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The brush off.
[QUOTE=LiveBoarding;2018318]I was at Oase 1.5 months ago and it was so aggressive. I just landed and tried to just relax before I start my whole action. During that time, there was this girl who kept coming back each 15 minutes to check if I was ready and another one each 10 minutes. I haven't felt this strange in a while. The atmosphere was definitely not good.
How do you guys brush of a girl without being too impolite?[/QUOTE]Hey LiveBoarding.
For polite girls who make frequent passes to see if I want to go to a room with them, I simply tell them that I am resting or that I had just finished with another girl. For those who are impolite, I treat them with the same courtesy they extend to me. I would tell them "NO" with a stern voice. That usually does the trick. I have never had to tell the girl to "F-off!" At Oase, there is a lounge area where women are not allowed into enter. It is located above the dining area, with the stairway located just past the hot tubs.
FiddyCent.
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[QUOTE=LiveBoarding;2018318]I was at Oase 1.5 months ago and it was so aggressive. I just landed and tried to just relax before I start my whole action. During that time, there was this girl who kept coming back each 15 minutes to check if I was ready and another one each 10 minutes. I haven't felt this strange in a while. The atmosphere was definitely not good.
How do you guys brush of a girl without being too impolite?[/QUOTE]You already got the right answers, stay in the lounge above no girl will come, always stay polite even some are rude with you, most are roumanian girls with poor backround and some are desperate to earn some cash. I say simply sorry I need to rest a bit but may be latter.
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[QUOTE=LiveBoarding;2018318]I was at Oase 1.5 months ago and it was so aggressive. I just landed and tried to just relax before I start my whole action. During that time, there was this girl who kept coming back each 15 minutes to check if I was ready and another one each 10 minutes. I haven't felt this strange in a while. The atmosphere was definitely not good.
How do you guys brush of a girl without being too impolite?[/QUOTE]If a girl has no chance with you, it is best not to give her any hope, or she may come back. I refuse to look at girls that are of no interest if they are coming at me. Showing complete disinterest works reasonably well for me, perhaps not with serial pests. Perving at girls only encourages them so I only look at girls that I like.
So don't tell a girl "maybe later" unless she really does have a chance. "I am just relaxing first" is also not strong enough in my view. "No thanks" is better. Or if girl gets too annoying, you can get ruder. With most annoying girl I ever met at Sharks, I told her I would report her to the front desk, if she kept on hassling me. That worked.
If girls approach me very politely, and most do, I try to be polite back, even if I have no interest.
Acting like a Psycho could work too. LOL.
If you are new to Oase, or an East Asian, then levels of approach will be higher, unfortunately. Try to act extremely disinterested to compensate. I don't have any approach problems due to being known by all the old girls, not Asian, and looking very disinterested most of the time.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;2018602]If a girl has no chance with you, it is best not to give her any hope, or she may come back. I refuse to look at girls that are of no interest if they are coming at me. Showing complete disinterest works reasonably well for me, perhaps not with serial pests. Perving at girls only encourages them so I only look at girls that I like.
So don't tell a girl "maybe later" unless she really does have a chance. "I am just relaxing first" is also not strong enough in my view. "No thanks" is better. Or if girl gets too annoying, you can get ruder. With most annoying girl I ever met at Sharks, I told her I would report her to the front desk, if she kept on hassling me. That worked.
If girls approach me very politely, and most do, I try to be polite back, even if I have no interest.
Acting like a Psycho could work too. LOL.
If you are new to Oase, or an East Asian, then levels of approach will be higher, unfortunately. Try to act extremely disinterested to compensate. I don't have any approach problems due to being known by all the old girls, not Asian, and looking very disinterested most of the time.[/QUOTE]Online with you, what is also working well for me, it is just I don't look at the girl just ignore her, most probably she will also ignore you.
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Syzygies,
You asked for bigger natural tits than Carla, which are beautiful for me, I answered Branda / Leya is slim with much bigger tits, but even spoke with her and Jellis many times, was never attracted by Leya face, not pretty face for me, only sexy body, but not enough to pay. Had 1 room with Carla on Summer 2014 when I discovered Oase and tried all the cute girls in a 4 days week end, about 10 girls tried, only Maria Platinum was repeated many times after. Later, I discovered Ina. Lat. I meant Carla face is not really attractive for me, I prefer small brunette Laura face, but never repeated because she is not woman enough for me. Roxana, or even Suginella for our single room, are more woman for behavior in room. But each one his tastes of course, Cristina and Lexi were also not so pretty face for me. Same for new EMA, only cute, but real lack for body care.
