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A different perspective
Remember me saying in a previous post that I volunteer to give massages to women? For all of the women that I volunteered to massage, using your premise, I was doing it because I am supposedly a reflection of who they are. That is simply not true. I can't take credit for who they are. I volunteered massages, because that is what I like to do. It's part of my way of initiating intimacy. It's about who I am, and what I do which is a reflection of me, not a reflection of who the other person is. The times I may not volunteer to offer a massage may have more to do with what is going on in the moment, in my head, whether I'm tired etc. Not because of how I am supposedly assessing the individual in front of me for who they are.
And as far is attraction is concerned. Attraction is something that can happen with out effort. We attract and repulse 100's of people in a lifetime. Single people, married people, co workers, acquaintances, church mates, school mates, old flames, undesirables etc. Relationships are not always formed from every one we attract. So you can't measure by who a person is a reflection of, by just using a few relationships or encounters. A correlation or coincidence of something does not imply causation. You have to give reasons or rationale to support the theory. If there are instances where a conclusion of something doesnt apply, well then the theory or premise is not an absolute.
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[QUOTE=MrGogo;2491294]Senor Tranquillo has been a friend of mine for years, I called him yesterday. He was in the hospital and is making a slow recovery. Everyone is concerned.[/QUOTE]I saw him the other day after he got out the hospital. He's doing fine. He was driving around handling some personal business when we saw each other.
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Hotels?
There has not been a report from the hotel tread since 2013. Anyone give any info on a decent hotel that has good guest rules?
I really am more interesting in just getting to swim in the ocean but then again you never know.
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[QUOTE=Golfinho;2492025]The women you encounter and who respond to you, anticipate and meet your desires and needs on their own volition are a reflection of who you are. If you are attracting very few women who volunteer or don't have to be put on notice, this is an example of how you stand in her eyes. There are only so many top quality women to go around, and they go to the best guys, just like you try to go for the best girls.[/QUOTE]Mostly mongering is just the needy meeing the greedy.
On the one hand you got guys coming from all over the world, clutching their money and looking to fuck a chica who wouldn't look at them twice back home to satisfy their dick and their ego.
On the other hand you got chicas are just hanging out, looking to pick off low hanging fruit, wondering what the big deal about sex is, but happy to provide it to the needy.
Guys that travel halfway across the world, and spend a small fortune to get there to get laid, should keep that in mind when they are arguing about a few pesos for the privilege.
At least that's how the chicas see things. They just don't have the same "principles", that some mongers expect them to have, and so are always terminally disappointed. Putas are not in the business of boosting your self esteem, just renting out their pussy by the hour.
It is what it is.
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Hotel Garant
[QUOTE=Kelso1;2492405]There has not been a report from the hotel tread since 2013. Anyone give any info on a decent hotel that has good guest rules?
I really am more interesting in just getting to swim in the ocean but then again you never know.[/QUOTE]Last two times I stayed in Boca Chica stayed at the Hotel Garant. $45/ night with free breakfast and about 2 1/2 blocks from the beach. Room was good and girl friendly.
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Hotel Garant
[QUOTE=BogieMaker;2493425]Last two times I stayed in Boca Chica stayed at the Hotel Garant. $45/ night with free breakfast and about 2 1/2 blocks from the beach. Room was good and girl friendly.[/QUOTE]I stayed at the Garant about 4 years ago. It was owned by a young Canadian who took it over from his father. The rooms were very nice. Security was solid. Some rooms did not have air conditioning. Be sure to ask for a room with air. They were charging a few extra dollars for air at the time. And it is a short walk to. The beach. Very Chica.
Friendly. The security guard even dialed a chica for delivery one night. I do recommend it based on my last stay. Enjoy.
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[QUOTE=Oakie;2492541]
On the one hand you got guys coming from all over the world, clutching their money and looking to fuck a chica who wouldn't look at them twice back home to satisfy their dick and their ego.
[/QUOTE]Thank goodness you are different from the rest.
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[QUOTE=TomJackin;2493691]Thank goodness you are different from the rest.[/QUOTE]Sitting in the back of a plane for half the night on the way to a third world destination magically transforms you into an interesting person. Thank goodness.
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[QUOTE=TomJackin;2493691]Thank goodness you are different from the rest.[/QUOTE]Maybe! LOL.
I know that when I'm mongering, I'm just a john, a mark, smashing young beautiful Island pussy at an hourly rate, and I'm no better than the puta I'm smashing, I leave my ego at the door. All I'm interested in is her body, not her mind, and she's only interested in my dinero.
I don't complain that a third world puta doesn't really give a shit for my "needs" or my "principles", or my "expectations". Or that "she doesn't want to offer anything else except pussy! LOL. I don't want to offer anything else except my pesos, so I'm cool with that. I just want to get off. LOL.
Those that expect more, like warmth, understanding, companionship. Trust, reliability, really need to get a compatible girlfriend, and that's what I have done.
Best of both worlds. Works for me. No complaints.
YMMV.
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[QUOTE=Oakie;2493819]Maybe! LOL.
I know that when I'm mongering, I'm just a john, a mark, smashing young beautiful Island pussy at an hourly rate, and I'm no better than the puta I'm smashing, I leave my ego at the door. All I'm interested in is her body, not her mind, and she's only interested in my dinero.
