Tips and techniques for sexually arousing women and making them orgasm [Archive]

Dan7373

01-23-16, 13:44

According to Dr. Patti Britton, PhD, clinical sexologist and co-founder of SexCoachU.com, you should lie perpendicular to the woman and lick across her clitoris, rather than lie between her legs and lick her clitoris up and down. Because women are 50% more likely to orgasm, when you lick across their clitoris, rather than up and down.

This sex-tip is very surprising for me. Because I've never seen any guy lick across the woman's clitoris in porn-movies. And my own instinct is also to go in between the woman's open legs and lick her up and down, rather than across.

But now that I think about it, I can see why licking across might work better than licking up and down. When the lady opens her legs for you, and you spread her pussy for licking, then most of your licking ends up below her clitoris, rather than on it. Licking her pussy lips and inside her open vulva might feel mildly pleasant for the lady. But this isn't nearly enough to bring her to orgasm. What the lady needs is a good licking of her clitoris. And that's what she gets, when you lie perpendicular to the lady and lick her clitoris from side to side. This position forces you to concentrate your licking on the woman's clitoris and discourages you from spending much time and effort on the less sensitive parts of her vulva.

On a personal note, I'd like to add that if you are going to have your mouth and tongue on the woman's clitoris, then you might as well give her a good "clitoral-kiss" once in a while. A clitoral-kiss is when you seal your lips around the woman's clitoris and create some negative air pressure around it with your cheeks. This negative air pressure gives the lady an instant clitoral erection and the pleasant sensation associated with it. It works the same way as when the lady seals her lips around your cock and creates some negative air pressure around it with her cheeks.

http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/orgasm-almanac-rock-her-world/slide/8

Dan7373

01-24-16, 14:21

Dr. Patti Britton, PhD, clinical sexologist and co-founder of SexCoachU.com, says that you should rock with your cock, rather than pound, when you are having sex with your lady. Because this will make it more pleasant for her.

http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/orgasm-almanac-rock-her-world/slide/9

I think what she means to say is that instead of plunging in an out of the lady's pussy in a straight line, you should go deep inside during your ride and then use your cock to move her pussy around, up and down and from side to side. The stretching and the moving of her pussy stimulates her clitoris and makes it very pleasant for her. If you make this rocking action rhythmic and repetitive, then it might be enough to make her orgasm.

I've tried a variation of this with a Thai lady. I took her pussy in the missionary position and then used my legs to bring her legs close together, with my cock still deep inside her pussy. Her pussy gripped my cock so tightly that I couldn't slide in and out of her anymore. When I moved my cock, then I moved her pussy, instead of sliding in or out. So, I just lay on top of her and rocked my hips to move her pussy with my cock in a rhythmic way. After a few minutes of this, she begged me to stop and give her a couple of minutes to rest. She said that she orgasmed, and she needed a short break.

She seemed to really like what I did with her. But the funny thing was, I had no idea that she orgasmed, until she told me. Apparently, women's orgasms aren't always violent and obvious. Or perhaps, she was trying to be lady-like, and she controlled her orgasmic reaction enough to hide it.

And I have to admit that my rocking sex-action was all for her pleasure and not for mine. My pleasure was mostly psychological. Because my cock was so firmly anchored inside her pussy that I was just jerking on her pussy with my cock, without moving in and out of her at all. I didn't feel much physical pleasure in this sex action. But after she asked me for a break and told me that she orgasmed, then I waited a couple of minutes, as she asked, and then I used my legs to spread her legs wide apart to get her into the traditional missionary position, and I nailed her pussy for my own pleasure the way guys usually do.

The lesson I've learned from this experience is that using your cock to rock the lady's pussy doesn't give much physical pleasure for the guy. It's almost like doing cunnilingus on the lady. The lady gets most of the physical pleasure. You do it for the lady and not for yourself. But once you make her orgasm, then you can give her a short break and nail her the traditional way for your own pleasure. It's okay to take turns at having pleasure, rather than try to make it simultaneous and not do a good job of it.

Captain Solo

01-24-16, 15:27

A very cute, petite, sexy and verbal girl in Tijuana, named Zwannee, was coaching me how to arouse and give girls pleasures.

She prefers a tongue or a wet finger, gently caressing either sides of the clitoris, not directly on the clitoris, but on the sides. She said it really drives girls horny. A girl in Hollywood had problems getting orgasms, despite a couple drawers full of powered sex toys. She said when she's aroused, her clit would become too sensitive and painful to the touch. I was kissing her, alternately licking and sucking her nipples, and caressing the sides of her clit for half hour before she had her shuddering orgasms. She was embracing and kissing me, almost crying, thanking me endlessly. From then on, I would warm her up with foreplay and vaginal intercourse, then give her orgasms with my finger on her clit.

The G spot inside the vagina under the pelvic bone is allegedly a very erotic area, probably the main source of arousal and orgasms. A virgin girl friend would not let me penetrate, but asked me to apply pressure with the flat of my palm on her pelvic bone and shove it around. She got roaring wet and came every time. I would then lay my engorge dick on her pelvic bone and ride her that way.

With a pretty Mexican girl, I would suck on her nipples and insert my index finger deep into her vagina, gently caressing the textured area on the roof, allegedly the G spot. After 2 minutes, she would get very wet; her whole body would go limp; her eyes close shut, but her face would twitch and contort with pleasures.

Another Mexican girl, pretty like a movie star, would enjoy the treatment so much, she would be gasping, her eyes roll back all white, mouth gape open, head roll left and right. She would talk some of the sexiest things to me out loud. She's one of the best fucks in my life. I miss this sexy little girl so much.

Caucasian and Mexican / Spanish girls tend to be far more expressive in beds, making sex with them more satisfying compared to Asians, who are taught to hold back emotions and expressions, My experiences are empirical but my sex theories may be full of shit.

BionicMan

01-24-16, 17:35

Dan7373

01-25-16, 15:03

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The G spot inside the vagina under the pelvic bone is allegedly a very erotic area, probably the main source of arousal and orgasms. A virgin girl friend would not let me penetrate, but asked me to apply pressure with the flat of my palm on her pelvic bone and shove it around. She got roaring wet and came every time. I would then lay my engorge dick on her pelvic bone and ride her that way....
I think the so-called G-spot is actually the woman's clitoris. It's a just different name for the same thing. Because if you look at the woman's anatomy picture that I've attached below, then you will see that the woman's clitoris is just below her pubic bone, which is where the G-spot is also reportedly located.

I've attached another picture that shows the woman's clitoral anatomy. And this picture shows that most of the woman's clitoris is internal. Her clitoral tissue goes under her pubic bone and splits up into two parts that form her external pussy-lips.

The woman's clitoris is actually similar to the man's cock in terms of its parts. The head of the woman's clitoris is the external part that you see. And it's equivalent to the head of the man's cock in terms of its pleasure and sensitivity. And the internal parts of the woman's clitoris are equivalent to the shaft of the man's cock. They get erect, and they produce a feeling for the woman, but they are less sensitive than the head of her clitoris.

And of course, the reason why a woman's clitoris can be so sensitive, more sensitive than the head of a man's cock, is because the woman has the same number of nerve endings in the head of her clitoris as a guy has in the head of his cock. Her nerve endings are concentrated in a much smaller area, which makes it more sensitive.

Using the flat of my hand to massage the woman's whole pussy is actually my favorite way to arouse a woman sexually and possibly bring her to orgasm. I've learned to do it this way from my Thai massage ladies. Because I noticed that whenever my Thai lady spread her legs and massaged me with her pussy a lot, then she would get wet and ready for the ride with me that followed. These ladies weren't just pleasing me by massaging me with their pussies. They were getting themselves wet and ready for the ride with me. This clearly worked for my massage ladies.

And that's how I got the idea of massaging the woman's whole pussy with the flat of my hand. When a Thai lady massages you with her pussy, then she massages you with her whole pussy and not any specific part of it. And that's the way I do it, when I lay the flat of my hand on the woman's pussy. I basically re-create the woman's pussy-massage experience, except I do it even better with my hand. With my hand, I can vary the speed and the pressure, and I can use my fingers to massage around her clitoris. Or I can just slide my fingers between her pussy-lips to spread them apart and use my whole hand to massage the inside of her pussy. The great thing about using your whole hand on the lady's pussy is that you cover all of the bases with her every time. Her clitoris is somewhere in there under your hand, and you are bound to massage it in some way.

Now that I recall my pussy massage experiences with various ladies, I can say that massaging the lady's pussy from side to side, rather than up and down, seems to work better for the lady. I didn't realize this before, but this is actually a confirmation of the suggestion that you should lick across the woman's clitoris, rather than up and down. Some sex-studies have found that in cunnilingus, it works better for the woman, when you lie perpendicular to the woman and lick across her clitoris. Such cunnilingus sounds awkward to me, but massaging across the woman's clitoris with your hand is no trouble at all. Side-to-side is even easier to do, than massaging her pussy up and down.

Captain Solo

01-25-16, 20:41

Well, at least we agree that the G spot exists, and is on the upper vaginal path, under the pelvic bone. It's part of the vagina, whereas the clitoris is the tiny protruded knob inside a hood.

The girls get very aroused, and most times reach powerful climax, when I caress that spot with my index finger.

I think the male penis evolved into a long shaft, with and upward curve, and a cap at the end, a perfect shape to manipulate that specific G spot in female's vagina. Males are just equipped with the right tools to attract and retain females.

I think the so-called G-spot is actually the woman's clitoris. It's a just different name for the same thing. Because if you look at the woman's anatomy picture that I've attached below, then you will see that the woman's clitoris is just below her pubic bone, which is where the G-spot is also reportedly located.

Dan7373

01-26-16, 13:18

I accidentally clicked the delete link for Beno69's message, when my intention was to reply.

I didn't even realize that I could delete anybody's messages here.

I'll try to be more careful with my clicks in the future. Because this deletion happened without any warning or any request for confirmation.

Beno69 disagreed with me about what the G-Spot is. And I realize that many people still believe in its existence. But I find it hard to believe in something that contradicts the latest medical and scientific studies on this subject. Because science is usually right, especially when there are a number of studies saying the same thing and not just one study.

http://www.salon.com/2014/09/16/the_truth_about_the_g_spot_why_its_time_to_put_this_sex_myth_to_bed_partner/

Dan7373

01-26-16, 14:58

Barry Komisaruk, PhD, a behavioral neuroscientist at Rutgers University and author of The Science of Orgasm, says that the doggy position works better than the missionary position for pleasing women and making them orgasm.

http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/orgasm-almanac-rock-her-world/slide/9

When the lady bends her hips, then this results in better contact between her clitoris and your cock. But the thing I really like about the doggy position is that you can easily reach with your hand between your lady's thighs and finger her clit, while you are nailing her pussy with your cock. As long as you have some lube on your hand, then you can make it very pleasant for the lady.

This might actually be a good way to prolong your sex with the lady, when she allows you only one cumshot with her. Because when you get close to cumming with her, then you can just stop and stay inside her with your cock, while you finger her clit. And then you can bang her some more, until it's time to take another break.

It's awkward to stop and just stay inside the lady with your cock, without doing anything. But if you are fingering your lady's clit every time you stop, then this isn't awkward at all. You are just pleasing the sexy girl. And you can last this way with her for a long time indeed, even when she allows you only one cumshot with her.

Delay while you play, and then bang her some more. That's the way to last, when your sex is hard-and-fast.

Some people would say that slowing with the lady and doing her nice and slow is the way to last for a long time with her. But this doesn't work well in practice for a lot of guys. Because your peak pleasure with the lady is when you are banging her hard-and-fast. And there is no way you can feel such pleasure with the lady, when you slow down with her. Slowing down with the lady often means that you don't get much pleasure with her. Which is no good for guys.

The ideal situation is when you bang your lady hard-and-fast and achieve your peak pleasure with her. Then you stop, before you pop, and you play with her clit to give yourself some time to recover. And then you bang the lady some more to achieve another peak pleasure with her. This way you can have many peak pleasures with your lady. Which is a lot better than slowing down with the lady and not feeling much pleasure with her at all.

Goatscrot

01-26-16, 15:27

I think the so-called G-spot is actually the woman's clitoris. It's a just different name for the same thing. Because if you look at the woman's anatomy picture that I've attached below, then you will see that the woman's clitoris is just below her pubic bone, which is where the G-spot is also reportedly located.Actually 2 different sites Dan. The G-Spot in inside the vagina.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-spot

Dan7373

01-26-16, 15:51

Actually 2 different sites Dan. The G-Spot in inside the vagina.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-spotThe thing a lot of guys don't realize about the woman's clitoris is that most of it is internal, inside her vulval tissues. The visible part of the woman's clitoris is only a small part of her clitoris.

Which is my point about the G-Spot. How do you know that you aren't stimulating the internal part of the woman's clitoris, when you find her so-called G-Spot?

Goatscrot

01-26-16, 16:17

The thing a lot of guys don't realize about the woman's clitoris is that most of it is internal, inside her vulval tissues. The visible part of the woman's clitoris is only a small part of her clitoris.

Which is my point about the G-Spot. How do you know that you aren't stimulating the internal part of the woman's clitoris, when you find her so-called G-Spot?Dan, they are two different anatomical structures. The G-Spot is pretty easy to find as the tissue feels quite different from the rest of the vaginal wall. It stands out so to speak. I would imagine that the nerves are close but not the same.

Dan7373

01-26-16, 16:41

Dan, they are two different anatomical structures. The G-Spot is pretty easy to find as the tissue feels quite different from the rest of the vaginal wall. It stands out so to speak. I would imagine that the nerves are close but not the same.All I can say is that I believe medical researchers and scientists a lot more than the opinion of any lay people.

Because science has proven itself so many times that it simply doesn't make sense for me to doubt what scientists say, unless you can point out some flaw in their studies and experiments.

You aren't even trying to point out what's wrong with their studies. Which makes your objection not serious.

Here are some of the studies and their results:

http://www.nature.com/nrurol/journal/v11/n9/full/nrurol.2014.193.html

http://www.thelocal.it/20140826/the-g-spot-doesnt-exist-italian-scientist

http://www.livescience.com/17977-spot-science-find-60-years-study.html

BionicMan

01-26-16, 22:42

Beno69

01-27-16, 11:25

And I realize that many people still believe in its existence. But I find it hard to believe in something that contradicts the latest medical and scientific studies on this subject. Because science is usually right, especially when there are a number of studies saying the same thing and not just one study.

I think this study is more a myth than the G spot!

About 60% of my African Girlfriends are squirting -means I massage them with 2 Fingers about 5-6 cm inside pussy up / down. Something getting swolen, then you start make around the clit with your cock. Soon you will have a lake in your bed. Take enough towels under your Girls body.

In Europe maybe 1 % can squirt, because they are to busy thinking the howl day instead of making good sex.

Raju 1974

01-27-16, 16:53

The Clitoris originates from the pubic bone, whereas vagina lies in the pelvic diaphragm. The internal part of clitoris can't go in the anterior wall of vagina.

Therefore the clitoris cannot be stimulated from inside vagina and has to be stimulated from outside only. The pubic bone (part of pelvic bone) lies behind the clitoris so when it is pressed it is pressed against the pubic bone, and has no relation with the vaginal wall.

The thing a lot of guys don't realize about the woman's clitoris is that most of it is internal, inside her vulval tissues. The visible part of the woman's clitoris is only a small part of her clitoris.

Which is my point about the G-Spot. How do you know that you aren't stimulating the internal part of the woman's clitoris, when you find her so-called G-Spot?

LukeSkywalker

01-27-16, 23:13

You are saying the clitoris is above and the G spot is below the pelvic bone, and the 2 are separated by it?

So if you apply pressure on the pelvic bone, you are stimulating both the clit and the G Spot?

The girls in my experience can get orgasms by this stimulation. The Hitachi wand on top of the bone probably works wonder.

The Clitoris originates from the pubic bone, whereas vagina lies in the pelvic diaphragm. The internal part of clitoris can't go in the anterior wall of vagina.

Therefore the clitoris cannot be stimulated from inside vagina and has to be stimulated from outside only. The pubic bone (part of pelvic bone) lies behind the clitoris so when it is pressed it is pressed against the pubic bone, and has no relation with the vaginal wall.

Dan7373

01-28-16, 13:38

You are saying the clitoris is above and the G spot is below the pelvic bone, and the 2 are separated by it?

So if you apply pressure on the pelvic bone, you are stimulating both the clit and the G Spot?

The girls in my experience can get orgasms by this stimulation. The Hitachi wand on top of the bone probably works wonder.If it works in pleasing the women, then whether you call it G-Spot or clitoris makes no difference.

It's only scientists and medical doctors who need to know for sure what exactly is in there. Because this can make a difference for surgery and other medical treatments.

I'm just surprised that so many people insist on believing one gynecologist from 1950, rather than a number of modern doctors and researchers, who have much better technology and more knowledge, than Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg had in 1950.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ernst_Gr%C3%A4fenberg

Dan7373

01-28-16, 15:36

One sex-advice you get on the Internet is that you need to multi-task with the lady to make it extra pleasant for her. Because according to Barry Komisaruk, PhD, a behavioral neuroscientist at Rutgers University and author of The Science of Orgasm, stimulating different erogenous zones activates different pleasure centers in the woman's brain. Which means that one pleasure adds to another and makes it more pleasant for the lady.

http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/orgasm-almanac-rock-her-world/slide/7

And I can say from my own experience that when a woman has sensitive breasts, then I need to massage her pussy and clit with one hand, while I'm hold one of her tits with my other hand and suck on her nipple. This is the only way I know how to make it pleasant for the woman with sensitive breasts. I think this might be the thing to do with every lady. Because not every woman with sensitive breasts will complain or show discomfort. Some women might hide it to please the guy.

The only thing I don't like about such multi-tasking is that it makes my tit-sucking experience less than optimal. I can't hold both of the lady's breasts at the same time and focus my full attention on them. And recent research actually says that there is no such thing as true multi-tasking. People just rapidly switch their attention from one task to another, which often leads to increased mistakes and decreased efficiency.

http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0, 20707868_2,00. Html.

Perhaps a better way to multi-task with a pretty lady is to go after her tits, when you have your cock inside her pussy. You are still going to get distracted and probably slow down inside her pussy. But this might actually be something you need to do once in a while. Because to achieve your peak pleasure with the lady, you need to bang her hard-and-fast for increased stimulation. But then you need to slow down with her and take it easy for a short while. Or else you won't last long with her.

Dan7373

01-28-16, 16:58

I was appalled to read that one of the top complaints among women is their guy lasting only 5-15 minutes with them during sexual intercourse. Because I've seldom lasted longer than 5-10 minutes. This has always been a problem for me, because I like the lady so much that it's hard for me to slow down with her.

Here is what the author says about this complaint among women:

He orgasms too quickly.
Size doesn't matter nearly as much as you think it does. Longevity matters much, much more. A quickie in the bathroom at the Pulse or on the hood of the car in the middle of the woods should last 5-15 minutes, but anything in the bedroom/shower/one the floor/kitchen counter needs at least 45. If you can't help getting off quick, you have two choices: masturbate before you go, and you'll last longer, or be prepared to go again in 15 minutes.
http://www.angelfire.com/nc3/subchaos/columns/se/complaints.html
It's easy to say that you should last longer. Doing it is a lot harder, at least for somebody who doesn't know how to do it.

But now that I think about it, I recall one time when I took a Thai lady from a go-go place for short-time in the room upstairs. And while I was there, I could clearly hear some guy above me really nailing his sexy lady. My Thai lady kept pointing at the ceiling and giggling about it. Because she said that it was her friend who was getting nailed like that.

I didn't think much about it at the time. But now I realize that this guy was nailing his sexy lady when I came into my room, and he was still nailing her when I left close to an hour later. He really took his time with her and lasted for a long time with her.

I think the reason why this guy lasted for such a long time with his lady is because of the way he nailed her. From what I could hear, he pounded her like a stormy ocean pounds the beach. He would come at her like a big wave, and nail her hard-and-fast. Their bed would be creaking all over the place. Then he would slow down with her, and the bed creaking would almost stop. You might think that he is finished. But no, he comes at her again like another big wave and pounds her hard-and-fast.

He was basically banging his lady hard enough to come close to orgasm with her, then he would stop to decrease his arousal with her and wait until he could bang her hard-and-fast again and come close to orgasm again. He was repeating this pattern again and again, and that's how he managed to last for such a long time with his lady.

I think any guy can do this kind of thing. You don't need any special powers to last for a long time with your lady like this. A lot of guys probably masturbate like this, when they watch porn, so that their pleasure lasts for a long time.

I can say for myself that I usually pick a lady who is good-looking enough to be out of my league. And that's where my problem starts. I feel like she is doing me a favor, and I need to finish quickly with her to avoid offending her. I don't have enough self-confidence to nail her for a long time, the way that guy nailed his lady.

Self-confidence is probably the thing to work on for guys who can't last for a long time with their lady. Because there is nothing difficult or complicated about the way that guy nailed his lady for a good hour or so. Any guy can do this. But you do need to be confident with the lady to nail her like this.

Dan7373

02-02-16, 13:51

It's normal for guys to start masturbating themselves, when they see a hot lady get naked in a porn film. But doing something like this in front of a lady who gets naked with you is a lot more difficult to do. You really need to lose your inhibitions to be able to do something like this. But according to some women, it's a turn on for them to see a guy masturbate himself in front of them.

One woman says,

"I know it may sound strange, but watching my boyfriend get himself off is such a turn on. I'll start by lying down naked next him, my body against his, and play with his member until he gets hard. Then I put his hand down there and just rub my body against him and watch. I think it makes me so hot 'cause it's kind of taboo, something he would do in private, but I also like actually seeing how much I turn him on. "

Leslie, 25.
http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/15-sex-tips-from-the-bedrooms-of-real-women

Of course the trick is to look at the woman and not at some porn picture, when you masturbate yourself in front of a lady. Because you want to show her that you like her and not some other lady. You liking some other lady can be a turn-off for her.

Dan7373

02-03-16, 14:37

It might come as a surprise for some guys that their kind of porn can be a turn on for women too. I've read some interviews of female porn-stars, where the guy asked the women what kind of porn they watch, if any. And some women mentioned lesbian, anal, DP, and gang-bang as their favorite scenes to watch.

None of these women mentioned the "porn for couples" that you often see at porn websites. And this was a revelation for me. Because this "porn for couples" idea makes you think that women are too sensitive and too delicate to be shown the graphic sex acts that guys like to watch. It's a kind of sexist attitude towards porn-watching.

Perhaps P4P ladies are similar to porn-stars, because they are professional sex-workers, and they are more into sex with guys than other women are.

I think showing the lady a short porn-clip on your smartphone to tell her what you'd like to do is a good way to turn her on and avoid communication problems with her. And it's a good way to show the lady what other women can do, so that she will try to do it too. It can be like a sex-education kind of porn-clip for the lady, if it's something she hasn't done before.

A gif picture or a short clip on your smartphone can often show the lady positions and sex-acts that are hard to explain with words. And it can be a turn-on for the lady too. When you show the lady what some other hot woman has done with a guy, then this might turn-on your lady and get her to try it, even if she hasn't done it before.

Syzygies

02-04-16, 03:38

Dan7373

02-04-16, 15:16

Believe me, although all the sex books never mention it, it can be a problem to last too long. ...According to one survey, 80% of both men and women wanted their sex to last longer than it actually did. And popular Men's and Women's magazines are both full of advice about how to make your sex last longer.

http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html

I think it's much more common for men to orgasm too quickly, rather than not quickly enough. Lasting longer than you want is so unusual that sex and health experts don't even talk about it in the media.

But it's true that if you are using a condom and your lube dries out, then you can potentially injure the lady due to too much friction. It's a problem with poor lubrication, rather than sex lasting too long. Because poorly lubricated sex is bad for the lady, even if it lasts only for one minute.

Some articles on this subject say that the woman's vagina can absorb water from the lube, and that's what causes it to dry out. And such water absorption is even more of a problem during anal sex. Because the rectum normally absorbs water. And of course, the way to solve such a problem is to spread more lube on your condom and splash on some water too, before you go back inside for another ride. All you need is some water in there to rehydrate the lube and make it slippery again.

Nobody wants unpleasant sex to last for any length of time. But when the sex is pleasant, then it's only natural that people want to make it last longer. Because virtually everybody wants their pleasure to last longer, regardless of whether this pleasure is sexual or not.

I've always had a problem with lasting less than I wanted, which is the kind of problem most men have, according to the media. It is a disappointment to meet some new hot chick, look forward to nailing her with your dick, but then you last with her less than 5 minutes, and she is finished with you. This is the more usual scenario to have. And I'd say from my own experience that it's even more difficult to last, when the lady is really hot, and you are doing it with for the first time ever. Because you are so excited about nailing her, that you simply can't last with her.

It's true that if you just stay inside the lady with your cock, without moving at all, then you aren't going to cum with her. It's your nailing of the lady that makes you cum with her. I've tried slowing down with the lady to last longer with her. But I found that this usually doesn't work for me. I always end up nailing the lady too hard and too fast anyway and cumming with her right there and then.

The only thing that worked for me is stopping inside the lady completely and taking a break inside her pussy, without moving my cock inside her at all. But then I ran into another problem. The lady asked me what was wrong, when I stopped and waited inside her pussy with my cock. This wasn't a good situation for me to start explaining myself to her. So, I just started banging her again, I quickly lost control inside this sexy girl, and I didn't last with her at all.

I think the trick is to make it pleasant for the lady, when you take a break inside her pussy with your cock. In the doggy position and in the reverse-cowgirl position, you can easily massage your lady's clitoris with your fingers and hand to keep her entertained, while you rest your cock inside her pussy. And you have a good alibi, if the lady asks you, "Why did you stop? You can tell her that you aren't good at multi-tasking. You can either finger her clit and hold her tit or nail her pussy, but not both at the same time.

And of course, it's often a bad idea to withdraw your cock from the lady's pussy and take a rest this way. You need to stay inside her pussy, if you intend to nail her some more later on. Because once you withdraw from the lady, then you might not be in a good position to penetrate her again. Language and communication problems can arise. And you might lose your erection with her, by the time you sort this out with her.

When you are inside the lady, then you have her consent and her permission to keep nailing her for as long as you stay inside her. But once you withdraw your cock from the lady and she goes out of position with you, then you need her consent, her permission, and her position all over again. It's like you've worked so hard to get your cock inside her pussy, and you don't want to risk ending your sex prematurely with her, due to some misunderstanding.

The only time it might okay to withdraw from the lady is when both of you agree that you need more lube, and she will take you back inside for another ride. This is something to agree upon, before you withdraw from the lady.

Syzygies

02-05-16, 07:13

But it's true that if you are using a condom and your lube dries out, then you can potentially injure the lady due to too much friction. It's a problem with poor lubrication, rather than sex lasting too long. Because poorly lubricated sex is bad for the lady, even if it lasts only for one minute.
I have very special aqua gel lube from overseas that does not dry out easily. Like to have it with me as its almost always better than the girl's lube if she has some. I use copious amounts of nonsticky lube to avoid dry humping at all costs. I agree poor lubrication is a killer of good sex.

The girl's natural lube from foreplay can be great, but can last only so long before condoms start to rub too much. In my case, I fuck too long for natural lube to be enough with most girls. Ocassionally meet a girl with extremely long lasting natural lube, perhaps from getting orgasms or being very close to orgasm, when girls tend to juice up extra.

Dan7373

02-05-16, 13:36

I have very special aqua gel lube from overseas that does not dry out easily. Like to have it with me as its almost always better than the girl's lube if she has some. I use copious amounts of nonsticky lube to avoid dry humping at all costs. I agree poor lubrication is a killer of good sex.

The girl's natural lube from foreplay can be great, but can last only so long before condoms start to rub too much. In my case, I fuck too long for natural lube to be enough with most girls. Ocassionally meet a girl with extremely long lasting natural lube, perhaps from getting orgasms or being very close to orgasm, when girls tend to juice up extra.I found from my experience that ordinary water-based lube from Durex isn't that slippery when you put it on. But if you add some water to it with a wet hand, then it becomes very slippery.

I think this Durex lube is concentrated a little too much, and this is actually good for putting it on. But then you need to add some water on top of it with a wet hand to make it very slippery.

The big advantage of using locally sold lube is that you can buy it anywhere, and you won't run out of it. And it works really well too, if you understand that it's a little too concentrated, and you need to add some water to it. If you put on a lot of this lube, then it becomes not only slippery but also hard to wash off. Which means that you can just splash on some water and make it very slippery, without washing it off.

My best experience with this lube happened when I was play-fighting with my Thai girlfriend in our bedroom, face-to-face and toe-to-toe. She was grabbing my cock in an aggressive kind of way, like she was a lady-boy, or something like that. And I lubed up her pussy with my hand in the middle of it. Then I dipped my hand in some water for some slipping-and-sliding with my hand on her pussy. She was so slippery down there that there was almost no friction at all. Which led to a very fast pussy-massage for her. My hand was slipping and sliding all over her pussy like greased lightning.

I thought this was pretty good. But then came something even better. She got the biggest pussy-erection I've ever felt with my hand on a lady. And I say felt with my hand, because we were standing face-to-face and toe-to-toe. I couldn't see her pussy. I could only feel her pussy with my hand. And apparently she felt her big pussy erection too, without even touching herself. Because she said that I made her have "big pussy", and she acted a little ashamed about it.

It was like she wanted her big pussy-erection to go away, but she was at a loss about how to do it. Then she suddenly knew what to do. She told me with some annoyance in her voice to put on a condom and nail her pussy with my cock. She groaned like she had a painful muscle spasm, and she yelled at me, "Quickly!"

I hurried up, and that's when I really got to see just how big her pussy-erection was. Not only were her pussy lips and clit protruding and hard, but her vagina was wide open too. I went for the penetration, and this was probably the easiest penetration I've ever had with a lady. She was really opened up down there. And she was right, of course, about me nailing her pussy with my cock to make her huge pussy-erection go away. She relaxed her pussy little by little, as I banged her. By the time I orgasmed with her, her pussy was back to normal, and she was back to her normal self too.

I think my Thai lady had such a huge pussy-erection that it was painful for her, and that's why she acted this way.

Syzygies

02-05-16, 14:33

She was grabbing my cock in an aggressive kind of way, like she was a lady-boy, or something like that. Really? Is that what LBs do? I would not like that. You could be over generalising there. I don't have the experience to know if LBs are like that, but I have met the odd one or two who acts very lady like (without any sex play involved).

If LBs want to be a lady, they have to act like one as best they can.

Thanks for the tip of thinning out Durex Play lube. I will try that if my good stuff runs out. Might be better than using saliva.

LukeSkywalker

02-05-16, 15:29

Syzygies

02-07-16, 13:15

Too much water may eliminate all friction. I prefer just a little lube to prevent pain to the girls but maintain adequate friction for pleasure.Assuming you are using a condom, you have to bear in mind that condom is rubbing on her but moves with you, so she gets the higher levels of friction. Lube is necessary to avoid latex rubbing too much unless you fuck rather short duration. Sometimes pussies are narrow and rather tight fit requiring extra lube to be possible.

Have met the odd girl that did not want lube as it weakened her pussy's grip on the dick, like she did not want the dick to be able to slide too much, but this is a bit unusual.

BB sex is a whole different story. Maybe somewhat less requirement for lube with a smooth self lubricated pussy.

Dan7373

02-07-16, 13:21

Had very long sessions with a few hos in Saigon in January, primarily because the girls were not attractive and sexy enough to excite me to come. They would dry out along the way.

To restart, the girls would lick their index finger then rub lightly on the hood of their clitoris. Their pussies would get wet again and ready for re-penetration. I have seen many hos in the US do the same thing to get wet for sex.

Too much water may eliminate all friction. I prefer just a little lube to prevent pain to the girls but maintain adequate friction for pleasure.I don't quite see the point of having sex with a lady whom I don't find especially sexy and attractive. If I can't find a lady I like, then I simply don't have sex, and I keep looking, until I find someone I like.

Perhaps that's my problem with not lasting long enough. I really like every lady I go for, and that's why I have trouble lasting with her.

And eliminating all friction is actually something I like. Because this is when I can really nail the hot chick with my dick like I mean it, without any fear of hurting her, or me cumming prematurely with her.

I think sexual arousal and excitement is infectious between people the same way as good mood is infectious or sadness. When you are with somebody who laughs all the time, then you are likely to be in a better mood too. And if somebody is sad to the point of crying, then you don't feel so good either. And that's the way it works for sexual excitement too, when you are with a lady. She influences you, and you influence her with your feelings and not just with your actions.

And that's why I say that sexually arousing your lady is a way to increase your own sexual excitement and enjoyment too.

This is something I learned from my experience with one massage lady in Thailand. I liked her so much that I thought she was out of my league in terms of her looks, and I wasn't quite sure just how much she wanted to be with me. Which made me nervous and unable to fully get it up with her, when it came to sex.

Most women in this situation wouldn't know what to do. Or they would just leave it up to the guy to do something about it, because this isn't their problem. But my Thai lady knew immediately what to do, and she acted a little annoyed about it too. Because she knew that she was in for a real fuck with me and not for some easy and routine stuff.

She was in the missionary position, with her legs spread apart. And she basically told me to play her pussy with my hand. And she showed me how with a flat hand in a circular motion around her clitoris. I went for it with my hand, while sucking her tits with my mouth. I could feel her wetness and her sexual excitement increasing. And pretty soon she was breathing heavily and urging me to nail her pussy with my cock. Because by this time I had a raging erection, and she was close to orgasm.

Her obvious sexual arousal and excitement was so infectious for me that I got a huge erection and nailed her really well. There is nothing like a sexually aroused woman to excite a guy. This is the biggest turn-on for a guy, especially if he is the one who arouses her. Because this is when you know for sure that this hot chick wants your dick, and she welcomes you inside for the cocky ride.

I came to see this lady several times more. And every time I went after her pussy with my hand, just like she showed me before. Wet and breathing heavily she got with me every time. And I would keep doing it, until I could see that she was struggling to hold back her orgasm. She literally had to pull me on top to get me to nail her with my cock.

This hot lady was on the verge of losing control during her ball every time with me. That's why I liked nailing her so much. And she probably knew that this was coming, when she showed me how to go after her pussy with my hand. She probably did this with other guys before, and these guys really nailed her every time.

I think sexual arousal and excitement is so infectious that you can't have much fun with your lady, unless you go out of your way to arouse her with good foreplay. Her lack of excitement makes you less excited. But if you arouse her, then this in itself is arousing for you too.

LukeSkywalker

02-07-16, 20:46

The creator of the universe is indeed superior in his / her intelligence and creativity to have designed fool-proof reproduction organs for human and all species.

Nothing feels better for both men and women than fucking bare back with natural lubrication. Upon insertion, there is a little pain for both parties to awaken sensation, but after that the most blissful pleasures take over the entire body and mind. A number of girl friends have told me this. That's why despite all clever birth control devices, methods and all sorts of complex sex toys, men and women still prefer to fuck bare back, and women are still getting pregnant.

Guys should think seriously about having tubal ligation to tie up the sperms, so they can fuck bareback every girls they can get their paws on. Hehe. My MD friends kept telling me tubal ligation won't change or reduce males' sex drive, but I don't know how much I can trust these fuckers. For all I know the assholes may be all scheming to render my dick dead, so they can get their paws on my beautiful, sexy and lustful GFs. Hehehe.

BB sex is a whole different story. Maybe somewhat less requirement for lube with a smooth self lubricated pussy.

Captain Solo

02-07-16, 21:08

I had a couple girl friends who showed me how to arouse them by lots of caressing, kissing, licking, biting their bodies, also licking and flicking the tongue or a lubed finger gently on their clitoris. Most would come violently, bouncing off the bed, when I suck on their tits while manipulating their clitoris and their G spots with combination of the thumb and middle finger. Their pussies would be swollen, soft and wet. So grateful, they would pull me on top for some hard and fast fucking. After those sessions, it's hard to get rid of those women. They keep calling for years.

Some also like to have the palm pressured against their pussy and move the whole pussy around in circular motion. They also can get off with a vibrating wand on top of the pelvic bone. The trick is not to make them come, because they would enjoy it less, and may not even be able to climax when you penetrate with your dick.

A few Mexican girls in Tijuana also taught me how their preferred ways to arouse them before sex. Despite fucking many guys everyday they still enjoy sex and can climax with guys. They would ask me to slow down so they can enjoy it more and longer. Some girls get delirious in their orgasms, their mouths gaping open, panting, moaning, their eyes rolled back, squeezing and clawing my back in their ecstasy.

I do have a few hot sessions every week with these sexy Mexican chicas.

I think sexual arousal and excitement is so infectious that you can't have much fun with your lady, unless you go out of your way to arouse her with good foreplay. Her lack of excitement makes you less excited. But if you arouse her, then this in itself is arousing for you too.

Dan7373

02-08-16, 14:22

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Some also like to have the palm pressured against their pussy and move the whole pussy around in circular motion. They also can get off with a vibrating wand on top of the pelvic bone. The trick is not to make them come, because they would enjoy it less, and may not even be able to climax when you penetrate with your dick....
I'd say from my own experience that using the palm of your hand to move the lady's whole pussy in circular motion and from side-to-side is the easiest and the most reliable technique for arousing any lady.

It works because you cover all the bases with the lady, including her clitoris. And you do it without much friction for her. Her stimulation comes from her pussy moving and stretching and you pressing on it with you hand, rather than from rubbing.

When you do it this way, then you don't need to worry about too much friction for the lady. Which means that you can do it this way for a long time with her, long enough to make her orgasm. Other techniques that involve massaging or rubbing can become uncomfortable for the lady if you do it for a little too long, or if your lube dries out. But just moving the lady's pussy around with the palm of your hand doesn't run into any such problems.

The only thing you need to pay attention to is how much pressure you put with your hand on her pussy. Because too little pressure won't do much for her. But too much pressure can make it uncomfortable for her. You need to get it just right. Which means that you need to pay attention to her reactions and adjust accordingly.

I find that the best way to get good feedback from the lady about how well your pussy-massage with her is going is to make a lot of body-to-body contact with her, while your are moving her pussy around with the palm of your hand. Because then you can feel every little tension and movement she makes, which tells you a lot about how much she enjoys or doesn't enjoy your action with her.

The thing about ladies showing you how to do it is that they might not have experimented with this kind of stuff enough to know what's most pleasant for them. If you really want to know what the lady enjoys the most, then you need to try various ways with her and pay attention to her non-verbal feedback by making a lot of body-to-body contact with her, while you do it.

You can't know what's best, until you try everything that can potentially be good. And that's the way it is for the lady with her pussy masturbation.

It's like the lady doesn't usually ask you how you want your cock sucked and handled in a hand-job. And she doesn't ask you to show her how you masturbate yourself either. She just goes ahead and does it her own way. And she learns from your reactions what works best for you. And it works best this way, because you want to experience the lady's personality and her way with you, rather than a get a bad imitation of your self-masturbation.

And I think that's the way to do it with a lady, when you go after her pussy with your hand. Show her what kind of man you are, rather than give her a bad imitation of her self-masturbation.

Syzygies

02-09-16, 05:28

Some also like to have the palm pressured against their pussy and move the whole pussy around in circular motion. They also can get off with a vibrating wand on top of the pelvic bone. The trick is not to make them come, because they would enjoy it less, and may not even be able to climax when you penetrate with your dick.
Firstly, when you get used to a girl, you get to know how many times she might cum realistically. My GF always gets one cum away within first 2 or 3 minutes of DATY. However she is not done yet. 3 or more cums is normal as she is extremely sensitive and cums very easily compared to most P4 P girls I meet. So don't assume every girl will not enjoy the following sex. However, once she has had enough, that is different. I once suggested to my GF I would change the routine sequence and do something other than DATY first up, and maybe DATY later. She did not agree. She had got too used to the DATY warm up, and did not want to change that. O.K. No problem for me. DATY is what I do best.

Also I agree some girls cum only once (if at all). It can be best to get them off at the end of the session rather than at the start. They can get warmed up by the fucking, and then be ready for something more. Problem is that most guys loose interest after already shooting their load.

For girls that like vibrators, she can use one on her clit during the normal penetration sex, so as to get off more easily while just fucking her. I know one girl who likes this double stimulation a lot. My ex wife used to only get off by my finger diddling her clit concurrent to normal penetrative fucking. Again the double stimulation was what was needed. Was slightly awkward for me at times. LOL.

LukeSkywalker

02-09-16, 08:21

It seems to me that most non-pros never have enough sex, so they are always horny. Most time when they lay down in bed they would already be aroused, their pussies already sloppy wet, ready for action. They don't really need that much stimulation for sex, unless you are doing the second or third shot, and their pussies got tense and closed shut.

With most girls, I usually start out with caressing, kissing, licking, sucking on their mouth, tits and pussies. I like DFK so I don't stay long DATY at their crotch. Sucking their tits, while simultaneously rubbing and squeezing their clits and G spots with the thumb and middle fingers, almost always bring intense and repeat spine-curling, body shaking orgasms at the large area of the clitoris structure linked to the nerves at front side of the abdomen and along the spinal column on the back.

I don't know if women can reach this intense clitoral orgasms with just DATY or sucking on the clit. The men's tongues would have to be long and strong enough to reach into the G spots. Given time I can bring them to this intense clitoral orgasms again and again, but I would get so turned on watching them, that I would have to stick my dick quickly into their pussies for my benefits.

The girls say vaginal orgasms are different, milder, more local in the vagina and the zone around the anus. Naturally they want to have both but clearly prefer the more intense clitoral. Even the pros, who fuck lots of guys everyday, can be turned on into raging sluts with this stimulation.

In porn, looks like women can also climax in the anal area by stimulation and penetration of their anus and rectum. Have not seen any women extremely aroused and climax by my anal. If women can get their rocks off big time by their anus, lots of them insist on getting fucked up their asses, but I have not seen it. They seem to just put up with it. The intensity of pleasure seems to be highest with the clitoris, then lower with the vagina and lowest with anal.

I never lasted long enough to see if I can make any girl come in all three ways. Have not searched for any studies or research into this area. Perhaps some studs can try all three ways with horny Thai girls and advise their scientific findings.

Firstly, when you get used to a girl, you get to know how many times she might cum realistically. My GF always gets one cum away within first 2 or 3 minutes of DATY. However she is not done yet. 3 or more cums is normal as she is extremely sensitive and cums very easily compared to most P4 P girls I meet. So don't assume every girl will not enjoy the following sex. However, once she has had enough, that is different. I once suggested to my GF I would change the routine sequence and do something other than DATY first up, and maybe DATY later. She did not agree. She had got too used to the DATY warm up, and did not want to change that. O.K. No problem for me. DATY is what I do best.

Also I agree some girls cum only once (if at all). It can be best to get them off at the end of the session rather than at the start. They can get warmed up by the fucking, and then be ready for something more. Problem is that most guys loose interest after already shooting their load.

For girls that like vibrators, she can use one on her clit during the normal penetration sex, so as to get off more easily while just fucking her. I know one girl who likes this double stimulation a lot. My ex wife used to only get off by my finger diddling her clit concurrent to normal penetrative fucking. Again the double stimulation was what was needed. Was slightly awkward for me at times. LOL.

Dan7373

02-09-16, 14:30

Firstly, when you get used to a girl, you get to know how many times she might cum realistically. My GF always gets one cum away within first 2 or 3 minutes of DATY. However she is not done yet. 3 or more cums is normal as she is extremely sensitive and cums very easily compared to most P4 P girls I meet. So don't assume every girl will not enjoy the following sex. However, once she has had enough, that is different. I once suggested to my GF I would change the routine sequence and do something other than DATY first up, and maybe DATY later. She did not agree. She had got too used to the DATY warm up, and did not want to change that. O.K. No problem for me. DATY is what I do best....I think people usually say "No", when they aren't sure. And it's normal not to be sure about any change in the routine. Because change isn't always good. Sometimes it makes things worse and not better.

But if you don't change anything for a long time and fall into a repeated routine, then sooner or later you will get bored with this. And you might want to look for another lady to get something different. Which can lead to heartbreak for both you and your girlfriend, if you've spent some time with her.

I think a better way to deal with this is to give the lady an 'opt-out', rather than 'opt-in' kind of choice. Just start doing something different with her and leave it up to her to say "No", if she doesn't want this. Most of the time, the lady won't say anything and go along with you. And then you just need to do it well enough to make it pleasant for her, so that she will want to do it again.

This is actually how experienced massage ladies do it with guys. They don't ask you if you want to do this or that. They just go ahead and do it. You can ask for something else, of course. But most guys, most of the time, just go along with the lady and do it the way she wants.

For example, some time ago, I repeatedly came to see the same massage lady. And every time I took her pussy for a ride in the missionary position. But then one day she totally surprised me, when she got into the doggy position for me. This was a big change for me, and I wasn't expecting it at all. But I went along with this sexy girl and nailed her in the doggy position, just like she wanted. And I enjoyed it too, even more than the missionary position.

If she had asked me about it, then I probably would've said "No". Because I didn't have much experience with the doggy position, and I wasn't sure about it. But once I did it with her, then I liked it so much that I wanted to do it again. The thing that I liked so much about the doggy position was that I could easily finger her clit with my hand, while I was nailing her pussy with my cock from behind. You can really get off a lady this way, if you are good with your hand on her clit.

Dan7373

02-09-16, 19:07

...The intensity of pleasure seems to be highest with the clitoris, then lower with the vagina and lowest with anal....I'd like to point out that this division between the lady's pussy, ass, and clit is just a mental barrier that stops you from going after all three at the same time. Here is a link to a moving GIF picture to show you what I mean:

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vhrw7nnG1ryino5o1_400.gif

Perhaps this mental division barrier comes from watching porn. Because in almost all porn-movies, the guy does only one thing with his lady. He either nails her pussy, or her ass, or he plays her pussy and clit. But you almost never see a guy do all three at the same time, the way the link above shows.

I think this anal GIF picture actually shows a pretty good pussy massage technique. Because this guy is massaging her pussy from side-to-side, the way experts recommend. And he uses pressure and stretching to stimulate her pussy and clit, rather than rubbing and friction. You can easily overstimulate the lady's clitoris and make it uncomfortable for her, if you do it with rubbing and friction.

Perhaps this guy overdoes it a little with his hand on her pussy. You might want to be a little more gentle than this. But I can say from my own experience that his overall pussy-massage technique is correct. Because this is basically the way I go after my lady's pussy with a well-lubricated hand. It's mostly side-to-side, but you need to include some circular motion too to make it less predictable and more entertaining for the lady.

I haven't yet met a lady who wouldn't orgasm with me this way. Some ladies take longer than others. But eventually they all orgasm.

Of course, it's not all in the technique. You also need to have a right frame of mind to bring your lady to orgasm with your hand. And I'd say that this right frame of mind virtually every guy already has. Basically, you need to masturbate the lady with your hand the way you would masturbate yourself. You just need to hold your hand in a different way to accommodate her different anatomy. But the rhythm, the strength, the speed, and the duration for the lady should be the same as it is for yourself.

Because when you do it this way, then you already know when to do it harder and faster, when to slow down, when to use a little more strength, and when to change the action a little and make it more interesting for her. If you hold your body close to hers, so that you are almost like one with her, then you can feel and recognize her little non-verbal reactions as being similar to what you've felt yourself, when you masturbated yourself. Towards the end, you can feel what is pleasant for her. And you just keep doing it more, until she can't hold it back anymore and orgasms with you right there and then.

I think the trick isn't just to go after the lady with your hands and your dick. You also need to adapt your extensive experience of masturbating yourself for masturbating the lady. Because only this way you instinctively know what to do and you can read her reactions too, which enables you to recognize when she is close to orgasm and finish her off, the way you finish off yourself.

Syzygies

02-11-16, 11:11

This is actually how experienced massage ladies do it with guys. They don't ask you if you want to do this or that. They just go ahead and do it. You can ask for something else, of course. But most guys, most of the time, just go along with the lady and do it the way she wants.
Not me. It doesn't take me long at all to Opt out of things the lady is doing that are just a waste of time and fiddling around for me. I like her to have fun but not so much be the director. I love "go with flow" girls.

The girl loves to start licking my nipples. I opt out. It's completely useless for me. During blow job, I have to train most girls to go extremely slow motion and soft sloppy (no teeth). Some dumb ones cannot learn to go slow enough. I don't mind licking the dick warm up, but don't like girls to continually stop the dick sucking for long periods, once she has started (very brief pause is okay). I don't like too much use of the girl's hand on the dick, especially not firmly, and fingernails are completely out of the question for me. Tickle with fingertips no nails is good. I opt out of normal massage. No use to me. I opt in to body slide massage.

