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. Here's something that I've been wondering about . . . I see lots of reports on the Forum about middle age guys (35 to 55) who hit on 2, 3 or 4 SW's in one night. Guys who talk about 2 or 3 pops with a girl and then return to a club to look for more action. Maybe I'm just getting old, but after I've spent an hour or 2 with a woman and come once, maybe twice, I can't see the need or desire to spend more time and money looking for more sex that night. The next day, sure. But even when I was 18, I almost never came more than 3 times. It was my "baseball rule": 3 strikes and you're out. Even if it is physically possible-and of course it is- I doesn't feel that good and I certainly don't have the desire to do it again. Now in my late 40's, I usually only want one pop. I may take my time getting there because the journey is more important than the final destination. But paying for 3 or 4 different ladies strikes me as a psychological addiction more than a physical need. And someone mentioned taking Viagra and coming 8 times! That would hurt!
But after a good sex session with a woman- pro or girlfriend- I'm thinking about food, sports, money, almost anything but more sex. Is it just me? I'm not talking about the more common addiction to "new pussy", having sex with a different woman for the first time. That is almost a universal turn-on and is why this Forum exists in the first place. But multiple times with multiple women in a very short time period. I guess I'm just easily satisfied . . . - P
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Hey Prok-I'm of the same persuasion. At this point, I look for the GFE totally. It definitly is a search for quality over quanity. When I was younger, it was a more balanced ratio!
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I dunno, I think it depends on the circumstances and whether or not it's your regular prediliction. Even though I'm a big one on the GFE and tend to stick to single extended encounters, I can definitely also see the attractions of a debauchery spree, especially in places like Thailand or Amsterdam where it's inexpensive and easy to do. I look at it like going on an eating spree when there's a ton of great food easily available, or sitting through a full six-course dinner -- not something I'd do or have done on a regular basis, but once in a great while I can see it.
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Well, JZ, I don't know how cheap Amsterdam is any more, especially with the Euro close to $1.10 but on my recent trip to Buenos Aires, I definitely was trying to see how much I could fuck, simply because I could afford it. I didn't really press it because I am never going to have a "personal best" where condoms are involved. I am 45 and usually I like to come twice and usually the second time is better. But for sure I would not need or want to fuck that much all the time.
But Proko, I know what you mean about it not being as good after a while. When I was 22 or 23, I came 8 times in one day which was a record at the time BUT the last time felt really strange, like I pulled a muscle in my perineum or something. Then for years after that my ejaculation had no distance on it; it just kinda came out. That didn't go away for maybe 6-8 years.
Then maybe two years ago I was dating this gal and she was really boring outside of bed so sex was all there was to do with her. One time she asked me what was the most times I came in one day and I told her the above story. She said we had to try to beat that record and I did come 9 times within 24 hours, although not technically in the same day. But 7 and 8 were not really enjoyable and then #9 just hurt like a motherfucker and then I had the same syndrome of no force to the ejaculation. Fortunately it only lasted a few months that time.
But the thing with condom sex is that no matter how good #1 or #2 is, I get horny again within hours. That doesn't happen when I am with a regular partner (and thus not using condoms). I suppose it could be related to the regular partner thing but I really don't think so.
Therefore, maybe condoms enable you to come more on a per day or per week basis even if they make you able to come less on a "per session" basis.
Then I read about guys taking 200 mg of Viagra and it really scares me, but I guess sexual addiction is less unhealthy than heroin addiction or nicotine addiction or alcohol addiction. I just got an e-mail from a gal I met in BA and she said she read in the news about a new Viagra or Viagra-type substance that lasts for 36 hours. She said "I sure hope you never take it!"
My sister is 60 and she keeps telling me that sex will become less important as I get older and I keep telling her I wish it would hurry up and happen!
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Re Prokofiev's post:
I'm glad to see someone actually bring up the frequency issue. I'm likewise amazed at some of the stories. I'm 45 and frequently go on short trips to Dominican Rep, Thailand etc. I find that the first few days, I'll be with two or three women per day, but then I slow down. By the third day, I dont even fuck because I can't cum due to the condom; I either get a CBJ or have them suck on my nuts while I jack off, which I enjoy enormously.
I also agree that with this kind of frequency, the sensation diminishes. If I have sex after not doing it for say, a week, the sensation is far more pleasurable than if I'm doing it constantly, such as on these short trips.
What keeps me fucking on these trips though is the variety of girls; and the thought that when I get back to the US, its not nearly so available or fun. So I make the most of it.
It also takes me a few hours to find the desire to do it a second time. Twice, when I was in my twenties, I came twice in quick succession without even pulling out. That never happens now.
All in all though, my sex life in my forties is better than it was in my twenties, and a lot safer. I get much more; with many more partners; in exotic locales, and without any strings attached.
