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Zukkpo3
09-30-13, 23:01
Can anyone of you gentlemen out there help me out with this one, please?


Thanks a lot Aussiegaijin, that makes sense.

But how do you know if these girls will do "vaginal fuck"? Or is that something they all do without the option extra cost?

Regards ZukkpoRegards Zukkpo

AussieGaigin
10-02-13, 08:26
This would be something you probably have to negotiate with the girl at the time.

Nino
10-02-13, 08:35
Thanks a lot Aussiegaijin, that makes sense.

But how do you know if these girls will do "vaginal fuck"? Or is that something they all do without the option extra cost?

Regards ZukkpoSince "VF" is illegal, that is not something you can expect any company to advertise. You'll have to ask the girl if she offers "homban", perhaps for an extra tip. Note however, that "AF" is often a nod-and-wink code for "VF". It depends.

TheWumpus
10-03-13, 14:16
When I passed Landmark, I found what I was looking for! At the door the tout quoted me two hours for 75, 000. I said that was out of my budget. He bumped it down to 55, 000. I winced and said I only brought 50,000 (which was true). He seemed a little put off, but he said that was fine and took me in. This was 1:00 pm on a Sunday and they weren't busy.

I was led to a waiting area with a couple of leather couches and given a glass of cold oolong tea. The guy came in holding one picture. He asked for the cash, I asked to see the photo first. He showed me only one girl but she seemed to be exactly what I was looking for. I asked if I could bareback her and he said that none of the girls there did that with foreigners. I asked how much time my 50K bought me and he said 100 minutes. I readily dished out the cash, and I was left waiting for about five minutes.

When I was called and lead to the stairs the girl was waiting for me in a camisole-type dress. She took my hand and led me up four flights of stairs. She was definitely early twenties and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen in this biz, so no complaints there.

The room was surprisingly spacious. There was a bed with a small table next to it, and a tiled bathing area with a shower and tub. The bath was already filling. The rumored inflatable mattress was up against the wall.

She asked me to sit down on the bed and she disrobed me completely without my lifting a finger. Talk about service! She then disrobed herself and promptly got to work licking my nipples. When she confirmed junior was hard, she sat next to me stroking him while she offered me her lips. I enjoyed kissing her and roaming my hands all over her body until she started to give me one of the best BBBJs I've ever had. I never knew such a soft touch could be so stimulating.

She asked me to lay back and then went down on me in earnest, turning around halfway through to 69. Having enjoyed my DATY, she asked me if I always covered up. I asked if I had to, and she said no and went right to work cowgirl style.

I think she thought I was big because she only went down halfway, but she was so tight and nice that I came within only a few minutes! I came inside her, and after I said I came she looked surprised. I didn't know if I had made a faux pa or whether it was because I came so quickly. I asked if it was OK, and she said yes and went to wash herself then came back to the bed.

She sat down pressed extremely close to me and asked what I would like to drink. She phoned in the order and we started our chat. After 10-15 minutes of chatting over drinks she asked if I would like a bath.

She then called me over to the shower and made me sit on the seat with the opening in the middle for your junk. She proceeded to wash me all over with lots of body-to-body contact, then we went in the tub for a soak and more talk. When we got out, I said I would like to try the mat. She thought we would be pressed for time, but got it out and prepared it anyway.

She made me lie face down on the mat and dripped lube all over me. She then played slip and slide messaging every part of my body with every part of hers. It felt amazing. This is what soapland is all about! She had me roll over and did the same to the front and mounted me again.

Since I had already shot one, I was able to enjoy myself a lot longer. I made her go progressively deeper then we flipped to mish where I was able to bury myself to the hilt. Sex on the slip and slide mat is incredible, and the girl did a great job of acting passionate. Expressively deep kisses and sounds. When I messaged her clit while I slid in and out of her she seemed to genuinely respond.

This time I asked if it was OK to come inside her and she said yes, so I totally went for it deep as I could go. We lay there for a few minutes, then she got up to wash herself again and had me lie down on the mat for another cleaning, then another soak in the tub, and then yet another drink on the bed before she had me put my clothes back on and ushered me to the door.

Oh, before I left she asked me to exchange keitai email addresses. Apparently she sends pictures of herself to customers sometimes. I look forward to it!

On the first floor I was ushered into a different waiting area, given a glass of tea, and asked how my experience was and whether I would like a ride to the station. I said yes, and when another customer finished, we were driven together to JR Uguisudani Station.

Cougar Cookie
10-04-13, 02:26
When I passed Landmark, I found what I was looking for! At the door the tout quoted me two hours for 75, 000. I said that was out of my budget. He bumped it down to 55, 000. I winced and said I only brought 50, 000 (which was true). He seemed a little put off, but he said that was fine and took me in. This was 1:00 pm on a Sunday and they weren't busy.

I was led to a waiting area with a couple of leather couches and given a glass of cold oolong tea. The guy came in holding one picture. He asked for the cash, I asked to see the photo first. He showed me only one girl but she seemed to be exactly what I was looking for. I asked if I could bareback her and he said that none of the girls there did that with foreigners. I asked how much time my 50K bought me and he said 100 minutes. I readily dished out the cash, and I was left waiting for about five minutes.

When I was called and lead to the stairs the girl was waiting for me in a camisole-type dress. She took my hand and led me up four flights of stairs. She was definitely early twenties and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen in this biz, so no complaints there.

The room was surprisingly spacious. There was a bed with a small table next to it, and a tiled bathing area with a shower and tub. The bath was already filling. The rumored inflatable mattress was up against the wall.

She asked me to sit down on the bed and she disrobed me completely without my lifting a finger. Talk about service! She then disrobed herself and promptly got to work licking my nipples. When she confirmed junior was hard, she sat next to me stroking him while she offered me her lips. I enjoyed kissing her and roaming my hands all over her body until she started to give me one of the best BBBJs I've ever had. I never knew such a soft touch could be so stimulating.

She asked me to lay back and then went down on me in earnest, turning around halfway through to 69. Having enjoyed my DATY, she asked me if I always covered up. I asked if I had to, and she said no and went right to work cowgirl style.

I think she thought I was big because she only went down halfway, but she was so tight and nice that I came within only a few minutes! I came inside her, and after I said I came she looked surprised. I didn't know if I had made a faux pa or whether it was because I came so quickly. I asked if it was OK, and she said yes and went to wash herself then came back to the bed.

She sat down pressed extremely close to me and asked what I would like to drink. She phoned in the order and we started our chat. After 10-15 minutes of chatting over drinks she asked if I would like a bath.

She then called me over to the shower and made me sit on the seat with the opening in the middle for your junk. She proceeded to wash me all over with lots of body-to-body contact, then we went in the tub for a soak and more talk. When we got out, I said I would like to try the mat. She thought we would be pressed for time, but got it out and prepared it anyway.

She made me lie face down on the mat and dripped lube all over me. She then played slip and slide messaging every part of my body with every part of hers. It felt amazing. This is what soapland is all about! She had me roll over and did the same to the front and mounted me again.

Since I had already shot one, I was able to enjoy myself a lot longer. I made her go progressively deeper then we flipped to mish where I was able to bury myself to the hilt. Sex on the slip and slide mat is incredible, and the girl did a great job of acting passionate. Expressively deep kisses and sounds. When I messaged her clit while I slid in and out of her she seemed to genuinely respond.

This time I asked if it was OK to come inside her and she said yes, so I totally went for it deep as I could go. We lay there for a few minutes, then she got up to wash herself again and had me lie down on the mat for another cleaning, then another soak in the tub, and then yet another drink on the bed before she had me put my clothes back on and ushered me to the door.

Oh, before I left she asked me to exchange keitai email addresses. Apparently she sends pictures of herself to customers sometimes. I look forward to it!

On the first floor I was ushered into a different waiting area, given a glass of tea, and asked how my experience was and whether I would like a ride to the station. I said yes, and when another customer finished, we were driven together to JR Uguisudani Station.What a lovely Sunday. Beats going to church.

Night Cat
10-25-13, 02:35
(this is an archive of a web page describing adult services in japan. it appeared on a site called "ohayo sanspo, sankei sports newspaper" which is apparently no longer online. the information is several years old and may be out of date.)

january 11, 2001 0:00 update

japanese fuzoku genre list

sopu rando

"soap land." special place where you can take a bath with a female masseuse and get a sexual massage in the bathtub, on the mat etc. at the end, they offer a special service that you get at massage parlors abroad. the prices vary. basically you pay 10,000yen (for 100min.) for entrance and 20,000yen for the service (30,000yen in total, they say "sogaku 30,000yen.")

kokyuten (expensive places) costs more than 50,000yen in total. cheap places sometimes cost 20000yen for everything. the most expensive ones are around 100,000yen.

ekimae sopu is literally located "around train stations." the price starts from 10,000yen to at most 25,000yen (for everything.) however, most women there are reported to be relatively older. the service is not as explicit as regular sopu rando. they get you off with lotion at the end.

herusu

"health massage." two major fuzoku genres fall into this category. "fasshon herusu (fashion health)" and "seikan herusu (seikan health.)" fasshon herusu is legal. seikan herusu is not, though the service is almost the same as fasshon herusu. the price is 6,000yen (30min.) or more.

saron

=pinku saron; pinsaro. they take you to an empty booth and give you a service with hands and mouths. the cheapest one would be around 2,000yen.

seikan herusu

one of the two major kinds of herusu. the price is 6,000yen (30min.) or more.

imekura

"image club." you are supposed to play a role in a certain story they offer to get sexual pleasure. just like seikan, this is supposed to be legal. the price is around or more than 12,000yen for 40minute-service.

deriheru

"delivery health." they "deliver" women to your place. they basically give you a blowjob or a hand job. the price is 12,000yen (40min.) or more.

esute

the name came from "aesthetic salon." this kind place is only for men and they give you a sexual massage including a regular massage. they give you a hand job at the end. =seikan esute, kankoku esute (see below), kankoku-shiki esute (see below), tai-shiki (thai), chugoku-shiki (chinese), taiwan-shiki (taiwanese), singaporu-shiki (singaporean), kankoku-shiki nihonjin hitozuma (korean style massage by japanese housewives), anda hea katto senmon-ten (shaving service), these all fall into this category. the price is 10,000yen (60min.) or more.

