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RobAF: How do you do the screen capture on YM? I have actually taken digital pictures of the monitor which came out almost as clear as the actual screen captures but would like to learn how you do that.
WR, you are correct, I use the PrtSc (print screen) and then I paste in Powerpoint, open in MS Paint, cut the part I want and save as a Jpeg. I used to use Word, but I found Powerpoint works better for me, as I just add a new slide, after every paste:D
Robb
AussieOverboard
09-12-08, 01:39
RobAF: How do you do the screen capture on YM? I have actually taken digital pictures of the monitor which came out almost as clear as the actual screen captures but would like to learn how you do that. Thanks.
I use a program called Bulents Screen Recorder. Not only can you take snaps from the yahoo window you can take video as well.
The version I have is farly old but i see the new version has ecven greater bells and whistles.
hello,
I also meet or will meet up girls from sites.If l have time.l dont mind they bring a friend for the first meeting,but l allways tell them to bring a girl and not a bakla.l have enough of those dramaqueens at work.so when meeting them on my offhours l like them to be girls only.
blink157
Cunning Stunt
09-12-08, 09:39
I use a nifty little programme called SnagIt. Very simple to use it has a useful crop tool to copy whichever area of your screen you wish to capture and then holds them until you are ready to import them into whatever graphics device you are using (paint, photoshop etc). It also exports its images into word or powerpoint. I also find this latter tool useful for cutting and pasting useful reports from ISG into a word document for use when I'm travelling.
I use screenprint32. Just went to the web site and it still seems to be free. No video with this one.
http://www.provtech.co.uk/software/screenprint32.asp
A followup question is how in hell do you organize things when you get a few hundred shots? I eventually filed things away by location (Manila / Cebu / North Mindanao, etc). But if get an unfamiliar mail from someone, it's much harder to search by name.
Sometimes online gals tell me they are from some place I am unfamiliar with. Searching the location often brings up a Wikipedia listing, which includes a map-like location. I then take a screen shot of the map and file it away under ...um.. maps. I found this to be a great way to learn the geography and also make my questions more specific regarding travel destinations.
My YMessenger is also divided up by location. I got that idea from a Filipina in a net cafe. I glanced over her shoulder and saw she had several European countries listed. I can't imagine why she'd want anything to do with a European, but I was inspired to sort things the same way.
But it's surprising how many addresses I have in the "unknown location" folder. In most cases these ladies encouraged me to "add" them, but when I follow up with a some questions, which include, "what city are you in?", they don't reply. Hmmm.
I can only guess that the really good golddiggers know that when a sucker is hooked, he'll remember everything about the earlier chats. If a guy has to ask "where are you", he's obviously stringing along other gals -- the golddiggers move on to greener pastures.
Damn, how many analogies are in that previous paragraph?
Have fun,
X
Hairy Wonder
09-13-08, 09:57
hello,
I also meet or will meet up girls from sites.If l have time.l dont mind they bring a friend for the first meeting,but l allways tell them to bring a girl and not a bakla.l have enough of those dramaqueens at work.so when meeting them on my offhours l like them to be girls only.
blink157
I would have to agree with B on this one. After chatting with many Filipinas, and visiting PI a few times, I reallized that gays are very easily accepted in their culture. It's just something we have to get used to, no matter how distateful it is to us. I have to admit that it made my skin crawl everytime one of the ladyboys would be looking me over. (I'm not anywhere close to a sex symbol, so it must have been just the white guy thing!) :)
One encounter that I had with a DIA contact, resulted in her bringing along 2 gay "cousins". She even went to the extreme of asking if they could stay in my hotel room while we had our fun. At the risk of her walking away, I said no! If her mom and sisters, female cousins or female friends wanted to be there for the show (or even join in), I would have no problem with it...maybe. As it turned out, I managed to take her, alone, to the room for some fun. I later found out that a much hotter babe, also from DIA had come there to meet me. Because she saw me with, as she stated, "another girl and her 2 gay cousins," (makes me wonder if it was a setup) she decided to not meet me after all. I had waited 2 days for that one to show up!
Anyhow, no gays are allowed at my meetings anymore. I try to keep from allowing any other parties because of the problems they might cause. I had one girl that brought a baby along, and would not put it down the entire time I was with her. IMHO, one on one meetings are the best way to go! If a girl declines to meet with you without a tag-along, there are plenty of others available.
Happy Mongering!
HW
Hahaha,
Just reading the comments here and lm laughing,maybe coz lm sitting at Matrix and having one smlight after another.Dildodan,if ever a chick comes along with her baby or any male/gay cousins l would murmble an excuse and head out very very fast. Xmen make me laugh about Europeans,maybe he met a mean german kid once who destroyed his sandcastle,hehe. Ok its the chatroom thread lm getting really stalked by a diagirl who wanted to desperately meet me since l joined dia a few month ago.lm not sure if l should met her up.My brain says No!My dick say.Why not!
Blink
If something strikes you as incongruous, maybe you should stop and consider if it is just simple sarcasm.
This has got to be one of the most dumbass comments I've read in a while, even coming from X Man.
Oh man, missed opportunity. You get the gay to take the pictures! Then when you finish you encourage him to have a go. You take more pictures. :-)
I don't think my skin crawls, but I do feel uncomfortable with the very fem ones -- the ones who overact a bit. Yuck.
Gay guys know a lot of chicks and they know which chicks are ready for a boink. I treat them fairly (while keeping my distance) and this has allowed me to explore some women I wouldn't have explored otherwise.
Thanks for the ancedote HW.
X
I would have to agree with B on this one. After chatting with many Filipinas, and visiting PI a few times, I reallized that gays are very easily accepted in their culture. It's just something we have to get used to, no matter how distateful it is to us. I have to admit that it made my skin crawl everytime one of the ladyboys would be looking me over. (I'm not anywhere close to a sex symbol, so it must have been just the white guy thing!) :)
One encounter that I had with a DIA contact, resulted in her bringing along 2 gay "cousins". She even went to the extreme of asking if they could stay in my hotel room while we had our fun. At the risk of her walking away, I said no! If her mom and sisters, female cousins or female friends wanted to be there for the show (or even join in), I would have no problem with it...maybe. As it turned out, I managed to take her, alone, to the room for some fun. I later found out that a much hotter babe, also from DIA had come there to meet me. Because she saw me with, as she stated, "another girl and her 2 gay cousins," (makes me wonder if it was a setup) she decided to not meet me after all. I had waited 2 days for that one to show up!
Anyhow, no gays are allowed at my meetings anymore. I try to keep from allowing any other parties because of the problems they might cause. I had one girl that brought a baby along, and would not put it down the entire time I was with her. IMHO, one on one meetings are the best way to go! If a girl declines to meet with you without a tag-along, there are plenty of others available.
Happy Mongering!
HW
I've been hitting DIA hard in preparation for my arrival in Makati on Sept 23. I'll be there for a week with a focus in DIA leads. Then Boracay for 3 nights and back to Ermita for 3 nights of the clasic p4p alternate venues. I started the DIA research about 8 weeks prior to travel, which in retrospect was way too early. Following the lead of another poster, I recently created a "naughty boy" profile to contrast with my nice guy original. I'll report over the next three weeks as things play out. However, I'm wondering about two DIA ladies in particular. Has anyone here met either one of them...both around Manila. Please pm me if you can share info on them. thanks. See their pics attached:
I've been hitting DIA hard in preparation for my arrival in Makati on Sept 23. I'll be there for a week with a focus in DIA leads. Then Boracay for 3 nights and back to Ermita for 3 nights of the clasic p4p alternate venues. I started the DIA research about 8 weeks prior to travel, which in retrospect was way too early. Following the lead of another poster, I recently created a "naughty boy" profile to contrast with my nice guy original. I'll report over the next three weeks as things play out. However, I'm wondering about two DIA ladies in particular. Has anyone here met either one of them...both around Manila. Please pm me if you can share info on them. thanks. See their pics attached:
I don't recognize them, I hope you used the same pic as the one they have in their profile.
When I was alone in Manila for a few days, I sent a lot of emails to decent looking girls that had been online with in the last 24 hours. Had a few responses.
I'm quite new at this chat thing with DIA. I'd recommend starting the process about 3 weeks before you arrive...if you enjoy the process. You could wait until one week before, but multiple chats over a period of time usually give you a better feeling for the girls personality. The results of a nice guy looking for ltr profile, versus a naughty boy profile are interesting. I set up my favorites from the nice guy profile and sent them a message using the alternate naughty boy profile. I resolved the good girl status of several of them quite quickly. Some nice girls replied affirmately to the naughty profile and other girls passed. So it clarified who was p4p and who was more interested in a real relationship. I also discovered that you can get caught up...consumed..by this chat thing. Will frankly be happy when the philippine trip is over and i can shelve the dia chat stuff.
If anyone is interested in comparing notes on the Manila area gals, don't hesitate to pm me. It's rather difficult to figure out who's likely to be a star performer and who's gonna be the starfish. I arrive on Sept 23 and stay at city garden makati, if anyone wants to get together for a drink.
I assume you are using the same pic they have in there profile. If you post a few it would be easy to scan thru them to see if anyone has chatted with them. The good thing about DIA is if you click on a girls picture, it will show all of your past emails with her, so you can easily see what you have said to her in the past.
I also used the " genourous, business man in town for a couple of days looking for a fun girl" profile also to check on some of the girls I met. I was surprised how many will respond to the bad boy profiles.
The main problem with DIA is that a lot of the girls post an old picture. After meeting a few in person and almost asking, "are you her mom???", I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam. One girl was 29, picture looked 25, she looked 40 in person.
I met one on line and her picture was 10 of 10, of course no cam, so alarm bells go off "Ladyboy". I told it that I would be in town Saturday and to give me her cell so I can text. I arrived Friday and called, instead of text and Hello, a man trying to be a woman answered and I just asked for it's girl name and it changed it's voice...too late.
Robb
I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam.
Robb
Point well taken!
The main problem with DIA is that a lot of the girls post an old picture. After meeting a few in person and almost asking, "are you her mom???", I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam. One girl was 29, picture looked 25, she looked 40 in person.
I met one on line and her picture was 10 of 10, of course no cam, so alarm bells go off "Ladyboy". I told it that I would be in town Saturday and to give me her cell so I can text. I arrived Friday and called, instead of text and Hello, a man trying to be a woman answered and I just asked for it's girl name and it changed it's voice...too late.
Robb
You are so right about the posting of old (young) photos. Even some of us men mongers may be tempted to do that!
But it is a well made point.
Three extra comments from me: First, the problem is not limited to DateInAsia, it can apply to all pen-friend sites with the posting of pics.
Second, it is not limited to the Philippines. In fact the Phils is one of the better countries for truth in accuracy of the pic. Most girls cannot afford a professionally done photo. they simply capture a photo off an internet cam and sometimes update it from time to time when they get tired at looking at themselves. The worst country I have experienced is China. Professional photos are taken, against artificial backgrounds, and airbrush and smudge tools are often used to take out the cracks, sags, moles and imperfections.
Always, wherever you can, see the girl on cam, in the flesh as it were. And if need be do a screen capture.
Here are a couple of photos of a Chinese lass (I presume it is the same one!): the DIA photo, and the screen capture one.
KongKing
You are so right about the posting of old (young) photos. Even some of us men mongers may be tempted to do that!
But it is a well made point.
Three extra comments from me: First, the problem is not limited to DateInAsia, it can apply to all pen-friend sites with the postaing of pics.
Second, it is not limited to the Philippines. In fact the Phils is one of the better countries for truth in accuracy of the pic. Most girls cannot afford a professionally done photo. they simply capture a photo off an internet cam and sometimes update it from time to time when they get tired at looking at themselves. The worst country I have experienced is China. Professional photos are taken, against artificial backgrounds, and airbrush and smudge tools are often used to take out the cracks, sags, moles and imperfections.
Always, wherever you can, see the girl on cam, in the flesh as it were. And if need be do a screen capture.
Here are a couple of photos of a Chinese lass (I presume it is the same one!): the DIA photo, and the screen capture one.
KongKing
Good grief, what was she thinking?
Wicked Roger
09-17-08, 13:51
I now only meet after a series of cam 2 cam. One girl was 29, picture looked 25, she looked 40 in person.
I met one on line and her picture was 10 of 10, of course no cam, so alarm bells go off "Ladyboy". I told it that I would be in town Saturday and to give me her cell so I can text. I arrived Friday and called, instead of text and Hello, a man trying to be a woman answered and I just asked for it's girl name and it changed it's voice...too late.
Robb
Good advice Robb
I also only meet after c2c and normally after I have pesuaded them to show me some goodies first :) That way I know and she knows what to expect.
LBs are a problem.I have also done the same trick as I am suspicious. If they come with another cutie thats is fine (as Gina did earlier this year). But c2c always sorts out the girls from the LBs etc
Ha, ha, I suspect KK was wondering, "What was I thinking?"
What was SHE thinking? Well, that is her picture! Don't we all use the photo that we think is most appealing.
I once worked for an asshole who put his name on books that company employees wrote. On the author page he has his picture from some other decade...and not the most recent one. Somehow many egomaniacs do well in life.
I digress...
When I used Cherry Blossom I was just amazed at the Chinese older women who had hot photos. In the end, the only one I was interested in was the bus driver. Her picture looked great, but also looked normal. She was 30ish and had pretty good English for a bus driver. (maybe too good?) Said she had a kid. Lost touch for a while, but never replied when I tried to renew contact.
X, at the moment in Japanese accomodation, listening to Brit music, chatting on the PI thread of the the ISG, commenting about Chinese bus drivers --- wow, thank you for globalization.
Oh, wait, half my life savings are in US stocks. Damn.
Taking one day at a time.
X
Good grief, what was she thinking?
I also discovered that you can get caught up...consumed..by this chat thing.
Yes I know what you mean! Was on DIA the other night and suddenly I'm chatting with over eight women, typing quite feverishly. After a few minutes, I get a message saying that I have to enter a code that is given to me each time I send a message. Maybe this is an override system to prevent spam. Has anybody experienced this?
Yes I know what you mean! Was on DIA the other night and suddenly I'm chatting with over eight women, typing quite feverishly. After a few minutes, I get a message saying that I have to enter a code that is given to me each time I send a message. Maybe this is an override system to prevent spam. Has anybody experienced this?
Never, are you sure it wasn't a spam message? I have never had any type of issue like that while using DIA. Be careful of a STD on your computer:D
Robb
Yes I know what you mean! Was on DIA the other night and suddenly I'm chatting with over eight women, typing quite feverishly. After a few minutes, I get a message saying that I have to enter a code that is given to me each time I send a message. Maybe this is an override system to prevent spam. Has anybody experienced this?
I had to put the code in because I kept sending the same message "hi, would you like to chat, blah blah..."
It is just to help stop people from spamming all the members.
Be careful with this person:
DIA id: reizl 29, 28, Asian, davao, Philippines
Simple lady wants honest guy
attractive and very sincere.......................love to meet guy who is seriousThe person wanted a cam show from me after sending some pics in your underwear
I refused. After that she got me blocked in dia which is nasty.
I m now in a country where I cannot sign up again.
If you have time, please block and report her to get her off DIA as she is a nut case.
My 2n try to post this.
I was banned in DIA after a person reported me. Here is the story
DIA id reizl29, 28, asian, davao sent me some pics and wanted me to give her a cam show. Sounded very ladyboy to me and I refused. 10 min later I got a nasty email. The important part of the trick was to have me confirm my dia id in the chat in yahoo. THe irony is that I had refused to give a show.
If you have time, block her and report her to get her removed. I m not at all sure this is a woman. I asked Filipino friends about the id name. It is not Filipino. Maybe Indian?
Her/his chat id in ym is: rhiwasa1979
Here the latest:
rhiwasa1979: cos u are very bad
me: nope
me: i have my friends reporting u now
me: with the photos
rhiwasa1979: why?what blocked?s
me: u got me blocked in DIA
me: thx
rhiwasa1979: cos ur very behaving bad
me: u will be banned in 1-2 days
me: dont worry
rhiwasa1979: r u sure u may do that cos ur very bad
rhiwasa1979: ok
rhiwasa1979: bye
She is still there:
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Country: Philippines
State / Region: davao city
City: davao
Ethnicity: Asian
Appearance: Very Attractive
Height: 165 cm (5'5")
Weight: 54 kg (119 lbs)
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Black
Education: University - Some
Occupation: student
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: Libra
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker
simple lady wants honest guy
attractive and very sincere.......................love to meet guy who is serious
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I want to meet a Male
with age from 30 to 60
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
i want to meet gy who is serious and have sense of humor and vewry good iwqhen it comes of relationship and very responsible...............
My 2n try to post this.
I was banned in DIA after a person reported me. Here is the story
DIA id reizl29, 28, asian, davao sent me some pics and wanted me to give her a cam show. Sounded very ladyboy to me and I refused. 10 min later I got a nasty email. The important part of the trick was to have me confirm my dia id in the chat in yahoo. THe irony is that I had refused to give a show.
If you have time, block her and report her to get her removed. I m not at all sure this is a woman. I asked Filipino friends about the id name. It is not Filipino. Maybe Indian?
Her/his chat id in ym is: rhiwasa1979
Here the latest:
I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks
Puerto La Cruz
09-20-08, 03:48
I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks
Isn't that just a little bit anal retentive?
Yikes!!!!!
I'd hate see how you would memorialize getting one of them in the sack.
I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks
Well I think thats a good idea especially if you are working with numerous contacts.
Very easy to save and copy to a text file as follows:
1. Open message archive window, then select the conversation.
2. Click the save icon in the toolbar. The 'save conversation history' window opens.
3. Locate the folder you want to save the selected conversation, type the name of the file and click the save button.
Hairy Wonder
09-21-08, 04:24
I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? Thanks
Xdentx,
I think the suggestion from Mattrick makes sense. Besides being easily transportable, you can continue chatting while reviewing past chat sessions in the text file. If you have the archive window open, you can't do any chatting without closing it first.
Another suggestion, is to use the web version of YM. It appears to be a little more limited than the downloaded version. But it does save an archive of chat sessions that can be opened and reviewed from any computer with web access.
As for the comment from PLC, there is nothing anal retentive about it. After chatting with more than a few cuties, it's easy to get confused, or forget what you have said to any one of them in the past. Using the archive is a good way to keep track of things in order to keep from screwing up the work put in to having a successful meeting with one of these LBFM's.
Happy Mongering!
HW
Hairy Wonder
09-21-08, 04:28
X, at the moment in Japanese accomodation, listening to Brit music, chatting on the PI thread of the the ISG, commenting about Chinese bus drivers --- wow, thank you for globalization.
Oh, wait, half my life savings are in US stocks. Damn.
Taking one day at a time.
X
Love the humor X! I'll have to meet up with you the next time I have a chance to run amuck in paradise! I'd like to buy you a beer and have you give me some pointers on finding the cuties outside the bars. Enjoy your time in Japan! And don't worry about your US stocks. Just like the Phils government, our's loves the income from outside sources also! :D
HW
Chocolate Chip
09-21-08, 05:05
I've been ym chatting with DIA ladies over a period of many weeks. My preferences in the ym program were set to archive all conversations so as to not loose any significant info. I was using both my laptop and desktop computer in these chats. Now I'm trying to copy the desktop archive to a memory stick and transfer everything to the laptop. Want to sanitize the desktop and hit the road with the laptop. I've tried everything I can think of but can find no simple way to copy. Has anyone actually done this and can you tell me how to do it? ThanksNot really sure if you want to add the archived files from the desktop to the archive of the laptop or just temporarily copy them there until you clear out your desktop.
But here is another way to transfer the YM archives (I have Windows XP):
1) Open the Program Files folder (usually C:\Program Files)
2) Open the Yahoo! folder
3) Open the Messenger folder
4) Open the Profiles folder
5) Open your YM ID folder (like Xdentx or something)
6) Open the Archives folder
7) Open the Messages folder
8) Note the folder named for each of your YM buddies
Here is the complete path:
C:\Program Files\Yahoo!\Messenger\Profiles\YourYahooID\Archive\Messages\NameOfYourYahooBuddy
9) Each buddy folder will contain archived, date-coded messages.
10) The messages are encrypted, but the files can be copied to another machine and placed in the corresponding YM folder. Then they can be read in YM like any other stored messages.
NOTE: Do NOT copy the folders to another PC with archive folders of the same name or your existing messages will be overwritten. Same for the individual chat files. Since the files are named by their chat dates, you may not want to simply dump them to the folder on another machine if you already have chat files of the same name.
I would suggest copying the YM buddy folders to a thumb drive and renaming them. Thus, if you have an archived YM buddy folder called Sexy_pinay on both the Desktop and Laptop, rename the copied folder to Sexy_pinay-from_desktop or something like that. Then you can copy the folder to your laptop archive area, both Sexy_Pinay and Sexy_pinay-from_desktop folders will show up in the archived messages window.
Now, having gone through all that, here is a a quick and easy. If your individual chat files on your laptop do not have the same name as the ones on your laptop, just dump them to the corresponding laptop folder. All the messages will show up in the archives for their respective chat dates.
That's just my 2 cents, unless someone has a better way.
DISCLAIMER
I am not responsible for any screw-ups, so I'd suggest you also make a back-up copy of your laptop archives, just in case you do overwrite your files.
Yes, but pic removed. If some guys click on "stop" to get the person removed, it would be good. The maniac is likely to continue. My pinay friends chatted with her, pretending to be male. They say definitely not a woman and likely not in the Philippines. Some Indian scum they said.
She is still there:
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Country: Philippines
State / Region: davao city
City: davao
Ethnicity: Asian
Appearance: Very Attractive
Height: 165 cm (5'5")
Weight: 54 kg (119 lbs)
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Black
Education: University - Some
Occupation: student
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: Libra
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker
simple lady wants honest guy
attractive and very sincere.......................love to meet guy who is serious
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I want to meet a Male
with age from 30 to 60
and I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.
i want to meet gy who is serious and have sense of humor and vewry good iwqhen it comes of relationship and very responsible...............
Xdentx,
Another suggestion, is to use the web version of YM. It appears to be a little more limited than the downloaded version. But it does save an archive of chat sessions that can be opened and reviewed from any computer with web access.
Happy Mongering!
HW
I have a couple hundred names on my different yahoo msg. I wish I would have kept some notes on the different ones. I must have been attracted to them at one time, or I would not have them on my msg list.
I have started using yahoo msg Internet version for most of my chats. Now if a girl pops ups on my screen to chat, I just click the history button, and I can tell instantly if she is someone I want to chat with. Also most of the girls have a small picture in there yahoo msg profile that will help you remember them.
The only time I use the Download version of msg is when I want to see them on cam. After I confirm on cam that they are the female/cute I change back to the web version.
Thanks for your comprehensive review. Appreciate it. I had already found the ym folder via windows explorer. Your warning about overwriting saved my ass because I hadn't had time enough to mess up on my own. And thanks to all who don't feel this is anal retentive.
I use DIA for meeting ladies and what happen yesterday was a first for me and I have to post it.
Two weeks ago a lady messaged me and we messaged back and forth and finally I got to webcam with her last week. She looks good, so I took a chance and arranged to meet with her yesterday. When she showed up at the hotel, I went down to the lobby to pick her up. I didn't see her and the guard pointed her out under the staircase. I looked at her, but she looked different. She saw me and started walking to me and I just led her to the room. When we got to the room, I said, WOW you look different on the cam and she replied, "No, I am sorry, that is my sister. She was using my cell and I read your text to her and I told her that you didn't text her and I came instead".
Her sister found out and she messaged me today:
DIA wrote:
-=sorry if we not meet yesterday-=
-=because my daughter have a sick-=
-=but next Sunday i want to meet you -=
-=you seen my sister already yesterday?-=
-=how she look?-=
-=you know im angry with here-=
-=she dint tell me that she meet you-=
-=you want to see me in person?-=
-=
Of course I asked her sister if she told her that we got real friendly and she said no, she wouldn't tell her that. So, the original sister is coming in the morning next week and then her sister will come in the afternoon.
I am working on a threesome and some nude pis:D
The pictures are included. DIA is the original girl.
Don't like yahoo messenger very much. Theyre full of bots offering webcam services. Any other alternatives?
Azmodeus Fl
09-23-08, 01:43
Try Camfrog. The full version cost but then again the person you are trying to view can't deny you viewing them. The only draw back to the free version is you can only see one cam at a time.
