Innovative technique to take the hot lady with your dick
One advice for cocky guys I've heard about is putting a big pillow under the lady's hips in the doggy position. This enables the lady to relax completely and just lie on top of the pillow still in the doggy position for the guy behind her.
And the big advantage of this relaxed doggy position is that the guy behind her can go all out on her and just slam her bum like there is no tomorrow. Normally, you can't do this kind of thing with the lady in doggy, because you will knock her out of her doggy position. But with that pillow under her, you can use your whole weight on her, and she will still stay in the doggy position with you.
I found an amateur Asian video, where a guy and his hot gal do exactly as I've described above. I think this is something to watch and learn from:
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This is the whole video: [URL]https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59033cfc04fc2[/URL].
I don't know about you, but I find it especially hot to pound a hot lady from behind hard enough to hear the slapping sounds. And that's what happens in this video. You can clearly hear "slap, slap, slap". This guy really slaps his lady's ass-cheeks with his hips. And she responds with some realistic groans and moans too.
When the lady can hear the slapping sounds, then she knows that she is really getting nailed. This is like an extra sensation and an extra clue for her. The lady in doggy can't see her own nailing, unless there is a mirror. She needs extra clues like this to make it hot for her.
I found from my experience that some P4P ladies get embarrassed by slapping sounds like that. They are afraid their friends might hear and understand what's going on. It's one thing to have sex with a guy. But it's quite another to get nailed so much that you can hear the slapping sounds coming out of the room. Apparently, P4P ladies make fun of each other and laugh about it, when they hear one of their friends getting nailed like that.
But besides possible embarrassment for the lady, this is also really hot for her. The lady gets more aroused, when she hears something like this. That's why I like to do it with my ladies. And the technique shown in the video above is the way to do it. You need to put a big pillow under the lady's hips, so that she won't lose her doggy position. And then you can slam her cheeks with your hips at full speed to make those slapping sounds for her and her friends, who might be listening.
A good way to decide which hot lady to ride
I found from my experience that it can be really hard to choose a lady and decide to go with her, when there are many ladies to choose from. Sometimes I go away and not choose anybody.
And the problem here isn't the looks. It's simply having too many ladies to choose from. It's so hard to decide which lady to ride, that you lose your mood and don't do any lady good.
There was actually an experimental study done, where consumers were shown a display of 24 varieties of gourmet jam on one day and only 6 varieties on another day. The larger display attracted more interest from people. But when it came to buying one of these jams, then people looking at only 6 varieties were 10 times more likely to buy, than those looking at 24 varieties.
[URL]https://hbr.org/2006/06/more-isnt-always-better[/URL]
And the lesson of this study is that having a lot of choice makes it so difficult to choose that people can't decide, and they don't buy as a result.
I think this is what happens with many guys, including myself, when they have too many ladies to choose from. They don't choose anybody and go away.
But there is a solution to this problem. And it's actually something I've read in this forum that some guys do. Basically, you split your deciding and your riding into two separate parts that you do on two different days.
First, you visit the place and make a short list of the ladies you'd like to do in the future. And it has to a short list of no more than 6 ladies. Or else you'll still have too many ladies to choose from.
Then you go home, fantasize and masturbate about each one these ladies, so that you will know exactly what to do, when you get the hot lady in the private room with you.
Then you come back with your list and go for the first lady you see on this list. If you've already masturbated about her, then you are more than ready to take her. You no longer need to decide which lady to ride. You just take her and go to fulfil your masturbation fantasy with her.
And if you see more than one lady on your list, then this won't stop you from choosing a lady. Because your list is short enough that it's no longer hard to decide which hot lady to ride.
The only problem I have with making a short list of hot ladies like this is that I end up going after each and everyone of them. I don't know which lady on my list will be there when I come back for the second time. So, I masturbate about each lady, just in case. I make myself ready for every lady on this list. And then I end up stalking each lady at the parlour and waiting for her until eventually I get to each and every lady on my list.
Instead of not choosing enough, I end up choosing too much. It's like I'm not satisfied, until I give each hot lady on my list a good ride.