kankoku esute

"korean aesthetic salon." they basically give you a regular massage and then a handjob. 10000yen for 60minute-service is industrial standard.

kankoku-shiki esute

"korean style aesthetic salon." this is very different from kankoku esute though the name sounds similar. the masseuses are basically naked during the service. they give you a sensual massage using lotion: paizuri, kemeko zuri etc. they give you a regular massage for 10,000yen just like kankoku esute, and you add another 5,000yen for extra services.

sm kurabu

"s&m club." recently "sofuto sm (soft s&m)" has been very popular. the price range is very wide. usually it's s (90min.): 25,000yen or more / m (60min.): 15,000yen or more.

jukujo fuzoku

fuzoku places that have only or at least many middle-aged women. there are many jukujo seikans. it's popular because they tend to let you get honban (actual sex) when they get excited. the price is 6,000yen (30min.) or more.

hitozuma fuzoku

hitozuma means a married woman. same as jukujo fuzoku, if you're lucky, you can get honban.

ura fuzoku

"underground adult services." sometimes it's called "indies fuzoku." anything illegal falls into this category such as: choinoma, hitozuma-senmon hotetoru, deto kurabu, bideo kanshokai, otonano pati etc.

deto kurabu

"date club." this does not exist any more. this kind of club usually had a big apartment room in which they kept high school girls to hook up their customers with them.

hotetoru

a kind of escort service. they send prostitutes to your hotel room. about 25,000yen for 60 minutes.

kyabakura

"cabaret club." this kind of place came into existence around 1983. you are supposed to drink and flirt with women who work there, which is what you pay for.

there are a few extra services are available: "dohan" and "afuta." dohan is to take a woman out before they go to work. "afuta" is to take your favorite woman out after you had fun at the club. the price is 5,000yen (60min.) or more.

sekushi pabu

"sexy pub." a certain kind of kyabakura where you are allowed to "touch" them.

some places have "table dance time," "kiss time" and "hug time," during which you can do certain kind of things. the price is 8,000yen (60min.) or more.

"nuki kyaba" "nuki pabu" is the place, which offer handjob service. they do not exist any more. the price is 10,000yen (60min.) or more.

ranjeri pabu

"lingerie pub."a kind of kyabakura where all the girls are wearing lingerie only. the price is 8,000yen (60min.) or more.

momi pabu

another kind of kyabakura. at some point of a night they turn off the light and you can touch them. the price is 8,000yen (60min.) or more.

kyaba heru

they put kyabakura and herusu together. you can find your favorite while you are drinking with girls then take one of them to a room and she gives you a blowjob.

danjo kosai kurabu

another kind of deto kurabu which have mainly college girls, businesswomen and married women to hook you up with.

terekura

"telephone club." you go to this club and get phone calls from girls who are looking for a "temporary" boyfriend. the price is 3,000yen (120min.) or more.

nozoki beya

"peeping room." strippers dance on the small stage surrounded by small rooms in which you sit down, watch and masturbate. if you tip them enough, they put their hands into the little window to give you a handjob. the price is 2,000yen (15min.) or more.

nopan kissa

a special kind of cafe where all the waitresses are almost naked. you are supposed to choose one and she takes you to a small room to give you a handjob or a blowjob. the price is 3,000yen (30min.) or more.

nopan shabushabu

a kind of nopan kissa where you can eat shabushabu.

urisen

some kind of club that hooks you up with men. some places send you male prostitutes.

onani fuzoku

the place where you masturbate and have some women to watch you to excite yourself more. the price is 8,000yen (30min.) or more.

koshitsu bideo

they have a number of small rooms with porn videos so that you can watch porn and masturbate. the price is 2,000yen or more.

burusera shoppu

shops for schoolgirl fetish people. they buy real uniforms from schoolgirls and sell them with pictures of the original owners. not only uniforms but do they sell [CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109), used tampons etc.

Night Cat
10-25-13, 02:38
(this is an archive of a web page defining terms used in adult services in japan. it appeared on a site called "ohayo sanspo, sankei sports newspaper" which is apparently no longer online. the information is several years old and may be out of date.)

japanese fuzoku technical terms

on this page we introduce more terms regarding the service offered at many fuzoku places. this dictionary will help you when you go into any fuzoku place.

anaru zeme [a-na'-ru ze-me]

1) to stimulate the anal area by touching, licking in and around the anus. at adult service places, people usually use a lotion and a fingertip. "zeme" "seme" mean "attack(s.)"
2) to abuse the anal area in the s&m play. this includes enema, cold water, milk and sometimes live loaches etc. there is a wide range of appliances for personal preferences: anal beads, anal vibrator etc.

anusu name [a-nu'-su' na-me]

to lick anus. this service became available in the 1980s.

chinguri gaeshi [chin'-gu-ri ga'-e-shi]

to give you a head with your body held up just like in a wrestling match.

dipu kisu [di:-pu' ki'-su]

"deep kiss."

ferachio [fe-ra'-chi-o]

"fellatio."

ganki [ga'n-ki]

the service that a masseuse rides on your face and press down her pussy. one of the latest popular services in 2000.

gansha [gan-sha']

to cum on your partner's face. =bukkake. to cum on your own face by accident is called "oun gouru (own goal.)"

gokkun [go-kku'n]

to have your cum swallowed by your masseuse. or just to swallow it.

hanabira kaiten [ha-na-bi'-ra ka'i-ten]

this term is used only for pink saron. that the different masseuses comes to your table one after another.

hon shimei [hon shi'-me'i]

at adult service places, it is usual that they pick a girl for you. and if you want to chose, you have to pay extra 1000yen or so. hon shimei means to be picked by a customer or popular masseuses picked by many people.

honyo kansatsu [ho'-nyo' ka'n-sa'-tsu]

"honyo" is to [CodeWord111] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord111). "kansatsu" is to watch. honyo kansatsu is to watch your masseuse [CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109). one of the services that certain kind of place offer.

jika nomi [ji-ka no-mi]

"jika" is "directly." "nomi" is "to drink." in this case, this means to drink your masseuse's [CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109) directly from her pussy by putting your mouth right on it.

joousama [jo'-ou'-sama]

dominatrix. literally means "a queen."

jukujo [ju'-ku-jo]

women in the middle age.

kao mise [kao-mi'-se']

generally the massage place will choose a random masseuse for you. however, most massage places offer the chance for choice by doing kao mise (to show the pictures of the masseuses available). you are supposed to choose the masseuse you want before you pay for the service. this usually requires some extra fee. 1,000yen is industrial standard.

kemeko zuri [ke-me'-ko zu'-ri]

the service that your masseuse with a hairy pussy rides on your belly and rubs your body with lotion.

konai hassha [ko'-nai ha'-ssha]

to cum into your masseuse's mouth.

kosu pure [ko-su' pu-re']

costume play.

kotoba zeme [ko-to'-ba ze-me']

to use words to satisfy your partner's sexual desire.

kuguri isu [ku-gu-ri' i-su']

a special kind of chair with a unique shape. you sit on it and your masseuse put her hands or head under it to give you a blowjob and do other things. only expensive places offer this service.

majikku miraa [ma-ji'-kku mi'-ra:]

"magic mirror." when you pick your masseuse, there usually is a mirror between you and them so that they don't have to see you wondering which one you want.

matto [ma'-tto]

"mat." soft, air-filled, plastic mat used for "matto pure" at sopu randos. because they use a lot of soap, matto pure is sometimes called "awa odori (bubble dance.)"

mekakushi pure [me-ka'-ku-shi pu-re']

"mekakushi" means "blindfold." to get blindfolded during the service. or to have your masseuse blindfolded in s&m play.

nama [na'-ma']

"raw." in this case, to have sex or to give a blowjob without a condom. nama-fera: a blowjob without a condom. gomu fera: a blowjob with a condom.

nishikawaguchi-ryu [ni-shi'-ka-wa-gu-chi' ryu']

"nishikawaguchi style." "nishikawaguchi" is a name of the place where many massage parlors are located. this style is a special technique used in pink sarons, which is cheaper than sopu rando, in this area.

ng shitei [enu-ji: shitei]

"shitei" simply means "to label" or "to rate." "ng" originally means "to make a mistake during acting on the stage or on the movie set." in this case, "to label too annoying or strange customers ng and keep them away from certain masseuses who want to avoid them or sometimes even lock them out." be nice to them.

omorashi pure [o-mo'-ra-shi pu-re']

"omorashi" is to [CodeWord134] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord134) your pants. in this play, you wear a special kind of [CodeWord132] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord132) and [CodeWord111] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord111) in it. then the masseuse(s) is going to take care of you as if she were your mommy.

opushon [o'pu-shon]

"option." extra services. usually you have to pay some extra money (2000yen to 10,000yen) to get this kind of "specials". for example, gokkun (to have your cum swallowed) 5000yen, gansha (to cum on the face) 6000yen, onani kansatsu (to watch them masturbate) 6000yen, honyo kansatsu (to watch them [CodeWord111] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord111)) 6000yen, anaru fakku (to have an anal intercourse) 10,000yen etc.

pai zuri [pa'i zu'-ri]

to put your penis between their breasts and massage it.

pure [pu-re':]

"play." a sexual act or special service at adult service places.

ribashiburu [ri-ba:-shi-bu-ru]

"reversible." people who can play both s and m.

rippu sabisu [ri-ppu' sa':-bi-su]

"lip service." this term is used almost all the sexual acts with lips from kissing to blowjob.

seisui [sei-sui]

holy water. in this case, "[CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109)."

senbokyo [sen-bo'-kyo]

"periscope." you get in the bath tub with your masseuse facing each other. and she put her legs under yours to lift them up with knees so that your erect penis pops up just like a periscope. then she gives you a blowjob. one of the major services that sopu rando offers.

shikomi [shi-ko-mi']

"shikomi" is "to prepare for something." in this case, the masseuse for "[CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109) play" drinks a lot of water beforehand.

shimei [shi-me'i]

to request which masseuse you want to give you a massage. it usually costs extra 1000 to 2000 yen.

sogei [so'-ge'i]

it originally means to send someone off or welcome someone. in this case, this means to give a ride to customers from and to the station nearby. they offer this service for free when the place is far away from train stations.

socho [so'-cho']

"early morning." in this case, "early bird special." it usually from hinode (dawn) to 10am.

soku shaku [so-ku' sha-ku']

the service that your masseuse gives you a blowjob without having you take a shower.

sukebe isu [su-ke-be' i-su]

a special kind of chair with which a masseuse can wash your crotch with you sitting down. we see more "kuguri isu" lately. =kuguri isu.

sumata [su-ma'-ta]

the service that a masseuse put your penis between her thighs and massage it with lotion instead of having an actual sex. one of the most popular ones.

suppon [su-p-po'n]

to have a vaginal spasm.

tama name [ta-ma' na-me']

to lick testicles.

teiku auto [tei-ku' a-u-to']

one of the services that you get some goods to go after the service. in most cases, your masseuse's [CodeWord109] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109). if you bring a bottle, they give it to you for free. if you don't, you may have to buy an empty bottle for about 2000yen.

tei mo [tei-mo:]

to shave your pubic hair. or to let you shave your masseuse's pubic hair. one of the s&m services.

tsubo arai [tsu-bo' a'-rai]

to let you stick your fingers into your masseuse's vagina to wash it with soap.

yobai pure [yo-ba'i pu-re']

"yobai" is to sneak in your girlfriend's bed to have sex. this service simulates this situation.

yubi ire [yu-bi' i'-re]

to stick your fingers into your masseuse's vagina. usually it is prohibited at most fasshon herusu. sometimes they just let you do it.