I train girls with big soft tits to lightly brush their tits on my balls concurrent to sucking my cock. Yes they can reach. That is specially exquisite for me. I also train girls to tickle my balls very lightly during fucking, especially doggy, assuming their hand is not too busy diddling their clit. So I am a big believer in your comment about multiple concurrent stimulations, and I try to do that for girls always.

I don't see how we can be expected to really enjoy a session if the girl is not guided to what we like, personally. Speaking Thai really helps. All my regular girls know how I like it, and don't have to be told too much more, with the odd reminder to go extremely soft and slow. Actually I don't have a lot of extreme requirements. It is not that difficult to make me really happy.

One of my most disappointing and somewhat annoying sessions ever was Vodka at Cherry, who seemed to be too tired and could not move from mucking fiddling around to the things that would work for me. Perhaps a guy who just let her do whatever she wanted would be O.K. with the session. Same problem with number 99 at Annies. Of course neither were the slightest bit GFE. We did not hit it off at all. Hitting it off must be an extremely important factor, but I like to be the boss somewhat without being aggressive. I don't force girls to do what they don't want to do.

I also like girls to comment when am doing something they really enjoy, just right, and indicate anything that is a big turn off. It is a pity many girls are too shy to give the feed back especially when they are in ecstasy, they don't want to say so (assuming it ever happens LOL). If girls do not like fingers deep in their pussy or around their ass, they will soon pull them away. I can easily stimulate pussy concurrent with DATY using knuckle instead (if girl likes it). Yeh I just try things gently and see what she opts out of.

I always give positive feed back to the girl when she is getting it just right. Any girl can understand "yes yes, that is it, do not stop that", or "cha chaa" "slowly", or "bao bao" (softly).

I am sure that many guys, like myself would virtually never get anal, unless we asked for it. Girls don't just start trying to put it in the ass with me. I could die first if was waiting for that to just happen. There was a very rare occasion when a girl suggested it to me, usually due to pussy out of action with a problem.

Dan7373

02-12-16, 14:37

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I am sure that many guys, like myself would virtually never get anal, unless we asked for it. Girls don't just start trying to put it in the ass with me. I could die first if was waiting for that to just happen. There was a very rare occasion when a girl suggested it to me, usually due to pussy out of action with a problem.Asking the lady for anal or anything else is an opt-in approach. Because you are tying to get the lady to agree to something, rather than disagree with something you've already started doing.

And of course, I'm not suggesting that you should just go for the lady's ass with you cock and have her opt out of it, if she doesn't want it this way. Because if you don't do anything to put the lady into anal mood first, then anal sex will be so uncomfortable and unpleasant for her that for sure she will opt out of it and say a big "No!" to you.

When you are using the opt-out approach with your lady, then it works only when you make it so pleasant for her that she doesn't want you to stop. And of course, this is true for a guy too, when the lady uses an opt-out approach with him.

If you want anal with the lady, and she hasn't done it before, then a good place to start would be a cowgirl pussy ride with her. Because it's natural for a guy to hold the lady's ass-cheeks with his hands in this position. This is the time to put some lube on your hands and give her a good ass-massage, with some emphasis between her sexy ass-cheeks, so that she is lubed up really well there. And then you can gently start with one finger inside her asshole.

If you make it pleasant for the lady with well-lubricated fingers inside her ass, and she repeatedly lets you do it. Then you might want to follow up with your cock, where your fingers have already been.

It's just common sense that if you are using the opt-out approach with the lady, then the most important thing is to make it very pleasant for her, so that she will let you continue, and she won't have a good reason to opt out.

And the reason why opt-in doesn't work with an anally inexperienced lady is because she isn't even in the anal mood, when you ask her for anal. Of course, she will say "No" to you, even if she had thought about doing it before, and she might be half-willing to do it in the future.

The opt-out approach works best, when you start doing it a little at a time to avoid shocking the lady, and you make it very pleasant for her, so that she wants to continue.

Captain Solo

02-12-16, 17:27

That video shows the guy doing a lot of hard work. Not sure if anyone can really penetrate and screw anally from below. The girls' anus would have to be loose and they would have ram their asses down hard for that position to work. In that spooning position the guy cannot suck, kiss and lick her mouth, her neck and her nipples, which are highly pleasurable for most girls.

Unless I am crazy in love with some girls, I would never do that much work for anyone. There are probably some toys in the market that can penetrate and stimulate all areas of the women's body simultaneously and do hard work on batteries. But I suspect women are more mentally inclined and still prefer the males' warm, sexy, loving bodies to just physical stimulation. I believe my instinctively gentle and loving approach to feel good myself would bring mutual pleasures. I found that, despite screwing many guys everyday, the putas in Tijuana still enjoy sex and capable of climaxing with just gentle caressing and slow insertion. They all seem to prefer slow and gentle screwing to any hard and fast action. Their sexy expressions are precious and very satisfying.

Dan has his sexual theories and practices down pat in good details. Why don't you advertise yourself discreetly in Beverly Hills, Hollywood, Los Angeles areas with that video. I ran across many sexually-frustrated women, young and old, in this area, even some actresses and movie stars. Some would go insane because they cannot reach climax for years despite all sorts of sex partners and sex toys. They would worship you if you can make them come again and again. You would have lots of the best-looking and sexiest young girls and women in the world begging for your company.

You know where to advertise your services and test out your theories and practices. Let us know how it works out.

going after all three at the same time. Here is a link to a moving GIF picture to show you what I mean:

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vhrw7nnG1ryino5o1_400.gif

Perhaps this mental division barrier comes from watching porn. Because in almost all porn-movies, the guy does only one thing with his lady. He either nails her pussy, or her ass, or he plays her pussy and clit. But you almost never see a guy do all three at the same time, the way the link above shows.

I think this anal GIF picture actually shows a pretty good pussy massage technique. Because this guy is massaging her pussy from side-to-side, the way experts recommend. And he uses pressure and stretching to stimulate her pussy and clit, rather than rubbing and friction. You can easily overstimulate the lady's clitoris and make it uncomfortable for her, if you do it with rubbing and friction.

I think the trick isn't just to go after the lady with your hands and your dick. You also need to adapt your extensive experience of masturbating yourself for masturbating the lady. Because only this way you instinctively know what to do and you can read her reactions too, which enables you to recognize when she is close to orgasm and finish her off, the way you finish off yourself.

Dan7373

02-13-16, 14:39

That video shows the guy doing a lot of hard work. Not sure if anyone can really penetrate and screw anally from below....
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vhrw7nnG1ryino5o1_400.gifI agree, this guy is really nailing her nice ass from below. Which isn't surprising, considering how hot she is. Even a cripple would probably throw away his crutches and go all out on her with his cock.

But this short clip is taken out of context. It doesn't show you what happened before, and what happened after.

Nailing your lady's nice ass this hard and this fast is a great way to achieve your peak pleasure with her. But you should do this only for a few seconds at a time. Or else you will cum prematurely with her.

If you want to last for a long time with your lady, then you need to be aware of how close you are to orgasm with her on a scale of 1 to 10 and pace yourself accordingly. You do need to go all out on your lady with your cock and nail her hard-and-fast to achieve a 9 out of 10 with her. But then you need to slow down and take it easy with her, until you are back to 6 or 7 out of 10 with her. And only then you can go back to nailing her hard-and-fast again to achieve another peak pleasure with her.

The thing I like about this GIF clip at the link above is that it shows you just how wide open the lady's pussy is for you to masturbate, when you go anal on her with your cock. It's a way to make your lady orgasm during her anal sex with you.

And your suggestion that I should start a business of nailing sexually-frustrated women I appreciate. But as an individual, I can't make much difference. Sexually frustrated women won't be frustrated anymore, only if most guys start caring about pleasing their women and learn how to do it well.

Captain Solo

02-13-16, 19:22

This petite hottie Paola in Tijuana always gets drippy wet when I stimulate her clitoris and her G spot with combination thumb and middle finger. We usually have half-hour hot sessions with her remaining wet throughout.

Last night I experimented to stimulate her entire vulva area by sucking her nipples and massaging her entire pussy with my hand in circular motion. Don't think she enjoyed it much. She looked afraid and did not get wet. We had a long session; I was plunging into her tiny pussy hard and fast in missionary. As usual, she had her eyes closed dreamily and never showed much sexy expressions. Half way through she got dry and had to stop and add lube.

I came big time, exhausted, but Paola was quiet until the end. She did smile, saying she liked sex and it was good. Paola is the tiny, sexy Latina in the pic.

In addition to the physical acts of sex, sincere, natural, sexy expressions bring a lot more satisfying feelings top the partners. A few of my best sessions ever were with girls from China and Tijuana. The girls showed lots of affection, caressing, kissing, sucking, biting my body like it was a precious possession. Nearing climax, they would thrash around in bed, clawing my back, biting lips, grunting, moaning, talking dirty, making all kinds of sexy noise.

I enjoy those sexy expressions and assume girls enjoy the same.

If you want to last for a long time with your lady, then you need to be aware of how close you are to orgasm with her on a scale of 1 to 10 and pace yourself accordingly. You do need to go all out on your lady with your cock and nail her hard-and-fast to achieve a 9 out of 10 with her. But then you need to slow down and take it easy with her, until you are back to 6 or 7 out of 10 with her. And only then you can go back to nailing her hard-and-fast again to achieve another peak pleasure with her.

The thing I like about this GIF clip at the link above is that it shows you just how wide open the lady's pussy is for you to masturbate, when you go anal on her with your cock. It's a way to make your lady orgasm during her anal sex with you.

Dan7373

02-14-16, 06:37

This petite hottie Paola in Tijuana always gets drippy wet when I stimulate her clitoris and her G spot with combination thumb and middle finger. We usually have half-hour hot sessions with her remaining wet throughout.

Last night I experimented to stimulate her entire vulva area by sucking her nipples and massaging her entire pussy with my hand in circular motion. Don't think she enjoyed it much. She looked afraid and did not get wet. We had a long session; I was plunging into her tiny pussy hard and fast in missionary. As usual, she had her eyes closed dreamily and never showed much sexy expressions. Half way through she got dry and had to stop and add lube.....I'd say your mistake was in going after her pussy without any lube.

Plenty of lube and a splash of water to make it more slippery is the way to do it with the lady, especially if you are doing it with her for the first time, and you aren't yet good at it.

If the lady looks afraid. Then you should stop immediately. Because you might be doing it in a way that's uncomfortable for her, but she doesn't want to say "No" to you.

I usually put so much lube on my hand and on the lady's pussy that it takes a few minutes to wash it off later on. And maybe that's why this works a lot better for me.

But I have to admit that not every lady understands what you are doing with her, when you start massaging her pussy with your hand. The most understanding ladies are Thai massage ladies, who massage you with their pussies as a part of their routine. I usually wait until the lady has massaged me with her pussy, and then I go after her already well-lubricated pussy with an even more lubricated hand. There is so much slipping and sliding that you don't have much friction. Which means that you stimulate the lady by varying the amount of pressure you put with your hand on her pussy.

But one time I tried to get the pussy massage going with my Thai girlfriend, who worked bars but never did massage before. She had no idea what I was doing, and she reacted badly to it. She hit my hand on her pussy with her fist so hard that my hand went numb for a while. Which probably hurt her pussy too. But she didn't show any sign of it.

I took this as a big "No" from her. And I didn't do anything else with her for the rest of that night. I was actually going to leave her, but we made up later on, when she put my hand on her pussy and encouraged me to do my pussy massage with her. I used plenty of lube. And I made her orgasm. After this, she had no problem with me going after her pussy with my hand.

Dan7373

02-14-16, 14:25

As I mentioned in one of my earlier posts, sex experts advise to go after all of the lady's erogenous zones and multi-task with her to bring her to orgasm.
http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/orgasm-almanac-rock-her-world/slide/7

I found some examples of moving GIF pictures that illustrate how to do it with the lady, when you are having sex with her:

1. Playing around with her asshole, while nailing her pussy with your pole.
http://49.media.tumblr.com/df7440ec61261694b488628aedc45386/tumblr_o0mpjdk0Ju1sf1opfo1_500.gif

2. Playing her pussy, while nailing her ass (Notice her flushed face and her wet, wide-open pussy. Sexually aroused she certainly is.).
http://45.media.tumblr.com/44060f6e5a7d619302df75f242646116/tumblr_o0mokec0vJ1sf1opfo1_500.gif

3. Massaging the lady's clit, while nailing her pussy (Notice that the lady's nipple is erect, which is a sign that she likes it.).
http://49.media.tumblr.com/287ee17310e04c1f5fda9f2119b5b319/tumblr_o0mmtymYUU1sf1opfo1_500.gif

4. Lady shows you how to massage her pussy during anal sex.
http://45.media.tumblr.com/9c4f9f44c628667dbece2578cfa3ec5d/tumblr_o0mmc3c1QR1sf1opfo1_500.gif

5. Fingering the lady's ass, while doing cunnilingus on her.
http://49.media.tumblr.com/f3a169b1fe386e5ddcf765d09024ed2a/tumblr_nz798eg7rG1sf1opfo1_500.gif

6. Fingering the lady's ass, while nailing her pussy with your cock (Notice that the guy isn't moving his fingers inside her asshole. Just holding your fingers inside her ass is enough to stimulate her.).
http://45.media.tumblr.com/172bf44a8e237601cb503664b646e4fe/tumblr_nxi3saAYrC1sf1opfo1_400.gif

7. Another good example of a guy massaging his lady's clit, while nailing her pussy with his cock.
http://49.media.tumblr.com/6dda7753a878b25cb3617b17ae682540/tumblr_nxi2kkX42A1sf1opfo1_500.gif

8. Sucking the lady's tit, while nailing her pussy.
http://45.media.tumblr.com/a59d646e23a428cea1e822732f2bb70a/tumblr_npa9yqTQSu1thc9dho1_400.gif

I think it's important to point out that not every sex-position is good for taking pictures in a way that you can see everything. Which means that you need to use some imagination and look for ways to stimulate your lady's erogenous zones in other sex-positions too.

Dan7373

02-15-16, 16:38

Experienced lesbian and bi-sexual women have the advantage of both giving and receiving pussy-massage with each other. This experience gives them a better understanding of it, than any guy can have. Because a lady who had her pussy massaged before knows what's most pleasant and best for a woman in this situation.

You can learn a lot from experienced women like this by observing their pussy-massage techniques with each other. And I found some moving GIF pictures on the internet to show you how experienced lesbian women go after another lady with their hands:

1. Hard and fast pussy massage, with big variation from time to time.
http://porngif6.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/tumblr_ngy41cbHlm1r2cjkwo1_500.gif
http://www.gifsfor.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/lesbian-giving-masturbation-to-redhead.gif

2. Firm hand, nice and slow, with some pressure on her pussy and clit.
http://gif-porn.net/wp-content/uploads/resgjh-11.gif

3. Two fingers on her pussy and clit, and really masturbating it.
http://fapler.com/images/upload/24/24447/20e4dde132b05a5a9bdcd8da3e194570.gif

4. Penetration combined with clit masturbation.
http://49.media.tumblr.com/a1876df766bb0263fcb322f26c928867/tumblr_o0tc7rzSQX1u36wjlo1_500.gif
http://49.media.tumblr.com/3f18dcd85ae030fde4957f6433b59960/tumblr_o0tcvxRJKe1u36wjlo1_500.gif

5. Just massaging her clit and sucking her tit. (Sex experts advise to multi-task with the lady and do more than one thing with her at the same time. Which this picture illustrates.).
http://mobigs.com/wp-content/uploads//2014/01/black-lesbian-fingering-a-white-girl.gif

6. Pussy massage during anal for the lady.
http://www.juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/06/24/17/1/4810-lesbian-babes-masturbation-massage.gif

Captain Solo

02-15-16, 19:54

Dan37,

Did some good research and shows some good stuff. Of course the lesbians know what women want. They would go crazy and massage the pussy all over. Men also get excited and do a lot of things natural to them, like rubbing and squeezing the pussies, which also excite women.

Quite a few women, fast, loose or prudish, get excited watching the penis gets aroused, engorged and gets stiff. They would caress, grab, squeeze, jerk, lick or suck etc. To satisfy their natural hunger for the cocks.

Lesbian porn shows a lot of licking and sucking of nipples, clitoris and labias. They also like deep mouth kissing and huge double-ended penises for deep insertion and fucking like heterosexuals.

Before you stick some wiggling things up a woman's ass, perhaps you should ask them first what they would like you to do for them. Women want to be aroused and will tell you their favorite stimulation. The grand finale will always be having that big cock ramming their red, hot pussies. Just do what comes natural that satisfies your own desires. That's the turn ONS for sex partners.

Experienced lesbian and bi-sexual women have the advantage of both giving and receiving pussy-massage with each other. This experience gives them a better understanding of it, than any guy can have. Because a lady who had her pussy massaged before knows what's most pleasant and best for a woman in this situation.

You can learn a lot from experienced women like this by observing their pussy-massage techniques with each other. And I found some moving GIF pictures on the internet to show you how experienced lesbian women go after another lady with their hands:

1. Hard and fast pussy massage, with big variation from time to time...

Dan7373

02-16-16, 13:23

Jacqueline Hellyer, an Australian sex-coach and sex-therapist, has an interesting YouTube video about cock-thrusting techniques. She says that it's too boring for a woman the way guys usually do it. And she makes a number of suggestions how to make it better for your lady, when you nail her with your cock.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBaprHhD6CA

One suggestion I especially like is where she describes how to keep your lady guessing how far you'll penetrate her. You can set up your lady's expectation for shallow penetration by giving her 10 shallow thrusts. And just when she thinks that your are a shallow guy, you really plunge inside her all the way to your balls. After 2 or 3 balls-deep thrusts, you go back to your shallow ride. Your lady will now be a little wary. She'll be expecting you to plunge inside her all the way to your balls at some point in time. But you will vary your number of shallow thrusts followed by deep thrusts unpredictably. And every time you'll surprise her with your balls-deep plunge inside her.

I think this kind of shallow fucking followed by balls-deep thrusts makes it fun for the lady in the same way that tickling the lady can make it fun for her. Because when you tickle the lady then she knows that you are going to poke her with your finger. She anticipates it, and in the last second she even knows exactly where you are going to poke her. But you don't give her enough time to prepare for it. And that's what makes it fun for her.

If it works like tickling, then your balls-deep thrust shouldn't be a total surprise for the lady. She should know that it's coming a split second before you actually do it. And you can easily let her know that you are going balls-deep on her with a greedy grunt, "Oh yeah!", just before you do it. You just don't give her enough time to prepare for it in her feelings and in her mind. And that's what makes it fun for her.

This is playing tricks with her mind and not just with her body. Which makes the lady feel like she is totally fucked. And that's what she will probably tell her lady-friends, after her encounter with you.

Of course, to make this work well, you also need to make sure that you and the lady are well-lubricated. Or else your sudden balls-deep plunge inside the lady might hurt her.

Dan7373

02-17-16, 13:02

Lesbian and bi-sexual women know what it feels like to have their tits sucked. And that's why they know what they are doing, when they go after another woman's tits with their mouths and hands. They are the ones to watch, if you want to learn how to do it in a way that pleases the woman.

I found some moving GIF picture examples of how women suck other women's tits. And one common theme in all of these pictures I see is that when a woman sucks another woman's tit, then she always tries to give the sucked lady a variety of sensations by varying a lot her sucking technique. She doesn't just latch on and stay there doing it the same way from start to finish, the way guys often do it.

Here are some examples of how lesbian women do it:

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/1788264555/tits19.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/1432839382/tits22.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/2000881716/tits17.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/1377509468/tits4.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/936344059/tits5.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/733730369/tits45.gif

Syzygies

02-17-16, 14:06

Capt Solo,

Sorry but I have to be skeptical. Lesbian Porn has a director who wants what he wants, not what the girls wants. Porn is not done for the enjoyment of the actresses.

Delicate touch where the pussy is totally hidden from view may well be working for the girl but not for the movie.

In one porn movie, the star, some horrible old blonde is saying there is nothing much to it, just suck on the clit. Sorry I don't buy this. I have been trained by a girl who explained to me carefully what she wanted and it certainly was not as simple as just suck on the clit.

Also, although what feels great to a certain woman is known by her, her partner will not know without being told. Not every girl likes it the same way.

There is no reason why a guy cannot be trained to be as a good as a trained lesbian, and possibly better than an untrained lesbian. Experience level counts for a lot too, and communication. Its important for a girl to be able to say when it feels particularly good, rather than being silent.

Some girls like very delicate touch on either clit or nipples. Others like it quite firm. No universal recipe.

Does each girl like a wide variety of different touches? I would say no. The porn camera does. I believe they find a variety of touches to be nice and okay for the warm up, but only a limited number of techniques are going to send them over the moon. We just have to keep trying slightly different things till we see which things she responds best to, then take notes later so we don't forget maybe. LOL Depends if you have good memory and how long ago last fucked the girl.

One example. Some girls like direct light stimulation direct to tip of clit. Others do not. Some like stimulation mostly over top of clit hood, some like from underneath. Some like sucking on it. Then there is the question of tongue speed, power, etc. Some like concurrent finger stimulation of G spot. Not all. Some like asshole licking or tickling. Some do not. One girl stuck my finger up her asshole when she was nearly ready to cum. Many would hate that.

Its not that simple that one way fits all.

Its unlikely I could ever expect to finger a girl's clit as good as she can do it herself. Fortunately she cannot DATY herself, so that is where she needs me, once she has given up resisting it.

Some girls are sensitive and cum within 3 minutes like its almost automatic if the touch is right. Others require extremely long slow build up. Could be 30 minutes. Plenty of working girls just can't or don't want to. Fortunately others can't stop themselves when the feeling is good, or have no reason to stop themselves. Sometimes the girl is even a little horny if did not have a cum for some time.

It is not rocket science that girls like different to each other, just like us guys have greatly different ideas about a good blow job. Some like firm where I hate that and need very soft and slow paced.

Every girl is different. No one rule for all. Great diversity of characters. Lucky for me some are willing to have fun, from my viewpoint. Even kiss very nicely.

I think you have to learn from the particular girl how to best lick or suck on her clit, slightly modifying things learned from other girls, and it is not important that any trainer be a lesbian.

Many working girls don't think its their place to be giving a gut all the right feedback and pointers and many other girls are too shy to. So that leaves us trying to detect her reactions to various things tried and interpret them.

Captain Solo

02-17-16, 23:04

You are right, that porn is for show with the best cameras' angles; it's not always the best things for the partners.

In non-porn situation, communication is probably the most important thing. It shows you care, and the feedback steer you to do the right things for the girls. Some girls want the gentlest caress of their clits, some prefer the hard rubbing. You just have to remember which ones want which. Hehe.

. Lesbian Porn has a director who wants what he wants, not what the girls wants. Porn is not done for the enjoyment of the actresses.

Delicate touch where the pussy is totally hidden from view may well be working for the girl but not for the movie.

There is no reason why a guy cannot be trained to be as a good as a trained lesbian, and possibly better than an untrained lesbian. Experience level counts for a lot too, and communication. Its important for a girl to be able to say when it feels particularly good, rather than being silent.

Some girls like very delicate touch on either clit or nipples. Others like it quite firm. No universal recipe.

Does each girl like a wide variety of different touches? I would say no. The porn camera does. I believe they find a variety of touches to be nice and okay for the warm up, but only a limited number of techniques are going to send them over the moon. We just have to keep trying slightly different things till we see which things she responds best to, then take notes later so we don't forget maybe. LOL Depends if you have good memory and how long ago last fucked the girl.

FiddyCent

02-18-16, 03:35

EihTooms

02-18-16, 04:42

...One example. Some girls like direct light stimulation direct to tip of clit. Others do not. Some like stimulation mostly over top of clit hood, some like from underneath. Some like sucking on it. Then there is the question of tongue speed, power, etc. Some like concurrent finger stimulation of G spot. Not all. Some like asshole licking or tickling. Some do not. One girl stuck my finger up her asshole when she was nearly ready to cum. Many would hate that.

Its not that simple that one way fits all.

Its unlikely I could ever expect to finger a girl's clit as good as she can do it herself. Fortunately she cannot DATY herself, so that is where she needs me, once she has given up resisting it.

Some girls are sensitive and cum within 3 minutes like its almost automatic if the touch is right. Others require extremely long slow build up. Could be 30 minutes. Plenty of working girls just can't or don't want to. Fortunately others can't stop themselves when the feeling is good, or have no reason to stop themselves. Sometimes the girl is even a little horny if did not have a cum for some time.

It is not rocket science that girls like different to each other, just like us guys have greatly different ideas about a good blow job. Some like firm where I hate that and need very soft and slow paced.All very true. I would also add to that the apparently little known fact among many men that a surprising number of women who do want focused oral clit stimulation in order to cum do not want it done directly or lets say evenly and equally on all sides of the button but off to one side or another instead. Many women are too shy and therefore very reluctant to direct their partner's oral attentions to just a half inch off to the left or right of her clit but that might turn out to be the exact magic spot that gets this girl off quickest and best of all. LOL. Some men who never expect such a thing can sometimes spend 30 minutes or more licking, sucking and manipulating a girl's clit square on or equally on all sides when it turns out he could have gotten her off beautifully within minutes and several times over again if only he had shifted his attentions to an area just half an inch to the left or right of her clit instead of dead on center. But she was too shy about it to direct him there and he was too inexperienced to realize such a thing was possible.

Seriously, guys, whenever you encounter the non communicative "tough to cum" girl even with expert oral stimulation that has worked countless times with other girls, try going off center on the clit to an area a half inch or so on either side of it and see if that gets a noticeable rise out of her and the desired result.

Captain Solo

02-18-16, 04:52

The Gif show some very hard and aggressive sucking of the breasts and nipples. Nipples can be very sensitive and that could be painful for the recipients.

All the girls I have known, including the pros, would never let me suck their tits that hard. They would probably hit me in the face if I were that rough. They would always say " gentle, gentle. " or in Spanish". Suave suave."

I think porno clips tend to overdo the sex acts to make it more interesting. Doing things like porn stars ways may not be the best things. For tits sucking I would always start with very gentle kissing, licking then very light sucking. I have never known any girls who want the tits sucked hard, but then I have never had the honor of sucking and fucking a real porn star. Hehe.

The clit, OTOH, most want it rubbed hard, in circular motion, or side by side against the pelvic bone. The same for rubbing the roof of the vagina. Make sure your finger nails are trimmed. Add some lubrication to the middle finger, suck on their tits at the same time rub the clit and G spot with increasing pressure against the vagina's roof. Within 2,3 minutes, most would reach long, huge, shaking climaxes with their spinal columns and whole bodies curling, jerking. Given 5 to 10 minutes of rest, they can brought to that climax again.

I met a very beautiful and nice 18 YO girl in Beverly Hills. She had problems climaxing with all kinds of sex partners and a couple drawers full of sex toys in her apartment. I gave her the slow, gentle kissing, sucking and clit rubbing. She got her shaking orgasms, kissing, thanking me after, letting me fuck her wet, swollen hard, bareback. I think I am so much goddamned better than any doctor or drugs for releasing whole body stresses in women.

I don't think Dan's porn star lesbos are smart enough to know how to give the most sensual and satisfying sex, definitely not with hard tits sucking. Try the gentle ways on your Thai GFs to see how well it works.

I found some moving GIF picture examples of how women suck other women's tits. And one common theme in all of these pictures I see is that when a woman sucks another woman's tit, then she always tries to give the sucked lady a variety of sensations by varying a lot her sucking technique. She doesn't just latch on and stay there doing it the same way from start to finish, the way guys often do it.

Here are some examples of how lesbian women do it:

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/1788264555/tits19.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/1432839382/tits22.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/C3LESTE/4088535/2000881716/tits17.gif

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Captain Solo

02-18-16, 07:05

When they get dry and need to jump start, I have seen many pros wet a finger and rub it gently on the side of the clit, ie. The hood, not the clit itself. Just a couple rubs and they would get wet, ready to screw.

The gentle licking of the tongue on the hood would probably most sensual and can get most girls aroused, but not all girls like the same thing.

This sweet, sexy, pretty little Guatemalan girl in Tijuana in the pic, Zwanee, was giving me lots of coaching how to get her horny and give her the best pleasures. Lots of kissing, licking, treating her body like the most precious thing you ever tough, with gentle rubbing on the hood would get her red hot horny. Hehe.

Sex with Zwanee is very satisfying because she shows lots of interests in getting and giving pleasures.

Many women are too shy and therefore very reluctant to direct their partner's oral attentions to just a half inch off to the left or right of her clit but that might turn out to be the exact magic spot that gets this girl off quickest and best of all. LOL. Some men who never expect such a thing can sometimes spend 30 minutes or more licking, sucking and manipulating a girl's clit square on or equally on all sides when it turns out he could have gotten her off beautifully within minutes and several times over again if only he had shifted his attentions to an area just half an inch to the left or right of her clit instead of dead on center. But she was too shy about it to direct him there and he was too inexperienced to realize such a thing was possible.

Seriously, guys, whenever you encounter the non communicative "tough to cum" girl even with expert oral stimulation that has worked countless times with other girls, try going off center on the clit to an area a half inch or so on either side of it and see if that gets a noticeable rise out of her and the desired result.

Dan7373

02-19-16, 13:01

The Gif show some very hard and aggressive sucking of the breasts and nipples. Nipples can be very sensitive and that could be painful for the recipients....
You need to look at the evidence and not just make up whatever you want. If you look the pictures I've provided, then you will see that none of the women there are in any obvious discomfort. They look like they are enjoying it, rather than in pain.

Perhaps you aren't seeing everything that needs to be seen, when you look at these GIF pictures. Because this isn't about hard sucking at all. It's about giving the lady a variety of sensations in many different ways. And the ladies, who are doing it, are real experts at it.

I agree that it would be difficult for an experienced guy to suck women's tits this well. Nobody becomes an expert at anything just by looking at some videos. But these videos show you what's possible, and what you can aspire to be able to do. This is the ideal, so to say.

Dan7373

02-19-16, 13:26

I think many experienced porn-stars are so good at what they do that no amateurs can even come close to doing it like them.

A good example that you can check out for yourself is at the http://www.legalporno.com/ website. This website is full of movies, where virtually every woman has anal sex with guys, and most of these women have double-anal sex with their guys too. (In case you don't know, double-anal is where two guys put their cocks inside the lady's ass at the same time.).

There is no way amateurs and ordinary people can do this kind of thing well. But as you can check out for yourself, the professional porn-stars do this kind of thing routinely.

People, who say that porn-stars are faking it, don't know what they are talking about. Just because you can't do something that professionals are doing doesn't mean that the professionals must be faking it. It just means that they are a lot better at it than you are, and it would take you a lot of learning to be able to do what they do.

Perhaps this lack of respect for people who are obviously better at it than you are comes from the fact that almost everybody tends to believe that they are above average in everything they do. When social scientists do surveys of people where they compare themselves to other people in terms of how good drivers they are, for example. Then vast majority of people say that they are above average. Which isn't statistically possible. Because it's not possible for everybody to be above average.

Dan7373

02-19-16, 13:54

I found another GIF picture that shows you what's possible to do, when you go after your lady's pussy with your hand.

https://49.media.tumblr.com/9e0296145584559008f2efa27a6cbd43/tumblr_nvtikwYwdg1rbb1juo1_400.gif

The lady who does it is obviously very good at it. Because as you can see for yourself, she does it in a way that's pleasant and hot for the massaged lady.

I think this picture also illustrates the fact that you can do it a lot better with your hand than with your mouth and lips. There is no way anybody can do it with their mouth and lips, the way this lady does it with her hand. Your hand and your fingers are much faster, stronger, and more versatile, than your mouth, your lips, and your tongue can ever be.

And I'm not basing my opinion just on this picture. This is something I also know from my own experience. I've done cunnilingus before, but then one day a bi-sexual Thai massage lady showed me how to go after her pussy with my hand. And after some practice with her, I never went back to cunnilingus again.

You can do it so much better and more with your hand than with your mouth that it doesn't make sense to use an inferior technique.

Dan7373

02-21-16, 11:50

Guys obviously know how to fuck best for their own pleasure. Because every guy knows what feels best for him. But if you want to make it pleasant for the lady, then women know this better than guys. And they are the ones to learn from.

Jacqueline Hellyer, sex-coach and sex-therapist, says in her video that if you want to make it more pleasant for your lady, then you should move your cock around inside your lady, rather than just pound.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBaprHhD6CA

I found some GIF examples, where women show you how they like it:

Hot lady grinds a guy with her ass for best anal sensation.
http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/grinding-with-cock-deep-in-ass.gif

Pussy grinding on top of a guy.
http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/tumblr_nx13v8NMZI1r7c494o1_400.gif

Rolling her hips to rub her clitoris against the shaft of the guy's cock.
http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/tumblr_noys22Ag8D1u6p26ao1_500.gif

A strap-on lesbian shows you how to nail your chick with your dick for the woman's pleasure.
http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/pussysimon/4941546/204057811/tumblr_mbru8hXKat1r726ofo1_500.gif

Dan7373

02-22-16, 16:31

One common sex-advice you get from sex-therapists is that you should multi-task with your lady and stimulate two or more of her erogenous zones at the same time. Because this makes it more pleasant for her.

Double penetrating the lady's pussy and ass at the same time with your fingers and cock is certainly one way to do it. And this is actually a lot easier for a lady to do than having two guys double-penetrate her with their cocks at the same time. Virtually any lady can take a well-lubricated finger up her ass, while a guy is nailing her pussy with his cock.

I found some examples of moving GIF pictures, where guys show you how they do this kind of thing with their ladies:

http://24.media.tumblr.com/2d792071014138cd6fd064065dda9060/tumblr_mqibvjP6Pe1qjhn09o1_500.gif

http://49.media.tumblr.com/4f36a30f73b02ced00d9c1e1b6786107/tumblr_n3dx7zEtRK1txsgqpo1_500.gif

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/01/12/8/1/5208-kagney-linn-karter-getting-her-ass-finger-fucked-while-being-fucked-from-behind.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/bb83ec9537838ac6637ac103d2bf2e58/tumblr_mrloqx0LKA1s0frw0o1_400.gif

http://49.media.tumblr.com/455a527074cd16f373ccab827d6183e5/tumblr_n741buSCl41tpse54o1_500.gif

Wolvenvacht

02-22-16, 19:55

One common sex-advice you get from sex-therapists is that you should multi-task with your lady and stimulate two or more of her erogenous zones at the same time. Because this makes it more pleasant for her.Incidentally, I was talking with one member of a gangbang team a few weeks ago during her "break" (yes even hot gangbang girls need a break from time to time).

She said that women enjoy very much their tits beng sucked and their nipples nibbled during sex. Alas, only very few guys remember to do that it seems.

Which of course gave me an excellent opportunity to give her tits a good licking to our mutual enjoyment.

Dan7373

02-24-16, 13:03

....She said that women enjoy very much their tits being sucked and their nipples nibbled during sex. Alas, only very few guys remember to do that it seems.

Which of course gave me an excellent opportunity to give her tits a good licking to our mutual enjoyment.Yes, during sex. This is an important point. Because I found from my experience that massaging the lady's pussy and clit and sucking her tit at the same time works really well for every woman I've tried this with. And sucking the woman's tits, while you are nailing her pussy in the missionary position works really well too. But if you just go after the woman's tits without doing anything else, then this can feel so unpleasant for the woman that she might stop you.

Perhaps this is the reason why so many guys forget about the woman's tits. They do it in a wrong way with ladies, see that the ladies don't quite enjoy it, so they stop doing it altogether.

It's easy to do well one thing at a time. But doing well a combination of things in the right order and with the right timing can be so difficult that many guys never learn it. It's like anybody can pluck a guitar string to make it sound relatively well. But plucking those strings in the right order and with the right timing to make good music is so difficult that it takes a lot of learning and practice to do well.

And that's how it is with nailing a sexy lady. You really need to come at her like a one-man gangbang, with your hands, fingers, cock, and mouth and play her like a violin and a guitar. Perhaps this is why women often like poets and musicians. These guys recognize it as an artistic situation during their penetration and they nail their sexy lady with everything they've got, their hands, their fingers, their cocks, their tongues, and they suck her clit and her tits with their mouths too. Order and timing is very important in poetry and music, and guys with this kind of knowledge naturally use it to nail their sexy ladies. And that's what makes them so good in bed with women.

Of course, music includes orchestras too. And that's what a good gangbang can be for a sexy lady. A bunch of guys come at her like the orchestra and give her the feeling of an orchestral drilling.

There is something to be said for going after a sexy lady with a partner, rather than by yourself. And your partner doesn't need to be a guy. You can partner up with a lesbian woman and together with her choose a hot lady to nail. This will work, as long as you treat your lesbian lady like your gangbang-buddy and don't try to nail her too.

Wolvenvacht

02-24-16, 13:17

This will work, as long as you treat your lesbian lady like your gangbang-buddy and don't try to nail her too.What?? You mean you're not supposed to nail your gangbang-buddy too??

Could that be the reason I'm no longer invited to these gangbangs? ;)

Dan7373

02-24-16, 14:15

What?? You mean you're not supposed to nail your gangbang-buddy too??

Could that be the reason I'm no longer invited to these gangbangs? ;)If the lady is bi-sexual, then she might be okay with you nailing her too. But this kind of thing is the opposite of a gang-bang. Because when you nail both ladies, then you put them both in the same situation, which makes them buddies with each other and not with you.

It's a question of whether you want a 2 on 1, or a 1 on 2? If your aim is to please the lady, then 2 on 1 is best for this. But if you are looking for your own pleasure, then having two ladies to nail is better for this.

From my own experience I would say that having two ladies to nail at the same time doesn't work well for me. Because it's very hard to find two ladies, who are equally attractive for the same guy. You are bound to like one of them more than the other. So, you want to nail the attractive one every time. But it's not polite to ignore the other lady. And you end up nailing her too, just to be polite. And that's not a good situation for a guy to be in.

The optimal situation is when you really like a sexy lady, who is so hot that she might out of your league. Such a hot lady normally looks down on guys like you, and you know it too. Which makes you no good in bed with her, unless you have a partner to come at her from the other side during your ride.

Dan7373

02-25-16, 15:01

You can have some doubt about the right way to masturbate a lady's pussy, when someone else does it for her. But when the lady does it herself, and she shows physical signs of sexual arousal and excitement, then you know for sure that this the right way to do it with her. And if you see many ladies do it the same way, then this pussy masturbation technique probably works for women in general and not just for one specific woman.

I've searched for pictures where women masturbate themselves so well that their pussies clearly show physical signs for sexual excitement and arousal. All of these pictures show the ladies having anal sex with their guy, while they are masturbating their pussies. Which probably means that having your cock inside the lady's ass makes your pussy masturbation for her more effective. Here are the pictures:

http://a.im9.eu/anal-julia-reverse-cowgirl.gif

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/07/01/6/1/4865-sasha-grey-cant-help-but-play-with-her-clit-during-anal.gif

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/12/12/9/1/7851-veronica-avluv-rubbing-her-clit-while-getting-her-ass-fucked.gif

http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2014/10/05/236/8373524.gif

http://37.media.tumblr.com/b59f963036ec6d5c9b5b4ce65cdb2b84/tumblr_n4jd89k1JJ1r87gdto1_500.gif

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Dan7373

02-27-16, 12:26

Some moving GIF pictures are too fast to see exactly what the person does and how he or she does it. But it's actually possible to split any GIF picture into its individual frames and look at it frame-by-frame to see exactly what's going on.

I found a website that does this kind of thing for you. You can copy and paste any GIF link from the Internet, and this website will split it into frames for you.
http://ezgif.com/split

Here are some examples that I've posted earlier, where the sex-action is a little too fast to see exactly what's going on:
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vhrw7nnG1ryino5o1_400.gif
http://a.im9.eu/anal-julia-reverse-cowgirl.gif
http://49.media.tumblr.com/415cdc91e93456327f96d1ad598c8d3d/tumblr_nv6m7uuFhV1rq93veo1_400.gif

If you copy and paste these links into the GIF splitter website above, then you can look at the sex-action frame-by-frame and see exactly how it's done. The 3rd link especially surprises you, when you split it into frames. Because this guy is actually plunging his fingers inside the lady's pussy once in a while, when you look at it frame-by-frame. But he does it so fast, that you can't see it in the moving picture.

Dan7373

02-28-16, 13:32

Many sex-experts say that sexual intercourse usually doesn't stimulate the woman's clitoris enough to bring her to orgasm. And this is a big reason why so many women don't orgasm during their sexual intercourse.

But I'd say that this is a funny way of looking at it. Because sexual intercourse isn't some being that decides to do things on its own and is responsible for what's going on. Only guys and women decide what to do and how to do it. And they are entirely responsible for this lack of women's orgasm.

There is nothing to stop a guy from fingering and masturbating his lady's clit during his sexual intercourse with her. But very few guys choose to do this, either due to ignorance or lack of care for the woman's pleasure. And this is the real reason why so many women don't orgasm during their sexual intercourse.

I'd say that going anal on the lady offers you the greatest possibilities for masturbating her pussy and clit with your hand. Because the lady's pussy is so unoccupied during her anal ride that it isn't funny. Going after the lady's pussy with your hand, when you are nailing her ass with your cock, seems like an obvious thing for a guy to do, if you care about the woman's pleasure and want to make her orgasm.

Stimulating the lady's clitoris with your fingers and hand is also possible during vaginal intercourse. But you need to choose a good position for this, so that you can easy reach the lady's pussy and clit with your hand.

And there is a third way of increasing the woman's clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse. This way is doing it with your cock, rather than with your hand. I actually found this from my own experience. All I did was take the woman's pussy with my cock in the missionary position. And then I used my legs to bring her legs close together, with my legs spread apart over her. (The attached picture below illustrates this sex-position.) This sex-position made the lady so tight during her ride that I could barely move my cock inside her pussy. My cock wasn't sliding in and out of her at all. I was just pulling and pushing on her pussy, when I moved my cock. And that's what I did with her, until she orgasmed.

Apparently, the lady gets a lot of clitoral stimulation, when you move her pussy around with your cock like this. And of course, you need to be reasonable about it. When you can't move your cock inside the lady, then you should push and pull only enough to move her pussy around and but not enough to make it painful and uncomfortable for her.

And I have to admit, that this very tight ride was mostly for the woman's pleasure. There was no way I could orgasm this way with her, when I couldn't move my cock inside her. After she orgasmed with me, I used my legs to spread her legs apart again, and I nailed her pussy in the traditional missionary position for my own orgasm with her.

This kind of thing is pleasant for both the woman and the guy. It's just that you need to take turns and have the lady orgasm first, before you cum with her.

Goatscrot

02-29-16, 03:12

And there is a third way of increasing the woman's clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse. This way is doing it with your cock, rather than with your hand. I actually found this from my own experience. All I did was take the woman's pussy with my cock in the missionary position. And then I used my legs to bring her legs close together, with my legs spread apart over her. (The attached picture below illustrates this sex-position.) This sex-position made the lady so tight during her ride that I could barely move my cock inside her pussy. My cock wasn't sliding in and out of her at all. I was just pulling and pushing on her pussy, when I moved my cock. And that's what I did with her, until she orgasmed.

Apparently, the lady gets a lot of clitoral stimulation, when you move her pussy around with your cock like this. And of course, you need to be reasonable about it. When you can't move your cock inside the lady, then you should push and pull only enough to move her pussy around and but not enough to make it painful and uncomfortable for her.Been using this position since I was in my very early 20's. Also works with the gal on top where she can control the movement.

Lefeu

02-29-16, 08:31

]...There is nothing to stop a guy from fingering and masturbating his lady's clit during his sexual intercourse with her. But very few guys choose to do this, either due to ignorance or lack of care for the woman's pleasure. And this is the real reason why so many women don't orgasm during their sexual intercourse...First, thanks a lot for taking the time and writing about this topic. I belong to a local forum where I live and this topic comes up once in a while. Unfortunately, none of us is expert and we are too lazy to dig out the facts, assuming they exist.

I for one, always assumed that since the girl is getting money, the focus should be on me, the customer. I also found that nothing pleases a WG more than money. So, when a girl puts out, I tend to give her a generous tip, and / or repeat with her. I never forget an experience I had in Spain, in a casa. The girl who was servicing me actually had an orgasm. It was quite obvious to both of us. Yet, the girl seemed so ashamed of what had happened that she became very quiet after that, and took off as soon as I netted.

]...And there is a third way of increasing the woman's clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse. This way is doing it with your cock, rather than with your hand. I actually found this from my own experience. All I did was take the woman's pussy with my cock in the missionary position. And then I used my legs to bring her legs close together, with my legs spread apart over her. (The attached picture below illustrates this sex-position.) This sex-position made the lady so tight during her ride that I could barely move my cock inside her pussy. My cock wasn't sliding in and out of her at all. I was just pulling and pushing on her pussy, when I moved my cock. And that's what I did with her, until she orgasmed...Indeed, this is one of my favorite positions, except I like it in flat doggy.

Dan7373

03-01-16, 14:13

....
I for one, always assumed that since the girl is getting money, the focus should be on me, the customer. I also found that nothing pleases a WG more than money. So, when a girl puts out, I tend to give her a generous tip, and / or repeat with her. I never forget an experience I had in Spain, in a casa. The girl who was servicing me actually had an orgasm. It was quite obvious to both of us. Yet, the girl seemed so ashamed of what had happened that she became very quiet after that, and took off as soon as I netted.

Indeed, this is one of my favorite positions, except I like it in flat doggy.Spain has been a strongly Catholic country for a long time. Which means that Virgin Mary has been put up as the ideal for all women there.

According to Catholic ideology, virgins aren't supposed to have sex. But even if they have sex, then they aren't supposed to enjoy it. Because as long as the woman doesn't enjoy it, then her sex corrupts only her body but not her soul. Corrupting your body is bad, but corrupting your soul is the ultimate sin. And that's probably why your P4P lady in Spain felt this way about her sexual pleasure with you.

Many cultures teach everyone that women aren't supposed to enjoy sex. And the ultimate expression of this is female circumcision, where the woman's clitoris is literally cut off with a razor blade and thrown away. Many millions of women undergo this barbaric procedure even now.

It's hard for women not to believe this kind of thing, after they've been raised in such culture. Because people start to learn with their feelings, before they begin to understand. And learning a culture with your feelings makes it a part of your feelings, which are very hard to change. People can choose to think this way or that way. But it's very hard to choose how you feel. Your feelings are mostly involuntary. And that's how it is for women, who have been raised in anti-sexual atmosphere.

Of course, culture doesn't just affect women. Men are raised in the same culture too. And that's probably where men's lack of concern for women's pleasure comes from. Anti-sexual culture teaches both men and women that women aren't supposed to enjoy sex.

Pleasing the ladies only with your money and not even trying to please them in any other way is conforming to this anti-sexual culture, which says that women aren't supposed to enjoy sex. And of course, it's easy for a guy to conform this way, because a lot of P4P women have been raised in such culture, and they accept it.

But I think that your ability to enjoy sex is limited, when your lady doesn't feel much pleasure. Because people naturally empathize with each other, which makes their feelings infectious for each other. You naturally laugh with somebody who is happy. You naturally feel sad with somebody who is grieving. And your lady's sexual arousal naturally arouses you too.

This is something I've learned from a Thai massage lady, when I had trouble getting it up with her. She was actually so good-looking that I thought she was out of my league. I couldn't fully believe that she wanted to be with me, which made it less than sexy for me.

This lady made me get it up for her, and it wasn't by sucking my dick. She got me to massage her pussy and clit with my hand, the way lesbian women do it with each other. I did it well enough to bring her close to orgasm. I could feel her wet pussy and clit erection with my hand. She was breathing heavily. And her face was flushed. I had a big erection by this time too, and she urged me to nail her. Which I gladly did.

I went from feeling unwanted to feeling needed. And that's what sexually arousing a hot woman can do for you. It makes the difference between an iffy experience and a good one.

I found out later that this Thai massage lady was bi-sexual, who did it with women too. Because she talked with me about a really good-looking Russian woman, who paid her for having lesbian sex with her. This Thai lady knew what it was like to have a lesbian pussy-massage, and that's the way she showed it to me. Which was probably why it was so effective for her.

Dan7373

03-03-16, 13:59

You often hear people say that you shouldn't learn from porn movies how to nail a pretty lady, because porn is a fantasy and not the real thing. And if you don't think about it too much, then this idea seems to make sense. Because you often see all kinds of stunts in action movies, that will likely get you killed, if you try them at home.

But this anti-porn logic falls apart, when you realize that unlike in action movies, people in porn movies do everything for real. These aren't just illusions, the way special effects are in action movies.

People in porn are real people performing real sex-acts. There is no deception or trickery involved in vast majority of porn movies. The only thing you need to keep in mind is that people in porn movies likely had a lot of practice, which makes them a lot better at it than you, when you do it for the first time. You need to proceed with caution, when it's something you haven't done before. Because watching other people do it doesn't make you good at it. It takes some practical learning by trial and error, before you become good at any sex-act.

