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Sarge and Ky offer some interesting ideas. I have to admit I keep things simple and try to get a phone number as soon as possible. This works for me, but probably because I have the opportunity to visit the Philippines twice a year.
If you find something you really take a liking to, consider getting her address and sending a letter or postcard. You'll immediately go right up to the top (or near the top) of her list of guys who look promising.
X
Do you receive request for money and when you do what do you do? Do you send the money to a complete stranger in hope she will be nice and return the favor in some way or form or do you ignore the girls requesting money altogether? If you take the latter route then can I confidently assume the sheer number of girls you are in contact with who are not hooking is small?
I have never sent money and usually excuse myself politely when they do ask or even if they start some sob story. Of those who asked for money, I never bothered to meet them later on.
I don't completely understand your last sentence. I indulge in p4p, but I assume you are asking about the chat ladies. Of the thirty or so that I've met, I can think of only two that indicated p4p at the meeting, and only one who asked for money directly after the meeting -- ostensibly for some family emergency.
I use the chat to meet regular women, not p4p. Also, I don't use the sex cam chats at all. I first used the 2matchU site out of AC with mixed results. Then a paid site, cherry blossoms, with good results. I've also found a few thru other means. A free (for men) and relatively unregulated site like DIA is likely to have more problems. I've never met anyone thru DIA -- not yet.
My strategy is to just be friendly and let them know I'll be visiting. Usually that's enough to get a phone number and an invite for a meeting. As others have recommended, its good to go to web cam to double check identity, but the worst surprise I've had was she was much uglier or fatter than pic indicated. I also might ask for photo sharing. That can give you a better idea of what she looks like. Also, if you get pictures of her alone in a resort, you then have the possiblity of a lady who's already walked the walk. This could be good or bad depending on what you want and how you play it.
My experiences have generally been positive using chat. I should add this disclaimer: I'm not overly eager to meet a woman for marriage.
I suppose some guys are using chat to hunt for a wife, while others are out for a quick root, and everywhere in between. Your satisfaction or dissatisfaction with chat is related to your goals.
X
Do you receive request for money and when you do what you do? Do you send the money to a complete stranger in hope she will be nice and return the favor in some way or form or do you ignore the girls requesting money altogether? If you take the latter route then can I confidently assume the sheer number of girls you are in contact with who are not hooking is small?
I don't completely understand your last sentence. I indulge in p4p, but I assume you are asking about the chat ladies. Of the thirty or so that I've met, I can think of only two that indicated p4p at the meeting, and only one who asked for money directly after the meeting -- ostensibly for some family emergency.
X
What I was saying that the number of woman you are in contact with must be miniature in size if you don’t indulge the “money seekers” because I have tried my hand at this chatting stuff for a couple of weeks now and most of the time I don’t even get to a second chat series before the request for money start its really disconcerting.
After meeting about 20 chat ladies in the last couple of years, I believe 4 of them were actual virgins. The were all between 18-25 years old. The majority had only 1 boyfriend in the past, and he cheated on her. The more educated, the more sex partners. The closer to the big city, the more sex partners.
Most of the girls family and friends believe they are still a virgin, even after they go away with me for a few nights. Only their BFF knows that they are not a virgin.
I have learned not to start chatting with the girls a long time before I am planning to visit. They become attached to quickly and will expect a gift for their birthday/Xmas/Valentines day. In addition, after a few conversations I normally get very bored with them.
They are blatant liars, they tell you what they think you want to hear. Most girls tell me they love me by the 5th conversation.
To see how well they lie, when they are on cam with you in yahoo messenger, watch their eyes dart around between diffident chat partners. When you ask if they are chatting with someone else, 90 percent of the time they will lie and say no or say they are chattting with their cousin.
To become better at spotting the scamers I suggest going to the DAI "last active" screen after midnight in the PI. Notice most of the pictures are dudes, show cleavage, or look too made up for a normal girl.
I rarely get asked for money, because I have gotten better at spotting the scammers. When ever I ask a girl "how are you"and she starts with "not so good" I politley say I have to go and then just ignore her from them on.
Hi to all,
just had a weird conversation with a DIA girl. It first starts ok, told me she work for FORD in the Philippines and she continued she likes Ferrari, her dad drives a Volvo in Canada and her mom has a BMW and a Porsche while in Spain.
I asked her about her working hours and cellphone number. Of course she dont have a cp now (alarm sign) and cant chat on ym while in office. So she suggested me to chat in a special website, same like DIA. She send me a link , I signed up and I realized I had to pay for it..which I actually dont like.
Then she told me, she paid for me. Link was 49,-- US and fee was 20,-- US.
I told her ok, fine for me, but you dont need to do that. Followed by some more sarcasm of her, like..Im more rich then you, Im sure when we meet I have to pay all the bills, bla, bla bla....men only want sex (yes thats correct).
Last not least I told her our conversation doesnt make sense at all and I believe either she is a bakla, or some ugly old chick, trying to make some money with scams.
I put her picture in here. If somebody wanted the link to her profile in DIA, just PM me and I will give, but take that as a warning. In my eyes she is a scammer, just wanted to get cc info from you :)
Nice day to all
BlinkConfirmed, same pic different story, no porsch, also that website etc.
I have never sent money and usually excuse myself politely when they do ask or even if they start some sob story. Of those who asked for money, I never bothered to meet them later on.
I don't completely understand your last sentence. I indulge in p4p, but I assume you are asking about the chat ladies. Of the thirty or so that I've met, I can think of only two that indicated p4p at the meeting, and only one who asked for money directly after the meeting -- ostensibly for some family emergency.
I use the chat to meet regular women, not p4p. Also, I don't use the sex cam chats at all. I first used the 2matchU site out of AC with mixed results. Then a paid site, cherry blossoms, with good results. I've also found a few thru other means. A free (for men) and relatively unregulated site like DIA is likely to have more problems. I've never met anyone thru DIA -- not yet.
My strategy is to just be friendly and let them know I'll be visiting. Usually that's enough to get a phone number and an invite for a meeting. As others have recommended, its good to go to web cam to double check identity, but the worst surprise I've had was she was much uglier or fatter than pic indicated. I also might ask for photo sharing. That can give you a better idea of what she looks like. Also, if you get pictures of her alone in a resort, you then have the possiblity of a lady who's already walked the walk. This could be good or bad depending on what you want and how you play it.
My experiences have generally been positive using chat. I should add this disclaimer: I'm not overly eager to meet a woman for marriage.
I suppose some guys are using chat to hunt for a wife, while others are out for a quick root, and everywhere in between. Your satisfaction or dissatisfaction with chat is related to your goals.
XThat was right on the money X.
You don't mention on what site you are chatting on. Sexcam site? I really have no idea why you are getting different results than I am.
I've got contacts on several hundred ladies. I don't chat with them so often though. I'm more like BB -- I send messages out just before and during my trip just to see what comes out of the woodwork.
X
What I was saying that the number of woman you are in contact with must be miniature in size if you don’t indulge the “money seekers” because I have tried my hand at this chatting stuff for a couple of weeks now and most of the time I don’t even get to a second chat series before the request for money start its really disconcerting.
You don't mention on what site you are chatting on. Sexcam site? I really have no idea why you are getting different results than I am.
I've got contacts on several hundred ladies. I don't chat with them so often though. I'm more like BB -- I send messages out just before and during my trip just to see what comes out of the woodwork.
X
I hope the sex-cam site comment was an attempt at humor. No I am chatting on the infamous Date In Asia and only that site. By the way great response to my older question not this one :D
Why would I attempt humor with you?
I haven't spent much time on DIA, as I said earlier. I've sent a few messages, but never did chat. Does DIA have a chat function, or do you move over to Yahoo or other vehicle for chat?
X
I hope the sex-cam site comment was an attempt at humor. No I am chatting on the infamous Date In Asia and only that site. By the way great response to my older question not this one :D
Well, in the last few hours, my DIA chats have resulted in one asking for money and one posting "yani watshi firipin jin desu! okama kawaii".
D'etat will understand that....
I still think my DIA results have been mostly positive, but let's see how things pan out. WIsh me luck!
X
Well, in the last few hours, my DIA chats have resulted in one asking for money and one posting "yani watshi firipin jin desu! okama kawaii".
D'etat will understand that....
I still think my DIA results have been mostly positive, but let's see how things pan out. WIsh me luck!
XI have all but given up on the Filipinas on DIA. Either they soliciting or have the personality of a box of crayons. This is the latest and greatest message I just got from one….
Sweet: 20, Philippines 2 mins, 2 secs ago
hey black guy how are you?
your cute
where do you live?
Did meet a Chinese woman from Northern china though. She is independent, cute, loves hip hop and has a fire about her personality wise so I guess DIA is good for something.
Darcnite14
12-14-08, 22:13
Hey guy,
I have been to the phills maybe 20 times in the last 6 years. I have had many freebies and a few p4ps. The thing i realize is that these girls learn the hunting skills that we use on them from us. Your prime concern is to get the best GFE from them for the least amount and their prime objective is to get as much monetary benefits from us as possible. There are many wife capable women in the phils, there are many wild party girls in the phils, there are many scammers in the phils. I also have been in the cafes and watched these girls with 5 to 10 guys on the screen telling them all that they love them and that that talk to no one else. We all have to really understand what we really want. If you are hunting for a wife, you go to Match, if you are hunting for a bed warmer then you have a hundred other sites. My point to the whole story is, we have to realize that we are both the hunter and the prey, so watch your backs.
Nightrider1
12-15-08, 00:31
I have all but given up on the Filipinas on DIA. Either they soliciting or have the personality of a box of crayons. This is the latest and greatest message I just got from one….
Sweet: 20, Philippines 2 mins, 2 secs ago
hey black guy how are you?
your cute
where do you live?
Did meet a Chinese woman from Northern china though. She is independent, cute, loves hip hop and has a fire about her personality wise so I guess DIA is good for something.
I agree there are a LOT of scammers and girls asking for money on DIA. Especially now that Christmas is fast approching. I get SOOO many after 5 min of chat say " wheres my Christmas Gift " I tell them your Christmas gift is in the delete file which is where your heading..lol.. Still there are some good ones on DIA you just have to weed the bad one's out which takes time ,but I'm retired so I have a lot of time to do that. Also have you noticed that when you talk to a Thai or Chinese girl they can barely string enough words together to make a complete readable sentance? Thats another Plus for Filipinas. They have good english skills for the most part which makes communication a lot easier and fun. Going back to Phil in Feb for the 12th time so lining up some sweeties now.
I didn't understand the point about "wife...go to Match".
But the rest makes sense. Make the hunted believe it is the successful hunter. That would make a good hollywood movie....if it hadn't been done so many times already.
I'm just a cheerful traveler going to the Philippines and need help from some locals. In the last few hours I've got an invitation to some Mindanao mountaintop (she'll meet me at the port) and an offer of a full body massage from someone who teaches other things (form head to toe is the type of massage she suggests).
X
Hey guy,
I have been to the phills maybe 20 times in the last 6 years. I have had many freebies and a few p4ps. The thing i realize is that these girls learn the hunting skills that we use on them from us. Your prime concern is to get the best GFE from them for the least amount and their prime objective is to get as much monetary benefits from us as possible. There are many wife capable women in the phils, there are many wild party girls in the phils, there are many scammers in the phils. I also have been in the cafes and watched these girls with 5 to 10 guys on the screen telling them all that they love them and that that talk to no one else. We all have to really understand what we really want. If you are hunting for a wife, you go to Match, if you are hunting for a bed warmer then you have a hundred other sites. My point to the whole story is, we have to realize that we are both the hunter and the prey, so watch your backs.
I agree there are a LOT of scammers and girls asking for money on DIA. Especially now that Christmas is fast approching. I get SOOO many after 5 min of chat say " wheres my Christmas Gift " I tell them your Christmas gift is in the delete file which is where your heading..lol..
Been trying out DIA for a while and I hardly ever get that line (wonder what I do wrong? :D)
No problem finding some cuties there obviously. Downside is that it seems to be a pretty unregulated site though. Watch out for jailbait, ladyboys and the odd real estate agent pitching their wares!
Darcnite14
12-15-08, 17:16
X,
I was referring to match.com international. The sites that are taylored towards a more adult nature, these girl will open their emails and have several hundred messages a day. They realize what we do, so the wise ones learn to play our own game with our own rules.
Cubbies 9911
12-15-08, 19:31
This is my first post so don't be too harsh. I'm heading to the Philippines later this year for 3 weeks and I went on DIA looking for a translator/sex partner. I noticed most chicks under the age of 21 are only about mooching money, whereas the ones that are slightly older are interested in being F*ck buddies if you're willing to spoil them for a while. I have some pics of a 29 year old, she's not the best that has put on a live sex show for me, but she's promised a lot and if she delivers she'll be well worth it. She's okay with this mainly being a sex relationship and takes off her clothes for me regularly.
Wicked Roger
12-15-08, 22:32
I get SOOO many after 5 min of chat say " wheres my Christmas Gift " I tell them your Christmas gift is in the delete file which is where your heading..lol..
I tell them the 'gift' is in my trousers and they will get when I see them..:D And that they can unwrap it and play with it for as long as I and they want :)
I didn't understand the point about "wife...go to Match".
Xhttp://www.match.com/
AV
Originally Posted by Jrbodinen
I see you mentioned meeting these girls on Friendster. Is it a good place to meet girls for sex. Are there a large percentage of girls on the site that will meet just for sex, food, and not expect money?
The proplem with Friendster is the girl will see all of your other lady friends, once you add her.
She will then send emails to them asking who they are and why they are friends with you.
Best way to use friendster is never add anyone as a friend and only use the mail feature to meet the girls, then change to regular email with them.
edit: moved to correct forum
Darcnite14
12-16-08, 20:04
X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14
Puerto La Cruz
12-17-08, 04:00
We wish no harm on that individual but many of us wish we would never hear from him again.
Shit, I was actually worried that X and I were going to be on the same flight on the 18th. I got lucky. $$$$$ kept me here.
Originally Posted by Jrbodinen
I see you mentioned meeting these girls on Friendster. Is it a good place to meet girls for sex. Are there a large percentage of girls on the site that will meet just for sex, food, and not expect money?
The proplem with Friendster is the girl will see all of your other lady friends, once you add her.
She will then send emails to them asking who they are and why they are friends with you.
Best way to use friendster is never add anyone as a friend and only use the mail feature to meet the girls, then change to regular email with them.
edit: moved to correct forum
I too have noticed that Friendster is very popular in the Phils. But ... I never liked the friends feature for playing around so I didn't go there. Thanks for the tip.
X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14Hey there D14, I have a home & business interests in Mindanao. Its reputation is greatly exaggerated by people who have not been there.
AV
X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14I have been all over Mindanao, even Sulu&Jolo, I was there for 8 weeks earlier this year amd have been each and every year without fail since 1992, never had any problems whatsoever, but I always get out of Manila ASAP, its a s*it-hole compared to Cebu or CDO, Davao, Gensan etc.
Darcnite14
12-17-08, 21:01
Del and AV,
I have never been there. I buy and export shrimp from this area through some associates. I usually stay in Naval in the Leyte province. So my advice was from genuine caution and concern, but from third party information. If you guys are very familiar with this region, I would apprieciate any information you have on shrimp and tilapia farmers.
Now I also have had a fair amount of success in Tacloban, Ormac and Biliran while walking through the markets with freebies, because these areas are really of of the beaten trail. Marvins hotel in Antipolo is where I usually stay and I have met many women when I shop for fish in the mornings at the sreet market. Wow fish and trim in the same place, how can you ask for more?
GoodEnough
12-17-08, 23:21
I've lived in Davao for the past five years and, because of my job, have traveled all over the region-and I've never had a single problem. Yet, I often get a gasp from Filipinos in Manila when I tell them where I live. The reaction of the average Filipino to Mindanao is based largely on total ignorance and rarely on any knowledge. The fact is,as Delbert says, Manila is a hole, and I feel much safer in Davao, where there's far less crime and violence, than I do in the country's largest city.
As to being a "Black American," I don't think that skin color would have any effect on your security. I know several black guys from the US Embassy who travel here consistently, and I've never heard them express any fears about their safety at all.
The fact is that the armed conflicts here occur and recur in fairly remote areas where tourists would have no reason to even think of going.
GE
Hairy Wonder
12-18-08, 13:03
I saw the discussion about Friendster, and just had to add my 2 pesos worth.
Friendster, and sites like it (Hi5.com, Tagged.com, MySpace.com, and etc.) are great for finding lots of pics of girls from all over the world. Many of the girls on these sites show no inhibitions, and literally bare all that they have to the world. At the same time, many of them will post pictures of celebrities in the hopes that nobody will know that it is not them. As stated earlier by BB, most of these sites allow "friends" to see the activities of the person that has added them to the list. This can be both bad (i.e. all the girls seeing your actions) and good (i.e. you can also see the girls' actions) at the same time. Many will post pics of themselves with their "honey ko" and still add hundreds of obviously horny guys to their friends list. If nothing else, it's fun to look around on these sites, and maybe make some contacts for chatting on YM, MSN, and etc.. And if you happen to strike out on any given night, you might even find some of them online and willing to give you a show.
I recently (less than a month ago) setup a Tagged.com page of my own. I found a pic (from an advertisement I think) show a guy's mid-section, wearing mesh underwear, which clearly revealed his dick and balls. I posted that as my profile pic, and nothing else. It may be considered plagerism, but at least I didn't copy and post any ISG photos, as I had thought about. :D I searched for girls in the age range I like, and started requesting to be added as their friend. I now have about 160 sexy friends, and I'm adding more everyday. I'm not sure if this will help me find anyone to fuck the next time I travel to PI. But I'm having fun with it, and it is one hell of a nice board of photos to look at when I sign on! ;)
HW
Del and AV,
I have never been there. I buy and export shrimp from this area through some associates. I usually stay in Naval in the Leyte province. So my advice was from genuine caution and concern, but from third party information. If you guys are very familiar with this region, I would apprieciate any information you have on shrimp and tilapia farmers.
Now I also have had a fair amount of success in Tacloban, Ormac and Biliran while walking through the markets with freebies, because these areas are really of of the beaten trail. Marvins hotel in Antipolo is where I usually stay and I have met many women when I shop for fish in the mornings at the sreet market. Wow fish and trim in the same place, how can you ask for more?Darc, tilapia and shrimp were never high on my list of "Things to see and do", I have seen seaweed farms in Sulu&Jolo, I know they farm Tilapia in lake Sebu, I have friends in the MRDP so I can ask around for general info if you like? Zambo was always a great place to visit for sea-products like dried-fish etc as they badjao earn money from it. But regarding the safety of the area I never once felt under threat while in southern Mindanao, and I have been there countless times, though the same can't be said of Manila, its got to be the worst capital city in south east asia.
I've been to Davao and CDO in Mindanao and had a wonderful time. As GE says, you'll probably find the cities much more comfortable/safer than Manila -- for a variety of reasons.
X
X,
I am not an expert but i do a little business in the Philippines. I am a Balck American, and i have been seriously warned by my Philippine friends and business associates that mindandao is not a good place for me to be. I have been in several countries and have been given this warning about outlaying areas , but this is the only warning that I actually took to heart. I am simply saying, maybe you might want to do some serious due dilligence before you decide to take this journey.
Good Luck
D14
Darcnite14
12-20-08, 18:16
It seems as if I have recieved bad intelligence reports from my business associates about Mindinao. I will now consider exploring these areas. I have only stayed in Makati 3 nights and Manila 1 night, so I really have not had any bad experiences. I find that I get a lot more action when I am out in the provinces, and usually end up with freebies. Lots of times I have had girls approach me when I was in the middle of business dealings, just to introduce themselves to me and wanted to talk.
Guys, thanks for setting me staright, with the correct facts.
Happy hunting
D14
I find that I get a lot more action when I am out in the provinces, and usually end up with freebies. Lots of times I have had girls approach me when I was in the middle of business dealings, just to introduce themselves to me and wanted to talk.
D14
Lot of guys are under the impression Filipinas are shy and sweet. Back in October I had a girl working at one of the stores in Alabang mall come on to me while my ole lady was with me. My ole lady was pissed but she just ignored the girl…. she is not the confrontational type… broad wasn’t bad looking either…shit I was grinning from ear to ear. :D
Darth Sushi
12-21-08, 04:55
It seems as if I have recieved bad intelligence reports from my business associates about Mindinao. I will now consider exploring these areas. I have only stayed in Makati 3 nights and Manila 1 night, so I really have not had any bad experiences. I find that I get a lot more action when I am out in the provinces, and usually end up with freebies. Lots of times I have had girls approach me when I was in the middle of business dealings, just to introduce themselves to me and wanted to talk.
Guys, thanks for setting me staright, with the correct facts.
Happy hunting
D14
Just remember, the farther west you go in Mindanao, the more muslims you'll encounter. Remember there are active groups who wants to secede Mindanao into a separate muslim country.
Lot of guys are under the impression Filipinas are shy and sweet. Back in October I had a girl working at one of the stores in Alabang mall come on to me while my ole lady was with me. My ole lady was pissed but she just ignored the girl…. she is not the confrontational type… broad wasn’t bad looking either…shit I was grinning from ear to ear. :DWas you ole lady Filipina also?
Just remember, the farther west you go in Mindanao, the more muslims you'll encounter. Remember there are active groups who wants to secede Mindanao into a separate muslim country.Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV
Darcnite14
12-21-08, 06:56
Dw1 and AV,
I will explore these areas that have I never considered before. I will do this on a business level only. I have my hunting spots and I am very comfortable with them. A lot of you hunters wonder why I don't put locations and contact information with my post, I really do get 10 times more action freebie then I do P4P. To be totally honest, I have been to the Phills 20 times in 6 years and have engaged in P4P maybe 4 or 5 times.
What I do works for me, so I guess I will not change my game. The country side has more then pretty flowers and fresh air. Forget about the tourists spots, and get out to meet the neighbors.
D14
Darth Sushi
12-21-08, 12:21
Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AVHa, ha, ha...
TO: Darcnite14, all I'm saying is there is a small scale civil war going on and just be careful. Amavida will never mention that Mindanao (& neighboring islands) is the kidnapping for ransom capitol of the Philippines. Just ask the missionaries kidnapped who were held hostage for more than a year. It's not the wild west but with a global recession now in play, you never know.
TO: Amavida - (If you're clueless with the following, then you haven't lived here as long as I have): Huwag kang masiado maingay. Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas! Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.
Peace.
Huwag kang masiado maingay. Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas! Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.
Peace.My tagalog is not too good, but I think this means loosely translated:
"Don't be flashy or loud, keep your mouth closed because you are not from here in Philippines. Although there are (????) Filipino women, you never know what/who is waiting in the jungle".
Could be very wrong, but generally you get the idea. Keep a low profile is always good advice in a foreign land.
Blackangst
12-22-08, 01:54
Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV
History of events disagrees with you Ama. The Abu Sayyaf is a very real threat, based in Mindanao. If you need a refresher course I suggest starting with wiki: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Sayyaf You can also read up on the Fisabillilah.
Sure there are dangerous areas everywhere in the islands. Hell...I wouldnt go within 100 kilometers of Tondo. But there are areas more prone to trouble than others. And Mindanao is far more dangerous overall than anywhere else on the islands. Having lived there I would think you would know your own country's history.
SergeantRay
12-22-08, 03:00
Originally Posted by Darth Sushi. My translation.
'Huwag kang masiado maingay.'
Don't be too noisy.
'Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas!'
You don't know what you're saying because you didn't grow up here in the Philippines.
"Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.'
Although you may have a Filipina girlfriend, you don't know what's happening here in the jungle.
Ha, ha, ha...
TO: Amavida - (If you're clueless with the following, then you haven't lived here as long as I have): Huwag kang masiado maingay. Hinde mo alam ang sinasabi mo dahil hinde ka lumaki dito sa pinas! Kahit may shota kang pinay, hinde mo alam ang nangyayari dito sa gubat.
Peace.Ok Im clueless in your mind...
You dont need to tell me that in Tagalog...
Whatever.
Just because I own a home in Mindanao & run several business's here what would i know eh?
Thanks for the wikipedia links from the armchair experts by the way...
AV
I love this description.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=550fa644-b39b-4894-81d1-0ce14ebd4762
I love this description.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=550fa644-b39b-4894-81d1-0ce14ebd4762Already banned:)
We are sorry, but this member has been banned...
Blah blah blah.. sorry to be rude but people who ACTUALLY LIVE THERE know that there are pockets of bad guys here & there in remote areas but by & large you are in no more danger than anywhere else in PI.
