SA and being successful through it
Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.
First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.
If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.
I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.
1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show.
2) A final year medical student with whom I had a long term thing. There were no allowances after a couple of months. She just loved being with me and the kinks I am into. A squirter with a libido that had no limits. I mentored her for a bunch of post grad MBA entrances on the side. It was a proper rules based and reward / punishment driven approach to motivate her and help her structure her prep.
3) An 18 year old student from Christ College. We were at it for about 7 or 8 months and I helped her out when she needed. Never gave her an allowance. Bought her the tiniest of dresses from Forever21 that she wore to our dates. And we did PDA like no tomorrow at Shiro several times, made out in the parking lot of UB City, drove around with a dildo in her and a vibrator on her and did even nastier things in the hotel when we did get there. All it took was being nice to her, some salmon and wine at Shiro and a kinky as fuck brain.
4) A dental student who was 20 and super hot. Was with her for over 6 months between Wave 1 ease off and Wave 2. I know where she now practices. Nearly 2. 5 years later in Dec last year I visited her by deliberately booking a cleaning appointment with her. She recognised me and knew I had booking her deliberately. We met again after that over drinks but never went further since she is now dating someone seriously. She still looks as hot, if not hotter.
5) A 19 year old student with a huge Daddy kink.
6) A married woman who wanted some fun on the side and was super kinky too.
I have also had my share of PPMs and fallen into things I should not have. I have had my share of coffee or dinner dates that have not led to anything. That happens about 50-60% of the time if not more. But that is a part of the learning process and the patience piece that I called out.
So what makes meaningful things happen off SA?
First. Talk to them like a genuine, empathetic person. Earn trust. Don't come across as crazy or creepy or just wanting to fuck her at the first chance. Second. It is a fact that there are girls on SA who are on SA because intelligence, personality and success is what attracts them to a man. So don't hesitate from coming across as having those qualities. Along with empathy. Third. Give her time and space but draw a boundary. I do not do endless dates over coffee or dinner. But I do want to give her time to get comfortable. And I am okay to invest 5 k or 6 k to give her that confidence if I think there is potential. Over time, you learn to draw the line and your judgement evolves so you make less of these unsuccessful investments. Fourth. Be honest. Just like you don't enjoy being flaked or ghosted or being stood up, neither does she. Fifth. You need to focus on her as well in bed. Several of these girls have kinks and want to orgasm / cum as well. And if you can make sure she has as good a time as you did, then she's likely to want to be with you again. Needless to say, always respect boundaries. Once you earn trust, boundaries do ease off slowly.
Lastly, the benefits that stem from earning trust and going longer with one girl are really worth it. It opens doors, exploration and horizons that one off meets just cannot. And if you play it right, it is not as expensive as one would thing. For the record. No girl has ever wanted a six figure monthly allowance. For that matter even a high five figure monthly allowance.
SA Bangalore. Any reviews?
Hey friends,
Has anyone met or spoken to the sultry soul?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4fa384a-cb41-49f9-9a05-45ae512c772b[/URL]
While the profile looks good and is active, she is not responding to the msgs.
TIA.