My usual tangential ramblings
[quote=lover boy #2]
i believe the thai worker then goes to clinic to get "morning after pill" to avoid pregnancy. very few thai workers are concerned of hiv.....that is reason for low condom usuage....but these girls are taking birth control pills. the ones requesting condoms are concerned of pregnancy mostly.[/quote]
many thai bar-girls, especially newbies are not this smart.
many girls got pregnant from their thai boyfriends due to not knowing anything about the morning after pill, or because they were too lazy to go and feeling lucky today.
the number of issaan girls that got pregnant because the stupid society taught them that good girls do not have sex, is astonishing. then the boy told her he loved her and despite her protests, forced her to have sex. (semi-[url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] but she loved him maybe).
she could not go into the local pharmacy and buy birth control pills due to the "shame" for a virtuous young girl. besides the pharmacy people probably know her family.
later the family will not accept the boy because he got her pregnant before marriage and besides he was probably just mucking around.
and so on.
the society here is stuck in thinking of at least 50 years ago.
when will society learn some basic modern principals.
teenagers are having sex and this cannot be stopped.
sex is great fun and a very basic drive.
safe sex must programmed into the whole society since they are children. thai men must use condoms when playing up so they don't end up passing hiv to their wives.
people must work.
sex work is a well paid and "noble" profession. people will normally end up working the best paid job that they can tolerate reasonably well. there should be no shame for thai girls that are horny and like to get a lot of sex for money as well.
girls who are fantastic performers as sex workers desrve to be very well paid and should be highly valued by society.
girls need to be educated also in how to have great sex.
they need to know that sex and love are two different things.
they should be encouraged to masturbate from puberty to get in touch with their own bodies and to find out how they like to be touched. they should be watching sex videos to learn what things the men like (even the rather kinky ones) and how girls enjoy themselves.
girls (and guys) should be taught about understanding the sex drive of their partners so that they can try to make their partner satisfied by sufficient sex but not far too much.
a good couple need to have moderately compatible sex drives.
humans are not mean't to be monogamous same as most higher species are also not monogamous. monogamy is old world thinking from when there was no birth control.
why is it that the parents never teach their children all the basic life skills. my parents didn't teach me either. i had to make all the basic mistakes myself to learn what goes on.
i had to choose a very unsuitable girl to be my ex wife, without having the skills to pyschologically profile her for basic compatibility.
in schools we get taught a lot of useless subjects (not all useless) instead of basic life skills
teach not to believe the sweet talk and watch how others are acting instead.