many a days we sat up at Kokomo's watching chicks walk past. He would frequently say man that chick has a big ass. And I would respond what ass man?! My advice to him was the same as yours. He needed to go somewhere else for a while to get back in touch with reality, because he was obviously seeing things that were not there. Great report ED!

SEAtraveller
12-02-19, 07:14
. Having conducted a number of field experiments now, I can safely say that:

1. I would never ever marry a Filipina.

2. Dating apps cause nothing but sadness and misery for everyone. Point and shoot is definitely more fun.

3. Pinays are more stupid and ignorant than I thought.

4. The sexpats on this board need to return to their home countries for a while to get back in touch with reality.Fantastic read. Definitely a novel and fascinating experience.

My only concern is your sample size is too small and distorted to make such large generalizations.

It is understandable that in a very strict and religious society, only the rejects / hookers / impoverished would use dating apps. In such environments, all the decent girls would meet prospective partners through word of mouth / referrals.

Maybe you should try my approach to getting GFE with a intelligent non-pro girl. I readily meet this type of girls when I join a non-mongering related club e. G. Art / sports / English.

It's a definitely a pleasant break from just barfining girls from bars.

SEAtraveller
12-02-19, 07:20
This is why I am always confused when guys say they rather go to PI than Thailand because the girls speak English. Somehow I seem to always meet Thais that speak English way better than Filipinas.

Took you a while to figure that out. When I was at that resort and the girl was serious about telling me they did not have grilled cheese, only grilled ham and cheese, it fucked my mind up.

LOL. A buddy of mine that was living in AC died last week. Many a days we sat up at Kokomo's watching chicks walk past. He would frequently say man that chick has a big ass. And I would respond what ass man?! My advice to him was the same as yours. He needed to go somewhere else for a while to get back in touch with reality, because he was obviously seeing things that were not there. Great report ED!I agree with what you said about meeting English speaking girls in Thailand (and Vietnam). The percentage of English speaking girls in those countries might be smaller than in the Philippines, but the calibre is much higher. Enlish acts as a good prelim screening as the girls that know English has sufficient personal drive and resources to improve themselves.

PilotPaul
12-02-19, 22:18
LOL. A buddy of mine that was living in AC died last week. Many a days we sat up at Kokomo's watching chicks walk past. He would frequently say man that chick has a big ass. And I would respond what ass man?! My advice to him was the same as yours. He needed to go somewhere else for a while to get back in touch with reality, because he was obviously seeing things that were not there. Great report ED!I am assuming this is our good mate that had the travel / transport business?

ForkTruck
12-03-19, 17:52
I have met families 3 times. Take a gift of a bottle for dad, flowers or chocolates for monm and if any sisters or brothers around some chocolate or inexpensive gifts would be the norm. I have taken tee shirts, ball caps and other trinkets.

After the formalities are observed, they will let you fuck the daughter all you want. In one case she was an 18 year old virgin and they were OK with us living together and playing house for a couple of months.

I am in Cebu now and will be meeting Mom #4, soon. Daughter is in her 30's but cannot meet me for anty fun until Mom or Dad provide their approvals. I anticipate immediate approval and to bring daughter back to my Airbnb after meeting.I was so intriged by the idea that I am staging one to try this with in Cebu, 24 years old, no kids. Seems to be a naive good girl. She asked me to get approval and permission from her parents who she lives with to stay with me at my airbnb. I suggested a bottle of Tequila for dad. She said yes he would like that because he is an alcoholic. So mom is probably the gate keeper so chocolates for her. I can see a score coming if I actually follow through. Never done this before, being a dad to a daughter myself this is very strange.

Mr Enternational
12-03-19, 18:45
I am assuming this is our good mate that had the travel / transport business?No. This was a retired buddy of mine that I originally met when he was living in Brazil. He lived all over Brazil, moved to Dominican Republic and lived all over there. Moved to Costa Rica Moved back to DR. Then somehow wound up in AC although I kept telling him time and time again to check out Thailand. Don't know what his fear was.

Haokool
12-03-19, 22:14
At Engine Driver.

You totally cracked me up!

PI is off my mire since this country requires a sponsorship to invest.

Kabul Guy
12-03-19, 22:39
.....

Never done this before, being a dad to a daughter myself this is very strange.I am meeting parents younger than me (and at least one grandparent younger than me as well) to fuck their (grand) daughters younger than my daughter.

It really is more fun in the Philippines.

ForkTruck
12-03-19, 23:01
I am meeting parents younger than me (and at least one grandparent younger than me as well) to fuck their (grand) daughters younger than my daughter.

It really is more fun in the Philippines.I am more than 20 years senior to her parents. The daughter told me her mom is slim and pretty. If her mom is suitably impressed by my generosity and while dad is enjoying his tequila I might be able to take her horizontal too. Never gets old doing this shit.

WestCoast1
12-04-19, 00:57
She asked me to get approval and permission from her parents who she lives with to stay with me at my airbnb. I suggested a bottle of Tequila for dad. She said yes he would like that because he is an alcoholic. So mom is probably the gate keeper so chocolates for her. I can see a score coming if I actually follow through. Never done this before, being a dad to a daughter myself this is very strange.Welcome back to Philippines!

Engine Driver
12-04-19, 05:17
I am more than 20 years senior to her parents. The daughter told me her mom is slim and pretty. If her mom is suitably impressed by my generosity and while dad is enjoying his tequila I might be able to take her horizontal too. Never gets old doing this shit.This whole concept of families pimping out their daughters is really doing my head in hahaha. Maybe because I come from a Christian White Man Land, I'm struggling to reconcile what is happening here! Hahaha. Maybe they are used to it in this country from hundreds of years of sexual abuse my Spanish missionaries and hypocritical NGO do gooders.

I was with a bar girl yesterday who was victim to a Japanese monger in this way. They met on FC when she was 20 and he was 56. They had a five year relationship which yielded a Jap-Pinay daughter. He would visit for a month each year from Jap Land and live with the family in their village 4 hours away from Tacloban. She did not travel anywhere with him. The family absolutely hated him and his selfish habits, but were held captive by his monthly payments to the girlfriend. Upon the birth of his daughter, he quickly fled the scene. She now works in a bar to support her family.

Now all you mongers who are busily stocking up on crates of cheap tequila, $2 chocolate boxes and stuffed toys to bribe your way into your unsuspecting victims' pussy, I have a question for you.

When there's a bastard [Deleted by Admin] running around in Shitsville looking for its daddy, what are you going to do? Hahahaha hahaha hahaha.

Enjoy your adventures gentlemen. I have bigger fish to fry. I'm done here. Hahahaha haha.

Kabul Guy
12-04-19, 13:16
I am more than 20 years senior to her parents. The daughter told me her mom is slim and pretty. If her mom is suitably impressed by my generosity and while dad is enjoying his tequila I might be able to take her horizontal too. Never gets old doing this shit.Get Dad the giant economy sized bottle of Tequila, Give Mom a nice large bouquet of flowers PLUS some chocolates and you just might have a Mom / Daughter 3 some.

Don't forget the FR when you are done.

PilotPaul
12-04-19, 22:45
EngineDriver,

They probably laugh because they have vasectomies and can't possibly be the fathers.

On a different topic, the world can be distorted by sick fuckers: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7752643/Woman-filmed-husband-rape-daughters-7-10-feared-hed-send-Philippines.html.

Engine Driver
12-05-19, 03:17
They probably laugh because they have vasectomies and can't possibly be the fathers..Touché sir, I'm going to give you that.

WestCoast1
12-05-19, 10:14
EngineDriver,

I'm sure that kind of thing happens (all too often). However, this observation about these 4 Board members is based on what information or evidence?

Sorry ED, you don't get to make that kind of accusation, then drop the microphone and walk away.

Alternately if you were making a generalization, you should say it. You should not have used specific Board names.

Engine Driver
12-05-19, 10:51
I'm sure that kind of thing happens (all too often). However, this observation about these 4 Board members is based on what information or evidence?

Sorry ED, you don't get to make that kind of accusation, then drop the microphone and walk away.

Alternately if you were making a generalization, you should say it. You should not have used specific Board names.It's harmless banter. Americans struggle with Australian sarcasm and humor. Chill out.

No one is revealing anyone's real identity FFS. Board members had already discussed their approach to hunting.

Kabul Guy
12-05-19, 11:33
EngineDriver,

No bastard KG possible. I have had sun kiss operation, seedless but still juicy. LOL.

Wicked Roger
12-05-19, 12:35
This whole concept of families pimping out their daughters is really doing my head in hahaha. Maybe because I come from a Christian White Man Land, I'm struggling to reconcile what is happening here! Hahaha. Maybe they are used to it in this country from hundreds of years of sexual abuse my Spanish missionaries and hypocritical NGO do gooders..ED.

I have experienced and have know of this.

The parents (normally mother) would try and find a suitable monger for daughter etc. Nothing strange in that at all. In other societies there are arranged marriages. Here is more blatant. One, other met me first in Makati and I shagged her etc before I got to meet her cutie daughter. We then had plenty of threesomes. After that daughter number 2 came of age and same happened again.

In the end none got preggy (am not that stupid) but all were happy. Am not the marrying kind so was off the table but for quite a while was fun.

So nothing odd in that. The only thing is some unsuspecting mongers get in the lopp and can loose there house etc in the end.

