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SinSoakedGuy
05-19-07, 16:51
I need the opinion of all the seasoned mongers here please!

I visited Dubai this week on a business trip. I've been visiting this forum for sometime now, and was eager to try some of the stuff mentioned here while I was in Dubai. During my stay I visited Astoria, the Lodge, York Internatinal and Regal and went with couple of girls which was all okay. However, on the last day I thought I needed somethng different so I went to another club on Tuesday evening. The club was full of Turkish/Lebanese girls (I think). Many of the girls approached me, but I was not to keen on trying something immediately. I spent couple of hours drinking and looking around. Finally I saw a very quiet and innocent-looking girl sitting with two or three another girls. She was not looking around hunting for customers unlike others. She seemed out of place there. I thought I would take her. However, before I could approach her, a couple of guys approached their table and took off with couple of the girls including the girl I mentioned (let's call her M for convenience). After M and her friend were gone, I approached the other girl who was sitting with her and asked her if she will be back. She replied, Yes, in an hour. So I told her I'll wait for her and to let me know if she's back.

I waited for more than an hour until she was finally back. In the meantime I was talking to her (Turkish) friend who told me that M was Romanian and she is very new here and couldn't speak english. She also gave took my number and told me that once I am done with M that night, i should call her the next day for some good time with her. When M finally arrived, her friend asked her where am I gonna take her. I told her I was living in Habtoor Grand (near Jebel Ali sailing club). She said she won't go so far as she is very new here and nervous about going out, so I needed to take a room within Broadway hotel. I told her I am not carrying my passport, so It's not possible. She spoke to M for a bit and then called up M's mamasan on the phone. I also tried convincing M's mamasan on the phone that it's a good 5 star hotel (not many people seem to know about the hotel) and I'm a decent person and will take care of her. FInally her friend and mamasan were convinced and asked M to go with me.

We set off for the hotel in the cab at about 2am. M couldn't speak any english at all. She looked very beautiful and innocent, but a bit worried at the same time. I tried explaining to her not to worry, and that she'll be safe, but it was a struggle since she barely understood english. I tried striking some kind of conversation but it was all in vain as she kept on saying sentences starting with 'Pashemu', 'Kak', 'Shto' etc. One thing I did manage to ask her was about her country and she seemed to understand that as she said 'Roosi' (Russia) contrary to what her friend had said (She said M was romanian). Even though I had come to broadway thinking of going with some Arab/Lebanese or turkish girl, I was not at all disappointed with M being russian, such was her beauty and demeanour.

When I reached the hotel, the first thing I did was switch on my laptop and start google's translation tool for translating English into Russian. I also opened another website which could be used to type russian letters for her to use (as my laptop didnt have cyrillic alphabets). Using these tools we started an immensely slow but enjoyable process of getting to know each other. She was impressed by my computer skills (she told she hadn't used it much before). I told her about what I do, and she told me about where she comes from (an industrial town in Russia). I typed the name of her town in Wikipedia and she immediately recognised the pictures of her town and and her eyes were filled with tears of longing. I asked her how long she been in dubai, and she replied she had been here only for 7 days! I asked if she missed her home, she replied yes! with a glimpse of tears in her eyes. I hugged her and tried to comfort her, and she felt okay. I also asked her if she was doing this out of her own will or she's been forced into this work.. she nodded her head and waved her hand as if she is saying '50-50'. I asked if she was hungry and she said, yes a bit, and she helped herself with some fruits kept on my table. She seemed much more relaxed now and was actually enjoying our conversation. I asked her if she was happy with the place and if she felt safe? she replied in the affirmative.

We conversed (barely speaking a word, using my laptop to translate english to russian and vice-versa) for about an hour. At about four in the morning, I told her that I was very sleepy and we prepared ourself for bed. I changed into my pyjamas and asked her to use the bathrobe as her evening gown. (No we didn't strip bare naked in the first moment as most girls and johns would do). We lied down on the bed looking at each other. I wanted to kiss her, but I was almost as nervous as if I was on my first date. I didn't feel at all that I was with a call-girl (I even hate using that word with regards to M).

Slowly, after lying down for a few mins i approached her and touched her lips with mine. she drew closer. We slowly started kissing and kissed for almost 15 mins. It was the most intense and sweetest kiss I had ever experienced. Things took off from there and we made love for almost next one hour. However, during the entire one hour, there was barely a minute when we were NOT kissing each other frentically and passionately. After we were exhausted, we still kept looking and smiling at each other. I kept running my fingers in her hair asking her to go to sleep. She kept teasing me with her abrupt kisses, playfully touching my tongue with hers, she said she couldnt sleep. At about 5.30 in the morning, M's mamasan called her up. I didn't want to let her go, so I told her I'll pay more and asked her to let M stay back until 12. Mamasan agreed (ofcourse why wouldnt she!) and spoke to M (in russian) to explain to her that she should take the money from me and stay back till 12.

After mamasan's call ended, we continued playfully kissing each other, making funny faces, nibbling each other's ears and cheeks. M would never stop abruptly kissing me and and biting my lips all these while. we made love once again, then ordered breakfast and then slept in each others arms. After about an hour or so, I woke up again and saw her sleeping besides me. I kissed her.. she slowly opened her sleepy eyes, looked at me lovingly and went to sleep again. I kept teasing her by kissing her all over her body.. and before we know we were in each other's arms and making love again. This time, i didnt even use a condom. I felt so close to her and no thought of STD ran through my mind. She didnt insist for a condom either (unlike in the first two sessions). Maybe even she had started to trust me. Finally it was around 11 and i realised its gonna be my last 1 hour with her as i was returning to London by the 4.15 evening flight. I told her that I was returning to London the same day, she looked a bit disappointed. I told her that I will definitely come back sometime and see her. She nodded her head. I asked her phone number (she said, she doesnt have a permanent phone number, she only gets a phone from her mamasan when she goes out for calls. I said dont worry, i'll find some way of finding her. I gave her my business card clearly marking my phone number and asked her to give me a call if she gets a number of her own. Remember, all these conversations were taking place through the translation tool on my laptop, allthough M did manage to teach me the meaning of few russian words (Pashemu=Why, kak=how, shto=what etc) in this short while. Finally, it was 11.45 and M stood up to get ready, but I grabbed her into bed again and we made love again until about 12.15 when she got worrid about her mamasan calling her.

At 12.30 I asked M to call up her mamasan and i spoke to her mamasan to get the directions and address for the cab as M could barely speak anything besides russian. I offered to take her outside the hotel and drop her in the cab and explain the address to the cab driver, however i couldnt drop her all the way to her house as I had to leave for airport in two hours and had still to do my packing and checkout. As we were preparing to leave, I held M in my arms for one last time and kissed her, and couldnt help saying her 'I love you'. She didnt understand it initally, so i had to translate that too. I kissed her again and said I love you. She responded by saying I love you.

When I went out to the hotel lobby to drop her in the cab, i didnt feel any shame unlike last night while bringing her to the hotel. There was no reason to be ashamed, she was not a call girl for me, she was someone I loved!. I roamed around with her, showing her the swimming pool. Called for the cab and sat with her in the lobby waiting for the cab. However, when the private cab arrived, i didnt wanna explain the directions to the hotel car driver as that would give away the reason M was in the hotel. I decided I would accompany her till Mall of the emirates where we would get off and get M into another cab to her home. In the cab, I held her hand in mine. I took my pen and wrote I (L) U on her hand. she smiled. We kept looking at each other fondly as well as with a hint of sadness knowing that we were about to part ways. I opened my wallet for a piece of paper and asked her to write her name in Russian, which she did. She also glimpsed my passport size photo in my wallet (which i keep for contingency). She took the pic from me and kept it in her purse. I took some photographs of her with my mobile phone camera. I kept pointing to her purse where she had kept my business card and made gestures with my hand reminding her to call me, she nodded in approval.

Finally we got down from the private taxi at the mall of the emirates. I pulled up another cab for M, explained the directions to the cabbie as per my conversation with M's mamasan and asked M to board the cab. My heart was very heavy by the thought of letting her go. As the cab slowly drove away, i kept looking at M with a heavy heart and a hint of tears in my eyes. She kept looking at me too as long as I was in sight. We couldnt say each other anything as I didn't have a laptop with me there to help me with the translation. But I guess our eyes pretty much gave away wot we wanted to say.

As I took the cab back to the hotel, I could barely stop tears flowing from my eyes. I could still feel the sensation on my lips from all the kisses from M. When I got back to the hotel, I again cried looking at the rustled bedsheets where I was lying down with M in my arms just an hour ago. I drank from the same glass in which M had left her drink unfinished that morning. I was getting late for my flight, so I quickly did my packing and checked out of the hotel. On my way to the airport, I passed by the mall of the emirates. Again tears filled my eyes thinking that was were I parted from M about an hour ago. Soon after, i slept in the cab as i had barely slept for an hour the past night. I woke up when i reached the airport. However, the feeling of longing would not leave my heart. I looked out at Dubai from the airport windows thinking this is where my M lives. I wanted to come back really soon, but I was wondering how! Incidentally, when I checked in for the flight I was informed that due to a flight change, there were limited business class seats available so if I volunteer to downgrade to economy, i would get a free business class return ticket from london to Dubai to be used anytime in next one year! I readily accepted to be downgraded with the thought that atleast the ticket are sorted out for my next trip to dubai to see M (I am not very rich, I work for a living, the business class fares and five star hotel stay are provided by the client).

Nevertheless, its been 3 days since I returned from Dubai after meeting my sweet M. On my flight back home from Dubai I had made up my mind that when i go back to Dubai again (soon) I will meet M, tell her that I love her, and ask her to leave that job, marry me and come to UK with me. However, the day I returned from Dubai, some redundancies were announced in my company and I am at risk of redundancy too. This means that i will have to leave the UK ( I was here on work permit) unless I land up another job. This throws a spanner to my plans. I would have to go back to India, but I dont know if M would be willing to come with me there. Incidentally, M's turkish friend called me the same evening I landed in London wanting to meet up. I informed her that I was already in London. Also, instead of talking about her, I asked her about M and if she was doing okay and asked her to convey my regards to M. I called her up again the next day and she informed me that M was well and was very happy to hear my message. I called her again today and asked her to tell M to call me up sometime if she can. I wonder how much M's friend will cooperate with me in helping me keep in touch with M.

In the meantime, i keep thinking of M most of my time when Im not looking at her pics on my mobile (and now copied onto my laptop)

There are also a few other decisions and questions that I am listing below.

My decisions:
1) I gave up mongering. I can't be part of a system that turns girls like M into a commodity which any men with a heavy wallet can buy. I will stick to this decision irrespective of whether or not I ever meet M again.


2) I will visit Dubai very soon, track down M, tell her how much I love her, and ask her to come with me. I will tell her that I am not a rich man, but I'll try to keep her happy. I will tell her that I may lose my job in UK and maybe get another in UK or in Europe or in the middleast (where I was working earlier) or even back to India (where things are not that bad as the economy is doing quite well and one can make a decent living). She can stay with me and Ill help her make a decent living doing a respectable job. She can even marry me when she is ready.

3) Ive already started to learn the russian language. Ive to master it as soon as I can.


My questions:

1) Surely what I felt was love and not just sex based on a financial transaction. Did M too really did feel the same for me? or was she just giving a good Girl-friend-experience (GFE)?

2) Why did M not call me yet? Im sure it would be difficult for her to make a call withought her mamasan's knowledge given that she can barely speak any local language. Even if she calls, wot is she gonna say besides the three common words between us (Pashimu, Shto and Kak). Is that the reason why she didnt call?

3) If I ask her to come with me, will she say yes? I dunno why she left her country and agreed to put herself through this. It was ofcourse for money, but how badly does she need the money. can't she come with me and make a decent living elsewhere? Will she trust me enough to do so?

4) If she does decide to come with me, how easy or difficult it woudl be for her to do so? I know that her passport is kept with mamasan and she only carries a photocopy. I did ask her if she would get back her passport if she wants to go home to russia, and she said Yes. Will she really get it back or she doesnt konw her mamansan too well (she's been in Dubai only for 7 days)

5) AM I FUCKING NUTS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH M AND TO EXPECT HER TO LEAVE HER WORK AND TO COME WITH ME AND LOVE ME FOREVER?

I would be very grateful if the seasoned mongers share their experience with me. have any of them ever gone through this. What are my chances with M?

Many thanks.

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Round the World
05-20-07, 01:10
Wow, interesting story and a great read. I don't know if I qualify as an experienced monger, but I say, what the hell. You only live once. You might as well take your chances and get your heart broken. Go out there and find out what life holds for you.

The experienced among us will tell you it doesn't look good and it won't end well. And the heavy odds are against it (and they really are).

But sometimes the heart break and the longing are better than a good shag anyway.

Go for it and keep posting the updates!

Best of luck mate,
RtW

Sammon
05-20-07, 02:51
One time or another I am sure all seasoned mongers have felt what you felt for the girl although many might deny it.
Now to the truth of the matter. It is quite natural for you to be bitten with the love bug. But in reality in the girl's point of view you are just another client in her life. You also said she went for a ST with somebody before you took her. Do net get all dreamy eyed and talking about marriage and such. There is a world of difference between you and her.
Take a word froim the mongers in this forum. A broken heart lasts as long as another shag. Maybe you are not an experienced monger and that is why you fall in love with some working girl so easily. In my opinion it is ok to continue the off and on meetings but to marry her you have to think real hard. I am sure pretty soon you will get over her. Otherwise you will get hurt real bad emotionally.
I am not saying working girls do not make a good wife. You will be the one constantly thinking how many guys she has been with and asking her questions etc. Take a deep breath and move along.

Sporadic
05-20-07, 06:07
My questions:

1) Surely what I felt was love and not just sex based on a financial transaction. Did M too really did feel the same for me? or was she just giving a good Girl-friend-experience (GFE)?I suggest infatuation. Personally, I do enjoy getting to know the ladies, not just renting a vagina, this does have a downside though, that of getting "too close." It is like fire, it can warm you or burn you.
If the situation is, as you describe (her in town only a few days) it is likely you were the first "decent," "gentle" guy she has met. Under her extreme circumstances, I have no doubt she really appreciated your kindness. Love? Could be I suppose, stranger things have happened, but from experience, I suggest it was the circumstances.



2) Why did M not call me yet? Im sure it would be difficult for her to make a call withought her mamasan's knowledge given that she can barely speak any local language. Even if she calls, wot is she gonna say besides the three common words between us (Pashimu, Shto and Kak). Is that the reason why she didnt call?She does not have a phone of her own, and I doubt the Mamasan wants to pay for a halting, four word call to the UK. She is not ignoring you, she has issues (privacy, money) that probably stop her from calling you right now.


3) If I ask her to come with me, will she say yes? I dunno why she left her country and agreed to put herself through this. It was ofcourse for money, but how badly does she need the money. can't she come with me and make a decent living elsewhere? Will she trust me enough to do so?Impossible to judge at this point. I suggest you take a deep breath and let things settle a little. Yes, she needs money, how much might surprise you, life is tough in provincial Russia.


4) If she does decide to come with me, how easy or difficult it woudl be for her to do so? I know that her passport is kept with mamasan and she only carries a photocopy. I did ask her if she would get back her passport if she wants to go home to russia, and she said Yes. Will she really get it back or she doesnt konw her mamansan too well (she's been in Dubai only for 7 days) hard to say, obviously she will need her passport to do anything, sometimes the PP is safe, in other cases it is sold on ot a "departing lady." Hard facts, I know, but what can you do?


5) AM I FUCKING NUTS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH M AND TO EXPECT HER TO LEAVE HER WORK AND TO COME WITH ME AND LOVE ME FOREVER? In a word, yes. However, that does not mean you are crazy, just rushing things a bit. White Knight syndrome, you would love to "take her away from all this" and she may have the same fantasy. The leaving her work part is the least of it, she would IMHO be more than happy to leave her work (as would 99% of ladies) but you have to get to the root cause, is she supporting a child/family in Russia? She is not in Dubai for vacation.


I would be very grateful if the seasoned mongers share their experience with me. have any of them ever gone through this. What are my chances with M?Ok, three times, I have found myself with serious "new" girls, who decided on the spot that I was something special. I am convinced it was because I was the first "nice" guy they had run into. I also had nothing to offer them long-term (I am not single) but that did not seem to sway them. Understand she is very, very vulnerable right now. Whatever you do, do not offer anything you are not prepared to back up with actions, that would be cruel. I do not want to sound trite, but I think your perspective will change after some time passes, as may her´s.

Final note, I find DXB unique in that you can meet ladies who are not yet hard and professional, and it is a real treat, but it can be a double edged sword, sometimes it is better NOT to know all the gory details of a girls life.

Try to take it easy, and if things work out, great! If not, you had a special human encounter. Lucky guy.

Country Counter
05-20-07, 06:15
Do what you need to do to fall out of love. You know what the correct thing to do is, don't fall in love with a prostitute. This girl is in a foreign land and will latch on to a nice guy like you, maybe you get her to the UK, then her family comes and you get left. You know she doesn't love you, otherwise you wouldn't wonder if she would go to India with you. Imagine all the guys she's slept with since you've left, hopefully that will help you to move on because that's what you need to do.

Nice Guy 99
05-20-07, 06:32
Marry her. I could write a couple thousand words ... but just marry her.

Member #1263
05-20-07, 07:12
Hey Buddy..just Keep On Banging Her When You Can!! Leave The Emotion Bit Out...otherwise She Would Be Banging Someone Else Pretty Soon...caoi

Orient Longman
05-20-07, 08:16
A happy and successful marriage needs to be based on a lot of factors, including sex. You will realize in time that sex is not the most important factor in a happy marriage.

You might have "made love" to her multiple times on your first meeting, but trust me, unfortunately that kind of passion does not last more than a couple of years.

Here are some questions you need to answer honestly:

1) What do you know about her as a person ?
2) Do you know what she expects from life ?
3) Do you know what her aims and ambitions are and how would you fit in ?
4) Marriage is an institution that demands sacrifice and adjustments from both partners. Do you know if BOTH of you have the emotional maturity to make it a success ?

My guess is that since you haven't been able to verbally communicate with her, you don't know the answers to the above questions.

Being familiar with Indian culture, I can predict with some certainty that approval from you family will be a problem. Are you willing to risk breaking family ties forever for a girl you know nothing about (other than that she is fantastic in bed when she is emotionally vulnerable) ?

I have been in similar situations where I felt a deep connection with a innocent looking newbie working girl which resulted in fantastic sex. This has happened on multiple occasions with different girls that spoke the same language that I did (so there was no communication barrier as in your case). Over time I have learned that what I felt was NOT love. It was a temporary infatuation or obsession that lost some intensity with each passing encounter and eventually fizzled out.

My only advise to you... move on buddy, this is not for you.

Boofer
05-20-07, 09:18
Buddy,

what's the name of the club for the Turks and Lebanese babes???

cheers

Rover4220
05-20-07, 10:03
These girls are picked up by the arab sheiks with a promise of marriage. they get married , bring them to middle east then take their visas and passports away.
Once they are done with them they pass them on to madams

I was at Iraq with UNDP and saw many European ladies who wer brought to Iraq as wives and dumped.

The girls have no place to go , no passports , no documents and just for survival they agree to whoring. They were not *****s to begin with really.

I never enjoyed fucking any one of them but always gave 50USD which was a huge amount--enough to survive for more than a month in Iraq.

So check that out. The places they r caught up in are worse than our indian brothels

Disappointed
05-20-07, 12:15
Buddy,

what's the name of the club for the Turks and Lebanese babes???

cheersDamn that made me chuckle. You could have at least started with "Your Nuts!".

But to answer your question, i think its referring to Braodway, where the girls look Lebanese and Turk. They are usually Central Euros.

Disappointed
05-20-07, 12:24
The leaving her work part is the least of it, she would IMHO be more than happy to leave her work (as would 99% of ladies) but you have to get to the root cause, is she supporting a child/family in Russia? She is not in Dubai for vacation.Totally agree. Most are here for a reason - make money. It could be she is supporting a family, kids or Husband even.

Additionally, there are some exceptional actors in Dubai in the mix with the genuine nice ladies. I remember one crying her eyes out about her family in need in some state near Russia, only to find out she told different stories to others!

So your call, but if you are looking to make this truely happen - Your nuts!. JMHO

Jelly Donut
05-20-07, 13:23
Interesting reading.

I'd second (or third) Sporadic's "infatuation" comment. Trying to drag out one night of pleasure with a sex worker into a lifetime partnership is a bit crazy. Why can't you just enjoy it and let it go?

Some additional conventional ideas:

* You should not have gone bareback with her. It's probably not a problem in this case, but you should get tested.
* Don't assume you can "save" her. The amount of time you are committing here is vast - learning Russian, flying to Arabia. Remember that while you have only experienced a situation like this once, she is in a position to have similar experiences all the time.
* Even if you could make her an "honest woman", there are some things in this situation out of your control, things you can not redeem and not play hero in. For instance, in future, how will you explain to any children that their mother was a sex worker?
* Read Of Human Bondage by Somerset Maugham. There is a solid, if brief, description in that book of how quickly an innocent girl can be transformed into a hard and indifferent sex worker. Also, it might help you think about your own motivation in this affair.
* If you are set on falling in love, I recommend trying out a dating agency in Russia instead of chasing this girl.

Also, if you can answer Boofer's question I would appreciate that...

thanks,

J.D.

Sporadic
05-20-07, 15:13
Remember that while you have only experienced a situation like this once, she is in a position to have similar experiences all the time.Good point!

For instance, in future, how will you explain to any children that their mother was a sex worker?Probably excatly the same way she will explain to the children why daddy was a monger. ;) In actuality, WG´s can make a great GF, a lot of BS is instantly stripped away. Instant honesty pill.

* If you are set on falling in love, I recommend trying out a dating agency in Russia instead of chasing this girl. Strongly disagree here. Too many scammers, and I suggest that Sinsoaked would be any easy target for the sharks.

Hey Buddy..just Keep On Banging Her When You Can!! Leave The Emotion Bit Out...otherwise She Would Be Banging Someone Else Pretty Soon...caoi Did you take a short rest from pulling the wings off of butterflies to pen this? ;) The intimacy holds great allure for many mongers, the trick is, like in anything, finding a balance.

Marry her. I could write a couple thousand words ... but just marry her.I expected no less from you NG! Everybody cheered for you, some of us still do!

Well, all that is left is to hear from the principal here, any news Sinsoaked?

Mike De H
05-20-07, 18:15
5) AM I FUCKING NUTS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH M AND TO EXPECT HER TO LEAVE HER WORK AND TO COME WITH ME AND LOVE ME FOREVER?

I would be very grateful if the seasoned mongers share their experience with me. have any of them ever gone through this. What are my chances with M?


Yes, you are, but don't worry about it, I fall in love nearly every trip. I still get messages and calls from two of the Girls, and there it ends for me, because I am old enough to control it and I know theres always another girl in Dubai just over the horizon.

I would say go for it. Getting her into the UK will be dificult beause of the imigration department and because of thepeople who own her. She will be very scared of them and prefer them to you, or at leat thats my bet.

Start with theBritish Embassy in Dubai and when they stop laughing and you start the interview process they will do anything they can to expose her as a gold digger. It will be very embarrasing indeed. (I do not know from personal experience only what other mongers told me).

Finally I now employ East Europeans. You have to basically get a religious girl from a culture where there is a low divorce rate and a culture of loyalty. Ukraine Girls aree great, but will only be interested in the money with a high chance of leaving you but usually only for a better man or a richer one. A Romanian girl will just leave you and a Russian will make your life hell and then leave you. Or at least thats what my guys reckon and what half the East European girls I have fucked tell me. Czek and Slovak girls are loyal but also have a high opinion of themselves. Hungarian Girls are good for loyalty too. Bulgarians ar better than Romanians.

Now, all that is total steretyping and a genearal guide so I say go for it because if you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. If you do and it goes wrong you will only regret it for a few years and then you can come back on here and tell us all about it and entertain me.

I wish I had done it myself actually.

Good luck you bug soft ninnie LOL.

11Bravo
05-20-07, 18:27
1) I gave up mongering. I can't be part of a system that turns girls like M into a commodity which any men with a heavy wallet can buy. I will stick to this decision irrespective of whether or not I ever meet M again.I agree, P4P is NOT for everybody. MY belief is that it should only be indulged in by those who have some life experience under their belt, who can recognize the difference between fantasy and reality. You don't say how old you are. I think you are young, if not physically, then at least mentally. Nothing wrong with inexperience - it does enhance the wonder of new things, but it keeps you from putting such things in perspective. With all due respect, 12 hours making moon eyes at each other, having mad, passionate sex, does NOT a relationship with a future make. No doubt you do understand her situation, but that's a LONG way from understanding HER. That language barrier takes time to overcome, technology notwithstanding.


On my flight back home from Dubai I had made up my mind that when i go back to Dubai again (soon) I will meet M, tell her that I love her, and ask her to leave that job, marry me and come to UK with me. As Sporadic said, I'm sure she thinks you're FANTASTIC, simply because you could have been her first decent guy. But remember, it's not only her life, but yours, and her family's, and your's... "Pretty Woman" is a MOVIE, it lasts all of 2 hours, it's not REAL life. Not saying you can't make a go of a relationship with a wg, it can be done, but the odds are way AGAINST you, and it's NOT done by whisking her away to ride off into the sunset. It takes time.

If you want to be a knight in shining armor, then let it SHINE, not be a dull gray. Don't try to buy a wife. Pay her debt, give her some cash to live on, and let her make her own decisions. Somebody shipwrecked in shark infested waters, you come along in a life boat (strings attached), ask her if she wants to hop in, what do you think she's going to say? "Thanks, but I'll keep swimming, take my chances with the sharks." Your kind offer gets her out of the water, but... what happens when you reach shore? And you? Prepared to row the rest of your life, picking up other passengers (does she have a child, parents alive?) Money WILL have to go there.

OK, enough with the boat analogy. But hopefully, you get my point.


1) Surely what I felt was love and not just sex based on a financial transaction. Did M too really did feel the same for me? or was she just giving a good Girl-friend-experience (GFE)?Sorry to bring you down, but not love. Empathy, pity, throw in some human kindness from a good person as yourself, infatuation that this beautiful girl will do so much with you, lust, ... but if you can't communicate, how can it be love? Sorry, but 4 words don't make a conversation. She could just have been relieved you didn't bend her over a chair and say "Brace" as you tried to anally bareback her (and what is up with the bareback? You say you "love" her, but don't care enough to protect her from YOURSELF? Think there might be a bit more than just helping HER out; some self-interest perhaps?). I'm sure she GREATLY appreciated the kindness you showed, and would appreciate anyone helping her out of this job (haven't met a wg yet who liked it), but how far does "grateful" carry you in the future?

One thing I can tell you: she will remember you as a NICE guy! who treated her kindly and did not let the language barrier be a problem. And if you do see her again, you will be "special". (Personal experience here.) But as Einstein said, "Everything is relative." A Miss Thursday came over every Thursday for 11 months, cooked, cleaned, 2 hour massage, great sex... we are friends, but she is NOT a wife.


I didn't feel at all that I was with a call-girl ... However, when the private cab arrived, i didnt wanna explain the directions to the hotel car driver as that would give away the reason M was in the hotel.But you did feel embarassed, if not for yourself, for her. And that's nice; why pile more on her life. But how are you going to feel back home (England or India) when the rumors do start?


As I took the cab back to the hotel, I could barely stop tears flowing from my eyes. I could still feel the sensation on my lips from all the kisses from M.That's called infatuation and lust. Not saying it can't be emotionally intense, but, again, perspective.


2) Why did M not call me yet? That's a bit self-centered, isn't it? I'm sure she's got BIGGER problems than keeping in touch with you. Trying to pay off her debt, make some money to send home, trying to judge good, or at least tolerable punters from abusers... LE worries... I'm sure she would contact you if she could, but you assume she has friends who can help her. Sorry to bring you down, but if her "friend" doesn't know which country she's from, is trying to come on to you herself... Perhaps once she has some money put together, she will sms you. But right now? Dare I say "Perspective" again?


3) If I ask her to come with me, will she say yes? I dunno why she left her country and agreed to put herself through this. It was ofcourse for money, but how badly does she need the money. can't she come with me and make a decent living elsewhere? Will she trust me enough to do so?A decision HOPEFULLY she made herself. But certainly money is required, if not what she can earn, then yours... A decent living in your country? Doing what? Not all of us have had the benefits of a decent educational system... To learn English, a skill... that doesn't come overnight. And don't think because you "love" her, that counts with immigration and she gets it automatically. Even checking the box (legit) "wife" does not guarantee entry.


5) AM I FUCKING NUTS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH M AND TO EXPECT HER TO LEAVE HER WORK AND TO COME WITH ME AND LOVE ME FOREVER?No, but perhaps not necessarily grounded in reality. You want to test YOUR motives? I stick by my suggestion above: pay off her debt, give her a "salary" to live on back home, and see what develops. Could be cheaper and less painful in the long run.


For instance, in future, how will you explain to any children that their mother was a sex worker? Why would you feel obligated to?

One thing about a wg is she DOES know what a HARD life is, and is not afraid to make the difficult decisions when push comes to shove.


Imagine all the guys she's slept with since you've left... That might be meant as a TRICK for getting over her, but could also breed resentment by you, and you don't want that. She's just doing what she has to do to survive. Understand you did have something special with her, take it as such, an enjoyable MOMENT for the BOTH of you. But don't try to extrapolate that into a life together. Not saying it couldn't happen, but... better if you're on an equal footing (so give her a salary).


Marry her. I could write a couple thousand words ... but just marry her.I will politely disagree, sir. Certainly happy that YOUR situation worked out, but I think it's the exception, rather than the rule. It's all based on INDIVIDUALS, and you can't extrapolate your situation to others. And you could put things in perspective, having life experiences to give you reference points.
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Bottom line: Want to feel REALLY good about yourself? Be altruistic. Help her out WITHOUT expecting anything in return. Just because she's a nice person and so are you.

Sikander
05-20-07, 20:46
Thats a fantastic Post 11Bravo. I have to agree with you as I can speak from experience. I am new to the site and after reading this thread thought I should give you my input.

