Greg ...man, you are such a sport. Many guys here would have kept such an obvious cutey very much to themselves;).
I am surprised, given the paranoiac inclination of certain members, that you have not been accused of being Taster as well!
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Greg ...man, you are such a sport. Many guys here would have kept such an obvious cutey very much to themselves;).
I am surprised, given the paranoiac inclination of certain members, that you have not been accused of being Taster as well!
[QUOTE=Cunning Stunt]Greg ...man, you are such a sport. Many guys here would have kept such an obvious cutey very much to themselves;).
I am surprised, given the paranoiac inclination of certain members, that you have not been accused of being Taster as well![/QUOTE]
Many thanks CS. Yes I know many guys are complete idiots, I've seen some of the emails they write. Many are paranoidly jealous or suspicious that they are being scammed and so end up missing out on good opportunities. Too bad for them. My moto is: Give and you shall receive. If a girl is honest, genuine and nice I am usually the same to her. More often than not this results in introductions to meet her friends and cousins and I end up fucking them too. At one point I managed to have 8 cute 18-21 year old Filipinas in my room. Got quite a few astonished looks from the hotel receptionist.
I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers
First of all they may say they are looking for serious long term relationship but in truth the vast majority are happy enough if someone takes the time and effort to meet them in person. Its not often you meet and don't get laid
Personally I spend a bit of time chatting and getting to know them before I visit. Some I have talked to fairly quickly move from "God fearing" or "no players" to horny as hell.
Yes there are times when you need to offload as you see the conversation is not going in the direction we require.
Always remember they are playing the same game as us!!
[QUOTE=Traveller22]I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
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I asked this question in public view to “I am a monger” Sammon LOL… but he never responded. Some guys on this forum “claim” they are upfront with the girls but I have been around Filipinas for while now (well not as long as most of you as I am not that old) and if they are not whoring or the ***** type outright telling them you just looking to get your dick wet doesn’t fly in most cases.
Now if she is impoverished the ***** type, naive (low intelligence) and desperate for some cash I am sure some things can be arranged as anywhere on earth. The conditions have to be right.
Traveler22,
I am quite honest in my advertisements and I meet lots of girls still. I am picky and prefer girls 18-23 years. Honesty can also be a strength since there is so many foreigners filling the girls with crap to get into their knickers. I put the cards on the table in a gentle way within the first minutes of chatting. Many 100% normal and lovely Pinays are definitely interested in just a casual bf/love story. My cards are not very helpfull, I assure you but still I meet many lovely girls. SOme get gifts, of course and other just tag along to beaches and resorts. Nothing is ever totally free. Many of them maybe nurse a hope somewhere deep inside that whatever relation is there will evolve to something more stable, but still I do not get much pressure on this topic. Just waiting for woman to contact you is never good in any culture. Be active and sell your story of "a honest and frank guy that want to meet a lovely and happy girl for some leisure activities".
No point though in being foolishly honest and tell girls about your every move and intention thought. If you make arrangements to have 2 girls a day and is totally frank with this you end up with scammers, pims and ladyboys. But this goes without saying, I guess.
One approach to this "problem" I find suitable is to mention that you wish to have a "pretty and warm girl to guide you for a couple of days in city X and the surroundings". Most pinays know the concept of reading between the lines.
Cheers Barba!
Great question, but there is no right answer. You have to follow your own moral compass.
As for me...my moral compass just spins around and around. I'm not sure why.
If an online ad is too negative, i give it a pass. On the few ocassions I tested the waters, I found a really hateful person there.
Anyone who mentions "serious" or "marriage", I say "friends first". They almost always will agree to that. So meet them for lunch and see what happens. If you can turn a lunch date into a lover, then both of you have done well for that day.
If you are already married and have no intention of doing more than a one night stand I suggest the p4p route. Of course your moral compass may be differnet than mine. I'm happily divorced.
Oh, and "don't play games"? I ignore that completely assuming it isn't too negative. This game has rules and winners and losers and they are playing the "game" just by being on the Internet.
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[QUOTE=Traveller22]I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
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i asked this question in public view to “i am a monger” sammon lol… but he never responded. some guys on this forum “claim” they are upfront with the girls but i have been around filipinas for while now (well not as long as most of you as i am not that old) and if they are not whoring or the ***** type outright telling them you just looking to get your dick wet doesn’t fly in most cases.
now if she is impoverished the ***** type, naive (low intelligence) and desperate for some cash i am sure some things can be arranged as anywhere on earth. the conditions have to be right.[/quote]
i have replied you. check your pm. being a monger means looking for sex with p4p girls as well as others. if sex equals marriage i would have been married hundresds of times already. i look for dates with normal girls. if we end up in bed so be it. i am not going to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] them or pressure them in any way to jump into bed. if the girl thinks just because she had sex with me i am going to marry her that is her problem. i never promise anything before or after. nobody has come after me for a shotgun wedding because i had sex with them.
girls are not naive as you believe. they know the ways of the world and if they are clueless their friends will teach them. all people have their own rules and regulations they follow. insisting your way or highway on others is wrong.