Don't like yahoo messenger very much. Theyre full of bots offering webcam services. Any other alternatives?
Research: Cybersex users show high depression rates.
"... Most concerning was the high rate of poor mental health among the sample group. We found that 27 per cent of them were moderate to severely depressed on the standard depression scales. Thirty per cent had high levels of anxiety and 35 per cent were moderately to severely stressed, which is of course extremely high. The more heavily they engaged in online sexual activity the higher their level of depression and anxiety was, he said.
It was possible these rates were high because the men were spending so much time online and not engaging with people socially."
http://www.news.com.au/technology/story/0,25642,24401593-5014239,00.html
So guys, throw away those webcams and the baby-oil, and get out of the house for some real-life shagging! ;)
Hairy Wonder
09-25-08, 09:46
I've tried camfrog. I downloaded the free version, installed it, and signed up. But after that, I failed to find anything any more interesting than the Yahoo chat rooms. They are also filled with bots, from what I have seen. I know that some on these boards report seeing some action on both Camfrog and Yahoo, but I don't seem to find it anywhere I've been looking. Can anyone that has experience on those chat rooms give a little more information?
I will have to say that Piper1 has a good point though. The real thing is always more fun! :D
Happy Mongering!
HW
Azmodeus Fl
09-25-08, 15:06
Just look around and add the showgirls or guys what ever trips your trigger to the friend list. That way you know where they are also the rooms are kept open by bots, you will always see one in the room usually it has the same name of the room.
So, against my better judgement, I am back on FH again. If any of you read my reports from the Cebu thread you will know that all the FH girls I met were just plain horrible expirences. I should have listened to my little inner voice as it told me to skip meeting them and get out for freebies. So many girls out there and you get to meet/see them up front.
As for the question to the board, I have seen much of this post in the seeking portion of FH profiles. It is as follows:
"im looking for someone who cares and to understand for what i am ,and looking guy who will complete my lifetime partner"
OK, so the lifetime partner I get, but what about the "for what I am" part. Does this mean that they are pros, BG, etc?
Looking forward to your thoughts.
Carmex
AussieOverboard
09-26-08, 06:51
As for the question to the board, I have seen much of this post in the seeking portion of FH profiles. It is as follows:
"im looking for someone who cares and to understand for what i am ,and looking guy who will complete my lifetime partner"
OK, so the lifetime partner I get, but what about the "for what I am" part. Does this mean that they are pros, BG, etc?
Carmex
A lot of time they just copy and paste anothers profile as they have no idea what to say.
"for what I am" is normally in reference to either
1. having a baby to a local boy who then left her
2. being a poor uneducated girl from the province
3. she is FAT
4. she is a "lady boy"
5. any combination of the above.
Cunning Stunt
09-26-08, 07:37
So, against my better judgement, I am back on FH again. If any of you read my reports from the Cebu thread you will know that all the FH girls I met were just plain horrible expirences. I should have listened to my little inner voice as it told me to skip meeting them and get out for freebies. So many girls out there and you get to meet/see them up front.
As for the question to the board, I have seen much of this post in the seeking portion of FH profiles. It is as follows:
"im looking for someone who cares and to understand for what i am ,and looking guy who will complete my lifetime partner"
OK, so the lifetime partner I get, but what about the "for what I am" part. Does this mean that they are pros, BG, etc?
Looking forward to your thoughts.
Carmex
I know I'm a cynical old sod, but I cannot help but be amazed by the way many Pinay webdating girls delude themselves with fanciful and unrealistic expectations of the sort of guys they are likely to meet through these sites. As if they had OD'd on Mills and Boone. You get so many looking for 'eternal soulmates', 'everlasting love' and other vomit inducing nonsense. Not a lot looking for 'casual love', 'lechorous old farts' or 'quick and financially advantageous fucks', which is much more likely to elicit a positive response. Guess there must be some sincere prince charming types, seriously looking for romance, that use these sites but they must be pretty rare and get quickly snapped up.
Some words and phrases that frequently appear, put the fear of God into me. One of these is oddly enough 'Godfearing' to describe the girl or her anticipated match. Another I often see is 'don't like playing games'. So a round of strip poker is out of the question then, and I can leave the 'nursey' uniform at home, shall I?
There are quite a few nutters out there too, but these can usually by filtered out by careful screening. One 35 year old who had been pestering me for a while, even though I politely but firmly made it clear that I was not interested, took the unusual step of reworking her profile into vituperative, personal attack. And I hadn't even met the crazy b****!
Anyone else had unusual experiences? GH
GoodEnough
09-26-08, 08:29
i've never used any of these sites, and i've only seen one or two so i'm hardly an expert, but i think the content of the girls' profiles is easily explained by looking at the reading material consumed by an average filipina. has anyone ever seen a filipina reading (for pleasure) anything but a movie magazine or a closely-allied summary of pap? anyone ever see a filipina reading an actual book? all the reading materials i've ever seen are sort of down market philippine versions of cosmos. what's the typical content of the crap they read. scintillating and in-depth stuff on: "how to find mr. right." or: "loving you for who and what you are." i'm sure the profile stuff is paraphrased from this sort of material.
this is, i guess what happens, when your leisure-time reading consists mainly of photo captions and you have the intellectual curiosity of a grape..
ge
Hairy Wonder
09-26-08, 09:23
I have used DIA primarily for the past couple of years. I have seen all of the same lines mentioned in previous posts so many times, that I just look at the pictures now. If I do read the profile, I watch for keywords that are in the description of the guy they are looking for. If I see "generous," "one-woman-man," "willing to help me in my situation," or any variation on these phrases, I move on. If one of them contacts me after seeing that I was looking at her profile, I will carry on a polite chat with them. If that turns into a "Can you send me money?" thing, I block them. I decided that I will not be their sugar daddy (with no benefits), or ATM. If I meet with a girl, and I am pleased with the results of our meeting, I will gladly give her money to cover the cost of the bus, taxi, or other means of transportation. I might even take her out to eat, have some drinks, or buy her a gift. But I make it very clear that she should not expect to be on some paymet plan beyond that one time.
I did have one girl latch onto me as soon as I first started using DIA. Once she had my e-mail address, she would not leave me alone. She wanted to chat with me every day, and would send me nasty-grams if I was not online when she was. I told her that I had other things to do, and she said that she understood. But then she would get nasty again. Finally, I marked her e-mail address as SPAM on YM, and stopped responding to her. Then she used DIA to send me a tear-jerking message about how I broke her heart, and all she wanted was a "loyal friend." I blocked her there as well, and haven't heard from her since.
The problems I have now, is that my gf knows about my DIA account (and this one). She is very jealous if she sees that I have been corresponing with the girls on there, even though I try to keep my messages to the "Hi! How are you?" type. She is back at home now in PI, so I don't know if she is checking my accounts or not. I have considered canceling the accounts, and starting new ones. But there are many girls I don't want to have to loose in the process. The other problem is that many of the gays have been hitting me up with messages. I block them as soon as I see what they are. My profile starts off with "NO GAYS, LADYBOYS, OR SHEMALES!!!" But they still bother me.
Happy Mongering!
HW
A lot of time they just copy and paste anothers profile as they have no idea what to say.
"for what I am" is normally in reference to either
1. Having a baby to a local boy who then left her
2. Being a poor uneducated girl from the province
3. She is FAT
4. She is a "lady boy"
5. Any combination of the above.ADD:
6. Camgirl
7. Hooker
Candelaria
09-26-08, 23:45
I collected 5 cell phone numbers in August from dateinasia before I left UAE to Manila. To my disappointment, there were 4 no shows when I attempted to meet the girls! The one who showed up was not ready to go to bed right away, she just said "next time". I find it easier just to get the girls from the club, rather than wasting time trying to meet them and screw up my other plans. Just so you guys who plan to meet the girls online, be sure have backup plans if the girls do not show up.
I am interested in meeting up with a few marrried filipinas for exploration.
Are there any dating sites that include a search option for married women in th ePhilippines?
I use Thailovelinks which has that option for Thais, but there are no filipinas on it.
Do you mean your efforts resulted in only five phone numbers or that after a bit of searching, interviewing, chatting, you had five good prospects? What cities?
I'm not trying to diss you, but your pre-visit efforts make a world of difference.
I've had great luck with Cherry blossom pay site, and have trouble understanding the guys who suggest that Net prospects are a "waste of time". (Still waiting for Igoforasia to explain himself).
Side note: when a lady tells me "next time", I assume I went to far in the first place. I convey a message something like this..."I'm sorry...it's just that I like you so much. I don't want any promises for next time.".
Tell her what she wants to hear! If you've done some touch testing and had positive results, that second date may be a pleasant surprise.
Sidenote: If you are visiting SEAsia for a once in a lifetime visit, and want to a whirlwind of sex and fake romance...stick to the bars. You won't be disappointed.
X
I collected 5 cell phone numbers in August from dateinasia before I left UAE to Manila. To my disappointment, there were 4 no shows when I attempted to meet the girls! The one who showed up was not ready to go to bed right away, she just said "next time". I find it easier just to get the girls from the club, rather than wasting time trying to meet them and screw up my other plans. Just so you guys who plan to meet the girls online, be sure have backup plans if the girls do not show up.
I am interested in meeting up with a few marrried filipinas for exploration.
Are there any dating sites that include a search option for married women in th ePhilippines?
I use Thailovelinks which has that option for Thais, but there are no filipinas on it.
I suggest you go to local malls and see anything you like just go up and play dumb tourist and strike up conversation.
Hairy Wonder
10-01-08, 10:11
I suggest you go to local malls and see anything you like just go up and play dumb tourist and strike up conversation.
I'm just curious (some might say ignorant) as to what lines work with these mall encounters. I'm sure that nobody would walk up to a total stranger and tell her "I'd like to take you back to my hotel and fuck you all night." So I'm posing the question(s) to you more experienced mongerers, what lines work to get the average hottie out of shopping mode, and into fucking me mode? Also, what lines should be avoided?
Happy Mongering!! :D
HW
I suggest you go to local malls and see anything you like just go up and play dumb tourist and strike up conversation.
Hello Pimpster, thanks fro the advice, but I must say that I am too shy to just walk up to a stranger and strike up a conversatin. And I tend to get tongue tied when I try to talk to an attractive woman.
hence back to my original question.
Gangles
As a first time visitor to the Philippines, I've found it pretty incredible how agressively the caucasion man is pursued. I worked the DIA system pretty heavily prior to the trip. Early in my visit here I also checked out LA CAfe...and Burgos St. because I wanted to take in multiple venues. But now I want to write about my enounter last night with a DIA gal.
I had read the forum and decided in advance to avoid meeting family/friends of the DIA ladies. I had saved about a dozen pics/profiles of my favorite chatmates and had had several nice encounters already. So yesterday morning, when I found myself with nothing on the evening's schedule, I messaged a gal who had an incredible pic on dia and who I had chatted with only about 8 times. No cam...which I know is not ideal. She looked so great in her pic, that for some reason a month earlier I had actually asked her if she was a ladyboy. Her
English was not good in chat and her response was vague...so I still had some questions in my mind about her.
I left her an offline message to come to City Garden Hotel for dinner at 7 and planned to check my messages later in the day. Backup was to be LA Cafe. My open cell phone from the US was/is not working here and the internet in City Garden Makati was the pits. Communication was a challange because you have to give out your real name and room number for someone to call you in your room. And who wants to hang out in their room waiting for a call? Anyway, I digress. So I returned late from sightseeing with a very pleasant DIA gal (no sex...no problem) late in the day and checked messages. Ruth had messaged she'd meet me in the lobby at 7. It was already 8 so i called her from my hotel room. She and her friend had been in the lobby since 7 and would come up...no thanks...I'd go down..but who was the friend? Auntie!
Not what I wanted to hear! Went down and was greeted by a beautiful slim dark woman with exceptionally long black shiny hair...Ruth. She came across immediately as very friendly, fun, and personable. She kissed me on greeting, took my hand and introduced "Auntie" who smiled on with happiness. They'd been on time at 7 so we agreed to walk over to Shakeys Pizza and have dinner. Now being a reasonabely cautious guy, I am wondering about their program. Ruth spoke less english than Auntie and they would speak in tag occasionally. We ordered pizza and beer and all 40 kilos of Ruth quickly got a little high from one beer. At one point Ruth belched loudly and neither Auntie nor I flinched. Ruth, age 28, but looking 20, sells fish and vegetables somewhere in Manila. Auntie soon hinted that Ruth and I could drink beer in my room...and she'd go home. Auntie accompanied us back to the room and we all chated nicely for awhile. Auntie inquired jokingly "No Chocolate?" and I immediately presented her with a box. Ruth wanted Auntie to say the night with us...and Auntie wisely declined...but Auntie would return in the am to collect Ruth. Auntie left joking about boom boom and making babies.
Long story short, Ruth and I had a very nice time. Pics allowed with clothes only. Verbal communication was not the best...but she was a very responsive woman...very flat chested with nice nipples and dark smooth skin. Quite exotic for me. She told me upfront no condom necessary, but I insisted. We woke up at 6am and I explained I had an 11 am meeting. I decided to get breakfast out of the way before Auntie showed up and it became a 3 way thing. Breakfast over by 7:30 and Auntie called from the lobby. Now the night before, someone had suggested that shopping might be in order and Auntie was waiting outside my room's door when we returned from breakfast. I semi descretely sliped 1500 into Ruths pocket for shopping and the taxi home and we all happily parted company. (I had given Auntie 300 the night before for round trip up and home.)
Final impression: exotic dark beauty, beautiful teeth, spunky personality, simple, very unsophisticated, not much english, remarkable memorable experience regarding my unanticipated first 3 way meeting. DIA profile: ruth_sienes, 28, Manila. If you want her phone number and more details pm me.
What was the original Q?
1) talk to the mall staff. She may be bored stiff anyway and she's paid to talk to customers. Shy? Start with clothes, work your way to men's underwear. If you survive that go up to ladies lingerie. (I stiill blush in both situations, but i keep practicing)
sidenote: i once had a real stunner deposit herself in the next changing room-- mens section.
2) name card....you dont have to say a word. Print plenty, give generously, quickly learn how to set to silent mode...
About 99 years ago i felt just like G. I was taking pic (as i do) at an old church in Cebu. I saw a cute lady, so asked her the question i had in my head. What is the name of the church? She said she was from out of town and didnt know. Smile, "thanks anyway" I went on taking pics...five min later she runsup to me, apologizes, and tells me the name of the church. I thank her, and that is the end of that. But the seed was planted...
You can practice your game anywhere, anytime -- joking with the alteration staff (oldish women) at one mall, i got great service (my clothes), and the old bat remembered me 18 months later.
Tongue tied, just practice/prepare a few things -- "Where can i buy a load?" "Is there a money changer in this mall?
X
Don't make the mistake of foolin with attached women.
Hello Pimpster, thanks fro the advice, but I must say that I am too shy to just walk up to a stranger and strike up a conversatin. And I tend to get tongue tied when I try to talk to an attractive woman.
hence back to my original question.
Gangles
Hairy Wonder and Gangles
I have a different perceptive on how to pick up non pros more sophisticated types.
Yeah its true you can be white and there will be lots of filipina all over you, but sometimes those types of girls aren't always the best some they can be crude, not always the best looking, or the the type that just going to use you for money, there always exception to the rule though. If that's your type than by all means just show up to PI walk around the food court and smile a lot and look lost someone will come up to you. MY perspective about catching non pro good girl that will fuck your brains out is a bit different than most mongers on here, it actually requires work. You will have a better chance with super hot girls from good families or you will likely get the hottest girls in the bar PI girls aren't always as dumb as we think they are, many are dumb as dirt though when it comes to common sense like girls on DIA who will hit you up for money after 20 minute into the chat
My strategy is quite simply do you want to be like James Bond or poor dirty frat boy without manners. Many if not most mongers go to PI looking like old drunks or old frat boys if it wasn't the fact it was PI, these guys wouldn't get any action and would be looked down upon by native people.
Your goal to pick up regular hot girls who will give you the royal treatment whether she be old or young and they won't try to even hit you up for money.
You should be like james bond in every single way " think sophistication there a reason why James Bond is an icon in the world.
Get a nice flattering haircut, unless you are really young long hair should be avoided. remember you are an international player that's worldly. While you are in PI make sure you get regular hair cuts and shave that fuzz from your neck and keep your side burns trimmed, and shave. " very few PI women like kissing someone with stubble Pi men tend not to have lots of hair." If you have a beard or whatever facial hair make sure its looks the best it can be none of this long nasty out of control thing. Put gel, wax or whatever hair product you use to make sure you look extremely well groomed. That bed head doesn't look right when your face isn't a teenager anymore. I suggest you spray your hair with your comb favorite cologne before combing your hair that way your hair will always smell fresh and clean, especially in PI where its freaking hot and often things smell bad. A few months before your trip start to try and lose weight, work out a bit get back into shape so you can party hard and f*ck harder. It will do you mentally and physically good. Start using moisturizer everyday on your face, yeah i know it sounds gay but it can make you look less tired and more youthful its cheap too only cost like 5 dollars for walmart face moisturizer. Keep your nails clean and short, and if you have any foot issue resolve that. So now you look physically good. You don't need to spend a ton of money on clothes, but make sure your clothes look clean nice fit well non loud color neutral is always good. If you don't have anything like that go get cheap khakis at old navy and white polo shirt or oxford white shirt , classic combo that never goes out of style and you will stick out in PI in a good way. Most locals wear jeans t shirt . You want to look polish and clean. Pick up some of your favorite cologne while you are at it, PI women tend to like sweeter scent from my experience. Most PI men go all natural , so you will just stand out the moment you come near her " she thinking gosh he smells nice not in like old english grandpa way. " Oh I forgot to mention if you are totally gray its not a bad thing, I don't think any PI girl is going to kick anderson cooper out of bed" but if you must dye pick a color that is on the lighter side nothing says fake hair dye than raven black hair when your face looks like a prune. " Get yourself non flassy tennis shoes like chuck taylors. I know flip flops are the in things, but set yourself different from everyone else. Now that you are looking cary grant like, here where I'm a snake in the grass I go into the mall walk around and people obviously know that I'm not from there by my appearance girls look and smile etc... when I see the sales girl i like or whatever.. I go up to her and ask for help in whatever item etc.. and direction on how to get back to such and such a street. All the time holding a victoria secret bag, " All PI girls love VS stuff and they grave it in fact" I always bring along with me a VS nightie that I purchase online from the u.s., do not buy underwear because nightie are basically one size fits for the average PI girl. I you are really cheap you can even PI slightly used nightie from ebay at like 5 dollars 7 including shipping. I go on to explain I just came to PI and my friend online apparently flaked out on me or whatever and after I bought her a gift from the u.s. showing them the v.s. bag. Watch their eyes get really big by this time. "If they ask you the reason for your stay, I tell them that I m here on a medical mission to help PI poor. I'm in the medical field so i can get away with it. You have to come up with your own, whatever business it is enhance it. At which point I always ask if i can take a picture of them because I'm making a scrapbook about my trip. I show them a picture which allows me to get really close to them so they can get sniff about that cologne. If she hasn't really warmed up to you yet, ask her since the girl stood you up and you don't anyone here and what not does she have any suggestions, if she gives you suggestions ask for details or how to get there sort of thing. If you are really brave ask her if you care to show her around. If not give her a business card with your name on it and cell phone number, telling her if she has any other ideas feel free to give you a call. The business cards as are really just cards with my name on it, its what people use to do in the olden days if they came to see someone and they weren't home leave their card. I have a very high success rate with this technique, you will of course strike out with some girls because they are truly in love with their husbands.
Even in the bar if you can stand out from everyone else.. and look like you going to treat the girl well. You have a better shot with the hot ones, most girls in the bars aren't like sex addicts or anything they work there because of the money and some are hoping to find American bf. Do the same thing on DIA if you plan to go to angeles city play the same snake and the grass deal. I came to here to meet someone i thought was going to be very special I don't know a soul came to meet this girl and she was a no show sort of deal. So you can hit the bars and have something on the side. I've notice that many girls from angeles city and paganga are bar girls trying to find by. When you talk to girls from angeles city and Pampanga . Make it seem you don't know anything about those city. Only want to meet her etc.. since she a bar girl you won't have to wait but a few hours to get her in bed. Non pro girls you may have to work at it for a few days, but keep in mind this is a long term investment for future trips. Don't ever think about giving money for these women. Make it a point to state that you were online and met many young filpinas if you are talking to an older gal say the young ones are are immature, and kept on asking for money and it wasn't about love with them it was about money. Buy the non pro girl you are dating some flowers, sack of rice, etc.. don't give money reason being she shouldn't hit you up for money because you providing food etc.. which she would have had to pay at other times anyways. There always family sickness etc... if you are in the mood to pay for that ask for the bill and call up the hospital and pay directly to the hospital side note call a few times to make sure its truly a hospital and call at odd hours as well. Ive had girls try to scam me but thanks to the board I expected them to say this and that.
good luck
Pimp
Guiltyfeet
10-02-08, 04:48
Enjoyed your story. I've had several mothers consign their virgin daughters to me overnight with only the slightest trepidation. And I'm an old fart of 60.
But I'm nice as hell. Actually I treated the girls very well. They were virgins in the morning, but there was some serious dining out. The girl is very charming and has beautiful hair. Best of luck to you and her.
I got contacted on DIA by a better than real person. She was nice and we chatted for about 1 week without cam.
Today she confessed her love to me (I was not surprised, given that I'm the object of her desires). She is a student at a nursing school near Manila. etc etc
As a proof of our unending love to her classmates we were to sign up at:
Online Dating Club, a rather new or inactive site.
You wanted a love acc. (Anything would be inacceptable) and show it to her friends.
I signed up and saw that this is a dead spot. 40K members worldwide with 7K females.
The lady signed up with a nice name like: scammer loves idiot.
Then she suggested that we should upgrade the account to a lovers' account. That would be the hit with the classmates and she would really be popular.
Well, 1 month 19 US, plus 2 higher levels at 29 and 39 US. Really shit.
The true trick is of course that you register your cc info in an account she has access to.
I politely declined and she kept bugging. In the end I simply told the person to fuck off.
Pretty crude trick but it was a new one to me. Maybe this little anecdote is helpful to someone.
EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
And I've never taken a virgin. But this thing with Ruth was just a one time thing. Simply a fresh and unexpected experience for this old guy. I'm polite, curteous, and well traveled and am discovering that the women don't care about your age. It's the money!
Last night I was in Boracay in Coccomungas and a young lady appologized for being 28. I had just told her my true age and she was appologizing to me for being 28! Yee Gods! I love the Philippines.
Azmodeus Fl
10-02-08, 13:38
Awhile back someone posted a comment asking why the webcam girls think they are worth more than the bar girl/working girls. I think it is all in perception of the work environment. The webcam girls feel that they are not selling themselves like the bar girls or working girls, even though some will meet regulars for one on one sessions and yes they do get paid for their time. As far as I'm concerned marriage is the oldest sanctioned prostitution scam ever. Look at this this way, you marry a woman you buy her a house, car and purchase presents for her for no reason at all and all she has to do is spread her legs once in awhile. The only difference is that in most cases the husband is her only customer (that can also not be the way it is).
Awhile back someone posted a comment asking why the webcam girls think they are worth more than the bar girl/working girls. I think it is all in perception of the work environment. The webcam girls feel that they are not selling themselves like the bar girls or working girls, even though some will meet regulars for one on one sessions and yes they do get paid for their time. As far as I'm concerned marriage is the oldest sanctioned prostitution scam ever. Look at this this way, you marry a woman you buy her a house, car and purchase presents for her for no reason at all and all she has to do is spread her legs once in awhile. The only difference is that in most cases the husband is her only customer (that can also not be the way it is).
If we are talking about webcam girls from PI on DIA, I ve had a few girls say its only a dollars etc. Its almost a classic scam by some pimp in my opinion. You have to deposit money into a website to see these girls, so they have some sort of pimp pimping them out. Obviously most if not all these girls cannot afford to set up a website that allows them to accept credit cards. It may not be that they view themselves better than bar girls, but they view us as suckers. I know that filipina who work in hostess bars view themselves as better than bar girls, at least the ones I've been one. Its like street walker, vs escort.
