[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2752463]I have to say, you have impressive range in your tastes.[/QUOTE]I guess, pussy is pussy and sometimes it is all you care about, not a specific type. I would love to hear what % you scored from this list.
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[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2752463]I have to say, you have impressive range in your tastes.[/QUOTE]I guess, pussy is pussy and sometimes it is all you care about, not a specific type. I would love to hear what % you scored from this list.
[QUOTE=Kohlisaab;2751846]Thanks for your feedback. Are you able to share the SA handles?[/QUOTE]The first two girls, I had already met them during other visits to CDMX. Not sure if they are still active in SA. I will ask them and if they are and cool with sharing their handle, I will let you know. The 3rd one deactivated her handle and she is not responding to WhatsApp. If she responds, I will let you know. But going forward I will try to be more mindful about this. Good luck in your search!
We have all heard the line on SA that chemistry will determine that night's / date's trajectory. I have never taken issue because I have gotten along (didn't bang) with every girl that I've met on Seeking. Some have resulted in multiple bangs or long term arrangements, while others have ended with a single date and maybe some DFK or a BJ.
Maybe my perspective was too externalized, but I never considered that I might be the one not feeling the chemistry.
Last time I was in Spain, one of the girls I found was a Peruvian that spoke perfect english and had a great what'sapp vibe. Instead of heading to a restaurant or bar / lounge, she wanted to head to the park to do some martial arts. . She wanted me to show her some Muay Thai (MT) and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) and I agreed like "hell yeah!, that sounds like fun" Her profile: Thin, perfect height, with small tits and an in-shape ass. She was definitely within the limited sphere of my preferred girl to bang. She showed up in workout gear and she was pretty, with long black hair.
Body, face, smile, smell, teeth. She ticked all the boxes. Upon first inspection, I got a little excited thinking, "I'm going to be banging this girl before the night's out".
We hit the park and we started with MT. Fun. After combos, We did some clench work, which for those who don't know MT, it's grabbing the base of the skull, back of the head, or back of the neck to control your opponent, while pressing in your hips to theirs in order not to catch a knee to the gut or junk (pretty much, it's close AF). When you do this with a girl, there is definitely a sexual component. While doing this, I thought, WTF. Nothing. Where is the "sexiness" that I know accompanies this? "Whatever", I thought. I figured it was nothing. We moved onto BJJ and I showed her a few moves that required her to be in a top position with me on my back (Hip on hip or D on V) I felt nothing again (no blood flow down below, nada) and she didn't show any signs either. No prolonged stares, or hip movement, close to face lingering (nothing). I thought, "This girl has no sexual energy!" Even though I thought this, I still would have smashed (to get another chronicle for self and forum LOL). We had a drink after the park and my thought was that any issue I had at a the park would def go away after a few drinks. During the drinks, she mentions she has a BF at home and they are in an open relationship. She's a swinger and her dude thinks Seeking is a great idea for her. After drinks we end up at the park around the corner from my apt and we hang out there for a while. Dudes, I felt nothing. I even tried to imagine banging her in order to get the juices flowing and nothing. . I have been with girls that are not as pretty and have had to keep myself under control. Not the case with her. There was no chemistry.
It's 11 PM at this point and we have been together for about 7 hours. She mentioned that we should go to my place and order some takeout. I declined and made up an excuse about work. I called her an uber and went home alone. Even when we hugged, there was nothing from my side. Her body was pressed completely against mine and I felt nothing. It wasn't her looks, or her attitude, or any of the normal stuff that kills the mood. She literally had no sexual energy.
So, Shroomer doesn't give up that easily. As I mentioned, she was my type. She hit me up to go to dinner 2 days later. After dinner, we started walking toward my place and it's about a 15 min walk. During that time, I decided to start fresh with testing the waters (touching, being close, etc) while we were walking. She never moved away, but had no energy to respond to. We decided to go back to my place and chill out. Of course, I thought that since we were going to be on my turf that it was a done deal. I was wrong. We arrived and she never put on the brakes, but there was no desire to fuel my action. I contrast this with Maria that looks deep in your eyes while you are talking and nods her head in a way that gets the blood flowing mid-sentence. Her eyes are saying kiss me, while you are trying to finish your thought (report coming on her later). The Peruvian was open, talkative, amiable, and pleasant to be around. But. No sexual energy at all!!
I've met girls from SA that I didn't' want to bang before, but never met a girl that I would bang, but had no chemical reaction for it. It's like your eyes like her, but your body has no interest. Her lack of sexuality actually killed mine.
Chemistry is a thing. . 02.
[QUOTE=LshRoomer;2752601]We have all heard the line on SA that chemistry will determine that night's / date's trajectory. I have never taken issue because I have gotten along (didn't bang) with every girl that I've met on Seeking. Some have resulted in multiple bangs or long term arrangements, while others have ended with a single date and maybe some DFK or a BJ.
No sexual energy at all!!