The Manila papers are full of political stories about Mindanao. Its not like that on the ground there. The cities & towns are quite ok.
Most of what the activity attributed to 'rebels' is just opportunistic crime by bandits in remote regions. Traveling through remote regions of ANY third world country needs to be approached with caution.
Other than that you have little to worry about.
AV
Well said Amavida! I also live in Mindanao and I feel safe, but I am always cautious and never let my guard down...wait, I do the same when I am in Cebu or Manila, anywhere in the Philippines:eek:
GoodEnough
12-22-08, 23:45
It always surprises me when guys who do not live or work here, and who may have read a couple of newspaper articles or an embassy warning, often self-righteously warn others of the alleged dangers of living here. Most of these warnings are grounded in firm ignorance of the facts on the ground and/or the geography of Mindanao.
The fact is the Mindanao, the second largest island in the country, accounts for approximately a third of the land area of the entire country. It's enormous, and what happens in one place has little or no effect on what may happen somewhere else, hundreds and hundreds of kilometers removed. That the Abu Sayyaf is "in Mindanao" is a little like saying that there's a kidnapping group on the West Coast, so better avoid the entire area.
The Abu Sayyaf operates primarily in regions so remote that no foreigner--particularly foreigners with our hobby--would ever consider going there even without the Abu Sayyaf presence. Why would anyone want, for example, to go to Sulu or to the jungles around Lamitan, Basilan? There are no hotels, no decent infrastructure and no nightlife, not to mention little in the way of tansportation. I know this because I go to these places (gasp) for business.
The MILF also operates, it's true, in these places, and also in North Cotabato, with occasional appearances in Sharif Kabunsuan and Maguindanao. Anyone rushing to go to these garden spots? I can assure you that with or without the MILF, there's no reason at all to go.
There are only three spots on Mindanao that would normally attract most of the members of this forum: Davao, Cagayan de Oro and (perhaps) Zamboanga. They're all totally safe and, in my opinion, each is safer for the average foreigner, than Manila. There's less street crime, less hustling, less traffic, less pollution and altogether fewer hassles than Manila, and these places are far less expensive. All offer ample opportunity to sample the local lovelies as well.
Someone will doubtless point out that last week, two bombs exploded in Iligan, midway between Cagayan de Oro and Marawi. These is true, but again, what relevance does it have for members of this forum? Iligan is, by my reckoning, an undesirable place with or without bombs, and would normally not attract anyone to visit for any reason.
So the bottom line? If you're into remote jungle areas, with little or no electricity, spartan, even primitive accommodations and zero night life, you may want to reconsider before coming here. For normal people however, who want to be buried in pussy while enjoying the pleasures of being in an area that's secure, pollution free and very laid back, come on down. The weather, the women and the water are all fine.
GE
Cunning Stunt
12-23-08, 00:07
The MILF also operates ...
GE
To lighten the tone, I have to smile when I see the abbreviation of the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. I cannot help but envisage a bunch of rather attractive mature ladies running around with kalashnikovs.
Well it is ISG and a lot of us do tend to have one track minds :D.
P.S What is an extended discussion about security in Mindanao, doing on the Pen Pal thread anyway?
Darth Sushi
12-23-08, 04:37
Ok Im clueless in your mind...
You dont need to tell me that in Tagalog...
Whatever.
Just because I own a home in Mindanao & run several business's here what would i know eh?
Thanks for the wikipedia links from the armchair experts by the way...
AV
Yeah, you're right...it's very safe down south.... :rolleyes:
http://www.iht.com/articles/ap/2008/12/23/asia/AS-Philippines-Food-Convoy.php
http://www.gmanews.tv/story/139447/Alleged-NPA-rebel-killed-in-Davao-City-clash---Army
Don't forget the two bombs (one did explode) placed at busy shopping centers last week...BTW, Merry Christmas in Mindanao!
Peace and be safe
I thought Date In Asia sucked but I have met a hottie in Indonesia, Philippines and Thailand on the site. Surprisingly all have jobs (have not asked for money) and two are educated and one is a working college student.
Only drawback the Thai girl doesn’t speak English that well but if you know Thailand like I do that is a good thing :)
The Filipina is a doll. Spanish looking type. No family issues with her. She was raised in an orphanage.
May the force be with me :D
Southbound69
12-27-08, 01:26
I wrote a report a couple of months back about my DIA experiences before my trip to the PI. I had obtained, I guess, about 20 phone numbers of girls that said they would like to meet me before I left. I also booked a ticket from Cebu to Boracay for a sweet little thing that I felt pretty good about. I was to fly from Manila and wait for her flight to arrive in Boracay.
I had lined up a girl (non DIA) to be with in Manila for a few days that I had met on a previous trip before I was to fly to Boracay. That all went well and I came up with a good enough excuse to get rid of her for a week or so while I played before meeting back up with her for the balance of my PI trip.
Well, everything went as planned for our meeting at Caticlan airport. How often does that happen that everything goes right? She thought I was gwapo and I thought she was super cute with a great body. 24 y/o college student with large breasts on a small frame! We proceed to the hotel on Boracay Island. She was not so shy until it was time for bed. She slept with her clothes on the first night! I let it slide the first night because she was truly an inexperienced and innocent girl. Anyway, to make a long story short, she was very sweet, innocent, appreciative of everything I did for her and always told me so. Not very enthusiastic in bed but would probably turn around as she becomes more comfortable with me. I was only the second guy she had ever had sex with. We had a great time and I don’t regret it for a minute. We still have regular contact and I will probably spend some time with her the next trip out. She may be LTR material.
We spent a couple of days in Cebu together and I got rid of her early so I could meet a couple other girls from DIA before I headed back to Manila. I decided to try a couple of "sure bets" first. I texted one that was very aggressive sexually on our YM chats. I offered to meet her at the SM mall in Cebu. She shows up about an hour and a half later. She was so shy I could barely converse with her. I talked her into ice cream at the food court. She only took one lick and just held on to her cone as it dripped on the floor. She was not as attractive as she appeared on the webcam. She had a nice body that was better than her face and she kept covering her mouth when she talked as if to hide some bad teeth. Well, I cut the meeting short at the hour mark knowing that I was wasting my precious time. I took her to the mall exit where the taxis and jeepneys are and tried to give her taxi money, she refused (wow! ) but I finally forced it on her. She leaves and five minutes later she is texting me begging for another meeting and that we can sleep together and won’t be shy next time. I tell her it’s too late now.
I text the next "sure bet". She is anxious to meet me. Says she’ll be right there. She shows up with a friend. Her friend is so ugly that she could stop a Caterpillar D11 in it’s tracks. She is attractive and I would certainly like to show her my meat rocket. I suggest pizza. We go to Greenwich. We eat, have some small talk but I’m not feeling any chemistry. After dinner she asks me what I want to do. I tell her that I am tired and that I have an early flight out the following morning. She escorts me to the taxi stand and we shake hands (that’s right, not even a hug). Again, five minutes later she is texting me and apologizing for the uninspiring time together and she would like to go to Manila with me! I tell her it’s too late now.
When I get back to my room it is around 9pm and I figure that I will take a nap and then hit the bars just down the street and play around with the bargirls. Then the texts start rolling in from both of them at the same time. I am slow at texting so I can’t keep up with both of them. They both want to come to my room now (yeah, right). I tell them it’s too late.
Anyway, I finally get to sleep and when I wake a couple hours later I am so tired I say f&*k it and stay in bed knowing that I will be well taken care of when I get back to Manila the next day.
The bottom line for me is that DIA does consume a LOT of time if you let it. Was it worth it? For me, yes. Will I do it again? Yes, but no more than seven to ten days prior to my trip departure. Also, I will only dedicate a small portion of my trip to DIA girls, preferably all in the same city.
Southbound69
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Gents, I recently discovered that my pinay fiancee was scamming several other men out of money. The relationship ended badly. What is the correct forum to tell about this?
Blackangst
12-28-08, 00:14
It always surprises me when guys who do not live or work here, and who may have read a couple of newspaper articles or an embassy warning, often self-righteously warn others of the alleged dangers of living here. Most of these warnings are grounded in firm ignorance of the facts on the ground and/or the geography of Mindanao.
The fact is the Mindanao, the second largest island in the country, accounts for approximately a third of the land area of the entire country. It's enormous, and what happens in one place has little or no effect on what may happen somewhere else, hundreds and hundreds of kilometers removed. That the Abu Sayyaf is "in Mindanao" is a little like saying that there's a kidnapping group on the West Coast, so better avoid the entire area.
The Abu Sayyaf operates primarily in regions so remote that no foreigner--particularly foreigners with our hobby--would ever consider going there even without the Abu Sayyaf presence. Why would anyone want, for example, to go to Sulu or to the jungles around Lamitan, Basilan? There are no hotels, no decent infrastructure and no nightlife, not to mention little in the way of tansportation. I know this because I go to these places (gasp) for business.
The MILF also operates, it's true, in these places, and also in North Cotabato, with occasional appearances in Sharif Kabunsuan and Maguindanao. Anyone rushing to go to these garden spots? I can assure you that with or without the MILF, there's no reason at all to go.
There are only three spots on Mindanao that would normally attract most of the members of this forum: Davao, Cagayan de Oro and (perhaps) Zamboanga. They're all totally safe and, in my opinion, each is safer for the average foreigner, than Manila. There's less street crime, less hustling, less traffic, less pollution and altogether fewer hassles than Manila, and these places are far less expensive. All offer ample opportunity to sample the local lovelies as well.
Someone will doubtless point out that last week, two bombs exploded in Iligan, midway between Cagayan de Oro and Marawi. These is true, but again, what relevance does it have for members of this forum? Iligan is, by my reckoning, an undesirable place with or without bombs, and would normally not attract anyone to visit for any reason.
So the bottom line? If you're into remote jungle areas, with little or no electricity, spartan, even primitive accommodations and zero night life, you may want to reconsider before coming here. For normal people however, who want to be buried in pussy while enjoying the pleasures of being in an area that's secure, pollution free and very laid back, come on down. The weather, the women and the water are all fine.
GE
Thanks for your insight GE. My post was in no way meant to be alarmist or naive either. Like many of us Ive travelled quite a bit (13 countries in my passport). Im not like most I guess. Sure I like to play, but I also like to stray out of the city to experience the REAL personality of the country. Sure, areas in the big cities (CDO, Butuan, Davao, Santos, Zamboanga, Dipolog, etc) are perfectly safe. But the farther south I get, the less I want to stray much. I think the risk outside the cities in higher in Mindanao than Visayas or Luzon.
Gents, I recently discovered that my pinay fiancee was scamming several other men out of money. The relationship ended badly. What is the correct forum to tell about this?
Follow this link....
http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?t=1511
Hairy Wonder
12-28-08, 04:43
Follow this link....
http://www.internationalsexguide.in...read.php?t=1511
Actually, I think either location on the boards would be appropriate, as it applies to both forums. Rgbburn, maybe you should post your report in either this forum or the "Filipinas - Opinions and Advice" as DW1 suggested, then post a link to it in the other (cuts down on your typing that way!) ;)
Please let us know the DIA ID for her, so she can't try to scam any of your ISG brothers!
Thanks!
HW
Gents, I recently discovered that my pinay fiancee was scamming several other men out of money. The relationship ended badly. What is the correct forum to tell about this?
Hairy Wonder
12-28-08, 05:23
I just had an interesting chat with a cute little scammer from DIA. As you can see, if you read the attached text file, she claims her name is nicole on DIA. I'm searching DIA using that and other info from the chat session to see if I can find her profile. If I do find it, I will put an updated post on here to protect all of my ISG brothers! I tried to get a screen print of her showing me her tits, but it didn't turn out so good. (Anybody know of a good screen capture program that can do continuous capture, and better quality?) Oh, and you can see in the text file, that she used 2 different YM ID's also.
Beware!
HW
HW: for screen capture on the cam, I just click on the cam window to make it active, then hold ALT + PRT SCR (print screen button). That copies it to the clipboard. Then I open my .jpg or pic viewing software, or MS Word, and paste it. See the attached screen caps of my former fiancee. You can see date/time on bottom. First one is her happy as a clam, talking about getting married, Dec. 14, 7:35AM. She is unaware at this moment that I received email confirmation the day before that she was cheating on me and scamming other guys. In the next pic, same date, 11:30PM, she's balling like a baby, several of the men she's been scamming have discovered it and phoned her angrily. I'll tell more of the scamming in the next report.
To capture clearly, you have to wait until the person on cam is sitting still, staring at the screen or cam.
Thanks for the field report. Earlier this year I had a shy one (from CBlossom) that I quickly got rid of, but for some reason we stayed in touch. ....who am I kidding, she had a nice body.
Anyway, last week I sent her a text and she seemed eager to set up a meeting. She pulled pretty much the same shit as last time, but we went to Juliana's disco (cebu) so her inability to hold a conversation didn't matter so much. Anyway, as the night waned I tried to get rid of her so that I could make my way to the Mango bars but she insisted on going back to my room. I gave her a good root and was happy when she said she had to leave.
I guess the moral of the story is....if they are quiet and shy, invite them to your room for some body language.
X Man
I wrote a report a couple of months back about my DIA experiences before my trip to the PI. I had obtained, I guess, about 20 phone numbers of girls that said they would like to meet me before I left. I also booked a ticket from Cebu to Boracay for a sweet little thing that I felt pretty good about. I was to fly from Manila and wait for her flight to arrive in Boracay.
I had lined up a girl (non DIA) to be with in Manila for a few days that I had met on a previous trip before I was to fly to Boracay. That all went well and I came up with a good enough excuse to get rid of her for a week or so while I played before meeting back up with her for the balance of my PI trip.
Well, everything went as planned for our meeting at Caticlan airport. How often does that happen that everything goes right? She thought I was gwapo and I thought she was super cute with a great body. 24 y/o college student with large breasts on a small frame! We proceed to the hotel on Boracay Island. She was not so shy until it was time for bed. She slept with her clothes on the first night! I let it slide the first night because she was truly an inexperienced and innocent girl. Anyway, to make a long story short, she was very sweet, innocent, appreciative of everything I did for her and always told me so. Not very enthusiastic in bed but would probably turn around as she becomes more comfortable with me. I was only the second guy she had ever had sex with. We had a great time and I don’t regret it for a minute. We still have regular contact and I will probably spend some time with her the next trip out. She may be LTR material.
We spent a couple of days in Cebu together and I got rid of her early so I could meet a couple other girls from DIA before I headed back to Manila. I decided to try a couple of "sure bets" first. I texted one that was very aggressive sexually on our YM chats. I offered to meet her at the SM mall in Cebu. She shows up about an hour and a half later. She was so shy I could barely converse with her. I talked her into ice cream at the food court. She only took one lick and just held on to her cone as it dripped on the floor. She was not as attractive as she appeared on the webcam. She had a nice body that was better than her face and she kept covering her mouth when she talked as if to hide some bad teeth. Well, I cut the meeting short at the hour mark knowing that I was wasting my precious time. I took her to the mall exit where the taxis and jeepneys are and tried to give her taxi money, she refused (wow! ) but I finally forced it on her. She leaves and five minutes later she is texting me begging for another meeting and that we can sleep together and won’t be shy next time. I tell her it’s too late now.
I text the next "sure bet". She is anxious to meet me. Says she’ll be right there. She shows up with a friend. Her friend is so ugly that she could stop a Caterpillar D11 in it’s tracks. She is attractive and I would certainly like to show her my meat rocket. I suggest pizza. We go to Greenwich. We eat, have some small talk but I’m not feeling any chemistry. After dinner she asks me what I want to do. I tell her that I am tired and that I have an early flight out the following morning. She escorts me to the taxi stand and we shake hands (that’s right, not even a hug). Again, five minutes later she is texting me and apologizing for the uninspiring time together and she would like to go to Manila with me! I tell her it’s too late now.
When I get back to my room it is around 9pm and I figure that I will take a nap and then hit the bars just down the street and play around with the bargirls. Then the texts start rolling in from both of them at the same time. I am slow at texting so I can’t keep up with both of them. They both want to come to my room now (yeah, right). I tell them it’s too late.
Anyway, I finally get to sleep and when I wake a couple hours later I am so tired I say f&*k it and stay in bed knowing that I will be well taken care of when I get back to Manila the next day.
The bottom line for me is that DIA does consume a LOT of time if you let it. Was it worth it? For me, yes. Will I do it again? Yes, but no more than seven to ten days prior to my trip departure. Also, I will only dedicate a small portion of my trip to DIA girls, preferably all in the same city.
Southbound69
EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
I had known my gf for over a year online. We both had relationships that broke up around March, and she wanted to hook up. She's from Surigao City, which I've been to before. We met in Cebu in late June, and spent a week there and in Bohol. Lovely time. About early October she started talking odd, like she suddenly had money (she's dirt poor). One day she asked if she could visit me here in California, she said she was obtaining a tourist visa. I know that takes money, a good job, etc, and upon questioning her, she said she had fooled a man in NY to send her $1000 for the visa (to be obtained thru an agency). She said she was going to try to get the visa to come see me. I told her to send his money back, and apologize to him (Fred). She said he had been supporting her, sight unseen, for several months. I thought this might some kind of ruse, so I told her I needed to be sure of this, to send the money to me, and I'd return it to him. She actually WU the money to me (several times more than shes seen in her life). I thought that would be the end of it as we were planning our marriage. She promised she had not been in touch with him, and she would not do that again. She sent him (and me) an email ending the relationship, and asking him to send me his real address so I could send his $ back to him.
I never heard back, thought that odd, and asked her why. She said she emailed him and he just didnt want it back, he was disgusted with her. So I sent him an email, and the add turned out to be undeliverable. However, I was able to add him to my IM, I contaced him on the IM, and he and I were both surprised: she had told each of us that she had dumped the other. He was shocked that we were planning on getting married and that I would be visiting her on Dec. 21.
Needless to say, I was about to have it out with her. But it gets better. Back up a few weeks. I was showing her how to screen capture cam images and stuff on her screen, simply alt + prt scr to capture. She captured several things on her screen and sent them to me for fun at that moment, including me on the cam, and... wait for it.... HER YAHOO IM LIST window. So.... I sent an email to everyone on that list saying that I was her fiancee, please wish us well. About 10 addresses. I got back a slew of angry responses in the next day or so, they are each a different bf (well, actually monetary donors it would turn out). So there it was in black and white: numerous men who she was stringing along, saying she wanted to meet (she always had an excuse why she couldn't), asking them for money. Some guys sent me her emails to them, and some also sent their IM's. Very romantic, full of MAHAL KO, can you send me some money for my rent / son / medicine for sexual disease???
You get the pic. Actually I'll attach another pic or two. I ended the relationship shortly thereafter, just a few days before flying to Philippines to meet her and fill out our K-1 visa. After she was caught, she wanted like crazy to save our relationship. She even called my house 40 times one night, 4AM, waking my kids and me up. I'll include here her admission of guilt here. Sorry about the length. Her name is Nichie Lou Andion, she's not on DIA.
nichie (12/14/2008 7:16:04 PM): yes i becoame such a lier to them just to surivive and wont ask money from u
nichie (12/14/2008 7:16:30 PM): as i its u who beat my heart
nichie (12/14/2008 9:47:48 PM): and how will i manage everything
nichie (12/14/2008 9:47:54 PM): to escape what i did
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:29 PM): i am scammer
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:31 PM): i am liar
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:36 PM): yes fred right
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:44 PM): but i didnt scam you
nichie (12/14/2008 9:52:56 PM): i been yes liar for my own personal reasons
Rich Black (12/14/2008 9:53:29 PM): good touch
Rich Black (12/14/2008 9:53:34 PM): thanks for that
nichie (12/14/2008 9:53:34 PM): also i let him voice out his bad feelings for me
nichie (12/14/2008 9:54:40 PM): before i tried to open about offering marriage
nichie (12/14/2008 9:54:50 PM): but i lied him about u are my ex
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:41:34 PM): you sent this 48 hours after sleeping with me
nichie (12/14/2008 10:41:48 PM): who
nichie (12/14/2008 10:41:58 PM): after we meet i didnt meet anyone anymore
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:42:03 PM): see the problem? you cant even REMEMBER to who
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:42:09 PM): correct probably
nichie (12/14/2008 10:42:11 PM): yes
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:42:13 PM): but you WANTED to
nichie (12/14/2008 10:44:50 PM): yes i told u im liar just to have money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:49:16 PM): ok yeah im asking money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:49:17 PM): fine
nichie (12/14/2008 10:49:19 PM): what else
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:25 PM): MISS YOU BABY
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:28 PM): LOVE YOU BABY
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:37 PM): IM (SHY)
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:40 PM): TO ASK
Rich Black (12/14/2008 10:49:44 PM): ur asking money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:51:45 PM): since also need money
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:12 PM): i been a bad girl yes for money just to keep me survive
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:23 PM): in alittle way
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:29 PM): its ok
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:34 PM): i know IM BAD
nichie (12/14/2008 10:52:42 PM): yes i ask money to other guys
Rich Black (12/16/2008 11:23:09 PM): why is it many men think that ur their gf? why they not all know, as my chatmates and buddys know, i have gf overseas and fiancee?
nichie (12/16/2008 11:23:41 PM): u know already the answer for that
nichie (12/16/2008 11:23:45 PM): money
I just had an interesting chat with a cute little scammer from DIA. ......that she used 2 different YM ID's also.
Beware!
HWI think I have seen this same girl with the same method of operation in several Camfrog rooms.
I had known my gf for over a year online.....
That’s a hair-raising tale Rgbburn.
Things learned:
I am having fun with DIA not looking for women but how it takes into you into the mindset of the Filipina. A cultural study if you will.
They will either ask outright or will go into tales of woe of how they have not eaten or they can’t pay tuition or rent. Sob stories to separate you from your dough.
One girl basically told me outright she was looking for a man to pay her tuition she was a religious nut. She asked what my religion was when I was told her I was an extremist…(Atheist) she damn near went crazy telling me how I need to believe in god.
I asked her what she would be prepared to give the guy in exchange for tuition payment. Her response was friendship.
Guys what I have learned over the years is that what they are saying might be true but they are survivors far tougher then me or you. They claim they need the money so bad how were they “making it” before you came along. You can’t buy your way into their pants or their heart. If they want to fuck you or court you they will.
It’s that simple…
DW, HW, others. As an aside from my former fiancee's scamming, I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met. I was the only one she had met or inteneded to meet, and I wasn't the one sending her $ on a regular basis. She told many that she wanted to meet, get married, etc, but always made excuses why she couldn't. Isn't the rule of thumb to not send money to someone you haven't met? Only one other guy that I'm aware of had not sent her any money, and when he wouldn't, she broke their 'engagement'. I think we make it easy for the girls when we do this. Some of the guys, having not been to a poor country, are sending her 2x, 3x what her monthly needs are. Amazing shes making bank. No wonder she rarely asked me for anything (made me curious). To each his own on this subject. Thoughts?
I'll send some more later in a later report with her pics for all to see and detailing who she was getting money from. Its fascinating. Thanks gents. Also, are there scammer websites to report this kind of thing?
DW, HW, others. As an aside from my former fiancee's scamming, I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met. I was the only one she had met or inteneded to meet, and I wasn't the one sending her $ on a regular basis. She told many that she wanted to meet, get married, etc, but always made excuses why she couldn't. Isn't the rule of thumb to not send money to someone you haven't met? Only one other guy that I'm aware of had not sent her any money, and when he wouldn't, she broke their 'engagement'. I think we make it easy for the girls when we do this. Some of the guys, having not been to a poor country, are sending her 2x, 3x what her monthly needs are. Amazing shes making bank. No wonder she rarely asked me for anything (made me curious). To each his own on this subject. Thoughts?
I'll send some more later in a later report with her pics for all to see and detailing who she was getting money from. Its fascinating. Thanks gents. Also, are there scammer websites to report this kind of thing?http://dragonladies.org/
Darcnite14
12-28-08, 18:12
Hey Guys,
I just joined DIA 10 days ago. I have met 2 pinays and 2 Thai that seem to be on the level, the youngest being 28. I have had my share already of the little scammers that have no problem and waste no time attempting to seperate me from my money. I want to share another concern. When I am logged on to my yahoo account, even when I am in the invisible mode, I get these uninvited I'm's. When I ask them how did they get my information, they always say that they got it from DIA. Then before I hit the ignore button, they ask my a/s/l. I ask them why do they not have these facts if they read my profile. Now the funny thing about this story is that My yahoo ID is not the same as my DIA ID, and all of the contacts claimming to be women all say that they were born in other countries, for some strange reason end up in Ghana Africa. Has anyone else experienced this same situation?
