Nah, I was fishin for fun.
[QUOTE=The Hammer1169; 1391056]Odd SBeach; I read your posts and those of others and wish the hell I was single again, and you guys seem like you are fishing for a live in! Look; anyone who has read my lengthy and numerous posts on this subject knows I say it straight. If I could roll the clock back five years and NOT go to Club Amnesia in Tijuana where I met my wife in 2007 I would! Is she hot; yes! Is she an excellent little wife; damn straight! But truth is I married her to have steady access to her 5'0 and 110Lb body and shaved snatch! Guess what? These working girls are just as bad as all women if not worse. They like to fuck about once a week and anything more than that is like pulling teeth. I fell under that spell that they must like to fuck because that is basically their job, although my wife was a stripper and didn't do much escort work. Wrong! That part about their job being fucking was right, but the part about liking it was wrong!
Now, do I have my shirts pressed and pants ironed every morning for work? Yup. Do I have dinner on and lunch ready EVERY day? Yup. Do I have a warm, tight little ass 20 years younger than me to snuggle up against every night? Yup. Do I enter that ass? Nope; four times in five years. Do I bury my little buddy in that shaved snatch every night? Nope. Becoming more hassle than its worth truthfully. Does she like to kiss the little buddy? Rarely despite my pleas. So advice; beware! I actually have dashed out more than a few times and got what I want on the outside because she doesn't deliver it at home. I think she even knows what I'm doing but would rather ignore it than lower herself to perform when she doesn't have the right hormonal "balance."
This has been the source of some monsterous arguments actually. I can't help but ask her at times "how the hell could you do this stuff for money, but not for love or to bring peace to a marriage?" She just flat says "I just don't like it like you do."
I would rather roll the clock back like it was with her before marriage; me traveling to Mexico every weekend and having a free fuck fest. That shit ended about 6-weeks after we moved in together. So. Enjoy your liberty. I promise you with 95% certainty if you moved that girl in with you she will be stripping and fucking in San Diego three weeks later. My old lady hinted at that and I told her to hit the bricks. She backed down and became a great house wife except the lack of sex! Damn my luck! Before her I had a Honduran girl that fucked every way I wanted when I wanted but wasn't quite a hotty so we went our own way. Girl had a great heart and knew how to please her man. Me. I decide I deserve hotter. End out with a sexy little hard body with nice bolt ons that thinks sex is a once a week obligation. Go figure! I wish I could some how stuff the heart and willingness of the Honduran into the body of my wife! Paradise on earth!
Man; again I would always say beware of those girls across the border. They all want something and it sure as hell isn't cock. They have seen so many of them they all look the same. Big ones, small ones, fat ones, skinny ones. They want material goods; period. My wife wanted stability and was tired of the nightly grind and 4:00AM arrivals, and someone to take care of her. It all comes down to money for those girls as that is all they know. I know of one guy I met on this site who married a working girl from down there. Ended in divorce after two years. He said he once went three months without getting laid and then when she put out and he shot his wad, she asked him for a new purse while the jizz was still running down her leg. I believe this: Leopards can't change their spots, they just fade away, but they will always have spots. I still, five years removed from the sex industry, see the plotting and scheming side of my wife pop up on occasion. Wheels are always turning as to how to hustle.
I suppose I got lucky other than not getting my appetite satisfied in the bedroom. But what man does? Last time I went to Hong Kong I sat and thought "damn; I wish I could come here every weekend." That was Thanksgving holiday after my wife hadn't so much as touched my cock for 10-days straight! I took all that out on a little Asian / mexican down there that went by Alex. Poor girl got pounded every way possible! I get back and the wife is nice as can be, but still no interest in the bedroom. She once told me she could totally live without sex! Wish I had known that before the $15, 000 wedding! Oh well; Nogales is just 40 minutes away! HA! No woman will neuter me, ever.[/QUOTE]Hammer, I've read your postings and they give great advice and experience from a fellow board member. My mission was to have a nice girl here and there in Tijuana. As much as I enjoy being with them, I can not ever go to the stages of feeling that deep for someone in that industry. Main reason, I've experienced it before in my past lives, never to the point of marriage but a deep relationship. Too much drama. I learned this at a younger age and I've seen the dark side to it myself (not in Tijuana but a stripper in the US). So that's why I said, it will be fun while the fun slowly fades away. In other words, I will enjoy the time with her till the day she gets her visa and I will let her go. I'm sure there is another that will take my place easily but I walk away with the knowledge that it was good (and a lot of fun) while it lasted and did not walk the darkside with her. I know her agenda and I can read them just like you. My next mission is to find a new one to replace her and play along. Like I said, I'm just fishing for fun. It would have to be a 500lb blue fin tuna for me to want to keep her. Other than that, its just fishing. Enjoy Tijuana for what it is.
Lord, let me think with the big head
Perhaps Mr. Hammer will beat some sense into me. Last 4 days were in the zona. New favorite is a young spinner, exactly 1/3 my age. Spent 2 HK sessions on Tuesday and Wednesday. Spent 6 hours, Thursday and 5 hours Friday doing non zona things. Yesterday she said I promised to take her home when I go. She said she will have her passport / visa packed and ready to go at 8pm on Saturday. Hopefully She is just blowing smoke and won't have any bags packed.
They say "Take me with you"
[QUOTE=Guitarrefreak;1393453]I chuckled when I read this, not because I am being sarcastic, but simply because there are times when chicas have led me to believe that they are considering to do it for real, and some actually have almost being more than 3/4 of the way![/QUOTE]The girl I'm talking about is little spinner Isabel. Not surprising (nor disappointing) , she was not around on Saturday when she was suppossedly going to go to USA with me. I never had to explain that I wasn't taking her home with me nor did she have to explain that she wasn't coming. I decided to stay in the area a while longer. It will be interesting what she does if I see her at HK before I actually leave the area.
Girls' suggestions of coming to the USA are probably common, I've heard it several times over the years. On Thursday evening I received a non-serious comment from Vickie when she was dancing on the front bar stage. I approached her, gave her a dollar and said I was heading back to USA for the night. She gave a sad smile and jokingly said "take me with you."
These girls have multiple reasons for talking about going back to USA with us. Most important, they do anything possible to transfer the contents of our wallets into their purses. Second, I think there is a part of them that wants to leave Tijuana for an easy and happy life in the USA.
When all is said and done, leaving family and friends in Mexico for an uncertain world with a strange old man is far too scary. And, most of us are smart enough to leave them in Tijuana.