Ki2402
12-06-19, 10:38
Last posts about the family visits just got my head to spin 360 d.

Have been mongering mostly in eastern Europe and have never experienced anything similar.

Was following this chat room for a while and you guys seem to know your stuff.

I will be looking to spend New years eve around Manila. (or maybe Cebu).

Interested mainly in girl Non-pro / GFE experience.

Just opened a PL account, will add DIA and Tinder soon closer to the travel date.

As this would be my 1st time in the PHI would appreciate some experts advise.

Is online dating app a waste of time like ED wrote?

Is it possible to just meet a girl, half your age (non-pro) from the local shop and get her to your room without getting "you perv!" looks.

How do you approach the monetary arrangement without offending the girl?

(They all seem to be "God fearing" girls on PL) HaHa.

And in these cases what is the norm about 1st date sex? or 2nd?

Any other tips you consider to be helpful are very welcome.

Kabul Guy
12-06-19, 23:50
Last posts about the family visits just got my head to spin 360 d.

....Sounds like you are taking a simular approach as me in hunting.

I keep a full dance card on Tinder with the occasional PL supplement but I also have several regulars.

Couple pointers.

God fearing does not mean afraid to fuck. It may be in case family or friends see their profile, basically you can ignore anything in their profile about wanting long term relationships. I have several chats that go, Her: I am looking for long term relationship and marriage. Me: I am looking for sex tonight how does 1500 p sound? Her OK.

Sex with regular girls is often first date, sometimes second and not at all sure about third because without sex by 2nd there is seldom a 3rd.

Drop any girl immediately who asks for money, any girl saying very soon into chat "I have a problem. " will come up with a problem that solution is send mopey. If sent you will never see girl or money.

A couple weeks is average life of an online chat before meeting, now is about the right time to start charts because you can get a good girl after a slightly longer than average chat and you can get some practice.

I quickly traige all contacts.

Drop immediately too stupid to fuck unless really hot. Ask for money, not the girl in the pictures on line etc.

Fuck and forget hot and stupid, etc.

Possible GF / regulars, Not as stupid as average, really hot, easy to get along with etc.

Fuck and forgets are usually just offered cash outright for staying a night or 3, possible regulates get a date or two before me sticking my dick into them. If not on 2nd, then usually dropped, I may date a 3rd time if not laid by then but only for a much better than average girl.

There are lots out there, do not be afraid to drop any girl who does not show promise or starts to show usual stupid pina traits. (asking for $, immediately asking about other Pina girls, demanding behaviours etc.).

Insist on video chats so you can see her first. Asking for nude video is usually counter productive but you will at least see her, also you can get a better idea of language ability, some can text chat OK but have accents that make it impossible to talk to them.

They may ask if they can bring a friend on first meeting. Always say OK to one friend. (2 or more is looking for a free lunch) . This is IMHO a good thing as it shows she is either not a pro but a shy careful girl or is a (semi) pro and you can get a 3 some out of it. Either way is a win in my book.

Fancy expensive meals is not necessary for first meet, Jollybee is often OK, best is somewhere not very expensive but a little more than these girls will ever see on their own. Starbucks can work. (even though I never go to one myself, only go there if their is possibility of getting laid afterwards.).

Never be afraid to drop any girl, there are lots out there and it is too easy to get laid here.

Mr Enternational
12-07-19, 00:04
Interested mainly in girl Non-pro / GFE experience. Is it possible to just meet a girl, half your age (non-pro) from the local shop and get her to your room without getting "you perv!" looks. How do you approach the monetary arrangement without offending the girl?I never understand when guys make this contradiction. You want a chick that is not a hooker, but you are not sure how you are supposed to pay them. So you also want your ground beef to be vegetarian?

Kabul Guy
12-07-19, 00:48
I never understand when guys make this contradiction. You want a chick that is not a hooker, but you are not sure how you are supposed to pay them. So you also want your ground beef to be vegetarian?Lots or regular, good girls out there who really appreciate a little help in making ends meet.

Does it make them hookers or pros? Or does it just make them human with financial needs?

I really don't care, I like fucking them, the 1000 p 2000 p or more that I give them means a lot more to them than to me and it means that they are more likely to return so I'll give it.

To answer the original question, I usually put it in the hip pocket of their jeans, slip it in their purse and say it is taxi money. That allows then to maintain the illusion in their minds that it is just a BF helping them out and not that they are hookers fucking for money. It allows them to save face which is very important here.

ForkTruck
12-07-19, 04:10
Just opened a PL account, will add DIA and Tinder soon closer to the travel date.Everything KG wrote plus:

Just a caution about chatting on dating sites. DIA censures closely, any bad language will get you kicked off. No warning you're just gone. (happened to me twice, they actually give recognition awards to girls who report bad guys. Look out for a lightning bolt thingy on their profile page, that means that girl has fried a bunch of guys). PCupid not as bad DIA but still keep it plain vanilla. (also kicked me off). PL is most liberal of all. But don't go nuts with the language. (only one I am on now) On all the sites it is best to just get girls cell P, what's app, Skype, etc. Number and move conversation there as soon as you have exchanged pleasantries, like what you are hearing, and want to move to more explicit conversation.

ForkTruck
12-07-19, 04:22
Lots or regular, good girls out there who really appreciate a little help in making ends meet.

Does it make them hookers or pros? Or does it just make them human with financial needs?A regular good girl told me once "All girls need money". Since then I give to all, just make up a reason other than payment for services. They don't like to hear that.

Kabul Guy
12-07-19, 04:25
Everything KG wrote plus:

Just a caution about chatting on dating sites. DIA censures closely, any bad language will get you kicked off. No warning you're just gone. (happened to me twice, they actually give recognition awards to girls who report bad guys. Look out for a lightning bolt thingy on their profile page, that means that girl has fried a bunch of guys). PCupid not as bad DIA but still keep it plain vanilla. (also kicked me off). PL is most liberal of all. But don't go nuts with the language. (only one I am on now) On all the sites it is best to just get girls cell P, what's app, Skype, etc. Number and move conversation there as soon as you have exchanged pleasantries, like what you are hearing, and want to move to more explicit conversation.Good point, I always ask for number first communication and switch to WhatsApp as soon as possible. The apps designed for chatting on are easier to chat on than a dating site plus the site cannot know what you are chatting about.

It forms part of my screening process. If she replies with the number then good. If she comes back with a number but says Viber only then actually even better. (shows at least a minimal amount of brains.).

If she ignores the request for the number and tries to start a chat, I will look at her profile and if she looks worth it will chat a couple exchanges before requesting switch to WhatsApp, because "its easier" or "I don't use Tinder much". If she was not considered a high value target then I'll ignore her and move on.

If she responds no WhatsApp then I'll ask for Viber, Messenger or Skype. If no to those perhaps regular SMS. If not one of these then I will ignore and move on, except for REALLY HOT ones, then I will put them in the fuck and forget category and try to chat them, in the dating app, into coming over and giving me a blow job. (Only use PL and Tinder so not a lot of oversite by the app developers).

Goferring
12-07-19, 11:41
I will be looking to spend New years eve around Manila. (or maybe Cebu).

Interested mainly in girl Non-pro / GFE experience.

Just opened a PL account, will add DIA and Tinder soon closer to the travel date.

As this would be my 1st time in the PHI would appreciate some experts advise.

Is online dating app a waste of time like ED wrote?

Is it possible to just meet a girl, half your age (non-pro) from the local shop and get her to your room without getting "you perv!" looks.

How do you approach the monetary arrangement without offending the girl?

(They all seem to be "God fearing" girls on PL) HaHa.

Any other tips you consider to be helpful are very welcome.Manila has everything in greater numbers and often with less preparation or get to know you time. However, the logistics can be much worse. It's very possible your target lives in 'Manila' but is 3 or 4 hours drive away in peak hour traffic, multiple jeepneys etc. This also means that no show rates can be much higher

Cebu can take a day or two to work out how things work but the girls can be fresher and less hardened. Multiple options to find someone to stay the night (s) then go to school or work during the day. It's very possible to bus a star struck cutie in from the province or take a favoured girl to nearby beaches or islands. Both can be just a couple of hours car or bus ride and many are prepared to do that, if that's what you want.

Don't forget FilipinoCupid. Slightly better quality girls that PL and better search features.

Ask 3 guys about the value of online apps and get 7 replies. The main disagreements are over make contact early vs only after you are in town and the associated time and effort involved. I lean heavily towards call when you arrive as it avoids so many of the other pitfalls. Generally, I'd find 90% of my contacts online now and am very happy with these.

You can meet girls absolutely anywhere. In fact my best times have always been unplanned and unexpected. Obviously, if it's a civilian setting be polite and respectful and you will be surprised what can eventuate.

Money may be asked for outright or you can offer or 'hide' it in her purse. Some will pretend not to notice. A few will outright reject to take it. Again, be polite and reasonably generous but don't assume every girl will need to be paid.

I'd agree that profiles are just for keeping up appearances. I don't even read them.

Enjoy. G.

Ki2402
12-07-19, 12:49
Thank you guys for the great tips.

Really appreciated.

Now all I have to do is decide whether to go to Manila or Cebu.

Will probably look for an Airbnb unit in a central location.

Suggestions are always welcome.

Sammon
12-07-19, 14:40
Lots or regular, good girls out there who really appreciate a little help in making ends meet.