There are some massage parlors that offer you a smaller choice of only 5 or 6 ladies. But this isn't necessarily a good strategy for a massage parlour to have. Because authors of the above study said that the smaller display attracted less people. They got fewer customers. But the customers, they got, were much more likely to buy.
Perhaps the best strategy for a massage parlor to have is to encourage their customers to make a short list of ladies they like and might want to do in the future, instead of putting pressure on guys to choose a specific lady and go with her right there and then. Because once a guy makes a short list, then this limits his choice to a reasonable number of ladies. Which makes it a lot easier for him to choose a lady he likes. And giving the guy time to think about it, especially if he goes home and comes back, then this is like giving the guy a chance to masturbate about the lady, before he takes her. This makes the guy decide which lady to ride, before he even comes back.
The benefits of you massaging the massage lady
I've said in this forum before that when I go to a massage parlour, then I go there to massage the massage lady. This is what gets me off. That's why I don't care much about the lady's massage skills. I'm there to do her with both my hands and my dick.
And now there is a new study that involved couples massaging each other. This study found that you basically get the same physical and emotional benefits from massage, regardless of whether you are the one who massaged your partner, or whether your partner massaged you.
[URL]https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2017-05/bps-reo050117.php[/URL]
This study confirms what I've known from my own experience for some time. Which is that massaging the lady makes me feel really good and satisfies me. I don't really need a massage from the lady, as long as I get to massage her, with both my hands and my dick.
I prefer to massage the massage lady, rather than have her massage me. Because I know exactly what I want to do and how I want to do it. But when the lady doesn't know me, then she doesn't know what works well for me. She might or might not do it the way I like. It's an iffy kind of thing and a lot less sure, than when I massage the hot lady myself.
Balls-deep clit masturbation
Many ladies like to cuddle with their cocky guy. And this might also be the thing to do from a guy's point of view, provided that you have your cock balls-deep inside the lady's pussy, when you are cuddling with her.
I've read about some guys who go back inside after a good ride and just stay balls-deep inside their lady's pussy, until they fall asleep. The only thing I'm not sure about is if it's the guy or the cock who falls asleep. But either way, it's an enjoyable way for a guy to round off his experience with the lady.
I found from my experience that for my first shot with the hot lady, there is no way I can just stay with my cock inside her pussy. I need to bang her pussy, and I need to bang it good.
But when the hot lady offers you to have a second shot with her, then this is the time to try being the cuddly guy. Penetration meditation is what I call it. And for a while, it's not hard at all to bang the sexy girl just enough to maintain your erection with her, but not enough to cum with her.
There is something special about being balls-deep inside the hot lady and feeling her pussy all around your cock. It's an experience to enjoy for a guy, especially when you have the hots for the lady and you want to last for a long time with her.
A lot of hot ladies nowadays offer you to have 2 shots with them. This is certainly true, when you look at the profiles of [URL]smooci.com[/URL] ladies. Almost every lady there offers you two hours and two shots with her. Two hours sounds like a long time. But I've come across a lady who said in a sex forum that one time a guy lasted with her for 4 hours. He banged her just enough to maintain his erection with her, but not enough to cum with her. It's certainly possible for a guy to last this long with his lady and enjoy the experience. And apparently, [URL]smooci.com[/URL] ladies are available for 4 hours too.
The only thing, about lasting for a long time with the lady for your second shot with her, is that you need to entertain the lady to make it mutually enjoyable. I found one 5-second clip, where the guy just stays balls-deep inside the lady's pussy and plays her clit with his hand. And that's the thing to do to make it mutually enjoyable for both yourself and the lady:
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Modified Coital Alignment Technique
I found a great example of a guy using his dick in a coital alignment technique. I've done this kind of thing with a Thai lady before. And she orgasmed before I did. That's how pleasant this position can be for the lady you are with.
This position is really easy for the guy to get into with his lady. First, you take the lady's pussy in the missionary position. And then you use your legs to move her legs close together, with your cock still inside her pussy.