I've met girls from SA that I didn't' want to bang before, but never met a girl that I would bang, but had no chemical reaction for it. It's like your eyes like her, but your body has no interest. Her lack of sexuality actually killed mine.
Chemistry is a thing. . 02.[/QUOTE]Interesting take, I've ran into girls I'm not 100% into, but usually a couple of Viagra pills or Cialis is enough to forget about chemistry LOL.
[QUOTE=LshRoomer;2752601]We have all heard the line on SA that chemistry will determine that night's / date's trajectory. I have never taken issue because I have gotten along (didn't bang) with every girl that I've met on Seeking. Some have resulted in multiple bangs or long term arrangements, while others have ended with a single date and maybe some DFK or a BJ.
Maybe my perspective was too externalized, but I never considered that I might be the one not feeling the chemistry.
Last time I was in Spain, one of the girls I found was a Peruvian that spoke perfect english and had a great what'sapp vibe. Instead of heading to a restaurant or bar / lounge, she wanted to head to the park to do some martial arts. . She wanted me to show her some Muay Thai (MT) and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) and I agreed like "hell yeah!, that sounds like fun" Her profile: Thin, perfect height, with small tits and an in-shape ass. She was definitely within the limited sphere of my preferred girl to bang. She showed up in workout gear and she was pretty, with long black hair.
Body, face, smile, smell, teeth. She ticked all the boxes. Upon first inspection, I got a little excited thinking, "I'm going to be banging this girl before the night's out"..[/QUOTE]If chemistry did not matter, people will be banging their hot sister. Yet, normal people would have no desire regardless of hot she is.
[QUOTE=EuropeanDmv75;2752553]I guess, pussy is pussy and sometimes it is all you care about, not a specific type. I would love to hear what % you scored from this list.[/QUOTE]Oh while I very much appreciate your list because it tells a better story I won't be hitting any of them. My next trip is not to Mexico. Tho I have seeked in Cdmx multiple times and it's one of my favorite cities. And the benefit of doing it multiples times is you can see who the pros are, because a year or two later they're still on there even if with a "new" profile. That city is so large there is always new talent coming up. And 5000-6000 pesos, which I offer for an long date of about 8 hours, seems to go a long way.
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2752806]Oh while I very much appreciate your list because it tells a better story I won't be hitting any of them. My next trip is not to Mexico. Tho I have seeked in Cdmx multiple times and it's one of my favorite cities. And the benefit of doing it multiples times is you can see who the pros are, because a year or two later they're still on there even if with a "new" profile. That city is so large there is always new talent coming up. And 5000-6000 pesos, which I offer for an long date of about 8 hours, seems to go a long way.[/QUOTE]Great, 5000-6000, is the sweet spot in CDMX. You can get some great girls for 4000, but any lower then that, will be a lot of work and time. I just got back from CDMX, another great trip.
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We hit the park and we started with MT. Fun. After combos, We did some clench work, which for those who don't know MT, it's grabbing the base of the skull, back of the head, or back of the neck to control your opponent, while pressing in your hips to theirs in order not to catch a knee to the gut or junk (pretty much, it's close AF). When you do this with a girl, there is definitely a sexual component. While doing this, I thought, WTF. Nothing. Where is the "sexiness" that I know accompanies this? "Whatever", I thought. I figured it was nothing. We moved onto BJJ and I showed her a few moves that required her to be in a top position with me on my back (Hip on hip or D on V) I felt nothing again (no blood flow down below, nada) and she didn't show any signs either. No prolonged stares, or hip movement, close to face lingering (nothing). I thought, "This girl has no sexual energy!" Even though I thought this, I still would have smashed (to get another chronicle for self and forum LOL). We had a drink after the park and my thought was that any issue I had at a the park would def go away after a few drinks. During the drinks, she mentions she has a BF at home and they are in an open relationship. She's a swinger and her dude thinks Seeking is a great idea for her. After drinks we end up at the park around the corner from my apt and we hang out there for a while. Dudes, I felt nothing. I even tried to imagine banging her in order to get the juices flowing and nothing. . I have been with girls that are not as pretty and have had to keep myself under control. Not the case with her. There was no chemistry.
[/QUOTE]Though not Muay Thai, but it reminded me of the time that I spent with a half Romanian-Turkish girl in a now defunct FKK Living Room several years back in Germany. I would spend a good chunk of my time with her whenever I was there.
Anyway, she said she was a wrestler when she was in school and often wrestle with the boys. I asked her why don't we wrestle to prove that she was not lying, and we got into position, both of us nude. I don't know much about wrestling but I play Judo, so it is almost the same I think LOL. For someone of a smaller size, she sure knows her move. For both of us to wrestle nude, our bodies rubbing against each other all the time, it did generate a lot of sexual stimulation. Is that chemistry? I don't know, but it was a lot of fun. Plus, with the added mirror on the wall and on the ceiling in that room, it was really exciting for me to watch too while doing it.
Curious to know if anyone has met SB who has really fallen for you (and maybe you having that same feeling), that she actually tears up when you leave, and she really enjoys the time when you are together. I meant more than just spending one night, but spending the week on a trip etc.
