SA in Europe- Specifically Germany
Hi Gents,
Would love to gain some insights about SA in Germany- specifically Dusseldorf or Frankfurt. Will be in those cities end of this month. Can someone who has had any dates in Germany specifically guide me further.
I have been active on SA in India, Dubai and London.
TIA.
Regards,
Look at the profile age. Is it still active?
[QUOTE=Nachoy;2915279]Notice some seeking profiles have verified photos / links to their instagram / Facebook page.
From your experience are they more legit and worth pursuing.
What's the red flags for catfish type profiles?[/QUOTE]The biggest green flag you can look for is the length of time the profile has been established. If someone is scamming people, they know 1 of 2 things will happen. Either Seeking will ban their profile, or if the victims are not reporting the profile to Seeking, the scammer will take it down anyhow because the victims can still share the link with other people to bad rap the profile, or try to snag the scammer. Most scammers will not leave up profiles they have used to cheat people because they know either the victims or cops will try to use any info they can from it to catch the fucker, even if the pictures and info are fake, there's no reason why anyone other than the scammer or group of scammers would be operating behind that particular profile.
On the other hand, photos can always be altered using software, and people can create smurf social media accounts. So, if you see a profile that is active and Seeking shows that it was created 2 or 3 years ago, that's a much better indication than a profile that was only created 1 week or month ago.
Let's say the only thing the "scammer" is guilty of is using outdated or heavily modified photos. Still, that's why there are sites like these where people can post reviews. They still would not be incentivized to use a profile that has a bad reputation in the guys community for having catfish photos. Anyone who is doing their research or paying attention won't want to contact that person, and she won't be getting much business from Seeking.
That being said, if the profile happens to have the other verification badges, then that's great. But I would not rely on them. Unless maybe the profile had ALL of them. FB, IG, LinkedIn, photo verified, ID verified, AND background check all together, then maybe yes, even if it was less than a month old. But to this very day I think I have yet to see a profile like that.
Case in point: I very recently met up with a girl who I was exceptionally satisfied with. But her profile had no verifications. When was it created? "Member Since: April 2019" And what are we now? May 2024.
Optimize and have your guard up. Always!
Everything vanessasclient has said is true and spot on.
Here is the other pov you will learn to optimize.
My best experiences have been with girls who have gotten recently on seeking. They are excited, they are nervous, they are curious. Most importantly, they are not corrupted yet. So, catching then young is a big win.
However. You need to optimize for what VC has said below.
Engage slowly and gradually, don't show desperation (scammers generally don't have lot of time).
I like the newer girls. So, I am. Willing to take the risk of evading scammers (my intuition is generally right). If you aren't willing to take the risk, VC advise below is perfect recipe for you.
[QUOTE=VanessasClient;2916805]The biggest green flag you ca look for is the length of time the profile has been established. If someone is scamming people, they know 1 of 2 things will happen. Either Seeking will ban their profile, or if the victims are not reporting the profile to Seeking, the scammer will take it down anyhow because the victims can still share the link with other people to bad rap the profile, or try to snag the scammer. Most scammers will not leave up profiles they have used to cheat people because they know either the victims or cops will try to use any info they can from it to catch the fucker, even if the pictures and info are fake, there's no reason why anyone other than the scammer or group of scammers would be operating behind that particular profile.
On the other hand, photos can always be altered using software, and people can create smurf social media accounts. So, if you see a profile that is active and Seeking shows that it was created 2 or 3 years ago, that's a much better indication than a profile that was only created 1 week or month ago.
Let's say the only thing the "scammer" is guilty of is using outdated or heavily modified photos. Still, that's why there are sites like these where people can post reviews. They still would not be incentivized to use a profile that has a bad reputation in the guys community for having catfish photos. Anyone who is doing their research or paying attention won't want to contact that person, and she won't be getting much business from Seeking.
That being said, if the profile happens to have the other verification badges, then that's great. But I would not rely on them. Unless maybe the profile had ALL of them. FB, IG, LinkedIn, photo verified, ID verified, AND background check all together, then maybe yes, even if it was less than a month old. But to this very day I think I have yet to see a profile like that.