Having the lady's legs so close together with your cock inside her makes her pussy so tight around your cock that you end up moving her pussy around, when you try to pound. Instead of sliding in and out of her, you end up pushing and pulling on her pussy. Which is what makes it so pleasant for her. And to make it even more pleasant for the lady, you should push the shaft of your cock against the upper part of her pussy. Because that's where her clitoris is.
And this is exactly what the guy does in the GIF's below. From my own experience I can say that his technique is pretty good. That's the way to make it very pleasant for the lady and orgasm her with your cock, if you do it long enough:
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This technique is a lot more pleasant for the lady, than it it is for the guy. Because her pussy grip on your cock is so tight, that you can only push and pull on her pussy, without sliding in and out of her. The lady gets a lot more stimulation in this situation than you. Which makes this technique something to do, when the hot lady invites you for a second shot with her.
When it's your second shot with the lady, then you no longer feel the urgency to do her hard and fast. At this point, you just want to last with the lady and enjoy your experience with her. And that's what makes this Modified Coital Alignment Technique so good for your second shot with the lady. You get a lot less stimulation than before. Which enables you to last for a long time with the lady and really give it to her in terms of making it pleasant for her.
Orgasming the lady with your cock is possible indeed. And it's actually pretty easy for a guy to do. The only anatomical requirement for this is that your cock needs to be big enough to get anchored inside the lady's pussy, when you bring her legs close together. Because the aim of the game here is to push and pull on her pussy, without sliding in and out of her. There is no friction for the lady at all. It's all about stretching and pressuring her pussy with your cock. That's how the lady gets her pleasure.
Of course, another barrier for doing this position with your lady is cultural. Because in a way this is a reversal of sex roles.
When the lady brings her legs close together with you, then this probably makes her feel like a man. Because men usually hold their legs together when they have sex with a lady. And when you spread your legs over her body, then in a way you assume the typical position of a woman. Because women usually spread their legs over a guy.
This reversal of sex roles is so graphic and so extreme that even so called sex-experts have a blind spot to it. Vast majority never mention it in their sex advice for women and guys, even though this technique is very effective for guys pleasing women. Many sex-experts online even say that vaginal sex isn't good for making women orgasm. Which is false. But they don't realize this is false, because they only think about women spreading their legs and guys keeping their legs together, rather than the other way around.
I don't think sex-experts are misleading people on purpose. They just have a blind spot caused by their culture.
Making fake noises for the lady to arouse her
A lady once said, "The most frustrating sexual encounter I ever had was with a guy who did not react at all to anything I did. "
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Being stoical and not showing your emotion might be good in a hostile encounter with some guy. But when you are with a hot lady, then you need to be a baddie and let her know she is good to plow. And I don't mean telling her afterwards in some fancy words. I mean groaning and moaning, when you are thrusting her. And you don't really need to fake it with her. You just need to voice your emotions, when you are nailing her.
It's one thing for the hot lady to get pounded quietly and silently. But it's quite another to have her guy groan and moan with every balls-deep thrust, until he goes bust.
This second ride is something the hot lady might tell her friends about. Because it means the guy found her really sexy and hot. It's a complement for her. And it's something for her to boast about to her friends.
Arousing the lady, before having sex with her
One woman says that women and men are different in how they get sexually aroused:
[QUOTE]For a lot of women, desire doesn't necessarily precede arousal. We need to be touched, caressed, and loved in order to crave sex. So instead of whining about how horny you are and how unlikely it seems that you'll get laid that night because we are a bit mopey or whatever, sneak up behind us and start rubbing our shoulders and work your way down to our waist, or go in for a boob grab. The key is physical contact, so touch us!
[URL]http://thoughtcatalog.com/melanie-berliet/2015/03/what-do-women-really-think-about-sex-12-brutally-honest-dispatches-from-a-woman/[/URL]
[/QUOTE]I found from my own experience with Thai P4P ladies that the above quote is very true for them too.
The lady I go with to the private room is almost never panting for me, the way I'm panting for her. She isn't yet in the mood, even while I want to do her good.
Some guys take their lady's lack of arousal as evidence that they don't mean anything to her. They think it's just a way for her to make money. They are disappointed by this. But they don't think they can do anything about this. And that's why they look for younger, inexperienced ladies, who haven't yet been with too many guys.
