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[QUOTE=TheCane;2677392]I'm aware of all of the tricks these dating sites use to keep suckers on the hook. Not going to work with me as I'm tired of all of the bullshit on Seeking. It's just like you say. Foreign "women" (maybe) filling up your "favorited me" queue, scammers trying to get at your money, and greedy, lazy, arrogant women who think they're going to eat and drink on your dime and get paid to do it too, all in exchange for nothing but their "valuable time". Well fuck that! Once my three-month membership expires I'm done! If I hadn't met Abby in the early weeks, I might have just thrown in the towel much, much earlier.[/QUOTE]
Treat them Right. Sweet Rolodex.
I treat my SBs very well as it's just my nature. But damn I love some of the longer term relationships you can build and having a deep Rolodex pays off.
I originally went to Vegas in 2019. Met up wit Alexa, Krystal, and one other girl. Both A and K twice. Krystal was my fave but Alexa a nice girl and a smoking 9 in my book. But the chemistry with Krystal was amazing.
So in mid pandemic 2020 I wanted to fly Krystal to Miami but she was a little hard to pin down and kinda soft ghosted me. She's moved to NYC since we met. So I pinged Alexa who was down and we had the best time. Fully one year after our brief encounter in 2019.
Now here we are in 2022 and I will be visiting Vegas. Alexa has moved too far from town but Krystal is back in Vegas. So I ping her fully expecting no response. But instead I get a let's meet up baby response. Over two years after our meetup.
I totally dig this girl — one of my ATFs. Just goes to show — treat 'them right, never officially break it off, and you can fire things up right where you left off. So both my Vegas girls pay off way after the fact. Super stoked.