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Goodenough,
Arrived late Sunday night in SFO and it is cold and rainy. Quite a different weather experience now eventhough I was born and raised in The Bay Area. Feeling horny as hell and no place to go. Miss my girls in the PI already.
Speaking about english. I never had any problems communicating with the filipinas. Some were real rough and with a heavy accent while on the opposite spectrum, some were real fluent. Of course it also depends on the class of women you ick up and meet. But, in Thailand, english speaking girls are quite hard to find. Hard to maintain a decent conversation. One of the girls I spent the week with spoke very good english but seemed to learn the colorful adjectives and cussed in every sentence. Got her to control it because it got real tired real quick. Other than that, had a great time in Thailand.
I've hooked up with a few women on the internet while in Makati. Some was good, so-so and never again. Plus it takes some investment in time which is hard for me to come by with the last couple of months. I do not hit the mongering scene as much lately since I've been seeing my regulars by texting them. Or hooking up with my little Cebuana while in the Visayan region.
I'll be back sometime in the middle of next week and would be heading to Cagayan de Oro and Butuan City for some business for a few days. I might fly there since one of my girls I called said a ferry caught on fire.
Enjoy your new experiences and keep it up. Hope to hook up with you in Davao one of these days.
PL
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Hello fellas,
This is my first reply in the Philippines section of this site. I have mongered in Europe, South America, and Mexico. I just got back today from my first trip to the PI and I am absolutely flaggergasted at how sensual and sexy the Filipinas were. They rocked my world! So far, the PI has IMHO the best GFE's in the world! I totally can see why so many Westerners go there and marry. They have to be the sweetest girls on the planet. I can't wait until I return in a few months. I hit EDSA in Manila and Angeles City. I only had positive experiences with the Filipinas I encountered.
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JT,
Welcome to our world ! :)
FD
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Thanks FD,
I will definitely be coming back. Everyone is so friendly there. Have you been to the LOS? How do the women compare?
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Fellow mongers. I could have put "IMHO" in front of all the below, but that would have gotten old. It is all just my opinion.
JT,
Since you're a "newbie" I'll let you off easy.
Questions such as this one, that have been asked and answered hundreds of times on this board are not appreciated. Don't be lazy. Read past reports. The search function will help narrow things down for you.
Now, that said, since you asked me directly: I have been to the LOS 15-20 times. I find Thai girls just as beautiful as the Filipinas (some will say more so), but I also find them more mercenary. They do not love you, no matter how convincing the reverse may seem. It is just about the Baht. Most of the Thai girls also speak only a bit of English. Usually not a problem unless you want them to hang around more than a night.
I find the big advantages of Thailand are more about the country than the girls. Great culture and history, superior infrastructure (although improving a bit in the RP) and cuisine.
Filipinas are far better for your ego. Not just the pros but all. Girls throughout the country have raised flirting to an artform.
I also find the bar scene far more playful in the RP. When you barfine a girl in the RP, they seem to convince themselves that they are your "girlfriend for a night" rather than just someone to get you off.
A case in point. When you BF a Thai BG and ask her what she'd like to do, she will most likely say "Go shopping". Ask the same of a Filipina BG and she will probably say "Go bar hopping".
Good luck,
FD
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Thanks Firedick for the info. Gees, you didn't have to bit my head off. I just asked for YOUR opinion. I am not lazy and have read numerous opinions from many guys. I just wanted to see your perceptions. I have mongered extensively in other countries and get the same question over and over and still answer it over and over.
JT
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JT,
And here I thought I was pretty gentle.
My apologies if you thought I was biting your head off.
FD
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Pinay Lover:
It's true about the ferry. It blew up, and killed more than 100 people and no one seems to know why, or at least no one is saying anything for public consumption. As to mongering, I understand what you mean. It's so easy here to establish a team of regulars that it's often not worth the effort to go fishing for more. I have recently however, found a couple of new places in Davao that are worth the effort.
Don't envy you the cold and the rain. I think I'm getting too old for the bay area and for cold weather in general. The weather here is getting slowly ever warmer, with a lot of rain.
