On Stereotype Colored Glasses
Hey TT and CB,
While I do realize you chaps have been in Thailand longer than me and I'm also aware that both of you speak Thai far far better than I probably ever will, your "stereotype colored glasses" are beginning to limit your potential. In other words, your "dogmatic mind frame" is muting your vision and creativity which will only hinder your thinking ability more as you allow yourself to become "set in your ways."
I find this all the more fascinating because at 43 years of age I am physically older than either of you, yet it seems my mental pathways function at a much younger level than your own. OTH has also reported that normal Thai girls frequent Gulliver's because of their interests and fascinations. I merely reference OTH's reports to show that I am not the lone witness to this phenomenon. However, I need not reference OTH's work to validate mine because my work can stand on its own.
The reasons that give my work it's ground breaking nature are few, but they are of vital importance. For me, the essential ingredient that allows me to cut through and break most stereotypes is "magic." Yes that's correct, I am in possession of a certain magic that is simply unavailable to most mortals. It is the "magic of unlearning" and it is the reason why I see possibilities when most people see dogmas.
I do not feel that I am criticizing either of you. In fact, I am trying to help you open your eyes before you inadvertently glue them shut. I recommend that you learn the magic of unlearning, because vision is a wonderful thing and much more so when the vision is clear.
I am certain beyond a shadow of a doubt that none of these girls are working girls. The lady that invited me to drinks is a creative designer. I am in possession of the business card she proudly handed me when I asked about her employment. It is quite a nice card and the name of her company is "O PLUS DESIGN".
I was hoping they'd be bad girls, but they were not bad girls at all. In fact, they were far too good for my taste. After our dinners were complete I made an apologetic and hasty exit. I am in Coma's camp concerning Thai ladies. Bad girls are better! :)
I've met quite a few Thai women from the internet and none of them (except for one) were "working girls." I've met girls that worked at TOT, KSC, and many other well known places in Thailand. The girl from KSC even took me on a tour at her office and then gave me some free corporate t-shirts for my wardrobe. I've met girls that have picked me up in their cars and such what. However, I also know some "working girls" that own cars because they are so stinking successful at what they do.
The list goes on and on and my advice remains the same: learn the magic of unlearning. ;)
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Oh yeah! I forgot to tell you guys how I salvaged my night. I bumped into a working girl I’ve known for about three months, but hadn’t seen for almost one month. It turns out she’d been working in Pattaya with an English chap that is now in love with her. He’s gone so far as to buy a wedding ring and he’s also been to meet the family. She kept mentioning this guy and the fact that he is in love with her for the rest of the night. I think she was attempting to make me jealous. Whenever she would talk about him I would look at her with an expression of complete sincerity, as if I were hanging on her every word, hoping that I could in some way be of help.
Finally at the end of the night, when we were about the go to sleep, she told me that this man also took her and her mom to Pattaya for two days. I look at her with the same sincere look I’d been using all night and said, “So you and your mom and your fiancee went to Pattaya na?”
Then she repeated me as follows, “Yeah, we all went to Pattaya. Me and my Mom and my cack.”
We both laughed for a long time. Then we went to sleep. ;)
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