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[QUOTE=The Traveler] If they would do it with me, then they do it with others too.[/QUOTE]So many of them let me go bare back in Pattay about 6 months ago. Some of them I even pressured in to it. I feel bad about this now. They can be talked into it and its up to us to not do that.
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It is very easy to have condomless sex in Thailand, for many reasons:
1. many girls do not care much, it is in their mentality to be fatalistic and fun-loving.
2. if you go to MPs that cater to the Asian market, condom use is not so frequent, as many Asian men do not want to use it. (They seem to believe AIDS is a Farang thing, that is why many such places are Asian only).
3. Girls can be carried away by the moment and lose sight of whether you use a condom or not.
4. if you are with a girl for some time, she will easily consider that she is your GF, and in their mind GF sex is condomless. "Some time" might mean several days, or just the second shot of the first encounter.
For all those reasons, you should never count on the girl to be the one enforcing safe sex. You are in charge, and you need to be strong enough to use condoms in all circumstances, because the choice is often entirely yours. Or else, you are into risk management area ...
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[QUOTE=Fly for Thai]Anyone else experience anything like this? [/QUOTE]Last time I was in LOS for a month I took viagra all the time and got large bulging vain that didn't go down. Luckly it went down went I went back home. It took about three or four days of no viagra before it went down. It didn't hurt.
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Seydlitz,
good to see you back, hope everything we were talking about in our last mails went out fine.
I agree with all you said, but most girls I have been with - who cater the farang section of the sex biz - do actually insist on protection. They will provide BBBJ, but no fun without a condom.
These girls are well aware about the risks and do realize that they are the main source of income for their families which has to be protected.
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Clive's Penis
[QUOTE=MS Clive]I was bitten by the STD bug recently. Not a major one really: Chlamydia. Apparently 70% of the women in US have it. It is more common among teenagers. The symptoms are so often ignorable that patients do not know it.
I usually practice very safe sex: no BBBjs for me.
I may have let go a bit in BKK with a go-go girl who gave me a BBBJ for around 15 sec before the CBJ. I do not know if I was already infected but either I infected her or she infected me.
Never mongered since Jan 1st week of 2005.[/QUOTE]LOL- a taste of Chlamydia is good for you- nothing like Urethritis to help you repent sins. Plus, that uthethral swab sort of feels nice too.
Chlamydia is a good and relatively painless lesson, that could scare you just enough to stop you catching something worse in the future.
It is extremely difficult to catch this from oral so I doubt you caught it from the go-go-oral.
I didn't realise anyone actually did CBJs, I thought it was an urban myth. I've not once in my life had a CBJ.
Chlamydia is not only rife in Thailand, but also like you say in the US, and everywhere else. A recent study in the UK found that one in eight men, and one in ten women tested positive for Chlamydia. The figures were even higher for teenagers.
The biggest problem with Chlamydia is that 50% of men and 70% of women are asymptomatic, ie- they have no idea they have it. This is one good reason to visit a GUM clinic every so often, even if all seems happy downstairs. And if you test positive a mere seven to ten days on Doxycycline will calm the storm.
Hope your cock feels better soon and may your passion for mongering return with a vengeance.
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Klap Kalp
[QUOTE=Member #2967] Chlamydia is a good and relatively painless lesson,.... And if you test positive a mere seven to ten days on Doxycycline will calm the storm.[/QUOTE]
Painless? Well so is pissing razor blades:)
a mere seven to ten days: it depends on the actual dose. Lots of Thai skanks are very dirty down there as they fuck through their illnesses and Thailand is well known for its virulent strains. Many of the hookers probably never get properly cleaned up at all. Skanking remains a risky proposition.
As an aside to all this: when one drinks water in Thai bars as Skinles does, the staff often think it is because you are infected as that is the reason most expats drink water. Maybe something to think of if you are trying to proposition a skanky Thai barmaid.
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Domino - really on the water?
I rarely drink anything except water or mixed water/something not sweet. To appease 1 bar owner, I actually had a beer (after I had eeen going there for a week) She was surprised
Much alcohol tends to cause "other" problems with my metabolism, but lots of fluids is good
(40 odd years ago, I had the occassion in PigAlley in Paris to unfortunate with a good looking French piece who gave me the gift that keeps on giving. - Been there, done that - wished I hadn't done her at all)
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[QUOTE=Domino]
As an aside to all this: when one drinks water in Thai bars as Skinles does, the staff often think it is because you are infected as that is the reason most expats drink water.
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Domino,
where is the connection between drinking water and having a STD/VD ?
I understand that someone has to avoid alcohol if he got hepatitis, but water is just a soft drink. Hepatitis in a certain stage can easily be determined (or guessed) by the color of your eyes. Guess that's a better sign than drinking water.
