Maybe you need to re-think this story you're telling yourself.
[QUOTE=Sammon; 1296206]I would be very carefull approaching girls. They may have a BF and friends who will beat you up if you make a move.
Baybay has pretty girls also but cannot approach them if you are older.
If you are young and handsome you can approh any girls anywhere in the world.
There maybe exceptions if you get lucky.[/QUOTE]Sammon, my dear man, you sound like a wonderful guy but I am afraid you're telling yourself a story which serves you not at all.
I am almost 65, not terribly rich, good-looking and have never been accused of being tall. However, I do find myself a terribly charming and entertaining guy and have never shied away from a beautiful girl, whether in Ormoc or anywhere else in the PI, or the world.
I travel a lot alone in rural parts of PI and other countries and never hesitate to chat up a beautiful girl if I'm in the mood to do so. On the other hand, I'll as quickly chat up her granny or auntie. It's all about attitude. And once you let fear enter your mind, or worse, your heart, you'll hesitate in situations where just the opposite action is called for.
I've never once been threatened or intimidated by a Pinoy anywhere in the PI because I chatted up a girl.
In the end, we encounter what we expect. Expect disaster and either you'll encounter it, or you'll pass up opportunities becuase you fear pending disaster. Expect wonderfulness and sure enough, it's what you'll be served.
If you get a chance, read the tale of The Three Princes of Serendip, it will change your life forever.
In the words of a fine deceased Dublin nun "Live and love recklessly until the moment of impact".
Safe and serendipitous travels, my good man!