I think the real reason why people say that porn is a fantasy and you shouldn't expect this kind of sex with your girlfriend or your wife is because most girlfriends and wives aren't yet sexually liberated enough to try this kind of stuff. And that's why a lot of guys go to P4P ladies for their Porn Star Experience (PSE). P4P ladies are often much more willing to take a porn-type of drilling.

But speaking about masturbation for double penetration, I found a GIF picture where the lady vigorously masturbates her pussy, just prior to being DP'd. This lady already has a guy in her ass, and she is preparing to take a second guy in her pussy. She is definitely doing it for real. Which makes her pussy-masturbation something to watch and learn from.

This is actually the way I regularly go after my lady's pussy with my hand. And it works really well. You basically take the lady's pussy with your hand from behind, so that your hand is in the same position on her pussy, as her hand would be, if she was masturbating herself. And you masturbate her pussy more or less the same way that this picture below shows:

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/that-look-in-her-eyes-when-he-asks-her.gif

Dan7373

03-06-16, 14:23

The Internet is full of advice for guys how to get their lady in the mood for sex. One advice you get is that you need to improve the ambience. Another advice is that you need to show her some affection, such as kissing and gently caressing. And this goes on and on, as if you are trying to romance the lady, rather than just nail her good.

I think this is confusing romance with sex. Romance and sex often go together, but it doesn't have to be this way. Both men and women can feel pure sexual lust, where they just want to do it hard-and-fast in a casual encounter with each other.

Sexual lust is what the P4P scene is all about. There are a number of hot women to nail, and you want to nail them all, rather than just stay with one girl. Romancing the ladies in this situation is totally inappropriate, because it's like lying to them and deceiving them. You might want to marry your P4P lady, but this isn't the usual situation to have.

I found from my experience that the quickest way to get the lady to want sex with you is to plunge your hand inside her panties, quickly find her clit, and gently finger it. Once you have your finger on the lady's clit, then you should continue fingering it. And it has to be for her pleasure, rather than yours. You don't do it to feel up the lady. You do it to please her.

I've had a lady tackle me to the floor, when I did this with her. And it wasn't because she was upset. She just wanted to fuck, and she couldn't wait for me to penetrate. Of course, this lady used to work as a policewoman, and she had the training for tackling guys like me. This probably isn't something every hot lady will do with you. But I've done this with Thai P4P ladies too, when we were talking about something non-sexual. And it would literally take less than a minute for the lady to say, "Let's fuck!" And she would start undressing with me.

I think the trick is to know where the lady's clit is, before you even plunge your hand inside her panties. Because then you will find her clit right away, and she will start feeling the pleasure, before she even knows what's going on.

Of course, you need to be careful about the lady's consent in this situation. If you've paid her some money, and she expects you to have sex with her some time during the day anyway, then surprising her like this is okay. Or as was my situation with that ex-policewoman, she got me alone in a secluded place, and then she said to me that she wanted to have sex with me. I was actually confused a little, and I almost talked myself out of it. But she was a good-looking woman, and I wanted her. So, I just plunged my hand inside her panties in a lightning quick move. I found her clit right away and was already fingering it, by the time she fully realized what was going on. I could feel with my finger her clitoris get bigger and harder, and that's when she tackled me to the ground to fuck with me.

Dan7373

03-06-16, 18:17

I think you can learn a lot from women, when you watch them fuck a guy. This is especially true when the woman is in control during the ball, and she rides the guy the way she wants.

One common theme I found in such GIF pictures is that the lady bends her guy's cock and moves it around, rather than just pound. And I think the lady does it this way to stimulate her so-called G-Spot, which is between her clitoris and vagina. I believe that G-Spot is just another name of the internal part of the woman's clitoris. But in any case, I think that women do it this way because this is what feels most pleasant for them. Here are some examples I found:

http://bestsexgif.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/hardcore-cock-riding-cowgirl-lots-oil-ass.gif

http://ridingporn.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/teen-porn.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/bfranke63/4347231/2088039308/Cowgirl_71.gif

http://33.media.tumblr.com/550ac640bef321827faa521de0fe551c/tumblr_mm4purLKcX1qktnjdo1_500.gif

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/fucking-on-the-librarys-floor.gif

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/reverse-cowgirl-loves-some-cock.gif

Of course, a guy can't bang a lady this way. You need to adapt and stimulate your lady's G-Spot with your cock in another way. And the most effective advice for guys in this regard is to put a big pillow on the bed, and have the lady relax on top of it in a semi-doggy position. Then you can just relax on top of her, enter her pussy, and press down with the shaft of your cock against her G-Spot, which is between her pubic bone and her vagina. You can put some weight behind your cock and really ride her G-Sot with the bottom shaft of your cock, every time you slide during your ride.

I found some GIF pictures, where guys take their lady almost the right way to stimulate her G-Spot. The only thing that's missing is a pillow under her hips to raise her pussy so much that the shaft of the guy's cock is pressing down on her G-Spot. The thing I like about these pictures is that the guy doesn't break off his contact with his lady's ass. He just grinds his hips against her cheeks, and he moves his cock around, rather than just pound. Which is similar to the way ladies do it, when they get on top of a guy. This kind of a fuck probably feels more pleasant for women, than the way guys usually do it. And maintaining your contact with the lady's ass is definitely something to enjoy for the guy too. Here are these pictures:

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/cdnicole/2841426/1082131110/Smothered.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/eb049b238c2bd03833c74d17a0318b7b/tumblr_nwsg2e7sPu1taid38o2_500.gif

http://49.media.tumblr.com/0cc927f0350ebd64cf04d019b3b12f60/tumblr_nr46xghxCX1ute1l1o1_500.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/bb4fc4609bf85888c573914635fafda4/tumblr_nsieleC0IJ1ssylz4o1_500.gif

https://49.media.tumblr.com/a11ca9cb220282bd7fe42e4e686b680a/tumblr_n7bx12pIKU1tp1u5po6_500.gif

Dan7373

03-08-16, 12:39

A lot of sex-positions require good balance, strength, and endurance. Such positions might tire you out and prevent you from lasting with the lady for as long as you want, even when you are in good shape.

I think it's important to plan ahead and choose a relaxed type of sex position with the lady, when you want to last for a long time with her. Here are some examples I found:

http://49.media.tumblr.com/8412273f81148048944c7ba28585fa9a/tumblr_mqp3nxI58O1sw8qefo1_500.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/6059a910e7f5f5a5de97f669f8cf13d0/tumblr_n35jfuv7lY1ry89juo1_400.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/270266288c0e3d289dc08c87f71e4aa4/tumblr_nxil4qSwk21to941jo1_400.gif

Dan7373

03-12-16, 13:57

Asian guys are really into fondling hot ladies in porn and in real life too. Japanese porn has a whole genre, where guys fondle the heck out of a really sexy lady. Here are some examples:

http://45.media.tumblr.com/4aad67030eda9952038575ca12a15507/tumblr_ngsuakl1ph1r3iafjo2_500.gif

http://www.llamarepublik.com/hashbrowns/var/albums/Hentai-Gifs/groping%20fondling%20molesting%20nurse%20japanese%20porn%20gif.gif?m=1410501736

http://45.media.tumblr.com/25249e4e43811611c20abcb2fd14e107/tumblr_nept8wtdbF1r3iafjo3_500.gif

And this isn't just porn. One time I took a minibus from Issaan to Bangkok. There were only two women on the bus, my lady and another hot lady, who looked and dressed like she worked at a massage parlour in Bangkok. Not long into our trip, the hot lady in the back complained to the driver, and he yelled at the guys in the back and got the lady to move to the front seat, where I was sitting with my lady. Apparently some guys were fondling her, and that's what this trouble was about. I ended up getting sandwiched between the two ladies. Which I liked of course, but was I concerned that this looked really unfair to the guys behind me. So, I switched places with my lady to sit beside the window. Which probably looked like I was afraid of getting fondled by that sexy lady.

But in any case, fondling the sexy lady is a big thing in Asia and in Thailand too. This is something hot Asian women are very familiar with. And they are okay with it too in a P4P type of situation. It's doing it for free that they don't like.

It actually took me a while to learn just how much Thai P4P ladies will let you touch and fondle them. There was one really hot Go-Go lady, whom I took to my hotel room several times. It got to a point where I would just plunge my hand inside her panties and start masturbating her pussy and clit, as soon as she closes the door behind herself in my hotel room. Her pussy, tits, and ass I really enjoyed touching and fondling. And she was okay with it too, because I made it pleasant enough for her to orgasm her with my hand every time. It was orgasm for her first, and then I would nail her with my cock for my own orgasm. Ladies first, they say. And that's the way I did it with her.

There is something to be said for fondling your sexy Asian lady to make sure she is hot and ready.

I've read some complaints from guys in this forum that they've been in a situation, where the massage lady kept going back and forth doing various things for half-an-hour, before their massage even started. And then her heart wasn't in it during the remaining time.

Perhaps what this lady really needed was some serious fondling from her guy. His hand inside her panties and on her pussy, every time she walks by.

HydMong

03-12-16, 19:42

Is it true that size of penis matters for a womans orgasms. ,?

Wolvenvacht

03-12-16, 20:14

Is it true that size of penis matters for a womans orgasms. ,?No, not really. Penis size is not that much different generally speaking.

Some ladies like a penis that has more girth and it seems that is more important than length. There are not that much nerves deep inside her vagina, so getting that extra cm only has a marginal effect. A more thick penis may give her a better "filled" feeling, but again the differences are small and it will also depend on who big or small, loose or tight her pussy is.

But in the end it is more about how you use it rather than its absolute size.

LukeSkywalker

03-12-16, 21:04

Dan7373

03-13-16, 12:29

Is it true that size of penis matters for a womans orgasms. ,?The key woman's orgasm is effective clitoral stimulation. And vaginal sex alone usually doesn't provide enough such stimulation.

http://dodsonandross.com/blogs/carlin-ross/2014/10/all-women-can-orgasm-if-clitoris-erectile-tissue-are-effectively-stimulate

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/ca.22471/full

The trick is to use your fingers and hand and not just your cock. Here is what I mean:

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/the-ole-shaft-and-twirl.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/85ae4d4e8d985d2d8cae66892674f115/tumblr_nvo1ewCrxo1qfc2yoo8_r1_400.gif

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/brunettes-orgasm-face.gif

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/sexiest-pornstar-period.gif

Gangles

03-13-16, 12:46

Dan7373

03-13-16, 13:10

I had a 20 YO wechat girl in HCMC.

She's about 130 lbs just slightly overweight, but her pussy was so loose, I did not feel my dick was penetrating anything. There was no sensation at my dick. It was a waste of energy, time and money.

So the girl's pussy size does matter. If it's too big or too loose, there no use sticking your dick into it. Conversely, if the dick is too small for the pussy, you would not feel anything.

I think it's best for the male and female to be roughly the same size, perhaps with the male slightly bigger than the female. Then the genitals would fit perfectly and bring the best sensations to both.What you say is true only if you bang the lady in a straight line, in and out, without bending your dick inside her.

Straight in and out is the easiest way to do it in most sex positions. But in some sex-positions, you can actually move the chick with your dick. And when you do it this way, then you bend your dick inside her and you get plenty of stimulation during your penetration, even when your dick is smaller than her vagina. Here is what I mean:

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/cdnicole/2841426/1082131110/Smothered.gif

https://49.media.tumblr.com/a11ca9cb220282bd7fe42e4e686b680a/tumblr_n7bx12pIKU1tp1u5po6_500.gif

http://49.media.tumblr.com/0cc927f0350ebd64cf04d019b3b12f60/tumblr_nr46xghxCX1ute1l1o1_500.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/270266288c0e3d289dc08c87f71e4aa4/tumblr_nxil4qSwk21to941jo1_400.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/eb049b238c2bd03833c74d17a0318b7b/tumblr_nwsg2e7sPu1taid38o2_500.gif

Dan7373

03-14-16, 14:19

You can change the tightness of her vagina by filling her rectum.

There is a very thin wall between the two. So if you put a medium to large butt plug into her ass, that will squeeze her vagina, and she feels like a virgin.

But you may need to be slow about introducing her to the butt plug experience.

My lady has grown to love it. So she is happy with either a medium butt plug, or a fairly big soft rubber dildo in her ass while we are fucking.

Try it. You will probably love it.

GYes, your idea works. But in most P4P type of situations, you need to be quick with your dick to nail the sexy chick. You don't have a lot of time to persuade the lady.

Having a butt-plug in her ass during vaginal sex is like double-penetration for the lady. Most women probably consider this more difficult to do, than just having anal sex. Because even in porn, some women do anal, but they don't do DP's.

I did some research on this topic, and I found a quote in a forum, "A female friend told me once that with her you either get to have a big dick or have anal, but not both. Either way the guy should be happy with himself. ".

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/338052.page

A lot of women in this forum say that they prefer to have anal sex with a smaller guy. Which sounds to me like the smaller guy actually has an advantage, when it comes to nailing the asses of hot lasses.

Perhaps that's the thing to do, when you have a smaller dick-size. Be the anal guy. It won't be that hard for you to persuade the lady to do anal with you. You just need to remember the lady's pussy and clit with your hand, while you nail her ass with your cock. Here is what I mean:

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/anal-at-its-finest.gif

Dan7373

03-14-16, 19:50

Somebody from this forum has asked me a question in a private message about how to nail a sexy chick with a small dick. And he asked me to share some GIF pictures to illustrate what I mean. I think this question might be interesting for some other guys too. And that's why I decided to answer it here.

One obvious thing to say is that pounding the sexy chick with a small dick is a bad idea. Because for sure you are going to slip out of her in the heat of the moment.

You need to stay close to the chick and grind her with your dick, rather than pound her. And this means that you need to have a plan, before you even touch the lady's sexy bum.

Doggy position is where you start out with the lady. But you need to make sure that she has room to go forward on the bed with you. Because the next thing you do is enter her from behind, lean forward on her, and put some weight behind your hips on her sexy ass-cheeks to make her go down into the prone position with you. And then you just grind your hips on her sexy ass-cheeks to stretch her sex-hole with your pole and move it around inside her. Here is of what I mean:

http://45.media.tumblr.com/524d6b12fe36a74f79f60daea99cd14e/tumblr_njem8vlXOr1taid38o1_500.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/df79a69cfbd65a5305f0245ed26771e3/tumblr_nw2h8pNyBB1taid38o1_500.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/5a009523e30b62e4408bdad1aeb56f07/tumblr_nowlymH2Cg1taid38o1_400.gif

http://45.media.tumblr.com/f43679aabc3ad6a98ca734c327e67e3b/tumblr_neyf1iGcko1r2sy0fo6_500.gif

http://49.media.tumblr.com/0d39c7872ee5d5aa6b254f0a8bb7eedf/tumblr_n4unslDi4T1sa6z24o1_500.gif

I've done this with a lady or two. And I can say from my own experience that it's very easy to get the lady into this kind of a sex position with you, if you start out in the doggy position with her and then lean forward on her to make her go down into the prone position. And it feels so good for a guy to grind his hips on the lady's ass-cheeks, while moving his cock inside her, that I'd say this is something to try for any guy, regardless of your cock-size.

I think maintaining a lot of body-to-body contact with your lady enables her to feel your lust with every thrust. And this is exciting in itself for the lady. Because your feeling of lust transfers to her through natural empathy, and she feels it too. And you can help the lady feel this even more, when you nail her, if you express yourself to her with some groans and moans during your especially pleasant moments with her.

I think dirty talk can be distracting, because it requires some thinking and understanding. But your animal sounds of pleasure is something for the hot lady enjoy and to talk about with her lady-friends afterwards.

Red Kilt

03-17-16, 08:13

Hey Dan.

I thought some of these descriptions were incredibly vivid and helpful.

https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/what-does-a-female-orgasm-feel-like

Dan7373

03-17-16, 19:24

Hey Dan.

I thought some of these descriptions were incredibly vivid and helpful.

https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/what-does-a-female-orgasm-feel-likeYes, these are interesting descriptions. But I'd say that these descriptions come from women who haven't had much variety in their orgasms, probably because they always did it the same way.

I can say from my own experience that a woman's orgasm can vary a lot from one time to another. It all depends on how you masturbate the lady and whether this is her 1st orgasm or 2nd orgasm during her session with you.

I remember one time, I brought a woman to orgasm with cunnilingus. She lost control and spasmed with her hips up and down in a fucking type of motion. She moaned a little and calmed down eventually. I gave her about half a minute to rest. And then I went after her erect clitoris with my mouth and tongue. I sucked on it, and my every tongue lick on her clit sent her into a wild spasm. It was as if she had a long, continuous orgasm. I kept licking her clit like this. Eventually she had a really wild orgasmic spasm, and she yelled in her orgasm so loudly that for sure, everyone in the house must've heard her. She was really embarrassed about it afterwards. Because her mother was in the house and probably understood what was going on.

This woman's first and second orgasms were quite different from each other. Her first orgasm lasted only a few seconds. But her second orgasm lasted for more than a minute. And her second orgasm was a lot more intense than her first.

I don't do much cunnilingus anymore. I prefer to masturbate women to orgasm with a well lubricated hand nowadays. And from this experience I can say that the intensity of orgasm for the same woman normally varies from one time to another.

And this is probably because I don't masturbate the lady the same way every time. It depends on my mood. Sometimes I just want the lady to orgasm quickly, and I go all out with my hand on her pussy. Which leads to a quick and violent orgasm after about 5 minutes or so. But at other times I want to make it last. So I watch for signs that the woman is coming close to orgasm, and I slow down at the right moment to make her last longer. When I make the lady last for a long time like this, then her orgasm is usually less violent, but it lasts longer.

Quick orgasm for the lady is something to do, when you are planning to make this lady orgasm two times. Because a quick orgasm doesn't fully satisfy the woman. But it still takes some skill to start masturbating the lady for her second orgasm. I'd say you need to keep your masturbating hand on her pussy and continue to stroke her lightly, just to let her know that you aren't quite finished yet. It takes couple of minutes for the lady to get over her refractory period. And she might feel a little uncomfortable at first, when you start masturbating her for real again. But it takes only a few well-lubricated strokes on her pussy and clit, before she starts to enjoy it again.

I found some good examples of my pussy masturbation technique. These examples show women masturbating themselves during anal sex. But I can say from my own experience that this pussy-masturbation technique works really well on its own. Here are some examples:

1. http://57.media.tumblr.com/51dd51d567698e0dcead1d4ee9f5f6d1/tumblr_o40qyew1iM1tvy3cwo1_500.gif

2. http://57.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbb9mvUqNU1qetcz3o1_400.gif

3. http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me403g2Z0E1rjaobfo1_400.gif

4. http://listslut.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/lily-carter-gif-anal-pussy-masturbation.gif

5. http://57.media.tumblr.com/4847495b8a0cdb1e172a539c86643410/tumblr_nwktsizD9M1twkv1qo2_500.gif

6. http://57.media.tumblr.com/e2acc959acf11804c3419f0474b046c2/tumblr_nwktsizD9M1twkv1qo1_500.gif

7. http://57.media.tumblr.com/81baa05ca3a7dce99576cc90325d2da9/tumblr_noz1ywc02t1s6qi3ro1_500.gif

8. http://57.media.tumblr.com/1f44520ee1e8691f9cf6fd5dc7bc7ce7/tumblr_nf85u0NG4j1t0xfvxo1_400.gif

9. http://57.media.tumblr.com/500ac3ae32c23b625ca6a2c82e6e002f/tumblr_njgnprnwpC1smq0b6o1_500.gif

10. http://57.media.tumblr.com/1357dba6c4d7fb7e1239806b8f627d4f/tumblr_nj96iqRoND1tibivco1_500.gif

11. http://57.media.tumblr.com/3e3b6092c70af35602b75a9c278bc95a/tumblr_myhjng2tmX1run2fvo1_500.gif

12. http://57.media.tumblr.com/0f626e880c6cbdf8db14499c709523ed/tumblr_nisy18BWpg1snq5aro1_400.gif

13. http://57.media.tumblr.com/9faf698da817f749617cb8f60956e42a/tumblr_nhzpl5vwP71trd8nlo1_400.gif

14. http://57.media.tumblr.com/56d6c2d8779842760e1a8d92dc5207a5/tumblr_nglyon67Et1sshi03o3_1280.gif

15. http://57.media.tumblr.com/7809d29958741ec278e36c516536dba5/tumblr_nglyon67Et1sshi03o4_1280.gif

16. http://57.media.tumblr.com/5842a21ac69602171133e028968767b1/tumblr_n0a6ssNV8S1rdn1zgo1_500.gif

17. http://57.media.tumblr.com/7f072fbcccbe5ab4865e74054facc81f/tumblr_n9lxkuSylF1sf68sto1_500.gif

18. http://57.media.tumblr.com/75c3b4e31bc1975e4ee70a236312d6b9/tumblr_n4taabHZxE1segoz0o1_500.gif

19. http://57.media.tumblr.com/9d23da7804aa7ea0c4aad6b0b52a9ae1/tumblr_n7gggttxrs1s11mtco1_500.gif

20. http://57.media.tumblr.com/970e2c77afad254036d039245ce0a54a/tumblr_mtad8iuCwp1sfcuxuo1_500.gif

21. http://57.media.tumblr.com/61381d6622e7c519e7b424ac2dc702bf/tumblr_mrot9oiMCM1sfdb8fo1_500.gif

22. http://57.media.tumblr.com/aa4c173c2ec8bab4296daae0b28ac86f/tumblr_mksp2zIXPd1rla4l9o1_500.gif

Dan7373

03-18-16, 00:51

Cumming twice with the lady is an iffy kind of thing, even in Thailand. Most women and most massage parlors look down on you, when you ask for it. Only some so called PSE shops accommodate this kind of a desire in men.

But now there is a new fertility study which found that a woman is over 3 times more likely to get pregnant from the man's second cum than from his first, when he cums twice within one hour.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3340440/Having-sex-twice-hour-make-men-fertile.html

The authors of the study say that this difference between the man's first cum and his second cum is probably due to the fact that first cum contains old sperm which is ineffective. But the man's second cum contains more fresh sperm, which is a lot more effective.

Of course, you aren't trying to get the lady pregnant in a P4P type of situation. But I think this study is relevant to men's desire for two cumshots with their lady. Because guys are designed by nature to like things that are better for reproduction. That's why men like hour-glass-shaped women, rather than pear-shaped.

I think this study is a vindication for guys who want to cum twice. This is a perfectly natural thing for a guy to want. And it's not something you should be ashamed to ask for, even at massage places that don't normally offer it.

Perhaps one way to get around this ban on a second cumshot with the lady is to take a second lady for another session, right after you finish with the first lady. If you are going to pay twice for having two cumshots, then you might as well enjoy two full sessions with two ladies. This is an expensive proposition. But it's something to do if you can afford it. And I'd say that this is a fair way to get your two cumshots at a one-cumshot-place.

Of course, the big attraction of second cumshot action is that you are bound to last longer with the lady second time around. If you really like some sexy chick, then she is the one to take for your second cumshot ride.

Huevonn

03-18-16, 03:19

Way back when:

When I first started pfp, at the tender age of 14 in the brothels of Uruguay I used to always come twice in a session.

The first time I would just completely fake it, not pump harder or make any noise, just kind of let it slip out.

Being so young I could keep going without losing my erection after I came the first time.

Then I would really start to fuck the lady, put her in all sorts of positions that I'd seen only in pornos and really get my money's worth, last another half hour.

They would be very impressed and I got a reputation of being a young stud porno star.

If only they know I was just getting 2 for one. And the price back them, I'm talking mid seventies was $2 a pop!

Cumming twice with the lady is an iffy kind of thing, even in Thailand. Most women and most massage parlors look down on you, when you ask for it. Only some so called PSE shops accommodate this kind of a desire in men.

But now there is a new fertility study which found that a woman is over 3 times more likely to get pregnant from the man's second cum than from his first, when he cums twice within one hour.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3340440/Having-sex-twice-hour-make-men-fertile.html

The authors of the study say that this difference between the man's first cum and his second cum is probably due to the fact that first cum contains old sperm which is ineffective. But the man's second cum contains more fresh sperm, which is a lot more effective.

Of course, you aren't trying to get the lady pregnant in a P4P type of situation. But I think this study is relevant to men's desire for two cumshots with their lady. Because guys are designed by nature to like things that are better for reproduction. That's why men like hour-glass-shaped women, rather than pear-shaped.

I think this study is a vindication for guys who want to cum twice. This is a perfectly natural thing for a guy to want. And it's not something you should be ashamed to ask for, even at massage places that don't normally offer it.

Perhaps one way to get around this ban on a second cumshot with the lady is to take a second lady for another session, right after you finish with the first lady. If you are going to pay twice for having two cumshots, then you might as well enjoy two full sessions with two ladies. This is an expensive proposition. But it's something to do if you can afford it. And I'd say that this is a fair way to get your two cumshots at a one-cumshot-place.

Of course, the big attraction of second cumshot action is that you are bound to last longer with the lady second time around. If you really like some sexy chick, then she is the one to take for your second cumshot ride.

Dan7373

03-19-16, 12:29

Way back when:

When I first started pfp, at the tender age of 14 in the brothels of Uruguay I used to always come twice in a session.

The first time I would just completely fake it, not pump harder or make any noise, just kind of let it slip out.

Being so young I could keep going without losing my erection after I came the first time.

Then I would really start to fuck the lady, put her in all sorts of positions that I'd seen only in pornos and really get my money's worth, last another half hour.

They would be very impressed and I got a reputation of being a young stud porno star.

If only they know I was just getting 2 for one. And the price back them, I'm talking mid seventies was $2 a pop!Nowadays, a 14-year-old guy and the lady can get into a lot of trouble for having sex. In USA, the woman would get labeled as a sex-offender and put in jail for a long time. And the US government is putting pressure on all other countries to do it this way too.

But you are right that it's relatively easy for a guy to hide his orgasm from the lady, stay inside her, and then continue to bang her for his second cum with her. I remember one time I orgasmed with a lady, but I didn't go out of my way to show my orgasmic reaction to her. And then she had a hard time believing me that I orgasmed with her. She was kind of upset about it too, because she wanted me to show her my feelings of orgasm, when I had one.

If you are changing positions with the lady, then she might see that you already have cum in your condom. But if you stay with the lady in the same position from start to finish, then there is no way for her to know if the cum in your condom is from two cumshots or from only one.

I think this brings up an important point. The lady depends on the guy to show her his orgasmic feeling during his drilling. Which makes it easy for the guy to cheat. He can hide his orgasms from the lady and continue to bang her, until he is truly and fully satisfied. He doesn't even need to stop at two cumshots. He can have 3 or more, as long as he hides his orgasms from her.

Of course, continuing to bang the lady with a condom full of cum makes the sex more risky for the lady. If the condom breaks, then all of that cum ends up inside her. And cum-lubricated condom is also more likely to slip off the guy during sex.

Now that I think about it, the ladies are actually putting themselves at risk, when they restrict their guy to one cumshot only. Because these ladies are depending on the guy's honesty and integrity in a tempting situation. Even honest guys are bound to cheat once in a while, when the temptation is strong enough.

The rules of condom use clearly say that you are supposed to change condoms, after you've had a cumshot. But if changing your condom means that the lady will stop having sex with you, or she will ask you for a lot more money, then doing the right thing becomes very hard for the guy.

Huevonn

03-19-16, 14:03

Condoms?

No condoms in the 70's.

Nowadays, a 14-year-old guy and the lady can get into a lot of trouble for having sex. In USA, the woman would get labeled as a sex-offender and put in jail for a long time. And the US government is putting pressure on all other countries to do it this way too.

But you are right that it's relatively easy for a guy to hide his orgasm from the lady, stay inside her, and then continue to bang her for his second cum with her. I remember one time I orgasmed with a lady, but I didn't go out of my way to show my orgasmic reaction to her. And then she had a hard time believing me that I orgasmed with her. She was kind of upset about it too, because she wanted me to show her my feelings of orgasm, when I had one.

If you are changing positions with the lady, then she might see that you already have cum in your condom. But if you stay with the lady in the same position from start to finish, then there is no way for her to know if the cum in your condom is from two cumshots or from only one.

I think this brings up an important point. The lady depends on the guy to show her his orgasmic feeling during his drilling. Which makes it easy for the guy to cheat. He can hide his orgasms from the lady and continue to bang her, until he is truly and fully satisfied. He doesn't even need to stop at two cumshots. He can have 3 or more, as long as he hides his orgasms from her.

Of course, continuing to bang the lady with a condom full of cum makes the sex more risky for the lady. If the condom breaks, then all of that cum ends up inside her. And cum-lubricated condom is also more likely to slip off the guy during sex.

Now that I think about it, the ladies are actually putting themselves at risk, when they restrict their guy to one cumshot only. Because these ladies are depending on the guy's honesty and integrity in a tempting situation. Even honest guys are bound to cheat once in a while, when the temptation is strong enough.

The rules of condom use clearly say that you are supposed to change condoms, after you've had a cumshot. But if changing your condom means that the lady will stop having sex with you, or she will ask you for a lot more money, then doing the right thing becomes very hard for the guy.

Dan7373

03-19-16, 16:22

Condoms?
No condoms in the 70's.Yes, things have changed a lot since 1970's. I can only imagine how hard and fast you could nail the lady in various positions, after you've lubricated her with your first cum. In this situation, you last longer with the lady not just because you are working on your second cum but also because your ride becomes a very slippery slide.

But nowadays, condoms are widely used and for a good reason too. And I'm just saying that P4P ladies aren't doing themselves any favor, when they restrict their guy to one cumshot only. The guy can easily restrain his orgasmic reaction enough to hide it from the lady and continue banging her, until he is truly and fully satisfied with her.

PSE shops do it is safer, when they let guys have as many cumshots as they want. Because when the guy has no incentive to hide his orgasm from the lady, then he is much more likely to change his condom with her.

Captain Solo

03-20-16, 09:09

I had a fun time in Montevideo a few years ago. Uruguay has some very pretty Spanish-looking young girls and women. They are very nice, sweet, polite and gentle and pleasant, very much like Argentinians. I always like Uruguayans and Argentinians. They are the exact opposite of Brazilians and Paraguayans, who have darker complexion and are a lot rougher, crime-prone and more violent.

There were a few guys handing out flyers for brothels downtown Montevideo. I took a flyer and went into a tall multi-story stone building. Inside the wood floor and stair case already rotted out and collapsed like it had been bit with a bomb. There were a couple old, ugly women living in a dark apartment on the third floor, lit by candles, selling sex. They looked horrible, like a bunch of witches. I beat a hasty retreat down the broken stair case.

I walked to bar Pikaros around 11 PM. There were a couple girls but no client. Picked up this girl. She was the best-looking in the bunch. Can you recognize her? Paid about $100 then for ST. She was pleasant and compliant, posing for many sexy pictures. She was horny. We had hot sex. I enjoyed ravaging her sexy body, fucking her tight and wet pussy and came twice. If I had to attract her to come back for free sex for long term, I would have learned all Dan's lessons how to give her massive orgasms in this good thread. Hehehe.

I wonder where you went for your $2 putas then? Where would you go to look for girls for ST and LT in Montevideo now?

Way back when:

When I first started pfp, at the tender age of 14 in the brothels of Uruguay I used to always come twice in a session.

The first time I would just completely fake it, not pump harder or make any noise, just kind of let it slip out.

Being so young I could keep going without losing my erection after I came the first time.

Then I would really start to fuck the lady, put her in all sorts of positions that I'd seen only in pornos and really get my money's worth, last another half hour.

They would be very impressed and I got a reputation of being a young stud porno star.

If only they know I was just getting 2 for one. And the price back them, I'm talking mid seventies was $2 a pop!

Dan7373

03-20-16, 13:17

According to sex-counsellor and sex-therapist, Celeste Hirschman, "Most of the couples I work with actually bristle at the idea of scheduling sex; they feel like desire should emerge spontaneously, but actually desire is 'responsive,' meaning that it doesn't just emerge. What does desire respond to? Arousal. ".

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/complaints-sex-therapists-hear-all-the-time_us_56e9db0ee4b0860f99db85e8

Waiting for spontaneous desire is like waiting for spontaneous fire. It might happen, if the lightning from the sky strikes at the right place and at the right time. But this is a really primitive way to do it. That's the way people did it with fire, before they learned how to make fire.

Celeste Hirschman says that people's sexual desire comes about as a result of stimulation. It can happen by accident, such when the lady inadvertently shows you her cleavage. Or it can happen deliberately, such as when the lady takes your cock and makes it hard as a rock with her mouth and hands.

My point here is that the lady's sexual desire also doesn't work well spontaneously. If you don't do anything to arouse the lady, or your technique for arousing the lady is poor, then quite often you don't have a good experience with the lady. Because the lady doesn't feel much sexual desire with you.

A lot of people seem to believe in spontaneous sex and desire. But that's not how the human body actually works. Perhaps this myth of spontaneity is the result of historical repression of sex. It used to be a sin to think and fantasize about sex too much. Which meant that doing it spontaneously, without any prior planning or thinking was the ideal way to do it.

We don't have as much sexual repression now. But a lot of people still believe in ideas left over in Western culture from past sexual repression.

Dan7373

03-21-16, 15:24

A lot of people say that porn is a fantasy and an illusion and that you shouldn't use porn for your sex-education. But I find this idea a little hard to believe.

Why wouldn't you want to learn from people, who are very experienced and who are experts at performing various sex-acts? It's like saying that experts don't know what they are doing, and you should learn from amateurs instead. This idea seems like total nonsense to me.

It's true that most porn videos aren't designed to be instructional, and they don't show you everything that porn-stars do. But it's not like porn-stars are hiding their sex-secrets from everyone else. You can find videos where porn-stars talk freely about how they prepare and what they do to make their sex look so easy and good.

I've recently watched a video, where a female porn-star mentioned using a lube injector to inject a lot of lube in her ass, before having anal sex with a guy. And I was little surprised to hear this, because I've read a lot of conventional anal-sex-advice at various websites, and none of them mentioned using the lube injector.

I suppose, this is the difference between experienced professionals and amateurs. Professionals do it so much that it won't work for them, unless they find the best way of doing it. But amateurs do it only once in a while, which enables them to tolerate some hurt and discomfort. Amateurs have time to recover and do it again the wrong way, and they don't learn from their experience.

But in any case, I did some research on the lube injector, and apparently its use by porn-stars is a huge reason why they are able to perform anal-sex so much better than amateurs. Here are a couple of website that describe the lube injector and give advice about how to use it:

https://www.slickn.com/articles/lube-shooter

http://www.maxprivate.net/what-is-good-anal-lube/

Apparently, some people use this lube injector for vaginal sex too. And this is definitely something to use, when the lady complains about you being too big in the cock department. Because the problem in this situation is too much friction for the lady, which can be decreased either by smaller-cock-size or by plenty of lube inside her. You can't reduce your cock-size. But you can certainly lube her up with the lube injector.

I think introducing Thai P4P ladies to the lube injector would greatly enhance their willingness and ability to perform like porn-stars, with some modifications, of course. You still want to use a condom in a P4P type of situation. And this means that you should use water-based lube, rather than vaseline or some oil-based lube. And using water-based lube means that you need to inject some water too, after a few minutes. Because water gets absorbed by the woman's body, which dries out the lube and makes it ineffective, unless you add some water.

Perhaps bringing a new lube-injector in a sealed package, as it was sold, and giving it as a gift to the lady would persuade her to try it with you. Because with a used injector, the lady might be concerned that you've used it on some other lady, and it might not be clean.

A lot of amateurs talk about the discomforts and pains of having anal sex. But a lot of it happens because they either learn by trial-and-error, or by listening to other amateurs, instead of learning from experienced porn-stars, who are clearly vary good at it, when you look at their videos.

For me, the big attraction of anal action is that it opens up the lady's pussy for some serious pussy-masturbation with your hand. When you have your cock inside the lady's pussy, then you are somewhat limited in your ability to masturbate her pussy and clit. But once you go anal on her, then it's pussy masturbation galore. Here is what I mean:

1. http://24.media.tumblr.com/cdad09ce1072dc46e9b0188f4b2fd611/tumblr_n0or3vtHZe1r2sy0fo1_500.gif.

2. http://33.media.tumblr.com/31cccc1b8c707a84cb157bb167812884/tumblr_nmfvzpzdnb1u24tk5o1_400.gif.

3. http://www.sexvideogif.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/30/Stacy-Silver-gets-anal-fuck.gif.

4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/f02bf0ea73dfe371f9bc3d79cf622551/tumblr_mwmcyo062l1sqc4abo10_500.gif.

5. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/05/30/20/1/4682-anal-sex-and-rubbing-pussy.gif.

6. http://a.im9.eu/sharon-lee-asian-juicy-pussy-rub-anal.gif.

7. http://49.media.tumblr.com/bdb27616450e0485d7e04df8abe84245/tumblr_mgisvw3vcE1rvyv2mo1_500.gif.

8. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/anal-in-white-stockings.gif.

9. http://ist2-2.filesor.com/pimpandhost.com/1/_/_/_/1/2/4/H/A/24HA2/Ava-Addams-anal-pussy-rubbing-Prime-MILF.gif.

10. http://49.media.tumblr.com/e8aa026d51daebf01df8468f25a565c8/tumblr_nk1bd5Y1Jg1un7wtdo1_500.gif.

11. http://45.media.tumblr.com/77d592f87c7662a92533a644a816e19b/tumblr_mzd9exjk8x1revz5to1_500.gif.

12. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2015/06/19/620/12443665.gif?site=sex&user=mccarty22nd.

13. http://45.media.tumblr.com/afa30955fe1a275f7a284f7220567722/tumblr_mskvdt4P4P1revz5to1_500.gif.

14. http://49.media.tumblr.com/5e3056999dc853629497c7273c8410e4/tumblr_n9u9xsEWkn1tvhjvso1_500.gif.
I think this GIF is especially interesting to see, because the lady's pussy is so wide open on its own, without anybody spreading it apart. This is a clear sign that the lady is very aroused, and she is probably close to orgasm.

15. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2015/11/04/236/14214549.gif.

16. http://www.niceandquite.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/GoodnaturedFearfulKakarikis.gif.

17. https://49.media.tumblr.com/da47185e96f015c94202913186f10c47/tumblr_nkcij5uo3S1ssg1uso2_500.gif.

18. https://45.media.tumblr.com/5cafa224bfae4d334a3f5be79c7df2f1/tumblr_nkcij5uo3S1ssg1uso7_500.gif.

19. https://49.media.tumblr.com/31e75a1bb152a42c46b91939f3bf10de/tumblr_nkcij5uo3S1ssg1uso6_500.gif.

20. https://49.media.tumblr.com/a42b3867a0414210b426ed4dd75572d5/tumblr_n0zqmz2IMx1sqc4abo3_500.gif.

21. https://49.media.tumblr.com/197c326006534c657636c27cd2a57852/tumblr_nkcij5uo3S1ssg1uso3_500.gif.

22. http://49.media.tumblr.com/14a896e4e006a88fb8d7b3f564d13a35/tumblr_nb4rcaaYyU1rm4a5do3_500.gif.

23. http://45.media.tumblr.com/9639abef5482872544e8cf58318ba909/tumblr_mqo788RIiT1revz5to1_500.gif.

24. http://45.media.tumblr.com/3b44a0d2e06822d7f7397085b195e957/tumblr_ncn0mmbVz51sfk6xyo1_500.gif.

25. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2013/07/28/620/3292227.gif?site=sex&user=171gifer.

Dan7373

03-23-16, 12:06

When a hot lady is wearing tight jeans, then you can probably masturbate her to orgasm by rubbing her pussy hard and fast through her jeans. She doesn't even need to undress for you to orgasm with you. This much I can say from my own experience. You just need to adjust you pussy masturbation technique and make it firmer, harder, and faster, when you are masturbating the lady through her tight jeans.

There aren't many GIF pictures that show you how to masturbate a lady's pussy through her jeans, but I found one picture, where the lady masturbates herself through her panties. She is doing it faster and harder, than on a naked pussy. And that's how you need to adjust your technique, when you masturbate the lady through her jeans.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9hby73mLg1ql7ajuo1_500.gif

Of course the reason why you might want to masturbate the lady's pussy through her jeans, rather than wait for her to get undressed, is because you might end up waiting for nothing. If the lady isn't in the mood for it, then she won't take off her jeans. You need to arouse the lady first. If the lady's jeans are so tight that you can see her camel-toe (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Camel_toe), then the quickest and the most effective way to arouse her is to masturbate her pussy through her clothing.

Masturbating the lady through her jeans can put some blisters on your hand. But once the lady is in her panties, then you basically have it made as far as masturbating her pussy goes. Here is what I mean:

http://images4.sex.com/images/pinporn/2013/04/04/620/2331287.gif?site=sex&user=spankmyassplease

http://teen-sex-photos.eu/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/tumblr_n6occiNN3R1t5982so1_400.gif

Another important thing for guys to realize about pussy masturbation is that you need to have some variation in your technique. Each GIF picture that I post here is only a looping moment frozen in time. It doesn't show you what happened before, and it doesn't show you what happens afterwards. It gives you a false impression that the lady's pussy-masturbation happens only one way, without much variation. When you are masturbating the lady to orgasm, then this can take anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes. And you definitely need to vary your pussy masturbation technique with her during this time. Or else it might get boring and even uncomfortable for her. I think pussy-masturbation techniques can be put into five broad categories: side-to-side, circular-motion, both side-to-side and circular, and along-the-slit. Here are some examples:

Side-to-side pussy-masturbation:
1. http://171gifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Vicki-Chase-assfucked-by-Ramon-Wet-Asses-3-.gif
This GIF shows my favorite way to masturbate a lady's pussy. I always make sure that I masturbate my lady's pussy this way at least some of the time. Because you really get to know the lady's pussy with your hand, when you spread her apart like this. You achieve a lot of intimacy with the lady, when you masturbate her pussy this way.
2. http://24.media.tumblr.com/09e7c00dba327ca86d0ae6e6e4e07e60/tumblr_mxjw0cUugn1rni6rao1_500.gif.
3. http://49.media.tumblr.com/6cd820cc4ee50b45ceae1380d38a1d5e/tumblr_n0zjhrNaYb1tpmcueo1_500.gif.
4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/4e03128098dee9ff65c8cd3bc836c7b4/tumblr_o3xjp48s361uohfy9o1_500.gif.

Circular-motion pussy-masturbation:
1. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/tumblr_nivxuhkNaS1u0roudo1_500.gif.
2. http://45.media.tumblr.com/f22d1c56653936b496e2c73f7ad4137a/tumblr_o1yidzdatj1thj73wo1_500.gif.
3. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/kimberly-costa-rubbing-teen-pussy_1.gif.
4. http://49.media.tumblr.com/9529c8a9e9a2b799184af2048fcd890d/tumblr_msxixifeKS1revz5to1_500.gif.
5. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/02/04/19/1/5284-liza-del-sierra.gif.
6. http://24.media.tumblr.com/591362d304a37d9ee1d9a137e472a33c/tumblr_n6crx8I3ZR1r9snzco1_500.gif.
7. http://38.media.tumblr.com/e02806dd45d3bf980631294d2b242ce1/tumblr_inline_nrwlyaGD3X1t7hxp5_500.gif.

Both side-to-side and circular pussy-masturbation:
1. http://45.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m20iso3zwN1r8p4wto1_500.gif.
2. http://porngifs.mobi/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/carter-cruise-intense-anal.gif.
3. http://beaverhunt.biz/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/photo-Babe-Masturbation-Erotic-GIF-Pussy-617770692.gif.
4. http://www.privatexxxstudio.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/privatexxx-9.gif.

Along the slit pussy-masturbation:
1. http://49.media.tumblr.com/3bc9f7ed297d8bfc30ded71ba9998e8a/tumblr_o3uxnymt9P1uijjv7o1_400.gif.
2. http://45.media.tumblr.com/b895b57385c8fe4a50834e57e61272ea/tumblr_mzmj6mN1rJ1revz5to1_500.gif.
3. http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mcqvhhYu831qktnjdo2_500.gif.

Masturbating the lady's pussy during vaginal sex is an art in itself. Here are some examples of how you can vary your pussy-masturbation technique, while you are nailing the lady's pussy with your cock:
1. http://www.sexvideogif.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/22/Blonde-nasty-Milf-Gigi-Allens-big-boobs-gets-fucked.gif.
2. http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/DREADON/4767520/2089317038/2.gif.
3. http://a.im9.eu/gspot-though-anal-huge-black-cock-pussy-stretch-pussy-rub.gif.
4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/5b14baa92bb285e33acdf6218de1275d/tumblr_mvll3r7j0u1revz5to1_500.gif.
5. http://49.media.tumblr.com/58898d77a8264fdffe017fc3fde372c9/tumblr_n4k5v7guvL1revz5to1_r1_500.gif.
6. http://s3d4.turboimg.net/sp/d8e7b97430c3d01c3f80d1fe60106916/Eva-Angelina-rubbing-her-fatty-pussy.gif.
7. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/08/12/13/1/9285-porn-gif-wet-pussy-has-its-clit-rubbed-while-her-hole-gets-fucked.gif.
8. https://i.xxgifs.com/galleries/21/big/deep-in-her-wet-pussy.gif.

One final thing to say is that you need to pay attention to the situation and adapt your pussy-masturbation. If the lady is all oiled and and very slippery, then you need to pick up your speed and do it faster with her. Because the lady gets less friction, when she is very well lubricated, and you need to compensate for it by doing it faster with her. Here is what I mean:
https://i.xxgifs.com/galleries/1/big/brunette-gets-sensual-oil-pussy-massage.gif

Dan7373

03-26-16, 12:58

I'd say from my own experience that bringing a lady to orgasm takes a lot of imagination. It's not something you can do just by repeating the actions and the techniques that you see in porn GIF pictures.

Because when you are masturbating a lady's pussy, then you need to make decisions about how hard and how fast to do it, how to vary your technique, and when to change it completely. You need to do the right things in the right way and at the right time. And it's not just one time. This is something you need to do again and again for 10 to 20 minutes with the lady. If you get your timing wrong, or you do it too fast or too slow, or you use too much or too little pressure with your hand on the lady's pussy and clit, then it simply won't work for her.

I think you need to imagine how it feels for the lady based on the non-verbal feedback you are getting from her. If you keep your body close to hers, so that you can feel every little tension and movement she makes, then this enables you to get a pretty good picture of how she feels. And this is what you use to decide how to masturbate her pussy at any given moment in time. You basically need to tune yourself into her feelings so well and so much that your imagination of how she feels is very accurate, accurate enough to do it the right way with her.

There isn't any single right way of doing it with the lady. Because it all depends on how the lady feels. You are trying to arouse the lady and bring her to orgasm. Which is all about making her feel this way. And to make her feel this way, you need to know and understand her feelings, as you are doing it. Or else, you simply won't do it the right way, even if you imitate perfectly all the pussy-masturbation techniques you've seen other people use successfully.

I think the easiest and the most natural way to tune into your lady's feelings for pussy and clit masturbation is to hug her from behind, make a lot of body-to-body contact with her, and press with your hips on her ass-cheeks, so that her pussy is roughly where your cock would be, if you were masturbating yourself. Because when you put the lady's pussy very close to your cock and masturbate her like this, then you can adapt most of your self-masturbation techniques for masturbating her. You need to hold your hand in a different way, of course, because of the different anatomy. But the pressure with your hand, the speed, the timing, and the variation of your techniques can all be the same for her as they are for you. You basically masturbate the lady the same way you normally masturbate yourself in terms of the hand-pressure, the speed, the timing and the variation of technique. The only difference is how you hold your hand on her pussy. But mentally, in your imagination, it's the same masturbation for her, as it is for you.

This is doing unto her, as you do unto yourself. Which makes it easy for you to understand her feelings well enough to orgasm her.

I found some more GIF pictures where ladies masturbate themselves. Without a doubt, they are using the right techniques, and of course they know exactly how it feels for them. Their pussy-masturbation techniques are definitely something to learn from and imitate. You just need to realize that there is more going on than just what you see in the picture. Because it's all about making the lady feel the right way, and feelings is something you don't see. Feelings is something you can only imagine and understand with your mind well enough to do it the right way with her. Here are the pictures:

1. http://49.media.tumblr.com/1e00ac4248ecb4420322f76f78444e05/tumblr_nr7518B7631sfkfqio1_400.gif.

2. http://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2015/02/24/236/10668457.gif.

3. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/12/12/8/1/7342-veronica-avluv-fingering-her-asshole-while-rubbing-her-hard-clit.gif.

4. http://45.media.tumblr.com/44e44ec133fdb1292d2e6033ed57ac17/tumblr_nmr6wmS7Fl1t86fsoo1_500.gif.