Darcnite14
12-28-08, 18:40
I have not learned how to do the quote and excerpt process in these forums yet, but I agree with the statement from Rgbburn; "Many of us do make it very easy for these girls to get money". I posted before that I watch many girls in the cafe with 5 to 10 men on their screens telling them all that they love them and have no other man. They do not even care when I watch them do it. I really don't think it is the monger types, I think it is the naive guys that have never been there or have very limited experience with this culture. I must also say once again, that they learn these hunting skill from us. To prove my point, lets take DIA for example, if you actually read some of the girls profiles, many on them post, " that if you are here only for sex, then pass by my profile", also "I am not prostitute, do not talk to me about money for sex. In camfrog, you go to any room, any timezone and men will out number women 5 to 1. We are the hunters, that are teaching them how to hunt us right back.
I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met... <snip> ... Isn't the rule of thumb to not send money to someone you haven't met?
EXACTLY!
Also, are there scammer websites to report this kind of thing?Yes. Google will tell you but dont expect to achieve much. There are legions of suckers going like lambs to the slaughter. Im sure posting the details here is very appreciated.
Sorry you had to experience this.
I caught a girl out last year by posting some info about her here & another member stepped in to try out her loyalty to me. She failed the test spectacularly. :D
AV
Darcnite14
12-28-08, 20:56
Guys,
I talked to this 1 young lady and i think she might have broken the worlds record. She YM me and the 3rd sentence she was hitting me with the old "PHONE PAWN" technique. she was doing very bad because she had to pawn her phone. I told her i was very sad for her and told her i had to go. Her DIA name is " Little Yeng"
Amavida, thanks. Never had any reason to be so distrustful. Think after this it will be hard to trust pinays for a while.
Below is a partial email that I sent out to multiple folks. After discovering her scamming, I got back many emails from angry men. She also fessed up to much of it after getting caught. Below is a partial response to many of the men she was scamming. And some pics of the girl. I've also found a scamming website to expose her antics (http://www.internet-love-scams.org).
She's not on DIA gents. However she's on Friendster and Myspace. I'll post that when I get it. In the meantime, stay away from this one. She is:
Nichie Lou Andion
Surigao City, Surigao Del Norte
Wish I knew how to boldface or italicize.
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To [Name Deleted at Author's Request] in NY, she says she has made some peace with you since then. If you can find peace after sending $thousands$ to a gal you haven't met, all the better. She did not use the money you gave her for the call-center course (she used mine for that), she just spent yours. Or perhaps she used yours for the training and spent mine. She finished the course, and sent me a pic of her at her graduation complete with certificate. You'll notice each time you sent money, she went on a drinking spree ('going around' with my friends). Also she tried desparately the last month or so to get me to go visit her there at Xmas (I was planning a spring trip). The change in plans to Xmas caused me to spend twice as much for the ticket. She was very agreeable to me using your money you sent her (that she then sent to me) to make the arrangements for either the ticket increase, a wedding dress, a ring, etc (its in the IM's). Sorry, but she sent me your money W.U., and thats where it is going, to pay for my upcoming trip, to Philippines, as she asked me to do repeatedly (in which I'm not seeing her). I'm a single-parent (raising two teens) schoolteacher with not a lot of extra cash. Originally I tried to donate the money to the church, but the check I wrote didn't clear (long story). Also Fred, I sent her one month ago enough $ to last until mid-December, and enough to pay for one module (one month) of caregiver school. If you look thru the IM's attached, you'll see that she just paid the college for that month. She won't need another payment until she completes a month. There should be 4 months (payments) left if you're interested in supporting her. Insist that she complete the month of classes first before sending her more for that. She has not started those classes yet.She still wants a relationship with you ('backup guy') if she can't have one with me (see the IM's). Playing second-fiddle might not be your cup of tea. But she's a firecracker, and she's needing sugar-daddy immeadiately. She goes to the highest bidder if she can't have love.
To DS, as you requested, I never mentioned your name (or even your email) to her. She does not know that you know, and if you talk to her she'll never know you use the alias. I understand your anger. You are not going to be able to the money back, she's penniless and has no way of earning money (see attached SHESBROKE). She was not taking any college classes during the time you had been sending money for those classes. Thanks for the emails you forwarded between you and the other gentleman. These are very telling that you both knew she was scamming before. If you both knew of the scamming, and you yourself were supporting two different women in the same town (Surigao), why the sudden anger with her? Maybe the marriage thing?
To H, same as DS, I did not tell her as you requested. You also are not getting your money back (see SHESBROKE). Yes, she used the title of Professional Caregiver in her emails, but she never completed the courses she told you she was taking. She was not taking any classes at that time. Another money con. Apology.
To Andy, she says she has made some peace with you also. Glad for that after all those angry emails. She will not be able to return your money either. However, she says she is willing to do so if she has it in the future.
To Andy and others that she told she had an STD, or that she was getting STD's from prostitution, thats just not true. If she's been a prostitute, its been online, scamming guys for money (see attached ALLFORMONEY). She did have cervicitis in late July/early August. She had abdominal pains, went to her provincial doctor, was diagnosed with an inflamed cervix, and was told that her American BF had given her an STD (but she wasnt told which one). The doctor prescribed antiobiotics for gonorreah, syphylis, chlamydia, and one other. 4 drugs. The doctor never tested Nichie to see which one she had. Just the shotgun approach. I paid for those drugs, and several of you also paid for those drugs (from your emails). She has recently tried this one again with at least one of you (2 weeks ago). This scared me, I thought maybe I had given her and STD, or maybe she gave me one. I ran to my doctor and told my doctor what happened. My doc had me tested for all those + HIV. She also gave me the same 4 prescriptions (shots, painful) as Nichie's doctor gave her, as a just-in-case. When the results all came back negative for me, I asked my doc what had happened to Nichie since she could not have gotten these things from me. My doc explained that the provincial doctors do this, simply shotgun the treatment. Catholic society, better NOT to test the girl, girls dont want to know they have a specific STD, they just want treatment. My doc said Nichie was probably small, I'm large, and sudden onset lovemaking irritated the cervix. I do not believe Nichie to be sexually promiscuous in the physical sense (yet). Her cousin Gilbert is worried that if she moves to Manila or Cebu for work and doesn't find it, she'll be prostituting for real, soon, and I can see it.
To [Name Deleted at Author's Request], thanks for the input. Soooooo glad you didn't get caught up in this.
To TJ, this is the first time I've attempted contact. You should know that she sent you a very loving email on July 1, complete with her pics, just 48 hours after sleeping with me in Cebu City. The first pic at the bottom of the email is her standing in the Cebu Airport, where she dropped me off just before emailing you. Its all an attempt to get money. Hope she didn't scam you too. In the email she sent, she said she was very tired from her 'training' trip. She was not on a training trip, she was with me (see pics). The only thing tiring for her on the trip would have been: holding hands strolling and shopping in Cebu city, walking and swimming at beautiful beaches at the Bohol Beach Club (see pic), rocking the night away at bars and discos in Mango Park (pic), making love, eating at nice restraunts, taxiing to bars in Tagbiliran for live bands, and waking up late to room service; all on my dime. Poor girl, so tired from her 'training' trip. In one of the recent IM's from the last several days, she fessed up to all of this (see attached ALLFORMONEY). She had no intention of actually meeting you. She simply meets men online to use MAHAL KO and WHEN CAN YOU COME? in hopes of them sending money to her first. When their plans change and they can't come, she's relieved. If they make plans, she makes different plans. Then there are excuses why she can't actually meet. Maybe this will look familiar. Notice the date of July 1; and keep in mind I departed June 29. Also keep in mind that she was my fiancee until 3 days ago. There is an interesting story that goes with that picture of her (sunglasses if you still have the email from her), I'll explain it another time maybe.
"From: Nichie Andion <>
Subject: Its Me Nichie
Date: Tuesday, July 1, 2008, 8:24 PM
Hello Thomas, How are you nowdays? Sorry it took me time to sent you an email. Just tired fromthe training & trip.Anyways i am attaching some of my pictures . Hope you will like it.Hope to hear from you soon also. Take care!
Nichie"
To J, same as TJ. On July 1 she sent you an email: LOVE YOU and MISS YOU BABY.... asking for money [ I'M (SHY) ] just seven minutes after sending the email to TJ ( HOPE YOU LIKE MY PICS. ), less than 48 hours after sleeping with me. I am guessing from the email's reply that you were a former BF at that time, and she was just trying to get money from you (she confirmed that two days ago in an IM), and it didn't work at that time. Since she is desparately trying to save our relationship (see attached STILLINLOVE), she's been lying less, fessing up more. This might be familiar. Again, 48 hours after sleeping with me:
"Hello Baby,Hope you are in a good health always. Im glad you did replied my letter. I was so worried you know. But thanks you let me know that you are ok. Thanks to God. I miss you a lot baby. I hope you do miss me too. Baby, just wanna ask if you are going to send me today as you know..hehhehe...(shy). but im worried about for my rental & food honestly as i dont have work as of now. I am also in need in school as our teacher never permit me not to have a fieldtrip. It is a must. She may failed me as it is our one requirements in going to different hospitals for a part of a training. Baby, i am so really worried.I dont know where i may able to ask help but you were the last chance & person that i could lean my problems.I am really in a big problem. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH JOHN. I MISS YOU A LOT BABY!!!"
That's a tough break Rgbburn, I hope you can bounce back. I believe there are plenty of pinays willing to be totally devoted to THE ONE who can provide a good home for them (and send a little dough to her family).
I will take love of money over "pure love" any time. I think its very correct, even Darwinian for a girl to think first of a guy who can provide well for her. I don't know when this idea of being in "love" as the most important thing started.
I am going a marry a great girl soon. She is such a looker, I think a lot of guys passed on her, worried that she would not be true. I am sure she collected at least some money from guys she met online. She better not be doing it now! lol.
From my girl, I most expect, devotion, respect, obedience, and a cheerful disposition. If I don't get that, I will send her home. I expect I can provide for her well enough to keep her happy. If it's not enough for her, she can go. I'll have a pre-nup. No big deal. Until then, I will have a great girl who can help with my business and home. I'll just keep my bank account passwords protected!
GoodEnough
12-29-08, 03:55
Rgburn, thanks for sharing what has to be a painful experience. I wish you could share it more widely with the universe of men who are absolutely convinced that the women whom they've met on the Internet and to whom they're sending money are "different" from the ones in all the stories they've read. I belong to another (non-sex) board focused on life in the Philippines, and you might not believe the number of guys writing in about coming here to visit their "fiancees" whom they've never actually met, but to whom they've been sending money for months or even years. They're often perplexed as to why the girls' plans changed at the very last minute. It doesn't seem to matter how many guys (like me) who actually live here and who have witnessed similar situations for years, warn them. They're blinded by "love," and by the certainty that their girls are different. I guess as a gender we never learn.
This lady seems to have made a true art form out of the multiple-men scam. You've done a public service by exposing her for what she is.
GE
FreebieFan
12-29-08, 04:47
Luckily I live in Asia. And have pussy basically on tap.
But I know and have lived in small provincial towns on US, UK and that hithole Saudi Arabia. Where life can be very grey.
A cute hottie who promises a lot and looks the business. Heck whats a few bucks that we soon get sucked into. Then we need to continue the habit otherwise she might forsake us for another john.
Its all sad. Been going on forever.
But hey todays my lucky day. The Sapnish Lottery sent me an email sating Id just won 12 million Euros. And I never even bought a ticket.
Point being. Anything that looks too good to be true. USUALLY IS!
They're blinded by "love," and by the certainty that their girls are different. I guess as a gender we never learn.
GE
It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.
Cunning Stunt
12-29-08, 05:04
It seems hardly credible that guys are still getting sucked in by online dating site scammers. It seems that there is still one born every minute but that otherwise sensible people are willing to send money to girls they have not yet met (or have met only briefly) is ridiculous to the point of sublimity. So why do they do it? Is it forlorn hopelessness or lonely desperation? Or maybe soft hearted gullibility? Or is it in anticipation of repayment in sexual favors to come? Will someone please enlighten me? For anyone who has spent anytime reading reports on this forum, or similar sites particularly those that deal with The Philippines and Thailand, cannot have failed to have noted the numerous warnings and salutary stories that appear on a very regular basis. So maybe these men are car crashes waiting to happen anyway and have no one else to blame but themselves for their heedless blindness.
We must also be aware that it not only the girls who engage in scamming. What about the sexual scamming engaged in by guys? How often have we read and chuckled over, reports submitted on this board by members crowing over their successes on DIA and similar sites. And, yes, before I am accused of hypocrisy, I too have also indulged in this, but I will say that I have always made it clear, both in my pen picture and in pre-meet chat, that I am only interested in a purely casual relationship. But is everyone so honest? I think not and enticing a young and naïve girl to put out on a one nighter, in the anticipation of a prolonged relationship, is an even worse form of scamming than the financial kind. I get the impression from reading the many ‘no players’ (playboys) and other comments on Pinay PP’s, that this is not an uncommon occurrence.
"where's my gift, hehehehe"
I have gotten that at least 10 times the last couple of weeks from girls I have met to those that I can barely remember.
I have yet to come up with a a good response that indicates that I want to screw them, with out sounding like a total douche bag.
Hey guys,
I don't want to write 3-4 different reports in different sections so I'll summarize my trip in this section since you guys were so helpful and DIA worked so well. Quick background. I'm in my mid-30's, decent looking, but live in a small town where most of the girls are married by 25 so I hardly ever get laid. I wanted to go somewhere for 3 weeks for a mix of pro, semi-pro, and non-pro action. The perfect solution. The phils.
I added my profile to DIA 2 weeks prior to my trip. Put a nice photo on there and a nice sounding write-up. Omg, 2 weeks prior to a trip is plenty. I had hundreds of girls contact me. I'm serious. I didn't get any work done for those 2 weeks. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
I spent 3 nights in Manila when I landed. Got my fix quick with a LA Cafe girl (see photo section). Second night met a nice 25 year old from DIA. Bit of a party girl but it made getting laid easy. I took her and her 2 cousins out to the Embassy Club. Cost me about 80 USD for the night but she rewarded me for the following 48 hours with non-stop sex. Great time. I told her I was flying to Cebu (white lie. Was heading up to AC first for 2 nights. LOL).
The first night there I went to Lollypop (see photo section) and picked up a tight little spinner. The second night I met a 19 year old girl from DIA. She said she was a student but obviously a semi-pro (or pro. Who knows). She looked a little young when she came over to my hotel (pacific breeze). No ID but she knew how to f*ck so I'm pretty sure she was at least 18. Great GFE for 24+ hours. Didn't ask for anything but I gave her 2000 PHP. She really deserved it after being such a great GFE (she pampered me non-stop).
Then I flew down to Cebu City. Met a chick there from DIA. Cute little 19 year old factory worker. Spent the next week with her (went to Dumaguette and Apo Island). Good times. But too young for anything serious. No pics of her b/c she's a nice girl. Went over to Bohol after. Met a cute single mother. Only 19. Couldn't even tell she had a kid. She needed the money so she was very willing to please. Again, a nice girl so I won't post pics.
Then back to Manila. Met another DIA girl at the last minute. Chatted with her on YM and met up with her and her friend. Took her to a club called Nirvana. Kind of a dumpy club but I got them both drunk after a few hours and a bottle of vodka (buy a full bottle when you take more than one girl to a club. It looks pimp, it's cheaper than a bunch of single drinks, plus it's a great way to get them drunk. LOL). Took them both home. Only shagged the one girl though. The hot girl turned out to be a pro and wanted money. Was tempted to go for the 3some but she wanted like 3000 PHP and she had a slightly bitchy attitude so I opted not to. Gave the friend 1000 PHP for the 'taxi' after the second shag in the morning. Probably didn't have to but whatever.
Anyways, to summarize. The Philippines is a guy's paradise. Beautiful islands, beatiful beaches, great scuba diving, friendly people, and the women there go bananas over white guys. You could easily do a trip without any P4P and get laid lots. But I had been deprived of sex for too long so I went hardcore. LOL. Anyways, I've been a lurker for a long time. I hope this report helps out some of you guys.
-ps- for those guys who are looking for a nice girl. Be very careful. The 19 year old factory worker seemed very genuine and nice for the week we were together. No red flags. 10 days after getting home she sends me the 'omg, my nephew is in the hospital email. ' Didn't see that coming at all. I guess the ultimate red-flag test is time. Even the best scammers will crack eventually.
EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
"Where's my gift?" Reply.."in my pants"
http://dragonladies.org/
Seafish, thanks for that. Have just posted there.
Gents, thanks for all the advice and thoughts. In addition to hearing from the angry scammed guys, I've gotten emails from several pinays who are strangers to me but who got a copy of the email from somebody or other (part of which is quoted in a report below). Of the 4 pinays responding, all know Nichie, and 3 live in Surigao City. All are unsympathetic towards Nichie. This is life.
Wow, if you guys have not checked out that dragonladies site, the stuff is sobering at best. As for the online scammers and beggars, I always wondered what happened to those flower girls when they grow up. Guess they grow up and learn to use the computer.
Puerto La Cruz
12-29-08, 14:47
Over the weekend I received seven, yes, count them, 7 instant messages asking for money. These little mosquitos are becoming more than a nuisance. If you hear the word "problem" you know that a request for money will follow. Its also obvious that my yahoo ID has been passed around. These girls are networking. Some of them I have only spoken to once or twice but they unashamedly ask for money. One's internet was going to be turned off within hours on Saturday if I didn't immediately send her 1,000 pesos. She was online on Sunday. Nope, I didn't send her a single penny.
Perhaps a beggars and scammers thread should be started.
Hairy Wonder
12-29-08, 15:28
Hey Guys,
I just joined DIA 10 days ago. I have met 2 pinays and 2 Thai that seem to be on the level, the youngest being 28. I have had my share already of the little scammers that have no problem and waste no time attempting to seperate me from my money. I want to share another concern. When I am logged on to my yahoo account, even when I am in the invisible mode, I get these uninvited I'm's. When I ask them how did they get my information, they always say that they got it from DIA. Then before I hit the ignore button, they ask my a/s/l. I ask them why do they not have these facts if they read my profile. Now the funny thing about this story is that My yahoo ID is not the same as my DIA ID, and all of the contacts claimming to be women all say that they were born in other countries, for some strange reason end up in Ghana Africa. Has anyone else experienced this same situation?
I get the "I'm American (or British) but living in Ghana" IM's quite often. I usually play along with them until they try to make me believe that line. Then I don't hesitate to hit the ignore button and report is as SPAM. I do the same with girls that start asking me to send them money. I don't know how these "Ghana" girls know when I'm online. But I really wish that the folks at Yahoo would do something about it. Of course, I guess the simplest solution would be to quit using YM. But then what would I do with all my spare time outside of the Philippines? :D
HW
Rgbburn....that website is priceless. Wow!
Perhaps a beggars and scammers thread should be started.
hahahahah.....
Chocha Monger
12-29-08, 16:30
It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.
Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.
SergeantRay
12-29-08, 19:08
Here is a quote from Richard:
"-ps- for those guys who are looking for a nice girl. Be very careful. The 19 year old factory worker seemed very genuine and nice for the week we were together. No red flags. 10 days after getting home she sends me the 'omg, my nephew is in the hospital email. ' Didn't see that coming at all. I guess the ultimate red-flag test is time. Even the best scammers will crack eventually."
I think the girl here in question may very well be genuine and not a scammer. This is the reality of marrying a Filipina. Someone in the province dies, and they need money for a burial, a young niece gets taken to the hospital, grandparents need money for seed rice, a nephew is starting school, etc. I've been married to a Filipina and all of these are real crises. No one in the family has money, so where do they go when crisis strikes? You.
If the girl in the above quote was genuine in her affections, and there was a real connection, she will turn to you. This is how Filipinos operate.
Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.Wow Chocha Monger. You make a lotof sense here. I suppose that makes me a bad person for believing it. We have been brainwashed her in the USA.
DW, HW, others. As an aside from my former fiancee's scamming, I think many of us make it easy for them to do this. She was scamming multiple men whom she'd never met.
Hey Rgburn, as long as you are getting revenge, lets see the nakes!
I know if my girl leaves me, I will have enough material to start my own porn site..and a model release from her! lol
Perhaps true freedom comes from fucking a beautiful woman and casting her aside. The more one values something the more power it has over you. Maybe by placing a low value on beauty these men challenge their women to bring more than a pretty face to the table. In the West a pretty face, slender body and a pussy is pretty much all that is needed to guarantee a life of relative luxury. Thank goodness the men from the East exercise more pragmatism in this regard or else the whole world would be like the West.
The Thai and Filipino men have learned to see women and their purpose from a practical point of view. Therefore they do not dote over them or shower them with money and attention. Some mongers, like That Asshole, eventually learn the ways of the Eastern men after years of experience in the hobby.
CM glad to see you here on this thread you always respond with insightful posts taking us deep into the human psyche. I am not saying we should be a "dick" to the ladies but the bus has to stop somewhere.
FreebieFan
12-30-08, 03:26
"Where's my gift?" Reply.."in my pants"I've used that line very often. And God bless some of them. They don't know what we mean. One even put her hand in my pants packet one day and said she was looking for the gift. Said she didn't feel anything. Then she did. Then she went red. (as red as a brown gal can do). Then she got very shy and realised what I meant. She didn't return my calls therafter. Hahahahah.
I think the girl here in question may very well be genuine and not a scammer. This is the reality of marrying a Filipina. Someone in the province dies, and they need money for a burial, a young niece gets taken to the hospital, grandparents need money for seed rice, a nephew is starting school, etc. I've been married to a Filipina and all of these are real crises. No one in the family has money, so where do they go when crisis strikes? You.
If the girl in the above quote was genuine in her affections, and there was a real connection, she will turn to you. This is how Filipinos operate.
So what did they do before you came along? Not bury the dead or go to the hospital? Where does all that rice come from if Kano is not there to pay for it?
My Filipina friend who is an MD, born in PI but raised in Guam, absolutely refuses to send money to PI. She told me she gets requests for money from family members she doesn't even know. She also refuses to go there anymore because when she did go to visit family, she says she came home with an empty suitcase and just the clothes on her back. Her mother and father still live in Guam and her mother works a factory job to send money back to PI. Even though the grandparents are both dead, they send money to nieces and nephews. The family even asks the parents to ask Jen (MD) because they are too shame to ask outright for money.
It is always interesting to hear her point of view on the subject because she gets down right pissed about her own family. Her point to me was, "I worked hard to get where I am. I had to sacrifice. I earned this myself. Why should I give to people who are lazy and don't work?" (I think she was ranting at this point as she had a beer in her.)
Guilt is a powerful thing, but not if you don't let it be.
Hey Rgburn, as long as you are getting revenge, lets see the nakes!
I know if my girl leaves me, I will have enough material to start my own porn site..and a model release from her! lol
Jambo, I've gotten enough revenge the last 10 days. She's outed on this forum, and two scammer websites. I've got the goods you mentioned, but am not wanting to stoop quite that low. Letting the world know what she's been up to is plenty. And maybe a trip to AC soon.....
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SergeantRay
12-30-08, 07:18
So what did they do before you came along? Not bury the dead or go to the hospital? Where does all that rice come from if Kano is not there to pay for it?
My Filipina friend who is an MD, born in PI but raised in Guam, absolutely refuses to send money to PI. She told me she gets requests for money from family members she doesn't even know. She also refuses to go there anymore because when she did go to visit family, she says she came home with an empty suitcase and just the clothes on her back. Her mother and father still live in Guam and her mother works a factory job to send money back to PI. Even though the grandparents are both dead, they send money to nieces and nephews. The family even asks the parents to ask Jen (MD) because they are too shame to ask outright for money.
It is always interesting to hear her point of view on the subject because she gets down right pissed about her own family. Her point to me was, "I worked hard to get where I am. I had to sacrifice. I earned this myself. Why should I give to people who are lazy and don't work?" (I think she was ranting at this point as she had a beer in her.)
Guilt is a powerful thing, but not if you don't let it be.
Carmex,
Your point is well taken. I am not suggesting that Richard should send money to the Philippines. The possibility exists that the nephew in the hospital is a con attempt. I'm just saying that a request for money in this sort of circumstance is typical of the way Filipinos operate.