[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2753070]Curious to know if anyone has met SB who has really fallen for you (and maybe you having that same feeling), that she actually tears up when you leave, and she really enjoys the time when you are together. I meant more than just spending one night, but spending the week on a trip etc.[/QUOTE]The one over-the-top experience I had was / is like this. She developed feelings and recently confessed that she still has them. She moved 6 hours away, but we still stay in touch.
[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2753070]Curious to know if anyone has met SB who has really fallen for you (and maybe you having that same feeling), that she actually tears up when you leave, and she really enjoys the time when you are together. I meant more than just spending one night, but spending the week on a trip etc.[/QUOTE]Definitely a few of these. Alexa and I def adore each other. Fallen a bit both ways. But still practical that we are long distance and enjoy it when together. We did initial two nights in Vegas, then I flew her to Miami for a weekend. Then three epic nights back in vegas.
Sarah def had fallen a bit for me. Was in daily text contact. Always wanting to figure how to meet up. To be fair I flew her to the Mediterranean after one weekend together. Hard to not love that. LOL. We are a bit sexually incompatible tho and def winding it down. We did the long weekend, a few days in the Mediterranean, and a night here or there.
And Shayla is def a hard fall in both directions. She wants to see me even tho we are non transactional on payment. She always whines a little (in a nice way) if I can only stay a couple hours rather than 4 or 5. When we've been apart she rushes to me and showers me in kisses. We have def transcended the usual sugar baby genre. We in new territory here. And loving it. We’ve seen each other pretty close to weekly since January. And with a new living arrangement we will see each other more. Prob won’t happen every week but saw her three times this week.
What's the deal with all of these profiles that I see of allegedly "mixed" women whose pictures are of women who are as white as rice? There are a ton of these types of profiles lately, at least in my corner of the universe. Virtually all of these "mixed race" profiles tend to be very recently established on the site and strike me as being as fake as the assertions of mixed blood being claimed.
[QUOTE=LshRoomer;2752601]SNIP During the drinks, she mentions she has a BF at home and they are in an open relationship. She's a swinger and her dude thinks Seeking is a great idea for her..[/QUOTE]I had an initial lunch date with a SB prospect. She had lots going for her. She told me she about her marriage, her kids, her interests and that she's allowed to play. Went parking for a while and trying to get things happening. Nothing felt natural at all. I dropped her back to her home and texted her after thanks but no thanks.
Maybe the swingers' game is different to the SB / SD game.
So I wrote more extensive write up but my phone died and it was lost in the ether. Let's try again.
To start with Shayla is officially my mistress. No more PPM. She's a kept woman. I pay for her place and she is the best girlfriend a guy could ever ask for. Didn't think I'the ever get to this level but 40 Seeking girls later I officially have a mistress. 😋 We cooked Italian together at our place and it was soooo fun. Followed by epic sex.
I still can't believe what a horny beast this girl is. I have to get her going by kissing, tits, or pussy rub but 15 seconds later she is on fire and we are lit for epic sex. Last night was particularly excellent. Best of my life actually. Yep. We smoked a couple bowls before which. Never hurts. But we literally went at it non stop and I do mean nonstop for one and a half hours. Five times we swapped between sex in various positions and her BJing for an extended period. Amazing combo of both. And two shots. I didn't think the second was possible. But she did. LOL.
A couple highlights. One. We are kinda in between rounds and face to face and she is just kissing and kissing and kissing me. We have literally been kissing for like a half hour nonstop and she's still making out heavy. She says "god I just love to kiss you". Yes ma'am. I got ya!
Two. Again at a lull. I'm thinking maybe we pack it up. She's on her back vibing herself (we got that out about midway) and she says "can you put it inside me just for a few more minutes. Please? Well of course this leads to another half hour of BJ and fucking. Good lord she's a dynamo. I am in love!
P.S. Thete was this big argument in the Medellin thread. Some guys said chemistry doesn't matter. Sex is sex. And others argued chemistry is key to good sex. My POV is it's like cake and ice cream. Both are independently good to most people. Some like cake better. Some like ice cream together. But for a lot of people the combo is best. And so it is with sex. If you have chemistry and the sex bites well that's not great. If you have sex without chemistry yeah it's prob good if she's good at it even without chemistry. But put the two together great sex technique and great chemistry and voila. Magic.
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2754407]To start with Shayla is officially my mistress. No more PPM. She's a kept woman. I pay for her place and she is the best girlfriend a guy could ever ask for. Didn't think I'the ever get to this level but 40 Seeking girls later I officially have a mistress. We cooked Italian together at our place and it was soooo fun. Followed by epic sex.[/QUOTE]Steve you're not a monger. At least a hardcore one you're not. I've always felt this way about you. A hardcore monger needs to think not once, not twice, but at least thrice about even repeating, let alone keeping a woman! Nope, you're no hardcore monger. You only play one on ISG LOL!