Hairy Wonder
10-03-08, 11:37
As far as I'm concerned marriage is the oldest sanctioned prostitution scam ever. Look at this this way, you marry a woman you buy her a house, car and purchase presents for her for no reason at all and all she has to do is spread her legs once in awhile. The only difference is that in most cases the husband is her only customer (that can also not be the way it is).
So true Azmodeus! The only big difference between a wife and a prostitute, is the wife keeps asking for more money after you have tried to get rid of her!
HW
Oh come on guys! Don't you think that is a rather hackneyed and trite approach to the fine old institution of Marriage? LOL Now, I always thought that Marriage was a bond between a man, looking to possess something that no other man could ever have, and a woman, looking for lifelong security and willing to give it up for just that reason!
Now, that being said, I must state that I am not absolutely sure you are not correct! I mean, how would I know? I'm on my third marriage, and haven't disproved your theory as of yet! However, I guess I must be a Romantic, as I still find your idea to be a bit cynical.
I must also state that, now on my third marriage, it does seem to be getting a little easier for me to accept that Marriage can and does work, if you are willing to work at it. Now, I do, in all honesty believe that to a man, sex with a woman he loves is a spiritual-like experience, whereas a woman most probably finds it all just another means to an end; that "end" being shopping and devoting her quality time to her kids! And yes, I will admit I might be being a bit cynical here also!
And now do you see? Re-reading what I have just written, I find that even to me, it seems to have come directly from a man who has been a life-long mongerer, and not one who has known a great, passionate and abiding love for only one woman! Ah well, I must accept my fate, keep the faith, and love as many as I can!
Cheers!
H
For your entertainment (if your bored). The person operates on tagged. I had been hit up 2-3 days earlier with the same result. It seems they have different operators, so they tried again.
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so do you exp in cyber sex
me: sure
me: y not?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i wish i could
me: y?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: coz to tell you the truth i work as a cam girl but im fere to talk not to work
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: here
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: we can talk and share somethin
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you know i prefer to have a older guy to be my husband than a young with dont know how to satisfy a woman
me: thx
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: older man know how to respect and know how to treat a woman
me: thx
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so what are youre proffessions
me: business
me: online
15 min later
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so what do you want to do now?
me: chat
me: and u?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: anythin you prefer
me: up to u
me: put on ur cam
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i already told you
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i want
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but i cant
me: ok
me: bad luck
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: hahahaha
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but if you have a trust on me we can cooperate to open my cam for free
me: dunno who that works?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: listen
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: thres a secret in our job
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can open my cam for free in 3 days free trial
me: how does that work?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: i can tell you how to do that
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: follow my lead ok
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: lnk.nu/wow.CHANGED TO FUCK OFF gateway.dick
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: click first
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: step by step
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: listen
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: in email part there
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: put free bfore youre email add like this freeglamourous att sick **** online
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: then complete the form
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can have a free 3 days trial to see me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can do that
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: every time we chat
me: ok
me: but what is so special about it?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: tell me if you are done
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so you can see me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: chattin
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: anythin
me: ?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: it depends on the situation
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: lol
me: i dont get it
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so you can see me my friend
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
me: same like chathostess?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: after you done it dont do anythin just follow my instruction ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: what chatostess?
me: webcam site
me: really good
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ahhh ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but in that site you can open my cam only
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: no charge
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: if you follow my instruction
me: there is always a charge for such services
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: yea
me: how much is the minute?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: thats why i told you how to get a free 3 days trial
me: ic
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its depend on you if you will send me a money
me: dunno if u can do all i like
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its ok to me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but for now
me: chathostess is good
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: talk
me: cos they show what they offer
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: and seee me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its ok to me
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ah ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: sweetie if you want to pay its ok
me: but how much?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but i told you can have a free trial
me: 99 or 1.99?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: for real in a month the charged
me: monthly??
me: u r sure?
me: how is per month?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: its like 39.39 dollars per month if you are regular there
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but if you will try the trila you can decide
me: and what do i get for it?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: but i will sure you will be happy and satisfy on what you pay for
me: just 1 gal?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: yes
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can choose
me: that's little
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: everytime you want
me: no couples, preggy etc?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: no
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: sample
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: yeah....
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: just you can do what you want
me: same gal every day?
me:
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: no
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you can change gal in everyday
me: ic
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: same charge
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
me: and 2 or 3 gals?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: 4 to 7
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: like that
me: ok
me: all done and now?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so come on try it
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: send me the url?
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: wait
me: ok
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: did you put a free in the email part?
me: wait
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: aiden po
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so sorry
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: wait sweetie
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: so whta do you see?
me: ok
me: the page
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: do you have a username?
me: yes
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: sweetie
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: in the data base
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: you are not inside
ms_glamourous_mhelissa: submit and complete it
me: check under : http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum and go the chatrooms, heading is scams
I got a good chuckle from this. I wonder if the James Bond angle keeps working when she sees your Walmart moisturizer sitting there on the counter.
X
Hairy Wonder and Gangles
I have a different perceptive on how to pick up non pros more sophisticated types.
Yeah its true you can be white and there will be lots of filipina all over you, but sometimes those types of girls aren't always the best some they can be crude, not always the best looking, or the the type that just going to use you for money, there always exception to the rule though. If that's your type than by all means just show up to PI walk around the food court and smile a lot and look lost someone will come up to you. MY perspective about catching non pro good girl that will fuck your brains out is a bit different than most mongers on here, it actually requires work. You will have a better chance with super hot girls from good families or you will likely get the hottest girls in the bar PI girls aren't always as dumb as we think they are, many are dumb as dirt though when it comes to common sense like girls on DIA who will hit you up for money after 20 minute into the chat
My strategy is quite simply do you want to be like James Bond or poor dirty frat boy without manners. Many if not most mongers go to PI looking like old drunks or old frat boys if it wasn't the fact it was PI, these guys wouldn't get any action and would be looked down upon by native people.
Your goal to pick up regular hot girls who will give you the royal treatment whether she be old or young and they won't try to even hit you up for money.
You should be like james bond in every single way " think sophistication there a reason why James Bond is an icon in the world.
Get a nice flattering haircut, unless you are really young long hair should be avoided. remember you are an international player that's worldly. While you are in PI make sure you get regular hair cuts and shave that fuzz from your neck and keep your side burns trimmed, and shave. " very few PI women like kissing someone with stubble Pi men tend not to have lots of hair." If you have a beard or whatever facial hair make sure its looks the best it can be none of this long nasty out of control thing. Put gel, wax or whatever hair product you use to make sure you look extremely well groomed. That bed head doesn't look right when your face isn't a teenager anymore. I suggest you spray your hair with your comb favorite cologne before combing your hair that way your hair will always smell fresh and clean, especially in PI where its freaking hot and often things smell bad. A few months before your trip start to try and lose weight, work out a bit get back into shape so you can party hard and f*ck harder. It will do you mentally and physically good. Start using moisturizer everyday on your face, yeah i know it sounds gay but it can make you look less tired and more youthful its cheap too only cost like 5 dollars for walmart face moisturizer. Keep your nails clean and short, and if you have any foot issue resolve that. So now you look physically good. You don't need to spend a ton of money on clothes, but make sure your clothes look clean nice fit well non loud color neutral is always good. If you don't have anything like that go get cheap khakis at old navy and white polo shirt or oxford white shirt , classic combo that never goes out of style and you will stick out in PI in a good way. Most locals wear jeans t shirt . You want to look polish and clean. Pick up some of your favorite cologne while you are at it, PI women tend to like sweeter scent from my experience. Most PI men go all natural , so you will just stand out the moment you come near her " she thinking gosh he smells nice not in like old english grandpa way. " Oh I forgot to mention if you are totally gray its not a bad thing, I don't think any PI girl is going to kick anderson cooper out of bed" but if you must dye pick a color that is on the lighter side nothing says fake hair dye than raven black hair when your face looks like a prune. " Get yourself non flassy tennis shoes like chuck taylors. I know flip flops are the in things, but set yourself different from everyone else. Now that you are looking cary grant like, here where I'm a snake in the grass I go into the mall walk around and people obviously know that I'm not from there by my appearance girls look and smile etc... when I see the sales girl i like or whatever.. I go up to her and ask for help in whatever item etc.. and direction on how to get back to such and such a street. All the time holding a victoria secret bag, " All PI girls love VS stuff and they grave it in fact" I always bring along with me a VS nightie that I purchase online from the u.s., do not buy underwear because nightie are basically one size fits for the average PI girl. I you are really cheap you can even PI slightly used nightie from ebay at like 5 dollars 7 including shipping. I go on to explain I just came to PI and my friend online apparently flaked out on me or whatever and after I bought her a gift from the u.s. showing them the v.s. bag. Watch their eyes get really big by this time. "If they ask you the reason for your stay, I tell them that I m here on a medical mission to help PI poor. I'm in the medical field so i can get away with it. You have to come up with your own, whatever business it is enhance it. At which point I always ask if i can take a picture of them because I'm making a scrapbook about my trip. I show them a picture which allows me to get really close to them so they can get sniff about that cologne. If she hasn't really warmed up to you yet, ask her since the girl stood you up and you don't anyone here and what not does she have any suggestions, if she gives you suggestions ask for details or how to get there sort of thing. If you are really brave ask her if you care to show her around. If not give her a business card with your name on it and cell phone number, telling her if she has any other ideas feel free to give you a call. The business cards as are really just cards with my name on it, its what people use to do in the olden days if they came to see someone and they weren't home leave their card. I have a very high success rate with this technique, you will of course strike out with some girls because they are truly in love with their husbands.
Even in the bar if you can stand out from everyone else.. and look like you going to treat the girl well. You have a better shot with the hot ones, most girls in the bars aren't like sex addicts or anything they work there because of the money and some are hoping to find American bf. Do the same thing on DIA if you plan to go to angeles city play the same snake and the grass deal. I came to here to meet someone i thought was going to be very special I don't know a soul came to meet this girl and she was a no show sort of deal. So you can hit the bars and have something on the side. I've notice that many girls from angeles city and paganga are bar girls trying to find by. When you talk to girls from angeles city and Pampanga . Make it seem you don't know anything about those city. Only want to meet her etc.. since she a bar girl you won't have to wait but a few hours to get her in bed. Non pro girls you may have to work at it for a few days, but keep in mind this is a long term investment for future trips. Don't ever think about giving money for these women. Make it a point to state that you were online and met many young filpinas if you are talking to an older gal say the young ones are are immature, and kept on asking for money and it wasn't about love with them it was about money. Buy the non pro girl you are dating some flowers, sack of rice, etc.. don't give money reason being she shouldn't hit you up for money because you providing food etc.. which she would have had to pay at other times anyways. There always family sickness etc... if you are in the mood to pay for that ask for the bill and call up the hospital and pay directly to the hospital side note call a few times to make sure its truly a hospital and call at odd hours as well. Ive had girls try to scam me but thanks to the board I expected them to say this and that.
good luck
Pimp
I got a good chuckle from this. I wonder if the James Bond angle keeps working when she sees your Walmart moisturizer sitting there on the counter.
X
Actually, from my experience most filipina just go wow over anything that is smells nice or looks expensive whether they have ever heard of it or not. I I personally don't use wal-mart brand "nothing wrong with generic stuff Ijust very sensitive skin" but, for those of you that are more budget minded. I have a mate who recycles some of my empty shampoo bottles etc.. and fills them with generic brand or stuff from herbal essence etc, he says the girls go wild over them, its all a game of perception. The bastard goes one step further, and gets manufacture website say Paul Mitchell to point out how much the damn product cost. Thats tacky if you ask me, but he says that he been able to trade shampoo and conditioner for sex, with a working pro type of girl. I cannot verify this, because i have not attempted it. I suppose it could work if you find the right girl, either she can get 1500 php in cash or 3000 php in goods. "To each his own" I came up this idea years ago when I was in college doing a research paper, there use to be a website called the admiral club it was an essentially how to be james bond dossier guide. It seems to have worked well for me in PI and Thailand , it has not worked well for me in Vietnam though where people tend want to be your friend, but don't want their daughters dating you.
Yesterday while on DIA this one girl who I have been chatting to for abotu a week, supposedly we are bf and gf and she was going to give me her cherry. She lives in the province Ozamiz, she speaks broken english studying midwife or something like that. Anyways she starts telling me I have a problem my tooth ache and I need extraction. I said uh huh, and she said I wish you could help! Oh boy here it comes, so i play along, and I told her how can I help? She needs money please send via western union. I said oh my love that will take time go tell the dentist take care of it and i will deposit money directly into her account. One hour later she comes back and says it done, dentist says its going to cost 4000 php, and says here the number please call her and deposit money. I told her no problem my love, but i can't call her with my cell phone right now. I forget I did not sign up for international calling, can you have the dentist call me I will pay her an extra 1000 php. She says no problem. Within minutes the suppose dentist calls. I says hi greet her etc... be polite and nice ask her what she did, Dentist said I pulled out her tooth. I asked which one, obviously not a real dentist because she didn't now which one she said the back one. So by this time I was just asking stupid questions showing how much I cared for my gf and stringing them along. I finally asked how much she said 4000 php and I said oh thats it no problem i will give you 5000 php for calling me and told her thank you so much for helping my girlfriend I don't know how I can pay you back. I told her wait here I have to get my wallet from my car and get all your information so i can put the money into your account right now . You will have the money within the hour. So, I put her on hold for a good 5 minutes. I come back on the line and says ok I'm back let me turn on my computer to send you the money right now ok. So, I'm making small talk thanking her for her service etc.. and saying sorry my computer is kinda of slow etc... than I proceed to pretend to get all her information and typing it into the computer. At this point I told her oh you need to write down the confirmation number and my information or you will have a hard time getting money. I proceeded to give her a bunch of bs information, and told her that if she didn't get the money to give me a call back within 2 hours and I will track it down or resend it told her sometimes problem with the distant and computers. Sure, enough 2 hours later she calls back and says no money, I string her along again and tell her this time it should be done I'm calling my bank to confirm. I ask her if she can tell my gf to get online in 5 minutes so I can tell her whether my bank has confirmed the transaction or not.
When my so call gf comes online I laugh in her face and says why you try to scam me for 4000 php she cuss me out and everything. This is supposedly lady like catholic virgin type girl here . So in the end I'm out 0 dollars they are out for how much that calling card cost them.
No offense, to those of you that are a fan of PI girls, which I'm one of them. From my limited experience with DIA PI girls are less honest than girls from other countries. I've had more girls try to scam me from PI than from other coutries.
Cuba Tourist
10-04-08, 08:19
Could someone explain what this is referring to?
Originally Posted by Blink157
hi guys,
guess you all have fun here on ISG, well, so do I, ehhehehe..
My friend just emailed me this
http://www.timandrona.com/
check it out.. and to all newbies...take this as a warning from this poor guy..
Tim, if you read this, lets hear ur story here..man you must be pissed as hell.
Blink out
Looking For Eden
10-04-08, 08:32
Who in their right mind would pay that??? Crazy
No offense, to those of you that are a fan of PI girls, which I'm one of them. From my limited experience with DIA PI girls are less honest than girls from other countries. I've had more girls try to scam me from PI than from other coutries.I was sitting in DVO in a cafe opposite Gaisano South. Evening time. An old woman, with a face looking like an archeological dig, was online next to my terminal and working some guy who was naked on cam. she had nice japanese or korean pics on. So keep that in mind.
In Thailand I never had even remotely the same trouble with scammers like the Philippines. it is an industry. I would say 50% on DIA is surely in it. Taken the ladyboys out of the equation. In Thailand you would be hard pressed to find 10%.
Surely, some Thai ladies are fake and play games. But it is not like an industry plus hardly any webcam ladies or people who try to cheat you out of your cc details.
The perhaps only and most basic protection is cam. If you never see the person on cam send the id to the waste bin. comparison of pics on different websites takes too much time.
I m down to 3 good contacts now. Deleting and blocking 5 per day as they come and go.
I m really apprehensive when I see Bislig, Butuan, Iligan or Manila in the details. Those Mindanao towns look to me like scam centrals.
Care for some pics of scammers from DIA? we could open a nice photo collection
Who in their right mind would pay that??? Crazy
same person who would send money to girls online sucker born every minute
Cunning Stunt
10-04-08, 10:28
Pimpster - no offence but you come across a quite embittered individual. Why do you always seek to put down Filipina's? Have you been badly 'fucked over' by one in the past? Do you live in the Philippines or are you only an occasional visitor (or have you never been here)? If you knew Pinays you would know that they are no better, nor worse than girls elsewhere (but cuter) and are not all out to bleed you dry. Perhaps it is YOUR attitude to them that encourages them to try and play you for a sucker?
I certainly think that your behaviour towards the 'toothache' girl was boorish and unfair and certainly paints you in as bad a light as her. Although, saying that, have you any proof that she was not telling the truth? There was certainly no need to string her along as you did.
Maybe I am wrong, but you do appear to be a rather unsavoury character. Feel free to correct me if I am wrong. GH
Pimpster - no offence but you come across a quite embittered individual. Why do you always seek to put down Filipina's? Have you been badly 'fucked over' by one in the past? Do you live in the Philippines or are you only an occasional visitor (or have you never been here)? If you knew Pinays you would know that they are no better, nor worse than girls elsewhere (but cuter) and are not all out to bleed you dry. Perhaps it is YOUR attitude to them that encourages them to try and play you for a sucker?
I certainly think that your behaviour towards the 'toothache' girl was boorish and unfair and certainly paints you in as bad a light as her. Although, saying that, have you any proof that she was not telling the truth? There was certainly no need to string her along as you did.
Maybe I am wrong, but you do appear to be a rather unsavoury character. Feel free to correct me if I am wrong. GH
I've got nothing against filipina and infact enjoy the company of filipina in Pi quite a bit some of the nicest gals around, and the fact that they can speak english is makes for some great companionship inside the bedroom ad outside versus many women from many other countries. As far as the toothache girl is concerned, so you telling me some young gangster try to take advantage of your mom you would be ok with it? If thats what you call boorish than so be I'm unmannered I would gladly take up that title. It has nothing to do with filipina or anyone else, I would gladly protect filipina which I have done so in the past if I felt someone was trying to treat her ill whether it be a bargirl or working girl. I have a sense of fair play, school yard style win if i can lose if you must but play fair and square. As far as proof was concerned I didn't go into details because it would take up too much time and space. But I made sure it wasn't the truth by asking medical question the so call dentist couldn't answer the question, I also verified the doctor credentials which didn't exist. Asked them to fax over documentation, they couldn't at th moment, asked for clinic name and number they said will get back to me. FYI the girl today contacted me and admitted she was trying to get money out of me. If you haven't been on DIA of late, they even warn people about sending money to girls. I don't think any of us hear haven't been hit up for money, whether it be from filipina, thai or american girls.
You said PI cuter, thats all a matter of taste, I find them cute but others may find thai girls better looking etc.. I won't argue with you about it, it's all relative. As I mentioned I've contacted girls from thai, vietnam, japan, and china. I have found that as far as DIA is concerned more filipina will hit you up for money. I have never been screwed over by any filipina nor do any of my regular girls try to milk me for money i treat them quite well and they understand that I appreciate gals with a sense of honor and class regardless of profession. If you go the other message boards, there certainly less of milking mongers for money its pretty much business for most of the girls. I do agree with you that filipina are more gfe than thai girls or chinese girls. So, what it boils down to its has nothing to do with filipina or any other ethnic race. I just believe you should treat people fairly in life thats all. If you my friend were being bullied, by some hoodlum I would have no problem backing you up. So if you still find me ill mannered, so be it. No problem here and I do understand where you are coming from.
I really don't take your comment as a bad thing, in fact it allows me to re evaluate my thought process. I fail to see how its unfair to the gal who apparently tried to milk me for money and probably others as well, I look forward to hearing how you feel about this subject just pm me so it doesn't take up space on the board. "This is not a challenge thing, but really I just want to see your rationale is because for the life of me I can't understand it."
For the record I would do the same thing again regardless if it was a filipina or a thai girl or a girl from mars.
Cunning Stunt
10-04-08, 16:40
Pimpster - I just got the impression that you had pre-judged the girl and decided she was scamming you on minimal evidence (can only go on what information you give in your post) and had decided to take your revenge. Just wondered on what you based your assumption as you had not met her. You say you questioned the so-called dentist and found her answers wanting. Are you medically/dentally qualified and thus able to ask the right questions? I do not doubt your account but misunderstandings can occur particularly over a phone connection with potential language issues and could you be 100% certain that this girl and her 'dentist' buddy were out to scam you. Is there not the slightest possibility that the girl’s story was true in which case you are the one who is scamming her, by encouraging her to have treatment that you had no intention of paying for.
Many guys here look on DIA as a cheap way to lay a non p4p girl (I know because I have been guilty of this myself) without stopping to consider things from the girls perspective. She often has unrealistic aspirations from an encounter (financial support for herself and her family, romance and marriage) and why not – life is tough in the Philippines if you don’t have dosh. This is why, in my DIA profile, I make in abundantly clear that I am only looking for ‘casual’ friends. I still get many hits but at least my conscience is clear that if I meet a girl, then she had received adequate prior warning that my intentions were not entirely honourable. But even though I’m after getting into her knickers, I will still treat her like a lady. That is my style.
Pimpster - I just got the impression that you had pre-judged the girl and decided she was scamming you on minimal evidence (can only go on what information you give in your post) and had decided to take your revenge. .
This lady tries to use the Ï love you, my boyfreind" scam to steal a months salary from him. She uses all kind of tricks ( I am in so much pain, love you, give my virginity to you)
He confirmed with her "dentist"that she was a total fraud.
I have most of my dental work done when I am in the Philippines, and if she really did have a tooth pulled it would have been under 1000 peso.
He caught a thief red handed and still it only cost her the cost of a phone call, Pimpster let her off easy.
Candelaria
10-04-08, 19:47
Yesterday while on DIA this one girl who I have been chatting to for abotu a week, supposedly we are bf and gf and she was going to give me her cherry. She lives in the province Ozamiz, she speaks broken english studying midwife or something like that. Anyways she starts telling me I have a problem my tooth ache and I need extraction. I said uh huh, and she said I wish you could help! Oh boy here it comes, so I play along, and I told her how can I help? She needs money please send via western union. I said oh my love that will take time go tell the dentist take care of it and I will deposit money directly into her account. One hour later she comes back and says it done, dentist says its going to cost 4000 php, and says here the number please call her and deposit money. I told her no problem my love, but I can't call her with my cell phone right now. I forget I did not sign up for international calling, can you have the dentist call me I will pay her an extra 1000 php. She says no problem. Within minutes the suppose dentist calls. I says Hi greet her etc. Be polite and nice ask her what she did, Dentist said I pulled out her tooth. I asked which one, obviously not a real dentist because she didn't now which one she said the back one. So by this time I was just asking stupid questions showing how much I cared for my gf and stringing them along. I finally asked how much she said 4000 php and I said oh thats it no problem I will give you 5000 php for calling me and told her thank you so much for helping my girlfriend I don't know how I can pay you back. I told her wait here I have to get my wallet from my car and get all your information so I can put the money into your account right now. You will have the money within the hour. So, I put her on hold for a good 5 minutes. I come back on the line and says ok I'm back let me turn on my computer to send you the money right now ok. So, I'm making small talk thanking her for her service etc. And saying sorry my computer is kinda of slow etc. Than I proceed to pretend to get all her information and typing it into the computer. At this point I told her oh you need to write down the confirmation number and my information or you will have a hard time getting money. I proceeded to give her a bunch of bs information, and told her that if she didn't get the money to give me a call back within 2 hours and I will track it down or resend it told her sometimes problem with the distant and computers. Sure, enough 2 hours later she calls back and says no money, I string her along again and tell her this time it should be done I'm calling my bank to confirm. I ask her if she can tell my gf to get online in 5 minutes so I can tell her whether my bank has confirmed the transaction or not.
When my so call gf comes online I laugh in her face and says why you try to scam me for 4000 php she cuss me out and everything. This is supposedly lady like catholic virgin type girl here. So in the end I'm out 0 dollars they are out for how much that calling card cost them. Pimpster, that's pretty awesome! I am impressed! I get many hits from girls in Osamis or Misamis, asking for money. I will just do that. Anyway, a tooth extraction is PHP100 is the province, or PHP300-400 in Manila.