I remember the Wowowee episodes that were filmed in the US. One Filipina here in America was practically in tears as she pleaded with people back home to understand the difficulties she faced (she was working as a maid at a hotel). She was avalanched with money requests that she just couldn't meet.
The larger question is whether the Filipino system of borrowing from extended relations (blood relatives, neighbors, godparents, etc.) is a necessary socio-economic safety net, a cultural plague that encourages leeches, or both. I think foreigners need to be aware of this dynamic, especially if they plan on marrying a Filipina.
FreebieFan
12-30-08, 07:41
Am a serial player, by my own confession and seem to find great girls whom I never spend much on, but they still seem happy to meet me regularly. Ok. Self glorification time over. The point is I met one gal thru a site as we all do.
Eventually she took a bus to meet me, we met had sex. Repeated this a few times with a few variations. Sometimes we would stay in a hotel, sometimes would only meet for an hour or two etc.
She doesn't work, has a kid, the kids father sends her US$200 per month which she basically lives on. She has a really old phone and almost orgasmed when I gave her some old novels so now she can fill her days better. She goes onlnie one hour a day to chat with me as thats all she can afford.
Her bus fare to meet me is P400 round trip and I happily reimburse that.
Been doing this for 8 months now. But not once has she ever given me the " daughter sick no medicine" " no electricity in house as bill not paid etc". Shes a really nice gal, wouldn't know how to scam (ok she would but hasnt) and has very high principles. Its really amazing. Shes knows she could go to Angeles and make lots money. But principles won't let her. At this point I'm figuring I'm damned lucky. And if we only meet for a short time on each trip it allows me to play with others. Of course I slip her the odd P1000 bill now and again but thats because I want to and not because its expected.
Lifes good!
Cunning Stunt
12-30-08, 08:06
.. She also refuses to go there anymore because when she did go to visit family, she says she came home with an empty suitcase and just the clothes on her back.
Guilt is a powerful thing, but not if you don't let it be.
Hit it in one C. Back to utang loob again. Ever wondered why, when Filipina's are travelling by air, they take not just the kitchen sink, but the entire kitchen as well? Now you know.
My wife thinks its a mortal sin to travel with one ounce less than check-in allowance (and often much more - spent a small fortune on excess baggage over the years). This used to work both ways as well. Travelling out to The Philippines it was gifts/clothes etc for the extended Barangay family. Coming back it was Philippine foodstuffs etc for expat Filipino friends.
Ever wondered how a pack mule feels. I know. GH
Hairy Wonder
12-30-08, 15:52
The larger question is whether the Filipino system of borrowing from extended relations (blood relatives, neighbors, godparents, etc.) is a necessary socio-economic safety net, a cultural plague that encourages leeches, or both. I think foreigners need to be aware of this dynamic, especially if they plan on marrying a Filipina.
I learned a good deal about what seems to be the Pinay attitude from my Filipina girlfriend while she was working abroad. She would tell me things (probably not everything) that her friends would say to her when they found out she and I were together. Most of the time, it was "get money from him," or "tell him to buy you lots of expensive things." Some of them went as far as telling her to take advantage of me, and find other guys to take advantage of at the same time. I don't believe that she followed their advice, because she never tried to get excessive amounts of money, or expensive items from me. In fact, she refused to take money that I offered to her for living expenses when she returned to Phils.
My point is, this seems to be the prevalent way of thinking for Filipinas when their Filipino family member or friend gets romantically involved with a foreign man. Most Filipinos see us as being extremely rich, and ready to hand over what to them amounts to very small portions of our fortune. They never once stop to consider the fact that while we might make as much in one month as they do in six months, our cost of living in the west is much higher than in Phils.
HW
GoodEnough
12-30-08, 16:48
An interesting discussion about a subject that I think no Westerner will ever understand. Having been here for more than five years now, I know I don't and the more I see the less I seem to understand. My take on this entire thing is that I would never get involved with a Filipina who felt some sort of obligation to "help" her family with my money. It would be a no-go from the start.
I'm fortunate, in that my asawa feels no obligation toward relatives, extended relatives, neighborhood acquaintances or anyone from her former life and turns a cold, unambivalent shoulder toward all such requests. Her attitude is pretty much summed up by the "What the hell did you ever do for me when I needed help?" perspective, and I applaud it. Remember that these "desperate" relatives, friends, acquaintances, sycophants and parasites are all talking behind her back about your relationship no matter what she does, since that's pretty much the way things work here.
In my view, if you don't mind spending a little money to help someone, help some kids go to school who could not otherwise afford to do so. At least the kids are always blameless and may be able to derive some real benefit from the money you spend. Remember too that the family managed to survive before you came along and it will continue to do so whether you're there or not.
The whole concept of "utang na loob" is, as far as I'm concerned, a bunch of pap fed by parents to children to ensure that the parents will be taken care of in their old age--the more kids, the more economic security for the parents and the less they'll have to exert themselves. Funny that the parents seem to have no reciprocal obligations to the kids regarding education, decent nutrition or much of anything else.
GE
Puerto La Cruz
12-30-08, 17:12
The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.
The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.
Be careful guys some board members don’t like you talking bad about the girls too much for example.
Wow, DW, I find myself wondering why you are a member of this site. All you do is wine and tell how bad the ladies are. Just wondering why are you here on ISG?
Not trying to start a war, just asking?
Thanks
Robb
I rest my case.
Cunning Stunt
12-31-08, 05:24
Much as I applaud Rgbburn for his honesty and understand his desire for revenge on the girl that strung him along, at the end of the day, it serves mainly as a cathartic emotional vent for him rather than as a timely warning for the rest of the forum. For either you get it, develop it from bitter experience or it will always be lost on you. What is 'it'? It is that you must assume that a Filipina is not telling the truth if her lips are moving. That might sound cynical but I assure you that I have had 25 years of exposure to Pinays and Thai's (same general mindset), so have had plenty of time and experience to form my opinions. I refer specifically, of course, to P4P girls met in bars or girls who are selling themselves in a slightly diferrent way in online chat rooms or dating sites. For they are not animated, cuddly, brainless sex toys (amazing how many guys view them in this light) but are canny, cunning schemers with an agenda of their own in which you are seen merely as their walking ATM machine to fund their escape plans. The sooner guys realize this and plan accordingly, the better it will be for their emotional and financial health.
So until men stop being led by that little deceiver tucked in their own pants (probably never), they will continue to fall for the line of that lovely asian femme fatale deceiver whose pants they are just itching to get into. Rggburns girl will, no doubt, easily find other suckers to con, for, as they say, and never was it more true, there is one born every minute. And members on forums like this will continue to bump their gums as to the wicked, scheming, deceitful ways of these girls. And Eve tempted Adam and blah, blah, sermonise, blah. And fools will continue falling for tired, old lines that they don't really believe.
And so the cycle continues, ad infinitum.
Marconista
12-31-08, 12:17
in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.
OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.
During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.
Happy New Year Gentlemen, and I hope you all will be able to get in to more panties of the yummy ladies of this beautiful country. I just love it when here. Masarap :)
Utang na loob, debt of the heart, its pinoys family safety-net for when one does good, but it always seems to be one way traffic and never reciprocated.
Met five, talked on the phone to another five chat friends in the last week. Two ended up in my bed - one an old contact from CB and a new one from DIA. None asked for anything. Of a dozen others I chatted with online, I think one hinted about money and two asked for a Christmas present.
I wonder if it is how we define "scam" that is causing these wide fluctuations in actual experiences. Who knows.
On the other had, I overheard a conversation at breakfast here in Cebu where a guy was telling a gal about the "rocks" he had bought as an investment.Now maybe that is his bait, or maybe he's just a fool, but I guess he'll attract more golddiggers that cheapskate, horndogs like myself.
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in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.
OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.
During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.
Happy New Year Gentlemen, and I hope you all will be able to get in to more panties of the yummy ladies of this beautiful country. I just love it when here. Masarap :)
Happy New Year!
It is the time for a bit of seasonal goodwill and some of my chat-mates have exposed just a little more of themselves. This is not easy to do in open internet café sessions, but where there is a will there is a way! Apparently it is now hard to find private rooms in internet cafes these days (have they been banned?).
Here are a few random screen captures in recent weeks involving 5 different girls. The quality is mixed; there are some real crappy vid cams out there. In open session these chat-mates have used a little bit of café dexterity and shown what they promise will be much more when we meet. We will see what eventuates in 2009!
We have had a few recent Filipina con stories in this forum, but in my experience the good far outweighs the bad. And where else can you get such loving and sex-charged, English-speaking, young ones?
KongKing
Hairy Wonder
01-01-09, 09:23
I just finished one of the worst YM sessions I have ever had. This little ***** came online, and started a chat with me by accusing me of being some lier that she had previously chatted with! This is a filipina that I met through Tagged (foxie_juliane18) and have only exchanged a couple of quick messages with her on that site previously. She kept asking "how's that?" at the beginning of the chat session. Eventually, I figured out that she meant "who's that?" So I tried explaining to her where we met, and who I was. She kept insisting that I was some guy that told her he was in Saipan. When I continued to explain who I am, and about my Tagged profile, she came back with the following comments:
foxie_juliane18 (3:59:44 PM): i cant remember people in tagged i just add them
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:29 PM): ok
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:38 PM): i just maybe cant remember
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:52 PM): i chat to lots of people
foxie_juliane18 (4:00:54 PM): hehehe
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:03 PM): cant remember names only pictures
ME (4:01:11 PM): I think I added you around the end of October.
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:28 PM): i told you i cant remember that
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:35 PM): i just add people there
foxie_juliane18 (4:01:52 PM): and im not always using that account
ME (4:02:11 PM): My Tagged profile pic shows only *******************
foxie_juliane18 (4:02:36 PM): why do you keep on telling me that?
ME (4:03:23 PM): I just want you to know that it is really me, and not some lier.
ME (4:03:37 PM): Are you really upset to somebody now?
foxie_juliane18 (4:05:42 PM): yah definetly
foxie_juliane18 (4:05:51 PM): im chating with him right now
ME (4:05:58 PM): Why are you taking it out on me?
foxie_juliane18 (4:06:10 PM): you are that person
foxie_juliane18 (4:06:13 PM): ok
ME (4:06:21 PM): What did I do to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) you off?
foxie_juliane18 (4:06:27 PM): i dont want to here who you are in tagged
ME (4:06:52 PM): I told you already.
ME (4:07:01 PM): Why are you upset to me?
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:09 PM): i dont want to here who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:17 PM): i dont want to hear who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:17 PM): i dont want to hear who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:18 PM): i dont want to hear who you are in tagged
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:19 PM): ok
ME (4:07:27 PM): OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
foxie_juliane18 (4:07:47 PM): if you want to chat lets chat if you want to tell your profile on tagged then dont message me again
foxie_juliane18 (4:08:02 PM): and thanks for making my year really [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off
foxie_juliane18 (4:08:03 PM): thanks
foxie_juliane18 (4:08:07 PM): X-(
ME (4:08:38 PM): YOU ARE THE ONE THAT STARTED THIS FUCKING CHAT BY TELLING ME THAT I AM A LIER!!!!
foxie_juliane18 (4:10:26 PM): bye
foxie_juliane18 (4:10:31 PM): asshole
ME (4:11:08 PM): FUCK OFF LITTLE *****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Where do these little *****s get off conducting a chat like that? Didn't anyone ever teach them manners?
I've had some that have asked me to send them money also. I used to try to make an excuse to them for why I didn't have enough money to do that. Now I just tell them "NO!" If they keep on asking, I simply delete them from my friends list, and add them to the ignore list.
I know there are many good women to be found in the Philippines. Unfortunately the ones like this tend to give all the rest a very bad reputation among people that don't know any better.
HW
Oh, and before I forget, Happy New Year!!!!!!! Now let's all go find some pussy!!!!! :D
Puerto La Cruz
01-01-09, 15:25
I just had a mother come online who apparently got her daughter's ID and password asking me how often I chat with her daugher, what we talk about and whether we have "open" discussions. The old battle ax even wanted to see me on cam. Told her I was in my office and did not have cam there.
Vibrations
01-01-09, 15:42
I just had a mother come online who apparently got her daughter's ID and password asking me how often I chat with her daugher, what we talk about and whether we have "open" discussions. The old battle ax even wanted to see me on cam. Told her I was in my office and did not have cam there.If the mother is hot like the daughter. Go for a threesome! : P maybe the old battle ax is just jealous. Haha
I just finished one of the worst YM sessions I have ever had......I've had some that have asked me to send them money also. I used to try to make an excuse to them for why I didn't have enough money to do that. Now I just tell them "NO!" If they keep on asking, I simply delete them from my friends list, and add them to the ignore list.
I know there are many good women to be found in the Philippines. Unfortunately the ones like this tend to give all the rest a very bad reputation among people that don't know any better.
HW
Oh, and before I forget, Happy New Year!!!!!!! Now let's all go find some pussy!!!!! :D
Honestly, with all respect for all human beings from those as us who pays to enjoy sex with a nice girl, to a nice girl that sells her body to make ends meet, I would not bother much into extending the conversation as you did.
probabloy the first lines would have been the signal to cut it off and call it a day.
Not worth the hassle.
Whatever the reasons she had to behave like that.
It is true politeness can't be bought at the local market, but this means it is also free.
If she does not have it, no money will buy it.
No reason to ask why there are girls asking for money, why there are girls behaving liket this.
It is a 0.0001% of the world population.... make a living out of it and progress to the next more reasonable beauty.
I have just posted some chat and show pics (see my posting below) from a few of my chat mates who promise me a very happy time when we meet in the New Year.
One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:
Hi loverboy,
Im Funny, have sense of humor and im open minded too..
Aside from that im willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but Im sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here.. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons]
Im easy to talk and little bit hot.... in bed.. hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it..[clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench]
You ask me if we can be together.. For me theres no impossible if we want it.. Hope to hear from you soon..
Your hot babe
Daisy
Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. It kept me busy for a while using SnapIt screen captures! (see two pics attached) I never had someone do that before on a first cam chat. Too good to be true? Probably. A few days later I received this email:
Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and im worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me.
I know its not good im asking help to you bcoz you dont know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but im doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But i will understand that. Im just try to ask help to you. Im just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in china cant help my problem. I know its my obligation. But im still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me i will give you my address.
(address given)
Im just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now.
This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money. I have had a few situations where obvious cam girls want to show it all but “send me money so I can buy a cam”. They get the “delete” treatment.
After one or two previously hard-learnt experiences of being well conned (exceeded by many fine examples reported by others on this web site) I now have a policy of ignoring/deleting all requests for money and hard-up stories. And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.
KongKing
The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.
I rarely get requests like that. Do you have your IM address in your profile, so that anyone can IM you without you screening them?
Normally after I ask them them "how are you" if they answer anything other than good, fine, ect., I politely tell them I have to get back to work because I know a long, boring story it about to be told to me, followed by a money request.
CB is very good in screening out the scamers, but you have to pay for the service and it takes longer to exchange IM information.
Stroker Ace88
01-01-09, 22:46
The last eight women in a row that have come on my screen have asked me for money. In response, I have been overtly rude. Has this now become the national industry? Almost all of them were met through FH.Puerto La Cruz,
I have been on FH for the last 5 months, chatted with around one hundred girls from FH with only one outright request for money. She only asked me for cash once I added her to my YM and she gave some form sob-story and I told her that I did not have a credit card. She then asked me to Western Union her the cash, LOL. I told her I could mail it instead and she was all too happy to provide me with an address in Cebu. She asked when I would send the cash. I told her that I would send it soon and that it would depend on the Postal System when the package would arrive. Of course I never sent the money and deleted her from both my FH and YM. I know, I know, bad StrokerAce but this grasshopper has been well schooled by lurking on ISG for awhile and soaking in alot of wisdom passed down from the many members that have been so kind to enlighten the masses.
I have however come across a few working cam girls that had pics on FH that looked too good to be true, very professional lifted pics (just my guess). A few sob chats with girls that mentioned any one of these lines, "my mom is sick, my sister is sick, my dog is sick, my wallet is very sick". LOL. Well you get the point, but they never actually asked for cash, which I considered odd.
But all-in-all a pretty tame and rewarding experience on FH. I did however put several disclaimers in my profile like "No pic=no chat, no women over 35, no ladyboys". That seems to have kept away the scammers.
I do however have a question.
I have had a few requests for "chocolates" when I visit, so this has me scratching my head. What kind of chocolates are they talking about? To me here in North America chocolates are something that comes in a box and has alot of small chocolates inside, but awhile back I remember reading on ISG a few posts about bars of chocolate the PI girls preferred more.
Can someone clear this up and tell me what the chocolate situation is like in the PI? I will be in Bangkok before my trip to the PI in late January and I was just going to pick up a couple of boxes in Bangkok for a few of my favorite FH girls that I will meet, or can I buy the chocolates in the PI and save myself some weight in my bags? Brands and-or bars versus boxes would be good to know.
Thanks
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Stroker Ace88
01-01-09, 23:20
I just had a mother come online who apparently got her daughter's ID and password asking me how often I chat with her daugher, what we talk about and whether we have "open" discussions. The old battle ax even wanted to see me on cam. Told her I was in my office and did not have cam there.Puerto La Cruz,
I had a very simillar thing happen to me on FH a few months back.
In my profile I state that I am looking for a GF only when I visit the PI and one day this cute young girl I will call "R" Pm's me on FH looking to chat. I accept her invite and we start to chat. I ask her if she has read my profile and she says no. (Why is it that it seems all the girls do not even bother to read the profiles, sad really but I digress).
She goes off and reads my profile while I wait. R comes back and we continue chatting and I ask her if she was ok with what she read on my profile and if she understood that I was only looking for a GF. R says she is ok and we continue to chat for the next 15 minutes or so then I tell her I have to go. We say goodbye and that was that, or so I thought.
R sends me 4 or 5 emails on FH within the preceding 24 hours each one more excited than the previous one. They all contain things like, "I told my parents about you, they are so happy", "My parents can't wait to meet you", "My mom wants you to come stay at our house when you visit".
It took me a few minutes to put together that she thought I had asked her to become my GF. Which I did not, but I can see how things might have been confusing to her.
I sent her an email in which I clearly stated that we were not BF-GF and that she seemed nice but for her not to get the wrong idea.
A few days later I saw that she was on FH once again and Pm'ed her to explain the mess, but I was shocked by the response. It seems R gave her Mom the ID and password to her FH profile so that her Mom could respond to emails while R was at school. WOW, this I did not expect. So I chatted with her mom and she seemed nice and unphased by the fact her 19yr old daughter was chatting with men twice her age. I thanked her for the offer for me to stay at her house and then she informed me she would tell R that I had something to talk with her about.
I chatted with R that same day and everything got straightened out, but it kind of freaked me out somewhat.
A few days later we chatted again and R accepted the offer to join my YM and R happened to be in a cafe so she turned on the cam and the first thing I see is R, and her Mom standing beside her. Her mom seemed to be telling R what to say and what to do and I just could not help but feel strange.
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Darth Sushi
01-02-09, 01:15
WOW, that's quite a setup she crafted, Kong. When I hear the hospital payment request, I'll usually mess with their heads by telling them I'll wire the money directly to the hospital. Usually, they'll suffer a two second whiplash thinking the money is going to the wrong hands :D then the BS really starts piling up requiring hip-waders.
The Voyager
01-02-09, 01:53
And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.
KongKingThis is a scam at 99% probability, she got you hooked and now tries to milk you ....
Actually, if i was you, I'd like to see her anyway to milk her and suck on her VERY NICE tits ;)
Member #4491
01-03-09, 00:08
. But hardly worth the 5000 she is asking for a peak. But if shes a ho on the cam she might as well be a ho for real so give her the old stall stories and then let it amount to "well, I'll just give it to you in two weeks when we meet" next time you head down to your old hunting grounds.
Love that one about wiring directly to the hospital. Got to use that one. :.D I frequently wind the girls up.computers getting trapped in customs. Money transfers bouncing. Mobile phones disappearing. The stupidity of my stories about why those precious gifts never arrives are only challenged by the air heads believing them.
But I also fell in the trap once. The most stupid thing I did was to send a girl 5000 peso for 5 fucks. The real reason was her tuition but my condition was 5000 if she "visit" me 5 times before school. I met her three times on various occasions prior to this transfer but either I had company or was going to some place. She is indeed pretty, and she is indeed a first class bullshitter. I don't think I will ever cash in on that promise, but I guess I'll find out in some weeks. If I am lucky this little sweet girl will consider me her "only true love" that week and spread her little tight pretty fanny for me. If not, I can stop waisting my precious hours in Davao hunting for something I will never get. I already wasted enough hours on her, but it's like she put a spell on my little head. Her latest act is that she rubs her tummy and says "aiaiaiai honey, I am so hungry. Please can you help me with some food". She is the worst actress. I told her that she will never win an Oscar on that. "More passion baby. More emotions, and someone might believe you". And I naturally also response "Yea sure baby, just go to my buddy X and he will feed you on my tab. ".
This money begging is a part of some wealth redistribution plan we are part of.
Some guys give frequently. Makes them feel like a man. Like a provider. The hunter that return with todays prey. Sad loosers in my opinion.
Id rather the go to asianbabecams.com and have some cutie push a rubber dildo up her fanny. Or just save the money.
Kong, do report on the outcome of this dramatic event. You are actually suddenly in the middle of saving a childs life here.
All the best from Barba!
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GoodEnough
01-03-09, 02:51
I suppose that each of us must make an individual decision about whether or not to send money, which will depend, on a large extent, to the credibility of the stories told and perhaps on whether one has actually spent time here. Chatting on FH or DIA or other sites is no longer a concern of mine, but when it was, my rule was never, under any circumstances to send money and to assume that all stories were fabrications at worst or at best exaggerations. This is probably overly harsh, since some of the sad tales are probably true. But I guess I've witnessed too much since I've been here, and I now realize that, for many girls, scamming foreigners is a true art form. The practice is so prevalent that for me, it would be impossible to distill the truth from the larger universe of fiction, so I would choose not to believe any of it.
GE
Chocolate Chip
01-03-09, 04:01
One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:
Hi loverboy,
I'm Funny, have sense of humor and I'm open minded too.
Aside from that I'm willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but I'm sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons] I'm easy to talk and little bit hot. In bed. Hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it. [clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench
You ask me if we can be together. For me theres no impossible if we want it. Hope to hear from you soon.
Your hot babe
Daisy Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. A few days later I received this email:
Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and I'm worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me. I know its not good I'm asking help to you bcoz you don't know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but I'm doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But I will understand that. I'm just try to ask help to you. I'm just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in China can't help my problem. I know its my obligation. But I'm still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me I will give you my address.
(address given)
I'm just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now.
This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money.
KongKingI could be wrong, but those tits look like they may be implants (perhaps a tit expert can weigh in). If so, this would likely make her a pro and explain why she was so forward.
Am a serial player, by my own confession and seem to find great girls whom I never spend much on, but they still seem happy to meet me regularly.
Lifes good!Yeah FF you are not alone, i have many experiences like that. Over on the AC board I just finished readig the umpteenth story about runners. I've never had a runner. The last BF I had in AC would not take a tip in the morning & happy to repeat for 3 more days also with no tip.
I have regular GF's same deal, dont bleed me for money. Only occasional hint about needs.
Im sure there are many guys like us.
Cheers
AV
The whole concept of "utang na loob" is, as far as I'm concerned, a bunch of pap fed by parents to children to ensure that the parents will be taken care of in their old age--the more kids, the more economic security for the parents and the less they'll have to exert themselves. Funny that the parents seem to have no reciprocal obligations to the kids regarding education, decent nutrition or much of anything else.
GEMy god you are so right GE.
I tell you a little story. A few months ago my asawa got into an argument with me over money (at this point she had no evidence of sexual wrong doing on m part mind you). Any way to cut a long story short she incorrectly calculated that she could be boss & blackmail me into unwise financial decisions. When I called her bluff & let her know that when push comes to shove I have the final say on finances. Her response was to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off & disappear. She took my little boy with her which was very hurtful.
I got angry calls from cousins & after explaining what happened, they quickly sided with me & became to angry at her.
When I talked with them it was clear that their number one concern was loss of children <=> loss of provider in your dotage. That was their big concern.. nothing else came close.
As a side note, shortly after her disappearing act it became clear she had swiped my cell phone, got it unlocked by someone & was busy trying to get everybody upset about my suspected romantic liaisons. By this time it was an irrelevant distraction & I had changed the locks & told her to don't come back. I have learned from past bad experiences that there is no way in hell any woman, let alone a pinay, is getting their hands directly on my meager wealth.