I too had a similar problem as Sinsoakedguy. I was in Dubai in February for 10 days and met her on the 5th day there and subsequently saw her for the folowing days there. She had only been in Dubai for 2 weeks prior and obviously not enjoying her time there at all. We had a serious language barrier also, as you can imagine she had only been there 2 weeks so english was limited to "Hi, How are you?".

The days I spent with her I took her out around Dubai and she seemed to really appreciate that which to be honest made me feel good about myself I will admit.

Only when it came close to me leaving to come back to the UK did it become apparent to me that she had a debt which needed to be paid off before she could get her passport back. Through friends she told me that she wanted to run away and asked me if there was anyway I could get her home or into the UK, but ofcourse this was not possible. So I said I would see what I could do with regards to the debt and left for London. She actually managed to come and see me off at the airport!!!

Once back in the UK I recieved a daily call asking me how I was..she was slowly learning english from her friends so the conversations were starting to develop. She said if there was anything I could do she would really appreciate it. 6 weeks had gone by and she was still phoning and telling me she was missing me and that she wanted to go home. So I went back in April and decided to pay off her debt, at that point it had reduced from $4000 to $2000. I met her mamasan and agreed to pay off her debt only if she could show me the ticket booked for her to go home and that I could be there when she left. They asked her if thats what she really wanted and she said yes. A couple of days later I was waving off a very grateful young lady at Dubai Airport.

She is now currently studying English and back with her parents and I get regular updates from her saying how her life is coming along. I have sent money to her to give her some sort of income, not much but enough. Some may think I am crazy but hey....sometimes we need to give back!!!

I will not say that I fell in love with her, but I did feel for her and her situation. As time has gone by we have become friends and who knows whar could happen..I will keep you posted.

I have been to Dubai many times and you do meet the odd girl that really shouldn't be there. So Sinsoaked guy as 11Bravo said..if you want to help her try to help with the debt and see where it goes, but be weary also as some are very clever in what they do and once the money has exchanged hands she may go home but for you never to hear from her again. This is a chance you have to take.

Bus as Sporadic has said DON'T make promises that you cannot keep as some of the girls are in really unfortunate situations and it would be very cruel. As when I was promising to help this girl her friends were being very synical and saying that I was lying. So many guys make false promises to have a better time with the girl.....but bare in mind that these girls do have heart and some are very vunerable.

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My Kapitan
05-20-07, 21:40
Somebody shipwrecked in shark infested waters, you come along in a life boat (strings attached), ask her if she wants to hop in, what do you think she's going to say? "Thanks, but I'll keep swimming, take my chances with the sharks." Your kind offer gets her out of the water, but... what happens when you reach shore? And you? Prepared to row the rest of your life, picking up other passengers (does she have a child, parents alive?) Money WILL have to go there.
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Superb analogy 11b.

Mongering old seadog that I am I chuckled for a long time on both this and the original post.

Are you being a fool sinsoakedguy? Well if its only been the one visit - yes. The word I would use as a diagnosis is cuntstruck.

Your handle says it all, just get a hairyshirt and a birch, its cheaper.. :;)

I think she really is not what you are looking for.

Give it more time my friend – much more time. Know yourself better before you commit. As my Mum used to say ‘Marry in haste and repent at leisure’.


WE guys are made differently from the rest. I suggest that you try and meet up with her at least once. See her reaction.,

Ag you are right us WE guys are made differently – BIGGER! I love the reactions! :)

Wicked Roger
05-20-07, 21:52
Superb analogy 11b.


Those that know me, know my tastes – don’t they WR?
MK

I do and have seen first hand evidence of your tastes..and you think I am wicked with my tastes :)

Back on subject...you are too early, this is the rush of first lust not love, we all have favourites (I have mine, Piper has his several favourites, MK had his O) but then again we have known them for a while and we, to a degree or completely, trust them. They have passed various 'tests' to prove they are not purely money grabbing visa wanting WGs. Also in some guys cases they ahve been with them for a few years not a few shots on a trip to Dubai

So be warned and forewarned

WR

Piper1
05-20-07, 23:42
Very nice romantic post from Sinsoaked (a tear came to my eye - not). Sorry Sin - we've read variations of this tale a 1,000 times before. But no one has yet mentioned the obvious response: Working girl or not, you do not give up your life to a girl after only the second date.

Add in the fact that she's a WG, makes things slightly more complicated.

Excess
05-21-07, 07:29
many have been aflicted with a post-coital glow and silly thoughts on an early encounter... some have been lucky, many not. picking up a theme, if she is a working girl and you certainly know that for sure if you have contracted for her time then there are certainly additional complications.

a cure and test that i have seen to be effective is to simply take yourself to a crowded public place such as a shopping mall in the city where you have been lust-struck, or cuntstruck as mk puts it. stand in a high traffic location, and begin to peel off from a wad of bills - currency your choice, but let's say with a value of at least us$ 20.- each. hand out or throw into the path of strangers/oncomers single bills in rapid succession to the value of say usd $300-500.

consider the effect on the recipients and then on yourself as a warm up for things to come.

if necessary, repeat the action.

now, head back to your hotel for an hour or two of quiet contemplation and once this is done, proceed to a new club/bar and jump back into the game once again. unless you are very, very lucky in which case resign yourself to frequent repeats of the "cure" in less public places by which time the situation is hopeless.

i try to check myself at an early stage usually manifested by the "silly thoughts" creeping in which need to be banished by heading out to venues new. haven't had to go through the santa decompress in a shopping mall for a few years now. it may seem a bit excess-ive, but is certainly a very cheap cure with regards to the alternatives.

but by all means, enjoy.

Doctopuss
05-21-07, 12:10
being the typoholic i am, i had to jump in! but i’ll take the opportunity of typing/talking more on the practical side of a longer term commitment (the ‘till death do us part) angle.

first of all bro as pointed out by so many members distinguish between love and lust/infatuation. we are all almost adamant and convinced that what you are facing is a combo of infatuation and lust. why? because, the feeling you have for this woman (deliberate choice not to tag her as a wg) is based on a one time physical encounter, where you, yourself hammered again and again that minimal verbal communication took place. love my friend happens over time, happens by understanding a person and takes place between two souls and two minds and does not base solely on sexual gratification we get from each other’s bodies or touch. the experienced ‘lovers’ as i would call them have given you explicit advice that the passion is temporary, just like infatuation and lust and trust me almost everyone here is speaking out of experience.

you both met in an encounter where both of you had only one objective in mind for the small 8 hour relationship you had…passion and sexual gratification. tomorrow when you will be tied in a wedlock; you will be sharing other responsibilities as well. a home to take care of, future financial security, kids (if you have them), two sets of in-laws to look after and so on. will you be able to continue the passion everytime. whenever, you evaluate someone on these grounds…do not analyze her in an isolated scenario, try to perceive her in your everyday life. a husband and wife are a team, which has to perform in more areas than just the bed, can she or will she perform equally good in other areas, or can you perform with her by your side.

not leaving the passion bit in mid-air, let me tell you once again that passion is temporary (although some might disagree). you know, for the past few weeks i had this huge craving for a thick blue cheese steak, char grilled, black from the outside and red and rare from the inside. i finally had one yesterday and it was almost heaven for me as i enjoyed and savored every single morsel of it. now imagine, if i got served the same heavenly steak everyday of my life at every meal…will the same level of enjoyment be there as there was the first time. i assure you no!

not trying to discourage you, but you have to understand that successful relationships last because that passion over time converts into companionship. “companionship” is the key. a good wife has to be a better companion rather than a better lover and this is where true love evolves over time. she has to stand besides you through thick and thin, through ups and downs. companionship comes from compatibility.

compatibility is a very tricky area. just because two people are alike and enjoy the same things does not mean that they can be compatible as a couple for a longer term. a crude example; take a bear in india and take a polar bear. both are from the same family, have the same anatomy and so on. hell you can maybe even get both of them to mate but can you make both of them live together in the same place. no!!! why? because, despite being the same species they are from completely different habitats. take another example from this forum itself. all of us share a common hobby, similar views, interests and might even strip in front of each other and shag together. but how many of us are actually best of friends, or how many of us have accepted each other for everything we are or do. many of us find despite valuable info being passed, irritating facts about each other. take 11b’s forum monitoring, wr’s endless posting of n’s pics and my long lectures and frs. there have been quite a members who have found it irritating, where as, have we done anything wrong. no! but still some find it irritating, in fact so irritating that they go out and point it out on the forum. with compatibility being an issue on a friendship level on a net forum imagine how complicated it is on the marriage level (please no way am i intending to court a fellow forum member, this example has just been used to serve as an example).

what i write here, i write out of experience. you know i still remember (almost a decade ago) when i was getting married, i was so much in love, nothing was better than to be taking a step through which i would spend my entire life with the woman i loved. i still remember a day after i had gotten engaged a senior colleague/friend of mine gave me this precious advice. he told me:

“we all fall in love and get married without thinking about the true nature of the relationship. before marriage, we want each other, the passion is high, and to court each other we put on our best behaviors (being from the marketing world the term used was “window dressing’) but you have to realize that you are not bringing a product in your house to be displayed in your living room, she is a living, breathing person, who has a nature and needs of her own. you’ll be sharing the bathroom, her dirty lingerie and underwear will be there amongst your clothes hanging behind the door, she’ll shit in the morning and maybe occasionally fart while sleeping, she’ll have bad days when she wouldn’t want to make love and might be at a time when you are the horniest…in other words you’ll see the worst side of her when you get married to her and vice versa, so be prepared for it.”

at that time i thought i was getting an anti climax, maybe he wasn’t happy that i was getting married to such a perfect woman. but today i value his words.

it took me all this time and an almost broken marriage (the cause of my disappearance from the forum in 2006) to realize that how true those words were. a marriage is not about making love to that one amazing woman, it is about facing life with a companion. passion imho can be availed anywhere (and we all are) but companionship in very few places and i seriously believe that there is only one person who accepts you at your worst and that is who your life partner should be and vice versa.

you know, you cannot imagine how big an issue that your wife regularly not replacing the cap of the toothpaste can become that it could be one of the factors leading to the almost termination of a sacred vow. no i am not saying that hell, she didn’t replace the toothpaste cap…so hey i divorce you. no it keeps on adding up, it starts with one small thing and evolves into a bigger one as things keep on adding up. and this is the woman who is the mother of your kids.

so imagine how hard it will be initially with a woman you really don’t know much about, infact the only thing you do know is that she was in the business of entertaining other men.

now my speech may sound as an “anti marriage” sermon. but no it is not. this is life, and i am all for marriage, i think the best thing that can happen to a man is marriage as it (in most cases) is the way to bring new life into this world. but all i am trying to get to, is that making marriage last under an umbrella of eternal happiness is a very tricky job and you need to atleast make sure that the partner you choose is someone who has the most amount of compatibility and least amount of issues.

last but not the least, one of the key elements why i believe my marriage almost ended…was the influence of third parties. my family, her family, my friends, her friends and so on. you have to realize that when a long term relationship happens there is excess baggage. relatives and friends. you have to come to term with hers and she with yours. compatibility has to exist there as well. here you both are competing with people which have influenced your lives for many more years than you both have known each other. and frankly you do not know a single thing about her excess baggage.

with your madam m, you already know there are plenty of issues. issues which i assure you (especially being from the sub-continent culture) you will not be able to handle.

let me point out both the scenarios:

scenario one:
by the time you get to her, she has already been corrupted by the system and is now a wg, who has hardened and is now used to the extra cash. yes she might be getting many bums in shitty places, but occasionally, she must be spending nights in top hotels, drinking the best liquor and also occasionally meeting a soft romantic like you who gives her easy money.

ok you propose to her, she accepts and you take her to either uk or india. since she is corrupted, how long do you think she will live off the salary you give her. with her newly found freedom, she’ll want to enjoy it too. can you let her, can you afford it. would she want to be out of one prison and into another prison…the one you call home. yes she might love having her ‘home’ at first but how long till the wg instinct takes over again. you will not be there all the time to look after her. one fine day, you’ll want her to stop wasting time and start looking after your home, how will she react?

you’ll want babies, will she??? how do you know she already doesn’t have one or two back home. if she does how will you react, will you accept them. secondly, will she have yours, when she knows that her last husband ditched her with her child(ren), you might do the same. secondly, she knows having more children ruins her fall back career of wg if you ever leave her….you can, can’t you after all at the end of the day you picked her up during your mongering trip. that’s how she has looked at men, p4p, look for a gfe, wham, bam and then thank you ma’am. yes you are different but for how long?

trust is another thing, she is used to flirting with other men, can you live with that. can you see your wife knowing what she used to do be extra friendly with another man. and trust me she will be, cause that is how she knows how to interact with other men. secondly, how will she trust you…she knows you monger. i see a very insecure relationship here. a lot of accusations and blame fights.

then how about financing her folks at home, can you keep the fund running, if you fail, she might return back to her old ways to support her family…a fear you’ll always live with.


scenario 2

she is all innocent and hates what she is doing and really wants a homely life. you propose and she accepts and you guys fly off to uk or india.

ok now first issue is trust. same issue is there, insecurity. you will never be comfortable with her being friends with other men and she with you flying around or being with other women. you are from the sub-continent, where married women and horny house wives are now becoming easy screws in bed. how long can you live with the fear that someone might not succeed in seducing your white wife in bed. after all, aren’t white women perceived to be “open’ to ideas like this in our little sub-continent society.

okay now how do you know, i haven’t slept with m during this time. i tomorrow can become your friend or your colleague or boss in let’s say cambodia or even india. i recognize your wife as a wg who i had shagged in all holes and did the works with…how will you deal with it? i am certainly not going to keep quiet about it. hell i might even try to get a free screw, cause i know your wife used to be a wg. how will she react? not everyone is going to be nice and stay hush about it. we all know about ex lovers uniting again later in their lives for some hot passionate sessions even when they are married to other people. get real, your wife was a wg. even if she is loyal, her ex-customers won’t know that and will keep on trying, one after the other to get lucky. you can’t keep her hidden from the world you know.

everytime, you’ll see her with a man you don’t know and she’ll claim he was an old friend, what will you think? was he an old customer? what if you see him again with her?

if she has truly given up everything, she will be highly possessive about you (you have been a monger) can you handle it? all the checks and questions, the close watch, the counter checks?

what about your family, how will they react? what if someone eventually finds out in the family what she was, what then? she isn’t a wg from the far end of the world…incidentally, she is from dubai…the mongering ground for the horniest from india and the me. indian families are quite closely knit, you have to watch out for that.

bro, you don’t even know her up-bringing and her habitat. you cannot change the way a person has lived for and learned for 20 odd years of her life in a couple of months or even years (not referring to her wg status here), what if her upbringing and values are completely opposite to yours. do you have the patience to go through the change process based over years and years, which by the way is a gamble because she might not change but you might. you could wake up a completely different man 7 years down the road and end up hating what you have become.

women love to talk and have their problems listened to. do you have the courage to listen to her bad experiences from the wg days. do you have the courage to listen to how men treated her in bed or how they forced their cocks in her mouth and tried to cum in her mouth…do you have it in you? yes the approach is not to talk about her past but it is part of her life, she will eventually need an outlet, she can’t keep it bottled up in her forever. who can that outlet eventually be…maybe a lucky old customer.

last of all, she is in a very risky business, have you thought about hiv, stds…can you marry someone with even one of those and then have kids with her. you cannot. or do you plan to tell her i love you, propose to her and then take her to the doctor to get a check up???? what will you do if she is positive???? tell her sorry i don’t love you anymore or that i love you but i cannot marry you!!! and by the way, i am sure by the time you get to testing and results…your passion could get you into a lot of trouble because obviously you will be sleeping with her a lot and i can sense it would be uncovered. is infatuation so strong that it overshadows logic and self preservation. hopefully you got lucky once….don’t do it again.


long long piece of advice from myside but focusing totally on the post marriage scenario. think about it bro. do go have a blast of a time, see what you feel about other women. take it as therapy or as homework before you take a major decision of your life. we as fellow forum members can only offer advice. you can hate us for it or love us, but remember at the end of the day it is your life. nobody is generalizing m, we respect you for what your plans are, but still feel that you are treading into sure shot dangerous waters. i mean why dive into the ocean when you can see the shark fins with your naked eyes.

my most valuable piece of advice: loving someone is very different than living with a person! think about it.

keep pondering!
doc!

p.s. (got nothing to do with the discussion or the forum but since i mentioned my marraige issues, i thought i'll update everyone) after a lot of turbulence, i am now living a very very happy married life based on an amazing companionship with my wildcat. strange, during my bad year, instead of rising, my mongering activities went down (didn’t feel like it) and now that my domestic life is on a high i feel like mongering all the time…go figure!

Mike De H
05-21-07, 13:43
Its a lot more fun if you persuade him to go for it, and get him to post it like a soap opera over the next few months.

Stop giving him sensible advice. "Pretty Woman" can happen, the dream is possible and WG's can become nice little housewives on a modest budget.

11Bravo
05-21-07, 14:01
Totally agree. Most are here for a reason - make money. And I thought they all came for the water...


At company functions both you and she need balls of steel to face down the disapproval. If you take her back to India she will be an outsider, can she handle that and if so for how long? It’s tough.Thanks. Good points; it's not like she is going to blend in there... I mean, take dxb: a westerner walking down the street with a stunning babe, be she CIS or asian, LE will most likely let them pass - she could very well be his trophy wife/gf, even daughter. A southern asian walking down the street with said CIS or asian... that might be cause to ask questions (not saying cross-cultural marriages don't happen, but seems to be rare).

And like I mentioned, what about his family? I don't know much about the culture, but "hi, this is my new wife" MIGHT have some repercussions back home...


I have been to Dubai many times and you do meet the odd girl that really shouldn't be there. ... So I went back in April and decided to pay off her debt, at that point it had reduced from $4000 to $2000. I met her mamasan and agreed to pay off her debt only if she could show me the ticket booked for her to go home and that I could be there when she left. They asked her if thats what she really wanted and she said yes. A couple of days later I was waving off a very grateful young lady at Dubai Airport.

She is now currently studying English and back with her parents and I get regular updates from her saying how her life is coming along. I have sent money to her to give her some sort of income, not much but enough. Some may think I am crazy but hey....sometimes we need to give back!!!Wasn't it the Beatles who said, "the love you take is equal to the love you make"? I really hope there is such a thing as Karma (well, at least for you; if true, my best hope is "ant" in the next life :) ).

But seriously, I don't think you're crazy. Very SMART, with your EXACT requirements for her "release". You certainly have to be careful about scammers, but there are the girls who realize they made a mistake, they want to get out, home is not so bad.

$2k plus some income is certainly not cheap, but where else can you have such a profound and dramatic effect on someone's life for so little? Yes, you can give 2k to charity, innoculate 4000 kids against polio, but I don't know any of those 4000 kids. I do know the 1 girl. Noblesse oblige.


Bus as Sporadic has said DON'T make promises that you cannot keep as some of the girls are in really unfortunate situations and it would be very cruel. As when I was promising to help this girl her friends were being very synical and saying that I was lying. So many guys make false promises to have a better time with the girl.....but bare in mind that these girls do have heart and some are very vunerable.Just like the scammer playing on his emotions, the opposite is also true. Both equally wrong in my book; a scammer is a scammer.


...if you want to help her try to help with the debt and see where it goes, but be weary also as some are very clever in what they do and once the money has exchanged hands she may go home but for you never to hear from her again. This is a chance you have to take.It's a gift, not a "loan". And you do it for yourself, not her.

Sikander
05-21-07, 21:18
Thanks again 11Bravo for another excellent post! And for the compliment. But as you say Sinsoakedguy should do it for himself, and not expect something in return. I didn't and just knowing that she is at home with her family is more than enough for me.

There will need to be money involved and if he does decide to go down that route and he must really be clever about it. I my case I had a gut feeling that the situation was genuine but you never know, that is why I took the precautions that I did. Some of these girls do want to go home but their mamasans don't allow it even when the debt is paid as some of these girls have no idea how long it will take the debt to be paid off so thet are cheated. So my advice to Sinsoakedguy would be to go back to Dubai and meet with her mamasan and deal with her direct and take the precautions I did.

To want to marry someone you barely know, can hardly communicate with is a little too much to say the least. Its a shame he can't get in touch with her as he could see what was the situation now. I think most have got it right on this thread in saying that its an infatuation and white knight syndrome. But who knows. Maybe love at first sight does exist!

I say good luck to him. Wherever he has dissapeared too! Maybe he has gone back already in search for the love of his life.

Piper1
05-22-07, 00:35
I am now living a very very happy married life based on an amazing companionship with my wildcat. Dr. Puss - get your own nicknames - I already patented wildcat. ;)

Crypton
05-22-07, 00:48
Not to hijack this thread, but I was little concerned when I read that brown skinned people with a CIS girl might be stopped by cops in Dubai. Is this frequent? I will be in Dubai in July and don't want to be arrested (for obvious reasons ;-)). Can someone please comment on this and perhaps even reassure me? Thanks.

Just to make this relevant: IMHO Sinsoaked guy is setting himself up for a fall one of two ways. By now, "his" gal is so enamored with the money she makes that she doesn't want to leave. Or she will agree to marry him and leave him when she is able to. I am not sure CIS citizens see living in India as a step up (don't flame me, I am originally from there), eventhough Sinsoaked might be able to provide a good life for her. I think Sinsoaked is honest in his feelings and appraisal of the situation; but I also think his eyes are fogged by either love or as others pointed out, lust. Personally, I never let feelings get in the way of a good time.


Cheers.

Doctopuss
05-22-07, 08:46
Dr. Puss - get your own nicknames - I already patented wildcat. ;)

Hehehe...it was purely out of inspiration, how about wildcat jr?

11Bravo
05-22-07, 15:41
Not to hijack this thread, but I was little concerned when I read that brown skinned people with a CIS girl might be stopped by cops in Dubai. Is this frequent? Didn't mean to cause any concern. No, it is not frequent, in the absolute sense. My point was, given that from what I've seen, mixed marriages with south asians are not that usual. So certain assumptions are drawn when a mixed couple is seen together. PERHAPS LE might do a visa check. Mixed marriages, especially old man, young lady, more prevalent in the west. Not saying LE would not stop that couple, only saying less likely than the south asian couple.

Just follow common sense: don't linger yakking in front of the bar, just jump in a taxi and away you go. I was a little concerned when I pulled from York, and asked her if there would be a problem walking to my car, parked near Jockey's. She said no, not at THAT hour (11pm). Later on... maybe. But remember, we were walking, not grabbing a taxi from the front door.

As long as you're discreet, no problems (Inshallah) :)


Dr. Puss - get your own nicknames - I already patented wildcat. ;)I think Arizona beat you to that :)

Sporadic
05-23-07, 18:01
I propose a 48 hour count down to final voting on SSG.

1. Poor guy, in the words of MK, "cuntstruck."

2. Troll, the kind who send chain letters etc.

3. One handed poster needing attention.

4. Journalist seeking "insight" before writing a sensationalist line of crap.

5. Based on the nick, just looking for a hairshirt, but a real person.

6. Is now commited to an institution.

7. The original knight in shining armor.

8. It is Piper just trying to smoke out others who may want to use the name "Wildcat." (you WILL be hearing from his attorney.)

9. Someone who needs a trip to BKK.

10. He has no penis. Was refused Fantasia membership.

Have I missed any general classifications?

Piper1
05-23-07, 20:41
I propose a 48 hour count down to final voting on SSG.

1. Poor guy, in the words of MK, "cuntstruck."

2. Troll, the kind who send chain letters etc.

3. One handed poster needing attention.

4. Journalist seeking "insight" before writing a sensationalist line of crap.

5. Based on the nick, just looking for a hairshirt, but a real person.

6. Is now commited to an institution.

7. The original knight in shining armor.

8. It is Piper just trying to smoke out others who may want to use the name "Wildcat." (you WILL be hearing from his attorney.)

9. Someone who needs a trip to BKK.

10. He has no penis. Was refused Fantasia membership.

Have I missed any general classifications?2 and 3 but not 8. ;)

In sum, I say "Troll"; but at least he put some effort into it.

1Ball
05-23-07, 23:34
What I find interesting is that Sinsoakedguy has not logged on since the day after his post. He has 2 posts to his name, both identical, in different threads of the UAE. What kind of a guy writes such an epic story, asks for advice, then never checks the responses, you ask?

A TROLL.

Sporadic
05-24-07, 07:29
Yep, the kind that gets their kicks sending out those "send little Jimmy a postcard" or "bill Gates will donate $10 for every email" BS emails.

Sad really.

Gujuboy
05-24-07, 16:06
Dost,

I think you should go back to Dubai and run your feelings with her and see how she feels.

Make sure you tell her also about your Job issue, etc so atleast she knows what her situations.

Don't get me wrong, but boss, love and sex will not feed you or her

Anyways, GOOD LUCK!

Dhain Rakhna Dost!


I need the opinion of all the seasoned mongers here please!

There are also a few other decisions and questions that I am listing below.

My decisions:

1) I gave up mongering. I can't be part of a system that turns girls like M into a commodity which any men with a heavy wallet can buy. I will stick to this decision irrespective of whether or not I ever meet M again.

2) I will visit Dubai very soon, track down M, tell her how much I love her, and ask her to come with me. I will tell her that I am not a rich man, but I'll try to keep her happy. I will tell her that I may lose my job in UK and maybe get another in UK or in Europe or in the middleast (where I was working earlier) or even back to India (where things are not that bad as the economy is doing quite well and one can make a decent living). She can stay with me and Ill help her make a decent living doing a respectable job. She can even marry me when she is ready.

3) Ive already started to learn the russian language. Ive to master it as soon as I can.

My questions:

1) Surely what I felt was love and not just sex based on a financial transaction. Did M too really did feel the same for me? or was she just giving a good Girl-friend-experience (GFE)?

2) Why did M not call me yet? Im sure it would be difficult for her to make a call withought her mamasan's knowledge given that she can barely speak any local language. Even if she calls, wot is she gonna say besides the three common words between us (Pashimu, Shto and Kak). Is that the reason why she didnt call?

3) If I ask her to come with me, will she say yes? I dunno why she left her country and agreed to put herself through this. It was ofcourse for money, but how badly does she need the money. can't she come with me and make a decent living elsewhere? Will she trust me enough to do so?

4) If she does decide to come with me, how easy or difficult it woudl be for her to do so? I know that her passport is kept with mamasan and she only carries a photocopy. I did ask her if she would get back her passport if she wants to go home to russia, and she said Yes. Will she really get it back or she doesnt konw her mamansan too well (she's been in Dubai only for 7 days)

5) AM I FUCKING NUTS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH M AND TO EXPECT HER TO LEAVE HER WORK AND TO COME WITH ME AND LOVE ME FOREVER?

I would be very grateful if the seasoned mongers share their experience with me. have any of them ever gone through this. What are my chances with M?

Many thanks.

EDITOR'S NOTE: I certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.

My Kapitan
05-25-07, 00:35
I propose a 48 hour count down to final voting on SSG.

1. Poor guy, in the words of MK, "cuntstruck."

2. Troll, the kind who send chain letters etc.

3. One handed poster needing attention.

4. Journalist seeking "insight" before writing a sensationalist line of crap.

5. Based on the nick, just looking for a hairshirt, but a real person.

6. Is now commited to an institution.

7. The original knight in shining armor.

8. It is Piper just trying to smoke out others who may want to use the name "Wildcat." (you WILL be hearing from his attorney.)

9. Someone who needs a trip to BKK.

10. He has no penis. Was refused Fantasia membership.

Have I missed any general classifications?


I stand by 1 - but

It could also be 4 - a senior member writing under a pseudonym...

MK

11Bravo
05-26-07, 07:26
On thinking about it, PERHAPS 2: was it ignorance or "cleverness" for the double post and starting a new thread (didn't realize anyone could do that)?

On the other hand, maybe 1: perhaps now returned to the "real" world, the fantasy dissipating like smoke, grounded in the real world.

Sikander
05-29-07, 13:55
Strange guy. Where has he dissapeared too?

Dap69
05-29-07, 14:26
I've experienced the exact same thing before and that was a big mistake. My thought is that most of these girls will show you that they love you that they care, that you're the one and the only one that could make them happy but in reality, they do the same thing with almost all of their clients.

2 years ago I met one such lady but she was in Bahrain; a very beautiful and sweet girl. I kept seeing her for over 5 months. I was almost going there every 2-3 weeks as I had a work permit in Saudi Arabia spending half of my pocket on her! All those love words coming out of her mouth, calling every 2-3 days, sending me love messages and I was doing the same. One time when I was with her about 4 months later, she went to bathroom and I was curious to check her SMS. A total shock, I even found out that she was sending my OWN love SMS to other clients, just changing the names! I felt bad, real bad! I was emotionally fucked up! I didn't reveal anything to her when she came back from bathroom. However, when I got back to Saudi I called her and I told her that I just feel jealous and want to spend the rest of my life with her. You have to wait, she said! That is not an answer from an honest person. I never called her again, she kept sending me SMS asking if I forgot her but I never replied cuz I know it was the money/gifts and good time, as I a was very nice guy, is what she cared about. She stopped calling after 4 days! I felt really good after I got rid of here cuz I knew I was being fooled.

So please do not fall into this trap, not just SSG but all of you guys. You will start by taking a short time with your LADY and it will develop to a relationship. You will start taking full-night with them every fucking weekend. You will start bringing gifts for your lover. Then the fucking game will take you through doors you will never be able to get out of. And remember, there’re hundreds other who know her and probably she’s doing the same with everybody.

Marad39
06-20-07, 08:20
My advise would be no marraige to a working girl. This is not to mean that working girls can not be a good homemaker. but in your case, my friend, the problem is multifold-

* Communication barrier- you just dont know who is she and what she wants.

* It is likely that she is hooked to a easy like as a WG and she may continue doing this behind you. How do u trust her?

* What about your family ties, who have lots of expectation from you.

You should marry only those whom you love and equally who loves you. Here the later part is an unknown commodity. Evenif you you are sure she loves you, what about cultural background (which are ovecome, no doubt) which remains quite challenging.

