Everybody has their racial, ethnic, or national predjudices and preferences. As they say "birds of a feather flock together".
So maybe we are all racists?
I also had problems with rejection in Wuhan. Is it due to a fear of strangers?
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Everybody has their racial, ethnic, or national predjudices and preferences. As they say "birds of a feather flock together".
So maybe we are all racists?
I also had problems with rejection in Wuhan. Is it due to a fear of strangers?
[QUOTE=Clandestine782]If you can find your way to any other place than here, I'd recommend it.
(They're a funny race, these Chinese, thinking that all foreigners are oblivious to their surroundings.)
.[/QUOTE]
July is a bad month for you bro! I guess you still haven't got laid recently ;)
You've had two bad experiences from your recent posts...but let's not dwell on that. I think you'll remember I was the first to respond to your earlier complaint about some 20 km outside of Shanghai or where-ever -- remember your motorcycle experience in the rain (and of course my pm to you)?
Anyway - not calling you a racist like others but please tell me what exactly you meant with the bracketed quote: "(They're a funny race, these Chinese, thinking that all foreigners are oblivious to their surroundings.)"?
[QUOTE=Santa]Everybody has their racial, ethnic, or national predjudices and preferences. As they say "birds of a feather flock together".
So maybe we are all racists?
I also had problems with rejection in Wuhan. Is it due to a fear of strangers?[/QUOTE]
I agree with you Stanta, everybody has their racial, ethnic, or national predjudices and preferences. I believe we talked about this before in another thread. We are rehashing the subject.
It might be "just you" being 6'4" plus and 250lb and look like a football player ( Gorilla ). Someone else said the same thing that "it's you" and I'm beginning to feel the same. Again seeing a foreigner is rare in the rual areas of China. Seeing a black guy, is even rarer. I don't feel every single white girl will like doing a black guy either.
Weelock has it right. A small white guy walks into the shop and they are shocked and a little afraid. If they have never fucked one before they are not sure if they want to. A 6'4" black guy walks in and it must frighten the shit out of them. I'm surprised they don't run, and I bet some of them do.
No offense Clandestine, but I guess being a big black guy in China has it's disadvantages.
Clandestine;
I know that several gals that i spoke with thinks that most black guys have big ones. Here is a suggestion. Take a picture with measurement and show it to the gals and tell them that you are just a regular joe. If you do have one of the mythological black stuff then I think you are SOL.
It is not all the girls fault. China is not Thailand or Japan where there are many more blacks around. I have personally set a couple gals straight by telling them that there are white, asian and black guys with small, medium and big ones. If they are afraid just ask them to pull it out and check out the merchandise first before going for a test drive. The black porno flicks do not help your case either. If I run across any girls interested in trying or curious I will make sure that I PM you. You never knows what you run into these days.
[quote=weelock]i agree with you stanta, everybody has their racial, ethnic, or national predjudices and preferences. i believe we talked about this before in another thread. we are rehashing the subject.
it might be "just you" being 6'4" plus and 250lb and look like a football player ( gorilla ). someone else said the same thing that "it's you" and i'm beginning to feel the same. again seeing a foreigner is rare in the rual areas of china. seeing a black guy, is even rarer. i don't feel every single white girl will like doing a black guy either.[/quote]
until 12 years ago, did i fucked a black girl, i was very afraid to even touch or go near them, consider that i was the daredevil, fear nothing guy i was still afraid. i go for the reason that "if you never try you never know".
i must say it was quite an experience where i was basically "raped" by her! she was a strip joint dancer in which i had paided a little too much by mistake of one american 20 dollars to a one american dollar (they all looks the same under dim strip joint ligthings!) it was one of the best sex i ever had in my life, next to the two russian girls i had about 8 years ago.
if you have not tried it you never know and tend to be afraid and racist about it.
ag
[QUOTE=Bnlee2]Clandestine;
I know that several gals that i spoke with thinks that most black guys have big ones. Here is a suggestion. Take a picture with measurement and show it to the gals and tell them that you are just a regular joe. If you do have one of the mythological black stuff then I think you are SOL.
It is not all the girls fault. China is not Thailand or Japan where there are many more blacks around. I have personally set a couple gals straight by telling them that there are white, asian and black guys with small, medium and big ones. If they are afraid just ask them to pull it out and check out the merchandise first before going for a test drive. The black porno flicks do not help your case either. If I run across any girls interested in trying or curious I will make sure that I PM you. You never knows what you run into these days.[/QUOTE]
Don't have to go though all those trouble of taking a photo. Just pull them to the back of the shop and show them the real thing.
I think the big problem here is that there ae so many insecure black and white people out there advertising in websites that they have big tools. Go read AFF for example.
AG
[quote=asian gambler]until 12 years ago, did i fucked a black girl, i was very afraid to even touch or go near them, consider that i was the daredevil, fear nothing guy i was still afraid. i go for the reason that "if you never try you never know".
i must say it was quite an experience where i was basically "raped" by her! she was a strip joint dancer in which i had paided a little too much by mistake of one american 20 dollars to a one american dollar (they all looks the same under dim strip joint ligthings!) it was one of the best sex i ever had in my life, next to the two russian girls i had about 8 years ago.
if you have not tried it you never know and tend to be afraid and racist about it.
ag[/quote]my firts post i was been in china years ago and i must tell sex industry is not so much on like much people seem show here. rural china girls not only no like blacks dicks cause they no see so much but i think they no are interest in sex at all, so stop dreaming guys. prostitution is there thats sure like in past century not only now, papers from european ancients men tell that, the new is chinese women come in occident for start this job, like here in rome there are so much chinese young girls giving so much services to italian guys for 30 euro or little more. about me my best experience here was an orgy with 4 american young girls (from 18 to 24) working here in roma arco di travertino, occidental girls have m,uch more experience i think.