AV
in the RP, and I fail to understand how the guys end up with the scammers.
OK - a few has asked me for gifts and money, especially now that it is Christmas, but overall - I dont find this as a problem.
During my, about 15 years, visits to the country I have mainly good memories from being with the ladies that love sex and cuddling more than any other ladies on this planet.Unfortunately vaccination confers only partial immunity M. :)
I've only been around the PI for 3 1/2 years and during that time I've avoided all but the most well concealed traps. An occasional loss of a few pesos here and there i take in my stride. Nobody can have perfect x-ray vision of people here but most scams are obvious.
Guys sending money to unmet people from internet chats are total fools.
Guys sending money to GF's have to be very very careful & ultimately, just like marriage, be prepared to take a loss on their investment sometimes.
AV
You gents are correct. Sending money to unmet girls is dumb. There are so many guys who do it. I've had such good experiences with some girls. I've had girls in both RP and Indonesia who would never let me send money. Maybe they have a job, maybe not, but they feel cheapened by a man sending money (*****-ish). On the other hand, you find out a few days before your trip to visit with your woman that she's been scamming multiple other men.... you see the range. From human trash to humanity.
Yeah FF you are not alone, i have many experiences like that. Over on the AC board I just finished readig the umpteenth story about runners. I've never had a runner. The last BF I had in AC would not take a tip in the morning & happy to repeat for 3 more days also with no tip.
I have regular GF's same deal, dont bleed me for money. Only occasional hint about needs.
Im sure there are many guys like us.
Cheers
AV
If you read these boards apparently not…What type of cologne are you and Freebie wearing? :D
My god you are so right GE.
I tell you a little story. A few months ago my asawa got into an argument with me over money (at this point she had no evidence of sexual wrong doing on m part mind you). Any way to cut a long story short she incorrectly calculated that she could be boss & blackmail me into unwise financial decisions. When I called her bluff & let her know that when push comes to shove I have the final say on finances. Her response was to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off & disappear. She took my little boy with her which was very hurtful. AV
Sorry about your wife man my American wife took off damn near 3 years ago for reasons I still don’t know... I escaped with all my Warbucks one reason we didn’t have any rug-rats but man I know what it feels like… my condolences
my guess is that she's preggie, and that ample bosom has a lot of milk in it.
sidenote: recently barfined a lady with a SIX yr old kid and she suggested breastmilk. Huh? I clarified things since I suspected a six month old, but that was not the case. She had some baby sag, but at 4 10, she was a little sprite of a thing. She did have milk -- she squeezed out a few drops.
I thanked her for her calcium contribution, but over a decade ago the mother of my child was a happy contributer. Been there done that.
KK, have you seen any recent breast photos? I wonder if the grandmother is still milking those big tits for Pesos...depriving the kid of some very good nourishment.
X
I have just posted some chat and show pics (see my posting below) from a few of my chat mates who promise me a very happy time when we meet in the New Year.
One I am less certain about. I will call her Daisy from Davao, a 23 year old mother. She initiated a DateInAsia chat which led to a sharing of our Yahoo addresses. But before we had our first cam chat (I always like to see them on cam) I received this email:
Hi loverboy,
Im Funny, have sense of humor and im open minded too..
Aside from that im willing to be your lover and we having a lots of fun. Theres a lot of tourist spots here in davao city a lots of beaches and mountains you can see, but Im sure if you are with me, you will like to explore me than those tourist spots here.. [inserted at this point a few tongue hanging out and wink-wink icons]
Im easy to talk and little bit hot.... in bed.. hehehe
This is my latest picture. I hope you will like to lick it..[clothed pic of her sitting on a park bench]
You ask me if we can be together.. For me theres no impossible if we want it.. Hope to hear from you soon..
Your hot babe
Daisy
Of course I gave a sufficiently encouraging response which led to our first cam Yahoo chat in which, more or less unprovoked, she revealed her upper chassis and nice it was too. It kept me busy for a while using SnapIt screen captures! (see two pics attached) I never had someone do that before on a first cam chat. Too good to be true? Probably. A few days later I received this email:
Hi,
My daughter shes not fine the doctor said she have dengue fever and its very dangerous to her because her platelets very down. Shes really weak now and im worried for her. I know that we only known for each other for few days. I ask help to you for my daughter she really need white blood to transfer to her that her platelets will go back to normal. And she will not in danger and the white blood transfer to her. I really need 5000 pesos for 2 bags. Can you please help me.
I know its not good im asking help to you bcoz you dont know me very well but for me its hard also to ask help like a beggar, but im doing this for the seek of my daughter. I know you will not think not good for me. But i will understand that. Im just try to ask help to you. Im just disperate now. Bcoz my sister in china cant help my problem. I know its my obligation. But im still hoping that maybe you can help my problem. I hope you understand me. Just in case you want to help me i will give you my address.
(address given)
Im just here to send you this message. I will go back to hospital now.
This is the first time I have had a situation where she shows it for free and then subsequently seeks money. I have had a few situations where obvious cam girls want to show it all but “send me money so I can buy a cam”. They get the “delete” treatment.
After one or two previously hard-learnt experiences of being well conned (exceeded by many fine examples reported by others on this web site) I now have a policy of ignoring/deleting all requests for money and hard-up stories. And I have done that, but still have that sneaking feeling: I wonder if her story is true? Maybe if I do have a spare afternoon when next in Davao I might give her a call (I have her number) and check her out, and see if there is more chassis to be revealed.
KongKing
Green Machine
01-03-09, 17:24
It’s not the gender it’s the westerners. I don’t see Filipino men or Thai men going “goo- goo” over their own women like we do. No matter what they look like. I brought this up on the Filipina advice thread. No one responded. I wonder why? I have met Filipinas and Thai girls who in my eyes where beautiful enough to be models and they all had tales of how native guys from their respective countries fucked them and cast them aside. I think us westerners who come to third world countries with our over inflated wallets and “heads” could learn a lot from these guys.They do. We just don't get to see it because we're not in their world.
Been to Asia many times and have mongered (or tried to monger) everywhere I've traveled. The hard part many of these guys face is that they're looking for love. Looking for someone to love them. It might sound cold-hearted, but that's a recipe for disaster.
Whether in America or elsewhere, where is it normal that a nineteen year old girl will fall in love with a sixty year old guy. From a different culture? Regardless of where you are, it just doesn't happen. Sure, the girl will tell you she loves you, but do you really believe it? I know you want to, but don't.
Over the years, I've run into all these types of girls. One girl in Nicaragua that had a fiancee told me that her birthday passed but she's open to late gifts. Sure, I'll give you a gift, but I expect you to toss my salad first.
I'll give a girl gifts, I'll give her money. But she better look good to me and deep throat my cock before fucking her. That's the exchange. That's the game. And it's actually true whether you're mongering or dating in real life.
I'm sorry to hear you got burned, but remember that all of this is a game. You spent some money. You even got scammed a little. But I presume you fucked the shit out of a girl many years younger than you. That's pretty good in my book.
James In Japan
01-04-09, 00:33
Hello All- I have a question about online sites and the various quality/quantity available on them. I joined DIA about a month ago and although I'm over 2000 emails received, I've yet to find a single person worth talking to. Most seem to be either under 18 or lady boys.
Last summer, before my first trip to PI, I was on a pay site that I won't name and the quality there was above average. I eventually started talking to a 21 yo Manila girl, who I eventually met. This girl would have easily been a 10 in any western country. Had a job, spoke great non-accented English, and never asked me for a cent.
SO my question, is it just the free sites that have the lower quality offerings? Or have I just got lucky elsewhere?
If you read these boards apparently not…What type of cologne are you and Freebie wearing? :DIm all seriousness DW, i dont know about FF, but it doesnt hurt to be on the young side of 50, trim physique & have a good personality.
Personality is the big thing with flips. They detest type 'A' personalities. No matter how successful and driven u may be its best to be laid back, friendly & warm. I find it easy to engage flip chicks. Some guys dont have the knack.. The one complaint i hear most often from chicks here is 'arrogant'.
Dont get me wrong i've had plenty leeches try to attach themselves to me.
I toss them & keep the good ones.
We must never ever forget that the reason we are blessed with abundant nubile girlfriends is because we have <MONEY>
Sorry about your wife man my American wife took off damn near 3 years ago for reasons I still don’t know... I escaped with all my Warbucks one reason we didn’t have any rug-rats but man I know what it feels like… my condolencesYeah thanks man. Its never easy. But I went in with my eyes open. I have a lovely 19 year old GF who disracts me from thinkin about things too deeply.
AV
Amavida? Flips?
Thank you for showing what a low life bigot you are.
x
FreebieFan
01-05-09, 11:52
Actually Daddy makes an interesting if unintended point. Rules for picking up ladies in Manila (20 years of doing it)
1. Be clean and neat with personal grooming. Unshaven unkempt don't work.
2. Smell good. Nothing overpowering. Simple Nivea spray works well.
3. Wear good shoes. Not rubber shoes or sandals.
4. Offer to buy the girl coffee/beer whatever. Don't look cheap. But never talk about how much money you got.
5. Be humble. If a gal asks if your rich never for numerous reasons answer yes. Me. I state that I work hard, 12 hours a day and have done so for many many years.
The "hard worker" tag is a clear impresser. Many will say. Ah then its your money, you deserve it, you don't have to spend it on me.
6. Make random acts of kindness. One gal loves me to buy her books. One is so impressed if I give her an old CD that I would otherwise throw away.
Gave one a disposable camera. Panties down 5 minutes later. Its not cash that works. Its the fact you show you pretend to care.
7. Send sms or email when least expected. A Filipina likes to know shes respected. And an sms from a guy in a foreign country remembering her birthday (I don't live in Phils, but visit often) goes a long way.
8. If your chatting, don't get naked or offer to get naked. Let her get interested first. All girls complain that so many guys want to just show off their "meat and potatoes". Be different. Its surpising how many I score with as I treat them respectfully on line. Till they get interested. Then if they ask for a little flesh, its come from them. Not imposed on them by me.
Any guy who wants to show how important he is. Will not go far. After all. This is a country full of politicians and other hangers on who all love to show how important they are. Remember the golf fight and the mayor who said " don't you know who I am". Enough said.
Show them a good reason to remember you. And they will. I'm never short of new ones or old ones by following the above listed principles.
Oh and I'm the wrong side of 50, have a nice smile, reasonable physique. And never stingy.
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Starchild2012
01-05-09, 19:10
Actually Daddy makes an interesting if unintended point. Rules for picking up ladies in Manila (20 years of doing it)
5. Be humble. If a gal asks if your rich never for numerous reasons answer yes. Me. I state that I work hard, 12 hours a day and have done so for many many years.
The "hard worker" tag is a clear impresser. Many will say. Ah then its your money, you deserve it, you don't have to spend it on me.
I agree and experienced the point 5...all points you mentioned are like bible codes for hunting down a filipina ..very true
On the other hand...i have experienced that getting rid of a filipina after been too nice is a double edge sword with a cynide tip... :)
you just cant get rid of a filipina ..i have not found a way other than offering her money, she breaking few objects or bucket load of crying, crying crying and me feeling guilty for rest of my life.
The lines like " i need space", "we need a break to see where our life is going etc" western excuses does not seem to work.
Even been nice to a bar girl, is like taking her for ever. after an year, im still getting mails from bar girls, saying i made her pregnant and its in 10's
I had nightmares thinking about it...we know its a scam...but still getting rid of a regular girl after one night of fun is a mystery to me...once you take a bar girl from a bar, be too nice to her, be a gentleman, then you JUST CANT take another girl from the same bar..or whats the point in been too nice..its too complex.
I would be very relieved and happy to know if their is any way around this... without hurting their feelings but a nicer way to dumb them.
FreebieFan
01-06-09, 00:47
I agree and experienced the point 5...all points you mentioned are like bible codes for hunting down a filipina ..very true
On the other hand...i have experienced that getting rid of a filipina after been too nice is a double edge sword with a cynide tip... :)
you just cant get rid of a filipina ..i have not found a way other than offering her money, she breaking few objects or bucket load of crying, crying crying and me feeling guilty for rest of my life.
The lines like " i need space", "we need a break to see where our life is going etc" western excuses does not seem to work.
Even been nice to a bar girl, is like taking her for ever. after an year, im still getting mails from bar girls, saying i made her pregnant and its in 10's
I had nightmares thinking about it...we know its a scam...but still getting rid of a regular girl after one night of fun is a mystery to me...once you take a bar girl from a bar, be too nice to her, be a gentleman, then you JUST CANT take another girl from the same bar..or whats the point in been too nice..its too complex.
I would be very relieved and happy to know if their is any way around this... without hurting their feelings but a nicer way to dumb them.Here again I get lucky. They all know I don't live in Philippines so theres little way they can contact me. The big advantage of that of course is they never know when I'm there either. Then I contact the ones I want to and don't say Hi to the ones I don't. I find that this way puts me in a measure of control.
Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.
Haven't encountered too many clingers. But when I lived in Manila and faced one would always invent a business trip to somewhere far away. That seemed to quieten them down.
Starchild2012
01-06-09, 09:18
Here again I get lucky. They all know I don't live in Philippines so theres little way they can contact me. The big advantage of that of course is they never know when I'm there either. Then I contact the ones I want to and don't say Hi to the ones I don't. I find that this way puts me in a measure of control.
Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.
Haven't encountered too many clingers. But when I lived in Manila and faced one would always invent a business trip to somewhere far away. That seemed to quieten them down.
Yep i was in Cebu, which is a small place and in couple of months, people know who you are...Manila is always better to play hide and seek and im never telling anyone im here for long term stay but would go in a week and will keep two SIM cards..that should make things easier ..hehehe :)
I've come to the conclusion that some of the smarter ones know about when we (or people like us) take our vacations (Christmas?) and then give a call or send a text to guys in their phone around that time.
The first time it happened to me (a year ago) I had just reloaded my phone at the airport and bam -- this girl is calling me. It freaked me out. It happened for the third time last week.
X
Tho ocassionally when I'm in mid bonk, there will be an mis call from someone just checking if I'm in Manila. Thats always scary.
I had just reloaded my phone at the airport and bam -- this girl is calling me. It freaked me out. It happened for the third time last week.
XIt's happened to me too. I flew into the Philippines a few days earlier than I had told gf. Switched phone on in the airport to check whether or not the sim was still active. Got a missed call from her within 5 minutes. That was the beginning of a very difficult few weeks!
Hi to all,
just read some reports here. I dont want to quote each statement so I will just give my 2 cents roughly to all what was posted here the last week.
Bornloser, if you let a girl stay in your place and you like to get rid of her it will be allways drama involved. Depends on you and the girl. I prefer not to let any girl stay with me unless I really love her and that is not going to happen any time soon. I just want to screw around with pretty girls :)
If girls miscall you when you dont expect them to do so, just txt them your sim is on roam, so you can get miscalls and txt but you not in the country.
Allways WAIT for their first move. If you dont want to see them, then DONT. You a manwhxxre once you touched Philippine soil!!
To my other fellow mongers or chataddicts, please avoid the following things.
Do not get your so called chatGF ym password, sign in and sent messages to all on their ym list not to contact your "fiancee".
That happen to me last time. Guy from UK visit that girl I havent met from dia and sent me an offline with that content to stay away from his fiancee and also not to txt her , because he holds her cellphone.
Actually I had no interest to meet her..she is to far..Alabang area..Im in Manila and I hate traffic.
Now, I consider to bang her, because of this guy who thinks boinking a girl for 10 days in the Philippines makes him to own her and sent angry emails to guys like me who live here :D....
BIG BIG mistake, its childish and now you can see that once you not around and out she can do whatever she want to do and she can meet up and bang who ever she wants, so dont do this, be cool, be matured, get a life or settle here in the Philippines.
Yesterday I did the "search" again on dia and laughed about one profile. I know the girl, she has a baby allready and lives with her pinoy boyfriend and now is "looking for a serious guy to be with " She aint a scammer, but people can change, specially if money is tight. So beware! If you here and have your fun its ok. If your out of the country, beware!!
I once talked to a girl from dia on yahoo. She told me her bf went back to the USA and she is working now on a "fiancee visa" to go and visit him. She works in bank, so nonbargirl. I told her its difficult to get such visa and it takes some time, so why not meet up since Im in Ermita next week....hehehehe...She says ok, no sex, drinks only...:D Of course, I dont want sex with a young hot girl like you, Im happy if we can have just a softdrink (yeah right)
Enjoy your stay in the Philippines, dont send any money to girls you never meet up in person, because this is VERY STUPID!!! Aside from that you will ruin the buyers market here, if the pros get money that easy, no need to provide the real thing, di ba?
Happy holidays , weather is fantastic here, cool, cloudy , but cool as in cool.
Blink
Blink and spoook, thanks for the post
Hi to all,
its weekend, so Im heading to AC first thing in the morning. Going to meet up with one girl I know from acm, maybe another from dateinasia..and surely with some girl from Dollhouse who also post her profile in DIA. Thats going to be very funny.
Aside from that my regular txt me she lost her cp and back to work again, cause she also lost her money, hehehehe...yeah right. Can get the girl out of the bar, but not the bar out of the girl. But, she is a funny one, so I will keep her.
Just talked a girl from Dia on ym. She showed me her cam. I wasnt quite sure if she was a girl or TS, but I think she was girl. some kid was running around in the cafe and I saw an elder lady sitting in the back. I think her mom. She wasnt only talking to me, so I told her its ok you talk to other guys. I wont get jellous (why should I? I live here) Then she says to me that I should shut up, or maybe some other person typed that, cause she only show half of her face. I just told her I delete her from my list, no need to talk to bxxxes.
So, this is how it work guys. Remember, if you not around they do what they want to do and they talk or meet whoever they want to meet.
Hope I can do some nice fotos tomorow. I will post them in the apropiate section.
Happy weekend
Blink
Blink, this looks like a classic case of the pot calling the kettle black.
When viewed in the context of your plans to scruff a number of women this weekend, your comment about the women playing around looks more than a little hypocritical.
Darcnite14
01-10-09, 20:55
I have said many times that these girls are learning from us. Many girls tell me that the first thing men ask them is can they have sex with them, can they pay them, do they need anything. We are suppose to be the hunters, but these women are no longer fish in a barrell. It is actually some very good women on these sites, but we ruin them with our monger spirit. Sure they want money, sure we want sex. Sure they want sugar daddies, sure we want trophies. Guys I love to monger, but I really don't think I am a typical monger, because most of my action is free, but I do 1 thing a little differrent then what I read on the post here. I tell each girl that I meet that I insist that she is bi or bi curious. I do not lie to them. I treat them with respect but I let them know that I am here to play, if it becomes more then so be it, but if it doesn't, then that is the way it is. I can not believe the amout guys that lie so much to these girls and get upset when you find out that you have been lied too. Guys we are hunters, if we do not do the best job, then we become the hunted. Get your game right or sit on the sideline.
FreebieFan
01-12-09, 03:26
I have said many times that these girls are learning from us. Many girls tell me that the first thing men ask them is can they have sex with them, can they pay them, do they need anything. We are suppose to be the hunters, but these women are no longer fish in a barrell. It is actually some very good women on these sites, but we ruin them with our monger spirit. Sure they want money, sure we want sex. Sure they want sugar daddies, sure we want trophies. Guys I love to monger, but I really don't think I am a typical monger, because most of my action is free, but I do 1 thing a little differrent then what I read on the post here. I tell each girl that I meet that I insist that she is bi or bi curious. I do not lie to them. I treat them with respect but I let them know that I am here to play, if it becomes more then so be it, but if it doesn't, then that is the way it is. I can not believe the amout guys that lie so much to these girls and get upset when you find out that you have been lied too. Guys we are hunters, if we do not do the best job, then we become the hunted. Get your game right or sit on the sideline.Actually I love it when guys treat girls with lies and the overtly sexual approach.
Sure makes my "game" of winning/bedding these girls with trust, respect and good treatment sooo much easier.
I love to hear that guys are forever flashing their dicks at girls on YM.. makes my approach so much more winnable, and rewarding.
Damn.. suddenly all guys will become respectful ..there wont be any spare girls. lol. Yeah.. and it will snow in Saudi Arabia too.
Darcnite14
01-12-09, 15:11
I hear your words, and have no complaint to your ways. Your way and my way is different and I still "Ain't" mad at yah. You get yours what ever way that get your rocks off. I will do the same. I just have a stupid habit of treating people like people, no matter if I have paid them for their services or not. My statement was in response to the guys that say they must think of lies and excuses to get away from certain girls, My advice, "OPINION", is to tell them that you have other plans, if they can not deal with that, then the proper foundation was not implemented. What is so bad to say, I am here to party? I have talked to other girls and I hope you can be a part of that. If she says no, then how many other of the thousands would agree with no problem. That is my approach. You do it your way, and I will continue mine.
Blink, this looks like a classic case of the pot calling the kettle black.
When viewed in the context of your plans to scruff a number of women this weekend, your comment about the women playing around looks more than a little hypocritical.
Hi,
actually I just meet one girl. She showed up in a mini skirt and had a nice attitude. When boinking her she showed me a picture of her UK bf. Im sure he is sending her money, she didnt ask any money from me.
She received txt all the time and Im not that kind of guy snatching her cp and inform all of her contacts that Im now her BF LOL. If those guys are happy when sending her money Im fine with this. Here we allrady discussed it many times not to support a gurl you have never meet in person or send her money after you back to your country.
She wouldnt love you more if you send her, neither she will be more faithfull to you.
FF has a certain kind of humor, like me, but Im sure he treats the girls with respect like I do. If your an ass...le and belive me I met a lot of expat or long timer as..les in the Philippines you just get hookers or girls who will scam you right away. You wont get any decent girl. Filipinas have also their pride and they not stupid at all.
I treat them nice but I make it clear Im single as in single. I think its better this way as if Im married to some cow in the west and enjoy my 2 weeks holiday in the Philippines boinking young girls and make them belive Im actually in love to them and heading back to my wife but BEFORE screwing her make sure I didnt catch any STD from my little sexuel adventures in the Philippines.
Oh well, gotta go now, work is over and I like to date some mallgirls for a change.
Happy hunting and b carefull to whom you send money
Blink
PS sorry for my english I didnt run the spellcheck properly cause Im in a hurry to meet some new girl :))
In other words, be honest and tell them that the foundation is on quicksand.
Just remember, Filipino quicksand sucks more than any quicksand I've run into.
Pun may or may not be intended.
X
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Im sure he is sending her money, she didnt ask any money from me.
She received txt all the time and Im not that kind of guy snatching her cp and inform all of her contacts that Im now her BF LOL. If those guys are happy when sending her money Im fine with this.
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I am so glad Blink brought this up before I had chimed in. I have been thinking about this for some time now, and even though I don't live in Phils, I agree with Blink.
I have a steady GF in Angeles who I see about every two months or so. She is cool and lets me monger on Fields/BKK/Manila when I feel the itch. She tells me she loves me and is happy being #2 in my life. She knows I will never be with only one girl, but she is happy to spend time with me when I visit her. We have gone on some very good vacations together and generally enjoy each others' company and sex. I don't know if the #2 thing is bullshit or not and she is hoping for better (me exclusively).
There was a series of reports on ISG from a guy recently who found out his girl was scamming about 10 guys online, but never him. He wanted to marry her, but then found out her scheme. He promptly broke it off and sent the other guys the txt of her activities. My thought was like, "so what".
It would be one thing if she was scamming him also, but he reported she never asked him for money; only the other guys who never met her in person. Now, it would be one thing if they got married and she kept scamming after her Maslow’s’ hierarchy of needs were met, but she was doing what she thought she needed to survive. Hey, if the money is out there then why not take it? We westerners do not need it because we have jobs, but what if we were in their shoes?
The very first time I was in AC, I had two girls from the Vodoo lounge in my room the morning after, and CP's were ringing off the hook. The girls looked at me and were like, "oh sorry, do you want us to go outside?" I just said, "Hey baby, I'm not here to fuck your shit up. Go on and do what you got to do." I then proceded to watch TV and listen to all the "I love you babyko's" and "I'm at home babyko" bullshit for the next half hour. When they were done, it was back to work on round three with both of them on my titi.
I know my GF has some sponsors, cause the last time I saw her she has some serious bling on. 24 carat shit that I know I did not pay for. Did not bother me at all. If some dude that she never met wants to send her money, go ahead brother, keep her off my back. Of course I spend money on her when I am there, but I basically have to stuff money in her pocket to do it. I don't mind the shopping trip to SM every now and then either. Mostly she just wants to fuck and spend time with me, doing what ever I want to do.