Don
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Well, there is no doubt that condoms lessen the sensation and after close to 30 years of abuse and over-use, the little guy is a lot less sensitive than he used to be. But the # of times I can get off has nothing to do with a condom. When the tank is empty, I get that uncomfortable tug and slight pain at the base of my balls which is natures way of telling me, "No more!"Give it a rest" And I felt the same thing when I was 18, almost always during the 3rd pop. To go beyond 3, was an act of bravery . . .
Now days when I'm in Mexico, I often go to an estetica or casa every OTHER day which makes it more exciting and pleasureable, not to mention cheaper. It may only cost $35 or $50 to get laid, but why spend $150 or $200, when $50 is enough? Of course most of my trips are 3 to 6 weeks so I have plenty of time to visit several ladies, several times. But I definitely look for the GFE, and after finding one I'm not inclined to hit the streets looking for more that night. But to each his own. The thrill of the hunt is one of lifes stronger emotions, and there is a very fine line between sexual addiction and just being "male".
Peace, - P
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Proko: As one of your most ardent admirers in such places as the American board where you are your usual rock of sense, I am amazed you would only come 2 or so times when you were 18. Had you a sheltered upbringing? I still fondly remember one session where I came 13+ times (I jest not). And as for doing 2-3-4 pops non stop, I thought that was normal at that age. Maybe you guys got zapped by aliens or something else took your sex drives away. maybe you are suited to marathons as opposed to short sprinting? Sex is like drinking: some sip, some can't stop and some like occasional binges. I also think love has a lot to do with it. When I love a woman, I can fuck her for hours and hours, kinda like a good motor bike, just rev her up and keep her hummin'. It is also good exercise and there is apower thrill in pumping away into a piece of warm meat, a woman in other words.
So too does the weather. The tropics were made for fucking. I find I fuck much better there (quantity wise and the ladies do help)
But fucking woking women is often like going to the rest room, merely answering the call of nature. However, when there is something more there, you gotta open up that throttle.
Generally speaking, 2 pops does me now, though I alwayst ry for a third one when I pay for 2. Gotta push ourselves guys.
Of course, so much sex is a bore. Blow jobs are best now, I find when I am tired or they are particularly ugly. Everything in balance I believe. That is why I am going to try to bonk at least 50 women during my 3 week stay in Thailand. That and my sexual addiction.
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Skinless,
13 times in one night???? I'll take your word on that, but it really is beyond my comprehension. I honestly can't remember ever doing more than 3 , although I've done 3 quite a number of times.
As for hours and hours, yes that was fairly common . . . and still is for that matter. I can go for a long time without coming and I enjoy staying at a high level of excitement without letting go. And bonding with female flesh at the most primitive level is a continual and basic thrill . . . probably for all of us.
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Sure skinless. What happened, from 13 times a nite to 200mg viagra per nite?
Dickhead your story about not hitting the distance is pretty funny and it's the first time I hear that.
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Sure skinless. What happened, from 13 times a nite to 200mg viagra per nite?
Read the post or get someone to read it to you. I am talking there of my long gone youth. That was one (1) nite, una noce with a fucking great fuck who was 10 or more years older than me and was delighted to get some young blood. She led me along. I could still jerk off thinking of her. I was in love. And when I was a lot younger (and older), jerking off 8 or so times was no big deal. Now I prefer to share my seed. I am a generous guy.
Were you ever young? Have you never noticed young guys jerking away? Young guys are full of cum. I was once young. I have a very good friend who developed very early. Coming 13 times would have been nothing to him in his day. He fucks his wife every night (2 pops) and likes somore more. He ate his greens when he was young.
I am going to OD on Viagra for one (1) nite just so I have a poker to go with my poker face. I am not doing it for a hard on. I am doing it to maintain a hard on so they get the wages of sin (a few baht and my steel pockered dick up their butts). The only consideration I have there is my heart (I don't want to get a heart attack). My dick is not a consideration. It is merely my love toy (along with my electronic ones). I am doing all that coz I am a sick bastard, not coz I have a horn. I don't want to engage them in conversation. I just want to see how far I can push the envelope with them. This is my passion. They are my guinea pigs, my fellow collaborators in this dark journey of mine.
Proko is a marathon man. More of us are good at short distances. Maybe his ancestors came from East Africa and ours came from the West. maybe he was a steam engine in an earlier life puffing away across the great plains so that he could puff away on top of women this time round. Who knows? As long as we love and are loved.
[url]http://www.hps-online.com/tsy2.htm:[/url] Taoist take on all this, which has the much coveted John Skinless seal of approval. As I keep saying, love conquers all. If we can love and respect others, then we can improve our sex performance. Look at it like any other sport. Eveyone can play tennis but the Williams sisters are that bit better. Everyone can fuck but Skinless has been that bit better. That would not impress a bunny rabbit who does 13 before breakfast.
