Sort it out before you marry
[QUOTE=Laylow3]I know there are a lot of older gentlemen here so I ask this to you more experienced hands. I plan on retiring in the P.I. like many of you all have already done but to those of you who are married to filipinas like I am, I just wonder how you keep your cheating on your spouse private? I mean, not just how you keep it private but morally what do you feel? I see other women too so I am in no way criticizing anyone. For me, I'm still young but I feel that I'm a man and it is just natural for us as men to mess with different pussy. I 100% know for a fact that I would NEVER EVER leave my wife and that the other girls I mess around with are only just booty calls, that's it. Nothing more. I also feel that if men don't continue to keep it diverse, their junk will possibly stop working.
But with all the diseases out there I have been wondering that maybe I should just get handjobs from the girls in P.I. after I retire there to be safe. There are skin-to-skin diseases but I could have the girls wear gloves and then I'd be totally safe. No chance of bringing anything to wife that way at all. I know I am rambling here but I'm just curious to what you older guys feel about this since a lot of you all have been there done that. Also, I want to put out that I am a strong advocate of marriage so I don't wish to talk about marriage being a waste of time. It isn't. If ones desires a solid family with kids then marriage is the only way. Period.[/QUOTE]
i don't understand why someone would marry a filipina without sorting this out PRIOR to marriage. ie to make clear from the start that you like to ry new girls (preferably with her in bed too) but that you arre looking for a long term companion, mother to your children and that you will not dump her or embarass her infront of friends and relatives.
In my experience most Filipinas are willing to accept and enjoy threesomes with other girls all it requires is a little persuasion and encouragement to get over the socially installed yuk factor. A day later they are into it and busy hunting for your next joint conquest.
As in every walk of life you must negotiate from a position of strength and your positionjn of strength is when you are dangling the tantalizing prospect of marriage before her, not when she has been ensconced in the west, been reading western womens mags and talking to her friends about how much alimony she can collect if you ditch her.
if you are living or plan to viist the Phiols it is almost inevitable that you will want to try new girls given the superabundance of willing young nubile girls so your wife to be better face up to reality BEFORE you marry.
The concept that sex and marriage are intimately linked is Christian inspired nonsense. Marriage is in effect the beginning of the end of your sex life unless you make it clear that her role is primarily as companion/mother/friend and you fully intend to continue seeking sexual novelty elsewhere.
How to succceed in DIA Tagged etc....
[QUOTE=Sammon]1. Even though they say in their profile many have children.
2. Initially they pretend to frown on sex on meeting but they quickly turn around with the right incentive.
3. They all want money and gifts. It starts with no load in the Phone, no money to buy food, transportation etc.
4. Some are well experienced in sex giving me the feeling that they have might have done more than a few stints in LA cafe.
5. Few young girls want you to meet their parents or sister before they agree to stay with you. It is all a eyewash ending in requests of money to help their "poor" family.
6. None of these are wife material unless you consider good sex is enough.
7. Most often there is no real topic of conversation. You end up twiddling your thumbs while she texts away with their friends.
I think if you are serious of marrying a Philippine girl go through dating agencies and such. They might pre-screen your requirements. Most dating site girls are looking for money from you.[/QUOTE]I met an ISG visitor on Saturday night who was getting knocked back on trying to meet some DIA contacts he had. Was his first time in Manila and he clearly had a bad impression.
I'm now reading some of the above observations and I have to wonder why I'm lucky in getting plenty of DIA meetings that exactly fall into the type that I want to have. Answers are probably as follows:
1. Learn some Tagalog. For the ladies, this quickly means you are not a 2 day tourist.
2. Tell them that you are familiar with Manila. Again this separates the 2 day tourists from the herd.
3. In early chat tell them you have a wife. This separates the wife hunters.
4. Call the girl. This separates the baklas as the deep voice is a 99% giveaway.
5. Check the girls location. Make sure its near yours. If you are in Makati and girl is in Manila she may have to take an hour getting to you. You will think shes late, shes just stuck in traffic. Already your both off to a bad start.
6. Nothing to talk about? If you had lots to chat about and then nothing to talk about when together, shes probably shy and being deferential to you in not speaking first. Ask her leading questions. Interview her about her family, whatever. Filipinas LOVE to talk so maybe you are doing something wrong if shes quiet. Get her to laugh. Again they love jokes. Sing an Air Supply song if all else fails. They love Air Supply and love kareoke.
If you had nothing in common to talk about in chat, why would you think it would be different in real life.
Talk slow. English is not the first language.
Get chatting on YM and if the girl doesn't apprecaite your sense of humour, or can only say "what" "pardon" or " I don't understand" then clearly shes not going to stunning company when you meet.
Girls from province maybe smart as a button. Or slow as a caribou. Exercise sonme judgement before meeting.
I thought all the above would have been relatively obvious, but I think many guys see a pretty picture and assume the women has a brain to match that wil be in perfect synch with your personality. Long long way from the truth as last few postings clearly demonstrate.
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