When you guys are in Hawaii and go deep sea fishing and catch the big Marlin or Ahi, you have a good time and tip the captain at the end of the day. But do you continue to send him money after you go home to South Dakota and show off all your fishing photos? Of course not. In my mind it is the same thing, only you are not cuming in the captains mouth. hehe Why should the Phils be any different? If you don't live there you are a tourist.
Another forum member wrote, "guys, get off your ass and visit the phils before you send any money". My sentiments exactly. Then if you want to continue to send money, just write it off on your taxes like you were giving to Unicef or some bullshit.
Darcnite14
01-13-09, 16:44
I agree with you both. I have basically the same hook up. I have 2 main girls in the Phils. They both understand that i am single but they just want to spend time with me. I care for them both but not to the point of being a wife. I always have more then enough sex when i am there and have even had the 2 of them together. I treat them nice and do the "little" shopping trips when i am there but never have been asked for money from either. Now the good part is that, they have also requested that we go bar hopping and at times they have chosen P4P to join us for nightly activities. They also have many gf that dont cost me anything. "I feel so Used and Cheap" when they do this to me but i swallow my pride and suck it up for the home team. My point is that i always tell any girl that i meet, my true intentions. I have never had a stalker and have never had to make an excuse to be away from them.
Carmex, i also see the bling and the calls. If i do not have a ring on their finger, i can not knock them for playing the game.
X, correct, the foundation is on super quicksand, the important fact is to be aware of this so you know where to step.
My motto is:" I am positive that is will always be some left for me when I get there, you can't use it all up"
D14
Hi,
I just shut my balcony door. Its kinda cold outside. Must be 20 celsius or so in Manila :)). Reading the post and I fully agree .
Just watched a nice movie. Gran Tourino, downloaded that, sorry Clint, Im sure you ok with this, Im a big fan of you and watched most of your movies either in the cinema or on VHS or DVD.
Back to the topic. I once wachted a Thai/french movie and one sentence is still in my mind and in my head.
"Your on holiday with me, but Im not on holiday with you" you guys should allways keep that in your mind. You come to the Philippines to spend some time with gourgeous young girls. Once you leave the country what you expect them to do? Wait for you to return and have "great sex with you" LOL.
Be cool, be polite. Flow with the river. Dont lose face, smile back. Be a gentleman and dont act like a 14 year old kid.
Good night evrybody
Blink
Once you leave the country what you expect them to do? Wait for you to return and have "great sex with you" LOL.
Blink
It depends on the lady Blink. Some Filipinas/women wait like hell while their husbands or boyfriends are overseas on business. What about all the Filipino men working overseas surely all of their women are not fucking around. Depends on if she is a **** or not.
Blink in 2 ½ weeks be expecting a text message from me I still got your number last time you were on the mother ship so we couldn’t hook up. The American and German connection better than the original NATO.
North Atlantic Tricks Organization :D
Take it sleazy
It depends on the lady Blink. Some Filipinas/women wait like hell while their husbands or boyfriends are overseas on business. What about all the Filipino men working overseas surely all of their women are not fucking around. Depends on if she is a **** or not.
Blink in 2 ½ weeks be expecting a text message from me I still got your number last time you were on the mother ship so we couldn’t hook up. The American and German connection better than the original NATO.
North Atlantic Tricks Organization :D
Take it sleazy
Pinay, will cheat on you and string you along like anyone else would. How many times on this forum have we heard of stories that some guy was shagging another guy's lady. If anything filipina are more likely to do so. Once they have a bf that doesn't mean they aren't going to grab something better if it comes on by.
Back to chat friends.
DIAsia is a free site and I've used it, got laid, but feel something is very different from my paid subscription to Cherry Bl.
Below is just one example of several messages I got where the lady was surprised that I knew her location. Duh, it's on your profile. But after three times I have to suspect that these ladies aren't always the ones who post the profile.
WHo knows?
ha ha ha, only small restaurant and no name. if i have more capital i can open a very big restaurant i accept catering, thats my ambition in my life. but now only my small business fashion jewelry. u know what balut? y you that im in iligan City.
Phils are the inventor of the Trade up. They are your # 1 until a better #1 comes along and of course we are no better.
I have spent 13 of the last 20 weeks inthe Phils, met and chatted literaly 100 women, have 25 friends and another 50 aquitances, fucked 10 of them very very well and met another 200 or so due to my business. They just want to get ahead and some wil go to amazingly lengths to do so.
If you want to meet a nice lady there are hundreds of thousands but here are the rules.
1. If she is a single mom with no job, immeidately dump her or simply use her. 25% of these women I can have naked on a webcam in 2 hours or less. They are what I call low class *****s. Kings of the soft sell and they will make you wnat to give them money, FUCK THEM.
2. She needs a job or two, 95% of the women working 2 jobs are dateable and futurable, they know how to work, they know they need to work, these are good women.
3. If you are planning to meet one and she will tkae a cab from further thna 20 minutes away, say no thank you. Every Phils rides a bus, jeepney or Trike. A cab is for the rich, I had one chick spend 1200 pesos on a cab I paid of course, my loss my lessons, never again, nice body, never even touched her and she talked a good game.
4. Watch how they are willing to spend your money, it they are free with your money even only in discussions lose them ASAP, they are low class *****s. If they have no respect for their are you money theyy are not worht your time.
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
6. The upper class women seem to be the worst cunts I have ever met, treat every one poorly and think they deserve it, fuck them llleave them to those nasty Pinoy men now there is a group of cocksuckers if you have ever met one, hilariuos.
Every Pinoy Man I met except 3 fucks arounds and does it with no class and I am tlaking lawyers to Business owners, upper class guys, the regular or low class guys drink and hit!
I gave alot of lessons last trip, I negotiated with about 7 women for a Xmas weekend in Bohol, they all wanted to much in some way and they were all "normal" girls I was of course prepeared to pay for everything I just don't like being expected to pay for weeverything and a whole lot more and all were normal working girls.
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
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FreebieFan
01-27-09, 07:32
Phils are the inventor of the Trade up. They are your # 1 until a better #1 comes along and of course we are no better.
I have spent 13 of the last 20 weeks inthe Phils, met and chatted literaly 100 women, have 25 friends and another 50 aquitances, fucked 10 of them very very well and met another 200 or so due to my business. They just want to get ahead and some wil go to amazingly lengths to do so.
If you want to meet a nice lady there are hundreds of thousands but here are the rules.
1. If she is a single mom with no job, immeidately dump her or simply use her. 25% of these women I can have naked on a webcam in 2 hours or less. They are what I call low class *****s. Kings of the soft sell and they will make you wnat to give them money, FUCK THEM.
2. She needs a job or two, 95% of the women working 2 jobs are dateable and futurable, they know how to work, they know they need to work, these are good women.
3. If you are planning to meet one and she will tkae a cab from further thna 20 minutes away, say no thank you. Every Phils rides a bus, jeepney or Trike. A cab is for the rich, I had one chick spend 1200 pesos on a cab I paid of course, my loss my lessons, never again, nice body, never even touched her and she talked a good game.
4. Watch how they are willing to spend your money, it they are free with your money even only in discussions lose them ASAP, they are low class *****s. If they have no respect for their are you money theyy are not worht your time.
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
6. The upper class women seem to be the worst cunts I have ever met, treat every one poorly and think they deserve it, fuck them llleave them to those nasty Pinoy men now there is a group of cocksuckers if you have ever met one, hilariuos.
Every Pinoy Man I met except 3 fucks arounds and does it with no class and I am tlaking lawyers to Business owners, upper class guys, the regular or low class guys drink and hit!
I gave alot of lessons last trip, I negotiated with about 7 women for a Xmas weekend in Bohol, they all wanted to much in some way and they were all "normal" girls I was of course prepeared to pay for everything I just don't like being expected to pay for weeverything and a whole lot more and all were normal working girls.
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.Why do I get such a distinctly bad taste from reading this report. Well I think its probably for the simple reason that Jim here is somewhat judgemental and definately something of a snob.
Heck if the place and the people turn you off so much, try somewhere else.
Phils is pussy heaven. You just have to know how to work the system. But it seems your looking in all the wrong places if your always getting scammers.
I'm just back from a brilliant weekend in Manila. Time of my life. Not one scammer in sight. Use good judgement. But be a little less judgemental.
As we all know. Judge not lest ye be judged.
Report of distinction???
Maybe we need "report of infamy".
Did Jim chat with 100 or actually meet 100 of his chat friends? The post isn't clear and I'm not even sure why it's in the chat section.
13 weeks....oh, 91 days, and he's met over 200 for business and possibly another 100 thru chat. Quite an achievement.
X
Phils are the inventor of the Trade up. They are your # 1 until a better #1 comes along and of course we are no better.
I have spent 13 of the last 20 weeks inthe Phils, met and chatted literaly 100 women, have 25 friends and another 50 aquitances, fucked 10 of them very very well and met another 200 or so due to my business. They just want to get ahead and some wil go to amazingly lengths to do so.
If you want to meet a nice lady there are hundreds of thousands but here are the rules.
1. If she is a single mom with no job, immeidately dump her or simply use her. 25% of these women I can have naked on a webcam in 2 hours or less. They are what I call low class *****s. Kings of the soft sell and they will make you wnat to give them money, FUCK THEM.
2. She needs a job or two, 95% of the women working 2 jobs are dateable and futurable, they know how to work, they know they need to work, these are good women.
3. If you are planning to meet one and she will tkae a cab from further thna 20 minutes away, say no thank you. Every Phils rides a bus, jeepney or Trike. A cab is for the rich, I had one chick spend 1200 pesos on a cab I paid of course, my loss my lessons, never again, nice body, never even touched her and she talked a good game.
4. Watch how they are willing to spend your money, it they are free with your money even only in discussions lose them ASAP, they are low class *****s. If they have no respect for their are you money theyy are not worht your time.
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
6. The upper class women seem to be the worst cunts I have ever met, treat every one poorly and think they deserve it, fuck them llleave them to those nasty Pinoy men now there is a group of cocksuckers if you have ever met one, hilariuos.
Every Pinoy Man I met except 3 fucks arounds and does it with no class and I am tlaking lawyers to Business owners, upper class guys, the regular or low class guys drink and hit!
I gave alot of lessons last trip, I negotiated with about 7 women for a Xmas weekend in Bohol, they all wanted to much in some way and they were all "normal" girls I was of course prepeared to pay for everything I just don't like being expected to pay for weeverything and a whole lot more and all were normal working girls.
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
Hi to all,
I just read a profile in dia.
"...... love beaches,wearing my suits,together with friends..I love hang outs and i love meeting people..
Unfortunately,i work as a dealer,it just like a part time job...for my studies..
"
Hehehe....part time dealer , now that line made my day :)
Well, I go Makati later, its happy hour in Rogues and my singaporen co worker is feelin thirsty.
Have a nice day all.
Blink
Hairy Wonder
01-30-09, 23:22
5. If a woman abandons her child for you all of the time, yikes what kind of person are they really?
........
Some I will gladly date again because they declined cause they could not afford it, I loved that, the only reason I did not bring them is cause they wanted to bring their kids, I respect that it was after all Xmas. I don't want to meet your kids iuntil we are an item and there is no chance of that happening.
Just Jim
Is it just me, or did Jim contradict himself with these two statements in one post?
HW
Sorry
I am not into seperating Mother from Child for more than a few hours like every single mom deserves now and again and single dad no less. I am not into meeting children for 5 days holidays cause I am not their dad and would not sleep with a mom if her kids were aware of it.
At Xmas I gave many people cash to ensure they had a good Xmas and I assure you this had nothing to do with sex just trying to be a good person cause I had it and they did not, I spent Xmas alone asn that was fine.
Perhaps I did not make it clear I dislike being misled or lied to and have no time for women of no character.
Christmas is an important family time as is New Years so declined a couple of options.
Oh well It seems my report has hit some nerves, hmmm.
JJ
Hi to all,
greetings from another sunny day in the Philippines.
I got a message from a girl in Angeles city who I contacted on dateinasia.
She said to me that we can meet up but only for food and no sex.
I replied I will meet her up AFTER I had sex with somebody else for food, because after the deed is done Im often getting hungry.
I guess I wont hear from her anynear soon, but who knows.
Currently viewing some posts in this "other site" where they collect info about webcamgirls,diagirls, chatgirls etc an whine to each other because they send money and then found out that the girl aint serious. Of CAUSE she isnt, I mean havent we got discussed this topic here before?
Tsk, tsk, but I have to admit. Its somehow entertaining.
Happy day to all
Blink
Scout 7272
02-03-09, 02:32
For me DIA has been a lot of fun.
Had some excellent hits culminating in damn raunchy fun when I hit Manila. However there have been misses as well. Too many camgirls out to hit me for cash and ladyboys just out for god knows what.
One thing I have always made clear in my profile is my interest in fun and not a 'long term relationship'. Now this is all well and good but there are occasions when many of these girls think that they will somehow convert me to some form of long term commitment. Had one who was a lot of fun and damn killer in bed. Hell her morning blow jobs were the most incredible on earth. I always made it clear that my life was about fun not commitment, and she seemed cool about that.
Unfortunately she has been bugging me on email and on phone about how much she cares about me and when I am going to be in town. Blah blah. Maybe I carried on for too long with her. So time to end it gently.
I have a list of 10 ladies of various ages who are just incredibels so far and all hot on cam as well as when we meet up. You just have to try and pace yourself in when you can meet up with them.
Will be back in Manila soon. So will update on the fun later.
Well, we are all over the top at times.
Thanks for clarifying your thinking.
Likewise, sorry if my (much earlier) message was more confrontational than necessary.
X
Sorry
I am not into seperating Mother from Child for more than a few hours like every single mom deserves now and again and single dad no less. I am not into meeting children for 5 days holidays cause I am not their dad and would not sleep with a mom if her kids were aware of it.
At Xmas I gave many people cash to ensure they had a good Xmas and I assure you this had nothing to do with sex just trying to be a good person cause I had it and they did not, I spent Xmas alone asn that was fine.
Perhaps I did not make it clear I dislike being misled or lied to and have no time for women of no character.
Christmas is an important family time as is New Years so declined a couple of options.
Oh well It seems my report has hit some nerves, hmmm.
JJ
Conrad2009
02-03-09, 13:42
This post is just meant to summarise my views on Filipinas and the whole issue of dating and romance.
1. Filipinas really are special women. They have very little of the post feminist bullshit that clouds relationships with North American/Scandinavian/British women ( to be fair females from Latin and Mediterranean cultures and a lot of Irish / Scottish / East European women are often an exception to the rule that western women are a high maintenanance pain in the butt.)
2. Filipinas are often sweet and gentle but tough.The fact they are nice does not mean they are mugs. They know how to survive. Western women talk tough but run at the first sign of trouble, their fat asses wagglin in the air as they suddenly forget all about 'equality' and start conveniently morphing into delicate little girls who need all sorts of special protections from the system (including on occasion, your house, your car and total control over your kids, lol.)
3. Age: yes often the appeal of a guy over 50 depends on the size of his wallet. But, remember, in most countries in most of the world for most of history the older guy / younger women combo is nothing unusual: it is only in our virulent western culture that it has become an issue. So, they can be genuinely attracted to you.
4. However, the fact that they can get to you genuinely like/love you does not mean you should close your eyes. Filipinas are human like the rest of us. They are not saints either. I know of an awful lot of married Filipinas who take a very relaxed attitude to fidelity, especially when one or both of the partners is working overseas. In Taiwan for instance the Filipinas have a phrase: 'FTO'- meaning 'For Taiwan Only'. They are perfectly capable of having one or even two Taiwan BFs on the go while their hubbies are back in the Phils (an increasing number of them in fact swing both ways and have affairs with fellow Filipinas while they work in Taiwanese computer sweat shops). So stay real about it. Love and sex are games for adults: if you cannot take it, do not get into it.
5. Now, in evaluating all these things, your chances of good results are vastly enhanced if you do the following:
a) Do not walk around in baggy shorts with trainers/huge leather sandals and sweaty socks-and do not wear a ball cap
b) Trim all that hair, especially nasal and ear stuff, keep the damn beergut under control, switch to protein from carbs and get some exercise (you can last longer in bed with or without Viagra)
c) If you are losing your hair it is no big deal, so long as you shave/crop it close- combovers never gave anybody an orgasm and the same goes for greasy grey ponytails
d) Be a man- there is no need to hide your testosterone under a bushel if you forgive the pun- Filipinas like strong men who know what they want, especially in the bedroom-they love to be mastered- but this does not mean that you act like a jerk - be courteous, show some consideration, stand upright, walk with dignity, be polite, wear nice chinos and a teeshirt with an open shirt over it or a nice linen jacket (drink plenty of water in the heat)- stand out as a guy who has a little style and dignity- do not be like the sloppy 'laid back' guys who slobber their way round Cebu.
e) Do all of the above and you will have a great time - they really are wonderful women.
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FreebieFan
02-04-09, 00:48
General Impressions post. You said it right. Act and look stylish and the buffet will be open to you. Look cheap, act cheap, and there will be morsels.
DIA. Well we all seem to do well out of it. But lets wonder how many of us are screwing the same girls. All sometimes thinking we got our own freebies. I'm not sure I want to do a namecheck tho. LOL
Great first post, Conrad! Seems like all very accurate and good advice. I am definitely gonna lose that combover before heading for warmer climes!
I would like to add.
I have always treated the women properly, open doors, walk on the right side of the road, hold the umbrella for them, never ever hit them, treat them as an equal, ask their opinion, listened to them, pros and regular women and I dare say it impresses the panties right off their sweet asses.
I do not tell them I love them or tell them I will be their BF, I do not buy them things unless it just works out, I pay for cabs and of course anything we do in Public, like here in Canada (only with out the great sex or happiness) and I fuck the shit out of them for hours. And I focus on them and their needs as a woman and most of them have never ever experienced this (the amateurs). I swear I could open a service just teaching them how they should be fucked.
I am affectionate, passionate, tell them they are hot and kiss the hell out of them they love this as well and spend a long time having sex. And I love sleeping with them holding them and repeatedly remounting them in the night if I am not completely exhausted.
They love it. I had sex with 9 amateurs this last trip and only 1 did not repeat. All knew what I was doing (meaning doing others) 4 had BF, 1 was married and I turned down to many to count. And I never even bought a dinner for a girl I had sex with, most refused cab fare, I offered but they simply wanted to get naked after our first meeting and my standard approach was to watch a movie on my laptop which meant close quarters.
Had several that did not turn out, I kissed a few frogs I think I had 2 that got away, damn lack of battery, text messaging is for getting laid, be direct and I wasted time and money on 2 and those I actually bought dinner for and they both talked a good game.
They are grossly under appreciated and underfucked and I am hell on their tiny sweet cunts so you need to have them on a rotation so they can heal.
Do these things and you will own them and some are good friends who I get to watch now on webcam, thank you Yahoo!
JJ
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Among the post here, you've been the one who give fair opinions with filipina's. And I agree about your idea, most cases nowadays about 50 and 20 year old tandem, wasnt even the issue it happens there are people who are not open about the idea. They think that the girl is just looking for the money of the guy, but its NOT! It just happened that I'm a filipina, but I disagree with the idea about the wrong notions about "US".
Have a nice day.
This post is just meant to summarise my views on Filipinas and the whole issue of dating and romance.
1. Filipinas really are special women. They have very little of the post feminist bullshit that clouds relationships with North American/Scandinavian/British women ( to be fair females from Latin and Mediterranean cultures and a lot of Irish / Scottish / East European women are often an exception to the rule that western women are a high maintenanance pain in the butt.)
2. Filipinas are often sweet and gentle but tough.The fact they are nice does not mean they are mugs. They know how to survive. Western women talk tough but run at the first sign of trouble, their fat asses wagglin in the air as they suddenly forget all about 'equality' and start conveniently morphing into delicate little girls who need all sorts of special protections from the system (including on occasion, your house, your car and total control over your kids, lol.)
3. Age: yes often the appeal of a guy over 50 depends on the size of his wallet. But, remember, in most countries in most of the world for most of history the older guy / younger women combo is nothing unusual: it is only in our virulent western culture that it has become an issue. So, they can be genuinely attracted to you.
4. However, the fact that they can get to you genuinely like/love you does not mean you should close your eyes. Filipinas are human like the rest of us. They are not saints either. I know of an awful lot of married Filipinas who take a very relaxed attitude to fidelity, especially when one or both of the partners is working overseas. In Taiwan for instance the Filipinas have a phrase: 'FTO'- meaning 'For Taiwan Only'. They are perfectly capable of having one or even two Taiwan BFs on the go while their hubbies are back in the Phils (an increasing number of them in fact swing both ways and have affairs with fellow Filipinas while they work in Taiwanese computer sweat shops). So stay real about it. Love and sex are games for adults: if you cannot take it, do not get into it.
5. Now, in evaluating all these things, your chances of good results are vastly enhanced if you do the following:
a) Do not walk around in baggy shorts with trainers/huge leather sandals and sweaty socks-and do not wear a ball cap
b) Trim all that hair, especially nasal and ear stuff, keep the damn beergut under control, switch to protein from carbs and get some exercise (you can last longer in bed with or without Viagra)
c) If you are losing your hair it is no big deal, so long as you shave/crop it close- combovers never gave anybody an orgasm and the same goes for greasy grey ponytails
d) Be a man- there is no need to hide your testosterone under a bushel if you forgive the pun- Filipinas like strong men who know what they want, especially in the bedroom-they love to be mastered- but this does not mean that you act like a jerk - be courteous, show some consideration, stand upright, walk with dignity, be polite, wear nice chinos and a teeshirt with an open shirt over it or a nice linen jacket (drink plenty of water in the heat)- stand out as a guy who has a little style and dignity- do not be like the sloppy 'laid back' guys who slobber their way round Cebu.
e) Do all of the above and you will have a great time - they really are wonderful women.
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Hi to all,
check this one out
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=d4570782-ae6c-48d8-9b2c-99634397f2be
unfortunetely once I read her profile I told her straight what I was thinking :D
IM sure she wont reply to me any more. Amen. but maybe you guys contact her and report your experience here.
I guess another money beggar with zero in return.
God thanks Its friday tomorow AC time :D
Blink Out
??? She mentions she doesn't have money to travel, but I'd hardly assume she's a money begger.
Don't be so pessimistic Blink! Tell her you want to go to church with her!
X
Hi to all,
check this one out
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=d4570782-ae6c-48d8-9b2c-99634397f2be
unfortunetely once I read her profile I told her straight what I was thinking :D
IM sure she wont reply to me any more. Amen. but maybe you guys contact her and report your experience here.
I guess another money beggar with zero in return.
God thanks Its friday tomorow AC time :D
Blink Out
??? She mentions she doesn't have money to travel, but I'd hardly assume she's a money begger.
Don't be so pessimistic Blink! Tell her you want to go to church with her!
X
Says not pic, no reply. And hers is blank.
Also says she is 5 foot 6.
Did she just take down her picture?
AussieOverboard
02-07-09, 00:12
Says not pic, no reply. And hers is blank.
Also says she is 5 foot 6.
Did she just take down her picture?
She must have, I had a look earlier and she was very nice. 8/10 in my eyes.
Cunning Stunt
02-07-09, 02:28
She must have, I had a look earlier and she was very nice. 8/10 in my eyes.
Yes, she was cute. I would have got down on my knees with her any day;).
She is probably confused as to why visitors to her profile have skyrocketed since Thursday. Plus she has maybe had a few PM's from prospective born again Christians who also happen to be ISG members:D.
Its amazing how many push the 'good little catholic girl' angle in their profiles.
Yep, took her picture down and now has a warning about guys who "don't believe" her profile.
I hope you're satisfied Blink.
X
Says not pic, no reply. And hers is blank.
Also says she is 5 foot 6.
Did she just take down her picture?
Cuba Tourist
02-08-09, 00:52
She has now put a photo up--I never saw the old one, so I don't know if it is the same one.
Cuba Tourist
02-08-09, 00:53
am a servant of god!
am simple person who spend my time in attending church and join any ministry in church...have faith in god
my hobby is reading,listening music and go anywhere with my friends... i don't have work now my family is okay...they happy! i love to travel in any country but i don't have much money to go... but its ok! i grew up in a good family and happy but sometimes they have struggle to come... but they survive it!...
if people who not believe in my profile don't message me... don't compare me in other girls... who wearing a mask....
AussieOverboard
02-08-09, 04:54
She has now put a photo up--I never saw the old one, so I don't know if it is the same one.