5. http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/titty-fucking-pussy-rubbing-xxx.gif.

6. http://animatedpornpics.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/AnimatedPornPics269.gif.

7. http://49.media.tumblr.com/cf0bd186648b6b9cf79e7cefa0bf3b8c/tumblr_nmn3hiYwaQ1u18fzyo1_400.gif.

8. http://49.media.tumblr.com/153690fd91dfb868f3f5e581910546b8/tumblr_nmn2tcdZVv1u18fzyo1_500.gif.

9. https://i2.xxgifs.com/galleries/2014/11/16/big/40193-babe-rubbing-her-clit-with-a-cock-fucking-her-ass.gif.

10. http://www.juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/12/16/0/1/7465-lisa-ann-rubbing-her-hard-clit-while-getting-her-ass-fucked.gif.

11. http://softscreams.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/tumblr_nl6hzkN9qM1uniz58o4_500.gif.

12. http://www.gifsfor.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/476126-rub-that-clit.gif.

Dan7373

03-29-16, 14:09

From my own experience I would say that a lot of women don't understand at first what you are trying to do, when you want to masturbate their clitoris. This kind of thing can lead to a bad misunderstanding, if you don't go about it the right way. Because it's far more common for guys to try to insert their fingers inside the woman's vagina than to masturbate her clitoris. And a lot of women don't like this.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a33373/things-women-think-about-fingerbanging/

It's so rare for guys to masturbate their lady's clitoris that even in porn, you need to search long and hard to find examples of this. Here is one good example:
http://www.dirtyrotten%77%68%6F%72%65.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/Anikka-Albrites-1st-Double-Penetration-in-Anikka-2-Pornstar-GIF-Animation-Moving-Animations-01.gif

But in any case, I think the safest way to start clitoral masturbation is during pussy penetration. Because when you already have your cock inside the lady's pussy, then she won't be too concerned about you wanting to put your fingers in there too.

Taking the lady's pussy in doggy with your cock puts her clitoris within easy reach of your hand. And once you bring her to orgasm this way, then she will know and understand more that this is how you want to masturbate her, when you go after her clitoris in some other way.

That's why I say that your first encounter with the lady is partly the two of you getting to know each other. It's only on your second or third encounter with her that you truly and fully get to nail her.

Dan7373

04-06-16, 13:50

A recent study found that women who watched a "sexually arousing video rated the unpleasant tasks as less disgusting than did their counterparts who were not sexually aroused. They were also more likely to complete more of the tasks, suggesting that sexual arousal not only dampens the disgust response but also influences how much women are willing to do".

http://healthland.time.com/2012/09/14/why-sex-doesnt-gross-you-out-when-youre-aroused/

I think this study implies that going after your lady's clit and masturbating it does more than just please her. It's also a way to replace your lady's normal feelings of disgust with willingness and lust. Arousing your lady isn't just about pleasing her. It's also about making her a lot more willing to take a good drilling.

I think this study answers a question that people ask once in a while, "How is it that some really good-looking young P4P ladies are able to do it with much older, overweight guys?" The answer to this question is that either these ladies have learned how to arouse themselves, or the less good-looking guys have learned from their experience to please their women more.

When you aren't the best-looking guy anymore, then you need to arouse your lady more. Because this compensates for your disadvantage and makes the lady just as willing to take a good drilling from you, as she would be from a better-looking guy.

This study also has implication for having anal sex with the lady. Because anal sex is something ladies are more likely to feel disgusted about than other types of sex. If you want to be a baddie and persuade the lady to have anal sex with you, then you need to go after her pussy and clit, masturbate it, and only after you truly and fully arouse her, then ask her for anal, either verbally or non-verbally with a finger or two.

Some people say that the only preparation for anal sex you need is plenty of lube and lots of foreplay. If you are going to be disgusted about possible fecal matter, then anal sex isn't for you. Because it can happen even after the best preparation. And you need to keep in mind that sexual arousal probably decreases disgust among men too. Which means that you might be disgusted about it afterwards, but you'll enjoy it while you are doing it.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/videos/a5057/anal-sex-tips-from-experience/

Dan7373

04-07-16, 13:39

Once in a while you hear some guys complain that P4P women are doing it only for the money and not for the pleasure. Which implies that these guys aren't very good at pleasing their women. Because the woman's pleasure doesn't happen on its own. If the guy doesn't do much to please the woman, then that's the reason why she feels little pleasure and does it only for the money.

And making an effort to please the woman doesn't necessarily make it pleasant for her. You need to do it in a way that works, which takes some learning and experience.

I found some excellent examples where women demonstrate how to masturbate your lady's pussy with your hand. And I say they are excellent examples, because the woman's pussy is clearly aroused as a result of what the lady does. Which means that it works, and it's not just for show. Here are these examples:

1. http://i.imgur.com/BhIXXtC.gifv.

2. https://fat.gfycat.com/GiganticUnderstatedEsok.webm.

3. https://zippy.gfycat.com/AnimatedConcernedDonkey.webm.

4. https://zippy.gfycat.com/TautSerpentineGuanaco.webm.

5. https://fat.gfycat.com/GleefulInformalIndianringneckparakeet.webm.

Gaolegao366

04-27-16, 02:59

HI guys,

It's my first-time post in this section. Here is some of experience with women. At the beginning, I was amateur. So When I went down on girls' Virgina with my tongue my tongue just go all over the places. When girls move their virgina I still do what I do.

Ever since I saw some random guy said online that you should ask girl how she like it done like should I go left, right or should I go slow or harder instead of ask if she likes it or not. Plus, when girls move their body it means they want you to lick the right part so keep the same position with your toungue. After I did what he told I feel when girls have orgasm they actually enjoy it instead of fake it and tell me it is good. Especially when their whole body shake so hard and shake like earthquake. That time I know I have done it the right way.

But right now I have some questions, I do not know if it is true or not that some girls told me that they do not want to be lick on their Virgina. Is it true or not girls do not like that just like guys do not like blowjob from girls regardless of technique. (I know some girls have bad experience with guys do not know what to do at all but we are talking about guys do know how to do technique.

Also, when I go down there for like 40 minutes straight, she seems enjoy it but no sign of she getting climax soon, should I keep going or try something new. Sometimes you ask girls about this they do not know what to do either.

How can you tell girl just fake orgasm to make you feel good or just want to be done with you? Is there any actually physically changes when they do have orgasm.

Some young girls do enjoy getting head but they do not climax, for some older girls like late 20's early 30's they just climax without any problems I know every girl is different but I found large portion of girls with older age have better chance to climax. (normally I spend long period time with girls instead of just do it once and not see then again) . So do you guys also found the same thing?

Dan7373

05-07-16, 12:51

....

I do not know if it is true or not that some girls told me that they do not want to be lick on their Virgina. Is it true or not girls do not like that just like guys do not like blowjob from girls regardless of technique. (I know some girls have bad experience with guys do not know what to do at all but we are talking about guys do know how to do technique.

Also, when I go down there for like 40 minutes straight, she seems enjoy it but no sign of she getting climax soon, should I keep going or try something new. Sometimes you ask girls about this they do not know what to do either.

How can you tell girl just fake orgasm to make you feel good or just want to be done with you? Is there any actually physically changes when they do have orgasm.

Some young girls do enjoy getting head but they do not climax, for some older girls like late 20's early 30's they just climax without any problems I know every girl is different but I found large portion of girls with older age have better chance to climax. (normally I spend long period time with girls instead of just do it once and not see then again) . So do you guys also found the same thing?I know for sure that some guys and some women don't want to receive oral sex, even when they are sexually aroused. Because I'm one such guy. And I know very well a Thai woman who doesn't want oral sex from guys either. She told me that some western guys threatened not to pay her, unless she let them perform oral sex on her, and only then she let them do it.

I think for Thai women, dislike of oral sex is partly cultural. Because according to Buddhist religion, the purest and the best part of the body is the head, while lower parts of the body are less clean and less pure. Which means that when you lower your face and contact it with lower parts of another person's body, then you destroy your purity and lower yourself in the moral sense of this word. This has bad implications for being re-born as an animal, rather than as a human being, in your next life, after you die.

You literally become like an animal in the eyes of the Thai lady, when you perform oral sex on her. This turns her off. And of course, if the lady is disgusted and turned off, then she will have difficulty with orgasming, even if what you do is physically pleasant for her.

For myself, I can say that receiving oral sex from a lady is physically pleasant for me. But it turns me off psychologically. Because it makes me passive with the lady. I'm not in a good position to do much with her, when she is performing oral sex on me. And this is a turn-off for me. Because I like to touch my lady a lot and have a lot of body-to-body contact with her. A lot of my pleasure comes from touching and groping the lady in sexual ways. And I don't like anything that limits my ability to do this, which includes receiving oral sex from the lady. It's like I have to restrain myself from doing what I want, when the lady is performing oral sex on me. And I don't like this.

I used to perform oral sex on ladies before. And I had an iffy experience with it. Sometimes it worked, and the lady orgasmed. But sometimes it took so long that my mouth and tongue was really tired, and I couldn't do it well anymore. It didn't always lead to orgasm for the lady.

That's why now I'm such a fan of doing it with well-lubricated fingers and hand, rather than with my mouth and tongue. Handy-cunnilingus is what I call it. Because I touch and massage my lady's pussy and clit with my fingers and hand the same way I did it before with my mouth and tongue.

It's basically oral sex that you perform with your hand, rather than with your mouth. There is no difference in the way you do it. You just use a different instrument to do the same thing.

And actually it's more than just the same thing. Because you have 5 fingers on your hand. Which you can use like 5 tongues going after the lady's pussy and clit at the same time. And the palm of your hand is like one huge tongue that licks her whole pussy all in one go. You just need to put plenty of lube on your fingers and hand to make it feel for the lady like wet oral sex. And she basically has 5 nimble tongues darting all over her pussy and clit. And then there is that one huge tongue that licks her whole pussy once in a while.

I found from my experience that ladies orgasm a lot better with me, when I use my fingers and hand to perform oral sex on them. Which isn't surprising. Because the lady basically gets many tongues going after her pussy and clit, rather than just one.

For Thai women, using your hands rather than your mouth is also culturally better. Because people's hands normally spend a lot of time on the same level as their genitals. There is no cultural problem at all when you touch the pussy of a Thai girl with your fingers and hand.

Your hand and her pussy are on the same level. Which makes it okay for you to touch her there. You don't become an animal, when you touch her like this.

Dan7373

05-08-16, 14:19

I think virtually every guy gets a thrill out of orgasming his lady during his drill. Because you truly and fully debauch the lady this way. She isn't just pretending anymore. You are really nailing her.

But orgasming your lady requires a sustained effort and some competence in doing it. You can easily screw it up, if you touch the lady's pussy and clit too roughly or not enough. You need to get it just right. And I think that oral sex is a good guide for doing it well with your hands.

If you've done cunnilingus on a lady before, then you already know how to please her with your hands. All you need to do is imitate with your fingers and hand your tongue and your lips. With some lube on your hand, you can touch and massage her pussy with the same style as you would do cunnilingus on her. And you probably won't go wrong, if you do it this way.

I think the biggest problem guys have with masturbating a lady is that they apply too much force and make it uncomfortable for her. Or they insert their fingers inside her, instead of masturbating her clit. But if you use oral sex as your guide, then you will probably get it right.

The big advantage of masturbating your lady's pussy and clit with your fingers and hand is that you can do it throughout your session with her. She doesn't need to be in any special position for this. You can start it as foreplay and continue it even while you are nailing her. Chances are much better that you will orgasm her, when you keep doing it throughout your session with her. Because bringing a lady to orgasm isn't a quick thing. It usually takes some time.

Here are some GIF examples of how some guys do it:

Foreplay:

1. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/10/20/23/1/0189-rubbing-hot-babes-pussy.gif.

2. http://67.media.tumblr.com/1e780434bfc583fdfcbb529ab386575b/tumblr_n6avphSELP1rljuf9o1_250.gif.

3. http://24.media.tumblr.com/242b05f9351e8f9ba7523f7dbdc9033d/tumblr_mq32hn3X4B1qktnjdo1_500.gif.

4. http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/01/05/4/1/3450-amateurrussianteens-61gif.gif.

Sex:

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/11/19/15/1/7045-pounding-rubbing.gif

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/01/08/19/1/7804-upmyasianass-202gif.gif

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2014y/12/31/2/1/0714-ultimatefucktoyalinalee-124gif.gif

http://juicygif.com/albums/userpics/2015y/07/06/6/1/4520-nikki-benz-getting-her-hard-clit-rubbed-while-getting-fucked-hard.gif

http://cdn4.images.motherlessmedia.com/images/E060EC4.gif?fs=opencloud

http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/alli-ray-clit-rubbed-fucked-hard_gifbug_1_1.gif

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/dont-forget-the-clit.gif

Dan7373

05-16-16, 10:44

Emily Nagoski, a leading psychologist, says that guys are much more likely to feel spontaneous sex desire than women. Women need physical stimulation to get their desire going.

A guy can just look at a woman and start wanting to have sex with her. But a woman usually needs erotic stimulation from a guy to get her desire going for him.

http://www.inquisitr.com/1980996/there-is-no-such-thing-as-sex-drive-90-of-women-not-spontaneous-in-bedroom-rely-on-stimulation-first/

Which means that guys shouldn't judge women by male standards and expect them to want sex spontaneously, the way guys usually do. If the lady is mechanical and doesn't show much interest in you, then it's probably because you haven't yet masturbated her pussy and clit.

I can say this is true from my own experience. The quickest way to get your dick inside a sexy chick is to masturbate her pussy and clit with your hand, consistently and persistently, until she is truly and fully aroused.

Of course, physical stimulation works for women, even when they do it to themselves. Which is what experienced massage ladies do to get their desire going for a guy. They slip and slide their pussies on the guy to get their desire going for him. But if the lady is inexperienced, then she might not do this well. And that's why you need to help her with your hand on her pussy. Here is what I mean:

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mc6fnuXi191rwo9eso1_500.gif

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/hotnhard_29/4513635/195587987/men_fingering_My-First-Sex-Teacher-Veronica-Avluv_1.gif

Dan7373

05-18-16, 14:27

A recent study published in a medical journal says that,

Female orgasm is possible in all women, always with effective stimulation of the female erectile organs, e.g. the female penis, during masturbation, cunnilingus, partner masturbation, and also during vaginal/anal intercourse simply by stimulating the clitoris with a finger.
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/ca.22471/full#ca22471-sec-0008
The authors of this study say that there is no such thing as vaginal orgasm or anal orgasm. There is only female orgasm. And it's the same thing, no matter how it happens. Because the term 'vaginal orgasm' is a misunderstanding of what actually happens. Sure, the woman can orgasm during vaginal sex. But this is because her clitoris is stimulated either deliberately or unintentionally during such intercourse.

Stimulating the woman's clitoris is the key to her orgasm every time. And the reason why orgasm for women is so unpredictable and haphazard is because unintentional stimulation of the woman's clitoris is an iffy kind of thing. It's like waiting for it to happen by accident, rather than doing it deliberately. Such accidents do happen, but not every time. And for some it never happens, because people consistently have sex in such a way that the woman never gets enough clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2783791/The-vaginal-orgasm-doesn-t-exist-s-clitoris-holds-key-female-pleasure-study-claims.html

The surest way to make any lady orgasm is to do something like this with her pussy:

http://www.gifbug.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/tumblr_nlg524PrGC1u272p7o1_400.gif

https://45.media.tumblr.com/9872795e1c576782dc04bb0b7c241cab/tumblr_o26ze4zcaF1uniz58o4_500.gif

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lkyh0yYOt21qi6wtso1_400.gif

https://38.media.tumblr.com/7de34f10b766b8e654dc97f0d702f3ae/tumblr_myj0b476mP1r2sy0fo1_500.gif

Dan7373

05-19-16, 14:52

When the hot lady allows you only one cumshot, then you need to make it count. Or else you might not get much time to pound. The lady can make you cum prematurely. And it will be all over before you know it.

Dr. Jane Greer, relationship expert and family therapist, says that to last longer with the lady, you need to masturbate your dick, before you go to nail the sexy chick. And she means to say that you should masturbate yourself all the way to cum and not just a little bit to get yourself in the mood. Because according to Dr. Jane, ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to cum quickly.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6668/make-sex-last-longer/

If you've been to a multi-cumshot type of place, where the ladies try to make their guys cum at least twice, then you already know from your experience that it takes longer for you to cum second time. And in a place like this, you don't need to prepare yourself for the lady. You can just let yourself go. And the lady will make sure that you last for a long time with her by getting you to work on your 2nd or 3rd cumshot with her.

But multi-cumshot ladies and massage parlors are an exception, rather than the rule. With most women and at most massage parlors, you get only one cumshot, even in Thailand. The girl doesn't accommodate you at all in this regard. And that's why you need to follow Dr. Jane's advice for guys. Make yourself cum, before you go after her sexy bum. You will last longer with the lady this way.

Dan7373

05-24-16, 19:17

One anally-experienced lady says,

Anal sex alone is 'eh, OK,' but when it's coupled with clitoral stimulation or clitoral/vaginal ... WOW. Every movement, rub, climax feels 10 times stronger.
http://www.bustle.com/articles/83726-what-does-anal-sex-feel-like-for-a-girl-9-women-tell-us-what-doing-it
Here are some examples of clitoral stimulation during anal penetration.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/1789e59c001aae7aa3b35f3ba095cc60/tumblr_n22roey8rb1r7a0ufo1_500.gif

https://66.media.tumblr.com/6dabcbe050b7d4267703bd8f74df7a7d/tumblr_n2cpdv1Oi01qk54ddo1_500.gif

http://img1.thatpervert.com/pics/post/-porn--porn-gifs-1986505.gif

http://fapler.com/images/upload/52/52874/4f570e344b76652c8bac36fd61241d69.gif

http://c3.nuttit.com/Cache/GetImage?id=DwTYR2u.jpg

http://45.media.tumblr.com/05244babd1c5b7db19244f7723ee3062/tumblr_nf4zyvdY2U1semc6ko1_400.gif

http://morefunforyou.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/carter-cruise-wet-ass-anal-penetration-gifs.gif

https://49.media.tumblr.com/31e75a1bb152a42c46b91939f3bf10de/tumblr_nkcij5uo3S1ssg1uso6_500.gif

http://www.sexvideogif.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/30/Stacy-Silver-gets-anal-fuck.gif

Dan7373

05-27-16, 11:42

One big problem with knowing what women like or dislike is that there is very little statistical information about such things.

You can find plenty of articles on the Internet, where individual women say they like this or that. But how do you know whether other women like this or not? Individuals are normally different from each other. There is no way to know for sure whether the lady's likes and dislikes are an exception or the rule among women in general.

You need statistics about a large group of women to tell you something useful about women in general. I found one such statistic about breast stimulation. In a 2006 survey, 81.5% of women said that stimulation of their nipples and/or breasts "caused or enhanced their sexual arousal".
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16681470

Here are some examples of nipple and breast stimulation:
http://66.media.tumblr.com/0338c4a1ce321e98c0a16eca77b6b898/tumblr_ngvid2r4bS1r3iafjo3_500.gif

http://67.media.tumblr.com/556359178075f42be7ce9d1405389b53/tumblr_ngvid2r4bS1r3iafjo6_500.gif

http://i.imgur.com/ld4Ct.gif

http://dirtygifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Tit-Sucking-Sex-Gifs.gif

http://www.spulp.it/images/foto/sconosciuti-che-mi-pizzicano-i-capezzoli/pizzichi_capezzoli_ragazze_024.gif

https://67.media.tumblr.com/28be2492f58c684123d2b5e0103c2dbc/tumblr_n9a2qrWHk61qjoem6o5_400.gif

Dan7373

05-28-16, 14:09

The Internet is full of advice for guys about how they should approach women to have sex with them. And a common idea you find is that women are different from men in their sexual response. Unlike men, women want intimacy, rather than sex. You need to hug and kiss the lady a lot, and only then she might get some sexual desire going for you.

I found a recent study of 499 men and 573 women, where researchers asked both men and women about how their sexual desire happens. And indeed this study has found that a large percentage of women (25.6%) have intimacy, rather than sex, as their primary desire. But the rest of the women were similar to men in their sexual desire. They wanted sex first and foremost, rather than intimacy as a pre-requisite. And this study also found that women, who wanted intimacy rather than sex, were more likely to suffer from medically-diagnosed female-sexual-dysfunction (FSD) and the distress associated with it. Many of these women had problems with desire and orgasm, and they weren't happy about it.

Which means that going for women who want intimacy before anything else is like asking for trouble. There are plenty of women like this. But it's a sign of trouble, rather than something to go for. If you want to enjoy it with women, then you need to keep looking until you find a woman who just wants to fuck, like you do. Here is an example of what I mean:
http://a.im9.eu/%73%6c%75%74-loves-anal-xxx-porn.gif

Here is the link to this study. It's written at a very high readability level, so high that most people would probably have some trouble understanding it:

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jsm.12720/full

Dan7373

06-03-16, 13:36

I think it can be a turn on for the woman to watch how your cock goes in and out of her pussy.

Because one time I was doing it with a massage lady side-by-side, face-to-face. There was enough space between our bodies for her to see how my cock was going in and out of her. And I was a little surprised at how much time she spent watching me bang her. She kept watching it for a long time, and it looked she was turned on just from watching it. Later, she orgasmed with me. Which is what makes me think that this can be a turn on for women.

Women usually aren't in a good position to watch how the guy's cock goes in an out of their pussy. This kind of thing is rare to see even in porn. But you can certainly set up the lady so that she can see it. I found one gif where the lady watches the guy's cock go in and out of her. And it looks to me like she is turned on by it too, just like my lady was. Perhaps this is something for a guy to try with his lady:

http://x.imagefapusercontent.com/u/bfranke63/4350877/1474162315/Missionary_91.gif

Captain Solo

06-03-16, 14:26

Dan7373

06-04-16, 00:37

Women do enjoy seeing themselves fucked. The sight of a stiff dick sliding in and out of their wet pussies turn them on and make them raving horny like nothing else.

When nearing climax, one of my ex GFs would raise her head to look my dick sliding in and out of her crotch, with the expressions of unbelievable pleasure and pain on her face. I would arrange to lie down on the bed with her with a large wall mirror behind us, so we can both watch our two bodies rub against each other, and my dick slide in and out of her wet, pink and swollen pussy. We can make slow and gentle love this way for an hour and enjoy every minute of it.

Even hookers get turned on watching themselves fucked in the mirror. A street girl by the name of Karina in Tijuana, Mexico, is very shy. I took her to hotel Mini with a large wall mirror and made her turn her head watching me on top of her slowly penetrating her tight and velvety smooth pussy. She went limb and could not take her eyes off the scene. Needless to say from then on we had some sweetest, most passionate sessions watching our bodies intertwined in the most loving ways in bed. Hehe.Thanks for mentioning the mirrors. Perhaps most massage rooms don't have big mirrors that you can use this way. But a hotel room might have a big mirror or two.

The only thing about using a mirror is that you need to be close to it. Or else the lady won't see much. The reflection in the mirror is double the distance from you to the mirror.

But I'm not sure if I agree with your use of the word 'Even', when you say that "Even hookers get turned on watching themselves fucked in the mirror. " Because from my own experience I would say that P4P ladies are often more into sex with guys than most non-P4P ladies are.

People usually get better at what they do with practice and experience. And that's how it is for P4P ladies. Some of the more experienced Thai massage ladies I've been with are pretty good at arousing themselves with their body-to-body massage.

I remember how one lady was sliding her pussy on my thigh back and forth, again and again, like she was masturbating herself. I grabbed her pussy with my hand at a convenient moment later on. Her clit and her labia-minora felt hard as a rock on the palm of my hand. I knew right away that she wasn't far away from having an orgasm with me. So, I masturbated her pussy some more with the palm of my hand. She got aroused even more and started pulling me on top, so that I would ride her for the pop. I went down with her into the missionary position. She welcomed me warmly with wide open legs. And it was more than just emotional warmth. Her pussy was warm too, when I entered her with my cock. This lady was warm in every way. I had to kiss her on the cheek, while I was nailing her with my dick. We had a good ride. But I didn't last long with her. I was too excited about her warm pussy-welcome for me.

Another lady I remember was from a Go-Go place. Her face was good-looking, and she had a nice body. She was bigger and taller than most Thai ladies. Her boobs were big, and her body was soft, more like that of a western woman than a Thai lady. I couldn't wait to lay my hands on her, but I waited long enough for her to take off her panties with me. I masturbated her pussy right away with my well-lubricated hand. She orgasmed in less than 5 minutes. And then I nailed her pussy with with my cock. I wasn't quite sure if she was in the mood for it, so soon after her orgasm. But I couldn't wait to penetrate. And she gave me a warm pussy-welcome with wide open legs.

I took her out several times. And every time I masturbated her pussy to orgasm with my well-lubricated hand, before I nailed her pussy with my cock.

I think it might be okay to take most ladies this way. Because the lady's orgasm is mostly from clitoral stimulation. And vaginal sex usually doesn't provide much clitoral stimulation for the lady. Vaginal sex for the lady is like a vacation from clitoral stimulation. Which makes it okay for you to ride her pussy so soon after her clitoral orgasm.

My point here is that I've had much less trouble orgasming P4P women than non-P4P women. A part of it might be because P4P ladies try to accommodate many different guys, who have different habits and different ways of doing it with ladies. P4P ladies have such a variety of experiences with different guys that they learn to be flexible and not rigid with their guys. As long as you are pleasing the P4P lady, then she is okay, even if you do it in a different way from that of other guys. But non-P4P women have had much less variety of experiences with guys. And this means that sometimes they are rigid in their ways. They have a habitual way of doing it, and trying something different they might not want, just because it's different.

Dan7373

06-05-16, 13:23

Porn movies often show pussy masturbation for the lady in a really funny way. The guy masturbates his lady's clit for 3 seconds and then goes on to do something else.

It's like the guy only makes a gesture at pleasing the lady, but then he immediately gives up and forgets about it, without actually giving the lady much pleasure.

I did some online research about this, and I found that this 3-second masturbation for the lady is one of the reason's why GIF porn animations became popular. Many female porn-fans were so unhappy with this 3-second masturbation for the lady, that they started making a GIF loop out of it, so that it seems to last a lot longer than it actually lasted in the movie.

I think you can learn a lot from porn. But you need to look at porn with a critical eye. Because most porn is oriented towards male pleasure so much that women's pleasure is often ignored and neglected. Which is a turn-off for women.

I found one short porn video, where an Asian lady masturbates her pussy with her hand from start to finish. And she does it for real too. I know this for sure, because I've masturbated ladies to orgasm with my hand, and I can see whether it's real or not when somebody else does it. The lady starts her masturbation at the 3:48 mark of the video. She masturbates herself for about 6 minutes and orgasms in the end. This video is at the link below. You can start watching it at the 3:48 minute mark:

http://xhamster.com/movies/2713732/asian_girl_orgasms_in_her_chair.html

I found another amateur video where a guy takes an Asian lady in the spoon position from behind. He starts to masturbate her clit with his fingers, while he is nailing her pussy with his cock at the 5:20 minute mark of this video.

I think this guy is so good in bed with his lady that he is someone for guys to watch and learn from. Because he shows you how to last for a long time with the lady, without getting tired too much. He only moves his hips, rather than his whole body. And he uses either the bed or the lady's body for support, to avoid lifting himself up against gravity and tiring himself out this way.

Instead of doing push-ups, he does a leisurely lambada with his hips on her ass-cheeks. The whole video is instructive to watch. But in terms of fingering the lady's clit, this starts at the 5:20 minute mark. And I think he continues to finger the lady's clit even in the doggy position later on, but you can't see this well in the video. You need to catch him going for her pussy with his hand, when he is setting her up for the doggy position. Here is this video:

http://xhamster.com/movies/5863069/great_sex_hot_asian_orgasm_enjoy_it.html

Dan7373

06-18-16, 14:24

A number of sex-therapists and researchers have recently said that most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm with a guy. Sexual intercourse alone isn't enough. You need to do something extra with the lady to get her to orgasm with you.

This might be hard for many guys to believe. Because this doesn't correspond with their own personal experience of sex. Guys orgasm virtually every time, when they have sexual intercourse with a lady. For guys, sexual intercourse alone is enough.

I found a GIF that shows you really well why you need to think about the woman's clitoris and stimulate it well, when you have sex with a lady. Because the woman's clitoris in this picture is big enough and erect enough to show you how nothing is happening with her clitoris, when the guy is having sex with her. And this GIF also shows you that the woman's clitoris is equivalent to the man's cock, because it looks a little bit like one. Here is the GIF:

http://33.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbzk9ykDEx1qktnjdo1_500.gif

I'd say this is good evidence that what the sex-therapists and researchers say is true. You can see it for yourself here that the woman is getting no clitoral stimulation at all, while the guy is nailing her pussy with his cock. The only way she can orgasm in this situation is if either she or the guy masturbates her clit long enough to bring her to orgasm. Which usually takes at least 5-6 minutes of non-stop clitoral stimulation for the lady.

Dan7373

06-18-16, 14:55

As I've said in many of my earlier posts, you need to stimulate your lady's clitoris to get her to enjoy with you. The easiest and the most effective way to do this is with your well-lubricated fingers and hand. But it's also possible to do this with your cock, while you are nailing the lady's pussy. You just need to position your cock so that you rub her clit with the shaft of your cock, while you are nailing her.

I found a GIF that shows you a western guy nailing a really hot Asian chick with his dick in the standing position, face to face. The shaft of his cock is almost parallel to her pussy. Which means that he is probably rubbing her clit with the shaft of his cock, every time he thrusts inside her. And of course, it's also possible to bang a lady like this, when she is lying on her back. You just need to bring yourself up on top of her and bend your cock inside her to give her plenty of clitoral stimulation during your penetration.

Here is this GIF. Very nice tits, by the way. She might be someone from Bangkok:

http://65.media.tumblr.com/5c8493526ee3c5f75a558fb37ddba8d0/tumblr_inline_o7qm1naoQ31t5eps0_500.gif

Dan7373

09-06-16, 17:29

There is a cultural reason why Thai people in the mainstream Thai society accept and even approve of massage parlors and bars for guys to go to and meet available women.

I did some research on the Internet about why is Thailand more sexually liberal than most societies. And there was almost nothing about it on the Internet in English language. But I found a few articles. Apparently, even middle class Thai women, who have nothing to do with massage parlors and bars, believe that many men have so much sexual lust and desire that they need an outlet with available women, who are willing to do it with them. And they see it as kind of safety issue for women in general. Because letting guys have an outlet like this prevents sexual violence against women and other bad things that will likely happen with women.

There are some Muslims living in the South of Thailand, where men have less of a sexual outlet than men have in the rest of Thai society. And Thai women there are more restricted in where they can go and what they can do because of this. And this is an example that most Thais know.

In Buddhist Thailand, even most women see it as unreasonable to restrict the sexuality of men, because they believe that this makes the whole society unsafe for women. And this is actually the same belief that Muslims have about men and women. But the big difference between Buddhists and Muslims is how they choose to solve this problem of uncontrollable male sexuality. Thai Buddhists let men satisfy their sexual desire with willing women to make it safer for women in general. While Muslims in Thailand and in many other places go in the opposite direction. They restrict men's sexuality even more than this would happen naturally. Which makes society so unsafe for women, that women need to be restricted in where they can go and what they can do.

This is basically an issue of freedom and safety for women in society. And that's why even many middle class Thai women agree with having massage parlors and bars for guys to go to and meet available women there. And this isn't just a middle-class belief. The women in massage parlours and bars also see it this way. Which means that they are doing a service for society and not just having fun and making money. And that's what makes them feel good about their sex with guys, including you.

This Thai belief about wild, out-of-control sexual desire of men is something you can take advantage of with your Thai ladies to be better in bed with them. I found this out by accident. I was drinking some coffee and energy drinks with a bunch of Thai bar ladies. And they kept making a big deal out of it. They thought that I was preparing myself to bang the lady I was with and last with her for a long time. Apparently this is another cultural belief in Thailand. Coffee and energy drinks bring out your wild, uncontrolled sexual desire and make it even more than before.

I was a little surprised that these Thai bar ladies saw my caffeine binging this way. I never thought about it like that. But then I realized that this is something for a guy to take advantage of. I made a big show out of drinking a caffeinated energy drink in front of my Thai lady, before I did it with her in my hotel room. I didn't last for long with her. And normally, this would've been the end of it for me. But I pointed to the empty can on the coffee table, said to my lady, "I have too much power", ripped off my used condom, put a new one on, and went at it with the lady again. And the thing about it all, my sexy Thai girl was totally understanding with me. She welcomed me for another ride with her. Because she was already expecting something like this with me, after she saw me drink my energy drink.

It's like the lady blames the energy drink, rather than you, for making her work too much. She expects you to have a lot of wild sexual desire, after she sees you drink that energy drink. And that's why she lets you have more sex with her, than you would normally have.

Of course, you need to make sure that both the lady and you are well lubricated and your lube doesn't dry out. Because if you start hurting the lady with your dry condom, then she'll need to stop you, regardless of her desire and beliefs. All you need is a quick splash of water once in a while, when you already have more than enough lube. Because even having plenty of lube doesn't work, when the water in it dries out.

I'd say that drinking an energy drink in front of your Thai lady and putting an empty can on the table to remind her about it is something for a guy to do. Because this is a way to work with her cultural beliefs about your wild, uncontrolled sex desire. All you need to do is point to that empty can and say to your lady, "I have too much power. " And the lady will understand why you want to bang her some more, even after you apparently finished with her. You are like a wild beast, unsafe to go out on the street, until she makes you cum one more time.

Dan7373

09-06-16, 19:16

The link below is that of 10-second GIF video. It might take a few seconds to download. Because it's a high resolution picture, which makes it a large file. I actually made this GIF video myself from one of the videos on pornhub. And the reason why I made this GIF video is because this is best example I've seen yet how to massage a lady's pussy effectively, so that she will orgasm with you, if you do it long enough.

This guy has a firm hand on the lady's pussy. And he is moving his hand pretty fast on her pussy too. You can do this kind of thing with the lady's pussy only if you have plenty of lube on your hand and on her pussy too. The lube isn't apparent in the video, perhaps because of the lighting. But I can say from my own experience of doing something like this with a lady that plenty of slippery lube is a must for this kind of lust.

Your best opportunity to do something like with with a Thai massage lady is after she massages you with her pussy for a while. Because this puts plenty of lube on her pussy, and you can just go after her pussy with your hand, the way this guy does in the video. And the lady doesn't need to be in any special position for this. Your hand is so versatile, that you can massage the lady's pussy like this in various positions. All you need to do is wait for the lady to spread her legs within your reach. Which always happens sooner or later, during your massage with the lady.

The guy's name in this video is Manuel Ferrara. He is a French guy, born in France, but now he is working as a porn-star in USA. And I'd say that he shows in this video why frenchmen have a reputation for being some of the best lovers in the world. This guy really knows what he is doing. This much I can say from my own experience of doing something like this with Thai ladies. If you do it like that with your lady for 5-6 minutes, then she will probably orgasm with you, provided that you do it with plenty of lube.

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/7584571.gif

Dan7373

09-13-16, 13:46

I found an interesting Japanese porn video where a guy shows you how to cock-grind your sexy lady, when you want to be a real baddie. I made a 10-second GIF video to show you how he does it. It's at the link below. And it might take a few seconds to download, because it's a fairly large file (17 MB).

The hot Japanese lady in this video is in the prone position, with a big, soft pillow under her hips. The pillow raises her pussy and ass into the air and puts her into a very relaxed semi-doggy position with her guy. And the funny thing about it all ls that this sexy girl brings her legs close together, after the guy enters her pussy from behind. Squeeze the guy's cock with her pussy, this pretty lady really does.

Slam her bum, "thank you Ma'am. " That's the way this guy takes the pretty lady. He spreads his legs over hers and uses his weight to pound her. The lady's soft pillow under her hips cushions his bum-slam, but only after he drives his cock deep inside her pussy all the way to his balls.

And then comes the good part. Cock-grinding the sexy lady. The guy doesn't withdraw anymore after his last bum-slam. He uses his weight to press his hips on her sexy ass-cheeks and drive his cock deep inside her pussy all the way to his balls. He then starts to rotate his hips on the lady's ass. And he moves her whole ass around, while his cock is anchored deep inside her pussy. Which leads to some pretty-good pussy-stretching for the lady and makes this guy a real baddie.

I think rotating your hips on the lady's ass-cheeks, with your cock deep inside her pussy is a great way to give the lady some extra pleasure and give yourself some extra rest, so that you can last longer with her. Because grinding the chick with your dick does more for her than it does for you. You don't feel much sensation during such rotation, because you are using the base of your cock to stretch the lady's pussy. The base of your cock isn't very sensitive. Which makes it a good tool for stretching the lady's pussy, when she is too sexy, and it's hard for you to hold back your cum with her. It's a way for a guy to last longer with the lady and give her some extra pleasure at the same time.

Here is the link that shows you how to grind a sexy chick with your dick:

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/7672671.gif

P.S. I think it's possible to download the above GIF video into your smartphone and show it later to your Thai massage lady, so that she will do something like this with you. A GIF video like this takes care of the communication problem and lets the lady know how you want to plow.

Dan7373

09-17-16, 13:20

According to Jacqueline Hellyer, an experienced sex-therapist, there should be an art to your thrusting technique, when you are nailing the chick. And this isn't just about you pleasing the lady. This is also about you lasting longer with her.

One of the things that Jacqueline Hellyer says is that you need to stay deep inside the lady's pussy and your trusts should be short, rather than the full length of your cock.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBaprHhD6CA&ab_channel=JacquelineHellyer

Jacqueline says that this feels more pleasant for the lady. And I would add from my own experience that this also makes you last longer with the lady. Because the shorter your thrusts, the less stimulation you get.

But I have to admit that following Jacqueline Hellyer's advice for cocky guys is easier said than done. The problem is that those big, long thrusts that go the full length of your cock are so pleasant for a guy that you naturally fall into this kind of nailing the lady. And once you start doing it like that, then it's hard to stop, until you pop.

It actually took me several tries, before I figured out how to follow Jacqueline's advice. I tried to do it in various sex-positions. But I couldn't do it either in spoon, in missionary, or in doggy. I always ended up banging the lady hard-and-fast, and I didn't last. But then I finally tried a more complicated sex-position, where it wasn't physically possible for me to do the lady hard-and-fast. And that's when I finally succeeded.

This sex-position that led to my success took a minute or two to get into. I entered the lady's pussy in the missionary position first. Then I used my legs to bring her legs close together. And in the final step, I spread my legs wide, so that her legs were between mine. In this position, I couldn't use my legs for leverage to help me nail the lady. All I could do was lie on top of her and roll my hips, which resulted in short cock-thrusts for her, an inch or two at a time.

I did it like that with my lady for a while. And I was getting so little stimulation that I felt like I could do this all day. I wasn't even close to orgasm, when my lady started asking me to stop and give her a couple of minutes to rest. She said that she had an orgasm, and that's why she needed a break. I was definitely surprised. Because I didn't realize that this was so pleasant for her. But give her a break I certainly did. I just stayed inside her pussy and let her rest like that.

After the lady's rest, I got back into the conventional missionary position with her, nailed her hard-and-fast, and I didn't last. Which was okay, because I already had my way with her.

Later, I tried some other sex-positions that also took away my leverage and prevented me from using my legs to help me nail the lady. And I found that the so called prone-bone position worked really well too. To get into the prone-bone position, you first need to enter the lady's pussy in the doggy position. And then you need to lean forward on the lady, and with your cock still inside her, get her to collapse on her stomach, so that she is face-down, flat on the bed. And in the final step, you need to use your legs to bring her legs close together, then spread your legs, so that her legs are between yours.

In this prone-bone sex-position, you can also just roll your hips, which results in short cock-trusts for the lady. I found a good video example of this at the links below:

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/7775831.gif

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph577e55e78236d&t=463

Dan7373

09-24-16, 14:31

From my own experience I can say that even being with a hot chick is no guarantee that you will have a hard dick. Some guys blame themselves for this problem. But I'd say that lack of foreplay is usually the cause.

The GIF link below shows you how the lady can get your erection going and make sure that you don't lose it with her during your session with her (this GIF is about 21 MB in size):

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/007/898/101/(m=eUM881q)7898101a.gif

The lady in this GIF video is Katsuni, also known as Katsumi. She is retired now, but she won quite a few porn-awards, when she was a porn-star. She is half-French and half-Vietnamese, and she is from France. Her guy is Manuel Ferrara. He is also from France.

French are known for being good lovers. And the GIF video above shows you an example of why their reputation is so well-deserved. This lady is looking at some screen and is talking with the viewer. But she also keeps her hand on the guy's cock and keeps masturbating him. It's like she never forgets her guy's cock and is always handy with it, no matter what else she is doing. You are unlikely to lose your erection with the lady, when she keeps going after your cock like that.

Erection maintenance. That's what I call it. And unfortunately, not many Thai ladies are good at this. Most Thai ladies don't touch your dick, unless you ask for a hand-job or a blow-job. And most guys are too embarrassed to masturbate themselves in front of the hot lady. There is a hand-job to be done. But both you and the lady are too shy to do it. Which leads to erection problems right there and then.

It's so rare for a Thai chick to grab your dick and masturbate it in the shower and on the bed, that a lady by the name of Dao, at Tulip Massage, acquired quite a reputation among guys in this forum for doing exactly that. Handy with her guys, she certainly was. This chick was all over your dick, as soon as you entered the shower. And she took advantage of every opportunity to grab your dick and have some fun with it throughout your session with her. It was like you always had a raging erection with her from start to finish. And it wasn't because you were good in bed. It was because she knew what to do with a guy like you.

I think the above GIF video clip might good to show to your Thai lady, and tell her that you want her hand on your cock like that, not just once or twice, but whenever your cock isn't doing anything else. I think the problem for most Thai ladies is that they are too shy to touch your cock on their own. They wait for your consent and permission, rather take the initiative and do it on their own. But if you tell the lady that this is what you want her to do with you, then chances are good that she'll get more comfortable with it. Of course, language is often a problem. And that's why showing the lady a video clip on your smartphone, like the one above, is a good way to make her understand what you want.

Instead of asking the Papasan or Mamasan about whether the lady is good in bed or not, you can educate the chick to be good with your dick. And a good way to remind the lady about what you want is take her hand and put it on your cock once in a while. I found from my experience that the lady usually start going after your cock on her own, after you put her hand on your cock a few times. And then it's like having lady Dao on your cock. You have a raging erection with her, for the rest of your session with her.

Dan7373

09-25-16, 14:46

I recently came across an article written by a British woman, who went for a sex-massage in Bangkok.

http://bangkok.coconuts.co/2016/07/03/what-happened-when-one-woman-got-happy-ending-massage-bangkok

In this article she says that while she was staying in Bangkok, she heard from her male friends about their experiences with Thai massage ladies. And that's why she decided to try it for herself.

Apparently, this British lady was bi-sexual. Because she mentioned that she had a boyfriend in the past. But then she went looking for a woman at a massage place for guys.

To make her long story short, she was such an inexperienced newbie that she didn't bring much cash. She was trying to pay with her credit card, and this was a problem at some places. And then another big problem was that the places she went to weren't set up for female customers like her. Eventually she found a place, where the Mamasan said that she can have her massage there. The Mamasan brought out the line up of massage ladies for this British lady to choose from. And this British lady said that she found it difficult to make eye-contact with the massage ladies, and she found it really difficult to choose one of them. So she asked the Mamasan to recommend a lady for her. Which the Mamasan did.

In the massage room, this British lady didn't really enjoy it with her massage lady because she didn't know what she was allowed to do. She said in the article, "I didn't know if I could wash her back. I wasn't just going to try and touch her and get thrown out. ".

Basically, she was afraid of grabbing the massage lady's tit and getting thrown out for it. Which was a laughable fear for experienced guys, who have been at Thai massage places many times. But for her, this was a real fear.

This British lady said, "Sex to me isn't about being serviced, it's a two-way act and that's what fun. " And she didn't enjoy it at the massage parlor, because it ended up being a mostly one-way service for her.

I can relate to the experiences of this British lady. Because I've had a similar experience, when I first came to Thailand, and I didn't know what was going on. I was also afraid of grabbing the lady's tit and getting thrown out for it.

And the thing is, if you grab the lady's tit in the lobby, where other people can see, then indeed this would be a huge violation of Thai cultural taboos. You might get thrown out for something like this. But in the private massage room, the situation is totally different. You can grope the lady all you want, and it's expected of you. The only thing some Thai ladies might have a problem with is if you start inserting your fingers in their pussies and asses. And of course, you hurting the lady with your touching in some way is a big no-no too.

Guys groping ladies is actually a big thing in Thailand. I've seen a little bit of this, when I took a long ride in a Thai mini-bus from Isaan to Bangkok. The groping situation in Thailand is probably similar to that in Japan, where whole porn-movies are made about guys groping sexy ladies on trains, in buses, and on subways.

But my point here is that Thai ladies are well aware that guys want to grope them. They have a problem with this, when it happens without their consent and in public. But when the lady accepts your money, and she is in the private room with you, then she probably expects you to grope her. Because in her experience, that's what guys normally want to do. And it's only fair and square that she let you have some groping pleasure with her in this situation.

It took me a while to understand the groping part of Thai sex-culture. It's not acceptable in public, even with the lady who agrees to go with you. But in private, your massage lady expects you to grope her and is probably surprised if you don't. It's like you aren't attracted to her, if you don't grope her.

I went from being afraid to touch my massage lady, the way that British lady was afraid, to totally going after the sexy chick and masturbating her pussy and clit, as soon she takes of her panties with me. And I haven't yet met a massage lady, who had a problem with me because of this.

This is basically foreplay, and she lets me have my way. Sometimes I get carried away, and the lady orgasms with me. But after a short recuperation, the lady in such a situation doesn't have a problem with penetration.

What I'm saying here might be obvious and old news for experienced guys in Thailand. But for new guys who are new in Thailand, this information might be useful to know. I think thoroughly groping the sexy chick, before you nail her with your dick is what it's all about for many guys. Because this groping is foreplay to get you and the lady on your way. Sex without groping is like sex without foreplay. Which is no good, as far as I'm concerned.

Dan7373

09-27-16, 15:02

I found a website for Allstar Massage that offers both incall and outcall massage for guys in Bangkok. And for their outcall massage, the website says:

2 hours (1 shot) - 3,000 bt /100 USD.

2 hours (2 shots) - 3,500 bt /120 USD.

http://www.allstarsbkk.com/index.php?p=services

They add 500 bt surcharge for having a second cumshot with the lady.

How to ask a lady for a second cumshot with her is something I've wondering about for some time. Because the more I like the lady, the harder it is for me to last with her. My instinct is to nail her hard-and-fast. And that's why I don't last. I really need that second cumshot with the good-looking lady to take it easy with my cock inside her.

When you don't feel the urge to pound the living daylights out of your good-looking lady, then you can just put your cock inside her pussy and masturbate her clit with your well-lubricated hand, until she orgasms with you. Then you can pound her pussy some more for your second cumshot with her.

It appears that the market price for your second cumshot with the lady is 500 bt. This is how much you need to offer the lady to persuade her to do it with you for the second time. Some massage places offer multiple cumshots without any additional fee. But these places are an exception, rather than the rule.

Some of the best looking ladies in Bangkok are at LaBelle and other such places. And with a lady like that you really need to offer her that 500 bt for your second cumshot with her. Or else you have no chance at all to enjoy it for the second time with the sexy girl. The lady might still say "No" to your second plow, but at least it's worth a try. Some ladies will probably agree, because they aren't doing it for free.

Dan7373

10-02-16, 20:40

Bringing your lady's legs close together, when you have your cock inside her makes it more pleasant for her. Because the lady locks her pussy around your cock so much that instead of going in an out of her, you end up pushing and pulling on her pussy and clit. Which is what makes it so pleasant for her.

The lady becomes so tight around your cock that her g-zone and her clit are all in it. You just need to move it around, instead of pound, and you'll make it very pleasant for the lady indeed. This is a way to orgasm your lady. You just need to do it long enough.

The only thing about getting into such a position with your lady is that you need to start out either in missionary or in the doggy position with her. This is how you enter her. And then you need to bring her legs close together, while you stay inside her with your cock.

