Baby Fails that Make Me Happy
So I have two SBs that were technically fails never met up and had sex but are really satisfying.
The first one I met very early in my journey. We never met up and in fact I think I recall her saying she couldn't get down with someone my age. Ouch! But we became penpal friends. We've petered out now mostly but we used to chat about boyfriends and SBs, how she orgasms best and so much more (never used a vibrator. Wtf?). I helped her with her resume. I helped her with her med school essay. It's just been a nice friendly friendship between this old dude and a hot young chick in need of guidance. Have enjoyed it.
The second one is even more interesting. Found out early she just wanted to cam not meetup. In fact she was a lesbian or so she thought. So we got to chatting nightly. She would tell me about the guy she walks on no sex. For $200. Well one night she ended up (unrelated to SA) with a guy she really crushed on back in HS and they ended up trying to have sex. They did mish and she said it hurt and they had to stop. She remained more convinced she is a lesbian. I explained to her she needed to start on top and control insertion and it would get easier. Long story short it worked and they got it on repeatedly. Eventually they broke up but she knew she was bi not a lesbian. She got a new boyfriend and they've been living together for months. She's soooo happy. We almost never talk anymore now that she has her man. But I get true happiness knowing I set her on a different path.
So two fails = Two successes. I'm really thankful SA connects humans who wouldn't connect IRL. It's pretty cool. Of course sex is even better. LOL.