FrtWorld
01-20-14, 07:31
Read this forum and did not see anyone mentioning about tipping to the girls. In Japan they normally do not accept tip. How about the girls at soapland, from Deriheru? Anyone has any ideas?

Dreams
01-21-14, 08:16
Read this forum and did not see anyone mentioning about tipping to the girls. In Japan they normally do not accept tip. How about the girls at soapland, from Deriheru? Anyone has any ideas?Topic extensively dealt with in the Tokyo thread. Essentially: no tips, but gifts (chocolate boxes, flowers. Or something girlie from your home country) , and also repeat business.

SofaMonkJ
01-21-14, 11:20
Read this forum and did not see anyone mentioning about tipping to the girls. In Japan they normally do not accept tip. How about the girls at soapland, from Deriheru? Anyone has any ideas?There is no tipping in Japan. Occasionally you may negotiate an extra price for an extra service but there is no expectation or need for tipping. In fact it sets a bad precedence. Please don't do it.

Minatoku Man
03-28-14, 15:50
Suggest you add "oppai pub". Also mention that "nopan shabushabu" got a lot of press coverage in Japan about 15 years ago when it was revealed that major Japanese bankers were taking Finance Ministry Ministry regulators to them for "dinner" to discuss banking regulations.


(This is an archive of a web page defining terms used in adult services in Japan. It appeared on a site called "Ohayo Sanspo, Sankei Sports Newspaper" which is apparently no longer online. The information is several years old and may be out of date.)

Japanese Fuzoku Technical Terms.

On this page we introduce more terms regarding the service offered at many Fuzoku places. This dictionary will help you when you go into any Fuzoku place...

Minatoku Man
03-29-14, 21:46
Numerous other posts have talked about the tendency of many Japanese establishments of interest to readers refusing to accept non-Japanese clients or even posting signs that say "Japanese Only". Let me add my 2 cents.

Japan has a long established widely diverse (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?970-General-Info&p=1488014&viewfull=1#post1488014) set of "adult businesses". Except in a few parts of a few major cities non-Japanese customers are a very small part of their potential clientele. So the "up side" of admitting them is small from the management viewpoint.

The downside is considerable:

- It appears that Japanese men often don't want to go to adult businesses that foreigners patronize. Thus "box locations" are more likely to discriminate than "delivery places" where the clientele has no idea about other clients.

- Size, or at least perception of size, does matter and some Japanese women think they don't want to deal with what may be a larger size.

- Many Japanese think foreigners are more likely to carry STDs than Japanese although Japanese appear to use condoms less in nonmonagamous sexual activities.

- Japanese have a bias that non-Japanese could not possibly know they language and therefore when they see your face they immediately conclude communications is impossible. These 4 issues may why Asians / Asian Americans who don't speak Japanese often have fewer problems than "anglos".

- Japanese adult businesses have more complex expectation of their interactions with customers than those in many other countries. These range from taking off shoes to taking baths in the right order. Tenchos may actually fear there will be a misunderstanding of what is expected and a real communications problem with foreign clients. For example asking for FS. Which is illegal although other services aren't. Is a complex matter and it could be really awkward if a foreign customer pushed this issue too far due to language / cultural misunderstandings. The gangster owners really don't want this type of trouble that could attract the wrong attention.

The Pulitzer Prize winning Occupation Era history, Embracing Defeat: Japan in the Wake of World War II, describes how immediately after Japan's surrender in 8/45 the government quickly buildup a new set of brothels for Occupation soldiers to prevent mixing and had it operational before the GIs arrived a few weeks later! Thus keeping such things separate is not new.

I once asked a taxi drive in Yoshiwara for advice. He replied:

- Hail a taxi is an area with a lot of sex businesses and ask if the taxi diver will introduce you to a store. He is likely to have such connections. (Language skill needed)

- Go in an off hour to minimize Japanese customers who might see you or want the same women. He suggested weekday mornings just after opening time or Sundays since that is the only day married Japanese men are expected at home.

- Be very deferential to the tencho and use your most polite Japanese to ask if service might be possible. That will show you know more than phrase book Japanese and have cultural understanding. If he says FS is impossible, immediately agree. It is really between the woman and you anyway.

If you can't speak Japanese, ISG has listed some places that accept foreigners. Korean places (learn kanji for Korea) are usually more flexible and the women may understand English. Asian Mystique has specialized in the foreign trade for many years and generally gets good reviews.

This might be call "discrimination", but it doesn't do any good to raise the issue with these gangster-owner businesses. Save it for an evening with friends outside of Japan over some drinks.

Homer69
03-30-14, 03:09
This is a very good assessment of the Japanese Only experience. I might add one topic which I refer to as "saving face" which is an entirely foreign concept to westerners. Saving face means much more than just avoiding embarrassment and uncomfortable situations. Much of it involves what amounts to telling disingenuous lies and showing unnecessary humility from a western perspective in the interest of saving face. An example might be to apologize profusely for bothering a tencho immediately after he turns you down. While this may seem like a disingenuous lie, especially when you're very angry and upset for being turned down, it really is a form of saving face for the tencho who has the job of telling you your business is not wanted. Most westerners find this practice to be bothersome, unnecessary and not in keeping with their moral compass. I believe this is a significant reason why many shops just don't want to deal with us. It is uniquely Japanese for these behavioral norms to be proper. Inside, a Japanese man may be feeling,"What an asshole!" but he would never vocalize or even display body language consistent with this. Westerners often consider this phony and disingenuous and can't bring themselves to understand that this is the way things are. Often, if said foreigner is lubricated on alcohol, this problematic interpretation becomes amplified.

Every sane-minded Japanese knows this instinctively. We foreigners are most often raised seeing through a totally different prism. For instance, we don't think getting in someone's face is so out of line if it is "justified" if we think we may have been disrespected. This "attitude" is what tencho don't want to deal with. Be humble, be modest, be quiet, be sober and most importantly, learn how to behave like a Japanese and things may improve for yourself.


Numerous other posts have talked about the tendency of many Japanese establishments of interest to readers refusing to accept non-Japanese clients or even posting signs that say "Japanese Only". Let me add my 2 cents.

Japan has a long established widely diverse (

http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?970-General-Info&p=1488014&viewfull=1#post1488014

) set of "adult businesses". Except in a few parts of a few major cities non-Japanese customers are a very small part of their potential clientele. So the "up side" of admitting them is small from the management viewpoint.

The downside is considerable:

- It appears that Japanese men often don't want to go to adult businesses that foreigners patronize. Thus "box locations" are more likely to discriminate than "delivery places" where the clientele has no idea about other clients.

- Size, or at least perception of size, does matter and some Japanese women think they don't want to deal with what may be a larger size.

- Many Japanese think foreigners are more likely to carry STDs than Japanese although Japanese appear to use condoms less in nonmonagamous sexual activities.

- Japanese have a bias that non-Japanese could not possibly know they language and therefore when they see your face they immediately conclude communications is impossible. These 4 issues may why Asians / Asian Americans who don't speak Japanese often have fewer problems than "anglos".

- Japanese adult businesses have more complex expectation of their interactions with customers than those in many other countries. These range from taking off shoes to taking baths in the right order. Tenchos may actually fear there will be a misunderstanding of what is expected and a real communications problem with foreign clients. For example asking for FS. Which is illegal although other services aren't. Is a complex matter and it could be really awkward if a foreign customer pushed this issue too far due to language / cultural misunderstandings. The gangster owners really don't want this type of trouble that could attract the wrong attention.

The Pulitzer Prize winning Occupation Era history, Embracing Defeat: Japan in the Wake of World War II, describes how immediately after Japan's surrender in 8/45 the government quickly buildup a new set of brothels for Occupation soldiers to prevent mixing and had it operational before the GIs arrived a few weeks later! Thus keeping such things separate is not new.

I once asked a taxi drive in Yoshiwara for advice. He replied:

- Hail a taxi is an area with a lot of sex businesses and ask if the taxi diver will introduce you to a store. He is likely to have such connections. (Language skill needed)

- Go in an off hour to minimize Japanese customers who might see you or want the same women. He suggested weekday mornings just after opening time or Sundays since that is the only day married Japanese men are expected at home.

- Be very deferential to the tencho and use your most polite Japanese to ask if service might be possible. That will show you know more than phrase book Japanese and have cultural understanding. If he says FS is impossible, immediately agree. It is really between the woman and you anyway.

If you can't speak Japanese, ISG has listed some places that accept foreigners. Korean places (learn kanji for Korea) are usually more flexible and the women may understand English. Asian Mystique has specialized in the foreign trade for many years and generally gets good reviews.

This might be call "discrimination", but it doesn't do any good to raise the issue with these gangster-owner businesses. Save it for an evening with friends outside of Japan over some drinks.

