Transaction versus Relationship Types
Thanks to all for your comments.
As I was trying to say, these two types are the extremes and there are limitations to making a sweeping generalization such as this.
There are, of course, several women who fall in between and as Dutch44 has mentioned, they do react differently to different clients.
The ultimate transactional providers are the ones who work at the Laufhaeuser. You visit, she lays out the service menu, you negotiate and agree on what gets done for how much, you get serviced and you leave.
Its efficient and like getting the oil changed on your car.
And mostly you see her for the first and last time and thats it.
Make sure though that you both agree on what gets done before you start otherwise she goes into this really annoying upsell routine: "I will take this off for 25 Euros more... I will do this for 10 Euros more..."
If anyone only really wants transactional providers, the Laufhaeuser are the way to go. You can actually save the amount of the club entry fee if you take this approach.
Golden time: nice day, but with a police check...
Hi Jackyo and Flodhast and all...
I am just back from golden time. Interestingly I had two experiences that well sum up the 'transactional' and 'relational' approach that we were talking about. My first meeting today was with Monika (from Hungary). She has dark hair, nice tits, and isn't very tall. She approached me pretty soon after I got in, this afternoon. I guess I went for her tits and was horney, so I said why not. I did ask what she did and did not do, and she said only no anal. I'm 100% OK with that. In the room though she wanted to finish everything quickly and actually almost everything was a no-no. No kissing, no DATY, no touching here or there. A disaster in other words. Just a quick transaction. After this I felt so bad I almost went straight home. I quickly gave her the money and took a long break, wondering if I wanted to stay.
Then I met another girl. She said whe was from Hungary too. First I said to myself, oh no, not another one from Hungary. But it turned out she was an incredibly sweet girl, very natural, very GFE and great to be with. We spent 1.5 hours in the room. I gave her a long massage, which totally relaxed her. Sex was great and natural. No exaggerated noises or sounds, no acting or pretending. She got hot and wet and it was like being with a girlfriend. Sadly she did say she would be returning home for two months, tomorrow. She said goodbye to me and later that night when I went home she came to me again and said would like to see me again when she returned in September.
Two totally different experiences in just one afternoon!
Clearly this last girl was very relational, very friendly and as good as it gets for me in a place like golden time. I was kind to her, she was kind to me.
Then around dinner, the police came and did a check on the management of the club. They sort of do this every two months or so. Because of taxes, girls being there that have no working permit or whatever. They do not dress up with guns and all of that, but wear normal clothes. Yet it ruined the atmosphere for some 2 hours. Many guests left. After that however things normalized and guests came back and I spent some time with an incredibly hot russian girl. All in all a great day, even with those two no-so-great events.
So really it is not only a very personal experience, the timing can be such that one hour you have a lousy experience and the next you are 'in heaven'. I guess this is true of any club, and so it is for GT. However, with some proper screening, (in my case for the relational type of girls) most of my experiences there are pretty good to very good.
Monika sucked for me. (no pun intended) :-) Yet it is not impossible, that for some guy, Monika will be exactly what that guy is looking for and he will have a great time. Unlikely, but not impossible.
that's life I guess.
but today life was not bad at all, at Golden time.
enjoy,
Dutch44
Golden time experiences...
Hi Ronnie and Canyon,
Just back from a short trip. Saw your messages.
[QUOTE=Ronnie]Dutch44,
I was in GT last Saturday and spoke to Monika, remember her from Oase earlier and a bad experience so I did not wanna join her in zimmer. But met a little tiny girl, Viola, 20yrs also from Hungary, much better. Blond and looked much younger, A-cup breast but small and great service.
GT was full of stunners and better than ever. Cant wait to go back there [/QUOTE]
I am not sure I know Viola, but there are a few hungarian women in GT that are just fine to be with. With me and Monika, as you can see in my post, it did not work out. It was mechanical and felt like she just wanted to finish quickly. I agree btw that it seems quality in GT is up these days.
[QUOTE=Canyon]Dutch:
Great report! However, you didn't give the name of the good Hungarian and the hot Russian. Who were they?
Canyon[/QUOTE]
I forgot the name of the russian lady. The other hungarian was called susanna, but she is now on a 6 weeks months trip, she said she would be back at the end of September.
cheers,
Dutch44