Anything got info's about what to do around Malate. Ill be stayin in a hotel there. Been a hella long times since ive been in PI.
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Anything got info's about what to do around Malate. Ill be stayin in a hotel there. Been a hella long times since ive been in PI.
Thanks
Ricksan, I can't believe that even after reading all the posts here that you really believe the crap you write. "Naive bar girl"? I'm sure her "eurosuitor" along with her americasuitor, filipinosuitor, etc have all taught her well.
All the things she told you are the same lines spewed by "virgin" bar girls all over the PI since the beginning of time.
And stop sending her money every month, she really didn't quit the bar, all you are doing is supporting her boyfriend. ;)
Mook
To clarify my statements:
You guys must think I got off the 5am PAL flight and just left podunk Kansas. That is definitely not the case.
Dudes, Ive been to this country 100s of times and shagged as many women, from all walks of life.
For those of you that think I have a soft heart, I am as tight wadded as the next guy.
I don't pay stipends to chicks, not here, not anywhere. You can bet your bottom dollar on that.
I also don't mess with skanks. Don't have to, don't want to, don't need to. There are too many gorgeous, fascinating women here, with which I have a great time, far better than most samples I have found at the various expat haunts in this town so far. This particular night was something different, which I was sharing with the group. If you don't want to believe it, hey, that's your decision. I just stated the facts.
I've seen as many tricks, scams, lies, etc. or more than probably anyone on this board. This chick was indeed new, and quite different. In fact, I think she quit the business since I was there. Indeed it was her first night, based on other gals I know in there, the mamasan (which hasn't seen her by the way since) and others. My loss, some other suckers gain for sure.
For those of you quick to draw an opinon based on their own experiences, I can understand. Thanks for your insight. I was just sharing with the group, and so be it if you can't relate personally.
I wish you all well in your future muff hunts.
Ricksan
Ricksan:
I have to agree with the other guys. However, the lines that these girls spew are delivered with such perfect sincerity that it's difficult sometimes to remain sceptical. Maybe we help their credibility by wanting to believe them, but it's mostly utter bullshit designed to make us feel special and feel some sense of obligation toward them.
GE
[QUOTE=Ricksan].....I love pussy as much as the next guy, but taking advantage of her innocence in the quest for lust can make a guy feel guilty, even a lecher like me.........Ricksan[/QUOTE]
You picked up a girl in a bar, paid bar fine and had sex with her. Why would you feel guilty about that? She is not a virgin and had a boyfriend. How did you take advantage of her innocence?
All of us mongers at some point felt overwhelmed in the presence of a sweet young thing. But once she crossed the line and decided to make money by sleeping with strangers, I wouldn't worry too much about her "presumed innocence".
It is evident that you were quite taken by this young lady. However, please try to control your exuberence and make realistic post. I never heard of any women having 10 orgasms in an hour, let alone a working girl!
Bandy
Ricksan:
Maybe you really met the one in a thousand who was actually telling the truth. I've never had that happen, but it's certainly possible. If that's the case, and if the girl really affected you as much as she appears to have done, you're lucky and I hope you find her again.
GE
I am planning a trip to either Philippines or Thailand and was wondering which one is the best to go to. I was wondering if they dance nude in the bars at either and how freaky does it get in the bars. Can anyone suggest which cities to go to and what clubs to go to. Also wanted to know which hotels are girl friendly and really nice to stay in such as marriot and like that. I have never traveled to asia before only down south. Would use all the help I can get email me at
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I can only speak for the Philippines, but the girls do not get naked and dance in the bars. It is not like the states where there is one girl stripping instead its more like a stage where the guys pick a girl to short time or long time.