GetsZa
10-25-14, 15:00
Hi,

I have been in Japan for 2 months. Touring the whole of Japan. I notice some of the cities at the red light district there are Japanese girls standing around. Are they street walker prostitutes like China? I looked at them but they don't seem to show anything. In China they will wink or smile at you inviting you for paid sex. Just to clear things up they are not those girls standing outside advertising for you to go to their bars. They are alone. And just stand at a corner. How do I approach them. I can't speak Japanese and it will be rude just to say do you offer sex? Any advice people?

AussieGaigin
10-26-14, 00:14
You can't speak Japanese, they probably can't speak English, so conversation will go nowhere. They do not like to be embarrassed, or lose face, so they will ignore you.

If a girl is interested in you, for business or pleasure, she will make it obvious. If they don't respond to you, better just forget about them.

Plenty of past information here and in the Nampa thread to read about this.

Little Jared
10-26-14, 15:25
Hi,
I have been in Japan for 2 months. Touring the whole of Japan. I notice some of the cities at the red light district there are Japanese girls standing around. Are they street walker prostitutes like China? I looked at them but they don't seem to show anything. In China they will wink or smile at you inviting you for paid sex. Just to clear things up they are not those girls standing outside advertising for you to go to their bars. They are alone. And just stand at a corner. How do I approach them. I can't speak Japanese and it will be rude just to say do you offer sex? Any advice people?Just out of curiosity, which cities? How old were the girls?

If they are just standing there, and if they do not wink or smile at you, your description makes me think of bar girls. If you are certain they are not, and if they are not especially standing in front of some other shop (kyaba, massage shop etc.), then they might just be deriheru girls who agreed to meet their customer outside, or girls who are just waiting for someone.

I rarely see Japanese young (20's-30's) prostitutes who are just standing in the street. Usually they are older, and will come talk to you if you look interested.

Big Ass Eater
01-09-15, 22:38
I'm a big fan of Japanese porn. The Japanese women, especially the milfs, are hot as hell. Are any of these actresses available as escorts? Is there any website for such things?

Grateful for info.

Lion
01-28-15, 06:15
I'm a big fan of Japanese porn. The Japanese women, especially the milfs, are hot as hell. Are any of these actresses available as escorts? Is there any website for such things?

Grateful for info.Not hard to find shops online that advertise AV gals, and no surprise given a huge number of them no doubt make money in the "health / soap" industry, but whether they accept you nor not YMMV.

I imagine if you pay enough they will be happy to service non-Japanese.

I just searched AV deri heru and came up with these:

http://www.gokujou.tv

http://fuzokuav.com/main.html

Be sure to report back any successes or failures.

AussieGaigin
01-28-15, 07:39
Hi,

I have been in Japan for 2 months. Touring the whole of Japan. I notice some of the cities at the red light district there are Japanese girls standing around. Are they street walker prostitutes like China? I looked at them but they don't seem to show anything. In China they will wink or smile at you inviting you for paid sex. Just to clear things up they are not those girls standing outside advertising for you to go to their bars. They are alone. And just stand at a corner. How do I approach them. I can't speak Japanese and it will be rude just to say do you offer sex? Any advice people?Are you sure you they are japanese? You are more likely to find Chinese or korean girls doing this.

If they are interested in doing business with you they will let you know.

You can always start a conversation by asking directions to a well known landmark / hotel / station. Presumably you have a guide book with some basic phrases in it?

Stickmanfob
03-22-15, 23:23
Need some assistance quickly. Have two colleagues coming in from Korea. I don't have time to play tourist with them because work is slammed. They said they had a buddy come to Tokyo last year and went with like an escort type of gal. I know I could probably arrange something like that with Asian Mystique but honestly they want younger gals. I don't think money is a hurdle. Any help would be incredibly appreciated.

Samu Ray
04-11-15, 17:43
I have visited Tokyo few times, due to the language I was not able to screw a japanese girl, I ended up screwing an old chinese girl that said she was japanese! I would like to visit a soapland, does anyone know which soapland has attractive girls, with a nice ass; most japanese women seem to have flat ass. Thanks for any help!

AussieGaigin
04-12-15, 03:16
I have visited Tokyo few times, due to the language I was not able to screw a japanese girl, I ended up screwing an old chinese girl that said she was japanese! I would like to visit a soapland, does anyone know which soapland has attractive girls, with a nice ass; most japanese women seem to have flat ass. Thanks for any help!Have you read the Tokyo thread? Lots of info on soapland there.

BTW, you seem to ask a lot of questions here, and post general comments, but not much in the way of actual mongering reports. If you want members to help you, perhaps you could contribute something in return.

Samu Ray
04-13-15, 16:54
I"am sorry, sir, for not reporting anything concerning actual mongering; may still write even a lame question, please? Thank you, sir...or perhaps there is a law against asking questions on an open forum...is there?...

HeyyyyyyPaul
05-21-15, 13:30
Hey guys,

Loved GP (the Rapponggi one) when I was in tokyo a few years back. Just read that Muratani-san was busted? http://www.tokyoreporter.com/2013/07/23/gas-panic-bar-in-roppongi-busted-over-dancing/.

So does anyone know if the Rapponggi one is still open? Any equivalents of a club like that?

Thanks

AussieGaigin
05-23-15, 03:17
I"am sorry, sir, for not reporting anything concerning actual mongering; may still write even a lame question, please? Thank you, sir...or perhaps there is a law against asking questions on an open forum...is there?...There is no law against asking questions, but as a matter of courtesy you should contribute something in return.

ProLoman
05-23-15, 23:13
Hi guys!

I've got a little bit special question, connected to my special situation.

I'm physically 100% made in Japan, but then, I had to move to another country, and I'm not even Japanese anymore.

So I can speak Japanese as a Japanese, but reading is little bit complicated, and going through Japanese websites for info may be really difficult.

So my questions are: What are the difference between gaijin friendly vs not friendly? Are the not friendly places providing better service / better quality / price?

If so, is the difference enough to struggle in the Japanese websites (or even trying directly on the field), or I should just stay in the English speaking websites?

Thanks for your advice!

JerryPopper
05-31-15, 00:34
Hi guys!

I've got a little bit special question, connected to my special situation.

I'm physically 100% made in Japan, but then, I had to move to another country, and I'm not even Japanese anymore.

So I can speak Japanese as a Japanese, but reading is little bit complicated, and going through Japanese websites for info may be really difficult.

So my questions are: What are the difference between gaijin friendly vs not friendly? Are the not friendly places providing better service / better quality / price?

If so, is the difference enough to struggle in the Japanese websites (or even trying directly on the field), or I should just stay in the English speaking websites?

Thanks for your advice!Up front I'll tell you I've no 'mongering' experience in Japan, although having visited there a few times I have met and bedded quite a few Japanese women so take or leave what I have to say.

You're physically 100% Japanese and can speak the language. Don't underestimate how much of an advantage that gives you.

Simply being able to communicate gets you considerably further than most gaijin right off the bat.

I have a handful of friends around Japan without whose company there's no way I would have been allowed to enter certain bars or clubs.

In terms of gaijin friendly vs non-gaijin you should check out MinatoKu's excellent post and Homer69's post just down the page.

Being able to read Kanji is probably less important than being able to speak. Google translate can probably handle webpages for you.

And if you are ordering 'take-out' rather than visiting an establishment, your language skill comes in to play.

More important will be a grasp of 'Kata' for mongering situations eg. Proper behaviour and face-saving as Homer69 described.

The other thing worth mentioning is consider where in Japan you will be visiting. Don't expect the same behaviour in say Okinawa (US military base on the doorstep), as perhaps Kyoto, or Saitama or Sapporo. Again, the percentage of gaijin clients will surely influence the attitude and availability of services.

Just my 2 cents for what its worth.

Christian G
08-28-15, 13:00
Hello,

Is possible to buy a japanese simcard with internet package at Narita Airport?

SerpentX
08-28-15, 14:00
Hello,

Is possible to buy a japanese simcard with internet package at Narita Airport?Yes. There are several counters offering various packages. They are located just outside arrival gate after you go through custom check.

Christian G
08-29-15, 15:44
Yes. There are several counters offering various packages. They are located just outside arrival gate after you go through custom check.Thank you so much.

Christian G
08-31-15, 15:53
Yes. There are several counters offering various packages. They are located just outside arrival gate after you go through custom check.I forget to ask. Any advise about which operator or best internet packages for 2 weeks holiday? Thanks in advance.

AussieGaigin
09-01-15, 11:30
If you use Google you should be able to find available packages and see reviews / comparisons.

Fac50
07-04-16, 01:01
Hi all.

I actually started my mongering with the help of the Japan forum (while I was in Japan), and for some reason, feel a kinship with this particular forum, and trust what I hear from you. I don't know that it 100% fits this forum, but I'm hoping people will provide some advice for me.

Just some quick background. I'm married to a Japanese woman, and was slow to recognize that our marriage sucks, we had a kid together, and while she's a great mom, she's uninterested in being a wife. During our oshogatsu trips to Japan, I've largely used this opportunity to explore the fuzuoku, and despite my STD paranoia, have had some of the best times of my life out there (I've posted some reviews of lovely hand and princess in the Tokyo forums).

So I decided that I wanted to go further with things, and got a sugar-baby in the US. She knows about my situation, doesn't care, is about half my age, has a great body, and is super easy going (I'm putting all this in here as it is relevant to my dilemma).

The problem is that while she likes mouth kissing, and will let me kiss her tits, almost every other part of her body is 'ticklish', and when I was going to go down on her she said 'oh. I'm not into that'. Even during sex when I was on top she said (politely) that I was breathing on her neck and making her ticklish.

She will go down on me (just an opinion but Mako from Asian Mystique has a better technique) for a bit, and then she just wants to literally 'fuck'. I say this as she just wants me to get in there and start pounding. While this is pretty cool, she also doesn't really seem to get all that much out of it. After our first romp, where I literally blew myself out trying to pleasure her (I'm talking like 30 minutes of straight pounding) she told me that she doesn't cum, doesn't really care that she doesn't, and is ok with that (which is a relief as I'm now just focusing on me getting off). So with the exception of the 3 minute BJ, there really isn't a lot of either me pleasuring her, or her pleasuring me. It's kind of that I just have access to the goods and can get off any way I want (although she's open to any position I suggest).