I found some GIF examples, including one that shows you how to go from a legs-wide-open-doggy to a legs-close-together-prone-bone with your lady. In each of these examples, the guy's cock isn't going in and out of the lady much. And that's because the lady has squeezed her pussy around the guy's cock so much that she effectively anchored him inside her. The guy can only rock with his cock and move her pussy around. But he can't pound. Which is what makes it so pleasant for her:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/006/431/(m=eUM881q)8006431a.gif

Prone-bone is one way to do this with your lady. But you can also do this in missionary. And I think doing this in missionary is even more pleasant for the lady. Because you can rock your cock up against the lady's clit and stimulate her g-spot with it. The GIF video below is a good illustration of this. This guy really takes advantage of his lady's g-spot with the shaft of his cock:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/006/571/(m=eUM881q)8006571a.gif

And there is yet another sex-position that does the same thing for the lady. It's called inverse-missionary. And it's a very rare position indeed. I had to search the Internet long and hard to find an example of this. I knew it could be done. But I couldn't find an example of one, until now that is:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/021/941/(m=eUM881q)8021941a.gif

In this last example again, the lady isn't pounding the guy. And that's because her pussy is squeezed tight during such a ride. The guy can't move in and out of her. He can only rock with her. Which makes it pleasant for her.

These sex positions are more pleasant for the lady than for the guy. Which is a pretty good clue about what you can do, when you want to last for a long time with your lady. You can alternate between spreading the lady's legs apart and bringing her legs close together. Which is relatively easy for a guy to do in the missionary position. First you pound, then you move her pussy around, then pound again, and so on.

You are unlikely to cum with your chick, when she is so tight around your dick that you can't move it in and out of her. This is more pleasant for her than for you. But this is a great way for you to take some rest with the lady, when you are at risk of cumming prematurely with her.

Dan7373

10-04-16, 15:29

As is commonly known, you can stimulate your lady's G-spot, when you push up from inside her vagina against her clitoral area. Latest research now says that the lady's G-spot isn't some kind of a separate sex-organ. It's just a way stimulate the internal part of the lady's clitoris from inside her vagina. That's why it can lead to orgasm for the woman, if you do it well-enough and long-enough.

But the thing about stimulating the internal part of the lady's clitoris form inside her vagina is that a lot of women don't like it, when you insert your fingers inside their vagina. The lady might tell you to stop, before you get anywhere like that with her.

A much better technique is to do it with your dick. And I found some GIF examples of how one guys does this. And he is actually pretty good at this. Basically, he uses leverage to push the shaft of his cock against his lady's G-spot. Which stretches the lady's pussy a little and puts pressure on her G-spot. And that's what makes it so pleasant for her.

I think this guy is definitely someone to learn from, if you want to know how to please a lady with your cock. Here are some examples of his technique with the ladies:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/051/561/(m=eUM881q)8051561a.gif

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/051/221/(m=eUM881q)8051221a.gif

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/052/111/(m=eUM881q)8052111a.gif

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/051/911/(m=eUM881q)8051911a.gif

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/051/771/(m=eUM881q)8051771a.gif

In the doggy position, this guy stimulates his lady's G-spot by bringing up his hips while keeping his cock half-way inside her. This makes the end-half of his cock go down like a lever and push on the lady's G-spot. Of course, your cock needs to be hard as a rock to make it work as a lever like that. Or else your cock will just bend, and you won't have any leverage on your lady's G-spot.

But your cock doesn't need to be so hard, when you take the lady from the front, and you are face-to-face with her. Because when you are face-to-face with the lady, then you just need to go balls-deep inside her and push up against her G-spot with the root of your cock. Even if your cock is only semi-hard, it will still work this way for the lady.

Which means that if you have any softness in you, then take the lady from the front. But if you are hard as a rock, then any position will do, as long as you remember to pressure your lady's G-spot with the shaft of your cock one way or another.

PirateMorgan

10-04-16, 15:33

In my dreams.

Dan7373

10-07-16, 13:52

I found from my experience that the easiest way to orgasm a hot chick with your dick is to press on the lady's pussy with your hand against your moving cock inside her.

You don't even need to move your hand around. You just need to press and pound.

And this works because when you put your hand on the lady's upper pussy, and your cock is inside her, then her internal g-spot is caught right in between your hand and your cock. All you need to do is press on her pussy against your cock inside her, and your cock ends up massaging her g-spot every time you go in and out of her.

I think this is the easiest way for a guy to orgasm his lady. Because this takes almost no extra effort at all. You just need to keep a heavy hand on the pussy of your girl, while you nail her with your cock.

I've had a lady orgasm with me this way, while my cock was deep inside her. Her vaginal muscles spasmed around my cock. And it felt like her pussy was masturbating me and milking the cum out of me. A very pleasant sensation this certainly was for me.

Dan7373

11-06-16, 16:56

I came across an interesting interview of Pierre Woodman, who is a well-known porn-actor and porn-director. This guy was having sex virtually every day as a part of his porn-work, and on top of this, he was married and having sex with his wife too.

So, the question was, "How do you have energy to sleep with your wife after having sex with other women all day?

And his reply was, "Since I was 14-years-old I've been having sex. I train myself daily and even if I'm not having sex one day, I masturbate and train my penis. ".
http://shortandsweetla.com/2012/09/04/pierre-woodman-on-threesomes-in-the-sky-teaching-his-daughter-about-sex-and-more-2/

He didn't mention using any Viagra, or following some special diet, or exercising at the gym. He was basically having daily sex with women just for training, and he was masturbating himself on days when he had no woman to train with. And this might sound like common sense to some people. Because as the saying goes, practice makes perfect. But I don't think everybody agrees with this. I've come across some people in forums who think that it's the opposite. They think that having so much sex can make it harder for you to nail a sexy chick with your dick.

I did some research on this topic, because I wasn't quite sure about this either. And I found that indeed cock-training is something even health professionals advise for guys, who want to last longer in bed. The only thing they say is that you need to train in a special way. Which is that you need to make yourself last, rather than finish fast.
http://www.healthline.com/health-slideshow/male-sexual-performance#9

From my own experience I would say that masturbation is excellent preparation for nailing a sexy chick with your dick. But this works only as long as you don't go all the way and cum, while fantasizing about the lady's pussy and bum. If you go all the way, then this might take away some of your desire and in the short-term. And perhaps that's what people are talking about, when they say that having too much sex can make you worse in bed. It's not the sex itself that makes you worse. It's the cumming that makes you worse. Because cumming satisfies your desire, rather than make it stronger.

The key is to practice and train without cumming. And this is actually pretty easy for a guy to do, when he is by himself. All you need to do is just stop and take a short break, when you are close to orgasm. And then do it some more. That's all it takes. And there is no limit to how long you can keep doing this.

Virtually every guy can do this, when he is by himself. But this solo practice doesn't necessarily translate well into doing it with a lady like that. You have a social situation during penetration. It's hard to stop short of your pop, when your lady gets into it with you. Because you aren't just stopping for yourself. You are also stopping for her. Which makes it less than ideal. It's like you are ruining it for her.

You need a compromise, where you take a rest, without ruining it for the lady. And a good compromise I found is to put some lube on your hand and masturbate the lady's pussy and clit, while you are resting your dick inside her. This way your lady's pleasure doesn't stop. You make it fun for her, while you wait. And then you can pound her some more, once you are up to it.

The only word of caution I would say is that the same is true for many women as it is for men, when it comes to having an orgasm. Perhaps some women can have multiple orgasms, and they are okay with it. But I've met a good number of women, who lose some of their desire after having an orgasm. The safest thing to do is give the lady some pleasure with your well-lubricated hand on her pussy and clit, but don't bring her all the way to orgasm. Because once you bring the lady to orgasm, then she might no longer be in the mood for you to do her good.

And making the lady last for a long time is basically the same as for a guy. Masturbate her clit, then give her some rest, then do it again. In most sex positions, sexual intercourse by itself doesn't stimulate the lady's clit that much. Which means that during your pounding, you are actually giving the lady's clit some rest. She is unlikely to orgasm this way. Her real fun comes when you rest your dick inside her pussy and masturbate her clit with your hand.

Gaolegao366

11-18-16, 01:58

Hi,

What I am going to post next is totally based on my own experience and has not scientific evidence.

I have been mongering for 5 years now most girls' age I have been with is from 18 to 32. Most of them are white either from America or Europe. Only a few girls from Brazil. Many of you guys who have more than 10 years experience might laugh at me as an amateur. However, there is an interesting pattern I found is that the older ladies are the less time you will need to make her have orgasm (most time I used my tongue). Here is what I normally do, take a girl to the room talk to her for a little bit instead of just get into the business right away to make sure she becomes comfortable. If there is any music playing in the room I will turn it off so she would be distracted. I remember one time girl got distracted because the noise from the fans in the room. After that I will start from her top of the body, lips, neck, breast and use my hands to touch their back softly. Sometimes, we do this while we are standing and sometimes we are lying on bed. This probably will last couple of minutes. Sometimes, kissing is not on the menu, or only light kissing this normally happen to really hot girls, they probably think: oh, I am hot and everybody wants me so I do not have to work that hard to keep guys coming to me because guys come to me no matter what I do. This thought really frustrate me. Those girls are surely spoiled. Anyway, back to the main topic, after the top half, I will move to her bottom half, start from her leg and focus on her vagina. Here is the thing, before I use my tongue I ask them how do they want it, like fast or slow. Normally they will say slow. It is just misleading for guys that some people post online that guys should use their tongue to draw alphabet. What I found most efficient way is just focus on her clit. If you lick randomly like up and down, go anywhere you want, it will take longer for girls to climax or sometimes girls just fake climax so you could stop.

Next, it will go back to old principle that all girls are different, sometimes I do everything I could and go down on a girl for like 40 minutes they just feel good but just could not climax. Some girls could just climax in less than 10 minutes. Even when they have orgasms their body react differently. Some girls' bodies shake a volcano, fire mountain. Some girl just like a small stone drop in a peaceful river they just climax for less than 3 seconds and go back to normal. Even though every girl is different, most time they are really quiet and their eye are closed just right before they have orgasm. One thing is really rare that, not many girls will tell you if you are hitting the right spot like "oh, right there, that feels good keep doing it, go left a little, go hard" Most girls just really quiet so you just need to observe their body language and change your speed and strength according to that.

One thing I have experienced is that I used to monger a lot at New York City. It is a very different situation there, you pick the girl online before I set up the appointment I go to some escort review websites and see how their performance. I just got lots of bad experience because I was naive and think the actual girl will be the girl online. Considering NYC is one of the most experience place to monger, time is money one hour is at lease 500 dollars which I just felt stupid after I discovered Brazil and FKK in Germany. Since I like to please girls, I like to compare girls from time to time. It is really interesting that some girls will put some liquid which is not harmful for people's body and when you lick their vagina, they actually taste good. So it is a way to encourage guys to go down and lick them. When I told this to my friends they have no idea what I am talking about. Not sure about you guys.

So when girls climax, some might just tell you to stop because their vagina becomes very sensitive so they have to tell you stop. In the other hand, that only happened to me twice in my life, there s one girl she is around her late 20's. I took her to the room and start to work on my magic, like I mentioned before, she just comes so quick like 4 minutes, after that I did not stop and kept going, I was shocked because she just kept coming non-stop, so she would become quiet for around 20 seconds after that she climax, then 2 o second quiet and then climax, so this pattern continued for around 40 minutes, my tongue muscle is numb and neck felt uncomfortable. That time I just want to see how much she could take it. During this time, I finally believed the situation on the movie, the girl moan so hard, and grab the sheet and scrach the wall just totally lost herself. I am not saying how awesome I am in bed, I probably just met some girl who are "easy" to have orgasm. At the end, she need some water so we had to stop. That is definite unforgettable experience.

One last thing I want to mention is about my best sex experience, I met this one girl at FKK, we have good chemistry, I was on her top like missionary position. Lots of touching and kissing involved. At that one point, I could feel her vagina suddenly got tighter, so for sure not for long I have the urgency to ejaculate, so I want to pull out and change the position, however, it was just too tight and I could not even pull out. So I was like ok what the hell, when I kept going, it did not take me that long to ejaculate, the moment I come, just felt like all my energy has been sucked away, my eyes roll over, and could not even see things clearly for couple of seconds, my arms just could not hold my body weight, so I just fall on her body and breath heavily. I am not really good at description so if you guys have something not understand just let me know I will explain more in detail.

Once again, Everyhing I said is based on my experience and I did not copy anyone's work. Same time ehtere is no scientific evidence to support this. I just want to know if you guys have similar experience like I do or you guys could add some so we could share experience.

Dan7373

11-22-16, 17:15

....there is an interesting pattern I found is that the older ladies are the less time you will need to make her have orgasm....Thanks for sharing your experience.

I also found that older ladies often orgasm more easily and more quickly, than younger ladies. But I think the lady's age is just a correlation. It's not the causation. Because older ladies are usually more experienced with guys and with orgasm. And it's this experience that makes the difference. Practice makes perfect in everything, including having an orgasm.

And I say this based on my own experience with a one hot Thai lady. I really liked her looks. So, I stayed for the rest of my vacation with her. My plan was to bang her every day, perhaps two or three times a day. And of course, I knew that too much cum would probably spoil my plan. I had to do this chick, without cumming with my dick. Because only this way I could always have an erection pointing in her direction, ready to do her one more time.

I wanted to prolong my experience this hot lady. And this meant that I needed to take it easy with my dick. So, I put some lube on my hands and on her pussy, and I proceeded to masturbate her. This lady's first orgasm with me was a long time in coming. She would come close to orgasm, and then she would recede from it. It was as if she had a mental block against having an orgasm.

I tried everything with her. I kept masturbating her pussy and clit with one hand, and I massaged her everywhere else with my other hand. I massaged her back. I massaged the insides of her thighs. I even grabbed and held her toe, while masturbating her pussy and clit. Tits. This lady's nice natural tits were a major attraction for my hand-action. And she finally orgasmed with me, after I pinched one of her nipples in a surprise tit-grab. Nipple and clit. That's what finally did it. I held her nipple firmly with one hand, while masturbating her pussy and clit with my other hand. Body-shaking orgasm. She was totally out of it.

I wasn't looking at the clock. But it seemed to me that it took me half-an-hour to orgasm this pretty lady the first time around. And of course, I didn't mind that. Touching and massaging this sexy lady everywhere was an enjoyable experience for me. I didn't cum with her, because I wanted to maintain my interest in her. And I went after her with hands again, later on in the day.

I stayed with this lady for a couple of weeks. And I did carry out my plan to go after her pussy and bum, two or three times a day, every day. I did her with my hands every time and brought her to orgasm. And the funny thing was that this sexy girl went from being almost unable to orgasm at all to orgasming very quickly with me by the end of her two weeks with me. Five minutes or less. That's how long it was taking her to orgasm with me, by the end of her two weeks with me. It was like this sexy girl no longer had any mental control. She was orgasming with me all over the place every time.

Orgasming training and practice. That's what I call it. A big part of orgasm for both men and women happens mentally inside the brain. And that's why practice and experience makes a difference in women's ability to have orgasm. You can actually train a sexy chick to be more orgasming with your dick. This much I can say from my own experience.

There is some scientific research about happens in the human brain during the run-up to orgasm and during the orgasm itself. And it basically comes down to creating rhythmic brain waves in large parts of the brain through rhythmic sexual activity. The more these rhythmic brain waves spread through your brain, the closer you get to orgasm. And orgasm itself is a kind of brain siezure, where these rhythmic brain waves involve the whole brain.

Orgasm is basically synchronizing different parts of your brain into one rhythm that corresponds to your sexual rhythm. It is a kind of mental ability. And that's why training and practice makes a difference for women, who might have difficulty orgasming at first.

http://www.news-medical.net/news/20161102/Neuroscientist-seeks-to-shed-light-on-how-orgasm-works-in-the-brain.aspx

Younger ladies often aren't very good at orgasming with guys. But their younger age is not the problem here. It's their lack of orgasmic experience. Experience comes naturally with age. But it doesn't have to be this way. The lady can become experienced in only a couple of weeks, provided that her guy dedicates himself to her and really trains her pussy and clit all the way to orgasm every time.

Dan7373

11-22-16, 18:41

The Missionary Position is very common for Thai ladies to offer their guys. And I suppose it's okay, if you are just looking for a routine lay. But it doesn't have to be this way.

I found a 5-second clip that shows you what you can do with the hot lady in the Missionary Position.

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/792/501/8792501a.webm

The guy basically spreads his legs over hers and uses the shaft of his dick to stimulate her g-spot and her clit. Instead of just going in and out of her, he really does her.

I'd say that this is something to do when some really hot chick reluctantly takes your dick, and you aren't in a good position with her to ask for more. You can take this hot lady in the Missionary Position alright, but not in the way she expects. This is a wild pussy-ride, as far as the lady is concerned. You just need to make sure that the shaft of your cock is well-lubricated. Or else this might not feel comfortable for the lady.

And another thing to keep in mind is that you need to start with the regular Missionary Position first, before you get into the position shown above. Because you need to penetrate the lady first and then move from there with your cock still inside her. Or else you might not be able to penetrate her.

Dan7373

11-24-16, 13:46

I found from my experience that switching my hands on the lady and playing her pussy first with my left hand and then with my right hand sometimes brings her faster to orgasm.

This is probably because it feels different for the lady depending on whether I use my left hand or right hand. And if I switch my hands on her unpredictably, then there is an element of surprise for her too. Pleasant surprises distract the lady from her thinking, which leaves her only with her feeling. And this makes it easier for her to orgasm.

I found a good example where the guy switches his hands on the lady's pussy. And this is something to do not only during your pussy ride but also during a plain pussy massage, whenever you can reach your lady's pussy with your hands.

And of course, another advantage of switching your hands on the lady is that you don't get tired this way. You rest one hand, while you play the lady with your other hand. If the lady takes a long time to orgasm, then this is an advantage compared to doing the lady orally, where you have only one tongue and only one set of lips to do lady.

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/775/491/8775491a.webm

Dan7373

11-26-16, 14:58

When you have a 2-hour massage with the lady, then it's disappointing to cum with her within 10-minutes or so and waste the rest of your time with her.

You need to make it last. Or else, it's not much fun. And one way to make it last is to play the chick with your dick. I found a good example of this at the link below:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/000/372/472/372472a.webm

You can play the lady's clit with your dick and penetrate her once in a while too. I think this is a good way for a guy to last for a long time with his lady in a mutual fun kind of way. Masturbate the chick with your dick. That's what basically this is.

Dan7373

11-30-16, 02:28

According to Reader's Digest, there are at least 5 ways a guy can make himself last longer with this lady.

1. Masturbate to orgasm an hour or two before having sex with the lady:

This is actually something ladies at Annie's Massage in Bangkok do for you. They do oral sex on you, until you cum. Then they rejuventate you and go for the ride with you. There is less than an hour between your first cum and the second. But then you aren't doing it by yourself. The lady helps you do it.

There are some massage place in Bangkok, where the ladies get you to have two cumshots or more. But these places are an exception rather than the rule. Most place allow you only one cumshot. Which means that masturbating yourself to orgasm, before your go to a one-cumshot place might be a good idea. And this is especially true, if they have some really hot chick whom you want to nail with your dick. Because I can say from my own experience that the hotter the lady, the harder it is for a guy to last for a long time with her.

2. Try the stop and start technique:

You can read a description of this at the link below. And it probably works for the guy. But if you use this stop and start technique for nailing the lady, then this probably won't work well for her. Because basically you will break the rhythm for her, just when she might be getting into the act with you. This might be a selfish technique, because it probably doesn't work well for the lady, unless you go for her clit and masturbate it during your stop to prevent a premature pop.

3. Hold off penetration:

This is definitely something to do not just for yourself but also for the lady. Because both you and the lady need good foreplay, before you get on your way. And the lady might need it more than you, depending on how excited she is to be with you. You need to play the lady good to put her in the mood. Or else your experience with her might turn out to be less than memorable.

4. Try the squeeze technique:

This is a variation of the stop and start technique. And I don't agree with it. Because you do it at the expense of the lady's rhythm and pleasure. It might make things better for you. But this won't be much fun for the lady. Which might spoil your experience with her.

5. Do Kegels exercises:

Kegels exercises is basically tensing up your pelvical muscles that among other things control your urination and ejaculation. And I'm not too sure about this advice. Because if you are so close to cumming that you need to hold it back with your muscles, then it is a bit of a torture for the guy to do it like that. A better way to do it is to masturbate to orgasm, before you come to nail her. Then you don't need to hold anything back. You can go all out on the lady and still last for a reasonably long time with her.

http://www.besthealthmag.ca/best-you/best-health-for-men/5-ways-to-stop-premature-ejaculation/

Of course, another thing I never get tired of adding to such advice is that you need to be careful not to hurt the lady, when you last for a long time with her. Because I can say from my own experience, that the lube on your condom can dry out. And if you continue to have sex without adding some lube and some water to make it slippery, then you will probably hurt the lady with your dry rubber.

And the thing about it all is that your girl might just grit her teeth and not say anything to you about it. To me this doesn't make sense. But the girl might not understand the reason for her hurt. She might think that your cock is just too big for her. And she wouldn't say anything to you, because this isn't something you can change.

I've actually experienced this kind of misunderstanding with a Thai lady. She got hurt with me like this not once but many times, before she said something to me. And all this time I didn't know that anything was wrong.

That's why I say that this is something to watch out for. And you shouldn't just assume that the lady knows what she is doing, no matter how experienced she is.

Dan7373

12-01-16, 12:08

A recent study published in the journal of Clinical Anatomy has found that women vary in their ability to orgasm during sexual intercourse due to differences in their anatomy.

The key difference is how far the woman's clitoris is from her urethra and from her vaginal opening. This distance varies from one woman to another. And the further away the woman's clitoris is from her vagina, the less likely she is to orgasm during sexual intercourse. This is because the further away the woman's clitoris is from her vagina, the less stimulation her clitoris gets during sexual intercourse with a guy.

According to the author of this study, "Between 70 percent to 90 percent of women are unable to achieve orgasm with penetration alone".

http://medicalxpress.com/news/2016-04-anatomy-key-female-orgasm.html

The author of this study and another sex-expert say that you need to stimulate the lady's clitoris either with your fingers or with a sex-toy, while you are having sex with her. Another way to do it is to have the lady on top, so that she rides you cowgirl style. This works for many women, because the woman can grind her clit on your pubic bone to make it more pleasant for herself. But for this to work, the lady needs to understand how to do it. Or else she won't do it the right way.

This study confirms once more what I've been saying in this forum before. You need to stimulate the lady's clit to make it pleasant for her. Sexual intercourse alone feels pretty good only for the guy, but not so much for the woman. You need to do more than just ride the lady to make it pleasant for her.

This is probably the biggest reason why men are more into sex than women are. Ordinary sexual intercourse feels more pleasant for the guy than for the woman. But it doesn't have to be this way. It's not that difficult for a guy to make it pleasant for the woman. All you need to do is play the lady's clit, while you are nailing it.

Here are some examples of what I mean:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/735/831/8735831a.webm

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/007/897/491/(m=eUM881q)7897491a.gif

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/007/839/301/(m=eUM881q)7839301a.gif

Dan7373

12-01-16, 12:57

There is an old saying, "Getting started is being half-way done. " And that's how it is for a guy with the lady he likes.

When you start out with the lady and she undresses with you, then her legs are still close together and her pussy is closed to you. What do you do in such a situation? You can't just go for penetration. You need to get this lady in the mood, before you do her good.

I found from my experience that rubbing one finger along the lady's closed pussy-slit is a good way to get the lady started and get her to open up her legs for you. One finger up and down the lady's slit really does it. One time I even orgasmed a Thai lady this way, because she kept fooling around with me and kept her legs close together with me, just for fun. But the usual situation is that the lady starts to open up soon after you start sliding your finger up and down her pussy-slit. And once she opens up, then you need to up your game and use more than just one finger on her.

I found a good example of what to do, when the lady's pussy is closed to you, and the lady isn't quite ready:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/005/147/091/5147091a.webm

And below are some examples of how to do the lady, after she opens up. These are ladies masturbating themselves. And the important thing to notice here is that all of these ladies focus their rubbing on the top part of their pussy, which is where the woman's clitoris is. The woman's clitoris really is the key in all of this:

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/000/529/911/529911a.webm

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/383/531/8383531a.webm

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/786/661/8786661a.webm

http://cdn1a.limg.pornhub.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/149/931/8149931a.webm

Dan7373

12-03-16, 10:42

I got a message from somebody in this forum that the internet links in my posts aren't working for him. And I suspect that this might be the case for some other people too.

The reason why my GIF picture links might not work for some people is because these pictures are composed of many picture frames, and they are very large in size. The GIF pictures that I post are anywhere between 15 MB and 40 MB in size. Which means that if you have a slow internet connection, then these pictures might take a very long time to load. And this would make the link look like it's broken, and it's not working.

Unfortunately, there isn't much I can do about this. A still picture would load a lot faster. But a still picture doesn't really show you how to do something, the way a moving picture does.

The best I can do to deal with this problem is explain in words what the picture shows, so that you can still understand what I mean, even if the link I provide doesn't work for you. And that's what I'll do in my future posts here.

Of course, another possible reason why my links might not work for you is Internet censorship in your country. Some time ago, I've lived in a country where the government censored the Internet, and almost all porn-links were blocked there.

Dan7373

12-03-16, 11:37

Some of the latest scientific research of women's orgasm is now finding that much sex-advice given by professionals in the past was so badly mistaken that you would've been better off learning about sex from porn-films, than from the so called sex-experts.

One glaring example of this is described at the link below. Basically, the researcher has conducted some sex-experiments with women and has found that physical exercise, just before sex, increased the woman's sexual response and arousal. And this is completely the opposite to the advice given by so-called sex-experts even now on the Internet. The author of this study says, "For years we were told, 'Have a bubble bath, calm down, listen to relaxing music, do deep breathing exercises, chill out before sex'. But my research shows the opposite, that you actually want to get women in an active state".

The author of this study says that men do indeed need to relax and take it easy before sex. Apparently, men and women are opposite in this regard. But so-called sex-experts in the past have assumed that women were the same as men in their sexual response, and they didn't bother to check if this was true or not. They just made it up and used their positions of authority to pass it on as expertise.

Another medical doctor is quoted in the article below about what he was taught about sex in medical school. He says, "I completed a residency in obstetrics and gynaecology that was 20,000 hours. I had one 45-minute lecture on female sexual function and I can tell you what was said during that 45 minutes was almost all completely wrong".

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-38170324

I suppose, one lesson you should take from this is that you should trust your experience and look at all of the evidence, both positive and negative. Trusting the authority of experts and taking their word for it is an iffy kind of thing. Because experts can be so badly mistaken, that their conclusions are no better than fraud and superstition.

Dan7373

12-08-16, 14:12

I've posted the picture below before. But some people probably couldn't see it. Because before, it was a large GIF file that did not load well for people with a slow Internet connection. The GIF below is only 1 second long (9. 2 MB). But it shows you enough how to make cocky love.

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/9087282.gif

http://badgirlsbible.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/grinding-on-clitoris-cross-section-illustration-1.jpg

This picture shows you how to take a lady in the missionary position in a way that stimulates her clit. It's basically playing a double-role with your pole. You ride her pussy and clit at the same time. You spread your legs over hers and bring your body up on her. This enables you to press the shaft of your cock on her clit, with every thrust, until you go bust.

I found from my experience that when the hot lady is out of my league in terms of her good looks, then I often end up doing her in the missionary position. Because my bargaining position with such a lady is very low. I'm just glad I get to plow the lady who is out of my league. But once I'm inside her, then I can adjust my very conservative missionary position with her and really give it to her, the way the guy in the above GIF picture does.

Dan7373

12-19-16, 12:50

The Internet is full of sex-advice for cocky guys about how to please a woman. And one common theme that comes up again and again is that you shouldn't touch the woman's clitoris directly. Because most women are too sensitive for this kind of touching.

On the surface, this advice seems to make sense. And in a way it's true. But the problem with this advice is that I fails to mention the fact that the woman's clitoris is normally covered up with a kind foreskin or hood. Which means that when you touch the woman's clitoral area, then you are actually touching her foreskin that covers her clitoris, and you aren't touching her clitoris directly. That's why it's okay to massage a woman there and make her orgasm this way.

To touch a woman's clitoris directly, you need to pull back her foreskin that covers her clitoris. Here is an example of this:

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/9258772.gif

Only after you pull back the woman's foreskin, then you can touch her clitoris directly. And this is the kind of touching that might be uncomfortable for many women, if you do it too much or too roughly.

I've read some mainstream media sex-advice, where the author criticizes the way clit-rubbing is shown in porn as being totally unrealistic. But I say that this author is ignorant. Because what you see in porn isn't direct touching of the woman's clitoris. It's masturbation of the woman's clitoris through her foreskin. Here is one example of this:

http://www.daporngifs.com/gif/pussy-check-clit-check-titty-check.gif

Dan7373

01-02-17, 14:02

One sex position that I've really enjoyed with a Thai massage lady in the past was the side-by-side, face-to-face position.

I actually didn't know about his position at the time. The lady took me like this on her own, after I acted a little disappointed at her suggested missionary position.

This side-by-side position feels better than the missionary position. Because it gives you and the lady much greater freedom of movement. You don't need to fight against gravity. Which means that you can put your arms around the lady and grab her ass, if you want to be a baddie. You can suck her tits at your leisure, while you nail her with your cock. And the lady can also do some thrusting on you, if she wants to speed up things with you.

This is an extremely rare position to see in porn. But I found one example of it, which you can check out at the link below. It's a 5. 6 MB animated GIF picture that shows you how the lady takes the guy with her pussy in the side-by-side, face-to-face position.

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/9440322.gif

One thing to notice here is that the lady puts the guy's cock against the opening of her pussy and then pulls on his cock with her hand to encourage his thrust inside her. The guy understands what the lady means. He penetrates her without hesitation. Which makes it a good example of non-verbal communication. And it's a clue for you that when the lady pulls on your cock with her hand, then she probably wants you to thrust in side her.

When my massage lady took me in this position, then I didn't fully understand what she was doing. I didn't respond to her pull on my cock. But she managed to take my cock anyway with a sudden thrust of her pussy. I suddenly found myself inside her. Which was a very pleasant surprise. And from that point on, I definitely knew what to do.

This is a great position for a guy to be in with his lady. But the lady needs know that this is what you want with her. And she needs to know how to do it too. It can be a problem on both accounts. Because you have a language barrier with the lady. And the lady might not have any experience with this position before.

But as the saying goes, a picture is worth a thousand words. And this is especially true for a moving GIF picture, which shows you how to do it. You can save the above GIF picture in your smartphone and show it to the lady, who might do this with you. I think this is a great way to overcome language and possible lack of experience barriers. Just show the lady what to do and how to do it, instead of trying to explain it to her.

Syzygies

01-03-17, 11:23

Some of the latest scientific research of women's orgasm is now finding that much sex-advice given by professionals in the past was so badly mistaken that you would've been better off learning about sex from porn-films, than from the so called sex-experts.
.Sure there was a lot of bullshit sex advice from experts. Experts did surveys, asked a lot of questions, and were fed a lot of lies from James Bond types, and imaginative women. People did not like to admit how shit their sex life might be.

However you also have to recognise that porn is not made for the women's pleasure, it is made for best photographic angles to excite all the wankers with dick in hand. Okay There is also more pretty porn for the ladies. There is extreme nasty porn for the Psychos. I asked a girl with a tom girlfriend about "tribbing" and she reckoned it was total bullshit. Just an example. I asked if she used strap-ons. She said no, since her Tom was totally anti-penis and anything resembling one. Her Tom did not know that this girl was actually bi-sexual and liked dick as well (now has a husband and child).

DATY is also portrayed very unrealistically. Porn that even teaches DATY tried to make out that all that was needed for DATY is to suck on the clit. Total bullshit. Certainly there is technique involved and it not exclusively sucking.

I believe the best training in sexual technique comes from the very experienced women teaching us how to do it right for her. Not all girls like the same thing. Very large variation. With a new girl, you really have to try lots of techniques from your long experience, and see which things she really likes. If she is not so shy as to say when it happens to be great, than would be a big help.

Cowgirl is an excellent position for girl to control the rocking movement and stimulation on her clit. Far more likely she can orgasm this way than mish. Mish is probably one of the worst positions. I am seeing that girls like doggy and prone too. These positions all assume the dick is not too big for her to handle.

Dan7373

02-12-17, 15:53

Sure there was a lot of bullshit sex advice from experts. Experts did surveys, asked a lot of questions, and were fed a lot of lies from James Bond types, and imaginative women. People did not like to admit how shit their sex life might be....
I'd say that you need to look for evidence and learn from it directly, rather than listen to what people say.

Because it's not just that people can make up stories. People can also misunderstand their experience, learn an incorrect lesson from it, and then give a wrong advice to others.

It's also possible to generalize too much from what some people like or don't like, even when you look at the evidence. You need to recognize the limits of your evidence and experience.

Some women like big cocks for example, while others don't like such cocks. And the reason for this might be anatomical. If the lady had a child or two, which stretched her out, then she might not feel much with the smaller cock. She needs a bigger cock to enjoy it. But a younger woman, who never had children, might be so tight that a big cock feels painful and unpleasant for her.

You wouldn't know this, unless you have a big cock, and you've been with both types of women.

And the thing about learning from evidence directly is that you can get plenty of such evidence from your own experience. All you need to do is try different things with ladies, and their reaction will tell you a lot about how much they like or dislike what you do. You just need to pay attention to the lady's non-verbal body language.

Of course, not everything is relative and individual. There are some universals that apply to virtually all people. One example is the physical pleasure that virtually all men get from having their cocks touched, sucked, and masturbated. And the same is true for touching, sucking, and masturbating women's clits. There is some variation in how sensitive or insensitive women are. And do need to adjust your technique from one woman to another. But it basically works for virtually all women, if you adjust well your technique for each individual woman.

It basically comes down to understanding women's universal pleasure points and adjusting your technique to each individual woman by paying attention to her body language and using this as your feedback.

Because even asking the woman to tell you what she likes or doesn't like can mislead you. Especially in Thailand, people try hide their real self from others and try to put their best foot forward according what's expected in their culture.

Dan7373

02-12-17, 18:06

I think it's important to recognize that P4P ladies often aren't ready for their guys. P4P sex is so quick from you meeting the lady to you nailing her, that the lady often doesn't have much time to get into the mood for it with you.

Mood is contagious. If the lady isn't quite in the mood for it, then you'll probably lose some of your mood too. And that's why you should go out of your way to arouse the lady, especially in a P4P type of situation.

I remember some years ago, I brought a good-looking Thai lady from a Go-Go place to my hotel room. We tried to have sex, without much foreplay. And I had some difficulty with penetrating her. She was tight and dry. And I would've hurt her, if I tried to force my way inside. So, I massaged her pussy and clit with my hand, until I got her juices flowing enough to wet my hand. Then I penetrated her right away. And we were happily on our way for a mutually pleasant ride.

Physical foreplay is the quickest way to get the lady in the mood. And that's what you need, when you've just met the chick, and you want to nail her with your dick.

I found some rare porn examples of how to foreplay a lady in a quick kind of way. And I know from my own experience that taking a lady this way works in terms of arousing her. Here are some moving GIF pictures that show you what you can do:

http://cdn-d-limg.pornhub.com/gif/9994952.gif
The guy in this GIF plays the lady's clit, and he is pretty good at it, judging by the lady's smile.

http://img.pornhub.com/gif/9995112.gif
This GIF shows the guy continuing to play the lady's clit during his doggy sex with her. And this shows an important point to consider. It's not enough just to get the lady in the mood at the beginning. Because she can lose her mood, if you let up on her. You need to maintain her mood with some clit play, even while you are nailing her.

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This GIF might take some time to load. It's 5 seconds long (about 30 MB).

This last GIF shows you how the guy gets fresh with the lady. He lifts up her dress, slips his hand inside her panties, finds her clit, and starts masturbating it.

I like this last GIF because this is my approach to P4P ladies. Your time with the lady starts as soon as you enter the private room with her and close the door. And from my own experience I can say that the lady won't slap your hand away, if you go after her pussy and clit right away, the way this guy does in the GIF video.

This kind of foreplay gets the lady wet in a few short minutes. Which is a sure sign that the lady is now in the mood to do you good. All you need to do after this is maintain her mood with some clit play once in a while.

Dan7373

03-25-17, 13:30

Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is basically orgasming the hot chick with your dick.

I've mentioned it in this forum before. And now I've found the best description yet of how to do it.

http://www.newhealthadvisor.com/Coital-Alignment-Technique.html

I can say for sure that this is a very good description of how to do it. Because this is something I've done myself with a Thai lady. And I can say from my own experience that it works.

The Thai lady, I did this with, begged me to stop after a while. She said that she had an orgasm, and she needed a short break. So, I just stayed still with my cock inside her pussy for 3-4 minutes, and then I started to nail her again in a more conventional way. Which ended in orgasm for me too.

In this Coital Alignment Technique, you basically rock the lady's clit with the shaft of your cock, rather than pound her pussy in and out. The lady gets a lot more sexual stimulation than usual. While you get a lot less. That's why the lady is much more likely to orgasm before you, when you do her like this. But her orgasm doesn't need to be the end of your encounter with her. The lady just needs a short break, and then you can nail her again.

From my own experience I can say that this Coital Alignment Technique isn't nearly as pleasant for a guy to do as just nailing the chick with your dick. Your sensation and your pleasure is limited, when you do the lady like this. But it works really well for the lady, so well that she is likely to orgasm with you.

I'm not sure if I would go for this Coital Alignment Technique, if I have only 15-20 minutes with the lady. But when I have 1-2 hours with her, then there is enough time to do everything with her, including this Coital Alignment Technique.

I think this is an excellent way to prolong your intimate experience with the lady. You get lots of intimate body-to-body contact with her. You get to play around with her tits and nipples, during your Coital Alignment Technique. And then you can change your sex-position with her a little and go all out on her with your dick for your orgasm with her.

Dan7373

03-25-17, 13:53

I've had one of my best experiences with a Thai massage lady, when I took her the way the link below shows:

http://68.media.tumblr.com/664ad79cf9dbac80e01489e8c94d1f5f/tumblr_o5m7v2ez6T1sfrezlo1_400.gif

This sex-position is a little hard to describe. But it is very pleasant for a guy. You get lots of intimate body-to-body contact with the lady.

This is like having a body-to-body massage with the chick, while you are nailing her with your dick.

Dan7373

03-25-17, 15:55

A common complaint among women is that quite often they come close to orgasm with their guy, but then he fails to finish them.

"Fifty percent of women said their partners were almost there but just couldn't quite bring them home. "
https://mic.com/articles/113334/these-are-the-new-orgasm-statistics-every-woman-should-see

I actually had this problem with ladies too, until I got some practice in masturbating ladies with my hand and learned from my experience how to finish off my lady every time.

I start out by lubricating really well, both my hand and her pussy. Then I massage her pussy in a variety of ways. And I pay attention to her non-verbal feedback, which tells me what technique she finds more pleasant and what technique less pleasant.

It's almost like a checklist for me, that I go through with the lady.

1. Whole hand on her pussy, with her pussy-lips closed:

a) Circular motion.

b) Side-to-side.

c) Up and down.

2. Whole hand on her pussy, with her pussy-lips spread wide open:

a) Circular motion.

b) Side-to-side.

c) Up and down.

3. One finger inside her slit:

a) Circular motion around her clit.

b) Side-to-side to open her pussy-lips one way and then the other.

c) Up and down along her slit, making sure you catch her clit.

I do all of the above at various speeds and applying different amounts of pressure. And I pay attention to how the lady reacts. Some ladies like it this way, and some like it that way. Some ladies like it harder and faster. Some like it gentler and slower.

Once I get a sense of what the lady likes and doesn't like, then I start doing her the way she likes. But I still vary my pussy massage technique with her within the limits of what she likes. This makes it more interesting and exciting for her. Because she never knows what I'm going to do next with her pussy. Am I going to spread her pussy-lips wide open with my whole hand and do her side-to-side, or up-and-down, or in a circular motion around her clit? I actually do all of the above. But I keep switching it on her. And she can't predict how I'm going to do her pussy next.

This is an excellent way to bring a lady close to orgasm. But once she is close to orgasm, then you need to change your technique with her to finish her off. Basically, you need to stop varying the way you massage her pussy and start massaging her pussy harder and faster with firm, broad strokes that cover her pussy and catch her clit every time. It's harder and faster, and without any variation. And you keep doing her like this, until she orgasms.

This is similar to the way you orgasm, when you are past of no return with the lady, but you still want to pound her some more with your dick. If you stop at this point, then you'll have a weak orgasm. And it won't be satisfying. But if you go all out with your dick on the sexy chick, then your orgasm with her is strong and very satisfying indeed.

That's how it is for the lady, when she is close to orgasm. You need to go harder and faster with your hand on her pussy and make it very rhythmic and repetitive to give her a strong, satisfying orgasm.

And of course, you need to make sure that your every hand-stroke catches her clit along the way every time. The woman's clitoris is equivalent to the man's penis in terms of its sensations and pleasures. Missing her clit is like masturbating the shaft of your cock without touching its head. You might get an erection this way. But you won't experience much pleasure. And you certainly won't orgasm this way. And that's how it is for the lady and her clitoris.

Here are some examples of how you can vary your pussy massage technique with the lady:

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http://xxgasm.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/wet_cum_tumb-7626.gif
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http://townhotties.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/MasturbationMonday0001.gif
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Member #4591

04-22-17, 09:18

Syzygies

04-22-17, 12:55

Member #4591

04-22-17, 13:25

You asked the wrong guy. Dan is not a DATY enthusiast. Dan is a hand enthusiast and may well be very expert in that department. I am a DATY enthusiast.

I don't ask girls if they like DATY in general. It's more a question of if they allow it. Even then I don't ask.

Here is how it goes. Usually start off on the bed with both kneeling facing each other. A bit of caressing and light touching of her ass and tits, a bit of a kiss if thinks going well. The girl asks me to lie down. I ask her to lie down instead, suggesting I want to enjoy her body. Start with a bit of kissing action, neck, nipples, mouth as far as permitted. Move down her body to start kissing her inner thighs lightly and top of pussy very lightly. I am sneaking up to the DATY gradually and gauging her reaction. Most girls, 95% are allowing the approach to DATY as long as it is not too forceful. Most girls like it to start very gently and softly. Occasionally girls say they don't really like DATY, but I am ignoring that if they don't actively stop me. Some girls start off completely disinterested in the DATY, but after start getting stimulated they can either forget their objections, and get into it, or some girls don't not want to cum and will stop me, others are to shy to cum right on your face and will suggest to switch to fucking, like they may say they want your dick in them, because they are used to cumming from other ways. Good DATY technique that comes from training, and from very broad experience is important. Girls don't like bad DATY of course, same as I don't like a bad forceful painful BBBJ. Not every girl likes DATY the same way. Have to try variations and observe which techniques she responds best to. Tough to tell for girls that are very still, showing little in the way of reactions.

I don't really repeat girls that are not into DATY at all, so all my regulars like it big time, as far as I can tell. One of my bargirls Oom is a girl very difficult to cum. I can get her there sometimes. I think she really needs a high powered fucker. We still get on pretty well anyway. She never expects to cum every time. Other sensitive girls can't hold out to good DATY and will blow within minutes. It's similar to guys with a BBBJ. Can we fail to enjoy a BBBJ with really fabulous technique? Can we just ignore it? Some guys will blow very quickly indeed to a great BBBJ just because they are too sensitive. I am in the difficult to cum category, but a good BBBJ still works. Girls with a good technique DATY can be somewhat similar.

If the girl does not want to cum, sometimes she will have to stop the DATY, when stimulation gets too much for her to handle. Others may be less sensitive and able to just disregard it.

The percentage of Thai girls that truly do not like a good DATY under any circumstances is less than 10%, maybe only 5%, IMHO. Perhaps my sample is somehow biased, I don't know? Not many working girls are stopping me from doing DATY. Some enjoy it, some reluctantly give in to enjoying it. One latin girl even told me was her first ever cum as a working girl since most customers too lazy to give her an extended DATY. Another latin girl had a cum on our first session. She never let me do DATY again after that. She wanted to stay in control, embarrassed that she had let herself go, the first time.

The number of guys that do not like a really good BBBJ is extremely low, right? I am in the camp that I don't really like hand jobs, but am sure I could succumb to a really good expert one. Girls that truly dislike DATY should also be lowish. My ex wife was a strange case she actually did not like DATY. She needed finger technique concurrent with a dick inside her, or maybe my DATY technique was not good enough. That was before a Thai girl trained me up on how to do the DATY right.

What Thai girls really mean when they say they don't like DATY, is they don't like a bad to average DATY, or they don't want to cum (too tiring), or they are too tired already, or saving it for the BF. Many guys have weak technique. Many do not have the patience to give a girl a long slow build up DATY till she finally gets to explode after 20 minutes, and don't want to waste their session time.

As always, YMMV.

I completely ignored 69, but I often enjoy that to be included in the session. In upside down DATY (69), my nose helps stimulate the girl inside the pussy, instead of a digit.

I hate to be "failing to finish" a girl as Dan puts it, if have got her into the mood to get there. Finishing her with a DATY is my most reliable technique, not being a hand expert.Some great thoughts my man. You and I are very similar in how we approach DATY. The one thing I will try that I learnt from you is the slower approach. Great suggestion!

Dan7373

05-02-17, 14:40

Great blog Dan.

Question for you. I would say about 50% of the Thai women I've been with say they don't like DATY. In my opinion, how would they know if they don't let me try? What's your opinion about Thai women and DATY? How about your experiences with Thai women and this?Sorry, it took me so long to reply. I got busy with other things and didn't come back here for a while.

I talked with a Thai lady, who told me about her experience of saying "No" to DATY with a guy. He threatened that he wouldn't pay. So, she agreed. But she wasn't happy about it.

She told me that she didn't understand why the guy wanted to do this with her. Because DATY was a turn-off for her, and supposedly he was doing this for her. His behavior seemed illogical to her.

I stayed with this lady for weeks. She had really nice, big boobs. I liked her. But I was a little too big for her in the cock department. She was trying her best. But it wasn't working well for her, especially with condoms and the lube drying up.

So I decided to give her a break and get off with her in a different way. I kept my cock to myself. And I started going after her pussy with my hand and plenty of lube to masturbate her and make her orgasm. Perhaps you might call this empathetic sex. Because masturbating the lady to orgasm was in a way satisfying for me too, even though I didn't physically orgasm with her.

The only problem with keeping my cock to myself was that my sexual desire accumulated and increased quite a bit. I became a kind of a sex-fiend with her. I was grabbing her pussy and masturbating her to orgasm 2 or 3 times a day, every day. And I still wanted more. She even yelled at me a little, when I didn't give her much of a break and went after her pussy again, soon after she already orgasmed with me. This was a little too much for her.

At the beginning, this lady was actually very reluctant to let me masturbate her pussy and clit. I didn't want to pressure her. But I had to tell her that I would leave, if she wouldn't let me do it. Because this was true. I was thinking of leaving her.

Her first masturbation orgasm with me was difficult to achieve. It took a long time. I firmly masturbated her whole pussy with the flat of my hand, hard-and-fast, the way a guy would masturbate his cock. I actually used the same rhythm, the same speed, and the same firmness on her pussy with my hand as I would normally use on my cock. I wanted her to be able to relate to me and understand how I feel. And that's why I masturbated her pussy, as though she was a guy.

I could feel her erect clitoris slipping and sliding on my hand. And I knew that she was enjoying it. But she would come close to orgasm and then somehow get distracted and recede from it. This happened several times. It was like she had a mental block against having an orgasm.

I had to change my tactics with her. I continued to masturbate her pussy with my hand, just like before. But with my other hand, I started grabbing her tits, pinching and holding her nipples, stroking the insides of her thighs, grabbing her ass and playing with her cheeks. I even grabbed and held her big toe, while doing her pussy and clit hard-and-fast with my other hand. In the end she had a wild orgasm. I distracted her mental block at the right moment with a firm nipple pinch. She lost it and orgasmed.

Her second orgasm with me went faster and better. She now knew that her mental block against orgasm would only prolong her pleasure. I would stay with her and masturbate her, until she orgasmed.

After a few days, I noticed that she was going to bed early and apparently waiting for me to join her. I was masturbating her pussy at this time every day. I never forgot to do it. So, she already knew that I was going to do it, and she was panting for it.

I was more of an evening person, and she was more of a morning person. I always did her pussy in the evening. But in the morning, I sometimes forgot. So, this lady would take my hand and put it on her pussy to indicate that she wanted some pussy masturbation. Which I gladly obliged. And of course, she orgasmed with me every time. Because I wouldn't stop, until she orgasmed. And if she would take a little too long, then I would go all out on her with both hands, they way I did her first time. And this would do the trick every time.

Towards the end, this lady was perhaps orgasming a little too fast. She would take only 5 minutes to orgasm. I was orgasming her 2 or 3 times a day, every day. She had no trouble keeping up with that. This was okay with her.

