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Discretionary Spending
[QUOTE=RollAides;2892907]You want to find a girl here who's got a brain? Look for one WITH A JOB.
Not a cashier, for example. An actual job. Like, A career. Or, at least, a college student who is serious about it. One who's going to a good school wiht an intention to become a professional.
You want to squirt your cum in a million pussies and pound every little brown hole on the island for pesos? You've come to the right place. But you're here on ISG looking for. A WIFE? What the actual fuck?
Now, in fairness, the Philippines is possibly one of the only places on Earth where you can find a cute young betch who will marry your old ass, and mean it, for love or something. But, if you are looking to HIRE one, you WILL end up with a 80-ish IQ province girl who wants you to support her illegitmate kids from her Filipino BF that ran out on her. If things go WELL.
There is nothing wrong with trading sex for money. That is why this board exists. If you try to extend that to with trading RELATIONSHIPS for money, then YOU are going to be the one that gets fucked. Particularly if you want them to "educate your kids. " Seriously this is one of the most insane things I have ever seen here. And I've been here long enough to see some shit.
ONLY wife up chicks that can support themselves, at a bare minimum.
At your peril.
Yes, it is possible.
Trading sex for money is for HOOKERS.[/QUOTE]I asked about the salary, and what he means is like a discretionary spending account for them to use however they see fit. Like an allowance for them without touching the main account. That isn't as common nowadays, but lots of couples do it, and not just for the wife.
There are definitely a lot of pitfalls if you're looking for a filipina to take abroad. You're right that you should seek an educated girl, or at least one with a good head on her shoulders. One of mine has a BA in Economics and the other one was working since she was a young teenager, but is going to school now in her early 20's while she manages her own business. Education comes in different forms, but self-motivation is the common factor, and a drive to do well with whatever you do.
I will say, too, that Filipinas (provincial girls in particular) are prone to being very superstitious about almost anything. That was a little bit of culture shock to me 😅.
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Marriage Material
I was lucky enough to meet a lovely woman and her friends in Angeles and I posted a garbled account in the Angels thread. Today is Good Friday and my lady's friend was badgered to go back to work by some plump Chinese tramp. The Philippines has lots of lovely women but they get screwed over with slave wages and slave conditions. My lady is a keeper and would be perfect for me, except I am not. And nor is Don Malo, who should change the record.
I am thinking of returning in a few months and giving my lady the baby she needs. Though it is easy to mock their desire to procreate, it is an ambition, an effort to give meaning to their lives.
I am now 70 and she is less than half my age, a fact some have noted though she is cool with it (she thinks I am 20 years younger).
The Philippines has a lot of negatives: weather, poor infrastructure etc but women are a plus. Good, simple, no nonsense.
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[QUOTE=Jarango;2904819]I was lucky enough to meet a lovely woman and her friends in Angeles and I posted a garbled account in the Angels thread. Today is Good Friday and my lady's friend was badgered to go back to work by some plump Chinese tramp. The Philippines has lots of lovely women but they get screwed over with slave wages and slave conditions. My lady is a keeper and would be perfect for me, except I am not.[/QUOTE]What makes her a keeper? Have you seen her hold a constant job? Have you seen her cleaning and grocery shopping and have you tasted her cooking? Everything is relative. If they were not getting paid what you call slave wages then no foreigners (including yourself) would be there looking for cheap pussy. Any idea what they were being paid before slave wages? So you want them to make more in order to make yourself obsolete and no longer a necessity the same as it happened where most of us came from? Men are their own worst enemy. Somehow pussy always clouds their judgment.
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Hey Mr Negative
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2904844]What makes her a keeper? Have you seen her hold a constant job? Have you seen her cleaning and grocery shopping and have you tasted her cooking? Everything is relative. If they were not getting paid what you call slave wages then no foreigners (including yourself) would be there looking for cheap pussy. Any idea what they were being paid before slave wages? So you want them to make more in order to make yourself obsolete and no longer a necessity the same as it happened where most of us came from? Men are their own worst enemy. Somehow pussy always clouds their judgment.[/QUOTE]I have just got off wattsapp with her watching her in a regular job. I visited her regular job every day. I helped her clean her place. Most Pinays working in Angeles don't cook as they don;'t have the facilities for it. Some dirty foreigners do even though the facilities are not there; they don't even wash up, pigs that they are. Odd you mention shopping as that is a luxury if you work 6 long days a week, fro 500 PHP max a day, but you would know none of that. Like many others she cooks rice to save on buying it. She saves hard on her pittance. No boob jobs or skin whitening so maybe not your sort.
As regards the middle part of your post, I respect and feel for people who are being fucked around, as the vast majority of Pinoys are. And don't give me your crap. Foreigners, Chinese and rich Pinoys have milked them down the ages. I prefer their company and their quiet heroism to decrepit losers in Walking St.
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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2904844]Men are their own worst enemy. Somehow pussy always clouds their judgment.[/QUOTE]Wisdom I could have used decades ago. . .
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[QUOTE=Jarango;2904920]Odd you mention shopping as that is a luxury if you work 6 long days a week, fro 500 PHP max a day, but you would know none of that.[/QUOTE]Not sure why you think I would not know any of that. I do have a girlfriend in Angeles that works a normal job. She works 7 long days a week and lives an hour away by jeepney.
