Life is short, but it doesn't have to be meaningless
We men are so visual and often engage in an orgy of pleasure with a total stranger for a few COPs. The visual, alone, is enough to make your dick so hard that a cat couldn't scratch it. In this context, the elusive GFE experience, however that is defined, must include the illusion of passion. So, we leave that hour or two or night of sexual athletics knowing that, at best, it was a physical connection. What is doesn't give is intimacy. That need is not evolutionary, I don't think. It coexist with the need for physical adventure and relief. Intimacy is not hard to find. It's almost guaranteed if you reach out and become involved and invested in one or two of these beautiful Paisa beauties. Take some time and learn Spanish, spend enough time to meet some girls that don't sell pussy by the hour, and learn a little about their world. I believe it was Matt that recently posted a list of some excellent books about Colombia. If you don't know some history of this beautiful country, the fact of and effect of having 3, 000, 000 displaced out of 43, 000, 000 inhabitants, one of the largest gaps between the haves and the have nots, just for example, you can't really understand anything about their lives.
Everything is ephemeral. When it's alive is has benefits. You'll be experiencing a real GFE: all the physical sexual activities, with passion, and intimacy. The other benefit is that when you leave the el centro casa you won't be feeling empty. Hopefully you'll be feeling that the sex was fucking great, but there is no hollowness because you're not empty because you're getting some of what you need from your novia (s). Always remember that the source of all pain is unfulfilled expectations.
Digressing, to the purely physical, where is Geraldine a / k/a Demi Moore?
Only good energy!
Living in Medellin-Intamacy
Myself (60) I was recently in Medellin for one month and I plan to move to Medellin next year so I listen and ask questions with that in mind. I'm studying Spanish each day. Happy to see the detailed casa report! Would be great to see more. Question: Are there any casas that would be equal in numbers and quality to NL? Energy was, but do they do BBBJ there? Hey, nice piece about sex and intimacy. A visitor I would not think one would expect much intimacy, but honestly, many of these girls, to their credit are reasonably compasionate. When I left the casas I just wanted more time to have fun so I would go out for some food and come back and session again. If I lived there I would still like this fun quick sex, but would always be looking for girls to develop more with. More anything. I believe some few women of any age can be very curious and ambitious to learn and grow. I think there is allot of middle ground (hy-bred relationships) with women because of their instinctive nature to be compasionate, need money, and they, like us, like sex too. I'm guessing some would naturaly just bridge into more compassion and intimacy. Like friends helping, caring, and having fun sex together. Obviously respect is the key, and the base. I don't want to be thought of as some 'John' and they. A puta. Would take time to overcome these pre-conceptions, ernest, but I think that will be the challenge, worth it, and the fun! What is real intimacy anyway? If the girl can help us create the fantasy I'm fine with that. I mean, can you really expect young ones to love us or us love them enough to provide real intimacy anyway? Could happen, fine, but really, when you think about it, it's all about the fanatasy. That fantasy equals The 'Nexus' place. (Star Trek). I will say,"Con respeto mi amor. Viene a me." I think they will bridge into making our fantasy. Hey, they know (intamacy) is what we like, so.
A little different perspective
[quote=miamiheatluver;1261381]with that intell i'm sure that you've broken many w. u. n. hearts on here today. still i will never get gringos trying to make housewives out of hoe's and from what i've seen from this "demi" girl. she's had more cocks in her than a urinal at grand central station. hey too each his own but the sound of it for me? makes me cringe.[/quote]maybe some gringo saw something other than a beautiful girl that was easily the sex worker of the decade in medellin. yep, geraldine has had more dicks in her than a porcupine has quills. but, i'd like to fuck her "one more time." and, i have the feeling that i'm not the only one. but one yankee has a plan for her that excludes selling pussy by the hour, and from what is reported, she's in agreement. who know what the future will bring any of us? i just hope that geraldine and her novio are dreaming the same dreams and that the relationship brings her security and protection and most of all, love. i always liked the girl. she deserves the chance to close one chapter in her life, and open another. she always gave me only good energy and i never saw the hardness that can develop quickly, even in the younger girls.
i am thankful for the memories with her, and i hope others are too. can we start a geraldine fan club, even if she is "retired?" if she decides to become a sex worker again, i want a blood oath from all who read this to report that happening with all deliberate speed.
only good energy, and that's no bullshit!
This is all there is to it!
[QUOTE=Mr Jetsetter;1261570]Is that all there is to it?! :)[/QUOTE]So live your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart.
Trouble no one about their religion;
Respect others in their view, and demand that they respect yours.
Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life.
Seek to make your life long and its purpose in the service of others.
Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide.
Always give a word or a sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend,
Even a stranger, when in a lonely place.
Show respect to all people and grovel to none.
When you arise in the morning give thanks for the food and for the joy of living.
If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself.
Abuse no one and no thing, for abuse turns the wise ones to fools.
And robs the spirit of its vision.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled.
With the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep.
And pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way.
Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
Only good energy!