I think a big part of my success with this lady in getting her to orgasm this well and this much is that I used my own masturbation technique on her. I did her pussy with the flat of my hand. But the rhythm, the firmness, and the speed were all the same, as if I was masturbating myself. This enabled me to understand and relate to her sensations and feelings. I knew that her sensations and feelings were similar to what I've experienced myself. Because I was doing her the same way as I did myself.

I could tell when she was getting more aroused and getting closer orgasm, or getting away from it. And it's this understanding that enabled me to orgasm her every time. I could read her sensations and feelings and use them as my feedback for masturbating her pussy just the right way.

And the moral of this story is that women often don't want to do sexual things that are pleasant for them, because it goes against their culture and upbringing. Women aren't supposed to enjoy sex. That's how most women are raised, even in Thailand. And it's not just a mental block for women. Many people in society look down on women, who are good with men and who enjoy sex with them. These women can be ostracized and excluded, which is a serious social punishment. Women need to worry about their reputation and keep up their appearances. Or else some people will make trouble for them. It's not a trivial matter for them. And I think guys should be sympathetic enough to help women keep up their appearances. Do it only in private and not embarrass the lady in public.

DATY is something I used to like too. But I found from my experience that it's not nearly as efficient and effective as doing the lady with your hand.

For one thing, your tongue and your lips get tired faster than your hand. If the lady is taking a little too long to orgasm, then you might not be able to make her orgasm at all. You get tired and stop. I can say this from my own experience.

Another big advantage of doing the lady's pussy and clit with your well-lubricated hand is that you can just reach for her clit and start masturbating it, as if it's the normal thing to do, and let her slap your hand away, if she doesn't like it. I found from my experience that almost all ladies just let you do it, until they are panting with sexual arousal and pulling you on top of them for a good ride. You don't need to bargain with the lady to reach for her clit and masturbate it. And the lady doesn't even need to stop moving or stay in the same position. You can always reach for her clit and masturbate it, no matter what she does or which way she turns.

I remember one time a hot lady was trying to give me a soapy body-to-body massage. She was pretty good at it. But I kept reaching for her clit and masturbating it every time. There was no escape for her, no matter which way she turned. Her clit was mine, as soon as it was within my reach. She couldn't take it anymore and started pulling me on top of her for a missionary ride. I destroyed her massage technique and took her with my dick.

But the biggest advantage of doing the lady with your hand, rather than with your mouth, is that you can masturbate the lady the way you would masturbate yourself. You can use the same rhythm, the same firmness, and the same speed. And this enables you to connect with the lady emotionally, understand how she feels, and use this as your feedback to make her orgasm.

The only thing I miss about not doing DATY on a lady is sucking on her clit. You can give the lady an instant clitoral erection by sealing your lips around her clit and creating some negative air pressure around it with your cheeks. Clitoral pump is what I call it. And this does give the lady a pleasant sensation. It's a great way to give the lady about as big a clitoral erection as she can possibly have. And you can probably orgasm the lady just by sucking on her clit.

Dan7373

05-02-17, 16:52

You asked the wrong guy. Dan is not a DATY enthusiast. Dan is a hand enthusiast and may well be very expert in that department. I am a DATY enthusiast.

I don't ask girls if they like DATY in general. It's more a question of if they allow it. Even then I don't ask.

Here is how it goes. Usually start off on the bed with both kneeling facing each other. A bit of caressing and light touching of her ass and tits, a bit of a kiss if thinks going well. The girl asks me to lie down. I ask her to lie down instead, suggesting I want to enjoy her body. ....I used to be a DATY enthusiast too, when I was steady with one lady in a conventional relationship. But I changed what I did with P4P ladies. Because I have some medically-related education, and I know it for a fact that it's possible to transmit some viral and bacterial infections through unprotected oral sex. And the thing about such infections is that they often don't show symptoms for a long time. Which means that you could be transmitting your infection to other people and not know about it. That's how transmission usually happens.

This isn't just about protecting yourself. This is also about protecting the ladies you are with. Because after you get infected with one lady, then you can unintentionally transmit it to another lady.

That's why I don't do DATY with P4P ladies. It's not a matter of taste or personal preference for me. It's a matter of safety and ethics.

I also don't ask the lady, before I reach for her clit and start masturbating it. This is normal foreplay. And most ladies take it this way.

Although I've been with one soapy massage lady, who changed her massage technique and started massaging my lower body, so that I couldn't reach her pussy with my hand. She stayed there for a while.

I pretended to forget about her pussy and didn't reach for it, when she was barely within my reach. She moved closer to massage my upper body. And her clit was mine right away. I was just waiting for her to do that.

She let me masturbate her pussy and clit for a while. But when she started to get really aroused and wet, then she moved away again to massage my lower body. I again pretended to forget about her pussy. But this time she knew that I was waiting for her to play her pussy again. She came back anyway. And this time, she held her legs apart for me, so that I could masturbate her whole pussy with my whole hand.

We repeated this routine a couple of times. Then she couldn't take it anymore and got me to nail her.

I think giving the massage lady freedom of movement and doing her pussy during her massage is a good way to do it. Because the lady has a good excuse to take a break whenever she wants. If you can't reach her pussy for a while, then this isn't her fault. She is just doing her job. Then she comes back. And your hand is there waiting for her.

I think it's a lot easier and less trouble to play the lady's pussy and clit with your hand than to do DATY on her. Because you don't need to take control or tell the lady what to do. She can continue to move around as she wants. And she doesn't need to assume in any special position.

This works with shy ladies and with strong-willed ladies too. If the lady wants to be in charge, then so be it. You can still masturbate her clit. It's like you are just foreplaying the lady. And the lady lets you do it, regardless of her personality or circumstances. You aren't asking her to do anything. You are just playing her pussy and clit, because you feel like it.

Dan7373

05-03-17, 14:02

One advice for cocky guys I've heard about is putting a big pillow under the lady's hips in the doggy position. This enables the lady to relax completely and just lie on top of the pillow still in the doggy position for the guy behind her.

And the big advantage of this relaxed doggy position is that the guy behind her can go all out on her and just slam her bum like there is no tomorrow. Normally, you can't do this kind of thing with the lady in doggy, because you will knock her out of her doggy position. But with that pillow under her, you can use your whole weight on her, and she will still stay in the doggy position with you.

I found an amateur Asian video, where a guy and his hot gal do exactly as I've described above. I think this is something to watch and learn from:

https://cl.phncdn.com/gif/11076131.gif

This is the whole video: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59033cfc04fc2.

I don't know about you, but I find it especially hot to pound a hot lady from behind hard enough to hear the slapping sounds. And that's what happens in this video. You can clearly hear "slap, slap, slap". This guy really slaps his lady's ass-cheeks with his hips. And she responds with some realistic groans and moans too.

When the lady can hear the slapping sounds, then she knows that she is really getting nailed. This is like an extra sensation and an extra clue for her. The lady in doggy can't see her own nailing, unless there is a mirror. She needs extra clues like this to make it hot for her.

I found from my experience that some P4P ladies get embarrassed by slapping sounds like that. They are afraid their friends might hear and understand what's going on. It's one thing to have sex with a guy. But it's quite another to get nailed so much that you can hear the slapping sounds coming out of the room. Apparently, P4P ladies make fun of each other and laugh about it, when they hear one of their friends getting nailed like that.

But besides possible embarrassment for the lady, this is also really hot for her. The lady gets more aroused, when she hears something like this. That's why I like to do it with my ladies. And the technique shown in the video above is the way to do it. You need to put a big pillow under the lady's hips, so that she won't lose her doggy position. And then you can slam her cheeks with your hips at full speed to make those slapping sounds for her and her friends, who might be listening.

Dan7373

05-03-17, 15:26

I found from my experience that it can be really hard to choose a lady and decide to go with her, when there are many ladies to choose from. Sometimes I go away and not choose anybody.

And the problem here isn't the looks. It's simply having too many ladies to choose from. It's so hard to decide which lady to ride, that you lose your mood and don't do any lady good.

There was actually an experimental study done, where consumers were shown a display of 24 varieties of gourmet jam on one day and only 6 varieties on another day. The larger display attracted more interest from people. But when it came to buying one of these jams, then people looking at only 6 varieties were 10 times more likely to buy, than those looking at 24 varieties.

https://hbr.org/2006/06/more-isnt-always-better

And the lesson of this study is that having a lot of choice makes it so difficult to choose that people can't decide, and they don't buy as a result.

I think this is what happens with many guys, including myself, when they have too many ladies to choose from. They don't choose anybody and go away.

But there is a solution to this problem. And it's actually something I've read in this forum that some guys do. Basically, you split your deciding and your riding into two separate parts that you do on two different days.

First, you visit the place and make a short list of the ladies you'd like to do in the future. And it has to a short list of no more than 6 ladies. Or else you'll still have too many ladies to choose from.

Then you go home, fantasize and masturbate about each one these ladies, so that you will know exactly what to do, when you get the hot lady in the private room with you.

Then you come back with your list and go for the first lady you see on this list. If you've already masturbated about her, then you are more than ready to take her. You no longer need to decide which lady to ride. You just take her and go to fulfil your masturbation fantasy with her.

And if you see more than one lady on your list, then this won't stop you from choosing a lady. Because your list is short enough that it's no longer hard to decide which hot lady to ride.

The only problem I have with making a short list of hot ladies like this is that I end up going after each and everyone of them. I don't know which lady on my list will be there when I come back for the second time. So, I masturbate about each lady, just in case. I make myself ready for every lady on this list. And then I end up stalking each lady at the parlour and waiting for her until eventually I get to each and every lady on my list.

Instead of not choosing enough, I end up choosing too much. It's like I'm not satisfied, until I give each hot lady on my list a good ride.

There are some massage parlors that offer you a smaller choice of only 5 or 6 ladies. But this isn't necessarily a good strategy for a massage parlour to have. Because authors of the above study said that the smaller display attracted less people. They got fewer customers. But the customers, they got, were much more likely to buy.

Perhaps the best strategy for a massage parlor to have is to encourage their customers to make a short list of ladies they like and might want to do in the future, instead of putting pressure on guys to choose a specific lady and go with her right there and then. Because once a guy makes a short list, then this limits his choice to a reasonable number of ladies. Which makes it a lot easier for him to choose a lady he likes. And giving the guy time to think about it, especially if he goes home and comes back, then this is like giving the guy a chance to masturbate about the lady, before he takes her. This makes the guy decide which lady to ride, before he even comes back.

Dan7373

05-04-17, 04:45

I've said in this forum before that when I go to a massage parlour, then I go there to massage the massage lady. This is what gets me off. That's why I don't care much about the lady's massage skills. I'm there to do her with both my hands and my dick.

And now there is a new study that involved couples massaging each other. This study found that you basically get the same physical and emotional benefits from massage, regardless of whether you are the one who massaged your partner, or whether your partner massaged you.

https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2017-05/bps-reo050117.php

This study confirms what I've known from my own experience for some time. Which is that massaging the lady makes me feel really good and satisfies me. I don't really need a massage from the lady, as long as I get to massage her, with both my hands and my dick.

I prefer to massage the massage lady, rather than have her massage me. Because I know exactly what I want to do and how I want to do it. But when the lady doesn't know me, then she doesn't know what works well for me. She might or might not do it the way I like. It's an iffy kind of thing and a lot less sure, than when I massage the hot lady myself.

Syzygies

05-04-17, 06:46

I used to be a DATY enthusiast too, when I was steady with one lady in a conventional relationship. But I changed what I did with P4P ladies. Because I have some medically-related education, and I know it for a fact that it's possible to transmit some viral and bacterial infections through unprotected oral sex. And the thing about such infections is that they often don't show symptoms for a long time. Which means that you could be transmitting your infection to other people and not know about it. That's how transmission usually happens.
Yes Dan, I am aware of oral sex risks, especially Chlamydia, HSV and HPV. Possible to contract via DATY or BBBJ. Some of these viruses can be also transmitted by finger in pussy.

On one occasion maybe 20 years ago, I contracted Chlamydia in my eye, commonly known as Chlamydia pink eye, due to finger in pussy, and then finger absent mindedly rubs the eye, before thorough clean / sterilisation. Fortunately easily treatable. Unfortunately doctor was initially treating me for wrong type of eye infection (maybe a viral infection) so I would have been better to buy the Azithromycin myself, just in case. Years later again a doctor treated me for an eye infection, and again treatment did not work. This time switch to Gentamycin worked, but I was never tested to find out what caused the infection. So don't know if was again Chlamydia or something else, and don't know if problem came from a girl's pussy or not. I start to hate how doctors assume one disease is likely without testing, causing delays to rectify the problem.

Shiba7

05-10-17, 05:49

She let me masturbate her pussy and clit for a while. Dan7373,

Did you ever try using grapeseed oil when pussy-rubbing? I can imagine using lube would get very sticky, and require a clean-up after, even when watered down. Or are you using some special high-quality lube?

Dan7373

05-13-17, 13:21

Yes Dan, I am aware of oral sex risks, especially Chlamydia, HSV and HPV. Possible to contract via DATY or BBBJ. Some of these viruses can be also transmitted by finger in pussy.

On one occasion maybe 20 years ago, I contracted Chlamydia in my eye, commonly known as Chlamydia pink eye, due to finger in pussy, and then finger absent mindedly rubs the eye, before thorough clean / sterilisation....Yes, you still need to be careful, even when you foreplay the lady with your hands rather than with your mouth.

The skin on your hands protects you from infection. But you need to wash your hands well, before you touch yourself. Or else you might transfer infectious fluids to your eyes or other parts of your body that can be infected.

If you are going to play the lady's pussy with your hand, then you either need to wash your hands with soap, before you put on your condom. Or you can ask the lady to put it on for you, provided that she didn't play her own pussy with her hand.

In my experience, Thai ladies don't usually play their pussy when they are with a guy. Which makes it safe to ask the lady to put on the condom for you.

Putting on your condom can sometimes be a deflating experience in terms of losing your erection. Because you lose your focus on the lady and start looking at yourself. And a good remedy for this is to ask the lady to do it for you. This can actually be an arousing experience, rather than a deflating one. Because you can really focus on the chick, even while she fumbles with your dick.

Dan7373

05-13-17, 15:07

Dan7373,

Did you ever try using grapeseed oil when pussy-rubbing? I can imagine using lube would get very sticky, and require a clean-up after, even when watered down. Or are you using some special high-quality lube?I don't recommend using any kind of oil at all with P4P ladies. Because oil damages rubber condoms and can make them ineffective for protection against sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy.

There are some condoms made from polyurethane, rather than from rubber. And these condoms are okay to use with oil. But these condoms are more expensive, harder to find, and they often don't fit well, because they don't stretch as well as rubber condoms.

http://www.condom-sizes.org/polyurethane-condoms/polyurethane-condoms-the-great-alternative-to-latex

I think water-based lube is the thing to use.

Body soap with water is one such lubricant. And that's what Soapy Massage is all about. The lady lathers up herself and you with plenty of soap and water. And then she slides all over you with her pussy, ass, and tits. And I don't mean this in the figurative sense. The lady spreads her legs, mounts your thigh, and she rides her pussy on it like you are her favourite guy.

At this point, the lady's pussy is so slippery and so well lubricated that you can just start to masturbate her pussy with your hand, the way she masturbated herself on your thigh. And this is the thing to do with your soapy massage lady. Because this how you make her a baddie. Breathing heavily, pulling you on top of her, and urging you to nail her. That's what the hot massage lady does with you, after you masturbate her into a frenzy of lust.

But body soap with water is a good lubricant only for outer body massage. K-Y Gel and many other types of water based lubricants you can usually buy at the same place where condoms are sold. And that's the thing to use with your condoms.

The only thing about using water-based lube is that the water in it either gets absorbed by the body, or it dries out on your hand. And all you need to do is add some water to make it slippery again. It's actually more slippery, than than oil or soap, when it's mixed with enough water. You just need to add some water to it once in a while to keep it slippery. And this includes, when you are using it on your condoms.

Another problem with using lube is that it usually gets rubbed off, when you try to lubricate inside the lady's pussy or ass. All the lube gets left on the outside, and very little goes inside her. Which leads to a problem with sex. Because the lady isn't well lubricated. It's painful and uncomfortable for her.

And a good remedy for this is a disposable lube injector that you can buy online. It enables you to inject plenty of lube and some water later on too, deep inside the lady's pussy or ass. Which leads to a pleasant ride for both you and her.

https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dhpc&field-keywords=personal+lube+injector&rh=n%3A3760901%2Ck%3Apersonal+lube+injector

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j-CPBdqoaE&ab_channel=selfservetoys

Dan7373

05-26-17, 14:14

Many ladies like to cuddle with their cocky guy. And this might also be the thing to do from a guy's point of view, provided that you have your cock balls-deep inside the lady's pussy, when you are cuddling with her.

I've read about some guys who go back inside after a good ride and just stay balls-deep inside their lady's pussy, until they fall asleep. The only thing I'm not sure about is if it's the guy or the cock who falls asleep. But either way, it's an enjoyable way for a guy to round off his experience with the lady.

I found from my experience that for my first shot with the hot lady, there is no way I can just stay with my cock inside her pussy. I need to bang her pussy, and I need to bang it good.

But when the hot lady offers you to have a second shot with her, then this is the time to try being the cuddly guy. Penetration meditation is what I call it. And for a while, it's not hard at all to bang the sexy girl just enough to maintain your erection with her, but not enough to cum with her.

There is something special about being balls-deep inside the hot lady and feeling her pussy all around your cock. It's an experience to enjoy for a guy, especially when you have the hots for the lady and you want to last for a long time with her.

A lot of hot ladies nowadays offer you to have 2 shots with them. This is certainly true, when you look at the profiles of smooci.com ladies. Almost every lady there offers you two hours and two shots with her. Two hours sounds like a long time. But I've come across a lady who said in a sex forum that one time a guy lasted with her for 4 hours. He banged her just enough to maintain his erection with her, but not enough to cum with her. It's certainly possible for a guy to last this long with his lady and enjoy the experience. And apparently, smooci.com ladies are available for 4 hours too.

The only thing, about lasting for a long time with the lady for your second shot with her, is that you need to entertain the lady to make it mutually enjoyable. I found one 5-second clip, where the guy just stays balls-deep inside the lady's pussy and plays her clit with his hand. And that's the thing to do to make it mutually enjoyable for both yourself and the lady:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/011/335/351/11335351a.webm

Dan7373

05-27-17, 13:38

I found a great example of a guy using his dick in a coital alignment technique. I've done this kind of thing with a Thai lady before. And she orgasmed before I did. That's how pleasant this position can be for the lady you are with.

This position is really easy for the guy to get into with his lady. First, you take the lady's pussy in the missionary position. And then you use your legs to move her legs close together, with your cock still inside her pussy.

Having the lady's legs so close together with your cock inside her makes her pussy so tight around your cock that you end up moving her pussy around, when you try to pound. Instead of sliding in and out of her, you end up pushing and pulling on her pussy. Which is what makes it so pleasant for her. And to make it even more pleasant for the lady, you should push the shaft of your cock against the upper part of her pussy. Because that's where her clitoris is.

And this is exactly what the guy does in the GIF's below. From my own experience I can say that his technique is pretty good. That's the way to make it very pleasant for the lady and orgasm her with your cock, if you do it long enough:

https://dl.phncdn.com/gif/11366271.gif

https://cl.phncdn.com/gif/11366241.gif

This technique is a lot more pleasant for the lady, than it it is for the guy. Because her pussy grip on your cock is so tight, that you can only push and pull on her pussy, without sliding in and out of her. The lady gets a lot more stimulation in this situation than you. Which makes this technique something to do, when the hot lady invites you for a second shot with her.

When it's your second shot with the lady, then you no longer feel the urgency to do her hard and fast. At this point, you just want to last with the lady and enjoy your experience with her. And that's what makes this Modified Coital Alignment Technique so good for your second shot with the lady. You get a lot less stimulation than before. Which enables you to last for a long time with the lady and really give it to her in terms of making it pleasant for her.

Orgasming the lady with your cock is possible indeed. And it's actually pretty easy for a guy to do. The only anatomical requirement for this is that your cock needs to be big enough to get anchored inside the lady's pussy, when you bring her legs close together. Because the aim of the game here is to push and pull on her pussy, without sliding in and out of her. There is no friction for the lady at all. It's all about stretching and pressuring her pussy with your cock. That's how the lady gets her pleasure.

Of course, another barrier for doing this position with your lady is cultural. Because in a way this is a reversal of sex roles.

When the lady brings her legs close together with you, then this probably makes her feel like a man. Because men usually hold their legs together when they have sex with a lady. And when you spread your legs over her body, then in a way you assume the typical position of a woman. Because women usually spread their legs over a guy.

This reversal of sex roles is so graphic and so extreme that even so called sex-experts have a blind spot to it. Vast majority never mention it in their sex advice for women and guys, even though this technique is very effective for guys pleasing women. Many sex-experts online even say that vaginal sex isn't good for making women orgasm. Which is false. But they don't realize this is false, because they only think about women spreading their legs and guys keeping their legs together, rather than the other way around.

I don't think sex-experts are misleading people on purpose. They just have a blind spot caused by their culture.

Dan7373

05-30-17, 15:26

A lady once said, "The most frustrating sexual encounter I ever had was with a guy who did not react at all to anything I did. "
http://www.catb.org/esr/writings/sextips/bedplay.html

Being stoical and not showing your emotion might be good in a hostile encounter with some guy. But when you are with a hot lady, then you need to be a baddie and let her know she is good to plow. And I don't mean telling her afterwards in some fancy words. I mean groaning and moaning, when you are thrusting her. And you don't really need to fake it with her. You just need to voice your emotions, when you are nailing her.

It's one thing for the hot lady to get pounded quietly and silently. But it's quite another to have her guy groan and moan with every balls-deep thrust, until he goes bust.

This second ride is something the hot lady might tell her friends about. Because it means the guy found her really sexy and hot. It's a complement for her. And it's something for her to boast about to her friends.

Syzygies

06-02-17, 10:45

Having the lady's legs so close together with your cock inside her makes her pussy so tight around your cock that you end up moving her pussy around, when you try to pound. Instead of sliding in and out of her, you end up pushing and pulling on her pussy. Which is what makes it so pleasant for her. And to make it even more pleasant for the lady, you should push the shaft of your cock against the upper part of her pussy. Because that's where her clitoris is.
I have used this position at times since I can remember, if the lady showed a preference for it. I never had a special name for it.

Sliding is still going just fine, but a bit more friction than normal. I guess that means we are well lubed. Never just pushing and pulling for me.

I only ever met one girl who tried to stop me using lube (I possibly forget some others), and that was because it weakened her grip on the cock. She was known as the "squeeze box" and for good reason. Her pussy muscles were highly developed and had a vice like grip (exaggerating slightly). She came from Romania so some readers who monger in Frankfurt will know who she is, retired now. She particularly liked to exercise her grip in cowgirl position, but really any position would do. The real grip like this is far stronger than that afforded by the "alignment" position as you call it. Maybe the legs together position, when I have used it, has been with girls no trying so hard to use the legs to crush my cock, more to get a pleasant friction / vibration from the in and out movement.

I more commonly use this legs straddling position with the lady in prone, and me straddling her legs from behind "cowboy" style, or sometimes me lying gently on her. Many girls like this position. Some can orgasm, and others will starting fingering their clit as well to help. I have found that moderate down pressure with fist or a few knuckles on top of the dick at the junction where dick is going into the pussy, increases the downward dick pressure, because most girls are not having the strong natural grip, and the hand also tickles her anal area a bit. The extra hand pressure causes some girls to cum much quicker. It presupposes that your dick is long enough to get a fist in there without the dick falling out. LOL.

I use lots of different positions in fucking, so never worried about having names for each one. You just try lots of things and see what turns the girl on, and works for yourself.

Dan7373

06-07-17, 12:17

I have used this position at times since I can remember, if the lady showed a preference for it. I never had a special name for it.

Sliding is still going just fine, but a bit more friction than normal. I guess that means we are well lubed. Never just pushing and pulling for me.....I suppose it all depends on several things. How well lubricated the lady is. How tight her pussy is. And how thick your cock is too.

You can get either anchored inside the lady's pussy and end up pushing and pulling on her pussy, instead of sliding in and out of her. Or it can just make the lady more tight for the ride, without you getting anchored inside her.

I used this position with Thai ladies who complained that my cock was too big for them. These ladies were tight to begin with, when I entered their pussy. And I made them even more tight by bringing their legs close together. Which made my ride so tight, that I couldn't slide in and out of the lady. I could only push and pull on her pussy with my cock firmly anchored inside her. And that's what made it so pleasant for the lady. She had no friction at all. Her sensation came from her pussy stretching, when I tried to pull out of her. And her sensation also came from me pressing on her pussy with my cock, when I tried to push deeper inside her.

I couldn't slide in and out of her. But I was certainly moving her pussy around with my cock. And that's what made it so pleasant for her.

This position can be used to solve too different kinds of problems:

If the lady is too lose for you. Then you can make her more tight by bringing her legs close together.

And if the lady complains that you are too big for her. Then bringing her legs close together and making her even more tight for the ride might be the thing to do. Because this anchors you inside her pussy and makes it more pleasant for her.

But it's not just about finding one good technique with the lady and using it all the time. Because even a good technique can get boring after a while, if you do the lady the same way for some time.

I think it's also important to vary your cock thrusts between shallow and deep in a way that the lady can't always predict. You still need some regular rhythm. But you need to vary it in a way that she can't always predict. Because this surprises the lady and keeps her attention focused on your ride with her.

It's easy for the lady to tune out and start daydreaming about something else, when you do her the same way all the time. But if you keep it a little unpredictable for her and surprise her with your cock once in a while, then this keeps her attention focused on your ride with her. Which makes it hotter for both you and her.

Here is an example, where the guy maintains a good rhythm, but he also varies it between a series of slower, balls-deep thrusts with the lady and a series of faster, shallower thrusts.

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/007/401/061/7401061a.webm

Doing the hot lady this way is actually an advice for cocky guys from a female sex-therapist:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBaprHhD6CA

Dan7373

06-08-17, 13:34

One woman says that women and men are different in how they get sexually aroused:

For a lot of women, desire doesn't necessarily precede arousal. We need to be touched, caressed, and loved in order to crave sex. So instead of whining about how horny you are and how unlikely it seems that you'll get laid that night because we are a bit mopey or whatever, sneak up behind us and start rubbing our shoulders and work your way down to our waist, or go in for a boob grab. The key is physical contact, so touch us!

http://thoughtcatalog.com/melanie-berliet/2015/03/what-do-women-really-think-about-sex-12-brutally-honest-dispatches-from-a-woman/
I found from my own experience with Thai P4P ladies that the above quote is very true for them too.

The lady I go with to the private room is almost never panting for me, the way I'm panting for her. She isn't yet in the mood, even while I want to do her good.

Some guys take their lady's lack of arousal as evidence that they don't mean anything to her. They think it's just a way for her to make money. They are disappointed by this. But they don't think they can do anything about this. And that's why they look for younger, inexperienced ladies, who haven't yet been with too many guys.

But I think this explanation is wrong. This isn't just fate that you need to accept and move on. There is something you can do about it to make it better for yourself and the lady.

I haven't yet met a lady, whom I couldn't arouse with a well-lubricated pussy and clit massage. Masturbating the hot lady is what I'm talking about here. And this kind of thing works for arousing the lady, no matter how experienced she is.

It's like you might've been masturbating all of your life. But just because you've masturbated many times before doesn't mean that your masturbation becomes ineffective. It still works every time. And that's how it is for experienced ladies, who have been with many guys before.

The women's lack of arousal at first has nothing to do with how many guys they've been with before. Because this is the way it works for most women, regardless of how experienced or inexperienced they are.

It's true that younger, inexperienced women are often feeling a little anxious. And some guys think this is arousal. And it is an arousal of emotions. But this isn't sexual arousal. This is just plain anxiety and nothing else.

I think it's a mistake to take your lady's initial lack of arousal as something disappointing and something that cannot be changed. Because this kind of thinking leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you don't believe that you can arouse your lady, then you don't try much to arouse her. And without your foreplay to get her on the way, she indeed stays unaroused with you for the rest of her session with you.

You make your belief come true by behaving according to your belief. And you can't possibly find out your mistake, until you behave inconsistently with your belief and do something different. And even then you might see the result as a fluke and dismiss it, instead or learning from it and changing your behavior permanently. That's why it can be so hard to learn something different and change your behavior with women, even when you belief about women is wrong.

It's a circular trap where your wrong belief and your behavior according to your belief re-enforce each other and provide evidence for each other. Which makes your wrong belief seem to you like a universal truth. Because it happens like this for you every time, and you have plenty of personal experience to back it up too.

I can say from my own experience with very experienced Thai P4P ladies that there is no such thing as the lady being too experienced to get aroused with you. Masturbating her pussy with a well-lubricated hand works every time, no matter how experienced the lady is. Which isn't surprising. Because that's how the human body normally works. Exercising your bodily functions actually maintains them in good shape, rather than destroys them and makes them ineffective. Your masturbation work well, even though you might have been with many ladies and have masturbated many times before. And that's how it is for masturbating experienced P4P ladies. It works for them too, no matter how experienced they are.

The only thing that's different between women and guys is how they get aroused. Guys get aroused by looking at ladies and fantasizing about them. While women need sexual touching and foreplay to get them on the way.

That's why I think that the first thing to do, when a hot lady goes with you, is to masturbate her pussy and clit with a well-lubricated hand, until she is in a similar state of sexual arousal to the one you feel with her. Bringing the hot lady up to speed is what I call it.

And that's the way to avoid feeling disappointed with the hot lady, when she obviously doesn't look aroused with you. Instead of seeing it as some kind of a failure. You can look at it as an opportunity to masturbate the hot chick and get her ready for your dick.

One thing about the above quote from the lady instructing guys I would cation you is that grabbing your lady's boobs isn't necessarily a good way to arouse her. Because I found from my experience that even though this works for some ladies, for other ladies this can be a turn-off. The thing that works every time with virtually every lady is going after her pussy and clit and masturbating it. The lady's boobs should come second, while you are already masturbating her pussy and clit with one hand.

I found that some ladies don't enjoy it and don't like it, when you just start grabbing and sucking their tits. But these same ladies enjoy tit-grabbing and tit-sucking, if you do it, while you masturbate her pussy and clit with your hand at the same time. And that's the way to go after the hot lady, who doesn't like to have her boobs touched. In combination with pussy masturbation, such a lady is usually more than okay with tit foreplay.

Dan7373

06-23-17, 12:11

I think it's a common experience for guys to feel that their encounter with the hot lady didn't last long enough.

I've certainly felt this way on more than one occasion. And it's not just me. In one survey from 2007, 80% of both men and women wanted their sex to last half-an hour. Which was a lot longer, than their actual experience.

https://www.thecut.com/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html

Half an hour is how long a typical porn-scene lasts. Sometimes it last longer than this. But 30 to 40 minutes is probably most common. And it includes foreplay, which can be anywhere between 5 and 15 minutes.

I've actually looked at timed screen-shots of several popular porn-movies to see how they did it. And I was a little surprised by what I saw.

In a typical porn scene, the guy took his lady in 5 or 6 different sex-positions. And he banged her pretty hard each time. But according to the time recorded on the screenshots, each hard banging lasted 3 or 4 minutes at first. And later in the scene, 1 or 2-minute banging was common too. The rest of the time, it's either preparation for penetration in some new sex-position, or just oral sex.

When you watch a porn movie normally, then its seems like continuous sex. But this is just an illusion. The guy actually takes frequent breaks. And that's what enables him to last for so long. There is nothing superhuman about it. Any guy can do it, if he watches himself and withdraws from the lady, before it's too late.

I've compared amateur porn movies with those professionally made. And I found one big difference between them is that amateurs go through fewer sex-positions. And their sex lasts longer in each position. Which means that they have less variety and more sameness. And the guy is typically slower and milder with the lady. Because staying inside the lady longer, means that he needs to slow down. Or else, he'll cum prematurely.

Having less variety, even when you do it for just as long, is actually bad for your memory of your experience. Because according to neuroscientists who did research in this matter, our memories seem shorter in time, when our experience has less variety. And our memories seem longer in time, when our experience has more variety. There is actually a pretty good talk about it on youtube at the link below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqwJHasGT9w

And this research means that if you want to have a good memory of your experience, instead of just enjoying it at the moment and then having some regrets about it later on, then you should do it the way professional porn-scenes are made. Take the lady in many different sex-positions. And bang her hard but only for short periods of time. Having a lot of variety and many penetrations is enjoyable not only at the moment, but it also makes for an ideal memory to recall and enjoy later on.

Your memory lasts a lot longer than your actual experience with the lady. And that's why it's important to do it in a way that makes you remember it in a good way, rather than just do it for your enjoyment at the moment.

There is a reason why professionally-made porn-scenes are addictive. They are especially designed to produce a good memory for you by showing you a lot of variety. And it's your good memory of it that makes you come back to watch some more porn.

I think it's a good idea to have some sex-positions pictures on your smart-phone to show to your Thai lady and get her to do multiple sex-positions with you. It can be pretty hard to explain to the lady what you want. But showing her the picture explains it all. And I found a good website where you can save a lot of such pictures on your phone, before you go to see your Thai lady:

http://sexpositions.club/

Dan7373

06-30-17, 14:53

The thing I like about doing it with P4P ladies is that most of them are pretty good about you sexually touching and groping them. You just need to do it in private, make it pleasant for her, and don't embarrass her.

And I found from my experience that doing it spontaneously, as a kind of surprise, makes it hotter for the lady and for myself. And for this reason, one finger inside the lady's slit to masturbate her clit is my favorite thing to do.

It's something you can do spontaneously, either from the front or from behind, when the lady is standing with you or just going about her business with you. This is one type of clit masturbation that doesn't require any special position or preparation. You can always fit your finger inside the lady's slit, as long as you can reach her.

And here are examples of a hot ladies masturbating themselves like that:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/011/870/361/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=EX8ER6Zsn9PcemjW)11870361a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/011/870/801/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=jm_w1AKJz4pMy3Uz)11870801a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/000/750/081/750081a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/000/873/241/873241a.webm

These examples were actually pretty hard for me to find. Most post masturbation porn shows ladies spreading their legs and lying back. This is probably because porn is made for show, and not just for enjoyment. You can see more, when the lady spreads her legs.

But in real life, I found that one finger inside the lady's slit to masturbate her clit is the most practical and most enjoyable way of doing it. Because you can be very spontaneous with the lady, while she is just standing with you. I once even did it with a lady who deliberately squeezed her legs as close together as she could, while I kept masturbating her slit with one finger in it. She eventually orgasmed like this.

Some ladies find it more arousing when they feel some tightness inside. And these are the ladies who might enjoy squeezing their legs together, while you masturbate their slit and clit with one finger on it.

Some women even say that they need to squeeze their legs together and tense their body to be able to orgasm. Here is a YouTube video about it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWkUKGgK1Cs

Dan7373

07-01-17, 16:04

I was a little shocked at all the negative results my Google search brought up, when I tried to find out more about sexual touching.

The words and the phrases that my search brought up included: 'Criminal Law', 'Offences', and 'Sexual Assault'.

It was all threatening and negative on first page that came up. And even on the following pages of my search results, vast majority of links were very negative about it.

It's hard for me to imagine having sex, without sexual touching. And it's something you definitely need for good foreplay.

These negative search results made me realize once more, why P4P sex with ladies is something to love and celebrate, rather than look down upon.

P4P type of situation is one of very few places where you can feel safe and secure about touching the lady and having sex with her. Regular dating and romance is a social minefield, where any kind of sexual touching can get you into a lot of trouble. You really need to watch it. And even then there is no guarantee that you won't get into trouble.

Here is an example of what I'm talking about:

http://watchdog.org/286540/male-student-punished-for-touching/

The thing about P4P type of situation is that the consent and the rules are very clear for both the lady and the guy. Which makes them both feel safe and secure with each other in terms of sexual touching and sex.

Grabbing the lady's tit or reaching out and masturbating her clit isn't sexual assault in this situation. It's just normal foreplay. The lady might not like it and tell you to stop. But even then she won't accuse you of sexual assault. You are free to go and find some other P4P lady who might like this kind of stuff more.

The only thing about growing up in a society that criminalizes sexual touching and P4P sex is that you learn to feel unsafe about any kind of sexual touching in any kind of situation. Consensual P4P sex is a crime in many of the same societies that criminalize sexual touching in other circumstances too. Which literally leaves you no situation or place, where you can feel safe about touching the lady sexually.

When you come from a society like this to Thailand and end up with P4P ladies who are perfectly okay with you touching them sexually, then you might still have a lot of mental barriers and inhibitions, which will stop you from doing that. This certainly was the case with me, when I first came to Thailand.

It took me a while to learn to touch women sexually and feel safe about it. And from my own experience I can say that the only way overcome your mental inhibitions and prohibitions against touching hot P4P ladies is to go out and do it. The more you do it, the more comfortable you become with it.

But the funny thing about my becoming comfortable with sexual touching is that I go back to my old self, when I go back to my country. My comfort is very specific and very selective. I only feel comfortable with Thai P4P ladies and not with any other ladies. Which is probably a good thing. Or else, I might get into a lot of trouble, when I go back to my country.

Dan7373

07-07-17, 11:00

A lot of websites, that give advice for cocky guys, tell you that you shouldn't touch the woman's clitoris directly. Because the woman's clitoris is too sensitive. And you can make it uncomfortable for her.

But I think this advice is misleading. And it's misleading because of what it doesn't say, rather than because of what it says.

It doesn't say that the woman's clitoris is normally covered with a foreskin. And when you touch her there, then you aren't touching her clitoris directly. You are touching it through her foreskin. Which feels pleasant for her. Because this is indirect contact, rather than direct.

I found a short GIF video that shows you this point. It shows you that the woman's clitoris is normally covered up with her foreskin. And her clitoris gets exposed for direct contact only when you pull on her pussy-lips in a certain way.

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/011/969/441/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=seO7LpCPBbMmziPa)11969441a.mp4

This is the reason why you can just start massaging the lady's pussy with a well-lubricated hand and make it very pleasant for her.

That advice about making direct contact with the lady's clitoris is technically correct. But it's highly misleading. Because it leaves you with a false impression that you should avoid touching the lady's pussy completely and just bang her with your cock, or perform oral sex on her. This isn't true, and the short video clip above illustrates this point.

Dan7373

07-15-17, 10:45

I found a good article about women's orgasm and what guys can do to make it better for women. It's written by female medical doctor. Here is a quote from it:

There are many women who can reach orgasm by clitoral stimulation, but don't think they are normal because they can't have an orgasm with penetration. They feel that there is something wrong with them because, unless they can find a position where they can rub their clitoris against their partners body, they can't reach orgasm. And there are plenty of men too, it seems, that want to know what is wrong. Why isn't their partner having an orgasm when they have intercourse? Is there something wrong with her? Is there something he is doing wrong, or something different he needs to do? The reality is, there is nothing wrong and she is probably perfectly normal. ....

http://www.thesexmd.com/how-women-orgasm/

Basically, a lot of men think that orgasm has to come from sexual intercourse for women, just like it does for men. Which is a bit ridiculous, if you think about it. Why would women be the same as men in this?

Women obviously have different sexual anatomy. Which means that the mechanics of orgasm works in a different way for them. That's why you need to learn how to do it for women.

Just knowing how it works for you and how to make it pleasant for you doesn't tell you much about how it works for women and how to make it pleasant for them. You can be very knowledgeable about yourself and ignorant about women at the same time. And I can see a lot of this in porn. Because men usually get a lot of foreplay from their women, but there isn't much foreplay the other way.

Dan7373

08-30-17, 14:47

Most porn films have always shown mostly one-way type of sex action. Either the guy or the lady is doing something, but not both at the same time. And quite often it's the guy who gets most of the pleasure. While the lady just accommodates the guy, without getting much pleasure herself.

But there are always exceptions. And I found one GIF clip that shows the lady doing oral on the guy, while he plays her pussy and clit at the same time.

You don't often see this in porn. And perhaps it's unusual for people to do it this way in real life too. But I think this kind of mutual pleasure gets both the guy and the lady equally aroused and ready for each other. It leads to a better experience for both.

https://www.pornhub.com/embedgif/12753481

Dan7373

09-01-17, 12:54

Going after the new hot chick with your dick, soon after you meet her, sounds pretty good for a guy. This is a major attraction of P4P action. You don't need to wait, before you penetrate.

But doing it with a total stranger like this can also have its drawbacks. The hot lady isn't yet your favorite fuck-buddy. You don't yet feel that special connection with her.

But there is a quick way to get that special connection going with the lady right away. You basically need to take the lady's hand and hold hands with her, while you are nailing her.

Romantic partners often hold hands together, when they go for walk. This makes them feel a special connection with each other. And it also works like this, when you go for a walk with your cock inside the lady's pussy.

Holding hands with the lady makes you feel like she is your favorite fuck-buddy and not just some stranger. You feel that special connection with her. Which makes your experience more enjoyable with her.

This kind of thing is extremely rare to see in porn. But I found one example:

https://www.pornhub.com/embedgif/12784481

Dan7373

09-01-17, 17:12

Not lasting long enough with the lady is a common frustration for guys. According to one author, 45% of men cum within 2 minutes of penetrating the chick with their dick. A porn-stud experience this certainly is not.

https://newrepublic.com/article/117463/study-half-men-take-2-minutes-finish-sex-who-bothered

I don't know about you, but my ideal is that of a good porn-scene. A porn-stud experience is what I'm talking about here. Which means lasting with the lady for a good half-hour or more. Taking her in multiple positions. And really pounding her.

Apparently, there are various desensitizing sprays, lubricants, and even condoms that can make you last for a long time with the lady. And it's not just a gimmick. I've read their descriptions and reviews on Amazon.com. And apparently, these desensitizing products work for most guys.

Most reviews don't say how long the guy got to last with his lady. But some reviewers mentioned lasting 30-40 minutes with the lady every time. One guy even said that he lasted 2 hours with his lady. But some reviewers also said that it didn't work for them. You can look up these products and their reviews, if you search for 'desensitizing spray' at amazon.com.

https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=sr_nr_n_0?fst=as%3Aoff&rh=n%3A3760901%2Cn%3A3777681%2Ck%3Adesensitizing+spray&keywords=desensitizing+spray&ie=UTF8&qid=1504275693&rnid=3760931

The thing about these products is that they don't work right away. You need to apply them to your cock some time before you ride the lady. Or else it will not work. Perhaps this is the reason why some reviewers said that it didn't work for them. They didn't wait long enough after spraying their cock. And the amount of the product you use also makes a difference. Some guys need more of it and some less. But if you want to last with the lady for a really long time, then you definitely need to use more of it, rather than less.

I didn't know about these products before. They are a recent discovery for me. But I'm happy to say that now one of this products has helped me to go from my porn-stud fantasy to actually doing it like that with a lady.

The only thing I need to make sure is that the lady is well-lubricated and ready. The lube can dry out during a long about. You definitely need to add some more lube once in a while and perhaps add some warm water too to make the lube more slippery.

EihTooms

09-01-17, 19:30

Dan7373

09-02-17, 14:20

...I only wish I had to figure out ways to keep myself from cumming within 2 minutes of entering a woman these days, welcomed wearing a condom as at least one way to prolong the pleasure and delay cumming rather than utterly thwart any sexual pleasure experience and could count on doubling my finishes within a typical 90 minute to 2 hour ST session as long as it was agreeable to the provider.Unfortunately, lasting only 2 minutes with the hot lady has often been my experience too. And it's that really hot chick, who gives you only one chance with your dick. You cum, and you are done.

Which is actually a risky way for a lady to behave with a guy. Because I cum quietly, and I don't lose my erection, after I cum. I can just slow down with the lady a little for a minute or two and then start pounding her again with a condom full of cum. The lady has no way of knowing that I've already cum inside her. And when I finally pull out after my second or third cumshot with her, then she has no way of knowing if all that cum is from one cumshot or two or three.

I don't do this kind of stuff. I always pull out, after I cum. But I can see how tempting it can be for a guy to keep riding the chick with his dick, even after he cums. Some guys probably do it this way with one-shot ladies. And that's why I say that giving the guy only one cumshot is a risky way for a lady to behave. The lady is better off telling the guy that he can have that second or third cumshot with her, if he wants it. Because this way she can be sure that the guy will pull out and change his condoms with her, rather than just keep banging her with a condom full of cum for his second or third cumshot with her.

But in any case, I think that using desensitizing spray is a good way to overcome your short-cumming and give the hot lady a good cock-slamming. Doggy position is what I'm talking about here. You can pound the hot lady hard enough to make loud slapping sounds with your hips on her ass-cheeks. Your cock goes balls-deep inside her pussy every time. And you can really entertain the lady, if you make those slapping sounds with your hips on her ass-cheeks as loud as you can.

The lady can't see how you are nailing her. But when she hears those loud slapping sounds of your hard hips slamming her soft ass-cheeks, then she knows for sure that she is really getting nailed. And that's what makes it hot for her.

Of course, taking the hot lady like a porn-stud isn't just all fun and games. Real porn-studs in real porn-films give the hot lady a safe word that she can yell and bring it all to a sudden stop. More lube. Give her some rest. And then go back to pounding her some more. This prevents injury for the lady and makes it good for both of you.

Good communication during penetration is a must, when you've desensitized your dick and can really nail the hot chick.

EihTooms

09-03-17, 03:20

Unfortunately, lasting only 2 minutes with the hot lady has often been my experience too. And it's that really hot chick, who gives you only one chance with your dick. You cum, and you are done.

-snip- I would also think that, human nature being what it is, we can safely assume the 45% of respondents admitting to being 2-Minute Men is lower than it actually is. By how much, no one can know. But I wouldn't be surprised if we could add another 5-10 percentage points to that surveyed number and be closer to reality. And let's factor in something else with regard to this issue as it pertains to Thai or any P4P scene around the world; I would think it natural for an even greater percentage of men for whom 2 minutes is stretching it to be interested in partaking of this P4P hobby in the first place. After all, they would take what is generally considered a liability among the non P4P women who are not on a payroll time clock in their own country and turning it into a technical advantage or at least no longer a problem at all with a P4P girl in Soi Cowboy or Nana Plaza.

So, imo, it is reasonable to conclude the vast majority of customers these girls encounter are 2-Minute Men. And it is also reasonable to conclude from there that many Thai P4P women have no idea what to do with a man who isn't going to easily pop within 2 minutes without a condom or perhaps 3-4 minutes wearing a condom no matter how godawful they are at their job because they almost never have to know what to do with such a man.

LOL. Which means guys like me, I might include Syzygies and a few others (but I happily leave it to them to object and counter), are truly living in a different world from the vast majority of punters out there and, likely, many if not most of the posters on these boards. That world can turn on its head and become something totally different from what all the field reports on this or that venue, this or that girl suggested prior to our interacting with them well within, yeah, the first 2 minutes of physical encounter. LOL. Something interesting to consider I'd say.

Dan7373

09-04-17, 14:27

.... So, imo, it is reasonable to conclude the vast majority of customers these girls encounter are 2-Minute Men. And it is also reasonable to conclude from there that many Thai P4P women have no idea what to do with a man who isn't going to easily pop within 2 minutes without a condom or perhaps 3-4 minutes wearing a condom no matter how godawful they are at their job because they almost never have to know what to do with such a man....I don't think it's that simple for 2-minute-men and P4P ladies. Because a 2-minute-man isn't always a 2-minute-man.

I can say from my own experience that cumming prematurely with the lady leaves me so unsatisfied that I want to go back inside for another ride. And if I manage to get that second ride with the lady, then I'm more like a 10-minute-man with her, rather than a 2-minute. And if the lady lets me have a 3rd ride with her, then I can basically last with her as much as I want. At this point, I don't care about cumming anymore. I just enjoy nailing the chick with my dick and playing her clit with my hand to make it pleasant for her.

Being inside the lady's pussy with your cock and having a lot of body-to-body contact with her is a pleasant experience in itself for a guy. It's something to enjoy with the lady, after you blow off your cum.

You can just bang the lady once in a while to maintain your erection inside her, and give it a rest in between. This way you can last with the lady for a very long time. Perhaps this is how some guys manage to last 2 hours or more with their lady. These guys don't just pound their lady all the time. They bang their lady just enough to maintain their erection inside her, so that they can enjoy their intimacy with her for a long time.

Of course, getting that 2nd or 3rd ride with the lady can be a problem even with P4P ladies. Not every lady will let you take her like that.

But there are ways for a 2-minute-guy to get around the lady's one-shot restriction.

You can masturbate your dick, before you go to nail the chick. If you've already had your two cumshots, before you go to see the lady, then you might have some trouble getting it up with her, but if she is good with her mouth on your cock, then she'll get you up and going anyway. And once you are up and going, then you can just penetrate the chick with your dick and do it the long way with her. And it's not like you are pounding the lady raw. You are just maintaining your erection inside her. If the lady is nice, then she will let you stay inside her for your long, intimate ride with her.

