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I am not promoting BBBJ here, also, I keep it covered now for everything, yes even blow jobs! Here are my stats:
I have received an estimated 2500-2800 BBBJ in my lifetime. Probably from 500-600 different women. I can honestly tell you I have never caught anything! Does this mean you won't, or I would never have caught anything? Of course not. I consider myself lucky, DAMN LUCKY!
However, I have always done the following:
1. Examined her mouth for obvious signs of infections.
2. Drink a large glass of water just before getting the blow job, so I [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] like a race horse right after she is done.
3. Use alcohol wipes on my pecker as soon as she is done.
4. Receive my BBBJ in a well lit area, for two reasons, so i can enjoy the work being done on me and to make sure her mouth is not bleeding! (this happened once and scared the living shit out of me)
5. Get tested regularly! Yes even for HIV.
I do believe HIV is possible to catch from receiving a BJ, think about it, our mouths bleed quite easily. Some hookers who are HIV, might be intentionally trying to pass the virus. Who knows, for this reason and since I saw blood on my penis during a BJ, I have decided to keep it covered for all activities. I have ALWAYS wore a condom for everything except a handjob in the past.
TANG~!
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Gentlemen,
Lets get a grip. We take our chances in everything in life. The informed choice is thus the only way to go. Statistics don’t mean sh1t when your unloading into a warm moist mouth…
Regards, Havanaman
PS. I prefer BBBJ to actual penetration, have done all my life, so I have had many many thousands: never been infected.
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I recently made a trip to Houston and visited two spas. At the first one, I saw a girl who had been reviewed very favorably on other boards and had a great time with her. Lots of DFK, BBBJ and DATY. The FS was covered. The second night, I went to another spa and spent time with a well reviewed lady. With her it was BBBJ and she DFK'd me. I was hesitant and didn't DATY her. I also had CFS.
The week following my return, I first felt an itching inside my equipment. I went to the doc. He didn't take a culture, but prescribed some antibiotics because he thought I had a prostate infection of some sort. A few days later, I started burning on urination and then I had an ugly discharge. I was miserable. I was out of town, so there wasn't much I could do other than go to a clinic, so when I got home I went to the doc. He took a culture and said it was probably either gonorrhea or chamydia. I got a double regimen of antibiotics, which seem to have cleared it up.
I suspect that I got the bug from the second place. I got a note from someone in Houston who said that he suspects he got a case from the same spa, but a different girl! Hard to know exactly where I got it, but I am pretty sure it was in Houston at one of those two places.
I notified both spa owners and got a response from one. I have not gotten my results back from the doc to know what it was that I had, but bottom line is I picked up something from oral activity of some kind.
It makes me look at BBBJs a bit differently, now.
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Gentleman Slim,
Tough going friend, I hope you are clear now.
One question: during the BBBJ did your provider touch herself on / in her pussy while blowing you, then touch your shaft? Although it can happen (as clearly has with you) it is rare: yours is the first case I have read on BBBJ induced infection. Also what is your comment on the hygiene level of either place / providers between customers?
Regards, Havanaman
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Gentleman Slim
Sorry to know about your experiance .Like Havanahman has mentioned I too have had plenty of BBBJ's and have never been infected so far.I think maybe the DATY you did could have been the culprit here.As vaginal fluids carry/transfer more infections than saliva can. Well another possiblity is that she had bleeding gums that could have caused this ordeal.
Anyways its always best to be on one's guard, but the feel of a womans mouth and tongue bare back sometimes is just too darn hard to resist.
Hope you have come out of it by now.
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I had a session with two chicks a couple years back. Total oral, switching partners, absolutely no FS. About a week later I had a bit of a problem that was diagnosed as non-specific urinitas. The Doc told me that perhaps one of the girls was carrying this "bug" in her pussy, and it transferred from the other chicks mouth and down my dick. He said that these particular cultures can remain active in the throat area for several hours unless there is consumption of a sufficient quantity of fluids. I really don't fully remember if there was any deep throat action going on as I was preoccupied with a pussy in my face and totally phukt-up. It caused me to re-examine my behavior, and, after several deep thoughts, I was horny as hell and had to seek a provider.
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Gentlemen:
I recently took a free HIV test, I was trying to get an amateur I was dating, she asked me to do it. Anyway, during the procedure, they give you the "education" spiel. In a nutshell, you do not need to fear contracting HIV from a normal mouth on your cock, saliva is not considered an HIV risk. Actually, this was a fun rebuttal I had to the girl bugging me about AIDS, I said "well, you make out with me, what about that, huh?" She didn't have an answer to that.
Now, of course if the person blowing me has a bleeding lip sore, bleeding gums (I have never seen that, have you?), or generally messed up, things would be perhaps different.
