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Spyguy, I'm also pushing 40 with high blood pressure. Fortunately, my BP is not high enough that I require a beta blocker, but I have started to include cardiovascular work with my normal weight lifting and things are looking up.
I agree with you that the trip to AMPs is very therapuetic and relaxing and can do much to lower your BP. Anything that relieves stress is helpful!
My question to you sir is about the beta blockers that you had to take. I was very concerned about them and talked to my doctor about them. My worry was that I always heard that beta blockers can affect you sexually and inhibit the lead from filling your pencil, so to speak. Did you experience any problems along those lines? Obviously, you continued to visit AMPs so it doesn't appear that you did have problems. I was just curious how they effected you, if they did at all.
Like I said, my BP had come down and I may be able to stop my meds soon if it keeps going this way. But, I have a history of High BP in my family, so I think it is only a matter of time before I have to go that route.
But, I will use your prescription of a healthy dose of AMP visits, just to be safe! <grin>
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I haven't been to an AMP for a while due to lack of funds. And I can tell I'm getting cranky. I guess in reading the recent posts about the house benifits, I may be able to afford the house fee and just get an hour massage in order to relax. I'll have to be sure to only take in the house fee so I'm not tempted to get extras.
This leads me to a general question as I've always gone to the AMP for the massage AND the extras. Do the girls get upset if you don't go for extras? What if little willy is awake during the flip and you just want the massage to continue? My fear is that they may think I'm a cop and if I come back later for extras, I won't be able to get them.
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US Traveller, if you do the flip and little willie is awake, then give her an extra 20 for a nice HJ. It doesn't cost that much more and the relaxation that comes from the 'extra' attention is well worth it.
Besides, if you do that, they definitely can't mistake you for a cop! lol. Remember, you don't always have to pay for fs at an AMP, but tipping is the only way that the girl makes money. The 'house' fee is just that, it is for the house, the girl gets none of that money. They only way she gets paid is for her to get you to tip. And, 20 isn't very much for a nice HJ, that way everyone is happy!
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I want to share with you a couple simple, inexpensive, and very useful things I use to enhance my AMP experiences.
First, I always carry a CoolMint Listerine PocketPak with me. If you haven't used them before, they're great. An AMP girl that's any good at all will offer you mouthwash after DATY, DFK, etc. but the PocketPak contains 24 breath freshener strips that dissolve on your tongue that you can easily use BEFORE you enter an AMP. The girls will appreciate you more if you arrive with clean breath, especially since it's customary for me to greet my favorite AMP girl at the door with a hug and a kiss. I find the PocketPaks more compact and effective than the pocket breath sprays I've tried.
Second, I found the Savex brand of medicated lip balm to be the most effective at treating dry, chapped lips, cold sores, and fever blisters. You can get them for about $1.19 a stick retail. After working all day in a heated or air conditioned office, your lips can dry out. Having moist, healthy lips will enhance whatever oral contact you have with the AMP girls, either kissing or more.
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I posted a question in a local forum, but it may be of more general interest.
http://www.wsgforum.com/vforum/showthread.php?s=&postid=257068
Question is: anyone here ever had a chance to give a table shower to the masseuse at an AMP?
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In my many experiences with amps, I found the best way for me to get my massage and fs too is usually I have her to massage my back medium touch. But from the waist down the light touch .And if she is fairly new or young I will show her the technique. The light touch get my juices going and after the flip over , its magic. Most amps {viets} 99.9 per cent have super soft silky hands and the light touch massage really set the rest of the massage off. Most of the young girls are very exploratory with their hands and the rest comes natural. Meaning a very good hj.Orange County, California has many amps with many of the girls are school girls. Good times for all.
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Hey married guys. I have a question, when visiting an AMP, do you leave the ring on, or remove it? it's always a stress point for me... don't know why.
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Trouble man
The girls really don't care. They know a good share of their clients are married. I wouldn't worry about it.
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Trouble Man,
Like J Boy says, when it comes to doing business they aren't going to care if you are married or not. However if you ever think that you might have an "outside" encounter with one of them, it might be better not to reveal your true status. I've always been fairly open and truthful with girls in the past. I figured that since they are with twenty or so guys a day, what would they care if I have a wife that gives me a mercy f*uck every two months. It's been a mistake though and it has kept me from closing the deal. One girl gave me her number and even though we talk occasionally, she is afraid of "my jealous wife" going after her.