You should just keep her in one place, and that is n your memory ( I also have many such encounter in my memory) and move on.

11Bravo
06-21-07, 02:44
* It is likely that she is hooked to a easy like as a WGA wg's easy life? A male fantasy for sure. Methinks you have no concept of the REALITY.

Admin
06-22-07, 06:11
Greetings Everyone,

I recently cleaned up this thread by deleting a number of off-topic and otherwise worthless posts by Black Night77, as well as a number responses made by other forum members to these deleted posts.

This cleanup process is not perfect, and it's possible that I may have inadvertently deleted a few otherwise legitimate posts. If you find that your own report was also deleted, please don't take it personally.

Thanks,

Jackson

Double Shooter
07-06-07, 11:10
the shooter had the pleasure of spending some time in dubai in the company of his trusty cohort the accountant. the accountant is a worthy fellow, but like many of his profession, prone to monomaniacal obsessions. his current passion is for the paradigm of the filipina: petite, soft skin, shiny hair and dazzling smile.

the shooter has a cosmopolitan and eclectic view of the female form, not restricting himself to any particular race or physical attribute. he takes a firmly capitalistic view, willing to position his cash and his todger anywhere in the world where it will obtain maximum return. the ftse 100 index or the piper101 debauchery scale, any metric will suffice.

on this occasion, the shooter decided to humour the accountant. a project was initiated to conduct research into hunting filipinas in dubai. a kind of sexual sabbatical. but where to find the research material? the filis in the seaview are too professional and petite to the verge of dwarfism. other venues are a bit hit and miss. the shooter went walkabout in the city centre mall to collect his thoughts.

imagine his surprise when he was picked up twice by filipinas in the mall. first, by some sales ladies desperate for a western boyfriend. these were amusingly provincial, but a little plain, so the shooter just obtained contact numbers for the accountant’s benefit. then 3 ice-cream guzzling cuties started chatting in the taxi queue. one had a wonderful face. the second disported magnificent mammaries precariously positioned on a small frame. a filipina version of victoria principal. the shooter could not resist a lascivious leer as she wiped ice cream off her chin. the third one lowered the standard, but more of that later.

an assignation was swiftly arranged for that evening at jules bar. the shooter and the accountant arrived early to secure a good seat on the lower area, away from the predatory wg’s at the bar. as is the filipino custom, the girls arrived late, over 2 hours(!). the shooter and the accountant debated the allocation of resources, ie who would get which girl. let’s call them magnificent mammaries (mm), model girl (mg) and hefty heifer (hh). mm is sweet with swaying attributes. mg is perky and and beautiful. hh fits the yorkshireman’s ideal of the larger lady. she was definitely the short straw.

in the end it was decided to arrange the seating so that the girls would be forced to choose on arrival. the anticipation was electric. the girls eventually arrived, and to the shooter’s dismay, he was instantly mauled by hh while mm thrust her bosom towards the accountant. mg was nowhere to be seen, but eventually turned up. she quickly seduced the shooter’s attention away from hh.

now to the core of the matter. these are civilians. will they or won’t they? after 30 seconds the shooter had surmised the answer. they all hailed from quezon city in metro manila. say no more. body language and touchy-feely mannerisms provided further positive evidence. they were all on visit visas and had no job yet. that meant that a little pasulubong (gift) would be necessary after the session. while the shooter enjoyed himself drinking and dancing, the accountant negotiated the financial terms with ruthless efficiency: dh500 for the night.

then disaster: mg suddenly bowed out, leaving the shooter with hh. it was later discovered that the “rationale” was that mg could more easily get another guy, while for hh such opportunities were few and far between. mm refused to go to the hotel unless hh came also. this left the shooter in an awkward dilemma. the beatific smile on the accountant as he gazed deeply into mm’s cleavage was the deciding factor. the shooter opted to “take one for the team”.

back at the hotel, the grinning accounting scuttled off to the room with his prize in tow. the shooter trudged back to his room, inebriated and dejected. once inside, the formerly demure hh transmogrified into an amazonian. the shooter’s clothing was ripped from his body and he was thrown onto the bed for a firmly administered massage.

to his surprise, the shooter found himself reviving to hh’s skilful ministrations. on turning over, he discovered she was naked. she had a large body, but no fat, all was in proportion. her skin was very soft. the shooter found his interest rising. it continued until a 90-degree angle was achieved. hh seized his appendage and thrust it bareback into her slippery hole. “condom pleeeese” croaked the shooter. “no need” responded hh as she jack-hammered her hips at implausible speed. “ohhh you strong man” she moaned, somewhat paradoxically as she was supplying all the kinetic energy. the shooter was just the gearstick on her hummer h3.

this was a novel experience indeed, even for an old hand like the shooter. his first date-[CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123). afterwards, he slept like a baby. meanwhile, the accountant was enjoying the visual spectacle of mm’s “perfect body”. but spectator sport was all it was as she went into starfish emulation mode. the shooter could not resist a mischievous gloat at his friend’s misfortune. especially when he received a text from the lovely model girl wanting to hook up…

to be continued.

editor's note: i certainly hope that the author or somebody else will post a link to this report in the reports of distinction thread. please click here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.

Maria777
09-27-07, 07:40
I am Maria, from Dhaka,I will travel to Dubai ( sex trip ). Anybody co-operation to me?

Active Traveller
10-17-07, 21:14
Hi Friends.

I have been a silent admirer of all the great regular members for almost a year now. It is good to hear different versions and share thoughts, and realise I am not the only one with a corrupted mind.

On the serious side of affair. The fact is that if you happen to be in a relationship (like most men here) and you happen to plunge in a first time fun. You think you are in a relationship with the girl.

There can be different sides and versions. One the girl is genuine, you have met the right girl and she is here due to a real unfortunate situation and wantsto get out with the right man. This has happened with people and you need a lot of courage to pull her out. This can't be the Julia Roberts ending like Pretty Woman. Although we all think ourselves to be Richard Gear.

The other aspect is that you are bored of your regular relationship, she comes as a fresh rose. Sex is mind blowing, she responds well and being emotional somewhere below. We all get infautated or attracted.

I had the same feeling first time. Same with my friends, but guys. Think about it before you go for it. Its just not your feelings. If you decide to get serious (if you happen to be single) then abide with it. The girl will base her trust, life and put you on heavenly pedestal. This is the whole life. So changing your mind doesn't mean kicking her out and leaving her in the same shit again. Also lot of other responsibilities come in. Especially some people who like to flaunt their mates as status symbol and don't want one of your colleagues walking across. Hi, I think I saw her in Cyclone.

So think about it. Emotions are great but be more practical. Or else. Do what everyone does over here. Have fun and decide the limits.

Zing Uk
11-24-07, 11:38
I am Maria, from Dhaka,I will travel to Dubai ( sex trip ). Anybody co-operation to me?But how do we contact you?

KalyEscort
11-29-07, 17:27
Hello boys!

I need to have information about DUBAI.

I'm an independent escort, and I'm thinking to go to DUBAI a few months.

Anybody can give me info about escorts directories for advertising.

Also, If you know any agency (temporary rental) that have pretty and equipped apartments.

Anyway ... Your experience and information it's very important and... help me a lot!!!

Kissessssssss

Kaly

Steamer33
11-30-07, 19:53
Hello boys!

I need to have information about DUBAI.

I'm an independent escort, and I'm thinking to go to DUBAI a few months.

Anybody can give me info about escorts directories for advertising.

Also, If you know any agency (temporary rental) that have pretty and equipped apartments.

Anyway ... Your experience and information it's very important and... help me a lot!!!

Kissessssssss

KalyI suggest you read the forum which willl tell you all you need to know about the scene here and post in the classifieds section if you wish to advertise, as escort services, agencies and directories are not usually the way things are done in Dubai - given that the prostitution is illegal and contrary to Sharia (Islamic) law. Though as we know the authorities turn a blind eye to it, most of the time.

The best bet for short-term renting is one of the plentiful hotel apartments which are springing up everywhere, fully furnished but expensive. Most apartments here are rented unfurnished and for a minimum of a year's contract at a time.

I suggest you visit Gulf News classified GNAads4U.com where there are, literally, thousands of real estate/rental agents and apartments listed.

Steamer33

KalyEscort
01-01-08, 21:09
Hello Again!

Tanks for the information, and so sorry for the delay!

(I was on Marbella).

I'm reading everything that i find.

I don't want to share a room with another people... it isn't very discret.

This is the big problem.

But, I think that with patience I will be find some thing interesting..

I find some web sites where add the publicity... do you know another more?

Tell me please!

http://www.independentdubaiescorts.com/
http://www.dubaimodelescorts.com/
http://www.openadultdirectory.com/escorts/UAE/
http://www.dubaiescorts.info/
http://www.massageo.com/dubai_escortagencies_77_3.html
http://www.expatriates.com/classifieds/dub/escrt/

Kisses and Happy New Year!

KALY

NetViking 2008
01-29-08, 17:58
Hello Again!

Tanks for the information, and so sorry for the delay!

(I was on Marbella).

I'm reading everything that i find.

I don't want to share a room with another people... it isn't very discret.

This is the big problem.

But, I think that with patience I will be find some thing interesting..

I find some web sites where add the publicity... do you know another more?

Tell me please!

http://www.independentdubaiescorts.com/
http://www.dubaimodelescorts.com/
http://www.openadultdirectory.com/escorts/UAE/
http://www.dubaiescorts.info/
http://www.massageo.com/dubai_escortagencies_77_3.html
http://www.expatriates.com/classifieds/dub/escrt/

Kisses and Happy New Year!

KALYHi Kali,

In Dubai there are so many place to find lady that escort is not really used. If you want I go there next mounth, I will check somewhere. But after you come out with me for a dinner?

Poonhound69
01-31-08, 16:26
we humbly request part 2..... unless ofcourse it was continued in dubai reports because you felt they no longer qualify as regular girls?



the shooter had the pleasure of spending some time in dubai in the company of his trusty cohort the accountant. the accountant is a worthy fellow, but like many of his profession, prone to monomaniacal obsessions. his current passion is for the paradigm of the filipina: petite, soft skin, shiny hair and dazzling smile.

this was a novel experience indeed, even for an old hand like the shooter. his first date-[CodeWord123] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123). afterwards, he slept like a baby. meanwhile, the accountant was enjoying the visual spectacle of mm’s “perfect body”. but spectator sport was all it was as she went into starfish emulation mode. the shooter could not resist a mischievous gloat at his friend’s misfortune. especially when he received a text from the lovely model girl wanting to hook up…

to be continued.

KalyEscort
02-27-08, 12:48
Hi Kali,

In Dubai there are so many place to find lady that escort is not really used. If you want I go there next mounth, I will check somewhere. But after you come out with me for a dinner?Hahahaha. So sorry, but the next month. I'll be in Marbella & Seville (Spain) But, don't worry. In my first dinner in Puerto Banus I'll put a candle on the table for you! Hahahahah

Regards,

KALY

KalyEscort
03-05-08, 21:35
Sorry. But I can't find this web site: GNAads4U.com

Regards,

KALY

Steamer33
03-16-08, 09:16
Sorry. But I can't find this web site: GNAads4U.com

Regards,

KALYIt Gulf Newws classified - go to www.gulfnews.com and follow the links or directly via www.GNads4u.com not GNAads4U.com

Cool Bear3
08-15-08, 03:28
[QUOTE=Sikander]Thats a fantastic Post 11Bravo. I have to agree with you as I can speak from experience. I am new to the site and after reading this thread thought I should give you my input.

Once back in the UK I recieved a daily call asking me how I was. She was slowly learning english from her friends so the conversations were starting to develop. She said if there was anything I could do she would really appreciate it. 6 weeks had gone by and she was still phoning and telling me she was missing me and that she wanted to go home. So I went back in April and decided to pay off her debt, at that point it had reduced from $4000 to $2000. I met her mamasan and agreed to pay off her debt only if she could show me the ticket booked for her to go home and that I could be there when she left. They asked her if thats what she really wanted and she said yes. A couple of days later I was waving off a very grateful young lady at Dubai Airport.

She is now currently studying English and back with her parents and I get regular updates from her saying how her life is coming along. I have sent money to her to give her some sort of income, not much but enough. Some may think I am crazy but hey. Sometimes we need to give back!

I will not say that I fell in love with her, but I did feel for her and her situation. As time has gone by we have become friends and who knows whar could happen. I will keep you posted.

I have been to Dubai many times and you do meet the odd girl that really shouldn't be there. So Sinsoaked guy as 11Bravo said. If you want to help her try to help with the debt and see where it goes, but be weary also as some are very clever in what they do and once the money has exchanged hands she may go home but for you never to hear from her again. This is a chance you have to take.

Bus as Sporadic has said DON'T make promises that you cannot keep as some of the girls are in really unfortunate situations and it would be very cruel. As when I was promising to help this girl her friends were being very synical and saying that I was lying. So many guys make false promises to have a better time with the girl. But bare in mind that these girls do have heart and some are very vunerable.

After I have spent 38000 AED over a girl for the period of one and half month that girl has a heart to say me without money I am an Idiot I was crazy enough to spent money on her even without having sex with her till she recovers from her bad health how you can tell they have heart I am totally dissapointed for what I did. Because I did not take advice from senior mongers thats why I am paying this price.

Cool Bear3
08-17-08, 22:24
[QUOTE=Cool Bear3][QUOTE=Sikander]Thats a fantastic Post 11Bravo. I have to agree with you as I can speak from experience. I am new to the site and after reading this thread thought I should give you my input.

Once back in the UK I recieved a daily call asking me how I was. She was slowly learning english from her friends so the conversations were starting to develop. She said if there was anything I could do she would really appreciate it. 6 weeks had gone by and she was still phoning and telling me she was missing me and that she wanted to go home. So I went back in April and decided to pay off her debt, at that point it had reduced from $4000 to $2000. I met her mamasan and agreed to pay off her debt only if she could show me the ticket booked for her to go home and that I could be there when she left. They asked her if thats what she really wanted and she said yes. A couple of days later I was waving off a very grateful young lady at Dubai Airport.

She is now currently studying English and back with her parents and I get regular updates from her saying how her life is coming along. I have sent money to her to give her some sort of income, not much but enough. Some may think I am crazy but hey. Sometimes we need to give back!

I will not say that I fell in love with her, but I did feel for her and her situation. As time has gone by we have become friends and who knows whar could happen. I will keep you posted.

I have been to Dubai many times and you do meet the odd girl that really shouldn't be there. So Sinsoaked guy as 11Bravo said. If you want to help her try to help with the debt and see where it goes, but be weary also as some are very clever in what they do and once the money has exchanged hands she may go home but for you never to hear from her again. This is a chance you have to take.

Bus as Sporadic has said DON'T make promises that you cannot keep as some of the girls are in really unfortunate situations and it would be very cruel. As when I was promising to help this girl her friends were being very synical and saying that I was lying. So many guys make false promises to have a better time with the girl. But bare in mind that these girls do have heart and some are very vunerable.

read this part

After I have spent 38000 AED over a girl for the period of one and half month that girl has a heart to say me without money I am an Idiot I was crazy enough to spent money on her even without having sex with her till she recovers from her bad health how you can tell they have heart I am totally dissapointed for what I did. Because I did not take advice from senior mongers thats why I am paying this price

Aby Antonelli
09-08-08, 03:35
Hello my name is Aby

I need to have information about DUBAI.

I'm an independent escort i am from Brazil I am blonde and blue eyes

I'm thinking to go to DUBAI a few months. I will go in October or November

Anybody can give me info about escorts directories for advertising.

Also, If you know any agency (temporary rental) that have pretty and equipped apartments.

Thanks

Kisses,

Aby

Kalhari
09-15-08, 15:26
Hello my name is Aby

I need to have information about DUBAI.

I'm an independent escort i am from Brazil I am blonde and blue eyes

I'm thinking to go to DUBAI a few months. I will go in October or November

Anybody can give me info about escorts directories for advertising.

Also, If you know any agency (temporary rental) that have pretty and equipped apartments.

Thanks

Kisses,

AbyHi,

If you want to action come to you, then no need to spend time and money on advertising your services. Just get dressed up and let your legs be very viewable and deep cut necked blouse or a t-shirt or something a bit transparent will make things start happening.

The major competition is from Russians. Fillipinas and Indians too play a major role. But if you can hooked up to a High end Bar or a Night Club, then you have a good chance of winning your pumper coming to you.

I have been there for a long and always got to High and middle class bars and night clubs where more action was. I picked several very young Indian, Pakistani, Lebonese, Jordanian, Iranian, Thai, and just once a Local (UAE) chick from there. Fillipinas are majoring middle and low level once.

So Russians are available along road sides from 8/30pm till 2 am. Just cheap and good service.

Hooked to one or two Arab guys. Not the matured guys. So you can have loads of fun and some good lump sum too. But remember those guys will need loads of pumping.

I being a male give you guides, and if I was there in Dubai when you come, should have given few hours of fun. Of course you have to give that to me.

Anyway from where are you?

Best of luck

Kalhari

Aby Antonelli
09-15-08, 22:04
Hi Kalhari

Thanks for yours tips, I am from Brazil. I speak spanish, portuguese and english. I have been in Spain, Italy, Chile, Mexico, Argentina. I want to visit Dubai. I prefer to work in hotel or apartment. I want to know about hours, days, rates, service ,pubs or night club.

http://www.escortsbaires.com.ar/EscortsArgentina/Girl43/Girl43Pic01.jpg

Best regards

Kisses

Aby


Hi,

If you want to action come to you, then no need to spend time and money on advertising your services. Just get dressed up and let your legs be very viewable and deep cut necked blouse or a t-shirt or something a bit transparent will make things start happening.

The major competition is from Russians. Fillipinas and Indians too play a major role. But if you can hooked up to a High end Bar or a Night Club, then you have a good chance of winning your pumper coming to you.

I have been there for a long and always got to High and middle class bars and night clubs where more action was. I picked several very young Indian, Pakistani, Lebonese, Jordanian, Iranian, Thai, and just once a Local (UAE) chick from there. Fillipinas are majoring middle and low level once.

So Russians are available along road sides from 8/30pm till 2 am. Just cheap and good service.

Hooked to one or two Arab guys. Not the matured guys. So you can have loads of fun and some good lump sum too. But remember those guys will need loads of pumping.

I being a male give you guides, and if I was there in Dubai when you come, should have given few hours of fun. Of course you have to give that to me.

Anyway from where are you?

Best of luck

Kalhari

SonicRay
09-16-08, 08:05
I am Maria, from Dhaka,I will travel to Dubai ( sex trip ). Anybody co-operation to me?Please PM me with your contact details.

Lovely Dick70
09-16-08, 13:42
[QUOTE=Aby Antonelli]Hi Kalhari

Thanks for yours tips, I am from Brazil. I speak spanish, portuguese and english. I have been in Spain, Italy, Chile, Mexico, Argentina. I want to visit Dubai. I prefer to work in hotel or apartment. I want to know about hours, days, rates, service ,pubs or night club.

Aby,

You can stay in a apartment but rents in Dubai are slightly on the higher side.There are some apartment hotels available.

In Dubai, rates vary from 500 AED to 5000 AED depending on who you client is. If you are lucky enough to catch a wealthy arab and entice him you may even earn more than that.

Most common area for the Pubs and nightclubs are in the area of Burdubai. There is also some activity in Deira and other areas as well.

I guess to get a first hand view, its better to land in Dubai and then take a judgement, depending on what your likes and dislikes are.

Regards,

LD

Aby Antonelli
09-22-08, 03:38
[QUOTE=Aby Antonelli]Hi Kalhari

Thanks for yours tips, I am from Brazil. I speak spanish, portuguese and english. I have been in Spain, Italy, Chile, Mexico, Argentina. I want to visit Dubai. I prefer to work in hotel or apartment. I want to know about hours, days, rates, service ,pubs or night club.

Aby,

You can stay in a apartment but rents in Dubai are slightly on the higher side.There are some apartment hotels available.

In Dubai, rates vary from 500 AED to 5000 AED depending on who you client is. If you are lucky enough to catch a wealthy arab and entice him you may even earn more than that.

Most common area for the Pubs and nightclubs are in the area of Burdubai. There is also some activity in Deira and other areas as well.

I guess to get a first hand view, its better to land in Dubai and then take a judgement, depending on what your likes and dislikes are.

Regards,

LDThanks for your info. Lovely Dick70.

Kisses

Aby

Christina Escort
11-05-09, 10:20
Hi aby,

Personally I think the independentdubaiescorts.com would be the best place to ad.

They guy called David is very friendly & efficient unlike some other website.

Good luck!

Christina x

Google Com
12-30-09, 13:03
I am Maria, from Dhaka, I will travel to Dubai (sex trip). Anybody co-operation to me?Hi,

What kind of help you are looking for. If you could state most would assist you! Or even guide you with info

Cheers

Cons68
12-31-09, 11:53
I think you will be disappointed about dubai. You will have the advantage of being exotic, but will also find that prices are lower than in Spain or Italy, do not even mention London, and not much better than Brazil, from what i hear.

I can pull a very pretty chinese girl, with a very nice body for 100 euros per night. True some girls demand more money (typical premiere opening is 300 euros per night, but they drop very quickly to 150-200) and i am not sure how many clients they get.

Dubai is, to say it bluntly, broke. And many of the rich arabs are just a bunch of highly leveraged (i.e. deeply indebted) bedouins. True, you can find some rich people here, same as in Sampa... and you need to move on the right circles. Not easy. The trick in your trade, as in most other, is avoid commoditization and that will depend a lot on how you position yourself.

In any case i will be glad to give you any assistance you may need. I spent 6 months In Sao Paulo and keep great memories from the city, and specially from the Pantanal area.

My Portunol is not very good right now, so i rather keep to english when discussing serious matters. Also keep in mind visa requirements, there are multiple options I will be happy to discuss (great opportunities now in free zones, 5 visas for 20k dirhams) once your tourist visa runs out.

Cheeky Darky
02-06-10, 11:31
Hello, team,

Its been a long time since I have posted anything. Having the last 8 months out due to the fact that I met a lovely Filipina, based in Dubai. Non WG (as far as I know. More to follow on that) and haven't needed to peruse the site.

I have read, in the past and talked to friends who have dated Regular non WG Filipinas, about the nuances of dating a Filipina girl. I should have listened and approached with more caution.

First things first, I met with this girl and her friends. Awesome night out and decided to follow up, with a few more nights out over the course of a month, when work would allow. Things were outstanding. The sex was great. In the top 1%. Relationship wise was also great. At the time though something always nagged at the back of my mind. Something I couldn't quite put my finger on. But I put it down to being in a new relationship, still trying to find that right fit, so to speak.

Christmas came, brought the usual gifts, even went to PI with the girl. I enjoyed the trip, but thats where things started to unravel a little.

Jealousy. Everyone who I have talked to, who has ever dated a Fili, told me to be careful on the whole issue of jealousy. I played it off and decided to blaze my own trail. Well in Manila we did the club scene. I'm 6'2, so not short and have been told I look Misti-so, which is a Filipino / Spanish mix, so I garnered a fair amount of attention, from what were obvious working girls. My girl hated it. They would approach regardless of the fact that she was swinging off my arm. I kept telling them to disappear, but to my girl it was all my fault. I kept the reassurances up, but she still couldn't let it go. Needless to say the rest of the trip was spent trying to keep her happy.

Back in Dubai, I prepared to head back to work. (I don't work in Dubai. Just based out of there). Over the course if a week, things dramatically changed in our relationship. Jealousy was an ever present thing. With me not even being able to joke about other girls, for fear of being stabbed in my sleep. Now I'm a laid back sort of guy. Nothing really phases me too much, but I was being stifled and I could feel that she was trying to change me.

With the inevitable about to happen, I decided to get her onside once more. Hell no, her emotions were all over the place. I can only liken it to being Bi-polar. Extreme highs, to extreme lows. No middle ground. Time to bail out. Good thing was she made it easy for me to walk away.

She made a last ditch email and phone call, as I was back at work by this stage, I refused. I'm a 32 year old male, should I have to put up with these childish things? So she is now been extracted from my life.

I look on the bright side of life though. Now I can get back to my mongering ways, which I have to admit, I have had a great time over the last few years. Made some great friends while out on the prowl.

Word of advice for you guys, those that are looking either to sweep a Fili WG off her feet and try to have a normal relationship or even just a regular Fili. Be very careful with them. Yes they are the Asian velvet glove in bed, yes they are fun to be around. Use caution on the whole jealousy thing. They are very, very jealous.

(PS. Its funny how I always had a nagging thought in the back of my mind about this girl. It dawned on me a little while ago, that she was a WG in Dubai. Which wouldn't have been a problem with me. But honesty in my books still goes a long way.).

See you around the usual haunts guys. Happy mongering.

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Steamer33
02-09-10, 21:46
Jealousy. Everyone who I have talked to, who has ever dated a Fili, told me to be careful on the whole issue of jealousy.

Tell me about it. It's absolutley true. They are loyal and loving, but stiflingly jealous in return. I have had two on the go for over a year, and I still have the physical scars to prove it. Still I love the girls so I put up with it.

But even I have my limits and one has now been kicked into touch for good after she started trying to beat the crap out of me in front of my friends in a bar last week.

Einstein might put it like this 3b+j=dF=T

3 bullfrogs+jealousy=drunk Filpina=Trouble

Wicked Roger can confirm my weakness for gorgeous, slim, cute but obsessively jealous Filipinas.

If you want to swap notes and battle stories, PM me.

Be careful out there.

Steamer33

Mjolnir 213
02-10-10, 08:30
Einstein might put it like this 3b+j=dF=T

3 bullfrogs+jealousy=drunk Filpina=Trouble


Steamer33

Sounds about right to me.
A very dangerous cocktail indeed.
:)

Around 6 months with my current one.
Thankfully, she's pretty level headed most of the time, but the occasional filipina "tililing" does pop up now and again.

So far its not been anything major.

Example:
Yesterday while at work, something was wrong with her Yahoo messenger and it would not allow her to send messages to me.. ONLY me.. so she called me and went on for 10 minutes about how I "blocked" her and that if I need "space" I should let her know.

She sounded very upset.

Was easy to calm her down. (Always keep the pimp hand strong :))

I had no idea what the hell she was talking about, but even small things like this can set them off.. especially the more unstable ones.

And here's my take on the really unstable ones...

Former WG's in particular can be pretty unstable IMHO... especially if they used to take Shabu (meth-amphetamine) back home. A long term side effect are the HUGE mood swings and depression as mentioned by CD.

Violent and suicidal behavior is common also.

Shabu is cheap and widely available in the philipines. Many WG's and bar girls take it to stay slim and stay awake for days at a time.
Even though it is very dangerous stuff, in the philipines its as common as marijuana in other countries.

Had a couple of life threatening experiences myself and now I watch for all the warning signs in order to nip things in the bud before they get out of control.

After many short and long-term relationships with filipinas my psycho-meter has become quite fine tuned.

Oh... and don't keep knives lying around the house!

My balisong collection is now safely locked away.

:)


WB

Mjolnir 213
02-10-10, 08:40
Double post...

Johnjohn Bob
02-10-10, 17:59
...weakness for gorgeous, slim, cute but obsessively jealous Filipinas.I wonder why the really good looking and slim ones are the most obsessively jealous and drama queens? Is this some genetic mutation from eating rice for breakfast, lunch and dinner?

Logically, the good looking and slim should not care that much as they can easily find another admirer and benefactor. So how come they are the most crazy, huh? Or is it us who are at fault here as we tolerate it to certain degree hence reinforcing the bad behaviour because they are so good looking?

Is it nature or nurture?

Something to ponder over a stiff drink after another scene

JJB

Mjolnir 213
02-11-10, 07:09
I wonder why the really good looking and slim ones are the most obsessively jealous and drama queens? Is this some genetic mutation from eating rice for breakfast, lunch and dinner?

Logically, the good looking and slim should not care that much as they can easily find another admirer and benefactor. So how come they are the most crazy, huh? Or is it us who are at fault here as we tolerate it to certain degree hence reinforcing the bad behaviour because they are so good looking?

Is it nature or nurture?

Something to ponder over a stiff drink after another scene

JJB

There are more good looking and slim girls to go around than there are decent guys. They are well aware that they can be replaced easily and so think they need to protect their own.

Silly thing is, its often the excessive jealousy that pushes guys away sooner or later.

Frankly telling them that I do not like that kind of behavior and will not accept any bullshit usually works for me. You need to be a man and put things into perspective for them sometimes. This is appreciated and will build respect.

Once they know your mama didn't raise no fools, an attitude adjustment follows quickly.

Kindness should not be seen as weakness. That is not fair to yourself.

If the bad behavior continues, time to cut her loose before you get killed.

Plenty of fish in the sea.

That being said, I TRY not to have double standards and will not play around if I think the girl is worth it and is holding up her end.

Not always easy, but possible. I've been monogamous for almost 7 months and have not come close to falling off the wagon yet.

In return, I am looked after very well in every possible way.

:)


WB

Wicked Roger
02-11-10, 12:17
CD

Firstly, long time no hear...and now I know why :D

Steamer is right...he has an obession to fancy every highly strung, insanely jealous and possessive Filipinas I have ever known. They are slim shaved and cute...but even I would not have the patience with the crap he seems to enjoy in his masochistic way ...

You were right drop her, if she wants to come back and you want her back then you have the advantage (as WB says strong pimp hand) and she will unlikely repeat ...unless she is one of Steamer's ladies then guarantee they will never change..

And as WB says all the girls know there are others equally as cute and slim who may take our attentions...especially if they met us via the mongering route. The Wgs who fall in love with us or we with them all know this very acutely as they know we play the field and want to snare us. the best are those IMHO, who let us play and join in...but then that is me and I tend to find or educate them into being kinky...but they also know I will not accept any crap.

JJB will testify to my directness and while not for everyine, the girls know where they saytnd with me (mostly) and I have never had any complain or mess me around.