Let me know when and/or if you ever get to Davao.
GE
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The GFE of the Filippina is such an artform.
My experience with them is that they would SMS you everyday with all kind of love notes and then ask you for small favors like reloading their cellphones etc.
Sometimes I get a standardized message saying that they couldn't get through to me, not knowing that a few weeks previously they have sent an identical message. Obviously they must have a template of messages that they sent to all their so called boyfriends.
It is no point asking a Filippina if they have boyfriends. Most would not admit it. When you ask them why their telephone is always having a busy signal, they would say they are calling their family. As if they have so much to chat with their family.
But in the end, it is the ego massage that a Filippina provides. It is second to none. They really seem to mean what they say. Or is it a fiction of imagination that the guy wants to accept?
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Miao,
You are absolutely right. I never meet such sensual women in my entire life. Not in Africa, Europe, South America, and certainly NOT in N. America! Filipinas are really sweet and old fashioned. I love it. It kind of reminds me of what American woman had to of been like prior to the 1960's. The PI is definitely worth the 30 hours it takes to travel there, even for just a few days! Pics just don't do these girl's justice.
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JT:
It's true. The Thais may be slightly sexier as are the Vietnamese I think, but no one is sweeter, more romantic and more in the moment than these ladies. I doubt that American women were ever quite so loving and quite so good in bed.
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Gents,
I would certainly agree that Filipinas are better than Thais, although this is very much a personal preference. I know some guys who swear by Thais. I don't see the attraction. Although I've had some great experiences with Thai girls outside of Thailand, i.e. saunas in Macau, I've never had anybody that I'd consider above good in Thailand.
I'm just about to dump my Filipina girlfriend of two years. She's the fuck of the century and the sexiest thing that's ever shared my bed...but, although she's 10 years my junior, she acts more like 15 years my junior (which would make her about 15). Her big ambition is to be with me full-time. Well, I've been married and I'm not going to do that again. She could do quite a bit in terms of making her own way, but she doesn't. I'm tired of supporting her. She tells me she's bored--well, do something about it. If she came to be with me (I live in a non-English-speaking Asian country), she'd either have to learn the language, or I have to be a babysitter all the time. If I wanted a kid, I'd have one.
This may be an ongoing problem if you have an ongoing relationship with a Filipina. The sex, geezus, it's like having your own personal porn star, complete with body. They may take a mouthful of your cum and then run off to go to church, but at least you get the first part. If you're looking for a traditional cooking-cleaning-taking care of the kids wife that also takes it in the ass, then the Philippines is the place for you. However, if you're looking for more of a partner, someone who's going to have a life of their own, unless you start banging Filipina movie stars and singers, you're probably going to be disappointed.
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I have noticed a difference between Filipinas raised in the US and those in the PIs. American Filipinas tend to be more independent and self-assured whereas those raised in the Philippines are more subservient.
As a rule, I second the notion of what Intransit is saying, Filipinas raised in the PIs are loving and very family oriented but you have to think for them, advised them all the time of what to do, and they have low self-confidence in trying to do things by themselves.
If you are the type of man who likes to tell their significant others on what to do and how to think 24/7, then the Filipina is for you.
It was a nice confidence booster that my opinion was asked all the time by a former Filipina girlfriend initially but it became tiring later on since I am used to more independent chicks.
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Intransit:
In general, I agree with you. The problem is that after the sex wears off, there's nothing much left except to lust after someone with whom you haven't slept before. The exception may be college education women from fairly middle class families. My experience is that these girls are more independent, brighter and more inquisitive, and are still wonderful in bed. Of course, you still have the same problem with them wondering where the "relationship" is going. I have a friend who believes that the answer is to always have 3 girls friends: a number 1, with whom you spend Saturday night and one night during the week; a number 2, who gets Friday night and another night during the week; and a "rotating" number 3 who shares your bed whenever you're tired of the other two. It seems to work for him.
As to Filipinas raised in the US; they're Americans. No different really from other American women.
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Thanks for the great information guys. "Young grasshopper is learning much".