Cande Laria
Pimpster - I just got the impression that you had pre-judged the girl and decided she was scamming you on minimal evidence (can only go on what information you give in your post) and had decided to take your revenge. Just wondered on what you based your assumption as you had not met her. You say you questioned the so-called dentist and found her answers wanting. Are you medically/dentally qualified and thus able to ask the right questions? I do not doubt your account but misunderstandings can occur particularly over a phone connection with potential language issues and could you be 100% certain that this girl and her 'dentist' buddy were out to scam you. Is there not the slightest possibilitythat the girl’s story was true in which case you are the one who is scamming her, by encouraging her to have treatment that you had no intention of paying for.
Many guys here look on DIA as a cheap way to lay a non p4p girl (I know because I have been guilty of this myself) without stopping to consider things from the girls perspective. She often has unrealistic aspirations from an encounter (financial support for herself and her family, romance and marriage) and why not – life is tough in the Philippines if you don’t have dosh. This is why, in my DIA profile, I make in abundantly clear that I am only looking for ‘casual’ friends. I still get many hits but at least my conscience is clear that if I meet a girl, then she had received adequate prior warning that my intentions were not entirely honourable. But even though I’m after getting into her knickers, I will still treat her like a lady. That is my style.
I think we have all been guilty of the above, but as far as prejudging. I think any girl whose promising to give me her virginity after 2 days of chat and says I love you without meeting first is out in third base. OUr conversation on chat were always a bit of slow, in the sense that she was chatting with other DIA guys, much like what we do when we talk to multiple women. She was still checking her DIA account 3 times a day. So I would assume that if you found your lover etc.. you wouldn't be hitting your DIA account every other minute. As I mentioned before I had asked the doctors detailed questions to verify. I've learned that many filipina will ask you for money, not all, but many. These girls will come up with some tear jerker excuses, some are straight up honest that they miss their payment because they went on vacation instead of paying cable bill. Always verify if you pay. I 've paid for medical expenses in the past when one of my regular needed it. " There lots of scammers on DIA will hit you up for everything money for webcam so you can see how sexy they are on webcam. Which toothache girl hinted to before, but I brushed it off by stating I will buy her one and bring it over there. As your statement about DIA girls and casual fun? I don't know about the rest of you gents, because too each his own. We have to live with our actions. I always treat my non pro girls very well and make sure that I give them a present upon leaving "and we are not talking about bar of chocolate here" I won't give them cash unless they are one of my regulars that I've seen for years reason being, don't want her to think she a hooker.
I suggest all members here who have experience this type of scam teach these girls a lesson regardless of whatever country they are from.
Pimp has a great post, and i cant undedrstad why anyone wants to disparage Pimp reputation on such flimsy ancedote. The original post was pretty clear.
My contribution is to say that pimp protocol seems to be teachig the scammers how to do a better job.
The gal learned her lesson and is now researchig dental websites -- she might not make the same mistake twice.
X
This lady tries to use the Ï love you, my boyfreind" scam to steal a months salary from him. She uses all kind of tricks ( I am in so much pain, love you, give my virginity to you)
He confirmed with her "dentist"that she was a total fraud.
I have most of my dental work done when I am in the Philippines, and if she really did have a tooth pulled it would have been under 1000 peso.
He caught a thief red handed and still it only cost her the cost of a phone call, Pimpster let her off easy.
Cunning Stunt
10-06-08, 11:39
Let's ignore Gamadufus for the moment,
Pimp has a great p@ost, and i cant undedrstad ..
Yes we all know you don't undedrstad much ... and that your dyslexic as well but why the fuck don't you empty the garbage in your PM box now and then so that other members can contact you. I had some interesting information for you earlier but now I've lost interest and cannot be arsed to impart it to you :).
I got pinged over the weekend by a hot looking gal on FH who says she’s looking for a boyfriend. Her profile says she lives in my hometown here in U.S. I give her my phone number and she says she’s dying to meet me. Then she asks if I’d be willing to first attend a timeshare presentation here in town just so she can make a little money for having me attend. She said after that we can go out to dinner and then to my house for fun. I say fine, let’s meet in the parking lot prior to me going into the presentation. She says she can’t do that but will meet me as soon as I’m done with the presentation. I won’t be there but I wonder how many other swinging cocks are falling for this and will be in the parking lot wondering where this beauty is. I gotta hand it to her, this is original.
Ok I mentioned filipina, because I can overlook girls from other countries because often their very very limited english skills. In PI most people can speak english and write it fairly well. While they may not be fluent, its not like broken english where you can't even make heads or tails of it like girls from thailand, china and vietnam. These ladies here are looking for true love, but how come they put about zero effort into their ads. I' not talking about having to write a novel here, but most of these girls often write about one sentence and sometimes just a few words down of what they are looking for or what they are about. I just don't get that, wouldn't you want to weed out non potentials, and get as much interest as possible. I often don't even bother reading the ad because its just a one liner which is like standard intro for dia girls. I just look at the pic and says ok she cute cut and paste and send.
Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys
Member #1210
10-07-08, 00:11
Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys
I have been using Tipid Pinoy phone card for almost 9 months now. Its reliable. You can pick up this (and many other) card at any Asian grocery store. If you ask they will even give you a discount of 50 cents. $5 card costs $4.50.
Good luck.
http://www.e-pinoypinay.com/
Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys
I noticed the ones that put too much b.s. in their profiles tend to be ladyboys.
If I see a long description and the ysay they are over 5'4, I assume they are a boy.
That is only for DIA. On CB I do not see that trend.
Also, check the "recent online"section on DAI after 10 pm P.I. time vs. the afternoon time. So many ladyboys or scammers on later using fake pictures and such. It is rare to find a good girl online at the cafe after 10:00pm
Cunning Stunt
10-07-08, 07:03
I noticed the ones that put too much b.s. in their profiles tend to be ladyboys.
If I see a long description and the ysay they are over 5'4, I assume they are a boy.
That is only for DIA. On CB I do not see that trend.
Also, check the "recent online"section on DAI after 10 pm P.I. time vs. the afternoon time. So many ladyboys or scammers on later using fake pictures and such. It is rare to find a good girl online at the cafe after 10:00pm
Their photo's offer the biggest clue. If they are professional looking and appear posed (or offer a revealing glimpse of cleavage, or more), watch out. These are often the pro scammers, dangling a worm to catch big fish. Even if they are genuine, the actual girl often look much different (worse) in the flesh. I prefer those profiles that have simple, usually webcam, often blurry photo's like that you would expect a normal, economically challenged Pinay to post.
Your point about late online presence is well made as you would expect a good, clean living, Filipina to be home and tucked up in bed after 10 ;). Unfortunately you don't find too many of that ilk posting on DIA. GH
As much as it pains me, i have to agree with Mr G. - in general.
There are exceptions and i encourage you to explore those possibilites - - you never know.
Via Internet, I met an older (30+) woman, with nice pics, who turned out to be a very successful woman. Saved a few nights on hotel fee staying at her place, lusting after the very hot maid, her driver at my service - - bruises on the back of my thighs thanks to her exuberance. (She forced harder penetration by digging her heels in - bless her heart).
She could afford nice pics. In all fairness her pics didn't misrepresrnt her. Only embellishd her.
On another note,
11pm/12pm chat sessions... hotel receptionist / net cafe owner met these gals after work, on first date, and they were ready and willing. Both had odd hours.
Both still doing the same biz, both still active in the wee hours.
X
Their photo's offer the biggest clue. If they are professional looking and appear posed (or offer a revealing glimpse of cleavage, or more), watch out. These are often the pro scammers, dangling a worm to catch big fish. Even if they are genuine, the actual girl often look much different (worse) in the flesh. I prefer those profiles that have simple, usually webcam, often blurry photo's like that you would expect a normal, economically challenged Pinay to post.
Your point about late online presence is well made as you would expect a good, clean living, Filipina to be home and tucked up in bed after 10 ;). Unfortunately you don't find too many of that ilk posting on DIA. GH
Cuba Tourist
10-08-08, 01:15
I joined the date in Asia website about two months ago, right before my first trip to the Philippines. I have to admit that I was pretty impressed. I had dabbled a little bit with two websites that cater to Latin America and I had had some good experiences with them. But it was nothing like date in Asia. Whereas on amigos.com or cypercupido I have to be careful to compose reasonably well-thought-out messages in order to get some responses, on dates in Asia it made virtually no difference. no matter what I wrote, I got lots of responses, many of them from really pretty girls.
I asked for their phone numbers I went to the Philippines with a whole bunch of telephone numbers. As you may have guessed, I didn't end up calling any of them I met so many girls so quickly that there just wasn't time there wasn't really any reason.
Since I came back a couple weeks ago, I've been corresponding with women from the website just to keep busy. I don't really care if I ever meet them while I'm in the United States give you something to do to keep me thinking about the Philippines. It's completely free and it doesn't take much effort.
one problem I noticed is that after two or three exchanges, the conversation falls apart. They all want chat on Yahoo but when you actually chat with them they have virtually nothing interesting to say. There are various solutions to this, in particular insisting they have to have a WebCam if they want to chat. If they are as hot as they seem to be in their pictures, then it won't matter if I have anything to say.
They're located all over the country but mostly in three or four specific locations. I find this a little bit strange. So many of them are from Cebu, Davoa, and two or three other places. Relatively very few from Manila and almost none from tons of different cities and towns.
I'll try to have some interesting exchanges so that I can report to you about them. I chatted with one a couple of days ago and she is 20 years old and looking for a husband, or least that's what she says. it would certainly be interesting to correspond with a few hundred lives in several different places and then go visit them.
Guiltyfeet
10-09-08, 02:05
Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?
Cunning Stunt
10-09-08, 09:53
Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?
Would you like to borrow my specs? We all discussed this (including the pained X) on this very page, not 3-4 posts ago.
To reiterate, watch out for the professional looking pen picture, talks money ...blah,blah. Sorry much as I hate to say it and no offence, but you must RTFF. GH
Follow your gut.
Some are obvious, and others are very skillfull. There is no easy answer.
Have you been to the Phillipines before?
X
Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?
Member #4643
10-09-08, 14:43
I have a profile on DIA that clearly says I am interested in sex. I have the phone numbers of several DIA girls who want to meet me.
In the experience of the experts, when the girls show up, how common is it for them to back out on sex? In most cultures I have been to (and I have never been to the Phillipines), the girls have to have a first date without sex to save face. Will this be true of the DIA girls?
By the way, I have always, before asking for their phone numbers, told them that I want to make love to them. So even if they haven't read my profile (which I think some have not), they know what I am asking.
Member #4643
10-09-08, 14:47
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
I like to think I have a good ladyboy-radar, and I would say she isn't one on this one, but it's definately not one of those 100% certainties... but still my two pence is she's not.
Does anyone have any great ideas, or just guidelines, for weeding out the determined scammers from the real girls on Date In Asia. I have been getting great results from this web site, but I am always suspicious of every attractive girl. There must be some way to achieve justice here. I hate wasting time with false persons with attractive photos obtained from who knows where. Ideas guys?
If you don't mind spending around $20 for a month, I would sign up for Cherry Blossoms They do a good job of getting rid of scammers. On CB it states on the profile when they
first sighed up, so if they have been there a few months, that is a good sign others have not complained about them. I rarely bother with a girl who signed up in the last day or so, I let the other members screen her and besides that is when you will have the most competition.
Also with CB, you can go to "who viewed me", it keeps a count of how many times a girl has returned to your profile. So if you see a girl hitting your profile more then just once or twice, you know she is into you. Also you know if she looks only once and does not respond, that she is not into you.
They also allow many pictures, so you can see the girl in different scenarios. Some times their first pick a few years old/ lighter, but you see the pics to get a better idea of her looks.
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
Ask her for her Friendster address, it will have more pics of her also, you can see pictures of her friends (if she is with a lot of gays, that gives you a good hint). If she says she does not have friendster, she is most likely lying.
Cunning Stunt
10-09-08, 17:29
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
I'd say its 50/50. As in Thailand, some of the LB's can look quite convincing, particularly on a posed picture, as this one is. I would get her on webcam and have a closer look. Or ask her to send you some more photo's preferably scantily dressed. Since she has already agreed to sex, that should be no problem. Or call her - the voice should give you a few clues. After all you don't want any nasty surprises affter she turns up at your hotel.
Hunny Buns
10-09-08, 20:27
I chatted up with her and even spoke to her, also saw her friendster photos. She's not a lady boy, she's a singer in a band, and am quite surprised that she agreed to have sex with you. She seemed quite normal to me other than being somewhat jaded by and American ex-BF who didn't treat her right.
How much did she ask for?
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
I've contacted this girl also, I don't think its a ladyboy. Reason being that I she asked for a picture, I provided a fake picture of an older fairly attractive gent,never heard from her again. She has also agreed to have sex with me also, when i asked her about webcam she said she did not have one. Thats a big no no for me, you also have to look at the pictures they maybe of someone else and there a high chance that she looks very little like the picture in question, its a studio picture.
I have a profile on DIA that clearly says I am interested in sex. I have the phone numbers of several DIA girls who want to meet me.
In the experience of the experts, when the girls show up, how common is it for them to back out on sex? In most cultures I have been to (and I have never been to the Phillipines), the girls have to have a first date without sex to save face. Will this be true of the DIA girls?
By the way, I have always, before asking for their phone numbers, told them that I want to make love to them. So even if they haven't read my profile (which I think some have not), they know what I am asking.
If you do a search, on board I think many members find that even regular girls will flake out on you, not to mention that they want to have sex. With any regular girl you got to work it for at least a couple of days or you pin her down saying i will only be with you deal, and be prepared to change hotels after you meet. This has worked for me in the past with girls from other dating sites as well as friendster. The promise of a non pinoy bf is like having a trophy bf on their arms. But, since you indicated you want to have sex with them and if they said yes, it's probably pay for play. Why not go out to bar and pick one up or la cafe its essentially the same things. Non working girls do not reply to ads that says I'm only looking for sex.
Khun Larry
10-09-08, 20:58
Ok so i've been chatting with this sweet honey who comes from a very fine home mom was a broker etc.. so they are educated has money etc... she wants me to call her up on cell phone. I personally don't waste my time calling dia girls on phone i figure i'm going to do that like a week before i go to PI no sense wasting money right. So anyways where do you guys think is the best place to get phone cards, because i think this girl has potential to be long term steady so I figure i give her a ring way before my trip in january.
thanks guys
If you use yahoo messenger you can chat for free. If they aren't interested in you saving money that is your tip.
Khun Larry
10-09-08, 21:12
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
I always ask a DIA girl to send several pics before spending alot of time with her online. Ladyboy are easier to pick out is several pics are available. Also, I do not ask them for sex but ask if they meet in some other location, or can travel to a resort or something. Get her off on her own for an easier time.
Sorry for all the questions guys. Hopefully, after next week, I will be adding my own wisdom to the board!
I have one girl lined up who is pretty, 28 years of age and says she will have sex with me. For some reason, my gaydar goes off when looking at her photo. Does anyone know her? Could she be a ladyboy (would she surprise me with this after arriving at the hotel?).
When I first tried using DIA I went to Cebu and was going to meet a hottie. I felt something wasn't right and after a couple of "how are you?" texts back and forth I went to the mall, called the number from a payphone and BAM, a man answered and then I asked for "Marlyn" and he tried to change his voice. BUSTED:D
I now will only meet after a couple of web cam sessions.
Robb
In the experience of the experts, when the girls show up, how common is it for them to back out on sex? In most cultures I have been to (and I have never been to the Phillipines), the girls have to have a first date without sex to save face. Will this be true of the DIA girls?First, I am not an expert on this subject, this is my experience using DIA.
Second, I have found that MOST girls will have sex with you on the first date if you don't make it seem that you are just trying to bed her. I am not talking about a relationship, I am talking about respecting them. Meet them for lunch, that way if you do need to bail, you can get out easier then dinner. A lot of girls tell me that they are shy to go to my room, because they think that the people in the hotel will think that they are a working girl.
I always buy T-shirts and chocolate for gifts and after spending some time together, I say that I have a present for you in my room and 9 out 10 times, they will go to your room. Even if you are just looking for fun, treat they like a lady and they will enjoy your company and want to be with you.
One lady I met on line and chatted and web cammed for a few weeks told me that she would have dinner with me, but no sex. I told her "Thanks, but no thanks". She asked me why I am like that and I told her that I am not looking for sex, but I want the option to be open if we do like each other. She was gone, but the next day she YM'ed and said "Okay, I understand and I will stay with you in your hotel". I am always honest and I tell them that they are 1 in 10 million.
Lastly, this is my experience and as always YMMV.
Robb
FreebieFan
10-10-08, 04:47
Yes I agree with Robbaf's writings. Its all about respect and all about how you treat them. If you listen to these ladies you will know that most guys always mention sex in first few words, make comments on their physical features.. when what they want is to be appreciated.. ( note.. a few your my baby /honey whatever works great in the build up chat..but not too much)
Second.. you can tell ALWAYS tell at the first meeting if theres going to bed later.. HOW??.... see what happens if you stand close to the girl.. if your walking close and each others arms are touching with no resistance.. your in. Ive tested this method hundreds of times and always infallible.
If girl keeps her distance and no accidental touching of any kind.. she wont.
I always stay in my own condo when Im there but dont want to take anyone there so always use a motel. If, after a Starbucks or lunch or dinner, the girl asks where we are going I often say for a nice car ride.. and as were entering motel, say somewhere we can watch a movie privately. This usually works fine too. Most of my conquests have never seen a motel room ( they say)..so are often fascinated by the mirrrors on the celing.
Only once in past 20 years did I have a girl start crying when we entered the motel so we did a 180 degree U turn and drove out. But otherwise its been excellent score rate.( and a week later I took her back there and she was fine)
So its all about how you treat them. Market yourself and sell your product!
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If you use yahoo messenger you can chat for free. If they aren't interested in you saving money that is your tip.
I chat with her on yahoo, but looking forward to give her a ring. I have discovered that if you call on the phone chit chat awhile before your trip it helps to break the ice and it gives you away into her knickers.
Yes I agree with Robbaf's writings. Its all about respect and all about how you treat them. If you listen to these ladies you will know that most guys always mention sex in first few words, make comments on their physical features.. when what they want is to be appreciated.. ( note.. a few your my baby /honey whatever works great in the build up chat..but not too much)
Second.. you can tell ALWAYS tell at the first meeting if theres going to bed later.. HOW??.... see what happens if you stand close to the girl.. if your walking close and each others arms are touching with no resistance.. your in. Ive tested this method hundreds of times and always infallible.
If girl keeps her distance and no accidental touching of any kind.. she wont.
I always stay in my own condo when Im there but dont want to take anyone there so always use a motel. If, after a Starbucks or lunch or dinner, the girl asks where we are going I often say for a nice car ride.. and as were entering motel, say somewhere we can watch a movie privately. This usually works fine too. Most of my conquests have never seen a motel room ( they say)..so are often fascinated by the mirrrors on the celing.
Only once in past 20 years did I have a girl start crying when we entered the motel so we did a 180 degree U turn and drove out. But otherwise its been excellent score rate.( and a week later I took her back there and she was fine)
So its all about how you treat them. Market yourself and sell your product!
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I don't know about what you guys are doing to get girls to bed you on the first night. In my experience that non pro girls that are cute and from good family aren't going to bed you on the first night, most will meet you for the first time with friends, unless they are really old or they have a handful of kids are desperate. All the other girls I've met it was first day was meet and greet, with friend or cousin in hand. Keep in mind that I treat them exceptionally well. It has almost always taken me at least 2 dates before getting into their knickers, if they are hot and no kids.
Cunning Stunt
10-10-08, 07:55
It has almost always taken me at least 2 dates before getting into their knickers...
You get into their knickers ...wow, kinky? Does she get into your Y-fronts? Joking :D :D. G
FreebieFan
10-10-08, 08:39
I don't know what I do. But just seems to work. But theres another golden rule. And that is that we meet ALONE. No cousins, no mothers, no friend no nobody. I understand the young shy ones might want that. But I always tell them thats a no-no. I only ever have 4 days per trip to Manila so have to maximise my time and maximise the "scoring" and can't do that with some nosy cousin hanging around. The serious gals will always understand and will always say. Ok. We meet alone. The shy virgin types will always insist on a friend. So they get deleted.
I always ask: "why do you want to bring a friend" I'm only interested in you and want to be able to talk to you privately as I like you etc. That type of line usually works.
Last trip I was hitting on a cute gal in a store in Market Market (Global city mall). She was free for lunch so thought we'd have a quick bite then go for a car ride. See what I could get. She came out with a friend who had lunch break at same time. She asked if friend could have lunch too. Hmm. Ok. Yeah she can have lunch. Gave her P150. She went off very happy.
Me and gal had quick lunch an some pleasant touchy touchy in my car. Before dropping her back at work.
Ah the fun of the Philippines.
Great post freebie. I do something similar -touch test. You've already explained the basics. Taxi ride is another hint. If she sits in the middle (good sign), joke, laugh, light touch during the laugh. If I find any resistance, I back off and try later. Enjoy the game. Don't ever give a whiff of desperation. (If you have a short holiday, P4P might be a better use of your time.)
I tend to be a food-court man on a first date -- they feel comfortable and several chaperones can be fed at low cost. Only the lightest of touch testing should occur here.
Be very nice to chaperones, you are being vetted. Food court and offer of transportation costs on departure are much appreciated and i offer regardless of how bad the date might have been. If you played things right, you'll be paying for departue of the chaperones, not the target.
If the target leaves, but think there is possibility, give her a bit extra for taxi the next day.
On the other hand, I've had chaperones pretend to be asleep in the next bed. - bless her heart.
I've also spent two hours meeting the entire extended family, including the muscular uncle who used to be a boxer, granny, the cousin who ran the guts of an Internety provider (thanks for the free net service).
After that whirlwind of Phil family overload I told the gal i needed to pick up my laundry before closing time. I needed to escape!!!
She insisted on helping me. About four hours from meeting at V mall until taking my laundry to Casa Leticia, I had her pink panties off and was thrashig about in her love box.
X
btw, pink panties had me hooked -- hook, line and sinker as they say. Then she started asking for money. Last i heard shes happily married.
Yes I agree with Robbaf's writings. Its all about respect and all about how you treat them. If you listen to these ladies you will know that most guys always mention sex in first few words, make comments on their physical features.. when what they want is to be appreciated.. ( note.. a few your my baby /honey whatever works great in the build up chat..but not too much)
Second.. you can tell ALWAYS tell at the first meeting if theres going to bed later.. HOW??.... see what happens if you stand close to the girl.. if your walking close and each others arms are touching with no resistance.. your in. Ive tested this method hundreds of times and always infallible.
If girl keeps her distance and no accidental touching of any kind.. she wont.
I always stay in my own condo when Im there but dont want to take anyone there so always use a motel. If, after a Starbucks or lunch or dinner, the girl asks where we are going I often say for a nice car ride.. and as were entering motel, say somewhere we can watch a movie privately. This usually works fine too. Most of my conquests have never seen a motel room ( they say)..so are often fascinated by the mirrrors on the celing.
Only once in past 20 years did I have a girl start crying when we entered the motel so we did a 180 degree U turn and drove out. But otherwise its been excellent score rate.( and a week later I took her back there and she was fine)
So its all about how you treat them. Market yourself and sell your product!
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Great post freebie. I do something similar -touch test. You've already explained the basics. Taxi ride is another hint. If she sits in the middle (good sign), joke, laugh, light touch during the laugh. If I find any resistance, I back off and try later. Enjoy the game. Don't ever give a whiff of desperation. (If you have a short holiday, P4P might be a better use of your time.)
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Looking back at my last trip, how close she sits next to you in the taxi is a great indicator. If she is next to you in the middle area, that is great sign. If she is sitting next to the other door, you are out of luck.
I wish I would have know that before my last trip.
I will have to check out the "walking close to you"test, on the next trip.
You get into their knickers ...wow, kinky? Does she get into your Y-fronts? Joking :D :D. G
I lived a large portion of my life in the UK before crossing the ponds. Some of your yanks expression I find quite amusing too
Cunning Stunt
10-11-08, 02:39
I lived a large portion of my life in the UK before crossing the ponds. Some of your yanks expression I find quite amusing too
Yanks :( - yikes, you think I'm an American? Cannot you tell from the subtle, understated sense of humour (:D), that I come from the sceptered isles. G
Puerto La Cruz
10-11-08, 03:32
Your spelling gives it away.
