Single Men get treated with suspicion
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So you can see why the customs lady had the change of heart. She saw that I was helping Colombian children and families not hurting them.
But if it bugs you that much, check out the other cities. Bogota has nothing like this, and Cartagena, even with the mayor cracking down on street walkers, does not have the degree of hostility you see in Medellin. [/QUOTE]The is worldwide. If you are a single male you are viewed with suspicion! True, especially by other women who judge us.
I even see this at church. If I enter with a lady friend, the staff are all over us with kindness because they see I have conformed to their rules and expectations. If alone I am presumed to have just gotten out of jail and from the prison ministries, so I am a criminal. Sad, but people all around are judgmental, and will not admit it. If you are married and with your family you get an extra bonus of politeness and respect. Being a single male they distrust us.
I see models like this all the time on instagram.
[QUOTE=MoonShot;2914785]That is what I thought until I met this girl in Medellin.[/QUOTE]Look at her for example at Sophiemudd or this cam girl at iamchloeharper_ I think she's in manizales tho.
I guess I just got lucky the very first time I cam to medellin I met the girl I'm talking about on mileroticos. Because now she left and I can't find anyone else like her. She looks like the girl in the picture you sent. They banned me on tinder twice. Once for saying no trans and the first time for saying I was looking for a sugar baby. It's not like anyone matched with me because I look hispanic.
Got to figure out the instagram game and get better at the facebook game.
I've spent 10 months in Latin america
[QUOTE=Haxagonus;2915230]Look at her for example at Sophiemudd or this cam girl at iamchloeharper_ I think she's in manizales tho.
I guess I just got lucky the very first time I cam to medellin I met the girl I'm talking about on mileroticos. Because now she left and I can't find anyone else like her. She looks like the girl in the picture you sent. They banned me on tinder twice. Once for saying no trans and the first time for saying I was looking for a sugar baby. It's not like anyone matched with me because I look hispanic.
Got to figure out the instagram game and get better at the facebook game.[/QUOTE]I've spent 10 months here and my preferences have changed by being here. I used to be an ass guy coming from the us. No one is fit over there so people nice booties are rare and when I came here the first thing I did was find a girl with a big fake butt at La isla. I went back so many times to do that one girl. Then I realized that that body type is very common. Then I found the girl I was talking about who has a big rack but has no fat anywhere else on her body and at first I was like she looks good and feels good but she's not that big of a deal. And so I tried to explore and replace her but I always came coming back. And then now that she's not available I understand what I have lost.
Usually you are fat and you have tits or you are skinny and you have ass. Skin why with big tits is rare. And that's the story of how I became a tits guy. I know a girl who has both at La isla but I don't want to keep paying 600 k+ and having to go from laureles to poblado every time and she's only available on the weekends. The hunt continues. Feels bad tho because I got a new job and I have return to the US and give this hobby up for the foreseeable future.