Ever see those old Rocky movies? You know the one where he is making his cumback? Getting into shape? Working out in the gym? Jogging through his neighborhood to cheers of wellwishers? Well that's me? I have been back in training and next week I enter the ring, which is a bed in a brothel in my case. Rocky 13. next week, I do 10 rounds with 10 Thai hos. Yes, I am taking viagra but that is just to beat them, to put them to the skinless sword and make them play with it and with each other. This is my vacation, my second childhood, playing with my toys. I do not cum in their faces as a rule as mutual respect is important.
With Tantra, men will have the ability to maintain a very heightened level of arousal with frequent climaxes and pleasures unmatched.
Meanwhile, here is some Tantric reading for all of you. Learn to do sex the Skinless way. Learn to love, honor and respect and you 2 can get to 13, or at least a respectable pops:
how can I reach multiples?
Here are a few things that will get you started, but remember that it will take lots of practice before you are truly able to reach your desired acme.
Breathe slow and deep through the mouth to energize your body
Practice movement exercises (like meditation)
Massage your partner thoroughly
Practice holding in your ejaculate for as long as possible
Remain calm during all sensual sessions
Get to know your own body parts
Focus more on eroticism
Be verbal, talk to your partner
Remain relaxed and calm throughout
Think about what's going on inside your body, and the way your heart, mind, spirit, and body feel.
It's obvious that men who can reach multi-orgasmic states are more emotionally intimate with their women and have an easier time reaching conscious sexual bliss. When a man finally discovers his capacity to relax into states of pleasure, it can take him to new levels that will be understood through direct experience.
This has been a John Skinless tip. Please practice. Before it is too late.
Dick Head:good points about condoms. Will we ever go back to those great condomless days of the 1970s: free bareback sex. Oh btw, I could never have done 13 pops with condoms. How I hate those things.
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I am aware of your age, actually I've seen your picture. I can pop 2 times a day everyday easy but 13 times a night? Dickhead 7-9 times/24hr is very possible as I've been there myself. But coming that extra time after the 7th time is far from easy. And it's also 24 hours not just one night(what..12 hrs tops).
"I have a very good friend who developed very early. Coming 13 times would have been nothing to him in his day. He fucks his wife every night (2 pops) and likes somore more. He ate his greens when he was young."
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Dick J: I achieved that little trick in the mid 1970s. Yes, it was one night. The first two (or so i was NOT really counting) pops were among the best I ever had. The rest was just a work out.
Dick H: I have a friend who hates all the spam advising how to make your dick bigger. He wants to make his smaller and is delighted his popping days are over.
btw DJ, my BB friend must be about 6 months pregnant now. She no longer gets any emails, not even from me. Her go go days are done.
Hey, maybe Jackson can start a Memory lane board for us in about 20 years (or less) when all we have left are memories and herpes:)
Also, most of this sex is in the head. It is a nervous release. I find now I can fuck the ugliest women I could not have done years ago. I just plug and play.
My last time in hilok, I just lay down and let them do all the work. That was about 8, mostly bbbjs. However, and here is an important point for some, I did not, I think, produce all that much cum though one fully clothed provider insisted on showing me all my juices in her mouth. She gave me a kiss before saying goodbye and sending the next one in.
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yes this 13 looks like it is possible in one night, a very long night, but will depents of age, and yes you have to be a male nymfo.i never braught it that far, but got very close. but i thaught now 2-3 times a night is fine, but when you realy fall in love, ore get the good treatment 6 + is still possible and i am on the wrong site of 40. and i cant use viagra,i would kill the girls with it.
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Getting older ...
Not to put too fine a point on it: I'm over fourty and it's not any more like when I was twenty. Back then, I didn't have the money so I didn't score very often. Now the money is no problem but the rest is.
There's Viagra of course, but I'm not sure it makes any difference as far as net sexual enjoyment is concerned. Gives you a hard-on so that you can fuck for ages but I wonder whether it doesn't have an adverse effect on ejaculation. Not to mention that sustaining a hard-on for too long one day certainly has a rebound effect the next day.
I sometimes take girls in only to sniff them, give'em head and send them home with a fee without having as much as undressed myself. Twenty years ago, I would've fucked the hell out of them.
And I'm not even talking about condoms!
xxl
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Proko,
[i]"But after a good sex session with a woman- pro or girlfriend- I'm thinking about food, sports, money, almost anything but more sex. Is it just me?"[/i]
Just thought I'd share this with you. As one of those working girls who didn't have a "one-cum" rule, probably about 75% (at a guess) of my clients asked if they could come more than once in the hour. In all honesty, I would say at LEAST 80% of those men could NOT go a second time after they had already cum once. Having a guy actually cum more than once in the hour was extremely rare...even in two or three hour bookings, guys often only came once. I would say this applied to the majority of men over the age of 25, and almost EVERY man over the age of 35.
So it's certainly not just you. :)