Its humor.
Not humour.
Daaaaahhhhhh
Damm Brits
Color
Not colour
Theater not theatre
Plus you waste space on this site by putting the extra "u" in your words!!
Hope to run into you next time in town.
FreebieFan
10-11-08, 04:36
Obviously theres a colection of Brits. And a collection of Americans here. So let me throw my 5 shillings into the argument. (we don't have cents. But we do got sense. Hahah). Theres a reason that the language is called English. Because its our language.
These strange spellings and strange words "sidewalk" "pocketbook""pantywaist" pantyhose" are all non English words. And should be defined in a new language that needs a name. Because it really isn't English.
Ok all this is said tongue firmly in cheek (English idiom meaning without a shred of seriousness). Also know as English humor.
Cunning Stunt
10-11-08, 05:11
Your spelling gives it away.
Its humor.
Not humour.
Daaaaahhhhhh
Damm Brits
Color
Not colour
Theater not theatre
Plus you waste space on this site by putting the extra "u" in your words!!
Hope to run into you next time in town.
Yeah PLC - but only as long as your not driving at the time!!
BTW - who invented this fucking language that we all abuse and what have u got against u's:D
I believe it was Sir Winston Churchill who said "The U. S. and the U. K. are two great countries separated by a common language".
English......Smenglish or what ever, we can communicate right??
Life is good
ES
Cunning Stunt
10-11-08, 09:09
I believe it was Sir Winston Churchill who said "The U. S. and the U. K. are two great countries separated by a common language".
English......Smenglish or what ever, we can communicate right??
Life is good
ES
Yes and he had right to as he was Ameriglish, or Englican - how the fuck do you describe somebody who is 50/50, apart from blessed:).
My favourite (why does my spell checker advise me that is spelled wrong) Churchillian saying is when he was being berated by a rather unattractive woman for being drunk. "Madam, I may be drunk and you are ugly. But I will be sober tomorrow". What a wit - only old Oscar the shirt lifter was cleverer with a put down. G
Yes and he had right to as he was Ameriglish, or Englican - how the fuck do you describe somebody who is 50/50, apart from blessed:).
My favourite (why does my spell checker advise me that is spelled wrong) Churchillian saying is when he was being berated by a rather unattractive woman for being drunk. "Madam, I may be drunk and you are ugly. But I will be sober tomorrow". What a wit - only old Oscar the shirt lifter was cleverer with a put down. G
Yes that was Lady Nancy Astor. She also told Winnie, "If you were my husband I would poison your tea". To which Winnie said, "If I were your husband I would drink it"...... Go Winnie Go
ES
FreebieFan
10-11-08, 09:39
Moving it back to the " how do you bed them on the first date". Which is way more interesting than how we spell Humour etc.
The taxi test as Xman pointed out is a great "will she or won't she " barometer. If she sits in the middle theres only two places to put your arm/hand. One is behind her. As in arm around her shoulders. Or hand. Discreetly placed on her thigh. First for a moment. Then a longer linger.
I have a car there so don't use taxis, so I do the "excuse me, I have to get something out the glove compantment, Baby". That allows me to paw her totally innocently.
Damn. The things we guys do to ensure that pussy is coming our way.
I can only imagine what the girsl think of our sad antics. (or for the Americans is that spelt antiks?) Biro Lang!
Cunning Stunt
10-11-08, 12:15
Yes that was Lady Nancy Astor. She also told Winnie, "If you were my husband I would poison your tea". To which Winnie said, "If I were your husband I would drink it"...... Go Winnie Go
ES
Yes - great man. Guess you know that his dad was a monger who died fairly young because of it (syph). G
Member #4643
10-15-08, 05:55
Based on my little bit of experience here, the DIA girls get very nervous when the conversation turns to sex. In fact, if I intended to return to the Philippines and try this again, I would avoid mentioning sex completely. As it turns out, two women in Manila were very enthusiastic about meeting me. However, I did not want to waste my time, so I made it clear in our chats that I was looking "for a lover". Neither girl actually showed up to meet me!
On the other hand, I met a girl from the provinces whom I invited to Manila to join me for 48 hours. Obviously, since we would be in the same room, avoiding sex with me would be impossible. I paid for the journey (4200 round trip by bus/boat). I just met my lovely, and I am happy to report that the first interview was everything I would have hoped for. I had another girl offer to fly up from Cebu, and I don't doubt I could have lined up a few more using this tactic. There was no need to resort to the old High School habits of accidentally touching hands, etc to determine if sex was in the offing.
I like the P4P scene here, but having a girl actually come hard while fucking her was worth my 4200 pesos (and then some, I am sure).
Scuba 1972
10-15-08, 07:25
I have been reading this forum for over 3 years now. And have found it very useful for advice for good mongering activities. My thanks to it for introducing me to DIA. As it has worked excellently for me.
Thus I thought I would share abck on how to use DIA effectively because it has given some top quality mongering at little cost.
Since I travel a lot to Singapore, Philippines and Hong Kong. I used to do the barhopping scenario. But it became very pricey as you end up dealing with pros a lot.
Thus I gave DIA a try.
One thing I have worked. Be upfront on what you are looking for. If you are lovey dovey and seek relationships on your profile you will get what you don't want: love sick girls looking for a long term sugar daddy and love.
Be direct and fun. And thats what you will get.
Also take a fun approach to your chats. Make sure they have cam and always flirt with them to the extent they reveal all. Worked wonders for me.
I was flirting with one girl in Singapore and before long she was showing me her body without my prompting. My next trip there we met at my hotel and after dinner and drinks she was in my room giving me an all night experience that I won't forget in a hurry.
For Philippines the choices are even more amazing. I target a few and some target me. Without prompting. They liked my 'fun' profile and wanted to know more and chat.
This has led to quite amazing chats where I have an amazing amount of sexy pictures being emailed to me and incredible show via webcam (at no cost). Those who demand a fee. I immediately shut off and never chat again.
This has led to some incredible fun in Manila. I am upfront that I am looking for a fun night. And those who come across via webcam that way. I arrange to meet near my hotel for dinner and drinks. I have one regular girl who travels up from Cebu now and again who has an instatiable appetite that I can't handle as I am literally shagged out.
Another lady in her 30s who has her own business has given me some great fun with her maginificent tits and experience.
I will go in more detail as I am due in Manila again soon. And have 3 DIA girls I ahve arranged to meet on consecutive nights.
All I can add. Is DIA is great but be wise and be blunt. Never promise commitment and never pormise some long term relationship.
Never give your real name and always use a prepaid phone.
Treat the girls well and have fun. And you will get loads back in return.
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Hairy Wonder
10-15-08, 12:54
I can only imagine what the girsl think of our sad antics. (or for the Americans is that spelt antiks?)
I think we Yankees would actually spell that antix, or possibly ant ticks.
:D
Hairy Wonder
10-15-08, 13:27
I have had, as the report title states, good and bad experiences with DIA.
When I first started using it, I did write my profile stating that I was separated and trying to get a divorce. I said I wanted to get to know women online, that I could later meet, if I was ever able to visit their home country. In my mind, that did not indicate that I was interested in a long term relationship.
The first contact was from a 35(?) year old woman, that wanted to give me a nick name right away. I didn't look at DIA everyday, so when I did check it about a week after the first comments, I had several comments from her about how I was breaking her heart by not being there for her. I blocked her immediately! She has changed her pic and user name a few times and returned to my profile. But I blocked her everytime.
Another, from Thailand, tried to run a scam on me, by promising to travel to Korea to fuck me. She wanted me to send her some outrageous amount of money for her passport, visa, and ticket. I checked the scam sites, and found her listed with multiple names.
I traveled to GenSan to meet a DIA girl, who said she would be waiting at the airport. When I got there, she was nowhere to be found. I called her number, and she responded with "You really came here?" She then directed me to an expensive hotel, which I was to check into, and wait for her. She never showed up.
Because of the first GenSan girl, I chatted (including web cam) with another that agreed to meet me. The girl that showed up was not the same girl I saw on the cam. She told me it was her friend, and she told her what to type in the chat to me. She said she was afraid that I would not want to meet with her if I actually saw her on cam. She was right! But I shagged her anyhow! What can I say? I was starting to feel desperate.
I did meet one good DIA girl. Her problems were that she had 2 kids from an abusive boyfriend that had run away. (And, of course, she had no money.) Because of the abuse (she said he beat her), she was reluctant to be touched. After spending a few days with her (and her whole family) I decided I was getting nothing from her, and moved on to Makati. I had no bad feelings for the girl. I just realized she didn't want to fuck me. After I returned to Korea, she chatted with me, and promised to turn my world upside down the next time I visited the PI. But I had to cut her off before that could happen, because she started asking for money.
I guess I should chalk it all up to experience, and write a new DIA profile. I think I will delete my current profile and put up a new one that states that all I am looking for is some fun in the bedroom!
BTW, do you guys put your pic up on your DIA profile? I have mine on the current profile. I think it would be a bad thing to post it on the "looking for fun" profile as well.
HW
Cuba Tourist
10-16-08, 02:08
I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
FreebieFan
10-16-08, 04:30
Obvious thing would be get them to buy the ticket. Show you they got the ticket. And then send them the money via Western Union etc. But obviously as we all know. There are no guarantees at all.
However if a girl is only interested in money. As opposed to our brilliant physiques and minds the promise of more money can be a mighty big motivating factor. The additional money not being for their cute lithe young bodies but obviously made so they can buy a vacuum cleaner or a cute new dress etc.
Guiltyfeet
10-16-08, 05:53
Here's my suggestion. Meet Manila girls in Manila. Conduct vertical and horizontal interviews, then just take your favorite with you. If a girl likes you she will kill to go along. If you like several you could rotate them in and out. I'll be there in early November with one of my favorites.
Hairy Wonder
10-16-08, 09:53
I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
CT,
I think I would tell her that I will give her the money for the ticket when she meets me at the appointed place and time. Ask to see the ticket also. She could be sitting in the same Internet cafe with you and telling you that she needs money to come from Davao to Puerto Galera. You never know. This way, you should also be able to verify the ticket price, if it is printed on the ticket.
HW
Puerto La Cruz
10-16-08, 10:13
I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
Or just send her the ticket. But that's still no guarantee that she will show up.
Scuba 1972
10-16-08, 11:08
My advice. Don't put your foto on DIA but just have a very good profile explanation that stresses the fun part.
The one who are really into fun will respond the the honest approach and has paid off very well for me.
Once they reply. Start the flirting and when ready open your cam to them but ensure they have a cam. So you know who you are dealing with. I have had plenty of attempted scams by ladyboys and those who want you to pay for their cam time. Don't be tempted. Shut them off
Start innocent and lead them on the flirting. The horny ones will be to show you their bodies in no time. I have 8 women (range from 21 to 35. All fit and sexy) who are constantly showing me their nakedness goodness in no time.
Also try to pick girls who don't need to travel far to where you want to meet. Only go down that route when you have really got to know them and maybe even spoken to them.
I have sent money to one from Cebu to fly up to see me for a couple of days in manila when I was there. Ticket price was on USD 100. This only after 2 months chat and grew to know her.
She did turn up. And when we were in the cab from the aiport to my hotel downtown she had a hand down my jeans; so I knew I had scored well.
She was DFK me in the hotel lift and barely closed my room door before she was straddling me. This followed an amazing shower where she sucked me and swallowed without prompting.
The next 2 days were an amazing. As she was a student nurse so her understanding of the male anatomy left me completely drained. This one I will definietly fly up again when I am in Manila if the others don't work out.
But so far my other contacts have been excellent. I keep myself mysterious but always treat them nice when I am in town; but always make sure they know I am not someone who is ready to make a commitment.
So far so good. But again I just am very clear in what I want and what I am not.
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I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
CT,
Unless you have a lot of time that you enjoy wasting, don't mess with the DIA girls! I use to line up girls from FF, FH, and DIA during my trips over in 2005/2006 but found that it was too exhausting to keep up with, and mostly hit or miss when you actually met them. Your better off scouring the malls, making eye contact and smiling at as many women as you can during the day. Give your digits ( a cell phone is a must) to as many women as you can everyday. Before long you'll have them scheduled two hours apart from visiting you at your hotel room. But still, there's nothing guaranteed like a good ole bar girl when your short on time.
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
For transportation, I always tell the girl to borrow the money from anyone they can for a one way ticket And that I will buy the return ticket at the dock/port/ airport when she arrives so that she will have her ticket home in case we don't get along.
I tell her I will reimburse her for the cost of the ticket, plus a little extra for interest. If The girl says that she can not find one person to loan her bus money, even with the extra interest, then she just is not trying hard enough. Someone will loan her 1000 peso for a ferry ride if they will get 1200 in return a few days later.
If it is an expensive ticket, for a plane ride, I normal use PAL airlines. You can buy her a one way ticket and email her the e-ticket. All she needs is her government ID. The most you are out is the ticket cost and the girl is not tempted by the cash. This has always worked for me, the girl has shown up each time.
I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
Kiss your money good bye! Not to be so harsh , but quite honestly its mongers like you that make us all look like marks. There so many girls on DIA, is there a reason for you to hit this one girl in the province? Ok so you really dig this girl in the province, why not just do a search for all the girls in that one province and go meet your honey and the other ones as well. Its not much more than what you would have to pay for her to come see you and a high degree that you will get laid.
For transportation, I always tell the girl to borrow the money from anyone they can for a one way ticket And that I will buy the return ticket at the dock/port/ airport when she arrives so that she will have her ticket home in case we don't get along.
I tell her I will reimburse her for the cost of the ticket, plus a little extra for interest. If The girl says that she can not find one person to loan her bus money, even with the extra interest, then she just is not trying hard enough. Someone will loan her 1000 peso for a ferry ride if they will get 1200 in return a few days later.
If it is an expensive ticket, for a plane ride, I normal use PAL airlines. You can buy her a one way ticket and email her the e-ticket. All she needs is her government ID. The most you are out is the ticket cost and the girl is not tempted by the cash. This has always worked for me, the girl has shown up each time.
This is an excellent idea! The e-ticket can she cash that in or do you get a voucher if you don''t use it?
This is an excellent idea! The e-ticket can she cash that in or do you get a voucher if you don''t use it?
I am not sure, I have never had a girl not show up. It is not that much money when you consider the cost of going to visit her for a couple of days.
You will be paying for all her family and friends, and then she will be scared to stay the night with you because others will think she is a ****. Most girls will tell their family and friends that you had 2 hotel rooms on her trip, and they believe it. (or pretend to believe, to save face)
Candelaria
10-16-08, 20:11
I was just search Filipina girls online and i came across many posts about filipina " webscam" girls from dateinasia.com. try to google "filipina webcam scammer", you will see too many scams in dateinasia.
I am not sure, I have never had a girl not show up. It is not that much money when you consider the cost of going to visit her for a couple of days.
You will be paying for all her family and friends, and then she will be scared to stay the night with you because others will think she is a ****. Most girls will tell their family and friends that you had 2 hotel rooms on her trip, and they believe it. (or pretend to believe, to save face)
Yeah I agree with you its not about the money, but I hate to look like a sucker who small head is doing all the thinking. Hmmm, I'm going to have to try this one a girl that asked me for 150 dollars for food for a week, but she still wants to chat with me and meet me.
Puerto La Cruz
10-17-08, 02:31
Yeah I agree with you its not about the money, but I hate to look like a sucker who small head is doing all the thinking. Hmmm, I'm going to have to try this one a girl that asked me for 150 dollars for food for a week, but she still wants to chat with me and meet me.
Hahahahahahahaha. $150.00 a week for food? You gotta be shiit'n me. When I was married with two kids we didn't even approach that. Is she feeding her family and boyfriend too? Thank God my ex g/f contacted me today. Gorgeous woman, cheap date and only 90 minutes from here. Knock out brown beauty from CDO.
When I was married with two kids, we didn't even approach a buck and a half a week for food. What family is she planning on supporting?
Hahahahahahahaha. $150.00 a week for food? You gotta be shiit'n me. When I was married with two kids we didn't even approach that. Is she feeding her family and boyfriend too? Thank God my ex g/f contacted me today. Gorgeous woman, cheap date and only 90 minutes from here. Knock out brown beauty from CDO.
When I was married with two kids, we didn't even approach a buck and a half a week for food. What family is she planning on supporting?
The DIA girls always hit you up for like 100 dollars min, they always think its not a lot etc...Of course I assume there are fools out there who will send that sort of money to them, "you get people like that on this board to which is just down right stupid if you ask me". People should realize the average filipino makes less than 100 dollars a month. I know a waitress in angles city that makes 136 php a day 15 hour shift. So the next time you guys think of sending money to chicks think about that.
FreebieFan
10-17-08, 07:16
I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.
I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.
Either you haven't talked to one particular girl enough or you haven't talked to enough of them. Also maybe they don't think you are sweet on them, the moment that they think you are an easy mark. Watch out, I can provide you with some DIA names of chicks who will hit you up for money if you like, so you can experience it first hand :))
Ha ha. Thanks for the chuckle.
Sometimes I wonder if guys are getting asked for money after they've asked for a webcam sex show.
I've found it rare myself but I usually say my goodbyes as soon as a lady starts bringing up topics about problems or hard life.
X
I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.
Hairy Wonder
10-18-08, 06:52
Guys,
It may not happen all the time, and maybe not from all the girls. But there are several girls on DIA that are not the least bit ashamed to ask a guy to send them money. Some even elude to it in what they write in their profiles. I have had quite a few ask me to do that. Unless it is someone that I know, I block them and never try to contact them again. I have a very long "blocked user" list on DIA. Some because they are ladyboys or gays. But many are on that list because they are looking for money.
I'm not saying that all the girls on DIA are like this. But there are quite a few there that are.
HW
Just got hit up for money, condition to meet in DVO
DIA ID: jen_08
I'm a simple girl, 5'4 hieght. And relationship I'm serious I want to meet a real guy. And I want to be a happy with my relationship. Hope I meet my true love soon.
Gender: Female
Age: 21
Country: Philippines
State / Region: dvao city
City: davao city
Ethnicity: Asian
Appearance: Average
Height: 162 cm (5'4")
Weight: 42 kg (93 lbs)
Eye color: Black
Hair color: Black
Education: College - Some
Occupation: student
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: Scorpio
Born in the year of: Dragon
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: I'll tell you later
Drinking: Light / social drinker
The lady is all business. I skipped the offer.
Candelaria
10-18-08, 12:13
If you try to search in YOUtube, "webcam Filipina" you will see so many posts of these webcam girls trying to scam foreigners.
I'm getting depressed here So many people have great reports about having been asked for money on DIA. Me, I've been online every day for past 6 months on DIA, had thousands of conversations with various SYT's and no one has EVER EVER asked me for money. I'm disspoainted. I think I have to change my profile.
I can always use a few bucks. My wife thinks I am cute and sexy.
Slim
Scuba 1972
10-18-08, 17:19
Just some advice on avoidning scammers on DIA:
1. Your profile should stress fun.
2. Once you suspect a DIA girl of being a scammer - follow ur instincts - block her.
3. Any mention of her financial situation - warning bells should ring.
Thats why I only pick on girls who are employed, or are real students.
4. If she asks you to link to some other site - thats a no no.
5. Avoid single moms.... no matter how damn sexy she is!
6. Make sure you use some intel in your chats to get info on her...avoids problems later.
7. No matter what - always be nice - but when she does ask for money - just be firm no matter how horny you are.
8. Only chat with girls with cams... again helps in finding out more info on her.
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Guys,
It may not happen all the time, and maybe not from all the girls. But there are several girls on DIA that are not the least bit ashamed to ask a guy to send them money.
HW
I have only had one ask so far, and that was for bus fare. This is even on my "JUST WANT FUN'" profile. I think it is because I can normaly see the patern that leads up to the money request and I ditch them before then.
Example
Me: Hi, how are you?
Girl: Not so good?
Me: Have to go, bye.
then I buzz the next girl on my list.
I keep my Yahoo on invisible. If a girl try's to chat with me, I run a quick conversation history log to refresh my memory on her.
I live in Mindanao and I took 5 days off and went to Manila last week. I have a lot of friends already in Manila, but I still like to find new:D
One week before I left for Manila, I went on DIA and searched only for Manila girls. I met 10 possibles and I only met one (picture attached). Her profile states, "Not looking, taking a break", so I didn't send any message. The next day she sent me a message and asked the normal questions. From her picture she looks okay and I broke my rule (little head in charge) about web camming prior to meeting.
We made a date to meet in Makati, Greenbelt 3, for lunch. Of course she wanted to bring her friend. We met at 12:30 Sunday for late lunch and she shows up with a 6 foot ladyboy and the ladyboy was VERY ugly. I almost walked out, but DIA was cute and I said to myself "lunch and run".
Long story short, we had lunch and joked around the whole time. At 1:30 I said that I needed to go take a nap and I paid the check. As we are walking out of the mall I asked her why she was so short (4'11") and she laughed and said she lied on DIA and put 5'2". I laughed and said "did you lie about being a virgin too?" and she said let's go to your room and you can see. I gave her 200P for her friend to leave and we went to the hotel. I have met a few:D DIA ladies and I have to say that this girl wanted to fuck. She is a screamer and being 43, I am not as good as I once was, but I am good once as I ever was. This girl was so into it, talking dirty and the whole nine yards, that we went twice in 30 minutes.
So, from meeting to bed was about 1 hour and 30 minutes. I told her at lunch that I didn't want a GF or need a wife and she was cool. I didn't have time to see her again:( as I had a full dance card. She has texted me five times and just ask me when we can meet again.
Robb
Member #4643
10-21-08, 08:17
I am writing with quite a few DIA girls. If I send them money to come meet me in Puerto Galera, how do I know they will come and not just pocket the money? Forest, you did this. How did it work?
My girl borrowed the money from her friends and I re paid her. I would have sent her Western Union, since 4200 isn't that much money. If they fly, buy them an eticket.
If I had had the time, I would have gone to Puerta Galera. Its sounds nice, although the water is 22°C.
I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser. He messaged the girl that I met from Manila and told her about my post and how he wanted the same thing. WTF. Can you not get your own women?? You are a Fucking loser. I hope that we never get to meet in person. This site is for men to help others meet ladies, not to tell ladies that you saw them here and want the same.
Triple X:
Gender: Male
Age: 38
Country: Canada
State / Region: British colombia
City: Vancouver
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White)
Appearance: Attractive
Height: 179 cm (5'10")
Weight: 38 kg (84 lbs)
Eye color: Green
Hair color: Brown
Education: University - Graduated
Occupation: Import/export.
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Zodiac: I'll tell you later
Born in the year of: I'll tell you later
Marital status: Single
Have children: No
Wants children: Yes
Willing to relocate: Not willing to relocate to another country
Smoking: Non smoker
Drinking: Non drinker
This loser copied my whole post and emailed it to her. WTF?? If you are such a big man, show me who you are here?
Robb
That's some real lame shit Robbaf. That guy is a loooooser! There are too many women in the Philippines to even consider doing that to another ISG member.
Yella
Wicked Roger
10-21-08, 18:57
I don't know who this guy is in DIA, but he is a loser. He messaged the girl that I met from Manila and told her about my post and how he wanted the same thing. WTF. Can you not get your own women??
Willing to relocate: Not willing to relocate to another country
Not only a loser but a stupid one as he cant have what you had as he does not want to relocate :D.
Likely one of the one handed brigade that lurk the board. Only contribution he makes is probably some stain somewhere:)
If he does raise his head and shows he is a man not a wimp best let us all know his handle...
Enjoy Robbaf, I will be there soon must get a beer and swap stories
Puerto La Cruz
10-21-08, 19:24
Five feet ten inches and 84 pounds? Sure its a guy?
FreebieFan
10-22-08, 01:06
Yeah. All boards have got them. And the DIA " please can I have what the other guy had" story is proof that theres an army of folks who assume they have a divine right to the goodies after our investment of time and money.
These guys are truly sad. And live in la la land if they assume that if one gal puts out for one she will put out for millions.