Does it make them hookers or pros? Or does it just make them human with financial needs?

I really don't care, I like fucking them, the 1000 p 2000 p or more that I give them means a lot more to them than to me and it means that they are more likely to return so I'll give it.

To answer the original question, I usually put it in the hip pocket of their jeans, slip it in their purse and say it is taxi money. That allows then to maintain the illusion in their minds that it is just a BF helping them out and not that they are hookers fucking for money. It allows them to save face which is very important here.Money makes the world go around they say. It is no different in Philippines. None of my girls ever refused offered money. No need to surreptitiously slip it into their purse or jean pocket. Hand it to them straight. Some count in front of you and some just put it in their purse.

As to discussing financial arrangements before meeting I always do. Mainly because I do not want surprises although I often pay more than agreed amount. They are pleasantly surprised like the English teacher in Cebu with large boobs. We went back and forth many times on chatting. Finally agreed on 1500 for 4 hours since she cannot stay overnight because of very strict mother. Ended up giving 2500 plus 100 for taxi. She really gave me very good service. With a strict mother and full time job no freedom to hook up casually. Right now she says she is waiting for me.

Consequences of not discussing money is two fold. First is there are mercenary girls who demand 5000 for ST. I let them be. Next is up to you which can be a minefield. These dating girls do not know the market price. All they heard is someone telling them foreigners are very generous. I tend to be a softie but at the same time do not want to act like money is no object. It is a pleasure in itself when both parties separate happy. Once they like you they will keep in touch with you not necessarily because of money. They feel trusted dick in hand is better than many dicks out there. If you keep in touch there will be demands for money like my trusted buffalo is dick etc. I tell them I never send money, only give money on meet. Although long time ago I used to fall for the trap. My thinking was a beautiful girl is worth keeping. Then realized there is plenty of mermaids on land.

Nobody is fooling anybody. They know they do it for money and so do you.

SaltyPete
12-07-19, 16:00
Good point, I always ask for number first communication and switch to WhatsApp as soon as possible. The apps designed for chatting on are easier to chat on than a dating site plus the site cannot know what you are chatting about.

It forms part of my screening process. If she replies with the number then good. If she comes back with a number but says Viber only then actually even better. (shows at least a minimal amount of brains.).

If she ignores the request for the number and tries to start a chat, I will look at her profile and if she looks worth it will chat a couple exchanges before requesting switch to WhatsApp, because "its easier" or "I don't use Tinder much". If she was not considered a high value target then I'll ignore her and move on.

If she responds no WhatsApp then I'll ask for Viber, Messenger or Skype. If no to those perhaps regular SMS. If not one of these then I will ignore and move on, except for REALLY HOT ones, then I will put them in the fuck and forget category and try to chat them, in the dating app, into coming over and giving me a blow job. (Only use PL and Tinder so not a lot of oversite by the app developers).KG, you should make a flow chart for the rest of us.

Member #4698
12-07-19, 16:46
Money makes the world go around they say. It is no different in Philippines. None of my girls ever refused offered money. I have had a few, only a few girls who refused money. True amateurs. True gems. I found them in nightclubs with live music. They were out to have a good time with their friends and per chance meet a nice guy, not looking for a customer.

Mr Enternational
12-07-19, 19:02
Once they like you they will keep in touch with you not necessarily because of money. Even chicks that hate my guts still keep in touch the same way.

Dg8787
12-07-19, 22:02
I have had a few, only a few girls who refused money. True amateurs. True gems. I found them in nightclubs with live music. They were out to have a good time with their friends and per chance meet a nice guy, not looking for a customer.I always pay even when they refuse. I want to make sure they all understand the relationship.

Kabul Guy
12-07-19, 23:15
KG, you should make a flow chart for the rest of us.And put it in a power point presentation?

Goferring
12-08-19, 03:12
And put it in a power point presentation?For a contract as big and as difficult as getting laid in the Philippines, some here will need MS Project. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

Ki2402
12-08-19, 03:19
Apologies for the double post.

Did not think the 1st one got through.

Anyways, any recommended locations for a combination of Scuba (morning)/ girl (evening) diving?

Goferring
12-10-19, 11:07
Apologies for the double post.

Did not think the 1st one got through.

Anyways, any recommended locations for a combination of Scuba (morning)/ girl (evening) diving?Do you want the girls to come from a bar or from a phone app?

With bars: Subic and Sabang.

Not so long ago every other scuba area was regarded as byo. The apps have changed that now. Many girls online all around the Visayas, Palawan etc.

Enjoy. G.

Wicked Roger
12-10-19, 20:25
Apologies for the double post.

Did not think the 1st one got through.

Anyways, any recommended locations for a combination of Scuba (morning)/ girl (evening) diving?See Goferring FR but for the girls I have contacts but can't share. Please PM me so I can give you contacts as this is a nice one but we can't share openly on the forum Ki. Look forward to the PM.

Goferring
12-14-19, 03:44
Can anyone confirm when FilipinoCupid auto deletes old messages? FAQs say 60 days but can anyone confirm their real world practice?

I know PinaLive let's you keep them forever.

Thanks. G.

Mr Enternational
12-14-19, 06:52
Can anyone confirm when FilipinoCupid auto deletes old messages? FAQs say 60 days but can anyone confirm their real world practice?

I know PinaLive let's you keep them forever.I am on LatinAmericanCupid and it is 60 days. Same owner. I had a message from October 13 that was deleted yesterday.

Goferring
12-15-19, 21:37
Ok, so I've relented and installed Skype to contact girls without WhatsApp etc.

When I synced contacts, Skype recognized all my existing contacts and added those with Skype accounts to its contact list. My problem is it added them under their own Skype contact name and photo. So now my contact 'Suzi BJ Queen' in a black negligee is Smiling Susanne in an office uniform on Skype. I've got several hundred of these across multiple cities.

Is there an easy way to reconcile the two contact lists so that they have the same (preferably my) name, description and photo? I note WhatsApp draws from my contact list and retains the details that I gave the girl. Skype seems to retain it's own format, showing it's own username etc after matching the phone number.

What am I missing?

Thanks. G.

Albert9989
12-15-19, 22:29
Ok, so I've relented and installed Skype to contact girls without WhatsApp etc.

When I synced contacts, Skype recognized all my existing contacts and added those with Skype accounts to its contact list. My problem is it added them under their own Skype contact name and photo. So now my contact 'Suzi BJ Queen' in a black negligee is Smiling Susanne in an office uniform on Skype. I've got several hundred of these across multiple cities.

Is there an easy way to reconcile the two contact lists so that they have the same (preferably my) name, description and photo? I note WhatsApp draws from my contact list and retains the details that I gave the girl. Skype seems to retain it's own format, showing it's own username etc after matching the phone number.

What am I missing?

Thanks. G.I use Skype with a specific ID, no email or phone number, and I never sync contacts as all contacts in my phone are my normal contacts. Skype maintains its3 own list of contacts and there is no mix.

Goferring
12-15-19, 22:56
I use Skype with a specific ID, no email or phone number, and I never sync contacts as all contacts in my phone are my normal contacts. Skype maintains its3 own list of contacts and there is no mix.Ok so I guess I fucked up by typing my skype numbers into my android contacts first. Sype has recognized these and added them to it's own contact list but without my location and 'skills' identifiers in the contact names.

I haven't got too many skype only contact so is it best if I just go back and re add these directly into the Skype contact list adding my own identifiers?

Skype has also recognized many of my existing android contacts and added them but, as I said, without my identifiers. How can I find out who these are in my contact list? I use the messaging apps a lot to cross reference photos etc and would like to be able to match android vs WA vs Sype photos etc.

In short, how can I find out who in my existing android contact list is in the photo below? Her Skype username does not appear in it.

Thanks again. G.

Fizzman1970
12-16-19, 19:36
Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

We started doing video calls and she is the same girl that's in the pictures of her FC add. She started telling me pretty much everything about herself. Even that she works for the Red Cross that sit in the train stations. She even sent me a photo of her ID. Then without me even asking started sending me sexy photo leading up to her in the shower. Believe me when I say she's no ladyboy. Then she even starting to talk Dirty to Me. At no point has she asked me for money. Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. The next day I'll be going to the mall to have some dental work done and she wants to go with me. Next she wants to go with me to AC and on to Subic. Nowhere during this time was money brought up.

The only bad thing that happened was she saw that I was still going on FC and went off on me. Asking why I was still looking for more girls. Then she went dark on me for about a day. It was almost a relief she was texting me a lot. Well she came back and at least now she's not texting me in the middle of the night or when I'm at work. Still sends me a lot of photos which is okay because I like them. She still talks about traveling with me. I told her I want to go to the bikini contest in AC and seems OK with it as long as she gets to wear her bikini. I hope she doesn't go off on me again if she does. Then she's been in Subic with the Red Cross and wants to show me around.

I find myself keep trying to figure out the situation. This is my first trip to the Philippines and might be nice to have someone around. But on the second hand this will be the only girl I get. Then I keep asking myself is this some kind of flirtatious game? Maybe I should just go along with it because there's always a plan be. Well tell me your thoughts.