I don't complain that a third world puta doesn't really give a shit for my "needs" or my "principles", or my "expectations". Or that "she doesn't want to offer anything else except pussy! LOL. I don't want to offer anything else except my pesos, so I'm cool with that. I just want to get off. LOL.
Those that expect more, like warmth, understanding, companionship. Trust, reliability, really need to get a compatible girlfriend, and that's what I have done.
Best of both worlds. Works for me. No complaints.
YMMV.[/QUOTE]I agree with you. But she should care enough about my pesos to make sure I have a good time until I leche.
A one and done I care nothing about but chicks who call and recieve call backs better have a postive attitude.
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[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2494349]I agree with you. But she should care enough about my pesos to make sure I have a good time until I leche.
A one and done I care nothing about but chicks who call and recieve call backs better have a postive attitude.[/QUOTE]True enough!
In the good old days I wasn't so particular.
I used to hang out during the day at the old Bermuda Bar on the main corner where I knew the owner and the staff. They always had a few local well behaved hookers around helping with the tables and the set ups, folding napkins etc, sometimes even behind the bar when the barmaid took a break.
I was in there one day, feeling good and loaded for bear. I took one next door to the cheap hotel room, but she didn't give an inspired performance. I cut it short not to waste my leche. Left her to clean up and went back to the bar and pulled another one. Same thing, mechanical performance, so didn't finish. Went back to the bar to finish my beer.
Then a young blonde spinner came by. Dressed to the nines. So I grabbed her and took her to the same room. Now the staff in both bars are smiling at me and wondering what was going on. She wouldn't get completely undressed and just pulled out her perky tits over her bra. Didn't want to spoil the make up, I guess. So I didn't even start. 0 for 3, in 45 minutes, while my beer was still on the bar. Damage? About 4500, including 2 room charges. Posted about it here.
Then the cute blonde came back, and apologized and she started to tell me what she would do if I took her again. Sounded interesting but I didn't bite, but later I did and she really did blow me away this time. So you never know.
Point and click mongering, hit and miss, but now I'm more choosy!
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[QUOTE=Oakie;2494465]True enough!
In the good old days I wasn't so particular.
I used to hang out during the day at the old Bermuda Bar on the main corner where I knew the owner and the staff. They always had a few local well behaved hookers around helping with the tables and the set ups, folding napkins etc, sometimes even behind the bar when the barmaid took a break.
I was in there one day, feeling good and loaded for bear. I took one next door to the cheap hotel room, but she didn't give an inspired performance. I cut it short not to waste my leche. Left her to clean up and went back to the bar and pulled another one. Same thing, mechanical performance, so didn't finish. Went back to the bar to finish my beer.
Then a young blonde spinner came by. Dressed to the nines. So I grabbed her and took her to the same room. Now the staff in both bars are smiling at me and wondering what was going on. She wouldn't get completely undressed and just pulled out her perky tits over her bra. Didn't want to spoil the make up, I guess. So I didn't even start. 0 for 3, in 45 minutes, while my beer was still on the bar. Damage? About 4500, including 2 room charges. Posted about it here.
Then the cute blonde came back, and apologized and she started to tell me what she would do if I took her again. Sounded interesting but I didn't bite, but later I did and she really did blow me away this time. So you never know.
Point and click mongering, hit and miss, but now I'm more choosy![/QUOTE]Point and Click is hit and miss indeed.
Why do you think Blondie came correct the next time?
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[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2494546]Point and Click is hit and miss indeed.
Why do you think Blondie came correct the next time?[/QUOTE]I like to think it was something to do with respect. It was an 8 dollar room at the old El Centro Bar Hotel next door, so she'd be expecting a quickie. She was willing to fuck, but when she balked about getting undressed, I just got up and said thanks but no thanks, with a smile, I paid her the agreed amount and was polite, didn't complain and didn't dis her in any way, and left her in the room to go finish mi beer.
Her name was Kesia or Kenia and some of the Sosua vets may remember her, she was quite striking.
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Boca Chica after curfew
I have been reading the Boca Chica and Sosua threads to get a better picture of those towns, unfortunately in my issue is no precedent.
Is there any places in Boca Chica that have some action after curfew?
I understood that in Sosua, Ahnvee might have some as it is a resort.
Not looking for crazy parties, just some lively evenings for Christmas and New Years holidays.
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[QUOTE=Cadmus;2505557]I have been reading the Boca Chica and Sosua threads to get a better picture of those towns, unfortunately in my issue is no precedent.
Is there any places in Boca Chica that have some action after curfew?
I understood that in Sosua, Ahnvee might have some as it is a resort.
Not looking for crazy parties, just some lively evenings for Christmas and New Years holidays.[/QUOTE]No there isn't a place like Ahnvee in BC. Ahnvee is operating like a resort however its bar is open to the public. Because of its resort status; they can close their door after curfew and continue the party. Boca chica has resorts, however they are not open to the general public. You can go to the Casas in Boca Chica and get their number. After curfew hours you can order a chica to come to your place. They may charge you about 3000 for the chica and 1000 for the delivery.