Have had no end of fights with idiots on the KL board. When I would report a great night out and the fun me and a new find had. Next day an army of posters would all post messages asking for her phone number, assuming they had an equal right to paly with the same gal. And getting huffy when I would explian why I wouldn't share. DIA, Frindfinder, FH, CB, Tagged, Friendster, CL, . Damn. Theres millions of sites to find gals and snare them with creativity and charm.
I love the thought I found the gal and charmed her into bed (I realise that maybe I didn't but its a nice noble thought none the less.)
UrbanWildlife
10-22-08, 03:36
I will be there soon must get a beer and swap storiesI will be returning there as well Wicked Roger. Hopefully we can finally meet up for some San Miguels or drinks. :) :D I will buy, but I do not want you stealing the receipt off the table to put on your expense account. ;) Arriving in Manila on approximately November 14th. Also will make a tour to other areas of the P.I, so hopefully our paths will cross. Hope to also have the opportunity to meet in person your good close personal friends, good enough and Baby Slayer! :) :D Sent them a invitation through a p.m.
Scuba 1972
10-22-08, 10:36
I would agree with your points.
I just followed some advice on this board and then experimented on my own online. Within a few weeks I had a good collection of possible freebies. And then getting the real deal when I got to Manila, HKG and Singapore.
It just takes a little bit of effort on your part to get the girl you want.
I really went to a lot of effort to get these girls. And the freebies really don't appreciate us hadning out their details to a whole bunch of horny buggers.
They have their own preferences.
So to those nitwits wanting free info. Please RTFF. It works!
Cuba Tourist
10-26-08, 05:05
I just got this email today on DIA from a 19 year old from Cebu. I had sent her 2 emails and we had not really had even a simple conversation. It starts off like you see without even my name at the top (or a capital letter). It ends as you see it without a name at the bottom. What is she thinking?????
every month i pay the house and all things.this coming february all house will gone coz this house s not mine the owner of the s the mayor of her toledo.
hon i hav so much big problem im not lie to u i need ur help plz help me my son addmit in the hospital and anywher i go for credit the money they always said they hav no money to borrow with me sorry.hon plz help me i neeed ur help to day i know its only erasy said but it s true i hav no idea wer i go all i know to going with u.plz help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
for my son not me not my family my son help us plz
dont inside ur mine that i after ur money but i hav no choice only u that i go for health of my son
thnk u god blesss
thanksu very very much
Are you surprised by what you get on DIA? Don't worry about pre-booking girls from DIA and those other sites. Just do it in person when you get here. Although you can find some pearls on those websites, it's hugely a waste of time. There are too many available women in the Philippines to waste time traveling to meet women you think might be your type. Just be gregarious with every women you meet in the pi during the day/night while you're traveling and much pussy will follow!
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
GoodEnough
10-26-08, 14:54
Maybe it's because I've lived here now for five years, or maybe it's just that I'm getting too old to understand, but why go to all the trouble of "pre-arranging" anything at all prior to your visits here. This has got to be the easiest place in the world to meet women; they're everywhere.
Maybe it's because I've lived here now for five years, or maybe it's just that I'm getting too old to understand, but why go to all the trouble of "pre-arranging" anything at all prior to your visits here. This has got to be the easiest place in the world to meet women; they're everywhere.
GE is right. Don't waste your time on those websites. Just come and ye shall find...very easily the girl of your dreams...many times over!
Yella Man
Cuba Tourist
10-27-08, 06:48
"Don't worry about pre-booking girls from DIA and those other sites. Just do it in person when you get here. Although you can find some pearls on those websites, it's hugely a waste of time. There are too many available women in the Philippines to waste time traveling to meet women you think might be your type."
I completely agree. It is just that I have months between trips and would like to do something productive in that time. But I find DIA frustrating. The girls answer in 3 words or 3 letters or totally incoherently. I now have cut back from 3 paragraphs to hey there baby! and they seem to like that better! Hopeless.
Coming to the "chat rooms pen pals" section and saying it is a waste of time, is like going to the photo section and complaining about the nudity.
It's like going to AC section and complaining about the overabundance of clubs that offer poontang as a side dish.
If you have something negative to add, you should at least describe your unfortunate experience.
As for GE, we know he lives in the Philippines and his point of view makes perfect sense. Not all the readers at ISG live in the Philippines.
When I asked Jackson to add this thread, i meant it to be a way for ISG people to share notes about online women. This has happened a bit, but mostly negative stuff. We perhaps underestimated the reach of ISG, since CB changed their access privileges after people started sharing the profile numbers here at ISG.
Bottom line is, if I stray too far from AC/MNL/Cebu, I want those online gals as an alternative. And if I may be so daring as to contradict the naysayers, I've had online gals in my bed in AC, Manila, Subic, Cebu, Davao, CDO, Dumaguete.
Oh, and one city i managed four online gals (over two different visits) in the sack on the first date. Maybe GE can guess which city that is.
X
disclaimer: I don't disagree with GE, YM, Cuba about their suggestion that you can do well with a bit of charm and panache.
Scuba 1972
10-27-08, 16:33
I would agree with X man.
I have tried both using Chat Rooms and pick ups when I get to Manila. Among the latter - I have posted my experiences of Manila's Expos in the Manila thread.
Both ways work.
I find the chat room way of 'pre-booking' a freebie in Manila quite fun because I always make sure there is a cam - so I know what she looks like. Also the chat has a way of finding out what her turn ons are.
Thus for me it is just a way of getting a freebie when I arrive without the effort of actually going out and trawling the malls or clubs like green belt (Call me lazy). In all cases I meet her at my hotel or somewhere nearby.
Coming to the "chat rooms pen pals" section and saying it is a waste of time, is like going to the photo section and complaining about the nudity.
It's like going to AC section and complaining about the overabundance of clubs that offer poontang as a side dish.
If you have something negative to add, you should at least describe your unfortunate experience.
As for GE, we know he lives in the Philippines and his point of view makes perfect sense. Not all the readers at ISG live in the Philippines.
Oh, and one city i managed four online gals (over two different visits) in the sack on the first date. Maybe GE can guess which city that is.
X
disclaimer: I don't disagree with GE, YM, Cuba about their suggestion that you can do well with a bit of charm and panache.
X Man is right in a sense, but wrong in essence! I have used chat websites several times to hookup on my visits to the Philipines, but the travel time, the waiting, and the planning of the meeting in whole, takes time and effort. When your on a two-week vacation, do you want to plan your day around girls that may be hit or miss? Not when there are plenty of women to be had where-ever you find yourself. I'll grant X that it's a wonderful tool for meeting women off the beaten path like those towns/cities not often mentioned on this forum, but most mongers want quick and easy access to poon immediately upon entering the country. If I seemed negative about the whole process, then I apologize. It's just another unneccessary process to deal with given all the ready and willing ass running around the Philippines. I'm not busting balls! Just uttering my two cents.
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
Cuba Tourist
10-28-08, 01:46
So explain to me the best way to deal with them. As I described a week back in a long posting, I have found the interaction to be frustrating. They seem to want a lot of meaningless, contentless interactions. I am busy and don't want to be constantly responding to stupid buzzing.
FreebieFan
10-28-08, 04:11
Yes there are lots of wasted chats on DIA. They get deleted after a few useless interactions but the good chats. There are some great funny ones, and the slow movement to a discussion about sex. Thats the fun of it.
Thats the hunt. If you got no patience for it, thats fine, but for me, I love the hunt part.
Lost count of my yahoo/tagged/friendster/DIA/Hi5 friends who I have bedded and obviously lost count of the number of hours on internet chatting. But its a great way to find freebies. But again, its not for everyone. But then you can't find that needle everywhere you look in the bar haystyack either.
Cuba Tourist
10-28-08, 04:24
I wrote one and this is what she wrote back. At least it was more than 2 words!
hi
thanks for leaving a message on my account...
by the way im melamie from philippines im only 18 years old... to be honest with you im looking for someone who could help me to support my study.. i know that u already know how difficult to be a self supporting student...its so hard to reach out my goal... and if u want we can be friends too....
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number.......
...godbless...
Scuba 1972
10-28-08, 04:51
With Chat rooms - I go for volume.
Any chat that goes off in a tangent I dont want - I just apologize that I am moving jobs and then delete her.
Like I said if she starts talking crap and gives some sob story - use the delete button.
Also both ways work - so if you want to go out and about and chase the pootang - it works but not neccessarily you will always get a freebie. My issues is that I only get to Manila for a couple of days at a time so dont have much time to go out and do the chasing. Thats why I started using the chat room to make pre-bookings, so to speak. So far I have been lucky and got extremely good GFE each time.
I am sure when I hit a brick wall I will revert back to trawiling Manila.
Hi to all,
just have been a bit busy lately during my boring business trip in Europe and cant wait to get back home to the Phils again.
While bored I went to DIA lately and offline some ladys there.
Im in touch now with a 24 year old teacher from Cebu. She send me some fotos and she looks like superstar model. To good to be true? SHe dont have a cam now, its destroyed she told me..hehehehe..well who knows. She talks perfect english so maybe her proffession is true. I hope she aint a ladyboy and her pictures are real.
When we talk, she sometimes excuses herself and promised me to talk to her next time. Then she went offline on ym. However when I access DIA I see her profile as online, so she might be online and talking to somebody else, right?
On my return next month I have allready my girlfriends lined up and looking forward to meet some new ladies. Im on Dia cause Im bored and maybe I will get my lazy ass up and really meeting somebody up from this site. As of now , I never did. To busy with work, to rainy, to much bum2..
I will keep in touch with this gourgeous girl, hope she is one and let you guys know about this. If she is a scammer, I will let you also know.
Have a good one
Blink
PS I read some stuff about dental bills and scams, tooth extracting is 150p in Angeles city, so whoever ask 4k pesos for this kind of work is a scammer
Then she went offline on ym. However when I access DIA I see her profile as online, so she might be online and talking to somebody else, right? Blink
This used to happen to me all the time. Girls would say "hello, where are you??? it says that you are online". I finally figured it out. If you do not sign out, you stay shown as on line for up to a hour. If you sign out of DIA, it takes as long as 15 minutes to show you offline. I figured this out by signing out and searching for my profile and refreshing until it went off line.
Blink, I had a model in Cebu, sounds like same story, no cam and only pictures. When I got there and called it's cell from pay phone...LADYBOY Busted:D
Good luck all,
Robb
Cuba Tourist
10-29-08, 01:33
Here is her response.
Her------hi
thanks for leaving a message on my account...
by the way im melamie from philippines im only 18 years old... to be honest with you im looking for someone who could help me to support my study.. i know that u already know how difficult to be a self supporting student...its so hard to reach out my goal... and if u want we can be friends too....
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number ..........
Me------So you want support? How much do you need monthly and what do you give in exchange?
Her---
my tuition cost 23,000php monthly per sem...we cant afford that much...
i dont want to stop but wat should i do if we dont have money..
for the things that i can give as exchange let me think about that
....thanks...
Darth Sushi
10-29-08, 07:30
Here is her response.
Her------hi
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number ..........
Me------So you want support? How much do you need monthly and what do you give in exchange?
Her---
my tuition cost 23,000php monthly per sem...we cant afford that much...
...
LOL, sounds like a 23,000php monthly bear trap with "born again" panties for bait. :D Watch your step!!!
This used to happen to me all the time. Girls would say "hello, where are you??? it says that you are online". I finally figured it out. If you do not sign out, you stay shown as on line for up to a hour. If you sign out of DIA, it takes as long as 15 minutes to show you offline. I figured this out by signing out and searching for my profile and refreshing until it went off line.
Blink, I had a model in Cebu, sounds like same story, no cam and only pictures. When I got there and called it's cell from pay phone...LADYBOY Busted:D
Good luck all,
Robb
Hi,
I put a picture of her that she sent me recently. Gourgeous right?
I dont think thats a ladyboy, but as indicated in my previous post I havent seen her on cam yet.
Lets see what will happen. At least I get entertained until Im back.
Blink
Here is her response.
Her------hi
thanks for leaving a message on my account...
by the way im melamie from philippines im only 18 years old... to be honest with you im looking for someone who could help me to support my study.. i know that u already know how difficult to be a self supporting student...its so hard to reach out my goal... and if u want we can be friends too....
im a born again christian and i love to do something that someone thinking that i cant....
i hope u will respond on my message or u can call me... here my mobile number ..........
Me------So you want support? How much do you need monthly and what do you give in exchange?
Her---
my tuition cost 23,000php monthly per sem...we cant afford that much...
i dont want to stop but wat should i do if we dont have money..
for the things that i can give as exchange let me think about that
....thanks...
Hi,
as of my knowledge La Salle University is the most expensive University in the Philippines. DOwnpayment is about 100 000 pesos for each semestre. Additional charges are "pocketmoney" like money for cardgames, food, cars, clothes, etc.etc.
All in all only IMHO only well off kids can afford this. Sounds like a tourist trap.
BTW , if somebody you never met ask you about money you can be sure that he/she only wants the money and nothing else.
Sending money doesnt garantee that your honeyko will allways stick to you, never cheat on you, etc. etc.
Living in the Philippines taught me one thing. Seeing is believing!!
Blink
Cuba Tourist
10-29-08, 15:52
She ignores my question about what I will get from her in exchange.
Her---
hi....
mmmm i can ask for ur help???.. i know its too early to ask this... but idont know wer i can ask a help except on u...
i need to pay my tuition tomorrow if icant pay that the school will not allowed me to enter... can u help me... as a friend.. plz... plz....
I now ask her to send me photos via email. She seems to think I am going to send lots of dollars every month to a girl I have never even met. I doubt she will send the photos but we will see.
I chatted on cam several times with two DIA Manila ladies prior to my recent visit. I met both of them in Makati and had a great time. Both were looking for financial help and that was no problem...I had figured out in advance they would not be free. However, even though we had chatted on cam multiple times, I failed to notice in both cases that each one was missing several upper front teeth. Yup I was surprised when I met them in person...but we still had a good time and I'd do it again. So the cam chat may not reveal all that you'd like to know upfront. And we've all probably had the experience of talking with a ladyboy in person and not immediately realizing she was a he. So while the cam may help, it's not foolproof.
Hi,
I put a picture of her that she sent me recently. Gourgeous right?
I dont think thats a ladyboy, but as indicated in my previous post I havent seen her on cam yet.
Lets see what will happen. At least I get entertained until Im back.
Blink
Maganda sure, but are you sure it is her picture? The one that I called also had a maganda picture, just wasn't her:(
Have fun,
Robb
I chatted on cam several times with two DIA Manila ladies prior to my recent visit. I met both of them in Makati and had a great time. Both were looking for financial help and that was no problem...I had figured out in advance they would not be free. However, even though we had chatted on cam multiple times, I failed to notice in both cases that each one was missing several upper front teeth. Yup I was surprised when I met them in person...but we still had a good time and I'd do it again. So the cam chat may not reveal all that you'd like to know upfront. And we've all probably had the experience of talking with a ladyboy in person and not immediately realizing she was a he. So while the cam may help, it's not foolproof.
Unless the gal had thin lips and laugh out loud a lot on webcam I don't think you going to see the lost of a couple of front teeth. Just to clarify you paid money to girls with lost front teeth " filipina yellow neck LOL" Personally if i was going to pay bar girl price or free lance prices i might as well go pick one up without having to spend all the time chatting getting to know each other crap.
She ignores my question about what I will get from her in exchange.
Her---
hi....
mmmm i can ask for ur help???.. i know its too early to ask this... but idont know wer i can ask a help except on u...
i need to pay my tuition tomorrow if icant pay that the school will not allowed me to enter... can u help me... as a friend.. plz... plz....
I now ask her to send me photos via email. She seems to think I am going to send lots of dollars every month to a girl I have never even met. I doubt she will send the photos but we will see.
I had that scam more times than I would like to remember, one of the other things that you should consider is that even if she send you the picture it could be someone elses picture, always insist for webcam. I had a ladyboy pull out model picture off the net, and i insisted webcam, and stupid ladyboy actually put himself on webcam. " He wasn't even one of the hot ladyboys it was ugly guy in girls clothing lol"
Cuba Tourist
10-30-08, 03:24
Pimpster, I don't know if you could classify it as a scam. She has not promised to do anything for me -- not even meet me for coffee. I could send her $6000 a year for the next four years and she would have zero obligation to me. So I don't think that it fits into the category of scam. If she can get a guy to do this, it would be pretty impressive.
Now if she lied and said I had gotten her pregnant when I hadn't -- assuming that we knew each other and had sex -- then that would be a scam. And yet there is something really bizarre about asking a guy that you just met on a dating site to send you thousands of dollars to pay for an expense that American parents save years to pay for.
I have read about guys who sponsor women-- pay their expenses so they can study in University and get a good job or learned a trade so they can work their way out of abject poverty. If everyone's happy, so much the better. But there's something that feels manipulative about being asked in such an abrupt manner by such a complete stranger.
Hi to all,
I got now several ladies lined up for my glorious comeback. But I must say this 24 year young fashionmodel looking teacher rocks me..and Im living in the Philippines as mentioned before.
She signed up at friendster and add me as her friend. SO long only two pinoys guys add, but I dont have any problems with that. ALso another hot chick is on her friendster list. She has some more fotos there. All in all pretty normal with other normal girls, no baklas.
Lets see how this end. At least Im entertained while IM here freezing my feet off and dreaming to be back in two weeks or so.
Cuba tourist, read your posting here and I hope you wont send her any money. If you have her on yahoo, she will propably use the "multisending option", which means she send the same txt to any other sucker out there.That will answer why sometimes their messages doesnt make any sense, because its for multiple guys on her yahoolist.
Happy viewing
Blink
Pimpster, I don't know if you could classify it as a scam. She has not promised to do anything for me -- not even meet me for coffee. I could send her $6000 a year for the next four years and she would have zero obligation to me. So I don't think that it fits into the category of scam. If she can get a guy to do this, it would be pretty impressive.
Now if she lied and said I had gotten her pregnant when I hadn't -- assuming that we knew each other and had sex -- then that would be a scam. And yet there is something really bizarre about asking a guy that you just met on a dating site to send you thousands of dollars to pay for an expense that American parents save years to pay for.
I have read about guys who sponsor women-- pay their expenses so they can study in University and get a good job or learned a trade so they can work their way out of abject poverty. If everyone's happy, so much the better. But there's something that feels manipulative about being asked in such an abrupt manner by such a complete stranger.
Guys who pay for a girls tuition are stupid to begin with, girls from good families usually won't hit you up for money. Its PI for god sakes there are tons of cute good girls from decent families to have to pick some poor girl who can't afford to pay for her schooling. Of course things are tough in PI for a lot of people, but there are still lots of people that can afford to send their children to school. If you are helping a 30 something with two kids who pinoy father left them and you been tagging the mother on a regular basis for free, that's a different story, even than I wouldn't be someone sugar daddy. I would buy a few things here and there but not give a freaking allowance. You should also keep in mind there are also plenty of people in the states as well, I don't see many mongers go up to some redneck trailer handing out tons of free cash for free.
With regards to your girl, well do you think you think you are the first guy she asked for money? Do you think you are the only guy she hitting up for money right now? The chances of that happening is as likely as she the only girl you have on your chat list, the only girl you contacted on dia, the only girl you cut and paste the same greeting to on dia. Of course she not going to promise anything yet, its a game of escalation, filipina all want to be looked at as good girls. If you say something like oh I'm sorry I would love to help but really I only help girls who are my gf and that I've slept with. See how long it takes her to become your gf, "like a minute". This is how it works when you see money in sight, you will say anything to get paid, much like people who run for president.
Southbound69
10-30-08, 23:29
Well, I swore to myself that I wouldn’t do this online dating stuff again after my previous experience. But. I tried it again. At least I waited until about 10 days prior to my next trip. The reason I swore not to do it again was not because of a bad experience but because girls are so easy to get once there.
Now, I am concentrating on girls in Cebu only, where I will spend 5-8 days.
Here is a rundown of what happened thus far. Last Friday I posted my profile. Not much action until my picture is approved and posted late Saturday early Sunday. In 3 days of trawling I have chatted with about 30 girls. I have spent a ridiculous amount of time doing this, say, 20-25 hours. Time flies when doing this. I asked for and got 14 cell #’s and about 5 gave #'s without any prompting.
1 bakla tried chatting but my gaydar alerted me. Looked too beautiful. Haha I don’t think, based on the photos in their profiles, that there were any other baklas. I avoided profiles that had obvious "glamour shots" photos. About 4 girls outright asked for financial help. They were promptly blocked. Another 2 may try later based on subtle hints. We’ll see.
2 girls want to go to Boracay with me (because I mentioned that I was going). I don’t know if I want to try this before meeting them. If I do this I will not send money or buy the air ticket. I will do as another forum member suggested, tell her to borrow the money and I will gladly reimburse her. If she shows up then that means she probably really wants to be there with me.
I had a nice dirty sex chat with a girl from another city that outright wants to fuck me to death. Not the most attractive girl but would probably be a great fuck. I’ll keep her number just in case.
I have about 12 girls that want to go to lunch or dinner with me when I get there. Based on RTFF I guess that half won’t show and a portion of those that do show will flake out. I hope that I can get about 4 of them in bed. I think that is very doable.
I figured that I would try something different for a portion of my trip this time. I will, of course report my results here upon my return.
Southbound69
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I don't know about you guys but i wanted to try out some milf, so I've been doing searches for some older gals. Kinda of got tired with the young girls hitting up for money and all that crap. I also figured older girls would be easy to score with because their choices are few since competition with young girls leave them out in the cold. All the older ladies 35 and older are just down right unattractive for the most part imo. You maybe able to fine one that you would really want to bang out of a 500. Filipino age pretty badly, much like mexican women living in they u.s., its probably that high fat diet both of these cultures have :(. Anyways any of you been with older ladies i like to hear the details.
Looking to upload short video under 10 megs for you guys about online chat mate any suggestion where to do it?
I am going to have to close my DIA account. It seems some girls are smart enough to copy and past the ID into Yahoo IM to find my address. I am getting random IMs from girls in Ghana and such.
I don't know why so many here talk up DIA, the search features are not nearly as good as on Filipina Heart. I suppose DIA seems to have more members.
In FH in can do searches for things like, girls in Davao that "love anal" or such. lol
I have some problems with FH also. The Australian owner has stated last year he will comply with the US IMBRA law and provide data on US membership. Don't know where this stands now though. Australian banks and credit card companies are forbidden under national law from providing customer data to 3rd parties.
I think the biggest advantage of DIA is it's free. F. Heart and Cherry Blossom cost money. The old cliche - you get what you pay for.
My modus operanda is to buy a subscription to CB for one month (about three weeks before my trip) and make the best use of that month. One problem with CB is they don't allow you to give your contact info on the first message. Oh, you can join up at CB anytime and let your inbox start to fill up. Then as soon as you pay you can follow up on those.
Regarding some of the earlier posts, do you guys find that picking up regular women cold (streets, coffee shops, malls) is faster than setting up contacts on the net ahead of time? I've had some great luck using both methods, so still find it hard to understand those of you who call "chat" a waste of time.
Exchange rates are looking very good at the moment. Hope it last thru December.
X
I am going to have to close my DIA account. It seems some girls are smart enough to copy and past the ID into Yahoo IM to find my address. I am getting random IMs from girls in Ghana and such.
I don't know why so many here talk up DIA, the search features are not nearly as good as on Filipina Heart. I suppose DIA seems to have more members.
In FH in can do searches for things like, girls in Davao that "love anal" or such. lol
I have some problems with FH also. The Australian owner has stated last year he will comply with the US IMBRA law and provide data on US membership. Don't know where this stands now though. Australian banks and credit card companies are forbidden under national law from providing customer data to 3rd parties.
I am going to have to close my DIA account. It seems some girls are smart enough to copy and past the ID into Yahoo IM to find my address.
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I don't understand how they would get your Yahoo id from DIA unless you give to them or post it in your profile. If it is in your profile just delete it and update the profile. If you used your Yahoo id as your name in DIA, just delete the account and start another. It is fast and free.
CB used to be great, but now you have to buy a membership to view the most basic information. I think it is still a great deal, I also buy a month membership before each trip and copy and paste the same introduction to 100 girls that I find attractive. CB also filters more of the ladyboys and scammers out of their site.
Last trip I used all 3 big ones- CB, FH, and DAI and was never bored.