Its a different pic and no where near as flattering as the first.
Cuba Tourist
02-08-09, 06:07
Why did she switch it?
Wrote her a short note but no response.
Here's the type of add that really makes me wonder what is going on in their heads:
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=2f9ebe6a-61cc-43f6-a355-e529ff985080
Busty, but oh so negative.
I once answered an ad like this suggesting that it was too negative. She was cute and apparently educated so I wanted to see what would happen.
She responded, "You are the reason why...blah, blah... Don't ever send me a message again..." I didn't.
X
My friend told me about a chatroom to meet filipina bargirls called www.shockrooms.com. He said there was some hot looking filipina girls on there. We recognized a girl that works at a bar called lollipops. She looks mixed. She goes by the name crazyfantasy on www.shockrooms.com.
Anyone recognize her?
South by SW 2
02-09-09, 09:32
I've done two trips to the Phils and am just about to go for my third.
On my first trip a year ago I posted a new ad on Filipino Kisses and was bombarded with emails. Perhaps 70 in two or three days. I skipped FK for my second trip six months ago since that's where I met one of the ladies I wanted to see again. I went with Cherry Blossoms instead.
If anything it was even more productive - on the order of 80 to 90 in that same span. I've been very specific that I'm only interested in women from the city that I'm visiting.
For trip three, I'm avoiding CB to reduce the risk of complications. So I signed up with DIA. Since "free" left room in my budget for a one month paid subscription, I decided to circle back around and do FK.
Very disappointing. I don't know if DIA and CB have sucked all the business away from there, but I've gotten 12 unsolicited emails and none of them were worth responding to. I've gotten 80 unsolicited in four days on DIA. Only two were ladyboys.
I deleted my previous FK profile and created a new one with very similar content so I wouldn't show as having been on the site for 400 days. I used the same text and pic for DIA, so that isn't a factor, either.
Right now, based on my most recent experience, I couldn't recommend FK. I'm curious if others have noticed the same thing.
BTW, Why do the women in places I'm NOT going to visit always look so hot? Cebu and CDO have several that make me want to change my flights.
- SbySW
Why? The same reason why you meet a stunning, sweet thing on the last day of your trip.
So where ya goin?
X
...SNIP...
BTW, Why do the women in places I'm NOT going to visit always look so hot? Cebu and CDO have several that make me want to change my flights.
- SbySW
Cunning Stunt
02-09-09, 09:40
Here's the type of add that really makes me wonder what is going on in their heads:
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=2f9ebe6a-61cc-43f6-a355-e529ff985080
X
I hope you're satisfied Blink.
Same result, methinks. Hope YOU are satisfied.
Yes, I considered that. (sarcasm noted / enjoyed / dismissed)
But what has me baffled is why they would let a few wankers (not you Blink....I kind of like your causticity...) get their dandruff up and then revise their profile, putting themselves in such a negative light.
Likewise, a very colorful (no pun intended) fellow ISGer recently posted something that included "fuck y'all" (my paraphrase). I suspect his vitriol was aimed at someone other than myself, but it's kind of hard to smile and ignore such a greeting before I've had my morning coffee. I guess my response caught him before he had HIS morning coffee as well!
So, my question still stands. What is going thru people's heads when they pick such negative communication when posting online?
OH, And I'm not referring to my direct virtual face to virtual face disagreements on this list. But, if anyone wants to comment on that, please try to keep the name calling to a minimum.
X
Same result, methinks. Hope YOU are satisfied.
KyCuriosity
02-09-09, 14:42
Funny thing just happened.
I had a profile on DIA to actually find a serious girlfriend, and then I put up a second using a different email and all that, just to find a little extra good time with out a picture.
And damn it, after about 24 hours of posting the second profile. I've been banned permanently! Oh well. Giving me a good laugh at it though. I don't know how they caught me. Unless they have a cookie on my computer? Any ideas? Recording the IP addresses?
At least I have my girls I'm already going to meet. I don't need it now anyways.
Wrong Info
02-09-09, 21:16
Be very careful when joining the chat sites or sending a pen pal.
Most of those sites are owned by locals and lots by people associated with the going on there in the Philippines
Many have been set up using the credit card info to meet a girl - then after going getting a suite for child support. They then pay child support wether the child is theirs or not - and even if they do a test many have reported it takes as much as 5 years to get the government to stop taking money or release bank accounts etc.
Recently one person was set up from a popular site from a add saying they had the best escorts etc - and when he picked the girl up the cops showed up at his hotel and demanded $5000 US or they would turn the case over and have him deported at which time he owuld also be persecuted in the states
Do not give personall info to any of these pen pals or chat sites.
Cuba Tourist
02-09-09, 23:13
Recording the IP addresses? Yes, exactly. Very simple.
Member #4491
02-10-09, 00:55
Equally simple to hide using TOR, a free proxy or another of the hundreds of services available.
I do not see how the IP relates to the framing? After all, your ISP will not hand out records associating a person with an IP adress unless there is a criminal charge. Your IP is just a number until someone (ISP / police with the help of ISP) relates it to YOU using records of usage.
If you use TOR, do remember that Javascript and Flash (amongst a few others) will (can) still leave an imprint of your true IP. Privacy is not automatic just because you install TOR/TOR packet, but to hide you IP on a basic HTML/PHP/ASP-site is super simple and is explained in another thread on this forum.
Barba
Hi to all,
sorry I was a bit busy recently. Went on this other forum where whiny and angry guys posted their soap stories how they got scammed by filipinas.
I dont know if I made myself clear, but its stupid to send any money to girls you never met in person. More stupid if you send money to them and never been in their country before or never have any intention to go there. Im just in contact with a 5"0 21 years young busty cam chick. She want to meet me, because she is bored. Her thai bf supported her since 3 1/2 years and he never meet her up. Of course he aint living in Thailand. He is in the USA. Guess I dont have to comment on that one, but surely will post some pictures of her in the apropiate fotosection after I have meet her up for "a drink".
Some days ago I post some profile from a dia girl over here. I can see that you guys also dont came any closer to this obvious very religious minded chick. I dont mind to be religious at all if it comes to dating, but as Im banned now I have no more chance to tell her how much I would enjoyed to meet her up in sogo church and discuss things with her. Maybe she would show up in a nun costume? that would be new...hmmm...now Im really thinking. Hope you guys have better success to aproach her in the apropiate way.
I take a look at XMen dia lady. Nice busty but what she says in her profile , all this f.. and sh..t and liar stay away from me....I wouldnt conisder to send her any message. BTW she looked like one of my ex GF. Maybe thats why she hates men now? Should consider my behaviour next time :)
Have to go to lunch now. Burger king waitress are dressed all in black, black nylon, black mini skirt. God I really love this country :)
Blink
PS. didnt know that nowadays they put cookies in a laptop or pc. Choclate cookie? vanilla cookie? No wonder I live in a thrid world country since Kycuriosity has allready the new Cookie laptop from starbucks. Gosh Im jellous now!Need to get one of those asap!!
AussieOverboard
02-10-09, 08:10
Funny thing just happened.
I had a profile on DIA to actually find a serious girlfriend, and then I put up a second using a different email and all that, just to find a little extra good time with out a picture.
And damn it, after about 24 hours of posting the second profile. I've been banned permanently! Oh well. Giving me a good laugh at it though. I don't know how they caught me. Unless they have a cookie on my computer? Any ideas? Recording the IP addresses?
At least I have my girls I'm already going to meet. I don't need it now anyways.
I had 3 different profiles running at one time on DIA and never had a problem.
FreebieFan
02-10-09, 08:17
Aside from the report I posted in Makati section about a cam girl...theres another who says she doesnt want money, only chocolates for a show.
Sweet girl must be smitten by me as says she will give me a free show on Feb 14th if I give her chocs. She says could I send them.
I explain they would melt in post and she accepts this.
So.. I guess I get a free show. The good life!
Nightrider1
02-10-09, 11:21
Funny thing just happened.
I had a profile on DIA to actually find a serious girlfriend, and then I put up a second using a different email and all that, just to find a little extra good time with out a picture.
And damn it, after about 24 hours of posting the second profile. I've been banned permanently! Oh well. Giving me a good laugh at it though. I don't know how they caught me. Unless they have a cookie on my computer? Any ideas? Recording the IP addresses?
At least I have my girls I'm already going to meet. I don't need it now anyways.
I have 2 profiles on DIA one with pic and one without and never had any problems. Its a good idea to have 2 profiles because you can check on your honeyko and see if she is as true to you as she says she is..lol.. MOST are not..They will chat with ANYONE who sends a hello. Just the way it is. They are all looking for the best opportunity and you cant blame them I suppose. life is hard in Phil as we all know.
Conrad2009
02-10-09, 12:41
I have 2 profiles on DIA one with pic and one without and never had any problems. Its a good idea to have 2 profiles because you can check on your honeyko and see if she is as true to you as she says she is..lol.. MOST are not..They will chat with ANYONE who sends a hello. Just the way it is. They are all looking for the best opportunity and you cant blame them I suppose. life is hard in Phil as we all know.Wise words. Filipinas are lovely, but they are female, and only guys who can handle the heat should apply. Example, one particular trip to the Phils I had two weeks intensive with a mid 30s single mom from a website, desperate to marry etc. Nice submissive screw, tight pussy, always ready, but a bit too small and plaintive for my taste. Wanted me to meet her family and so on. I told her I did not know her well enough to marry.
So three weeks after I returned from the Phils she told me she had met another guy, was hot with him. I did not give a damn, I told her (always the best response). Then 2 weeks later she said she wanted to get back with me, she was 'in love with me'. So I said ok let's see how it goes, and for the next two years she emailed, phoned virtually every day without ever meeting me again (I went to the PHils a few times but not to her city.) Once or twice I sent small amounts of money. Even her married best friend who lives in Holland and was visitng my country told me she was very much in love with me. Eventually about 2 months ago I told her I could not commit. Best be friends etc.
Guess what? Her friend now tells me she is 'getting married'! I laughed. That was quick. LOL. What is the betting she was cruising other guys all along? Good luck to her, but do not take any crap from them: 'love' is a very elastic word.
Oh and guess what- her married best friend is flirting with me. She is coming to my city on her own for a few days. Her hubby thinks she is on a business trip.
I have had 2 profiles on DAI for 6 months or so. 1st has my real profile, Bob the Nice Guy. 2nd Profile is Butterfly Bob that says very clear, this next trip is for fun.
I was bouncing between the 2 profiles back and forth sending messages to the same girl. After about 30 mins, I got a screen that said you are only allowed one profile. I think I got it because I was bouncing between the 2 so much in a short period of time.
The next day I clear my cookies and had no problem logging into them both.
Butterfly Bob sent a short polite note to a girl asking if she wanted to chat. Her response was "ók but not if you want to talk about sex" 30 mins later she agreed to have sex with me if I took her and her parents to Bohol for a couple of days. She is a single mom in Cebu. I bet Nice Guy Bob would be lucky to get a hand job from her after taking her entire family out to a few meals and spoiling her kid with gifts.
H' all
I have used used Phil Hearts it was good, DIA is it Hit and Miss and Cebuanas, no longer of any value in my oipinion.
I am looking for a pay site againa dn I am wondering about Asiankisses. Has anyone used it?
I signed up for free and get some hits but have never responded.
Assistance would be appreciatted.
JJ
Conrad2009
02-10-09, 23:32
I have had 2 profiles on DAI for 6 months or so. 1st has my real profile, Bob the Nice Guy. 2nd Profile is Butterfly Bob that says very clear, this next trip is for fun.
I was bouncing between the 2 profiles back and forth sending messages to the same girl. After about 30 mins, I got a screen that said you are only allowed one profile. I think I got it because I was bouncing between the 2 so much in a short period of time.
The next day I clear my cookies and had no problem logging into them both.
Butterfly Bob sent a short polite note to a girl asking if she wanted to chat. Her response was "ók but not if you want to talk about sex" 30 mins later she agreed to have sex with me if I took her and her parents to Bohol for a couple of days. She is a single mom in Cebu. I bet Nice Guy Bob would be lucky to get a hand job from her after taking her entire family out to a few meals and spoiling her kid with gifts.Fascinating experience, with big insights into the whole way they operate.
Conrad2009
02-10-09, 23:49
I have had 2 profiles on DAI for 6 months or so. 1st has my real profile, Bob the Nice Guy. 2nd Profile is Butterfly Bob that says very clear, this next trip is for fun.
I was bouncing between the 2 profiles back and forth sending messages to the same girl. After about 30 mins, I got a screen that said you are only allowed one profile. I think I got it because I was bouncing between the 2 so much in a short period of time.
The next day I clear my cookies and had no problem logging into them both.
Butterfly Bob sent a short polite note to a girl asking if she wanted to chat. Her response was "ók but not if you want to talk about sex" 30 mins later she agreed to have sex with me if I took her and her parents to Bohol for a couple of days. She is a single mom in Cebu. I bet Nice Guy Bob would be lucky to get a hand job from her after taking her entire family out to a few meals and spoiling her kid with gifts.Fascinating experience, with big insights into the whole way they operate.
Fredje1961
02-11-09, 02:40
How about this one:
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=56ce6bd0-f343-43df-8ff7-f743143be9e2
Here's the type of add that really makes me wonder what is going on in their heads:
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=2f9ebe6a-61cc-43f6-a355-e529ff985080
Busty, but oh so negative.
I once answered an ad like this suggesting that it was too negative. She was cute and apparently educated so I wanted to see what would happen.
She responded, "You are the reason why...blah, blah... Don't ever send me a message again..." I didn't.
X
FreebieFan
02-11-09, 08:25
How about this one:
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=56ce6bd0-f343-43df-8ff7-f743143be9e2I saw that one the other day. Didn't bother to reply to her.
Anyways had a super chat yesterday with a gorgeous 21 year old somewhere near Davao. Long legs hot smiles. Totally gorgeous. Anyways after an hour chat (and she said she'd fly to manila if I asked her). She says she has no eletricity in her home. And could I make a contribution so we could continue to chat more " privately. " No idea if it was an attempted scam. I didn't bite.
Meanwhile, one lady who I WILL meet on next Manila trip, did her little show for me. Nice body. Nice open puss. Went down well with my morning coffee.
Then another cam gal I know, 19, saw I was on a business call (we were both on cam) so she offs her shorts. And starts dancing in red bikini and t back. Said she was trying to get me to concentrate on her. Well she sure did. Wonderful C cups. So all in all was a good mornings work. And viewing. LOL
And this one has no electricty for sure. Was cut off two days ago. But she never asked.
Cuba Tourist
02-12-09, 07:29
''ONLY TO THOSE WHO R TRUE''
''To all users in this site,,,,as far as i know that this site is for people who want to know each other,,,and meeting someone,,,but i realize that some people give bad meaning in word DATE,,,yeah it depends on how to understand it,,but sad to say that mostly here for fun and playing games,,i know not all but mostly,,,they are different on their frofile,,,so i decide not to put any description of my self ,,,what for,,,,,i know many girls their that here just for fun too and hurt feelings to others,,,but not all like boys too not all of them are bad,,,,,but forsake what f that girl or boy have good heart,,,and really good intention here,,,and i prove now that this site cant protect our personal info,,,,,well so sad but its true,,,
Im very disappointed on it when i found out that many guys here just want to talk us and ask but then want to destroyed lives,,,,,,,think of it,,what f thats happen to ur family,,ur son or daughter maybe its hurt too,,,so we r just human being and i know how it feels too,,but in proper way,,,,,GOOD LUCK TO ALL.
ejekin143 from dipolog city
Cuba Tourist
02-12-09, 15:41
'''IMPOSIBLE TO FINE A REAL LOVE HERE.....
hello im mary gold a VERY simple Asian girl!!!!!!!!!!!
i like to play soft ball, badminton any kinds of games as long as i know how to play,,,
i am a college student w/ the course of BS education major in biology,,,
hope to find a good guy here,,,,coz lot of guy here in internet are very naughty they just want for fun or they just like to have sex w/ some girl,,
i dont like guy who just want to talk about sex i hate that kind of guy,,,,,
God bless you all!!!
thank you for reading my profile,,,
regards,
mary gold
mg_nunez!
My friend told me about a chatroom to meet filipina bargirls called www.shockrooms.com. He said there was some hot looking filipina girls on there. We recognized a girl that works at a bar called lollipops. She looks mixed. She goes by the name crazyfantasy on www.shockrooms.com.
Anyone recognize her?
ehem,
why you want to talk with a girl in chatroom who obviously works in a bar? God thanks they play some music there and serve cold beer. Imagine they wont do that and you could hear all he conversations going on over there, like: Where you from? whats ur name? see how you areee! Hell no!!! Dont want to hear that and specially not in a chatroom.
I guess you you interested for whatever reason in that girl. Well, I hadnt had her lately, but hundreds did. Maybe that says it all about Angeles city and the "working girls"
Nice day to all!
Blink
Hey, Cuba Tourist, how’s it going?
I’m not a big fan of DIA, for any number of reasons. Particularly that the profiles only allow one pic. I want to see a number of pics, and be confident that they are all of the same girl! Most of these girls are working out of internet cafés and could just be grabbing a pic from anywhere on the net. I want to have some confidence that the girl I’m going to meet is the girl in the pic!! Remember the old adage that if it looks to good to be true, it probably is. At least Filipina Heat is better, that way.
Spread your wings wide. I’ve made contacts and gotten numbers through Hi5, Friendster and even Myspace. My date book is already overflowing for my next trip.
Give me a ring some time, bud! I seem to have lost your number. I should be home the next few weekends.
FreebieFan
02-15-09, 10:51
Hey, Cuba Tourist, how’s it going?
I’m not a big fan of DIA, for any number of reasons. Particularly that the profiles only allow one pic. I want to see a number of pics, and be confident that they are all of the same girl!
Spread your wings wide. I’ve made contacts and gotten numbers through Hi5, Friendster and even Myspace. My date book is already overflowing for my next trip.
Give me a ring some time, bud! I seem to have lost your number. I should be home the next few weekends.Dont forget, that DIA may be a place to initially find one that looks good.. thereafter use the opportunity to have follow up chats on DIA.. most cafes now have cams so you can quickly sort the stars from the also rans.
Hi again,
for those guys who actually in the Philippines or live in the Philippines here is some info how to access blocked sites like acm..mybabes, etc :D
just use google translater and type in the url of the site.Thats it!
YOu cant log in as or with your member name, but you can chat and view the girls as a guest before you kicked out. Its fun for me to be there sometimes. Specially because some of the girls/models I met up in person, but not many. I just met those who were fuckable and not those I have to spend my money for foods and then bye bye LOL
Blink
I have a couple of ex girlfriends in the Philippines that are both recent college grads in Hotel/ Restaurant MGT. One of them took a 6 month internship in Asia for 6 months, but it did not pay very well compared to the US. It was still better than the PI, and she was able to send back about a $100 a month to her family. The employer paid for her housing and for her air fair. Her college career center sends many grad through the program.
However, they also have programs that sends the students to the US or Earope for much better paying internships. The catch is they have to pay upfront for the cost (visa, agency fees ect. ). The cost is around $1500 plus airfare. In return the interns make great money compared to the PI. My friends know other studens in the program, so It sounds legit.
so you see the proplem is the "rich get richer and the poor get poorer" Girls that have access to the upfront fees can get well paying jobs vs the girls who have no money so have to go to the low paying Asia internships.
So, I am looking into comments or suggestions if I should lend the girl the money. she can easily pay me back month instalments from her paycheck, just like any other loan.
I like the idea that she will have a job with in driving distance to me, so that we can visit eachother. Of course my concerns are makeing sure I get my money back and that this is not illegal in anyway. I don't want my name involved with this, in case I do want to get a finacee visa for another girl sometime in the future.
Any comments? You can PM if you like to share your ideas, or to knock some sense into me.
Wrong Info
02-22-09, 17:14
I have a couple of ex girlfriends in the Philippines that are both recent college grads in Hotel/ Restaurant MGT. One of them took a 6 month internship in Asia for 6 months, but it did not pay very well compared to the US. It was still better than the PI, and she was able to send back about a $100 a month to her family. The employer paid for her housing and for her air fair. Her college career center sends many grad through the program.
However, they also have programs that sends the students to the US or Earope for much better paying internships. The catch is they have to pay upfront for the cost (visa, agency fees ect. ). The cost is around $1500 plus airfare. In return the interns make great money compared to the PI. My friends know other studens in the program, so It sounds legit.
so you see the proplem is the "rich get richer and the poor get poorer" Girls that have access to the upfront fees can get well paying jobs vs the girls who have no money so have to go to the low paying Asia internships.
So, I am looking into comments or suggestions if I should lend the girl the money. she can easily pay me back month instalments from her paycheck, just like any other loan.
I like the idea that she will have a job with in driving distance to me, so that we can visit eachother. Of course my concerns are makeing sure I get my money back and that this is not illegal in anyway. I don't want my name involved with this, in case I do want to get a finacee visa for another girl sometime in the future.
Any comments? You can PM if you like to share your ideas, or to knock some sense into me.Think with the big head sir - lol
Lets look at the reality of things - this is a lot of money to them and there are lots there that do nothing but spend their hours of the day scamming on the net and personal sites - young military guys that think they love the, old coggers like ourselves, and the unexpecting.
On the other hand if you know this girl and feel for her - then do not lend her the money - just give it to her and do not expect it back.
Peace
Cuba Tourist
02-23-09, 08:52
My first DIA girl blocked me. I wrote about eating ice cream.....She answered:
Angles Gift of Love, 23, Philippines
hi again,
I work 28 days in a row, at the end of the month - if
I have been on the job 28 days, I can take two days off.
one day is for washing my things,
the other is for resting....
I don't care, what your having, to eat...
Here that is not a nice thing to do when so
many of us, have no such thing... Its viewed
as being rude....
I'm blocking this off, soon... I did ask you to send to
me e-mail at my address, you don't do so... Sincere
people just don't chat all the time....
your in the USA, so chat does us no good...
my cell is a text only type, and I can't have voice
talking on it... they are cheap cells phone here, like
p 600. to p 850. so many of us girls buy them type...
you be good now,
hope to see a letter from you, but I won't
stay up nights waiting.....
take care,
Lynzz
Think with the big head sir - lol
Lets look at the reality of things - this is a lot of money to them and there are lots there that do nothing but spend their hours of the day scamming on the net and personal sites - young military guys that think they love the, old coggers like ourselves, and the unexpecting.
On the other hand if you know this girl and feel for her - then do not lend her the money - just give it to her and do not expect it back.
Peace
Agree any money given to a girl should be seen as a gift, and if she pays you back then it is a bonus.
Wow, they send me messages like "hi". You should consider yourself lucky to get such a thought provoking message!
Considering the weird message and bags under the eyes, I'd say she either has some problems or some chemical assistance.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=afc7657d-e3f8-4034-a260-83e121e32dc9
I sent her a message and said I like ice cream too.
X
My first DIA girl blocked me. I wrote about eating ice cream.....She answered:
Angles Gift of Love, 23, Philippines
Think with the big head sir - lol
Lets look at the reality of things - this is a lot of money to them and there are lots there that do nothing but spend their hours of the day scamming on the net and personal sites - young military guys that think they love the, old coggers like ourselves, and the unexpecting.
On the other hand if you know this girl and feel for her - then do not lend her the money - just give it to her and do not expect it back.
Peace
I just wanted to make sure there was nothing illegal about this. I don't think there is, I just wanted to stay under the radar in case I do decide to get a fiancee visa later in life.
I have know both girls for over 2 years and believe they THINK they will pay me back. But I know once there families find out they have an money, they will but a lot of pressure on the girls to send them money. They will easily make enough money to pay me back, because the jobs are for 9 months to a year long. Maybe I can have them sign a promissory note, it will at least make them understand that they need to pay me back the loan.
The idea that I can have a 21 year old Pinay Friend within driving distance sounds to good to be true. And since they don't drive, there will be no drop by's'.
I am sure someone on this board has helped a Pinay out in this way, please share how your experience went.
Cunning Stunt
02-24-09, 02:29
My first DIA girl blocked me. I wrote about eating ice cream.....She answered:
Angles Gift of Love, 23, Philippines
Yes ... but did you tell her you had running water indoors in your house ...that might have got her interest.
Or maybe you forgot the photo - she did mentions 3 times about the importance of the photo. Or maybe you are not in her narrow age range of 34 to 62?
You have to feel sorry for the poor dear living alone in the jungle as she does! Maybe you didn't fit her idea of a Tarzan to her Jane?