But having a Flipina girlfriend(s) means 'enjoying' the jealously etc. as there is so much to enjoy IMHO (as long as you can control the bad stuff :D) As Filipinas will reward you and if you find a kinky one...like I do at times then it is a wonderful place to be

Callme G
03-23-10, 10:43
Hello,

As a wanabe bf to a fili girl eventually, and fairly new to the country, can you wisemen give me a guide to the dos and dont's in terms of keeping the relationship under the covers.

I know no hand holding or affection in public, but is it dark macs and trilbies on our way into the apartment or to dress as a maid- not me LOL. Is Dubai freer than the other emirates?

Thanks,

G

11Bravo
03-25-10, 07:50
I know no hand holding or affection in public, but is it dark macs and trilbies on our way into the apartmentAll depends on your neighbors. If you're cool and not a bother, they tend to be the same.

Also depends on your nationality and theirs. If a fellow "brother" (read non-westerner) is misbehaving, then some might take offense (or be jealous enough to make a complaint).

If you want more info (true for anyone), it'd be best to establish some credibility first. 2 posts, one asking for (in essence) contacts, not really the way to generate good will and responses. You might not like the bar scene, but reporting on it does help establish your bona fides.

Callme G
03-25-10, 12:54
All depends on your neighbors. If you're cool and not a bother, they tend to be the same.

Also depends on your nationality and theirs. If a fellow "brother" (read non-westerner) is misbehaving, then some might take offense (or be jealous enough to make a complaint).

If you want more info (true for anyone), it'd be best to establish some credibility first. 2 posts, one asking for (in essence) contacts, not really the way to generate good will and responses. You might not like the bar scene, but reporting on it does help establish your bona fides.Sorry I was not aware of the ground rules. So far I have been in AD I have experienced the bar scene not to be much to write home about unless you like PRC girls or from Ubekistan. Not even seen a Russian girl. I have been to Blitz many times but have found I have been admiring the fili band than seeing anything of interest in the crowd. Been to Illusions. Paid the 150 AED to get in only to find its choca full of Ubek girls wanting 2000-2500 AED. Reports of others are not also promising. Have not yet ventured to Dubai. Maybe a dawn on the horizon?

Decided there must be better activities than the AD bars. Sensu my question.

11Bravo
03-26-10, 05:28
Sorry I was not aware of the ground rules.

...not to be much to write home about unless you like PRC girls or from Ubekistan. There are no rules except what Jackson decrees, and those are few, fair, and far between. And I certainly DON'T presume to speak for Mr. Jackson...

I was just stating what MIGHT get your questions answered, and what MIGHT get them skipped over...

Not picking on you, just using you to make a point, as in "I've been to Blitz many times...", but there's no FR of what you saw, even if you didn't pull. People of the few posts, no FR's come across as "lookie-lous", those of the Many questions, no FR's as "quizzers", whether those categorizations are accurate or not. But since the only posts available are of those types, then that categorization is made.

And some of us are VERY fond of PRC's. I never could understand how they are looked down on, as, FOR ME, they provide some of the best experiences, of the GFE kind.

Callme G
03-27-10, 07:20
[Not picking on you, just using you to make a point, as in "I've been to Blitz many times. ", but there's no FR of what you saw, even if you didn't pull. People of the few posts, no FR's come across as "lookie-lous", those of the Many questions, no FR's as "quizzers", whether those categorizations are accurate or not. But since the only posts available are of those types, then that categorization is made. ]

I subscribed because I wanted to gain knowledge from the local scene. I could easily read the reports free and not support the group. In this case I maybe am what you accuse me of, but at least I paid to read your rather discouraging tones. In case you never looked, see my report on the Makati page.

There is always a very knowledgeable saying 'always look before you leap'.

All The Best,

G

11Bravo
03-27-10, 10:55
I could easily read the reports free and not support the group.By subscribing, you support Jackson, which IS a VERY worthy effort, as he provides the PLATFORM.

But it's the group that provides the actual information, and we're not paid. We post because we've found the forum useful, in the very means that you state, and want to give something back.

So you're relying on members' unpaid good nature to answer questions... I was just pointing out what MIGHT lead to a higher success ratio.

I wish you success in your endeavors.

PS:

In case you never looked, see my report on the Makati page. ... There is always a very knowledgeable saying 'always look before you leap'.Very true, but comprehension is also a big part of life.

I'm the first to admit, I can't see into the future. Your report appeared AFTER I'd posted - for regular members, their reports are timestamped, but delayed so as to be vetted, and so, until they actually appear, no member can see, regular or senior, paid or unpaid (well, except for the editor, and I'm not he :) )

Cons68
03-28-10, 11:52
Essentially until you have some level of reporting there is always this shadow of suspicion that you may be LE, even after you report some people (myself) will want to meet you before passing any phone number or contact details.

I think i have been very open about this in the past, but surprisingly the same day i posted talking about this someone with 0 reports was contacting me for girl's details... I kindly tried to explain this on a language that could be easily understood.

And yes, i think dubai offers much more than AD in terms of recreational activities. You may try to hook up with some people to visit the places.


[Not picking on you, just using you to make a point, as in "I've been to Blitz many times. ", but there's no FR of what you saw, even if you didn't pull. People of the few posts, no FR's come across as "lookie-lous", those of the Many questions, no FR's as "quizzers", whether those categorizations are accurate or not. But since the only posts available are of those types, then that categorization is made. ]

I subscribed because I wanted to gain knowledge from the local scene. I could easily read the reports free and not support the group. In this case I maybe am what you accuse me of, but at least I paid to read your rather discouraging tones. In case you never looked, see my report on the Makati page.

There is always a very knowledgeable saying 'always look before you leap'.

All The Best,

G

11Bravo
03-28-10, 18:15
Essentially until you have some level of reporting there is always this shadow of suspicion that you may be LE, even after you report some people (myself) will want to meet you before passing any phone number or contact details.I always considered the LE angle to be pretty minimal - after all, they know where the girls are, though it certainly could happen.

It could also be some "civilian" looking to help LE with a tip...

What I, and perhaps others, were/are more concerned about is we don't hook up a friend with someone who will not be friendly. Especially if they have a name introduction from a "good" customer to lower her defenses. Everyone who's lived in dxb and got to know the wg's has heard the horror stories...

Even giving out a phone number might cause some grief if it's not well "kept": a girl works hard to keep the same number as that's how the repeat business contacts her, and does not want it cluttered up, along with sms's, by annoying phone calls. I remember I was with a fav when she got several phone calls, explaining in between that she didn't know who they were from, he wouldn't identify himself. I had her hand me the phone, and simply asked "Who is this? I have your number." She never mentioned being bothered again.

I never gave out a girl's number unless I had her permission. And that permission was always with the caveat "as long as he's like you".

Now like can be interpreted a number of different ways, as in Same nationality
Same color (not politically correct, just a fact of business there)
Same size wallet
Same demeanorWhat was always clear was she expected me to know the person, as in eyeball-to-eyeball know, not someone I'd never met.

Finally, you have to have confidence that the receiver will take the same care with the number that you do. Human nature, you get something for free, it can be less valuable than something you had to work for. IMHO, anyway.

And the retort of "what's the big deal, she's just a wh*re, she'll want the business" is exactly why I WAS cautious.

Mustang7
07-23-10, 16:46
Hello, team,

Its been a long time since I have posted anything. Having the last 8 months out due to the fact that I met a lovely Filipina, based in Dubai. Non WG (as far as I know. More to follow on that) and haven't needed to peruse the site.

I have read, in the past and talked to friends who have dated Regular non WG Filipinas, about the nuances of dating a Filipina girl. I should have listened and approached with more caution.

First things first, I met with this girl and her friends. Awesome night out and decided to follow up, with a few more nights out over the course of a month, when work would allow. Things were outstanding. The sex was great. In the top 1%. Relationship wise was also great. At the time though something always nagged at the back of my mind. Something I couldn't quite put my finger on. But I put it down to being in a new relationship, still trying to find that right fit, so to speak.

Christmas came, brought the usual gifts, even went to PI with the girl. I enjoyed the trip, but thats where things started to unravel a little.

Jealousy. Everyone who I have talked to, who has ever dated a Fili, told me to be careful on the whole issue of jealousy. I played it off and decided to blaze my own trail. Well in Manila we did the club scene. I'm 6'2, so not short and have been told I look Misti-so, which is a Filipino / Spanish mix, so I garnered a fair amount of attention, from what were obvious working girls. My girl hated it. They would approach regardless of the fact that she was swinging off my arm. I kept telling them to disappear, but to my girl it was all my fault. I kept the reassurances up, but she still couldn't let it go. Needless to say the rest of the trip was spent trying to keep her happy.

Back in Dubai, I prepared to head back to work. (I don't work in Dubai. Just based out of there). Over the course if a week, things dramatically changed in our relationship. Jealousy was an ever present thing. With me not even being able to joke about other girls, for fear of being stabbed in my sleep. Now I'm a laid back sort of guy. Nothing really phases me too much, but I was being stifled and I could feel that she was trying to change me.

With the inevitable about to happen, I decided to get her onside once more. Hell no, her emotions were all over the place. I can only liken it to being Bi-polar. Extreme highs, to extreme lows. No middle ground. Time to bail out. Good thing was she made it easy for me to walk away.

She made a last ditch email and phone call, as I was back at work by this stage, I refused. I'm a 32 year old male, should I have to put up with these childish things? So she is now been extracted from my life.

I look on the bright side of life though. Now I can get back to my mongering ways, which I have to admit, I have had a great time over the last few years. Made some great friends while out on the prowl.

Word of advice for you guys, those that are looking either to sweep a Fili WG off her feet and try to have a normal relationship or even just a regular Fili. Be very careful with them. Yes they are the Asian velvet glove in bed, yes they are fun to be around. Use caution on the whole jealousy thing. They are very, very jealous.

(PS. Its funny how I always had a nagging thought in the back of my mind about this girl. It dawned on me a little while ago, that she was a WG in Dubai. Which wouldn't have been a problem with me. But honesty in my books still goes a long way.).

See you around the usual haunts guys. Happy mongering.

EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php) for more information.Five fingers are not equal. To generalize would not be correct. Again in our expatriate times, these Filis give us the warmth of home and away and time simply passes quickly.

While I have been backstabbed several times by the same ones, but I can't think of life without them in the Gulf region ! I might be wrong, but I am sure there are many who would concur !

Giulia
09-06-10, 19:55
Gentlemen,

Getting a bit bored with the safety of the bar scene and would like to try my luck on one or more dating sites.

I am aware of expatriates and craigslist.

Any other recommendation ?

If luck will follow so will a report.

Take care,

G

Steamer33
09-07-10, 23:51
Gentlemen,

Getting a bit bored with the safety of the bar scene and would like to try my luck on one or more dating sites.

I am aware of expatriates and craigslist.

Any other recommendation ?

If luck will follow so will a report.

Take care,

G

You may be better off with Filipina Heart. Never been down that route myself as I have always found it easy to get a Filipina date/GF by going to the Filipina bars/clubs (non-WG) in Dubai, of which there are plenty.

Lostwodpun has tried out Filipina Heart with varying levels of success. Might be worth a PM to him.

Be careful out there.

Steamer33

Lostwodpun
09-08-10, 12:55
You may be better off with Filipina Heart. Never been down that route myself as I have always found it easy to get a Filipina date/GF by going to the Filipina bars/clubs (non-WG) in Dubai, of which there are plenty.

Lostwodpun has tried out Filipina Heart with varying levels of success. Might be worth a PM to him.

Be careful out there.

Steamer33

Yeah FH was pretty good in the getting me laid but I also got a stalker out of it. Going on 4 months since I met/ditched her and she still does not let my phone rest. Yes I refuse to change my number. If you are truley single and not bad looking you will have plenty of bites. You will also get lots of nibbles that will waist your time.....

IAintSpecial
09-08-10, 13:26
Yeah FH was pretty good in the getting me laid but I also got a stalker out of it. Going on 4 months since I met/ditched her and she still does not let my phone rest. Yes I refuse to change my number. If you are truley single and not bad looking you will have plenty of bites. You will also get lots of nibbles that will waist your time.....Guys for those of you that know their way around mobile phones the new HTC android phones have a great little feature that allows you to automatically block the call when you put a tick next to a number in your phone. There is even an sms app for android now that will automatically hide sms from blacklist numbers and put them under lock and key. Wonderful device.

Lostwodpun
09-09-10, 06:34
Guys for those of you that know their way around mobile phones the new HTC android phones have a great little feature that allows you to automatically block the call when you put a tick next to a number in your phone. There is even an sms app for android now that will automatically hide sms from blacklist numbers and put them under lock and key. Wonderful device.


Cool! I knew there were phones that did it but I was not sure which on. Know what Im buying now.

IAintSpecial
09-09-10, 08:33
Cool! I knew there were phones that did it but I was not sure which on. Know what Im buying now.The new HTC Legend does it....and the soon to be released in Dubai HTC desire has that function built in. BEWARE though that these are smart phones can be a bit of learning curve. However people often forget that youtube is a wonderful resource for how to do videos on the net.

Good luck

Giulia
09-09-10, 15:23
Steamer,

Thanks, much appreciated.

Take care,

G


You may be better off with Filipina Heart. Never been down that route myself as I have always found it easy to get a Filipina date/GF by going to the Filipina bars/clubs (non-WG) in Dubai, of which there are plenty.

Lostwodpun has tried out Filipina Heart with varying levels of success. Might be worth a PM to him.

Be careful out there.

Steamer33

MKH
09-10-10, 07:23
Hi Steamer33

i was trying to locate a report where i can find the list of Non WG filli clubs in dubai and abu dhabi.

can you please list it here or provide the link to that report.

appreciate your support.

THanks

MKH

Johnjohn Bob
10-28-10, 14:49
i was trying to locate a report where i can find the list of Non WG filli clubs in dubai and abu dhabi.Cheers left of entrance to Al Ain Palace hotel

Manila Bay in Emirates Plaza hotel

Tambayan inside Al Ain Palace hotel

Blue Bay and Colosseum in Tourist Club area

Lots of Fili girls having fun in these places in groups or with BF so if you are a smooth talker you may get lucky. If you do find a WG there, let us know how did you do it.

Whatsgoingon
10-28-10, 22:22
The new HTC Legend does it....and the soon to be released in Dubai HTC desire has that function built in. BEWARE though that these are smart phones can be a bit of learning curve. However people often forget that youtube is a wonderful resource for how to do videos on the net.

Good luck

The app I use is Handcent which has worked perfectly for blacklisting certain numbers..its free

Cj9779
11-04-10, 08:26
Does anyone have an opinion on the best venue for meeting regular girls? I have been here a while and these are my thoughts on different places:

Barasti - So far this has been an OK place, but depends on the night.

Zinc - I have heard that this place is good, but I have never seen the inside. Even if I show up wearing a suit, early, on a weeknight, I still get told it's "couples only." I have pretty much vowed to quit trying on this one.

Chi - No luck here. Lot's of guys bragging about their wallet size, and too many bouncers ready to attack if you step near the dance floor with a drink or touch a girl in a way they think is inappropriate.

Bhuda Bar - See comments on Zinc. Never seen the inside, but heard good things.

Rock Bottom Cafe - This place is good on the weekends, but dead during the week. It just too loud to hear yourself think, so good luck talking to anyone.

Well anyway, I look forward to any input or responses.

C

Striker34
11-04-10, 12:09
Does anyone have an opinion on the best venue for meeting regular girls? I have been here a while and these are my thoughts on different places:

Zinc - I have heard that this place is good, but I have never seen the inside. Even if I show up wearing a suit, early, on a weeknight, I still get told it's "couples only." I have pretty much vowed to quit trying on this one.

C

Zinc will let you in if you are staying in the hotel, even as a single male. Have had a couple of great nights in here - especially if there happens to be an Emirates Hostie's party on, as there was the last time I was there. Love those Brazilian girls ;)

NicFrenchy
05-10-11, 12:19
I have been using TAGGED for quite a while now and being successful with it. Easy and Free.

I went in there about a month before my trip to Dubai and started looking to see if there was anything I could do. After about 2 weeks of chatting I got 4 Filipinas lined up for dates (non WG).

Out of the 4 encounters, I had sex with 2 of them with the other 2 being drama queens.

The first encounter was with a young girl who claimed to be working as an accountant. We went out, ate and then screwed like bunnies. She knew I was in town for a few days and she wanted to meet every night. I gave her crap excuses the second night as I needed to meet the second girl, well, things went south quickly and I ended up with the lady from day 1.

Getting her to the Hotel was easy, I just gave her a "Badge" from the conference I was attending (many people stayed there from that Conference) and the security did not say a word to her, thinking she was a customer.

I did not really like Dubai but I have to say, Filipinas fuck much better than Thai Girls.

Whatsgoingon
05-10-11, 17:35
, Filipinas fuck much better than Thai Girls.I would agree to this! Thanks for the hints on tagged. May have a look.

Somewhere15
05-26-11, 20:14
I have been using TAGGED for quite a while now and being successful with it. Easy and Free.

I went in there about a month before my trip to Dubai and started looking to see if there was anything I could do. After about 2 weeks of chatting I got 4 Filipinas lined up for dates (non WG).

Out of the 4 encounters, I had sex with 2 of them with the other 2 being drama queens.

The first encounter was with a young girl who claimed to be working as an accountant. We went out, ate and then screwed like bunnies. She knew I was in town for a few days and she wanted to meet every night. I gave her crap excuses the second night as I needed to meet the second girl, well, things went south quickly and I ended up with the lady from day 1.

Getting her to the Hotel was easy, I just gave her a "Badge" from the conference I was attending (many people stayed there from that Conference) and the security did not say a word to her, thinking she was a customer.

I did not really like Dubai but I have to say, Filipinas fuck much better than Thai Girls. Thanks for the advise.

Tomorrow I will arrive in Dubai and thanks to your advise a lovely girl from Tagged picks me up from the airport.

As far as I understand having a executive assistant role during daytime and was more than willing to assist me (especially over the weekend because she was lonely).

I promised to bring flowers and in return she would pick me up, she mentioned already she was not such a sexy girl but was still willing to show me around and have drinks and dinner.

My flight is very late so I hope she go with me into the hotel and stays for the night.

With 2 other girls (one black and one filipinas) I made also contact through Tagged and they gave me their phone number.

Member #3447
08-07-11, 08:41
I just have to share this: I have been seeing a Moldovan working girl for about 11 months. She is a normal girl when we're together. All her friends know that we're together. As our relationship progressed, and feelings started to really developed, it was very hard for me to reconcile my personal feelings for her vs. her line of work. In the end, I had to break up with her as it was beginning to be very difficult to cope with all these conflicting emotions.

I have been a monger for almost 30 years and I should know better. I promised myself not to get deeply involved with any working girl in the future again. I guess lonliness just got the better of me, and she was lonely as well during that time - living alone. It was fun while it lasted, but it is time to move on with life for me and her. She's still young, and I pray that she stops selling her body for money and just go home to Moldova, fine a normal job, and marry a decent man...I pray. I will miss her.

Okay, I feel much better now. (LOL)

Jimmy K II
08-12-11, 07:58
I just have to share this: I have been seeing a Moldovan working girl for about 11 months. She is a normal girl when we're together. All her friends know that we're together. As our relationship progressed, and feelings started to really developed, it was very hard for me to reconcile my personal feelings for her vs. Her line of work. In the end, I had to break up with her as it was beginning to be very difficult to cope with all these conflicting emotions.

I have been a monger for almost 30 years and I should know better. I promised myself not to get deeply involved with any working girl in the future again. I guess lonliness just got the better of me, and she was lonely as well during that time. Living alone. It was fun while it lasted, but it is time to move on with life for me and her. She's still young, and I pray that she stops selling her body for money and just go home to Moldova, fine a normal job, and marry a decent man. I pray. I will miss her.

Okay, I feel much better now. (LOL) Jo Ho_Chaser,

I absolutely know about this kind of feelings and emotions. I'm in the same "trouble" with my regular Uzbek girlfriend.

Thanks god, I do live far away from Dubai and I also have family at home, but I'm coming quite regularly to Dubai and when I'm there we evrytime meet each other and are together like a loving couple.

Sex with her is fantastic and we also share the same thoughts. She absolutely respects my family situation and doesn't even send me an SMS nor calls me due to risk of being catched by wifey at home.

Through her I got a deep view behing the scenery and how sad and bad the life of WG's really is.

That they don't do this kind of work for her own pleasure was absolutely clear for me before, but she openend my eyes even more.

If I'd be single, I'm quite sure, that I'd taken her out of business and that I'd given our relationship a chance in my home country.

But in my situation right know, where I don't want and can't spoil or risk my family, I take the chance to spend a very nice time together with her in Dubai and benefit on our good common understanding.

Of course, I also pray for her, that she finds a way out of this kind of business, that she finds a loving and good husband and that her dreams come true.

No I also feel much better LOL

Snow1998
01-09-12, 19:51
You say you love her and you tell your wife you love her! How can you love a working girl and a good woman at the same time? You should have checked with all feelings concerned first. Also, the secret life you have been living behind her back, should have been a sign that something is wrong with you! Get yourself checked man. Crack working girls are the lowest one can sink to!The Psychiatric consultancy forum is the other one mate.

Tartan01
01-09-12, 20:25
Jo Ho_Chaser,

I absolutely know about this kind of feelings and emotions. I'm in the same "trouble" with my regular Uzbek girlfriend.

Thanks god, I do live far away from Dubai and I also have family at home, but I'm coming quite regularly to Dubai and when I'm there we evrytime meet each other and are together like a loving couple.

Sex with her is fantastic and we also share the same thoughts. She absolutely respects my family situation and doesn't even send me an SMS nor calls me due to risk of being catched by wifey at home.

Through her I got a deep view behing the scenery and how sad and bad the life of WG's really is.

That they don't do this kind of work for her own pleasure was absolutely clear for me before, but she openend my eyes even more.

If I'd be single, I'm quite sure, that I'd taken her out of business and that I'd given our relationship a chance in my home country.

But in my situation right know, where I don't want and can't spoil or risk my family, I take the chance to spend a very nice time together with her in Dubai and benefit on our good common understanding.

Of course, I also pray for her, that she finds a way out of this kind of business, that she finds a loving and good husband and that her dreams come true.

No I also feel much better LOLI am in exactly the same place as you. I can identify with every word.

Pajodxb
03-15-12, 08:58
I have been using TAGGED for quite a while now and being successful with it. Easy and Free.After seeing this I thought I'd take a look at tagged as well.

It can be time consuming and more than a little frustrating. There seem to be plenty of WG on there and I've got the numbers of a couple of Filipinas who sound ok and sent what look to be real pictures but haven't met any yet.

I set up a couple of profiles though. And through one have arranged a date with a Nigeria girl who works in Deira and has been here 6 months. No hint of her being a WG so far and no mention of money. On Sunday afternoon we have a date to watch movies and have lunch together as she only works a 1/2 day.

It's pretty clear that she's hoping to score a regular BF but I've been equally upfront that I really only want some fun. Wish me luck on this one.

I've also managed to build a relationship with a more mature Asian lady. She got an amazing body and seems a little neglected by her husband who has moved on from her to younger WG. She's very open about it. They go clubbing together and he picks up girls whilst they are out together. I won't pretend to understand the relationship but I think there is an opportunity there for me to provide her with some comfort and solace.

As yet we've only been out for a couple of coffees together but some fairly riske conversation have passed between us and I'm pretty sure some afternoon fun is on the card.

So from me. Two thumbs up for Tagged. Worth putting a little effort into.

Pajodxb
03-19-12, 10:45
What an interesting afternoon.

Started out with some kissing and cuddling on the sofa whilst watching a movie before proceeding onto the bed for a little heavier petting. Got her top off, shorts undone but not removed (do African girls wear underwear!) when she stops me. Here we go I think.

Out comes the sob story, she does not get much salary, she likes me (perhaps even loves me) but as she knows I am married she cannot have me and it isn't fair to her. To cut a long story short I agreed to an allowance of 500 per week for access as many times as a like with payment to be made next time I saw her.

Finished the afternoon off with a nice BBBJ and a bit more fondling of her very nice tits.

Great success, now I just need to decide whether it's worth trying to extract as much value from 500 AED as possible before moving on or just to walk away safe in the knowledge that I'm quids in with a free blow job.


After seeing this I thought I'd take a look at tagged as well.

It can be time consuming and more than a little frustrating. There seem to be plenty of WG on there and I've got the numbers of a couple of Filipinas who sound ok and sent what look to be real pictures but haven't met any yet.

I set up a couple of profiles though. And through one have arranged a date with a Nigeria girl who works in Deira and has been here 6 months. No hint of her being a WG so far and no mention of money. On Sunday afternoon we have a date to watch movies and have lunch together as she only works a 1/2 day.

It's pretty clear that she's hoping to score a regular BF but I've been equally upfront that I really only want some fun. Wish me luck on this one.

I've also managed to build a relationship with a more mature Asian lady. She got an amazing body and seems a little neglected by her husband who has moved on from her to younger WG. She's very open about it. They go clubbing together and he picks up girls whilst they are out together. I won't pretend to understand the relationship but I think there is an opportunity there for me to provide her with some comfort and solace.

As yet we've only been out for a couple of coffees together but some fairly riske conversation have passed between us and I'm pretty sure some afternoon fun is on the card.

So from me. Two thumbs up for Tagged. Worth putting a little effort into.

Pajodxb
03-20-12, 10:57
I don't know if anyone is reading this or even interested but I've decided to see how things pan out. I called the young lady and explained that I felt really bad and that it is not right for me to pay her as it makes us both into a bad people. After a little tooing and frooing we come the the agreement that AED500 is a reasonable allowance and this does not make her or me feel bad.

As she had a long lunch break yesterday we agreed to meet at her place and proceeded to spend the afternoon fcuking like bunnies! She's certainly very lively. Being completely honest I usually only manage one shot in a ST session but after three positions and blowing my load once she managed to get me going again for a quicky doggy style.

Unfortunately I only had 250 on me and she was fine with that. We've agreed she'll get the rest sometime later in month.

OK so it's not really dating a regular girls. Although she does have the slightly strange idea that because she doesn't advertise her phone number directly or visit bars specifically for pickups. Apparently this doesn't make her a hooker.

Still she's pretty eager in bed and at the moment with a total of about 6 hours on the clock and another afternoon pencilled in for Thursday its 250 well spent. .


What an interesting afternoon.

Started out with some kissing and cuddling on the sofa whilst watching a movie before proceeding onto the bed for a little heavier petting. Got her top off, shorts undone but not removed (do African girls wear underwear!) when she stops me. Here we go I think.

Out comes the sob story, she does not get much salary, she likes me (perhaps even loves me) but as she knows I am married she cannot have me and it isn't fair to her. To cut a long story short I agreed to an allowance of 500 per week for access as many times as a like with payment to be made next time I saw her.

Finished the afternoon off with a nice BBBJ and a bit more fondling of her very nice tits.

Great success, now I just need to decide whether it's worth trying to extract as much value from 500 AED as possible before moving on or just to walk away safe in the knowledge that I'm quids in with a free blow job.

Pajodxb
03-25-12, 14:51
and another afternoon pencilled in for Thursday its 250 well spent. .Thursday was a total wash out. Go to her apt and two of her friends are there. One of them is smoking hot and it's all I can do not to state at her.

Eventually one of them retires to her room and the other falls asleep on the sofa so I get to have a bit of a feeling up session but not a lot more. Got bored at around 6pm and left and stopped of to see Lulu on the way as I had a raging case of the horn.

Last chance arranged for tomorrow when she assures me her flatmates aren't going to be in so we'll see whether there is any action on offer.

Pajodxb
04-10-12, 08:08
I'm still toying around with Tagged although the results are very mixed however there are some really entertaining people on there.

Number 1. The older American lady who likes to be DP'd and spit roast by her husband and another man?

Number 2. The young asian lady who's ex bf told her she was a worthless **** so now she does live webcams for anyone who will tell her she's pretty.

Double Shooter
04-11-12, 22:42
I don't know if anyone is reading this or even interested .Yes we are reading it and very interesting too.

How did you get on with the older Asian lady?

11Bravo
04-12-12, 10:14
I don't know if anyone is reading this or even interested but I've decided to see how things pan out.I'll provide a bit of caution:

What happens when you "fire" the Nigerian, and she loses that extra income that she's now grown accustomed to? At work, the terminated employee is escorted out by a security guard, badge turned in, and addios. Several members have broken up with fili "gf's", and found themselves replacing broken dishes, lamps, etc. Thing is, she KNOWS where you live. What happens when she shows up in a drunken rage, making a scene on your doorstep? Never a good thing to be the subject of negative neighborhood gossip.

Nice thing about P4P: you want the gfE, not the gf[period] overhead. You pay them to LEAVE.

Myself, I'd be pursuing a more "equal" relationship, as in the mature asian.

Pajodxb
04-12-12, 11:31
I'll provide a bit of caution:

Myself, I'd be pursuing a more "equal" relationship, as in the mature asian.So far I have only been round to the Nigerians house. I'm getting a bit bored really as it's probably cheaper in the long run just to pay for it a couple of times a week and the occasional drama does my head in.

Not made any real progress with the older Asian woman but I think it will be a slow burn thing that probably pays of well in the end.

Bumz Rush
04-12-12, 11:58
Tagged is the king.

I have a fantastic regular girl from Tagged in Dubai.

In past have had many casual regulars from Tagged too.

There are many working Girls there too, most come clean about their profession.

Go forth and TAG.

Bumz

Taleisin
04-14-12, 15:49
Tagged is the king.

I have a fantastic regular girl from Tagged in Dubai.

In past have had many casual regulars from Tagged too.

There are many working Girls there too, most come clean about their profession.

Go forth and TAG.

BumzInteresting. I've started having a bit of a blitz on Tagged. Obviously getting pinged by all the wg's on there. However it's not really working out for me at the moment. Do you think I'm being too heavy handed by posting status updates such as "who fancies coming to my hotel with a girlfriend for some fun?" LOL.

Any strategies you'd be willing to share. However, I'll let you know if my luck changes.

DudeCool2009
04-14-12, 19:14
I totally agree Bumz. I found it useful and infact I have "farmed" some contacts via Tagged. Many WGs but some looks positive, mainly Philis. Am coming to DXB this week for few days and let me see the results. Will definitely share FRs if succeeded.