I think it's safer to have a stranger suck my cock than for me to kiss them. Has anyone here ever kissed a hooker? I have. I have also gone down on them. I can't help it I guess.
I try to have them take a shower first, that's nice. I also tend to wash up with antibacterial soap and take a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] right afterwards.
Just a couple of days ago I had a nice 23 yr old girl come over and we were warming up, and after getting started, it somehow went down a little bit. I asked "can you help jump start me?" and she immediately went to work with a nice blowjob. I said "what do you want to do when it gets hard again? or, do you just want to keep doing that?" she mumbled "hmmmph!" (hard to answer with something in her mouth) so I let her continue. It was an unexpected treat. I had some kleenex and a bottle of water for her to use afterward.
The other reports are a bit frightening, but apart from seeing a lip herpes sore, I would not be overly concerned with receiving a blow job. Head with a condom on sounds pretty much a waste of time to me. That's just my take on it.
Happy hunting,
Dash Riprock
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From reading the last two pages a casual reader would think that this is the "Oral Sex--Disease" forum. Instead, I've been thinking about some of the ways men and women think differently about oral sex.
I hadn't thought about it until an occasion more than ten years ago. I was with a regular provider, who happened to be Native American, who gave a particularly satisfying BBBJCIMWS. She asked me if I didn't like her any more. I asked her why she thought that. She said that when we were first dating, she could tell I was about to cum because I would grab the back of her head and "go for distance" down her throat. Sometimes, she said, she would gag or choke, but that was because of my excitement with her. But recently I had quit doing that. Oh. My. Gawd. After that I never gave her any reason to doubt that I really, really liked her!
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Titman,
You are exactly right about this forum: its turning into a regular hospital consultation forum!
I had a very similar experience to yours with an ex-GF: just goes to show women look at every aspect of the act, not just the “cuming and going”. Me too: lessons learned.
Regards, Havanaman
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Havanaman
You are right, what happened to the shared experiences guys.
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My wife has never been very oral but will give me the standard shaft only service sometimes to please me. She never went below the shaft to the balls and certainly never gave me a rim job. She's always told me her lack of desire stems from the fact that no matter how clean I am she still can't get past the thoughts of shit and [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] coming from the area. She loves getting any and all oral from me but is lousy in giving back.
On a whim I decided to give myself a haircut and shave. I know I enjoy going down on a well trimmed pussy more than one that resembles a gorilla's and thought the same idea it might apply to women. With my trusty beard trimmer I cut all my pubic hair very short. Then I shaved smooth my shaft, balls, ass, and all area between. After suprising my wife, she got really turned on and not only gave me enthusiastic head but ball and ass licking! Needless to say the area continues to be maintained this way. I haven't tried it on a pay for service girl yet, but plan to as soon as I get the next mongering opportunity. I'll let everyone if it has the same effect. I'm hoping it will help me get more bareback and maybe CIM. Either way it sure is more comfortable.
I still can't get the old lady to let me CIM. She won't even try it. I'd welcome any advice on how to talk her into it.
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Hi all,
I had the opportunity to visit and experience a few AMP sessions at a local place in Hawaii. I usually frequent there and they mostly all know me. Anyway, I usually go for DATY, CBJ, and FS. My curiousity is about how safe it is at the AMP locations. I have a bad habit for doing DATY. I just love it. ha. But you can never know these days. Just would like some feedback from other members regarding this matter.
Thanks
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Alamex,
You are one brave man!
Some years back I tried to have a ”shave” below and got a nick-cut on the base of my shaft. Damned cut nearly bled me dry, it just would not heal for days. That coupled with the constant itching from the ensuing stubble made my mind up for me: never again. Now I am hairy (trimmed and neat!), but comfortable.
Its good to hear that you are now getting better oral service. As to convincing your partner to CIM: I would get her to taste a little after you give her a load over her breasts. Maybe even feed her a small amount on your finger. Tell her to just try the taste… If you do want to do this, eat fruit and vegetables (i.e. no meat for a few days). This will change the flavour of your juice to less tart and more “sweet”.
If all else fails, get her drunk, and whilst having sex, just pull away from her and say you are not satisfied and need / want CIM… This worked for me once and was continued by the chica even when she was sober.
Regards, Havanaman
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Havanaman:
Now that's what I call a tactic!
I will employ it as soon as I can.
Stay Safe
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Thanks Havanaman,
I didn't know about the fruits and vegetables verses meat. I'll give it a try. If she obliges I want it to be a good experience for her so that she will do it again.
I haven't had the problem with scrathing. I wear loose boxers and pants so maybe that helps.