Perhaps they are all a little flaky on Masbate. It must be difficult sometimes, living in a place that sounds like an act of self abuse;).
I too sent her a message about ice cream. I told her I had a big cone and she would be welcome to come and lick it:D I imagine she will be on the next boat.
Cuba Tourist
02-24-09, 02:34
This is too funny! Unfortunately, I lost my notes to her when she blocked me.
Can someone post her photo and profile or send them to me PM if that is better vis the rules of this website. I was caught totally off guard. I was never a smart ass with her!!!!
I thought she was going to be the love of my life!!! Boo hooo....
Cuba Tourist
02-24-09, 05:59
This girl sounds better- Her moniker is: simple and young!
i wanna rock your world!!!
i am a friendly and an adventurous girl who wants to meet someone exciting...
Weight: 43 kg (95 lbs)
Occupation: still looking for a good job!
Cuba. I posted the URL about one day ago. Just click on that.
Or just search for the name you gave us earlier. Angles Gift of Love
Gamahucher -- funny post. Seems your humor only shines thru about one in 20 posts, and not at all when you are in in attack mode.
Anyway, let's not gang up on poor Ms. Gift of Love. She's provided a thought provoking piece, gave GH some great material, and strikes me as the simple minded type which we could learn from.
(oh, that last sentence looks like new material for GH....scratch that itch boy....)
This is a girl you would want to go home with. Communal outdoor cold shower...I've been to a village like that....what a freakin adventure.
X
This is too funny! Unfortunately, I lost my notes to her when she blocked me.
Can someone post her photo and profile or send them to me PM if that is better vis the rules of this website. I was caught totally off guard. I was never a smart ass with her!!!!
I thought she was going to be the love of my life!!! Boo hooo....
Cuba Tourist
02-24-09, 18:40
Xman, since she blocked me, the url will not work for me.
Funny ad on Manila's Craigslist.
http://manila.craigslist.com.ph/ers/1047926531.html
I so hungry and need to pay my rent - w4m - 22 (Malati)
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Reply to: pers-1047926531@craigslist.org [Errors when replying to ads?]
Date: 2009-02-24, 12:12PM PHT
Hi, Im so hungry and need to pay my rent:-( I spent all peso shopping at Robinsons. I dont like job so Ill do anything w any1. Filipinos r free. Thank u to the June man buy me condo 4 months free. And July man for Antibiotics. And August man for Samsung cell. And September man for shopping and silver jewlery. And October man for ear rings. And November man for happy birthday cake. And December man for Hyatt and Boracay. And January man for Happy New Years. And Valentines man for shirt and chocolates. And February BlueRidge Navy men. And all the short timers in between b4 n after. I know what I gav u all wont ever go away. So who wants to join d Arlyn Western Union Taub club? If no reply is bc my boyfriend in town, but when he go Ill sneek u in;-)
Location: Malati
Xman, since she blocked me, the url will not work for me.
I think you are blocked because you are signed in to DIA when you try to view her profile. Try logging out and make sure you don't put remember me for the user name and password, then click on x=man's link.
Robb
FreebieFan
02-25-09, 00:54
I llvoe it when some sweet probinsiya gal says " Im so simple"....
Unfortunately what she doesnt always realise is that the use of term has connotations of mental inadequacy. The word was often associated with those who had to go to special schools back in my youth.
I've tried explaining this a few time to a few ladies and several "get it".. they now say they are humble. But I still have to laugh, as so many of these aspire to being " simple"
Cuba Tourist
02-27-09, 03:54
I think they use the word simple to indicate that they are from a modest background. One Otis wrote me today on date in Asia that she wants to find a guy who will accept her for who she is. I asked her what she meant by that and she said that she has no father and is from a poor family. I think that many of them feel that they are not worthy because they are not sophisticated.
I llvoe it when some sweet probinsiya gal says " Im so simple"....
Unfortunately what she doesnt always realise is that the use of term has connotations of mental inadequacy. The word was often associated with those who had to go to special schools back in my youth.
I've tried explaining this a few time to a few ladies and several "get it".. they now say they are humble. But I still have to laugh, as so many of these aspire to being " simple"
And if you look at matchmaking sites from ex-British colonies, esp. India, you'll always find girls described as "homely". Now why in hell would they do that, I wondered, and then learned that it means that they like to stay around the house, take care of their man, cook, clean, etc.
So maybe I should post an ad: Wealthy foreigner seeks simple, homely lady for permanent arrangement. Beautiful nymphomaniac preferred.
I just wanted to make sure there was nothing illegal about this. I don't think there is, I just wanted to stay under the radar in case I do decide to get a fiancee visa later in life.
I have know both girls for over 2 years and believe they THINK they will pay me back. But I know once there families find out they have an money, they will but a lot of pressure on the girls to send them money. They will easily make enough money to pay me back, because the jobs are for 9 months to a year long. Maybe I can have them sign a promissory note, it will at least make them understand that they need to pay me back the loan.
The idea that I can have a 21 year old Pinay Friend within driving distance sounds to good to be true. And since they don't drive, there will be no drop by's'.
I am sure someone on this board has helped a Pinay out in this way, please share how your experience went.Hi,
just one advise. Lending money to a pinoy means given it to him/her. Why you think its so dam diff to get a loan here, until you come up with so many paperwork. Why you think they have loansharks, 5/600 bumbay?
Like WI says, if you like the girl, send her the money, but dont expect anything in return, no sex, no nothing and no money at all. Send it to me, I send you 50% back, the other 50% will be spending on a blast withe some ISG members here in ANgeles city. If ever you send, I will post pictures, promise :D
Blink
PS. Seriously, its correct that, if that works (which I think it wont cause its a scam) the chick will be in your neighbourhood, but why should she bang you if she can have evry hot guy in the US??So if she bang you, expect that she will charge you in US rates..200US one pop LOL.
PPS: Dont even consider that money to send to her, save it for urself and fly over here and have fun
Hi,
Danamae here, anyway think positive. Maybe there's a reason why she blocked you. Think of any way to communicate with her again if you really wanted her.
If you think that she's the right person then continue anyway she's worth it all along, rather than regreting in the future.
I cheated before, I lied with my partner but I sincerely regreting and sorry for what I have done and now trying to do what I think is right but I am willing to wait to win he's forgiveness and give me another chance because he's worth waiting for. I will do everything, for him to know that he's my life, my partner that's why I'm doing this.
So, goodluck and may you find true happiness and love. Takecare always I know it sounds corny but its real.
Hi Guys,
I'm a long time lurker who was last in The Phills 2001. Almost got stuck there! Going again Mid March to Manila stopover and Cebu. Not into the usual tourista spots unless it is for a quickie. Already have gfe and a previous gf lined up.
Anyway, some questions if you can assist me:
What is the best airline to travel Manila to Mactac (Cebu)? Can you walk up in NIAA and likely get a flight? I want to be flexible outside Manila.
Best way to carry money? Credit Cards or USA Or Pesos or Traveller's Cheques? Draw from CC daily at a Hotel for cash? Which cards work. Or don't?
Anyone know a good value 4/5 Star near NIAA?
Communications. Have my BB with me for contact back home daily to 'check on things'. Can one get a short term rental CP at NIAA or MOA? Or do we need to purchase. Want to have a Phils based CP too.
Are small towns dangerous if you are with a local gal? I worry some about that. I'm early 50's, she is late 20's. (Last time at Shang in Edsa didn't seem to matter! )
Promise to post some ols and new pics next.
Thanks!
GregLondon
03-01-09, 16:07
I haven't seen people mention tagged.com (though not read back all the posts.)
It's quite an OK to get contacts in the Phils. You use the "meetme" function and just OK the girls you are interested in. If she also clicks OK you can view the pics add her as a friend etc. A bit more convoluted than DIA but some pretty girls there.
Hi,
PPS: Dont even consider that money to send to her, save it for urself and fly over here and have fun
I was thinking of ways to protect my cash, like paying the agency directly and having her pay me back each pay check. But I have learned overtime if there is cash in a Pinay's hand, her family will be all over and I will be the last person to get paid.
So far, looks like I am SOL, protecting my cash.
I can confirm that Myspace, Friendster, Ringo & Tagged are all places where pinay's hunt us. For example a girl asked me to put an account on Tagged 6 weeks ago & I got about 100+ people all wishing to be 'friends'. All pinays, 18-35 year old. Many very nice ones & easy to get phone numbers for meeting if you say you are going to be there in their town soon.
The nice thing about these social networking sites is you can look at the friends of a friend & find stunners quite by accident.I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead 803989 I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.
Good Luck
Robb
Thanks for the info AV and Robbaf,
I've been deleting mail from Tagged as I thought it was one of those bot sites that encourages you to sign up, import your mail lists, and then spams.
I've never warmed up to the social network sites, but I may have to give it another go.
X
I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead 803989 I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.
Good Luck
Robb
I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead 803989 I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.
Good Luck
Robb
I went there and had a look also. Signed up and found many Chinese gals also. One pic attached :)
Maybe low hanging fruit.
ES
FreebieFan
03-02-09, 03:11
I went there and had a look also. Signed up and found many Chinese gals also. One pic attached :)
Maybe low hanging fruit.
ESBeen on Tagged for past 3 months.. high success rate in several countries......as long as you know how to play the game.
I have never been a fan of this social networking phenomenon but I have found Myspace, Friendster and Facebook overall more productive in every aspect in terms of seeing more photos; friends and family, day to day life and weeding out scammers.....
Cuba Tourist
03-02-09, 20:17
......as long as you know how to play the game.
Could you explain what you mean exactly. This could be very helpful, because I probably don't know how to play.
......as long as you know how to play the game.
Could you explain what you mean exactly. This could be very helpful, because I probably don't know how to play.IMHO, playing the game means being a gentleman. Don't ask them to get naked on the first webcam chat, don't talk about sex. I always joke and laugh with them and take the time to chat with them. So many times I have had girls tell me that guys are rude to them and start the chat with, "Can you show me your tits?" and keep asking for webcam sex.
IMHO, these guys are lurkers from other countries who have never been to the Philippines and most likely will never be able to afford a trip here.
Robb
Cuba Tourist
03-03-09, 03:55
One girl wrote me that she changed her photo back to the previous photo because the better photo was attracting the wrong kind of attention:
...good morning
it's not new photo...but i changed photo, trying to get rid of nasty messages...sorry.
i dont know why i received such messages..but i dont care...i dont get much messages right now..and thats fine... :) the more sexy pic i have, the more i get nasty messages... :)
so you're ready for your trip...good for you... :)
Cuba Tourist
03-03-09, 03:58
But I think they have to accept that we may meet several girls on the same trip. I don't want them to think it is automatically monogamous from the start. That same girl would not accept this idea.
for me...if i am interested to a guy....i would want to meet him...and i dont want him to meet plenty...it's just your choosing...and it's a big insult if i would be one of your collection...it might be okay for those women...they can take it...but not me. it would be waste of your time if you meet plenty and end up nothing... :) well, i guess you have numbers to choose for...so, i guess you already made up your mind...that;s good.
GregLondon
03-03-09, 04:14
I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?
GregLondon
03-03-09, 04:20
I met a guy yesterday who had struck it lucky with a girl he met via DIA in GenSan a year ago. Turned out that she was bi and more than happy to participate whenever he wanted another girl He now intends to marry her and bring her to Pattaya to live with him as she is so flexible.
Anyone have any suggestions how to track down bi or bi curious giurls in the Phils?
I agree with Robbaf's main point. But assuming that the online lechers are low-income lurkers is tenuous at best.
I'll add a few things about "playing the game" from the X Man point of view. Many of my comments are just generalizations, but they seem to work for me.
There are a lot of things you can say/do on chat to find out information and /or set up a possible rendezvous...
Where is your boyfriend tonight? (Comes across as a joke, but if you can confirm that she HAD a bf at one time, you can assume she isn't cherry.)
Do you live with family/ how many bros sis do you have / what is your work? (The more independent they are, the more likely your seduction strategy will work. And older ladies often fall into this category. Many brothers and sisters may indicate a lower income family...)
Can you recommend a good beach? Can you swim? What color is your bikini? (Some will recommend Borocay, but they've never been there. Having a bikini is usually a good sign, but best to chat a bit before going in that direction.)
Flirting in general seems to be very effective. "It's cold here in xxx, I wish you could give me a warm hug."
I'm sure others have their special techniques. Oh, and I try to get email and phone numers as quickly as possible.
X
IMHO, playing the game means being a gentleman. Don't ask them to get naked on the first webcam chat, don't talk about sex. I always joke and laugh with them and take the time to chat with them. So many times I have had girls tell me that guys are rude to them and start the chat with, "Can you show me your tits?" and keep asking for webcam sex.
IMHO, these guys are lurkers from other countries who have never been to the Philippines and most likely will never be able to afford a trip here.
Robb
Yes, this is often a problem. One option is just to drop one of these types.
But, I also suspect you could avoid the topic altogether by changing the subject or suggesting that you insist on "friends first".
And if you have her phone number already, just let it go. Ignore her for a while. Wait until you get to the Philippines. Her tune may change when you call her up and suggest having lunch.
X
But I think they have to accept that we may meet several girls on the same trip. I don't want them to think it is automatically monogamous from the start. That same girl would not accept this idea.
for me...if i am interested to a guy....i would want to meet him...and i dont want him to meet plenty...it's just your choosing...and it's a big insult if i would be one of your collection...it might be okay for those women...they can take it...but not me. it would be waste of your time if you meet plenty and end up nothing... :) well, i guess you have numbers to choose for...so, i guess you already made up your mind...that;s good.
I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?
The Friendster search functionality was changed, a few weeks ago, and has definitely gone downhill. The seem to be going the Facebook route and trying to make it so that you can only find people you really know (Hi5 did the same about a year ago). You go into Search, type “Philippines” or, better still, your city of interest. Then you have to chose gender, age and eliminate all of the other countries, so you’re only seeing girls resident in Phil. Pain in the ass, as it used to be much simpler.
Funny thing about Friendster is how the girls use it. Every Filipina on the planet who lives within 20 miles of an internet café has a Friendster account. I’ve got over 400 friends on my account, but I rarely get responses back to messages I send. I have better luck getting responses in Myspace, sometimes even with the same girl!
Thanks guys for the heads up on Tagged. My account’s been up for 24 hours and I’ve already got 40 friends, some of whom are very responsive! Although there do seem to be a few too many “too good to be true” profiles, and a high number of TS/TV’s on the site. Buyer beware! Also seem to be girls with multiple profiles. I had identical (and highly boring, monosyllabic) chats on YM, last night, with two supposedly different girls from Tagged.
I haven’t managed to get into Ringo. Is the site down?
Thanks also to X Man for his chat suggestions.
I had a interesting conversation.
Her-Hi
Me- Hi How r u
Her- fine. I am happy. I will be graduating in april.
me- What r u going to be.
her- a nurse
me- good for u. What is your future plans.
Her- to go abroad to work. Do you come to PHI ?
me- yes, This month
her- I want to be with you.
me- ok. Where do u live?
her- Zamboanga.
me- Is it safe there?
her- Yes. I will never leave you alone.
Me- ok. but i prefer to be in manila
her- in that case i will come to manila and stay with you.
me- ok
her- But i do not have any money to come there
ME- I will send you the air ticket
her- Really? That is nice. But i do not have expense money.
me- How much for expenses?
her - 5000 pesos.
me- That is too much Why?
her- I need to buy clothes and other things.
me- I will only send the ticket.
her- Can u help me with the rent?
I ignored her after.
The Philippinas are adept in conning. Do not send any money to anybody
check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1
check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1
She is not honest.
State: Davao City
City: Makati City
Ethnicity: African American
LOL.
Fredje1961
03-04-09, 10:53
One indicator could be (especially on sites like Tagged etc) that she has many girlfriends in profile.
So far, I think I've struck gold two times in Phils and once in Hongkong (filipina living in Hongkong).
I expect to go to HKG and Phils soon, I'll give feedback on the actual situation later on.
I met a guy yesterday who had struck it lucky with a girl he met via DIA in GenSan a year ago. Turned out that she was bi and more than happy to participate whenever he wanted another girl He now intends to marry her and bring her to Pattaya to live with him as she is so flexible.
Anyone have any suggestions how to track down bi or bi curious giurls in the Phils?
Fredje1961
03-04-09, 10:55
I wouldn't think this is 'not honest'
she may be originating from Davao City but working and/or living in Makati.
As for the "African American", given the fact that she's posting a pic and that we can see she's asian, I would just put that on a manipulation error when creating her profile.
She is not honest.
State: Davao City
City: Makati City
Ethnicity: African American
LOL.
She is not honest.
State: Davao City
City: Makati City
LOL.
State: Davao City (she is from Davao)
City: Makati City (working in a Makati bar)
:)
Robb
No offense to Sammon, but I have a very different take on this chat:
1) Not adept at conning at all. She simply asked you for money. Sammon hung out the bait....who offerred something? If you had sent the money she may very well have come to Manila. That's not a con! I have a friend who sent money to a bar girl to go to Bali and she arrived on schedule.
2) Considering how quick and awkward her replies are, I have to assume she is either a fkwit, or more likely, taking the [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) out of Mr. Sammon.
The really good ones will steal your heart before they ask for money.
X
I had a interesting conversation.
Her-Hi
Me- Hi How r u
Her- fine. I am happy. I will be graduating in april.
me- What r u going to be.
her- a nurse
me- good for u. What is your future plans.
Her- to go abroad to work. Do you come to PHI ?
me- yes, This month
her- I want to be with you.
me- ok. Where do u live?
her- Zamboanga.
me- Is it safe there?
her- Yes. I will never leave you alone.
Me- ok. but i prefer to be in manila
her- in that case i will come to manila and stay with you.
me- ok
her- But i do not have any money to come there
ME- I will send you the air ticket
her- Really? That is nice. But i do not have expense money.
me- How much for expenses?
her - 5000 pesos.
me- That is too much Why?
her- I need to buy clothes and other things.
me- I will only send the ticket.
her- Can u help me with the rent?
I ignored her after.
The Philippinas are adept in conning. Do not send any money to anybody
Member #4214
03-05-09, 01:26
One indicator could be (especially on sites like Tagged etc) that she has many girlfriends in profile.
So far, I think I've struck gold two times in Phils and once in Hongkong (filipina living in Hongkong).
I expect to go to HKG and Phils soon, I'll give feedback on the actual situation later on.
An OFW recently mentioned to me that many Filipinas that accept (legit OFW) work in HK turn bi or les, because there are simply so few men available to them. Taiwan, in contrast, also employs many Phil and Tai male construction workers, so straight OFWs can find bfs from their home country. Could be that HK is a gold mine for 3-somes among the OFWs?? Worth some investigating I would think.
Cunning Stunt
03-05-09, 04:08
An OFW recently mentioned to me that many Filipinas that accept (legit OFW) work in HK turn bi or les, because there are simply so few men available to them.Don't think that this idea really holds water. I spent several years living and working in Hong Kong, and Filipina's were my standard boffing fare. Don't ever recall meeting a single confessed Bi (or lezzy) during this time. Saying which, there are a lot of ugly sisters/older spinsterish Filipina's working in Honkers, so maybe they find that the only way to get a little nookie is amongst themselves. An attractive Filipina in HK will never have to go too long without.
My mate and I had a foolproof MO for attracting Pinay pussy. He played a mean guitar, so most Sundays we used to heave our hungover asses, with guitar, over to Central, and set up a mini buskers point in Chater Gardens or near the Cenotaph or in one of the myriad other places that the thousands of Hong Kong Filipinas spent their day off work. Between his strumming and my good looks (LOL), we usually had a Pied Piper effect and were quickly surrounded my hordes of sex starved OFW's. The rest was easy.
I wouldn't think this is 'not honest'
she may be originating from Davao City but working and/or living in Makati.
As for the "African American", given the fact that she's posting a pic and that we can see she's asian, I would just put that on a manipulation error when creating her profile.I think she just made the whole profile up for a laugh. Taking the [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140)!
Fredje1961
03-05-09, 11:14
Houziwang,
Funny you mention this: during my last visit to HKG, I met a pretty indonesian nanny (via yahoo, and two hours later in person), and when I asked her about Sunday afternoons in Victoria Park, she told me that she didn't want to go there "because there's so many lesbians, I don't like them".
An OFW recently mentioned to me that many Filipinas that accept (legit OFW) work in HK turn bi or les, because there are simply so few men available to them. Taiwan, in contrast, also employs many Phil and Tai male construction workers, so straight OFWs can find bfs from their home country. Could be that HK is a gold mine for 3-somes among the OFWs?? Worth some investigating I would think.
I was based in HK for four and a half years,never met a genuine Bi and I was in wanchai in the infamous pussycats and neptunes every single weekend without fail,met plenty of lesbians though,and a number of pinays married in pinas who had taken lesbian lovers in HK (gender-confused?).
Sorry Bob, I agree with Fredje on this one. I've seen more than a few Filipinas listed as Afro-am. Maybe that is their man target or maybe they consider themeselves "too dark". There may very well be another explanation...poor English skills?
I guess the way to find out is to ask the lady! Try to give the lady the benefit of the doubt.
X
I wouldn't think this is 'not honest'
she may be originating from Davao City but working and/or living in Makati.
As for the "African American", given the fact that she's posting a pic and that we can see she's asian, I would just put that on a manipulation error when creating her profile.
check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1
and she says her name is Miiyuki? Sounds like japayuki to me.
So she has been to Japan and passed around the Yakusa like a living fuck doll for either a year or more. Anyone one taking these chicks is really getting the low end of the "used" car lot. Trust me, I have seen it.
I guess that they are women too, so what the fuck do I know, go on and marry the chick. I am sure she fucks good.
ahh, just jokin, little bit pissed tonite.
Puerto La Cruz
03-06-09, 14:30
She has the same profile on FH
and she says her name is Miiyuki? Sounds like japayuki to me.
So she has been to Japan and passed around the Yakusa like a living fuck doll for either a year or more. Anyone one taking these chicks is really getting the low end of the "used" car lot. Trust me, I have seen it.
I guess that they are women too, so what the fuck do I know, go on and marry the chick. I am sure she fucks good.
ahh, just jokin, little bit pissed tonite.You could well be right. I have a different take on this. Since i live here i aim my sights a little higher than the bottom end of the socio econmic scale.
I have experience with girls from higher up the 'food chain'.
Lets see now.. 19 years old, well groomed & well dressed, has decent but not expensive jewellery, photo posed somewhere decent (not beside roosters & nipa hut), very upfront about what she wants.. Hmm.. I'd say shes a typical university student. These types of girls have a little better lifestyle than your average province girl & are even more aggressive about finding a guy from overseas to ensure they move up in the world.
Enjoy the fringe benefits of humping one of these super horny little vixens but dont lose your heart to them coz they are very two faced.
AV
I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?Friendster is MASSIVE here in the PI!
Every girl & boy from about 16yrs on gets an account. Its all very school kid'ish at first but them becomes a flirtation venue & a place to satisfy their vanity.
Girls in particular spend A LOT of time embellishing their FS profile with glitter & endless self portraits from their cell phone & pics of all their cousins & school buddies. Some web browsers (software) simply crash under the weight of all the javascript on the girls pages :)
FS is not really seen by them as a place to find a guy (although you will find plenty of foreigner guys posting leering comments to their profiles).
The girls mostly go to CB or FH or DIA for the husband hunting & then return to FS to display their 'catch' to their cousins & friends.
If I were looking I would get a CB & DIA account & let them come to me!
My god you can waste some time on web sites & yahoo chasing pinay's.
AV
check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.
http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfile.aspx?uid=16cabd0e-306f-4410-a108-baafbfcf3bf1She looking for a millionaire, does she mean in peso, euro, pound or usd?
Million peso isn't that much.
Tony Hoeprano
03-10-09, 00:20
At first, I see all these pics on friendster. These gals will have hundreds of pics. Many of the pics will be the same, for example there will be a photo album of Boracay, and there will be about 10 pics of the gal wearing the same outfit at the same location, just different poses, but not that different.
At first, I think gee these gals sure are vain. But then I think. Friendster, its a Philippines phenomenon LOL. What else do they use the PC for?
She looking for a millionaire, does she mean in peso, euro, pound or usd?
Million peso isn't that much.
She looking for u.s. millionaire.
Reastilically Ph, makes turns average american male into donald trump. You can be old and ugly and still get hot girls. If we are really honest with ourselves , we wouldn't be able to pick up 20 something filipina living in the U.S. but its the norm in PH.
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