I just had an international business trip and took her along with me. We went out to dinner, and had a good time, but frankly, when we got back to the room, I had been up for 18 hours, working for probably 10 of them, including 3 hours in a car going around to places, and we drank a bit at dinner and in a bar afterwards. I knew I wasn't really up for a performance, and literally just wanted to go to sleep. I told her that I was wiped out, and if we just made out for like 5-10 minutes and cuddled after that (sorry. I love that shit) I'd be good. She told me that she hated that stuff and would rather just blow me. I thought this was a little weird, just from a straight 'work and energy involved' perspective.

I'm torn here, on one hand, the fact is that I don't have a lot of time, and aside from money, I can't really offer much to a potential relationship. I'm also not looking to vine swing and find someone to get super serious with. Again, she's attractive to me (although, I have had some performance issues I think just to the awkwardness of our relationship. No real GFE kind of thing). And I'm guessing if she's emotionally closed, that also means that I don't have to deal with any unnecessary drama.

On the flip side, there's not really any passion there. I'm in no way confused that she's only with me because I'm paying her, but I thought there would be a little bit more intimacy. I had kind of insisted that I wanted mutual interest in my ad.

I just was wondering if other people have gone through this kind of thing, and if there's a way to make things more satisfying for me (I'd prefer to stay with her and try to make this work without demanding something she doesn't seem able to provide).

Thanks in advance for any help on this.

Drbombay
07-04-16, 03:04
Hi all.

I actually started my mongering with the help of the Japan forum (while I was in Japan), and for some reason, feel a kinship with this particular forum, and trust what I hear from you. I don't know that it 100% fits this forum, but I'm hoping people will provide some advice for me.

Just some quick background. I'm married to a Japanese woman, and was slow to recognize that our marriage sucks, we had a kid together, and while she's a great mom, she's uninterested in being a wife. During our oshogatsu trips to Japan, I've largely used this opportunity to explore the fuzuoku, and despite my STD paranoia, have had some of the best times of my life out there (I've posted some reviews of lovely hand and princess in the Tokyo forums).

So I decided that I wanted to go further with things, and got a sugar-baby in the US. She knows about my situation, doesn't care, is about half my age, has a great body, and is super easy going (I'm putting all this in here as it is relevant to my dilemma).

The problem is that while she likes mouth kissing, and will let me kiss her tits, almost every other part of her body is 'ticklish', and when I was going to go down on her she said 'oh. I'm not into that'. Even during sex when I was on top she said (politely) that I was breathing on her neck and making her ticklish.

She will go down on me (just an opinion but Mako from Asian Mystique has a better technique) for a bit, and then she just wants to literally 'fuck'. I say this as she just wants me to get in there and start pounding. While this is pretty cool, she also doesn't really seem to get all that much out of it. After our first romp, where I literally blew myself out trying to pleasure her (I'm talking like 30 minutes of straight pounding) she told me that she doesn't cum, doesn't really care that she doesn't, and is ok with that (which is a relief as I'm now just focusing on me getting off). So with the exception of the 3 minute BJ, there really isn't a lot of either me pleasuring her, or her pleasuring me. It's kind of that I just have access to the goods and can get off any way I want (although she's open to any position I suggest).

I just had an international business trip and took her along with me. We went out to dinner, and had a good time, but frankly, when we got back to the room, I had been up for 18 hours, working for probably 10 of them, including 3 hours in a car going around to places, and we drank a bit at dinner and in a bar afterwards. I knew I wasn't really up for a performance, and literally just wanted to go to sleep. I told her that I was wiped out, and if we just made out for like 5-10 minutes and cuddled after that (sorry. I love that shit) I'd be good. She told me that she hated that stuff and would rather just blow me. I thought this was a little weird, just from a straight 'work and energy involved' perspective.

I'm torn here, on one hand, the fact is that I don't have a lot of time, and aside from money, I can't really offer much to a potential relationship. I'm also not looking to vine swing and find someone to get super serious with. Again, she's attractive to me (although, I have had some performance issues I think just to the awkwardness of our relationship. No real GFE kind of thing). And I'm guessing if she's emotionally closed, that also means that I don't have to deal with any unnecessary drama.

On the flip side, there's not really any passion there. I'm in no way confused that she's only with me because I'm paying her, but I thought there would be a little bit more intimacy. I had kind of insisted that I wanted mutual interest in my ad.

I just was wondering if other people have gone through this kind of thing, and if there's a way to make things more satisfying for me (I'd prefer to stay with her and try to make this work without demanding something she doesn't seem able to provide).

Thanks in advance for any help on this.Sounds like a 2nd wife to me. My advice, cut your losses and don't just settle. There are others out there more willing to suit your needs. If she can't be grateful for a trip, then she's not worth it since you could get that type of aggravation at home.

SomeBilly123
07-06-16, 14:24
Sounds like a 2nd wife to me. My advice, cut your losses and don't just settle. There are others out there more willing to suit your needs. If she can't be grateful for a trip, then she's not worth it since you could get that type of aggravation at home.I have to agree bro, time to cut her loose and move on. It sounds like you are emotionally tied to this girl because of what's lacking at home. I can speak from personal experience when the spark is missing in the marriage and the bedroom. My SO is chubby as fuck with signs of getting bigger and I'm finding it harder and harder to get little billy hard if you know what mean, that is why I dabble a little on the side. That being said I also don't have time nor the mental strength to get emotionally tied to another chick. I'd rather spend the roses for a one night stand get my nut off and run, than take on another heart felt mission.

Komo753
04-15-18, 07:45
Any good VPN for Tokyo (virtual private Network). I would like to use another VPN. Any recommendation? I would like to continue keeping my work and home IP private and use another IP from a country outside Japan. Security of personal information is important to me. I want to protect my privacy when using the computer at work or home.

Lion
05-01-18, 02:56
FYI.

A lot of newcomers here, so a little summary of the Japan scene in hopes that you post your experiences and don't screw it up.

Soapland: FS (covered), BBBJ. Can range in price from 15,000 to 100,000 or more. Range is usually reflective of the looks / age of girl. Some will shoot down foreigners.

Fashion Health with mat play: Similar to a soapland in that the room is bigger and you do a slip & slide, but without the guarantee of FS. 15,000-25,000. Some will shoot down foreigners.

Fashion Health (cubicle) or Hotel Health (nearby hotel): BBBJ normally, slight chance of FS. I have had a couple girls offer FS. I think it is less effort for them really. Usually 5,000-20,000. Some will shoot down foreigners.

Delivery Health: BBBJ normally, decent chance of FS. Some just do sumata, but sometimes things get hot and they say OK. Sometimes they request an extra fee of 5,000 or 10,000. I have found larger girls are quite happy to provide FS, seem to truly enjoy the sex, and don't look for an extra payment. Some will shoot down foreigners (they normally figure this out on the phone).

Delivery Massage: I have never tried it. Seems like cute girls, but pricey. I suppose you might get lucky and get a BJ or FS, but I have my doubts. There are English websites so it is easier to book for non-Japanese speakers.

There are anal providers (delivery / hotel / fashion), usually they advertise it as an option.

NOTE: Tips are not the norm in Japan. If she tells you it is 5,000 for FS, then you pay that. It is a transaction, not a tip. If she says go for the FS and doesn't discuss a fee, then there is none. Tips are ambiguous and lead to confusion and expectations (such as "oh, all foreign men will tip" which is really not true).

Blacka0
05-02-18, 17:49
Thanks a lot for all the info Lion it really clears my now what to expect. This year will be my first time in Japan and I only want FS and not that Sumata crap for sure. Anal will be a god option for me because they don't see it as sex in Japan. I will go to Osaka and Tokyo. The only thing that causes a little discussion is what is a real soapland or fashion health. What is for example amour in Osaka is that a soapland or fashion health?

KublaiKhan808
05-03-18, 00:18
Thanks a lot for all the info Lion it really clears my now what to expect. This year will be my first time in Japan and I only want FS and not that Sumata crap for sure. Anal will be a god option for me because they don't see it as sex in Japan. I will go to Osaka and Tokyo. The only thing that causes a little discussion is what is a real soapland or fashion health. What is for example amour in Osaka is that a soapland or fashion health?In a Soapland your paying for bathing services. Fashion health are technically listed as massage parlors. Many fashion health places list options and have extra fees associated with options (swallowing, facial, picture taking, etc).

Soapland is strictly bathing. What happens after the bath is between you and the girl. Usually it's FS. Since it's illegal to exchange vaginal sex for money, the odds of you getting FS at a fashion Health is small (especially if it's your first time there and if the boss is nearby). Soaplands are better deals but cost more. However if you add the extra tip that you would have to pay if you get FS at a health service, Soaplands are the way to go.

Since you mentioned anal, consider this delivery health place in Ikebukuro.

http://anal-bang-bang.com/sp/

Never tried it but another Japanese website says they are open to gaijin. You may find it difficult to find a girl willing to serve a gaijin, but you can try. Unless you can carry a conversation in Japanese to order by phone, I suggest you line them and see what happens. They have a line link on their website.

Good luck and report back.

Sebastiano
05-04-18, 17:11
Hi all.

I actually started my mongering with the help of the Japan forum (while I was in Japan), and for some reason, feel a kinship with this particular forum, and trust what I hear from you. I don't know that it 100% fits this forum, but I'm hoping people will provide some advice for me.

Just some quick background. I'm married to a Japanese woman, and was slow to recognize that our marriage sucks, we had a kid together, and while she's a great mom, she's uninterested in being a wife. During our oshogatsu trips to Japan, I've largely used this opportunity to explore the fuzuoku, and despite my STD paranoia, have had some of the best times of my life out there (I've posted some reviews of lovely hand and princess in the Tokyo forums).

So I decided that I wanted to go further with things, and got a sugar-baby in the US. She knows about my situation, doesn't care, is about half my age, has a great body, and is super easy going (I'm putting all this in here as it is relevant to my dilemma)...You know what you should do. Run away, as fast as you can and don't look back.