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[QUOTE=Sirioja;2018443]Look at her from feet to the hair. Even the prettiest should feel very naked. If she insists, look her in the eyes without answering, she should understand.[/QUOTE]I shall try this next time. Hopefully I won't get a facepalm, LOL.
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Broke
[QUOTE=Ableyone;2018466]"Just arrived", "Just come from the room", "Waiting for the food", "Just eaten the food", "Eat too much food", "Pause machen"....[/QUOTE]I have no money. That works too if she believes you. But then when she sees you going to the room to get ready to butt fuck another girl. Well, she will get the message then hahaha!
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Good advice and generally agree with you. However, if you are new in the club or if the girl is new to you, you don't know right away if you want to take her, reject her, or it's a maybe. Especially if your eyesight is not 20/20 and with the lights being so dim. And not to mention, the decision is not based on just optics but also a bit of interaction. So, unless a girl is a total buffalo in your parlance, I usually do say Hi and have a small chat if THEY approach me. (I don't approach a girl myself unless I am sure I have a strong interest). But even that little bit of interaction gives some girls a lot of hope and they keep asking me for the next 2,3 days.
Also, not all of us can be so tough (cold?) to say a stern NO to a pretty 20 something girl asking you to fuck her for a lousy 50. (If that ever happened to me in my normal life where I live, I would thank my stars and light a thousand candles, LOL). Only with Sylvana have I been able to say a clear No. Short, and to the point. I agree it works well, in that one sample point.
As for perving at girls as you say: Reluctantly agree again. Reluctantly because looking at naked girls, especially in pairs, as they walk by is one of the greatest pleasures of FKK for me but I have to force myself to look at the pole or my slippers or the ugly fat dude sitting next to me, in order to feign disinterest. What a waste?!
[QUOTE=Syzygies;2018602]If a girl has no chance with you, it is best not to give her any hope, or she may come back. I refuse to look at girls that are of no interest if they are coming at me. Showing complete disinterest works reasonably well for me, perhaps not with serial pests. Perving at girls only encourages them so I only look at girls that I like.
So don't tell a girl "maybe later" unless she really does have a chance. "I am just relaxing first" is also not strong enough in my view. "No thanks" is better. Or if girl gets too annoying, you can get ruder. .[/QUOTE]
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Girls sitting place
In case you haven't noticed, the girls are not allowed to sit by the tables by the TV and Jacuzzi anymore. They can only sit in the lounge area now. Want to know the reason why? Some stupid idiot was complaining to the management that there was no seat for him to sit and watch his football. WTF! Some of us none smoker like to sit in that area and see the girls there. Some of the girls don't smoke either. Now they all would have to sit in the lounge, with loud music, and second hand smoke. I hope all you non-smoker complain about this to the management. I feel bad for some girls who have to sit in the lounge now.
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[QUOTE=Jnpr30;2018946]Good advice and generally agree with you. However, if you are new in the club or if the girl is new to you, you don't know right away if you want to take her, reject her, or it's a maybe. Especially if your eyesight is not 20/20 and with the lights being so dim. And not to mention, the decision is not based on just optics but also a bit of interaction. So, unless a girl is a total buffalo in your parlance, I usually do say Hi and have a small chat if THEY approach me. (I don't approach a girl myself unless I am sure I have a strong interest). But even that little bit of interaction gives some girls a lot of hope and they keep asking me for the next 2,3 days.
Also, not all of us can be so tough (cold?) to say a stern NO to a pretty 20 something girl asking you to fuck her for a lousy 50. (If that ever happened to me in my normal life where I live, I would thank my stars and light a thousand candles, LOL). Only with Sylvana have I been able to say a clear No. Short, and to the point. I agree it works well, in that one sample point.
As for perving at girls as you say: Reluctantly agree again. Reluctantly because looking at naked girls, especially in pairs, as they walk by is one of the greatest pleasures of FKK for me but I have to force myself to look at the pole or my slippers or the ugly fat dude sitting next to me, in order to feign disinterest. What a waste?![/QUOTE]I've been accused of being 'arrogant' or 'stuck up' when I look past the girls that don't interest me. And not only by the girls I look past. One of my faves at Sharks has nicknamed me Mr Arrogant because of how she sees me around the other girls LOL. I do agree that a concise answer for the girls you have zero interest in is good advice; nothing worse than having a sad puppy dog hanging around because you gave them hope.
