To Seahorse and Tuscan Man
[QUOTE=Seahorse]I have a gf living with me for over 1 year now.
Recently I met another, pretty woman who I don't particularly fancy characterwise and who doesn't speak English that well but she's so wild, acts like a nympho, making me come 3 times in a row and not minding me shooting inside her (no baby, I just finished my da yi ma (period) -which I witnessed so it's true)... I know most of you will disapprove this risky business and so do I, but the desire on the moment is too strong.)
Question nr. 1: Why do women like her not fear that???
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Women don't fear that for a couple of reasons.
1: They don't understand the magnitude of STD's out there, usually due to a lack of education, or because they are young and believe it won't happen to them.
2: They think, fuck it, if he gets me pregnant I have him - he can pay child support or marry me and I'll be rich, rich, rich.
[QUOTE=Seahorse]
This woman however shall never replace my gf so I have to tell her a bunch of lies. In fact, after we're done, I feel I love my gf as never before and I really regret my cheating on her.
Question nr. 2: What's your advice. I don't want to hurt either of them.[/QUOTE]
My advice is strong and direct: wear a fucking condom with your girl on the side. You put your girlfriend, who you supposedly love at extreme risk. I'm sure you don't want to catch anything, but imagine explaining to your girlfriend that you caught something fucking a girl on the side... Keep shagging both, by all means, but just be smart about it, rather than stupid.
[QUOTE=Tuscan Man]
Can someone give me some idea on what the affection level is with Chinese working girl girlfriends?
I don't have bad breath and I am always clean shaven. Is it cultural? Any opinions and or experiences similar to this.
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It varies wildly in my opinion. I've seen both, but definitely it is more the way other brothers describe, with a time and place mentality.
Yet saying that, only last Sunday night I recall, what you call it, making out for quite a long time in the middle of the dance floor at a reasonably busy club, yet the girl I was with certainly does not mind attracting attention to herself at all and I'm sure was eyeing other dudes off at the same time.
But, on the other hand, she was not my girlfriend, and it has not been a long term relationship, so that might not answer your question too well.
Training the Chinese Woman to be more affectionate
After having my my fiance live in the PI for a few months,She has learned to be a bit more affectionate Hugging or kissing me in Public,But thats not really her thing,She is adjusting because of the social conditions in the PI.But having her mixing with a group of Expat wives and local High end Filipinas also has had her shave more regularly,Floss and Brush ,clean up more often.So I guess over time a Chinese Woman can learn to become more demonstrative.Likewise I am becoming more Chinese in outlook towards some things.I also eat Snake and Lizard now also.Well you have to compromise to make things work.My 2 Fen opinion
Just my 2 cents on Yankee617's travel plans
Xiamen: I would keep it in your travel itenary, especially if you are not only into mongering, but also seeing a bit of China. Xiamen is a very nice town with a lovely old centre - just about the right size to walk around. Stay at Lujiang Hotel close to the Ferry port - it's cheap, nice and very centrally located. Don't miss the day trip to the lovely island just in front of Xiamen. For the countless mongering possibilities, check the Xiamen section - especially for the saunas.
Mobile: Indeed very practical for making hotel reservations, hooking up with people and sending SMS to girls that you met and would like to see again. Buy the cheapest GSM 900 mobile, a China Mobile number for around RMB 100 (already with 70 RMB credit for calls) and add credits with phone cards for RMB 100.
Shanghai: if you like to stay in nice places, check the Rui Jin Guesthouse in the French Concession - it's a very nice complex of old buildings with lots of character and atmosphere, situated in the middle of a large garden with different settings. It feels a bit surreal staying in such a nice, old and quiet place in the middle of the buzzling, crazy Shanghai ... a perfect place to fill up your batteries for nightly adventures. Not necessarily the best place for mongering, although you may be lucky with some of the SW close to the "House of Blues", a very nice Jazz bar (I was extremely lucky during my first stay in Shanghai). Normal rooms are around RMB 800-1000 (check the internet for cheapest price)
Have fun in China!
Hendrik