Konko
05-13-18, 08:14
This year will be my first time in Japan and I only want FS and not that Sumata crap for sure. Anal will be a god option for me because they don't see it as sex in Japan. I will go to Osaka and Tokyo. The only thing that causes a little discussion is what is a real soapland or fashion health. What is for example amour in Osaka is that a soapland or fashion health?Hi,

If you just want FS, then soapland is the best option for you. Soapland is the only sh.

Please note there is no soapland in Osaka due to its local regulation. Escorts are popular in Osaka but normally not FS. Local guys negotiate with girls for FS but it requires fluent Japanese.

If you want to go to soapland in Kobe-Osaka-Kyoto area, you need to visit Kobe (specifically Fukuhara) or Shiga (specifically Ogoto).

But as for soapland, Tokyo is the very best. Yoshiwara area which is few kilometers away from Ueno station in Tokyo is the largest soapland district in Japan, and quality of girls are also best.

I just googled Yoshiwara soapland and found some shops which have English home pages. Hope it helps.

http://l-queen.eroticguide.tokyo/

http://darling-h.eroticguide.tokyo/

http://sweetkiss.casthp.net/

http://kinpeibai-plutinum.eroticguide.tokyo/

As only some shops have English homepage, if possible, you should hire a local guide and ask him to book soapland. If you hire a local guy, all of the shops will be options.

Teltel
05-14-18, 02:21
Hi,

If you just want FS, then soapland is the best option for you. Soapland is the only sh.

Please note there is no soapland in Osaka due to its local regulation. Escorts are popular in Osaka but normally not FS. Local guys negotiate with girls for FS but it requires fluent Japanese.

If you want to go to soapland in Kobe-Osaka-Kyoto area, you need to visit Kobe (specifically Fukuhara) or Shiga (specifically Ogoto).

But as for soapland, Tokyo is the very best. Yoshiwara area which is few kilometers away from Ueno station in Tokyo is the largest soapland district in Japan, and quality of girls are also best.

I just googled Yoshiwara soapland and found some shops which have English home pages. Hope it helps.

http://l-queen.eroticguide.tokyo/

http://darling-h.eroticguide.tokyo/

http://sweetkiss.casthp.net/

http://kinpeibai-plutinum.eroticguide.tokyo/

As only some shops have English homepage, if possible, you should hire a local guide and ask him to book soapland. If you hire a local guy, all of the shops will be options.Has Club Amour in Osaka been closed? There are also other soap lands in Osaka, have these all been closed?

Teltel.

Konko
05-14-18, 11:08
Has Club Amour in Osaka been closed? There are also other soap lands in Osaka, have these all been closed?

Teltel.Google currently shows me two Club Amour in Osaka, but they both are not soapland.

In 1990 Flower Expo was held in Osaka, and Osaka city did not want foreign tourist to see sex shops on public road. So the city expelled all the soapland from streets. That is why there is no soapland in Osaka. All are closed.

If you would like soapland in Kansai area, why not Fukuhara soaplands in Kobe. It is about 30 minutes train ride from Osaka station. Not that far.

BostonThree
05-14-18, 11:25
Visiting Japan in the summer, really hoping to fuck P.S. Hitomi Tanaka. How do I make this happen?

Lion
07-17-18, 05:24
Japanese services can be hard to access, even for fluent speakers of Japanese. However, recently I've noticed more and more shops showing a "foreigners welcome" note on their ad sites. Some of these are in English, but many write it in Japanese, meaning those of you without any reading ability may not get far.

Try searching "gaikokujin OK" or something along those lines (in Japanese is best).

Some shops are challenged to communicate in English, and many girls as well, but they do want your money.

The prices I have found range from 50,000/ HR (AV top shelf rip offs in my book) to 10,000/ HR (over 30 or 40 year olds). Around the 15,000-25,000 you should be able to get a very good looking gal to come to your hotel with superb skills. FS is not officially on the menu, but if she is in the mood it can happen. I'd say about 30% of my DH girls have said OK to FS. It goes without saying that (nice) repeat customers are more likely to get an FS offer.

Kignh
07-19-18, 18:18
Hello friends,

In China I used a shanghai tour guide website to find a nice GF to travel in shanghai / see sights & also stay over night at hotels for reasonable fee. / Full service. How would I find similar for Tokyo? Any good ideas / help is welcome.

AussieGaigin
07-20-18, 09:34
Hello friends,

In China I used a shanghai tour guide website to find a nice GF to travel in shanghai / see sights & also stay over night at hotels for reasonable fee. / Full service. How would I find similar for Tokyo? Any good ideas / help is welcome.I don't know if there are any professional tour guide services that guarantee girls with extras, but when I was there a few years ago I put a personal ad in Metropolis Magazine and I got lots of responses from FL girls.

BKKguru
11-24-18, 01:14
Folks,

I am planning my air travel and do not know if this layover offers enough time:

The ANA flight lands in Haneda (HND) at 7 am in the morning and the departure is from Narita (NRT) at 10.40 am.
Thus my total layover is 3. 5 hours. I will have one FULL size suitcase + a carry-on (backpack) with me.

(1) Is this enough time to transfer on a weekday morning?

(2) I know there is a Bus service between these Airports. Is the Train an option?

Any other suggestions or tips?

Thanks,
~BKKguru.

Stykler
11-24-18, 02:19
Folks,

I am planning my air travel and do not know if this layover offers enough time:

The ANA flight lands in Haneda (HND) at 7 am in the morning and the departure is from Narita (NRT) at 10.40 am.
Thus my total layover is 3. 5 hours. I will have one FULL size suitcase + a carry-on (backpack) with me.

(1) Is this enough time to transfer on a weekday morning?

(2) I know there is a Bus service between these Airports. Is the Train an option?

Any other suggestions or tips?

Thanks,
~BKKguru.1) No.

2) Yes and it takes about 90 minutes. It WILL be on time.

Tips. Stay overnight, you don't have enough time for the transfer.

AussieGaigin
11-24-18, 02:55
Folks,

I am planning my air travel and do not know if this layover offers enough time:

The ANA flight lands in Haneda (HND) at 7 am in the morning and the departure is from Narita (NRT) at 10.40 am.
Thus my total layover is 3. 5 hours. I will have one FULL size suitcase + a carry-on (backpack) with me.

(1) Is this enough time to transfer on a weekday morning?

(2) I know there is a Bus service between these Airports. Is the Train an option?

Any other suggestions or tips?

Thanks,
~BKKguru.Domestic or international flights?

You will need to factor in more processing time for international, in or out.

But I agree, you would be cutting it fine, regardless. Perhaps look for flights to / from the same airport and save a couple of hours transfer time.

BKKguru
11-24-18, 03:23
Domestic or international flights?

You will need to factor in more processing time for international, in or out.

But I agree, you would be cutting it fine, regardless. Perhaps look for flights to / from the same airport and save a couple of hours transfer time.International flight.

If the the Bus ride between HND and NRT is ONE hour then there is enough time for check-in at NRT.

Hopefully, someone who has done this transfer can provide more specifics. Thanks!

Mongrinastrlnd
11-24-18, 12:54
International flight.

If the the Bus ride between HND and NRT is ONE hour then there is enough time for check-in at NRT.

Hopefully, someone who has done this transfer can provide more specifics. Thanks!No sensible agent would book this routing.

Christian G
11-24-18, 14:55
Folks,

I am planning my air travel and do not know if this layover offers enough time:

The ANA flight lands in Haneda (HND) at 7 am in the morning and the departure is from Narita (NRT) at 10.40 am.
Thus my total layover is 3. 5 hours. I will have one FULL size suitcase + a carry-on (backpack) with me.

(1) Is this enough time to transfer on a weekday morning?

(2) I know there is a Bus service between these Airports. Is the Train an option?

Any other suggestions or tips?

Thanks,
~BKKguru.I never did the transfer from Haneda to Narita, but if you want use the train, you can take the train from Haneda to Shinagawa Station (21 min) then take the Narita Express from Shinagawa to Narita (68 min). There are other train options (probably cheaper than Narita Express) but you will have to change at least 3/4/5 trains. Haneda airport is not much big, easy to reach the train station from immigration / customs. Shinagawa is a big station so you will have to walk "a bit" for change the line.

AussieGaigin
11-24-18, 20:33
International flight.

If the the Bus ride between HND and NRT is ONE hour then there is enough time for check-in at NRT.

Hopefully, someone who has done this transfer can provide more specifics. Thanks!If you use Google, you will find lots of suggestions.

Banana Boi
11-25-18, 21:47
The ANA flight lands in Haneda (HND) at 7 am in the morning and the departure is from Narita (NRT) at 10.40 am.
Thus my total layover is 3. 5 hours. I will have one FULL size suitcase + a carry-on (backpack) with me.

(1) Is this enough time to transfer on a weekday morning?My money is that you will miss your international flight, even if you are very familiar with Japanese train system. I'm guessing you are not. 3.5 hour layover would give you 90 minutes to get from one airport to the other.

Why not stay a night in Tokyo? There are far worse places to stay in this world. You also need to factor in a possible delay in your flight landing in Haneida, the time to get through Immigration, and time to pick up your luggage.

Dg8787
11-25-18, 22:47
My money is that you will miss your international flight, even if you are very familiar with Japanese train system. I'm guessing you are not. 3.5 hour layover would give you 90 minutes to get from one airport to the other.

Why not stay a night in Tokyo? There are far worse places to stay in this world. You also need to factor in a possible delay in your flight landing in Haneida, the time to get through Immigration, and time to pick up your luggage.I am placing a side bet with you be. Be. Also he would have to go thru immigration in NRT, if he is behind a Chinese tour group in either airport immigration he is screwed. In addition he would have to check in his luggage a good hour before flight time.

BKKguru
11-28-18, 17:11
Thanks for all the feedback. I learnt about a new risk - the tourist group from China! (post by Dg8787).
I am convinced this is a bad idea and will positively avoid the Haneda to Narita transfer.

I found a ANA flight directly into NRT with a 1. 5 hour layover. (Higher priced than the ANA flight into HND).

I have flown through NRT many times. I love to stroll this Airport and flirt with the Cuties working at the Duty Free shops and Restaurants.
I wish I had a longer layover in Narita, but you cannot get everything in life.....