Ah. I miss FRA -will be back in June.
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[QUOTE=Sirioja;2018641]Syzygies,
You asked for bigger natural tits than Carla, which are beautiful for me, I answered Branda / Leya is slim with much bigger tits, but even spoke with her and Jellis many times, was never attracted by Leya face, not pretty face for me, only sexy body, but not enough to pay. Had 1 room with Carla on Summer 2014 when I discovered Oase and tried all the cute girls in a 4 days week end, about 10 girls tried, only Maria Platinum was repeated many times after. Later, I discovered Ina. Lat. I meant Carla face is not really attractive for me, I prefer small brunette Laura face, but never repeated because she is not woman enough for me. Roxana, or even Suginella for our single room, are more woman for behavior in room. But each one his tastes of course, Cristina and Lexi were also not so pretty face for me. Same for new EMA, only cute, but real lack for body care.[/QUOTE]I did not ask who has bigger natural tits at other clubs. This is the Oase thread. That could be a very long list and not very relevant. As you would, know I am well aware that Brenda / Leya (Sharks) has very big tits, but hardly relevant to a classification of tit size as medium or moderate for some other girl. Laura maybe very pretty but is also not at all relevant as does not have big tits. I use a full stop to separate sentences about Brenda and Laura since they are completely separate points.
I don't want to get into who is pretty, since that is just your personal taste. Carla is probably the best performer of the girls mentioned, by a wide margin, always well worth an hour or more (IMHO).
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[QUOTE=Jnpr30;2018946]Good advice and generally agree with you. However, if you are new in the club or if the girl is new to you, you don't know right away if you want to take her, reject her, or it's a maybe. Especially if your eyesight is not 20/20 and with the lights being so dim. And not to mention, the decision is not based on just optics but also a bit of interaction. So, unless a girl is a total buffalo in your parlance, I usually do say Hi and have a small chat if THEY approach me. (I don't approach a girl myself unless I am sure I have a strong interest). [/QUOTE]Ha ha. My eyesight may not be perfect at very short range (all the more reason to reject girls too close LOL). However I think I can quickly discount 90% of girls from having any chance whatsoever. Maybe I am too looks oriented. So no need to give them hope. Also no need to be very rude, unless girl is pushing too hard. Very pushy girls should always be rejected automatically.
Sure be nice to "maybe" girls, but still not necessary to say "maybe later" unless really mean it, nor really to give any reason for "no thanks" refusal, especially if it is bullshit reason. Stay out of the dimly lit part of the main lounge, so you can see the girls properly, is my advice. I never go in there for any great length of time.
However the guy's action should depend on just how soon you want the girl to come back again. I prefer to chase girls, when I am good and ready for her. I don't want to have to discuss with girl that I still have 70 minutes remaining in my "Pause". She will always try to persuade me that her BBBJ will make me ready immediately, but I simply do not wish to be ready in any way. Its easier to say "no thanks" then maybe chase after her later.
The advantage of being a regular, is that girls have learned that approaching me is quite useless, and best to just wait for me to pull the trigger myself.
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[QUOTE=BadinSweet;2018986]In case you haven't noticed, the girls are not allowed to sit by the tables by the TV and Jacuzzi anymore. They can only sit in the lounge area now. Want to know the reason why? Some stupid idiot was complaining to the management that there was no seat for him to sit and watch his football. WTF! Some of us none smoker like to sit in that area and see the girls there. Some of the girls don't smoke either. Now they all would have to sit in the lounge, with loud music, and second hand smoke. I hope all you non-smoker complain about this to the management. I feel bad for some girls who have to sit in the lounge now.[/QUOTE]That's messed up! On top of that, this will now make the seating in the lounge almost impossible since all of the girls are now presumably forced there if they want to sit. A tough seating situation in the lounge now becomes even more difficult if not impossible.
The lighting is so poor in the lounge that I much prefer to see the girls sitting at the TV / Jacuzzi tables.
Sure, that guy who complained is a stupid idiot -- but perhaps Oase is more an idiot for listening to this idiot guy.
WTF is right.
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It is fucked up alright. The seating situation is already a mess on busy nights. The girls all lay down their towels and then walk all around to hunt for customers. You shove the towel aside a bit to sit your bum because there is no other place and the girls come back and act all huffy puffy as if you are a slum dweller who occupied their precious castle. And if all the girls are now forcibly bused into a single lounge, seating goes from bad to worse.