This posting may only make sense to someone who uses Filipina Heart:
I just returned from my quarterly trip to Manila. As usual, I set up my dates in advance to keep my dance card filled. One of the dazzling babes meets me for drinks and dinner. After that, I encouraged her to come join me over at the hotel which she resisted a bit but then agreed. I guess the Catholic guilt wore off after the third tequila shot.
Long story short, I had a great night with her and she left early in the morning. Here's where the trouble started. I went to my FH account whereas I had her listed as one of my "favorites". Once they are listed as a favorite, you can put copious notes about them to refresh you memory upon your next visit. I did this, listing her number and some graphic detail about our encounter.
The next day I started getting texts and flame mails about why did I put this information on FH. I was not aware that these notes are visible to the person you have as your "favorite". I assumed they were as private as the notes you put in the "detail" section of Yahoo Messenger. Since I was busted, I just apologized profusely saying I learned my lesson and will never do that again, blah blah blah.
I’d suggest you do not use the "notes" section of FH since it serves no real purpose due to the fact it's not private.
As somebody else said there is no right or wrong answer to this and different people have different approaches.
My own approach is to be pretty upfront in my ads, explicitly stating I'm not in it for the long term. Maybe this means i just get a 25% response rate rather than the 90% I would probably get if I said I was on the look out for a nice wife, but with so many girls around that still way more than I can handle, so why not at least start with a pool of reasonably up for it girls. Even then half of the respondees haven't quite understood I'm just looking for short term fun so it takes a few ÝM or text messages to eliminate them from my enquiries. If one is looking for something more unusual eg threesomes then there is another layer of winnowing to get to the group that can do that too. My approach is usually to give the girl 500P (2-3 hours) or 1000P (all night) assuming we have had alot of fun. I am not looking for this type of date to get "freebies" - I don't like Bar Fining girls (a) because I dont like funding often shady bar owners and (b) because I much prefer hanging our with nurses, uni girls and the like than girls sitting around a bar getting jaded. In most cases the amount and quality of the sex one gets is way in excess of what one would get elsewhere in SEA eg Thailand or Cambodia let alone elsewhere in the world so i certainly dont begrudge a student 500P towards her fees or mobile phone bill. And one can develop genuine and I hope long term friendships. I personally don't think highly of the type of guy who tries to trick these young girls into a "freebie" by giving the impression he is looking for a wife when in fact he is on a sex binge. Of course if we are talking about the 35 year old divorcee filipinas desperate for a good seeing to, that's a different story, but that's not my scene. I'm not even sure that this type of guy is saving alot of money, as it probably involves, more taxis to unproductive dates, dinners and general time wasting than would otherwise be the case. I suspect that in many cases its more a question of massaging his own ego by pretending to convince himself he is still attractive enough to pull a 21 year old for free.
[QUOTE=Traveller22]I posted this message first in the Manila thread but I think this thread is much more convenient.
I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like DIA-Tagged-FH etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences I’ve read is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile or when you contact them that you are interested only on short term or “friends with benefits” kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan, greglondon and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers[/QUOTE]
Amen to that, GregLondon!
Well spoken.
Barba
A month or so back I stayed a short week in Manila again.
This time for pleasure only, as in "no work".
Had chatted up 4 ladies from DiA before arriving, in addition to my 36yo lady friend (FuBu) of the last 7 years.
Arrived saturday afternoon and my FuBu came to meet in my hotel within an hour. She stayed until monday morning, and all we did outside of the hotelroom was to have breakfast. Other meals via room-service. Nice weekend.
Monday morning, sent her off to work.
Monday. Off to Harrison Plaza (HP) at 1000 to buy a SIM-card and txted the first lady on my list. Fhe was waiting for it. She lived not so far away, and arrived HP in an hour. She is a 26yo, slim and I met her in DiA about 4 months ago. She looked conservative in our chats, so I told her that I was looking for fun and more. She gave me a cold shoulder, and I did not hear from her in a weeks time. Then she contacted me in YM and said that she would like to meet me for some hugging and cuddling, and maybe more if chemistry was right. As I did not visit Manila right away I lost contact with her. Guess she blocked me in YM. Then - when I had a firm booking I mailed her and she responded right away. From the way she acted I dont think she had been with a man in a long time. She wanted everything except anal. Not experienced, and not maganda, but good looking to me. Sent her home at about 7pm with php.1000 for transport.