[QUOTE=Jarango;2904920]No boob jobs or skin whitening so maybe not your sort.[/QUOTE]Not sure why you suppose it may not be my sort. I like whoever likes me. My girlfriend in Angeles is naturally light skinned. And if she was dark that would not matter one bit to me.
[QUOTE=Jarango;2904920]I respect and feel for people who are being fucked around, as the vast majority of Pinoys are. And don't give me your crap. Foreigners, Chinese and rich Pinoys have milked them down the ages.[/QUOTE]How are they being fucked aroud by being paid what people there make? You do realize that if wages go up then the prices do as well? It is not just magically pay more and everything else remains the same. I think it is Monday when fast food workers in California start getting paid $20 per hour. It will be interesting to see what happens. I was watching some news clip were some were already fired because the places can not afford to pay them that. So was it better to be making the $15 that they were making or be home making $0 because somebody that meant well thought they should have been making $20?
Same as the mfs that meant well wanted to close all the mental hospitals in the States. Now the folks that would have otherwise been taken care of in those facilities are where? Right. On the streets homeless. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
All I was saying is that it is best to live with someone before talking about how good they would be to marry. You never really know a person until you live with them. And even then you still may not really know them.
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[QUOTE=RollAides;2892907]Trading sex for money is for HOOKERS.[/QUOTE]Sounds like marriage to me.
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[QUOTE=Jarango;2904819]I was lucky enough to meet a lovely woman and her friends in Angeles and I posted a garbled account in the Angels thread. Today is Good Friday and my lady's friend was badgered to go back to work by some plump Chinese tramp. The Philippines has lots of lovely women but they get screwed over with slave wages and slave conditions. My lady is a keeper and would be perfect for me, except I am not. And nor is Don Malo, who should change the record.
I am thinking of returning in a few months and giving my lady the baby she needs. Though it is easy to mock their desire to procreate, it is an ambition, an effort to give meaning to their lives.
I am now 70 and she is less than half my age, a fact some have noted though she is cool with it (she thinks I am 20 years younger).
The Philippines has a lot of negatives: weather, poor infrastructure etc but women are a plus. Good, simple, no nonsense.[/QUOTE]I think the main problem here is that you posted this on a forum for mongers. Most readers are men who are not looking for a relationship, but just no strings attached sex, and will not appreciate this post or sentiment. I'm not saying that's good or bad, but it is true.
But I do appreciate your thoughts. I've been on both sides. I have a Filipina wife and girlfriend +, and I have seen my fair share of Filipinas for mongering, too. But, sometimes you meet that one girl who changes everything for you. It changes how you look (or don't look) at other women, and what you will and will not do. For me, I love my wife, but I still played the game. But when I met my new lady, I lost that desire. Honestly, the girls I met for "fun" gave me better sex, but what I felt when I was with her, and the energy from her, is something I haven't gotten from anyone else, and I don't want anyone else. I love the fact I can call at anytime and she answers right away. I don't worry about where she is and who she is with or what she is doing because she tells me without me asking. And usually calls to show me. And I did give her a baby, due in a few months, so I get it, and a one year-old with my wife. And several kids with my first wife. I could have a softball team by now! But that's the beautiful thing. Everyone has their own preferences and desires. As long as it isn't hurting anyone, then enjoy!
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[QUOTE=Aml3740;2905160]but what I felt when I was with her, and the energy from her, is something I haven't gotten from anyone else, and I don't want anyone else.[/QUOTE]Now how would that energy be if you realized 6 months after marrying her that she did not clean up behind herself or always got in the bed at night without taking a shower? Being on vacation hanging out with chicks is one thing; living with them or marrying them is something totally different.
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Philosophy
[QUOTE=Aml3740;2905160]I think the main problem here is that you posted this on a forum for mongers. Most readers are men who are not looking for a relationship, but just no strings attached sex, and will not appreciate this post or sentiment. I'm not saying that's good or bad, but it is true.[/QUOTE]There are countless similar posts to mine. I am more interested in takes on the sidewalks, on those lethal trikes, on where to change money and on the cheap food than weak porno descriptions. We all know where to get hookers. It is not, as they say, rocket science.
I gave the flower seller my underpants as she was broke. I looked at her sleeping naked on my bed. Pretty bit too jaded to be sexy, at least for me. I look at those women around rthe Roman Hotel and take a deep breath. Walking St and Balibago is just one small piece of Angeles and there is a big life beyond it.
I threw a post out there to see what guys thought. My girl is a keeper. I am not but I do appreciate such folk.
In our little commune, there was a bar girl (with a Korean paying the bills, as they all have). They are as predictable as a baby and a waste of money. Nice but tainted by being with too many morons.
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[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2905086]Sounds like marriage to me.[/QUOTE]Touché. Still don't recommend it.
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[QUOTE=Aml3740;2905160] But that's the beautiful thing. Everyone has their own preferences and desires. As long as it isn't hurting anyone, then enjoy![/QUOTE]Well said Aml. There's some really great input here on this forum and also genuine advice. But everyone has their own desires. If I can see a bloke's going to drop a heap of cash on a bar girl who's told them they love them on the first catch-up, then I usually give them a gentle warning. Ultimately they'll work it out. Just enjoy the Filipinas I say. Phil.