Goferring
12-17-19, 01:05
I find myself keep trying to figure out the situation. This is my first trip to the Philippines and might be nice to have someone around. But on the second hand this will be the only girl I get. Then I keep asking myself is this some kind of flirtatious game? Maybe I should just go along with it because there's always a plan be. Well tell me your thoughts.You're new so I'll explain the various points:

She wants to meet you at the airport so that you will have no opportunity to go out and meet other girls.

She wants to get your SIM card, do your shopping etc so that you become dependant on her to navigate the new city.

She wants to party with you to be seen at nice places and ensure that you don't stray.

She will get insanely jealous if you so much as look at another girl. Expect fierce arguements.

Her long game is working because you are already considering sending her money as a 'Christmas gift' before even meeting her.

On the plus side, she will give you incredible sex to ensure you don't seek out other women. However, this will likely lead to you develop feelings for her and possibly consider a longer relationship. That when the emotional and monetary costs will really mount up.

My advice for a first trip is to enjoy the opportunities and not fall in love. Many would even say don't even go back for seconds. If you do want to see her, fine. But do it on your terms. Definitely not her telling you when and where she will meet you and then she will be with you every where every day.

Taking a possessive psycho to a AC bikini party is a sure no no.

Enjoy. G.

Wicked Roger
12-17-19, 01:20
You're new so I'll explain the various points:

She wants to meet you at the airport so that you will have no opportunity to go out and meet other girls.

She wants to get your SIM card, do your shopping etc so that you become dependant on her to navigate the new city.

She wants to party with you to be seen at nice places and ensure that you don't stray.

She will get insanely jealous if you so much as look at another girl. Expect fierce arguements.

Her long game is working because you are already considering sending her money as a 'Christmas gift' before even meeting her..Friend of mine after saying he would never see this pinay again as she is a jealous ***** type as you describe to he extent she hassles and stalks his other ladies on Facebook and send boasting time messages about how she is with him, other ladies are not etc is spending Christmas with the psycho LOL.

He has been warned but has lots of excuses as his small head is doing much of the thinking sadly. Once he has less cash in bank he may realize. Added to this he is staying in the girls provincial town so as the token foreigner he is buying the full pig etc plus am sure all the beer for the village.

She lied to him and there is proof and she said she would tell me she has never done what we know she did (I have proof she did so she would be lying to me also) yet still he is now in provincial Philippines with a gold digger.

Fizzaman. You have 11 questions lots of information still not on the country so get a PM facility and pay the $25. This helps. Don't send Christmas cash, don't chat to her further tell her to wait until you are there and see her and assess how she behaves. If you don't you will like my good friend who will for sure have his bank balance lighten by large amount in the next 10 days.

Sxxxx
12-17-19, 02:25
Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

We started doing video calls and she is the same girl that's in the pictures of her FC add. She started telling me pretty much everything about herself. Even that she works for the Red Cross that sit in the train stations. She even sent me a photo of her ID. Then without me even asking started sending me sexy photo leading up to her in the shower. Believe me when I say she's no ladyboy. Then she even starting to talk Dirty to Me. At no point has she asked me for money. Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. The next day I'll be going to the mall to have some dental work done and she wants to go with me. Next she wants to go with me to AC and on to Subic. Nowhere during this time was money brought up..My thoughts are, do not meet her. There's about 10 million other girls wanting to meet you too. This one will 'smother' you.

Tell her you have cancelled the trip and do not answer her communications anymore, and go to Phils and have fun!

No fun with her, I assure you, only heaaches.

Sammon
12-17-19, 02:57
Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. Nowhere during this time was money brought up.

The only bad thing that happened was she saw that I was still going on FC and went off on me. Asking why I was still looking for more girls. Then she went dark on me for about a day. It was almost a relief she was texting me a lot. Well she came back and at least now she's not texting me in the middle of the night or when I'm at work. Still sends me a lot of photos which is okay because I like them. She still talks about traveling with me. I told her I want to go to the bikini contest in AC and seems OK with it as long as she gets to wear her bikini. I hope she doesn't go off on me again if she does. Then she's been in Subic with the Red Cross and wants to show me around.

I find myself keep trying to figure out the situation. This is my first trip to the Philippines and might be nice to have someone around. But on the second hand this will be the only girl I get. Then I keep asking myself is this some kind of flirtatious game? Maybe I should just go along with it because there's always a plan be. Well tell me your thoughts.Since this is your first there are some pointers I want to give.

It is true SIM cards costs less if you know where to buy. But you are not saving much. Do not send any money before meeting. If you do there will be endless demands for this and that. Do not get involved with her family and kids. Do not discuss your plans visiting places in Philippines. All girls know about Angeles and why you go there. I doubt if she has a regular job since she readily wants to go wherever with you.

It is okay for her to meet you at the airport. Make sure she is okay with sex if she is going to stay with you. In my case I do discuss compensation amount so that there is no misunderstanding later. After you meet and have fun and if you think she will be a good companion for you then only make plans and discuss. There is nothing worse than forced to tolerate company because of promises made. Long time ago I had flown a pretty Ozamis girl to Cebu to spend four days with me. Within a day she had her period and ruined all the fun. I was forced to keep her for three days with no fun and all she did was rest. Meanwhile I wanted to enjoy my vacation with her.

While it is nice to have GFE relationship and companion it is very difficult to know about the chemistry. Do not get stuck with someone because of previous promises.

Nowadays I always say let us meet and see. I have taken girls on vacations if I liked them after meeting.

Goferring
12-17-19, 04:51
Nowadays I always say let us meet and see. I have taken girls on vacations if I liked them after meeting.But don't tell her about the intended holiday otherwise she will be on her best behaviour for the trial then revert to form when you can't send her back home.

Just hang out and if you want to take her / them, just say you're going tomorrow, go home and get some clothes. 99% of those without a job will say OK.

Enjoy. G.

GDreams
12-17-19, 08:34
Since this is your first there are some pointers I want to give.

It is true SIM cards costs less if you know where to buy. But you are not saving much. Do not send any money before meeting. If you do there will be endless demands for this and that. Do not get involved with her family and kids. Do not discuss your plans visiting places in Philippines. All girls know about Angeles and why you go there. I doubt if she has a regular job since she readily wants to go wherever with you.

It is okay for her to meet you at the airport. Make sure she is okay with sex if she is going to stay with you. In my case I do discuss compensation amount so that there is no misunderstanding later. After you meet and have fun and if you think she will be a good companion for you then only make plans and discuss. There is nothing worse than forced to tolerate company because of promises made. Long time ago I had flown a pretty Ozamis girl to Cebu to spend four days with me. Within a day she had her period and ruined all the fun. I was forced to keep her for three days with no fun and all she did was rest. Meanwhile I wanted to enjoy my vacation with her.

While it is nice to have GFE relationship and companion it is very difficult to know about the chemistry. Do not get stuck with someone because of previous promises.

Nowadays I always say let us meet and see. I have taken girls on vacations if I liked them after meeting.I carry a dark towel for such occasions. I have said before to a girl either fuck or I will book you into the cheapest place I can find and you look after yourself.

Fizzman1970
12-17-19, 13:05
But don't tell her about the intended holiday otherwise she will be on her best behaviour for the trial then revert to form when you can't send her back home.

Enjoy. G.I think I've already open My Big Mouth and told her too much. My trip is a little under two months away. Maybe I can get control back. I could always go back into FC and get her to flip out again. Yes she knew about AC and asked what are you looking for prostitutes. That's when I brought up the beach party.

She is fun to talk to and very nice to look at when you're doing a video call. She even calls me in the morning before work for phone sex. I guess the whole instant girlfriend thing got me freaked out. I see now where she has an end game insight. Where's I'm the typical guy looking for an open relationship based on money and fun. I saw our conversations as a flirtatious game and didn't see her end game.

It's funny I know she's probably talking to other guys. It would be great if I could talk her into an open relationship but now I'm dreaming.

Fizzman1970
12-17-19, 13:51
Make sure she is okay with sex if she is going to stay with you. In my case I do discuss compensation amount so that there is no misunderstanding later.Believe me when I say from our talks sex isn't only implied it's expected. Compensation is another matter. It has never been brought up. I'm a little nervous bring it up myself. I don't want her to think I'm calling her a prostitute. If and when compensation is brought up I could use it as my way out if needed.

D Cups
12-17-19, 14:33
Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

We started doing video calls and she is the same girl that's in the pictures of her FC add. She started telling me pretty much everything about herself. Even that she works for the Red Cross that sit in the train stations. She even sent me a photo of her ID. Then without me even asking started sending me sexy photo leading up to her in the shower. Believe me when I say she's no ladyboy. Then she even starting to talk Dirty to Me. At no point has she asked me for money. Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. The next day I'll be going to the mall to have some dental work done and she wants to go with me. Next she wants to go with me to AC and on to Subic. Nowhere during this time was money brought up..Plan C: run for your life. Go back to square one and start over. Just my. 02.

Dg8787
12-17-19, 22:13
Believe me when I say from our talks sex isn't only implied it's expected. Compensation is another matter. It has never been brought up. I'm a little nervous bring it up myself. I don't want her to think I'm calling her a prostitute. If and when compensation is brought up I could use it as my way out if needed.Sounds to me like only a cheap Charlie would be nervous to bring up compensation. I would say at some point there will be drama about it or for the lack of it.

Compensation can easily and discreetly be brought up as a gift to her to help her buy something or to pay for expenses. It is easier to bring up than about fucking. Man up!

