Just one answer out of a million possible ones
[QUOTE=Jkt After Dark 2]Gentlemen,
.....This is why I want to ask you guys in Jakarta board. Do you guys think I can actually be faithful to one woman? Honestly, I always think myself as a one woman man.
JAKARTA AFTER DARK[/QUOTE]
Dear Jad,
I believe that in nearly all our discussions, this subject was more or less talked about, maybe not so directly as you put it here. You always have been curious as to the intricacies of the feelings between the "loved one", be it the wife or the girlfriend, and the potential side play with other girls.
I think I told you many a time that what the wife, or GF, does not know cannot harm her.
I therefore recommend to never acknowledge that you do monguer to the wife if you get caught... Why?, well, for one thing if you do, you are cooked and cannot take it back, for the other, you may consider yourself as a one woman guy: i.e. you may love the wife or gf for a long time and consider all the other women as merely and purely thorough sexual enjoyment.
It is just up to nature I guess: some of us have a greater appetite for sex than others. It is a matter of libido strength, and hormones. Up to each one to find his own equilibrium between the two states.
You just proved to yourself that you can f**k another girl and yet get great pleasure out of it.
Whether you do that thinking of your love or another one is another matter. I don't, I sort of dissociate completely the two lives if I may say, and I live very well with it, so I really don't see why you could not do the same.
I tell you guy ... I nearly fell off my chair when I read that you were in love and wanted to spend the rest of your life with ONE woman only ... I never thought that YOU, living in Monguerer's paradise land, doing what you do, would or could even think that ... which goes to show that .. we never relly know the other guy .. or gal .. no matter what. The human mind is way too complicated for anyone to read, let alone predict.
I dunno if I helped you in any way .. but at least I tried. Take care bro, and .. if you can't get what you want, it is not the end of the world ... you have plenty of options to make you forget and be happy again.
Cheers
Lousy experience in Jakata. Part 1
After reading a couple of the informative reports from ISF, I was ready to hit Jakata on 25 March for a week to screw a few a those Indo girls.
I first went to Blk M but there were mostly Karaoke - expensive places. Besides I was a lone and I dont drink. So Blk M was not the place for me. The whole place was very quiet. Next I went to Faletahan. I learnt that the crowd comes after 12 mid night. So I have to wait. Drink some coffee and ate some pasta. Pretty boring start. I realise I got my hope too high! This is a musim country! Boring on the outside and boring on the inside.
Talked to some taxi drivers about 'cewek' and they took me round and round. Visited some spa - 400K is the typical price. But Jakata was nothing compared to Bangkok, Nana or Soi Cowboy. Neither is it Philippines, Angeles City or P Burgos at Manila. Most of the bars and discos were quiet. Only MyBar and one more (opposite MyBar) at Falatehan has some life. Most of the men I saw in the bars are elderly caucasian and a few Indians. The girls range from young twenties to mother of 40s! Good looking ones are rare. One or two. At MyBar some girls can be pretty open. Fondling the crotch and kissing. Men shove their hands inside the ladies' skirts and shirts with ease.
Strangely, I dont see much of these in Thailand or Philippines. But in Singapore can you get a bit of that at Orchard Tower. If you dont mind paying, you get that as part of the 'waitering service' at bars at Roxy Sq, Parkway, Singapore. On the whole I would not recommend Jakarta for the 'fun' of it. You must be prepared to spend time and patient to search and wait. But what for? Better off elsewhere.
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