Not much luck for a white dude
Time to contribute. Spending several days in Zhuhai for a big bi-annual Zhuhai event. This is my first time here and I must say, other than being a 5 minute walk from the Macau border, there's not much action that I have found for a white dude.
If you're Asian looking perhaps there's more luck.
I spent three evenings wandering up and down the famous walking street. I must say that I saw a number of cute young things and some not so youngish things on obviously "working". Most of the young ones would not even make eye contact. Some of the ones would hand out small pieces of white paper, but no paper for this white dude. A few older gals were quite pushy but I was not that desperate. On one of my successful attempts to refuse an older girl I received a nice laugh from my frustrated reaction by a couple of cuties working near by. Perhaps if I were more forward and showed off my half-baked Mandarin maybe I would have better luck. I'm not used to having to make much effort with first contact. Needless to say this past week there are some real cute young things up for grab if you're the right something or other.
I had much better luck for far less effort but way more money in Macau.
Tightway: off the deep end?
Hi Tightway,
I hope you don't mind some feedback on your post:
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Although I did not frequent those Zhongshan professionals for myself (I need love and passion, which most professionals don't offer),
[/QUOTE]While I find that you have some interesting things to say, it sounds like you have a negative attitude toward WGs and / or their customers, like you think there is something wrong with them. This seems to be a theme in many of your posts.
If I may ask, when you were with the non-pros you were with, if you really had a truly loving relationship with them, then how "loving" is it to raise their expectations, then dump them and move on?
It could be that mongering is more compassionate than what you're doing, because it doesn't involve playing that game with the girls and their feelings. Mongering is, in some sense, a pure and innocent transaction (as long as there is no coercive third party, which, in China, most of the time there's not, in my experience, and yes, I even had girlfriends who were WGs and I knew who and what was in their life). But you won't understand this if you have a strongly-held belief of "freebie good, paybie bad". That's just Western propaganda.
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If I were still living in China I could probably make a good living out of organizing mongering tours, since I am good at finding those places.
Take me to any place in China, and within 5 to 10 minutes I know where to go to.
Within 1 day I will know all the main places in town for mongering. Only if I am interested and put my mind to it of course.
[/QUOTE]It's very unusual for a person who is uninterested in a certain thing (like mongering), and even have a disdain for it, to invest the time to develop proficiency at it, much less declaring their proficiency. Not wrong, just unusual.
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If I know you personally than you can PM me, and I tell you my simple but effective method, which should be kept a secret and only be told to the people you personally know, trust and have mongered with for a long time.
[/QUOTE]We've exchanged PM's years ago, and I PM'ed you in response to the above, and you didn't respond. But the answers are probably obvious to most mongers. Oftentimes, it just finds you. Otherwise, ask the taxi drivers, the ones who drive at night (just ask casually, don't let them take you to a venue, otherwise they'll take you to where they get the biggest commission). This method may be fast, but I don't do it because I'd wind up at a hotel sauna or a KTV, which are not my favorite venues. Another way is to look for massage places that stay open past midnight. If they don't offer the service you want, ask the masseuse if she knows where to go.
Why keep the above a secret?
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Here on a more personal note why I stopped going to the professionals (Unless if I may find someone that is special in heart and soul for me. Which is unlikely).
Since I see myself being more the soul and source of Life than the body, it is difficult for me if I have to relate to someone on just the physical body level,
[/QUOTE]At least 80% of the time, I enjoy being with a WG on a heart and soul level. Why don't you? It sounds like you're saying that you limit yourself to the physical body level just because she's a WG. If you loved mongering, then you wouldn't shut yourself off to having a good connection with the girl and loving the experience thoroughly.
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It is like eating a stale meal which taste like dry carton. You don't enjoy it and wish you would not have put it into your mouth in the first place.
[/QUOTE]Sounds like you went to a McDonald's, ordered a Big Mac, and ate the carton.
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Most girls in China are forced by a guy into working as a professional. And I don't like to hurt people, even indirectly, since I can eventually feel their pain in my heart, even if they don't speak out about it.
[/QUOTE]Huh? Sounds like you haven't met a lot of WGs in China, or never had a real conversation with them. If they didn't talk about pain or coercion, they are probably the ones who are hooking by choice. And there are a lot of those. Sounds like your "secret method" for finding WGs is through mafia connections or something else semi-crooked (like some commission-seeking taxi drivers), and you're meeting the wrong girls. Or maybe you come across as the "savior type" and then the girls (the manipulative ones) start acting like they need you to save them.
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We are all connected to each other on a very deep level in the unified field or Oneness
[/QUOTE]Then why don't you have a more realistic understanding of WGs?
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This is not just me talking about it, but it is my personal and impersonal experience.
[/QUOTE]Your experience is outside the norm.
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In the end it is always better to legalize things, so it is out in the open and criminals can not take advantage of the illegality of it.
[/QUOTE]Hurrah! I agree with that 100%.