Sammon
12-17-19, 22:28
Believe me when I say from our talks sex isn't only implied it's expected. Compensation is another matter. It has never been brought up. I'm a little nervous bring it up myself. I don't want her to think I'm calling her a prostitute. If and when compensation is brought up I could use it as my way out if needed.Compensation also is expected unless otherwise this girl expects commitment in the form of marriage implied or not. Lots of girls are ready to meet a foreigner hoping for a ticket out. So you need to let them know that you are looking for companionship and fun only unless you are looking for a wife. Once you make your intentions known it is anybody's guess if she runs or stays in touch. IMHO nobody got insulted by me mentioning money compensation in Philippines. In USA yes, you never mention money even if it is a bar pick up unless you know she is a hooker.
Only reason I am saying this is these days the demands from girls has gone very high like 10 K per day. It used to be girls are very happy to accept whatever you give. Those are in bygone era.
Do not fool yourself thinking that this girl wants to be with you because of your looks, demeanor,kind, nice etc.

PilotPaul
12-17-19, 22:50
You're new so I'll explain the various points:

She wants to meet you at the airport so that you will have no opportunity to go out and meet other girls.Welcome to Philippines mongering. You have found yourself a prostitute. Enjoy her as long as you want and then send her off when you are satisfied.

As for her Red Cross ID, do not believe any ID in Ph.

https://worksthatwork.com/5/forgery-market

Albert9989
12-17-19, 23:31
I think I've already open My Big Mouth and told her too much. My trip is a little under two months away. Maybe I can get control back. I could always go back into FC and get her to flip out again. Yes she knew about AC and asked what are you looking for prostitutes. That's when I brought up the beach party.

She is fun to talk to and very nice to look at when you're doing a video call. She even calls me in the morning before work for phone sex. I guess the whole instant girlfriend thing got me freaked out. I see now where she has an end game insight. Where's I'm the typical guy looking for an open relationship based on money and fun. I saw our conversations as a flirtatious game and didn't see her end game.

It's funny I know she's probably talking to other guys. It would be great if I could talk her into an open relationship but now I'm dreaming.Just talk to her, say it, that you don't want long term, just share some time and that's all.

You will quickly know what she think about, be crystal clear about your expectations.

Take the leads.

Don't seem to be the case up to now.

Engine Driver
12-18-19, 01:39
I think I've already open My Big Mouth and told her too much. My trip is a little under two months away. Maybe I can get control back. I could always go back into FC and get her to flip out again. Yes she knew about AC and asked what are you looking for prostitutes. That's when I brought up the beach party.

She is fun to talk to and very nice to look at when you're doing a video call. She even calls me in the morning before work for phone sex. I guess the whole instant girlfriend thing got me freaked out. I see now where she has an end game insight. Where's I'm the typical guy looking for an open relationship based on money and fun. I saw our conversations as a flirtatious game and didn't see her end game.

It's funny I know she's probably talking to other guys. It would be great if I could talk her into an open relationship but now I'm dreaming.It seems to me that you have gotten yourself into a pickle here. This is why Goferring on this board always tells people not to make contact with the girls until you have actually landed in Manila. It is to prevent you getting trapped in emotional situations like this, where you will then be unable to sample the delights of easy Pinay pussy. I can also relate to this as I too got into tricky, emotional situations by connecting with girls too early on PL. Nothing good will possibly come of your current situation. She is looking for a long-term payment plan leading to a one-way ticket out of Shitsville, whereas you are looking for a nice fuck, dump and run situation. The two aims are not compatible. Nothing is free in the Philippines whether you discuss compensation with your FC girl or not. It's just a case of pay now or pay later.

Another thing to note is that she is probably not the sweet, innocent girl she is claiming to be. If she is sending you unsolicited nude photos and is engaging in phone sex, she has done this many, many times before. See how long she has been a member on FC. If she has been on for more than a few months and is reasonably good looking, she will get about 30-40 hits a month from horny mongers wanting free cam sex and nude photos. She knows that this is what a foreigner expects. Girls know that less than 1% of all their prospects will actually arrive at NAIA and that if they don't do all they can up front to ensnare a man, then their only hope of rescue will be gone. By giving her your arrival details and flight number, she knows you are a certain catch. You can't possibly understand the level of desperation out there in Pinay land. Truly innocent girls who are new to dating sites and have never met a foreigner before would be too shy to send nude pictures or engage in sex talk without a lot of prompting.

Don't ever tell a girl when you will be arriving or when you will be leaving as they will try and control you. Be vague and tell them your work will confirm the details later. Also, airport meet and greets are a bad idea as once again, you lose control of your trip. Sure, the idea of an exotic looking girl putting garlands around your neck when you step out of customs seems nice, but you will pay for it later. Don't tell them your real name, address, place of work etc as they will be searching every aspect of your life. They are very good at stalking.

What made you think that taking this girl to AC to see a bikini show was a good idea? Pinays are the most jealous women on earth. Did you think she was going to be okay with you just ogling all those scantily clad beauties? Were you not aware that AC has 1,000's of prostitutes everywhere you look? By taking your own girl there, you would have been making history. No one does BYO in Angeles City. Hahahahaha. If you weren't a newbie, this report would be in the Stupid Mongers thread.

The best thing you can do is put an end to this right now and start again when you have landed in Manila. Tinder and PL work a treat and you can find all the pussy you want very, very easily.

Since you are a newbie to the Philippines, why don't you just lose your phone and go and experience the bars first. There is heaps of bar action in Makati, EDSA, Ermita and Angeles City and for a first timer, it will be quite exciting. Then once you have done that, progress to online hunting. Most of us started in the bars first before going online.

Goferring
12-18-19, 03:47
The best thing you can do is put an end to this right now and start again when you have landed in Manila. Tinder and PL work a treat and you can find all the pussy you want very, very easily.


Plan C: run for your life. Go back to square one and start over. Just my. 02.The best advice to date.

Goferring
12-18-19, 04:02
It's funny I know she's probably talking to other guys. It would be great if I could talk her into an open relationship but now I'm dreaming.Why? It's very normal for new guys to think that home rules apply in the Philippines as well: she won't go out with me because I'm married; I need to pretend to be wealthy to be attractive; I can't have multiple girlfriends or partners; I need to be 007 to hide my identity. None of these are true. I'm. 100% truthful with girls because I found that a) I'm too stupid to remember which lies I told to whom and b) the subterfuge serves no purpose whatsoever.

Consequently, I only get 2 or 3 girls a trip who won't see me on moral grounds, I'm a side dick to numerous girls who are just looking for some compensated fun and I have zero stress about girls contacting me at inappropriate times or jealousy about what I'm doing when I'm not with them.

Philippines is a man's paradise but frankly it only works if you take charge and give the girls the option of doing what you want or going elsewhere. No need to be an Assshole but pandering to their wishes and demands just to impress them only leads to trouble.

Enjoy. G.

Nice Guy 99
12-18-19, 06:27
My advice for a first trip is to enjoy the opportunities and not fall in love. Many would even say don't even go back for seconds. If you do want to see her, fine. But do it on your terms. Definitely not her telling you when and where she will meet you and then she will be with you every where every day.
I respectfully disagree. Plunge in. Enjoy her. Realize that she needs compensation. If it doesn't work out then switch. Let us know in a FR how it worked out. I have had many delightful experiences in this scenario.

Sammon
12-18-19, 12:36
It seems to me that you have gotten yourself into a pickle here. This is why Goferring on this board always tells people not to make contact with the girls until you have actually landed in Manila. I can also relate to this as I too got into tricky, emotional situations by connecting with girls too early on PL

Don't ever tell a girl when you will be arriving or when you will be leaving as they will try and control you.

The best thing you can do is put an end to this right now and start again when you have landed in Manila. Tinder and PL work a treat and you can find all the pussy you want very, very easily.

There is nothing wrong in chatting and planning your trip, girls, places to go. These days I exclusively avoid bargirls and look for dating girls. I have met plenty of nice innocent girls and had loads of fun.

With two months to go on my planned trip I start chatting although mine are from DIA only. By the time I go many drop out and many drop in line. I discuss everything including compensation, time etc. I have had some girls meet me in airport and go with me to the hotel. Sometimes I like it because top class hotels like it when we register together. If and when things work out I suggest taking trips together. In many cases the girls show up with just one change of clothes and I end up taking them shopping and buying them outfits including panties, bra, shoes, slippers, swim suits, make up kits etc. But it is worth it because I already found out she is nice company and we have clicked.

If on the other case if we do not have any chemistry I do kick her out and call the next girl in line.

ForkTruck
12-18-19, 19:07
There is nothing wrong in chatting and planning your trip, girls, places to go. These days I exclusively avoid bargirls and look for dating girls. I have met plenty of nice innocent girls and had loads of fun.I too almost exclusively use dating site. I have a half dozen normal dating girls to rotate thru when I am there. They are now doing the holiday requests for money gifts. They need food, new dress for party, shoes ruined in flood, etc. I have been seeing them for over two years so they feel entitled to ask. I originaly felt guilty (normal Christian white mans reaction) when I told them no. But they all surprised me when they replyed it's Ok. Recent one said I hope you are not angry with me, I miss you sooo much. They have no problem being told no. One asked so many times I threatened to not see her again and she said sooo sorry, I only ask and if you say no I still love you. Asking for money is just part of their nature. Now I just tell them I am saving for my trip and cannot give anything.

