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Bobo.fr
10-18-11, 20:28
Hello,

1) I don't know if my thread is in the right subforum.

2) I remember more or less the following theory :

A) everybody (male or female) has both Yin and Yang "energies" inside

Be) but in general nobody has a balance between Yin and Yang.

See) when a person with an extra Yin makes love with a person with an extra Yang, that will help for the balance ("harmony") and both partners will feel better, otherwise they would feel more tired

3) Personnally, with some precise women, I did really feel full with energy after making love. (However, I don't know how did my partners really feel! Of course, I could ask them but would they tell the truth?)

4) Did that happen to some of you? (poll / survey)

5) Did anybody hear about this theory (especially those who live in Asia)?

Bobo

Angus Magee
10-18-11, 21:36
Hello,

1) I don't know if my thread is in the right subforum.

2) I remember more or less the following theory :

A) everybody (male or female) has both Yin and Yang "energies" inside

Be) but in general nobody has a balance between Yin and Yang.

See) when a person with an extra Yin makes love with a person with an extra Yang, that will help for the balance ("harmony") and both partners will feel better, otherwise they would feel more tired

3) Personnally, with some precise women, I did really feel full with energy after making love. (However, I don't know how did my partners really feel! Of course, I could ask them but would they tell the truth?)

4) Did that happen to some of you? (poll / survey)

5) Did anybody hear about this theory (especially those who live in Asia)?

BoboHi Bobo,

I have studied this stuff pretty extensively. It is a wee bit hard to grasp. Mainly, as I see it, because it is so simple.

We tend to think in duality. Every thing has to be this or that according to minds. But nothing is this or that. Everything is this and that.

Yin / Yan (or Yin / Yang) are not opposites. They are polarities. So one can not exist without the other and the only way to reference one is is through the other. I. E. You need the female to make your maleness and visa versa. Thus you are not a man. You are a being more closely aligned to the male than the female and thus exhibiting male physicality.

So for good sex one needs there to be two opposite poles coming close so flow happens. Even in gay sex one needs this polarity of receptivity and penetration, at the very least on an energetic level. So often with hookers the girl tries to lead. This is a buzz kill (and boner killer) unless of course this is your kink. This does not mean a lady can never "take the reigns". But if she does the man has to somehow "allow" it. Again much of this is on energy levels and not always obvious until one looks deeper.

For me the best sex is always with a woman who has played enough with her sexuality so that she is not afraid to surrender, nor is she unable to "take the reigns". But when she does so she is not a slave to her physicality. That is she is heterosexual not because she has a pussy, but because she likes male energy, and to feel it in contrast to her female energy. So female energy is only felt in contrast to the male and visa versa. Seen this way the whole male / female dichotomy (the war between the sexes) is kind of silly. It is sort of like up fighting with down because it is different.

I think for me feeling energised after sex is a result of having the male / female energy flow (that happens during good sex) go through my system. Also consciously not trying to hold that good feeling. As soon as you hold, the flow stops. So it has to start, stop and happen again. All part of a larger flow. Ultimately I do wonder if humans can be conscious of living is a larger flow, sort of a universal "sex machine" that is life and / or existence. Or to put it another way, can we live in a universal non ejaculatory orgasmic flow?

I'll get back to you on that one. ;)

Bobo.fr
12-23-11, 04:57
On December 21st, I had an inhabitual (and very strong)"need"!

As that day was the shortest of the year, between Autumn and Winter, I wondered if there was something between the cosmos' yinyang and mine?

Bordellos don't exist (at least publicly) in France (the boss would go to jail; the Establishment (government or Parliament, I don't know exactly) is thinking about punishing mongers) , so finding,"in emergency", an avalaible French call girl was not so easy!

Fortunately, there were "city tours" organized by EE agencies (mostly Russian these last years) so I could meet this charming Vera (http://escortaphrodite.com/gallery/info531.html) : very good meeting and probably my pubic area was never been as well taken care as it was with Vera's mouth.

But back to the thread's theme, when I was home I ran out of energy and needed probably more than 10 hours of sleep! So, I wondered again about the fact that some ladies apparently made me stronger while others made me weaker (of course, I should repeat the "experience" many times with these particular ladies to limit the interference of other factors).

Well, as this thread I created is about poll / survey : did anyone feel something particular about your sexual desire on December 21st?

Night Cat
03-05-12, 18:56
Your question about male / female, yin / yang, is discussed in the book "Uniting Sex, Self, and Spirit". Author's name is Haddon. She explains that there are four distinct qualities: male yang, male yin, female yang, and female yin. And every person has all four qualities. In a given person at a given time, the four qualities could be relatively balanced, or, one or more could be out of balance (think of four tires on a car, each of which could be properly inflated, overinflated, or underinflated). That's about all I remember. You might also find something interesting in books by Mantak Chia.

Bobo.fr
03-06-12, 00:16
Your question about male / female, yin / yang, is discussed in the book "Uniting Sex, Self, and Spirit". Author's name is Haddon. She explains that there are four distinct qualities: male yang, male yin, female yang, and female yin. And every person has all four qualities. In a given person at a given time, the four qualities could be relatively balanced, or, one or more could be out of balance (think of four tires on a car, each of which could be properly inflated, overinflated, or underinflated). That's about all I remember. You might also find something interesting in books by Mantak Chia.Thanks, I already read some Mantak Chia's books, I will have a look at Haddon's book, Thanks.

Bobo.fr
01-06-13, 10:04
Etc.

Fortunately, there were "city tours" organized by EE agencies (mostly Russian these last years) so I could meet this charming Vera (

http://escortaphrodite.com/gallery/info531.html

) : very good meeting and probably my pubic area was never been as well taken care as it was with Vera's mouth.

But back to the thread's theme, when I was home I ran out of energy and needed probably more than 10 hours of sleep! So, I wondered again about the fact that some ladies apparently made me stronger while others made me weaker (of course, I should repeat the "experience" many times with these particular ladies to limit the interference of other factors).

Etc.I met this lady again yesterday (Saturday) , close to metro Monge in Paris ("Quartier Latin") where, according to her plan, she will stay until around January 11th :

http://escortguide.tv/fr/escorte/23211/Vera_4you

http://www.6annonce.com/escort/Vera_4you-36029?from=regular_list

This time I felt stronger when I left and didn't need 10 hours of sleep to revover myself : "things change"!

Happy new year to all