A more expensive way of doing it would be to see 2 or 3 ladies on the same day. By the time you are with your 3rd lady, then you just want to rest your big cock inside her pussy, bang her once in a while to maintain your erection, and enjoy your intimacy with her.

And of course, there is a third way, which I've described in my earlier post. Use desensitizing spray on your cock to make yourself last longer with the lady. But this third option really makes a stud out of you. Because you still feel the urge to cum.

In this situation, you really end up pounding the hot chick with your dick like you mean it. And that's why you need to watch the lady and make sure she is well-lubricated and comfortable with you. Pounding the hot lady like an insatiable porn-stud is also a pretty good experience for a guy to have. But you don't want to injure the lady, while you are at it with her. That's why you need to be careful, when you take a lady like that.

Syzygies

09-10-17, 13:22

LOL. Which means guys like me, I might include Syzygies and a few others (but I happily leave it to them to object and counter), are truly living in a different world from the vast majority of punters out there and, likely, many if not most of the posters on these boards. That world can turn on its head and become something totally different from what all the field reports on this or that venue, this or that girl suggested prior to our interacting with them well within, yeah, the first 2 minutes of physical encounter. LOL. Something interesting to consider I'd say.Ha ha. You crack me up. Never been know known to pop within 2 minutes except the very first time I went with a hooker at age 18. There was one other time over 10 years ago a hooker made me pop within 15 mins in doggy and I was shocked (never happened again). Unfortunately some of us do suffer from the reverse problem of having an insensitive dick, and taking a very long time and a lot of concentration to actually cum. Drinking alcohol is a no-no as only makes the dick less sensitive. I do well understand why guys want BBFS, when they have a very insensitive dick. Guys with overly sensitive dick need to drink alcohol first as a dampener and use a very thick condom to dull the sensitivity. LOL I recently let an MP girl use her own condom not realising it was el-cheapo super thick one and it killed my fuck sensation completely resulting in a poor session. Dick could not stay up so long with this desensitizing sleave on.

All these guys are asking me about 2 and 3 pops, and I thinking I am very happy to get just one pop in a 90 min session.

It is possible for us to meet girls who like an extended fuck, but they may be limited. My GF can pop within 2 to 3 minutes, so we are not very compatible. Miss super sensitive with Mr. Non-sensitive. There is no challenge at all to make my GF cum. It's so easy. Ha ha. I would be much better off with a girl who needs the slow 30 min build-up. My GF does not even like my dick size. Fortunately my Gik does like it, and she says that is the only reason she takes me, since she normally prefers muscle-men with 6-packs. LOL.

Although Dan trains us all up on girl wanking techniques with the hand, I am a very orally oriented guy, so I find that with a lot of experience and training, I can make most girls cum from DATY, but not all. I do have regular girls that are very difficult to cum, and only get there sometimes, some do not bullshit and don't bother to pretend, and have had others that just don't want to cum for fear of getting lazy or not being in the mood.

I recently acted as a sex consultant for a waitress girl whose guy (a Frenchie) was coming too quick and then sagging and leaving her unsatisfied. She had never had a cum with him. Her sex buddy is probably vastly younger than me, maybe 30 YO. I did not meet him. She wanted to be able to ride him cowgirl without his dick sagging so quickly. The simple effective and most obvious solution was for her to organise for him to have a dose of Viagra (or generic) so his dick would stay up while she rode him. I also suggested that she needed to train him in DATY or hand wanking technique. I know I was not that good at DATY when young. She later reported the advice showed successful results without being too explicit. The girl and I regularly chat to exchange knowledge of English and Thai language.

Dan7373

09-10-17, 15:19

.... Although Dan trains us all up on girl wanking techniques with the hand, I am a very orally oriented guy, so I find that with a lot of experience and training, I can make most girls cum from DATY, but not all. I do have regular girls that are very difficult to cum, and only get there sometimes, some do not bullshit and don't bother to pretend, and have had others that just don't want to cum for fear of getting lazy or not being in the mood. ...I'd say that the lady is more likely to let you do DATY on her, if you arouse her pussy with your hand first.

Hand-wanking the lady is a quick way to arouse her and get her in the mood for everything else you might want to do with her, including DATY.

In my experience, virtually all P4P ladies are okay with you foreplaying them and getting them sexually aroused. But some P4P ladies won't let you bring them all the way to orgasm. Because these ladies want to stay in the mood to do you good. And too much satisfaction can lead to flaccid action.

Some time ago, I took out a hot Go-Go lady several times. And every time, I started hand-wanking her pussy right away, as soon as she got naked with me. This hot lady wouldn't say anything. She just let me do it. So, I would keep sucking her nice tits and hand-wanking her pussy, until she orgasmed with me. Then I would immediately put on my condom and go for my pussy ride with her.

This lady would look at me, as if I was doing her a little too much. But she would let me have my pussy-ride with her anyway.

I could tell that my pussy-ride with this lady was a bit too much for her, so soon after she orgasmed with me. She would just grit her teeth and patiently wait for me to finish banging her pussy with my cock. And of course, having a second pussy-ride with her was totally out of the question. She wasn't in the mood for it anymore.

And the moral of this story is that you can destroy the hot lady's mood by doing her too good, even while she is still with you. Experienced P4P ladies know this. And that's why they are okay with you getting their mood going, but they aren't okay with you bringing them all the way to orgasm.

Dan7373

09-10-17, 17:33

Many women feel unsure and insecure about their looks with a guy. And the hardest moment for such women to deal with is when they get naked with a guy. Because this is when you can see it all, without much control from the girl.

And I'd say that this is the moment when you either make or break the rest of your encounter with the lady.

If at this moment, you go after the lady right away, like she is really hot, and start grabbing her pussy, tits, and ass, and hugging and kissing her too. Then the lady might slap your hand away here and there. But she won't have any doubts anymore about whether you even like her. Which makes it good for her, in terms of her insecurities.

Non-verbal actions speak louder than words. With your words you can lie. And ladies often don't believe guys. But when you start grabbing the lady's pussy, tits, and ass, as soon as she gets naked with you, then she knows for sure that you like her as she is.

Your hands don't lie, when you make them fly all over the lady's pussy, tits, and ass.

And unfortunately, the same is also true about honesty and lying, when the lady gets naked with you, but you don't react much. Silence and lack of action at this moment tells the lady that you are still deciding about the riding. You aren't sure if you like her. Which is a bit of a disappointment for her. Your lack of action at this moment tells the lady a lot. And it's a negative kind of telling. Because being neutral is the same as you not liking the lady much. Which ruins her mood with you.

That's why I like to let out a little gasp, when the lady gets naked with me. And I immediately go after the naked lady, with my hands all over her, like I really want her. I also give the lady a good nipple-suck at this moment, because this is my kind of thing.

And of course, it's not all about using psychology to make the lady feel good with you. You can really play the lady's pussy and clit in this situation and make it hot for her in a physical way too. Here are some pussy-grabbing examples of what you can do:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/012/942/231/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=pCdaiRM8iDOn5RZC)12942231a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/012/942/331/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=SNhm3YVy8Jv1AzWK)12942331a.mp4

EihTooms

09-11-17, 01:45

I don't think it's that simple for 2-minute-men and P4P ladies. Because a 2-minute-man isn't always a 2-minute-man.I have lost count of the number of times a P4P girl is so unaccustomed to being with a man who isn't already shooting his first load within minutes, no more than 4-5 minutes, her first reaction is to assume I have already been with another woman and popped within the hour. They will raise the question and ask/accuse me of it. LOL.

Sorry, but when the vast majority of the Thai P4P women I have been with for the first time start the session with bizarre distractions like tugging on my dick like she is pulling a lawn mower rip cord, slapping or tapping my package like she is thump testing a watermelon, a rough cold water wash, and the ever popular speed machine rapid fire oral foreplay, I can only assume they are used to meeting men for whom such horrific treatment will do nothing to prevent them from shooting their wad within a very few brief and feeting minutes anyway. But that is definitely not the case with me. And their near universal disbelief and stubborn resistance to handling and blowing me otherwise only provides more convincing evidence that they very rarely are with a man who might take longer than 2-3 minutes for his first pop, imo. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if 2-Minute Men make up a good 90-95% of the customer stream these girls encounter.

Dan7373

09-20-17, 15:45

I have lost count of the number of times a P4P girl is so unaccustomed to being with a man who isn't already shooting his first load within minutes, no more than 4-5 minutes, her first reaction is to assume I have already been with another woman and popped within the hour. They will raise the question and ask/accuse me of it. LOL. ....Perhaps you are misunderstanding the Thai lady, when you think that she is accusing you.

Because Asian cultures have all kinds of herbs and medicines for helping a guy do his lady real good and last for a long time with her. This is common knowledge in Thai culture. And that's why your Thai lady might ask you if you've taken some drug to help you last longer with her.

This isn't necessarily an accusation. The lady just wants to understand her situation.

I found from my experience that the Thai lady might yell at you a little, when she finds out that you've taken some performance enhancing drug with her. But she won't leave you high and dry. She'll work with you, until you cum.

Virtually every guy wants to last for a long time with his lady. This is a normal desire for a man to have. And it pays to be honest and open about it with the lady to avoid any misunderstanding with her. Good communication is the key. Let the hot lady know how long you want to plow.

I've had some Thai ladies flirt and joke with me at a bar. So, I warned the hot chick, whom I wanted to nail with my dick, "I like boom-boom long-long time". She laughed me in the face and said, "I don't believe". So, off I went with her to the private room. I wasn't ready for this lady. And the joke was on me. I lasted only two minutes with her.

But this lady was nice. She didn't laugh at me. So, I took her out for a long time to stay with me at my hotel room. And this time I really prepared myself for her. I drank two energy drinks in front of her, and I sprayed my cock with desensitizing spray. She looked at the bottle, understood what it was, and started yelling at me. But it was more a joke type of yelling, rather than a real upset. Because she was yelling about how big and hard my cock was and how she was in for it now. I didn't mind her yelling at all. And I really nailed this sexy girl for a good half-hour, just like I wanted.

Of course, you need to be sympathetic with the lady and offer her plenty of lube once in a while, when you are lasting for a long time with her. It's natural for a man to want a long ride with his lady. But it's not natural for any man to hurt his lady in the process. And it's your responsibility to make sure you aren't hurting her. Because the lady sometimes won't say anything on her own.

You don't always have a chance to tell the hot lady that you want to last for a long time with her in a flirting kind of way. And it can be embarrassing for the lady, if you start talking about it with her in front of others. So, I just get the lady's attention and whisper into her ear, "Boom-boom long time. Cock inside pussy one hour." And then I ask her, "Okay?"

If the lady agrees, then off we go together. Or the lady might whisper back in my ear, "Half hour." And this might be okay for me too. It's better to ask for more time, so that you have something to bargain with. And of course, the lady can also say 'No'. Which is okay too. Because you've just saved yourself from a misunderstanding and possibly a bad experience with the lady.

In Thai culture, it's embarrassing even for P4P women to talk about sex in public. And if you embarrass the lady like that, then she might say 'No' to you just to save her face. You need to make it private for the lady to get a sincere answer from her. And you don't even need to specify the time. Perhaps whispering into the lady's ear, "Cock inside pussy long-long time", is even better.

Dan7373

09-24-17, 13:29

If you want to see how a guy on Viagra can nail a hot chick with his dick, then watch a good porn scene.

Because apparently, male porn actors routinely use Viagra and other similar methods to enhance their performance with the ladies. That's how they manage to bang their hot lady for 30-40 minutes and still have a raging erection at the end of it.
http://www.salon.com/2011/07/28/porn_13/.

I think it's important for most guys, including for myself, to last for a long time with the hot lady. Prolonging your physical pleasure is a part of it. But it's also about achieving an emotional union with your lady.

Penetrating the hot lady for the first time always makes me feel like a guest. I enter her pussy slowly. And I don't go balls-deep on her right away. Just being inside the lady is a pleasure in itself for me.

But once I get over the novelty of taking the hot chick with my dick. Then I need to make myself feel at home inside the hot lady's pussy with my bone. That's why I pick up my speed, go balls-deep on the lady, and really pound her. And that's also why I need to stay with the chick and do her for a long time with my dick.

You don't go from feeling like guest inside the hot lady's pussy to feeling totally at home right away. This process takes time. Not just for you. But also for the lady. Because you aren't at home inside the hot lady's pussy, until the hot lady says so.

And of course, this isn't something the hot lady says verbally. It's something you can tell from the way she stops watching the clock and just accepts your cock, like you have every right to be there balls-deep inside her pussy. And this is when you achieve your emotional union with the lady and just enjoy being with her. Because there is nothing like feeling at home with your big bone inside the hot lady's pussy.

Nailing a hot chick with your dick can be described as having three stages. First, both you and the lady feel that you are a guest inside her pussy with your cock. Then you go from being a guest to being a pest. You pick up your speed and go balls-deep on the lady. But she doesn't yet fully accept you, like you belong there. She is tense. And she is waiting for you to cum and withdraw. But you just keep nailing her. Loud slapping sounds. You slam your hips on her sexy ass-cheeks. Your cock goes balls-deep inside her pussy every time. And at this point, the hot lady realizes that you aren't a guest or a pest anymore. You are right at home inside her pussy with your bone. You aren't leaving any time soon. She might as well relax and enjoy it with you.

This is when the hot lady stops watching the clock and accepts your cock. And this is when you start feeling at home inside her pussy with your bone. And of course, there is nothing like home to go back to again and again. Home is where you are always welcome to relax and enjoy as much as you want.

And that's what your long, cocky ride with the hot lady is all about. It's not just about nailing a hot chick with your dick. It's about achieving an emotional union with the lady, where you feel totally at home inside her pussy with your bone.

The only word of caution I would say is that there is such a thing as taking too much Viagra. It doesn't work the same way for everybody. Some people need less. And some people need more. I've read some reviews from people who used Viagra, and the amount they take varies from 12.5 milligrams to 100 milligrams or more. Taking it on an empty stomach makes it works faster. But the amount of time it takes for Viagra to produce its effect varies from 1 hour to 15 minutes, depending on the person.

That's why you need to experiment and find out what works for you.

It's best to start with the smallest amount and keep increasing it a little at a time, until you get the desired effect. Because when you take too much Viagra, then you can end up with a raging erection that lasts for many hours. This might sound like fun to you. But the problem with this is oxygen starvation for your penile tissues. The blood goes into your cock and stays there, when you get an erection. There isn't enough blood circulation and transport of oxygen from your lungs to your cock. This doesn't cause any damage for up to two hours. But when you have a raging erection that never goes down for 4 hours or more, then you can start to get some serious tissue damage there due to oxygen starvation.

And of course, there is medical treatment, if you take too much Viagra. It involves taking a syringe and draining the blood from you cock. This relaxes your cock, makes the erection go away, and restores normal blood circulation there. This treatment might sound a little gross and scary to you. But it's a choice between either this or losing your cock. Because in extreme cases, it's possible to end up with so much tissue damage in your cock that it won't be any good for you anymore.

Dan7373

11-03-17, 15:15

I done some more reading about ways for people to enhance their sexual performance, and apparently, simply making yourself believe that you will perform well can in itself enhance your performance a lot.

It's called the Placebo Effect, and here is a good blog article about it:

https://www.thedailybeast.com/how-i-found-the-best-non-chemical-ways-for-mind-blowing-sex

I think this is the reason why a lot of people use various herbs and foods to enhance their sexual performance. It works for them, not because these herbs and foods have medicinal qualities, but because using them produces the Placebo Effect.

The Placebo Effect is basically making yourself believe that you well perform well, better than before. And it doesn't really matter how you gain this confidence and belief in yourself. This Placebo Effect happens even when the hot lady predicts to you that you are going to do her well and last for a long time too.

I was once with a lady who masturbated my cock with her hand, while saying that my cock was really big and hard. And make it big and hard she certainly did in no time. Then she started expressing some concern about how I was going to pound her with my cock and how I was going to last with her for a long time.

This lady was rolling my cock like a sausage between the palms of her hands. And she was saying things like, "You are really going to slap your hips on my cheeks, aren't you? Balls-deep every time! What am I getting myself into here!?"

I had the hardest erection pointing in her direction. And I surprised even myself that I was able to pound her so well and so long.

This lady literally talked me into really nailing her with my dick and lasting with her for a long time too. She gave me confidence and expectation, before the penetration. And then I did the rest with her.

Not many ladies understand this kind of stuff and behave like this with their guys. But some do. And that's what the lady's personality is all about. The lady might not be the best-looking chick to take your dick. But she might be good at making you feel confident with her in your sexual performance with her. And this makes all the difference in how well you nail her and how much you enjoy being with her.

I can say from my own experience that when the lady says to you that you are going to last for a long time with her, then this in itself makes you last longer with her.

Perhaps you can even try to get the lady to say to you that you are going to last for a long time with her. I've tried this tactic with one lady, and it seems to work.

When I was with my lady in the private room, then I started drinking Red Bull energy drinks, while saying to her that I was going to really pound her with my cock and last with her for a long time too. After a while, the lady expressed some concern about me pounding her too much and too long. She asked me not to do it too much.

It was like she believed my prediction that I was going to pound her and last for a long time with her.

I was waiting for this from her. And when she said it, then I reassured her that I was going to be nice with her. And I proceeded to foreplay her with my hands on her pussy, tits, and ass.

And I did end up pounding her and lasting with her longer than usual.

I think this is something to try for any cocky guy. Confidence, positive expectation, and positive belief. That's what it's all about. And it does work, based on what I can say from my own experience.

Dan7373

11-03-17, 16:34

I found from my experience with Thai P4P ladies that most of them will touch your cock with their hands only some very restricted and ritualized circumstances.

It's like they don't feel free to grab your cock and masturbate it whenever they feel like it.

The lady will take your cock with her hands, when she does oral sex on you. But at other times and in other circumstances, the lady often behaves as if your cock is strictly off limits for her. Not all ladies are like this. But many are.

I think even P4P ladies still feel some social inhibitions, when they are with a guy they don't know well.

But you can help such ladies relax with you and perhaps make them feel free to grab and handle your cock in a more spirit-free manner. Showing the lady a porn-clip on your phone, as the one below, might be a good way to let her know that you feel okay with this kind of thing, and you actually want her to do it:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/826/542/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=rzeOXZXdMZn7BA2K)13826542a.mp4

Dan7373

11-05-17, 13:27

Vaginal intercourse more often than not is a lot more pleasant for the guy, than it is for the lady.

This happens because the hot lady spreads her legs wide open for you to enter and ride. And most ladies never go beyond this first step. The lady just keeps her legs wide open for the rest of her intercourse with you. Her wide-open-legs position doesn't provide much stimulation for her clitoris. And that's why women are much less likely to orgasm during their sexual intercourse, than men are.

Some people look at this situation as if it's some rule or law of nature. It's like women are pre-destined to have less pleasure than men. And let's just leave it at that.

But I think this is an ignorant way of looking at it. Because it's all in the position. Sexual intercourse can be a lot more pleasant for the woman, when she closes her legs with your cock inside her pussy and makes herself so tight during the ride that you can't go in and out of her. You can only push and pull on her pussy with your cock inside her. Such tightness is very pleasant for the lady. And it usually leads to orgasm for her, if you do it like this with her for 10-15 minutes.

This much I can say from my own experience with ladies. And there is an easy way for a guy to do this with his lady. All you need to do is take the lady in the missionary position, with her legs wide open. And then you use your legs to bring her legs close together and make her pussy tight around your cock. And when you ride the lady like this, then you should also bring yourself up on her a little, so that the shaft of your cock pushes against the top of her pussy, where the glans of her clitoris is. Because this stimulates her clitoris more and makes it more pleasant for her.

From my experience I can say that not many ladies know about this position. Your lady probably won't know what you are talking about, if you suggest this to her. But I also found from my experience that you can take the lady like this entirely on your own. Once you are on top of the lady with your cock inside her, then it doesn't take much to bring her legs close together, move yourself up on her, and start tugging on her pussy with your cock and pushing the shaft of your cock against her clitoris at the top of her pussy.

One word of caution I would say is that you shouldn't actually try to slide your cock in and out of her. Because when you make the lady's pussy this tight around your cock, then sliding in and out of her might be painful for her, especially if you have a big cock. This is strictly for pushing and pulling on her pussy, without actually going in and out of her. Or else you might make it painful for her, rather than pleasant.

I found a good porn example of a lady and a guy doing it like this with each other. And it looks like the lady actually knows how to do it. Because she crosses her legs to keep her pussy tight around the guy's cock:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/775/952/13775952a.webm

Dan7373

11-05-17, 13:53

One advice for cocky guys sex therapists give is that you should bend your cock, when you rock. This gives the lady a different sensation during penetration. And this also reduces friction for the lady inside her pussy. Because a lot of the action is in the stretching and in the pushing on her pussy, rather than you going in and out of her.

This is something to do with any lady, but especially with the lady who has some concern about your cock being too big for her. Because it's the friction that usually injures the lady. And anything you can do to reduce the friction makes it better for her.

Here is an example of a guy bending his cock inside the lady, rather than just going in and out of her:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/802/932/13802932a.webm

Dan7373

11-05-17, 14:44

One thing I like about P4P ladies is that they are a lot more liberated about being grabbed and penetrated.

With an ordinary woman, I would never grab her pussy and start fingering her clit, when I'm kissing with her. Because what the lady feels comfortable with depends a lot on her previous experience with guys. Quite often you have no idea how she will react to something like this. And that's why I don't do it. Even grabbing the lady's tit in this situation can lead to a sexual assault accusation.

But P4P ladies are different in this regard, not just from the guy's point of view, but also from their own point of view. Because P4P ladies have so much sexual experience with guys, that spontaneous foreplay is neither surprising nor upsetting for them. And sexual consent is assumed by both the lady and you, once you agree to be with each other. It's perfectly normal for a guy in this situation to grab the lady's pussy and finger her clit. And this is actually one of the pleasures I look forward to, when I go with a P4P lady.

Foreplay to get the hot lady on her way. That's what I call it. And I haven't yet met a P4P chick who would slap my dick for grabbing her like this. Here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/831/432/13831432a.webm

Dan7373

11-05-17, 14:58

Out of sight is quite often out of mind for many guys, when it comes to their woman's clitoris.

When you take the lady's pussy from behind in doggy for example, then you don't see her clitoris at all. You just pound the sexy girl, and you are happy with that.

But her clitoris is actually open and exposed for some good fingering from you. All you need to do is use your imagination during the penetration to see your lady's clitoris in your mind's eye and be the fingering guy.

Here is what I'm talking about. This is something to remember, when you take the hot lady from behind, and you don't see her clitoris:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/810/512/13810512a.webm

Dan7373

11-05-17, 15:09

Riding the hot chick with your dick, while also fingering her clit with your hand, is a good way to equalize the pleasure and make it as pleasant for the lady, as it is for you.

And you don't actually need to bang the lady all the time. You can stop and just finger the lady's clit for a while, then bang her some more. This is a good way to last for a long time with the lady and make it pleasant for her.

Here are some examples of what I'm talking about:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/589/712/13589712a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/842/922/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=bBfdnlbJpuhVDvP0)13842922a.mp4

Dan7373

11-05-17, 15:34

I found a good example of a guy making it pleasant for the lady in the way that some sex-therapists recommend.

It's basically using stretching and pressure to make it pleasant for the lady, rather than friction. Stretching and pressure gives the lady a very different kind of sensation than friction does. And apparently, it can be very pleasant for ladies.

Here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/809/322/13809322a.webm

Dan7373

11-11-17, 11:47

Being in the mood to do the hot lady good is what you need to do the deed. But quite often this isn't as simple as it sounds.

Because even being in unfamiliar surroundings with an unfamiliar lady can distract you enough to interfere with your mood and performance.

What you choose to think about during your bout can make a big difference in how well you perform. You obviously need to think 'sexy thoughts' to stay in the mood with your lady. But what exactly does this mean in practical terms?

An article from The Times of India, advises you to think about a porn scene, among other things.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/love-sex/What-should-you-think-during-sex/articleshow/4454312.cms

I've tried doing this myself. And I'm not so sure that this works well. Because I get distracted from the lady I'm with and start fantasizing about the absent porn lady.

I think the best experience you get is when you focus all of your thoughts and your attention on the lady you are with. And this isn't just thinking about the lady in general. You need to think sexy thoughts about her. And this is easiest to do, when you have the lady's tit in your mouth and her pussy or ass in your hand.

Active foreplay is what I'm talking about. It's a lot easier to focus your thoughts on the lady's tit, when you are doing something with it. And the same is true for her pussy and ass.

If you stay passive and look where the lady is looking, then you end up looking at your own cock. Cock isn't sexy, even when it's your own, from a heterosexual guy's point of view. This is how you can get distracted and end up having performance anxiety enough to impair your performance.

I also found that focusing my attention on my own sensation of pleasure can easily lead to a premature ejaculation.

When you focus your attention on your pleasure, then your goal becomes to increase your pleasure. And there is such a thing as too much pleasure. You can end up doing the lady too hard and too fast. And you don't last.

Continuing to focus your attention on the chick, even when you are doing her with your dick, is probably the best strategy, when you want to last for a reasonably long time with her.

Because when you are thinking about your lady's sensations and how to make her feel this or that, then you end up doing a variety of things with her, rather than just banging her pussy with your cock all the time. This is how you remember to change your positions with the lady and stop once in while to suck on her tit and play around with her clit.

Dan7373

11-13-17, 15:16

How much you enjoy being with a lady depends a lot on how much you want her.

And of course, a lot of your desire depends on the lady's good looks and personality. But not all of it. Some of it comes from your state of mind and whether you are in the mood or not.

A recent study has found that deliberately paying more attention to the desirable makes you desire it more.

https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2017-11/cwru-pwd110817.php

In a way, this is common sense. Because anybody, who has tried dieting, would know that it's harder to abstain from food, when you have some tasty food in front of you. Just focusing your attention on the food you want and fantasizing about eating it makes it much more desirable for you. And if in the end you start eating this food, then you'll probably really enjoy it, much more than in an ordinary situation, where you might be eating the food absentmindedly, while watching TV or something like that.

This study gives you a clue that you can actually increase your desire and enjoyment with the lady you want, if you take your time to think and fantasize about her, before you go for your session with her.

Of course, you can't fully enjoy with your lady, no matter how ready you are, unless she is ready for you too. Best enjoyment is mutual enjoyment. That's why you might want to focus your lady's attention on the things she might be interested in as a woman.

In one of my best encounters with a Thai massage lady, I was really doing her pussy with my cock in a face-to-face, side-by-side position. She hooked her top leg around my knee, and I held her close to me, so that I could go balls-deep inside her pussy every time. Then I took her hand and put it on my ass-cheek, so that she would feel how I was driving my dick.

I held her hand there for a while. And after a while, she gripped my ass with her hand and held her hand there on her own.

At the end of our ride, this lady had such a wild orgasm with me, that she couldn't have faked it. I've already had my orgasm with her, and I pulled out of her. Then she suddenly groaned and spasmed in an obvious orgasm. I quickly plunged my cock back inside her pussy and penetrated her as far as I could, all the way to my balls.

I wanted to experience this lady's orgasm. And experience it I certainly did.

Her pussy spasmed around my cock in a peristaltitic type of motion. Her spasm started like a tight ring around the root of my cock, and this tight ring moved along the shaft of my cock towards the tip. The sensation for me was that of having my cock milked to squeeze every last drop of cum out of it. This was a pleasant sensation for me. I definitely enjoyed it. And my orgasming girl was totally out of control. She gasped and groaned every time her pussy contraction started around my cock.

I stayed as deep as I could with my cock inside her pussy during her orgasmic contractions. But in between her contractions, I banged her pussy a little to let her know that I was enjoying her orgasmic plow. Her orgasm must've lasted for a good minute or two. Because she gasped, groaned, and spasmed her pussy around my cock several times. I held her close to me, stroked her body with my hands, and I really pushed my cock deep inside her pussy for maximum penetration, until she finished orgasming with me.

I think ladies often get distracted and don't pay full attention, when they are with a guy. And that's why they might not be fully into it with you. But you can change this situation by taking the lady's hand and holding it on your ass-cheek, while you are banging her pussy with your dick. This enables your handy lady to really feel your cocky lust and predict your every thrust.

Or you can just take your lady's hand and put it on your cock. After you do this with the lady several times, then she'll probably get the message and start grabbing your cock on her own, whenever you swing by her.

I know this from having a lady take my hand and put it on her pussy like this. She liked the way I masturbated her pussy to orgasm every time. So, after a few times, she started taking my hand and putting it on her pussy to let me know that she wanted me to do it again. And orgasm her every time I certainly did like this, with plenty of lube on my hand and on her pussy, of course.

Dan7373

11-15-17, 15:51

I found a porn clip, where the guy grabs his lady's pussy and starts masturbating her, as soon as she is within his reach.

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/013/876/462/13876462a.webm

I think this is a legitimate way to take a hot lady, when you want to be a baddie.

Some people say that you need to romance the chick and kiss her on the cheek, before you even touch her pussy with your hand or dick. But I think this is just a habit some people develop for doing it this way. Perhaps this works for them. But there is no good reason to say that everybody needs to do it this way.

I can say from my own experience that it's possible to grab a lady's pussy and masturbate her to orgasm within 5 minutes or so. Because I've done this with one Thai lady many times.

I stayed with this lady for a long time. And when I first started masturbating her, then she actually took a long time to orgasm. I had to masturbate her pussy with one hand, massage her body everywhere with my other hand, hold her close to me, and suck on her tits too. I put plenty of lube on my masturbating hand, and I really massaged her pussy and clit. And even in these circumstances, it took her a good 15-20 minutes to reach orgasm.

It was like she would come close to orgasm, then get distracted in some way, and receded from it. And this would happen several times, before she would finally go over orgasmic threshold and have a good orgasm with me.

But this was only at first. I masturbated her pussy to orgasm at the same time every day, when she came to bed to sleep with me in the evening.

My goal was to make it a habit for her, because I thought this might make it better for her. I was even setting my alarm clock to make sure that I masturbated her pussy to orgasm at the same time every day. And develop an orgasmic habit she certainly did. After a while, she was orgasming with me in 5 minutes or less. And sometimes she would get me to masturbate her pussy in the morning too. Because she like it so much. She would just take my hand and put it on her pussy. And of course, I knew what she wanted me to do.

I think having an orgasm in itself takes some practice and learning. Because from what I've read about it, orgasm involves synchronized rhythmic brain waves that involve virtually your whole brain. That's why people often spasm and temporarily lose some control during their orgasm. This is true for both men and women. And since it's a brain function, then it probably takes some learning and practice to work well. That's why my orgasmic lady went from taking a long time to reach her orgasm to doing it very quickly. Having many orgasms probably primed her brain for it and made it much easier for her to orgasm.

A lot of what people think about sexuality in women is nothing more than women's habits and conditioning. A lot of women have been conditioned by their culture and society to do it in a certain way. And based on this evidence, a lot of people think this is the only right way to do it.

But this is just circular logic that discourages experimentation and exploration to find out good ways to do it. If everybody believed this kind of logic, then women would still be stuck in the prudishness and asexuality of the Victorian Era.

Dan7373

11-15-17, 16:15

There aren't many examples in porn, where the guy plays his lady's pussy and sucks on her tit at the same time. But I found one at last:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/014/009/012/14009012a.webm

This isn't something many guys do with their ladies. But I think it's something to try, especially when your lady has sensitive nipples and tits and normally doesn't like it, when you touch and suck on her tits.

Because I've been with a lady like this, and I was really surprised that she enjoyed my tit-sucking, when I masturbated her pussy and clit with my hand at the same time.

Perhaps women's breasts and nipples have a dual function, breastfeeding and sexual attraction. They can work in both ways. But you need to do it in a sexual way, rather than in a breastfeeding kind of way.

That's why masturbating the lady's clit and sucking her tit works for the lady. But just sucking her tit doesn't work so well. Just sucking probably feels for her more like breastfeeding, rather than sex.

And of course, sucking on the lady's tits and nipples can work well for the lady no matter how big or how small her tits are. It's about sensation for the lady, which is independent of size.

Dan7373

11-16-17, 15:36

I found a new sex-position that I haven't see before either in porn or anywhere else. Here is a 5-second clip that shows it:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/014/034/842/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=4fgKwtYNGe3NuIMn)14034842a.mp4

It's a modified reverse-cowgirl position, where the lady sits sideways with her pussy on the guys's cock, rather than with her back towards him. The lady leans back and partly supports her body with the sofa they are on.

This is a very relaxing position for both the lady and the guy. They can probably do it like this for a long time, without getting tired.

And I'd say that the lady in this video would probably orgasm before the guy, if they keep doing it like this. Because she rides his cock with her pussy just enough to make it pleasant for him, but not enough to make him cum. But he is really doing her pussy and clit with his hand, probably enough to make her orgasm, if he does it long enough.

I think this position is something to try for any cocky guy, who wants to last for a long time with his lady and possibly make her orgasm in the process.

This isn't a difficult position to get into. All it requires is some comfortable furniture. But you might want to save this clip on your phone and show it to your lady, so that she would know how you want to plow. Because this is an unusual position that even experienced ladies might not know about. You might have a hard time explaining it to the lady, unless you show her this video clip.

Dan7373

11-16-17, 16:54

One sure way to last longer with your lady is to go nice and slow on the plow. I found a couple of good examples where the guy does it this way with his lady in doggy:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/014/035/252/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=RRIesNI2DsqcWDbH)14035252a.mp4

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/014/035/292/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=tACTZj-YvQ0N27hq)14035292a.mp4

One interesting thing the guy does in these clips is that he pulls out his cock from the lady's pussy completely, and then he tries to re-enter her pussy without guiding his cock with his hands.

In the first clip, he misses her pussy on his first try, but he gets her pussy on his second try. Then in the second clip, he does it a lot better, probably because he had some practice.

I think this is something to try for any cocky guy, who wants to last for a long time with his lady. It might be a little boring just to go nice and slow on the lady. But you can make it interesting and even challenging for yourself, if you withdraw from the lady completely and then try to re-enter her pussy without guiding your cock with your hands.

You might be able to do it one time. But can you do it several times in a row, without missing the chick with your dick?

Dan7373

11-24-17, 11:56

I found a 10-minute video, where the guy orgasms a hot asian lady with his mouth and fingers.

It takes him almost 10 minutes to bring her to orgasm, which happens some time between the 9:00 and 10:00 marks in the video. And I think he has a pretty good technique for orgasming this chick. Because when he puts his fingers inside her vagina, then he uses them to push against her clitoris from inside there, even while he is licking her clitoris from outside. This two-prong approach is what makes it so pleasant for her.

Of course, you can adapt this technique to do it all with your hands and fingers, rather than with your mouth. Which would be a safer way of doing it. You can even put latex gloves on your hands, lubricate them well, and do the lady in a totally safe way.

I think this is a realistic video. Because it shows you how long it takes for a guy to orgasm his lady, even when he is very good at pleasing her. Porn films often show the guy play the lady's clit for 20 or 30 seconds, and then he goes on to do something else. Which isn't nearly enough to bring the lady to orgasm.

Here is the video:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph587d46c359eab

Dan7373

12-20-17, 21:38

I've come across a study about sex-work titled:

"Decriminalizing Indoor Prostitution: Implications for Sexual Violence and Public Health".

This is a study about sex-work in the State of Rhode Island in USA, where indoor prostitution was accidentally legalized for a period of 6 years, from 2003 to 2009. The authors of this study say that "reported r_a_p_e offences fell by 30% and female gonorrhoea incidence declined by over 40% during this 6-year period in Rhode Island.

https://academic.oup.com/restud/advance-article/doi/10.1093/restud/rdx065/4756165

I think this study is important to know about. Because anti-prostitution crusaders usually claim that they want to make it better for women. And this study shows that it's the opposite. They are making it worse for women, rather than better.

Dan7373

12-21-17, 12:51

I've read some articles about women's orgasm, and some women say that orgasm for them is easier to have, when the guy pleases them in a relaxed way, like he is going to do it as long as it takes. There is no hurry and no urgency to make the woman orgasm.

I haven't found any examples of a guy doing a lady this way. But I did find a lady doing a guy's cock with her mouth like that in the video below:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5a0baab5d2607

I think women often have trouble orgasming, because the guy keeps checking if they've orgasmed yet or not. He doesn't just relax and enjoy the action. And this urgency and impatience to make the woman orgasm can make it so difficult for the woman to orgasm, that it might not happen at all.

A part of reaching orgasm is being relaxed and not thinking or worrying about anything. And that's why you need to relax with the lady and do her like you are doing her for your own enjoyment, and it's up to her to orgasm or not. I think that's how the lady in the video above does her guy. And this is a good example how you can do a lady. No hurry and no pressure. Just do it for your own enjoyment.

Dan7373

01-19-18, 06:24

I found a good example where the guy holds his lady's clit with his hand, while he bangs her pussy with his cock from behind.

This kind of thing makes it more interesting and more pleasant for the lady. And it doesn't take much effort from the guy.

I'd say this is something to do, whenever you take your lady in doggy. Here is what I'm talking about:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/824/741/8824741a.webm

Dan7373

01-20-18, 10:43

I found a video that shows you how you can last for a long time with your lady.

Basically, you sit on a chair, and the lady mounts you with her pussy from the front. And she is the one who rides you, while you sit there and enjoy it.

And the reason why this position works is because, you can't pound the girl at all, while you are sitting on a chair like that. The lady does all the work. And ladies are usually slower at this, than guys are. That's why you will likely last for a long time with her this way. Here is the video:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph58f9fb2d0a4ec

I think the main reason why many guys can't last for a long time with their lady is because they end up doing her too hard and too fast. Which is possible to do, even when the lady is on top of you, in the cowgirl position. That's why this chair position is so effective. Sitting on the chair makes it physically impossible for you to pound the lady. Which forces you to keep your control with her and last for a long time with her.

Dan7373

01-20-18, 11:51

I found some online advice for guys, who want to last for a long time with their lady.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6668/make-sex-last-longer/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/save-your-sex-life/201501/premature-ejaculation-causes-and-10-tips-treatment

I think it's interesting to see that some of this sex advice confirms what guys that have been saying in this forum in the past.

Masturbating your dick, before you go to see the hot chick is one such example. Cosmopolitan magazine says, "Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly. " Lisa Thomas, a sex-therapist says, "Men who masturbate in the mornings and then have relations with their partners in the evening tend to be able to last longer because they have had an orgasm within the same day. You can also masturbate at night and have sex in the morning with the same effect. ".

The trick isn't just to masturbate your dick. You actually need to cum, before you go to see the lady. And this is especially the thing to do, when you are going for a 2-hour session with the lady, who gives you only one-cumshot with her. Two hours sounds like plenty of time to get to know a hot chick with your dick. But that one-cumshot deal is liable to spoil your action, unless you prepare yourself for the lady, before you even go to see her.

Another thing Lisa Thomas advises is having multiple cumshots with your lady. She says that after you cum your first time, then don't stop the action. Just start pleasing your partner with massage or oral sex, until your erection returns. Then ride her again. And second time around, you will probably last longer with her.

I find it interesting that almost all Bangkok ladies at www.smooci.com website offer you two shots with them. It's like a standard offer there. And you really need it too. Because holding back your dick on a hot chick is easier said than done. When the hot lady is new for you, and she is someone you really want to do, then you are so excited to do her, that you end up pounding her. Pounding feels good. But you don't last. You really need that ride and second cumshot with the lady. Or else, you don't fully enjoy it with her.

Using plenty of lube is another thing Lisa Thomas advises. Because when you have more lube, then you have less friction and less stimulation. Which enables you to last longer with the lady.

This advice about the lube is true. But from my own experience I would say that you need to do more than just use more lube. You also need to splash some water on your lubed parts once in a while. Or else it doesn't work well.

The problem with water-based lube is that the water in it gets absorbed by the body, and it dries in the air too, especially when the room is air-conditioned. Because air-conditioning takes humidity out of the air and makes everything dry faster, including your lube. Water based lube is really slippery, when you add some water to it and keep it hydrated by splashing some water on it once in a while. But if you don't add water to the lube, the it soon become ineffective and doesn't do much for you.

Dan7373

01-21-18, 15:26

When I go to see a hot massage lady for a 2-hour session with her, then I fully intend to take it easy with her and last for a long time with her. I steel my will-power and promise myself that I'm not going to do this lady hard-and-fast, because I want to last.

But once I get there and see all the hot ladies, then I'm not so sure anymore that I can stay in control with her. My resolve weakens a little, when the hot lady drops her cloths in the private room with me. She then massages me with her pussy, tits, and ass, until I can't stand it any more and I go for the ride with her. At this point, I still remember my promise to take it easy with the lady and last for a long time with her. But I just don't have the will-power any more. The hot lady's pussy, tits, and ass massage on me took the last of it from me. I end up pounding her hard-and-fast. And I don't last. The clip below is a good illustration of how I end up doing the lady at this point in time.

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/005/949/731/5949731a.webm

It took me a while to understand that will-power is a limited resource. If you rely on your will-power too long and too much, then you are bound to lose your control with the sexy girl and end up pounding her with your dick. This is a serious limitation that can keep you from taking the hot chick the way you want with your dick.

I think the trick is save your will-power and use sex-positions to control your dick with the chick. Basically, you need to take the lady in sex positions that make it physically impossible for you to pound her with your dick. Your lady does all the work. And it works well this way, because ladies don't usually pound guys with their pussies. They do it slower and in a different way. Instead of making you go in an out of her a lot, the lady tends to grind you with her pussy, which feels more pleasant for her. Here are some examples of what I'm talking about:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/005/949/141/5949141a.webm

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/005/950/651/5950651a.webm

Many porn movies show guys pounding their ladies and lasting for a long time with them too. But this is just an illusion, rather than the real thing. Because if you watch closely such scenes, then you will see that the film is all cut up and spliced together. Those pounding moments last for a minute or so. Then the film is cut to a different view. The guy could literally have a 15-minute break in between these cuts.

Pounding a hot lady with your cock feels pretty good for a guy. I'll admit this much. But you need to take breaks in between. Or else you aren't going to last long enough to really enjoy it. Some ladies might let you pound them periodically like that. And I would call this a Porn Star Experience (PSE). Because that's how porn-stars do it in real life, when they are filming their scene. But most ladies won't let you take them like that. And in that case, you need to use sex-positions to control your dick with the chick. Or else, you won't last with her.

Pounding the lady periodically, the way guys do it in porn-movies can work too. Because you are saving your will-power, when you let yourself go and just pound the lady. You aren't try to restrain yourself at all with the sexy girl.

But you need to watch yourself and recognize when you are getting close to the point of no-return with the lady. And once you recognize this, then you need to use your saved up will-power to withdraw from the lady quickly and take a short break by massaging her or doing something else with her.

And I say you need to withdraw from the lady quickly, because it takes a lot of will-power to withdraw from the girl when you are on a wild roll. If you take too long to take out your big dong, then you might exhaust your will-power and go back to pounding her. Which is a bad thing to do, when you are close to the point of no-return. It's like you doom yourself to a premature ejaculation right there and then.

Dan7373

01-24-18, 12:34

I found a good article, where real porn-stars talk about their bad experiences with condoms and why they prefer not to use them.

Nina Hartley, who was a popular big, sexy-ass porn-star in 1980's and early 1990's, says that condoms are a far greater risk to women than they are to men. The reason: friction.

Chanel Preston, who is still a porn-star now, says that porn sex lasts anywhere from at least 30 minutes several hours. And she says that in this situation, condoms "cause a lot of friction. If I used condoms daily, it would be extremely painful for me. " Nina Hartley adds to this, "Erection is manufactured from the outside in. To keep mechanical stimulation going, he thrusts vigorously, thrusts harder and longer, which creates friction and burns".

And it's not just the porn-stars who are saying this based on their personal experience. A sexual psychophysiologist and neuroscientists Dr. Nicole Prause says, "The performers are right. Condoms do increase friction and, if you know your infection status, condoms can increase the risk of other bacterial infections. ".

These other infections, that the Doctor mentions, usually affect only women and not men. Condoms can promote yeast infections in two ways: Those with a spermicidal lubricant often contain nonoxynol-9, which affects the vaginal ecosystem and likely makes it easier for yeast to take advantage. Being allergic to latex condoms also increases risk, although this is less common. According to Dr. Nicole Prause, "Condoms increase the presence of at least three bacteria in the vagina and increase erythema (redness) associated with tearing.

Here is the whole article, where this information and the quotes above come from:

http://www.medicaldaily.com/keeping-porn-stars-healthy-look-behind-scenes-americas-x-rated-industry-363810

I think the key lesson to learn here is that condoms are more than just an issue of pleasure and sensitivity for women. Condoms can cause real health problems for women, especially when you want a Porn Star Experience with the lady and last for a long time with her.

Guys wearing condoms is probably the real reason why many Thai P4P ladies complain about big Farang dicks. A big dick for the lady wouldn't be a problem on its own. Because the woman's vagina can stretch to accommodate different sizes. Women normally give birth through their vagina. Which shows you just how much a woman's vagina can adjust. But the thing women's vaginas can't adjust to is friction from condoms. This is what hurts P4P ladies causes them all kinds of problems.

But of course I would never say that you should stop using condoms and go bareback with P4P ladies. Because this would be a really stupid thing to do. It makes no sense either for you or for the lady to risk your long-term health and your life for some short-term pleasure or money.

I found from my experience with condoms that water-based lube on them doesn't last very long. Some of the water in the lube gets absorbed by the woman's body. And some of this water quickly dries out, when it's exposed to room air in an air-conditioned room. Because air-conditioning acts like a dehumidifier. It removes moisture from the air and makes everything dry quickly.

But there is a solution for this problem. It basically involves bringing an extra bottle of water-based lube with you, using it to lubricate yourself and the lady, and most importantly splashing some water on your lubed parts once in a while to re-hydrate this lube and make it slippery again.

You really need to do this kind of stuff, if you want to last for a long time with your lady. Or else your dry condom will start hurting the lady, and she will need to stop you, no matter what you say or how much you pay.

You need to look at it from the lady's point of view and not just from your own. For you, the condom might be just an issue of sensitivity and pleasure. But for the lady, this is an issue of health and safety. Your dry condom can really hurt the lady and put her out of commission for a while.

Dan7373

02-07-18, 15:37

I found a short video (3 minutes) that shows how a guy brings a woman to orgasm with his finger.

The guy pinches her nipples, while he does this. So, this is some multi-tasking. But other than that, it looks very easy for the guy. And of course, it's safer than oral sex, because you are unlikely to get infected, when your skin is intact and you wash your hand well afterwards.

Here is the video:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/1639047261

Dan7373

02-17-18, 16:51

I found a good 5-minute video that shows you how to last for a reasonably long time with your massage lady, even when she is hot and good in bed with you.

Reverse-cowgirl. And you masturbate the girl, while she rides your cock. The lady can't do you hard and fast in this position. And that's why you last with her.

And another way is cowgirl. As long as you don't pound the lady from below and let her do the riding, then you will also last with her. Because ladies are usually slower and nicer, when they take a guy with their pussy, than a pounding guy on top of her would be. Here is the video:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/1756941944

Dan7373

02-17-18, 17:08

A handjob from the lady is actually much safer, than having unprotected oral sex with the lady. Because all medical authorities I could find on this subject say that diseases can be transmitted through unprotected oral sex.

Perhaps getting a handjob is an acquired taste. But I've tried it myself with several ladies, and I actually like it more than oral sex. Because the lady's hand is stronger, more skillful, and has more endurance than her mouth and tongue. The lady still needs to know how to do it and learn it well from her experience. But once the lady is good at it, then this becomes a very safe and enjoyable way to do it.

I found some GIF clips where ladies do their guys with their hands. And it's something you might want to download and show to your Thai lady, if you want her to do you in a safe way and make it enjoyable for you. One of the ladies actually does a handjob on the guy, while he is wearing a condom. And another pair of ladies do a handjob on a guy with plenty of soap. Which are even safer ways of doing it. Here are the clips:

https://dl.phncdn.com/gif/1467931.gif

https://cl.phncdn.com/gif/705801.gif

https://cl.phncdn.com/gif/1389921.gif

Dan7373

02-17-18, 17:33

I found a massage video, where the lady first rides her guy with her pussy cowgirl style. Then she manages to turn around, with his cock still inside her pussy, all the way into a reverse-cowgirl position an start riding him like that.

