Payment Logistics & Security at hotels
To answer questions for those new to Bali. Before I went I was a bit concerned about payment ie half up front. Half later? Will the girls rip you off? What is the norm? How do things go with security. Do you always pay? How much?
OK. Some answers:
- most girls are pretty relaxed about the payment issue, generally they seem to trust that you're going to pay
- most seemed fine with half up front (when arriving at the hotel), and half in the morning. Most in fact were ok with payment in the morning
- of course all the usual issues about them trying to negotiate a crazy high fee to start off with then negotiating down.
- having said all that, I always kept all valuables in the hotel safe. To be sure.
Security:
At my hotel in tuban this varied considerably. They generally took the ID if the girl was obviously kupukupu malam. Once they got to know her (after a few days with me) were happy to not hold the ID and let her come and go as she pleased.
Lounging around the hotel grounds or generally doing anything with the chick was fine and no problem. Tidak apa2. I only paid security once for a 1 nighter I brought home (FR coming soon) and paid 20k plus cigarettes to security. He was happy. They didn't ask for a specific fee. I offered this after returning from taking the girl to her taxi (and she mentioned the security guy quietly asked for $ for smokes). Overall a very easygoing atmosphere. Apparently not all hotels are so understanding however from what the girls tell me.
The hotel staff do get a little perturbed if you bring too many girls home in one day (when I walked through reception with girl #3 for the day on one day, many eyebrows were raised with not a few wry grins haha).
Anyway. The short answer is don't stress too much about these issues. Most easily solved with a few bucks aussie, and a little good natured smiling. Tip. Get the girl to change into some less provocative clothing before coming back to the hotel. Gownless evening straps generally make things a little more difficult as it creates minor embarrassment for the hotel which they prefer to avoid at the more reputable places.
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FR#3 - name withheld (GirlX)
Ok. I really like this girl, so anonymity for this one. I met GirlX at Paddy's while dating my first friend the bullshit artist (who we'll call GirlY) who stayed the first week. GirlX was at that point aloof and unavailable when we first met, and friends with GirlY's friends. All part of the attraction I guess. Seriously beautiful. Cute, and petite (I like petite girls. A lot).
After separating with GirlY, I bump into GirlY's group of friends in Paddy's a few days later and GirlX is there. And again, fairly aloof but a little more friendly (now that I'm alone) after I say hello. I noticed that many girls seem keen to avoid trouble by cutting another's lunch. So will avoid getting too friendly if you appear taken. Anyway. Newly single me exchanges pleasantries with GirlX. And after breaking the ice, I find she's fairly quiet but nice. We get chatting about where she's from. And I ask if she's with anyone as they were all hanging with a USA surfy guy. No. Just along for the company / ride.
Some discussion. 500k. I'm happy given how seriously cute she is, and lo and behold I find she's an awesome girl. Here's the scary part. She seems to be honest, and I end up falling for this girl (I know, I know. You all think I'm nuts haha). She takes me out and about with her friends, and we party pretty hard at the clubs. Takes me to Double6, la vida loca. And introduces me to all sorts of new life experiences which are a bit wild but fun (nuff said). Great sex, DATY with happy endings for her, nice BBBJ's. Contract lasts 2 nights. Then I have a 1 night dalliance with FR#4 (coming soon). And then GirlX returns for my last 3 nights in paradise.
One of GirlX's friends is a gay guy. Really nice guy. I like him a lot (in a platonic way). I have a lot of fun stirring up the homophobic bule's dirty dancing with him at Bounty & Double6 etc. Some are looking pretty pissed off at the invasion of their mostly hetro environment (no sense of humour). And at one point I think trouble may start. But anyway I had an awesome time with GirlX and gay guy.
So now I'm arranging visa's and trips to Oz. And figuring out how I can find out if all this has potential or just harti sakit (heartbreak) at the end. I'm worried I may be making a rod for my back. But hey what's a mid life crisis without the crisis haha. And for me, romancing is a big part of the fun. Wish me luck, and let the flaming begin (I earnt it after all haha).