D Cups
12-18-19, 19:10
I too almost exclusively use dating site. I have a half dozen normal dating girls to rotate thru when I am there. They are now doing the holiday requests for money gifts. They need food, new dress for party, shoes ruined in flood, etc. I have been seeing them for over two years so they feel entitled to ask. I originaly felt guilty (normal Christian white mans reaction) when I told them no. But they all surprised me when they replyed it's Ok. Recent one said I hope you are not angry with me, I miss you sooo much. They have no problem being told no. One asked so many times I threatened to not see her again and she said sooo sorry, I only ask and if you say no I still love you. Asking for money is just part of their nature. Now I just tell them I am saving for my trip and cannot give anything.A wise response, Mr. Truck. Cheers.

Dg8787
12-18-19, 19:53
I too almost exclusively use dating site. I have a half dozen normal dating girls to rotate thru when I am there. They are now doing the holiday requests for money gifts. They need food, new dress for party, shoes ruined in flood, etc. I have been seeing them for over two years so they feel entitled to ask. I originaly felt guilty (normal Christian white mans reaction) when I told them no. But they all surprised me when they replyed it's Ok. Recent one said I hope you are not angry with me, I miss you sooo much. They have no problem being told no. One asked so many times I threatened to not see her again and she said sooo sorry, I only ask and if you say no I still love you. Asking for money is just part of their nature. Now I just tell them I am saving for my trip and cannot give anything.Grinch!

LOL. JK. Advance Merry Christmas po.

Goferring
12-19-19, 04:59
I have been seeing them for over two years so they feel entitled to ask. I originaly felt guilty (normal Christian white mans reaction) when I told them no. But they all surprised me when they replyed it's Ok. Recent one said I hope you are not angry with me, I miss you sooo much. They have no problem being told no.It's a numbers game. If she asks 100 guys and only one gives her 1000 p, that's a good day. I guess that's why saying no has no negative impact at all. They are still going to see you when you are in town.

I've also noticed the number of girls online that have a broken phone or school bills within 10 seconds of contacting them. Some guys must be soft touches and sending cash. Otherwise they wouldn't do it.

Enjoy G.

ForkTruck
12-19-19, 18:39
It's a numbers game. If she asks 100 guys and only one gives her 1000 p, that's a good day. I guess that's why saying no has no negative impact at all. They are still going to see you when you are in town.

I've also noticed the number of girls online that have a broken phone or school bills within 10 seconds of contacting them. Some guys must be soft touches and sending cash. Otherwise they wouldn't do it.I have sent money occasionally but have been scammed twice so more careful now. I only want to give in person now, a bird in the hand as they say. I have told all they will get a gift when we meet again. There is no rational reason to fall into the Western Union trap. The girls will still be there for you and welcome you with open arms and legs.

Mr Enternational
12-19-19, 19:19
The only bad thing that happened was she saw that I was still going on FC and went off on me. Asking why I was still looking for more girls.For some reason guys are afraid to admit it. Well not for some reason, but because they are afraid to miss out on the pussy so they kowtow to women. You have to tell them the deal when they come with that bullshit.

A Brazilian chick on Latincupid tried to come at me yesterday saying if she gave me her number I was still going to be here talking to more chicks. I said you are fucking right I am. If we haven't met and have nothing together, why wouldn't I? She agreed then gave me her number. I don't play that fantasy relationship and haven't even met the person stuff.

Also when chicks that I have met or haven't met try to pull that you are on here looking for other girls, I just say no, I was here seeing if you were looking for other guys. Turn that shit around on them. Don't let those broads be smarter than you.

And your girl is a professional. I have never heard a chick talking about SIM cards and not to get it at the airport. This is not her first rodeo. Best thing to do is to tell her you will contact her when you are settled and ready to see her. Don't let her monopolize your time. And she just happened to have sexy pictures ready just for you? I would have called her out on that too.

ForkTruck
12-19-19, 20:19
For some reason guys are afraid to admit it. Well not for some reason, but because they are afraid to miss out on the pussy so they kowtow to women. You have to tell them the deal when they come with that bullshit.One of my girls tried that shit on me. I don't like you seeing other girls. I reminded her to look at our first chats where I told her no attachment just casual relationship. She got back to me with you are right I have no right to be jealous. She continues to see me and asks no more questions about whether I see anyone else.

Fizzman1970
12-20-19, 01:15
First off I want to thank everyone here for your opinions and advice. I would like to say I learned a little bit from everyone, but I know I have much more to learn. One thing I learned is I have to stop thinking like a Westerner. The woman situation is a lot different than here in the states.

Well I got her mad at me again and she went dark. In the middle of the night she sent me a text that said Hhhhhmmmm, so I said " Sorry wrong guy ". Her reply was "Wow. You think this text was ment for another guy?" So I said yes. That's the last I heard from her in the last 24 hours. Really I didn't care if she was talking to another guy. I was just about to tell her I was looking for friendship and companionship. Nothing long term. So oh well. If she does start talking to me again there will be new rules. Like yes we can still meet up and see how it goes. I know, I know, but she's hot and I still want to hook up with her for one night.

I think I'm going to wait a little bit before going back on FC. This will give me a little more time here to read and learn. The rules have changed and this is a different game. I do like the idea of having longer-term companions then just ST bare fines.

Well I have my hotels set up for the first week, and the second week is completely open. I could switch it up or repeat.

Goferring
12-20-19, 02:32
One of my girls tried that shit on me. I don't like you seeing other girls.


A Brazilian chick on Latincupid tried to come at me yesterday saying if she gave me her number I was still going to be here talking to more chicks.Same here. I just asked how she got to be one of the "Most Popular" girls on Cupid if I was the only guy contacting her. 😀.

No one seriously believes we are the only one the girls are speaking to.

G.

GDreams
12-20-19, 04:56
So a previous girl has introduced me to her friend a 19 yo from Tacloban. Flew her in to Manila for a week. She wanted love. I told her quite clearly that it would be casual and sex would be required. She says yes but not to tell her friend. So I tell the friend and she laughs having been nailed to the bed on a number of occasions by me and she suggested I do the same to her. So she arrived and expected that we would have sex only once. I banged her. Was pretty starfish but has an nice tight wet pussy which if fine by me. Next morning she wants to go out with her friend to buy clothes. Wants me to help her. I said no help if no sex and said no sex you can leave with your friend. So she packs up then asks for help with taxi costs. I said no its her problem. Well the back and forth went on for a while and finally she works out she is stuck and capitulates. The last comment was don't tell my friend we are having sex! So now she is being much more accommodating with the bluff being called. Maybe its easier dealing with a hooker but she is quite pleasant to look at and I'm looking forward to train her pussy!

TurdyCurdyOne
12-20-19, 08:27
OK I wrote an update on DIA. I am going on my 5th fake profile there, I refuse to post my photoor personal info on their cr*p site.

The longer it's around the worse it gets. Quality of women has further deteriorated along with many new feminist types, usually younger ones.

Details and worthwhile tips can be found at my blog for the few that remember it's title (this site censors me so I cannot repost it here) Also can be found on the usenet in appropriate newsgroups-cannot be censored there. I will post the address there for those that have trouble finding it.

It's nearly a full time job extracting anything of use on DIA any more. But is IS FREE and it is coded well and easy to use. Problem is your profile will be banned at the drop of a hat and if you don't know how to make a new one, it's very difficult to get back on.

The admins differential discriminate against men, especially young men that the Pinays are not interested in because they are harder to scam and have no money and are visiting / not as desperate for female attention. Younger profiles are not of interest to the mostly scamming pinays so they draw less ad revenue. This is a corrupt site (as are most online sites, just looking for money mostly). I attempted to edit out any "hard returns" on this post.

Goferring
12-21-19, 06:18
It's nearly a full time job extracting anything of use on DIA any more. But is IS FREE ...All the other hookup / dating apps have workable free options so being free doesn't make DIA any better. I been banned so many times that I don't even bother anymore.

Cheers. G.

GDreams
12-21-19, 09:38
All the other hookup / dating apps have workable free options so being free doesn't make DIA any better. I been banned so many times that I don't even bother anymore.

Cheers. G.I have been on for 2 years and never been banned.

Sammon
12-21-19, 17:08
All the other hookup / dating apps have workable free options so being free doesn't make DIA any better. I been banned so many times that I don't even bother anymore.

Cheers. G.I was banned only once for insulting a ladyboy. I admit I used some choice words. After that I opened another account with same pic but different phone number and e mail. Had no problems. I have messaged girls about sex and solicited sex by offering money. Many girls have blocked me but no effect on my account. Most often I take them to Skype, messenger, viber etc to chat about sex and arrangements but many do not have those accounts. Even if they do they not used so long it has been deleted.

After meeting and if the girl is a keeper I open a e mail address for her and we communicate that way. Problem is I am always looking to dip in a new pot.

Albert9989
12-21-19, 19:17
I have been on for 2 years and never been banned.Never been banned too, using DIA since more than 2 years.

Pute Nut
12-21-19, 19:27
I was banned only once for insulting a ladyboy. I admit I used some choice words. Yes LBs are protected (and cherished?) by the DIA admin. Just ignore them, any confrontation can lead to issues as DIA admin will almost always take dear side.