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Dinghy,
I guess you are talking about herpes. It usually only breaks out if your immune system is weakened by something else.
I have heard that liquorice can be of help. Something in there - I forgot the name of the ingredient - is able to kill the herpes viruses. It's no cure for it, but give it a try.
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Royal Flush
Drinking lots of water flushes the system and so clap carriers should drink lots of it. (Look at the posts in the overall safe sex section right now). The barrack room humor of Bkk's ex pat drinkers give rise to the comments about water drinkers in bars plus, no doubt, the many times they catch a dose. I mainly drink water and so the skanks call me water boy. Blueberry is a recommended drink too. I got the water and blueberrry advice from doctors btw.
I cannot comment on herpes except to say it has no known cure. Touch wood, I have not contracted it and so I have not looked at the old wive's "cures" concerning it.
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Fun Reading...
Chlamydia
Chlamydial infection is caused by a bacterium, Chlamydia trachomatis. Like gonorrhea, it's easily transmitted by sex without a condom, including oral sex and anal sex. Unlike gonorrhea, a chlamydial infection usually has no symptoms, or else very mild symptoms.
Chlamydia is the most common STD in the U.S. caused by a bacterium.
The symptoms of a chlamydial infection are usually slight pain during urination or a slight discharge, early in the infection, usually within one to three weeks after infection. Many people have no symptoms. For those who do, the symptoms usually go away until the disease reaches an advanced stage and causes inflammation and pain around the testicles or in the female reproductive system or swelling of the lymph nodes. By then, if not treated soon, the female or the male may become sterile.
A pregnant woman can easily pass the infection on to the eyes of her baby during delivery, causing a serious eye infection and possibly blindness. Chlamydia may also show up as pneumonia in the baby within 3 to 6 weeks of birth.
To determine whether you have a chlamydia infection, the doctor needs to take a smear from the urethra of the man or the vagina of the female and perform tests. It should be determined whether what you have is gonorrhea or chlamydia or non-specific urethritis (NSU), or a combination thereof.
A simple regimen of certain antibiotics usually knocks off chlamydia.
The best site I've found to date on gonorrhea is the U.S. National Institute of Health's web page at [url]http://www.niaid.nih.gov/factsheets/stdclam.htm[/url]
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More Fun Reading...
Molluscum Contagiosum ("the clam")
Molluscum contagiosum, also known as "the clam", is a recently recognized STD that is not well understood. After a friend notified me of this one (who picked it up from a prostitute on Sukhumvit) and reading a lot of literature on this one, here's what I've put together:
A small bump appears on the skin. It can be on the scrotum or penis or anywhere in the genital area. In the center of the bump is what looks like a pimple but is not a pimple. The skin is moist around the bump, within a radius of a couple of centimeters, when it first comes out. It doesn't hurt or itch. It's fairly benign, but it grows a little for a few weeks to a few months, and then goes away. Apparently, the body fights it off. It generally does not recur. My friend's doctor cut out the central pimple, which turned out to be a hard white bump, as the doctor says that if you don't cut that out, then it will get a lot bigger and take longer to go away. His doctor said he had seen a lot of cases of molluscum contagiosum in farangs on Sukhumvit over the last year. My friend said that the bump that the doctor cut healed up real fast, but two other bumps showed up on his scrotum without the central pimple, and grew for a couple of months, then went away entirely.
There is no medicinal treatment for molluscum. From what I've read on Internet, the doctor usually doesn't do anything surgically, either, unlike what the doctor on Sukhumvit did. However, my friend said that after the central white dot was cut out, the moisture and some other symptoms were reversed and went away quickly.
On the Internet, many people have expressed that sexual desire was unusually and significantly increased during the early stages of mollusca and/or while the bump is present. The speculation is that there has been a natural selection process in which the molluscum promotes its own spreading by making the host more sexually active.
No known negative effects of mollusca are known yet, and indeed not much is known about it.
The best source of information on the web on mollusca that I've found so far is on [url]http://www.syntac.net/dl/Clam/[/url] but I've noted that it's starting to show up in medical sites for consumers, albeit more formally and with less information.
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Juice,
"Making the host more sexually active" and "No known negative effects of mollusca are known yet"
Sounds like fun:D!
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I thought it was funny too...:D
juice
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Molluscum
This a a good web-site for Molluscum Contagiosum information.
[url]http://www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/23068963/[/url]
Especially amusing are the list of treatments. But, if you happen to find one on your weiner DO NOT use any method other than the liquid nitrogen.
These aren't too common on the penis, they normally occur on the torsos of children. But it is the sort of thing you could easily pick up if you're a BB fan.
In France they actually eat the liquid contained inside.