Different anatomical plane
The Clitoris originates from the pubic bone, whereas vagina lies in the pelvic diaphragm. The internal part of clitoris can't go in the anterior wall of vagina.
Therefore the clitoris cannot be stimulated from inside vagina and has to be stimulated from outside only. The pubic bone (part of pelvic bone) lies behind the clitoris so when it is pressed it is pressed against the pubic bone, and has no relation with the vaginal wall.
[QUOTE=Dan7373;1830543]The thing a lot of guys don't realize about the woman's clitoris is that most of it is internal, inside her vulval tissues. The visible part of the woman's clitoris is only a small part of her clitoris.
Which is my point about the G-Spot. How do you know that you aren't stimulating the internal part of the woman's clitoris, when you find her so-called G-Spot?[/QUOTE]
The clitoris and G spot separated by the pelvic bone?
You are saying the clitoris is above and the G spot is below the pelvic bone, and the 2 are separated by it?
So if you apply pressure on the pelvic bone, you are stimulating both the clit and the G Spot?
The girls in my experience can get orgasms by this stimulation. The Hitachi wand on top of the bone probably works wonder.
[QUOTE=Raju1974;1830976]The Clitoris originates from the pubic bone, whereas vagina lies in the pelvic diaphragm. The internal part of clitoris can't go in the anterior wall of vagina.
Therefore the clitoris cannot be stimulated from inside vagina and has to be stimulated from outside only. The pubic bone (part of pelvic bone) lies behind the clitoris so when it is pressed it is pressed against the pubic bone, and has no relation with the vaginal wall.[/QUOTE]
Multi-tasking or doing one thing at a time?
One sex-advice you get on the Internet is that you need to multi-task with the lady to make it extra pleasant for her. Because according to Barry Komisaruk, PhD, a behavioral neuroscientist at Rutgers University and author of The Science of Orgasm, stimulating different erogenous zones activates different pleasure centers in the woman's brain. Which means that one pleasure adds to another and makes it more pleasant for the lady.
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And I can say from my own experience that when a woman has sensitive breasts, then I need to massage her pussy and clit with one hand, while I'm hold one of her tits with my other hand and suck on her nipple. This is the only way I know how to make it pleasant for the woman with sensitive breasts. I think this might be the thing to do with every lady. Because not every woman with sensitive breasts will complain or show discomfort. Some women might hide it to please the guy.
The only thing I don't like about such multi-tasking is that it makes my tit-sucking experience less than optimal. I can't hold both of the lady's breasts at the same time and focus my full attention on them. And recent research actually says that there is no such thing as true multi-tasking. People just rapidly switch their attention from one task to another, which often leads to increased mistakes and decreased efficiency.
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Perhaps a better way to multi-task with a pretty lady is to go after her tits, when you have your cock inside her pussy. You are still going to get distracted and probably slow down inside her pussy. But this might actually be something you need to do once in a while. Because to achieve your peak pleasure with the lady, you need to bang her hard-and-fast for increased stimulation. But then you need to slow down with her and take it easy for a short while. Or else you won't last long with her.
How to last for a long time with the sexy lady
I was appalled to read that one of the top complaints among women is their guy lasting only 5-15 minutes with them during sexual intercourse. Because I've seldom lasted longer than 5-10 minutes. This has always been a problem for me, because I like the lady so much that it's hard for me to slow down with her.
Here is what the author says about this complaint among women:
[QUOTE]He orgasms too quickly.
Size doesn't matter nearly as much as you think it does. Longevity matters much, much more. A quickie in the bathroom at the Pulse or on the hood of the car in the middle of the woods should last 5-15 minutes, but anything in the bedroom/shower/one the floor/kitchen counter needs at least 45. If you can't help getting off quick, you have two choices: masturbate before you go, and you'll last longer, or be prepared to go again in 15 minutes.
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[/QUOTE]It's easy to say that you should last longer. Doing it is a lot harder, at least for somebody who doesn't know how to do it.