But I think this explanation is wrong. This isn't just fate that you need to accept and move on. There is something you can do about it to make it better for yourself and the lady.
I haven't yet met a lady, whom I couldn't arouse with a well-lubricated pussy and clit massage. Masturbating the hot lady is what I'm talking about here. And this kind of thing works for arousing the lady, no matter how experienced she is.
It's like you might've been masturbating all of your life. But just because you've masturbated many times before doesn't mean that your masturbation becomes ineffective. It still works every time. And that's how it is for experienced ladies, who have been with many guys before.
The women's lack of arousal at first has nothing to do with how many guys they've been with before. Because this is the way it works for most women, regardless of how experienced or inexperienced they are.
It's true that younger, inexperienced women are often feeling a little anxious. And some guys think this is arousal. And it is an arousal of emotions. But this isn't sexual arousal. This is just plain anxiety and nothing else.
I think it's a mistake to take your lady's initial lack of arousal as something disappointing and something that cannot be changed. Because this kind of thinking leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you don't believe that you can arouse your lady, then you don't try much to arouse her. And without your foreplay to get her on the way, she indeed stays unaroused with you for the rest of her session with you.
You make your belief come true by behaving according to your belief. And you can't possibly find out your mistake, until you behave inconsistently with your belief and do something different. And even then you might see the result as a fluke and dismiss it, instead or learning from it and changing your behavior permanently. That's why it can be so hard to learn something different and change your behavior with women, even when you belief about women is wrong.
It's a circular trap where your wrong belief and your behavior according to your belief re-enforce each other and provide evidence for each other. Which makes your wrong belief seem to you like a universal truth. Because it happens like this for you every time, and you have plenty of personal experience to back it up too.
I can say from my own experience with very experienced Thai P4P ladies that there is no such thing as the lady being too experienced to get aroused with you. Masturbating her pussy with a well-lubricated hand works every time, no matter how experienced the lady is. Which isn't surprising. Because that's how the human body normally works. Exercising your bodily functions actually maintains them in good shape, rather than destroys them and makes them ineffective. Your masturbation work well, even though you might have been with many ladies and have masturbated many times before. And that's how it is for masturbating experienced P4P ladies. It works for them too, no matter how experienced they are.
The only thing that's different between women and guys is how they get aroused. Guys get aroused by looking at ladies and fantasizing about them. While women need sexual touching and foreplay to get them on the way.
That's why I think that the first thing to do, when a hot lady goes with you, is to masturbate her pussy and clit with a well-lubricated hand, until she is in a similar state of sexual arousal to the one you feel with her. Bringing the hot lady up to speed is what I call it.
And that's the way to avoid feeling disappointed with the hot lady, when she obviously doesn't look aroused with you. Instead of seeing it as some kind of a failure. You can look at it as an opportunity to masturbate the hot chick and get her ready for your dick.
One thing about the above quote from the lady instructing guys I would cation you is that grabbing your lady's boobs isn't necessarily a good way to arouse her. Because I found from my experience that even though this works for some ladies, for other ladies this can be a turn-off. The thing that works every time with virtually every lady is going after her pussy and clit and masturbating it. The lady's boobs should come second, while you are already masturbating her pussy and clit with one hand.
I found that some ladies don't enjoy it and don't like it, when you just start grabbing and sucking their tits. But these same ladies enjoy tit-grabbing and tit-sucking, if you do it, while you masturbate her pussy and clit with your hand at the same time. And that's the way to go after the hot lady, who doesn't like to have her boobs touched. In combination with pussy masturbation, such a lady is usually more than okay with tit foreplay.
Doing it long enough to feel truly and fully satisfied
I think it's a common experience for guys to feel that their encounter with the hot lady didn't last long enough.
I've certainly felt this way on more than one occasion. And it's not just me. In one survey from 2007, 80% of both men and women wanted their sex to last half-an hour. Which was a lot longer, than their actual experience.