[QUOTE=Traveler1234]July is a bad month for you bro! I guess you still haven't got laid recently ;)
You've had two bad experiences from your recent posts...but let's not dwell on that. I think you'll remember I was the first to respond to your earlier complaint about some 20 km outside of Shanghai or where-ever -- remember your motorcycle experience in the rain (and of course my pm to you)?
Anyway - not calling you a racist like others but please tell me what exactly you meant with the bracketed quote: "(They're a funny race, these Chinese, thinking that all foreigners are oblivious to their surroundings.)"?[/QUOTE]
It was meant in a facetious tone. A lot of Chinese people will tell me some price that is 4 or 5 times the local price, as if I don't have sense enough to ask a taxi driver the prices. (Taxi drivers are good for that. They seem to know the price of sex everywhere and at every price level.)
If you think about it: If a girl stays in the business about 6 months and has, say a total of 150 working days (assuming that she is off for 5 days per months) at the average of 1.5 customers per day, that is a total of 225 customers total. If you also think about it: EVEN IF the things that we have heard about Asian men not being very lucky are true, statistically there would have to be customers that pass through her shop that are significantly above the average. (It is said that something like 5% of men are above 8". There are websites galore that talk about this topic-- along with others that talk about the Gaussian distribution.) So, having sex with a black man would not be the first time she had ever seen a 7" or 8" cock. When she had all the other customers, she didn't die or get ruptured. So what could happen in a situation like this? Even if you don't have a mathematical bent, a woman should intuitively think that babies are able to come out of there. And there are lots of women who give birth in China, and most of them are OK.
I passed through a couple of other barbershops and was groped by the hookers (and even the papasan at one of them) and told that they "wanted to see it." WTF?
(And for the record, I am NOT 250 lbs. I'm 230. And I know what you were getting at with that "gorilla" remark.)
[QUOTE=Clandestine782]It was meant in a facetious tone. A lot of Chinese people will tell me some price that is 4 or 5 times the local price, as if I don't have sense enough to ask a taxi driver the prices. (Taxi drivers are good for that. They seem to know the price of sex everywhere and at every price level.)
I passed through a couple of other barbershops and was groped by the hookers (and even the papasan at one of them) and told that they "wanted to see it." WTF?
(And for the record, I am NOT 250 lbs. I'm 230. And I know what you were getting at with that "gorilla" remark.)[/QUOTE]
Politely suggest you think again when making another facetious remark...many interpret it as racist (yes - I know you speak some putonghua and are open-minded).
And where would you not find providers trying to charge more - it happens everywhere, not just China.
Not sure what you last sentence refers to - i didn't post anything below re your weight, gorilla remark, etc. In fact, in your earlier mid July post, you yourself describe yourself as being 6'2', 220 lbs or whatever.
I sense a certain degree of hostility and impatience in your mongering activities. When it doesn't go well, you blame it on the local population rather than just going with the flow. From your many posts, it appears you've had many good times. But in the one or two bad experiences, intentionally or not, you blame it on those ignorant Chinese (my words, not yours).
Accept the fact that culturally, whether you like it or not, in many parts of China, you are viewed at best an anomaly, at worst a beast to be feared. White folks or for that matter, any foreigner back in the early '70's were viewed the same way. Suggest you stick to the more urban areas.
And if you can't accept that, move your mongering activities to some other country that is more culturally open to african americans....
Clandestine:
I have encountered all of the scenarios you describe and I am not black. I often get quoted ridiculous prices. I often get turned away at BBS and other mongering venues. It is just part of the landscape for foreigners in general. Just keep walking and you will surely find plenty of willing service providers. I often show them my dick in the back of the shop as AG suggested. I often get groped to check the size. IMHO, you are taking the rejection too seriously.
Just my POV.
OAH
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Clandestine,
On the bright side of things, you can always look forward to better luck in Singapore and/or Japan. There is certainly a segment of girls (both pro and freebie) that actually prefer an American black guy to almost anything else. Not just because of supposed "tool size". I had the pleasure of a few trips with a black college friend of mine in both countries and in fact I would say he had an even better time than I did. Singapore ranked 'first' for him with Japan following a close second.
[QUOTE=Traveler1234]And if you can't accept that, move your mongering activities to some other country that is more culturally open to african americans....[/QUOTE]
Oriental Orgy World #01 to #04 from Evasive Angles Entertainment was not produced in China. Only in america when money and wild, horny and fearless asian girls willing to fuck all cummers with all dick sizes into their pussies and asses. Maybe native Chinese girls will be like that in say 10, 15 or 20 yrs from now. Right now, they still drinking Mao's famous hot tea of conservatism.
[QUOTE=Icquest]Oriental Orgy World #01 to #04 from Evasive Angles Entertainment was not produced in China. Only in america when money and wild, horny and fearless asian girls willing to fuck all cummers with all dick sizes into their pussies and asses. Maybe native Chinese girls will be like that in say 10, 15 or 20 yrs from now. Right now, they still drinking Mao's famous hot tea of conservatism.[/QUOTE]
Clandestine
This brother didn't seem to have a problem:
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