Girls that found their way to the dating sites.
Imho all girls that found their way to the dating sites will see and chat with a whole bunch of men. In a sense they are less interesting than the girls you meet randomly. I am very honest to the girls I see, and they get the same with me after a while when they discover that no lies are required to keep this ATM oiled up. All of them, without exceptions, told me about Americans, Germans, Pakis, etc that they regularly chat with. If those guys come to town, they will meet.
All 40 million females are not like this though. The corrupted few on for example DIA differ a lot from many of the girls I met "on site" in Davao, and a few I met from the dating sites. They do not care about Internet, foreigners and pots of gold at the end of the rainbow. I worked hard to, as a foreigner, get trusted. Gifts was useless. That would only manifest the image of the untrustworthy foreigner. Just hanging out with the girl on local places, beaches, etc, showing a true appreciation for the country made a difference with those girls. A lot is for sale, but not everything. Seeing through those chicas is not rocket science, so when a man once in a while don't see any crap I like to avoid spoiling the experience by generalizing and listening to the cynics. In all countries there are all types, just of various concentrations.
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No Pictures on Dating Sites?
If you go Filipina Heart and search on Samar by most recent Activity, 18-26, under 5'6'' and <119, you get tons of girls with no pictures. Like probably 1/3 of the girls. What is going on? Are these girls Cheaters that already have a Boy Friend and don't want to get caught? What is the reason for this?
Who is a girl that will go out with someone 18-80?
20 years is 20 years difference
If you are happy with her and do not plan on taking her out of PI, then you are ok. BUT, if you plan on moving her to where you are which Im not sure of from your post.
There is a saying, marry a girl from PI, you marry the whole family. I'm not saying that is bad, just be a where of it.
[QUOTE=Kavorka341]Recently returned from a 2 week trip to Phils, heres the story...
I've spent time in the Phils before, but only on business and only in Manila. I've done plenty of mongering throughout asia in the past, so the trips were not only work...
This time was my first trip for pleasure only, so I decided to spend 1 week in Cebu and 1 week in Davao. Using FH I found myself a young girl in each place and planned to meet them.
So I tell the Cebu girl that I will only be in town for 3 nights. She says ok, she will stay with me. I ask her if she is coming alone to meet me at the airport and she says yes. So on arrival in Cebu I exit the airport and see her there. Of course she is not alone. I go and meet her and do the introductions then she introduces me to her friend. 'This is my mother'.
I am 38, she is 18. The strangest part was being older than her mother. She was only 37. So I jump in the hotel car with her, and the mother also gets in. It was quite a strange trip to the hotel, but obviously I had made a good enough impression in that 25 minutes that the mother felt I was suitable to defile her daughter for 3 days.
We get in the hotel and it's quite obvious she just wants to get that initial sex out of the way. So we do. That indicated to me that she had obviously done this before. The sex was ok, but she wasn't really that experienced. So we get it on for the 3 days, and do alot of chatting. She was a really nice girl, from the islands, and really didn't know much about where to go, what to do in Cebu city. She was upfront with me (I'm assuming), that she has had 4 or 5 boyfriends and recently broke up with an older foriegn guy.
To cut a long story short I end up cancelling the trip to Davao and staying with this girl for 2 weeks.
I travelled to her island and stayed in her village for 10 days. We were met at the port by her younger brothers, who take my luggage and head off in the trike, while we get a lift from some guy on a motorbike. Once we arrived at the guesthouse she introduces the guy as her father. Another strange experience as the father and brothers hauled all my luggage into the room, not letting me do anything. Then they tell me to take a walk with them. We walk for about 20 minutes in a cirle and end up back at the guesthouse. Of course the route they took me on passed everybody they knew. Really an uncomfortable feeling being paraded around the village so they could show everyone I was with their daughter.
Of course during these 10 days I was taken to every bar, restaurant, karaoke joint that was run by a friend or family member, or a friend of a cousin of a friends family member.... I had the nights out with her friends for which I paid the bills. I took the family out to dinner one night (mother, father and 6 siblings) for which I paid the bill.
But in return I got looked after like a king. Every morning I would go outside the room to find her mother had left fresh coffee and fruits. At lunchtime I would be brought food and drinks. My dirty clothes were taken and cleaned. I even commented on the 2nd day that it would be good to have a television in the room, and 15 minutes later her father was hauling a televison from there place into the guesthouse for me. Anytime I wanted anything she would be on the phone to her younger brother and he would bring it to me.
Never at any stage was I asked for any actual money. Of course I pumped plenty of pesos into their village and perhaps they were getting some kickbacks from the different bars and restaurants I went to, but I was never asked to pay for any of the food, or any of the drinks which were brought to my room during the 10 days, so I was happy to have spent the money I did for the experience I received. And of course there was plenty of good sex.
So what now...
I see her on cam everyday, I know from the surroundings she is at the internet cafe in her village. She has given me her email and friendster logins, and I am plastered all over her page. She has cancelled her account on FH. I really like this girl, and with the work I do I have the opportunity to go back and see her every 6 weeks, and in a month I will be back. But this time taking her on holidays somewhere away from the family.
I've always said I would never be naive enough to fall for a bar girl, but can you take this same attitude with a girl you meet from the provinces ? I understand the resposibilities (and costs) I would take on if I get serious with this girl, and I know her definition of 'love' is different than mine. I'm looking for a young girl from a good family to mother a child for me, she is looking for someone to look after her and her family. If we are both happy with that and really enjoy our time together, then how much in love do you need to be ?
There are so many bad stories, but surely sometimes things work out for the good... how can you minimize the risk, and when do you decide to take that risk ?
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Kkavorka Nice report - I had a similar experience
Very nice story. I had a similar experience.
There is a 20 year difference between myself & my GF. I went to my GFs island for the first time. I felt like you did. When I arrived at her house, everyone came over to meet me. In addition I think everyone else in the village was looking in the door or windows to see me. I felt like they had never seen a white guy before. When I walked through the village I felt like the Pied Piper because all the kids follow me around. When I went to an outside dance at the village there was a group of 13 year old girls "groupies" who just stood and stared. I think they thought I was Tom Cruise or something. We went to quite a few Karaoke bars w/ friend. Even though I picked up the tab, it was usually only about $5 for the whole group. Her parents definitely treated me like the guest of honor, almost like a colonial feel still. I think in her village it is a big status symbol to marry a foreigner.
In case you have not been to Visayas, you are really missing something by not seeing these "wild" islands. The food is unbelievable. The fish is the best I've had anywhere, usually only hours out of the water. I never really had any good fish in Luzon.
Banging a different girl every night is fun, but there is definitely something good about the real GFE.
When I told my negative friends in the West that she is happy staying in Phil, they were shocked, because they believed all young pretty girls only wanted Western guys to get Visa to get to the USA.
I agree with MarkFalcon38, do Not bring her back to the West. It can work over in the Phil, because that age difference is not that uncommon when they hook up w/ foreigners. You are seen a GREAT catch to this girl and her family. Be happy! Enjoy!
It Can Only Work in the Phils
Agreed. That's why I tell them that I'm moving there. Most girls run after I tell them that. If I have pinay here and she runs, then I start from a mile back again. If I have a pinay there and she runs, I walk around the corner.