The guy actually groans, when this lady twists her pussy on his cock like that. Which sounds to me like an experience to try with your favorite massage lady. Here is a GIF clip of it:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/396/852/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=fSnnfHw6VczCuFbM)15396852a.mp4

If the lady has never done this kind of thing before, then she might let your cock slip out of her, when she twists her pussy on your cock. But I actually wouldn't mind having the lady do this kind of thing repeatedly with me, until she gets it right every time. Multiple penetrations is something to enjoy, when the lady needs to practice on you like that. And this is a good way to extend your session with the lady, rather than cum prematurely with her.

FiddyCent

02-17-18, 19:40

Dan7373

03-09-18, 15:28

I am going to have to get my GF to do this Dan7373. A similar action, although not the same position, is fucking a tiny spinner doggy style. Then grab her by her legs and spin her around to missionary position, without extracting yourself. It is a surprise for her and a fun sensation for you.

FiddyCent.Going from doggy to missionary, while keeping your dick inside the chick, sounds like a challenge to me. You must be ready to go back inside the lady, in case you slip out of her, half-way through your pussy twist with her.

But I can see how this can be fun to try for any cocky guy. It's a good way to slow yourself down with the lady and last longer with her.

My favorite maneuver with a hot lady in doggy is to put my dick inside her pussy, then lean forward on her, until she goes down with me into a prone-bone position. Then I stay balls-deep inside her pussy and grind her ass-cheeks with my hips from side-to-side, up-and-down, and in circular motion. You can last for a long time with your lady like this. Because it's all about pushing and stretching your lady's pussy with your cock, without going in and out of her. There isn't much friction at all for you and the girl.

The only thing you need to worry about in this position is possibly going too deep inside the lady. Because this can be painful for her, if you have a long cock, too long for her pussy. You just need to pay attention to how she feels and adjust the depth of your penetration with her accordingly.

Here is an example of such a prone bone:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/132/362/15132362a.webm

Dan7373

03-12-18, 14:50

I found an amateur porn video that shows you how you can slow down with your lady and last longer with her.

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5a88c8c73d327

They are obviously doing it for show, probably a live webcam show. Because they both fool around with the camera once in a while. They both pay as much attention to the camera as they do to each other. It's like they are doing it live for other people to watch their debauch. They can't edit anything out.

This sounds like a distracted way of having sex. And it is. But this is actually the secret of their success. That's the reason why they are able to slow down with each other so much and make it last for a long time.

Once in a while they slow down so much that the guy basically stays balls-deep with his cock inside the lady and just enjoys touching her body and tits. At the end of the video, it looks like the guy hasn't yet orgasmed with his lady. He just stays balls-deep with his cock inside her pussy for about 4 minutes, and the video ends on this note.

I've actually tried to slow down like this with my ladies before and just enjoy being inside the chick with my dick. But the lady would get uncomfortable with me every time and perhaps even ask me, what's wrong?

There was nothing wrong. I just wanted to enjoy being inside the lady's pussy with my cock. But I could see that my quiet balls-deep penetration was creating a socially embarrassing situation for the lady and for myself. So, I would go back to pounding the lady with my cock, like a gentleman, to make her feel more comfortable with me. And of course, I don't last at all with the sexy girl in this situation.

I couldn't slow down with my ladies. Because my quiet balls-deep penetration created a socially embarrassing situation every time.

It took me a while to understand what was going on and how to get around this problem. I think the reason why my ladies felt uncomfortable was because they lost track of what I was thinking and what I was feeling with them in their own understanding. It's like a long-lasting silence on a date between the guy and the lady can make them both feel uncomfortable with each other. You need to have some reason for just staying inside the chick with your dick and not pounding her, or else it quickly becomes embarrassing for both of you.

The guy and the lady in the video above had a reason to slow with each other. That's why they were able to do it, without making each other feel uncomfortable. You need some kind of distraction to slow down your action. And it doesn't need to be other people watching you and the lady. You can just turn on the TV with some interesting show and use it to slow down your plow, without embarrassing your lady and yourself.

This way, you can stop with your cock inside the lady once in a while and just enjoy being inside her, without making her wonder if there is something wrong with you, or her, or the situation. You are simply watching some interesting moment on TV. And it has nothing to do with you, or her, or the situation. It's like being silent on a date, while you are watching a movie. Without the movie, the silence is embarrassing. But with the movie, it's perfectly okay.

Dan7373

03-26-18, 10:33

It might come as a surprise for inexperienced guys, but P4P ladies actually want you to let loose with them and just enjoy being with them the way you like. I found an interview of a western P4P lady, where she say exactly this. Here is what she says:

One of the most frequently asked questions I get from clients is: "What do*you like?"

That's sweet, but it doesn't really help either one of us. First of all, in these situations it's not about what I like, and second of all, I doubt we like the same thing. Of course that stems from the excellent idea that sex should be fun for both parties, but paid sex is different. People often struggle with the notion that they get to let loose and I'm completely focused on them.

The best thing a client can do for me, is be clear about what they want. I often get first-timers that are very nervous, and never learned to talk about sex. They find if hard to articulate what they do and don't like, and what turns them on. The more you tell me about what you enjoy, the better our date will be.
https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/wn4wm9/how-to-treat-sex-workers-according-to-sex-workers
I like the idea of letting loose your feelings and desires with the lady and just enjoying it with her. But I think this lady misunderstands why many guys don't talk about it. Talking about sex and your desire in a cold and rational way usually destroys your mood and your desire to do it. That's why many guys don't talk about it with her.

Talking about it, without actually doing it, is the opposite of letting loose. Because when you restrain your behavior and only talk about what you want to do, then this requires a lot of self-control and sexual inhibition. You literally lose your desire and your erection, when you talk about it.

A guy, who truly lets loose, is a guy who shows the lady what he wants, rather than talks about it with her. It's the guy who starts grabbing the lady's pussy, tits, and ass, rather than the guy who thinks about it and tells the lady that this is what he wants to do with her.

Letting loose in an inhibited way is a contradiction. That's why it doesn't work well in practice.

But I think there is a good compromise for P4P ladies and their guys. Instead of destroying your mood and your erection by talking about it with the lady in a cold, rational, business-like way. You can show the lady what you like and what you want do with short GIF porn-clips on your smartphone.

This way, you don't totally destroy your mood. And the lady gets some room to decide how she wants to ride.

Here are some examples of what a guy might want to show his P4P lady:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/885/922/15885922a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/981/032/15981032a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/008/161/121/8161121a.webm

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/014/697/502/14697502a.webm

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/001/470/571/1470571a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/001/470/671/1470671a.webm

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/596/292/15596292a.webm

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/007/050/831/7050831a.webm

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/006/565/701/6565701a.webm

Dan7373

03-31-18, 14:14

How can I last for a long time with my hot lady? That is the question for many guys, including myself.

I've tried various methods, including putting on 2 or 3 condoms at the same time. I've managed to prolong my staying power a little. But it wasn't enough. The only thing I found that works for me in a good way is desensitizing spray. Which you can easily find online by searching on Google the following phrase: amazon desensitizing spay.

The thing about desensitizing spray is that it takes some practice and understanding to use it well. You need to use just the right amount of it. Which varies from one person to another. You need to wait for about 10 minutes for it to take effect. And if you use a lot of it, when you don't yet have an erection, then you might not be able to get an erection going from physical stimulation. You would need to rely on the lady's hot looks and you touching her, rather than physical stimulation for yourself.

This spray increases the risk that you might have erection problems. Because physical stimulation doesn't work for you as well as before. But if you use the right amount of it, then physical stimulation will still work for you, and you will last for a long time with your lady.

How long you last with the lady again depends on how much of the spray you use. Some guys, who reviewed this product online, say that double-application really gets them going with their lady for a long time. It's when the guy applies this spray, waits 10 minutes, and goes in to nail the lady. Then after nailing the lady for 10 minutes, he pulls out, applies some more of this spray, and goes back inside to continue the ride. In this situation, the guy lasts anywhere from 45 minutes to well over 1 hour.

Of course, you need to be careful with the lady and keep it comfortable for her. Plenty of lube is a must in this kind of lust.

I personally don't pound the lady all the time, when I last for a long time with her. I pound the lady for 2-3 minutes, then I rest my cock deep inside her pussy. I just want to enjoy my intimacy with the lady. I'm okay when I just stay like that with her.

But when the lady isn't yet familiar with my long-lasting style, then at this point she might look at me strangely and perhaps even ask me if something is wrong. So, I would go back to pounding her for another 2-3 minutes, then rest my cock inside her pussy again. After 2 or 3 times like this, the lady quickly learns that she is only getting herself nailed, when she looks at me like that. Because I'm perfectly capable of pounding her pussy with my cock, if that's what she wants. So, the lady relaxes and lets me take her the way I want.

You don't have to be needy and greedy, when you last for a long time with your lady. It's more like a marathon, where you get into a comfortable sex-position with the lady and pace yourself with her. And there is nothing wrong with just resting your dick inside the chick once in a while, rather than ride her pussy all the time.

I use my resting times with the lady to explore her body with my hands and my mouth. I find her clit and masturbate it with a well-lubricated finger, while filling her pussy balls-deep with my cock. And I usually try to get into a position with the lady, where I can suck on her tits. Because this is one of my favorite things to do with any lady, no matter how big or how small her tits are.

The thing about it all is that when you have plenty of time with the girl, then you get to do everything with her. And you take your time doing it too, so much that you remember for days afterwards how her tits tasted in your mouth, what it felt like to be balls-deep inside her pussy with your cock, and what it was like to grab the hot lady's ass-cheeks at will, while you drill.

Dan7373

04-10-18, 11:17

Sexually arousing a woman is more than touching her and going through the motions with her. You need to do it well enough to be effective with the lady. And that's why I say that you need to develop your personal way of arousing a lady.

I was once with a lady who gave me the best handjob I've ever had. And this lady didn't ask me to show her how I masturbate myself, so that she would do it this way for me. She just grabbed my cock and went at it in her own way. Sometimes she did it with two hands and sometimes with only one. She switched her hands on me, left and right. Sometimes she rolled my cock like a sausage between the palms of her hands. And sometimes she just fucked my cock with her hands hard and fast.

This lady didn't just do a handjob on me. She expressed her personality with me in the rhythm, the style, and how she switched it up on me. She showed me what kind of a woman she was with a man's cock in her hands. And I could tell that this was her style and her personality. She wasn't just going through the motions with me. Because no other woman has ever handled my cock this way before. And all I could do was grab her big tits with my hands and enjoy the experience.

I think it's important to express your personality with the lady in the way you arouse her and not just do it in a generic way. Because generic way is just going through the motions. And it works no better for the lady, than it works for you.

Your rhythm and your style should be personal and unique. You need to express yourself and show the lady what kind of a man you are with a woman's pussy under your hand.

And the most genuine way you can express yourself with the lady is to masturbate her pussy with the same rhythm and style that you masturbate your own cock.

Of course, you need to adapt your technique to accommodate differences in anatomy. And you need to pay attention to the way the lady feels. You need to adjust your technique to the way it feels best for her. Which means that you need to express yourself in the way that works best for the lady.

Trying to do it the way the lady would do it herself is you mirroring her. It's like you are pretending to be her. And this is an insincere way of doing it. Because you obviously aren't her, and lady knows this right away. She knows herself better, than you can ever know her. And that's why your acting and pretending doesn't work.

But when you masturbate the lady's pussy with the same rhythm and style that you masturbate your own cock, then you are genuinely expressing yourself to her. You aren't pretending to be somebody else. And the lady knows this right away, because your way is a new experience for her.

Every individual is unique. There is no way you can have the same rhythm, the same pauses, and the same switching up on the lady as some other guy, when you are expressing yourself with her. Your style is unique and different from that of any other guy. And your sincerity with the lady is the opposite of you just going through the motions with her.

That's why it works well for her, provided that you pay attention to her feedback and make it pleasant for her.

Run Mann

04-10-18, 12:01

Dan7373

04-10-18, 13:00

Dan.

Do you actually do all of this stuff? Seems like ardous work to satisfy a womanThis isn't about satisfying a woman. This is about arousing her and getting her to be in the mood with you.

I found from my experiences, that P4P ladies don't necessarily want you to bring them all the way to orgasm. Because being sexually satisfied means that you don't want it anymore for a period of time. Which is a bad situation for a P4P woman to be in, when it's her business to be in the mood with guys.

Sexual arousal and enjoyment is something P4P ladies appreciate. But going all the way to orgasm, not necessarily so.

I don't see how I, you, or any other guys can enjoy having sex with a woman, when she is just going through the motions, and she isn't in the mood with you. And I don't think this is just my fetish. The most common complaint about P4P women you read in this forum is that the woman was just going through the motions with the guy, and she wasn't into it with him.

You might as well masturbate by yourself, when the woman isn't into it with you. Because her lack of enthusiasm spoils your fun.

And that's why I say that you get out of your encounter with the P4P lady as much as you put into it. If you don't do much to arouse her and please her, then she won't be in the mood with you. Which makes it less than fun for you. This kind of thing defeats the whole purpose of going to see a P4P lady. You might as well masturbate by yourself at home and save some money.

Dan7373

04-14-18, 11:18

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/253/502/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=hbj5v-eH_JBgEYX2)16253502a.mp4

A Thai massage lady showed this position to me. She got me to take her pussy this way. And like it a lot, I certainly did.

It's a very intimate experience, with a lot of body-to-body contact, just like a good massage should be. If you like body-to-body massage, then you will love this position with your massage lady. Because this is like continuing your body-to-body massage with her, except now you have your cock inside her pussy.

I like this position so much that I want to do this with other ladies too. But this position is hard to explain with words. What you really need is a clip, like the one above, to show your lady what you want with her.

Dan7373

05-03-18, 14:19

I found a short clip that shows you how you can quickly take your lady from the cowgirl sex position to a modified missionary position, while keeping your cock inside her pussy.

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/480/521/16480521a.mp4

I've actually done this move with a Thai lady before. I did it just for the fun of it, and I didn't think it was anything special. But my Thai lady liked it a lot. She started to moan and groan, when I put her on her back like that. So, I rode her to completion to prolong her enjoyment. And it looked to me like she had an orgasm too.

Perhaps the thing my Thai lady liked about it is that she went from being totally in control to being pinned in a helpless position. When you pin your lady's knees close to her shoulders, then she doesn't have any leverage to move much in any way. It's like a restraining position, where the lady has no control.

From what I've read about it, many ladies actually fantasize about being restrained and losing control with their guy. And perhaps this is why my Thai lady liked this cowgirl to missionary move so much.

After this experience with my Thai lady, I've put this move on my checklist of things to do with P4P ladies, when I go to see them. Some P4P ladies like to take their guys cowgirl style. And you can really surprise the chick with your dick, when you put her on her back like that, without ever leaving her pussy.

Of course, you need to be bigger than the lady to do a move like that on her. And you shouldn't attempt to do it if you have a bad back.

But I found that when you are with a small Thai lady, then you can make this move on her both ways, without leaving her pussy with your cock. You can take the lady from cowgirl to missionary with her legs high in the air, and then take her back from this missionary position to cowgirl, with the lady on top of you.

It's easy to change positions, when you take your cock out of the lady's pussy and then enter her again. But the challenge is in doing it while you keep your cock inside her pussy. This is more difficult to do. And I think this is more fun for both the lady and you. It's like you are being spontaneous with the chick, rather than just pounding her with your dick.

Dan7373

05-04-18, 11:40

I found another example of how you can make it extra pleasant for your lady, when you take her pussy from behind with your cock:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/559/321/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=-evbRljIEmjqBvaD)16559321a.mp4

There is noting especially hard about doing this with your lady. Most guys actually like touching their lady's private parts, which aren't so private anymore, when you are nailing her.

When the lady's parts are private, then you can't just touch her there whenever you feel like it. You need to have a good excuse to make it socially acceptable. And having your cock inside her pussy is definitely a good excuse to start touching her clit, while you are at it.

This is your opportunity to enjoy touching your lady, without embarrassing yourself and her, and make it extra pleasant for her too.

I think a lot of guys are simply embarrassed about touching their lady's private parts. And that's why they don't do it. It's a strong social inhibition that acts on a subconscious level. So, guys don't even think about it and aren't aware of it. And ladies have some social inhibitions too about letting guys touch their private parts. That's why the lady might not react well, if you do it too obviously and too directly.

But you can make it easy on yourself and the lady by taking her pussy from behind with your cock, so that you don't even see each other's faces. And when you reach for her clit, then neither you nor she can see it. This is almost like doing it in the dark. Which makes it a lot easier for you and the lady to overcome your social inhibitions, that stop you from fully enjoying your sex with each other.

Dan7373

05-20-18, 10:45

I found a good example, where the guy goes nice and slow on the plow with a hot lady:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/801/682/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=DoWkfaRFtJeR1NYk)16801682a.mp4

This is something every guy with a premature ejaculation problem needs to see. There is no way you are going to cum, when you are this slow with your dick inside the chick. It's only when you do the lady hard-and-fast, then you don't last.

And of course, it's not just about slowing down with the lady and doing it the same way, except more slowly. You need to be playful with your dick to fully enjoy it with your chick. Or else it becomes boring for both you and her.

I think the trick is to keep surprising the chick with your dick. Which you can easily do by going shallow on the lady several times and then suddenly going balls-deep on her. And you can do the same with your rhythm and speed. First, you set up an expectation of a certain type of penetration. And then you suddenly do the opposite with her. Which is a surprise for her.

And it's not just about banging the lady. It's also about stopping balls-deep inside her pussy and making her wonder when you are going to start banging her again. If you vary your timing on this enough to make it unpredictable for her, then this can also make it fun for both you and her.

Hard-and-fast is something you save for your last thing to do with your lady, after you've taken your time to enjoy it with her.

Dan7373

05-23-18, 16:14

I found a good example where the guy gives his lady lots of clitoral stimulation with a modified missionary ride:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/850/982/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=OWucRZ1LnPaj0tf4)16850982a.mp4

This guy basically took his lady's pussy with his cock in the missionary position. And then he moved himself up on her enough to press the shaft of his cock against the upper part of her pussy. Which is where her clitoris is. And in this position, he rubs her clit with the shaft of his cock, every time he moves his cock in and out of her pussy.

I've tried this kind of position with a Thai lady before. And she did orgasm with me. She actually orgasmed before I did. So, I gave her a rest and then banged her again for my cum with her.

I think this position can actually make you last longer with the lady. Because you end up banging the lady's pussy with short strokes, without fully going in and out of her. Your cock is bent inside her pussy, when you move yourself up on her like this. You don't want to slip out of her. So, you end staying deep inside her pussy and banging her with half-strokes. Which can make you last a lot longer with her, than you normally would.

I think this position is especially good to try with a hot lady, who gives you a ride but doesn't let you do much with her.

Such a lady wouldn't think twice about getting you to ride her in the missionary position. Because she doesn't need to do anything in this position. It's all up to you. She might just wait you out on her back and be done with you. It's like she never gets into it with you.

Guys usually complain about such ladies. But I think this is an opportunity to surprise the hot chick with your dick and ride her the way the guy in the video above does. Orgasming such a hot lady with your cock is something to remember her by.

This position even works for a guy whose cock is too big for the lady's pussy. I've had this experience with a Thai lady too. And basically I ended up pushing and pulling on her pussy, while rubbing the shaft of my cock on her clit. I wan't going in and out of her much, but I still managed to rub her clit with the shaft of my cock. And orgasm with me, she certainly did.

Dan7373

05-24-18, 14:32

I found a few more examples, where the guy fills a hot chick with his dick and then focuses on masturbating her clit with his hand, rather than truly and fully banging her pussy with his cock.

There is no way the guy is going to cum, when he just stays inside his lady's pussy with his cock and doesn't bang her much. And of course, you don't want to do this kind of thing all the time. But when you feel that you are coming close to orgasm, then this is the thing to do to make yourself last longer with your lady. You need to take a break and just stay still inside her pussy with your cock to prevent yourself from cumming prematurely with her.

But I found from my experience with ladies that just stopping during a good cocking and waiting for your orgasmic feelings to recede often doesn't work well for the lady. Because your lady isn't as close to orgasm as you are. She doesn't need to have a break at this point. In fact, she might be just starting to enjoy it with you from all that banging. But you suddenly stop her banging and her pleasure. So, the lady is disappointed and asks you "what's wrong?" This isn't an enjoyable experience for her.

And the way to get around this problem is to stop it only for yourself, but not for the lady. When you stop banging the chick with your dick, then you need to reach for her clit and finger it. This way you keep your lady entertained, even while you are giving yourself a break with her. And you don't need to bring her all the way to orgasm this way. You just need to wait until you aren't close to orgasm anymore, and then resume banging her.

You can last indefinitely with your lady this way, without being a jerk with her. Because you don't stop the lady's pleasure, just when it's starting. You keep her pleasure going with your finger on her clit, even while you are giving yourself a break.

The key thing to recognize here is that guys get more pleasure from banging the lady, while ladies get more pleasure from clit stimulation. If you are going to bang the lady all the time, non-stop, then you probably won't last with her. And the lady probably won't last for long with you either, if are good at fingering her clit and do it non-stop. But if you alternate between your pleasure and her pleasure and give yourself and her a break once in a while, then both of you can last for a long time with each other, for as long as you want.

I think this is what guys in the videos below basically do with their ladies. The guy is hardly moving at all inside his girl. But he is sure having a lot of fun with his finger on her clit. And the lady is in no mood to ask the guy why he stopped banging her. She is enjoying the guy's finger on her clit.

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/177/912/15177912a.mp4

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/015/407/752/15407752a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/017/242/16017242a.mp4

Dan7373

07-23-18, 18:30

One way to last longer with your lady is to help her relax her pussy with you.

Because tight pussy gives you too much stimulation. And too much stimulation is what makes you cum prematurely.

A lot of guys focus on themselves, when they want to last longer with their lady. They try to improve their endurance. But this is just one way of looking at it. Because you can also say that the problem isn't your lack of endurance. The problem is that the lady's pussy is too tight for you. Tight pussy gives you too much stimulation, and that's why you don't last.

If you can get your lady to relax her pussy with you, then you will get less stimulation during penetration. And that's why you will last longer with her, even with your normal endurance.

And the technique for getting your lady to relax her pussy with you is actually quite simple and easy.

You just need to penetrate your lady's pussy all the way to your balls and then wait for 5-10 minutes. And to make it entertaining for yourself and the lady, you can continue your foreplay with her. You can play around with her tits, suck her nipples, massage her body, and massage her clitoral area with your hand once in a while.

And the reason why this works for relaxing your lady's pussy is because her pussy is surrounded by a special type of muscle, called the smooth muscle. This type of muscle works automatically, without any conscious control. It basically relaxes slowly over time, when you stretch it and hold it stretched. And it relaxes only enough to accommodate whatever is stretching it. Which, in your case, is your cock.

This is why the woman's vaginal canal can stretch enough even to accommodate the birth of a baby. Which is a lot bigger than any man's cock. But after giving birth, the lady's pussy slowly contracts back to its minimum size.

The only thing about pussy relaxation is that it works very slowly. You can't hurry it up. And that's why you need to penetrate and wait 5-10 minutes, before you start riding your lady. It takes this long for her pussy to relax and become just the right size for your cock, without being too tight.

Some ladies might not be okay with you waiting with your cock inside their pussy this long. They might want you to ride them right away. But then you can try to get around this problem by getting the lady to ride you on top.

Because women are usually slower and more relaxed, when it comes to riding a guy. The lady might be slow enough with you that you will last for 5-10 minutes with her. And then her pussy will be relaxed enough that you can take over and ride her the way you want.

The main thing is to spend 5-10 minutes with your cock inside her pussy, without cumming with her. Because as long as your cock stays inside her pussy, then this will make her pussy relax and become just the right size for your cock. And an added benefit of doing it this way is that it's probably better for the lady, because it reduces friction for her.

When the lady is too tight for you, and you try your best to last longer with her, then this can lead to too much friction for her from your condom and some injuries for her. That's why I say that it's better to relax your lady's pussy, than to work on your endurance with her. It works better for both you and her.

This is definitely something to try, especially if you've already tried increasing your endurance, and it didn't work for you.

Chacal60

07-24-18, 03:07

Dude, agree this is one of the better positions. Ladies enjoy the face to face intimacy and the angle of penetration is more likely to stimulate her to orgasm. Side by side spooning with penetration of her vagina from behind is also a great technique.

Thai ladies always respond well to new positions and attention to their pleasure! They are so use to quickies or standard mish or doggy that you can hit the jackpot if you only take a little extra time to give her pleasure.

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/016/253/502/(m=lfJm4S0mdadg)(mh=hbj5v-eH_JBgEYX2)16253502a.mp4

A Thai massage lady showed this position to me. She got me to take her pussy this way. And like it a lot, I certainly did.

It's a very intimate experience, with a lot of body-to-body contact, just like a good massage should be. If you like body-to-body massage, then you will love this position with your massage lady. Because this is like continuing your body-to-body massage with her, except now you have your cock inside her pussy.

I like this position so much that I want to do this with other ladies too. But this position is hard to explain with words. What you really need is a clip, like the one above, to show your lady what you want with her.

Firebird

07-24-18, 13:30

Dan7373, you have made excellent observations on how to please a lady. When you make sure the girls are happy and "excited", they work twice as hard to please you. So Congratulations to ALL your recent reports!

Stay safe and Enjoy!!

Smoothy

07-24-18, 13:53

When the lady is too tight for you.I've never had that problem in my life. How about when the lady is too loose for me?

Dan7373

08-15-18, 16:42

I've never had that problem in my life. How about when the lady is too loose for me?This depends on both the size of the lady's pussy and the size of your cock. It's possible to have the opposite problem. But there is a good solution for this problem too.

The two video clips below show you how to do it. Basically, you need to take the lady's pussy with your cock in the normal missionary position first. Then you need to use your legs to bring her legs together, while you spread your legs over hers.

When she brings her legs close together, then this makes her pussy more tight for you. And you can even get the lady to cross her legs, so that her legs are really close to each other to make her pussy really tight for you. I've seen one lady cross her legs like that in a video. Here are the links to videos:

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/011/366/271/11366271a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/011/366/241/11366241a.mp4

Dan7373

08-16-18, 03:48

I found an amateur video, where the guy takes his lady in a special position that provides extra stimulation for the lady's clitoris. This lady is loud, and the video is grainy. But it shows you the basic technique how to make it pleasant for a lady with your dick.

I think this position is extra pleasant for the lady, because the guy moves up his body on her enough to rub her clit with the shaft of his cock. Here is the video link:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b6e1816e7697

Kurre

08-16-18, 08:35

HydMong

08-18-18, 14:27

This was my first angle in my sex life taught by an aunt.

She always ask me to do this when ever we used to meet later then she prefers other angles.

I found an amateur video, where the guy takes his lady in a special position that provides extra stimulation for the lady's clitoris. This lady is loud, and the video is grainy. But it shows you the basic technique how to make it pleasant for a lady with your dick.

I think this position is extra pleasant for the lady, because the guy moves up his body on her enough to rub her clit with the shaft of his cock. Here is the video link:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b6e1816e7697.

Dan7373

08-19-18, 18:17

I found another video where an older western guy takes a young Thai lady with his cock in the same orgasmic position.

This Thai lady actually crosses her legs with him. Which makes her pussy really tight for him.

He doesn't last long with her, probably because she is so tight. But he lasts long enough to show you how to do it. He even shows you how to get into this sex-position starting at the 1:45 minute in the video.

Here is the video link:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b2b2ec9ddd80

Dan7373

09-03-18, 11:51

I found an interesting video titled, "What do sex workers want?" In this video, a sex worker explains why women want to do it and how various laws against them and their clients harm them.

This video is a bit off the topic for this discussion thread. But it's relevant for this whole website and forum. Because guys, who pay for sex, are often accused of doing something wrong, not by sex workers, but by people who claim to be speaking for them.

You don't often hear what the sex workers have to say for themselves and how they see it from their point of view. And that's why politicians and other busybodies often feel free to throw accusations around. It's easy to accuse people who are silent and probably won't reply. Because this is like lynching, where the accusers can do whatever they want.

I think this video is one of those replies from sex-workers that everybody needs to watch and hear. Here is the video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJRBx0JjM_M

Dan7373

09-03-18, 16:08

I found an interesting video, where the lady rides her guy's cock in a special way. It's a way that makes it extra pleasant for her.

This lady actually does it the same way that sex-therapists advise for cocky guys to use, when they want to please their lady with their cock.

It's basically moving your cock around, rather than just pound. This is what gives your lady the best sensation, rather than straight in and out penetration. Because only the upper third of your lady's vagina and pussy is sensitive to the touch. Deeper inside, not so much. Just going in out of the lady's pussy doesn't provide much stimulation for her. She gets far more and better simulation, when you use your cock to move her pussy around and stretch it one way or the other.

That's the way this lady in the video rides her guy's cock. And you can hear from the sounds she makes that she is really enjoying too.

I think you can adapt her technique to ride this way any lady with your dick. You can do it this way in doggy, in missionary, and in many other positions where you are on top of the girl and you have control. Move her pussy around, rather than just pound.

I've tried doing this with a lady I liked. And I found an added benefit of doing it this way. I lasted longer with her, without cumming prematurely with her.

This technique with your dick provides more stimulation for your lady, than for you. That's why you can last longer with her when you do it this way. You can probably orgasm your chick with your dick this way and still be in good shape to ride her some more afterwards. And second time around, you can just pound for a quick finish with her.

Going straight in and out is the most pleasant way to do it for a guy. But you often don't last for long, when you do it this way. Which is disappointing. You normally want to get to know the hot chick with your dick for a good 20 minutes or more, before you finish with her.

It's not just about the riding. It's also about enjoying your intimacy with her through a lot of body-to-body contact with her. This is the time to grab your lady's nice ass with your hands and enjoy touching her sexy ass-cheeks. And this is the time to suck on her tits, or just grab her tits and hold on during your long fuck-a-thon.

Spanking your lady's ass-cheeks with your hips in a hard-and-fast doggy ride might be something to do. But you don't truly and fully get to have your sexy lady, until you grind your hips on her sexy ass-cheeks, with your hard cock balls-deep inside her pussy. You need that deep penetration with her and a lot of hips on ass contact with her to feel full intimacy with her.

I think this lady actually orgasms with her guy in the video. And it doesn't take her long to achieve her orgasm. The way she does it really is an effective technique for a guy to please his lady with his dick. Here is the video:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph55bb70d54ea7d

Dan7373

09-20-18, 11:05

Porn-studs aren't famous for using natural means to keep their erection going. But I've recently seen a porn-scene, where the guy did exactly that.

This guy was about to penetrate his lady from behind in doggy. The camera focused on the lady's pussy and ass. And the guy gave her some quick foreplay. He kissed her nice ass all over the place and slapped her ass-cheeks with his hand.

But while he was doing this, I've noticed that out of focus, down below, this guy reached for his cock with his other hand and quickly masturbated it for 10-15 seconds, before he went on to penetrate the lady.

Apparently, this guy did it make himself extra hard for the penetration, so that he could do it quickly and efficiently. Because he already had an erection.

You don't often see this kind of thing in porn, because guys and porn-makers try to hide it from you. But my impression is that this is something porn-guys commonly do. Because in some porn-scenes, where 5 or 6 guys do it with one lady, it becomes hard for film-makers to hide what these guys do. In this type of scene, you often see guys stroking themselves to maintain their erections and to make themselves harder, when it's their turn to penetrate the lady.

And the funny thing about porn is that guys hide their stroking only when they do it to maintain their erection or to make themselves harder for the penetration. But they openly show it to you at the end, when the guy strokes himself to orgasm and cums on the lady's face.

Porn-studs are professionals, who do it for a living. They are very experienced, and they know what they are doing. When you see porn-studs do something, then you can be sure that it works.

Stroking yourself in presence of your lady is a big taboo guys. It's such a big taboo, that even sex-advice articles in the media don't mention this as a way to get and keep your erection going with your lady.

But virtually all guys run into erection problems at one time or another, when they are with a lady. And there is no good reason for this taboo. Why is it okay to make yourself harder with Viagra, but not with your hand? This taboo doesn't make sense to me at all, when you are there to nail the girl.

A lot of P4P ladies nowadays offer you 2 or more cumshots with them. And this is where this technique for maintaining your dick can be especially effective and useful.

Perhaps you don't need to stroke yourself for your first ride and your first cumshot with the lady. But when it comes to your second ride with the lady for your second cumshot with her, then things can get a little dicey.

You can't do it right away for your second time. Because you are too sensitive during your refractory period. You need to wait for at least a minute or two. But you can lose your erection, while you are waiting.

Porn-studs have a solution for this problem. Because they also wait, before they penetrate, during a gang-bang scene. This is where you see guys stroke themselves more than in any other scene. It's an effective technique for maintaining your dick.

I can say from my own experience that it's a lot easier to maintain your erection, while you are waiting for your second ride with the lady, than to let it go down and then try to resurrect it.

And the big advantage of stroking yourself, while you are waiting for your second ride with the lady, is that you don't overstimulate yourself. You do it just enough to maintain your erection. You also know right away when you stop being too sensitive, and you are ready to ride the lady for your second time.

Many P4P ladies are now putting guys into a situation, where they need to perform like porn-studs. Of course, this isn't something to complain about. This is an excellent development. But you need to up your game with these ladies to take full advantage of their 2 cumshot offers.

It's like you need to break some masturbation taboos here and do what the porn-studs do.

Syzygies

09-23-18, 08:55

Stroking yourself in presence of your lady is a big taboo guys. It's such a big taboo, that even sex-advice articles in the media don't mention this as a way to get and keep your erection going with your lady.
What taboo? You must be too shy. I would have thought this was common place. Enlightened girls are not scared to diddle their clit in front of a guy either. I never heard any adverse comments about it.

I would expect any girl to know that a guy's erection is not automatic. If she touches his dick nicely or gives him a nice lick or suck, I expect it probably goes up, unless her technique is bad and painful. Very nice tongue kissing also makes me hard.

However if none of these things happen, you are left with rubbing your cock yourself to get the blood flow going and get it hard enough for penetration or for getting a condom on. Very common for me to be rubbing cock with left hand while right hand is touching her tits or pussy, when she is just lying there a bit lazy. In addition I often show her to tickle my balls, concurrently. I generally don't like hand jobs from girls as most don't do it well enough to be really good, a very light touch is okay To get a hard on going though.

DATY usually gives me a semi hard on but not full. I have done extended DATY thousands of times, so can depend on just how beautiful the pussy is, how excited I am.

Most of us have seen hundreds of naked girls as a minimum, so just her getting naked is not enough to cause natural erections for me. With very restrictive girls, I might not even get a hard on at all, or just a weak one, not adequate.

Dan7373

09-26-18, 16:15

What taboo? You must be too shy. I would have thought this was common place. ...Guys masturbating themselves is a taboo in porn. Because this is something guys either hide or avoid doing, while on camera. The only exception is at the end of the scene, when the guy sometimes strokes himself to cum on the lady's face.

Perhaps this taboo is about the guy having erection difficulties. Because porn films almost never show you the guy doing it to get an erection going or to make his erection harder, just before he penetrates the lady.

I don't think anybody knows how much of a taboo this is for ordinary guys. Because ordinary people do it in private.

But I would be surprised if ordinary guys are more open and bold about not having a good enough erection for their lady, than even porn-guys, who do it all the time in public.

Perhaps the taboo isn't so much about masturbation, as it is about not having a good enough erection. This is the reason why a lot of guys might not want to do it in front of their lady. It's like this reflects badly on their manhood.

But I think such a mindset is counterproductive. Because basically you avoid doing the most effective thing that might make it better for you.

I can't speak for other guys, but I can say for myself that stroking my cock in front of my lady was a difficult thing to do at first. Because it's something I've never done in front of any lady before. It was almost like being a virgin and feeling anxious about it, when I tried to do it for the first time in front of my lady.

This kind of thing takes some getting used to, not just for the lady, but also for the guy.

Dan7373

09-26-18, 16:18

I found a good example, where the guy masturbates his lady's pussy to arouse her and to get her into the mood with him.

I think this is a good technique, because he doesn't just rub her pussy with his hand. He hugs her, holds her close to him, kisses her, pinches her nipple, and he varies how he massages her pussy with his hand. He does it for a reasonable period of time. And he has a comprehensive approach with her. He does everything with her at the same time.

It's like he doesn't just focus on some part of her. He treats her as a whole woman and goes after all of her womanly charms at the same time.

I had to make several clips out of it. Because he does it for a couple of minutes, but the longest clip I can make at pornhub.com is 10 seconds.

Here are the clips:

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/765/081/18765081a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/765/401/18765401a.mp4

https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/765/651/18765651a.mp4

https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/765/861/18765861a.mp4

The link below is the whole video from which I've made the above clips:

https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b97e34e847f6

Some guys complain about their P4P lady faking it and not being fully into it with them. But I think in most such cases, the problem is poor foreplay for the lady.

It's like you need to massage your lady's pussy, play with her nipple, and kiss her on the cheek, before you take her with you dick.

Syzygies

10-24-18, 13:36

I don't think anybody knows how much of a taboo this is for ordinary guys. Because ordinary people do it in private.

But I would be surprised if ordinary guys are more open and bold about not having a good enough erection for their lady, than even porn-guys, who do it all the time in public.

Perhaps the taboo isn't so much about masturbation, as it is about not having a good enough erection. This is the reason why a lot of guys might not want to do it in front of their lady. It's like this reflects badly on their manhood.You try to make conclusions from porn? Crazy! Porn star guys have special "get it up" girls who are expert in BBBJ to get them up for the scene.

You just think too much on this issue. How would you have any clue what guys other than yourself might want to do? Gross assumptions. There is no taboo for me about a lady playing with herself while I am watching. I encourage that.

Now if the dick is not yet hard enough and the lady is doing nothing adequate about it, a bit of self massage of the cock can help while fingering her pussy. Taboo? Rubbish. Normally good tongue kissing gets me up, but what if that is not present, or girl is dick scared, stiff legged, and dick started to droop again? What if the girl's hand on your dick is painful? You have to do it yourself. What if she cannot do a good blow job or just did not do it. I generally dislike a girl to give me a HJ because it simply is not the right feel, so does not help me. She is better off to tickle my balls if she can do that without fingernails. I think less than 10% of girls do a good skilled HJ.

The dick has already been seen to be not totally hard, so milk spilt already so to speak, so any type of assistance that works is good. BBFS is much easier because dick does not need to be totally hard. It can grow inside the right pussy. If girl is skilled at BJ, I certainly don't need to massage the dick, but if she isn't, I can do better with no shyness.

If I massaged my open dick in front of a girl, I was not that shy or self conscious as to be ashamed by it, I never had any comments about it, other than some stupid girls asked why it wasn't that hard. Mostly that would be the girl's fault, as she did nothing to help or did something to spoil it, or dick just could not go in due to sponge obstruction, etc.

The need to wank up the dick is a reflection on the girl being not that good, in most cases, or just difficult in some way. Guys dose themselves up on Vitamin V as another remedy to difficult girls or girls that are not great. In nature, non assisted, the dick can drop quickly in adversity. The other point is guys are very different. I have a rather insensitive dick. It is much harder for me to cum than average. Others are so sensitive they can pop on the slightest touch by a girl. Then there are more normal guys in between.

When you have a really great receptive horny girl, with wonderful pussy, and doing BBFS, all these problems tend to go away, Vitamin V is not needed, the dick does its thing automatically, unless you are really fucked out.

Dan7373

02-10-19, 14:42

One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.

This is something I've done with a lady before, but not for long. The lady thought something was wrong. So, I started banging her to put her fears to rest.

But I've recently come across and article which describes this kind of practice and says that some women actually enjoy doing this with a guy:

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/my-college-girlfriend-thought-the-mormon-dick-soak-would-preserve-her-virginity

I think it can be very enjoyable for a guy to penetrate a hot lady with his cock and enjoy his intimacy with her for a while, without banging her. This can also be a way to try out many different sex positions, without cumming and cutting it short. And you don't need to be strict about it. You can bang the lady to orgasm at the end.

I've been a little shy to give this kind of thing a try, after my Thai lady thought that this was strange. But apparently, this is a legitimate sex-practice that some people know about and do.

Perhaps you just need to talk your lady through it and assure her that nothing is wrong, you just want to keep your big dong inside her pussy for a while.

Dan7373

02-10-19, 15:05

Body-to-body massage in Thailand is one of the most enjoyable experiences you can have with a lady. And it's something you can continue to do, even after you take the chick with your dick. Here are a couple of examples:

https://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2017/11/18/300/18673675.gif

https://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2018/03/30/300/19304850.gif

When you and the lady don't yet know each other well, then you often end up holding back from her and having sex with her like strangers do in porn.

In porn, the guy and the lady often avoid intimate body-to-body contact with each other and have only genital contact for their intercourse, as shown at the link below:
https://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2016/05/04/300/15620768.gif

But I think this kind of thing can be disappointing, especially after you've had an intimate body-to-body massage from the lady. After such a massage, it's only natural to continue the same kind of contact with her, while you are banging each other.

HappyShiva

02-10-19, 15:42

One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.
I do agree and the sex lasts longer. Especially, when a woman is riding you. Just let her sit on your dick for few minutes without moving. After few minutes, start moving slowly and control your breathing. The breathing is directly connected to your heart beats and heartbeats connected to your stimulation. Breathe deeply and gradually.

Dan7373

02-11-19, 23:26

.... Just let her sit on your dick for few minutes without moving. After few minutes, start moving slowly and control your breathing. The breathing is directly connected to your heart beats and heartbeats connected to your stimulation. Breathe deeply and gradually.I agree about having the woman on top. The woman usually has her own rhythm and her own way of doing it that's different from yours. And this in itself makes you last longer with her.

I also found that just laying back and having the lady do all the work makes it easier to control your feelings with your attention and your mind. You can use your mind to stop yourself from coming close to orgasm. You just need to keep thinking, "No, I'm not cumming. I'm going to last for a long time with her. "

I once used this technique to totally exhaust a lady, who was giving me a hand-job. I just lay back an focused my attention on controlling my feeling and lasting for a long time with her. She couldn't make me cum, no matter what she did, for close to 40 minutes. At the end, I stopped controlling my feelings. And she finally managed to make me cum to her great relief.

I was able to control my feelings, because I didn't have anything else to do. She was doing all the work.

But controlling your feelings is a lot harder to do, when you are banging the lady. Because this is multi-tasking. And multi-tasking is switching your attention between two or more tasks. Which means that some of the time you aren't paying attention to controlling your feelings. You are focused on banging her. And in these moments of inattention, you can lose your control and go beyond the point of no return.

I suppose, breathing and focusing on that is also a way to control your feeling of pleasure and stop yourself from cumming prematurely. For myself I can say that I've learned to be aware of my feeling of pleasure directly and have control over it with my mind, just by thinking about it.

But I can do this only when I lay back and let the lady do all the work. I don't have any such mind control, when I'm banging the girl. She is the one who needs to be banging me.

Dan7373

06-01-19, 16:17

I found from my experience that tit-sucking works best for ladies, when you play her clit, while you are sucking her tit. The link below shows an example:

https://www.porntrex.com/get_file/0/7d32268cb385d93ad1db8181ede60b1d8aa1bc785f/741000/741599/screenshots/3.jpg/

Some ladies have such sensitive nipples and tits that they don't like any tit-sucking at all. I've met such a girl. But when I masturbated her clit, while sucking her tit, then she really liked it, and she let me suck her tits as much as I wanted.

H Pilot

01-04-20, 09:57

Hey.

I need to get some generic Cialis and Viagra on my trip to BKK at the end of the month.

Appreciate some current advise on a trustworthy pharmacy on Sukhumvit that sells real stuff and not fake stuff as on the street.

Thanks.

Metso

01-04-20, 10:56

Try the one directly opposite to Nana, they have everything.

Hey.

I need to get some generic Cialis and Viagra on my trip to BKK at the end of the month.

Appreciate some current advise on a trustworthy pharmacy on Sukhumvit that sells real stuff and not fake stuff as on the street.

Thanks.

H Pilot

01-07-20, 06:16

Thanks.

And they sell that without a need for a prescription?

Try the one directly opposite to Nana, they have everything.

Syzygies

01-30-20, 01:10

Some ladies have such sensitive nipples and tits that they don't like any tit-sucking at all. I've met such a girl. But when I masturbated her clit, while sucking her tit, then she really liked it, and she let me suck her tits as much as I wanted.I also met a Czech hooker with very large tits, F cup. She normally did not allow guys to mess with her sensitive nipples. DATY failed to make her cum, and she admitted to never cum from DATY. When she wanted to cum, she had me very gently lick her nipples (not suck) while she diddled her click (only she knows exactly how to do it perfect). In general, a girl will mostly know how to diddle herself best, and therefore not always appreciate being diddled unless the technique is near perfect. I don't normally like to receive a hand job myself, because such a high percentage are not right for me.

Girls mostly cum from DATY, and mostly they can't do it for themselves of course. However there are exceptions.

Naked Desires3

01-30-20, 04:52

Excellent advice! Thanks bro Dan7373.

One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.

This is something I've done with a lady before, but not for long. The lady thought something was wrong. So, I started banging her to put her fears to rest.

But I've recently come across and article which describes this kind of practice and says that some women actually enjoy doing this with a guy:

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/my-college-girlfriend-thought-the-mormon-dick-soak-would-preserve-her-virginity

I think it can be very enjoyable for a guy to penetrate a hot lady with his cock and enjoy his intimacy with her for a while, without banging her. This can also be a way to try out many different sex positions, without cumming and cutting it short. And you don't need to be strict about it. You can bang the lady to orgasm at the end.

Dan7373

11-18-20, 21:16

Excellent advice! Thanks bro Dan7373.I've had a chance to try this soaking my dick inside the chick with several ladies now. And now I understand why this kind of stuff is also called 'Dock and Talk' in the article below.

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/mormon-soak-soaking-derfing-sex-virginity

When you enter the chick and just stay inside her with your dick, then it usually doesn't take long for her to start asking you why aren't you banging her? So, I try to explain that I like being inside her, and I want to stay like this for a long time with her. I tell her that I can't last for long, when I bang a lady with my big dong. We end up talking about stuff to pass the time. And I move my cock inside her pussy once in a while to make it pleasant for myself and to make sure I have full erection with her.

But I found from my experience that it's best to be on top of your lady in a decisive kind of way, when you want to dock and talk with her. The prone bone position works pretty good, and so does the missionary. Because when your weight isn't on top of the lady, and she is a baddie, then she might quickly bang you to orgasm with her own hips.

This has happened to me the first couple of times I've tried it. And it wasn't because the lady didn't agree. She just said that this was too hot for her, and she went on a fucking spree. I only managed to say, "Please! Please! Not so fast! I can't last. " But the lady didn't stop, and she made me pop. I suppose this was okay. I enjoyed doing it with her. But I didn't last nearly as long with her as I wanted.

So, I've learned my lesson and next time I put my weight on the lady's ass in the doggy position as soon as I entered her pussy. She slid forward into a face-down prone position with me. I was totally on top with her, with my cock balls-deep inside her pussy. Her legs were straight out, and she had no leverage with me. So, she couldn't bang me much from below, when I put my weight on her nice ass. She tried to do it anyway. But she only succeeded in making it pleasant for me, without making me cum.

I've had ladies who wanted to turn on the TV and watch, during my hardly any banging debauch. And I was okay with that, as long as I got to stay on top of her sexy butt, with my cock balls deep inside her pussy. But I haven't yet had any lady yell at me and tell me to get off. Because without much porking, there isn't much working. It's not like I'm banging the lady raw. She has it easy with me. I just end up stretching her pussy a lot with my cock. Because I don't just stay still inside her. I keep moving it from side to side and up and down, without much in and out motion. I just stay balls-deep inside her and keep stretching her, while holding her tits or something like that. Which is a very intimate experience to have with a lady you like.

Perhaps this kind of thing is more enjoyable for me, than it would be for other guys. Because one big reason why I can't last, when I do a lady hard and fast is because all the ladies are too tight for me. My cock is big and wide, which makes all the ladies too tight during my ride. I haven't yet met a lady who was too loose for me, or even just right. All the ladies I've done with before have been too tight during my ride.

I suppose having a big cock is also a kind of limitation that you need to adjust to. I found my way to enjoy it anyway. And this might be the thing for you to do too, if you can't last for long with your ladies too. The lady's tightness makes it enjoyable for you, even when you move only a little inside her. And you get to last with her for a long time too.

I'd say that both the prone position and the missionary position have their own advantages for this kind of thing. In the prone position, you get to feel the lady's ass on your hips, and you can grope and play around with her tits and nipples. But you usually can't suck on the lady's nipples in the prone position, unless she has long, saggy tits that you can slide from under her and suck on her. Some white and black women have this kind of tits. And you can suck them even in the prone for them position. But a Thai lady you need to take in the missionary position, if you want to suck on her tits. Almost no Thai ladies have tits long and saggy enough to let you suck them from behind.