The honesty is appreciated (whether I agree with it or not).
I really wasn't looking for redemption, or a lecture really so much as I was curious to see how others would handle this- more of a "what should I do" versus a "you fuked up" kind of mentality. Seriously, we're all aholes who go around paying girls for FS. Do you think you're being Robin Hood by banging them nicely and giving them money? It's a service industry. If you pay for service "X", then you should receive service "X", not service "Y"
This whole matter stems from agreeing to a service and then not delivering. In this case, I had already paid for the hotel and as usual, she had tried to ask for the whole amount upfront. This is why I never do that anymore. I mean, isn't that the standard MO. You pay up front, they bail on you. Instead I went the route of "You deliver, you get paid" I don't even flinch about the price if I get what I want. Cmon, it's stupid to think that 300k is a lot of money. That's not even $20 US dollars. The actual money is not the point.
There was NO grey area when she said, "The hotel said your hour is up, It's time to go". She wanted the session ended. If both parties agree to something and money is exchanged, how would you feel if the agreement were changed before it was finished? The term "cheated" comes to mind. If she were worried about her pimp beating her, she should have not compromised the deal by trying to end it early.
I'm typically very upfront that if there's anything she doesn't like, she tells me now and/or tells me during the session. The little spinner had seen me a few times so she knew what to expect. If my style had not been to her liking she could easily have not gone as I contact her cellphone directly and not her pimps. She can say, "No" and nobody would be the wiser. Another option is for her to ask for more money. What is NOT acceptable is for her to take my money for a service and then not deliver. I don't care if she's crippled, handicapped, one eyed, one armed, one toothed. What the hell does that have to do with striking a deal and then not living up to it? The tone in these "respsonses" seems to indicate I should have known she was going to cheat me or refuse more than 10 minutes of sex when we had agreed to the whole hour?
I find it somewhat hypocritical that there's even a semblance of "righteouness" or fair play. We're not here to make the world a better place. We're here to pound girls for cheap as it's acceptable and easy by Vietnamese standard. To me, it's sounds ridiculously incredulous that there's "concern" about what these people go through. From the treatment by pimps, handlers, customers- if you're going to be honest, be honest with yourself first. Take a look in the mirror and see if you're not the same "monger" that's going around propagating the "industry". We all partake and we all contribute and then at the end of the day, we all go back to our happy little homes with our US dollars and not worry about what happens to them.