TurdyCurdyOne
12-22-19, 01:29
Yes LBs are protected (and cherished?) by the DIA admin. Just ignore them, any confrontation can lead to issues as DIA admin will almost always take dear side.Ladyboys are given a pass on DIA. Sometimes they lie about their status. If they have no kids and there is any inkling they might be men dressed up like women (they are not females "trapped" in a man's body as the claim), you should ASK them politely. I am awaiting some bold sole to file a sex discrimination complaint against DIA the servers of which are based in USA. It would be successful as it is so obvious the admins discriminate against men in favor of women and per*vs. This is the primary reason so many are banned. Take a look at DIA reviews on sitejabber.com. One of the lowest rated sites and all are complaining about unfair deletion of accounts. Use an ad-blocker to block their revenue sources. It took me a while to figure out how they block new accounts that have been previously banned, but I worked at it and found their weaknesses. They are not as smart as they think. Now my accounts last anywhere between a couple weeks and several months. I usually get banned because I start telling Pinays where to shove it. Pinays are great pretenders, natural sociopaths. It is very difficult to determine often what they are truely feeling or thinking. They have a reputation for being sweet, giving, etc. But its total BS. Underneath they have hearts of cold hardened steel and are motivated mainly by money. Do not think for an instant that that young pinay has genuine feelings for you or appreciates what you have done for her because 99 times out of 100 you'd be wrong.

I keep getting the "no hard returns" message so I used an editor to delete all returns from this post. Hope you can still read it.

Goferring
12-22-19, 07:13
I have been on for 2 years and never been banned.I think I got caught out by a fake picture and / or a complaint then my IP address prevented any new accounts. I'll admit I tried a couple of times then gave up as the other options well and truly keep me occupied. Cheers. G.

ForkTruck
12-22-19, 18:21
Use an ad-blocker to block their revenue sources. I always wondered how they made money with a free site, its the ads, I have a ad blocker. Could be the reason I was banned (twice). Although it could also be the time I gave a ladyboy some unwanted advice in colorful language. PL gives you the option of blocking ladyboys but a couple of times they slipped through and I reported them as being miss classified. I don't know if anything happened because you get no feedback but I felt like I did my best.

FT.

Chocha Monger
12-23-19, 23:27
As told by Mac Payne:

I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.

I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!

I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.

Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag.

The next morning, we were on our way out for breakfast when we were met by the whole family again, looking for breakfast on me! I told her old man to piss off back where he came from in no uncertain terms. Policeman or no policeman, he was a scammer and I told him so. How did they know where we were staying? Well that was easy she had texted them on her cell phone. Then if only to add more salt on my already festering wound, she presented me with all their house told bills for over another 5000 pesos. I ripped the bills from her hand screwed them up and threw them in her face, told her to fuck off and walked away.

But did they get the message? No, of course not! They just see you as an ATM. They followed me until I grabbed a passing moto taxi and sped off, leaving them agasp. I then checked myself into another hotel far the other end of town, and later went back to check out of the first hotel and collect my things, only to find her waiting there in the lobby. This was quite late in the evening, she started to make a scene, and I called for hotel security, and she eventually left.

I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of my vacation. God almighty what was I going to do in this poxy one horse town for a month, scared to go out by day for fear of being shot by her crazy father or followed and pestered by the family. It was hell on earth I can tell you, I was now limited on funds so I could not afford to travel far, if not I would have grabbed a flight out has soon has possible. I've never been back there to the Philippines nor do I ever wish to.

Member #1088
12-26-19, 23:46
As told by Mac Payne:

I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.

I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!

I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.

Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag.

The next morning, we were on our way out for breakfast when we were met by the whole family again, looking for breakfast on me! I told her old man to piss off back where he came from in no uncertain terms. Policeman or no policeman, he was a scammer and I told him so. How did they know where we were staying? Well that was easy she had texted them on her cell phone. Then if only to add more salt on my already festering wound, she presented me with all their house told bills for over another 5000 pesos. I ripped the bills from her hand screwed them up and threw them in her face, told her to fuck off and walked away.

But did they get the message? No, of course not! They just see you as an ATM. They followed me until I grabbed a passing moto taxi and sped off, leaving them agasp. I then checked myself into another hotel far the other end of town, and later went back to check out of the first hotel and collect my things, only to find her waiting there in the lobby. This was quite late in the evening, she started to make a scene, and I called for hotel security, and she eventually left.

I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of my vacation. God almighty what was I going to do in this poxy one horse town for a month, scared to go out by day for fear of being shot by her crazy father or followed and pestered by the family. It was hell on earth I can tell you, I was now limited on funds so I could not afford to travel far, if not I would have grabbed a flight out has soon has possible. I've never been back there to the Philippines nor do I ever wish to.Can you share her DIA name, so we know to stay away from her.

Run Mann
12-27-19, 00:38
Can you share her DIA name, so we know to stay away from her.You don't need her name, the first time a woman ask you to send money for any reason tell her no and keep moving. The fool in these stories is always the one sending money to strangers or paying other people's bills. Remember any online (DIA) advert must be presumed guilty and absolutely suspicious until proven innocent.

Albert9989
12-27-19, 00:57
As told by Mac Payne:

I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.

I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!

I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.

Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag.

The next morning, we were on our way out for breakfast when we were met by the whole family again, looking for breakfast on me! I told her old man to piss off back where he came from in no uncertain terms. Policeman or no policeman, he was a scammer and I told him so. How did they know where we were staying? Well that was easy she had texted them on her cell phone. Then if only to add more salt on my already festering wound, she presented me with all their house told bills for over another 5000 pesos. I ripped the bills from her hand screwed them up and threw them in her face, told her to fuck off and walked away.

But did they get the message? No, of course not! They just see you as an ATM. They followed me until I grabbed a passing moto taxi and sped off, leaving them agasp. I then checked myself into another hotel far the other end of town, and later went back to check out of the first hotel and collect my things, only to find her waiting there in the lobby. This was quite late in the evening, she started to make a scene, and I called for hotel security, and she eventually left.

I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of my vacation. God almighty what was I going to do in this poxy one horse town for a month, scared to go out by day for fear of being shot by her crazy father or followed and pestered by the family. It was hell on earth I can tell you, I was now limited on funds so I could not afford to travel far, if not I would have grabbed a flight out has soon has possible. I've never been back there to the Philippines nor do I ever wish to.Why not putting that in the stupid shit in Phil thread?

I guess its the right place.

WestCoast1
12-27-19, 07:54
You don't need her name, the first time a woman ask you to send money for any reason tell her no and keep moving. The fool in these stories is always the one sending money to strangers or paying other people's bills. Remember any online (DIA) advert must be presumed guilty and absolutely suspicious until proven innocent.I would go a step further RM. Report the dating site girl to the dating site. Its a violation of TOS for every dating site to ask for money. Its no different for when girls report guys who ask to see her tits in the first conversation.

Mr Enternational
12-27-19, 13:11
I would go a step further RM. Report the dating site girl to the dating site. Its a violation of TOS for every dating site to ask for money. Its no different for when girls report guys who ask to see her tits in the first conversation.Only thing is that she never asked for money. He was fool enough to send a whopping 25000 peso deposit through her to some place he knew nothing about. He got sold on it being a safe security protected 2BR cottage. WTF you need 2 BRs for? And if it is somewhere that I have to be sold on its safety and security, then I do not need to be there anyway.

Sure I will let a chick find the place, but I am handling the reservations my own damn self. Case in point, I am in Dominican Republic right now. Doctor chick I am with found this place that we are staying and sent me the link on booking. I found the same place on hotels and it was $50 cheaper for the 2 day stay than booking.

What kind of fool would commit to 1 month with a chick he had never met anyway. Then on top of that he didn't have enough money to be going there period. If spending 6000 pesos for the family meal broke him to where he could not even vacate, then he would not have stood a chance in AC where some posters say you need to spend 10000 pesos per day. It was not DIA, the girl, or PI; it was him. He should have spent more time working and saving his money up, and less time chatting to broads on DIA.

Sammon
12-27-19, 18:01
Shame on anybody who does not read advices and pointers about how online dating in Philippines work.

I have dated province girls but always had them travel to Cebu or Manila, Those who insist on visiting their place I give it a pass. Nobody ever sends lots of money. I am guilty of sending 1000 pesos for pocket money and expenses for the girl to travel.

Never plan on staying together with a new girl more than 2-3 days. Even then have a back up plan if you do not click.

Long time ago I went to Bay Bay, Leyte to meet a girl. But stayed in a hotel. Only first night had to treat her family of 5 for dinner which was fine. Next day I took the girl to Ormoc and had a fantastic time without family pressure.

TurdyCurdyOne
12-28-19, 07:14
As told by Mac Payne:

I met a girl online at Date in Asia, we chat and cam together for over 6 months before I decided she was worth a visit. She never asked me for a single penny in all that time, she telling me her father was a police sergeant and her mother was a school teacher. Anyway, I looked into accommodation for us to stay while I'm there. She came up with the idea of us renting a small 2-bedroom cottage, on a security estate, so very safe.

I sent the deposit to her for 25,000 pesos around $500 for the month which I thought was a bit expensive being it's Surigao in Mindanao, a one horse town to say the least, but then it has security so I thought it's ok. When I arrived on the day, I was met at the airport by her whole family of 10 including brothers and sisters and their boyfriends and girlfriends, wow what a welcome I thought!