Case in point: I very recently met up with a girl who I was exceptionally satisfied with. But her profile had no verifications. When was it created? "Member Since: April 2019" And what are we now? May 2024.[/QUOTE]
Solid Seeking Date. Tier 2 US City
Had a solid Seeking date yesterday with F. And it reinforced so many Seeking lessons I've learned over the years. Like the gems are the real girls with real jobs. And you can have some very long term conversations that eventually lead to pay dirt much later. Chatty girls make for an effortless date. Etc.
I looked back and now see that I started chatting with F back in September last year. We had twice planned to meetup but were thwarted. She remained responsive and bubbly every time we chatted, and just rolled with the setbacks, so I was pretty sure I had a winner.
We met up and had a nice Thai dinner. She was definitely just like her pics but a shade prettier. Beautiful eyes and a great smile despite no make up at all that I could tell. Just naturally pretty. She's quite a bit older than I usually date. She's over 30 but she could def pass for younger.
We have a lovely chat and really chat effortlessly throughout dinner. She's a real girl with a real life — has a beautiful daughter and is an admin assistant. These real girls getting a bit on the side are really the core of Seeking success. Funniest part is she is from a small town and it's where my wife grew up. I am 90% sure my wife would know her mom and dad! Bwahaha. That makes it even better!
We both have martinis and get a little looser but for some reason I'm nervous to pop the question. But when I say want to get out of here she is ready to roll. She doesn't have a car and hops right in mine to head to the hotel. I take a second to book something last minute and off we go!
At the hotel it's super easy and comfortable. Clearly she has done this before tho she has no pro vibe at all. Experienced but in a good way. When I return from peeing she is down to a see thru red bra and panties and positioned tantalizingly on the bed. She could prob lose 10 pounds and it wouldn't hurt but generally very well built with a banging set of Cee / Dee cups.
I'm not a shy one, esp if they aren't, so I crawl on the bed and start kissing her. Really nice passionate DFK both ways. Not long before I get her bra off and start sucking those perfect nipples. I am down to my skivvies now and she's stroking my cock and balls appreciatively as she coos and moans a bit as I suck on.
Getting fully naked I flip on my back to let her work her BBBJ magic and she is very good. Plenty of licking and ball sucking. She def knows her way around a dick. Not much doe eyes to start but as she grows comfortable with me there is more of that. She is a super submissive girl and takes it nice and slow when I ask her to.
After a bit I want to feel that wet pussy so I roll her over and position near her head so she can take me in her mouth. She catches on right away and continues great BJ while I finger her now very wet pussy. I glance at my watch and see we do about 20 minutes BJ / Steve2 which is super nice. I def feel the build a couple times she is so good at her craft. Really nice to do harmonica and balls from this position. And she is one of the few girls to figure this out on her own.
Time to fuck and I see she's set out some Skyns. Smart girl. I've been barebacking a huge amount lately but decide on the cover for this encounter. We start in mish which is super fine. Her pussy feels great and she loves to kiss as much as me so we make out a lot while fucking.
Swap to the Steve at the end of the bed for a while. Still remains a fave position where I can enjoy looking down at her, fuck forever, and go for a kiss when I'm feeling it. Good long time at this. Then doggie just doesn't feel nearly as good.
What about cowgirl you say? Ok that's up next. She rides well and it's lots of fun to work those massive firm tits and watch them ride the wave. Still no threat of cumming so I put her back on BJ. I love how submissive she is saying "whatever you like" or "how do you want me". Ok. Suck my dick nice and slow baby. Lots of licking, play and ball work. Yessir.
Def coulda shot a load right then but take her through another round of mish for a while and back to BJ for the finish. She is very very good with tongue and mouth and hands so that it's one single symphony of BJ. And I start to writhe around and shoot a monster load in her mouth. She swallows every drop appreciatively like a good girl would and keeps pumping to the very end. Nice!
Of course some quick wind down and cuddles. She's just a really nice genuine person. With a real life and a real job and real emotions. The way Seeking should be. Two souls who would never cross paths in regular life share an evening and it's just great. What a wonderful thing.