Living life with interesting, beautiful young women
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2753101]I do not get the "not paying for it" part. One time there was a stripper who gave me her number after taking care of me in the club. After texting her, her BF calls me and says "she does not do that (sex for money) any more. " he was so upset and heartbroken then I did not say what I wanted to which was "Dude, when did she say that? Because 10 minutes ago, my dick was in her mouth."
I just wonder what illusion this guy was under while he was "not paying for it." Was he fixing her car? Babysitting her kid?
I was married to a woman with an amazing figure: large natural breasts and a 24 inch waist. So I guess I could say that I did not pay for her, but OTOH she was the most expensive pussy I ever had.
And I talked to guys in the 1970's free love era. They said fucking was like a handshake then. When I was in college, the AIDS bug hit and everyone was scared out of their mind that if they had sex, they would die. It is totally unfair to compare those eras.
And when I went to a strip club back in 2000 when the dot com boom was going on, the women were gorgeous, and the type I like, the spinner type, was available in abundance. I went to a club the other day, and there was one (one!) spinner type, and she was from Cuba. Half the strippers were fat.
And in the 2000 decade, you could get a fucking knockout escort for $200. Now $200 an hour gets you 300 pounds. I perused an escort directory a few months ago and found one I liked. She wanted $1000 for an hour. Hell, if my ex were 25 and in the market today, she would have shredded guys with ivy league degrees making seven figures fighting over her.
From where I sit looking at the USA market, guys going to Colombia (and Mexico) and paying for it are the smart ones. The only decent looking women in strip clubs (and most of society now) are Latinas and Asians and going to the source nets you huge discounts.
And I am not "paying for it" now, but just like with the wife, it would be a helluva lot cheaper if I were. So I could look down on guys who are paying for it now but why? They are paying less for it than I am.[/QUOTE]Elvis you are eloquent. I was just thinking about this last night. LOL I was fortunate to have an open relationship, living together for 10 years. The sex was magnificent till we split. We stayed friends afterwards. Occasional sex. I never understood how people could be committed to someone for a lifetime.
Still, I went into therapy (12 step groups) over the breakup. And cycle of substances, sex and "love" addictions, with new partners I found. But it was later on living in Mexico that I discovered there was nothing wrong with paying for it and enjoying the company of a beautiful girl. I think it was my religious / societal brainwashing which kept me from happiness for many years. The self help therapy may have eased the transition but helped to continue the brainwashing. Living in the USA, I kept trying to find that "other person" that would make me happy. I always wanted a trophy girl and they were plentiful at the strip clubs. LOL, until living in Baja.
I discovered Adeletas and HKTJ (you walk in, and pick a girl) and that was fun. I dated a few of them. Colombia (and SA) brought me back to living life with interesting, beautiful young women. It feels much more natural and opens up many more possibilities for different kinds of relationships. Not entirely based on sex. Still mutually beneficial. Personally I don't think I want to invest the time to "settle down" even in another open relationship. (monogamous) I think having good friends (with benefits) is more than enough for me.
So I am headed back to Colombia to see some of the girls I know and meet a couple new ones. I might visit El Centro (for 10 minutes) and La Isla for a night. Most of the single girls in Colombia are not WG's. Once you have been to the Ranch, and had lots of Mangos it's difficult to be on the outside and get laid at the first encounter. No problem, the ranch is always there.
It is also true (for me) that meeting girls we cannot easily find or meet any other way on SA has destroyed my interest in almost anyone from other places. Especially in the USA.
Just go and have a good time
Wow, there is definitely a lot of debate and arguments about how to monger in Medellin. I am not going to join the debates but just try to return the discussion to posting information about trips to Medellin.
I am a newbie to Medellin and recently enjoyed my first trip to Medellin for a week. I am an older monger in my late 50's and do not speak much Spanish, just bare bones Spanish. I did not know much about Medellin prior to going other than reading a few things on this website and trip reports on another website and watching online videos.
Everything was fine. I did not get robbed or drugged. I saw a number of girls on FB and everyone provided a good GFE session. They were young and attractive and I was happy with their performance. That was my only source of girls in Medellin and it worked out just fine.
I went to Medellin. I had a good time. I had a budget and stayed within my budget and the money I spent was reasonable to me. That is all that matters to me. Now whether other guys would be upset with my spending habits is not important at all to me.
I will return to Medellin soon. I have a few old favorites now and hope to add to my list of old favorites on my next trip.
First time visit to Colombia & Medellin
Hello All,
I have a trip Feb / March to the Philippines but since I have been there before I'm seriously considering changing it Colombia.
I understand that its night and day difference between Asia and especially a first timer needs to be extra careful and use common sense. I have traveled around Guatemala and Honduras 15 years ago but never for mongering.
I'm looking at 2-3 weeks. My plan is to spend 7 to 10 days doing a motorcycle trip out of Medellin and the rest spending in the city perhaps venturing to another city maybe Bogota if I spend 3 weeks in country.
Spending time looking through the forums I have a couple of questions that would be helpful in making my decision.
1) Looking at finding a hotel / air bnb in Laureles as it seems like a good neighbourhood. I don't want anything to gringo touristy but same time nothing super sketchy. Any recommendations for GF place with good security, ID check and room safe? Is it worth while for a first timer to stay at the Mansion. My understanding is the value of the girls may not be as good as through other avenues but it is safe.
2) How does it work with finding girls off FB?
3) I defiantly want try and hit up some of the strip clubs and casa's any recommendations as I'm sure there are dozens if not hundreds in Medellin.
4) mileroticos and escort agencies seem like the safest but maybe not best value way to go. Any experiences people can share or alternative suggestions?
Many thanks,
YM.