But now that I think about it, I recall one time when I took a Thai lady from a go-go place for short-time in the room upstairs. And while I was there, I could clearly hear some guy above me really nailing his sexy lady. My Thai lady kept pointing at the ceiling and giggling about it. Because she said that it was her friend who was getting nailed like that.
I didn't think much about it at the time. But now I realize that this guy was nailing his sexy lady when I came into my room, and he was still nailing her when I left close to an hour later. He really took his time with her and lasted for a long time with her.
I think the reason why this guy lasted for such a long time with his lady is because of the way he nailed her. From what I could hear, he pounded her like a stormy ocean pounds the beach. He would come at her like a big wave, and nail her hard-and-fast. Their bed would be creaking all over the place. Then he would slow down with her, and the bed creaking would almost stop. You might think that he is finished. But no, he comes at her again like another big wave and pounds her hard-and-fast.
He was basically banging his lady hard enough to come close to orgasm with her, then he would stop to decrease his arousal with her and wait until he could bang her hard-and-fast again and come close to orgasm again. He was repeating this pattern again and again, and that's how he managed to last for such a long time with his lady.
I think any guy can do this kind of thing. You don't need any special powers to last for a long time with your lady like this. A lot of guys probably masturbate like this, when they watch porn, so that their pleasure lasts for a long time.
I can say for myself that I usually pick a lady who is good-looking enough to be out of my league. And that's where my problem starts. I feel like she is doing me a favor, and I need to finish quickly with her to avoid offending her. I don't have enough self-confidence to nail her for a long time, the way that guy nailed his lady.
Self-confidence is probably the thing to work on for guys who can't last for a long time with their lady. Because there is nothing difficult or complicated about the way that guy nailed his lady for a good hour or so. Any guy can do this. But you do need to be confident with the lady to nail her like this.
Masturbating yourself in front of the lady
It's normal for guys to start masturbating themselves, when they see a hot lady get naked in a porn film. But doing something like this in front of a lady who gets naked with you is a lot more difficult to do. You really need to lose your inhibitions to be able to do something like this. But according to some women, it's a turn on for them to see a guy masturbate himself in front of them.
One woman says,
[quote]"I know it may sound strange, but watching my boyfriend get himself off is such a turn on. I'll start by lying down naked next him, my body against his, and play with his member until he gets hard. Then I put his hand down there and just rub my body against him and watch. I think it makes me so hot 'cause it's kind of taboo, something he would do in private, but I also like actually seeing how much I turn him on. "
Leslie, 25.
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Of course the trick is to look at the woman and not at some porn picture, when you masturbate yourself in front of a lady. Because you want to show her that you like her and not some other lady. You liking some other lady can be a turn-off for her.
Showing the lady a short porn clip
It might come as a surprise for some guys that their kind of porn can be a turn on for women too. I've read some interviews of female porn-stars, where the guy asked the women what kind of porn they watch, if any. And some women mentioned lesbian, anal, DP, and gang-bang as their favorite scenes to watch.
None of these women mentioned the "porn for couples" that you often see at porn websites. And this was a revelation for me. Because this "porn for couples" idea makes you think that women are too sensitive and too delicate to be shown the graphic sex acts that guys like to watch. It's a kind of sexist attitude towards porn-watching.
Perhaps P4P ladies are similar to porn-stars, because they are professional sex-workers, and they are more into sex with guys than other women are.
I think showing the lady a short porn-clip on your smartphone to tell her what you'd like to do is a good way to turn her on and avoid communication problems with her. And it's a good way to show the lady what other women can do, so that she will try to do it too. It can be like a sex-education kind of porn-clip for the lady, if it's something she hasn't done before.
A gif picture or a short clip on your smartphone can often show the lady positions and sex-acts that are hard to explain with words. And it can be a turn-on for the lady too. When you show the lady what some other hot woman has done with a guy, then this might turn-on your lady and get her to try it, even if she hasn't done it before.