Contacted the next lady, and she agreed to meet at HP next day at 1000.
Tuesday. Txted Bev and asked when she would be in HP. She replied, wanting to reschedule since it was raining, but I told her that this was my only available day for her. It took her 2,5 hour to arrive in HP, and she txted me 5 minutes before arriving, and I took a taxi from my hotel to be meet her. She was 27yo, petite and cute, and just wanted to get to the hotel ASAP. In the elevator up to the room she said she needed a shower due to the long travel, and who was I to refuse that. Well - it took all of 20 minutes before we were in bed due to her showering first :) - and she stayed until 9pm. Not so experienced, but loved to meet a foreigner and was playing with my nose and dick all the time, being very frank about how she loved to fuck and that she did it toooo seldom. Sent her off with php 1000 for transport, with a promise to meet again.
Wednesday. Met the 4th lady (3rd from DiA), Eva, and she did not know HP, so we decided to meet at Mall of Asia. Met her at one of the many coffeeshops, but she did not want to stay there for too long, she wanted to go back home. I asked her to come to my hotel, but she was reluctant to begin with. I reminded her of our chats and that we agreed to meet for some hugging and cuddling and that it would be difficult to do in the coffeeshop :) . She then agreed to visit my hotel, but "she was not like that, sleeping with a guy on a first meeting", she said. I said that was fine with me, if we could do all the other stuff except having sex. She smiled and said no problem and we took a taxi back to my hotel. We were on the bed within two minutes and she eagerly started to play with the bulge in my pants. I opened my zipper and she played it. Told her we should undress unless she wanted to get a lot of sperm on her dress. We both did, and I played her wet pussy until she came and she played me. I held back as I wanted her to stay for a few hours, and she did. No intercourse, but all the rest. Regular girl, looking for marriage. Told her I was attached, looking for fun only. Before leaving she thanked me for not fucking her, and promissed to give me everything I wanted upon my next visit. I have been on YM with her later on, where she have stripped down and played for me ;) . Looking forward to meet her again.
The 4th girl did not materialize, due to me.
However, I met another lady from DiA for coffee at MoA. She had been chatting with foreigners for a long time, but never met any. Shy she said. She was married, and told her hubby everything, she said. I challenged her and she decided to meet me with a chaperone, and brought her 8 year old niese along. Fed them icecream and pasta, and in a chat a few days later she said she would like to meet me privately when I returned. At first she thought I was a grandpa, looking for young girls (she is 25), but after meeting she found me to be a pleasant and fun person.
I just love the RP and especially DiA.
All the young ladies were slim and pleasant for my eyes, although not beautiful. I dont look for starfishes.
I stayed at the G Hotel close to Maynila Ospital along Roxas and never experienced any problem. Each breakfast there were foreign guys there with local ladies.
They have conferences in the hotel as well. One day it was about Human Traficking :)
Was chatting on YM to one of my DIA ladies (or maybe one of yours tooo! ). Just keeping her nice and warm for my next visit.
She so sweetly told me that had used the choclate wrapper from the chocs I bought her to decorate her college book, and that she had showed her mom and sister the very sweet pair of panties that I had bought her.
And that was all it took. Now shes asking if I can tie her up and spank her on her next visit. Sure thing baby!
Hi I have just joined this meeting online place and I have been contacted by girls that are located in remote areas. You FH experienced guys have you met girls in remote areas or you do not bother?
Good question, but a lot depends on you. Have you already traveled to the typical destinations? Do you have a fairly long holiday and are you adventurous and don't mind roughing it? If you've answered yes to any of these, then you should give at least one "new" destination a try.
Another option, is station yourself in a city like Cebu or Davao or CDO and encourage them to bus / ferry to your destination. I've had poor luck with this, probably because I won't sent the money in advance. Also, they seem to want you to sit on a bus for two hours even though you've already spent hours and thousands of pesos to get there -- two hours from their location.
That being said I always pay transportation costs round trip and even encourage that they take a taxi (if available). Be aware, some ladies will get in a taxi and expect you to pay at the other end -- in other words, you have to be hanging around to meet the taxi. Sometimes a pain in the arse.
I generally find that there is more than enough women withing 90 min bus/jeepney. So, I don't bother unless I'm curious about visiting a new place.
Some will disagree with me, but I usually allow them to brings someone...friend, cousin, etc. NOT MOTHER! They usually ask ahead of time.
Where are these "remote" destinations?
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[QUOTE=Manicure]Hi I have just joined this meeting online place and I have been contacted by girls that are located in remote areas. You FH experienced guys have you met girls in remote areas or you do not bother?[/QUOTE]