My money is that you will miss your international flight, even if you are very familiar with Japanese train system. I'm guessing you are not. 3.5 hour layover would give you 90 minutes to get from one airport to the other.

Why not stay a night in Tokyo? There are far worse places to stay in this world. You also need to factor in a possible delay in your flight landing in Haneida, the time to get through Immigration, and time to pick up your luggage.

Taipan68
06-05-19, 12:59
Anyone successful in PM'ing the Admin lately? I received the following when I recently tried to send the Admin a message: "Admin has exceeded their stored private messages quota and cannot accept further messages until they clear some space".

George03
07-22-19, 03:21
I will be in Tokyo soon for a while, maybe a month. I am starting to be active on the dating sites. I was thinking about going to the Philippines for a few weeks, as I am in the mood for some pinays. It appears there are a number of Filipinos in Japan doing work. I have read bits and pieces, but it appears maybe there are ample pinays in Japan without me having to fly there. In fact, even at my advance years, I am getting responses from Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, and others. I have been to Tokyo 3 times, but pretty much did the soaplands, etc. I would prefer the semi pros, non pros, etc. Any thoughts?

DanTheMan
08-04-19, 07:43
I will be in Tokyo soon for a while, maybe a month. I am starting to be active on the dating sites. I was thinking about going to the Philippines for a few weeks, as I am in the mood for some pinays. It appears there are a number of Filipinos in Japan doing work. I have read bits and pieces, but it appears maybe there are ample pinays in Japan without me having to fly there. In fact, even at my advance years, I am getting responses from Japanese, Chinese, Filipino, and others. I have been to Tokyo 3 times, but pretty much did the soaplands, etc. I would prefer the semi pros, non pros, etc. Any thoughts?Great question. I like the pinays too but am hesitant to include a side trip to Manila (or the phils as a whole) as its pretty much a 3rd world shithole).

AussieGaigin
08-05-19, 01:44
While there may be some Pinays in Japan, probably most are working in other jobs and have limited time for social activities (eg, Domestic Help girls).

Keep trying your luck on dating sites. Go onto WeChat when you get there.

Taipan68
10-02-19, 03:09
In summer of 1996 I did IT support work for two months at the Atlanta Olympics. Back then I worked for a really large company and it had subcontracts all over. Mainly, I did network setup and troubleshooting for all the different entities involved in the Olympics. Because of my role, I was given an "infinity" badge that granted me access to every venue and every event including the athlete prep area and housing locations. (For those who don't know, every event in the Olympics has a section of front row seats reserved specifically for athletes. If for example, you are a track and field athlete but want to support your country teammates doing volleyball, you can use your athlete badge to get a reserved seat. When those seats were not filled, "infinity" badge personnel were allowed to use them.).

Essentially, I saw first-hand every major Olympic event that occurred. When Muhammed Ali appeared in the tunnel with the final torch I was about 30 feet (ten meters) away; when Ben Johnson won the men's 100 m final I was in the front row on the 50 yard line; when the two Brazilian female teams battled it out for gold and silver at women's beach volleyball I was under the main awning, etc.

Interested in possibly doing some work for the 2020 Olympics in Japan? Check out this link or others like it:

https://www.indeedjobs.com/nbcuniversal-television-japan%E6%A0%AA%E5%BC%8F%E4%BC%9A%E7%A4%BE/jobs

More importantly, during those two months I probably banged 8 or 9 different women. Two ladies were American (one white one black) there was a French girl, a Brazilian, one from Panama and a few Japanese ladies. And as hard as it is to believe, I even banged one of the Japanese ladies on the women's volleyball team. Attached is an official team picture. I won't say which one I banged, but she's in the front row and does not have a black knee pad.

Point being, if you can somehow get involved with the Summer 2020 Japan Olympics (either paid, volunteer or intern) or just be in Japan during the Summer 2020 Olympics, you should definitely be able to score big time in many different ways.

Naked Gunz
10-03-19, 01:33
Great question. I like the pinays too but am hesitant to include a side trip to Manila (or the phils as a whole) as its pretty much a 3rd world shithole).Yeah! And we love that shithole!

FunkMaster71
01-26-20, 04:27
Any mongers know of the best apps to use in Japan for finding freelancers? I usually use Tinder but it's pretty hit and miss.

Nagogaijin
04-19-20, 15:17
Hello all,

Does anyone have any suggestions for websites to use to find independent ladies? I have used Locanto and Massage Republic with a little success in the past, but both have kind of gone quiet in my area. Has anyone used any other sites?

Thanks in advance.

Sky Ryder
05-27-20, 06:21
Gentlemen,

I hope that you will indulge me for a few moments. I have posted on ISG for a number of years, so am aware of the common courtesy generally desired before jumping in and starting to ask for assistance. I have tried to research this particular topic, with little to no success. I am also painfully aware, that while I may have a bit of experience in Asia, almost none of that is in Japan, so in a word I am ignorant of what works / doesn't, is allowed, isn't, how to best be successful, etc. So I would ask that in that context, please share what information you are comfortable with offering me. I am also "painfully" aware that at this time none of this is possible given the current circumstances. This is "something to look forward to" category. So here goes.

I while back, I came across a post which contained a link to a PornHub video. I am not normally a big porn fan, but for the present time, it is free on Porn Hub and I am a big fan of massage of most kinds. Especially when it entails not just an attractive lady, but the possibility of all manner of happy endings. I leave the link for your viewing pleasure (https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e6d3c38cfa44) . I am aware that this is a professionally done video and as most porn vids, any semblance between the video and reality is at best highly unlikely. Having said that, this particular type of service would rank in spots 1. 2. 3 at least in my top ten types of P4 P services.

So my question is (as you might expect), do massage venues such as this actually exist in Japan, are they typically open to the "public" at large or require some kind of secret handshake and the most important of all is whether or not they would even consider allowing a Gwailo access. Of course the next question would be to ask what part of the country you are most likely to find something of this type, it doesn't need to be outdoors, but that would be cool. I would imagine it is possible to retain the services of a personal tour guide to help with the local customs if they even allow foreigners at all.

I am grateful for any and all guidance, should you have any to share. I will abide by any requests you have to keep the information close to the vest should that be desired, and my inbox awaits your input.

Thanks in advance for taking your time to read this lengthly post, and any information is appreciated.

Best,

Sky.

PtRumble
05-28-20, 05:24
So past few months I've been noticing a lot of odd Chinese or other asian accounts coming up as I browse through Tinder. Recently I've noticed some accounts hinting or blatantly offering sex and their Line accounts. Out of curiosity I messaged them, and got a bite from two different accounts (different pictures and names), though based on my interactions, might be same person / handler?

Anyway, they straight up tell me they offer sex, „xx amount for 2 hours. No special language or anything. I don't straightforwardly agree but play along and they ask me to initially meet me at an address, which turns out to be a secluded Family Mart. When I ask about this, she says she'll give me an address for her apartment after I go there first, but I see nothing but farm and industrial buildings nearby surrounded by rice fields.

Should I chalk this up as LE sting or a scam? This is up near Tohoku where there's not much action going on up here.

Dreams
05-28-20, 12:24
Gentlemen,

I hope that you will indulge me for a few moments. I have posted on ISG for a number of years, so am aware of the common courtesy generally desired before jumping in and starting to ask for assistance. I have tried to research this particular topic, with little to no success. I am also painfully aware, that while I may have a bit of experience in Asia, almost none of that is in Japan, so in a word I am ignorant of what works / doesn't, is allowed, isn't, how to best be successful, etc. So I would ask that in that context, please share what information you are comfortable with offering me. I am also "painfully" aware that at this time none of this is possible given the current circumstances. This is "something to look forward to" category. So here goes.

I while back, I came across a post which contained a link to a PornHub video. I am not normally a big porn fan, but for the present time, it is free on Porn Hub and I am a big fan of massage of most kinds. Especially when it entails not just an attractive lady, but the possibility of all manner of happy endings. I leave the link for your viewing pleasure (https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e6d3c38cfa44) . I am aware that this is a professionally done video and as most porn vids, any semblance between the video and reality is at best highly unlikely. Having said that, this particular type of service would rank in spots 1. 2. 3 at least in my top ten types of P4 P services..You can definitively get this kind of service in soaplands. Of course, YMMV, like anywhere else, but you have, in my opinion, much more chances to get it there than in many other countries.

Just read back reports on soaplands. There are many open to foreigners, just walk past them in the Yoshiwara area, and wait to be called, check their prices, many are not that exorbitant, times are tough there too for those shops, a 90 min session which include nuru massage, BBBJ, FS in many covered positions, cat bath, will cost you for between 25 and 30 K Yens. You can book your girll on pictures on internet, but sometimes they can be photo shopped, and face is often blurred, or choose her at the shop itsel, on pictures also, but usually not blurred.

In the last 30 years, I must have been there 50 times, and on balance, 10 % bad, 50 % god, and the rest very good experiences, with 2 or 3 outstanding.

Good luck, but as the saying says, if you don't buy your lottery ticket, you are sure not to win.

Figrindan2
05-28-20, 16:44
...they ask me to initially meet me at an address, which turns out to be a secluded Family Mart. When I ask about this, she says she'll give me an address for her apartment after I go there first, ...Chances are, they'll demand some cash or pre-paid cards before giving you the next bit of info. And since you're standing in front of Family Mart, you can't easily say no because the ATMs and other machines and facilities are right inside.

In other words, it's a Scam.

Sky Ryder
05-29-20, 02:10
You can definitively get this kind of service in soaplands. Of course, YMMV, like anywhere else, but you have, in my opinion, much more chances to get it there than in many other countries.

Just read back reports on soaplands. There are many open to foreigners, just walk past them in the Yoshiwara area, and wait to be called, check their prices, many are not that exorbitant, times are tough there too for those shops, a 90 min session which include nuru massage, BBBJ, FS in many covered positions, cat bath, will cost you for between 25 and 30 K Yens. You can book your girll on pictures on internet, but sometimes they can be photo shopped, and face is often blurred, or choose her at the shop itsel, on pictures also, but usually not blurred.

In the last 30 years, I must have been there 50 times, and on balance, 10 % bad, 50 % god, and the rest very good experiences, with 2 or 3 outstanding.

