Western men thinking vs. Asian man thinking about P4 P
[QUOTE=Smoothy;1724315]You are astute. You hit it right on the head. Those girls are mafia controlled sex slaves. However, you were going with girls in the mafia controlled brothels of North Jakarta. Try asking one of those brothel girls to go to Bali with you and see what happens. Even if you have had sex with that same girl 100 times in the past year and she really likes you and would love to go to Bali with you, she will not be able to. Unless you pay the mamasan something like 2 or 3 million rupiah per day to take her to Bali with you.
However, there is a drastic difference between those mafia controlled girls and the free lancers at BATS and CJS or even the girls at Hotel Melawai Maribaya massage. Those girls are free to do as they please, and they almost always provide excellent service. Ask one of those CJs or BATS girls to go to Bali with you and they will be packing their bags immediately, and most times dont even care if you give them any money. As long as you pay their airfare and expenses, and buy them a couple of things there, they are usually happy. Most western guys seem to prefer the free lancers or hitting the malls and internet for girls over the brothels. I know I do. Most Asian guys seem to prefer the brothels.[/QUOTE]You are correct in your post when you rasied two important points. That is, most of us Asian guys do prefer the Spas and MP brothels. Reason, we simply want to have sex with cute young girls (over 18), in a nice surrounds, with good service, pool, food, etc. We have no desire to date hookers and marry them. This is the big difference between Western men and Asian men, especially those Asian men born in Asia. Western men will pay for sex with a hooker, then want to date them. Or, worst, marry them. Most Asian people find this odd.
One American expat frined explained the reason why this way. In American, the men have no or little access to cute young Asian girls, especially if the guy is in his 40s or 50s. When they come to Asia, they go wild, like kids in a candy shop. And, sometimes lose sight of reality. Thus, wanting to date young hookers (even the old hookers) or marry them.
Whereas Asian guys, we have grown up in Asia with tons of cute girls all around us. From the time we go to school to working in the office. Plus, if you are a middle class Asian guy, it is easy to bang regular Asian girls here. Even the the ugly middle class Asian guy has a cute girlfriend or wife. To us, it is no big deal becasue we have always been around Asian women. In addition, we have always had access to P4 P sex, even when we were in our teens. However, for most Asian men (like 90%) that grow up in Asia, we never think of marrying or dating a hooke who that bangs 100's of men. We would never think of having kids with her or bring home to meet our family and friends. This is not acceptable in our culture, nor do we want to do it.
Yes, we bang these hooker women all the time, and enjoy our time with them. But we do not confuse a hooker with a regular nice girl we would date or marry. If we take a girl to Bali, it would be a regular girl as our girlfriend, or our wife that is a middle class lady from a good background.
But I do understand why Western men are quick to want to date hookers. It is becasue most Western men to do not know the language and have access to regular nice Asian girls (other then online dating with is also filled with problem girls). Thus, the quickes route to date an Asian girl for most Westerns just of the plane, is to date a hooker. Which results in a ton of problems.
As an Asian guy, I look for service when I go to a MP or Spa. I am not looking for a relathionship. I am not trying to tounge kiss her, beccause I know she has been sucking dicks all day. Also, I am not trying to eat her pussy, because I know many hookers will have sex with no condom. Or, many other guys have been licking her pussy. It is a service she provides me, such as a good BJ, giving me a good wash, giving me a good massage, providing good sex. Asian men look for good service, Western men look for a GFE and possible date. Neither is bad or right, it is just how men from different cultures and backgrounds are different.
Note: This is my opinion, based on my experience. Your experience may be different. Also, I am making generalizations. I know there is always exceptions to the rule.