I'm now going to stay with the "seperated but the kid lives with me" routine. That makes it easier to explain away my reluctance to take her home with me but reduces some of her fears about seeing me. And while you may never care to see most of the girls on the outside, they do talk to each other. What one knows, they all know.
PussyLuvr
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Trouble Man,
Your question on whether or not to remove the wedding ring has practical and philosophical elements to the answer I suggest.
From a practical perspective, my wife and I both have always removed our wedding and other rings for a variety of reasons, such as when swimming, sleeping, working in the yard, and even during the very occasional sex we have (there's someting about being caressed when your partner doesn't have metal or the hardest known substance on their fingers). At AMPs, part of the delight I get is the reflexology massage, which includes the girl stretching each one of your fingers. I also don't want to ever take the chance of forgeting or losing a ring at an AMP so I take both my wedding and college ring off and leave them locked in my car (along with my wallet).
From a philosophical perspective, it has been the custom in many Asian cultures since ancient times to have a primary spouse (i.e. wife) to sire kids, take care of the home, be a confidante, etc. and have lovers on the side for sexual gratification. Although "globalization" and the introduction of western values into Asia is diminishing this aspect somewhat, the reason you have so many "Asian" MPs in the U.S. as well as in most Asian nations is that there is much less of a stigma of seeking sexual gratification outside of marriage in Asian cultures. In fact, prostitution was only outlawed in Japan during the U.S. occupation after WW II. Even when it was outlawed, it only used to be an offense for the woman, not the man. Unfortunately, you'll find most Americanized Asian women have quickly adopted the values of western women, however.
I'd bet a fair percentage of AMP patrons are married men. I've only had one AMP girl, who I've been seeing on a fairly regular basis at my favorite AMP, ask me if I was married, and I answered her truthfully that I am. Since there's only a very limited scenario and circumstances where I'd even consider seeing an AMP girl I know outside the AMP, not wearing your wedding ring there shouldn't be a big deal for you or the girls. I guess the girls figure that if you were single and looking for a long term relationship that might lead to marriage, an AMP is not the place most guys start their search.
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Touble man, I have to agree with Spy Guy, there are a lot of practical and philosophical elements to consider. For me, call me an old softy, but I just don't like cheating on my wife while I am wearing the ring. I, like Spy Guy, lock it up in my car for safe keeping with my wallet. I don't want to lose it or forget it.
So, you see, it is really up to you. I also agree with the other points made here about telling them if you are married or not. I don't think it matters one way or the other. All they care about is if you have enough money! As Pussy Luvr points out, the only time that it matters is if you are going to see the girl out of the AMP. So, again, it is up to you!
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IMHO, some MP girls might not give you a happy ending ( even a HJ) if they know you are married. They are semi-legit and don't want to risk losing their job.
Another thing a girl told me that she had a customer that looked to be about 80 years old. He came in for a massage and asked for extras. She declined, figuring that he might have a heart attack in the middle of the deed.
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BTW, Spy Guy, congrats on the Senior Member status, you deserve it!
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Regarding letting AMP providers know if you're married or not, I have a feeling they usually suspect it by default.
I'm completely single, yet whenever I get this question in an AMP (fairly often, oddly enough), the girls usually seem surprised. Admittedly, I'm sure some of this is the usual fake "How could such a great guy like you be single?" fantasy part of the service, but there seems to be some real surprise beyond that. Probably a good indication that most of the clientele either admit being married, or simply forget the ring.
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With over 35 years in the hobby, trust me, the girl does not care if you are married or not. She's in it for the money. I would guess that most of her customer's are married. By knowing you are married, she'll make sure she doesn't scratch you or leave any other marks, stray hairs, etc. Sometimes they don't ask if you are married but instead ask how old your kids are or something like that.
In most AMP's, happy endings are available unless they think you're LE. I'm not 80 yet, if I'm still in the game by then, I'll let you know if I get turned down.
To be sure it doesn't end up lost, I don't wear my ring.