Thanks.


Tagged is the king.

I have a fantastic regular girl from Tagged in Dubai.

In past have had many casual regulars from Tagged too.

There are many working Girls there too, most come clean about their profession.

Go forth and TAG.

Bumz

Pajodxb
04-15-12, 06:52
If I had the time to "date" regular girls then Tagged would be an absolute winner.

I've met a couple of Fili WG's on their but the quality hasn't been high.

A bikini picture tends to give their intent away!

Pajodxb
04-16-12, 11:34
Got one last really nice fuck from the Nigerian girl and have decided to move on.

You can more or less guarantee that any of the African girls on Tagged are on the game.

Most seem to be fairly casual about it rather than full timers but my experience so far suggests that whilst the sex is excellent sooner or later they become a pain in the arse.

Time to keep courting the lovely Thai lady. Even if it takes 6 months I think it will be worth it in the end.

IAintSpecial
04-30-12, 09:15
I'm still toying around with Tagged although the results are very mixed however there are some really entertaining people on there.

Number 2. The young asian lady who's ex bf told her she was a worthless * so now she does live webcams for anyone who will tell her she's pretty.Pajo can you pm me the details of Number 2?

Taleisin
05-23-12, 10:23
LOL. Still attempting to squeeze Tagged. Not working out for me tho'. However, I've not got a real photo on there. Might hinder me.


Pajo can you pm me the details of Number 2?

Metol
05-23-12, 18:47
However, I've not got a real photo on there. Might hinder me.I second that, yet my is blur. I've got several face to face meetings already and managed to travel together with a lady from tagged. But, the majority that make contact and meet in my experience have not been, in my category, the A listers type. Nonetheless, there is something in tagged for everyone's taste, indeed.

Cheers

Nice Guy 99
05-26-12, 04:48
Tagged has been a major source for me. When I'm heading to a new country I set up a profile and spend some time working it. It almost always pays off. Tagged does have pro's looking for compensation but also has a significant number of "freebies", which is a relative term!

Dbates80
05-26-12, 13:28
Tagged has been a major source for me. When I'm heading to a new country I set up a profile and spend some time working it. It almost always pays off. Tagged does have pro's looking for compensation but also has a significant number of "freebies", which is a relative term!I am working to have developed three to five decent contacts before I get there and then qualify them further after arrival by simply going out on dates with them and see how it goes. I like the idea of getting pussy for free. I love the mongering and P4P, no problem there, but having a "regular" deal is pretty cool too. The great thing about P4P is that there is no obligation for anything after, as one member put it, you are paying them to LEAVE afterwords.

The usual cautions regarding Pinay apply, I think I saw one guy put it as "after three or five dates their brains turn into worms", they declaire their forever love for you, and then become a potential liability.

I am SUCH a cold bastard, just using them like this.

Ruffeek
06-13-12, 22:08
I am currently going through my well-deserved Bachelor Days (June 5 till June 27) as wifey and tyke are away, visiting her family in a CIS country.

Friday morning, I had arrangements to pick up a Fili from Abu Dhabi and spend the day with her. She works as a food-serving maid in an Embassy. She gets a day off every alternate Friday and on Saturday of the following week. I shall refer to her as "TAV"

I came across TAV on Tagged (she is one of my "Pets") a few months ago. We exchanged messages. She has a Fiance back home and when she returns in December, they are to marry. We agreed to meet and, about a month ago, I managed to escape from home on a Friday, picked her up, and took her for lunch at Abu Dhabi Marina Mall.

That was our first meeting. And, on the way back, she started caressing me in the car. Eventually, I received a BBBJ from her on the Abu Dhabi. Yas Island highway, while I also had my hand inside her jeans for some time. Enjoying the BBBJ, I actually drove twice around that highway before dropping her home. We agreed to meet again.

On TAGged, we continue flirting with each other but no sexually explicit messages are exchanged. Unfortunately, I am not "man" enough to tell her that I am married. So, as far as SHE is concerned, I live with my female cousin and her kid!

Since my "cousin" is now away, we decided to meet on Friday, June 8, and then on Saturday, June 16, and finally, again on Friday, June 22.

So, on June 8, I collected her and drove back to Dubai. Drove to my office to pick up my laptop charger. Stopped over at Nando's on SZR for lunch, and came to my apartment.

We started watching a movie (which was really just a pretext for getting comfy on the sofa) and I just waited for her to make the first move. She did.

A few minutes later, we were partly undressed (actually, she had undressed me completely, while she was still in her bra and panties).

I carried her to the bedroom. And we then spent a few hours seriously exploring our mutual "affection" (yeah right) for each other.

The extent of my "affection" for her was quite clear by the number of positions, and the number of holes I filled. Mouth, arse, and pussy, were all available and greatly enjoyed (hence, I say that I "MAPped" her).

I will pick her up again on Saturday. But this time, I will first take her to "At the Top" (I bought tickets online for noon). And then bring her home for the main course.

She has sent me a message saying that June 22 is the absolute last time. She claims that she wants to abstain for at least a few months so that her Fiance will not suspect her. I'd be quite happy with that arrangement. My affection for her is not likely to outlast three visitations!

R

BionicMan
06-13-12, 22:41
I am currently going through my well-deserved Bachelor Days (June 5 till June 27) as wifey and tyke are away, visiting her family in a CIS country.

She has sent me a message saying that June 22 is the absolute last time. She claims that she wants to abstain for at least a few months so that her Fiance will not suspect her. I'd be quite happy with that arrangement. My affection for her is not likely to outlast three visitations! RWill you believe that? A girl that goes quickly into a BBBJ (no CIM?) while you drive the car is not capable to abstain for months. IMHO

Snow1998
06-14-12, 12:04
I am currently going through my well-deserved Bachelor Days (June 5 till June 27) as wifey and tyke are away, visiting her family in a CIS country.

Friday morning, I had arrangements to pick up a Fili from Abu Dhabi and spend the day with her. She works as a food-serving maid in an Embassy. She gets a day off every alternate Friday and on Saturday of the following week. I shall refer to her as "TAV"

I came across TAV on Tagged (she is one of my "Pets") a few months ago.

RThis can't be for free for long. A request for some finances for an ailing mother or such might be coming soon. Enjoy it while you can.

Ruffeek
06-19-12, 13:30
On Friday. 8 June, I collected my TAGGED pet, TAV, from her place of employment and brought her over to my place for an excellent session where I MAPped her quite thoroughly (see my earlier report here For a more detailed note for that day).

As per our agreement, I collected her again on her next day off, Saturday. 16 June. The plan was to take her to the observation deck at Burj Khalifa (tickets purchased online a week earlier) , stop for a quick lunch somewhere (eventually, it was Nando's on SZR) and then head to my place (we reached home at around 1430hrs).

We stayed at my place till about 1830hrs. And it was ONLY about sex, sex, and more sex. Since I had treated her as a lady at Burj Khalifa and over lunch, I could treat her quite the opposite at home.

Our next date is planned for Friday, June 22 (her next day off). But, I might be occupied elsewhere and so, I might regretfully cancel.

From here on, I will let the pictures tell the story, with minimal comments. The pictures are all posted in the photo gallery starting from this post (will edit post to add links as soon as report is up).

At The Top: AED 200. 00.

Lunch bill: AED 140. 00 including AED 20. 00 tip.

Fuel to AUH and back x 2 trips: AED 100. 00.

So yeah, as Snow1998 says, it's already definitely not free!

R

Greek Niko
06-23-12, 14:23
TAGGED has been wonderful for me. I have and still to this day maintain contact with so many good pussies. Here is a small sample.

Snow1998
12-15-12, 16:19
I have been keeping away from the pickup bars and WGs for sometime now as I've been casting a net to pick a regular. I had given my contact to this girl (details withheld intentionally) who works as a cashier and new in Dubai. I didn't know how new untill she was in bed with me last night. First time she came out was a few days back as she had just bought a phone and sim and called me first. I was taken completey by surprise as I really didn't expect it. She hopped a cab (on my request) with a friend (also new) and joined me at a club I was in. We ate drank and danced till closing time and the vibes were really good with her, we were into each other from the word go. Maybe it was the recent display of some insensitiveness on the board that got my sympathy and feelings into high gear I don't know, but I just felt a need to make her life just even a little bit better than the deal she has here on 1600 / month. I was upfront on day 1 that whatever we have is while she and I remain in Dubai and it cannot go beyond that. Maybe she believed me or not I'm not sure but thats a line I keep reminding her. She was so fragile and naive (for want of a better word) that I could have taken her home that night and she would have just succmubed. But I was not going to do that. Dropped both of them off at their accommodation around 4am. The next day I picked her up after her shift at 1am brought her to my place as she said she liked to come with me. She was tired from a 10 hr shift and hungry so I cooked her a meal. She had never had a man cook for her! We got intimate and had some of the most beautuful sex I've had in a very very long time. She was really so into it and after the MPs and WGs and brothels I've had in the recent past this was really something else. She feels she has found a rock she can depend on and at the same time fill her womanly (or I should say girly) needs. And she is aware of all the other benefits for her in this relationship. So I won't be contributing any FRs untill this lasts for the simple reason that I don't need to visit such places, though I will keep abreast of what goes on. And as for all the old and young chatter that has gone on recently I saved the best (at least for me it is) for last. I am just a few years shy of a half century and my new found GF is 23! She has very catogorically told me her preference as she finds me so caring and trustworthy, her words not mine. No bragging here merely stating a fact. And as for how long she has been here today is day 9 and no I didn't stand at the airport immigration handing out my contact. I just got lucky for a change.

So happy mongering to you folks, and I really hope I won't have the need for sometime to come.

ExpatNLookin
12-24-12, 04:01
TAGGED has been wonderful for me. I have and still to this day maintain contact with so many good pussies. Here is a small sample.I haven't had any luck with Tagged. Any tips?

Kabul Guy
12-24-12, 13:11
I haven't had any luck with Tagged. Any tips?Start off with a non-threatening profile, something that would attract the ladies. Make it funny.

Cast a wide net; send friend requests to as many ladies who catch your fancy.

Look for ladies in other places than just the browse function, Look at guys with a large number of female friends and send them all friend requests, look at the ladies friends as well for other sexy ladies.

When a friend request is accepted, send a message thanking them for being a friend and asking if they want to chat.

Play pets and send winks and luv to get their attention as well.

If they chat play it from there, ask them to lunch or other meeting that is non-threatening.

Remember in chatting up the ladies, you should not come on too strong, be funny and pay them compliments, all ladies like to be told that they are beautiful and have a nice smile / laugh.

Wicked Roger
12-24-12, 17:26
I didn't stand at the airport immigration handing out my contact. I just got lucky for a change.

So happy mongering to you folks, and I really hope I won't have the need for sometime to come.Snow.

I am sure that was you in immigration a few weeks back with the sign around his neck asking for 'friends' LOL.

It is always better to have a full time GFE fili IMHO as then you will really benefit. But now you need lessons from uncle WR in how to make her kinky and share with your friends while you watch, and how to leave her at home while you pop out for more filis bring them back and persuade her to be bisexual.

Now as you may not know these lessons in detail am happy to be the 'visiting professor' LOL Just PM where and when my friend LOL

Nice Guy 99
12-24-12, 18:47
Originally Posted by ExpatNLookin [View Original Post]

I haven't had any luck with Tagged. Any tips?
If they chat play it from there, ask them to lunch or other meeting that is non-threatening.

Remember in chatting up the ladies, you should not come on too strong, be funny and pay them compliments, all ladies like to be told that they are beautiful and have a nice smile / laugh.Wow! I must respectfully disagree, at least for me. If I followed KG's plan I'd be spending a lot of time on low probability of success targets. There are many many Tagettes. It's a target rich environment and you need to quickly cull the herd. Sure the first chat and / or messaging must be reassuring that you're not some dangerous troll but quickly thereafter talk about visiting your hotel room or not wanting to sleep alone. If this is accepted and communications continue you know you have a high probability target; if not, nothing lost.

I'm sure a variety of approaches to Tagged will work; to each his own.

Kabul Guy
12-24-12, 19:20
Wow! I must respectfully disagree, at least for me. If I followed KG's plan I'd be spending a lot of time on low probability of success targets. There are many many Tagettes. It's a target rich environment and you need to quickly cull the herd.Part of it is that I have the time to chat them up a fair bit before meeting them. I only get to Dubai when leaving Afghanistan on leave and then a couple weeks later when I am returning then 3 months in a construction camp.

I have yet to actually take a prospect to lunch. By that time it has progressed beyond the stage of a get to know you lunch and we both know where we are going to end up when we meet.

Daman22
12-24-12, 19:23
Well I haven't had any luck on tagged yet, been trying for 2 weeks though so must stay patient.

Only 50 out of 2000 maybe access my friend request and only 2 replied to my private messages for the first time, then nada.

Maybe I'm a weirdo and I don't know how to approach what to do, but you learn from practice I guess. Maybe I have to update my profile to VIP or something there to get more notice.

TreeGreen
12-30-12, 14:13
first time post here, but as a regular of the p4p scene in dubai i found things getting a bit stale after a while. the thrill has been a lot greater since i have been concentrating for the last four years purely on non-p4p. pickings are rich in the emirates and i have regulars from all backgrounds. this report deals with my fili experiences, among others.

tagged is a great starter, although having lived and worked in south east asia i like to think that i know the subtle arts of enticing the ladies from that part of the world without electronic aid. it was in pursuit of a find on tagged, though, that i came upon one of my least expected, but subsequently most fruitful, hunting grounds for fantastic filis. church! (ok, i'm going to hell, i know that, but i'm really long past redemption anyway).

purely in the interests of securing the deal on my tagged target i had reluctantly agreed to attend a service. i missed out on the preferred target sadly, but it opened a world of opportunities that still stand me in good stead. most filis are catholic, but it's those in the evangelical happy clappy sects that seem to provide the most fertile hunting ground.

i can only assume church attendance for these ladies is out of some sort of life-long habit, as any strict theological hang ups seem to go straight out of the window once you have established good relations. kindly offering a lift home, a post-service coffee etc. have all been preludes to some frankly fabulous sex and the building of some great no-strings attached regulars. you must stlll be careful to filter which ones are happy with that no-strings option or else you can get clingers.

i have found mid-30s to mid-40s filis are my favourites. i also find they are less likely to create drama, being that little more mature. many are married with hubbies elsewhere and are often after the same thing you are, which helps, although as south east asian veterans will know, that's really not a cast-iron guarantee of calm. faces might sag a little more, but they can still have great bodies and plenty of the service standards we all know and love. if you find a lady that basically just wants something to relieve the humdrum of existence far from home you can really have a great time. charisma is everything here. if you're a pleasant enough guy with a good sense of humour, make a little effort with your dressing, where you take them on dates etc. the investment is rewarded handsomely. i took one bored 30-something fili to oman for a very dirty long weekend a couple of years ago. itbstarted off with her talking about her favourite bits of the bible over a coffee. next weekend she was providing me with a rather delightful, if somewhat risque, bbbj on the road to murep001. all at her initiative. regular shags still come from that source. as well as good tips on flight discounts (she's a travel agent).

a regular milf i have been shagging for three years now even brought back butt plugs, dildos and other toys from her last trip back home. within reason i let them have parties at my place. no naughty stuff and nothing gets out of hand. no threesomes etc. but it provides a further bounty of choices. they see you look after their friend so are themselves often happy to getting friendly with you. bewre fili jealousy, bowever. veterans will know what i mean when i say handle with extreme care and discreteness when shagging two whi even vaguely know each other. even if its no strings, the green eyes monster can be unleashed. and i'm not talking about sylhilis here. something far more lethal. a jealous fili.

one strange aspect to my fili conquests. every new lady i find who is up for fun and who i bring back to my place seems very keen on trying out the pool. i can only assume they like to show me what the goods are before sampling. an odd quirk, but one that's welcome. has helped me make my mind up a couple of times. inotice the ones who don't ask to swim are the ones who just aren't interested in taking things beyond a drink. swimming pools must be some sort of signal for filis, although i can't work out for the life of me what.

a nurse i met at a hospital has been another great find. again, just being friendly and sweet gets the foot in the door. this prospect often doesn't seem great at first in thise unflattering clinic clothes, but once she's out of them. turned out she was actually a trained physio. in addition to a great massage, she provides what i can only describe as possibly the finest hj in human history. i cum like a volcano every time. an oily sensual tour of her fingers round my cock and balls ends with a literalblow job, her literally blowing slowly but oh so sweetly over my cock while stroking. the occasions she turns this manoeuvre into an actual bbbj are frankly a quasi-religious experience.

these opportunities are not always easy. you have to know how to read the signs. but that only takes a bit of common sense and some charm. as a pock-marked casanova used to say "just give me 10 minutes to talk away my face". and to be fair, he didn't seem to do too badly in terms of landing the ladies.

happy hunting comrades!

Double Shooter
12-30-12, 18:14
First time post here, but as a regular of the P4P scene in Dubai I found things getting a bit stale after a while. The thrill has been a lot greater since I have been concentrating for the last four years...An outstanding first report. How do you make the initial approach?

Wicked Roger
12-31-12, 09:39
An outstanding first report. How do you make the initial approach?Always said to those who listen to me (very few LOL) that hospitals are always a good place to check and find a pinay. Churches are a wonderful place also. I would take some to church and hang around. It is amazing how many you can offer a lift home to while your date is praying etc.

Had a few physios and pharmacists in my time but you need patience and be careful of the jealous types as they can be serious trouble

TreeGreen
12-31-12, 10:55
An outstanding first report. How do you make the initial approach?Thanking you sir for your kind words. Knowing the territory really helps initially. These ladies, from choice, really would be rather back home. That's usually a very good entry point. Talk about their country / home town. They almost are all proud of it. Ask where they're from, show a little interest and knowledge of it etc and you're showing yourself to be a warm and decent person for them to relate to. It's quite easy to slip into these conversations if you're being atteneded to by a Fili nurse / waitress etc. Showing an interest in Fili food is another opener, athough I try and avoid this, as they then might actually want you to eat the stuff, which really isn't to my taste.

At church, I think most of them attend for social rather than religious reasons. The genuinely religious lot can be pretty intense, but if you're willing to put up with them, the churches do post-service social events. Coffee, lunch etc. At which you can get to know some ladies.

Good luck!

I'll be posting my indian / Pakistani experiences soon for anyone interested.

TreeGreen
12-31-12, 10:56
Having previously given my two cents worth on the Fili non-P4P market, here is my experience of the India / Pakistani nonP4P scene and possible entry points for those interested. This scene is admittedly more difficult to crack, but once you know the ropes it can get easier.

It can require long lead times and luck and circumstance often play no small part, but it is worth the effort, believe me. Cultural sensitivities mean that discreteness is key. Whereas with Filis movies, dinners wtc are possible if desired, this is not the case with Indians / Pakistanis, particularly if you are not one of them yourself (as is my case). On the other hand, that can mean everything is about the sex.

Yahoo messenger chat boards are my favourite point of entry into this scene. Whatever chat board it is. Movies, religion, travel. Engaging in intelligent chat is the only way to go. Nondisrespect to my Indian / Pakistani friends on this board, but your ladies are sick of you just trying to gonstraight for the kill, without any finesse or tact. These are not P4P girls and their willingness to chat is not correlated tontheir eagerness for a good about in the sack. You have to use your brain for success here.

Knowledge of the girl's culture helps. If you happen to have visited India / Pakistan, talking about it is another inroad that can result in gianteaps forward. May take a while to.

ExpatNLookin
02-01-13, 17:59
Hello guys,

I did RTFF but since most posts are a little outdated (or actually the scene in Dubai is quite dymanic)

Which clubs are the best for picking up civilians (a. K. A. Non WGs)?

Nice Guy 99
02-16-13, 02:13
Managed to meet a sweet pinay on line who happened to be working in Abu Dhabi. Chit chatted for a few weeks learning about her life. Single mother, baby taken care of by mom in the province. The same sad story we've heard many times. All this chatting occurred while I was in another country and when I returned to Abu Dhabi a few weeks ago we agreed to meet. First it was going to be coffee at Starbuck's but then I suggested perhaps we could have dinner together in my hotel suite and talk in a more comfortable and private venue. After some hesitation she accepted. I picked her up a block away from her employment as she wanted to be discrete. (She's well educated and very articulate) In the room we had a glass of wine and ordered from room service. I think the fact that it was a suite and she was not in the same room with the bed helped to put her at ease. We had a great dinner and conversation and back on the couch we started to get freindly. It took some coaxing to get her in bed for some serious DFK and groping. She was quite responsive, clothes came off and soon I was nibbling on nipples. As I headed south I could feel her tense up. It took some creative nuzzling to finally get her legs to open. Once I started to sample her clit she melted, legs came fully open, bucking and thrusting and loud moaning. We kept at this for quite a while but she was reluctant to touch NG99 junior and BBBJ was clearly not on the menu. Conventional covered sex was gladly accepted and we pounded to mutual O's.

The really interesting thing is that the number of guys she has slept with can be counted on one hand and I am the first who was not Filipino. She never had anything but missionary wham bam sex. She tells me that she has watched porn with GFs that included DATY, had never experienced it, but is now addicted. In fact she questioned me intently as to why western guys like to do this (led to another DATY session). She is a real sweety and we see each other once a week now, always straight to the hotel, and she still hasn't stayed the full night. We are working on getting her comfortable with BBBJ but still have a way to go. At our first meeting it had been more than two years since she had sex. I totally believe her story and her innocence. It's such a different experience and I really enjoy it.

We sometimes get jaded in this mongering world. It's certainly worth the effort to cultivate "regular girls" for a special experience. I haven't seen any crazy pinay jealousy tendencies. We have a very very large age difference, she realizes that I sleep with other women and I think this is truly a "friends with benefits" relationship. I'll enjoy the ride while it lasts.

Rick James
02-21-13, 22:52
Visiting Dubai next month, and have done my WG research.

Now following Nice Guy 99's advice and have made a Tagged profile to see if I can setup some non WG action pre-visit. I'll update on the success (or not) of this avenue.

Planning ahead lads. Hope it pays off

NashJanovi
02-23-13, 19:27
Seems like most of the guys are looking out for girls on tagged! Lets get this very very straight all the ladies are looking for some quality time on Tagged too. The thing is they are looking in for a BF kind (lets say he would buy them iphone / perfumes / laptop / any expensive accessory they can't afford). Mostly dominated with fillipinas on tagged! First step is to always and always ask them to meet not for sex but just like friends and go around with them and talk. These ladies are also looking around to mingle with someone who won't tell around that they are fucking when they get a chance to. Second step have on and off conversation with them, be naughty with your conversation. They more naughty and dirty you will joke they better and comfortable they will get in talking about these things. Third drop the bombshell that you are in love with them but you don't know and you want her opinion. Fourth ofcourse she will say NOOOO (if YES, you lucky SOB. Have a nice time with her) cut off with her for a while. Fifth on any occassion of new year or any shit msg her as well, she will reply and you can then call her to reconnect to her. Be friendly and slow. Last tell her you are a virgin and you want to loose your virginity to her (this sucks bad time I know but I did it with a girl even while she was in affair with her boyfriend) OR just ask her that you want her to love you and blah blah blah the more romantic the better, OR take her to a damn club on weekend get her drunk and ENJOY.

PS: the secret is out enjoy guys.

Buster F
02-23-13, 21:02
You are getting it straight. Nailing down the victim nationality. Mingling. Oh you naughty and dirty. Dropping bombshells. Showing us you a playa. Smooth playa! Love the ending. Losing virginity. You are a genius. I thought world ended with Steve Jobs, but ladies and gentleman, we have a winner below. You are priceless. I will be printing this and framing it. Finally I know the game. I am the playa. All thanks to the guy. Errrr. Girl. Errrr guy. Does it even matter. Telling us the secret inside the pandora's box. Mmmmm good start fella. Keep it up. You are the one we have been waiting for and finally you have arrived my friend. To help us poor horny fellas. We have been saved thy Lord. With tears of joy. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!


Seems like most of the guys are looking out for girls on tagged! Lets get this very very straight all the ladies are looking for some quality time on Tagged too. The thing is they are looking in for a BF kind (lets say he would buy them iphone / perfumes / laptop / any expensive accessory they can't afford). Mostly dominated with fillipinas on tagged! First step is to always and always ask them to meet not for sex but just like friends and go around with them and talk. These ladies are also looking around to mingle with someone who won't tell around that they are fucking when they get a chance to. Second step have on and off conversation with them, be naughty with your conversation. They more naughty and dirty you will joke they better and comfortable they will get in talking about these things. Third drop the bombshell that you are in love with them but you don't know and you want her opinion. Fourth ofcourse she will say NOOOO (if YES, you lucky SOB. Have a nice time with her) cut off with her for a while. Fifth on any occassion of new year or any shit msg her as well, she will reply and you can then call her to reconnect to her. Be friendly and slow. Last tell her you are a virgin and you want to loose your virginity to her (this sucks bad time I know but I did it with a girl even while she was in affair with her boyfriend) OR just ask her that you want her to love you and blah blah blah the more romantic the better, OR take her to a damn club on weekend get her drunk and ENJOY.

PS: the secret is out enjoy guys.

Cybram
02-24-13, 19:02
Ok, I am not a playa. But 4 years here I guess anyone can get a non working (regular girl) with minimal effort. You just get lucky.

Well here is my story. We met on a mobile chatting service, slowly moved to skype and phone and a few days later she travelled all the way from dxb to auh to meet me. She works with a cleaning service and is quite lonely and my family was away for few months are the two factors that swung it in my favour.

Had a nice time. She was initially very shy especially with bbjs but that slowly changed over the next few visits. Good things about her visits were a very neat house and unlimited sex. But the pinay drama was not far away. So after a few weeks of fun I called it off. She still keeps in touch and is an option if I decide to have her over.

But for time being I guess I will avoid the drama.

It was good while it lasted and helped understand pinay psyche a little better.

Outcast1148
03-04-13, 09:54
Is Tagged down or what is wrong, trying to open a Tagged profile but get an error message when going to Tagged. Com that the service is unavailable.

Outcast1148
03-04-13, 09:56
Visiting Dubai next month, and have done my WG research.

Now following Nice Guy 99's advice and have made a Tagged profile to see if I can setup some non WG action pre-visit. I'll update on the success (or not) of this avenue.

Planning ahead lads. Hope it pays offHi Guys,

Is there anything wrong with Tagged.com?

I'm getting a service unavailable error message when trying to open the tagged.com website.

Snow1998
03-05-13, 15:50
Are they scams? Sites like arabmatchmaking, dubaiexotics etc. They are free to signup then you need to pay to enable the next obvious step of messaging a woman. I find it hard to believe that the women on there would actually pay for this.

ExpatNLookin
03-05-13, 16:57
Is Tagged down or what is wrong, trying to open a Tagged profile but get an error message when going to Tagged. Com that the service is unavailable.It's working over VPN here.

ExpatNLookin
03-05-13, 17:05
Are they scams? Sites like arabmatchmaking, dubaiexotics etc. They are free to signup then you need to pay to enable the next obvious step of messaging a woman. I find it hard to believe that the women on there would actually pay for this.I still have to live to see a dating website that is NOT a scam.

Wicked Roger
03-05-13, 17:48
Are they scams? Sites like arabmatchmaking, dubaiexotics etc. They are free to signup then you need to pay to enable the next obvious step of messaging a woman. I find it hard to believe that the women on there would actually pay for this.For many site the girls get the stuff for free while us horny buggers need to pay. But I agree Snow, why do all this and then pay as some of the sites seems very dubious. Why not try DIA, FC etc as many pinays in the UAE post there and these are free

Snow1998
03-06-13, 12:33
For many site the girls get the stuff for free while us horny buggers need to pay. But I agree Snow, why do all this and then pay as some of the sites seems very dubious. Why not try DIA, FC etc as many pinays in the UAE post there and these are freeAm on it. Have to be discreet for very obvious reasons on FC and DIA though.

ExpatNLookin
03-10-13, 21:22
Am on it. Have to be discreet for very obvious reasons on FC and DIA though.Forgive my ignorance, what are the obvious reasons? You can PM me if you don't want a public disclosure.

Mad Hatter
03-11-13, 07:02
Am on it. Have to be discreet for very obvious reasons on FC and DIA though.But what do FC and DIA stand for?

Nice Guy 99
03-11-13, 13:31
But what do FC and DIA stand for?Filipino Cupid and Date in Asia.

Mad Hatter
03-11-13, 14:39
Filipino Cupid and Date in Asia.Thanks. What a nice guy?

Snow1998
03-11-13, 14:50
Forgive my ignorance, what are the obvious reasons? You can PM me if you don't want a public disclosure.I cannot afford to have my photo and profile on display on a dating site! LOL

ExpatNLookin
03-29-13, 09:56
I'd have to admit. Ehm. I never picked up a girl in my entire life (embarrassed emoticon)

Yes, I have mongered, but never picked up a civilian. And I'd love to.

There are a couple of concerts around the corner. In a concert there are all sorts of nice single girls / women looking to have fun.

My newbie question is : how could you pick up a girl from a concert? Any clues?

How can you find out if a girl would be cool with going home with you after the concert (not just looking for a dance buddy LOL). I am looking for a one night stand and that's it.

Snow1998
03-30-13, 04:50
I'd have to admit. Ehm. I never picked up a girl in my entire life (embarrassed emoticon)

Yes, I have mongered, but never picked up a civilian. And I'd love to.

There are a couple of concerts around the corner. In a concert there are all sorts of nice single girls / women looking to have fun.

My newbie question is : how could you pick up a girl from a concert? Any clues?