"good morning "warbucks"! just droppin by to greet you a pleasant morning.. hope all is well with you in there.. about me in here, still doing good.. i just hope my medical exam especially my CBC will be all normal.. the result will be tomorrow.. warbucks, we are scheduled to fly to manila on thursday i'd really like to grab that opportunity but how can i fly to manila.. we are still having financial problem.. my parents cant support me.. "
Email from a nurse chat mate...
She is asking for 15000 pesos. To help with all her financial problems. Thats a nice sum of bread. Virgin. Did the good girl thing and stayed in the lobby with me the whole time when we first met. I haven't seen her since April.
I said I was done with the hookers but 15000 Pesos I wonder what type of escort that could get me? :D
Names changed to protect the guilty as OJ....
Hi,
avoid this one. sirasiega is her name, photo is attached.
Ask me to send her 25 US so that she can go to an internet cafe and get a webcam to chat me. LOL. Wonder how stupid they think we are.
2 weeks for me to go back. Good thing is, I dont need any viagra or cialis when Im there. Four weeks in Germany and I fuck evrything which aint by 1234 on the coconut tree :)
Have fun, play safe
Blink
I have copied and pasted this from elsewhere, but I think that it contributes to this forum about the effectiveness of making contacts through the dating forums.
For what it is worth, I have spent the last three trips to Phils setting up with regular women as friends and lovers.
It took quit a lot of time and effort through Cherry Blossoms and DIA, but now I have four or five regulars.
One works in a regular office job, independent, intelligent, exactly what I am looking for in shape and attitude. About 30. We were in bed within an hour of meeting at the airport.
One is in real estate, very attractive features, smart, self sufficient, headstrong, body a bit soft, but a raging fucker. Late 30's, lied about her age on CB, but still good value, works out, exercises, pretty good shape. We were fucking in a frenzy within two hours of arival aftr a long bus trip. The intervening time spent checking in and getting something to eat.
One is willowy and tall, unemployed, but seems to have enough money to move around quite a bit. She has had one child, but her body is unmarked. I have give her a little money but not much. Fucking within an hour of us getting settled into our destination.
One is tall, slim, very pretty, perfect figure, was a virgin when we met, but is now asking for money to help her and her family. I have said no, not till we live together. I will see how this one pans out.
One is drop dead gorgeous, very tall, slim, intelligent. I have been communicating with her for a couple of years from another association, and she had said that she was finally ready to get rid of her virginity. Unfortunately, we only had half a night together, but she was intent on deviginising herself, and I did the deed, within an hour of us meeting. She has asked for help in the past to get herself a job, and I have helped with a little money. She is now in regular work, and does not need any more from me. About 24.
One is Thai, from a middle class family, financially independent, very loving. About 30. Body a bit soft from one child, but a very nice woman. But not much English, so communication is hard work while we are together. A fantastic blow job. Needs no money from me. Took a few hours till we figured out where to get started. She had had such limited sexual experience as a married woman that she had no idea of any way to have sex other than starfish. Once e twigged the problem, we were off with a rush.
There are a couple of others in the Phils and Thailand who want to get into a long term relationship, but I am at my limit.
All are very loving and fun and very satisfying to be with and are cheap to maintain. So it can be done. I am 65, and wearing out, so they are not into me for my looks.
Cuba Tourist
11-07-08, 05:42
That's an interesting story. It does take a lot of work, at least in the first stage to set things up. And you have no guarantee that the girls are really that much more innocent than the bargirls. I tend to spend more money with girlfriends than bargirls because the bar girl as a specific rate and doesn't expect anything beyond the official amount. the girlfriends start on you their stories and you feel an obligation to share the wealth, as their new president might put it.
One girl on date in Asia just wrote me that she is living now in Malaysia, working as a waitress. It seems fairly unlikely, although apparently some Filipinas to go to other countries in the region to work as waitresses. one girl gave me a buzz on Yahoo messenger. She's a nursing student and writes very little. I told her bluntly that I can't develop a relationship with her if she doesn't communicate said that her English is not very good. I asked her what language she studies in -- I was under the impression that all the universities in the country use English -- and she gave a ambiguous answer three times until I stopped asking.
Lustforthrust
11-07-08, 09:03
Well, I swore to myself that I wouldn’t do this online dating stuff again after my previous experience. But. I tried it again. At least I waited until about 10 days prior to my next trip. The reason I swore not to do it again was not because of a bad experience but because girls are so easy to get once there.
Now, I am concentrating on girls in Cebu only, where I will spend 5-8 days.
Here is a rundown of what happened thus far. Last Friday I posted my profile. Not much action until my picture is approved and posted late Saturday early Sunday. In 3 days of trawling I have chatted with about 30 girls. I have spent a ridiculous amount of time doing this, say, 20-25 hours. Time flies when doing this. I asked for and got 14 cell #’s and about 5 gave #'s without any prompting.
Southbound69
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I have just registered in DIA. I wonder if I have to trawl through the profiles or have them send me messages.
I am currently not a member of any dating site but I am a member of a social site called Fanbox, to date any interest in me is with U.S. webcam girls even thou my profile has no pics.
Currently had one too many drinks and decided to chat to a couple of girls in PI, both are using webcams to earn money, one was honest enough to state she was online part time to earn money to pay for her schooling. I pointed out I know a girl in her shoes that doesn't resort to webcams to pay for schooling. She is yet to reply.
Be careful about Fanbox:
http://www.techcrunch.com/2008/03/04/fanbox-is-the-new-plaxo/
X
I am currently not a member of any dating site but I am a member of a social site called Fanbox, to date any interest in me is with U.S. webcam girls even thou my profile has no pics.
Currently had one too many drinks and decided to chat to a couple of girls in PI, both are using webcams to earn money, one was honest enough to state she was online part time to earn money to pay for her schooling. I pointed out I know a girl in her shoes that doesn't resort to webcams to pay for schooling. She is yet to reply.
X,
Thanks for the link, yes I am getting spammed from this site. One problem is they send you emails from people you don't know but the trick is to read these emails you have to launch an application. Meaning you have to pay to see what this person wants to send you and the cost $1 is added to your cell account.
As the link says I got an email from a girl I know asking me to sign up, she just ignored all the requests to join. But it went through her contact list, when I opened the email from her I didn't even click on the sign me up button. I went to what I thought was the "x" to close button but it signed me up anyway. So I am just fucking around not taking it too seriously, since I don't have much of a profile and the only hits I get are from webcam girls.
I have had emails from other people some I know others I do not to join other sites like Tagged and Friendster, but resisted to dated.
I am also a member of Hi5, a Thai friend signed me up to. Same again I was getting emails from people wanting to be my friend. Funny thing was I didn't even know how to access my profile or even what was on my profile. I sent Hi5 a email saying I don't want to be a member as I don't know what was on my file or how to view it.
Hi5 send me two emails saying they would cancel my membership, second email said my membership was cancelled for breach of terms and conditions LOL.
Later my Thai friend asked me why she could not access my profile, I said I cancelled my membership. Not sure what she did but I am a member again, but I hardly view it these days.
Hairy Wonder
11-10-08, 16:54
I have just registered in DIA. I wonder if I have to trawl through the profiles or have them send me messages.
If you have a picture (doesn't matter if it's good or bad) and a slightly interesting profile, you will get plenty of the DIA girls contacting you.
HW
If you have a picture (doesn't matter if it's good or bad) and a slightly interesting profile, you will get plenty of the DIA girls contacting you.
HW
90% of the girls that contact me first, I am not interested in. (age, ugly, gay, ect).
I normaly do a search for a certain age bracket and location, say 22-27 years old, in davao, with picture. You will get hundreds to choose from. Just paste the same introduction "hi, i like ur profile"
As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond.
Cuba Tourist
11-11-08, 13:55
"As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond."
This is true, but they will type out a couple of words that don't mean anything. Getting a good conversation going is not so easy. Any tips on how to accomplish that?
A lot (most) of these women on DIA are from very simple backgrounds. They do not necessarily have a good command of the English language and are very unsophisticated. If you want some real conversation, you will have to weed through a whole lot of women to find just one who can express herself well. Look for the "university graduated" types first. If you get simple one line responses, just move on to someone else right away. You may be able to get a sense of their intellect by just reading their profile carefully. So many are identical.."simple...who will accept me as I am" etc. It's a tedious, time consuming process.
Lustforthrust
11-11-08, 20:52
One chic claims to have been working in LA Cafe. She jumped right at my invitation. Her messages lead me to believe she's insane or trouble.
Two 19 year olds went silent when I proposed dinner/night-out.
One very cute 19 year old accepted my invitation to dinner but wants to bring her cousin along. I said nothing. 9 hours later she sent me another message with her phone. I want to do her. I don't want to scare her off. How would I proceed?
That's an interesting story. It does take a lot of work, at least in the first stage to set things up. And you have no guarantee that the girls are really that much more innocent than the bargirls. I tend to spend more money with girlfriends than bargirls because the bar girl as a specific rate and doesn't expect anything beyond the official amount. the girlfriends start on you their stories and you feel an obligation to share the wealth, as their new president might put it.
One girl on date in Asia just wrote me that she is living now in Malaysia, working as a waitress. It seems fairly unlikely, although apparently some Filipinas to go to other countries in the region to work as waitresses. one girl gave me a buzz on Yahoo messenger. She's a nursing student and writes very little. I told her bluntly that I can't develop a relationship with her if she doesn't communicate said that her English is not very good. I asked her what language she studies in -- I was under the impression that all the universities in the country use English -- and she gave a ambiguous answer three times until I stopped asking.
You actually feel obligated because of some sad story? Thats pretty amazing that you spend more money with gf than bargirl, because if you were to spend 3000 peso a day for 5 days thats equates to 15,000 peso for bar girl. So now if you spend 15,000 for your gf in 5 days. Ask yourself how long would it take her to earn that much and why does she need 15000 peso. I hate to see fellow mongers get used, because they are thinking with the wrong head.
With respect to the maylasia thing, many filipina who go to maylasia are promised one thing but most end up as hookers.
Hairy Wonder
11-13-08, 11:38
Hi fellow mongerers!
Like others have mentioned on this board, I decided to make a "bad boy" profile on DIA. In the "about me" section, I made it clear that I was not interested in a long term relationship, but only GFE type with possible repeats if we both enjoyed it. I did not post a picture to it, but was honest about my age, height, and weight. Afterward, I proceeded to show interest in many profiles that caught my eye. I have had many responses. But only one looks like it might come through.
This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October. Only on DIA until today. She provided me with her YM ID and I added her to my friends list. Immediately, she wanted to start chatting, invited me to view her web cam, and talked sweet to me. During our conversation, I mentioned how much I spent last year when I went to Manila to have laser eye surgery done. From this, she started talking about how expensive it could be to stay in the hotels. Deciding to see where this would go, I told her that I assumed the hotels in her home town (Dipilog City) were cheaper than in Manila. Her reply was that there are some nice hotels there that only cost P750 a night (which makes me think she has some first hand experience in the rooms.) I suggested that she introduce me to a nice hotel if I visit her. To this, she stated that a better idea would be if I just stayed at her house so she could "take care of" me. I like that idea very much!
I just want to know if anyone else has any experience with her, and if she is a scammer. If not, I will try it sometime in the future, and report on it!
"As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond."
This is true, but they will type out a couple of words that don't mean anything. Getting a good conversation going is not so easy. Any tips on how to accomplish that?
First thing I learned is get there yahoo messenger address ASAP. Other wise it could be a long time before you get to actual converse in real time. I used to get this a lot.
The separate emails would take a day or two respond to if they don't go on-line a lot, and you don't really want a girl that is on 24/7 anyway.
When I first started on DAI I would interact with girls this way-
me:hi, nice profile
her:thanks
me: would you like to chat sometime?
her: sure, why not.
me: can I have your yahoo messenger id
her: my yahoo is chickondai, but I am not always online.
me: when is a good time to find u online?
her: I borrow my cousins computer on Sundays after church
me:Ok, I will look for you on Sunday
that could take about a week or longer to just to chat with the girl and by that time I am board with her or have forgotten who she was.
Now I cut to the chase, without being too agressive.
I copy and paste a basic introduction.
me:Nice profile, if you like we can chat on yahoo, just leave me a message at bobbowies id.
Ps. don't believe the profile if it says they have a college degree, most just check that box no matter if they spent one day in class or have a masters.
Khun Larry
11-13-08, 21:10
This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October.
You sure you got that name right?
She looks like a regular girl
Hairy Wonder
11-13-08, 21:34
This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October.
You sure you got that name right?
She looks like a regular girl
KL,
Yes. Her DIA ID is vivsweet. She looks very nice in her profile picture, and on the web cam. Everytime she has sent me a message, it has been just nice chit chat, nothing sexual. She surprised me with the offer to take care of me at her home, especially since I have no photo on DIA and have not opened my web cam for her. Maybe it is desperation on her part, or maybe a scam. I'm not sure. Just thought I would check it out before making a move.
HW
Khun Larry
11-13-08, 22:46
HW
Did a search for her but no matches. I would not go to her house to sleep initially. Maybe to have a look. Cheaper to get a room and you can escape quicker if need be.
Send a link to her page, will yank her chain for ya
Good luck
Cuba Tourist
11-14-08, 04:35
There is no vivsweet on DIA.
Hairy Wonder
11-14-08, 09:12
HW
Did a search for her but no matches. I would not go to her house to sleep initially. Maybe to have a look. Cheaper to get a room and you can escape quicker if need be.
Send a link to her page, will yank her chain for ya
Good luck
KL & CT,
In order to not violate any rules about outside links, I have cut out the beginning DIA url from the link below. Just cut and paste the line into your address bar following the dateinasia.com/ portion. She is there.
UserProfile.aspx?uid=7e3e4f17-f878-4d83-ae21-d2c9cc50af92
Sorry! I made a typo in the spelling of her ID. It is actually vivzsweet.
HW
Khun Larry
11-14-08, 17:50
Let us know how she performs HW
KL,
Yes. Her DIA ID is vivsweet. She looks very nice in her profile picture, and on the web cam. Everytime she has sent me a message, it has been just nice chit chat, nothing sexual. She surprised me with the offer to take care of me at her home, especially since I have no photo on DIA and have not opened my web cam for her. Maybe it is desperation on her part, or maybe a scam. I'm not sure. Just thought I would check it out before making a move.
HW
I personally think you're better off using your web cam with her...better interaction. I too had a lady suggest that I stay with her...but I didn't do it. I think the potential problems could be huge.
Puerto La Cruz
11-15-08, 02:22
I used to see a girl in Costa Rica that insisted that I stay at her place. Alot of money saved and a good place. Plus she had the most perfect tits I have ever seen in my life. She knew she would be well kept for a week or so and never asked for a single penny. She was Dominican in CR though. I would be suspect about a pinay wanting me to stay at her place as "her place" is most likely her family's place. Don't want to support all of them.
Hairy Wonder
11-15-08, 15:27
KL, Xd, & PLC,
Thanks to all of you for the advice! However, it will be some time before I can manage to get back to paradise again. If I am still in the good graces of my current gf at that time, I probably won't be going anywhere near vivzsweet's place. I am just trying to line up some backup action, in case there is a falling out with the gf. Mainly, I just wanted to see if anyone else had any experience with this particular girl. I figure I am not the first guy that she has made this type of offer to. Besides, I'm not all that comfortable staying at the homes of my own family when I go to visit with them. I'm sure I would be much more uncomfortable in the home of someone I don't know. Especially if there are other family members living there.
HW
Cuba Tourist
11-16-08, 05:06
I found her!
Hi to all,
chatting on DIA with a nice girl now, 25, dentist, she told me some intersting things about baklas, ladyboys or TS, shemales, etc. how to spot them. Aside from the adams apple thing, and hips, she told me to take a look at the arms.
A real woman can bend her arms and it shows an angle. If a guy bend his arms, they look straight, not in an angle.
Interesting, right?
Happy hunting
Blink
Tony Hoeprano
11-17-08, 07:00
Hi to all,
chatting on DIA with a nice girl now, 25, dentist, she told me some intersting things about baklas, ladyboys or TS, shemales, etc. how to spot them. Aside from the adams apple thing, and hips, she told me to take a look at the arms.
A real woman can bend her arms and it shows an angle. If a guy bend his arms, they look straight, not in an angle.
Interesting, right?
Happy hunting
BlinkI've heard this one before but never tested it out. Is it common for TS or whatever you call them to have sex change like they do in Thailand? I saw one ad on DAI and was shocked to see that the dude was taking hormones to look more like a 'she'.
No luck on DIA I had the most success on Yahoo messenger member directory but now that is long gone. Mostly lady-boys and run of the mill girls with no job and no brain….WOW! A lot of them will talk but as soon as they see the photo they out like a thief in the night. Sad part is not even using my photo (not a fan of putting myself on the internet) but that of a considered by many an extremely handsome, young black and rich hip hop star.
Khun Larry
11-21-08, 00:10
DW1 lot of thai girls chasing the brothas in BKK and Pattaya ... Ladyboys too if thats your fancy ;)
I have spent spent a little more than 2 weeks on DIA and than on Yahoo. Now I am ready to travel this weekend. Orignaly I was planning AC and Manila. But after chatting with the Cebu girls. I have now around 15 contacts in Cebu and 5 -6 in Manila.
On of the DIA girl is going to pick me up at airport. and other one want to do that too. But keep her on stand By. One of the Girl said she is a Virgin but have now agreed to Go to my Hotel and spend some time.
No one has mentioned any money yet. except the Virgin Girl she asked yesterday to send some Money. (I have Not ... Not an Option :) )
All these Girls doesn't sound like P4P but One of the Manila Girl is for Sure P4P she has sent me following Pics claims that these are her real pictures.
Will update my report Later
DW1 lot of thai girls chasing the brothas in BKK and Pattaya ... Ladyboys too if thats your fancy ;)
I get "contacts" on DIA but I have been looking at “unimportant” things like are they really attractive, their grasp of the English language, college degree, job, age not necessarily in that order.
I was about give up on DIA….now things are on the up and up…whoever said patience is a virtue wasn’t bullshitting. List is like the Bush's tenure...long.
KyCuriosity
11-23-08, 16:30
I have found someone I actually enjoy off FH, but I also am going to enjoy the other side of life in angeles city in february.
I told my "friend" that I have only a week with her and then I leave, I actually have 2 weeks in PI. She's picking me up at the airport and then I am "supposed" to fly out in a week. Anyone know of a good excuse so she doesn't follow me to the airport to see me off. Are people allowed in the departure terminal? or if I have a ticket for a week later is there a way I can get to a place she can't go in the airport?
It's an interesting dilemma. I tried to say I have to get up from hotel too early and I would rather say my goodbye's the night before so it's not rushed, but she's wanting to wake up at 3am to see me off at the airport now!
Please help!
Jay
I have found someone I actually enjoy off FH, but I also am going to enjoy the other side of life in angeles city in february.
I told my "friend" that I have only a week with her and then I leave, I actually have 2 weeks in PI. She's picking me up at the airport and then I am "supposed" to fly out in a week. Anyone know of a good excuse so she doesn't follow me to the airport to see me off. Are people allowed in the departure terminal? or if I have a ticket for a week later is there a way I can get to a place she can't go in the airport?
It's an interesting dilemma. I tried to say I have to get up from hotel too early and I would rather say my goodbye's the night before so it's not rushed, but she's wanting to wake up at 3am to see me off at the airport now!
Please help!
Jay
Read your report and l just want to add my two centavos,dont listen to me,l live here.
So, if lm you, l would find a stupid excuse...god thanks lm not the brightest light under the sun, so l suggest one excuse, just tell her you delay your flight plans because of a
a)businessmeeting
b)flightdelay,means they overbook your flight and you on waitinglist
c)your exgf want to meet you and because you been knowing each other a long time,you ow her to meet up.
d)you been totally drunk when setting a date
e)your a member of ISG and you just fly to the Philippines to get laid, fast and cheap.
Nice day to evryone!
Blink
P.S. If you havent been f..ing for some weeks its quite enourmous what comes out.My thoughts are with the girl l got to know two hours ago.God bless her and merry xmas to all.Just thinking in Atlantis now how l get back to work tomorrow.Good that lm not the brightes guy under the sun..
KyCuriosity
11-23-08, 18:24
e)your a member of ISG and you just fly to the Philippines to get laid, fast and cheap...Nice blink, I think I may tell her I just wanted to get laid by some hookers and have a 3some with some strange girls, . Do you think she would mind?
I've thought about the argument thing the night before but I didn't want her to see that I'm forcing the issue too much.
Anyways, I might try something different like a flight delay, or something like that, and just tell her to get her ass to work!
Is a flight delay fairly convincing?
I actually want to try something with this girl, but I still want to experience "the life" in angeles city, so wish me luck!
Thanks again blink for the info and the laugh. Kuddos man,
Jay
Darth Sushi
11-23-08, 20:24
I have found someone I actually enjoy off FH, but I also am going to enjoy the other side of life in angeles city in february.
I told my "friend" that I have only a week with her and then I leave, I actually have 2 weeks in PI. She's picking me up at the airport and then I am "supposed" to fly out in a week. Anyone know of a good excuse so she doesn't follow me to the airport to see me off. Are people allowed in the departure terminal? or if I have a ticket for a week later is there a way I can get to a place she can't go in the airport?
It's an interesting dilemma. I tried to say I have to get up from hotel too early and I would rather say my goodbye's the night before so it's not rushed, but she's wanting to wake up at 3am to see me off at the airport now!
Please help!
Jay
Or you can fake it by actually going to the airport. She can't go inside without a plane ticket (or some printout with a name) anyway and the taxi can only load and unload passengers. There's usually a line to get in the terminal because security needs to scan your luggage. Sounds like she really wants to protect her meal/rice bowl :D
Or you can fake it by actually going to the airport. She can't go inside without a plane ticket (or some printout with a name) anyway and the taxi can only load and unload passengers. There's usually a line to get in the terminal because security needs to scan your luggage. Sounds like she really wants to protect her meal/rice bowl :D
Last time a girl went to the airport with me she left in the same taxi, so Kycuriosity's problem is simple. Kiss the girl goodbye, get out of the taxi and make sure she leaves in the same taxi she came in. Once gone find another Taxi.
Hairy Wonder
11-24-08, 13:45
Kycuriosity,
The problem, as I see it, is that this Filipina, like many others, wants to latch on to you and not give you a chance to find anyone else. I believe the girls do this to make sure you are not going to do what you have planned.
As I understand it (and I could be wrong here) you must have a ticket for a flight departing that day to enter the terminal. If you are using an e-ticket, you could always print out a doctored copy with the date showing the day you want to send her on her way. You could get inside the check-in area this way, as the guards only check to see the date/time on the ticket, and that the name on the ticket matches the passport. Once her taxi pulls away, you should have no problem going back out to catch another taxi.
Just be sure that you have a very good hiding place for the real ticket. My experience has been that these girls have no qualms about going through everything in your bags. It is like a paranoia with them. Most of them know that most foreign men are going to the Philippines for getting laid by multiple young beauties. They want to ensure that the one they are with is not like that.
Another thing to think about. If she really likes you, she will most likely ask for your contact information in whatever country you are residing in. You may want to think of some clever response for this, in order to keep her from wondering what you are doing the second week of your trip. If you plan to use the "going to the airport" thing, you might also want to tell her that you will be traveling (without a phone, of course) for business during the next week, and will not be able to contact her.
Just my 2 centavos worth.
Good luck and Happy Mongering!
HW
Last time a girl went to the airport with me she left in the same taxi, so Kycuriosity's problem is simple. Kiss the girl goodbye, get out of the taxi and make sure she leaves in the same taxi she came in. Once gone find another Taxi.
Another trick is to save your favorite girl for the last week of your vacation; then you take a taxi to the airport at your "arrival" time, then text her to come and get you there!
About those filipinas who go through your stuff, lay down the law: you catch one doing it, you are kicking her out right away. You can let her return 2 or 3 days later if she is sufficiently remorseful. In the meantime, you can go out and play with others. Make sure your cell phone and laptop are locked whenever you leave them unattended. If you defend your territory and show you mean it, they will respect you for that. And if they don't, you don't want them around because it only gets worse the longer you are with her.
Nice blink, I think I may tell her I just wanted to get laid by some hookers and have a 3some with some strange girls, . Do you think she would mind?
I've thought about the argument thing the night before but I didn't want her to see that I'm forcing the issue too much.
Anyways, I might try something different like a flight delay, or something like that, and just tell her to get her ass to work!