Spokane Boy,
I'm not trying to bash on you, but son, can you read? All the questions you asked are answered in every post on this board. Keep reading and when you have something specific clarified, ask away.
john aldrich recently posted a somber cautionary tale over on the indo board which can be read here:
[url]http://www.*************.info/forum/showpost.php?p=358641&postcount=2148[/url]
(starting in 5th paragraph)
he advises people to never bring a local chick back to your primary apartment dwelling, because this can result in risky personal exposure to yourself.
my question is - is this also a problem in the the philippines? do girls cry [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] against a foreigner just because he dumped her?
and would the proper course of action be something like: don't bang girls who have contacts in the local government?
stick to "your earthy sam miguel types" as domino refers to them, and you can minimise your risk?
In all the time I've spent here, which is now almost 2 years, I've not heard of a single instance of a girl trying to involve the legal authorities to extort more money. I'm not saying this does not happen, but if it does, it does not receive much publicity. I think the biggest risk here is that once girls know where you live, they may feel compelled to "drop around" when you least want to see them. That has happened to me a couple of times. My response to this has been straightforward. I merely tell them that I have someone else there and that they should not drop by without an appointment.
If you're staying in a hotel, the risks are minimal given hotel security and the fact that you're the guest and she is not. The five start hotels in Manila will invariably call your room once the girl leaves, to tell you she is in the lobby and to task you if it's okay with you if she leaves the hotel. The hotels in Davao, where I live, are less strict, but the security guys always know when there's a girl in your room. Plus, you can always tell them that no one is to be allowed to go to your room who is not accomanied by you. They're pretty good about this.
The final point I want to make is that "justice" here is directly proportional to the amount of money you have. Most of these girls do not have much, and I think it's doubtful that they could interest police or prosecutors in going after foreigners who have much more. As a general rule, most the girls who hang around bars, malls, and restaurants do not have heavy "political connections" and I would not worry about this aspect of life here at all.
:D
GE
It's bad enough that here in the states you almost have to get the girl to sign a contract agreeing that the encounter is mutual before you risk sleeping with her.
I was afraid that maybe Asia was also beginning a period of emasculation like the West is currently suffering through.
Well, I never usually say to anyone how to live, but when it comes to women, always remember that no matter were you are in the world, they seek to control men! I lived in the Philppines for 9 years in the military in the investigation section. They are true pimps of the world.
You can go to any corner in the Philipines and just point to your next girlfriend, and 9 out of 10 times she will agree. Its just a case of the green card and helping their family. The men will set you up with there family no matter how old you are. So if you want some real advice just tell them what they want to hear then fuck them then find another.
Here is a saying: What is more faithful? Your wife or your dog.
The answer: Your dog. They will stay with you long after the wife is gone, and cost a lot less money.
So be a man fuck them then leave them. Men are there own masters. If you have to ask permission, then you are their slave. Change woman like you would change your socks (very often).
This is just the way I feel, I have been single for 26 years and I live in Tijuana.
Have a nice day, and remember, enjoy your life because you only get 1.
Tom
Ah but remember, for these girls, there's no problem that cannot be solved by the payment of an additional PhP500-1000.
this type of problem is more prevelant in thailand where corrupt local cops play along with it and institutionalized cheating of "falang" (thats you and me) is more prevelant. but some things you got to be aware of here, i know of factual (not hearsay) instances where a foreigner was extorted by (usually a house maid or yaya) for molestation, [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] etc and they demanded p10,000. my leo sources in davao recall several more over the years, all involve an **** girl and all involve molestation,(this is much harder to prove or disprove) not penetration i beleive there was a case in matina a year ago that made the papers, ge maybe you remember.
but the older more establish bimbi no one seems to care about, they know they are not gonna get satisfaction out of the courts because it takes so long here, also they would tend to threaten you with this hoping you will capitulate, your stance should be, go ahead. i'll tell them how you blew me and iscrewed you in the ass and paid you for it, then the police will want their share, and it will be in the papers so everyone will know you are borricutt (*****).
that is why the spamhog only hires older, ugly maids.
also, it is not a good idea to let them go to your apartment or rented house, no telling when they show up, like when you bring the new one around, once again, this is a classic problem in thailand more so than the rp imho.
spam hog