I was escorted by her father to a mini bus and off we went, only to stop at a posh hotel restaurant, to which everybody including the van driver ordered what they wanted including beers. I naively thought wow this guy is rich to treat me so good, until that is the bill was called and it was directed at me. Wow shocker! It was over 6000 pesos, just over $120, that really set the mood for me. I told them to take me to the cottage where again surprise number 2, she had spent my deposit money on her family to pay their college fees.

Well I was feeling really stupid at the time, and told her very angrily never mind I'm going to find a hotel to stay on my own and I will meet her at a later date, to which she turned on the tears and pleaded with me to let her stay with me. I reluctantly agreed and that was over 30,000 pesos up the spout for what was a mediocre shag..This post should not be taken lightly. There is NO JUSTICE for foreigners in the Philippines. The USA State Dept. Even has a formal warning to Citizens that illegal detentions without any evidence occur regularly here. You can be jailed simply for pissing off the wrong Filipino. They routinely use illegal arrest based solely on some Filipina's false charge with no supporting evidence. It's a uked up Country, one reason why so many of it's Citizens are trying to leave. Filipinas, especially the ones you meet online are LIARS, SCHEMERS, OPPORTUNISTS, SCAMMERS and all the other BAD STUFF. Hard to find one worth marrying. The good ones look down on foreigners, calling us old men. It's best to come here only for short time uck trips. And keep changing your location and sim. Do not give out personal information or locations to people you are not sure about. They Filipinas take gossip as gospel with no real evidenc. You can be branded as a "BAD FOREIGNER" for no reason whatsoever. Do not believe the big lie that Filipinas do not care how old you are, total BS.

Member #4698
01-13-20, 00:41
I originally posted this in the Thai Forum, but I know some of you guys don't set foot in LOS, so I am double posting here to see if anyone can shed some light on this strange occurance.

For the last 2 days I have been unable to open the ISG. I assumed it was a small connectivity problem on the other end and ISG would be back in business soon. I was experiencing no problems opening any of the other girly sites I like to visit so I just went about my business.

Then 5 minutes ago after not getting through to the ISG once AGAIN, I logged onto NordVPN, my VPN app and chose the USA as my location and bingo: here I am. So what the fuck is going on? IS my internet provider suddenly blocking the ISG. That would be very peculiar since only the ISG is singled out. Additionally this lock out occurred on Chrome, Edge, and FireFox. Anybody got any ideas or experiencing the same issue?

Normally I only use NordVPN when I am traveling or when I am planning to download some porn and I want to sort of hide my location and identity. But if this ISG fail to connect BS is the new normal on my machine in my home, I guess I will use NordVPM all the time until I figure out what is going on. It is good to be back!

Mr Enternational
01-13-20, 05:34
I originally posted this in the Thai Forum, but I know some of you guys don't set foot in LOS, so I am double posting here to see if anyone can shed some light on this strange occurance.

For the last 2 days I have been unable to open the ISG. I assumed it was a small connectivity problem on the other end and ISG would be back in business soon. I was experiencing no problems opening any of the other girly sites I like to visit so I just went about my business.

Then 5 minutes ago after not getting through to the ISG once AGAIN, I logged onto NordVPN, my VPN app and chose the USA as my location and bingo: here I am. So what the fuck is going on? IS my internet provider suddenly blocking the ISG.Just problems with the site. I am in the USA and tried on different devices and browsers and same thing. It would go to the first blue page but would get hung up on that.

WestCoast1
01-13-20, 09:51
This post should not be taken lightly. There is NO JUSTICE for foreigners in the Philippines. The USA State Dept. Even has a formal warning to Citizens that illegal detentions without any evidence occur regularly here. You can be jailed simply for pissing off the wrong Filipino. They routinely use illegal arrest based solely on some Filipina's false charge with no supporting evidence. It's a uked up Country, one reason why so many of it's Citizens are trying to leave. Filipinas, especially the ones you meet online are LIARS, SCHEMERS, OPPORTUNISTS, SCAMMERS and all the other BAD STUFF. Hard to find one worth marrying. The good ones look down on foreigners, calling us old men. It's best to come here only for short time uck trips. And keep changing your location and sim. Do not give out personal information or locations to people you are not sure about. They Filipinas take gossip as gospel with no real evidenc. You can be branded as a "BAD FOREIGNER" for no reason whatsoever. Do not believe the big lie that Filipinas do not care how old you are, total BS.Two recent stories of the police and separately the Brgy helping a foreigner.

1) So I'm walking down the street with a long-time (6 years) regular in Manila one evening, we are going out to eat. She is holding my arm in the usual way as we walk and talk. By chance (maybe!) there is a police substation 30-40 m away, straight up the street. Out of the blue she stops walking and changes the subject. She complains about a recent thing we'the done one minute prior right there on the sidewalk: I'd taken her picture (she posed). I was surprised at the complaint. It is nothing new. People do it in public all the time. I was scratching my head at the idea that she did not like the activity (done it many times previously with her and others, in public). Well, no need to do that anymore, problem solved sweetie, apology. But no. Her voice began to rise. "Its against our law for foreigner to do that!" What? No, its not. It can't be. But, you are in a foreign place, and maybe it is. "I want a police". What? I don't think its illegal. You think its illegal? "Yes". She grabbed me by the shirtsleeve and proceeded to walk towards the substation. Sinking feeling that I had done something wrong, or was being set up.

We get to the substation and are greeted by several uniformed officers. She starts speed-talking in tagalog, and drawing attention by speaking loudly. Nothing I could do but listen. After a minute of her yammering away, an officer said: "No". Every 10-20 seconds or so, he would repeat: "No", "Not so", "No ma'am". I made out that she wanted me in jail. Finally she stopped and before I could ask the officers what she was saying, one turned to me and said: "She says she owes you money". She said what? Her original complaint was about something the thing that took place on the street. "Yes sir we know. Does she owe you money?" Yes. They took both of our eye dees and then handed them back. They asked her her Brgy and me my condo name. An officer said to her: "You have to give back the money". That lit her up. "Both of you come back here tomorrow night at this time. Ma'am you bring the money". She got quiet, agreed, and walked away.

For several reasons I could not believe what had just transpired, all in 5 minutes. She has never before exhibited such behavior. She is early 30's (mature, raising kids). It came as a complete surprise. I walked away scratching my head: She had come to the police with a complaint, which was denied by them, she stupidly mentioned owing me money, and now she had to give it back (I'm sure she wished she could have paid it in a different way than cash). I got several 'F-you' txt msgs from her (to be expected, part of the culture is a sense of machismo, displayed by both sexes when cornered, and blaming the victim).

The next night I showed up at the substation, the girl showed 15 minutes later and handed me the money. "Count it sir so its right. Does this settle the situation?" Um, ya, I guess so. Walked away and haven't heard from her since.

2) Recently visited a friend in the province for a few days. He showed me a pic of a local girl, a phone receipt (Oppo), and a contract signed by him and the girl and a witness attesting that he was selling the phone to the girl for the full receipt amount, with the girl to make installment payments weekly. In reality the side agreement was that she would visit him one night each week to make the payment the old fashioned way. The girl was a 3-year regular and he got the phone for her a month prior. Everything seemed fine at that time, and the day after receiving the phone, she ghosted him, blocking his phone number and also FB. He attempted contact and nothing happened.

He considered finding the girl in the brgy and visiting her and her family to ask the phone back. Instead we found the girl's sister on FB and contacted her PM to explain the situation. An hour later my buddy started getting txts from the original gal: "F*cker! Leave my family alone. The phone its mine now!" And so on.

I suggested he try the Brgy office and show them the contract. We took a ride there and talked to a nice Brgy lady. The gent didn't even show the receipt or contract. He just showed the Brgy lady the girl's pic and explained the situation. The Brgy lady asked a few questions, then she called the girl on their cell phone and she spoke with the girl, then hung up. "The girl is coming here now. She bring back your phone". Really? That's it? "Hope so. We will see". Twenty minutes later the girl walked in and handed over the phone. The brgy lady asked if the matter was settled. I asked the girl for the code to unlock the phone and she gave it to us. The phone seemed in working condition. That took care of the matter, the gent has his Oppo back.

Sometimes the good guys win one.

Sammon
01-14-20, 02:45
There are many nutty girls all over the world behaving strange. But rarely involve police. In Philippines I think it is better destination for foreigners because most speak English and you can challenge anything. Problems is where they do not generally speak English you are screwed literally.

Lots of people make mistakes of walking freely in a local area thinking local girl will protect. My advice is stick to your hotel for fun, stick to public areas for walking, stick to foreigner frequented places for entertainment.

PilotPaul
01-15-20, 07:39
and a contract signed by him and the girl and a witness attesting that he was selling the phone to the girl for the full receipt amount, with the girl to make installment payments weekly. In reality the side agreement was that she would visit him one night each week to make the payment the old fashioned way. The girl was a 3-year regular and he got the phone for her a month prior. Everything seemed fine at that time, and the day after receiving the phone, she ghosted him, blocking his phone number and also FB. He attempted contact and nothing happened.Contracts do not mean much in Ph. Have sold a few things and get a few installments then it all goes cold.

Had one girl, a good girl I had know for a few years, wanted a loan to build her house, even she's calling it a loan I know I would never see that money again. She had to get dropped.