How can you find out if a girl would be cool with going home with you after the concert (not just looking for a dance buddy LOL). I am looking for a one night stand and that's it.Hmmm, I have picked many a non WG but admit never had a one night stand and that too never had her in bed on the first meet. Me personally I don't do one night stands except of course with WGs but thats different. IMHO what you are hoping for is very rare. However if all the holes lineup then its swiss cheese. If you are a good looking hunk then it gets a lot easier and all you need is a horny girl longing for a fillup. I would say there is a very less chance of finding an asian for that. It just boils down to your ability and a lot of luck. Chances of getting a girl to go home with you on the first meet is unlikely, but the possibilty exists. How you would find out if she was ready for a bang after the concert? Well the signs should be clear and you would get a feel for it talking with her. Jokes are a real ice breaker and if she responds to some raunchy jokes then it should be indicative. Sorry can't be more specific but I think its an individual thing. Unless of course you are James Bond! Good luck.

Happy hunting.

Mjolnir 213
04-01-13, 09:23
Hmmm, I have picked many a non WG but admit never had a one night stand and that too never had her in bed on the first meet. Me personally I don't do one night stands except of course with WGs but thats different. IMHO what you are hoping for is very rare. However if all the holes lineup then its swiss cheese. If you are a good looking hunk then it gets a lot easier and all you need is a horny girl longing for a fillup. I would say there is a very less chance of finding an asian for that. It just boils down to your ability and a lot of luck. Chances of getting a girl to go home with you on the first meet is unlikely, but the possibilty exists. How you would find out if she was ready for a bang after the concert? Well the signs should be clear and you would get a feel for it talking with her. Jokes are a real ice breaker and if she responds to some raunchy jokes then it should be indicative. Sorry can't be more specific but I think its an individual thing. Unless of course you are James Bond! Good luck.

Happy hunting.I Just noticed this and thought I would volunteer some friendly advice based on my mistakes and leanings.

This is assuming you are not a guy with movie star looks and a bank account to match.

I am assuming you are an average looking guy in his 30's to Early 40's with a middle to high income, working in the UAE and you have a decent bachelor pad. I could be wrong, but for the sake of this post, I will just go with that since I don't know you.

Firstly, concerts are not the greatest place to pick up a girl for a one night stand.

Think about it. Hot girls that go to concerts are most likely together with a group that usually will contain guys.

They are there to have a good time with their friends and not really there to go off with some stranger for a shag after the show.

If you get her drunk, her friends will be very protective. Besides, getting her drunk to the point that she does not care who she goes home with will result in several stops on the highway so she can vomit into a plastic bag.

More vomiting at home before she passes out.

Not really very sexy is it?

Now if you are smart, a better approach is to break into a girls group by being friendly and charming at a concert or club.

Clubs are better as many girls go to have fun and are more open to meeting guys in this environment. Also, groups of single girls will go out to clubs without any guys accompanying them. Less competition and machismo for you to deal with.

Set your sights on one girl in the group and give her a little bit more attention than the rest without appearing too keen.

Don't go overboard buying drinks for everyone you meet. You will look like an ass and no one will respect you.

A round or two is fine but no more than that.

If they are a younger group. Learn some bar magic tricks to impress the girls. Practice them well first or you will look like a douche.

Don't try too hard to take the girl you like home THAT night. If she WANTS to go with you, then jump on it. But don't try too hard.

Instead, say you really enjoyed her company and would like to see her again, perhaps in a couple of days for dinner and drinks. WITHOUT her gang. If she says ok, you are well on your way to banging her shortly.

Make sure you go to dinner EARLY. Like 7 30. You will be done by 9 30 which is not too late to invite her to watch a really good movie at your place. Be charming at dinner and listen to what she has to say. You don't need to talk too much. Ask a few questions and Just act like you are paying attention.

Be observant and say something about how nice her earnings are or that her second toe is longer than all the others and you find that really cute. Tease her about her freakishly small hands or that you noticed one nostril is bigger than the other. Make shit up if you have to, but don't get too annoying. Keep the teasing light and friendly. Make light body contact. Touch her on the shoulder and laugh when she says something funnyas you laugh at her witty sense of humour etc.

This may all sound like hard work, but it's not. It's actually all very basic stuff and should come naturally. Just keep a few key things in mind.

Back to your place to watch the movie after a lovely dinner. Make sure your place is very clean and smells nice.

The first thing she is likely to check is the toilet. Better make sure it's spotless. Get the movie cued up while she is in the loo freshening up. Get some popcorn in the microwave. Take off your shoes.

If its a movie that has subtitles, she will think you are more sophisticated. Pick a good Korean movie. I have had particular luck with these as they are 3 hours long and very good.

Enough time for her to get cosy with you on the couch. Keep the drinks flowing, but don't get her too drunk. Popcorn is good as you share a bowl and so will sit closer to each other.

Turn the ac up. THis encourages cuddling. Keep a blanket handy so she can get cosy.

Before the end of the movie, you should be making out on the couch with your finger up her very wet snatch and her tongue deep down your throat.

Don't take her to the bedroom. Fuck her right there on the floor like an animal. Don't be too romantic at this point.

If you have warmed her up properly, she will want to be properly fucked. Take charge but remember to still treat her respectfully.

Everyone has their own tricks at this stage and I assume you do what works for you.

By this time it is quite late. You have work the next day and so does she because you were clever enough to pick a weekday for your date.

Get cleaned up, give her a 5 minute massage, Call her a cab and kiss her goodbye.

She will ask when will she see you again. Say you will give her a call soon but work will be super busy for you the next couple of weeks, kiss her one last time and ease her out the door.

You have no real obligation to call her back and if she has any pride she will not call you first.

The total cost of your evening would be the same as an evening with a WG.

Don't go back to the same club you met her in for a couple of months. If you run into her again tell her you lost your phone on a business trip and her number along with it.

If she's been texting and calling you relentlessly, tell her you got turned off by her obsessive behavior and didn't want to get into anything serious.

There is a lot more art and finesse to all of this which can only be learnt by experience and multiple encounters with women.

Your confidence will build and it will get much easier.

You have to be a pretty cold bastard to do this repeatedly though, and if all you want is sex with random women, you are better off paying for it. Less effort and expense and less potential drama.

Now, all off the above does not guarantee success. You will have hits and misses. Your looks, charm and understanding of women play a role as well. The MOST important thing though is your self confidence. Women are drawn to confident guys that know when and when NOT to pay a lady a complement.

Being over sweet will send them running faster than you can imagine. Always try to give off the vibe that you don't really NEED to be with her, but you CHOOSE to on that night. You are not a desperate loser, you are someone she wants to be with as well.

Make an effort to be well groomed. In particular: Clip your nails, If you are a bushy guy. Trim your pubes and shave your balls every couple of weeks, use chapstick, keep your breath fresh always and wear nice shoes and clothes that suit your age and appearance. Old guys trying to look young and trendy look ridiculous. Young guys that dress too old, also look like they are trying too hard.

Use a good cologne and if you are a guy that sweats easily, PLEASE wear an undershirt. Nothing worse than sweat patches when you are dancing.

And. Watch this show called Californication. When in doubt, just channel Hank Moody.

Think of him as your spirit guide and you will do just fine.

Some of these things are what work for me, some are insights from women who just tell me stuff and some is just observing other guys.

I have had some instances where girls went straight home with me on the first meeting, and others where I had to work a bit harder.

I am talking about regular girls here. Not pros or semi-pros which you do find a lot of in Dubai.

Was it always worth the effort? No.

This is why I chose to just pay a girl to spend a nice time with me, give me what I want and be on her way with minimum bullshit. There is still the thrill you get when you score with a Non WG, but for mainly egoistic reasons.

It's nice to know I still have game and have kept my edge. It will be a sad day for me when I am no longer attractive to pretty young women, but I think I won't have to worry about that for a while yet.

Hopefully some of this will be useful to you in your quest for 'free' pussy, but as any seasoned guy will tell you, you eventually pay for it one way or another.

Cheers,

WB

Member #4180
04-02-13, 22:31
Dear Expatnlookin.

You should give more detail about your appearance, strong point and weakness, if you got some skills like dancing.

I must say (and that is really without an ounce of mocking) , the situation you got in is consternating.

Beeing so advanced with WG but never have picked up a girl. You need to dramatically change that!

Picking up girl is probably the best self-esteem booster. Picking up a WG probably one of the worst.

Your approach about wanting one night stand while never having picked up a girl seems wrong to me. Girl will probably feel it!

I have picked up girl for one night stand a lot! But honestly I never had the firm intention of doing so! If I like a girl, I am in open mode. 60% of them look like useless after I fuck them on first second or third date. Hence they become one night stand afterward.

I believe this is one of my asset, I know how to make a girl comfortable, they often tell me they know me for a while, and feel that I may be around for a while too. I believe all this is coming from the fact I do not intend to trick them, lie about myself or my intention!

You got to use humor! This is the best way to pick up girl, even more if you are not attractive I would say!

About concert, I managed to get numbers in concert, mainly because I was with friends and the "band" looked cool to girl. But if you plan to go alone and go ahead and pick up a girl in a crew. Be aware that is not easy! So leave it for now.

Start to flirt with girl who are sales in shop, at work, online. The girls you have a reason to talk to at first! Then evolve to club. And then to virtually everywhere!

Member #4180
04-02-13, 22:49
As said before, I am giving a follow-up to my UKRAINIAN stunner story.

Well, I spent last 2 days with her. And I have mixed feelings.

I clarified 3 things. :

-She lives with a ukrainian friend of her, she is not paying anything. She came to Dubai a few time before as she had a BF here, now she came to find a job and leave ukraine for good.

-The money she got is money she got left from her previous job in ukraine and also some money her ex gave her.

-She confirmed me she wants to get into a classical relationship GF / BF

I have to adjust my ratings. I would downgrade her face to 9 instead of 9. 5 and upgrade her body to 15/10! Went to the beach today and she just got a PERFECT BODY! I can't believe my eyes! Her boobs are actually 90D! Natural, round and firm!

So I spent first day with her casual, Dubai mall, then movie at my home then some action. And today lunch, beach, movie.

Ok, the main drawback I see in her, and I really need advice from guy who did lot of CIS relationship, as I did only one serious. And lot of one night stand or WG.

She is not very GFE yet, I mean outside, I feel like she is my GF, and we really get along well, but at home, she is not so much into kissing. She also do not say much compliment. Is that something in their way of beeing?

I told her already and she says it will get better, but still, I can't give her any confidence when I feel she is not so much into me (I mean everybody love kissing no?)

On the other hand, I told her I was a bit broke, I was looking for a wife and not a GF to put money in, so why would she like to see me everyday if not seriously liking me?

I'm in the fog! Looking for some guidance!

I am usually very good at leading the dance with girls, but I must say she is so special that unusual lack of confidence in me might knock the door!

Paddy23
04-03-13, 09:46
As said before, I am giving a follow-up to my UKRAINIAN stunner story.

Well, I spent last 2 days with her. And I have mixed feelings.

I clarified 3 things. :

-She lives with a ukrainian friend of her, she is not paying anything. She came to Dubai a few time before as she had a BF here, now she came to find a job and leave ukraine for good.

-The money she got is money she got left from her previous job in ukraine and also some money her ex gave her.

-She confirmed me she wants to get into a classical relationship GF / BF

I have to adjust my ratings. I would downgrade her face to 9 instead of 9. 5 and upgrade her body to 15/10! Went to the beach today and she just got a PERFECT BODY! I can't believe my eyes! Her boobs are actually 90D! Natural, round and firm!

So I spent first day with her casual, Dubai mall, then movie at my home then some action. And today lunch, beach, movie.

Ok, the main drawback I see in her, and I really need advice from guy who did lot of CIS relationship, as I did only one serious. And lot of one night stand or WG.

She is not very GFE yet, I mean outside, I feel like she is my GF, and we really get along well, but at home, she is not so much into kissing. She also do not say much compliment. Is that something in their way of beeing?

I told her already and she says it will get better, but still, I can't give her any confidence when I feel she is not so much into me (I mean everybody love kissing no?)

On the other hand, I told her I was a bit broke, I was looking for a wife and not a GF to put money in, so why would she like to see me everyday if not seriously liking me?

I'm in the fog! Looking for some guidance!

I am usually very good at leading the dance with girls, but I must say she is so special that unusual lack of confidence in me might knock the door!A lot of CIS are like this. Cold at first. You must not question this or try to reason with her, as to her, it will be a turn off. Just do your own thing, don't act needy or ask 'why'. This is not attractive. It's hard I admit when you meet a true stunner, but this is all part of the dance, the multiple tests they will set to see how you react. Also if she is doing 'normal' activities with you, then she probably likes being with you. Give it time, and live your own life. Don't make her your life. Don't always be available and play it cool. Don't jump on her train, let her jump on her train, if that metaphor makes sense! And keep us posted. This happens to us all at one point or another, when we question what we are doing or how we are acting. In fact its not a CIS trait, its a universal trait among very hot women. Good luck!

RushRider
04-03-13, 10:41
As said before, I am giving a follow-up to my UKRAINIAN stunner story.

Well, I spent last 2 days with her. And I have mixed feelings.

I clarified 3 things. :

-She lives with a ukrainian friend of her, she is not paying anything. She came to Dubai a few time before as she had a BF here, now she came to find a job and leave ukraine for good.

-The money she got is money she got left from her previous job in ukraine and also some money her ex gave her.

-She confirmed me she wants to get into a classical relationship GF / BF

I have to adjust my ratings. I would downgrade her face to 9 instead of 9. 5 and upgrade her body to 15/10! Went to the beach today and she just got a PERFECT BODY! I can't believe my eyes! Her boobs are actually 90D! Natural, round and firm!

So I spent first day with her casual, Dubai mall, then movie at my home then some action. And today lunch, beach, movie.

Ok, the main drawback I see in her, and I really need advice from guy who did lot of CIS relationship, as I did only one serious. And lot of one night stand or WG.

She is not very GFE yet, I mean outside, I feel like she is my GF, and we really get along well, but at home, she is not so much into kissing. She also do not say much compliment. Is that something in their way of beeing?

I told her already and she says it will get better, but still, I can't give her any confidence when I feel she is not so much into me (I mean everybody love kissing no?)

On the other hand, I told her I was a bit broke, I was looking for a wife and not a GF to put money in, so why would she like to see me everyday if not seriously liking me?

I'm in the fog! Looking for some guidance!

I am usually very good at leading the dance with girls, but I must say she is so special that unusual lack of confidence in me might knock the door!DB2. I will give you some advice from a guy who has been married to a beautiful Ukrainian woman for a dozen years. I met my wife while she was modeling in Kiev. I was so taken back by her beauty I could barely put a full sentence together. As Paddy stated, what you are experience is common, almost mirrored my first few weeks with her. Ukrainian culture, similar to other CIS countries and Russia, are different then Western cultures in many aspects, including the dance you are experiencing. She is feeling you out. She isn't getting anything out of the relationship now, which a gf back home would expect. Many young beautiful girls end up as gf to successful men already married with children. This is common and expected in Ukraine. My wife tells me that if we lived in Kiev, she would expect me to have at least one gf, other than her. My wife seemed cold the first few months of our relationship. She was testing me, seeing how I reacted in different situations. I was pretty poor at the time, not compared to Ukrainian standards, but compared to men she could have had. I was making less than $60k USD per year. She said she saw potential in me, as she started to warm up to me she also started to become more of a partner and a friend. She encouraged me to take some wise risks and as our relationship and love grew, she became my partner in everything. The kissing and romance takes time, even if it is just sex now. Be patient with her and be a little distant. All women want a confident man.

You can have a wonderful life with her, but take it slow and enjoy her as a man, not a teenager.

Rush

Prosal
04-03-13, 11:19
I'm in the fog! Looking for some guidance!

I am usually very good at leading the dance with girls, but I must say she is so special that unusual lack of confidence in me might knock the door!You'll get all the info needed in the threads "dating Russian Women" and "Russian Women. Opinions and Advices" in the Russian section.

Bombs
04-03-13, 12:15
DBM2, I would take P23's advice and just take it easy. I think it may be the after effects of her previous relationship coupled with the move here. She probably just needs a bit of time to transition. Though, it seems like she must have been a wg recently. All those messages on the mobile are probably more than online dating. Then again, that's the past and she may be retired, like you.

I am in an eerily similar situation to you. I've cut out all p4p activities and am dating a Ukranian stunner (and I also can't believe how shameless men are- staring while she's walking with me holding my hand. They even whistle sometimes. WTF?). We're both into each other and actually have a 'normal' bf / gf relationship to some extent. She used to be a wg and she still gets a ton of messages and calls. Though, she's different than DBM2's girl in that she's more open with her feelings with me: hugging, cuddling, tells me she loves me, DKF, and the way she looks at me. I can tell she is being genuine (I've heard and seen the bogus I love you stuff before).

I'm not sure where this is going, but I've stopped trying to think too much about and am taking it one day at a time and you should try to do the same. Obviously that's easier said than done.

I wish you all the best!

Peace,

B

Member #4180
04-03-13, 12:33
Ok Thanks Paddy and Bombs,

Your advices even simple and even if I known it myself, make sense comfort me.

Paddy,

Despite I have been to situation similar to this before, I must say after only 2 days she made me lose my coolness and I have been a bit on the "why / needy" side. But not that much, I just managed to pass my message on what I am looking for and she understood it.

I decided to call it break for 2 full days and will see her only on Thursday eve. Good thing is she is texting me regularly.

Dear Bombs,

Well, I should tell the full story as know it, her ex BF was a married guy in ukraine, he supported her but she also had a regular work. So she wasn't a WG, but was into some kind of weird situation (I clearly prefer that over WG).

Actually I checked out a bit deeper the message situation and it is mostly coming from a Russian version of facebook and a big part of it from girl. Concerning the dating site we met from, it seems she is not giving a f about it. She did put some swimsuit pics, I guess that is why she had so many message.

Well, for now, I don't think she has ever been a WG. I have happen to be in WG and half WF head before, and I quite know how to recognize one.

How long you've been with your ukrainian girl? That's really interesting to me!

ExpatNLookin
04-03-13, 16:17
Concerning the dating site we met from, it seems she is not giving a f about it.Care to share the website via PM?

Member #4180
04-03-13, 17:00
DB2. I will give you some advice from a guy who has been married to a beautiful Ukrainian woman for a dozen years. I met my wife while she was modeling in Kiev. I was so taken back by her beauty I could barely put a full sentence together. As Paddy stated, what you are experience is common, almost mirrored my first few weeks with her. Ukrainian culture, similar to other CIS countries and Russia, are different then Western cultures in many aspects, including the dance you are experiencing. She is feeling you out. She isn't getting anything out of the relationship now, which a gf back home would expect. Many young beautiful girls end up as gf to successful men already married with children. This is common and expected in Ukraine. My wife tells me that if we lived in Kiev, she would expect me to have at least one gf, other than her. My wife seemed cold the first few months of our relationship. She was testing me, seeing how I reacted in different situations. I was pretty poor at the time, not compared to Ukrainian standards, but compared to men she could have had. I was making less than $60k USD per year. She said she saw potential in me, as she started to warm up to me she also started to become more of a partner and a friend. She encouraged me to take some wise risks and as our relationship and love grew, she became my partner in everything. The kissing and romance takes time, even if it is just sex now. Be patient with her and be a little distant. All women want a confident man.

You can have a wonderful life with her, but take it slow and enjoy her as a man, not a teenager.

RushIt is impressive! You really got it spot on with the "girlfriend of a married guy". She was indeed!

When you say she was cold for the first few months, I mean, even she is very beautiful, I got assets and choices too, and I don't think I could take it to feel judged, tested, For a few months! I can take that for our let's say 10-15 first dates. But not much more.

What about your wife at home, is she taking care of the house, the kids, Cooking? Or that is not into ukrainian stunner mentality?

Yes, sure, will try to force my nature and not be too close to her too quick (that is usually what girls may like in me, so I won't be a natural in that dance).

Thanks Rush for that very valuable post!


PROSAL , I will definitely have a look! thanks for the idea !

Bombs
04-03-13, 17:50
How long you've been with your ukrainian girl? That's really interesting to me!Well, it's only been a month, but we're with each other everyday. It's been amazing! I didn't think I would be in a situation like this, but neither did she. All her friends, male and female, are confused. She swore that she would never have a bf. When she was a wg, she had 'boyfriends, ' but not like this situation. So, they're all like,"what the fuck does this guy have?" The answer isn't that simple, because there's some special connection between us and I can't explain why, and neither can she.

She spends all her time with me and wants to hug and kiss me in public (to which I have to tell her to chill, considering where we live). If we're in a bar or at the beach, maybe it's no big deal, but still I try to be cautious. She wants to send a message to other men to stop looking and thinking about her, so she wants to give me public displays of affection.

Anyway, I'm super happy and hope the good times keep on. And, I wish you the same.

Peace,

B

Snow1998
04-03-13, 18:50
She spends all her time with me and wants to hug and kiss me in public (to which I have to tell her to chill, considering where we live). If we're in a bar or at the beach, maybe it's no big deal, but still I try to be cautious. She wants to send a message to other men to stop looking and thinking about her, so she wants to give me public displays of affection.

Peace,

BBe extremely careful with that kind of display in public, especially at the beach! Save all that for when you are indoors. Not worth the hassle of jail and deportation.

Snow1998
04-03-13, 18:54
Back to your place to watch the movie after a lovely dinner. Make sure your place is very clean and smells nice.

The first thing she is likely to check is the toilet. Better make sure it's spotless. Get the movie cued up while she is in the loo freshening up. Get some popcorn in the microwave. Take off your shoes.

If its a movie that has subtitles, she will think you are more sophisticated. Pick a good Korean movie. I have had particular luck with these as they are 3 hours long and very good.

Enough time for her to get cosy with you on the couch. Keep the drinks flowing, but don't get her too drunk. Popcorn is good as you share a bowl and so will sit closer to each other.

Turn the ac up. THis encourages cuddling. Keep a blanket handy so she can get cosy.

Cheers,

WBWow some fantastic advice and tips. I especially like the above, devious but nice. I maybe trying this out soon LOL.

Member #4180
04-03-13, 19:40
Well, it's only been a month, but we're with each other everyday. It's been amazing! I didn't think I would be in a situation like this, but neither did she. All her friends, male and female, are confused. She swore that she would never have a bf. When she was a wg, she had 'boyfriends, ' but not like this situation. So, they're all like,"what the fuck does this guy have?" The answer isn't that simple, because there's some special connection between us and I can't explain why, and neither can she.

She spends all her time with me and wants to hug and kiss me in public (to which I have to tell her to chill, considering where we live). If we're in a bar or at the beach, maybe it's no big deal, but still I try to be cautious. She wants to send a message to other men to stop looking and thinking about her, so she wants to give me public displays of affection.

Anyway, I'm super happy and hope the good times keep on. And, I wish you the same.

Peace,

BWell I wish myself the same too! LOL.

One question, is she still dressing sexy or no? Cause at some point some of her outfit might start bothering me. I am not talking about WG style, but dress mid-tight. Particularly when you that sexy, is a call for people to look.

One month seems however the honey moon period. I hope it stays the same for you but I think we can judge a relationship when everything start to enter the cruise period after 3 to 6 months.

What about money. She use to have high income. How will you manage this? You think she can settle for a normal wifey income?

Bombs
04-06-13, 04:52
Well I wish myself the same too! LOL.

One question, is she still dressing sexy or no? Cause at some point some of her outfit might start bothering me. I am not talking about WG style, but dress mid-tight. Particularly when you that sexy, is a call for people to look.

One month seems however the honey moon period. I hope it stays the same for you but I think we can judge a relationship when everything start to enter the cruise period after 3 to 6 months.

What about money. She use to have high income. How will you manage this? You think she can settle for a normal wifey income?She doesn't dress too sexy, IMHO. She never wears short skirts or dresses, but she does wear tights jeans and t-shirts. There are many women who dress like this around town, but I guess she has the model-type body that turns heads. Oh well.

As far as the money goes, she says she doesn't care and I genuinely believe her. She usually refuses to take money from me or tells me not to buy her expensive gifts. Regardless, I still do get her some things. Though, sometime I have to just put money in her purse when she's not looking. I know she doesn't have a lot of money and she'll never ask me for any. Her friends are more of a problem in this regard. They assume she's with me because I'm giving her a ton of money, so their confused when she doesn't have a bunch of cash. A couple of them have pulled me aside to question me if I'm properly taking care of their friend.

Yeah, it's still the honeymoon period, so we'll see what happens. So far so good.

RushRider
04-12-13, 22:04
It is impressive! You really got it spot on with the "girlfriend of a married guy". She was indeed!

When you say she was cold for the first few months, I mean, even she is very beautiful, I got assets and choices too, and I don't think I could take it to feel judged, tested, For a few months! I can take that for our let's say 10-15 first dates. But not much more.

What about your wife at home, is she taking care of the house, the kids, Cooking? Or that is not into ukrainian stunner mentality?

Yes, sure, will try to force my nature and not be too close to her too quick (that is usually what girls may like in me, so I won't be a natural in that dance).

Thanks Rush for that very valuable post!

PROSAL, I will definitely have a look! Thanks for the idea!DB2,

My wife has turned into the most amazing companion a guy could hope for. She cooks, cleans, is a great Mom and besides that holds down a full-time professional job clearing 6 figures. She still draws looks from men of all ages. She is the most affectionate woman I have ever known. I remember once when I almost gave up on her due to her aloofness that I saw something there that I just didn't want to give up on. Once I made the commitment to her completely I could almost sense a change in her. I could tell she made a commitment to me.

Good luck with your girl. I hope it works out.

Rush

Member #4180
04-23-13, 13:49
DB2,

My wife has turned into the most amazing companion a guy could hope for. She cooks, cleans, is a great Mom and besides that holds down a full-time professional job clearing 6 figures. She still draws looks from men of all ages. She is the most affectionate woman I have ever known. I remember once when I almost gave up on her due to her aloofness that I saw something there that I just didn't want to give up on. Once I made the commitment to her completely I could almost sense a change in her. I could tell she made a commitment to me.

Good luck with your girl. I hope it works out.

RushHi Everybody,

No It didn't work out! I could not bear her princess attitude. Dropped her like a piece of shit. Changed her attitude for 2 days so got her back. Then started again. Dropped her.

I was not getting good sex. So what the point. Apart from having a stunner next to me in mall. I don't see the point of entaitainign those girls. Even if they say they like you and they need sometime. Well. I feel better with a less attractive girl who gives a shit.

Apart for one night stand. Russian ukrainian. Are out of my list I guess.

But I am lucky it worked out for you.

That girl is not smart, not really funny, has a bad attitude. All she gots is the hottest body you may have seen. Thats all. Not fitting the bill for me to wait 2, 3 month she open up.

Now I am dating 4 girls. An american, a filipina, a bulgarian and a turkish. And all of them make me feel wayyyy more happy than the ukrainian!

I feel that experience with the ukrainian made me realize beauty is not so important if the traditional GF package is not here.

RushRider
04-24-13, 02:18
Hi Everybody,

No It didn't work out! I could not bear her princess attitude. Dropped her like a piece of shit. Changed her attitude for 2 days so got her back. Then started again. Dropped her.

I was not getting good sex. So what the point. Apart from having a stunner next to me in mall. I don't see the point of entaitainign those girls. Even if they say they like you and they need sometime. Well. I feel better with a less attractive girl who gives a shit.

Apart for one night stand. Russian ukrainian. Are out of my list I guess.

But I am lucky it worked out for you.

That girl is not smart, not really funny, has a bad attitude. All she gots is the hottest body you may have seen. Thats all. Not fitting the bill for me to wait 2, 3 month she open up.

Now I am dating 4 girls. An american, a filipina, a bulgarian and a turkish. And all of them make me feel wayyyy more happy than the ukrainian!

I feel that experience with the ukrainian made me realize beauty is not so important if the traditional GF package is not here.Hi DB2,

Sorry it didn't work out. Sounds like she had the "I am too beautiful to need a good personality" syndrome. Been there as well. I know plenty of beautiful women who I can't stand being around. Good luck with your quest and I hope you eventually find someone that will make you happy.

Rush

Member #4180
04-26-13, 00:30
Hi DB2,

Sorry it didn't work out. Sounds like she had the "I am too beautiful to need a good personality" syndrome. Been there as well. I know plenty of beautiful women who I can't stand being around. Good luck with your quest and I hope you eventually find someone that will make you happy.

Rush"I am too beautiful to need a good personality" I could not find better word! Congrats!

Ya my quest continue indeed. I am dating so much these days, and with girls with so different profiles, and somehow I enjoy most of them.

-A filipina, she is a PA for a big CEO, very petite, good attitude and education, she is very touching, but I don't really think I can settle with her. Physically sh eis really too "petite" even if sleeping with her make me soooo relax. Like when you have feeling involved. You make love, then sleep like a baby with her in your arms. I wish I can find her a good guy!

-A mixed american. Very dynamic, sexy, naughty, but not really authentic. And too much of a party girl to be respected.

-A turkish, my favorite, amazing woman, shy, beautiful, so respectful, the right size and body, very family oriented and definitely a woman who could be the cement of the house.

-A thai girl, basically, perfect to fuck, introduce you other thai and go out, but no much feeling involved. Thai style.

And I have a "cyber" relationship with an AMAZING girl from Moscow. Feel like a brut diamond. She is A STUNNER, perfect body, face, naturally tan skin, has an amazing funny and simple attitude, has a work and sustain to all her needs, I will probably go and visit her soon. Only down point. Her english is limited but she is learning for me!

So the plan is, go ahead with the turkish girl, as it work I will drop Thai, american and fili very quickly. And keep the Russian on the side and see who I'm going to prefer at the end.

Almost all girls above (and even 4-5 more) have been met since I decided to completely stop WG and stuff like that (about a month ago) . So once again! For the young guy in here, who wish to settle! Don't say "it's difficult to meet girls in Dubai!"

Member #4180
04-30-13, 09:54
Guys, I am wondering something.

Did any of you experienced inviting a girl from abroad with very basic english skills?

There is one Russian girl I have a very very good feeling with, She is really into me and same goes for me.

At first I was planning to go russia to visit the city and see her (along with a couple other girl) , as anyway she was afraid to come here.

Then as confidence grew and as I read about moscow safety issue. She became more enthusiastic about coming here to see me and enjoy a bit of relaxation in Dubai for her holidays (beach.) as at first the plan was to stay in russia and visit family for 3 weeks, she also told me she had doubt I would like moscow. In the mean time, I thought moscow was not a city for myself (I'm not white).

