Burned Once But Blackmail?
[QUOTE=AddisDude;2451189]I agree 99% of girls on SA just want $$ (excluding the scammers) and if you have short term gigs here and there PPM, you can avoid the drama. As for facial recognition on FB will identify the people on facebook and attempt to tag them or recommend their name for you to tag them (if the SB is savvy she can do it but I doubt they would), if you just take picture of random people on the street and attempt to post them on FB My friend was blackmailed, he had a short term arrangement which ended, like I said sometimes it is not even emotional connection, they just want money. She knew he worked for the city government employee in a manager position and he was married, she threaten to send pictures they took to his wife / coworkers unless he gives her $$ Another blackmailing they use is I am pregnant pay for abortion. In my case it has nothing to do with attachment emotions, I had few long term arrangement and they get dependent on the income stream and they feel entitled when that income stops abruptly.
These are extreme cases, the average SD / SB relationship can be drama free but if you are seeing multiple girls all over the place like I do, then it is best to prepare for the worse.[/QUOTE]I will admit I got burned once by a girl I truly liked and flew to London (having spent 21 hrs together over three days) only to have her ditch me. But blackmail seems so far fetched with the girls I've been with. They are nice college or early career girls. They aren't evil. They are too busy having lives to think about doing anything else. I am sure there is a wide variance across SA but I pick girls who have real lives and blackmail would be so far out of their zone.
I will say I don't like to play next to the poverty line. I had one girl who started to hit me up for diapers and formula money. I knew going in she was pretty low brow but that was insta block. I think your best off with girls that have a job or go to college or have some family support. You want to be the icing on the cake not the flour.