Apples and Oranges and Pic Yes
[QUOTE=Punter6996;2631847]So here is the thing. Generally when I am hunting for paid fun on escort websites, Tinder, Badoo and other online websites. I create a profile with an avatar or no pic.
Then when I start communicating, sooner or later the girl asks for a pic. Sometimes this happens even before we negotiate her gift and sometimes after. But 99% of the time she will ask for a pic. Sometimes they will send a pic first without me even asking. And I usually don't ask!
When they ask for a pic, I usually say "I don't send pics, but I am happy to do a video call so we can see each other, or we can meet at a public place like a cafe".
When I refuse to send my pic, 8 or 9/10 times they will refuse to meet or just stop communicating!
Here is what's going on in my mind when I refuse to send pics. When I am hunting for sex in exchange of money, my anonymity online is important to me. Until we actually decide to meet. I actually think 70% of the time, women would send fake pics for a variety of reasons - bait & switch, fake account created by agent, etc. 20% they probaby send their pics which are old and they look nothin like that now. I reckon only 10% of the time if not less, I would get a real & recent pic. Hence for me the only way I can be sure that they are who they claim to be is if we hop on video call. So why should I lose my anonymity for this BS? The other thing that's usually on my mind is. She is getting paid to spend time with me, we aren't going on a date so she isn't really in a position to be making all these demands!
So am I just being a paranoid dick for refusing to send my pic?
Would appreciate others POV on why it would be a good idea to give in to all their demands![/QUOTE]Think you are mixing apples and oranges here with escorts and non-pros. An escort won't ask for a pic. They fuck anyone that pays them. That's their job. But if you are on Tinder or Seeking Arrangements many of the girls are non pros or semi pros ie they will fuck you if you are non objectionable and preferably not a creep either. Their ask for a pic is completely reasonable is this guy someone I could fuck. I never put pics on sites (which could get hacked or targeted) but never have a problem sending to an individual girl. They really have no reason or ability to fuck you over at this level of engagement.
Also video call is a double edged sword. My pics are well chosen to make me look good. A video call and I am going to look a lot more geezerly than I actually am. So it would work against me.
I suggest you provide pics if you want to get the good girls. And if you are super paranoid about bait and switch as for a selfie that is not on the site. Or in extreme cases ask for a selfie with them doing a peace sign or a date or something that won't be found on random pics. (Avoid this if you can it's a bit needy).
Anyhow that is my advice. I don't do Tinder. Not even worth my time its either fat chicks or girls who just want to Sell you Snap or OnlyFans. Seeking Arrangement is where it's at in the US. There is a whole thread on Seeking under General and then Dating Agencies with lots of good discussion and tips.
Tinder and badoo are scams
[QUOTE=Punter6996;2632454]I was actually referring to the escorts that 'pretend' to be non-pros, assuming that they are too smart and that all men were born yesterday. Where I lived for a few months they have a local craigslist type of website where you an post anonymous ads under the Intimate encounters / Material sponser. I see several wannabe non-pros that write stuff like "Usually I don't do this / I have never done this before / If you want escort stay away. But due to financial difficulties I will meet a gentleman. " Every week she will advertise herself from a certain nationality mention how much she wants in order to consider a meet. The next week she will advertise herself from a different nationality, state a difference price, change a few words here and there. Rinse and repeat. What she never changed was her Whatsapp number. Once I sent her a message saying "Wow last week you were Iranian and this week you are from Tatar, how many spick up were from bars and then they would end up referring their friends and therefore build my network. However now in this era of covid and travel restrictions my options are rather limited.
FYI, I consider myself average looking, but not in the best shape of my life! However any woman that I have spent time with. Have never refused a repeat session on my request. Some even propose a repeat session themselves. I think its because I treat them with respect and like enjoy their company instead of just treating them as my property! Not sure if that info is relevant. OK I am done ranting. LOL.[/QUOTE]To me, Tinder and badoo are scams. They are marketed as places where you can find a woman for sex in general. It is BS. Think out of the box. Are the Tinder, badoo profiles real. Is there anything real about those apps. I don't think so. People who send me likes are either transexuals, golddiggers looking for papers, psychos, ugly women. You will never find a good pro or a semi good pro on tinder or badoo.
When you go to a FKK club in Germany, Spain, Thailand, Taiwan, China, what you get is what you see. I think that dating websites are useless. Men are lured and fooled by attractive photos on dating websites. That's all. There is nothing behind it. We don't know if the women are real. We don't know if they didn't take the picture 10 years ago. They may have been gone or dead now. You don't know if when you talk to a woman, she is the woman of the picture. Etc. Etc.
Pros need to work and can't rely on dating websites. If they pick up men in nightclubs, street, classified ads, it is straight forward and much better for them.
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Opinion on where are the most beautiful black girls
I want to organize a trip in a location where I can find beautiful black women. I've tried to view some pictures of girls in Kenya, Nigeria and Ghana using Tinder, Badoo etc.
I have to admit that I didn't see any girl that I like. To be transparent I like dark black, athletic body, beautiful tits and soft face lines. For example I attach some pictures from internet.
That's why I decided to ask the opinion of the experts.
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