Is a flight delay fairly convincing?
I actually want to try something with this girl, but I still want to experience "the life" in angeles city, so wish me luck!
Thanks again blink for the info and the laugh. Kuddos man,
Jay
hi,
just open a cold bottle of SM light while reading this here. Flight delay, its a good excuse. I encountered something like that once by myself. I was one day earlier at the airport and couldnt belive it.I really should carefully read what it says on my ticket. Security let me pass to make things sure at the Emirates counter. So, you can actualy walk in, even you dont fly. You can also walk in with a valid ticket to ask to see your airline office to make flight changes, etc...So that really helps if your stalker GF will folow you amd wants you to watch you leave.
On the other side, if you here to screw as many girls as possible you need to be tricky. I met 3 girls last night in AC. MY actually usual "partner" a new chick and then went barhop and barfined the "doorgirl".
I made sure my "regular" left around noon, txt her I needed some rest because going back to work early morning. Comment on her was " I know you, you just wanted to meet other girls and go barhop" I txt back Im not married and whatever I txt back to her, who really cares, di ba?
Secound girl arrived with her auntie a bit later the evening. First time we met and I agreed to that. She is a pretty tsinay faced girl. When her auntie went to the CR we secretly kissed each other. I played the gentleman, prmoised to go to bed right after they left me. She txt me back at night and the whole day that she would like to meet me next time alone.
Allready in a quite good party mood I went to Lancelot or camelot. Allways get confused with their names. Went inside, nothing special. Went outside, eyed the pretty doorgirl and invited her for a drink. She asked me from what country I am, told her Im german. She told me, sorry to tell you, germans are all assh....es. I agreed to that :D
We talked first and then we start kissing each other. Life is good :)
Barfined her, went to some other "german place" got drunk with germans and nongermans. Went hotel, bum2. Woke up 11 am. Send her home, got dressed, back to work.
You have to be a man*****. Who knows what the girls doing when Im not around...well, as I said earlier, who cares...you here to screw, not to get married, di ba?
Good night to evrybody
Blink
KyCuriosity
11-24-08, 19:43
Just wanted to say thank you for the insight, especially Blink, and comments made about my situation. I should've told her about the end of my flight, but I was actually concerned about STD's and getting bargirls before her. I will always be protected, but I figured better get the girls afterwards so I don't give her anything if I catch something there. I know it's a little farfetched, but makes me feel better about it.
I think I may keep her up drunk all night, right before my flight, and then when she "can't get up" then just catch a taxi.
One little thing I didn't tell you all, is that she works in a different part of the airport, in a legitimate job, so I asked her about the departure thing. She can go with me to the check-in counter, but not any further. I think getting her drunk the night before is the best chance I get. Anyways, if anyone will be in AC from feb 25 to mar 3, I'll buy a beer for you if we meet up and talk. Blink, I feel I owe you one already. Hairy, you're right with her. She's insecure about "us" right now, and I expect she will be for a long time. I want to go whoring in AC, but I really do want a real thing with this girl, so we will see. Oh yeah, and she knows I don't send money either. She has already sent me a birthday present (which I loved) and has my number and home address. I already have the excuses for me not being back so soon in the US. I will actually be looking forward to getting some pictures of some girls to post on here for you all to enjoy.
Anyways, good luck to everyone, I don't think I have any other questions, and thanks again.
Jay
I can offer a couple of quick exit excuses, but they require some advance prep in a properly formatted email that you leave in your inbox. When the time comes, point out the message to your GF to back up your story.
(I actually used this one as it really happened). OMG! My Ex-wife is filing for full custody of my son! I have to get back to the states immediately. Its such a shame...
OMG! I'm being recalled to active duty! They're sending me back to Iraq! Damn the luck. Isn't it enough that I gave one of my nuts for my country. This could be the last night you see me...
FreebieFan
11-27-08, 10:52
I'm reading this and laughing as to how we are (too long in Phils. I'm even talking like them. As in " see how you are! ")
Anyways this subject is great, specially when I think of some of the excuses I've made.
The best was one day in Jakarta. Id been with a hottie for a few days. And was happy to bonk her again that night. But I was also flirting with a new one who was a sure thing. She also knew where I was staying
So what did I do. Well I booked a second room in same hotel using points/miles. Threw some old t shirts in this new room to make it look used.
Told the first one that I had a long conf call with Europe and she should go out with friends till 11.
Made sure shed gone out, then invited new one in. We bonked. Threw her out. Met old one and took her to the original room, which was clean, didn't have the "recently bonked in " smell, no stray hairs, bed was pristine and she was clearly satisfied that Id been at work. Yeah right!
Keen Eye Joe
11-27-08, 19:06
Hypothetical situation: You’re a Londoner, playing on your computer after a long day at work. You’ve opened Yahoo Messenger and there you sit, patiently waiting and waiting for your Pinay sweetie from Manila to come online so you can chat with your special lady before heading off to bed.
9:30 pm rolls around and finally, THERE SHE IS! You’re all happy because your beloved did not forget you. She’s right on time, every day, just like the subway train. She dutifully opens her cam and there she is. 25 years old, long hair, 5’ 2" tall, petite figure, nice smile. Yes, she’s not a model, but she’s pretty enough for you. You know she adores you because she’s there for you, every day. Sometimes she misses a day of chatting, but when you ask her where he was, she replies she had to spend the night with a sick friend. Or maybe she had to run to the province to visit her mother. You think, "Wow, this is one compassionate lady. I am so lucky to have her in my life! "
You can’t wait to hop on a plane and go meet her. You’ve got vacation time booked for 2 months from now and are just about ready to go buy a ticket for the butt-busting flight to MNL. You’re eating Macaroni and cheese every night to save money for gifts and the expense of showing your lovely lady a good time. Optimism is so inspiring!
Of course you’ve thought about time zones, and you realize that it’s 5:30 am in Manila. Hmmmm, it is kind of a strange time for someone to be on the computer. When you ask, she says she get online because she wakes up early each day and likes to get online before she travels on the jeepney and LRT to her mundane job selling loads or working at a small shop or opening up her Sari-Sari store at home.
Soooooooooo why am I writing this? On my latest trip to the Phils, I stayed at a hotel in Malate near to the famed LA Café. This is "Freelancer Central" for those who have never heard of the place. Hundreds of women each night flock to this bar/restaurant in hopes of latching onto a guy who will pay them 1500 to 2000 pesos for the pleasure of their company.
On the morning of my recent departure flight heading back to Bangkok, I realized I had not yet booked a hotel. So I walked to the 24 hour internet café located a couple of buildings away from the LA Café and hoped I could find a decent hotel which had instant confirmation.
As I strolled by the LA Café, I was stunned by all the activity in front of the bar. "Geez, it’s 5:30 am, this place is as crowded as it was at 10 PM last night! ", I thought. But I paid them no mind as I walked down to the internet café.
I figured the internet café would be deserted, but boy was I wrong! There must have been 20 Pinays sitting at their computer terminals. Most of them had web cams visible of their overseas boyfriends. Many had multiple men’s cams displayed, all middle aged white men (and most of you are pretty darned ugly! ), LOL.
I didn’t get too much interest from any of the chatters because they had their webcams turned on and didn’t want to divert attention from their online men. Most of the women were dressed in typical LA Café uniforms: cute tops, jeans, big heels, a fair amount of make up. They didn’t appear dressed for any sort of day job, that’s for sure.
The women were pretty much sitting in groups of three, with one member typing on the computer while her friends were babbling to each other and occasionally distracting the chatter with conversation. Once or twice, I saw the other women in the group stand up so the men on the cams could get a look at them. "Awww how nice", you think as you watch her interact with her friends. It’s great she has friends, it means that she’s a friendly person and it’s nice to see people adore her as much as she adores YOU.
I got plenty of glances and smiles from the non-chatters. Business was probably slow for them at the LA Café last night and having a two hour paid romp with a middle aged balding man like me would have made their night complete before heading to their flop house to sleep away the day.
I stayed about 30 minutes and during that time several of the women headed out the door. Nothing like capping off a rough night of lounging at the LA Café like chatting with their internet sweeties (who may or may not be sponsoring them with Western Union payments). Or maybe they were heading out to another venue in hopes of getting some early morning horny guy to fork over 1000 pesos for some short time entertainment before he heads to the office or airport?
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FreebieFan
11-28-08, 02:17
Once was in a bar in Orchard Towers in Spore. Chatting to a Thai lady but wasnt so interested in paying to bonk her. Anyways we were talking and joking about pcs and she was saying how the internet cafe was so slow etc.
So like any gentlemen I offered her to come back to my hotel nearby so she could send messages.
I logged in and for next 30 mins sat in amazement as this lady (maybe a 7 but funny girl) sent email after email. All essentially with same content. "Hi honey. My mum/dad/brother/etc all sick. I love you forever etc. "
She must have sent about 30 emails. All to different guys. Cut and pasted contents, ocassionally ask me how to spell " remittance" " urgently" etc.
Theres lots of sad suckers out there, and none of us should (BUT WE ARE! ) fooled by internet expressions of love coupled with Western Union payouts. Anyways I got a free HJ for the use of my pc.
Only two days...already asking for dough....I have no interest in sending her money just wanted to see how far she would go. Wow!
me: i hope u are doing ok today
Daisy : yes i am
me: you sounded a little down yesterday
Daisy : why
me: because you told me something was wrong
Daisy : what about
me: you didn’t go into specifics
Daisy : what do u mean
me: you didn’t tell me what was wrong
me: you only said u had a problem
Daisy: yes i am a problem
me: you are a problem or you have a problem
Daisy : i have problem
Daisy : moneyyy
Daisy : he he he
me: what are you trying to buy?
Daisy : why u send me
Daisy : Christmas is coming u i have no money
BUZZ!!!
me: yeah that is a special time of the year
Daisy : why are u asking what im trying to buy
me: I am just curious
me: because you sound like u really need the money bad
Daisy : and why
Daisy : yesss its trueeeeeee
Daisy : im just a poor girl
me: hey
me: don’t go emotional on me
Daisy : y
Daisy : coz its true
me: you are not poor
me: that is a state of mind
BUZZ!!!
me: you have your health
Daisy : have faith in me
me: and you are beautiful
Daisy : im poorrrrr
Daisy : yes i know and thanks
Daisy : help meeeee plsssssss
BUZZ!!!
me: how can I help u?
Daisy : send me money
Daisy : d:-q
BUZZ!!!
me: how much you need
Daisy : why u ask
Daisy : are u sure u will send me
Daisy : your not cheating me
me: i am trying to see how much
Daisy : IM ASKING U WILL SEND ME OR NOT PLS TELL ME
Daisy : I NEED TO KNOW PLSSSS
me: depending on the amount
Daisy : ONLY 6,000 FOR PHILS MONEY
me: 6000 pesos
me: how soon u need it
me: YES WHY
me: two things
Daisy : TOM PLS
Daisy : WHAT
Daisy : 2 THINGS
me: you need tomorrow
me: i thought u said for Christmas
Daisy : YES
Daisy : TO BUY GIFTS FOR MY FAMILY
Daisy : I LIVE IN A SQUATTER AREA ONLY BSIDE THE PASIG RIVER
Daisy : U WILL SEND IT TOM
Daisy : TELL ME
me: under conditions
me: i need to see you on webcam
me: to that you are not a man
Daisy : YOUR NOT SERIOUS U LIKE OTHER
Daisy : IM A NOT A MAN
me: I am serious
me: how do I know that?
me: because you have a photo
me: in your avatar
Daisy : U LIKE OTHERES U WANT TO SEE ME IN CAM NUDE
me: nooooooo
me: I don’t want to see u nude
Daisy : I HAVE PHOTO IN AVATAR
me: I just want to see your face
me: I didn’t ask to see u nude
me: I just want to see your face
me: to know I am talking to a woman
Me: and not a man trying to get money from me
me: this is a scam going on in the Philippines
me: guy puts a girl’s photo
me: and gets the money
Daisy : BUT IM HERE IN SMALL CAFE AND NO CAM
me: I read about this too many times
Daisy: IF U WANT CALL ME IN MY LANDLINE TO TALK TO ME AND HEAR MY VOICE TOO THAT’S MY NO
Daisy : I TOLD U IM A WOMEN
Daisy : IM NOT LIKE THERE IM TRUE PERSON IM NOT LYING TO U
Daisy : IF U DONT WANT TO HELP ME
Daisy : ITS OK
me: I will gladly give u the money
me: no problem
me: but I need to see u on cam
me: that is a small request
Daisy : I THOUGHT YOUR THE MAN I LOOKING FOR
me: I am sending money to you I only ask to see you on cam
me: just for 10 mins
me: that is small to ask
Daisy : IF U SEE ME IN CAM U WILL SEND ME
me: yes I promise
Daisy: HOW CAN U PROVE IT
Daisy: IM TIRED OF TH
me: just send to zoom
me: u know xoom
Daisy : NO IM NOT
Daisy : I HAVE NO TYM ITS MY TYM LEFT HERE
Daisy : TAKE CARE
Daisy : SEE U SOON
Daisy :
Daisy : BYEEEEEEEEEEE
me: take care
Daisy : U TOOO
Daisy : SEE U TOMMM SAME TYM
Scuba 1972
11-28-08, 10:22
That story is quite familiar.
When I get that type of story:
1. Mother, granny, family member I'll. Needs medicine money
2. No cam. So can you buy for me.
3. No cam in cafe. Will show nude body for private cam
I then say:
LOL. I am not ATM and you are scamming me. Goodbye
And hit delete
I try make sure those I chat with:
1. Have job
2. PC at home
3. Own cam
Be upfront on what I am about. To an extent
Good luck all
Wicked Roger
11-28-08, 13:53
I'm reading this and laughing as to how we are (too long in Phils. I'm even talking like them. As in " see how you are! ")
Anyways this subject is great, specially when I think of some of the excuses I've made.
The best was one day in Jakarta. Id been with a hottie for a few days. And was happy to bonk her again that night. But I was also flirting with a new one who was a sure thing. She also knew where I was staying
So what did I do. Well I booked a second room in same hotel using points/miles. Threw some old t shirts in this new room to make it look used.
Told the first one that I had a long conf call with Europe and she should go out with friends till 11.
Made sure shed gone out, then invited new one in. We bonked. Threw her out. Met old one and took her to the original room, which was clean, didn't have the "recently bonked in " smell, no stray hairs, bed was pristine and she was clearly satisfied that Id been at work. Yeah right!
While I have not done the different room I just ask houskeeping to come in and do a quick clean etc of the room immediately. They know/sense why I am asking and to date it has always worked. They realise us horny mongers need to give the impression we are faithful to our honeykos :D
Daisy : im poorrrrr
They ALL talk like that here, PnP, square girls ALL of them.
The trouble with chatting on the net is you don't know what is true & what is not. The vast majority of girls you talk to really are from poor families & really could do with the help.
The new to the scene square girls generally don't hit you up for money usually because they are thinking long term relationship. Plenty of time for the hardship stories to come out after you marry them.
The ones who have been burned too many times or are just lazy hustlers will go for hardship stories fast because they are thinking short term & playing a numbers game.
If they hint about money issues I reassure them in a non specific way 'Im kind to people who are nice to me'. I don't pursue the money issue further. If they continue to refer to money issues I hit delete as you did. There's far too many good ones out there to bother with hustlers.
AV
I figured the internet café would be deserted, but boy was I wrong! There must have been 20 Pinays sitting at their computer terminals. Most of them had web cams visible of their overseas boyfriends. Many had multiple men’s cams displayed, all middle aged white men (and most of you are pretty darned ugly! ), LOL.Sometimes I wish I could show the newbies things like this.. It is possible to find a great gal here but my god there are so many hustlers..
AV
This is the chat forum and I encourage people to provide positive information about chatting and net communicating. Real examples both positive or negative are appreciated.
If you want to rain on the parade, at lease provide a real example.
"...so many hustlers...." ...he doesn't say where. "they all talk like that..."
X
Sometimes I wish I could show the newbies things like this.. It is possible to find a great gal here but my god there are so many hustlers..
AV
This is the chat forum and I encourage people to provide positive information about chatting and net communicating. Real examples both positive or negative are appreciated.
If you want to rain on the parade, at lease provide a real example.
"...so many hustlers...." ...he doesn't say where. "they all talk like that..."
X
X we are providing real examples...chatting with these girls is as much fun to me as riding through the IED, suicide bomber infested streets of Kabul not as dangerous but just as nerve wrecking.
Why do I keep doing it? Because I am keep hoping beyond hope that I will find a gem.
I am not naïve I know that this is a poor country and a lot of these girls need financial assistance but just like AV said ask me later don’t ask me as soon as we start chatting…. ridiculous.
SergeantRay
12-06-08, 18:18
I think X-Man has a good point. What I would like to see is valid tips on Internet dating.
Someone got scammed (I have). What were the giveaways? How could that have been prevented?
What profiles are successful? I know a problem is that some lazy posters will just copy, so if one guy succeeds with the online name "Take Home Chef," there is likely to be dozens of "Take Home Chef" imitators.
(As an aside, why is it that when one guy posts a picture of his GF or barfine, dozens of losers want to line up for sloppy seconds? The point is to learn from the poster's experience so that you can get YOUR OWN girlfriend or barfines.)
Let me just say that on this last trip I had one girl who was my number one choice. I had my suspicions because she looked very hot in her photo, and wore a low cut blouse revealing a huge set of tits. In the back of my mind I expected the whole thing to blow up --I was preparing myself mentally to show up and find some wench ten years older and thirty pounds heavier than the one in the picture. I had made a dozen or so contacts and was prepared to go right down the list, one after another if necessary.
Well, surprise, surprise, my number one choice paid off. I never got to number two on the list and soon chucked it. We were together all summer. She never asked me for money, and she is absolutely the easiest girl in the world to get along with.
These are my online tips. I welcome your comments.
1) Keep your profile short and intriguing. If you reveal everything about yourself in a 500 word long profile, what is there to talk about? How does that excite her curiosity, when she knows everything from your birthmark to what you did for your tenth birthday?
2) I believe your screen name should offer a benefit. "Just Looking" or "Nice Guy" are not benefits. At the risk of 10,000 imitators, I have used "Deep Blue Eyes" as a screen name. I am leading with an attractive feature.
3) Forget the modesty. "I'm not good looking. I'm just a hardworking middle class schmuck." Please! I don't care if you're from Marked Tree, Arkansas, it's as glamorous as Hollywood to Filipina. I believe that writing a profile is an exercise in building your confidence --If you don't have it, work on it. Lord knows it's been tough for me.
4) Offer a challenge. "Can you handle being pampered?" "Can you accept a compliment?" These are both challenging (In other words, she must measure up to YOUR standards) and imply that you compliment or pamper women.
KyCuriosity
12-06-08, 18:54
I think sergeantray has a good topic started. I would have to respectfully disagree with the length of the profile though. I haven't been to Philippines yet, even though I'm ready to go in feb. I have probably 15 responses a day off my profile because I receive things like "you are so deep in your profile, can we talk", "I love your honesty" and crap like that. If you are one of those mysterious guys that can keep a little spy-like adventure in your life then great, but I've actually turned down offers of cam shows because of my "niceness" in my profile, but do not reveal everything about yourself. Give a few interesting details and keep the extremely good stuff for the chatting.
You do have a very good point in the Headline questions though. Give them something to respond to without sounding stupid like "my favorite movie is. " If a girl's headline says "looking for husband" I don't even click it, so I guess the girls probably do the same thing to us. A catchy title is a strong key.
The biggest thing I've seen in scammers is They always say "looking for good man, willing to help others, generous, to marriage, don't care about looks only what's in your heart". And usually the ones that have ALOT of cleavage showing need to be taken carefully.
People may disagree, but I always put a little hint of sexuality in my profiles without being too direct. It usually weeds out the girls that don't ever want to talk about sex or the "virgins till marriage" girls. Something stupid like "I want someone to make to love all day, and talk to all night" usually does well. Just make it sound less campy.
Or if a girl asks you why you like asians I respond "I like all the dark features: long dark hair, deep dark eyes, dark nipples, dark skin. And just mention it in passing even if she doesn't respond right away. She usually comes back to it herself and starts it off with talking about nipples without you mentioning it again. Just keep going on with a 'normal conversation' and it will come up quickly by her.
Anyways, just my two humble cents. Any comments?
Sarge and Ky offer some interesting ideas. I have to admit I keep things simple and try to get a phone number as soon as possible. This works for me, but probably because I have the opportunity to visit the Philippines twice a year.
If you find something you really take a liking to, consider getting her address and sending a letter or postcard. You'll immediately go right up to the top (or near the top) of her list of guys who look promising.
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I think sergeantray has a good topic started. I would have to respectfully disagree with the length of the profile though. I haven't been to Philippines yet, even though I'm ready to go in feb. I have probably 15 responses a day off my profile because I receive things like "you are so deep in your profile, can we talk", "I love your honesty" and crap like that. If you are one of those mysterious guys that can keep a little spy-like adventure in your life then great, but I've actually turned down offers of cam shows because of my "niceness" in my profile, but do not reveal everything about yourself. Give a few interesting details and keep the extremely good stuff for the chatting.
You do have a very good point in the Headline questions though. Give them something to respond to without sounding stupid like "my favorite movie is. " If a girl's headline says "looking for husband" I don't even click it, so I guess the girls probably do the same thing to us. A catchy title is a strong key.
The biggest thing I've seen in scammers is They always say "looking for good man, willing to help others, generous, to marriage, don't care about looks only what's in your heart". And usually the ones that have ALOT of cleavage showing need to be taken carefully.
People may disagree, but I always put a little hint of sexuality in my profiles without being too direct. It usually weeds out the girls that don't ever want to talk about sex or the "virgins till marriage" girls. Something stupid like "I want someone to make to love all day, and talk to all night" usually does well. Just make it sound less campy.
Or if a girl asks you why you like asians I respond "I like all the dark features: long dark hair, deep dark eyes, dark nipples, dark skin. And just mention it in passing even if she doesn't respond right away. She usually comes back to it herself and starts it off with talking about nipples without you mentioning it again. Just keep going on with a 'normal conversation' and it will come up quickly by her.
Anyways, just my two humble cents. Any comments?
Darth Sushi
12-09-08, 01:18
It usually weeds out the girls that don't ever want to talk about sex or the "virgins till marriage" girls. Something stupid like "I want someone to make to love all day, and talk to all night" usually does well. Just make it sound less campy. Don't forget that many gals in Asian culture value the "virginity" title, although I know quite a few virgins in public but nympho in private. Remember, this is a country where shotgun weddings still exist to protect family honor and adultery & immorality laws are enforced. Many sees it as an important asset when listing their profiles but that's a tough lie to detect online. It reminds me of the "official" government policy stating that "there is no prostitution in the Philippines" but my purple helmet knows better.
Is there a way to delete from DateInAsia's favorites list?
Even a sort would be nice, but I can't find either.
Hi to all,
just had a weird conversation with a DIA girl. It first starts ok, told me she work for FORD in the Philippines and she continued she likes Ferrari, her dad drives a Volvo in Canada and her mom has a BMW and a Porsche while in Spain.
I asked her about her working hours and cellphone number. Of course she dont have a cp now (alarm sign) and cant chat on ym while in office. So she suggested me to chat in a special website, same like DIA. She send me a link , I signed up and I realized I had to pay for it..which I actually dont like.
Then she told me, she paid for me. Link was 49,-- US and fee was 20,-- US.
I told her ok, fine for me, but you dont need to do that. Followed by some more sarcasm of her, like..Im more rich then you, Im sure when we meet I have to pay all the bills, bla, bla bla....men only want sex (yes thats correct).
Last not least I told her our conversation doesnt make sense at all and I believe either she is a bakla, or some ugly old chick, trying to make some money with scams.
I put her picture in here. If somebody wanted the link to her profile in DIA, just PM me and I will give, but take that as a warning. In my eyes she is a scammer, just wanted to get cc info from you :)
Nice day to all
Blink
Wicked Roger
12-09-08, 06:11
Is there a way to delete from DateInAsia's favorites list?
Even a sort would be nice, but I can't find either.
Easy Further
Go to the Favs page and you will see a small red cross (x) by the side of each name. Click that and you get a box asking if you are sure you want to delete this favourite.
Sorting - I cant sort either
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