So what do you think it could be like? Will it be boring to have her one week, or we can overcome the barrier language?

I always have in mind one of my best friend's parents who didn't talk the same language AT ALL when they met, but they now happily married for 30 years!

To be more accurate I need to say, she is a stunner by all means (she actually has a decent job, but also make some modeling for advertisement for quite big brands or local business) and she is not one of those spoilt Dubai Russian bitches. She is very simple, sweet and funny.

RushRider
04-30-13, 10:55
Guys, I am wondering something.

Did any of you experienced inviting a girl from abroad with very basic english skills?

There is one Russian girl I have a very very good feeling with, She is really into me and same goes for me.

At first I was planning to go russia to visit the city and see her (along with a couple other girl) , as anyway she was afraid to come here.

Then as confidence grew and as I read about moscow safety issue. She became more enthusiastic about coming here to see me and enjoy a bit of relaxation in Dubai for her holidays (beach.) as at first the plan was to stay in russia and visit family for 3 weeks, she also told me she had doubt I would like moscow. In the mean time, I thought moscow was not a city for myself (I'm not white).

So what do you think it could be like? Will it be boring to have her one week, or we can overcome the barrier language?

I always have in mind one of my best friend's parents who didn't talk the same language AT ALL when they met, but they now happily married for 30 years!

To be more accurate I need to say, she is a stunner by all means (she actually has a decent job, but also make some modeling for advertisement for quite big brands or local business) and she is not one of those spoilt Dubai Russian bitches. She is very simple, sweet and funny.Hi DB2,

While I would caution to tread carefully about sending money to a girl you have never met face-to-face, I will also say that I have done the same without suffering any dire consequences. While language can be a barrier, in the game of love it is certainly a barrier that can be broken. Just the act of communicating without a common language can be a great way to get to know each other. For more serious conversations, you always have translation websites that will be invaluable. It sounds like your friend is driven and will be able to adjust to any situation and be successful in life. Good looks never hurt. My wife didn't know my language but was driven like no one I have ever seen. She took language classes and went to a local university and just dove in. I have also seen the other side where the woman doesn't assimilate quickly and goes back to her native home. You, on the other hand, need to have incredible patience and understanding. When bringing over a girl from a different country, culture, language, she will be the one facing the huge amounts of change. Your girl WILL go through many stages as it is like a major loss. It is not easy for her, or you. But is it worth it? Hell yeah. I would do it again if I were at the same point in my life.

Enjoy,

Rush

Guru3
04-30-13, 12:48
Guys, I am wondering something.

Did any of you experienced inviting a girl from abroad with very basic english skills?

There is one Russian girl I have a very very good feeling with, She is really into me and same goes for me.

At first I was planning to go russia to visit the city and see her (along with a couple other girl) , as anyway she was afraid to come here.

Then as confidence grew and as I read about moscow safety issue. She became more enthusiastic about coming here to see me and enjoy a bit of relaxation in Dubai for her holidays (beach.) as at first the plan was to stay in russia and visit family for 3 weeks, she also told me she had doubt I would like moscow. In the mean time, I thought moscow was not a city for myself (I'm not white).

So what do you think it could be like? Will it be boring to have her one week, or we can overcome the barrier language?

I always have in mind one of my best friend's parents who didn't talk the same language AT ALL when they met, but they now happily married for 30 years!

To be more accurate I need to say, she is a stunner by all means (she actually has a decent job, but also make some modeling for advertisement for quite big brands or local business) and she is not one of those spoilt Dubai Russian bitches. She is very simple, sweet and funny.Hi My dear.

I saw your various postings. Just goahead when you are confident. Be yourself and just hear your inner voice. Enjoy. Language is not a barrier for happy life. My advance wishes.

Member #4180
04-30-13, 18:55
Hi DB2,

While I would caution to tread carefully about sending money to a girl you have never met face-to-face, I will also say that I have done the same without suffering any dire consequences. While language can be a barrier, in the game of love it is certainly a barrier that can be broken. Just the act of communicating without a common language can be a great way to get to know each other. For more serious conversations, you always have translation websites that will be invaluable. It sounds like your friend is driven and will be able to adjust to any situation and be successful in life. Good looks never hurt. My wife didn't know my language but was driven like no one I have ever seen. She took language classes and went to a local university and just dove in. I have also seen the other side where the woman doesn't assimilate quickly and goes back to her native home. You, on the other hand, need to have incredible patience and understanding. When bringing over a girl from a different country, culture, language, she will be the one facing the huge amounts of change. Your girl WILL go through many stages as it is like a major loss. It is not easy for her, or you. But is it worth it? Hell yeah. I would do it again if I were at the same point in my life.

Enjoy,

RushActually I am not sending her money, I am buying the tickets.

Rush you really are a great motivation every time I read your post you are pin point, I can see you have been through all that. That is exactly something which is fascinating me, when we look at each other on skype, I feel there is so much in it, and I want to experience it with her next to me.

She is a bit ashame of her english level, I tell her it is ok, she can learn easily, and she already doing it which for me was a huge turn ON!

Yes, you right, I need patience, but if I see effort and good attitude I won't have any problem. I like to have deep conversations but it can wait, and seriously sometime I feel it has been damageable to expose too much my way of life and talk too much too quick, at least I will need to be more open with her.

Thanks Rush, maybe a double date if your wife is back end of may?


Hi My dear.

I saw your various postings. Just goahead when you are confident. Be yourself and just hear your inner voice. Enjoy. Language is not a barrier for happy life. My advance wishes.Thank you so much Guru, that is what I needed to hear I guess. I have known a few couple who met with barrier language, and it seems they have been very solid couple!

ExpatNLookin
04-30-13, 19:11
My dear DubaiMan2.

Buying tickets for girls 101:

1- never buy the ticket in cash, they can refund it and screw you over.

2- Buy the ticket using a credit card, in such case you have to follow one of the following:

A- buy it using an agency (online or offline agency, Expedia. Com for example, Dnata. Etc.)

Be- buy it from the airline OFFICE.

See- buy it from the airline WEBSITE, but then you'd have to visit the airline office before the flight date to give them a copy of the card and your I'd, otherwise she might be denied boarding for using a ticket bought in a credit card not in her name.

3- buy a refundable ticket, and make sure it has a no-show refund (some tickets are refundable after no-show, some are not, some are refundable after no-show but with a hefty fine. Etc.). So if she changes her mind or gets cold feet you can at least get some of your money back.

4- If she comes up with a complicated story about not being able to fly with an e-Ticket and she must buy the ticket herself from an office there, run! Sometimes the stories are too stupid (my printer is broken and no print shop is nearby) or too complex (I have a legal issue and must present a regular ticket to be allowed to travel, not an e-ticket). All those are scams.

5- If she mentions she needs money for passport / visa, RUN. Especially if she claims passport costs $500 or something in this range. Even if she asks for $100, it would be suspicious.

6- NEVER EVER SPONSOR HER VISA. You'd be risking everything here if she does something wrong. Let her get the visa on her own.

7- Good Luck!

YellowPaul
04-30-13, 19:55
My dear DubaiMan2.

Buying tickets for girls 101:

1- never buy the ticket in cash, they can refund it and screw you over.

2- Buy the ticket using a credit card, in such case you have to follow one of the following:

A- buy it using an agency (online or offline agency, Expedia. Com for example, Dnata. Etc.)

Be- buy it from the airline OFFICE.

See- buy it from the airline WEBSITE, but then you'd have to visit the airline office before the flight date to give them a copy of the card and your I'd, otherwise she might be denied boarding for using a ticket bought in a credit card not in her name.

3- buy a refundable ticket, and make sure it has a no-show refund (some tickets are refundable after no-show, some are not, some are refundable after no-show but with a hefty fine. Etc.). So if she changes her mind or gets cold feet you can at least get some of your money back.

4- If she comes up with a complicated story about not being able to fly with an e-Ticket and she must buy the ticket herself from an office there, run! Sometimes the stories are too stupid (my printer is broken and no print shop is nearby) or too complex (I have a legal issue and must present a regular ticket to be allowed to travel, not an e-ticket). All those are scams.

5- If she mentions she needs money for passport / visa, RUN. Especially if she claims passport costs $500 or something in this range. Even if she asks for $100, it would be suspicious.

6- NEVER EVER SPONSOR HER VISA. You'd be risking everything here if she does something wrong. Let her get the visa on her own.

7- Good Luck!Great advice as I have vacationed with a few Russian / Ukrianian girls I have not met before, mostly with good results but it is risky when your dealing with somebody you have not met before. I usually get the girls tickets on my points. I did one bad experience doing this, now I tell them I might have to cancel the return ticket and they can make their own way home if she starts changing how she was before on Skype.

ExpatNLookin
04-30-13, 20:06
Great advice as I have vacationed with a few Russian / Ukrianian girls I have not met before, mostly with good results but it is risky when your dealing with somebody you have not met before. I usually get the girls tickets on my points. I did one bad experience doing this, now I tell them I might have to cancel the return ticket and they can make their own way home if she starts changing how she was before on Skype.If you don't mind me asking, from where do you usually find those girls?

YellowPaul
04-30-13, 20:27
If you don't mind me asking, from where do you usually find those girls?Www.romanceinrussia.com

Is probably the best site worth paying for since most of the profiles seem to legit and they do the translation automatically so no back and forth with Google translate.

Also I would include, Mamba, Badoo and rabota. Ua.

The last site requires a corporate email address and company website site. I usually get 10-15 resumes a day for Personal Secretary / English Guide. Usually I vet the hot ones to see if they are single and become friends with them on Skype, VK, etc. This a great source of normal girls but requires some time as most are looking for a job rather then a relationship but as is such in the FSU some are open to the possibility that the relationship is the job. LOL

Member #4180
05-01-13, 02:36
My dear DubaiMan2.

Buying tickets for girls 101:

1- never buy the ticket in cash, they can refund it and screw you over.

2- Buy the ticket using a credit card, in such case you have to follow one of the following:

A- buy it using an agency (online or offline agency, Expedia. Com for example, Dnata. Etc.)

Be- buy it from the airline OFFICE.

See- buy it from the airline WEBSITE, but then you'd have to visit the airline office before the flight date to give them a copy of the card and your I'd, otherwise she might be denied boarding for using a ticket bought in a credit card not in her name.

3- buy a refundable ticket, and make sure it has a no-show refund (some tickets are refundable after no-show, some are not, some are refundable after no-show but with a hefty fine. Etc.). So if she changes her mind or gets cold feet you can at least get some of your money back.

4- If she comes up with a complicated story about not being able to fly with an e-Ticket and she must buy the ticket herself from an office there, run! Sometimes the stories are too stupid (my printer is broken and no print shop is nearby) or too complex (I have a legal issue and must present a regular ticket to be allowed to travel, not an e-ticket). All those are scams.

5- If she mentions she needs money for passport / visa, RUN. Especially if she claims passport costs $500 or something in this range. Even if she asks for $100, it would be suspicious.

6- NEVER EVER SPONSOR HER VISA. You'd be risking everything here if she does something wrong. Let her get the visa on her own.

7- Good Luck!Thank you mate.

Great tips about buying the ticket to expedia or tripsta (.) rather than on the website directly!

Yeah will do for the refund options.

Concerning the scam, I have full confidence in V. I dropped conversation with 2 others cause I had small doubt. But she is really genuine.

I have quite a good BS built-in scanner.

She already sent me passport copy, I just need her pics. Once again, got no doubt about her. Even here in Dubai, I will try to not show her the too glamourous Dubai but show her a casual Dubai. I am not into the "impress her with the nicest restaurant" tactics. I would rather show her how I live normally (or even less! LOL) so if she decides she want to move forward with me, I know it is not for the bling bling of Dubai.

For the visa, I found some add about 14 days transit visa for 350dhs, will it be ok?

I am surprise some agency can sponsor single lady with no deposit just with a passport copy and a photo!

Thanks again mate!

To all, Any agency you know who is serious, require no deposit, cheap, and can really get a visa for a russian single woman who booked no hotel?
I am afraid to be screwed by agency as they don't refund if visa is denied.

ExpatNLookin
05-01-13, 05:45
Thank you mate.

Great tips about buying the ticket to expedia or tripsta (.) rather than on the website directly!

Yeah will do for the refund options.

Concerning the scam, I have full confidence in V. I dropped conversation with 2 others cause I had small doubt. But she is really genuine.

I have quite a good BS built-in scanner.

She already sent me passport copy, I just need her pics. Once again, got no doubt about her. Even here in Dubai, I will try to not show her the too glamourous Dubai but show her a casual Dubai. I am not into the "impress her with the nicest restaurant" tactics. I would rather show her how I live normally (or even less! LOL) so if she decides she want to move forward with me, I know it is not for the bling bling of Dubai.

For the visa, I found some add about 14 days transit visa for 350dhs, will it be ok?

I am surprise some agency can sponsor single lady with no deposit just with a passport copy and a photo!

Thanks again mate!

To all, Any agency you know who is serious, require no deposit, cheap, and can really get a visa for a Russian single woman who booked no hotel?

I am afraid to be screwed by agency as they don't refund if visa is denied.U are welcome.

You can buy on the website directly but as I said you'd have to visit the airline office, but again NO CASH TICKETS.

Trust is good, trust is nice, but also never turn off your radar.

Care to share the dating website where you met that lady?

I agree with you about the bling bling thing. That is a good strategy.

There is NO 14 days transit visa, only 4 days transit visa, or 1 month tourist visa. The only agency I know is back home. Sorry dude :/

Member #4180
05-01-13, 10:31
U are welcome.

You can buy on the website directly but as I said you'd have to visit the airline office, but again NO CASH TICKETS.

Trust is good, trust is nice, but also never turn off your radar.

Care to share the dating website where you met that lady?

I agree with you about the bling bling thing. That is a good strategy.

There is NO 14 days transit visa, only 4 days transit visa, or 1 month tourist visa. The only agency I know is back home. Sorry dude :/No actually I found 14 day visa with price varying from 360 to 550dhs in 4 different agency.

I am surprise how honest they are about the process. 2 agency told me as she was less than 24 (she is turning 24 in 3 months) it could be difficult.

Other one told me they can do it but with a deposit of 5000.

And 2 were ready to go, I will go with the cheapest one, because of my nationality and company they won't ask deposit.

Member #4180
05-02-13, 13:23
For info. Got her the visa. 365dhs for 14 days and less than 24 hours! Was so easy. Just a photo and passport copy.

FrankTornado
05-04-13, 10:30
For info. Got her the visa. 365dhs for 14 days and less than 24 hours! Was so easy. Just a photo and passport copy.Dubaiman2,

Wishing you the best of luck with your endeavor. From what I read here, you seem to be careful enough and have a lot of common sense. So I believe that you will not regret it!

Wishing you all the best and keep us informed,

Frank

Member #4180
05-04-13, 19:25
Dubaiman2,

Wishing you the best of luck with your endeavor. From what I read here, you seem to be careful enough and have a lot of common sense. So I believe that you will not regret it!

Wishing you all the best and keep us informed,

FrankThank you frank.

Welcome in here, if you need some info do not hesitate to PM.

Muttley81
08-11-13, 19:46
Been a while since I've posted, mainly because I've been banished to another GCC country for work. Hopefully that'll be over soon and I can get back to sampling delights of Dubai.

In meantime I've followed advice on here and being using tagged to make contact with local girls when I'm back. I'm averaging looking at best but girls are lining up to meet me. Mainly filipinas as they seem to be very forward when saying hello. Attached a couple of photos I was sent to get me to meet her, not sure if they'll attach properly. Definitely worth meeting her, and using it in general.

Tamercury
08-13-13, 02:13
Hi to all of you,

I'm new in this thread, normally I'm participating in the Dubai Report, but it takes my in tension to try a regular girl.

So I may need some advice, jump to the subject, my aim is to get a girl to stay with me for around a month. No commitments, no long relationship, no marriage. And I'm not the kind of man who deceiving girls by love and promises.

So I thought about bringing a girl form abroad to spend this time with me (but I will not promise her any thing) , I check some sites but I doubt as most of them ask for paid membership. I was wandering how those girls are paying the fees, but people here confirming that the payment for us males only.

Yesterday I was checking ads in Craig list, and may ads for girls asking for help by money, some asking to come here (offering long relationship or marriage) but I was't bothering that. (I'm not taking it serious, I was just passing time checking Craigs list as I know most of it are fake.)

By the way I found an ad for a Romanian girl, age around 30 (she said) , willing to for some relation. I send to her a mail, then she replied from shortly (from Android mobile phone). We exchanged few emails like (I asked her if she is wants to come to Dubai, and the reply was yes). They told me that she is not working, I asked her for her email, and she replied back with it, but send another email with small correction of the email address.

Then she told me, better to talk, my reply was no problem, she answered with her Skype I'd, and mobile phone number.

All the above happen in less than 24 hours. (My radar start working. Isn't she too fast). I went to check back her ad again, and I found that it was flagged out.

Shitt I forget to google the pics attached to the ad. (rarely for me to do this mistake).

Please Nobody tells me that she deleted the ad as I replied her, I'm not a small child.

Is what I mentioned above is normal, what should be the next step, and if she is real how long should it take to make here come here?

Support is required from you guys.

Regards,

Tamercury
08-14-13, 00:05
Www.romanceinrussia.com

Is probably the best site worth paying for since most of the profiles seem to legit and they do the translation automatically so no back and forth with Google translate.I made a registration, and I my first impression is exactly as you said, as most of the picture seems to be natural, most of the profiles has normal pics, no photoshop, no professional shots.

Which kind of paid registration do you recommend? Does it take long time till you get a contact?

Thanks in advance.

Regards,

Double Shooter
10-18-13, 10:42
The Shooter is a seasoned monger, but these days it is very convenient to peruse the amateur market from the comfort of one's armchair via sites such as Tagged. The Shooter has dabbled in this market with a modicum of success. However, one has to accept that most of the prospects are middle-aged filis in their 40's and late 30's. That's OK, the Shooter has a penchant for Asian MILF's. They are usually well-preserved and they know how to make a man happy.

The Shooter came across a candidate, mid-40's, dodgy boat but a decent rack and body. A fili housemaid, but surprisingly sharp and pleasant to chat with. She had good employers who gave her 2 days off a week, but in a remote part of Dubai. The Tagged chat quickly became very naughty indeed. She was sub-standard in the looks department, but she did satisfy the 3 G's:

•Grateful as fuck.

•Gagging for it.

•Game for Penis Worship.

So the Shooter decided to go for it. He set up a dinner date at an inexpensive sports bar – hardly romantic but good enough for an early dinner and to get acquainted. He asked her to bring a friend – the filis like that – and brought along the Accountant, who is always up for a blind date.

The dinner went well, but the vibe wasn't there for extras, so the Shooter didn't push it. Also it was a footy night, so the Shooter had one eye on that and you cannot say it was a wasted evening. Later in Tagged the chat got saucy again and she agreed to meet in the Shooter's hotel room.

The Shooter booked a hotel in Barsha with underground parking. He picked her up and then went straight to the room from the parking, thus avoiding the walk of shame through the lobby. When your guest is a minger, there is genuine shame! He brought a pint of whisky to lighten the mood. That wasn't needed as she was all over him in a flash.

The face was well dodgy and she had a bit of a gut, but decent tits & ass and very soft skin. The Shooter let her do all the work, starting with a looong BBBJ. Deep and wet. Excellent technique, you could describe it as vaginal emulation. She then climbed aboard to mount him bareback, but the Shooter opted for the CD, not least because he was too close to coming. The CD had the required delaying effect and in fact postponed the climax indefinitely, so after several positions he removed it and asked for BBBJ.

That was no problem for her, penis worship all the way. After about 30 minutes the Shooter realized he was not going to come that way either, so he mounted her and fucking creampied her in less than a minute.

Fucking good sesh actually. But here's the rub. When you go mingering instead of mongering, the second shot cannot be contemplated. It's a young man's game. The Shooter looked at her face and realised that he just couldn't do it. Recognising that he could be suffering from the depressive after-effects of la petite mort, he chatted for an hour but couldn't regain his mojo.

He dropped her off and did not meet her again. Although it was a no-strings-attached freebie, he realised that mingering was not for him.

Capistrano
10-18-13, 15:28
I made a registration, and I my first impression is exactly as you said, as most of the picture seems to be natural, most of the profiles has normal pics, no photoshop, no professional shots.

Which kind of paid registration do you recommend? Does it take long time till you get a contact?

Thanks in advance.

Regards, I also happen to check the site and scroll on the top women on bikini, they are all gorgeous. I can say that whichever you choose, its a win-win.

PartTimeMonger
10-25-13, 00:01
Just a word of advice to fellow members trying their chance on Tagged: this place is full of nice fili girls who are genuine and sensitive so do not mislead them on your intentions. I made that mistake as a newbie and tonight ended up going home alone with a serious case of blue balls because I just couldn't resolve myself to mislead one of these nice girls any further. A lot of them can be very naive and as a result have already gone through some bad experiences (this one had lost all self confidence after dating some seeatwho cheated on her with not one but five other girls until she found out). There are enough opportunities here for fun (P4P or not) to not make a-holes of ourselves by preying on the weak and the gullible. As advised by other members in the main DXB thread, be clear from the onset that you are looking for some short term fun, it may work (either she's gagging for it after long period of celibacy or she'll still hope for more but at least you have been clear or it'll cost you a small "gift") or not, but at least there won't be any collateral damage added to the one created by the large number of heartless guys living in this place. At the end of the day, if you're purely after short term, no strings attached fun, there is enough p4p talent here.

Some will disagree with me but just felt like expressing myself after tonight's experience and the ensuing guilt.

Have fun and be safe.

Kabul Guy
11-08-13, 11:36
.

So I may need some advice, jump to the subject, my aim is to get a girl to stay with me for around a month. No commitments, no long relationship, no marriage. And I'm not the kind of man who deceiving girls by love and promises.

So I thought about bringing a girl form abroad to spend this time with me (but I will not promise her any thing) , I check some sites but I doubt as most of them ask for paid membership. I was wandering how those girls are paying the fees, but people here confirming that the payment for us males only.

, Try Tagged, I am in my 3rd month of daily sex and BJ's from a girl 25 years younger than me. So far all I have paid is expenses, will leave her a nice gift of cash when I leave though, not promised but well worth it for the fun I have been having. (Not in Dubai but you meeting girls on line there is always possible.)

Took some time to develop the relationship and went through a number of other girls but well worth it in the end. Also had a lot of on line Skype sex with many other girls

Dbates80
11-08-13, 20:01
Headed to dxb again in a month. As with most things, it is all in the planning and prep. Already working Tagged setting up girls. Some clearly p4p and some clearly civvies. Mainly pinay of course. Establishing a connection by asking about teir family in Phil regarding the storm is working wonders. After chatting up this, suggest meeting, how about my place for dinner.

Always works!

Kabul Guy
11-08-13, 23:51
,,,, As with most things, it is all in the planning and prep. .So true prior planning prevents [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) poor performance

Dbates80
11-09-13, 00:42
So true prior planning prevents [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) poor performanceThanks! Going to be there for several months and while p4p is nice, gets expensive for the routine fuck. I have learned there is about a 2 to 4 week "ripening" period for civvie pinays and starting a month early and then continuing the "harvest" from Tagged on about a two to three week cycle works out well. If one gets a real winner then maybe good for two cycles. Wash, rinse repeat. Seemingly endless supply in Dubai. I plan on two to three fuck session per week, about all I can manage with work and all. Date, fuck session, same thing. Have a 80 to 90 percent success rate, low risk overall, and cost effective. Throw in an AMP here and there and trouser pole is content.

Dbates80
12-01-13, 20:41
Is awesome. I have a civvie, she's a nanny, that is skyping and talking sex talk, showed me her tittys. She is a spinner pinay, she just came out and flat said she wants to fuck me. A week to dxb now for me!

Groan, so much pussy, so little time. What a nice problem to have!

She is going to wear me out!

BionicMan
12-01-13, 23:46
Is awesome. I have a civvie, she's a nanny, that is skyping and talking sex talk, showed me her tittys.
She is going to wear me out!Good luck and report back about the dream tha came true. Pictures will be welcome.

Tartan01
12-02-13, 20:58
I have read on here before about Fili's can get jealous and possessive but I appear to have a problem with a Kazakh lady.

Anyone else had a similar problem?

Kabul Guy
12-07-13, 12:12
Recently had my first non pro freebie in Dubai. Not exactly free as there was a slightly expensive dinner with bottle of wine involved but that was sort of fun as well. Still about the same as an all nighter with a pro but this has possibilities of more nights (and perhaps some days.) for little outlay as well.

She was a late 20's spinner and I found her on Taqgged. A couple messages got her phone and Skype details and the rest was easy.

She was definitely not a pro, not very experienced and quite tight. Did not want to give oral and I did not press first time but will if and when we have later visits.

They are out there guys, just takes a but more work and some more time but the rewards are there.

KG

Nice Guy 99
12-07-13, 22:48
Recently had my first non pro freebie in Dubai. Not exactly free as there was a slightly expensive dinner with bottle of wine involved but that was sort of fun as well. Still about the same as an all nighter with a pro but this has possibilities of more nights (and perhaps some days.) for little outlay as well.

She was a late 20's spinner and I found her on Taqgged. A couple messages got her phone and Skype details and the rest was easy.

She was definitely not a pro, not very experienced and quite tight. Did not want to give oral and I did not press first time but will if and when we have later visits.

They are out there guys, just takes a but more work and some more time but the rewards are there.

KGCongrats KG. And yes they are available. I had a 27 year old Filli "freebee" for a few months earlier this year. I do strongly recommend paying them however. With my nanny friend we went shopping and / or I slipped some cash in her purse. All carefully tuned to add up to 300AED per day. She never mentioned the money and soon accepted that the money and shopping were related and the cap was 300. Dinners and drinks don't count against the total. What this does is keep the relationship on a friendly but not "love" level. When the time came for me to move on the disengagement was without incident. She's still my FB friend and we chat every now and then. The money helped her and is a wise investment.

Dbates80
12-08-13, 01:11
Congrats KG. And yes they are available. I had a 27 year old Filli "freebee" for a few months earlier this year. I do strongly recommend paying them however. With my nanny friend we went shopping and / or I slipped some cash in her purse. All carefully tuned to add up to 300AED per day. She never mentioned the money and soon accepted that the money and shopping were related and the cap was 300. Dinners and drinks don't count against the total. What this does is keep the relationship on a friendly but not "love" level. When the time came for me to move on the disengagement was without incident. She's still my FB friend and we chat every now and then. The money helped her and is a wise investment.Nice. I will keep this in mind, as I sit at the airport about to board a flight to dxb! .

DB

Kabul Guy
12-08-13, 07:08
Congrats KG. And yes they are available. I had a 27 year old Filli "freebee" for a few months earlier this year. I do strongly recommend paying them however. With my nanny friend we went shopping and / or I slipped some cash in her purse. All carefully tuned to add up to 300AED per day. She never mentioned the money and soon accepted that the money and shopping were related and the cap was 300. Dinners and drinks don't count against the total. What this does is keep the relationship on a friendly but not "love" level. When the time came for me to move on the disengagement was without incident. She's still my FB friend and we chat every now and then. The money helped her and is a wise investment.Good idea about the money, it helps her out in a way that does not make her think she is a pro and allows you to help maintain a distance for the unavoidable breakup end of relationship.

Happy Humping.

KG

Misha Rastov
12-08-13, 16:39
Hhhmmmm. I have several regular girls that I see. Because they work their hours are generally erratic so it's never a problem if you can't meet one when she's off because you're busy. I have never thought to hand over cash, although I have helped when there is a crisis, like a fine for J walking (yup, Deira!) I've never thought about it because I feel that they would get the idea that they thought I thought they were hookers. I am going to give some Christmas presents out which I am absolutely certain will be very well received. But that's about it.

Dbates80
12-10-13, 20:14
Met up with the first of Tagged girls last night. She tore me up. Shaved puss and horny as hell. Classic Panay spinner body, a bit of an overbite but did not affect her giving an awesome blowjob. One down, three more in the pre-prepped lineup to go. Taking it easy tonight though, one must pace oneself. Still recovering from jet lag and all, ya know.

Picked her up, she was on time (!) , went and grabbed some dinner, went to a movie, then she grabbed my cock in the car, and was good with coming to my place. We were fucking within 10 minutes of arrival at the apartment.

Two pops, DATY and made her cum several times. Then set the alarm for 0430 to get her home to be at work at 0630. She decided, on her own, that she needed to suck my dick first thing after waking up. Who am I to stop her?

Dropped her off at her work (nanny) at 0530 so she could shower and dress and start her work at 0630. Perfect. She's a keeper! Only downside?"A" size tits, however with nice little. 22 bullet nipples. Hope to get pix soon.

DB

Nice Guy 99
12-11-13, 07:15
Dropped her off at her work (nanny) at 0530 so she could shower and dress and start her work at 0630. Perfect. She's a keeper!Ahh the nanny scene. Had a very good several month run with one earlier this year. The poor dear hadn't had sex in several years. The only drawback was, as you state, getting up so early to drive her back to her live in work site. The male employer for this nanny soon figured out that she was getting fucked every night and started to hit on her when the missus wasn't there. It all turned out badly, but that need not be recounted here.

Mjolnir 213
12-11-13, 18:19
Hhhmmmm. I have several regular girls that I see. Because they work their hours are generally erratic so it's never a problem if you can't meet one when she's off because you're busy. I have never thought to hand over cash, although I have helped when there is a crisis, like a fine for J walking (yup, Deira!) I've never thought about it because I feel that they would get the idea that they thought I thought they were hookers. I am going to give some Christmas presents out which I am absolutely certain will be very well received. But that's about it.If they are self professed "regular" girls, I think your approach works best.

Small presents, dinner dates and random acts of kindness are enough.

If she really needs the cash, she will ask.

Trust me, they do not like to feel they are hookers, so the more skillfully we disguise the donations the better it is for them and you performance wise.

