Heard this argument too many times
[QUOTE=Tar Heel Bred;1128446]A girl will want to spend time with a young early 20's white good looking american. As I'm sure that is not something they see and talk to regularly. What girl wants to go out with an old mongering sex tourist thats old enough to be their dad? They don't, they just do it for the money and the freebies that a girl receives when accompanying a monger.[/QUOTE]I have stayed out of your bantering because I try not to give attention to the insecure. I am in my fifties and a few pounds overweight (mostly due to working late hours and eating poorly) and still find that I can attract women of all ages because I show that I am interested in their opinions and lives. I have spent money on the young ones when I feel like it can help them or their child. I have been to their neighborhoods getting to know how they are made up inside. I can't bench press 300 lbs or run a 10K, but I can still be cordial and humble. It has gotten me far. I am married to a great Colombian woman and admit there was a time when our marriage would not survive the cultural difference and time apart. She is aware that during our separation, her young friends found their way into my apartment to talk, drink and have fun. It is hard for me to hide anything because I can be in town five minutes and word gets to her that I am in Laquito.
Us old guys know what we are doing and we are appreciated by these girls. I have had many visit me during the day just to listen to music and talk. I have gotten freebies not because of what they may later get out of me, but they just enjoy the company of an older man that has experienced life and has confidence. Sure I have paid girls also when I saw somebody I just could not resist. I have had girls come up to me on the street to meet me because their girlfriends tell them they enjoyed their time with me.
There will always be those that expect gifts and yes it may look strange to you to see some "old" man with a young girl on his arm. However, I find it strange tp see some young guy trying to get into a girls pants and then move on to the next. I would bet that when I return to Cartagena, I will have plenty of company when they know I am in town. However, it wil end in Bogota next week when my wife and stepson get their visas. I will be committed to just one person even though I have been given the green light to enjoy my time.
You might be a good kid and be fun to have a drink and shoot the breeze. So keep that same attitude with us "old" guys because you might find that we are fun to be with and the young girls see that in us also. If you will be in Cartagena in the middle of April, I will buy you a drink or two to help your budget.