Good luck, but as the saying says, if you don't buy your lottery ticket, you are sure not to win.I really appreciate the information. I did find one video that actually had a price list for services in their spas. It appeared to be a way out of the hustle and bustle of the urban center of whatever town they are located. BTW, I agree 100% with your "old saying".

Sky.

Gunners1
07-27-20, 18:59
Dear all.

Don't know if this is the right forum to ask but a friend of mine who has a proper daytime job wants to earn a bit of cash on the side and is planning to do a paid video chat. Does anyone know of a site that she could sign up and register her services?

As it's in the Middle East she prefers to keep this extremely discreet. She is personal trainer and is struggling to make ends meet at the moment due to Covid-19.

Thanks a lot.

G.

P.S. : will be posting the same query on a few pages so please ignore if you have read this as a repeat.

JackMa3
08-20-20, 10:33
Dear all.

Don't know if this is the right forum to ask but a friend of mine who has a proper daytime job wants to earn a bit of cash on the side and is planning to do a paid video chat. Does anyone know of a site that she could sign up and register her services?

As it's in the Middle East she prefers to keep this extremely discreet. She is personal trainer and is struggling to make ends meet at the moment due to Covid-19.

Thanks a lot.

G.

P.S. : will be posting the same query on a few pages so please ignore if you have read this as a repeat.If you are talking about cam session, there are sites like, stripchat, LiveJasmin, Imlive, etc. Just Google and you will find out.

JackMa3
08-23-20, 13:21
Any mongers know of the best apps to use in Japan for finding freelancers? I usually use Tinder but it's pretty hit and miss.You can use seeking arrangement. I use tinder too, and got some luck there.

JackMa3
08-27-20, 15:54
Hello all,

Does anyone have any suggestions for websites to use to find independent ladies? I have used Locanto and Massage Republic with a little success in the past, but both have kind of gone quiet in my area. Has anyone used any other sites?

Thanks in advance.You can Google for independent girls and use SA also.

German Man
12-20-21, 14:47
Dear fellows,

My last visit to Asia has been a while ago, but it may happen that I will spend some half year or more in Japanland. Previously in China it was not too difficult to find freebies in my favourite age range (35-45, I would say), but I do speak some Chinese. I am aware that not speaking Japanese is an issue in Japan (and I speak none), but from what I read elsewhere about Japanese sex life, there must be tons of underfucked ladies, single mothers and office ladies.

However, I'd be interested to hear from you whether this is a myth?

My favourite usually is to find someone and keep her for my stay rather than jumping from girl to girl, so making a MILF happy would be what I'd look for.

So my questions are whether there are these kind of ladies, and where to find them, like trying an office lady in my company or look online, and do they have a favourite dating app, or should I*just forget it and do P4P?

AussieGaigin
12-21-21, 07:14
Dear fellows,

My last visit to Asia has been a while ago, but it may happen that I will spend some half year or more in Japanland. Previously in China it was not too difficult to find freebies in my favourite age range (35-45, I would say), but I do speak some Chinese. I am aware that not speaking Japanese is an issue in Japan (and I speak none), but from what I read elsewhere about Japanese sex life, there must be tons of underfucked ladies, single mothers and office ladies.

However, I'd be interested to hear from you whether this is a myth?

My favourite usually is to find someone and keep her for my stay rather than jumping from girl to girl, so making a MILF happy would be what I'd look for.

So my questions are whether there are these kind of ladies, and where to find them, like trying an office lady in my company or look online, and do they have a favourite dating app, or should I*just forget it and do P4P?Definitely not a myth, especially if you will be there for a continuous period.

Lack of Japanese would limit your P4P chances, but most ladies speak some English and love to practice it. Many ladies in your age range are "work widows" and would love some male company.

Have a read through the "Nampa" thread in the menu, it should give you some ideas of where to start. Get a book called "Black passenger, yellow cab" from Amazon for a tutorial.

AussieGaigin
12-21-21, 10:06
Dear fellows,

My favourite usually is to find someone and keep her for my stay rather than jumping from girl to girl, so making a MILF happy would be what I'd look for.

So my questions are whether there are these kind of ladies, and where to find them, like trying an office lady in my company or look online, and do they have a favourite dating app, or should I*just forget it and do P4P?A bit more for starters:

I'd advise against getting into a relationship with anyone in the same office / company. Anyway you're not likely to find many OLs in your age range, they are expected to be married off by 25-30. MILF chasing is a good idea, but you would need to be able to meet them in the middle of the day, is this hard with a job?

Get yourself a Japanese tourist guide book; learn a few basic phrases to help you survive. Also learn a bit about their local culture, lifestyle, food, geography, etc. They are in awe of someone with this knowledge, or willing to learn.

Go to your local ward office and see if they have an information booth that can give you details of social groups that welcome foreigners. Perhaps being able to teach German might be a novelty, but English conversation groups are plentiful. Ikebana or Origami classes might bring luck.

German Man
12-23-21, 12:10
Dear AussieGaigin,

That sounds like a good advice, as I will have to work full time together with Japanese colleagues, so I expect to have to follow their working times. Asking the ward office to find out where I could give language lessons is an excellent idea, as lessons should also provide a legitimate excuse to leave office or my colleagues' activities during certain times. An interest for the local culture and language did help me a great deal in China, if made my FWB there turn into an LTR and provided lots of other happy moments, too.

Not yet sure whether it is going to happen (I definitely miss Asia, although I haven't been to Japan yet), but if it happens, I will post.

Drbombay
06-17-22, 08:16
Wanted to ask for some advice and opinions and to see if this has happened to anyone else. Long story short, met a local JN on MeetMe and chatted for a little and then she asked for my Telegram username. Obliged and we started shatting from that platform. Yong lady goes on to say she's into hook-ups and I'm good with that. All she wants if 5000 yen on an Apple card so her kids can be left alone playing video games while we do the do. I asked to meet her in the daytime and she said yes, but I would need to show proof of purchase and balked and told her that her kids should be in school why does she need to keep them busy with games, where I got the "my kids are sick and not in school yet. ".

Ok, I've been around the block, and actually had a similar experience with another JN with a similar set up and didn't bite. Don't think I will on this one either. It's too easy and I get suspicious.

Wanted to know if any of you fellow Lurkers have run across these types and are they part of some bigger scam?

AussieGaigin
06-17-22, 08:21
Wanted to know if any of you fellow Lurkers have run across these types and are they part of some bigger scam?Any girl who asks for payment by gift cards and "proof of purchase" (or any other form of pre-payment) is a scam. It's common in many countries. As soon as she has the details, she'll block you.

Teltel
06-17-22, 13:13
Wanted to ask for some advice and opinions and to see if this has happened to anyone else. Long story short, met a local JN on MeetMe and chatted for a little and then she asked for my Telegram username. Obliged and we started shatting from that platform. Yong lady goes on to say she's into hook-ups and I'm good with that. All she wants if 5000 yen on an Apple card so her kids can be left alone playing video games while we do the do. I asked to meet her in the daytime and she said yes, but I would need to show proof of purchase and balked and told her that her kids should be in school why does she need to keep them busy with games, where I got the "my kids are sick and not in school yet. ".

Ok, I've been around the block, and actually had a similar experience with another JN with a similar set up and didn't bite. Don't think I will on this one either. It's too easy and I get suspicious.

Wanted to know if any of you fellow Lurkers have run across these types and are they part of some bigger scam?Kids are sick. Is this a Japanese version of the sick buffalo.

Sounds a total scam.

Teltel.

Drbombay
06-19-22, 09:22
Kids are sick. Is this a Japanese version of the sick buffalo.

Sounds a total scam.

Teltel.Just to follow up. I set up a time to meet and of course I got that "I'll be there no problem. " Took my time and was actually running late and forgot when I get the text I'm ready. Told her I was in a different color car and about 10 minutes out. Right as I got near I got another text from her stating she was still at home and needed to calm her kid down with play points so she could leave. Told her not going to do that, I was "concerned for the kids" and I would give her the Google play cards when we met, or otherwise I told her she was a scam. Of course I got the whole "I'm not a scam. " and I gave her a few pointers on running a scam. Namely don't bring kids "imagined" into it and to realize I as well as she was just another train in the night, I may not bite but somebody else will just like I didn't need her for anything there were plenty of other women out there.

Overall my advice, unless you meet face to face and you look like the latest Hollywood (or Bollywood and K-Pop idol) don't think that anyone online is too good to be true. There are a few out there, but mostly just scammers.

Miss MaryHinge
05-05-23, 07:52
(re- post in correct forum after mis-posting in Nampa).

So in the summer I'll be hitting some main cities for three weeks on a food and culture visit, mainly, hopefully intersperse with some poontang.

I'm used to the FL and P4 P scene in Thailand and a bit in Vietnam, where you just need to get on Line or Wechat and so on to start filtering and negotiating.

I realise it is probably different here to some degrees. So, if a non-Japanese speaking guy wants to bang a few cute uni students or young women or MILFs looking for some extra cash, where.

Should I start looking? Could you advise of apps and socials used in Japan?

Furthermore what kind of prices do these girls ask for FS on outcalls? I've seen on a few sites that FS isn't always on the table, just caressing, stroking or something.

If I could just get a quick read of the situation, I could decide whether it's worth the effort and / or $.

Thanks for any helpful forthcoming.

Miss MaryHinge
06-08-23, 20:54
Looking for some feedback on the situation for getting tested for hiv and stds in Tokyo.

Have done previously in Bangkok at red cross clinic anonymously. Is such a thing possible here? Anon or not, what are typical prices for such tests? In Bkk the result is ready in around an hour. Anything similar in Tokyo?

AussieGaigin
06-09-23, 02:53
Google lists numerous possibilities.

Miss MaryHinge
06-30-23, 12:45
Are prices comparable to western Europe?

Marxh
07-25-23, 02:10
I'll be doing a long stopover in Japan and interested in the various approaches.

Are apps good? I'm interested in both day game and p4 p.

Curious about the no foreigners, does this apply to all non Japanese? I'm Asian so would I be able to slip into some spots as a non-white guy? No Japanese, or not enough to survive without my phone.


(re- post in correct forum after mis-posting in Nampa).

So in the summer I'll be hitting some main cities for three weeks on a food and culture visit, mainly, hopefully intersperse with some poontang.