WB

Enigma76
06-12-14, 14:40
This section has been dry of late so I thought I'd chip in with my two fils. The past month or two, I've been enjoying indulging with a bunch of normal-looking yet fun CIS girls in the same floor as my flat. There are 5 of them but I've only met 3 so far and indulged with one of them already. They are all employees of Debenhams but it is not their staff accommodation.

A set of happy coincidences have now resulted in a good situation for me. The day they were moving, I happened to help two of them move a large sofa into their apartment. Smiles were exchanged and I moved on. However, over the next few weeks, I met one of them (lets call her M) more than a few times either at the lift or downstairs as we entered or exited the building. The smiles grew brighter and I found myself a wee bit attracted to her as well. Physically, she is not my type. Small breasts, not very curvy yet I felt good and accepted when a few days later she invited me for some coffee to "thank me" for helping.

Some chit chat followed and I offered to massage her feet when she complained about a long day standing at work as a saleslady. Once I got the foot massage going, one thing led to the other until I found her sitting on my lap and doing a DFK. The only bad thing was as a smoker, her breath stunk but that was alright as I was very eager to see where this encounter ended up. We were soon in bed where I had a satisfactory experience deep inside her. Condom was a must and afterwards, she mentioned that this was the first time she had done it with a stranger outsize Kyrgyzstan (yeah right! Since then, we've met a few times but had not had sex again. Just DFK and naked massages followed by CBJ. She says she feels guilty with Ramadan fast approaching. I enjoy going there but my eyes are on a tasty and busty friend of hers. Who has been friendly so far but I am wondering how to get past M's scrutiny and into her bedroom! Lets see.

I would also like to recommend VK.COM which is a Russian social media site like facebook. Excellent opportunity to directly hook up with normal CIS / Russian women, including in Dubai. I haven't scored yet but I am on to the challenge. A few pics of M to follow.

Makaveli87
07-14-14, 04:51
Hi,

New poster here, but a regular on the Abu Dhabi scene in 49 ers. Earlier this year I spotted a lovely new Uzbek girl at 49, and basically I have spent a lot of time taking her, and have even brought up the idea marrying her. She say's she is fine with it, and in October she wants me to come to her country to visit her mom etc, but what do people think of this? It is crazy isn't it, but not unheard of, I have heard of similar stories in the past of some customers eventually marrying a working girl.

Misha Rastov
07-14-14, 15:38
have even brought up the idea marrying her. She say's she is fine with it, and in October she wants me to come to her country to visit her mom etc, but what do people think of this? It is crazy isn't it, but not unheard ofI would be cautious because you are always going to remember her background. How uncomfortable will you be in future with the knowledge that she's had more pricks than a second hand dartboard? How easy will it be to throw that in her face during an argument? Personally I think it's very difficult.

Tartan01
07-15-14, 22:14
Hi,

New poster here, but a regular on the Abu Dhabi scene in 49 ers. Earlier this year I spotted a lovely new Uzbek girl at 49, and basically I have spent a lot of time taking her, and have even brought up the idea marrying her. She say's she is fine with it, and in October she wants me to come to her country to visit her mom etc, but what do people think of this? It is crazy isn't it, but not unheard of, I have heard of similar stories in the past of some customers eventually marrying a working girl.Personally if it works for you both I would go for it. I'm married but wife back home, sad person that I am I have known a Kyrgys girl on off for the first 5 years I've been in Dubai. Met her first back in 08 at the Rattlesnake, not long after she arrived nice girl. A year ago we reconnected, seen each most weekends, and the transformation is unreal. She has a full time job, she looks absolutely stunning and whenever we are out there are continuous glances of lust in her direction, she is such a 'head turner'.

However she is not cheap to maintain! This year has cost me a fortune but that is my problem and choice and must live with it. So back to your dilemma, I find myself in a situation where I would marry my friend if she would have me! She does not see herself as a GF, albeit the experiences are as such, but more as my mistress! I miss her madly when we are apart and yes I know her history and how she started off in Dubai, yet I'm sure I only know half of what has gone on in the past.

If you love each other and trust her then just do it!

Tartan

Muttley81
07-16-14, 08:39
Hi,

New poster here, but a regular on the Abu Dhabi scene in 49 ers. Earlier this year I spotted a lovely new Uzbek girl at 49, and basically I have spent a lot of time taking her, and have even brought up the idea marrying her. She say's she is fine with it, and in October she wants me to come to her country to visit her mom etc, but what do people think of this? It is crazy isn't it, but not unheard of, I have heard of similar stories in the past of some customers eventually marrying a working girl.It probably happens more than you'd think, if you have no issues with it, and she has no issues then I don't see a problem.

One of my colleagues met his wife on the bar scene in Thailand. Married for ten years now, had three kids and are very happy. Things have a way of working themselves out if you're determined enough. Good luck to you.

Cons68
07-16-14, 09:03
While Misha may not come across as a refined gentleman, the questions he asks, in his particular rowdy and plebeian way are certainly relevant.

Yes it may work, but it will depend more on you than on her. Many of these stani girls are not working girls, they just work as such. That makes a big difference, and can make the thing work from their side. But you? You are the only one who can answer that.


I would be cautious because you are always going to remember her background. How uncomfortable will you be in future with the knowledge that she's had more pricks than a second hand dartboard? How easy will it be to throw that in her face during an argument? Personally I think it's very difficult.

Makaveli87
07-16-14, 11:22
I would be cautious because you are always going to remember her background. How uncomfortable will you be in future with the knowledge that she's had more pricks than a second hand dartboard? How easy will it be to throw that in her face during an argument? Personally I think it's very difficult.Obviously I will always remember, as a man, it's a human nature thing that I will always remember. Coincidentally she did warn me that in the future that if we argue and I do bring up her history she would end it with me.

True, she has slept around a lot, but the way I see it, so have I, and I've been doing it longer than her! I've been a regular at the scene for a good 7-8 years now.

Makaveli87
07-16-14, 11:29
While Misha may not come across as a refined gentleman, the questions he asks, in his particular rowdy and plebeian way are certainly relevant.

Yes it may work, but it will depend more on you than on her. Many of these stani girls are not working girls, they just work as such. That makes a big difference, and can make the thing work from their side. But you? You are the only one who can answer that.The point you make about many of these girls not being working girls but just do it as such is one big reason as to why I'm fine with her in the future, all of us on this forum have been around the scene so we know most of these girls' situation, I think it's even safe to say a lot of these girls ironically are less slutty than some normal non-working girls! It's just that in the end for a lot of these Stani girls they had no other option. That makes me actually feel good you know that I'm going to be helping her and taking her out of the scene.

Jimmy K II
07-16-14, 11:56
Hi,

New poster here, but a regular on the Abu Dhabi scene in 49 ers. Earlier this year I spotted a lovely new Uzbek girl at 49, and basically I have spent a lot of time taking her, and have even brought up the idea marrying her. She say's she is fine with it, and in October she wants me to come to her country to visit her mom etc, but what do people think of this? It is crazy isn't it, but not unheard of, I have heard of similar stories in the past of some customers eventually marrying a working girl.Like it has been written before, if you love each other and trust each other, than go for it (or even give it a try).

In any case, I'd sign a "marriage contract", that your fortune and money is saved even in case that you get divorced.

In my opinion, the problem is, that you know about her background and that you might be anxious if you are abroad or if she goes out without you or.

FunRope
09-15-14, 12:34
Forget The Rat, Mall of Emirates seems to be the place to find all the hot filipinas these days. For instance spotted a hot bright red head working on one of the stalls, had a very dirty look about her. Anyone else spotted this girl?

Tartan01
09-15-14, 19:34
Following on from my report about my regular friend back in July I now post a word of warning which I failed to heed from my friends.

The relationship had been slowing a little for a few weeks recently but she was always very good at persuading me to help her with gifts or financial assistance, lovely lovely and stunningly pretty girl and as I said before would marry her if she felt as strong for me as do I for her. So now after a fourteen month close relationship but having known her 5 years, recently lending her 23 k plus giving her another substantial amount to help with her new flat rent and setting it up, communication stopped gradually over the weekend. The previous weekend we'd been away to a beach hotel, this weekend she couldn't see me and did not respond to any msgs and finally didn't answer my calls. I now fear she has blocked me.

Why am I telling you guys? Well it helps the pain I'm suffering to write this down but also as a word of caution to you all out there.

However I'm sure I'm not the first to suffer, but at the moment I'm still hoping that there is good reason and that I'm being over dramatic.

Be warned and take care.

Tartan

TellAll
09-16-14, 08:29
Following on from my report about my regular friend back in July I now post a word of warning which I failed to heed from my friends.

The relationship had been slowing a little for a few weeks recently but she was always very good at persuading me to help her with gifts or financial assistance, lovely lovely and stunningly pretty girl and as I said before would marry her if she felt as strong for me as do I for her. So now after a fourteen month close relationship but having known her 5 years, recently lending her 23 k plus giving her another substantial amount to help with her new flat rent and setting it up, communication stopped gradually over the weekend. The previous weekend we'd been away to a beach hotel, this weekend she couldn't see me and did not respond to any msgs and finally didn't answer my calls. I now fear she has blocked me.

Why am I telling you guys? Well it helps the pain I'm suffering to write this down but also as a word of caution to you all out


there.

However I'm sure I'm not the first to suffer, but at the moment I'm still hoping that there is good reason and that I'm being over dramatic.

Be warned and take care.

TartanYour relationship was based on cash, yours. You had a business relationship, only you thought it was a love affair.

I see this all the time in SE Asia. Guys trying to buy love. It always ends badly.

23 k plus is a harsh lesson and you don't seem to have learned it yet. She obviously has gotten what she wants from you. Maybe she will call again when she needs more cash. Question is will you get weak and give it to her.

Cut your losses and keep your money in your pocket.

Hard John
09-29-14, 09:45
Forget The Rat, Mall of Emirates seems to be the place to find all the hot filipinas these days. For instance spotted a hot bright red head working on one of the stalls, had a very dirty look about her. Anyone else spotted this girl?I think I also spotted her. In one of the stalls that sell jewelry or watches.

I think I double or even triple looked.

CoachWhip
02-24-15, 07:46
Been busy using the infamous "swipe app".

10+ dates, 2 lays with regular professionals, 1 lay with a semi-pro pinay. Both quite decent all nights.

Pipeline of free prospects means I tend to be booked out days forward plus there a number of pros offering, too, with -I suspect- some genuine pix.

Just thought I'd share. Enjoy.

FunRope
02-26-15, 06:06
Been busy using the infamous "swipe app".

10+ dates, 2 lays with regular professionals, 1 lay with a semi-pro pinay. Both quite decent all nights.

Pipeline of free prospects means I tend to be booked out days forward plus there a number of pros offering, too, with -I suspect- some genuine pix.

Just thought I'd share. Enjoy.One of my biggest disappointments in life is that this wasn't around during my young and single days.

Maverick Dubai
03-07-15, 11:26
Been busy using the infamous "swipe app".

10+ dates, 2 lays with regular professionals, 1 lay with a semi-pro pinay. Both quite decent all nights.

Pipeline of free prospects means I tend to be booked out days forward plus there a number of pros offering, too, with -I suspect- some genuine pix.

Just thought I'd share. Enjoy.I was under the impression that this particular infamy was no longer working here. This is the same application that starts with a t and ends with an er, right?

Burkster
03-07-15, 20:55
I was under the impression that this particular infamy was no longer working here. This is the same application that starts with a t and ends with an er, right?No, it's not the T-to-the-er app. As the OP mentioned, it's 'swipe'. Although I think they have changed their name, but you will still be able to find it with the old name.

Cayenne2010
03-08-15, 16:27
Please tell us it is 23 k AED not USD.


Your relationship was based on cash, yours. You had a business relationship, only you thought it was a love affair.

I see this all the time in SE Asia. Guys trying to buy love. It always ends badly.

23 k plus is a harsh lesson and you don't seem to have learned it yet. She obviously has gotten what she wants from you. Maybe she will call again when she needs more cash. Question is will you get weak and give it to her.

Cut your losses and keep your money in your pocket.

CoachWhip
03-30-15, 01:29
No, it's not the T-to-the-er app. As the OP mentioned, it's 'swipe'. Although I think they have changed their name, but you will still be able to find it with the old name.I meant to hint at the app that looks and sounds like fire. It was indeed targeted presumably on the grounds of encouraging unholy behaviour, however the effective workaround is the same as you might use for the i player. Consequently supply dried up. So what's left is the store of whatsapp conversions. Incidentally, android better than ois.

Briefly tried Badxx which lived up to its abbreviation. Rubbish.

Happy apping.

Mjolnir 213
04-17-15, 10:30
About dating regular girls.

I do this a lot and can say I haven't had to pay for it in a while.

But. Be prepared to deal with the fallout.

Best thing to do is tell them up front what you expect. You will get some rejections and some psychos, but overall if you are a nice guy and can make a lady smile, you will be pleasantly surprised at how easy it is.

Just don't lie to them and be attentive to their needs also. Learn to cook and give a massage.

Will help you score more girls than you can handle.

WB

TheMarlon
05-12-15, 10:27
Hi,

New poster here, but a regular on the Abu Dhabi scene in 49 ers. Earlier this year I spotted a lovely new Uzbek girl at 49, and basically I have spent a lot of time taking her, and have even brought up the idea marrying her. She say's she is fine with it, and in October she wants me to come to her country to visit her mom etc, but what do people think of this? It is crazy isn't it, but not unheard of, I have heard of similar stories in the past of some customers eventually marrying a working girl.I think nobody can advise about this matter but yourself.

At the end; it's not us who will suffer thoughts that usually come with such relations:

- How many punters had cracked my wife before? 500? 2000?

- Since she's exposed to numerous experiences, definitely some of them have bigger shafts and fitter, am I giving her enough satisfaction? Is she faking it?

- Are you be able to handle future conflicts, that will happen like any relation, without bringing up her old profession? Maybe you're sure now but what would be the case when you're blind mad?

Notice that I'm assuming she'll be 100% honest, won't she?

Actually having a relation with a non-WG is already complex enough, so your case needs deep thinking, I'm not saying that marring WG cannot work, but it's not an easy decision and you've to analyse it zillion times before taking the step.

Good luck.

ClassElegant
06-01-15, 21:11
No, it's not the T-to-the-er app. As the OP mentioned, it's 'swipe'. Although I think they have changed their name, but you will still be able to find it with the old name.I could not find any App with the name "SWIPE". What is the exact name of this app.

Threadbare
06-01-15, 22:47
I could not find any App with the name "SWIPE". What is the exact name of this app.Its not showing in Google Playstore, but I was able to find this in Aptoide. Its just another app store for android. Not sure about iOS App store I don't use it. Hope this helps.

Threadbare
06-01-15, 22:50
Its not showing in Google Playstore, but I was able to find this in Aptoide. Its just another app store for android. Not sure about iOS App store I don't use it. Hope this helps.I have suggested it before on here, but I have good results using Opera Mini browser, where some adult sites like ISG are blocked, it fools the security fellows somehow. Must be Mini version though.

EightyFour
06-20-15, 17:55
I have suggested it before on here, but I have good results using Opera Mini browser, where some adult sites like ISG are blocked, it fools the security fellows somehow. Must be Mini version though.Technically it's because Opera Mini is using a minified cached version of the websites hosted directly at Opera's server so the local filters are (usually) unable to spot the sites.

Basically an advanced proxy.

CleanHands
08-08-15, 19:08
... I have to say I am quite successful in meeting girls from Badoo and usually have sex with them during our first meeting.

Tomorrow I will meet a female driver form the Fillis, on Monday a Thai ladyboy who is on holidays here ...
No money involved at all. Just a great source to find nice girls who are up for almost everything. Give it a tryKhundig,

Interesting post. I signed up for Badoo recently but haven't had the time to start up any chats. I've been too busy working and shagging to put in the time for the chatting up on dating sites and apps (plus too lazy as I have a small harem of regular and semi-regulars on my phone, so I usually just order home delivery).

However, one of my semi-regular girls introduced me to the WeChat phone messaging app a few weeks ago. I think it started as a Chinese version of WhatsApp. I like a couple of the features: One, my semi-regular Chinese lady (see photo gallery) is new to the WG business and new to Dubai, and only speaks a few words of English, such as "Okay" and "Oh Yes! And "Ooooh Baba! So we use the text-translating feature for more the&M conversations.

WeChat also has the feature called "Discover" - simply tap the button, and it shows you who is nearby (with face photos), including people in the same building or up to a few miles away. Mainly used by Chinese and Filipina non-pros but also some semi-pros, pros and AMPS.

I started up a chat one night with a Fili who was "within 200 metres", and it turned out to be a semi-pro in the apartment building next door who wanted 700 for 2 hours. I negotiated the Fili down to 500 for three hours, until "she" pointed out "she" was a LB. Then it was deal over.

So you had some luck with dating a LB from Badoo. You must be handsome man. But I thought one was not allowed to use that word on this website?

And let's not get into the "no money involved" debate regarding dating non-WGs. Don't forget the time involved, the charm and interest one has to pretend to have, the gifts, dinners at boring restaurants with stilted conversations, drinks, running along the beach with her or taking her on long drives and taking her to girly movies, when you'd prefer to be in bed shagging the daylights out of her (or another girl), then soon enough the emotional blackmail, expected monogamy, etc. It's all hard work and hard earned money.

The thing I like about having a harem of regular and semi-regular WGs is one gets the GFE experience, less expensive, variety, and if they start getting too possessive, one can easily remember there are no strings attached, and either cut the strings, or slow them down.

Snow1998
08-13-15, 14:31
Decided to try my luck taking out a waitress at a diner I frequent. First was a movie, next day lunch at my place ending in bed, a very nice session closest thing to a real GF. I always make sure its understood from the beginning its not permanent or long term. In this case she has been looking forward for a break from their long erratic schedule and being able to enjoy a movie plus relax in my home as compared to her cramped bed space room is more than enough for her. Since then have had her and 3 of her friends over for a meal and some drinks and karaoke at my place after lounging in the pool (cooled). 2 of the friends are now constantly messaging me as well. Definitely looking for some extra fun. It will be quite a juggling act keeping it secret from each other! Did I mention they are between 21 and 24 years old. They appreciate the fact that I have not lied about being single etc and making false promises. This is their single biggest complaint about the younger or rather under 50 generation. I'm just over 50. I have also been shagging my insurance broker late 30's from a north African country and everything is possible with her. This was a trial for me straying from my preferred flavor. None of the above required any hard work from me. For the waitresses it was simply being genuinely nice honest and kind. All the staff at the diner enjoy my visits and the manager always comes over and sits with me chatting away on just about anything. Whatever I would have spent on MPs and WGs will be what goes into taking these girls out etc. Doesn't mean I have given up on MPs just not as frequent.

CleanHands
08-13-15, 17:14
... This is their single biggest complaint about the younger or rather under 50 generation. I'm just over 50. I have also been shagging my insurance broker late 30's from a north African country and everything is possible with her.Nice report Snow. And yes, there are many lonely non-WGs in Dubai who are willing to have a sugar-daddy, NSA, whatever his marital situation. I'm speaking from years of experience (to be immodest).

You're even shagging your chocolato insurance broker for free. Good stuff! Hope she gives you a good discount.

Please do us (or at least me) a favor: Break up your great reports into paragraphs. Much easier for faster reading.

Snow1998
08-14-15, 01:55
You're even shagging your chocolato insurance broker for free. Good stuff! Hope she gives you a good discount.
Please do us (or at least me) a favor: Break up your great reports into paragraphs. Much easier for faster reading.Thanks CH and noted. I got the health check and my weight tweeked and adjusted to keep the premium low LOL. That in the long term is a substantial saving.

Misha Rastov
08-14-15, 05:11
It will be quite a juggling act keeping it secret from each other!Well done on dipping your toes in the water and being a nice, genuine guy, it works wonders. One thing you have to know is that pinays are gossipers and your 'friend' will know that her friends are messaging you. I would be very tempted to broach the subject with her, open up the conversation by telling her they are messaging. Let her know you think they are cute blah blah. I suspect that you will end up with all 3 in your bed and all very happy to be together and sharing.

Snow1998
08-16-15, 03:18
Well done on dipping your toes in the water and being a nice, genuine guy, it works wonders. One thing you have to know is that pinays are gossipers and your 'friend' will know that her friends are messaging you. I would be very tempted to broach the subject with her, open up the conversation by telling her they are messaging. Let her know you think they are cute blah blah. I suspect that you will end up with all 3 in your bed and all very happy to be together and sharing.My first tryst in Abudhabi, used to be my norm when I lived in Dubai. And highlight in Dubai was when after a particular long and harder session with a extra small petite supermarket cashier when she mentioned I was much older than her father! We both managed to see the funny side of it LOL. Being nice and genuine has had its downs as well in a couple of instances when a couple of girls thought they could milk me and take me for a ride. Polite but firm salute with my middle finger sorted that out.

LexMark1180
08-29-15, 19:37
My first tryst in Abudhabi, used to be my norm when I lived in Dubai. And highlight in Dubai was when after a particular long and harder session with a extra small petite supermarket cashier when she mentioned I was much older than her father! We both managed to see the funny side of it LOL. Being nice and genuine has had its downs as well in a couple of instances when a couple of girls thought they could milk me and take me for a ride. Polite but firm salute with my middle finger sorted that out.It is a very different experience with regular girls. Always a problem when they become too emotionally involved. That is the down side. The up side can be great though. As always in life it is a balance.

BlackCitizen
10-25-15, 06:48
I have been dating some regular girls.

Today I have come to the conclusion that it does not make good economic sense. Usually I get laid after few dates in the best cases. In some before even arranging a real meeting it takes time since most of the initial communication is via some apps or best texting.

With one of my last regular I had made some investments ahead for the harvest season. After helping with the purchase of a new phone, she texted me some days later looking for another support since she's relocating and plus some other financial urgencies. Doing the math for this last regular, I have invested around 3 K and had only 1 shot from one meeting. I have two more dates that I am trying to manage.

Why waste so much energy for the same end result which will be to get laid. I do not nurture any deeper interest in all those women than getting down to their panties at some point. This said I have made my New Year resolution to stop dating any regular and even avoid getting too casual with some WG fearing to create some sort of longtime bonding.

It makes more economic and No String Attached independence to visit AMPS and sample as gems as possible without all the liability of managing a regular girl.

Snow1998
10-25-15, 12:11
I have been dating some regular girls.


Why waste so much energy for the same end result which will be to get laid. I do not nurture any deeper interest in all those women than getting down to their panties at some point. This said I have made my New Year resolution to stop dating any regular and even avoid getting too casual with some WG fearing to create some sort of longtime bonding.

It makes more economic and No String Attached independence to visit AMPS and sample as gems as possible without all the liability of managing a regular girl.I think its a question of taking out the dating part from the equation. You need to stick to the ones who understand this and while its never free it has its good side. The sex is usually very hot and every 2nd or 3rd visit ends up with a mall outing to the tune of 600 to 700 dhs. The moment they try to take it to the next level of expense, need to disengage. What I do is keep the expense whether it be shopping or help financially not more than what would cost for a WG.

Simultaneous
10-26-15, 16:36
I have been dating some regular girls.

Today I have come to the conclusion that it does not make good economic sense. Usually I get laid after few dates in the best cases. In some before even arranging a real meeting it takes time since most of the initial communication is via some apps or best texting.

With one of my last regular I had made some investments ahead for the harvest season. After helping with the purchase of a new phone, she texted me some days later looking for another support since she's relocating and plus some other financial urgencies. Doing the math for this last regular, I have invested around 3 K and had only 1 shot from one meeting. I have two more dates that I am trying to manage.

Why waste so much energy for the same end result which will be to get laid. I do not nurture any deeper interest in all those women than getting down to their panties at some point. This said I have made my New Year resolution to stop dating any regular and even avoid getting too casual with some WG fearing to create some sort of longtime bonding.

It makes more economic and No String Attached independence to visit AMPS and sample as gems as possible without all the liability of managing a regular girl.I've only tried this a few times and when I was younger to mixed success. My rule was first meeting for a coffee in a regular place. Second date (if I felt there was potential) was always in a normal bar for a few early evening drinks. I would say I had a 70% hit rate of bedding them by the third date and all it cost me was a few coffees or beers.

I never fell for the need money trap. But I often helped girls with the CVs, job websites and gave them tips on how to get on. In other words I positioned myself as a helpful friend with benefits rather than a sugar daddy who brought them stuff.

Poonhound69
10-26-15, 16:52
This was my MO as well. My hit rate was lower as I was too paranoid to register in hotels but 4 out of ten gave up the pussy. One would only blow me as she was married.

The two times I had a frienda apartment to take them back to it was an easy score.

No money ever changed hands.

A couple gave me sob stories but I just helped them get interviews or pointed them to lazy friends who were willing to pay.

The time invested and drama is not worth it to me currently.

E.



a 70% hit rate of bedding them by the third date and all it cost me was a few coffees or beers.

I never fell for the need money trap. But I often helped girls with the CVs, job websites and gave them tips on how to get on. In other words I positioned myself as a helpful friend with benefits rather than a sugar daddy who brought them stuff.

Nice Guy 99
10-26-15, 19:00
Gentlemen.

If you are traveling businessmen and staying in a reasonable 4-5 star hotel invite them to your room for dinner. "more private" "really want to get to know you". Come equipped with wine from the Duty Free. If you're on reasonable expenses your company will actually pay for the dinner.

Some refuse. Bye bye. Of those who accept the score rate is 100%.

NG99.

Stier1970
01-06-16, 18:48
I am living now since 2 years in Dubai and I am not to much in WG, more regular ladies. I have a few experience with WG and some AMPS, and onlyr the experiences with ladies from the steps and Leah are good. The rest of my hunting was a disaster, I always choose the Optickfick. Which was always a big mistake. I think if I pay I want a smoking hot chicks. Which seams to be wrong.

After 2 years of using Tagged I have a good base of regular girl friends which I meet 3-4 times a week, as I am traveling a lot they know I am not always available. Thats a very good base to 'handle' now 7 regulars and from time to time some new ladies. All of them are Pinays. On tagged you will find also other ladies but they are all WGs, only pinays are regulars Thats my experience. The ladies are between 25 and 39 years old. Most of them are around 30 years old. I am bit older, mid 40. And I am sure all of them know that they are not my one and only girlfriend and they are creating no drama. They have all regular jobs and they are looking for a strong shoulder to lay on and get fucked. They also have their needs, same like us. If I have to rate my girlfriends, most of them are average nothing special. Not very beautiful and not ugly. Mostly a good 5-7. Some have kids in the Philippines and only one was never married. The rest is divorced.

I made an exact accounting about my expanses. Monthly it is not more then 2.500-3.000 aed for the ladies. Which includes dinner, cinema and sometimes little gifts. Not a single one of the ladies asked for many any time. Only December was a bit more because I bought all of them some nice Christmas gifts. But this is happening only once a year.

If you spend some time online you will have a good base to select the right ones, take them for dinner and later you can choose if you want the next step and bring them home. If she doesn't fit your taste bring her home and tell her strait it was not the right feeling.

Double Shooter
01-08-16, 15:05
After 2 years of using Tagged I have a good base of regular girl friends which I meet 3-4 times a week, as I am traveling a lot they know I am not always available. Thats a very good base to 'handle' now 7 regulars and from time to time some new ladies. All of them are Pinays. On tagged you will find also other ladies but they are all WGs, only pinays are regulars Thats my experience.

I made an exact accounting about my expanses. Monthly it is not more then 2.500-3.000 aed for the ladies. Which includes dinner, cinema and sometimes little gifts. Not a single one of the ladies asked for many any time. Only December was a bit more because I bought all of them some nice Christmas gifts. But this is happening only once a year.You must have been both very disciplined and very fortunate, because the "freebie filis" have family emergencies on a regular basis. With a stable of 7 filis it is statistically impossible to go for two years without at least one heart-rending plea for money! Then it become either financially or emotionally expensive.

Thanks for recounting your experience.

BlackCitizen
01-08-16, 18:14
I am living now since 2 years in Dubai and I am not to much in WG, more regular ladies. I have a few experience with WG and some AMPS, and onlyr the experiences with ladies from the steps and Leah are good. The rest of my hunting was a disaster, I always choose the Optickfick. Which was always a big mistake. I think if I pay I want a smoking hot chicks. Which seams to be wrong.

After 2 years of using Tagged I have a good base of regular girl friends which I meet 3-4 times a week, as I am traveling a lot they know I am not always available. Thats a very good base to 'handle' now 7 regulars and from time to time some new ladies. All of them are Pinays. On tagged you will find also other ladies but they are all WGs, only pinays are regulars Thats my experience. The ladies are between 25 and 39 years old. Most of them are around 30 years old. I am bit older, mid 40..Double Shooter is right you must have had some sort of luck to manage so many Pinay with minimal expenses. Yes they all have emergencies more often than not. Sometimes bills start before you even shag them. I have had quite some, in the past. Still trying to manage only 1 or 2 now. Some years ago I was even financing the rent for one or them when it was not at todays ridiculous level. Personally I am moving towards AMPS and clear WG or semi pros.

Wicked Roger
01-09-16, 01:36
You must have been both very disciplined and very fortunate, because the "freebie filis" have family emergencies on a regular basis. With a stable of 7 filis it is statistically impossible to go for two years without at least one heart-rending plea for money! Then it become either financially or emotionally expensive.

Thanks for recounting your experience.School fees twice a year lola / lolo in hospital and likely dying, kid needs new school shoes / books / pens etc, house was blown down / damaged in the recent typhoon, flooded the house due to typhoon rains, need new work clothes, kids need new uniform, need to renew my visa, need to pa rent, borrow money have huge credit.

Some of the many issues a Fili will have when you are with her IMHO.

Throwster
01-09-16, 09:56
School fees twice a year lola / lolo in hospital and likely dying, kid needs new school shoes / books / pens etc, house was blown down / damaged in the recent typhoon, flooded the house due to typhoon rains, need new work clothes, kids need new uniform, need to renew my visa, need to pa rent, borrow money have huge credit.

Some of the many issues a Fili will have when you are with her IMHO.Haha that's absolutely well summed up really. Have come across a few friends filling me on those. I have never dealt in this. But its fun to read the FRs.