[URL]https://www.thecut.com/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html[/URL]
Half an hour is how long a typical porn-scene lasts. Sometimes it last longer than this. But 30 to 40 minutes is probably most common. And it includes foreplay, which can be anywhere between 5 and 15 minutes.
I've actually looked at timed screen-shots of several popular porn-movies to see how they did it. And I was a little surprised by what I saw.
In a typical porn scene, the guy took his lady in 5 or 6 different sex-positions. And he banged her pretty hard each time. But according to the time recorded on the screenshots, each hard banging lasted 3 or 4 minutes at first. And later in the scene, 1 or 2-minute banging was common too. The rest of the time, it's either preparation for penetration in some new sex-position, or just oral sex.
When you watch a porn movie normally, then its seems like continuous sex. But this is just an illusion. The guy actually takes frequent breaks. And that's what enables him to last for so long. There is nothing superhuman about it. Any guy can do it, if he watches himself and withdraws from the lady, before it's too late.
I've compared amateur porn movies with those professionally made. And I found one big difference between them is that amateurs go through fewer sex-positions. And their sex lasts longer in each position. Which means that they have less variety and more sameness. And the guy is typically slower and milder with the lady. Because staying inside the lady longer, means that he needs to slow down. Or else, he'll cum prematurely.
Having less variety, even when you do it for just as long, is actually bad for your memory of your experience. Because according to neuroscientists who did research in this matter, our memories seem shorter in time, when our experience has less variety. And our memories seem longer in time, when our experience has more variety. There is actually a pretty good talk about it on youtube at the link below:
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqwJHasGT9w[/URL]
And this research means that if you want to have a good memory of your experience, instead of just enjoying it at the moment and then having some regrets about it later on, then you should do it the way professional porn-scenes are made. Take the lady in many different sex-positions. And bang her hard but only for short periods of time. Having a lot of variety and many penetrations is enjoyable not only at the moment, but it also makes for an ideal memory to recall and enjoy later on.
Your memory lasts a lot longer than your actual experience with the lady. And that's why it's important to do it in a way that makes you remember it in a good way, rather than just do it for your enjoyment at the moment.
There is a reason why professionally-made porn-scenes are addictive. They are especially designed to produce a good memory for you by showing you a lot of variety. And it's your good memory of it that makes you come back to watch some more porn.
I think it's a good idea to have some sex-positions pictures on your smart-phone to show to your Thai lady and get her to do multiple sex-positions with you. It can be pretty hard to explain to the lady what you want. But showing her the picture explains it all. And I found a good website where you can save a lot of such pictures on your phone, before you go to see your Thai lady:
[URL]http://sexpositions.club/[/URL]
Masturbate the lady's clit, with one finger inside her slit
The thing I like about doing it with P4P ladies is that most of them are pretty good about you sexually touching and groping them. You just need to do it in private, make it pleasant for her, and don't embarrass her.
And I found from my experience that doing it spontaneously, as a kind of surprise, makes it hotter for the lady and for myself. And for this reason, one finger inside the lady's slit to masturbate her clit is my favorite thing to do.
It's something you can do spontaneously, either from the front or from behind, when the lady is standing with you or just going about her business with you. This is one type of clit masturbation that doesn't require any special position or preparation. You can always fit your finger inside the lady's slit, as long as you can reach her.
And here are examples of a hot ladies masturbating themselves like that:
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These examples were actually pretty hard for me to find. Most post masturbation porn shows ladies spreading their legs and lying back. This is probably because porn is made for show, and not just for enjoyment. You can see more, when the lady spreads her legs.
But in real life, I found that one finger inside the lady's slit to masturbate her clit is the most practical and most enjoyable way of doing it. Because you can be very spontaneous with the lady, while she is just standing with you. I once even did it with a lady who deliberately squeezed her legs as close together as she could, while I kept masturbating her slit with one finger in it. She eventually orgasmed like this.
Some ladies find it more arousing when they feel some tightness inside. And these are the ladies who might enjoy squeezing their legs together, while you masturbate their slit and clit with one finger on it.
Some women even say that they need to squeeze their legs together and tense their body to be able to orgasm. Here is a YouTube video about it:
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWkUKGgK1Cs[/URL]